Closer/seed/questions/boundaries.json

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      "text": "When you need a little space, what helps it feel normal instead of personal?",
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      "text": "What is one small home boundary that would make daily life feel calmer?",
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      "text": "What helps you feel trusted when we are using our phones?",
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      "id": "boundaries_004",
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      "text": "What is one topic you wish we handled more gently?",
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      "id": "boundaries_005",
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      "text": "When you are tired, what kind of help feels supportive instead of pushy?",
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      "id": "boundaries_006",
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      "text": "What is a simple way we can protect time for just us?",
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      "id": "boundaries_007",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes a joke feel playful instead of hurtful?",
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      "text": "What is one boundary that would make mornings feel smoother?",
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      "id": "boundaries_009",
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      "text": "What is one boundary that would make bedtime feel more peaceful?",
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      "id": "boundaries_010",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When plans change, what helps you feel considered?",
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        "plans",
        "scheduling",
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_011",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel respected during a hard conversation?",
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        "conflict",
        "respect",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_012",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing we could stop doing while arguing?",
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        "repair",
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_013",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes affection feel welcome instead of expected?",
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        "affection",
        "consent",
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_014",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
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      "text": "What kind of check-in feels helpful without feeling like an interrogation?",
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        "communication",
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      "id": "boundaries_015",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way we can make privacy feel trusting, not secretive?",
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        "privacy",
        "trust",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_016",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When family gets involved, what helps our relationship still feel protected?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
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        "couple_boundary",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_017",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What money habit would make things feel calmer between us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
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        "money",
        "stress",
        "boundaries"
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      "id": "boundaries_018",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
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      "text": "What chore boundary would make home feel more fair?",
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        "home",
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_019",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you say no without feeling guilty?",
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        "no",
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_020",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you hear no without feeling rejected?",
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        "no",
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      "id": "boundaries_021",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing you wish we asked before assuming?",
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      "id": "boundaries_022",
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      "text": "What makes alone time feel healthy for us?",
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        "alone_time",
        "space",
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      "id": "boundaries_023",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of social media boundary would help us feel more secure?",
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        "security",
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_024",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel like friends fit into our life in a healthy way?",
      "depth": 2,
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        "friendships",
        "balance",
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_025",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one boundary that would help you decompress after work?",
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      "access": "free",
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        "work",
        "stress",
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_026",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing we could keep between us instead of sharing with others?",
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_027",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When one of us is overwhelmed, what should the other avoid doing?",
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        "stress",
        "support",
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_028",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes asking for space feel kind instead of cold?",
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        "space",
        "kindness",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_029",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one tiny boundary that would prevent a lot of irritation?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "daily_life",
        "irritation",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_030",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does respectful teasing look like to you?",
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        "humor",
        "respect",
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_031",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel safe bringing up something awkward?",
      "depth": 3,
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        "safety",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_032",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one boundary that would help us enjoy time together more?",
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        "couple_time",
        "fun",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_033",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When we are out with other people, what helps you feel respected by me?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
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        "public",
        "respect",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_034",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes personal space feel respected at home?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
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        "home",
        "personal_space",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_035",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What boundary would help us avoid snapping when we are hungry, tired, or stressed?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
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        "stress",
        "daily_life",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_036",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel comfortable asking for quiet time?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
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        "quiet_time",
        "comfort",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_037",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one boundary that would make weekends feel better?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
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        "weekends",
        "planning",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_038",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one boundary that would make date night easier to enjoy?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
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        "date_night",
        "fun",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_039",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel included without needing every detail?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
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        "privacy",
        "trust",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_040",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of reminder feels helpful instead of nagging?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
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        "reminders",
        "tone",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_041",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing we should not discuss when either of us is already upset?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "conflict",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_042",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel like your belongings are respected?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
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        "belongings",
        "home",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_043",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should be a phone-free moment for us?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
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        "phones",
        "couple_time",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_044",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way we can give each other breathing room without drifting apart?",
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        "space",
        "connection",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_045",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What boundary would make you feel more relaxed in our relationship?",
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      "access": "free",
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        "calm",
        "relationship",
        "boundaries"
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      "id": "boundaries_046",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When you ask for space, what response from me would make you feel loved?",
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        "space",
        "love",
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_047",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What boundary would help us protect our relationship from outside opinions?",
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        "outside_people",
        "relationship",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_048",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing you wish we kept more private as a couple?",
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        "privacy",
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_049",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of family involvement feels helpful, and what starts to feel like too much?",
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        "family",
        "limits",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_050",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When friends need us, how do we protect our time without feeling selfish?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
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        "friendships",
        "time",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_051",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should we do if one of us feels uncomfortable with a friendship?",
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      "access": "premium",
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        "friendships",
        "security",
        "boundaries"
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_052",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel secure without either of us feeling controlled?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "security",
        "independence",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_053",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one phone habit that could quietly hurt trust between us?",
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      "access": "premium",
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        "phones",
        "trust",
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      "id": "boundaries_054",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What phone boundary would make you feel respected without feeling monitored?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "phones",
        "privacy",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_055",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When we disagree about social media, what should matter most?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
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        "values",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_056",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing we should agree not to post about each other?",
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        "social_media",
        "privacy",
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      "id": "boundaries_057",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does healthy privacy look like in a committed relationship?",
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      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "trust",
        "boundaries"
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      "id": "boundaries_058",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one financial boundary that would lower stress for both of us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "stress",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_059",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When should a purchase become something we talk about first?",
      "depth": 3,
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        "money",
        "decisions",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_060",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What money conversation do we need to make less tense?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "communication",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_061",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What boundary would help us avoid resentment around chores?",
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      "id": "boundaries_062",
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      "id": "boundaries_063",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What part of the home do you wish felt more like your own space?",
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_064",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When one of us is working, what interruptions feel okay and what feels like too much?",
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        "work",
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_065",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you switch from work mode back into partner mode?",
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_066",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What boundary would help us not give all our energy away before we get to each other?",
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        "energy",
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        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_067",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should we do when one of us is too drained to talk?",
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        "energy",
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_068",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does a kind no sound like from me?",
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_069",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you believe my no is about capacity, not rejection?",
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      "tags": [
        "no",
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_070",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you not take my need for quiet personally?",
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        "quiet_time",
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      "answer_config": {
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_071",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one boundary that would help us avoid repeating the same argument?",
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      "tags": [
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_072",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "During conflict, what tone crosses the line for you?",
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_073",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one phrase we should both stop using when we are angry?",
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      "answer_config": {
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_074",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps us pause a fight without pretending everything is fine?",
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      "answer_config": {
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_075",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should a timeout mean when we are arguing?",
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        "conflict",
        "timeout",
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      "answer_config": {
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_076",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How should we come back together after taking space during a disagreement?",
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        "conflict",
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_077",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes an apology feel respectful instead of rushed?",
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        "repair",
        "apology",
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_078",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What boundary would help us talk about hard things without ambushing each other?",
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      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "hard_topics",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_079",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one topic that needs better timing between us?",
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        "communication",
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_080",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel prepared for a serious conversation?",
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_081",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should we never bring up in front of other people?",
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        "privacy",
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_082",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can I protect your dignity when we are around others?",
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_083",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of teasing feels intimate, and what kind feels embarrassing?",
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      "tags": [
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_084",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What joke has gone too far before, even if it was not meant to hurt?",
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_085",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel safe correcting me without worrying I will get defensive?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_086",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What boundary would make feedback feel like teamwork instead of criticism?",
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      "access": "premium",
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_087",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing you wish I noticed before you had to ask?",
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        "attention",
        "needs",
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_088",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you ask for help before you hit your limit?",
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        "capacity",
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_089",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does over-helping look like to you?",
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      "tags": [
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        "autonomy",
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_090",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When you are upset, what kind of comfort should I not assume you want?",
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        "comfort",
        "assumptions",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_091",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of physical affection should always be easy to decline?",
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_092",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps touch feel loving instead of expected?",
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      "access": "premium",
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        "affection",
        "consent",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_093",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When are you least open to affection, even if you love me?",
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      "tags": [
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        "timing",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_094",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of affection helps you reconnect after distance?",
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_095",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What boundary would help us keep intimacy from feeling like pressure?",
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        "consent",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_096",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps desire feel invited instead of demanded?",
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      "access": "premium",
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        "desire",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_097",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should we do if one of us is in the mood and the other is not?",
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      "access": "premium",
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        "no",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_098",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes it easier to say not tonight without hurting each other?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "intimacy",
        "rejection",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_099",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way to keep closeness alive without expecting sex?",
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        "closeness",
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_100",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What privacy boundary matters most when we talk about intimacy?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
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        "privacy",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_101",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should always stay between us after an intimate moment?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "intimacy",
        "privacy",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_102",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What boundary would help us feel more playful without crossing a line?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
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        "limits",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_103",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one playful thing you like only when the timing is right?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "play",
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_104",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of surprise feels sweet, and what kind feels stressful?",
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      "access": "premium",
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        "comfort",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_105",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should never be a surprise between us?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "surprises",
        "boundaries"
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_106",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When one of us is embarrassed, what should the other do first?",
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        "care",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_107",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel respected when your answer is different from mine?",
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      "access": "premium",
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_108",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What difference between us needs more room instead of more fixing?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "differences",
        "acceptance",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_109",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one boundary that would help us support each other’s hobbies?",
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        "independence",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_110",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps personal interests feel healthy instead of like distance?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hobbies",
        "connection",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_111",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What do you want us to do when one of us needs a night off?",
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      "tags": [
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        "plans",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_112",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel okay saying you do not have the energy tonight?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "energy",
        "honesty",
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_113",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one boundary that would make holidays less stressful?",
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      "tags": [
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        "family",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_114",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How should we decide which family events we say yes to?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
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        "holidays",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_115",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes hosting people feel fun instead of exhausting?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hosting",
        "energy",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_116",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What boundary would help us recover after having guests over?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hosting",
        "rest",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_117",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When someone asks too much of us, how should we decide together?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
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        "teamwork",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_118",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way we can be kinder to our future selves when making plans?",
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      "tags": [
        "planning",
        "future",
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_119",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should be our rule when we are both already stretched thin?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress",
        "teamwork",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_120",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What boundary helps you protect your sleep?",
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_121",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should we avoid talking about right before bed?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sleep",
        "timing",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_122",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What boundary would help mornings feel less rushed?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
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        "routines",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_123",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel less crowded when the house is busy?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "home",
        "space",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_124",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does respectful alone time look like when we are in the same room?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "alone_time",
        "home",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_125",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel connected even when we are doing separate things?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "independence",
        "connection",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_126",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one boundary that would make car rides or errands less stressful?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "errands",
        "daily_life",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_127",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of planning conversation would help the week feel easier?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "planning",
        "weekly",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_128",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one boundary we could make around last-minute plans?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "planning",
        "scheduling",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_129",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel respected when you need to change your mind?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "plans",
        "flexibility",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_130",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should we do when one of us forgets a boundary?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_131",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is a gentle way to remind each other of a boundary?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reminders",
        "gentleness",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_132",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What boundary do you want us to treat as important even if it seems small?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "small_things",
        "respect",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_133",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one line you do not want us to cross when we are joking?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "humor",
        "limits",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_134",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you trust that my boundaries are not a punishment?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "trust",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_135",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps me know when I am getting close to one of your limits?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "limits",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_136",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one signal that means you need me to slow down?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "slow_down",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_137",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When you go quiet, what should I not assume?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "quiet",
        "assumptions",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_138",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you come back from being overwhelmed?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "overwhelm",
        "repair",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_139",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What boundary would help us enjoy family without losing ourselves?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "family",
        "self",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_140",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What outside stress do we need to stop bringing into our private time?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress",
        "private_time",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_141",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes our relationship feel protected from the noise around us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "protection",
        "relationship",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_142",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one boundary that would help us laugh more and argue less?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "fun",
        "conflict",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_143",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make boundaries feel like teamwork instead of rules?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_144",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What boundary would make you feel more free to be yourself with me?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "authenticity",
        "freedom",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_145",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one boundary you are proud of yourself for having?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "self_respect",
        "confidence",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_146",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What boundary do you want me to understand better, even if it is hard to explain?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "understanding",
        "deep",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_147",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way I can honor your limits without making it awkward?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "respect",
        "limits",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_148",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should we celebrate when one of us states a boundary well?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "celebration",
        "growth",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_149",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one boundary that would help us feel more peaceful this week?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "peace",
        "weekly",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_150",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one boundary that would make us feel more like partners than opponents?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "relationship",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_151",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of space feels healthiest to you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "space",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "quiet_time",
            "text": "Quiet time"
          },
          {
            "id": "solo_activity",
            "text": "Doing my own thing"
          },
          {
            "id": "short_break",
            "text": "A short break"
          },
          {
            "id": "same_room",
            "text": "Same room, separate activities"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_152",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which phone-free moment matters most?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "phones",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "meals",
            "text": "Meals"
          },
          {
            "id": "bedtime",
            "text": "Bedtime"
          },
          {
            "id": "date_time",
            "text": "Date time"
          },
          {
            "id": "hard_talks",
            "text": "Hard talks"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_153",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps a no feel kind?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "no",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "soft_tone",
            "text": "A soft tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "simple_reason",
            "text": "A simple reason"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_explaining",
            "text": "No big explanation"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_154",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which boundary would make home feel calmer first?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "home",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "quiet_time",
            "text": "Quiet time"
          },
          {
            "id": "chores",
            "text": "Chores"
          },
          {
            "id": "phones",
            "text": "Phones"
          },
          {
            "id": "sleep",
            "text": "Sleep"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_155",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of reminder works best for you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "reminders",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "text",
            "text": "A text"
          },
          {
            "id": "gentle_words",
            "text": "Gentle words"
          },
          {
            "id": "calendar",
            "text": "Calendar"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_reminder",
            "text": "No reminder"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_156",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When you are overwhelmed, what helps most?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "overwhelm",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "space",
            "text": "Space"
          },
          {
            "id": "hug",
            "text": "A hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "help_with_task",
            "text": "Help with a task"
          },
          {
            "id": "quiet",
            "text": "Quiet"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_157",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which topic needs the gentlest timing?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "money",
            "text": "Money"
          },
          {
            "id": "family",
            "text": "Family"
          },
          {
            "id": "chores",
            "text": "Chores"
          },
          {
            "id": "intimacy",
            "text": "Intimacy"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_158",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a boundary easiest to hear?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "kind_tone",
            "text": "Kind tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "clear_words",
            "text": "Clear words"
          },
          {
            "id": "good_timing",
            "text": "Good timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_159",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which outside influence needs the clearest limit?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "outside_people",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "family",
            "text": "Family"
          },
          {
            "id": "friends",
            "text": "Friends"
          },
          {
            "id": "work",
            "text": "Work"
          },
          {
            "id": "social_media",
            "text": "Social media"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_160",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us reset after snapping?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "apology",
            "text": "An apology"
          },
          {
            "id": "quiet_pause",
            "text": "A quiet pause"
          },
          {
            "id": "humor",
            "text": "A little humor"
          },
          {
            "id": "hug",
            "text": "A hug"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_161",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which privacy boundary matters most to you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "phones",
            "text": "Phones"
          },
          {
            "id": "messages",
            "text": "Messages"
          },
          {
            "id": "past",
            "text": "Past experiences"
          },
          {
            "id": "private_talks",
            "text": "Our private talks"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_162",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes affection feel best?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "affection",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "spontaneous",
            "text": "Spontaneous"
          },
          {
            "id": "asked_first",
            "text": "Asked first"
          },
          {
            "id": "slow",
            "text": "Slow"
          },
          {
            "id": "playful",
            "text": "Playful"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_163",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of plan feels easiest?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "planning",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "loose_plan",
            "text": "Loose plan"
          },
          {
            "id": "clear_plan",
            "text": "Clear plan"
          },
          {
            "id": "backup_plan",
            "text": "Backup plan"
          },
          {
            "id": "same_day",
            "text": "Same-day plan"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_164",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What boundary would help the weekend most?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "weekends",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "less_errands",
            "text": "Fewer errands"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_rest",
            "text": "More rest"
          },
          {
            "id": "phone_free_time",
            "text": "Phone-free time"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_real_plan",
            "text": "One real plan"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_165",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "How should we handle a small crossed boundary?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "name_it_kindly",
            "text": "Name it kindly"
          },
          {
            "id": "pause",
            "text": "Pause"
          },
          {
            "id": "apologize",
            "text": "Apologize"
          },
          {
            "id": "try_again",
            "text": "Try again"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_166",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is the best way for me to ask for your attention?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "attention",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "say_it_directly",
            "text": "Say it directly"
          },
          {
            "id": "touch_my_hand",
            "text": "Touch my hand"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_if_now_is_good",
            "text": "Ask if now is good"
          },
          {
            "id": "send_a_text",
            "text": "Send a text"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_167",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which boundary should we protect during family visits?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "family",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "private_time",
            "text": "Private time"
          },
          {
            "id": "bedtime",
            "text": "Bedtime"
          },
          {
            "id": "money_talk",
            "text": "Money talk"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_choices",
            "text": "Parenting choices"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_168",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of money check-in feels least stressful?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "short_weekly",
            "text": "Short weekly"
          },
          {
            "id": "monthly",
            "text": "Monthly"
          },
          {
            "id": "only_when_needed",
            "text": "Only when needed"
          },
          {
            "id": "written_first",
            "text": "Written first"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_169",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which argument pause would help most?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "conflict",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "ten_minutes",
            "text": "10 minutes"
          },
          {
            "id": "thirty_minutes",
            "text": "30 minutes"
          },
          {
            "id": "sleep_on_it",
            "text": "Sleep on it"
          },
          {
            "id": "walk_together",
            "text": "Walk together"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_170",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should a pause during conflict mean?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "conflict",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "slow_down",
            "text": "Slow down"
          },
          {
            "id": "stop_for_now",
            "text": "Stop for now"
          },
          {
            "id": "cool_off",
            "text": "Cool off"
          },
          {
            "id": "protect_us",
            "text": "Protect us"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_171",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which tone feels hardest to stay open to?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "tone",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "sarcasm",
            "text": "Sarcasm"
          },
          {
            "id": "cold",
            "text": "Cold"
          },
          {
            "id": "loud",
            "text": "Loud"
          },
          {
            "id": "dismissive",
            "text": "Dismissive"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_172",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of privacy should be strongest between us?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "arguments",
            "text": "Arguments"
          },
          {
            "id": "intimacy",
            "text": "Intimacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "finances",
            "text": "Finances"
          },
          {
            "id": "family_issues",
            "text": "Family issues"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_173",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel independent and still close?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "independence",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "solo_time",
            "text": "Solo time"
          },
          {
            "id": "own_hobbies",
            "text": "Own hobbies"
          },
          {
            "id": "trusted_privacy",
            "text": "Trusted privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "planned_reconnect",
            "text": "Planned reconnect"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_174",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which boundary would make intimacy feel safer?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "intimacy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "easy_no",
            "text": "An easy no"
          },
          {
            "id": "asking_first",
            "text": "Asking first"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_privacy",
            "text": "More privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "slower_pace",
            "text": "Slower pace"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_175",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you hear feedback without shutting down?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "kind_words",
            "text": "Kind words"
          },
          {
            "id": "specific_example",
            "text": "A specific example"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_pile_on",
            "text": "No pile-on"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_176",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a boundary feel loving?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "love",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "clear_reason",
            "text": "Clear reason"
          },
          {
            "id": "gentle_tone",
            "text": "Gentle tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "consistency",
            "text": "Consistency"
          },
          {
            "id": "respect_both_sides",
            "text": "Respect for both sides"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_177",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which situation needs a firmer line?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "limits",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "family_pressure",
            "text": "Family pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "work_intrusion",
            "text": "Work intrusion"
          },
          {
            "id": "phone_distraction",
            "text": "Phone distraction"
          },
          {
            "id": "old_arguments",
            "text": "Old arguments"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_178",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of affection boundary should we talk about first?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "affection",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "public_affection",
            "text": "Public affection"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_tired",
            "text": "When tired"
          },
          {
            "id": "after_conflict",
            "text": "After conflict"
          },
          {
            "id": "sexual_pressure",
            "text": "Sexual pressure"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_179",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel less crowded?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "space",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "quiet_room",
            "text": "A quiet room"
          },
          {
            "id": "headphones",
            "text": "Headphones"
          },
          {
            "id": "solo_errand",
            "text": "A solo errand"
          },
          {
            "id": "early_bed",
            "text": "Going to bed early"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_180",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which shared-space rule sounds most helpful?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "home",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "ask_before_moving",
            "text": "Ask before moving things"
          },
          {
            "id": "reset_rooms",
            "text": "Reset rooms"
          },
          {
            "id": "quiet_zone",
            "text": "Quiet zone"
          },
          {
            "id": "personal_shelf",
            "text": "Personal shelf"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_181",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When we are around others, what matters most?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "public",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "no_teasing",
            "text": "No hurtful teasing"
          },
          {
            "id": "back_each_other",
            "text": "Back each other up"
          },
          {
            "id": "keep_private_private",
            "text": "Keep private things private"
          },
          {
            "id": "check_in",
            "text": "Check in"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_182",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which boundary would help with last-minute plans?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "planning",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "ask_first",
            "text": "Ask first"
          },
          {
            "id": "notice_needed",
            "text": "Need notice"
          },
          {
            "id": "easy_decline",
            "text": "Easy decline"
          },
          {
            "id": "backup_plan",
            "text": "Backup plan"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_183",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps when one of us changes our mind?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "flexibility",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "no_guilt",
            "text": "No guilt"
          },
          {
            "id": "quick_update",
            "text": "Quick update"
          },
          {
            "id": "new_plan",
            "text": "New plan"
          },
          {
            "id": "kind_tone",
            "text": "Kind tone"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_184",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a boundary reminder feel safe?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reminders",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "private",
            "text": "Private"
          },
          {
            "id": "gentle",
            "text": "Gentle"
          },
          {
            "id": "short",
            "text": "Short"
          },
          {
            "id": "with_humor",
            "text": "With humor"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_185",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which small boundary would make the biggest difference?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "small_boundaries",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "less_interrupting",
            "text": "Less interrupting"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_notice",
            "text": "More notice"
          },
          {
            "id": "phone_free_time",
            "text": "Phone-free time"
          },
          {
            "id": "quiet_time",
            "text": "Quiet time"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_186",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should we do after accidentally crossing a line?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "apologize_fast",
            "text": "Apologize quickly"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_what_helps",
            "text": "Ask what helps"
          },
          {
            "id": "give_space",
            "text": "Give space"
          },
          {
            "id": "try_again",
            "text": "Try again"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_187",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which boundary should never be mocked?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "respect",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "body",
            "text": "Body"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "family",
            "text": "Family"
          },
          {
            "id": "past",
            "text": "Past"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_188",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps boundaries feel like teamwork?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "both_have_them",
            "text": "We both have them"
          },
          {
            "id": "clear_reason",
            "text": "Clear reasons"
          },
          {
            "id": "revisit_them",
            "text": "We revisit them"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_punishment",
            "text": "No punishment"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_189",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which area needs more freedom, not more rules?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "freedom",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "friends",
            "text": "Friends"
          },
          {
            "id": "hobbies",
            "text": "Hobbies"
          },
          {
            "id": "alone_time",
            "text": "Alone time"
          },
          {
            "id": "personal_style",
            "text": "Personal style"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_190",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What boundary would make you feel safest this month?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "safety",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "tone",
            "text": "Tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "time",
            "text": "Time"
          },
          {
            "id": "affection",
            "text": "Affection"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_191",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel respected when you need space?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "space",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "no_guilt",
            "text": "No guilt"
          },
          {
            "id": "clear_timing",
            "text": "Clear timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "check_later",
            "text": "Check in later"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_192",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which boundaries would make our home feel lighter?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "home",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "quiet_time",
            "text": "Quiet time"
          },
          {
            "id": "clean_shared_spaces",
            "text": "Clean shared spaces"
          },
          {
            "id": "phone_free_meals",
            "text": "Phone-free meals"
          },
          {
            "id": "sleep_respect",
            "text": "Respecting sleep"
          },
          {
            "id": "less_clutter",
            "text": "Less clutter"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_193",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes a hard conversation feel safer?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "good_timing",
            "text": "Good timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "soft_tone",
            "text": "Soft tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_interrupting",
            "text": "No interrupting"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "breaks_allowed",
            "text": "Breaks allowed"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_194",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which outside pressures affect us most?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "outside_pressure",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "family",
            "text": "Family"
          },
          {
            "id": "work",
            "text": "Work"
          },
          {
            "id": "money",
            "text": "Money"
          },
          {
            "id": "friends",
            "text": "Friends"
          },
          {
            "id": "social_media",
            "text": "Social media"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_195",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps a boundary feel loving instead of harsh?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "love",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "kind_words",
            "text": "Kind words"
          },
          {
            "id": "clear_reason",
            "text": "Clear reason"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          },
          {
            "id": "consistency",
            "text": "Consistency"
          },
          {
            "id": "respect_for_both",
            "text": "Respect for both"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_196",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which phone boundaries would help trust feel easier?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "phones",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "no_snooping",
            "text": "No snooping"
          },
          {
            "id": "phone_free_dates",
            "text": "Phone-free dates"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_before_reading",
            "text": "Ask before reading"
          },
          {
            "id": "private_passwords",
            "text": "Private passwords"
          },
          {
            "id": "talk_about_triggers",
            "text": "Talk about triggers"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_197",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should we protect from other people's opinions?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "outside_people",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "money_choices",
            "text": "Money choices"
          },
          {
            "id": "conflict",
            "text": "Conflict"
          },
          {
            "id": "intimacy",
            "text": "Intimacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "future_plans",
            "text": "Future plans"
          },
          {
            "id": "family_choices",
            "text": "Family choices"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_198",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which conflict boundaries would help us fight fairer?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "conflict",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "no_name_calling",
            "text": "No name-calling"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_threats",
            "text": "No threats"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_past_pile_on",
            "text": "No past pile-on"
          },
          {
            "id": "pauses_allowed",
            "text": "Pauses allowed"
          },
          {
            "id": "come_back_later",
            "text": "Come back later"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_199",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you come back after taking space?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "gentle_text",
            "text": "A gentle text"
          },
          {
            "id": "clear_time",
            "text": "A clear time"
          },
          {
            "id": "apology",
            "text": "An apology"
          },
          {
            "id": "hug",
            "text": "A hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "calm_talk",
            "text": "A calm talk"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_200",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which affection boundaries matter most?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "affection",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "ask_when_upset",
            "text": "Ask when upset"
          },
          {
            "id": "respect_not_now",
            "text": "Respect not now"
          },
          {
            "id": "public_comfort",
            "text": "Public comfort"
          },
          {
            "id": "sexual_pressure",
            "text": "No sexual pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "after_conflict",
            "text": "After conflict"
          }
        ],
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      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which planning boundaries would lower stress?",
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        "planning",
        "boundaries"
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      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel trusted and independent?",
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        "independence",
        "boundaries"
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      "id": "boundaries_204",
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      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which family boundaries would help us stay close?",
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        "family",
        "boundaries"
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          {
            "id": "private_decisions",
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      "id": "boundaries_205",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What kind of support feels good when you are overwhelmed?",
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        "support",
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            "id": "take_a_task",
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            "id": "give_space",
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            "id": "bring_food",
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            "id": "ask_first",
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      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_206",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which boundaries make flirting feel safe and fun?",
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        "play",
        "flirting",
        "boundaries"
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        "options": [
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            "id": "private_only",
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            "id": "easy_stop",
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            "id": "ask_first",
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_207",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should we never use against each other?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "trust",
        "conflict",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
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            "id": "secrets",
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            "id": "insecurities",
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            "id": "past_mistakes",
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            "id": "private_fears",
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_208",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you state a boundary with confidence?",
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        "confidence",
        "boundaries"
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        "options": [
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            "id": "practice_words",
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            "id": "partner_receptive",
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            "id": "calm_timing",
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            "id": "no_guilt",
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      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_209",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which small things are worth setting clearer boundaries around?",
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        "small_boundaries",
        "boundaries"
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "interruptions",
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            "id": "chores",
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            "id": "plans",
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            "id": "belongings",
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        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_210",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What would help boundaries feel like freedom, not distance?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "freedom",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "planned_reconnect",
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            "id": "reassurance",
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            "id": "trust",
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            "id": "respect",
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          {
            "id": "playfulness",
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        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_211",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we respect each other's quiet time right now?",
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        "quiet_time",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Needs work",
        "max_label": "Very well"
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_212",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy does it feel to say no kindly between us?",
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        "no",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Hard",
        "max_label": "Easy"
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_213",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How protected does our couple time feel lately?",
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      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "couple_time",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not protected",
        "max_label": "Very protected"
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_214",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How calm does our home feel this week?",
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      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "home",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not calm",
        "max_label": "Very calm"
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_215",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How safe does it feel to bring up a small irritation?",
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      "access": "free",
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        "communication",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not safe",
        "max_label": "Very safe"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_216",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How balanced does alone time feel between us?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "alone_time",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Unbalanced",
        "max_label": "Balanced"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_217",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much would a phone-free moment help us right now?",
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      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "phones",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_218",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How respected do you feel during disagreements?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "conflict",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not respected",
        "max_label": "Very respected"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_219",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to ask for space without guilt?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "space",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Hard",
        "max_label": "Easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_220",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much do outside opinions affect our relationship?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "outside_people",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_221",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How safe does privacy feel between us?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not safe",
        "max_label": "Very safe"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_222",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How stressful do money boundaries feel right now?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not stressful",
        "max_label": "Very stressful"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_223",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How fair do chores feel this week?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "chores",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not fair",
        "max_label": "Very fair"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_224",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you saying not tonight?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "intimacy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not comfortable",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_225",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much pressure do you feel around affection?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "affection",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "None",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_226",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to pause a hard conversation?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "conflict",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Hard",
        "max_label": "Easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_227",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we protect each other in public?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "public",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Needs work",
        "max_label": "Very well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_228",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much do last-minute plans stress you out?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "planning",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_229",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable do you feel asking for help?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "support",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not comfortable",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_230",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we respect each other's sleep?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sleep",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Needs work",
        "max_label": "Very well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_231",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much room do you feel you have to be yourself?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "authenticity",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not enough",
        "max_label": "Plenty"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_232",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How safe does it feel to correct me gently?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not safe",
        "max_label": "Very safe"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_233",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we come back together after taking space?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not well",
        "max_label": "Very well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_234",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How often do boundaries feel like teamwork between us?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Rarely",
        "max_label": "Often"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_235",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How peaceful would one new boundary make this week?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "weekly",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "Very peaceful"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_236",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Space alone or quiet together?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "space",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "space_alone",
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          {
            "id": "quiet_together",
            "text": "Quiet together"
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_237",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Phone-free dinner or phone-free bedtime?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "phones",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "phone_free_dinner",
            "text": "Phone-free dinner"
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          {
            "id": "phone_free_bedtime",
            "text": "Phone-free bedtime"
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_238",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Gentle reminder or direct reminder?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "reminders",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "gentle_reminder",
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          {
            "id": "direct_reminder",
            "text": "Direct reminder"
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_239",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Loose plans or clear plans?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "planning",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "loose_plans",
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          {
            "id": "clear_plans",
            "text": "Clear plans"
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_240",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Talk now or schedule it?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "talk_now",
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          {
            "id": "schedule_it",
            "text": "Schedule it"
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_241",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Pause the argument or lower the volume?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "conflict",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "pause_argument",
            "text": "Pause the argument"
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          {
            "id": "lower_volume",
            "text": "Lower the volume"
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_242",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Public affection or private affection?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "affection",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "public_affection",
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          {
            "id": "private_affection",
            "text": "Private affection"
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_243",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Family visit or quiet weekend?",
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      "access": "premium",
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        "boundaries"
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            "id": "family_visit",
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            "id": "quiet_weekend",
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_244",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Ask before helping or jump in and help?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "support",
        "boundaries"
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "ask_before_helping",
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            "id": "jump_in_and_help",
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_245",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "More independence or more check-ins?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "independence",
        "boundaries"
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "more_independence",
            "text": "More independence"
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            "id": "more_check_ins",
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        ]
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_246",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Soft no or clear no?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "no",
        "boundaries"
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        "options": [
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            "id": "soft_no",
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            "id": "clear_no",
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_247",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Private reset or talk it out?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "private_reset",
            "text": "Private reset"
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          {
            "id": "talk_it_out",
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      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_248",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Rest first or chores first?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "home",
        "boundaries"
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "rest_first",
            "text": "Rest first"
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            "id": "chores_first",
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_249",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Keep it between us or ask for advice?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "boundaries"
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "between_us",
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            "id": "ask_advice",
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      "id": "boundaries_250",
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      "text": "One firm boundary or several softer ones?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries"
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}