Closer/seed/questions/conflict.json

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    "id": "conflict",
    "display_name": "Conflict",
    "description": "Warm, practical questions that help couples understand conflict styles, talk through disagreements, prevent escalation, and stay on the same team.",
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      "id": "conflict_001",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What usually helps you stay calm when we disagree?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "calm",
        "disagreement",
        "conflict"
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      "id": "conflict_002",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one small thing that can make a disagreement feel worse?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "escalation",
        "small_things",
        "conflict"
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    {
      "id": "conflict_003",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of tone helps you stay open?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "tone",
        "communication",
        "conflict"
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    {
      "id": "conflict_004",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of tone makes you shut down?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "tone",
        "shutdown",
        "conflict"
      ],
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        "max_length": 500
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    {
      "id": "conflict_005",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel heard during a disagreement?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "listening",
        "heard",
        "conflict"
      ],
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        "max_length": 500
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    {
      "id": "conflict_006",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes it easier for you to hear my side?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "perspective",
        "listening",
        "conflict"
      ],
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        "max_length": 500
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    {
      "id": "conflict_007",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one topic we should handle more gently?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "gentleness",
        "topics",
        "conflict"
      ],
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_008",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps a hard conversation feel less like a fight?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "deescalation",
        "conflict"
      ],
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_009",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one phrase that helps us slow down?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "phrases",
        "deescalation",
        "conflict"
      ],
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_010",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one phrase that makes things worse?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "phrases",
        "escalation",
        "conflict"
      ],
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        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_011",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you say what you mean without getting sharper?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "words",
        "self_control",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_012",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you listen without planning your defense?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "defensiveness",
        "listening",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_013",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes you feel like I am on your side, even when we disagree?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "disagreement",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_014",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes you feel like we are becoming opponents?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "escalation",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_015",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing we can do before a small issue turns big?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "prevention",
        "small_issues",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_016",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of timing helps you talk about something hard?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "communication",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_017",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of timing almost guarantees it will go badly?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_018",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you bring up frustration kindly?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "frustration",
        "kindness",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_019",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you receive frustration without taking it as an attack?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "frustration",
        "listening",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_020",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one disagreement pattern you want us to notice sooner?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "patterns",
        "awareness",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_021",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps us disagree without disrespecting each other?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "respect",
        "disagreement",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_022",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes you feel respected when I see something differently?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "respect",
        "differences",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_023",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way we can stay softer when we are tired?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "tired",
        "softness",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_024",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way we can stay kinder when we are stressed?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "stress",
        "kindness",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_025",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you not assume the worst of me?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "assumptions",
        "trust",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_026",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps me not assume the worst of you?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "assumptions",
        "trust",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_027",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes a conversation feel safe enough to be honest?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "honesty",
        "safety",
        "conflict"
      ],
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        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_028",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should we both avoid when we are hungry, tired, or overloaded?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "daily_life",
        "stress",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_029",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one sign that we need to pause?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "signals",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_030",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one sign that we can keep talking?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "signals",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_031",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel comfortable asking for a pause?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "comfort",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_032",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel okay when I ask for a pause?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "reassurance",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_033",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing we should never do just to win an argument?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "winning",
        "boundaries",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_034",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does fighting fair mean to you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "fair_fighting",
        "values",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_035",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps us remember the real issue instead of piling on?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "focus",
        "patterns",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_036",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing we could stop bringing up during unrelated arguments?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "past",
        "focus",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_037",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes criticism easier to hear?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "criticism",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_038",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes criticism feel too harsh?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "tone",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_039",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps a complaint become a request?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "requests",
        "communication",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_040",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one request you wish I heard more clearly?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "requests",
        "listening",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_041",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps us talk about differences without trying to fix each other?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "differences",
        "acceptance",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_042",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one difference between us that needs more patience?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "differences",
        "patience",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_043",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes a hard talk feel more like teamwork?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "communication",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_044",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way we can protect love while we disagree?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "love",
        "disagreement",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_045",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make conflict feel less scary for us?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "safety",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_046",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can we talk about money stress without turning it into a fight?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "stress",
        "communication",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_047",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What usually makes money stress feel bigger than it is?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "stress",
        "escalation",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_048",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would help money stress feel easier to bring up?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "stress",
        "ease",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_049",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should we avoid doing when money stress is the issue?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "stress",
        "boundaries",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_050",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What do you wish I understood about money stress?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "stress",
        "understanding",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_051",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What small change would help us handle money stress better next time?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "stress",
        "small_changes",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_052",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you stay kind when money stress comes up?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "stress",
        "kindness",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_053",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can we talk about chores without turning it into a fight?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "chores",
        "home",
        "communication",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_054",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What usually makes chores feel bigger than it is?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "chores",
        "home",
        "escalation",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_055",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would help chores feel easier to bring up?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "chores",
        "home",
        "ease",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_056",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should we avoid doing when chores is the issue?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "chores",
        "home",
        "boundaries",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_057",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What do you wish I understood about chores?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "chores",
        "home",
        "understanding",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_058",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What small change would help us handle chores better next time?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "chores",
        "home",
        "small_changes",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_059",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you stay kind when chores comes up?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "chores",
        "home",
        "kindness",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_060",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can we talk about family opinions without turning it into a fight?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "family",
        "outside_pressure",
        "communication",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_061",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What usually makes family opinions feel bigger than it is?",
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      "text": "What do you wish I understood about feeling unappreciated?",
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      "text": "What small change would help us handle feeling unappreciated better next time?",
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      "text": "What topic needs better timing?",
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      "id": "conflict_161",
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            "id": "short",
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            "id": "private_signal",
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        ]
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_162",
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      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What usually hides underneath your anger?",
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        "conflict"
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            "id": "stress",
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      "id": "conflict_163",
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      "text": "What helps when one of us shuts down?",
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        "conflict"
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            "id": "less_pressure",
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            "id": "return_time",
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        ]
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    },
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      "id": "conflict_164",
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      "text": "What helps when one of us pushes too hard?",
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        "pressure",
        "conflict"
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      "id": "conflict_165",
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      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes conflict less scary?",
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        "conflict"
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            "id": "kind_tone",
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            "id": "no_threats",
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            "id": "reassurance",
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      "id": "conflict_166",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which conflict pattern should we notice earlier?",
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            "id": "shut_down",
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            "id": "get_loud",
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            "id": "bring_up_past",
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_167",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes defensiveness worse?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "defensiveness",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "blame",
            "text": "Blame"
          },
          {
            "id": "shame",
            "text": "Shame"
          },
          {
            "id": "bad_timing",
            "text": "Bad timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_unheard",
            "text": "Feeling unheard"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_168",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps defensiveness soften?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "defensiveness",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          },
          {
            "id": "kind_tone",
            "text": "Kind tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "space",
            "text": "Space"
          },
          {
            "id": "owning_a_part",
            "text": "Owning a part"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_169",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a complaint easier to hear?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "complaints",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "specific",
            "text": "Specific"
          },
          {
            "id": "kind_tone",
            "text": "Kind tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_topic",
            "text": "One topic"
          },
          {
            "id": "clear_request",
            "text": "Clear request"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_170",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a request easier to answer?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "requests",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "clear",
            "text": "Clear"
          },
          {
            "id": "realistic",
            "text": "Realistic"
          },
          {
            "id": "kind",
            "text": "Kind"
          },
          {
            "id": "timed_well",
            "text": "Timed well"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_171",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps when we both feel right?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "perspective",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "name_both_truths",
            "text": "Name both truths"
          },
          {
            "id": "slow_down",
            "text": "Slow down"
          },
          {
            "id": "stay_curious",
            "text": "Stay curious"
          },
          {
            "id": "drop_winning",
            "text": "Drop winning"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_172",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should we do when the conversation starts looping?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "looping",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "pause",
            "text": "Pause"
          },
          {
            "id": "summarize",
            "text": "Summarize"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_next_step",
            "text": "One next step"
          },
          {
            "id": "return_later",
            "text": "Return later"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_173",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps with old arguments coming back?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "past",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "name_pattern",
            "text": "Name pattern"
          },
          {
            "id": "stay_current",
            "text": "Stay current"
          },
          {
            "id": "separate_topic",
            "text": "Separate topic"
          },
          {
            "id": "repair_later",
            "text": "Repair later"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_174",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of boundary helps conflict stay respectful?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "no_name_calling",
            "text": "No name-calling"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_threats",
            "text": "No threats"
          },
          {
            "id": "pause_allowed",
            "text": "Pause allowed"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_topic",
            "text": "One topic"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_175",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps if one of us feels dismissed?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "dismissal",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "repeat_back",
            "text": "Repeat back"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_more",
            "text": "Ask more"
          },
          {
            "id": "apologize",
            "text": "Apologize"
          },
          {
            "id": "stay_present",
            "text": "Stay present"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_176",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps if one of us feels criticized?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "criticism",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "specific_request",
            "text": "Specific request"
          },
          {
            "id": "soft_start",
            "text": "Soft start"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_labels",
            "text": "No labels"
          },
          {
            "id": "praise_too",
            "text": "Praise too"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_177",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps if one of us feels controlled?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "control",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "choice",
            "text": "Choice"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_not_order",
            "text": "Ask, not order"
          },
          {
            "id": "space",
            "text": "Space"
          },
          {
            "id": "respect_no",
            "text": "Respect no"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_178",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps if one of us feels ignored?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "attention",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "focused_time",
            "text": "Focused time"
          },
          {
            "id": "repeat_back",
            "text": "Repeat back"
          },
          {
            "id": "put_phone_down",
            "text": "Put phone down"
          },
          {
            "id": "schedule_time",
            "text": "Schedule time"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_179",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps if one of us gets sarcastic?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sarcasm",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "name_it",
            "text": "Name it"
          },
          {
            "id": "pause",
            "text": "Pause"
          },
          {
            "id": "soften",
            "text": "Soften"
          },
          {
            "id": "try_again",
            "text": "Try again"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_180",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps when conflict happens in public?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "public",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "pause_it",
            "text": "Pause it"
          },
          {
            "id": "keep_private",
            "text": "Keep private"
          },
          {
            "id": "leave_kindly",
            "text": "Leave kindly"
          },
          {
            "id": "small_signal",
            "text": "Small signal"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_181",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps when conflict happens before bed?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "bedtime",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "short_check",
            "text": "Short check-in"
          },
          {
            "id": "pause_kindly",
            "text": "Pause kindly"
          },
          {
            "id": "soft_words",
            "text": "Soft words"
          },
          {
            "id": "return_tomorrow",
            "text": "Return tomorrow"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_182",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps when conflict happens by text?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "texting",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "call_instead",
            "text": "Call instead"
          },
          {
            "id": "slow_down",
            "text": "Slow down"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_paragraphs",
            "text": "No paragraphs"
          },
          {
            "id": "pause",
            "text": "Pause"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_183",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us not weaponize silence?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "silence",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "clear_pause",
            "text": "Clear pause"
          },
          {
            "id": "return_time",
            "text": "Return time"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          },
          {
            "id": "honesty",
            "text": "Honesty"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_184",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us not weaponize words?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "words",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "slow_down",
            "text": "Slow down"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_labels",
            "text": "No labels"
          },
          {
            "id": "kind_tone",
            "text": "Kind tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "pause",
            "text": "Pause"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_185",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a hard truth easier to receive?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "honesty",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "love_first",
            "text": "Love first"
          },
          {
            "id": "soft_tone",
            "text": "Soft tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "specific",
            "text": "Specific"
          },
          {
            "id": "private",
            "text": "Private"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_186",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps when the issue is really stress?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "name_stress",
            "text": "Name stress"
          },
          {
            "id": "reduce_load",
            "text": "Reduce load"
          },
          {
            "id": "pause",
            "text": "Pause"
          },
          {
            "id": "comfort",
            "text": "Comfort"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_187",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps when the issue is really fear?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "fear",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_gently",
            "text": "Ask gently"
          },
          {
            "id": "slow_down",
            "text": "Slow down"
          },
          {
            "id": "stay_close",
            "text": "Stay close"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_188",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps when the issue is really feeling unseen?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "unseen",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "attention",
            "text": "Attention"
          },
          {
            "id": "specific_words",
            "text": "Specific words"
          },
          {
            "id": "listening",
            "text": "Listening"
          },
          {
            "id": "time",
            "text": "Time"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_189",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps when neither of us has much patience?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "patience",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "pause",
            "text": "Pause"
          },
          {
            "id": "lower_expectations",
            "text": "Lower expectations"
          },
          {
            "id": "handle_later",
            "text": "Handle later"
          },
          {
            "id": "be_kind",
            "text": "Be kind"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_190",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What would make our next disagreement healthier?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "future",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "pause_earlier",
            "text": "Pause earlier"
          },
          {
            "id": "listen_longer",
            "text": "Listen longer"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_topic",
            "text": "One topic"
          },
          {
            "id": "softer_start",
            "text": "Softer start"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_191",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us stay respectful during conflict?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "respect",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "soft_tone",
            "text": "Soft tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_interrupting",
            "text": "No interrupting"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_topic",
            "text": "One topic"
          },
          {
            "id": "pause_allowed",
            "text": "Pause allowed"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_name_calling",
            "text": "No name-calling"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_192",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What tends to escalate conflict for us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "escalation",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "tone",
            "text": "Tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "timing",
            "text": "Timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "phones",
            "text": "Phones"
          },
          {
            "id": "old_topics",
            "text": "Old topics"
          },
          {
            "id": "interrupting",
            "text": "Interrupting"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_193",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps a hard talk go better?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "good_timing",
            "text": "Good timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "soft_start",
            "text": "Soft start"
          },
          {
            "id": "clear_request",
            "text": "Clear request"
          },
          {
            "id": "breaks_allowed",
            "text": "Breaks allowed"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_194",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel heard?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "listening",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "repeat_back",
            "text": "Repeat back"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_questions",
            "text": "Ask questions"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_fixing_yet",
            "text": "No fixing yet"
          },
          {
            "id": "eye_contact",
            "text": "Eye contact"
          },
          {
            "id": "patience",
            "text": "Patience"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_195",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should we avoid when upset?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "sarcasm",
            "text": "Sarcasm"
          },
          {
            "id": "threats",
            "text": "Threats"
          },
          {
            "id": "name_calling",
            "text": "Name-calling"
          },
          {
            "id": "past_pile_on",
            "text": "Past pile-on"
          },
          {
            "id": "silent_treatment",
            "text": "Silent treatment"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_196",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps when defensiveness shows up?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "defensiveness",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "slow_down",
            "text": "Slow down"
          },
          {
            "id": "soften_tone",
            "text": "Soften tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_question",
            "text": "Ask a question"
          },
          {
            "id": "own_part",
            "text": "Own a part"
          },
          {
            "id": "take_break",
            "text": "Take a break"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_197",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us respond well when one of us shuts down?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "shutdown",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "space",
            "text": "Space"
          },
          {
            "id": "gentle_check",
            "text": "Gentle check-in"
          },
          {
            "id": "less_pressure",
            "text": "Less pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "return_time",
            "text": "Return time"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_198",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us slow things down when one of us pushes too hard?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pressure",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "name_it",
            "text": "Name it"
          },
          {
            "id": "slow_down",
            "text": "Slow down"
          },
          {
            "id": "take_break",
            "text": "Take a break"
          },
          {
            "id": "soften_words",
            "text": "Soften words"
          },
          {
            "id": "remember_team",
            "text": "Remember team"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_199",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes feedback easier to receive?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "specific",
            "text": "Specific"
          },
          {
            "id": "gentle",
            "text": "Gentle"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_thing",
            "text": "One thing"
          },
          {
            "id": "good_timing",
            "text": "Good timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "praise_too",
            "text": "Praise too"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_200",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us talk about money conflict?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "facts_first",
            "text": "Facts first"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_blame",
            "text": "No blame"
          },
          {
            "id": "short_check_in",
            "text": "Short check-in"
          },
          {
            "id": "shared_goal",
            "text": "Shared goal"
          },
          {
            "id": "pause_if_heated",
            "text": "Pause if heated"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_201",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us talk about family conflict?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "family",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "protect_us",
            "text": "Protect us"
          },
          {
            "id": "listen_first",
            "text": "Listen first"
          },
          {
            "id": "private_talk",
            "text": "Private talk"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_sides",
            "text": "No taking sides"
          },
          {
            "id": "clear_boundary",
            "text": "Clear boundary"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_202",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us talk about chores conflict?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "chores",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "specific_task",
            "text": "Specific task"
          },
          {
            "id": "fair_plan",
            "text": "Fair plan"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_scorekeeping",
            "text": "No scorekeeping"
          },
          {
            "id": "weekly_reset",
            "text": "Weekly reset"
          },
          {
            "id": "appreciation",
            "text": "Appreciation"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_203",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us handle conflict by text?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "texting",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "short_messages",
            "text": "Short messages"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_assumptions",
            "text": "No assumptions"
          },
          {
            "id": "pause",
            "text": "Pause"
          },
          {
            "id": "call_instead",
            "text": "Call instead"
          },
          {
            "id": "kind_words",
            "text": "Kind words"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_204",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us stay focused on one issue?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "focus",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "name_topic",
            "text": "Name topic"
          },
          {
            "id": "write_other_later",
            "text": "Save other topics"
          },
          {
            "id": "pause_pile_on",
            "text": "Pause pile-on"
          },
          {
            "id": "repeat_goal",
            "text": "Repeat goal"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_next_step",
            "text": "Ask next step"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_205",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us stay close after disagreeing?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "closeness",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          },
          {
            "id": "kind_touch",
            "text": "Kind touch"
          },
          {
            "id": "small_repair",
            "text": "Small repair"
          },
          {
            "id": "shared_goal",
            "text": "Shared goal"
          },
          {
            "id": "respect",
            "text": "Respect"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_206",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us not make conflict personal?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "personalization",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "avoid_labels",
            "text": "Avoid labels"
          },
          {
            "id": "focus_action",
            "text": "Focus on action"
          },
          {
            "id": "assume_good",
            "text": "Assume good intent"
          },
          {
            "id": "soft_tone",
            "text": "Soft tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "own_part",
            "text": "Own part"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_207",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps when we see the same situation differently?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "perspective",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "name_both_views",
            "text": "Name both views"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_more",
            "text": "Ask more"
          },
          {
            "id": "slow_down",
            "text": "Slow down"
          },
          {
            "id": "drop_winning",
            "text": "Drop winning"
          },
          {
            "id": "look_for_overlap",
            "text": "Look for overlap"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_208",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us talk before resentment builds?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "resentment",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "earlier_check_in",
            "text": "Earlier check-in"
          },
          {
            "id": "small_request",
            "text": "Small request"
          },
          {
            "id": "honesty",
            "text": "Honesty"
          },
          {
            "id": "good_timing",
            "text": "Good timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_punishing",
            "text": "No punishing"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_209",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes conflict feel safer?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "safety",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "no_threats",
            "text": "No threats"
          },
          {
            "id": "clear_pauses",
            "text": "Clear pauses"
          },
          {
            "id": "kind_tone",
            "text": "Kind tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "follow_through",
            "text": "Follow-through"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_210",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us make progress during hard talks?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "progress",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "one_next_step",
            "text": "One next step"
          },
          {
            "id": "summarize",
            "text": "Summarize"
          },
          {
            "id": "stay_kind",
            "text": "Stay kind"
          },
          {
            "id": "name_goal",
            "text": "Name goal"
          },
          {
            "id": "check_understanding",
            "text": "Check understanding"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_211",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How safe does disagreement feel between us?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "safety",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not safe",
        "max_label": "Very safe"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_212",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to bring up frustration?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "frustration",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Hard",
        "max_label": "Easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_213",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How heard do you feel during hard talks?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "listening",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not heard",
        "max_label": "Very heard"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_214",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much does tone affect you during conflict?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "tone",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_215",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to pause before things escalate?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Hard",
        "max_label": "Easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_216",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much do we stay on the same team when we disagree?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_217",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much would one better conflict habit help us?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "habits",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_218",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How often do old patterns show up in conflict?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "patterns",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Rarely",
        "max_label": "Often"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_219",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much defensiveness shows up between us?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "defensiveness",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_220",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we handle conflict about money?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Needs work",
        "max_label": "Very well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_221",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we handle conflict about family?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "family",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Needs work",
        "max_label": "Very well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_222",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we handle conflict about chores?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "chores",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Needs work",
        "max_label": "Very well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_223",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How safe does it feel to give feedback?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not safe",
        "max_label": "Very safe"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_224",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How safe does it feel to receive feedback?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not safe",
        "max_label": "Very safe"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_225",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much do we avoid trying to win?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "winning",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_226",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How often do we loop instead of resolving?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "looping",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Rarely",
        "max_label": "Often"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_227",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we respect pauses?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Needs work",
        "max_label": "Very well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_228",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How often do assumptions make conflict worse?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "assumptions",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Rarely",
        "max_label": "Often"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_229",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to name the real issue?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "clarity",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Hard",
        "max_label": "Easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_230",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much does stress fuel our conflict?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_231",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we stay respectful when tired?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "tired",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Needs work",
        "max_label": "Very well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_232",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How hopeful do you feel about improving conflict?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hope",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not hopeful",
        "max_label": "Very hopeful"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_233",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How often do we make conflict personal?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "personalization",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Rarely",
        "max_label": "Often"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_234",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much does privacy help us disagree better?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_235",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much would a regular check-in prevent conflict?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "check_in",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_236",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Pause now or talk softly?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "pause_now",
            "text": "Pause now"
          },
          {
            "id": "talk_softly",
            "text": "Talk softly"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_237",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "One topic or everything at once?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "focus",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "one_topic",
            "text": "One topic"
          },
          {
            "id": "everything",
            "text": "Everything at once"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_238",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Soft start or direct start?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "soft_start",
            "text": "Soft start"
          },
          {
            "id": "direct_start",
            "text": "Direct start"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_239",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Talk now or schedule it?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "talk_now",
            "text": "Talk now"
          },
          {
            "id": "schedule_it",
            "text": "Schedule it"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_240",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Understand first or solve first?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "understanding",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "understand_first",
            "text": "Understand first"
          },
          {
            "id": "solve_first",
            "text": "Solve first"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_241",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Name the feeling or name the need?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "name_feeling",
            "text": "Name the feeling"
          },
          {
            "id": "name_need",
            "text": "Name the need"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_242",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Own your part or ask one question?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "accountability",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "own_part",
            "text": "Own your part"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_question",
            "text": "Ask one question"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_243",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Drop winning or keep explaining?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "winning",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "drop_winning",
            "text": "Drop winning"
          },
          {
            "id": "keep_explaining",
            "text": "Keep explaining"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_244",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Lower the volume or pause the talk?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "deescalation",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "lower_volume",
            "text": "Lower the volume"
          },
          {
            "id": "pause_talk",
            "text": "Pause the talk"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_245",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Text less or talk sooner?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "texting",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "text_less",
            "text": "Text less"
          },
          {
            "id": "talk_sooner",
            "text": "Talk sooner"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_246",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Stay current or name the pattern?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "patterns",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "stay_current",
            "text": "Stay current"
          },
          {
            "id": "name_pattern",
            "text": "Name the pattern"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_247",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Give space or offer reassurance?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "space",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "give_space",
            "text": "Give space"
          },
          {
            "id": "offer_reassurance",
            "text": "Offer reassurance"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_248",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Ask for clarity or ask for softness?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "ask_clarity",
            "text": "Ask for clarity"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_softness",
            "text": "Ask for softness"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_249",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Handle small things sooner or let more go?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "prevention",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "sooner",
            "text": "Handle small things sooner"
          },
          {
            "id": "let_go",
            "text": "Let more go"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_250",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Private signal or spoken pause?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "private_signal",
            "text": "Private signal"
          },
          {
            "id": "spoken_pause",
            "text": "Spoken pause"
          }
        ]
      }
    }
  ]
}