Closer/seed/questions/conflict_repair.json

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    "description": "Warm, practical questions that help couples cool down, apologize, listen, take space, reconnect, and repair after disagreements without blame.",
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      "id": "conflict_repair_001",
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      "text": "What helps you feel safe coming back together after a disagreement?",
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      "id": "conflict_repair_002",
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      "text": "What is one small thing I can do after conflict that helps you soften?",
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      "id": "conflict_repair_003",
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      "text": "What kind of apology feels most real to you?",
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        "apology",
        "trust",
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      "id": "conflict_repair_004",
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      "text": "What helps you believe I am listening when we are trying to repair?",
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        "listening",
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      "id": "conflict_repair_005",
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      "text": "What should we both avoid saying when we are still heated?",
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        "conflict",
        "words",
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      "id": "conflict_repair_006",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps a hard conversation feel less scary?",
      "depth": 3,
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        "communication",
        "safety",
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      "id": "conflict_repair_007",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes a pause feel helpful instead of like someone is leaving?",
      "depth": 4,
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      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "reassurance",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "id": "conflict_repair_008",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one phrase that could help us slow down before things get worse?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "deescalation",
        "phrases",
        "conflict_repair"
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    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_009",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you calm your body after an argument?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
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        "calm",
        "body",
        "conflict_repair"
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    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_010",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of tone helps you stay open?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "tone",
        "communication",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_011",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes you feel respected during repair?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "respect",
        "repair",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_012",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way we can disagree without feeling like enemies?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "conflict",
        "teamwork",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_013",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel like we are on the same team again?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "repair",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_014",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should we do first when a small issue starts growing?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "deescalation",
        "small_issues",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_015",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes it easier for you to say, 'That hurt'?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hurt",
        "communication",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_016",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes it easier for you to hear, 'That hurt'?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hurt",
        "listening",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_017",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps an apology feel warm instead of rushed?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "apology",
        "warmth",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_018",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of repair works best after a silly misunderstanding?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "misunderstanding",
        "lightness",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_019",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of repair works best after a serious disagreement?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "serious_conflict",
        "repair",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_020",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing we can do to keep a disagreement from ruining the whole day?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "daily_life",
        "repair",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_021",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you let go of tension after we make up?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "tension",
        "release",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_022",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel close again after we have both cooled down?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "closeness",
        "cool_down",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_023",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing that makes conflict harder than it needs to be?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "patterns",
        "conflict",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_024",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you not shut down during a hard talk?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "shutdown",
        "communication",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_025",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you not push too hard during a hard talk?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "pressure",
        "communication",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_026",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of check-in would help after we argue?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "check_in",
        "repair",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_027",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should a timeout mean between us?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "timeout",
        "repair",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_028",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you come back after a timeout?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "timeout",
        "return",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_029",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one kind way to say we need a break?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "kindness",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_030",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you trust that a break is not abandonment?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "trust",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_031",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes forgiveness feel possible?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "forgiveness",
        "repair",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_032",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes accountability feel loving instead of shaming?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "accountability",
        "shame",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_033",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one repair habit we could practice this week?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "habits",
        "weekly",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_034",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does a good restart sound like after a rough moment?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "restart",
        "phrases",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_035",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps us laugh gently after tension without dismissing the issue?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "humor",
        "repair",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_036",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing you wish I understood about your conflict style?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "conflict_style",
        "understanding",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_037",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing you want me to do less during conflict?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "conflict",
        "change",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_038",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing you want me to do more during repair?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "change",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_039",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel heard without needing to repeat yourself?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "listening",
        "heard",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_040",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you listen even when you feel defensive?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "defensiveness",
        "listening",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_041",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes repair feel like love in action?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "love",
        "repair",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_042",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one small peace offering that works for you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "peace_offering",
        "repair",
        "conflict_repair"
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    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_043",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you know I still love you during conflict?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "love",
        "reassurance",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_044",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way we can end a hard talk gently?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "ending",
        "gentleness",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_045",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would help us repair faster next time?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "future",
        "repair",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_046",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps an apology feel honest instead of forced?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "apology",
        "accountability",
        "honesty",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_047",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes an apology feel safe enough to try again?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "apology",
        "accountability",
        "safety",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_048",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with apology?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "apology",
        "accountability",
        "understanding",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_049",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What boundary would help us handle apology more gently?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "apology",
        "accountability",
        "boundaries",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_050",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What small action would help repair apology between us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "apology",
        "accountability",
        "small_actions",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_051",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes an apology feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "apology",
        "accountability",
        "teamwork",
        "blame",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_052",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would help us bring more softness to apology?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "apology",
        "accountability",
        "softness",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_053",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps being heard feel honest instead of forced?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "listening",
        "heard",
        "honesty",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_054",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes being heard feel safe enough to try again?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "listening",
        "heard",
        "safety",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_055",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with listening?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "listening",
        "heard",
        "understanding",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_056",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What boundary would help us handle listening more gently?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "listening",
        "heard",
        "boundaries",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_057",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What small action would help repair listening between us?",
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      "text": "What makes being heard feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
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      "text": "What helps a pause feel honest instead of forced?",
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      "text": "What makes a pause feel safe enough to try again?",
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      "id": "conflict_repair_062",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with taking space?",
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      "text": "What boundary would help us handle taking space more gently?",
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      "text": "What small action would help repair taking space between us?",
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      "id": "conflict_repair_065",
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      "text": "What makes a pause feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
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      "id": "conflict_repair_067",
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      "text": "What makes coming back together feel safe enough to try again?",
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      "text": "What makes coming back together feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
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      "id": "conflict_repair_074",
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      "text": "What helps defensiveness feel honest instead of forced?",
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      "text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with defensiveness?",
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      "text": "What boundary would help us handle defensiveness more gently?",
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      "id": "conflict_repair_078",
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      "text": "What small action would help repair defensiveness between us?",
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      "id": "conflict_repair_079",
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      "text": "What makes defensiveness feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
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      "id": "conflict_repair_082",
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      "id": "conflict_repair_083",
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      "text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with tone?",
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      "id": "conflict_repair_086",
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      "id": "conflict_repair_087",
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      "id": "conflict_repair_088",
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      "text": "What helps hurt feelings feel honest instead of forced?",
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    },
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      "id": "conflict_repair_090",
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      "text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with hurt feelings?",
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    },
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    },
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      "text": "What boundary would help us handle old patterns more gently?",
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    },
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      "text": "What small action would help repair old patterns between us?",
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    },
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      "text": "What makes an old pattern feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
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    },
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_109",
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      "text": "What helps trust after conflict feel honest instead of forced?",
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    },
    {
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    },
    {
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with trust after conflict?",
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    },
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        "conflict_repair"
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    },
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        "small_actions",
        "conflict_repair"
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      }
    },
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      "text": "What makes trust after conflict feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
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        "trust",
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        "teamwork",
        "blame",
        "conflict_repair"
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      }
    },
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      "text": "What would help us bring more softness to trust after conflict?",
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        "trust",
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        "softness",
        "conflict_repair"
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      }
    },
    {
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps forgiveness feel honest instead of forced?",
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        "forgiveness",
        "healing",
        "honesty",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_117",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes forgiveness feel safe enough to try again?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "forgiveness",
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        "safety",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_118",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with forgiveness?",
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        "forgiveness",
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        "understanding",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What boundary would help us handle forgiveness more gently?",
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      "tags": [
        "forgiveness",
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        "boundaries",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
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      "id": "conflict_repair_120",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What small action would help repair forgiveness between us?",
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      "tags": [
        "forgiveness",
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        "small_actions",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_121",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes forgiveness feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "forgiveness",
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        "teamwork",
        "blame",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_122",
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      "text": "What would help us bring more softness to forgiveness?",
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      "tags": [
        "forgiveness",
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        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
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      "id": "conflict_repair_123",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps accountability feel honest instead of forced?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "accountability",
        "growth",
        "honesty",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_124",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes accountability feel safe enough to try again?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "accountability",
        "growth",
        "safety",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_125",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with accountability?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "accountability",
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        "understanding",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_126",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What boundary would help us handle accountability more gently?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "accountability",
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        "boundaries",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_127",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What small action would help repair accountability between us?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "accountability",
        "growth",
        "small_actions",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_128",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes accountability feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "accountability",
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        "teamwork",
        "blame",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
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        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
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      "id": "conflict_repair_129",
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      "text": "What would help us bring more softness to accountability?",
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        "accountability",
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        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_130",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps reconnecting feel honest instead of forced?",
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        "reconnection",
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        "honesty",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_131",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes reconnecting feel safe enough to try again?",
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        "reconnection",
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        "conflict_repair"
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      }
    },
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      "id": "conflict_repair_132",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with reconnecting?",
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        "conflict_repair"
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      }
    },
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      "id": "conflict_repair_133",
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      "text": "What boundary would help us handle reconnecting more gently?",
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      "tags": [
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        "boundaries",
        "conflict_repair"
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      }
    },
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      "id": "conflict_repair_134",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What small action would help repair reconnecting between us?",
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      "tags": [
        "reconnection",
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        "small_actions",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_135",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes reconnecting feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
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      "access": "premium",
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        "reconnection",
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        "teamwork",
        "blame",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_136",
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      "text": "What would help us bring more softness to reconnecting?",
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        "reconnection",
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        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_137",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps repair after distance feel honest instead of forced?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "distance",
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        "honesty",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_138",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes repair after distance feel safe enough to try again?",
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      "access": "premium",
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        "distance",
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        "safety",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_139",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with repair after distance?",
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      "access": "premium",
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        "distance",
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        "understanding",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_140",
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      "text": "What boundary would help us handle repair after distance more gently?",
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        "boundaries",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_141",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What small action would help repair repair after distance between us?",
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      "tags": [
        "distance",
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        "small_actions",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_142",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes repair after distance feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
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      "access": "premium",
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        "distance",
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        "teamwork",
        "blame",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
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      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_143",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would help us bring more softness to repair after distance?",
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        "distance",
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        "conflict_repair"
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        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_144",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps staying kind feel honest instead of forced?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "kindness",
        "conflict",
        "honesty",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_145",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes staying kind feel safe enough to try again?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "kindness",
        "conflict",
        "safety",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_146",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with staying kind?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "kindness",
        "conflict",
        "understanding",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_147",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What boundary would help us handle staying kind more gently?",
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      "tags": [
        "kindness",
        "conflict",
        "boundaries",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_148",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What small action would help repair staying kind between us?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "kindness",
        "conflict",
        "small_actions",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_149",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes staying kind feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "kindness",
        "conflict",
        "teamwork",
        "blame",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_150",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would help us bring more softness to staying kind?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "kindness",
        "conflict",
        "softness",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_151",
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      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you calm down fastest after a disagreement?",
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      "access": "free",
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        "conflict_repair"
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        "options": [
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            "id": "talking",
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_152",
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      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of apology lands best?",
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        "apology",
        "conflict_repair"
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            "id": "with_changed_action",
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      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_153",
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      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of pause helps most?",
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      "access": "free",
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        "pause",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "ten_minutes",
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            "id": "thirty_minutes",
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            "id": "walk",
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          {
            "id": "sleep_on_it",
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_154",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should we do first when tension rises?",
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      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
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        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
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            "id": "lower_voices",
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            "id": "pause",
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            "id": "name_feeling",
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          {
            "id": "hold_hands",
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_155",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What tone helps you stay open?",
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      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "tone",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
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            "id": "steady",
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            "id": "direct",
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          {
            "id": "gentle",
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_156",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is easiest for you to receive after conflict?",
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      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "options": [
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            "id": "apology",
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            "id": "reassurance",
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          {
            "id": "space",
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            "id": "affection",
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_157",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a hard talk feel safer?",
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      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "options": [
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            "id": "privacy",
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            "id": "kind_words",
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          {
            "id": "no_interrupting",
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          {
            "id": "breaks_allowed",
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_158",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel heard?",
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      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "listening",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "options": [
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            "id": "repeat_back",
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            "id": "ask_questions",
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          },
          {
            "id": "eye_contact",
            "text": "Eye contact"
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          {
            "id": "no_fixing_yet",
            "text": "No fixing yet"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_159",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes you shut down fastest?",
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      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "shutdown",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "loud_voice",
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            "id": "sarcasm",
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          },
          {
            "id": "being_cut_off",
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          {
            "id": "too_many_topics",
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          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_160",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes repair feel loving?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "love",
        "repair",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "softness",
            "text": "Softness"
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          {
            "id": "accountability",
            "text": "Accountability"
          },
          {
            "id": "patience",
            "text": "Patience"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_161",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of restart feels best?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "restart",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "fresh_words",
            "text": "Fresh words"
          },
          {
            "id": "small_touch",
            "text": "Small touch"
          },
          {
            "id": "quick_check_in",
            "text": "Quick check-in"
          },
          {
            "id": "try_again_later",
            "text": "Try again later"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_162",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should we avoid during conflict?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "conflict",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "name_calling",
            "text": "Name-calling"
          },
          {
            "id": "threats",
            "text": "Threats"
          },
          {
            "id": "old_pile_on",
            "text": "Old pile-on"
          },
          {
            "id": "walking_away_cold",
            "text": "Leaving coldly"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_163",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps after a misunderstanding?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "misunderstanding",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "clarify",
            "text": "Clarify"
          },
          {
            "id": "laugh_gently",
            "text": "Laugh gently"
          },
          {
            "id": "apologize",
            "text": "Apologize"
          },
          {
            "id": "slow_down",
            "text": "Slow down"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_164",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes forgiveness easier?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "forgiveness",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "accountability",
            "text": "Accountability"
          },
          {
            "id": "time",
            "text": "Time"
          },
          {
            "id": "changed_action",
            "text": "Changed action"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_165",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us end a hard talk gently?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "ending",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "thank_you",
            "text": "Thank you"
          },
          {
            "id": "hug",
            "text": "Hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "next_step",
            "text": "Next step"
          },
          {
            "id": "quiet_reset",
            "text": "Quiet reset"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_166",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which repair skill should we practice more?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "apologizing",
            "text": "Apologizing"
          },
          {
            "id": "listening",
            "text": "Listening"
          },
          {
            "id": "pausing",
            "text": "Pausing"
          },
          {
            "id": "coming_back",
            "text": "Coming back"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_167",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of accountability feels best?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "accountability",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "own_it",
            "text": "Own it"
          },
          {
            "id": "specific_change",
            "text": "Specific change"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_excuses",
            "text": "No excuses"
          },
          {
            "id": "gentle_words",
            "text": "Gentle words"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_168",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes defensiveness worse?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "defensiveness",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "blame",
            "text": "Blame"
          },
          {
            "id": "shame",
            "text": "Shame"
          },
          {
            "id": "bad_timing",
            "text": "Bad timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_unheard",
            "text": "Feeling unheard"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_169",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you soften after defensiveness?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "defensiveness",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          },
          {
            "id": "space",
            "text": "Space"
          },
          {
            "id": "kind_tone",
            "text": "Kind tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "clear_apology",
            "text": "Clear apology"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_170",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which old pattern needs the most care?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "patterns",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "withdrawing",
            "text": "Withdrawing"
          },
          {
            "id": "pushing",
            "text": "Pushing"
          },
          {
            "id": "raising_voice",
            "text": "Raising voices"
          },
          {
            "id": "bringing_up_past",
            "text": "Bringing up the past"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_171",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps if one of us feels blamed?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "blame",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "slow_down",
            "text": "Slow down"
          },
          {
            "id": "own_part",
            "text": "Own our part"
          },
          {
            "id": "soften_words",
            "text": "Soften words"
          },
          {
            "id": "pause",
            "text": "Pause"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_172",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps if one of us feels dismissed?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "dismissal",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "repeat_back",
            "text": "Repeat back"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_more",
            "text": "Ask more"
          },
          {
            "id": "apologize",
            "text": "Apologize"
          },
          {
            "id": "stay_present",
            "text": "Stay present"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_173",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps if one of us feels overwhelmed?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "overwhelm",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "break",
            "text": "Break"
          },
          {
            "id": "lower_volume",
            "text": "Lower volume"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_topic",
            "text": "One topic"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_174",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which repair phrase sounds most helpful?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "phrases",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "i_hear_you",
            "text": "I hear you"
          },
          {
            "id": "let_me_try_again",
            "text": "Let me try again"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_am_not_against_you",
            "text": "I'm not against you"
          },
          {
            "id": "can_we_slow_down",
            "text": "Can we slow down?"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_175",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes trust easier after conflict?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "trust",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "follow_through",
            "text": "Follow-through"
          },
          {
            "id": "honesty",
            "text": "Honesty"
          },
          {
            "id": "gentle_repair",
            "text": "Gentle repair"
          },
          {
            "id": "time",
            "text": "Time"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_176",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a timeout feel safe?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "timeout",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "clear_return_time",
            "text": "Clear return time"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          },
          {
            "id": "kind_words",
            "text": "Kind words"
          },
          {
            "id": "actual_return",
            "text": "Actually returning"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_177",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a repair conversation too much?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "too_long",
            "text": "Too long"
          },
          {
            "id": "too_late",
            "text": "Too late"
          },
          {
            "id": "too_many_topics",
            "text": "Too many topics"
          },
          {
            "id": "too_much_blame",
            "text": "Too much blame"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_178",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of affection helps after repair?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "affection",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "hug",
            "text": "Hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "hand_hold",
            "text": "Hand-hold"
          },
          {
            "id": "cuddle",
            "text": "Cuddle"
          },
          {
            "id": "none_yet",
            "text": "None yet"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_179",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should come before affection after conflict?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "affection",
        "consent",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "ask_first",
            "text": "Ask first"
          },
          {
            "id": "apology",
            "text": "Apology"
          },
          {
            "id": "calm",
            "text": "Calm"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_180",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes humor helpful after tension?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "humor",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "gentle",
            "text": "Gentle"
          },
          {
            "id": "well_timed",
            "text": "Well-timed"
          },
          {
            "id": "not_dismissive",
            "text": "Not dismissive"
          },
          {
            "id": "shared_joke",
            "text": "Shared joke"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_181",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes humor hurtful after tension?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "humor",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "too_soon",
            "text": "Too soon"
          },
          {
            "id": "sarcasm",
            "text": "Sarcasm"
          },
          {
            "id": "mocking",
            "text": "Mocking"
          },
          {
            "id": "avoiding_issue",
            "text": "Avoiding the issue"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_182",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us repair before bed?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "bedtime",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "short_check_in",
            "text": "Short check-in"
          },
          {
            "id": "soft_words",
            "text": "Soft words"
          },
          {
            "id": "agree_to_pause",
            "text": "Agree to pause"
          },
          {
            "id": "hold_hands",
            "text": "Hold hands"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_183",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us repair in the morning?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "morning",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "fresh_start",
            "text": "Fresh start"
          },
          {
            "id": "coffee_talk",
            "text": "Coffee talk"
          },
          {
            "id": "apology",
            "text": "Apology"
          },
          {
            "id": "small_kindness",
            "text": "Small kindness"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_184",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us not repeat the same fight?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "patterns",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "name_pattern",
            "text": "Name the pattern"
          },
          {
            "id": "make_plan",
            "text": "Make a plan"
          },
          {
            "id": "pause_earlier",
            "text": "Pause earlier"
          },
          {
            "id": "own_our_parts",
            "text": "Own our parts"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_185",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should we do after a repair goes well?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "celebration",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "thank_each_other",
            "text": "Thank each other"
          },
          {
            "id": "hug",
            "text": "Hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "move_forward",
            "text": "Move forward"
          },
          {
            "id": "notice_progress",
            "text": "Notice progress"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_186",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of repair feels most natural?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair_style",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "talking",
            "text": "Talking"
          },
          {
            "id": "quiet_closeness",
            "text": "Quiet closeness"
          },
          {
            "id": "small_action",
            "text": "Small action"
          },
          {
            "id": "writing",
            "text": "Writing"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_187",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel safe naming your hurt?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hurt",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "no_defense",
            "text": "No defense"
          },
          {
            "id": "kind_tone",
            "text": "Kind tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "patience",
            "text": "Patience"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_188",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you hear my hurt?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hurt",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "slow_down",
            "text": "Slow down"
          },
          {
            "id": "remember_love",
            "text": "Remember love"
          },
          {
            "id": "breathe",
            "text": "Breathe"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_questions",
            "text": "Ask questions"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_189",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps repair feel mutual?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mutual",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "both_own_part",
            "text": "Both own a part"
          },
          {
            "id": "both_listen",
            "text": "Both listen"
          },
          {
            "id": "both_soften",
            "text": "Both soften"
          },
          {
            "id": "both_try_again",
            "text": "Both try again"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_190",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps when we are both right about different things?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "perspective",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "name_both_truths",
            "text": "Name both truths"
          },
          {
            "id": "slow_down",
            "text": "Slow down"
          },
          {
            "id": "stay_curious",
            "text": "Stay curious"
          },
          {
            "id": "drop_winning",
            "text": "Drop winning"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_191",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us de-escalate?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "deescalation",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "lower_voices",
            "text": "Lower voices"
          },
          {
            "id": "pause",
            "text": "Pause"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_topic",
            "text": "One topic"
          },
          {
            "id": "breathe",
            "text": "Breathe"
          },
          {
            "id": "soft_words",
            "text": "Soft words"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_192",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes repair feel safe?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "safety",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "patience",
            "text": "Patience"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_blame",
            "text": "No blame"
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          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
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            "id": "kind_tone",
            "text": "Kind tone"
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_193",
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      "text": "What makes an apology land?",
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        "apology",
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            "id": "specific",
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            "id": "gentle",
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            "id": "no_excuses",
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            "id": "changed_action",
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_194",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you cool down?",
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        "calm",
        "conflict_repair"
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            "id": "water",
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          {
            "id": "breathing",
            "text": "Breathing"
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          {
            "id": "space",
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      }
    },
    {
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      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should we avoid when angry?",
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      "access": "free",
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        "conflict",
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          {
            "id": "threats",
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          {
            "id": "past_pile_on",
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          {
            "id": "interrupting",
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_196",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps repair after an old pattern shows up?",
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      "access": "premium",
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        "patterns",
        "conflict_repair"
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            "id": "name_it",
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            "id": "pause",
            "text": "Pause"
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          {
            "id": "plan",
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            "id": "reassure",
            "text": "Reassure"
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        ],
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
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      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
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      "text": "What helps when defensiveness appears?",
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      "access": "premium",
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        "defensiveness",
        "conflict_repair"
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            "id": "slow_down",
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            "id": "soften_tone",
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            "id": "ask_question",
            "text": "Ask a question"
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          {
            "id": "own_part",
            "text": "Own a part"
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          {
            "id": "take_break",
            "text": "Take a break"
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        ],
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_198",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps trust after conflict?",
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      "access": "premium",
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        "trust",
        "conflict_repair"
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          {
            "id": "follow_through",
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            "id": "changed_behavior",
            "text": "Changed behavior"
          },
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            "id": "gentle_repair",
            "text": "Gentle repair"
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            "id": "time",
            "text": "Time"
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        ],
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_199",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes a timeout work well?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "timeout",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "clear_return",
            "text": "Clear return time"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_silent_treatment",
            "text": "No silent treatment"
          },
          {
            "id": "calm_down",
            "text": "Calm down"
          },
          {
            "id": "come_back",
            "text": "Come back"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_200",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us repair after hurt feelings?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hurt",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "listen_first",
            "text": "Listen first"
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            "id": "name_hurt",
            "text": "Name the hurt"
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          {
            "id": "apologize",
            "text": "Apologize"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_what_helps",
            "text": "Ask what helps"
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            "id": "go_gently",
            "text": "Go gently"
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        ],
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_201",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us stay on the same team?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "use_we",
            "text": "Use we"
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            "id": "drop_winning",
            "text": "Drop winning"
          },
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            "id": "name_goal",
            "text": "Name the goal"
          },
          {
            "id": "soften_tone",
            "text": "Soften tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "remember_love",
            "text": "Remember love"
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        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_202",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes feedback easier during repair?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "specific",
            "text": "Specific"
          },
          {
            "id": "gentle",
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          {
            "id": "one_thing",
            "text": "One thing"
          },
          {
            "id": "good_timing",
            "text": "Good timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "praise_too",
            "text": "Praise too"
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        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_203",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us end a hard talk well?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "ending",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "summary",
            "text": "Summarize"
          },
          {
            "id": "next_step",
            "text": "Next step"
          },
          {
            "id": "thank_you",
            "text": "Thank you"
          },
          {
            "id": "hug_if_wanted",
            "text": "Hug if wanted"
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          {
            "id": "quiet_reset",
            "text": "Quiet reset"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_204",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should we repair privately?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "hurt_feelings",
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            "id": "money",
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          {
            "id": "family",
            "text": "Family"
          },
          {
            "id": "intimacy",
            "text": "Intimacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "old_patterns",
            "text": "Old patterns"
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        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_205",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes forgiveness easier over time?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "forgiveness",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "changed_action",
            "text": "Changed action"
          },
          {
            "id": "patience",
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          },
          {
            "id": "no_rushing",
            "text": "No rushing"
          },
          {
            "id": "understanding",
            "text": "Understanding"
          },
          {
            "id": "honesty",
            "text": "Honesty"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_206",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us clear up a misunderstanding?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "misunderstanding",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "clarify",
            "text": "Clarify"
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            "id": "ask_again",
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          {
            "id": "laugh_gently",
            "text": "Laugh gently"
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          {
            "id": "apologize",
            "text": "Apologize"
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          {
            "id": "try_again",
            "text": "Try again"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_207",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps when one of us shuts down?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "shutdown",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "space",
            "text": "Space"
          },
          {
            "id": "gentle_check",
            "text": "Gentle check-in"
          },
          {
            "id": "less_pressure",
            "text": "Less pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "return_time",
            "text": "Return time"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_208",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps when one of us pushes too hard?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pressure",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "name_it",
            "text": "Name it"
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          {
            "id": "slow_down",
            "text": "Slow down"
          },
          {
            "id": "take_break",
            "text": "Take a break"
          },
          {
            "id": "soften_words",
            "text": "Soften words"
          },
          {
            "id": "remember_team",
            "text": "Remember team"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_209",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps repair feel loving?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "love",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "softness",
            "text": "Softness"
          },
          {
            "id": "patience",
            "text": "Patience"
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          {
            "id": "accountability",
            "text": "Accountability"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          },
          {
            "id": "gentle_touch",
            "text": "Gentle touch"
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        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_210",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us do better next time?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "future",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "clear_plan",
            "text": "Clear plan"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_change",
            "text": "One change"
          },
          {
            "id": "notice_early",
            "text": "Notice early"
          },
          {
            "id": "practice_phrase",
            "text": "Practice phrase"
          },
          {
            "id": "check_in_later",
            "text": "Check in later"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_211",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How safe does repair feel between us lately?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "safety",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not safe",
        "max_label": "Very safe"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_212",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to apologize honestly?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "apology",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Hard",
        "max_label": "Easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_213",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to pause before things get worse?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Hard",
        "max_label": "Easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_214",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How heard do you feel during repair?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "listening",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not heard",
        "max_label": "Very heard"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_215",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How quickly do we usually come back together?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "return",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Slowly",
        "max_label": "Quickly"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_216",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much does tone affect conflict for you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "tone",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_217",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much would one repair habit help us this week?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "weekly",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_218",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How safe does it feel to name hurt feelings?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hurt",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not safe",
        "max_label": "Very safe"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_219",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much defensiveness shows up between us?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "defensiveness",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_220",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we handle old patterns?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "patterns",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Needs work",
        "max_label": "Very well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_221",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much trust do you feel after conflict?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "trust",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Low",
        "max_label": "High"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_222",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do timeouts work for us?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "timeout",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not well",
        "max_label": "Very well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_223",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to forgive after repair?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "forgiveness",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Hard",
        "max_label": "Easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_224",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much do we stay on the same team during conflict?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_225",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you asking for a restart?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "restart",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not comfortable",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_226",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we avoid bringing up old pain unfairly?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "past",
        "conflict_repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Needs work",
        "max_label": "Very well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_227",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much would a gentler repair style help us?",
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        "conflict_repair"
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        "min": 1,
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      "id": "conflict_repair_228",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How safe does it feel to give feedback?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not safe",
        "max_label": "Very safe"
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_229",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How safe does it feel to receive feedback?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not safe",
        "max_label": "Very safe"
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_230",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we end hard talks?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "ending",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Needs work",
        "max_label": "Very well"
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_231",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How close do you feel after we repair well?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "closeness",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not close",
        "max_label": "Very close"
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_232",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How hopeful do you feel about our repair skills?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hope",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not hopeful",
        "max_label": "Very hopeful"
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_233",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How often do we repair before resentment builds?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "resentment",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Rarely",
        "max_label": "Often"
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    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_234",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much does privacy help us repair?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_235",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much would a regular conflict check-in help us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "check_in",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_236",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Pause now or talk softly?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "pause_now",
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            "id": "talk_softly",
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_237",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Apology first or hug first?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "apology_first",
            "text": "Apology first"
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            "id": "hug_first",
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_238",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Space alone or quiet together?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "space",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "space_alone",
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          {
            "id": "quiet_together",
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_239",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Own your part or ask one question?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "accountability",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "own_part",
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          {
            "id": "ask_question",
            "text": "Ask one question"
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_240",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Repair tonight or schedule tomorrow?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "repair_tonight",
            "text": "Repair tonight"
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          {
            "id": "schedule_tomorrow",
            "text": "Schedule tomorrow"
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_241",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Soft words or clear plan?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "soft_words",
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          {
            "id": "clear_plan",
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_242",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Forgiveness or accountability first?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "forgiveness",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
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            "id": "forgiveness",
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            "id": "accountability",
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_243",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Talk it out or write it first?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "talk_it_out",
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          {
            "id": "write_it_first",
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_244",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "One issue or bigger pattern?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "patterns",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "one_issue",
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            "id": "bigger_pattern",
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_245",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Comfort touch or no touch yet?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "affection",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
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            "id": "comfort_touch",
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            "id": "no_touch_yet",
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_246",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Name the hurt or name the need?",
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      "access": "premium",
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        "hurt",
        "conflict_repair"
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        "options": [
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            "id": "name_hurt",
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            "id": "name_need",
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_247",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Reset with humor or reset with quiet?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reset",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
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            "id": "humor",
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            "id": "quiet",
            "text": "Quiet"
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_248",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Fix now or understand first?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "understanding",
        "conflict_repair"
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      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
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            "id": "fix_now",
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          {
            "id": "understand_first",
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    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_249",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Gentle reminder or direct boundary?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "conflict_repair"
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            "id": "gentle_reminder",
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            "id": "direct_boundary",
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    {
      "id": "conflict_repair_250",
      "category_id": "conflict_repair",
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      "text": "Fresh start or deeper repair?",
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            "id": "fresh_start",
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            "id": "deeper_repair",
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}