Closer/seed/questions/difficult_conversations.json

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    "id": "difficult_conversations",
    "display_name": "Difficult Conversations",
    "description": "Warm, Closer-style questions that help couples bring up hard topics with softness, timing, teamwork, reassurance, tiny rituals, try-again phrases, cozy resets, and playful tools where they fit.",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_001",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make a hard conversation feel more like a team huddle?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "soft_start",
        "safety",
        "difficult_conversations",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_002",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of timing makes a serious talk easier for you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "difficult_conversations"
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        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_003",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of setting makes a hard talk feel less dramatic?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "setting",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
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        "max_length": 500
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_004",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one phrase that helps you soften during tension?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "phrases",
        "softness",
        "difficult_conversations"
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_005",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one phrase that helps us try again instead of spiraling?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "restart",
        "phrases",
        "difficult_conversations"
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_006",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you know I am bringing something up because I care?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "care",
        "intentions",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_007",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you bring up a hard thing and still feel lovable?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "courage",
        "no_blame",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_008",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps a hard topic feel like information, not an attack?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "listening",
        "safety",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_009",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes a serious talk feel like us against the problem?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_010",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one hard topic we could make less dramatic?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "lightness",
        "fun_first",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_011",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What could help us keep one hard talk from taking over the whole night?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "focus",
        "boundaries",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_012",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is a softer way to say, 'I need a minute, but I am coming back'?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "reassurance",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_013",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you come back after a pause?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "return",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_014",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes honesty feel like a hand squeeze instead of a poke?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "honesty",
        "gentleness",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_015",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you say something real and still feel close to me?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "truth",
        "closeness",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_016",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you stay soft when I am nervous to talk?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "nervous",
        "support",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_017",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps me stay soft when you are nervous to talk?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "nervous",
        "support",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_018",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of reassurance helps before a hard conversation starts?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "reassurance",
        "beginning",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_019",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of reassurance helps after a hard conversation ends?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "reassurance",
        "ending",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_020",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps us end a hard talk with warmth?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "ending",
        "warmth",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_021",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make a hard talk feel more like a team huddle?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "fun_first",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_022",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one tiny ritual that could help before a serious talk?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "fun_first",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_023",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one tiny ritual that could help after a serious talk?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "comfort",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_024",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel safe asking for what you need?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "needs",
        "safety",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_025",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you hear what I need without taking it as criticism?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "needs",
        "listening",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_026",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps hurt feelings come out small instead of exploding later?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hurt",
        "gentleness",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_027",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps disappointment sound like a wish instead of an accusation?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "disappointment",
        "no_blame",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_028",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What expectation should we talk about before it turns into side-eye?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "expectations",
        "prevention",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_029",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps change feel like a new chapter instead of a warning sign?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "change",
        "security",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_030",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps us talk about future plans without pressure?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "future",
        "pressure",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_031",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps us talk about money without shame?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "no_shame",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_032",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps us talk about family pressure without turning on each other?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "family",
        "teamwork",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_033",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps us talk about intimacy without awkwardness taking over?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "intimacy",
        "safety",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_034",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps us talk about boundaries without making them feel like rejection?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "reassurance",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_035",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make a trust talk feel steady instead of heavy?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "trust",
        "warmth",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_036",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps us talk when one of us is tired?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "tired",
        "timing",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_037",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps us switch from overwhelm mode into team mode?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "overwhelmed",
        "support",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_038",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps us laugh at ourselves a little when we both feel right?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "conflict",
        "humility",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_039",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What code word could tell us, 'This is getting pointy'?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "tone",
        "awareness",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_040",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What playful signal could mean, 'Let's slow this down'?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "fun_first",
        "difficult_conversations"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_041",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What try-again phrase could replace, 'You always'?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "phrases",
        "no_blame",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_042",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What try-again phrase could replace, 'You never'?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "phrases",
        "no_blame",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_043",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you believe a hard talk can bring us closer?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hope",
        "closeness",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_044",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one hard conversation we handled better than we used to?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "progress",
        "gratitude",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_045",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make our next hard conversation feel kinder?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "kindness",
        "next_step",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_046",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make a money-stress talk feel more like a calm planning huddle?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "stress",
        "softness",
        "safety",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_047",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How could we bring up money stress in a way that still feels like us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "stress",
        "identity",
        "closeness",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_048",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps money stress feel like a shared problem, not a personal attack?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "stress",
        "teamwork",
        "no_blame",
        "difficult_conversations"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_049",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make money stress easier to talk about before it gets huge?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "stress",
        "prevention",
        "ease",
        "difficult_conversations"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_050",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What do you need from me when we talk about money stress?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "stress",
        "needs",
        "support",
        "difficult_conversations"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_051",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What little warmth could we keep in the room during money stress talks?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "stress",
        "warmth",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_052",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What tiny next step would help us handle money stress better?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "stress",
        "small_steps",
        "difficult_conversations"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_053",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make a family-pressure talk feel more like protecting our little team?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_155",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of reassurance helps most before a hard talk?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "reassurance",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "i_love_you",
            "text": "I love you"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_are_okay",
            "text": "We are okay"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_am_listening",
            "text": "I am listening"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_can_go_slow",
            "text": "We can go slow"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_156",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a hard talk feel less heavy?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "fun_first",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "snacks",
            "text": "Snacks"
          },
          {
            "id": "short_timer",
            "text": "Short timer"
          },
          {
            "id": "soft_blanket",
            "text": "Soft blanket"
          },
          {
            "id": "little_joke",
            "text": "Little joke"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_157",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you bring up something hard?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "courage",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "good_timing",
            "text": "Good timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "kind_words",
            "text": "Kind words"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_158",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you hear something hard?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "listening",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "soft_start",
            "text": "Soft start"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_labels",
            "text": "No labels"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_topic",
            "text": "One topic"
          },
          {
            "id": "care_after",
            "text": "Care after"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_159",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes honesty feel kind?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "honesty",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "gentle_tone",
            "text": "Gentle tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "right_timing",
            "text": "Right timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "clear_words",
            "text": "Clear words"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_160",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should we protect during hard talks?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "protection",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "kindness",
            "text": "Kindness"
          },
          {
            "id": "respect",
            "text": "Respect"
          },
          {
            "id": "trust",
            "text": "Trust"
          },
          {
            "id": "soft_feelings",
            "text": "Soft feelings"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_161",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps when one of us gets overwhelmed?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "overwhelmed",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "pause",
            "text": "Pause"
          },
          {
            "id": "lower_tone",
            "text": "Lower tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassure",
            "text": "Reassure"
          },
          {
            "id": "simplify",
            "text": "Simplify"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_162",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps when we misunderstand each other?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "misunderstanding",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "ask_again",
            "text": "Ask again"
          },
          {
            "id": "repeat_back",
            "text": "Repeat back"
          },
          {
            "id": "slow_down",
            "text": "Slow down"
          },
          {
            "id": "assume_good_intent",
            "text": "Assume good intent"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_163",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a hard talk worth having?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "meaning",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "more_closeness",
            "text": "More closeness"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_clarity",
            "text": "More clarity"
          },
          {
            "id": "less_resentment",
            "text": "Less resentment"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_real_plan",
            "text": "A real plan"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_164",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us end warmly?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "ending",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "thank_you",
            "text": "Thank you"
          },
          {
            "id": "hug_if_wanted",
            "text": "Hug if wanted"
          },
          {
            "id": "sweet_words",
            "text": "Sweet words"
          },
          {
            "id": "next_step",
            "text": "Next step"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_165",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What playful signal could help us slow down?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "fun_first",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "code_word",
            "text": "Code word"
          },
          {
            "id": "hand_squeeze",
            "text": "Hand squeeze"
          },
          {
            "id": "time_out_sign",
            "text": "Time-out sign"
          },
          {
            "id": "silly_phrase",
            "text": "Silly phrase"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_166",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which topic needs the softest start?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "topics",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "money",
            "text": "Money"
          },
          {
            "id": "family",
            "text": "Family"
          },
          {
            "id": "intimacy",
            "text": "Intimacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "trust",
            "text": "Trust"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_167",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which hard-talk skill needs the most practice?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "skills",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "timing",
            "text": "Timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "tone",
            "text": "Tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "listening",
            "text": "Listening"
          },
          {
            "id": "staying_focused",
            "text": "Staying focused"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_168",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What usually makes a serious talk go from huddle to hurricane?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "awareness",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "bad_timing",
            "text": "Bad timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "sharp_tone",
            "text": "Sharp tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "too_many_topics",
            "text": "Too many topics"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_accused",
            "text": "Feeling accused"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_169",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us keep one topic from becoming ten?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "focus",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "write_it_down",
            "text": "Write it down"
          },
          {
            "id": "pick_one",
            "text": "Pick one"
          },
          {
            "id": "save_the_rest",
            "text": "Save the rest"
          },
          {
            "id": "take_turns",
            "text": "Take turns"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_170",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps if one of us hears criticism when the other meant care?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "criticism",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "rephrase",
            "text": "Rephrase"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassure",
            "text": "Reassure"
          },
          {
            "id": "pause",
            "text": "Pause"
          },
          {
            "id": "name_the_need",
            "text": "Name the need"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_171",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps if one of us puts on emotional armor?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "defensiveness",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "slow_down",
            "text": "Slow down"
          },
          {
            "id": "own_one_part",
            "text": "Own one part"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_a_question",
            "text": "Ask a question"
          },
          {
            "id": "remember_the_goal",
            "text": "Remember the goal"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_172",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps if one of us goes quiet and needs a safe way back?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "shutdown",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "gentle_check_in",
            "text": "Gentle check-in"
          },
          {
            "id": "space",
            "text": "Space"
          },
          {
            "id": "return_time",
            "text": "Return time"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_pressure",
            "text": "No pressure"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_173",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps if the conversation gets a little too spicy?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "intensity",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "pause",
            "text": "Pause"
          },
          {
            "id": "softer_voice",
            "text": "Softer voice"
          },
          {
            "id": "shorter_sentences",
            "text": "Shorter sentences"
          },
          {
            "id": "try_again",
            "text": "Try again"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_174",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us talk about money gently?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "facts_first",
            "text": "Facts first"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_shame",
            "text": "No shame"
          },
          {
            "id": "shared_goal",
            "text": "Shared goal"
          },
          {
            "id": "short_talk",
            "text": "Short talk"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_175",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us talk about family pressure gently?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "family",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "private_first",
            "text": "Private first"
          },
          {
            "id": "choose_us",
            "text": "Choose us"
          },
          {
            "id": "clear_boundary",
            "text": "Clear boundary"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_piling_on",
            "text": "No piling on"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_176",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us talk about intimacy gently?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "intimacy",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_pressure",
            "text": "No pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "soft_words",
            "text": "Soft words"
          },
          {
            "id": "easy_pause",
            "text": "Easy pause"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_177",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us talk about trust gently?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "trust",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          },
          {
            "id": "patience",
            "text": "Patience"
          },
          {
            "id": "specific_words",
            "text": "Specific words"
          },
          {
            "id": "care_after",
            "text": "Care after"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_178",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us talk about boundaries gently?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "clear_need",
            "text": "Clear need"
          },
          {
            "id": "love_first",
            "text": "Love first"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_threats",
            "text": "No threats"
          },
          {
            "id": "revisit_later",
            "text": "Revisit later"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_179",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us talk about expectations gently?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "expectations",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "name_the_hope",
            "text": "Name the hope"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_first",
            "text": "Ask first"
          },
          {
            "id": "keep_it_real",
            "text": "Keep it real"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_mind_reading",
            "text": "No mind-reading"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_180",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us talk about future plans gently?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "future",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "dream_first",
            "text": "Dream first"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_pressure",
            "text": "No pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "small_step",
            "text": "Small step"
          },
          {
            "id": "shared_why",
            "text": "Shared why"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_181",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a hard conversation feel more like a team huddle?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "fun_first",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "same_side_language",
            "text": "Same side language"
          },
          {
            "id": "snacks",
            "text": "Snacks"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_goal",
            "text": "One goal"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_tiny_plan",
            "text": "A tiny plan"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_182",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a hard conversation feel too much like a meeting?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "therapy_risk",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "too_many_rules",
            "text": "Too many rules"
          },
          {
            "id": "long_speeches",
            "text": "Long speeches"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_warmth",
            "text": "No warmth"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_humor",
            "text": "No humor"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_183",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us keep warmth in the room?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "warmth",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "soft_tone",
            "text": "Soft tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "eye_contact",
            "text": "Eye contact"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          },
          {
            "id": "little_touch",
            "text": "Little touch"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_184",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us make space for both sides?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "fairness",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "take_turns",
            "text": "Take turns"
          },
          {
            "id": "repeat_back",
            "text": "Repeat back"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_questions",
            "text": "Ask questions"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_interrupting",
            "text": "No interrupting"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_185",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us say the brave thing?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "courage",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "kind_start",
            "text": "Kind start"
          },
          {
            "id": "slow_pace",
            "text": "Slow pace"
          },
          {
            "id": "trust",
            "text": "Trust"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_186",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us hear the brave thing?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "listening",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "stay_soft",
            "text": "Stay soft"
          },
          {
            "id": "thank_them",
            "text": "Thank them"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_gently",
            "text": "Ask gently"
          },
          {
            "id": "pause_before_reacting",
            "text": "Pause before reacting"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
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      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of follow-up helps after a hard talk?",
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        "follow_up",
        "difficult_conversations"
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "sweet_text",
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          {
            "id": "tiny_action",
            "text": "Tiny action"
          },
          {
            "id": "another_check_in",
            "text": "Another check-in"
          },
          {
            "id": "thank_you",
            "text": "Thank you"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_188",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us put the hard talk down before bedtime?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "ending",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "clear_stopping_point",
            "text": "Clear stopping point"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          },
          {
            "id": "cozy_reset",
            "text": "Cozy reset"
          },
          {
            "id": "plan_tomorrow",
            "text": "Plan tomorrow"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_189",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us celebrate progress after a hard talk?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "celebration",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "say_thank_you",
            "text": "Say thank you"
          },
          {
            "id": "notice_growth",
            "text": "Notice growth"
          },
          {
            "id": "small_treat",
            "text": "Small treat"
          },
          {
            "id": "relax_together",
            "text": "Relax together"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_190",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What would make hard talks easier next month?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "monthly",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "better_timing",
            "text": "Better timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "softer_starts",
            "text": "Softer starts"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_pauses",
            "text": "More pauses"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_warmth",
            "text": "More warmth"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_191",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps hard conversations feel safer?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "safety",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "good_timing",
            "text": "Good timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "soft_tone",
            "text": "Soft tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_blame",
            "text": "No blame"
          },
          {
            "id": "breaks_allowed",
            "text": "Breaks allowed"
          },
          {
            "id": "care_after",
            "text": "Care after"
          }
        ],
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_192",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us keep warmth during a serious talk?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "warmth",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          },
          {
            "id": "eye_contact",
            "text": "Eye contact"
          },
          {
            "id": "kind_words",
            "text": "Kind words"
          },
          {
            "id": "gentle_humor",
            "text": "Gentle humor"
          },
          {
            "id": "small_touch",
            "text": "Small touch"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_193",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes a hard talk easier to start?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "beginning",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_topic",
            "text": "One topic"
          },
          {
            "id": "soft_start",
            "text": "Soft start"
          },
          {
            "id": "clear_reason",
            "text": "Clear reason"
          },
          {
            "id": "love_first",
            "text": "Love first"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_194",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us repair if the talk gets tense?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "pause",
            "text": "Pause"
          },
          {
            "id": "try_again",
            "text": "Try again"
          },
          {
            "id": "apologize_quickly",
            "text": "Apologize quickly"
          },
          {
            "id": "use_softer_words",
            "text": "Use softer words"
          },
          {
            "id": "name_the_goal",
            "text": "Name the goal"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_195",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes difficult conversations feel more Closer-style?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "fun_first",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "small_rituals",
            "text": "Small rituals"
          },
          {
            "id": "gentle_wording",
            "text": "Gentle wording"
          },
          {
            "id": "team_language",
            "text": "Team language"
          },
          {
            "id": "tiny_signals",
            "text": "Tiny signals"
          },
          {
            "id": "warm_ending",
            "text": "Warm ending"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_196",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What topics need extra gentleness?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "topics",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "money",
            "text": "Money"
          },
          {
            "id": "family",
            "text": "Family"
          },
          {
            "id": "trust",
            "text": "Trust"
          },
          {
            "id": "intimacy",
            "text": "Intimacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "future_plans",
            "text": "Future plans"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_197",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps when emotional armor shows up?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "defensiveness",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "slow_down",
            "text": "Slow down"
          },
          {
            "id": "own_one_part",
            "text": "Own one part"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_a_question",
            "text": "Ask a question"
          },
          {
            "id": "use_we",
            "text": "Use we"
          },
          {
            "id": "take_a_breath",
            "text": "Take a breath"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_198",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps when quiet mode takes over?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "shutdown",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "gentle_check_in",
            "text": "Gentle check-in"
          },
          {
            "id": "space",
            "text": "Space"
          },
          {
            "id": "return_time",
            "text": "Return time"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_pressure",
            "text": "No pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_199",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps when emotions get louder than the words?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "emotions",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "pause",
            "text": "Pause"
          },
          {
            "id": "name_the_feeling",
            "text": "Name the feeling"
          },
          {
            "id": "lower_tone",
            "text": "Lower tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "use_short_sentences",
            "text": "Use short sentences"
          },
          {
            "id": "comfort_first",
            "text": "Comfort first"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_200",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us keep the hard-talk tabs from multiplying?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "focus",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "write_extras_down",
            "text": "Write extras down"
          },
          {
            "id": "pick_one",
            "text": "Pick one"
          },
          {
            "id": "take_turns",
            "text": "Take turns"
          },
          {
            "id": "set_a_timer",
            "text": "Set a timer"
          },
          {
            "id": "return_later",
            "text": "Return later"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_201",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us talk about hurt feelings?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hurt",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "soft_start",
            "text": "Soft start"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_labels",
            "text": "No labels"
          },
          {
            "id": "name_the_moment",
            "text": "Name the moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_for_care",
            "text": "Ask for care"
          },
          {
            "id": "listen_back",
            "text": "Listen back"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_202",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us talk about expectations?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "expectations",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "name_the_hope",
            "text": "Name the hope"
          },
          {
            "id": "say_what_changed",
            "text": "Say what changed"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_clearly",
            "text": "Ask clearly"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_guessing",
            "text": "No guessing"
          },
          {
            "id": "make_one_agreement",
            "text": "Make one agreement"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_203",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us talk about boundaries?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "love_first",
            "text": "Love first"
          },
          {
            "id": "clear_words",
            "text": "Clear words"
          },
          {
            "id": "respect",
            "text": "Respect"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_threats",
            "text": "No threats"
          },
          {
            "id": "revisit_later",
            "text": "Revisit later"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_204",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us talk about trust?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "trust",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "patience",
            "text": "Patience"
          },
          {
            "id": "specific_words",
            "text": "Specific words"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_interrogation",
            "text": "No interrogation"
          },
          {
            "id": "care_after",
            "text": "Care after"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_205",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us talk about intimacy?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "intimacy",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_pressure",
            "text": "No pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "gentle_words",
            "text": "Gentle words"
          },
          {
            "id": "easy_pause",
            "text": "Easy pause"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_206",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us talk about money?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "no_shame",
            "text": "No shame"
          },
          {
            "id": "facts_first",
            "text": "Facts first"
          },
          {
            "id": "shared_goal",
            "text": "Shared goal"
          },
          {
            "id": "short_talk",
            "text": "Short talk"
          },
          {
            "id": "tiny_next_step",
            "text": "Tiny next step"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_207",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us talk about family pressure?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "family",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "choose_us",
            "text": "Choose us"
          },
          {
            "id": "private_first",
            "text": "Private first"
          },
          {
            "id": "shared_boundary",
            "text": "Shared boundary"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_blame",
            "text": "No blame"
          },
          {
            "id": "kind_script",
            "text": "Kind script"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_208",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us leave the talk lighter than we entered it?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "ending",
        "difficult_conversations",
        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "warm_words",
            "text": "Warm words"
          },
          {
            "id": "clear_next_step",
            "text": "Clear next step"
          },
          {
            "id": "cozy_reset",
            "text": "Cozy reset"
          },
          {
            "id": "thank_you",
            "text": "Thank you"
          },
          {
            "id": "pause_the_topic",
            "text": "Pause the topic"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_209",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps after a hard talk?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "sweet_text",
            "text": "Sweet text"
          },
          {
            "id": "gentle_hug",
            "text": "Gentle hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "quiet_time",
            "text": "Quiet time"
          },
          {
            "id": "small_action",
            "text": "Small action"
          },
          {
            "id": "check_back_later",
            "text": "Check back later"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_210",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What playful tools could help hard talks feel lighter?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "fun_first",
        "tools",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "code_word",
            "text": "Code word"
          },
          {
            "id": "snack_rule",
            "text": "Snack rule"
          },
          {
            "id": "hand_squeeze",
            "text": "Hand squeeze"
          },
          {
            "id": "try_again_phrase",
            "text": "Try-again phrase"
          },
          {
            "id": "tiny_timer",
            "text": "Tiny timer"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_211",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How safe do hard conversations feel between us?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "safety",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not safe",
        "max_label": "Very safe"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_212",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to start a serious talk?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "beginning",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Hard",
        "max_label": "Easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_213",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we keep warmth in hard talks?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "warmth",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Needs work",
        "max_label": "Very well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_214",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How helpful would a playful slow-down signal be?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "fun_first",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not helpful",
        "max_label": "Very helpful"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_215",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we come back after a pause?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "difficult_conversations"
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        "hurt",
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        "money",
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        "min": 1,
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        "family",
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
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        "max_label": "Very safe"
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      "text": "How safe does it feel to talk about intimacy?",
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        "intimacy",
        "difficult_conversations"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
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        "max_label": "Very safe"
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      "text": "How safe does it feel to talk about trust?",
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      "tags": [
        "trust",
        "difficult_conversations"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not safe",
        "max_label": "Very safe"
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_223",
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      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we keep one topic from turning into a group project?",
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      "tags": [
        "focus",
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        "closer_style",
        "fun_first",
        "warm"
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        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Needs work",
        "max_label": "Very well"
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    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_224",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much does timing affect hard talks?",
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      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "difficult_conversations"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
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        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
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      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much does tone affect hard talks?",
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      "tags": [
        "tone",
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
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        "max_label": "A lot"
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    },
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_226",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you asking for a pause?",
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      "tags": [
        "pause",
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not comfortable",
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    },
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_227",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we repair if a hard talk goes sideways?",
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      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "difficult_conversations"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Needs work",
        "max_label": "Very well"
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_228",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much do hard talks bring us closer afterward?",
      "depth": 4,
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      "tags": [
        "closeness",
        "difficult_conversations"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
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    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_229",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to say the brave thing?",
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      "tags": [
        "courage",
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
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      "text": "How easy is it to hear the brave thing?",
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      "tags": [
        "listening",
        "difficult_conversations"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
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        "min_label": "Hard",
        "max_label": "Easy"
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    },
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_231",
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      "text": "How well do we end hard talks warmly?",
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      "tags": [
        "ending",
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Needs work",
        "max_label": "Very well"
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_232",
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      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much do we need a tiny ritual before hard talks?",
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        "min": 1,
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        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_233",
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      "text": "How much do we need a cozy reset after hard talks?",
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      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "difficult_conversations"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
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    },
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_234",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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      "text": "How often do guesses sneak into hard talks?",
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      "tags": [
        "assumptions",
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
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        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
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      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How possible does it feel to make serious talks feel more like us?",
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      "tags": [
        "identity",
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
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        "min_label": "Not possible",
        "max_label": "Very possible"
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    },
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_236",
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      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Soft start or tiny ritual?",
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      "tags": [
        "beginning",
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        "options": [
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            "id": "soft_start",
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            "id": "tiny_ritual",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_237",
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      "text": "Talk now or schedule it?",
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        "timing",
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            "id": "talk_now",
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            "id": "schedule_it",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_238",
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      "text": "Pause gently or try again softer?",
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        "pause",
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            "id": "pause_gently",
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            "id": "try_again",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_239",
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      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Love first or facts first?",
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      "tags": [
        "soft_start",
        "difficult_conversations"
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            "id": "love_first",
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            "id": "facts_first",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_240",
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      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Short talk or deep talk?",
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        "depth",
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            "id": "short_talk",
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            "id": "deep_talk",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_241",
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        "support",
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            "id": "comfort_first",
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            "id": "clarity_first",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_242",
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      "text": "Hold hands or take space?",
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        "comfort",
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            "id": "hold_hands",
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            "id": "take_space",
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            "id": "one_timer",
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      "text": "Gentle question or clear request?",
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            "id": "hand_squeeze",
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      "text": "Cozy reset or quick follow-up?",
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        "aftercare",
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            "id": "cozy_reset",
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