Closer/seed/questions/physical_intimacy.json

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    "id": "physical_intimacy",
    "display_name": "Physical Intimacy",
    "description": "Warm, playful, consent-first questions about everyday affection, hugs, kissing, cuddling, touch comfort, sensory preferences, physical boundaries, and nonsexual closeness.",
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        "scale": 25,
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        "4": 64,
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      "review_policy": "Ten 15-question written batches, then guided-choice batches of 20 or fewer, with cumulative repetition, option-fit, consent, and related-pack checks.",
      "mass_rewrite_exception": "Applied because repeated written stems, mirrored touch scenarios, body-language assumptions, and neighboring paraphrases affected more than 60% of the source experience.",
      "related_pack_boundary": "Owns nonsexual affection, touch comfort, cuddling, kissing, sensory preferences, physical accessibility, and everyday physical boundaries. Desire dynamics belong in sex_and_desire; specific sexual activities belong in sexual_preferences; broad sexual intimacy and aftercare belong in couple_intimacy.",
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      "id": "physical_intimacy_001",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Think of a spontaneous hug from me that you still remember. What made it land so well?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "memories",
        "physical_intimacy"
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      "id": "physical_intimacy_002",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which tiny touch from me says “I’m here” better than words, and why?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "everyday_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
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    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_003",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Where were we the last time holding hands made an ordinary moment feel special?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "memories",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_004",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Tell me about a time my affection made a rough day feel lighter.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_005",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which hello or goodbye ritual feels most like us, and what makes it matter?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_006",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What photo of us best captures the way we naturally fit together?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "memories",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_007",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When has simply sitting close to me mattered more than either of us said?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "quiet_closeness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_008",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is a time laughter turned a cuddle into one of your favorite moments?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "playful_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_009",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which affectionate habit from our early days is still worth keeping?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "relationship_history",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_010",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What small touch from me has felt unexpectedly romantic?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "romance",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_011",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When has being held by me helped you feel protected without feeling crowded?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_012",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What physical gesture do I do in a way that feels uniquely mine?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "couple_identity",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_013",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which affectionate moment during a busy day made you stop and notice us?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "daily_life",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_014",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Paint me a quick picture of the coziest scene that feels unmistakably like us.",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "cozy_closeness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_015",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "If you could replay one sweet physical moment between us, which would you choose?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "memories",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_016",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can I make a comfort hug feel different from a celebration hug?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hugs",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_017",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Imagine we have been apart all day. What would make our reunion feel especially warm?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "reunions",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_018",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What detail makes holding hands on a walk feel connected instead of automatic?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hand_holding",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_019",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How do you like me to reach for your hand when we are sitting together?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hand_holding",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_020",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes a goodbye kiss feel warm without making the goodbye harder?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "kissing",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_021",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Tell me about a quick kiss that made an ordinary moment unexpectedly sweet.",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "kissing",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_022",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does a forehead kiss mean to you when it comes from me?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "kissing",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_023",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How would you like a long hug to end so it never feels abrupt or awkward?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hugs",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_024",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of hug fits a moment when we are celebrating something together?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hugs",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_025",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "After a disappointment, what would help a hug feel comforting rather than overwhelming?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_026",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What secret hand squeeze or small signal could mean “I’ve got you”?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_027",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Where does an arm around you feel most natural—walking, sitting, or somewhere else?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "everyday_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_028",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What sitting position makes side-by-side closeness feel easiest for you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "closeness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_029",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When words are unnecessary, what greeting touch would you enjoy from me?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "greetings",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_030",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps public hand-holding feel easy instead of performative?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "public_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_031",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What morning affection ritual could make even a rushed day start sweeter?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "morning",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_032",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What bedtime touch ritual would feel comforting without getting in the way of sleep?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "bedtime",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_033",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How would you arrange our ideal couch cuddle so both of us stay comfortable?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "cuddling",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_034",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "While we cook together, what small affectionate moment would make the kitchen feel romantic?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "home",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_035",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of closeness feels natural during a long car ride when we are both relaxed?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "travel",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_036",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What passing-in-the-kitchen touch would make you smile without interrupting what you are doing?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "daily_life",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_037",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would a perfect ten-minute phone-free closeness break look like at home?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_038",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "On a rainy day, what kind of physical closeness sounds genuinely cozy to you?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "weather",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_039",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What cold-weather affection ritual would you happily repeat every winter?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "weather",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_040",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When it is too hot to cuddle, how could we still feel physically connected?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_041",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What sleepy form of affection feels good without asking you to fully wake up?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "sleep",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_042",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should I know about your touch preferences right after you wake up?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "morning",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_043",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How would you design a slow weekend morning that includes closeness but no pressure?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "weekends",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_044",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What after-work affection ritual would help you shift from busy mode to home mode?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "transitions",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_045",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What one-week affection experiment would be fun for us to try?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "playful_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_046",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What playful touch from me almost always gets a real smile out of you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "playful_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_047",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "If we danced without music for one minute, what would make it feel charming instead of awkward?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "play",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_048",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Invent a harmless affection challenge we could complete before bedtime.",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "play",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_049",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What private physical signal could we use to flirt across a crowded room?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_050",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which affectionate joke or bit between us deserves to become a recurring tradition?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "couple_identity",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_051",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What romantic touch feels meaningful even when there is no grand gesture around it?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "romance",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_052",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What spontaneous affectionate gesture would feel delightful when you are clearly open to it?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "spontaneity",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_053",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "During a slow dance, what small detail would make you feel closest to me?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "romance",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_054",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What movie-scene kind of affection could actually work in our real life?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "romance",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_055",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What planned affectionate surprise would feel playful while still giving you an easy choice?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_056",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What silly competition could have an affectionate prize that we would both enjoy?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "play",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
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    },
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      "id": "physical_intimacy_057",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of cheek, forehead, or hand kiss feels the most playful to you?",
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      "tags": [
        "kissing",
        "physical_intimacy"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_058",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "If we built a blanket fort tonight, what kind of closeness would fit the mood?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "cozy_closeness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_059",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What gentle hand movement—tracing, squeezing, or resting—feels especially affectionate?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hands",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_060",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which song brings back a physical memory of us, and what do you remember?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "memories",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_061",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What exact words would make asking you for a hug feel natural and welcome?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_062",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can I invite you closer while making it clear that either answer is completely okay?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_063",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What simple phrase should always mean “pause the touch” between us?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_064",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How would you like to say “not right now” so it feels clear and easy?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_065",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What response from me would make declining affection feel completely safe?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_066",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When I am unsure whether touch is welcome, what check-in would you prefer?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_067",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When you want company but not touch, where should I sit so it still feels companionable?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "low_touch_days",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_068",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How should I ask before showing affection in front of other people?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "public_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_069",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "If you change your mind during a cuddle, how can we make stopping feel ordinary?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_070",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What clear signal could tell me you are open to more nonsexual closeness?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_071",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can you tell me that affection is starting to feel like pressure?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pressure",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_072",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What reassurance helps you know a “not now” has not hurt our relationship?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reassurance",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_073",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Create a simple signal that could mean “please just hold me.”",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_074",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Create a different signal that could mean “I need some room.”",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_075",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which body areas or situations should always require asking before touch?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_076",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which detail—pressure, pace, or placement—changes a hug from okay to wonderful for you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sensory_preferences",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_077",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Do fabrics, blankets, or clothing ever change how cuddling feels? What should I know?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sensory_preferences",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_078",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How do heat and cold change whether you want a blanket, hand-holding, or more space?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_079",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When your body feels sore or tired, what touch is helpful and what should I skip?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "body_comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_080",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should I know before touching your hair or face affectionately?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_081",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which shoulder or back touches feel caring, and which ones distract or irritate you?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sensory_preferences",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_082",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make a hand massage feel relaxing rather than like another task?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "massage",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_083",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How should we handle ticklish spots so playful touch stays fun?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_084",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When you are focused on something, what affection feels welcome without breaking your concentration?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "daily_life",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_085",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "In a crowded place, what kind of contact helps you feel connected without feeling trapped?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "public_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_086",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When your senses feel overloaded, what should physical support from me look like?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sensory_needs",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_087",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps touch feel kind on a day when you feel self-conscious about your appearance?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "body_confidence",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_088",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Are there positions or movements that would make cuddling easier on your body?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "accessibility",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_089",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can we adjust closeness when one of us needs more room to get comfortable?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_090",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What difference in our personal-space needs would be useful for us to understand better?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "personal_space",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_091",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When stress is high, how can I find out whether touch would help before reaching for you?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_092",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When you are sad, what kind of physical comfort feels supportive without demanding a response?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sadness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_093",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When you are angry, what should happen before either of us tries to use touch to reconnect?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "conflict",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_094",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "On an exhausted day, what small affection feels caring instead of like one more demand?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "fatigue",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_095",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When you feel overwhelmed, what combination of space and closeness usually helps most?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "overwhelm",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_096",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How do you like us to celebrate good news physically—hug, dance, high-five, or something else?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "celebration",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_097",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When you are under the weather, what affectionate care feels comforting without crowding you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "care",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_098",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "After hard news, what would help me offer comfort without guessing what your body needs?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "support",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_099",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Once we are both ready after conflict, what physical gesture could gently reopen closeness?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_100",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "After returning from a trip, what first affectionate moment would make home feel like home again?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reconnection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_101",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When we are sitting in silence, what touch makes the quiet feel companionable?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "quiet_closeness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_102",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "If you need reassurance, what physical gesture from me feels believable rather than automatic?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reassurance",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_103",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When words are hard to find, what safe physical signal could say “I’m with you”?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_104",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can I offer touch as support without making it feel like I am trying to fix everything?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "support",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_105",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What affectionate reset could help us feel like a couple again after a hectic week?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reconnection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_106",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Picture a public place where affection feels comfortable. What makes that setting work for you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "public_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_107",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Where would you rather we avoid physical affection, even if it seems harmless to me?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_108",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Around family or friends, what level of physical closeness feels natural to you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "social_settings",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_109",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "At a party or work event, what affectionate signal could feel private even in a crowd?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_110",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "For a posed couple photo, what kind of physical closeness feels genuine rather than staged?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "photos",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_111",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "On a body-confidence day, what kind of affection helps without drawing attention to insecurity?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "body_confidence",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_112",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What combination of a kind word and gentle touch makes you feel genuinely appreciated?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "appreciation",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_113",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can I show physical affection without assuming how you feel about your body that day?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "body_confidence",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_114",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "If health, pain, or energy changes, how would you want us to adapt our affectionate habits?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "adaptability",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_115",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What home setup—seating, pillows, blankets, or lighting—helps physical closeness feel comfortable?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_116",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does holding hands in public communicate to you, if anything?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "public_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_117",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What private-at-home affection ritual would make our space feel more like ours?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "home",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_118",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When privacy is limited, what tiny gesture could still help us feel connected?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_119",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How should our greeting change when other people are around?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "social_settings",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_120",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "During travel, what kind of physical closeness helps you feel grounded in an unfamiliar place?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "travel",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_121",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which affectionate habit has faded over time, and what do you miss about it?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "relationship_history",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_122",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How have your touch preferences changed since the beginning of our relationship?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "change",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_123",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What life change has affected how you enjoy physical closeness most?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "change",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_124",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "After a disconnected stretch, what is the gentlest first step back toward affection?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reconnection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_125",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When a cuddle position stops working, how can we adjust without breaking the mood?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "awkwardness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_126",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What could rebuild easy affection after a season when we have both been busy?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reconnection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_127",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When affection starts feeling routine, what specific change could make it feel noticed again?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "routine",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_128",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What separates comforting touch from romantic touch for you?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "meaning",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_129",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When our touch preferences do not match, what helps the difference feel manageable?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatch",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_130",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "If one of us wants more closeness than the other, how can we protect both people from pressure?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatch",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_131",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What small, low-pressure affection experiment could teach us something useful about each other?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "experiments",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_132",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "After a sincere apology, what physical closeness—if any—helps repair feel complete?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_133",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "After disappointment between us, what needs to happen before affection feels natural again?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_134",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can we notice when an old touch preference no longer fits?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "change",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_135",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should we never assume about each other’s comfort with physical affection?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_136",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What physical ritual could become our signature as a couple?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "couple_identity",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_137",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What promise about respecting changing touch preferences would matter most to you?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "commitment",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_138",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How could we protect one small pocket of physical closeness each week?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "weekly_rituals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_139",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What affectionate travel ritual should follow us on every trip?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "travel",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_140",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What anniversary touch ritual would feel meaningful without becoming an obligation?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "anniversary",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_141",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "If we moved into a new home, what closeness ritual would make it feel like ours?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "home",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_142",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Picture us much older. What kind of everyday affection do you hope we still share?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "future",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_143",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "During a future stressful season, what touch agreement would help us stay gentle?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "future",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_144",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which private physical signal between us would you want to keep for years?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_145",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What affectionate tradition could belong only to us and still feel natural?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "couple_identity",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_146",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What affectionate habit would make hosting people feel warm without seeming performative?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "couple_identity",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_147",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What tiny affection could make errands or waiting in line feel more like shared time?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "habits",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_148",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Design our ideal ten-minute closeness break for an ordinary weeknight.",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_149",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What physical habit would our future selves thank us for protecting now?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "future",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_150",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make our physical affection feel unmistakably like our relationship—not anyone else’s?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "couple_identity",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_151",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "After a long day apart, which reunion sounds best?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "reunions",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_doorway_hug_before_talking",
            "text": "A doorway hug before talking"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_cheek_kiss_and_shared_smile",
            "text": "A cheek kiss and shared smile"
          },
          {
            "id": "hands_linked_while_we_catch_up",
            "text": "Hands linked while we catch up"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_minute_to_settle_then_closeness",
            "text": "A minute to settle, then closeness"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_152",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "For a movie night, where would you most enjoy sitting?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "cuddling",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "shoulder_to_shoulder_on_the_couch",
            "text": "Shoulder to shoulder on the couch"
          },
          {
            "id": "curled_together_under_one_blanket",
            "text": "Curled together under one blanket"
          },
          {
            "id": "feet_touching_from_opposite_ends",
            "text": "Feet touching from opposite ends"
          },
          {
            "id": "nearby_with_room_to_move",
            "text": "Nearby with room to move"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_153",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which hand-holding style feels most natural on a walk?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hand_holding",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "fingers_loosely_intertwined",
            "text": "Fingers loosely intertwined"
          },
          {
            "id": "palms_together_with_an_easy_grip",
            "text": "Palms together with an easy grip"
          },
          {
            "id": "linked_pinkies_for_something_light",
            "text": "Linked pinkies for something light"
          },
          {
            "id": "arms_linked_instead_of_hands",
            "text": "Arms linked instead of hands"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_154",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When would a long hug feel best?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hugs",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "right_after_we_reunite",
            "text": "Right after we reunite"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_one_of_us_needs_comfort",
            "text": "When one of us needs comfort"
          },
          {
            "id": "at_the_end_of_a_good_day",
            "text": "At the end of a good day"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_we_both_have_time_to_linger",
            "text": "When we both have time to linger"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_155",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which morning affection would start your day well?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "morning",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_gentle_forehead_kiss",
            "text": "A gentle forehead kiss"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_sleepy_full_body_stretch_together",
            "text": "A sleepy full-body stretch together"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_warm_hand_on_your_shoulder",
            "text": "A warm hand on your shoulder"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_cheerful_hug_after_getting_up",
            "text": "A cheerful hug after getting up"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_156",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which bedtime gesture feels most comforting?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "bedtime",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_slow_goodnight_kiss",
            "text": "A slow goodnight kiss"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_brief_back_rub_before_sleep",
            "text": "A brief back rub before sleep"
          },
          {
            "id": "holding_hands_until_we_relax",
            "text": "Holding hands until we relax"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_soft_squeeze_then_separate_space",
            "text": "A soft squeeze, then separate space"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_157",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What level of public affection feels easiest?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "public_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "hands_linked_while_walking",
            "text": "Hands linked while walking"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quick_hello_or_goodbye_kiss",
            "text": "A quick hello or goodbye kiss"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_arm_around_each_other_briefly",
            "text": "An arm around each other briefly"
          },
          {
            "id": "keeping_affection_private_in_public",
            "text": "Keeping affection private in public"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_158",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When you need comfort, which touch is most likely to help?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_steady_hug_with_no_talking",
            "text": "A steady hug with no talking"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_hand_resting_on_your_back",
            "text": "A hand resting on your back"
          },
          {
            "id": "your_hand_held_without_squeezing",
            "text": "Your hand held without squeezing"
          },
          {
            "id": "space_first_then_an_invitation",
            "text": "Space first, then an invitation"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_159",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "How should we celebrate a small win physically?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "celebration",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "one_dramatic_victory_hug",
            "text": "One dramatic victory hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_kitchen_dance_for_one_song",
            "text": "A kitchen dance for one song"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_enthusiastic_double_high_five",
            "text": "An enthusiastic double high-five"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_proud_kiss_on_the_cheek",
            "text": "A proud kiss on the cheek"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_160",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which playful affection sounds most like us?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "playful_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_surprise_spin_during_a_hug",
            "text": "A surprise spin during a hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_secret_hand_squeeze_code",
            "text": "A secret hand-squeeze code"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_ridiculous_slow_dance",
            "text": "A ridiculous slow dance"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_gentle_shoulder_bump_and_grin",
            "text": "A gentle shoulder bump and grin"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_161",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "At a crowded event, how should we stay connected?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "social_settings",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "brief_hand_contact_while_moving",
            "text": "Brief hand contact while moving"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_private_signal_across_the_room",
            "text": "A private signal across the room"
          },
          {
            "id": "standing_close_during_conversations",
            "text": "Standing close during conversations"
          },
          {
            "id": "checking_in_verbally_instead",
            "text": "Checking in verbally instead"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_162",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "During a quiet moment, which gesture feels most supportive?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "quiet_closeness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "resting_your_head_on_my_shoulder",
            "text": "Resting your head on my shoulder"
          },
          {
            "id": "my_hand_covering_yours",
            "text": "My hand covering yours"
          },
          {
            "id": "sitting_close_without_touching",
            "text": "Sitting close without touching"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_soft_hug_after_asking",
            "text": "A soft hug after asking"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_163",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which invitation to affection feels most natural?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "can_i_hold_you_for_a_minute",
            "text": "“Can I hold you for a minute?”"
          },
          {
            "id": "would_a_hug_feel_good",
            "text": "“Would a hug feel good?”"
          },
          {
            "id": "opening_my_arms_and_waiting",
            "text": "Opening my arms and waiting"
          },
          {
            "id": "offering_my_hand_without_assuming",
            "text": "Offering my hand without assuming"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_164",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should our clearest pause signal be?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "the_word_pause_said_plainly",
            "text": "The word “pause” said plainly"
          },
          {
            "id": "two_gentle_taps_on_my_arm",
            "text": "Two gentle taps on my arm"
          },
          {
            "id": "moving_apart_and_naming_it",
            "text": "Moving apart and naming it"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_hand_raised_between_us",
            "text": "A hand raised between us"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_165",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When you seem busy, how should I offer affection?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "ask_whether_now_is_a_good_time",
            "text": "Ask whether now is a good time"
          },
          {
            "id": "wait_for_a_natural_break",
            "text": "Wait for a natural break"
          },
          {
            "id": "offer_my_hand_without_interrupting",
            "text": "Offer my hand without interrupting"
          },
          {
            "id": "save_the_affection_for_later",
            "text": "Save the affection for later"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_166",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which nonsexual kiss feels sweetest to you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "kissing",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_forehead_kiss_before_leaving",
            "text": "A forehead kiss before leaving"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_cheek_kiss_in_passing",
            "text": "A cheek kiss in passing"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_hand_kiss_during_a_joke",
            "text": "A hand kiss during a joke"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_temple_kiss_while_resting",
            "text": "A temple kiss while resting"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_167",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "During a slow dance, where would you feel most comfortable?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "dance",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "hands_lightly_at_the_waist",
            "text": "Hands lightly at the waist"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_hand_held_between_us",
            "text": "One hand held between us"
          },
          {
            "id": "arms_around_each_others_shoulders",
            "text": "Arms around each other’s shoulders"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_little_space_with_gentle_contact",
            "text": "A little space with gentle contact"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_168",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which movie-night cuddle setup would actually last?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "cuddling",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "one_pillow_shared_between_us",
            "text": "One pillow shared between us"
          },
          {
            "id": "separate_pillows_under_one_blanket",
            "text": "Separate pillows under one blanket"
          },
          {
            "id": "your_legs_resting_across_mine",
            "text": "Your legs resting across mine"
          },
          {
            "id": "side_by_side_with_occasional_touch",
            "text": "Side by side with occasional touch"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_169",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "On a trip, which closeness would feel grounding?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "travel",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "holding_hands_in_a_new_place",
            "text": "Holding hands in a new place"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_hug_before_leaving_the_hotel",
            "text": "A hug before leaving the hotel"
          },
          {
            "id": "sitting_hip_to_hip_in_transit",
            "text": "Sitting hip to hip in transit"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_private_signal_when_overwhelmed",
            "text": "A private signal when overwhelmed"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_170",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When it is too warm to cuddle, what should replace it?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "weather",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "feet_touching_at_the_edge_of_bed",
            "text": "Feet touching at the edge of bed"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_cool_hand_held_briefly",
            "text": "A cool hand held briefly"
          },
          {
            "id": "sitting_close_with_separate_blankets",
            "text": "Sitting close with separate blankets"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quick_kiss_and_extra_space",
            "text": "A quick kiss and extra space"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_171",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which cold-weather affection sounds best?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "weather",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "warming_hands_inside_one_pair_of_pockets",
            "text": "Warming hands inside one pair of pockets"
          },
          {
            "id": "sharing_a_blanket_on_the_porch",
            "text": "Sharing a blanket on the porch"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_long_hug_before_going_outside",
            "text": "A long hug before going outside"
          },
          {
            "id": "leaning_together_over_hot_drinks",
            "text": "Leaning together over hot drinks"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_172",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "While cooking, which affectionate moment would you enjoy?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "home",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_quick_side_hug_after_asking",
            "text": "A quick side hug after asking"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_cheek_kiss_between_steps",
            "text": "A cheek kiss between steps"
          },
          {
            "id": "brief_hand_squeeze_while_passing_ingredients",
            "text": "A brief hand squeeze while passing ingredients"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_tiny_dance_during_the_timer",
            "text": "A tiny dance during the timer"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_173",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which in-passing gesture would brighten an ordinary day?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "daily_life",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_shoulder_squeeze_at_the_doorway",
            "text": "A shoulder squeeze at the doorway"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_hand_brushed_along_your_arm",
            "text": "A hand brushed along your arm"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quick_forehead_touch_and_smile",
            "text": "A quick forehead touch and smile"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_playful_kiss_blown_from_across_the_room",
            "text": "A playful kiss blown from across the room"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_174",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which first step helps you feel ready to consider closeness after conflict?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_clear_verbal_check_in",
            "text": "A clear verbal check-in"
          },
          {
            "id": "quiet_time_for_both_of_us_to_settle",
            "text": "Quiet time for both of us to settle"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_sincere_repair_conversation_first",
            "text": "A sincere repair conversation first"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_invitation_i_can_freely_decline",
            "text": "An invitation I can freely decline"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_175",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "On an insecure body day, what affection feels kindest?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "body_confidence",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "being_held_without_appearance_comments",
            "text": "Being held without appearance comments"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_gentle_hand_offered_to_yours",
            "text": "A gentle hand offered to yours"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_kiss_paired_with_kind_reassurance",
            "text": "A kiss paired with kind reassurance"
          },
          {
            "id": "closeness_that_lets_you_choose_distance",
            "text": "Closeness that lets you choose distance"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_176",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When your body is sore or tired, what support is most useful?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "body_comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_light_hand_massage",
            "text": "A light hand massage"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_carefully_placed_back_rub",
            "text": "A carefully placed back rub"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_still_hand_resting_nearby",
            "text": "A still hand resting nearby"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_touch_unless_you_request_it",
            "text": "No touch unless you request it"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_177",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "How much surprise do you enjoy in everyday affection?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "spontaneity",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "only_when_i_can_see_it_coming",
            "text": "Only when I can see it coming"
          },
          {
            "id": "small_surprises_in_relaxed_moments",
            "text": "Small surprises in relaxed moments"
          },
          {
            "id": "playful_surprises_with_an_easy_out",
            "text": "Playful surprises with an easy out"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_prefer_affection_to_be_announced",
            "text": "I prefer affection to be announced"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_178",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which hug length usually feels best?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hugs",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_quick_squeeze_and_release",
            "text": "A quick squeeze and release"
          },
          {
            "id": "long_enough_for_one_deep_breath",
            "text": "Long enough for one deep breath"
          },
          {
            "id": "several_breaths_without_rushing",
            "text": "Several breaths without rushing"
          },
          {
            "id": "different_every_time_ask_me",
            "text": "Different every time—ask me"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_179",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What hug pressure feels most comfortable?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sensory_preferences",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "light_contact_with_room_to_move",
            "text": "Light contact with room to move"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_warm_medium_squeeze",
            "text": "A warm medium squeeze"
          },
          {
            "id": "firm_pressure_when_i_invite_it",
            "text": "Firm pressure when I invite it"
          },
          {
            "id": "pressure_that_changes_with_my_cue",
            "text": "Pressure that changes with my cue"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_180",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which pace makes affectionate touch feel best?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sensory_preferences",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "brief_and_playful",
            "text": "Brief and playful"
          },
          {
            "id": "slow_and_predictable",
            "text": "Slow and predictable"
          },
          {
            "id": "still_and_steady",
            "text": "Still and steady"
          },
          {
            "id": "varied_after_a_quick_check_in",
            "text": "Varied after a quick check-in"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_181",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which way of initiating a hug feels easiest to you?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hugs",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_direct_can_i_hug_you",
            "text": "A direct “Can I hug you?”"
          },
          {
            "id": "opening_your_arms_and_waiting",
            "text": "Opening your arms and waiting"
          },
          {
            "id": "sitting_beside_me_first",
            "text": "Sitting beside me first"
          },
          {
            "id": "using_our_agreed_hug_signal",
            "text": "Using our agreed hug signal"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_182",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "After “not right now,” which response feels most reassuring?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "of_course_thanks_for_telling_me",
            "text": "“Of course—thanks for telling me.”"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_warm_smile_and_immediate_space",
            "text": "A warm smile and immediate space"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_offer_of_nonphysical_company",
            "text": "An offer of nonphysical company"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_check_in_later_without_guilt",
            "text": "A check-in later without guilt"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_183",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which small ritual would you most like to protect?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_twenty_second_reunion_hug",
            "text": "A twenty-second reunion hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_kiss_before_one_of_us_leaves",
            "text": "A kiss before one of us leaves"
          },
          {
            "id": "hands_linked_during_one_evening_walk",
            "text": "Hands linked during one evening walk"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quiet_cuddle_before_weekend_plans",
            "text": "A quiet cuddle before weekend plans"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_184",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which across-the-room signal best says “I need support”?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "support_signals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_hand_briefly_over_the_heart",
            "text": "A hand briefly over the heart"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_small_two_finger_wave",
            "text": "A small two-finger wave"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_steady_look_and_quiet_nod",
            "text": "A steady look and quiet nod"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_signal_we_choose_together",
            "text": "A signal we choose together"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_185",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which hand-care gesture sounds most relaxing?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "massage",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "slow_thumb_circles_in_your_palm",
            "text": "Slow thumb circles in your palm"
          },
          {
            "id": "each_finger_gently_stretched",
            "text": "Each finger gently stretched"
          },
          {
            "id": "warm_lotion_rubbed_into_your_hands",
            "text": "Warm lotion rubbed into your hands"
          },
          {
            "id": "hands_held_still_between_mine",
            "text": "Hands held still between mine"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_186",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which pairing would make affection feel most personal?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "appreciation",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_specific_compliment_with_a_hand_squeeze",
            "text": "A specific compliment with a hand squeeze"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_inside_joke_with_a_cheek_kiss",
            "text": "An inside joke with a cheek kiss"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_thank_you_with_a_long_hug",
            "text": "A thank-you with a long hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_favorite_nickname_with_linked_hands",
            "text": "A favorite nickname with linked hands"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_187",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Before a stressful appointment, which supportive gesture would feel best?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reconnection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "quiet_hand_squeeze_in_the_car",
            "text": "A quiet hand squeeze in the car"
          },
          {
            "id": "brief_hug_before_walking_in",
            "text": "A brief hug before walking in"
          },
          {
            "id": "shoulders_touching_while_we_wait",
            "text": "Shoulders touching while we wait"
          },
          {
            "id": "nearby_company_without_touch",
            "text": "Nearby company without touch"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_188",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which playful mini-game would make touch feel fun?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "play",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "mirror_each_others_silly_dance_moves",
            "text": "Mirror each other’s silly dance moves"
          },
          {
            "id": "invent_three_secret_handshakes",
            "text": "Invent three secret handshakes"
          },
          {
            "id": "guess_a_message_from_hand_squeezes",
            "text": "Guess a message from hand squeezes"
          },
          {
            "id": "race_to_create_the_coziest_seat",
            "text": "Race to create the coziest seat"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_189",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "For a couple photo, which pose would feel most natural?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "photos",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "foreheads_together_and_laughing",
            "text": "Foreheads together and laughing"
          },
          {
            "id": "arms_linked_while_walking",
            "text": "Arms linked while walking"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_relaxed_hug_from_the_side",
            "text": "One relaxed hug from the side"
          },
          {
            "id": "standing_close_with_hands_connected",
            "text": "Standing close with hands connected"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_190",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which physical moment feels most unmistakably like us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "couple_identity",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "our_familiar_hello_embrace",
            "text": "Our familiar hello embrace"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_way_we_share_couch_space",
            "text": "The way we share couch space"
          },
          {
            "id": "our_private_hand_squeeze_signal",
            "text": "Our private hand-squeeze signal"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_goodnight_gesture_we_repeat",
            "text": "The goodnight gesture we repeat"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_191",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which clear invitations help you know everyday affection is welcome? Select any that fit.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_say_come_closer",
            "text": "You say “come closer”"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_reach_for_my_hand",
            "text": "You reach for my hand"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_verbally_invite_a_hug",
            "text": "You verbally invite a hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_make_room_and_pat_the_seat",
            "text": "You make room and pat the seat"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_use_our_agreed_signal",
            "text": "You use our agreed signal"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_192",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "With no expectation and an easy stop, what else makes a cuddle comfortable? Choose all that matter.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "cuddling",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "enough_room_to_change_position",
            "text": "Enough room to change position"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_temperature_that_feels_comfortable",
            "text": "A temperature that feels comfortable"
          },
          {
            "id": "supportive_pillows_or_blankets",
            "text": "Supportive pillows or blankets"
          },
          {
            "id": "quiet_without_competing_distractions",
            "text": "Quiet without competing distractions"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_position_we_can_adjust_easily",
            "text": "A position we can adjust easily"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_193",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which small touch rituals would improve an ordinary week? Pick any you would enjoy.",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_hug_when_we_get_home",
            "text": "A hug when we get home"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_hand_squeeze_before_leaving",
            "text": "A hand squeeze before leaving"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_brief_couch_check_in",
            "text": "A brief couch check-in"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_goodnight_forehead_kiss",
            "text": "A goodnight forehead kiss"
          },
          {
            "id": "linked_arms_on_a_short_walk",
            "text": "Linked arms on a short walk"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_194",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "On a low-touch day, what could still help you feel close? Select any that fit.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "low_touch_days",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "sitting_nearby_without_contact",
            "text": "Sitting nearby without contact"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_kind_text_from_another_room",
            "text": "A kind text from another room"
          },
          {
            "id": "sharing_a_quiet_activity",
            "text": "Sharing a quiet activity"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_affectionate_word_or_nickname",
            "text": "An affectionate word or nickname"
          },
          {
            "id": "checking_again_at_a_later_time",
            "text": "Checking again at a later time"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_195",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can make physical affection feel playful? Choose every answer that sounds fun.",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "playful_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_one_song_kitchen_dance",
            "text": "A one-song kitchen dance"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_made_up_secret_handshake",
            "text": "A made-up secret handshake"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_dramatic_celebration_hug",
            "text": "A dramatic celebration hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_gentle_game_of_footsie",
            "text": "A gentle game of footsie"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_silly_pose_for_a_photo",
            "text": "A silly pose for a photo"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_196",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which public affection feels comfortable when you are open to it? Pick any that apply.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "public_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "hands_connected_while_walking",
            "text": "Hands connected while walking"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quick_cheek_kiss",
            "text": "A quick cheek kiss"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_arm_lightly_around_you",
            "text": "An arm lightly around you"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_brief_greeting_hug",
            "text": "A brief greeting hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_public_touch_at_all",
            "text": "No public touch at all"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_197",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "With either answer accepted, how could I invite physical closeness? Select every approach you like.",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "ask_one_clear_question",
            "text": "Ask one clear question"
          },
          {
            "id": "offer_an_open_hand_and_wait",
            "text": "Offer an open hand and wait"
          },
          {
            "id": "make_space_beside_me",
            "text": "Make space beside me"
          },
          {
            "id": "name_a_specific_gentle_gesture",
            "text": "Name a specific gentle gesture"
          },
          {
            "id": "use_a_signal_we_agreed_on",
            "text": "Use a signal we agreed on"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_198",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which ways of saying “not right now” would feel natural to you? Pick any.",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "say_it_directly_and_kindly",
            "text": "Say it directly and kindly"
          },
          {
            "id": "use_our_pause_word",
            "text": "Use our pause word"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_for_space_instead",
            "text": "Ask for space instead"
          },
          {
            "id": "offer_a_different_kind_of_connection",
            "text": "Offer a different kind of connection"
          },
          {
            "id": "suggest_checking_in_later",
            "text": "Suggest checking in later"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_199",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "After touch stops immediately, what else helps the moment stay supportive? Choose all that fit.",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "thank_them_for_being_clear",
            "text": "Thank them for being clear"
          },
          {
            "id": "give_physical_room_right_away",
            "text": "Give physical room right away"
          },
          {
            "id": "keep_the_mood_warm_and_ordinary",
            "text": "Keep the mood warm and ordinary"
          },
          {
            "id": "switch_to_a_neutral_shared_activity",
            "text": "Switch to a neutral shared activity"
          },
          {
            "id": "let_them_choose_any_later_closeness",
            "text": "Let them choose any later closeness"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_200",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which conditions help touch feel sensory-friendly? Select any that matter to you.",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sensory_needs",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "predictable_movements",
            "text": "Predictable movements"
          },
          {
            "id": "comfortable_pressure",
            "text": "Comfortable pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "low_noise_and_fewer_distractions",
            "text": "Low noise and fewer distractions"
          },
          {
            "id": "room_to_reposition_easily",
            "text": "Room to reposition easily"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quick_warning_before_contact",
            "text": "A quick warning before contact"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_201",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When stress is high, which physical support might help after a check-in? Pick any.",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_steady_hand_held_quietly",
            "text": "A steady hand held quietly"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_brief_grounding_hug",
            "text": "A brief grounding hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_hand_resting_on_your_shoulder",
            "text": "A hand resting on your shoulder"
          },
          {
            "id": "sitting_close_without_contact",
            "text": "Sitting close without contact"
          },
          {
            "id": "space_now_with_an_offer_later",
            "text": "Space now with an offer later"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_202",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "During travel, which gestures help an unfamiliar place feel easier? Select any.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "travel",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_hand_offered_in_a_crowd",
            "text": "A hand offered in a crowd"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_reunion_hug_at_the_hotel",
            "text": "A reunion hug at the hotel"
          },
          {
            "id": "shoulders_touching_in_transit",
            "text": "Shoulders touching in transit"
          },
          {
            "id": "our_private_check_in_signal",
            "text": "Our private check-in signal"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quiet_moment_side_by_side",
            "text": "A quiet moment side by side"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_203",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps affection feel kind on a body-confidence day? Choose all that fit.",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "body_confidence",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "touch_without_evaluating_appearance",
            "text": "Touch without evaluating appearance"
          },
          {
            "id": "specific_appreciation_unrelated_to_size",
            "text": "Specific appreciation unrelated to size"
          },
          {
            "id": "letting_you_guide_the_distance",
            "text": "Letting you guide the distance"
          },
          {
            "id": "closeness_through_hands_or_shoulders",
            "text": "Closeness through hands or shoulders"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_surprise_contact",
            "text": "No surprise contact"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_204",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "After a week of opposite schedules, which gestures could make us feel physically in sync again?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reconnection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "share_a_slow_coffee_side_by_side",
            "text": "Share a slow coffee side by side"
          },
          {
            "id": "take_a_short_hand_holding_walk",
            "text": "Take a short hand-holding walk"
          },
          {
            "id": "choose_a_familiar_couch_position",
            "text": "Choose a familiar couch position"
          },
          {
            "id": "exchange_a_long_unhurried_hug",
            "text": "Exchange a long, unhurried hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "plan_a_phone_free_closeness_break",
            "text": "Plan a phone-free closeness break"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_205",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Where could small affectionate moments fit into a busy day? Select any you would notice.",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "daily_life",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "while_coffee_is_brewing",
            "text": "While coffee is brewing"
          },
          {
            "id": "at_the_doorway_between_errands",
            "text": "At the doorway between errands"
          },
          {
            "id": "during_a_short_stretch_break",
            "text": "During a short stretch break"
          },
          {
            "id": "before_one_of_us_starts_a_call",
            "text": "Before one of us starts a call"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_we_finally_sit_down",
            "text": "When we finally sit down"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_206",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which gestures feel romantic while staying clearly nonsexual? Choose any that appeal.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "nonsexual_romance",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_slow_dance_in_ordinary_clothes",
            "text": "A slow dance in ordinary clothes"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_hand_kissed_during_a_joke",
            "text": "A hand kissed during a joke"
          },
          {
            "id": "foreheads_resting_together_briefly",
            "text": "Foreheads resting together briefly"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_note_delivered_with_a_hug",
            "text": "A note delivered with a hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "hands_linked_under_the_table",
            "text": "Hands linked under the table"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_207",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which changes might affect your touch preferences over time? Select any that apply.",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "change",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "stress_or_sleep_levels",
            "text": "Stress or sleep levels"
          },
          {
            "id": "pain_illness_or_recovery",
            "text": "Pain, illness, or recovery"
          },
          {
            "id": "temperature_and_surroundings",
            "text": "Temperature and surroundings"
          },
          {
            "id": "confidence_in_your_body",
            "text": "Confidence in your body"
          },
          {
            "id": "how_emotionally_connected_you_feel",
            "text": "How emotionally connected you feel"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_208",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What adjustments can make closeness more accessible and comfortable? Pick any.",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "accessibility",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "different_pillows_or_support",
            "text": "Different pillows or support"
          },
          {
            "id": "positions_with_less_strain",
            "text": "Positions with less strain"
          },
          {
            "id": "shorter_periods_of_contact",
            "text": "Shorter periods of contact"
          },
          {
            "id": "clear_help_changing_position",
            "text": "Clear help changing position"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_space_around_sensitive_areas",
            "text": "More space around sensitive areas"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_209",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "With pausing easy and no gesture creating obligation, what else keeps affection mutual? Choose all that fit.",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mutuality",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "both_people_initiate_sometimes",
            "text": "Both people initiate sometimes"
          },
          {
            "id": "both_can_suggest_a_different_gesture",
            "text": "Both can suggest a different gesture"
          },
          {
            "id": "preferences_get_updated_openly",
            "text": "Preferences get updated openly"
          },
          {
            "id": "feedback_is_welcomed_kindly",
            "text": "Feedback is welcomed kindly"
          },
          {
            "id": "each_persons_favorite_touches_matter",
            "text": "Each person’s favorite touches matter"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_210",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which couple rituals would you genuinely enjoy trying? Pick any.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_daily_twenty_second_hug",
            "text": "A daily twenty-second hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_weekly_slow_song_together",
            "text": "A weekly slow song together"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_goodbye_hand_squeeze_code",
            "text": "A goodbye hand-squeeze code"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_sunday_morning_couch_cuddle",
            "text": "A Sunday-morning couch cuddle"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_seasonal_cozy_night_ritual",
            "text": "A seasonal cozy-night ritual"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_211",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How natural does everyday affection feel between us lately?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "daily_life",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very natural",
        "max_label": "Very natural"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_212",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy does it feel to ask me for a hug?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hugs",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not easy yet",
        "max_label": "Very easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_213",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you with our usual level of public affection?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "public_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not comfortable",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_214",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do you feel I understand your everyday touch preferences?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "understanding",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Still learning",
        "max_label": "Understand them well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_215",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to say “not right now” to physical affection?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not easy yet",
        "max_label": "Very easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_216",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How playful does our nonsexual affection feel these days?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "playful_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not playful",
        "max_label": "Very playful"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_217",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much do our current affection rituals add warmth to your day?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "A little warmth",
        "max_label": "A lot of warmth"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_218",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How free from pressure does physical closeness feel between us?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pressure",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Some pressure remains",
        "max_label": "Completely pressure-free"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_219",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How confident are you that a pause or stop will be respected immediately?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not fully confident",
        "max_label": "Completely confident"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_220",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you with spontaneous everyday touch from me?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "spontaneity",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not comfortable",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_221",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do our couch or bedtime routines fit your physical comfort?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Could fit better",
        "max_label": "Fit very well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_222",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How accepted do low-touch days feel in our relationship?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "low_touch_days",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not fully accepted",
        "max_label": "Completely accepted"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_223",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable do you feel initiating nonsexual affection?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not comfortable yet",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_224",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How often does our affection feel noticed rather than automatic?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "routine",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Rarely noticed",
        "max_label": "Almost always noticed"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_225",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we adapt touch when one of us is tired or sore?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "body_comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very well",
        "max_label": "Very well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_226",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to give me feedback about pressure, pace, or placement?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not easy yet",
        "max_label": "Very easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_227",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How connected do you feel during quiet, nonsexual closeness?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "quiet_closeness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "A little connected",
        "max_label": "Deeply connected"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_228",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you asking for more personal space while staying emotionally close?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "personal_space",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not comfortable yet",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_229",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do our greeting and goodbye gestures fit what you enjoy?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "greetings",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Could fit better",
        "max_label": "Fit perfectly"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_230",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How relaxed does affection feel when other people are nearby?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "social_settings",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Usually tense",
        "max_label": "Usually relaxed"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_231",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much do you feel our physical affection reflects both people’s preferences?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mutuality",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very balanced",
        "max_label": "Very balanced"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_232",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you changing your mind after affection has started?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not comfortable yet",
        "max_label": "Completely comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_233",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easily do we reconnect physically after a busy or distant stretch?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reconnection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very easily",
        "max_label": "Very easily"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_234",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much room is there for humor in our physical affection?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "play",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Very little",
        "max_label": "Plenty of room"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_235",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How confident are you that we can adapt affection as our bodies and routines change?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "adaptability",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not confident yet",
        "max_label": "Very confident"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_236",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Shoulder-to-shoulder cuddle or face-to-face cuddle?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "cuddling",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "shoulder_to_shoulder",
            "text": "Shoulder to shoulder"
          },
          {
            "id": "face_to_face",
            "text": "Face to face"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_237",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Forehead kiss or hand kiss?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "kissing",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "forehead_kiss",
            "text": "Forehead kiss"
          },
          {
            "id": "hand_kiss",
            "text": "Hand kiss"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_238",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "One long hug or several quick hugs?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hugs",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "one_long_hug",
            "text": "One long hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "several_quick_hugs",
            "text": "Several quick hugs"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_239",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Hold hands while walking or link arms?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hand_holding",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "hold_hands",
            "text": "Hold hands"
          },
          {
            "id": "link_arms",
            "text": "Link arms"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_240",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Morning squeeze or goodnight kiss?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "morning_squeeze",
            "text": "Morning squeeze"
          },
          {
            "id": "goodnight_kiss",
            "text": "Goodnight kiss"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_241",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Couch cuddle or porch-swing closeness?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "cozy_closeness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "couch_cuddle",
            "text": "Couch cuddle"
          },
          {
            "id": "porch_swing_closeness",
            "text": "Porch-swing closeness"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_242",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Slow dance or playful kitchen sway?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "dance",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "slow_dance",
            "text": "Slow dance"
          },
          {
            "id": "kitchen_sway",
            "text": "Kitchen sway"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_243",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "When affection is welcome, arm around your shoulders or hand resting at your waist?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "arm_around_shoulders",
            "text": "Arm around shoulders"
          },
          {
            "id": "hand_at_waist",
            "text": "Hand at waist"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_244",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Playful shoulder nudge or secret hand squeeze?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "playful_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "shoulder_nudge",
            "text": "Shoulder nudge"
          },
          {
            "id": "secret_hand_squeeze",
            "text": "Secret hand squeeze"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_245",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Quiet closeness or laughing closeness?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "closeness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "quiet_closeness",
            "text": "Quiet closeness"
          },
          {
            "id": "laughing_closeness",
            "text": "Laughing closeness"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_246",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "One shared blanket or separate blankets with feet touching?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "cuddling",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "share_one_blanket",
            "text": "Share one blanket"
          },
          {
            "id": "separate_blankets_feet_touching",
            "text": "Separate blankets, feet touching"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_247",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Greeting hug or goodbye kiss?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "greetings",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "greeting_hug",
            "text": "Greeting hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "goodbye_kiss",
            "text": "Goodbye kiss"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_248",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Sit side by side or sit across with feet touching?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "closeness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "side_by_side",
            "text": "Side by side"
          },
          {
            "id": "across_with_feet_touching",
            "text": "Across with feet touching"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_249",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Daily tiny touch or weekly longer cuddle?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "daily_tiny_touch",
            "text": "Daily tiny touch"
          },
          {
            "id": "weekly_longer_cuddle",
            "text": "Weekly longer cuddle"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_250",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Bring back an old affectionate habit or invent a new signal?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "future",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "bring_back_an_old_habit",
            "text": "Bring back an old habit"
          },
          {
            "id": "invent_a_new_signal",
            "text": "Invent a new signal"
          }
        ]
      }
    }
  ]
}