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{
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"id": "emotional_intimacy",
"display_name": "Emotional Intimacy",
"description": "Questions about closeness, vulnerability, affection, fears, and emotional needs.",
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"text": "What helps you experience feeling emotionally safe with me?",
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"text": "When have you noticed feeling emotionally safe between us recently?",
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"text": "What is one small thing I can do to support feeling emotionally safe?",
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"text": "What makes feeling emotionally safe feel easier for you?",
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"text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about feeling emotionally safe?",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_006",
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"text": "What helps you experience sharing small worries with me?",
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"text": "When have you noticed sharing small worries between us recently?",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_008",
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"text": "What is one small thing I can do to support sharing small worries?",
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"text": "What makes sharing small worries feel easier for you?",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_010",
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"text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about sharing small worries?",
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{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_011",
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"text": "What helps you experience asking for comfort with me?",
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"asking_for_comfort",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_012",
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"text": "When have you noticed asking for comfort between us recently?",
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"asking_for_comfort",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_013",
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"text": "What is one small thing I can do to support asking for comfort?",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_014",
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"text": "What makes asking for comfort feel easier for you?",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_015",
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"text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about asking for comfort?",
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"asking_for_comfort",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_016",
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"text": "What helps you experience being seen with me?",
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"being_seen",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_017",
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"text": "When have you noticed being seen between us recently?",
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"being_seen",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_018",
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"text": "What is one small thing I can do to support being seen?",
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{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_019",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
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"text": "What makes being seen feel easier for you?",
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"being_seen",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_020",
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"text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about being seen?",
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{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_021",
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"text": "What helps you experience showing affection in words with me?",
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"showing_affection_in_words",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_022",
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"text": "When have you noticed showing affection in words between us recently?",
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"showing_affection_in_words",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_023",
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"text": "What is one small thing I can do to support showing affection in words?",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_024",
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"text": "What makes showing affection in words feel easier for you?",
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"showing_affection_in_words",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_025",
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"text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about showing affection in words?",
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{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_026",
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"text": "What helps you experience talking about your day with me?",
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"talking_about_your_day",
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{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_027",
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"text": "When have you noticed talking about your day between us recently?",
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"talking_about_your_day",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_028",
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"text": "What is one small thing I can do to support talking about your day?",
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"talking_about_your_day",
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{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_029",
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"text": "What makes talking about your day feel easier for you?",
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"talking_about_your_day",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_030",
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"text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about talking about your day?",
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{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_031",
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"text": "What helps you experience feeling close after time apart with me?",
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"feeling_close_after_time_apart",
"closeness"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_032",
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"text": "When have you noticed feeling close after time apart between us recently?",
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"feeling_close_after_time_apart",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_033",
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"text": "What is one small thing I can do to support feeling close after time apart?",
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"feeling_close_after_time_apart",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_034",
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"text": "What makes feeling close after time apart feel easier for you?",
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"feeling_close_after_time_apart",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_035",
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"text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about feeling close after time apart?",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_036",
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"text": "What helps you experience receiving reassurance with me?",
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"text": "When have you noticed receiving reassurance between us recently?",
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"receiving_reassurance",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_038",
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"text": "What is one small thing I can do to support receiving reassurance?",
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"text": "What makes receiving reassurance feel easier for you?",
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"receiving_reassurance",
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"text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about receiving reassurance?",
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"text": "What helps you experience sharing joy with me?",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_042",
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"text": "When have you noticed sharing joy between us recently?",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_043",
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"text": "What is one small thing I can do to support sharing joy?",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_044",
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"text": "What makes sharing joy feel easier for you?",
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"sharing_joy",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_045",
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"text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about sharing joy?",
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"sharing_joy",
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{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_046",
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"text": "What helps you experience showing tenderness with me?",
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"showing_tenderness",
"closeness"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_047",
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"text": "When have you noticed showing tenderness between us recently?",
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"noticing"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_048",
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"text": "What is one small thing I can do to support showing tenderness?",
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"showing_tenderness",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_049",
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"text": "What makes showing tenderness feel easier for you?",
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"showing_tenderness",
"safety"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_050",
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"text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about showing tenderness?",
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"showing_tenderness",
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{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_051",
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"text": "What helps you experience being quiet together with me?",
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"being_quiet_together",
"closeness"
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"text": "When have you noticed being quiet together between us recently?",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_053",
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"text": "What is one small thing I can do to support being quiet together?",
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"being_quiet_together",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_054",
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"text": "What makes being quiet together feel easier for you?",
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"being_quiet_together",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_055",
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"text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about being quiet together?",
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"being_quiet_together",
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{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_056",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you experience handling vulnerability gently with me?",
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"handling_vulnerability_gently",
"closeness"
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"text": "When have you noticed handling vulnerability gently between us recently?",
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"text": "What is one small thing I can do to support handling vulnerability gently?",
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"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
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"text": "What makes handling vulnerability gently feel easier for you?",
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"text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about handling vulnerability gently?",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_061",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
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"text": "What helps you experience naming feelings with me?",
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"naming_feelings",
"closeness"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_062",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
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"text": "When have you noticed naming feelings between us recently?",
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"naming_feelings",
"noticing"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_063",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one small thing I can do to support naming feelings?",
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"naming_feelings",
"support"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_064",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes naming feelings feel easier for you?",
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"naming_feelings",
"safety"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_065",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
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"text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about naming feelings?",
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"naming_feelings",
"gentle_questions"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_066",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you experience feeling chosen with me?",
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"feeling_chosen",
"closeness"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_067",
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"type": "written",
"text": "When have you noticed feeling chosen between us recently?",
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"feeling_chosen",
"noticing"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_068",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What is one small thing I can do to support feeling chosen?",
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"feeling_chosen",
"support"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_069",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes feeling chosen feel easier for you?",
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"feeling_chosen",
"safety"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_070",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about feeling chosen?",
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"feeling_chosen",
"gentle_questions"
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{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_071",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you experience asking for support with me?",
"depth": 2,
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"asking_for_support",
"closeness"
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"min_length": 1,
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_072",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When have you noticed asking for support between us recently?",
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"asking_for_support",
"noticing"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_073",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one small thing I can do to support asking for support?",
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"asking_for_support",
"support"
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},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_074",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes asking for support feel easier for you?",
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"asking_for_support",
"safety"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_075",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about asking for support?",
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"asking_for_support",
"gentle_questions"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_076",
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"text": "What would help me understand the fears you carry privately?",
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"understanding"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_077",
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"type": "written",
"text": "When do those private fears make closeness feel harder?",
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"your_deeper_fears",
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{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_078",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would help you share those private fears more honestly?",
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"tags": [
"your_deeper_fears",
"vulnerability"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_079",
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"text": "How can I respond to those fears in a way that feels safe instead of fixing you?",
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"your_deeper_fears",
"responsiveness"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_080",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What reassurance would help when those fears come up?",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_081",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
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"text": "What do you want me to notice about needs you usually keep private?",
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"emotional_needs_you_hide",
"understanding"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_082",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When do private emotional needs make closeness feel harder?",
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"tags": [
"emotional_needs_you_hide",
"closeness"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_083",
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"text": "What would help you name those needs more honestly?",
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"tags": [
"emotional_needs_you_hide",
"vulnerability"
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}
},
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_084",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How can I respond to those private needs in a way that feels safe instead of fixing you?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"emotional_needs_you_hide",
"responsiveness"
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}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_085",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What reassurance would help when those private needs come up?",
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"tags": [
"emotional_needs_you_hide",
"safety"
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{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_086",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Where do you feel least understood around moments you feel unseen?",
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"moments_you_feel_unseen",
"understanding"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_087",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When do the moments you feel unseen affect how close you feel to me?",
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"moments_you_feel_unseen",
"closeness"
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},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_088",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would help you share more honestly about moments you feel unseen?",
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"tags": [
"moments_you_feel_unseen",
"vulnerability"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_089",
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"text": "How can I respond to moments you feel unseen in a way that feels safe instead of fixing you?",
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"moments_you_feel_unseen",
"responsiveness"
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{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_090",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What is one boundary or reassurance that would help with moments you feel unseen?",
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"moments_you_feel_unseen",
"safety"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_091",
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"text": "What part of childhood patterns do you rarely get to say out loud?",
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"childhood_patterns",
"understanding"
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},
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_092",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When do childhood patterns affect how close you feel to me?",
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"childhood_patterns",
"closeness"
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}
},
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_093",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What would help you share more honestly about childhood patterns?",
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"tags": [
"childhood_patterns",
"vulnerability"
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}
},
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_094",
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"type": "written",
"text": "How can I respond to childhood patterns in a way that feels safe instead of fixing you?",
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"tags": [
"childhood_patterns",
"responsiveness"
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},
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_095",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one boundary or reassurance that would help with childhood patterns?",
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"tags": [
"childhood_patterns",
"safety"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_096",
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"text": "How can I better honor what shame and tenderness brings up for you?",
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"shame_and_tenderness",
"understanding"
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}
},
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_097",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When do shame and tenderness affect how close you feel to me?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"shame_and_tenderness",
"closeness"
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}
},
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_098",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What would help you share more honestly about shame and tenderness?",
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"tags": [
"shame_and_tenderness",
"vulnerability"
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}
},
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_099",
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"text": "How can I respond to shame and tenderness in a way that feels safe instead of fixing you?",
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"tags": [
"shame_and_tenderness",
"responsiveness"
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}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_100",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one boundary or reassurance that would help with shame and tenderness?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"shame_and_tenderness",
"safety"
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}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_101",
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"text": "What question do you wish I would ask about fear of being too much?",
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"tags": [
"fear_of_being_too_much",
"understanding"
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}
},
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_102",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When does fear of being too much affect how close you feel to me?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"fear_of_being_too_much",
"closeness"
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}
},
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_103",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would help you share more honestly about fear of being too much?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"fear_of_being_too_much",
"vulnerability"
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}
},
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_104",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How can I respond to fear of being too much in a way that feels safe instead of fixing you?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"fear_of_being_too_much",
"responsiveness"
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}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_105",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one boundary or reassurance that would help with fear of being too much?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"fear_of_being_too_much",
"safety"
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}
},
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_106",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one thing you want me to understand about fear of not being enough?",
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"tags": [
"fear_of_not_being_enough",
"understanding"
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}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_107",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When does fear of not being enough affect how close you feel to me?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"fear_of_not_being_enough",
"closeness"
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}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_108",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would help you share more honestly about fear of not being enough?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"fear_of_not_being_enough",
"vulnerability"
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}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_109",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How can I respond to fear of not being enough in a way that feels safe instead of fixing you?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"fear_of_not_being_enough",
"responsiveness"
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}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_110",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one boundary or reassurance that would help with fear of not being enough?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"fear_of_not_being_enough",
"safety"
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}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_111",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What feels hardest to explain about emotional withdrawal?",
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"tags": [
"emotional_withdrawal",
"understanding"
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"min_length": 1,
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}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_112",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When does emotional withdrawal affect how close you feel to me?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"emotional_withdrawal",
"closeness"
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}
},
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_113",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would help you share more honestly about emotional withdrawal?",
"depth": 5,
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"tags": [
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"text": "How can I respond to emotional withdrawal in a way that feels safe instead of fixing you?",
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"emotional_withdrawal",
"responsiveness"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_115",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
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"text": "What is one boundary or reassurance that would help with emotional withdrawal?",
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"emotional_withdrawal",
"safety"
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"min_length": 1,
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_116",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would help me see repairing emotional distance with more care?",
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"repairing_emotional_distance",
"understanding"
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}
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_117",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
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"text": "When does repairing emotional distance affect how close you feel to me?",
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"repairing_emotional_distance",
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"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
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"text": "What would help you share more honestly about repairing emotional distance?",
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"repairing_emotional_distance",
"vulnerability"
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"text": "How can I respond to repairing emotional distance in a way that feels safe instead of fixing you?",
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"repairing_emotional_distance",
"responsiveness"
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}
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_120",
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"text": "What is one boundary or reassurance that would help with repairing emotional distance?",
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"repairing_emotional_distance",
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"text": "What do you want me to notice about receiving love?",
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"receiving_love",
"understanding"
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"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
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"text": "When does receiving love affect how close you feel to me?",
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"receiving_love",
"closeness"
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"text": "What would help you share more honestly about receiving love?",
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"receiving_love",
"vulnerability"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_124",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
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"text": "How can I respond to receiving love in a way that feels safe instead of fixing you?",
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"receiving_love",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_125",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
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"text": "What is one boundary or reassurance that would help with receiving love?",
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"receiving_love",
"safety"
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"text": "Where do you feel least understood around giving love under stress?",
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"giving_love_under_stress",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_127",
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"text": "When does giving love under stress affect how close you feel to me?",
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"giving_love_under_stress",
"closeness"
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}
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_128",
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"text": "What would help you share more honestly about giving love under stress?",
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"tags": [
"giving_love_under_stress",
"vulnerability"
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}
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_129",
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"text": "How can I respond to giving love under stress in a way that feels safe instead of fixing you?",
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"giving_love_under_stress",
"responsiveness"
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}
},
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_130",
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"text": "What is one boundary or reassurance that would help with giving love under stress?",
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"giving_love_under_stress",
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_131",
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"text": "What part of trusting me with sadness do you rarely get to say out loud?",
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"trusting_me_with_sadness",
"understanding"
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_132",
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"text": "When does trusting me with sadness affect how close you feel to me?",
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"trusting_me_with_sadness",
"closeness"
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}
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"text": "What would help you share more honestly about trusting me with sadness?",
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"trusting_me_with_sadness",
"vulnerability"
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"text": "How can I respond to trusting me with sadness in a way that feels safe instead of fixing you?",
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"trusting_me_with_sadness",
"responsiveness"
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}
},
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_135",
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"text": "What is one boundary or reassurance that would help with trusting me with sadness?",
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"trusting_me_with_sadness",
"safety"
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}
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"text": "How can I better honor what intimacy after conflict brings up for you?",
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"intimacy_after_conflict",
"understanding"
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}
},
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_137",
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"text": "When does intimacy after conflict affect how close you feel to me?",
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"intimacy_after_conflict",
"closeness"
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}
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"text": "What would help you share more honestly about intimacy after conflict?",
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"intimacy_after_conflict",
"vulnerability"
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}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_139",
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"text": "How can I respond to intimacy after conflict in a way that feels safe instead of fixing you?",
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"tags": [
"intimacy_after_conflict",
"responsiveness"
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}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_140",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What is one boundary or reassurance that would help with intimacy after conflict?",
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"intimacy_after_conflict",
"safety"
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}
},
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_141",
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"text": "What question do you wish I would ask about longing for closeness?",
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"longing_for_closeness",
"understanding"
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}
},
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_142",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When does longing for closeness affect how close you feel to me?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"longing_for_closeness",
"closeness"
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}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_143",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would help you share more honestly about longing for closeness?",
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"tags": [
"longing_for_closeness",
"vulnerability"
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}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_144",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How can I respond to longing for closeness in a way that feels safe instead of fixing you?",
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"tags": [
"longing_for_closeness",
"responsiveness"
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"min_length": 1,
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}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_145",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one boundary or reassurance that would help with longing for closeness?",
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"tags": [
"longing_for_closeness",
"safety"
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}
},
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"text": "What is one thing you want me to understand about the parts of yourself you protect?",
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}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_147",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When do the parts of yourself you protect affect how close you feel to me?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"the_parts_of_you_you_protect",
"closeness"
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"min_length": 1,
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}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_148",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
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"text": "What would help you share more honestly about the parts of yourself you protect?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"the_parts_of_you_you_protect",
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}
},
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_149",
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"type": "written",
"text": "How can I respond to the parts of yourself you protect in a way that feels safe instead of fixing you?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"the_parts_of_you_you_protect",
"responsiveness"
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}
},
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_150",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one boundary or reassurance that would help with the parts of yourself you protect?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"the_parts_of_you_you_protect",
"safety"
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}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_151",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When you feel emotionally vulnerable, what helps most first?",
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"support"
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"id": "comfort",
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"id": "quiet_presence",
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{
"id": "reassurance",
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{
"id": "space",
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]
},
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"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes you feel emotionally closest to me?",
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"closeness",
"connection"
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"id": "deep_conversation",
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"id": "physical_affection",
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{
"id": "being_helped",
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{
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"text": "What kind of reassurance lands best?",
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"reassurance",
"needs"
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"id": "i_am_here",
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{
"id": "you_matter_to_me",
"text": "You matter to me"
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{
"id": "we_are_okay",
"text": "We are okay"
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{
"id": "i_understand_you",
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"text": "When you are sad, what do you usually need?",
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"sadness",
"support"
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"id": "listening",
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{
"id": "holding",
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{
"id": "problem_solving",
"text": "Problem solving"
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{
"id": "distraction",
"text": "Distraction"
}
]
},
{
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"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes it easiest to open up?",
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"tags": [
"opening_up",
"safety"
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{
"id": "soft_tone",
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{
"id": "no_rushing",
"text": "No rushing"
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{
"id": "specific_questions",
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{
"id": "eye_contact",
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]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_156",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes you close down fastest?",
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"tags": [
"shutdown",
"triggers"
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{
"id": "judgment",
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{
"id": "interrupting",
"text": "Interrupting"
},
{
"id": "advice_too_soon",
"text": "Advice too soon"
},
{
"id": "dismissive_tone",
"text": "Dismissive tone"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_157",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps you feel seen?",
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"tags": [
"feeling_seen",
"intimacy"
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{
"id": "being_remembered",
"text": "Being remembered"
},
{
"id": "being_asked",
"text": "Being asked"
},
{
"id": "being_noticed",
"text": "Being noticed"
},
{
"id": "being_understood",
"text": "Being understood"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_158",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "How do you usually show emotional closeness?",
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"tags": [
"expression",
"closeness"
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{
"id": "words",
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},
{
"id": "touch",
"text": "Touch"
},
{
"id": "time",
"text": "Time"
},
{
"id": "acts_of_care",
"text": "Acts of care"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_159",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of comfort feels safest?",
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"tags": [
"comfort",
"safety"
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{
"id": "a_hug",
"text": "A hug"
},
{
"id": "kind_words",
"text": "Kind words"
},
{
"id": "sitting_nearby",
"text": "Sitting nearby"
},
{
"id": "giving_space",
"text": "Giving space"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_160",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When do you most want emotional attention?",
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"tags": [
"attention",
"timing"
],
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{
"id": "after_stress",
"text": "After stress"
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{
"id": "before_sleep",
"text": "Before sleep"
},
{
"id": "during_conflict",
"text": "During conflict"
},
{
"id": "when_i_get_quiet",
"text": "When I get quiet"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_161",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes affection feel meaningful?",
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"tags": [
"affection",
"meaning"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "timing",
"text": "Timing"
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{
"id": "specificity",
"text": "Specificity"
},
{
"id": "consistency",
"text": "Consistency"
},
{
"id": "tenderness",
"text": "Tenderness"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_162",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is hardest to ask for?",
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"tags": [
"asking",
"difficulty"
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"options": [
{
"id": "comfort",
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},
{
"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
},
{
"id": "space",
"text": "Space"
},
{
"id": "patience",
"text": "Patience"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_163",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What do you want me to notice sooner?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"noticing",
"needs"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "stress",
"text": "Stress"
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{
"id": "sadness",
"text": "Sadness"
},
{
"id": "distance",
"text": "Distance"
},
{
"id": "excitement",
"text": "Excitement"
}
]
},
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"id": "emotional_intimacy_164",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When I ask how you are, what answer is hardest?",
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"tags": [
"honesty",
"feelings"
],
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{
"id": "i_am_scared",
"text": "I am scared"
},
{
"id": "i_am_hurt",
"text": "I am hurt"
},
{
"id": "i_need_you",
"text": "I need you"
},
{
"id": "i_feel_alone",
"text": "I feel alone"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_165",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes emotional closeness feel pressured?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"pressure",
"closeness"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "too_many_questions",
"text": "Too many questions"
},
{
"id": "bad_timing",
"text": "Bad timing"
},
{
"id": "expected_answers",
"text": "Expected answers"
},
{
"id": "no_privacy",
"text": "No privacy"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_166",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes emotional closeness feel natural?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"natural",
"closeness"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "time_together",
"text": "Time together"
},
{
"id": "no_distractions",
"text": "No distractions"
},
{
"id": "gentle_questions",
"text": "Gentle questions"
},
{
"id": "shared_activity",
"text": "Shared activity"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_167",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What response helps when you cry?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"crying",
"support"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "stay_close",
"text": "Stay close"
},
{
"id": "ask_what_i_need",
"text": "Ask what I need"
},
{
"id": "hold_me",
"text": "Hold me"
},
{
"id": "do_not_panic",
"text": "Do not panic"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_168",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What response hurts when you cry?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"crying",
"hurt"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "fixing_it",
"text": "Fixing it"
},
{
"id": "leaving_too_fast",
"text": "Leaving too fast"
},
{
"id": "minimizing_it",
"text": "Minimizing it"
},
{
"id": "getting_uncomfortable",
"text": "Getting uncomfortable"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_169",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps you receive love?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"receiving_love",
"openness"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "trust",
"text": "Trust"
},
{
"id": "calm",
"text": "Calm"
},
{
"id": "consistency",
"text": "Consistency"
},
{
"id": "clear_words",
"text": "Clear words"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_170",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What blocks you from receiving love?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"receiving_love",
"blocks"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "fear",
"text": "Fear"
},
{
"id": "shame",
"text": "Shame"
},
{
"id": "past_hurt",
"text": "Past hurt"
},
{
"id": "stress",
"text": "Stress"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_171",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What feels most intimate to share?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"sharing",
"intimacy"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_fear",
"text": "A fear"
},
{
"id": "a_dream",
"text": "A dream"
},
{
"id": "a_memory",
"text": "A memory"
},
{
"id": "a_need",
"text": "A need"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_172",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What feels safest to share first?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"sharing",
"safety"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_small_worry",
"text": "A small worry"
},
{
"id": "a_hope",
"text": "A hope"
},
{
"id": "a_preference",
"text": "A preference"
},
{
"id": "a_memory",
"text": "A memory"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_173",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What do you need after sharing something vulnerable?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"aftercare",
"vulnerability"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
},
{
"id": "thanks_for_sharing",
"text": "Thanks for sharing"
},
{
"id": "quiet_closeness",
"text": "Quiet closeness"
},
{
"id": "follow_up_later",
"text": "Follow-up later"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_174",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of follow-up helps after a deep talk?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"follow_up",
"deep_talks"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "check_on_me_later",
"text": "Check on me later"
},
{
"id": "remember_details",
"text": "Remember details"
},
{
"id": "ask_gently",
"text": "Ask gently"
},
{
"id": "act_differently",
"text": "Act differently"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_175",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes you feel emotionally protected?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"protection",
"safety"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "loyalty",
"text": "Loyalty"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "gentleness",
"text": "Gentleness"
},
{
"id": "consistency",
"text": "Consistency"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_176",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes you feel emotionally exposed?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"exposure",
"risk"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "being_teased",
"text": "Being teased"
},
{
"id": "being_rushed",
"text": "Being rushed"
},
{
"id": "being_corrected",
"text": "Being corrected"
},
{
"id": "being_ignored",
"text": "Being ignored"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_177",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What do you want more of in our closeness?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"more_closeness",
"needs"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "tenderness",
"text": "Tenderness"
},
{
"id": "curiosity",
"text": "Curiosity"
},
{
"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
},
{
"id": "playfulness",
"text": "Playfulness"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_178",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What do you want less of in our emotional talks?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"less",
"boundaries"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "fixing",
"text": "Fixing"
},
{
"id": "pressure",
"text": "Pressure"
},
{
"id": "sarcasm",
"text": "Sarcasm"
},
{
"id": "interruptions",
"text": "Interruptions"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_179",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which feeling is easiest to share with me?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"feelings",
"ease"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "joy",
"text": "Joy"
},
{
"id": "stress",
"text": "Stress"
},
{
"id": "fear",
"text": "Fear"
},
{
"id": "sadness",
"text": "Sadness"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_180",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which feeling is hardest to share with me?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"feelings",
"difficulty"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "anger",
"text": "Anger"
},
{
"id": "neediness",
"text": "Neediness"
},
{
"id": "shame",
"text": "Shame"
},
{
"id": "loneliness",
"text": "Loneliness"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_181",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps when you feel emotionally distant?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"distance",
"repair"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_gentle_check_in",
"text": "A gentle check-in"
},
{
"id": "time_alone",
"text": "Time alone"
},
{
"id": "a_hug",
"text": "A hug"
},
{
"id": "an_honest_talk",
"text": "An honest talk"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_182",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes distance worse?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"distance",
"triggers"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "ignoring_it",
"text": "Ignoring it"
},
{
"id": "forcing_it",
"text": "Forcing it"
},
{
"id": "blame",
"text": "Blame"
},
{
"id": "coldness",
"text": "Coldness"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_183",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of question feels caring?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"questions",
"care"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "open_ended",
"text": "Open-ended"
},
{
"id": "specific",
"text": "Specific"
},
{
"id": "soft",
"text": "Soft"
},
{
"id": "curious",
"text": "Curious"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_184",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of question feels intrusive?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"questions",
"boundaries"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "too_sudden",
"text": "Too sudden"
},
{
"id": "too_detailed",
"text": "Too detailed"
},
{
"id": "too_frequent",
"text": "Too frequent"
},
{
"id": "too_intense",
"text": "Too intense"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_185",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When do you feel most emotionally brave with me?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"bravery",
"connection"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "after_reassurance",
"text": "After reassurance"
},
{
"id": "when_you_listen",
"text": "When you listen"
},
{
"id": "when_we_are_calm",
"text": "When we are calm"
},
{
"id": "when_i_feel_chosen",
"text": "When I feel chosen"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_186",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes emotional bravery harder?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"bravery",
"blocks"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "fear_of_judgment",
"text": "Fear of judgment"
},
{
"id": "past_rejection",
"text": "Past rejection"
},
{
"id": "bad_timing",
"text": "Bad timing"
},
{
"id": "not_feeling_safe",
"text": "Not feeling safe"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_187",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is most healing to hear?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"healing",
"words"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "i_believe_you",
"text": "I believe you"
},
{
"id": "i_am_with_you",
"text": "I am with you"
},
{
"id": "that_makes_sense",
"text": "That makes sense"
},
{
"id": "you_are_not_too_much",
"text": "You are not too much"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_188",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is most grounding to hear?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"grounding",
"words"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "take_your_time",
"text": "Take your time"
},
{
"id": "i_am_here",
"text": "I am here"
},
{
"id": "we_can_slow_down",
"text": "We can slow down"
},
{
"id": "i_want_to_understand",
"text": "I want to understand"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_189",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What closeness ritual sounds best?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"ritual",
"closeness"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "bedtime_check_in",
"text": "Bedtime check-in"
},
{
"id": "morning_hug",
"text": "Morning hug"
},
{
"id": "weekly_deep_talk",
"text": "Weekly deep talk"
},
{
"id": "phone_free_walk",
"text": "Phone-free walk"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_190",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What emotional habit should we build first?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"habit",
"growth"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "naming_feelings",
"text": "Naming feelings"
},
{
"id": "asking_needs",
"text": "Asking needs"
},
{
"id": "offering_reassurance",
"text": "Offering reassurance"
},
{
"id": "following_up",
"text": "Following up"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_191",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which things help you feel emotionally safe with me?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"safety",
"needs"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "soft_tone",
"text": "Soft tone"
},
{
"id": "patience",
"text": "Patience"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "consistency",
"text": "Consistency"
},
{
"id": "no_judgment",
"text": "No judgment"
}
],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_192",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs tell you I am emotionally present?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"presence",
"signals"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "eye_contact",
"text": "Eye contact"
},
{
"id": "remembering_details",
"text": "Remembering details"
},
{
"id": "asking_follow_ups",
"text": "Asking follow-ups"
},
{
"id": "putting_phone_away",
"text": "Putting phone away"
},
{
"id": "warm_tone",
"text": "Warm tone"
}
],
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"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_193",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes vulnerability feel risky?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"vulnerability",
"risk"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "fear_of_judgment",
"text": "Fear of judgment"
},
{
"id": "fear_of_being_too_much",
"text": "Fear of being too much"
},
{
"id": "past_hurt",
"text": "Past hurt"
},
{
"id": "bad_timing",
"text": "Bad timing"
},
{
"id": "feeling_rushed",
"text": "Feeling rushed"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_194",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you open up after a hard day?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"hard_day",
"support"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_quiet_moment",
"text": "A quiet moment"
},
{
"id": "a_hug",
"text": "A hug"
},
{
"id": "a_direct_question",
"text": "A direct question"
},
{
"id": "food_or_comfort",
"text": "Food or comfort"
},
{
"id": "time_to_decompress",
"text": "Time to decompress"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_195",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which emotions need more room between us?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"emotions",
"room"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "sadness",
"text": "Sadness"
},
{
"id": "fear",
"text": "Fear"
},
{
"id": "anger",
"text": "Anger"
},
{
"id": "loneliness",
"text": "Loneliness"
},
{
"id": "joy",
"text": "Joy"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_196",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps emotional distance soften?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"distance",
"softening"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "apology",
"text": "Apology"
},
{
"id": "gentle_check_in",
"text": "Gentle check-in"
},
{
"id": "shared_time",
"text": "Shared time"
},
{
"id": "physical_closeness",
"text": "Physical closeness"
},
{
"id": "humor",
"text": "Humor"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_197",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes closeness feel mutual?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"mutuality",
"closeness"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "both_sharing",
"text": "Both sharing"
},
{
"id": "both_listening",
"text": "Both listening"
},
{
"id": "both_asking",
"text": "Both asking"
},
{
"id": "both_reassuring",
"text": "Both reassuring"
},
{
"id": "both_remembering",
"text": "Both remembering"
}
],
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"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_198",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which types of tenderness matter most to you?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"tenderness",
"needs"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "words",
"text": "Words"
},
{
"id": "touch",
"text": "Touch"
},
{
"id": "patience",
"text": "Patience"
},
{
"id": "attention",
"text": "Attention"
},
{
"id": "protection",
"text": "Protection"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_199",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should we protect during deep talks?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"deep_talks",
"protection"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "pacing",
"text": "Pacing"
},
{
"id": "kindness",
"text": "Kindness"
},
{
"id": "honesty",
"text": "Honesty"
},
{
"id": "no_interrupting",
"text": "No interrupting"
}
],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_200",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can make emotional intimacy fade?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"fade",
"intimacy"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "busyness",
"text": "Busyness"
},
{
"id": "avoidance",
"text": "Avoidance"
},
{
"id": "unresolved_conflict",
"text": "Unresolved conflict"
},
{
"id": "screens",
"text": "Screens"
},
{
"id": "feeling_unappreciated",
"text": "Feeling unappreciated"
}
],
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"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_201",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps emotional intimacy grow?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"growth",
"intimacy"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "curiosity",
"text": "Curiosity"
},
{
"id": "consistency",
"text": "Consistency"
},
{
"id": "shared_rituals",
"text": "Shared rituals"
},
{
"id": "vulnerability",
"text": "Vulnerability"
},
{
"id": "repair",
"text": "Repair"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_202",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which needs are hardest to name?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"needs",
"difficulty"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
},
{
"id": "affection",
"text": "Affection"
},
{
"id": "space",
"text": "Space"
},
{
"id": "attention",
"text": "Attention"
},
{
"id": "comfort",
"text": "Comfort"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_203",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which responses make you feel cared for?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"care",
"responses"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "that_makes_sense",
"text": "That makes sense"
},
{
"id": "tell_me_more",
"text": "Tell me more"
},
{
"id": "i_am_here",
"text": "I am here"
},
{
"id": "i_am_proud_of_you",
"text": "I am proud of you"
},
{
"id": "how_can_i_help",
"text": "How can I help"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_204",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which responses make you feel dismissed?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"dismissal",
"responses"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "you_are_overthinking",
"text": "You are overthinking"
},
{
"id": "it_is_not_a_big_deal",
"text": "It is not a big deal"
},
{
"id": "just_relax",
"text": "Just relax"
},
{
"id": "i_already_know",
"text": "I already know"
},
{
"id": "why_are_you_upset",
"text": "Why are you upset"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_205",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should we do after a vulnerable moment?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"aftercare",
"vulnerability"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "thank_each_other",
"text": "Thank each other"
},
{
"id": "sit_quietly",
"text": "Sit quietly"
},
{
"id": "hug",
"text": "Hug"
},
{
"id": "follow_up_later",
"text": "Follow up later"
},
{
"id": "protect_privacy",
"text": "Protect privacy"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_206",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes you feel chosen?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"chosen",
"love"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "being_prioritized",
"text": "Being prioritized"
},
{
"id": "being_defended",
"text": "Being defended"
},
{
"id": "being_remembered",
"text": "Being remembered"
},
{
"id": "being_asked",
"text": "Being asked"
},
{
"id": "being_comforted",
"text": "Being comforted"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_207",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which parts of emotional closeness need more consent?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consent",
"closeness"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "timing",
"text": "Timing"
},
{
"id": "depth",
"text": "Depth"
},
{
"id": "touch",
"text": "Touch"
},
{
"id": "advice",
"text": "Advice"
},
{
"id": "follow_up",
"text": "Follow-up"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_208",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which rituals would help us stay emotionally close?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"rituals",
"closeness"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "weekly_check_in",
"text": "Weekly check-in"
},
{
"id": "phone_free_dinner",
"text": "Phone-free dinner"
},
{
"id": "bedtime_question",
"text": "Bedtime question"
},
{
"id": "morning_affection",
"text": "Morning affection"
},
{
"id": "monthly_memory_night",
"text": "Monthly memory night"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_209",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should I be gentler with?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"gentleness",
"needs"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "your_fears",
"text": "Your fears"
},
{
"id": "your_tears",
"text": "Your tears"
},
{
"id": "your_anger",
"text": "Your anger"
},
{
"id": "your_quiet",
"text": "Your quiet"
},
{
"id": "your_uncertainty",
"text": "Your uncertainty"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_210",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should we be more honest about?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"honesty",
"depth"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "needs",
"text": "Needs"
},
{
"id": "loneliness",
"text": "Loneliness"
},
{
"id": "disappointment",
"text": "Disappointment"
},
{
"id": "desire_for_closeness",
"text": "Desire for closeness"
},
{
"id": "fear_of_conflict",
"text": "Fear of conflict"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_211",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How emotionally safe do you feel with me right now?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"safety",
"current"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not safe",
"max_label": "Very safe",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_212",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to open up to me?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"opening_up",
"ease"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Very hard",
"max_label": "Very easy",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_213",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How seen do you feel by me lately?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"feeling_seen",
"recent"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not seen",
"max_label": "Very seen",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_214",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable are you asking me for comfort?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"comfort",
"asking"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Uncomfortable",
"max_label": "Very comfortable",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_215",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How often do we make room for deeper feelings?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"feelings",
"room"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Rarely",
"max_label": "Very often",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_216",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do I respond when you are vulnerable?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"vulnerability",
"responsiveness"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not well",
"max_label": "Very well",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_217",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do you respond when I am vulnerable?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"vulnerability",
"self_reflection"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not well",
"max_label": "Very well",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_218",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How close have you felt to me this week?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"closeness",
"weekly"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Distant",
"max_label": "Very close",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_219",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much emotional distance do you feel between us?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"distance",
"current"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "None",
"max_label": "A lot",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_220",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much reassurance do you need right now?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reassurance",
"current"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Very little",
"max_label": "A lot",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_221",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How safe does silence feel between us?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"silence",
"safety"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Unsafe",
"max_label": "Very safe",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_222",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much tenderness do you feel from me?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"tenderness",
"receiving"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Very little",
"max_label": "A lot",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_223",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much tenderness do you want from me?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"tenderness",
"needs"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Very little",
"max_label": "A lot",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_224",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How often do we follow up after deep talks?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"follow_up",
"deep_talks"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Rarely",
"max_label": "Very often",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_225",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable are you naming your needs?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"needs",
"comfort"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Uncomfortable",
"max_label": "Very comfortable",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_226",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much does stress block your openness?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"stress",
"openness"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not at all",
"max_label": "A lot",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_227",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much does conflict block your openness?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conflict",
"openness"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not at all",
"max_label": "A lot",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_228",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How accepted do you feel when you are emotional?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"acceptance",
"emotions"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not accepted",
"max_label": "Fully accepted",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_229",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we protect each others vulnerability?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"protection",
"vulnerability"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not well",
"max_label": "Very well",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_230",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much emotional intimacy do you want more of?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"desire",
"intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Very little",
"max_label": "A lot",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_231",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How confident are you that I want to understand you?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"confidence",
"understanding"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not confident",
"max_label": "Very confident",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_232",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How often do you feel emotionally chosen by me?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"chosen",
"frequency"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Rarely",
"max_label": "Very often",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_233",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How good are we at repairing emotional distance?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"repair",
"distance"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not good",
"max_label": "Very good",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_234",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do small affectionate words matter to you?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"words",
"affection"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_235",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How ready do you feel for a deeper conversation today?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"readiness",
"deep_talk"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not ready",
"max_label": "Very ready",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_236",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Which feels more intimate?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"intimacy",
"preference"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_deep_talk",
"text": "A deep talk"
},
{
"id": "quiet_closeness",
"text": "Quiet closeness"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_237",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Which feels safer when you are upset?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"safety",
"upset"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "comfort_first",
"text": "Comfort first"
},
{
"id": "space_first",
"text": "Space first"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_238",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Which do you need more often?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"needs",
"frequency"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
},
{
"id": "curiosity",
"text": "Curiosity"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_239",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Which helps you open up?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"opening_up",
"help"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "gentle_questions",
"text": "Gentle questions"
},
{
"id": "patient_silence",
"text": "Patient silence"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_240",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Which feels more loving?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"love",
"expression"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "being_remembered",
"text": "Being remembered"
},
{
"id": "being_asked",
"text": "Being asked"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_241",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Which is harder to say?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"difficulty",
"expression"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "i_need_you",
"text": "I need you"
},
{
"id": "i_am_hurt",
"text": "I am hurt"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_242",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Which feels more vulnerable?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"vulnerability",
"comparison"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "sharing_fear",
"text": "Sharing fear"
},
{
"id": "asking_for_comfort",
"text": "Asking for comfort"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_243",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Which should we protect more?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"protection",
"priority"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "tenderness",
"text": "Tenderness"
},
{
"id": "honesty",
"text": "Honesty"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_244",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Which helps after conflict?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conflict",
"repair"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_hug",
"text": "A hug"
},
{
"id": "a_calm_talk",
"text": "A calm talk"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_245",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Which closeness ritual sounds better?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"ritual",
"closeness"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "bedtime_check_in",
"text": "Bedtime check-in"
},
{
"id": "morning_affection",
"text": "Morning affection"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_246",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Which do you notice more?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"noticing",
"connection"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "tone",
"text": "Tone"
},
{
"id": "actions",
"text": "Actions"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_247",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Which do you want more from me?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"needs",
"partner"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "softness",
"text": "Softness"
},
{
"id": "directness",
"text": "Directness"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_248",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Which is easier for you?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"ease",
"self_reflection"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "giving_comfort",
"text": "Giving comfort"
},
{
"id": "receiving_comfort",
"text": "Receiving comfort"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_249",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Which feels more healing?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"healing",
"support"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "i_understand",
"text": "I understand"
},
{
"id": "i_am_here",
"text": "I am here"
}
]
},
{
"id": "emotional_intimacy_250",
"category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Which should come first today?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"today",
"priority"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "connection",
"text": "Connection"
},
{
"id": "rest",
"text": "Rest"
}
]
}
]
}