diff --git a/seed/questions/communication.json b/seed/questions/communication.json index 3eb510f8..9feef270 100644 --- a/seed/questions/communication.json +++ b/seed/questions/communication.json @@ -2,5342 +2,5484 @@ "category": { "id": "communication", "display_name": "Communication", - "description": "Questions about listening, expressing needs, understanding each other, and talking clearly.", + "description": "Warm, Closer-style questions that help couples talk, listen, text, check in, ask for what they need, and stay connected with sweetness, softness, humor, and playful moments where they fit.", "access": "mixed", - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, - "question_type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 - }, + "icon_name": "chat_bubble_outline", "schema_version": "question_v2", - "supported_types": [ - "written", - "single_choice", - "multi_choice", - "scale", - "this_or_that" - ] + "metadata": { + "total_questions": 250, + "free_questions": 75, + "premium_questions": 175, + "type_counts": { + "written": 150, + "single_choice": 40, + "multi_choice": 20, + "scale": 25, + "this_or_that": 15 + } + } }, "questions": [ { "id": "communication_001", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing I do that helps you feel heard?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What makes it easiest for you to talk to me?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "listening", - "connection" + "ease", + "talking", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_002", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "When do you feel it is easiest to talk to me?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What kind of check-in feels sweet instead of serious?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "connection" + "check_in", + "fun_first", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_003", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of tone helps you stay open during a hard conversation?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one thing I say that makes you feel heard?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "tone", - "hard_topics" + "listening", + "heard", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_004", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one topic we usually communicate well about?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What makes it easier to tell me something real and still feel close?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "truth", + "safety", "communication", - "connection" + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_005", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one topic we tend to avoid?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What kind of timing helps a hard talk go better?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "avoidance", - "connection" + "timing", + "hard_talks", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_006", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel safe enough to be honest with me?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What time of day makes talking feel most natural for us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "safety", - "honesty" + "timing", + "stress", + "communication", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_007", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one phrase I use that makes you feel supported?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one small phrase that makes you soften?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "support", - "connection" + "phrases", + "softness", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_008", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one phrase I use that sometimes shuts you down?", + "text": "What is one phrase that would help us try again softer?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "phrases", + "tension", "communication", - "connection" + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_009", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "When you are upset, do you prefer comfort, space, advice, or distraction?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps you feel like I am really listening?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "emotions", - "space" + "listening", + "presence", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_010", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What should I ask you more often?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps you listen when you are tired?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "questions", - "connection" + "listening", + "tired", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_011", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way I can listen better this week?", + "text": "What makes texting feel connected instead of confusing?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "listening", - "connection" + "texting", + "connection", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_012", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "How do you know when I am really paying attention?", + "text": "What kind of message from me makes your day better?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "connection" + "texting", + "fun_first", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_013", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you wish I understood without needing a long explanation?", + "text": "What is one topic we should make easier to bring up?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "understanding", - "connection" + "topics", + "ease", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_014", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a conversation with me feel easy?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps you ask for what you need?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "connection" + "needs", + "asking", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_015", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a conversation with me feel difficult?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you hear what I need?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "connection" + "needs", + "listening", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_016", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "Do you feel more loved by words, actions, time, touch, or help?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What kind of tone helps you stay open?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "connection" + "tone", + "openness", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_017", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we should check in about every week?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What kind of tone makes you shut down?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "check_in", - "connection" + "tone", + "shutdown", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_018", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one question you wish I would ask when you seem quiet?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps big feelings come out in words instead of noise?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "questions", - "connection" + "feelings", + "emotional_safety", + "communication", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_019", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I tell when you are overwhelmed but not saying it?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you talk when your feelings are still loading?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "stress", - "connection" + "feelings", + "uncertainty", + "communication", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_020", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel less defensive during conflict?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes a conversation feel playful between us?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "conflict", - "defensiveness" + "play", + "fun_first", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_021", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one communication habit you appreciate in me?", + "text": "What is one inside-joke way we could say, 'I need attention'?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "connection" + "play", + "attention", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_022", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one communication habit you want us to improve together?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you feel comfortable saying, 'Can we try that again?'", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "connection" + "restart", + "phrases", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_023", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "When do you feel most understood by me?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one thing I could ask more often?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "understanding", - "connection" + "curiosity", + "questions", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_024", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "When do you feel least understood by me?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one question from me that would feel caring?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "understanding", - "connection" + "questions", + "care", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_025", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What does a good apology sound like to you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes advice feel helpful instead of bossy?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "apology", - "connection" + "advice", + "respect", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_026", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What does a bad apology sound like to you?", + "text": "What helps you tell me when you only want me to listen?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "apology", - "connection" + "listening", + "support", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_027", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we do when a conversation starts getting heated?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you tell me when you actually want ideas?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "connection" + "support", + "advice", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_028", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "Do you prefer serious talks planned ahead or brought up naturally?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What makes silence feel comfortable between us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "connection" + "silence", + "comfort", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_029", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one conversation we handled better than we used to?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes silence feel confusing between us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "connection" + "silence", + "clarity", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_030", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one subject where you want more patience from me?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps us talk about plans without stress?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "connection" + "planning", + "ease", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_031", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one subject where you want more honesty from me?", + "text": "What helps us talk about feelings without making it heavy?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty", - "connection" + "feelings", + "fun_first", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_032", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you bring up something uncomfortable?", + "text": "What makes a quick check-in feel meaningful?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "connection" + "check_in", + "meaningful", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_033", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes you hesitate to bring something up?", + "text": "What makes a long conversation feel worth it?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "connection" + "deep_talks", + "meaningful", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_034", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I make space for your opinion when we disagree?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What kind of compliment helps you open up?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "space", - "connection" + "compliments", + "openness", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_035", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you need from me when you are trying to explain yourself?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What would make it easier to say, 'That stung a little'?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "hurt", + "honesty", "communication", - "connection" + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_036", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing I do that makes you feel interrupted?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you stay soft if I say something stung?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "hurt", + "listening", "communication", - "connection" + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_037", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing I do that makes you feel respected?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one way we can make daily communication feel more like us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "connection" + "daily_life", + "identity", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_038", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of check-in would feel useful instead of annoying?", - 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"communication", - "connection" + "busy_life", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_041", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you think I am trying to communicate better lately?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What playful little check could stop us from guessing wrong?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "assumptions", + "clarity", "communication", - "connection" + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_042", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we can make everyday conversations more meaningful?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps a disagreement feel like us solving a puzzle together?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "disagreement", "communication", - "connection" + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_043", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of message from me makes your day better?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps us end a conversation warmly?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "connection" + "ending", + "warmth", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_044", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one text or call habit we should improve?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one thing you love about how we talk?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "texting", - "connection" + "gratitude", + "talking", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - 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"min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_047", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way I can avoid making assumptions about you?", + "text": "How could we make daily check-ins feel more playful when it fits?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "avoidance", - "connection" + "check_in", + "daily_life", + "fun_first", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_048", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What assumption do you think I sometimes make about you?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", + "text": "What helps daily check-ins feel safe instead of tense?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "communication", - "connection" + "check_in", + "daily_life", + "safety", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - 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"listening", - "body_language" + "ending", + "warmth", + "weekly", + "habits", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_148", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way technology helps our communication?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What do you wish I understood about ending conversations warmly?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "digital", - "connection" + "ending", + "warmth", + "understanding", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_149", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way technology hurts our communication?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What boundary would help ending conversations warmly feel respectful?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "digital", - "connection" + "ending", + "warmth", + "boundaries", + "respect", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_150", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What texting habit should we change?", + "text": "What would help us handle ending conversations warmly with more warmth?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "texting", - "connection" + "ending", + "warmth", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_151", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When you are upset, what helps most first?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What communication style feels best from me?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "support", - "emotions" + "style", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - }, - { - "id": "advice", - "text": "Advice" - }, - { - "id": "distraction", - "text": "Distraction" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "warm", + "text": "Warm" + }, + { + "id": "direct", + "text": "Direct" + }, + { + "id": "playful", + "text": "Playful" + }, + { + "id": "gentle", + "text": "Gentle" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_152", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do you usually process hard feelings?", + "text": "What kind of check-in sounds best today?", "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "processing", - "emotions" + "check_in", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talking", - "text": "Talking" - }, - { - "id": "thinking_alone", - "text": "Thinking alone" - }, - { - "id": "writing", - "text": "Writing" - }, - { - "id": "doing_something_active", - "text": "Doing something active" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet_and_quick", + "text": "Sweet and quick" + }, + { + "id": "deep_and_slow", + "text": "Deep and slow" + }, + { + "id": "text_first", + "text": "Text first" + }, + { + "id": "later_tonight", + "text": "Later tonight" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_153", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of check-in feels best to you?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps you feel heard fastest?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "check_in", - "preferences" + "listening", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "quick_and_casual", - "text": "Quick and casual" - }, - { - "id": "planned_and_focused", - "text": "Planned and focused" - }, - { - "id": "deep_and_slow", - "text": "Deep and slow" - }, - { - "id": "only_when_needed", - "text": "Only when needed" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "repeat_it_back", + "text": "Repeat it back" + }, + { + "id": "ask_questions", + "text": "Ask questions" + }, + { + "id": "put_phone_down", + "text": "Put phone down" + }, + { + "id": "no_fixing_yet", + "text": "No fixing yet" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_154", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "During disagreement, what do you need most?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes texting feel better?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "conflict", - "needs" + "texting", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "clarity", - "text": "Clarity" - }, - { - "id": "a_pause", - "text": "A pause" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_words", + "text": "Clear words" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_notes", + "text": "Sweet notes" + }, + { + "id": "funny_messages", + "text": "Funny messages" + }, + { + "id": "quick_replies", + "text": "Quick replies" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_155", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel most heard?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What tone helps you stay open?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "listening", - "attention" + "tone", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "eye_contact", - "text": "Eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "follow_up_questions", - "text": "Follow-up questions" - }, - { - "id": "no_interrupting", - "text": "No interrupting" - }, - { - "id": "remembering_details", - "text": "Remembering details" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft", + "text": "Soft" + }, + { + "id": "steady", + "text": "Steady" + }, + { + "id": "playful", + "text": "Playful" + }, + { + "id": "direct", + "text": "Direct" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_156", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What usually makes you shut down?", + "text": "What helps when a talk gets awkward?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "shutdown", - "conflict" + "awkwardness", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "raised_voices", - "text": "Raised voices" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_blamed", - "text": "Feeling blamed" - }, - { - "id": "too_many_questions", - "text": "Too many questions" - }, - { - "id": "bad_timing", - "text": "Bad timing" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "laugh_gently", + "text": "Laugh gently" + }, + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "try_again", + "text": "Try again" + }, + { + "id": "say_it_simpler", + "text": "Say it simpler" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_157", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should I do before giving advice?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What kind of message makes your day?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "advice", - "support" + "texting", + "fun_first", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_permission", - "text": "Ask permission" - }, - { - "id": "listen_longer", - "text": "Listen longer" - }, - { - "id": "validate_first", - "text": "Validate first" - }, - { - "id": "give_advice_right_away", - "text": "Give advice right away" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet", + "text": "Sweet" + }, + { + "id": "flirty", + "text": "Flirty" + }, + { + "id": "funny", + "text": "Funny" + }, + { + "id": "thoughtful", + "text": "Thoughtful" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_158", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do you prefer serious topics to start?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes advice feel welcome?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "serious_talks", - "timing" + "advice", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "directly", - "text": "Directly" - }, - { - "id": "gently", - "text": "Gently" - }, - { - "id": "with_warning", - "text": "With warning" - }, - { - "id": "in_writing", - "text": "In writing" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + }, + { + "id": "keep_it_gentle", + "text": "Keep it gentle" + }, + { + "id": "give_one_idea", + "text": "Give one idea" + }, + { + "id": "listen_first", + "text": "Listen first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_159", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What communication habit matters most to you?", + "text": "What makes silence feel good?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "values", + "silence", "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cuddling", + "text": "Cuddling" + }, + { + "id": "relaxing_together", + "text": "Relaxing together" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "soft_check_in", + "text": "Soft check-in" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_160", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What type of apology matters most?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps us make plans smoothly?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "apology", - "repair" + "planning", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "taking_responsibility", - "text": "Taking responsibility" - }, - { - "id": "showing_understanding", - "text": "Showing understanding" - }, - { - "id": "changed_behavior", - "text": "Changed behavior" - }, - { - "id": "warm_reassurance", - "text": "Warm reassurance" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_time", + "text": "Clear time" + }, + { + "id": "shared_list", + "text": "Shared list" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_starts", + "text": "One person starts" + }, + { + "id": "keep_it_simple", + "text": "Keep it simple" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_161", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When plans change, what do you need most?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps you bring up a need?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "planning", - "clarity" + "needs", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "quick_update", - "text": "Quick update" - }, - { - "id": "clear_reason", - "text": "Clear reason" - }, - { - "id": "new_plan", - "text": "New plan" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "kind_words", + "text": "Kind words" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_162", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What tone helps you stay open?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps you hear a need?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "tone", - "safety" + "needs", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "calm", - "text": "Calm" - }, - { - "id": "warm", - "text": "Warm" - }, - { - "id": "direct", - "text": "Direct" - }, - { - "id": "soft", - "text": "Soft" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_tone", + "text": "Soft tone" + }, + { + "id": "clear_request", + "text": "Clear request" + }, + { + "id": "no_blame", + "text": "No blame" + }, + { + "id": "time_to_think", + "text": "Time to think" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_163", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What tone makes things harder?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes daily talk feel connected?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "tone", - "conflict" + "daily_life", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "cold", - "text": "Cold" - }, - { - "id": "sharp", - "text": "Sharp" - }, - { - "id": "dismissive", - "text": "Dismissive" - }, - { - "id": "rushed", - "text": "Rushed" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "little_jokes", + "text": "Little jokes" + }, + { + "id": "real_questions", + "text": "Real questions" + }, + { + "id": "no_phones", + "text": "No phones" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_164", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we pause a tense talk?", + "text": "What helps you reset a conversation?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "pause", - "repair" + "restart", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "use_a_phrase", - "text": "Use a phrase" - }, - { - "id": "set_a_timer", - "text": "Set a timer" - }, - { - "id": "take_separate_space", - "text": "Take separate space" - }, - { - "id": "switch_to_writing", - "text": "Switch to writing" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "try_again", + "text": "Try again" + }, + { + "id": "use_softer_words", + "text": "Use softer words" + }, + { + "id": "take_a_breath", + "text": "Take a breath" + }, + { + "id": "hold_hands", + "text": "Hold hands" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_165", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel respected in conversation?", + "text": "What should a good talk end with?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "respect", - "listening" + "ending", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "being_asked", - "text": "Being asked" - }, - { - "id": "being_heard", - "text": "Being heard" - }, - { - "id": "being_believed", - "text": "Being believed" - }, - { - "id": "being_given_time", - "text": "Being given time" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "thank_you", + "text": "Thank you" + }, + { + "id": "a_hug", + "text": "A hug" + }, + { + "id": "next_step", + "text": "Next step" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_reassurance", + "text": "Sweet reassurance" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_166", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you need when you say you are fine?", + "text": "Which communication habit needs the most love?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emotions", - "check_in" + "habits", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "believe_me", - "text": "Believe me" - }, - { - "id": "ask_gently", - "text": "Ask gently" - }, - { - "id": "give_space", - "text": "Give space" - }, - { - "id": "check_later", - "text": "Check later" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "listening", + "text": "Listening" + }, + { + "id": "timing", + "text": "Timing" + }, + { + "id": "tone", + "text": "Tone" + }, + { + "id": "follow_up", + "text": "Follow-up" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_167", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes feedback easier to receive?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes hard talks easier?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feedback", - "growth" + "hard_talks", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_examples", - "text": "Specific examples" - }, - { - "id": "kind_tone", - "text": "Kind tone" - }, - { - "id": "private_setting", - "text": "Private setting" - }, - { - "id": "clear_request", - "text": "Clear request" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "soft_start", + "text": "Soft start" + }, + { + "id": "breaks_allowed", + "text": "Breaks allowed" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_168", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes feedback harder to receive?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes feedback easier to hear?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feedback", - "defensiveness" + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "blame", - "text": "Blame" - }, - { - "id": "public_setting", - "text": "Public setting" - }, - { - "id": "bad_timing", - "text": "Bad timing" - }, - { - "id": "harsh_tone", - "text": "Harsh tone" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific_words", + "text": "Specific words" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_tone", + "text": "Gentle tone" + }, + { + "id": "one_thing", + "text": "One thing" + }, + { + "id": "praise_too", + "text": "Praise too" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_169", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you return after a fight?", + "text": "What makes feedback feel harder to hear than it needs to?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "conflict" + "feedback", + "communication", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "apology", - "text": "Apology" - }, - { - "id": "touch", - "text": "Touch" - }, - { - "id": "space_first", - "text": "Space first" - }, - { - "id": "talking_it_through", - "text": "Talking it through" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "bad_timing", + "text": "Bad timing" + }, + { + "id": "labels", + "text": "Labels" + }, + { + "id": "sarcasm", + "text": "Sarcasm" + }, + { + "id": "too_many_things", + "text": "Too many things" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_170", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a repair feel real?", + "text": "What helps us clear up a mix-up without making it dramatic?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "trust" + "misunderstanding", + "communication", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "changed_behavior", - "text": "Changed behavior" - }, - { - "id": "clear_apology", - "text": "Clear apology" - }, - { - "id": "no_excuses", - "text": "No excuses" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_follow_up", - "text": "Gentle follow-up" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "repeat_back", + "text": "Repeat back" + }, + { + "id": "ask_again", + "text": "Ask again" + }, + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "assume_good_intent", + "text": "Assume good intent" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_171", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When I vent, what should you do first?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps when one of us gets quiet?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "venting", - "support" + "silence", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "listen", - "text": "Listen" - }, - { - "id": "ask_questions", - "text": "Ask questions" - }, - { - "id": "validate", - "text": "Validate" - }, - { - "id": "offer_help", - "text": "Offer help" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gentle_check_in", + "text": "Gentle check-in" + }, + { + "id": "space", + "text": "Space" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "return_time", + "text": "Return time" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_172", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which conversation format feels safest?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps when one of us talks too fast?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "safety", - "format" + "pace", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "face_to_face", - "text": "Face to face" - }, - { - "id": "text_first", - "text": "Text first" - }, - { - "id": "walk_and_talk", - "text": "Walk and talk" - }, - { - "id": "planned_check_in", - "text": "Planned check-in" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "one_topic", + "text": "One topic" + }, + { + "id": "breathe", + "text": "Breathe" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_173", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How often should we have deeper check-ins?", + "text": "What kind of phone-free time sounds doable?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "check_in", - "routine" + "phones", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "daily", - "text": "Daily" - }, - { - "id": "weekly", - "text": "Weekly" - }, - { - "id": "monthly", - "text": "Monthly" - }, - { - "id": "only_when_needed", - "text": "Only when needed" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "dinner", + "text": "Dinner" + }, + { + "id": "bedtime", + "text": "Bedtime" + }, + { + "id": "first_10_minutes", + "text": "First 10 minutes" + }, + { + "id": "date_night", + "text": "Date night" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_174", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we avoid during conflict?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps us talk about feelings lightly?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "conflict", - "boundaries" + "feelings", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_calling", - "text": "Name calling" - }, - { - "id": "interrupting", - "text": "Interrupting" - }, - { - "id": "leaving_abruptly", - "text": "Leaving abruptly" - }, - { - "id": "bringing_up_old_fights", - "text": "Bringing up old fights" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_question", + "text": "One question" + }, + { + "id": "soft_humor", + "text": "Soft humor" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "short_check_in", + "text": "Short check-in" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_175", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel like we are a team?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps us talk about feelings deeply?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "conflict" + "feelings", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_language", - "text": "Shared language" - }, - { - "id": "calm_tone", - "text": "Calm tone" - }, - { - "id": "problem_solving", - "text": "Problem solving" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "time", + "text": "Time" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "no_fixing", + "text": "No fixing" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_176", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel alone in a hard talk?", + "text": "What helps us not mind-read?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "loneliness", - "conflict" + "assumptions", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "silence", - "text": "Silence" - }, - { - "id": "defensiveness", - "text": "Defensiveness" - }, - { - "id": "dismissal", - "text": "Dismissal" - }, - { - "id": "coldness", - "text": "Coldness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + }, + { + "id": "repeat_back", + "text": "Repeat back" + }, + { + "id": "check_tone", + "text": "Check tone" + }, + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_177", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do you prefer reassurance?", + "text": "What makes a question feel caring?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "reassurance", - "needs" + "questions", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "words", - "text": "Words" - }, - { - "id": "actions", - "text": "Actions" - }, - { - "id": "touch", - "text": "Touch" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "curiosity", + "text": "Curiosity" + }, + { + "id": "soft_tone", + "text": "Soft tone" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_answers", + "text": "Remembering answers" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_178", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of question opens you up?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes a question feel too intense too fast?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "questions", - "vulnerability" + "communication", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle", - "text": "Gentle" - }, - { - "id": "specific", - "text": "Specific" - }, - { - "id": "curious", - "text": "Curious" - }, - { - "id": "simple", - "text": "Simple" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "too_many", + "text": "Too many" + }, + { + "id": "bad_timing", + "text": "Bad timing" + }, + { + "id": "sharp_tone", + "text": "Sharp tone" + }, + { + "id": "no_reason", + "text": "No reason" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_179", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of question closes you down?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps us talk after a long day?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "questions", - "shutdown" + "tired", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "loaded", - "text": "Loaded" - }, - { - "id": "rushed", - "text": "Rushed" - }, - { - "id": "accusing", - "text": "Accusing" - }, - { - "id": "too_broad", - "text": "Too broad" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "snack_first", + "text": "Snack first" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_first", + "text": "Quiet first" + }, + { + "id": "short_version", + "text": "Short version" + }, + { + "id": "cuddle_first", + "text": "Cuddle first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_180", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is your first reaction to conflict?", + "text": "What helps us talk before making a decision?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "conflict", - "pattern" + "decisions", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_more", - "text": "Talk more" - }, - { - "id": "go_quiet", - "text": "Go quiet" - }, - { - "id": "get_defensive", - "text": "Get defensive" - }, - { - "id": "need_space", - "text": "Need space" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "facts", + "text": "Facts" + }, + { + "id": "feelings", + "text": "Feelings" + }, + { + "id": "options", + "text": "Options" + }, + { + "id": "time_to_think", + "text": "Time to think" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_181", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is hardest to say clearly?", + "text": "What helps us talk about money calmly?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "honesty", - "vulnerability" + "money", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "needs", - "text": "Needs" - }, - { - "id": "fears", - "text": "Fears" - }, - { - "id": "disappointment", - "text": "Disappointment" - }, - { - "id": "boundaries", - "text": "Boundaries" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "facts_first", + "text": "Facts first" + }, + { + "id": "no_blame", + "text": "No blame" + }, + { + "id": "short_talk", + "text": "Short talk" + }, + { + "id": "shared_goal", + "text": "Shared goal" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_182", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is easiest to talk about?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps us talk about family calmly?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "ease", - "conversation" + "family", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "plans", - "text": "Plans" - }, - { - "id": "feelings", - "text": "Feelings" - }, - { - "id": "daily_life", - "text": "Daily life" - }, - { - "id": "dreams", - "text": "Dreams" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "private_talk", + "text": "Private talk" + }, + { + "id": "choose_us", + "text": "Choose us" + }, + { + "id": "kind_words", + "text": "Kind words" + }, + { + "id": "clear_boundary", + "text": "Clear boundary" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_183", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we name sooner?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes private talks feel safe, sweet, and not awkward?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "awareness", - "repair" + "intimacy", + "communication", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "stress", - "text": "Stress" - }, - { - "id": "distance", - "text": "Distance" - }, - { - "id": "hurt", - "text": "Hurt" - }, - { - "id": "confusion", - "text": "Confusion" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_words", + "text": "Gentle words" + }, + { + "id": "easy_pause", + "text": "Easy pause" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_184", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you believe I understand?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps us say no kindly?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "understanding", - "listening" + "no", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "repeating_back", - "text": "Repeating back" - }, - { - "id": "asking_more", - "text": "Asking more" - }, - { - "id": "changing_behavior", - "text": "Changing behavior" - }, - { - "id": "staying_calm", - "text": "Staying calm" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "simple_words", + "text": "Simple words" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "no_guilt", + "text": "No guilt" + }, + { + "id": "another_option", + "text": "Another option" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_185", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel interrupted?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us say yes honestly?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "attention", - "respect" + "yes", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "cutting_in", - "text": "Cutting in" - }, - { - "id": "finishing_sentences", - "text": "Finishing sentences" - }, - { - "id": "changing_topics", - "text": "Changing topics" - }, - { - "id": "checking_phone", - "text": "Checking phone" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "clear_want", + "text": "Clear want" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_186", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would improve our daily talks most?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes a quick apology land?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "improvement" + "apology", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_time", - "text": "More time" - }, - { - "id": "more_patience", - "text": "More patience" - }, - { - "id": "more_honesty", - "text": "More honesty" - }, - { - "id": "fewer_distractions", - "text": "Fewer distractions" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific", + "text": "Specific" + }, + { + "id": "gentle", + "text": "Gentle" + }, + { + "id": "no_excuses", + "text": "No excuses" + }, + { + "id": "changed_action", + "text": "Changed action" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_187", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is your preferred conflict pace?", + "text": "What makes a compliment easier to receive?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "conflict", - "timing" + "compliments", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "resolve_now", - "text": "Resolve now" - }, - { - "id": "pause_first", - "text": "Pause first" - }, - { - "id": "sleep_on_it", - "text": "Sleep on it" - }, - { - "id": "schedule_it", - "text": "Schedule it" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific", + "text": "Specific" + }, + { + "id": "sweet", + "text": "Sweet" + }, + { + "id": "private", + "text": "Private" + }, + { + "id": "no_teasing", + "text": "No teasing" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_188", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we do after a misunderstanding?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What kind of playful signal would help us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "misunderstanding", - "repair" + "signals", + "fun_first", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "clarify", - "text": "Clarify" - }, - { - "id": "apologize", - "text": "Apologize" - }, - { - "id": "laugh_gently", - "text": "Laugh gently" - }, - { - "id": "check_feelings", - "text": "Check feelings" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_need_a_hug", + "text": "I need a hug" + }, + { + "id": "i_need_attention", + "text": "I need attention" + }, + { + "id": "please_slow_down", + "text": "Please slow down" + }, + { + "id": "try_again", + "text": "Try again" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_189", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes honesty feel safer?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes communication feel romantic?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "honesty", - "safety" + "romance", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_punishment", - "text": "No punishment" - }, - { - "id": "kind_tone", - "text": "Kind tone" - }, - { - "id": "clear_listening", - "text": "Clear listening" - }, - { - "id": "time_to_explain", - "text": "Time to explain" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet_texts", + "text": "Sweet texts" + }, + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_details", + "text": "Remembering details" + }, + { + "id": "soft_voice", + "text": "Soft voice" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_190", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should be our reset phrase?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What would make us better at talking next month?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "reset" + "monthly", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "can_we_restart", - "text": "Can we restart?" - }, - { - "id": "i_want_to_understand", - "text": "I want to understand" - }, - { - "id": "same_team", - "text": "Same team" - }, - { - "id": "pause_and_come_back", - "text": "Pause and come back" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_check_ins", + "text": "More check-ins" + }, + { + "id": "better_timing", + "text": "Better timing" + }, + { + "id": "less_phones", + "text": "Less phones" + }, + { + "id": "more_softness", + "text": "More softness" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_191", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things help you feel listened to? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes everyday communication feel good?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "listening", - "attention" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "eye_contact", - "text": "Eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "no_interrupting", - "text": "No interrupting" - }, - { - "id": "follow_up_questions", - "text": "Follow-up questions" - }, - { - "id": "remembering_later", - "text": "Remembering later" - }, - { - "id": "putting_phone_away", - "text": "Putting phone away" - } + "daily_life", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "little_jokes", + "text": "Little jokes" + }, + { + "id": "real_listening", + "text": "Real listening" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_texts", + "text": "Sweet texts" + }, + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "no_phones", + "text": "No phones" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_192", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things make hard talks harder for you? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps a hard talk go better?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "conflict", - "triggers" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "raised_voices", - "text": "Raised voices" - }, - { - "id": "bad_timing", - "text": "Bad timing" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_blamed", - "text": "Feeling blamed" - }, - { - "id": "sarcasm", - "text": "Sarcasm" - }, - { - "id": "too_much_pressure", - "text": "Too much pressure" - } + "hard_talks", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "soft_start", + "text": "Soft start" + }, + { + "id": "breaks_allowed", + "text": "Breaks allowed" + }, + { + "id": "one_topic", + "text": "One topic" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_193", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which topics need better communication between us? Select all that apply.", + "text": "What makes you feel heard?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "topics", - "growth" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "plans", - "text": "Plans" - }, - { - "id": "feelings", - "text": "Feelings" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "household_needs", - "text": "Household needs" - } + "listening", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "repeat_back", + "text": "Repeat back" + }, + { + "id": "ask_questions", + "text": "Ask questions" + }, + { + "id": "no_fixing_yet", + "text": "No fixing yet" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "focused_attention", + "text": "Focused attention" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_194", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which support styles do you like most? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes communication more fun?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "support", - "needs" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "advice", - "text": "Advice" - }, - { - "id": "practical_help", - "text": "Practical help" - }, - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - }, - { - "id": "encouragement", - "text": "Encouragement" - } + "fun_first", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "inside_jokes", + "text": "Inside jokes" + }, + { + "id": "playful_signals", + "text": "Playful signals" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_texts", + "text": "Sweet texts" + }, + { + "id": "silly_questions", + "text": "Silly questions" + }, + { + "id": "flirty_notes", + "text": "Flirty notes" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_195", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs show you are overwhelmed? Select all that apply.", + "text": "What helps us reset a conversation?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "stress", - "signals" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "quietness", - "text": "Quietness" - }, - { - "id": "irritability", - "text": "Irritability" - }, - { - "id": "tiredness", - "text": "Tiredness" - }, - { - "id": "avoidance", - "text": "Avoidance" - }, - { - "id": "overexplaining", - "text": "Overexplaining" - } + "restart", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "try_again", + "text": "Try again" + }, + { + "id": "use_softer_words", + "text": "Use softer words" + }, + { + "id": "name_the_goal", + "text": "Name the goal" + }, + { + "id": "end_warmly", + "text": "End warmly" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_196", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which repair actions matter after conflict? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps when timing is bad?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "conflict" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "apology", - "text": "Apology" - }, - { - "id": "changed_behavior", - "text": "Changed behavior" - }, - { - "id": "physical_comfort", - "text": "Physical comfort" - }, - { - "id": "talking_it_through", - "text": "Talking it through" - }, - { - "id": "time_to_cool_off", - "text": "Time to cool off" - } + "timing", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "schedule_later", + "text": "Schedule later" + }, + { + "id": "say_the_short_version", + "text": "Say the short version" + }, + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "reassure", + "text": "Reassure" + }, + { + "id": "write_it_down", + "text": "Write it down" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_197", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which communication habits should we protect? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps when tone gets tense?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "strengths", - "habits" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "humor", - "text": "Humor" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "gentleness", - "text": "Gentleness" - }, - { - "id": "check_ins", - "text": "Check-ins" - }, - { - "id": "saying_thank_you", - "text": "Saying thank you" - } + "tone", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "lower_voice", + "text": "Lower voice" + }, + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "use_softer_words", + "text": "Use softer words" + }, + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "try_again", + "text": "Try again" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_198", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which communication habits should we reduce? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps when we misunderstand each other?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "growth", - "habits" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "interrupting", - "text": "Interrupting" - }, - { - "id": "assuming", - "text": "Assuming" - }, - { - "id": "avoiding", - "text": "Avoiding" - }, - { - "id": "defending", - "text": "Defending" - }, - { - "id": "rushing", - "text": "Rushing" - } + "misunderstanding", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_again", + "text": "Ask again" + }, + { + "id": "repeat_back", + "text": "Repeat back" + }, + { + "id": "assume_good_intent", + "text": "Assume good intent" + }, + { + "id": "use_examples", + "text": "Use examples" + }, + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_199", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which moments are best for deeper conversations? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps when one of us wants advice and the other wants comfort?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "timing", - "routine" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "morning", - "text": "Morning" - }, - { - "id": "afternoon", - "text": "Afternoon" - }, - { - "id": "evening", - "text": "Evening" - }, - { - "id": "during_walks", - "text": "During walks" - }, - { - "id": "planned_time", - "text": "Planned time" - } + "support", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + }, + { + "id": "name_the_need", + "text": "Name the need" + }, + { + "id": "offer_both", + "text": "Offer both" + }, + { + "id": "listen_first", + "text": "Listen first" + }, + { + "id": "check_after", + "text": "Check after" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_200", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which moments are worst for deeper conversations? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us talk about needs?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "timing", - "boundaries" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "when_hungry", - "text": "When hungry" - }, - { - "id": "before_work", - "text": "Before work" - }, - { - "id": "late_at_night", - "text": "Late at night" - }, - { - "id": "in_public", - "text": "In public" - }, - { - "id": "during_chores", - "text": "During chores" - } + "needs", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_request", + "text": "Clear request" + }, + { + "id": "kind_tone", + "text": "Kind tone" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "no_blame", + "text": "No blame" + }, + { + "id": "one_need_at_a_time", + "text": "One need at a time" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_201", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which feelings are hardest for you to name? Select all that apply.", + "text": "What helps us talk about feelings?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emotions", - "vulnerability" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "fear", - "text": "Fear" - }, - { - "id": "sadness", - "text": "Sadness" - }, - { - "id": "anger", - "text": "Anger" - }, - { - "id": "shame", - "text": "Shame" - }, - { - "id": "disappointment", - "text": "Disappointment" - } + "feelings", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "no_fixing_yet", + "text": "No fixing yet" + }, + { + "id": "soft_questions", + "text": "Soft questions" + }, + { + "id": "care_after", + "text": "Care after" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_202", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things make feedback easier? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes texting safer for serious topics?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feedback", - "safety" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "kind_tone", - "text": "Kind tone" - }, - { - "id": "specific_examples", - "text": "Specific examples" - }, - { - "id": "private_setting", - "text": "Private setting" - }, - { - "id": "clear_request", - "text": "Clear request" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - } + "texting", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "short_messages", + "text": "Short messages" + }, + { + "id": "no_arguing_by_text", + "text": "No arguing by text" + }, + { + "id": "clarify_tone", + "text": "Clarify tone" + }, + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "call_instead", + "text": "Call instead" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_203", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things make you feel dismissed? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes phone-free talking easier?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "dismissal", - "attention" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "changing_the_topic", - "text": "Changing the topic" - }, - { - "id": "joking_too_soon", - "text": "Joking too soon" - }, - { - "id": "giving_quick_advice", - "text": "Giving quick advice" - }, - { - "id": "saying_it_is_not_a_big_deal", - "text": "Saying it is not a big deal" - }, - { - "id": "looking_distracted", - "text": "Looking distracted" - } + "phones", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "put_phones_away", + "text": "Put phones away" + }, + { + "id": "short_time", + "text": "Short time" + }, + { + "id": "cozy_setting", + "text": "Cozy setting" + }, + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_204", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things help us feel like a team? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes feedback kind?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "repair" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_plans", - "text": "Shared plans" - }, - { - "id": "calm_language", - "text": "Calm language" - }, - { - "id": "checking_assumptions", - "text": "Checking assumptions" - }, - { - "id": "solving_together", - "text": "Solving together" - }, - { - "id": "affection_after_tension", - "text": "Affection after tension" - } + "feedback", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific_words", + "text": "Specific words" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_tone", + "text": "Gentle tone" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "one_thing", + "text": "One thing" + }, + { + "id": "praise_too", + "text": "Praise too" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_205", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which boundaries would help our conversations? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes questions feel good?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "conflict" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_yelling", - "text": "No yelling" - }, - { - "id": "no_name_calling", - "text": "No name calling" - }, - { - "id": "no_phone_distractions", - "text": "No phone distractions" - }, - { - "id": "pause_allowed", - "text": "Pause allowed" - }, - { - "id": "return_time_agreed", - "text": "Return time agreed" - } + "questions", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "curiosity", + "text": "Curiosity" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_answers", + "text": "Remembering answers" + }, + { + "id": "soft_tone", + "text": "Soft tone" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_206", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which text habits should we improve? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes silence okay?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "texting", - "digital" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "reply_expectations", - "text": "Reply expectations" - }, - { - "id": "tone_clarity", - "text": "Tone clarity" - }, - { - "id": "hard_topics_by_text", - "text": "Hard topics by text" - }, - { - "id": "check_ins", - "text": "Check-ins" - }, - { - "id": "plan_details", - "text": "Plan details" - } + "silence", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "comfortable_closeness", + "text": "Comfortable closeness" + }, + { + "id": "no_guessing", + "text": "No guessing" + }, + { + "id": "clear_pause", + "text": "Clear pause" + }, + { + "id": "soft_check_in", + "text": "Soft check-in" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_207", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which ways do you show you care during talks? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us plan without stress?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "care", - "listening" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "listening", - "text": "Listening" - }, - { - "id": "asking_questions", - "text": "Asking questions" - }, - { - "id": "helping_solve", - "text": "Helping solve" - }, - { - "id": "offering_touch", - "text": "Offering touch" - }, - { - "id": "following_up_later", - "text": "Following up later" - } + "planning", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "shared_list", + "text": "Shared list" + }, + { + "id": "clear_roles", + "text": "Clear roles" + }, + { + "id": "simple_choices", + "text": "Simple choices" + }, + { + "id": "time_to_think", + "text": "Time to think" + }, + { + "id": "keep_it_light", + "text": "Keep it light" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_208", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which ways do you want me to show care during talks? Select all that apply.", + "text": "What helps us communicate during busy seasons?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "care", - "needs" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "listen_longer", - "text": "Listen longer" - }, - { - "id": "ask_gently", - "text": "Ask gently" - }, - { - "id": "validate_first", - "text": "Validate first" - }, - { - "id": "offer_help", - "text": "Offer help" - }, - { - "id": "stay_close", - "text": "Stay close" - } + "busy_life", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "short_check_ins", + "text": "Short check-ins" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_texts", + "text": "Sweet texts" + }, + { + "id": "clear_plans", + "text": "Clear plans" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "lower_expectations", + "text": "Lower expectations" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_209", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things should we clarify more often? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps us end talks warmly?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "clarity", - "expectations" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "plans", - "text": "Plans" - }, - { - "id": "expectations", - "text": "Expectations" - }, - { - "id": "needs", - "text": "Needs" - }, - { - "id": "boundaries", - "text": "Boundaries" - }, - { - "id": "feelings", - "text": "Feelings" - } + "ending", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "thank_you", + "text": "Thank you" + }, + { + "id": "hug_if_wanted", + "text": "Hug if wanted" + }, + { + "id": "next_step", + "text": "Next step" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_words", + "text": "Sweet words" + }, + { + "id": "little_joke", + "text": "Little joke" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_210", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which goals should we set for communication? Select all that apply.", + "text": "What would make our communication feel more like us?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "goals", - "growth" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "listen_better", - "text": "Listen better" - }, - { - "id": "speak_sooner", - "text": "Speak sooner" - }, - { - "id": "pause_kindly", - "text": "Pause kindly" - }, - { - "id": "repair_faster", - "text": "Repair faster" - }, - { - "id": "assume_less", - "text": "Assume less" - } + "identity", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_humor", + "text": "More humor" + }, + { + "id": "more_softness", + "text": "More softness" + }, + { + "id": "more_honesty", + "text": "More honesty" + }, + { + "id": "more_check_ins", + "text": "More check-ins" + }, + { + "id": "more_affection", + "text": "More affection" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_211", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How heard did you feel by me this week?", + "text": "How easy does everyday communication feel between us?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "listening", - "weekly_check_in" + "daily_life", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not heard", - "max_label": "Very heard", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "communication_212", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy does it feel to bring up hard topics with me right now?", + "text": "How heard do you feel lately?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "safety", - "hard_topics" + "listening", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Very hard", - "max_label": "Very easy", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not heard", + "max_label": "Very heard" } }, { "id": "communication_213", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clearly do you feel I communicate my needs?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How fun does our communication feel?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "needs", - "clarity" + "fun_first", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not clearly", - "max_label": "Very clearly", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not fun", + "max_label": "Very fun" } }, { "id": "communication_214", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clearly do you feel you communicate your needs to me?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How comfortable are you asking for what you need?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ "needs", - "self_awareness" + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not clearly", - "max_label": "Very clearly", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not comfortable", + "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "communication_215", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does disagreement feel between us right now?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How well do we end conversations warmly?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "conflict", - "safety" + "ending", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "communication_216", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do you feel interrupted by me?", + "text": "How much does tone affect you?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "listening", - "respect" + "tone", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Never", - "max_label": "Very often", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "communication_217", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do you feel understood by me?", + "text": "How much would one tiny communication habit help this week?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "understanding", - "connection" + "weekly", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Very often", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "communication_218", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we repair after conflict?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How easy does honest talking feel when we keep it gentle?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "conflict" + "emotional_safety", + "communication", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Poorly", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "communication_219", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you asking me for support?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How easy is it to bring up something real without making it heavy?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "support", - "vulnerability" + "hard_talks", + "communication", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "communication_220", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you telling me no?", + "text": "How well do we listen without fixing?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "honesty" + "listening", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "communication_221", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do phone distractions affect our conversations?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How well do we choose good timing?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "digital", - "attention" + "timing", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not at all", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "communication_222", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we handle serious talks by text?", + "text": "How clearly do we make requests?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "texting", - "hard_topics" + "requests", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Poorly", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not clearly", + "max_label": "Very clearly" } }, { "id": "communication_223", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much patience do you feel from me during hard conversations?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How often do guesses get in the way of what we actually mean?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "patience", - "conflict" + "assumptions", + "communication", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Very little", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "communication_224", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much patience do you feel you give me during hard conversations?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How comfortable are you asking for a pause?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "patience", - "self_awareness" + "pause", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Very little", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not comfortable", + "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "communication_225", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How connected do you feel after our everyday conversations?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How well do we text about serious things?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "connection" + "texting", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Disconnected", - "max_label": "Very connected", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "communication_226", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How honest do you feel you can be with me right now?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How connected do sweet messages make you feel?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "honesty", - "safety" + "texting", + "romance", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not honest", - "max_label": "Fully honest", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not connected", + "max_label": "Very connected" } }, { "id": "communication_227", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do I notice when something is wrong?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How easy is it to say no kindly?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "awareness", - "emotions" + "no", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "communication_228", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do you feel we make space for both opinions?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How easy is it to say yes honestly?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "respect", - "disagreement" + "yes", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "communication_229", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do we assume instead of ask?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How well do we handle misunderstandings?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "assumptions", - "clarity" + "misunderstanding", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Never", - "max_label": "Very often", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "communication_230", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How effective are our check-ins right now?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How kind does feedback feel between us?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "check_in", - "routine" + "feedback", + "communication", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not effective", - "max_label": "Very effective", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "communication_231", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How respected do you feel when we disagree?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How much do phones interrupt our communication?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "respect", - "conflict" + "phones", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not respected", - "max_label": "Very respected", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "communication_232", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How confident are you that we can talk through hard seasons?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How helpful would a playful signal be for us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "resilience", - "future" + "signals", + "fun_first", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not confident", - "max_label": "Very confident", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not helpful", + "max_label": "Very helpful" } }, { "id": "communication_233", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much emotional support do you feel from me?", + "text": "How well do we communicate when tired?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "support", - "connection" + "tired", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Very little", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "communication_234", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we explain what we need without blaming?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How much warmth do our conversations have lately?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "needs", - "blame" + "warmth", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "communication_235", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", - "text": "How hopeful do you feel about improving our communication?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How hopeful do you feel about making communication easier?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "hope", - "growth" + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, + "min": 1, + "max": 5, "min_label": "Not hopeful", - "max_label": "Very hopeful", - "scale_step": 1 + "max_label": "Very hopeful" } }, { "id": "communication_236", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Talk it out right away or take time to think first?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Sweet text or quick call?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "timing", - "conflict" + "texting", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_right_away", - "text": "Talk right away" - }, - { - "id": "take_time_first", - "text": "Take time first" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet_text", + "text": "Sweet text" + }, + { + "id": "quick_call", + "text": "Quick call" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_237", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Comfort first or solutions first?", + "text": "Deep talk or silly question?", "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "support", - "preferences" + "fun_first", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort_first", - "text": "Comfort first" - }, - { - "id": "solutions_first", - "text": "Solutions first" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "deep_talk", + "text": "Deep talk" + }, + { + "id": "silly_question", + "text": "Silly question" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_238", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Direct honesty or gentle buildup?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Listen first or solve first?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty", - "tone" + "support", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "direct_honesty", - "text": "Direct honesty" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_buildup", - "text": "Gentle buildup" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "listen_first", + "text": "Listen first" + }, + { + "id": "solve_first", + "text": "Solve first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_239", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Planned check-in or natural conversation?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "Soft start or direct start?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "check_in", - "routine" + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "planned_check_in", - "text": "Planned check-in" - }, - { - "id": "natural_conversation", - "text": "Natural conversation" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_start", + "text": "Soft start" + }, + { + "id": "direct_start", + "text": "Direct start" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_240", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Text first or talk face to face?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Talk now or schedule it?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "format", + "timing", "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "text_first", - "text": "Text first" - }, - { - "id": "face_to_face", - "text": "Face to face" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_now", + "text": "Talk now" + }, + { + "id": "schedule_it", + "text": "Schedule it" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_241", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Space after conflict or closeness after conflict?", + "text": "Text it or say it out loud?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "conflict" + "texting", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "space_after_conflict", - "text": "Space after conflict" - }, - { - "id": "closeness_after_conflict", - "text": "Closeness after conflict" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "text_it", + "text": "Text it" + }, + { + "id": "say_it", + "text": "Say it out loud" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_242", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Short apology or detailed apology?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Ask more or explain more?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "apology", - "repair" + "questions", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "short_apology", - "text": "Short apology" - }, - { - "id": "detailed_apology", - "text": "Detailed apology" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_more", + "text": "Ask more" + }, + { + "id": "explain_more", + "text": "Explain more" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_243", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Ask more questions or give more reassurance?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Comfort or advice?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "support", - "listening" + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_more_questions", - "text": "Ask more questions" - }, - { - "id": "give_more_reassurance", - "text": "Give more reassurance" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + }, + { + "id": "advice", + "text": "Advice" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_244", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Say it now or wait for a better time?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Pause gently or try again softer?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "timing", - "hard_topics" + "pause", + "communication", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "say_it_now", - "text": "Say it now" - }, - { - "id": "wait_for_a_better_time", - "text": "Wait for a better time" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "pause_gently", + "text": "Pause gently" + }, + { + "id": "keep_talking", + "text": "Keep talking" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_245", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Listen quietly or reflect back what you heard?", + "text": "Funny signal or serious phrase?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "listening", - "style" + "signals", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "listen_quietly", - "text": "Listen quietly" - }, - { - "id": "reflect_back", - "text": "Reflect back" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "funny_signal", + "text": "Funny signal" + }, + { + "id": "serious_phrase", + "text": "Serious phrase" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_246", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Humor to lighten the mood or seriousness first?", + "text": "Phone-free dinner or phone-free bedtime?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "humor", - "tone" + "phones", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "humor_helps", - "text": "Humor helps" - }, - { - "id": "seriousness_first", - "text": "Seriousness first" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "dinner", + "text": "Phone-free dinner" + }, + { + "id": "bedtime", + "text": "Phone-free bedtime" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_247", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "More daily updates or fewer but deeper updates?", + "text": "One question or one compliment?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "connection" + "fun_first", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_daily_updates", - "text": "More daily updates" - }, - { - "id": "fewer_deeper_updates", - "text": "Fewer deeper updates" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_question", + "text": "One question" + }, + { + "id": "one_compliment", + "text": "One compliment" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_248", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Name feelings or name needs?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Check the tone or check the meaning?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emotions", - "needs" + "clarity", + "communication", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_feelings", - "text": "Name feelings" - }, - { - "id": "name_needs", - "text": "Name needs" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tone", + "text": "Clarify tone" + }, + { + "id": "meaning", + "text": "Clarify meaning" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_249", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Pause with a timer or pause without a timer?", + "text": "Short check-in or long talk?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pause", - "conflict" + "check_in", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "timer_pause", - "text": "Timer pause" - }, - { - "id": "no_timer_pause", - "text": "No timer pause" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "short_check", + "text": "Short check-in" + }, + { + "id": "long_talk", + "text": "Long talk" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "communication_250", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Speak softer or speak more clearly?", + "text": "End with a hug or end with a plan?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "tone", - "clarity" + "ending", + "communication" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "softer", - "text": "Softer" - }, - { - "id": "more_clearly", - "text": "More clearly" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hug", + "text": "End with a hug" + }, + { + "id": "plan", + "text": "End with a plan" + } + ] + } } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/difficult_conversations.json b/seed/questions/difficult_conversations.json index f797e9e6..4ea0d983 100644 --- a/seed/questions/difficult_conversations.json +++ b/seed/questions/difficult_conversations.json @@ -2,3658 +2,4026 @@ "category": { "id": "difficult_conversations", "display_name": "Difficult Conversations", - "description": "Questions designed to help couples approach hard topics with clarity, respect, honesty, boundaries, and repair.", + "description": "Warm, Closer-style questions that help couples bring up hard topics with softness, timing, teamwork, reassurance, tiny rituals, try-again phrases, cozy resets, and playful tools where they fit.", "access": "mixed", - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, - "question_type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 - }, + "icon_name": "forum", "schema_version": "question_v2", - "supported_types": [ - "written", - "single_choice", - "multi_choice", - "scale", - "this_or_that" - ] + "metadata": { + "total_questions": 250, + "free_questions": 75, + "premium_questions": 175, + "type_counts": { + "written": 150, + "single_choice": 40, + "multi_choice": 20, + "scale": 25, + "this_or_that": 15 + } + } }, "questions": [ { "id": "difficult_conversations_001", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a hard conversation feel safe enough to start?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What would make a hard conversation feel more like a team huddle?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hard_talks" + "soft_start", + "safety", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_002", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a hard conversation feel unsafe before it even begins?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What kind of timing makes a serious talk easier for you?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hard_talks" + "timing", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_003", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What timing helps you stay open during a difficult conversation?", + "text": "What kind of setting makes a hard talk feel less dramatic?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hard_talks" + "setting", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_004", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What timing almost guarantees a difficult conversation will go badly?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one phrase that helps you soften during tension?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hard_talks" + "phrases", + "softness", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_005", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What words help you know I am trying to understand, not attack?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is one phrase that helps us try again instead of spiraling?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "restart", + "phrases", "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_006", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What words make you brace for a fight?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps you know I am bringing something up because I care?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "care", + "intentions", "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_007", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What should I ask before bringing up something serious?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you bring up a hard thing and still feel lovable?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "difficult_conversations" + "courage", + "no_blame", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_008", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What should you ask before bringing up something serious with me?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps a hard topic feel like information, not an attack?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "difficult_conversations" + "listening", + "safety", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_009", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one hard topic we should approach more gently?", + "text": "What makes a serious talk feel like us against the problem?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hard_talks" + "teamwork", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_010", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one hard topic we should approach more directly?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one hard topic we could make less dramatic?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hard_talks" + "lightness", + "fun_first", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_011", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What does good listening look like when the topic is uncomfortable?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What could help us keep one hard talk from taking over the whole night?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "listening" + "focus", + "boundaries", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_012", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes you feel unheard during a hard conversation?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is a softer way to say, 'I need a minute, but I am coming back'?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hard_talks" + "pause", + "reassurance", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_013", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What should I repeat back when you share something difficult?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you come back after a pause?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hard_talks" + "repair", + "return", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_014", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What should I avoid doing when you share something difficult?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes honesty feel like a hand squeeze instead of a poke?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "avoidance", - "hard_talks" + "honesty", + "gentleness", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_015", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "How do you know I am listening with care?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps you say something real and still feel close to me?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "listening" + "truth", + "closeness", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_016", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "How do you know I am listening defensively?", + "text": "What helps you stay soft when I am nervous to talk?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "listening", - "defensiveness" + "nervous", + "support", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_017", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you keep listening when you feel criticized?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps me stay soft when you are nervous to talk?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "listening" + "nervous", + "support", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_018", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps me keep listening when I feel criticized?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What kind of reassurance helps before a hard conversation starts?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "listening" + "reassurance", + "beginning", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_019", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What question would help us slow down and understand each other?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What kind of reassurance helps after a hard conversation ends?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "reassurance", + "ending", "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_020", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one sign that we are talking past each other?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us end a hard talk with warmth?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "ending", + "warmth", "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_021", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What truth feels hard to say because you worry about my reaction?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would make a hard talk feel more like a team huddle?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty", - "hard_talks" + "teamwork", + "fun_first", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_022", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What reaction from me makes honesty harder?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one tiny ritual that could help before a serious talk?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty", - "hard_talks" + "rituals", + "fun_first", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_023", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What reaction from me makes honesty easier?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is one tiny ritual that could help after a serious talk?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty" + "rituals", + "comfort", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_024", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of honesty do you want more of from me?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps you feel safe asking for what you need?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty" + "needs", + "safety", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_025", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of honesty do you want to offer me more often?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you hear what I need without taking it as criticism?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty" + "needs", + "listening", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_026", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What fear shows up for you during difficult conversations?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps hurt feelings come out small instead of exploding later?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "fear", - 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"avoidance" + "expectations", + "prevention", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_029", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we should stop avoiding to protect the relationship?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps change feel like a new chapter instead of a warning sign?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "avoidance" + "change", + "security", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_030", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make honesty feel less dangerous between us?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps us talk about future plans without pressure?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty", - "anger" + "future", + "pressure", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_031", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What tone helps you stay open these days?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us talk about money without shame?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "tone" + "money", + "no_shame", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_032", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What tone makes you shut down?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us talk about family pressure without turning on each other?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "tone" + "family", + "teamwork", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_033", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one early sign that our conversation is escalating?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps us talk about intimacy without awkwardness taking over?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "intimacy", + "safety", "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_034", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we do when that early sign appears?", + "text": "What helps us talk about boundaries without making them feel like rejection?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "boundaries", + "reassurance", "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_035", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What phrase can we use when the conversation starts getting too sharp?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make a trust talk feel steady instead of heavy?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "difficult_conversations" + "trust", + "warmth", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_036", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What body language from me makes a hard talk feel worse?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps us talk when one of us is tired?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hard_talks" + "tired", + "timing", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_037", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What body language from me makes a hard talk feel safer?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us switch from overwhelm mode into team mode?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hard_talks" + "overwhelmed", + "support", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_038", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "How can we disagree without sounding contemptuous?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us laugh at ourselves a little when we both feel right?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "difficult_conversations" + "conflict", + "humility", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_039", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "How can we express anger without trying to wound each other?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What code word could tell us, 'This is getting pointy'?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "anger" + "tone", + "awareness", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_040", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we never say just to win a moment?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What playful signal could mean, 'Let's slow this down'?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "signals", + "fun_first", "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_041", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes you feel defensive with me?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What try-again phrase could replace, 'You always'?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "defensiveness" + "phrases", + "no_blame", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_042", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you soften when you feel defensive?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What try-again phrase could replace, 'You never'?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "defensiveness" + "phrases", + "no_blame", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - 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"min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_047", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing I should own more clearly?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", + "text": "How could we bring up money stress in a way that still feels like us?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "money", + "stress", + "identity", + "closeness", "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_048", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you want to own more clearly?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "What helps money stress feel like a shared problem, not a personal attack?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "money", + "stress", + "teamwork", + "no_blame", "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_049", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us shift from defending to understanding?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "What would make money stress easier to talk about before it gets huge?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "money", + "stress", + "prevention", + "ease", "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_050", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one defensive habit we should interrupt kindly?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "What do you need from me when we talk about money stress?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "defensiveness" + "money", + "stress", + "needs", + "support", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - 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"min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_066", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary should we set around private information?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "What tiny next step would help us handle hurt feelings better?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "boundaries" + "hurt", + "feelings", + "small_steps", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_067", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary should we set around timing serious talks?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "What would make different expectations feel easier to compare without drama?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "boundaries" + "expectations", + "differences", + "softness", + "safety", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_068", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary should we set around humor during serious talks?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "How could we bring up different expectations in a way that still feels like us?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "boundaries" + "expectations", + "differences", + "identity", + "closeness", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_069", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary helps you feel respected even when we disagree?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", + "text": "What helps different expectations feel like a shared problem, not a personal attack?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - 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"text": "What unmet need tends to become distance for you?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What tiny next step would help us handle household responsibilities better?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "home_life", + "responsibilities", + "small_steps", "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_088", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What unmet need tends to become anger for you?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make intimacy needs easier to talk about without awkward fog?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "anger" + "intimacy", + "needs", + "softness", + "safety", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_089", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - 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"min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_108", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What topic needs more curiosity and less certainty?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What tiny next step would help us handle boundaries better?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "needs" + "boundaries", + "respect", + "small_steps", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_109", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What topic needs more truth and less avoidance?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make talking about parenting or family decisions feel softer and less scary?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "honesty", - "avoidance", - "needs" + "parenting", + "family", + "softness", + "safety", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - 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"min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_112", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What does accountability from you look like in a hard conversation?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make parenting or family decisions easier to talk about before it gets huge?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hard_talks", - "accountability" + "parenting", + "family", + "prevention", + "ease", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_113", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one behavior I should acknowledge without explaining it away?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What do you need from me when we talk about parenting or family decisions?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "parenting", + "family", + "needs", + "support", "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_114", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one behavior you want to acknowledge without explaining it away?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would help us keep warmth in the room while talking about parenting or family decisions?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "parenting", + "family", + "warmth", "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_115", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps accountability feel like repair instead of punishment?", + "text": "What tiny next step would help us handle parenting or family decisions better?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "accountability" + "parenting", + "family", + "small_steps", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - 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"min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_118", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What follow-through would show that you really heard me?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps time together feel like a shared problem, not a personal attack?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "quality_time", + "connection", + "teamwork", + "no_blame", "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_119", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one promise we should make only if we can keep it?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make time together easier to talk about before it gets huge?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "quality_time", + "connection", + "prevention", + "ease", "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - 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"start", - "safety" + "soft_start", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_calm_setting", - "text": "A calm setting" - }, - { - "id": "a_planned_time", - "text": "A planned time" - }, - { - "id": "a_gentle_first_sentence", - "text": "A gentle first sentence" - }, - { - "id": "a_little_reassurance", - "text": "A little reassurance" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_tone", + "text": "Soft tone" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "one_clear_topic", + "text": "One clear topic" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_152", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you shut down fastest?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps you stay open during a serious talk?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "shutdown" + "openness", + "difficult_conversations" ], - 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"text": "Clear care" - }, - { - "id": "time_to_think", - "text": "Time to think" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "short_pause", + "text": "Short pause" + }, + { + "id": "hug_first", + "text": "Hug first" + }, + { + "id": "return_time", + "text": "Return time" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_reset", + "text": "Quiet reset" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_154", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When a topic is sensitive, what do you need first?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps us restart gently?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sensitive_topics" + "restart", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "context", - "text": "Context" - }, - { - "id": "a_question", - "text": "A question" - }, - { - "id": "a_pause", - "text": "A pause" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "try_again", + "text": "Try again" + }, + { + "id": "use_softer_words", + "text": "Use softer words" + }, + { + "id": "hold_hands", + "text": "Hold hands" + }, + { + "id": "name_the_goal", + "text": "Name the goal" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_155", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What usually escalates a hard talk?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What kind of reassurance helps most before a hard talk?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "escalation" + "reassurance", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "tone", - "text": "Tone" - }, - { - "id": "timing", - "text": "Timing" - }, - { - "id": "old_issues", - "text": "Old issues" - }, - { - "id": "assumptions", - "text": "Assumptions" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_love_you", + "text": "I love you" + }, + { + "id": "we_are_okay", + "text": "We are okay" + }, + { + "id": "i_am_listening", + "text": "I am listening" + }, + { + "id": "we_can_go_slow", + "text": "We can go slow" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_156", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What usually de-escalates a hard talk?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes a hard talk feel less heavy?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair" + "fun_first", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "apology", - "text": "Apology" - }, - { - "id": "softer_tone", - "text": "Softer tone" - }, - { - "id": "restating_the_goal", - "text": "Restating the goal" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "snacks", + "text": "Snacks" + }, + { + "id": "short_timer", + "text": "Short timer" + }, + { + "id": "soft_blanket", + "text": "Soft blanket" + }, + { + "id": "little_joke", + "text": "Little joke" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_157", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes accountability easier to receive?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps you bring up something hard?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "accountability" + "courage", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_ownership", - "text": "Specific ownership" - }, - { - "id": "no_excuses", - "text": "No excuses" - }, - { - "id": "changed_behavior", - "text": "Changed behavior" - }, - { - "id": "follow_up_later", - "text": "Follow-up later" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "kind_words", + "text": "Kind words" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_158", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes an apology feel real?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps you hear something hard?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "apology" + "listening", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "specificity", - "text": "Specificity" - }, - { - "id": "remorse", - "text": "Remorse" - }, - { - "id": "repair_action", - "text": "Repair action" - }, - { - "id": "no_rushing", - "text": "No rushing" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_start", + "text": "Soft start" + }, + { + "id": "no_labels", + "text": "No labels" + }, + { + "id": "one_topic", + "text": "One topic" + }, + { + "id": "care_after", + "text": "Care after" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_159", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes an apology feel weak?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes honesty feel kind?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "apology" + "honesty", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "but_language", - "text": "But language" - }, - { - "id": "vagueness", - "text": "Vagueness" - }, - { - "id": "pressure_to_move_on", - "text": "Pressure to move on" - }, - { - "id": "no_change", - "text": "No change" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gentle_tone", + "text": "Gentle tone" + }, + { + "id": "right_timing", + "text": "Right timing" + }, + { + "id": "clear_words", + "text": "Clear words" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_160", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you need when you feel defensive?", + "text": "What should we protect during hard talks?", "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "defensiveness" + "protection", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_pause", - "text": "A pause" - }, - { - "id": "gentler_wording", - "text": "Gentler wording" - }, - { - "id": "a_reminder_of_care", - "text": "A reminder of care" - }, - { - "id": "a_chance_to_explain", - "text": "A chance to explain" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "respect", + "text": "Respect" + }, + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "soft_feelings", + "text": "Soft feelings" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_161", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you need when I seem defensive?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps when one of us gets overwhelmed?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "defensiveness" + "overwhelmed", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_pause", - "text": "A pause" - }, - { - "id": "less_explaining", - "text": "Less explaining" - }, - { - "id": "more_listening", - "text": "More listening" - }, - { - "id": "a_clear_question", - "text": "A clear question" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "lower_tone", + "text": "Lower tone" + }, + { + "id": "reassure", + "text": "Reassure" + }, + { + "id": "simplify", + "text": "Simplify" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_162", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is the best place for a hard talk?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps when we misunderstand each other?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "setting" + "misunderstanding", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "at_home", - "text": "At home" - }, - { - "id": "on_a_walk", - "text": "On a walk" - }, - { - "id": "in_the_car_parked", - "text": "In the car parked" - }, - { - "id": "somewhere_neutral", - "text": "Somewhere neutral" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_again", + "text": "Ask again" + }, + { + "id": "repeat_back", + "text": "Repeat back" + }, + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "assume_good_intent", + "text": "Assume good intent" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_163", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is the worst time for a hard talk?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes a hard talk worth having?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "timing" + "meaning", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "late_night", - "text": "Late night" - }, - { - "id": "before_work", - "text": "Before work" - }, - { - "id": "during_stress", - "text": "During stress" - }, - { - "id": "in_public", - "text": "In public" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_closeness", + "text": "More closeness" + }, + { + "id": "more_clarity", + "text": "More clarity" + }, + { + "id": "less_resentment", + "text": "Less resentment" + }, + { + "id": "a_real_plan", + "text": "A real plan" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_164", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you hear my side?", + "text": "What helps us end warmly?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "listening" + "ending", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "calm_tone", - "text": "Calm tone" - }, - { - "id": "clear_examples", - "text": "Clear examples" - }, - { - "id": "less_pressure", - "text": "Less pressure" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_heard_first", - "text": "Feeling heard first" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "thank_you", + "text": "Thank you" + }, + { + "id": "hug_if_wanted", + "text": "Hug if wanted" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_words", + "text": "Sweet words" + }, + { + "id": "next_step", + "text": "Next step" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_165", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps me hear your side?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What playful signal could help us slow down?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "listening" + "signals", + "fun_first", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "calm_tone", - "text": "Calm tone" - }, - { - "id": "clear_examples", - "text": "Clear examples" - }, - { - "id": "less_pressure", - "text": "Less pressure" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_heard_first", - "text": "Feeling heard first" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "code_word", + "text": "Code word" + }, + { + "id": "hand_squeeze", + "text": "Hand squeeze" + }, + { + "id": "time_out_sign", + "text": "Time-out sign" + }, + { + "id": "silly_phrase", + "text": "Silly phrase" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_166", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we do when we repeat ourselves?", + "text": "Which topic needs the softest start?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stuck" + "topics", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "summarize", - "text": "Summarize" - }, - { - "id": "ask_what_is_missing", - "text": "Ask what is missing" - }, - { - "id": "come_back_later", - "text": "Come back later" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "money", + "text": "Money" + }, + { + "id": "family", + "text": "Family" + }, + { + "id": "intimacy", + "text": "Intimacy" + }, + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_167", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we do when emotions spike?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Which hard-talk skill needs the most practice?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emotions" + "skills", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "breathe", - "text": "Breathe" - }, - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "lower_voices", - "text": "Lower voices" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_emotion", - "text": "Name the emotion" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "timing", + "text": "Timing" + }, + { + "id": "tone", + "text": "Tone" + }, + { + "id": "listening", + "text": "Listening" + }, + { + "id": "staying_focused", + "text": "Staying focused" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_168", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is hardest to say?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What usually makes a serious talk go from huddle to hurricane?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "honesty" + "awareness", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_was_hurt", - "text": "I was hurt" - }, - { - "id": "i_was_wrong", - "text": "I was wrong" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_help", - "text": "I need help" - }, - { - "id": "i_am_afraid", - "text": "I am afraid" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "bad_timing", + "text": "Bad timing" + }, + { + "id": "sharp_tone", + "text": "Sharp tone" + }, + { + "id": "too_many_topics", + "text": "Too many topics" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_accused", + "text": "Feeling accused" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_169", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is hardest to hear?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us keep one topic from becoming ten?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "listening" + "focus", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "you_hurt_me", - "text": "You hurt me" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_change", - "text": "I need change" - }, - { - "id": "i_disagree", - "text": "I disagree" - }, - { - "id": "i_am_not_okay", - "text": "I am not okay" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "write_it_down", + "text": "Write it down" + }, + { + "id": "pick_one", + "text": "Pick one" + }, + { + "id": "save_the_rest", + "text": "Save the rest" + }, + { + "id": "take_turns", + "text": "Take turns" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_170", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a hard talk feel productive?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps if one of us hears criticism when the other meant care?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "productive" + "criticism", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "clarity", - "text": "Clarity" - }, - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "a_next_step", - "text": "A next step" - }, - { - "id": "mutual_ownership", - "text": "Mutual ownership" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "rephrase", + "text": "Rephrase" + }, + { + "id": "reassure", + "text": "Reassure" + }, + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "name_the_need", + "text": "Name the need" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_171", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a hard talk feel pointless?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps if one of us puts on emotional armor?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stuck" + "defensiveness", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_listening", - "text": "No listening" - }, - { - "id": "no_change", - "text": "No change" - }, - { - "id": "blame_loops", - "text": "Blame loops" - }, - { - "id": "unclear_issue", - "text": "Unclear issue" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "own_one_part", + "text": "Own one part" + }, + { + "id": "ask_a_question", + "text": "Ask a question" + }, + { + "id": "remember_the_goal", + "text": "Remember the goal" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_172", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What repair action matters most after hard talks?", + "text": "What helps if one of us goes quiet and needs a safe way back?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair" + "shutdown", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "check_in_later", - "text": "Check in later" - }, - { - "id": "change_behavior", - "text": "Change behavior" - }, - { - "id": "offer_comfort", - "text": "Offer comfort" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_plan", - "text": "Make a plan" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gentle_check_in", + "text": "Gentle check-in" + }, + { + "id": "space", + "text": "Space" + }, + { + "id": "return_time", + "text": "Return time" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_173", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When we disagree, what do you need protected?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps if the conversation gets a little too spicy?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "respect" + "intensity", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "voice", - "text": "Voice" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "softer_voice", + "text": "Softer voice" + }, + { + "id": "shorter_sentences", + "text": "Shorter sentences" + }, + { + "id": "try_again", + "text": "Try again" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_174", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you talk about old hurt?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps us talk about money gently?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "old_wounds" + "money", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_pace", - "text": "Gentle pace" - }, - { - "id": "no_interruptions", - "text": "No interruptions" - }, - { - "id": "clear_purpose", - "text": "Clear purpose" - }, - { - "id": "a_safe_ending", - "text": "A safe ending" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "facts_first", + "text": "Facts first" + }, + { + "id": "no_shame", + "text": "No shame" + }, + { + "id": "shared_goal", + "text": "Shared goal" + }, + { + "id": "short_talk", + "text": "Short talk" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_175", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes old hurt harder to discuss?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us talk about family pressure gently?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "old_wounds" + "family", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "defensiveness", - "text": "Defensiveness" - }, - { - "id": "minimizing", - "text": "Minimizing" - }, - { - "id": "rushing", - "text": "Rushing" - }, - { - "id": "counterattacks", - "text": "Counterattacks" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "private_first", + "text": "Private first" + }, + { + "id": "choose_us", + "text": "Choose us" + }, + { + "id": "clear_boundary", + "text": "Clear boundary" + }, + { + "id": "no_piling_on", + "text": "No piling on" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_176", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is most important during a hard decision?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us talk about intimacy gently?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "decisions" + "intimacy", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "fairness", - "text": "Fairness" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "shared_values", - "text": "Shared values" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "soft_words", + "text": "Soft words" + }, + { + "id": "easy_pause", + "text": "Easy pause" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_177", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you pause without feeling abandoned?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps us talk about trust gently?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pause" + "trust", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "set_a_return_time", - "text": "Set a return time" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "physical_space", - "text": "Physical space" - }, - { - "id": "short_message", - "text": "Short message" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "specific_words", + "text": "Specific words" + }, + { + "id": "care_after", + "text": "Care after" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_178", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you return after a pause?", + "text": "What helps us talk about boundaries gently?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pause" + "boundaries", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_time", - "text": "Clear time" - }, - { - "id": "softer_tone", - "text": "Softer tone" - }, - { - "id": "a_summary", - "text": "A summary" - }, - { - "id": "a_repair_attempt", - "text": "A repair attempt" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_need", + "text": "Clear need" + }, + { + "id": "love_first", + "text": "Love first" + }, + { + "id": "no_threats", + "text": "No threats" + }, + { + "id": "revisit_later", + "text": "Revisit later" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_179", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes silence feel safe?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps us talk about expectations gently?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "silence" + "expectations", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "agreed_pause", - "text": "Agreed pause" - }, - { - "id": "kind_tone", - "text": "Kind tone" - }, - { - "id": "clear_return", - "text": "Clear return" - }, - { - "id": "no_punishment", - "text": "No punishment" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_the_hope", + "text": "Name the hope" + }, + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + }, + { + "id": "keep_it_real", + "text": "Keep it real" + }, + { + "id": "no_mind_reading", + "text": "No mind-reading" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_180", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes silence feel painful?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps us talk about future plans gently?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "silence" + "future", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_explanation", - "text": "No explanation" - }, - { - "id": "coldness", - "text": "Coldness" - }, - { - "id": "long_delay", - "text": "Long delay" - }, - { - "id": "avoidance", - "text": "Avoidance" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "dream_first", + "text": "Dream first" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "small_step", + "text": "Small step" + }, + { + "id": "shared_why", + "text": "Shared why" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_181", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we clarify before hard talks?", + "text": "What makes a hard conversation feel more like a team huddle?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "clarity" + "teamwork", + "fun_first", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "the_topic", - "text": "The topic" - }, - { - "id": "the_goal", - "text": "The goal" - }, - { - "id": "the_timing", - "text": "The timing" - }, - { - "id": "the_boundary", - "text": "The boundary" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "same_side_language", + "text": "Same side language" + }, + { + "id": "snacks", + "text": "Snacks" + }, + { + "id": "one_goal", + "text": "One goal" + }, + { + "id": "a_tiny_plan", + "text": "A tiny plan" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_182", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we avoid during hard talks?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes a hard conversation feel too much like a meeting?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "boundaries" + "therapy_risk", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_calling", - "text": "Name-calling" - }, - { - "id": "threats", - "text": "Threats" - }, - { - "id": "old_pile_ons", - "text": "Old pile-ons" - }, - { - "id": "mind_reading", - "text": "Mind-reading" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "too_many_rules", + "text": "Too many rules" + }, + { + "id": "long_speeches", + "text": "Long speeches" + }, + { + "id": "no_warmth", + "text": "No warmth" + }, + { + "id": "no_humor", + "text": "No humor" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_183", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you believe we are on the same team?", + "text": "What helps us keep warmth in the room?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "teamwork" + "warmth", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_goal", - "text": "Shared goal" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_touch", - "text": "Gentle touch" - }, - { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" - }, - { - "id": "mutual_ownership", - "text": "Mutual ownership" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_tone", + "text": "Soft tone" + }, + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "little_touch", + "text": "Little touch" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_184", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which answer fits best here: dismissal or sarcasm?", + "text": "What helps us make space for both sides?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "loneliness" + "fairness", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "dismissal", - "text": "Dismissal" - }, - { - "id": "sarcasm", - "text": "Sarcasm" - }, - { - "id": "coldness", - "text": "Coldness" - }, - { - "id": "no_curiosity", - "text": "No curiosity" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "take_turns", + "text": "Take turns" + }, + { + "id": "repeat_back", + "text": "Repeat back" + }, + { + "id": "ask_questions", + "text": "Ask questions" + }, + { + "id": "no_interrupting", + "text": "No interrupting" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_185", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which answer fits best here: curious or specific?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps us say the brave thing?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "questions" + "courage", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "curious", - "text": "Curious" - }, - { - "id": "specific", - "text": "Specific" - }, - { - "id": "gentle", - "text": "Gentle" - }, - { - "id": "non_blaming", - "text": "Non-blaming" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "kind_start", + "text": "Kind start" + }, + { + "id": "slow_pace", + "text": "Slow pace" + }, + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_186", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which answer fits best here: accusing or loaded?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps us hear the brave thing?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "questions" + "listening", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "accusing", - "text": "Accusing" - }, - { - "id": "loaded", - "text": "Loaded" - }, - { - "id": "vague", - "text": "Vague" - }, - { - "id": "repeated", - "text": "Repeated" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "stay_soft", + "text": "Stay soft" + }, + { + "id": "thank_them", + "text": "Thank them" + }, + { + "id": "ask_gently", + "text": "Ask gently" + }, + { + "id": "pause_before_reacting", + "text": "Pause before reacting" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_187", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us end a hard talk well?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What kind of follow-up helps after a hard talk?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "ending" + "follow_up", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_summary", - "text": "A summary" - }, - { - "id": "a_hug", - "text": "A hug" - }, - { - "id": "a_next_step", - "text": "A next step" - }, - { - "id": "a_kind_sentence", - "text": "A kind sentence" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet_text", + "text": "Sweet text" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_action", + "text": "Tiny action" + }, + { + "id": "another_check_in", + "text": "Another check-in" + }, + { + "id": "thank_you", + "text": "Thank you" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_188", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we do if a hard talk goes badly?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us put the hard talk down before bedtime?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair" + "ending", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause_and_repair", - "text": "Pause and repair" - }, - { - "id": "apologize", - "text": "Apologize" - }, - { - "id": "reschedule", - "text": "Reschedule" - }, - { - "id": "write_down_the_issue", - "text": "Write down the issue" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_stopping_point", + "text": "Clear stopping point" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "cozy_reset", + "text": "Cozy reset" + }, + { + "id": "plan_tomorrow", + "text": "Plan tomorrow" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_189", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is your first sign of overwhelm?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps us celebrate progress after a hard talk?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "overwhelm" + "celebration", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "tears", - "text": "Tears" - }, - { - "id": "anger", - "text": "Anger" - }, - { - "id": "silence", - "text": "Silence" - }, - { - "id": "fast_talking", - "text": "Fast talking" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "say_thank_you", + "text": "Say thank you" + }, + { + "id": "notice_growth", + "text": "Notice growth" + }, + { + "id": "small_treat", + "text": "Small treat" + }, + { + "id": "relax_together", + "text": "Relax together" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_190", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should I do when I notice that sign?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make hard talks easier next month?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "support" + "monthly", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "ask_gently", - "text": "Ask gently" - }, - { - "id": "offer_a_pause", - "text": "Offer a pause" - }, - { - "id": "reassure_you", - "text": "Reassure you" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "better_timing", + "text": "Better timing" + }, + { + "id": "softer_starts", + "text": "Softer starts" + }, + { + "id": "more_pauses", + "text": "More pauses" + }, + { + "id": "more_warmth", + "text": "More warmth" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_191", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should be off-limits during hard talks?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps hard conversations feel safer?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "boundaries" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "insults", - "text": "Insults" - }, - { - "id": "threats", - "text": "Threats" - }, - { - "id": "mocking", - "text": "Mocking" - }, - { - "id": "private_vulnerabilities", - "text": "Private vulnerabilities" - }, - { - "id": "old_unrelated_issues", - "text": "Old unrelated issues" - }, - { - "id": "public_arguments", - "text": "Public arguments" - } + "safety", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "soft_tone", + "text": "Soft tone" + }, + { + "id": "no_blame", + "text": "No blame" + }, + { + "id": "breaks_allowed", + "text": "Breaks allowed" + }, + { + "id": "care_after", + "text": "Care after" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3662,39 +4030,36 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_192", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps a hard talk stay respectful?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps us keep warmth during a serious talk?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "respect" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "calm_tone", - "text": "Calm tone" - }, - { - "id": "taking_turns", - "text": "Taking turns" - }, - { - "id": "specific_examples", - "text": "Specific examples" - }, - { - "id": "pauses", - "text": "Pauses" - }, - { - "id": "no_name_calling", - "text": "No name-calling" - }, - { - "id": "clear_goal", - "text": "Clear goal" - } + "warmth", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "kind_words", + "text": "Kind words" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_humor", + "text": "Gentle humor" + }, + { + "id": "small_touch", + "text": "Small touch" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3703,39 +4068,36 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_193", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes hard talks easier to start?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes a hard talk easier to start?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "start" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "planned_time", - "text": "Planned time" - }, - { - "id": "soft_wording", - "text": "Soft wording" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "a_clear_topic", - "text": "A clear topic" - }, - { - "id": "no_distractions", - "text": "No distractions" - } + "beginning", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "one_topic", + "text": "One topic" + }, + { + "id": "soft_start", + "text": "Soft start" + }, + { + "id": "clear_reason", + "text": "Clear reason" + }, + { + "id": "love_first", + "text": "Love first" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3744,39 +4106,36 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_194", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What topics need extra care?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps us repair if the talk gets tense?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sensitive_topics" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "sex", - "text": "Sex" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "future_plans", - "text": "Future plans" - }, - { - "id": "trust", - "text": "Trust" - }, - { - "id": "personal_insecurities", - "text": "Personal insecurities" - } + "repair", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "try_again", + "text": "Try again" + }, + { + "id": "apologize_quickly", + "text": "Apologize quickly" + }, + { + "id": "use_softer_words", + "text": "Use softer words" + }, + { + "id": "name_the_goal", + "text": "Name the goal" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3785,39 +4144,36 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_195", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What signs show we need a pause?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes difficult conversations feel more Closer-style?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "pause" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "raised_voices", - "text": "Raised voices" - }, - { - "id": "repeating_loops", - "text": "Repeating loops" - }, - { - "id": "tears", - "text": "Tears" - }, - { - "id": "shutdown", - "text": "Shutdown" - }, - { - "id": "sarcasm", - "text": "Sarcasm" - }, - { - "id": "fast_breathing", - "text": "Fast breathing" - } + "fun_first", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "small_rituals", + "text": "Small rituals" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_wording", + "text": "Gentle wording" + }, + { + "id": "team_language", + "text": "Team language" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_signals", + "text": "Tiny signals" + }, + { + "id": "warm_ending", + "text": "Warm ending" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3826,39 +4182,36 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_196", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What repair attempts work for you?", + "text": "What topics need extra gentleness?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "apology", - "text": "Apology" - }, - { - "id": "humor", - "text": "Humor" - }, - { - "id": "touch", - "text": "Touch" - }, - { - "id": "a_reset_phrase", - "text": "A reset phrase" - }, - { - "id": "taking_ownership", - "text": "Taking ownership" - }, - { - "id": "checking_in_later", - "text": "Checking in later" - } + "topics", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "money", + "text": "Money" + }, + { + "id": "family", + "text": "Family" + }, + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "intimacy", + "text": "Intimacy" + }, + { + "id": "future_plans", + "text": "Future plans" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3867,39 +4220,39 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_197", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes accountability feel real?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps when emotional armor shows up?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "accountability" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_ownership", - "text": "Specific ownership" - }, - { - "id": "changed_behavior", - "text": "Changed behavior" - }, - { - "id": "no_excuses", - "text": "No excuses" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "follow_up", - "text": "Follow-up" - }, - { - "id": "listening_first", - "text": "Listening first" - } + "defensiveness", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "own_one_part", + "text": "Own one part" + }, + { + "id": "ask_a_question", + "text": "Ask a question" + }, + { + "id": "use_we", + "text": "Use we" + }, + { + "id": "take_a_breath", + "text": "Take a breath" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3908,39 +4261,39 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_198", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel heard?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps when quiet mode takes over?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "listening" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "eye_contact", - "text": "Eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "paraphrasing", - "text": "Paraphrasing" - }, - { - "id": "questions", - "text": "Questions" - }, - { - "id": "no_interruptions", - "text": "No interruptions" - }, - { - "id": "validation", - "text": "Validation" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - } + "shutdown", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gentle_check_in", + "text": "Gentle check-in" + }, + { + "id": "space", + "text": "Space" + }, + { + "id": "return_time", + "text": "Return time" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3949,39 +4302,39 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_199", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel unheard?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps when emotions get louder than the words?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "listening" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "interruptions", - "text": "Interruptions" - }, - { - "id": "fixing_too_fast", - "text": "Fixing too fast" - }, - { - "id": "defending", - "text": "Defending" - }, - { - "id": "looking_away", - "text": "Looking away" - }, - { - "id": "changing_topic", - "text": "Changing topic" - }, - { - "id": "minimizing", - "text": "Minimizing" - } + "emotions", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "name_the_feeling", + "text": "Name the feeling" + }, + { + "id": "lower_tone", + "text": "Lower tone" + }, + { + "id": "use_short_sentences", + "text": "Use short sentences" + }, + { + "id": "comfort_first", + "text": "Comfort first" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3990,39 +4343,39 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_200", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we do before a big conversation?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us keep the hard-talk tabs from multiplying?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "preparation" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "eat", - "text": "Eat" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "pick_time", - "text": "Pick time" - }, - { - "id": "agree_on_topic", - "text": "Agree on topic" - }, - { - "id": "set_goal", - "text": "Set goal" - }, - { - "id": "remove_distractions", - "text": "Remove distractions" - } + "focus", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "write_extras_down", + "text": "Write extras down" + }, + { + "id": "pick_one", + "text": "Pick one" + }, + { + "id": "take_turns", + "text": "Take turns" + }, + { + "id": "set_a_timer", + "text": "Set a timer" + }, + { + "id": "return_later", + "text": "Return later" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4031,39 +4384,36 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_201", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we do after a big conversation?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps us talk about hurt feelings?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "aftercare" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "check_in", - "text": "Check in" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "plan_next_step", - "text": "Plan next step" - }, - { - "id": "offer_affection", - "text": "Offer affection" - }, - { - "id": "write_agreement", - "text": "Write agreement" - }, - { - "id": "thank_each_other", - "text": "Thank each other" - } + "hurt", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_start", + "text": "Soft start" + }, + { + "id": "no_labels", + "text": "No labels" + }, + { + "id": "name_the_moment", + "text": "Name the moment" + }, + { + "id": "ask_for_care", + "text": "Ask for care" + }, + { + "id": "listen_back", + "text": "Listen back" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4072,39 +4422,36 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_202", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What hard emotions are hardest to share?", + "text": "What helps us talk about expectations?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emotions" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "fear", - "text": "Fear" - }, - { - "id": "shame", - "text": "Shame" - }, - { - "id": "anger", - "text": "Anger" - }, - { - "id": "disappointment", - "text": "Disappointment" - }, - { - "id": "jealousy", - "text": "Jealousy" - }, - { - "id": "loneliness", - "text": "Loneliness" - } + "expectations", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_the_hope", + "text": "Name the hope" + }, + { + "id": "say_what_changed", + "text": "Say what changed" + }, + { + "id": "ask_clearly", + "text": "Ask clearly" + }, + { + "id": "no_guessing", + "text": "No guessing" + }, + { + "id": "make_one_agreement", + "text": "Make one agreement" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4113,39 +4460,36 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_203", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What hard emotions are hardest to receive?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps us talk about boundaries?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emotions" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "fear", - "text": "Fear" - }, - { - "id": "shame", - "text": "Shame" - }, - { - "id": "anger", - "text": "Anger" - }, - { - "id": "disappointment", - "text": "Disappointment" - }, - { - "id": "jealousy", - "text": "Jealousy" - }, - { - "id": "loneliness", - "text": "Loneliness" - } + "boundaries", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "love_first", + "text": "Love first" + }, + { + "id": "clear_words", + "text": "Clear words" + }, + { + "id": "respect", + "text": "Respect" + }, + { + "id": "no_threats", + "text": "No threats" + }, + { + "id": "revisit_later", + "text": "Revisit later" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4154,39 +4498,36 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_204", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps disagreement feel safer?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps us talk about trust?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "disagreement" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_goal", - "text": "Shared goal" - }, - { - "id": "respectful_tone", - "text": "Respectful tone" - }, - { - "id": "choice_of_timing", - "text": "Choice of timing" - }, - { - "id": "clear_boundaries", - "text": "Clear boundaries" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - }, - { - "id": "repair", - "text": "Repair" - } + "trust", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "specific_words", + "text": "Specific words" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "no_interrogation", + "text": "No interrogation" + }, + { + "id": "care_after", + "text": "Care after" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4195,39 +4536,36 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_205", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes defensiveness worse?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us talk about intimacy?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "defensiveness" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "blame", - "text": "Blame" - }, - { - "id": "broad_statements", - "text": "Broad statements" - }, - { - "id": "sarcasm", - "text": "Sarcasm" - }, - { - "id": "interruptions", - "text": "Interruptions" - }, - { - "id": "old_issues", - "text": "Old issues" - }, - { - "id": "no_reassurance", - "text": "No reassurance" - } + "intimacy", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_words", + "text": "Gentle words" + }, + { + "id": "easy_pause", + "text": "Easy pause" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4236,39 +4574,36 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_206", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes defensiveness soften?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us talk about money?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "defensiveness" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_wording", - "text": "Gentle wording" - }, - { - "id": "specific_examples", - "text": "Specific examples" - }, - { - "id": "shared_responsibility", - "text": "Shared responsibility" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "validation", - "text": "Validation" - } + "money", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_shame", + "text": "No shame" + }, + { + "id": "facts_first", + "text": "Facts first" + }, + { + "id": "shared_goal", + "text": "Shared goal" + }, + { + "id": "short_talk", + "text": "Short talk" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_next_step", + "text": "Tiny next step" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4277,39 +4612,36 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_207", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we clarify when stuck?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps us talk about family pressure?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "clarity" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "the_real_issue", - "text": "The real issue" - }, - { - "id": "the_feeling", - "text": "The feeling" - }, - { - "id": "the_need", - "text": "The need" - }, - { - "id": "the_request", - "text": "The request" - }, - { - "id": "the_fear", - "text": "The fear" - }, - { - "id": "the_next_step", - "text": "The next step" - } + "family", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "choose_us", + "text": "Choose us" + }, + { + "id": "private_first", + "text": "Private first" + }, + { + "id": "shared_boundary", + "text": "Shared boundary" + }, + { + "id": "no_blame", + "text": "No blame" + }, + { + "id": "kind_script", + "text": "Kind script" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4318,39 +4650,39 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_208", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we protect during hard talks?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps us leave the talk lighter than we entered it?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "values" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "safety", - "text": "Safety" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "hope", - "text": "Hope" - } + "ending", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "warm_words", + "text": "Warm words" + }, + { + "id": "clear_next_step", + "text": "Clear next step" + }, + { + "id": "cozy_reset", + "text": "Cozy reset" + }, + { + "id": "thank_you", + "text": "Thank you" + }, + { + "id": "pause_the_topic", + "text": "Pause the topic" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4359,39 +4691,36 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_209", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What kinds of follow-through matter?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps after a hard talk?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "follow_through" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "behavior_change", - "text": "Behavior change" - }, - { - "id": "check_in_later", - "text": "Check-in later" - }, - { - "id": "clear_agreement", - "text": "Clear agreement" - }, - { - "id": "apology", - "text": "Apology" - }, - { - "id": "taking_over_a_task", - "text": "Taking over a task" - }, - { - "id": "getting_support", - "text": "Getting support" - } + "aftercare", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet_text", + "text": "Sweet text" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_hug", + "text": "Gentle hug" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_time", + "text": "Quiet time" + }, + { + "id": "small_action", + "text": "Small action" + }, + { + "id": "check_back_later", + "text": "Check back later" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4400,39 +4729,37 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_210", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes a difficult conversation worth having?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What playful tools could help hard talks feel lighter?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "growth" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_honesty", - "text": "More honesty" - }, - { - "id": "more_closeness", - "text": "More closeness" - }, - { - "id": "clearer_choices", - "text": "Clearer choices" - }, - { - "id": "less_resentment", - "text": "Less resentment" - }, - { - "id": "better_teamwork", - "text": "Better teamwork" - }, - { - "id": "real_repair", - "text": "Real repair" - } + "fun_first", + "tools", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "code_word", + "text": "Code word" + }, + { + "id": "snack_rule", + "text": "Snack rule" + }, + { + "id": "hand_squeeze", + "text": "Hand squeeze" + }, + { + "id": "try_again_phrase", + "text": "Try-again phrase" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_timer", + "text": "Tiny timer" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4441,16 +4768,16 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_211", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe do difficult conversations feel with me right now?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How safe do hard conversations feel between us?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "safety" + "safety", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, + "min": 1, + "max": 5, "min_label": "Not safe", "max_label": "Very safe" } @@ -4459,35 +4786,35 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_212", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to bring up hard topics with me?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How easy is it to start a serious talk?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "start" + "beginning", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Very hard", - "max_label": "Very easy" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_213", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do I listen during hard talks?", + "text": "How well do we keep warmth in hard talks?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "listening" + "warmth", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not well", + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", "max_label": "Very well" } }, @@ -4495,251 +4822,258 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_214", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do you feel you listen during hard talks?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How helpful would a playful slow-down signal be?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "listening" + "signals", + "fun_first", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not helpful", + "max_label": "Very helpful" } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_215", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How defensive do our hard talks feel lately?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How well do we come back after a pause?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "defensiveness" + "pause", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not defensive", - "max_label": "Very defensive" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_216", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How respectful are we when emotions run high?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How kind does our tone stay during hard talks?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "respect" + "tone", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not respectful", - "max_label": "Very respectful" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not kind", + "max_label": "Very kind" } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_217", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we pause before escalation?", + "text": "How hopeful do you feel about making hard talks easier?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "pause" + "hope", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not hopeful", + "max_label": "Very hopeful" } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_218", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we come back after a pause?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How easy does it feel to say, 'That stung,' without it becoming a huge thing?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pause" + "hurt", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_219", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How honest do you feel you can be with me?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How safe does it feel to talk about money?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "honesty" + "money", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not honest", - "max_label": "Very honest" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_220", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How honest do you feel I am with you?", + "text": "How safe does it feel to talk about family pressure?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "honesty" + "family", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not honest", - "max_label": "Very honest" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_221", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do old issues affect new conversations?", + "text": "How safe does it feel to talk about intimacy?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "old_wounds" + "intimacy", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_222", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we repair after hard talks?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "How safe does it feel to talk about trust?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair" + "trust", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_223", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clear are our boundaries during conflict?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How well do we keep one topic from turning into a group project?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "boundaries" + "focus", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Very unclear", - "max_label": "Very clear" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_224", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you feel blamed during hard talks?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How much does timing affect hard talks?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "blame" + "timing", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not blamed", - "max_label": "Very blamed" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_225", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you feel understood during hard talks?", + "text": "How much does tone affect hard talks?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "understanding" + "tone", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not understood", - "max_label": "Very understood" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_226", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we name the real issue?", + "text": "How comfortable are you asking for a pause?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "clarity" + "pause", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not comfortable", + "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_227", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we talk about needs instead of accusations?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How well do we repair if a hard talk goes sideways?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "needs" + "repair", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not well", + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", "max_label": "Very well" } }, @@ -4747,71 +5081,71 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_228", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we handle sensitive topics?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "How much do hard talks bring us closer afterward?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sensitive_topics" + "closeness", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Poorly", - "max_label": "Very well" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_229", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you trust our ability to have hard conversations?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How easy is it to say the brave thing?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trust" + "courage", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "Very much" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_230", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we keep hard talks private and respectful?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How easy is it to hear the brave thing?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "privacy" + "listening", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_231", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we follow through after hard talks?", + "text": "How well do we end hard talks warmly?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "follow_through" + "ending", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not well", + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", "max_label": "Very well" } }, @@ -4819,17 +5153,17 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_232", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much courage do you feel in our communication?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How much do we need a tiny ritual before hard talks?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "courage" + "rituals", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Very little", + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", "max_label": "A lot" } }, @@ -4837,17 +5171,17 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_233", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much tenderness survives our hard conversations?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How much do we need a cozy reset after hard talks?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "tenderness" + "aftercare", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Very little", + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", "max_label": "A lot" } }, @@ -4855,17 +5189,20 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_234", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much resentment is waiting to be discussed?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "How often do guesses sneak into hard talks?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "resentment" + "assumptions", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "None", + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", "max_label": "A lot" } }, @@ -4873,334 +5210,385 @@ "id": "difficult_conversations_235", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "scale", - "text": "How confident are you that our next hard talk can go better?", + "text": "How possible does it feel to make serious talks feel more like us?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "growth" + "identity", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not confident", - "max_label": "Very confident" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not possible", + "max_label": "Very possible" } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_236", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For hard talks, which helps more?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Soft start or tiny ritual?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "timing" + "beginning", + "fun_first", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "plan_ahead", - "text": "Plan ahead" - }, - { - "id": "bring_it_up_naturally", - "text": "Bring it up naturally" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_start", + "text": "Soft start" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_ritual", + "text": "Tiny ritual" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_237", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When emotions rise, which should we do first?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Talk now or schedule it?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "pause" + "timing", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "slow_down_together", - "text": "Slow down together" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_now", + "text": "Talk now" + }, + { + "id": "schedule_it", + "text": "Schedule it" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_238", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For feedback, which lands better?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Pause gently or try again softer?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feedback" + "pause", + "restart", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_wording", - "text": "Gentle wording" - }, - { - "id": "direct_wording", - "text": "Direct wording" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "pause_gently", + "text": "Pause gently" + }, + { + "id": "try_again", + "text": "Try again softer" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_239", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For old hurts, which helps more?", + "text": "Love first or facts first?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "old_wounds" + "soft_start", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_in_pieces", - "text": "Talk in pieces" - }, - { - "id": "talk_all_at_once", - "text": "Talk all at once" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "love_first", + "text": "Love first" + }, + { + "id": "facts_first", + "text": "Facts first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_240", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When stuck, which should we ask?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "Short talk or deep talk?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "clarity" + "depth", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "what_are_you_feeling", - "text": "What are you feeling?" - }, - { - "id": "what_do_you_need", - "text": "What do you need?" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "short_talk", + "text": "Short talk" + }, + { + "id": "deep_talk", + "text": "Deep talk" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_241", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For repair, which matters more?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "Comfort first or clarity first?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair" + "support", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "changed_behavior", - "text": "Changed behavior" - }, - { - "id": "spoken_apology", - "text": "Spoken apology" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "comfort_first", + "text": "Comfort first" + }, + { + "id": "clarity_first", + "text": "Clarity first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_242", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "During disagreement, which protects us more?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Hold hands or take space?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "disagreement" + "comfort", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_boundaries", - "text": "Clear boundaries" - }, - { - "id": "extra_reassurance", - "text": "Extra reassurance" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hold_hands", + "text": "Hold hands" + }, + { + "id": "take_space", + "text": "Take space" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_243", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When one of us is defensive, which helps more?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Say it out loud or write it first?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "defensiveness" + "communication", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_question", - "text": "Gentle question" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "say_it", + "text": "Say it out loud" + }, + { + "id": "write_first", + "text": "Write it first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_244", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For sensitive topics, which matters more?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "One topic or one timer?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sensitive_topics" + "focus", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "timing", - "text": "Timing" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_topic", + "text": "One topic" + }, + { + "id": "one_timer", + "text": "One timer" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_245", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When we disagree, which should lead?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "Gentle question or clear request?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "values" + "needs", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gentle_question", + "text": "Gentle question" + }, + { + "id": "clear_request", + "text": "Clear request" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_246", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "After a hard talk, which helps more?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "Pause with a code word or pause with a hand squeeze?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "aftercare" + "signals", + "fun_first", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "action_plan", - "text": "Action plan" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "code_word", + "text": "Code word" + }, + { + "id": "hand_squeeze", + "text": "Hand squeeze" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_247", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For big decisions, which matters more?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Repair with words or repair with action?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "decisions" + "repair", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_values", - "text": "Shared values" - }, - { - "id": "practical_details", - "text": "Practical details" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "words", + "text": "Words" + }, + { + "id": "action", + "text": "Action" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_248", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When someone gets quiet, which should we assume first?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "End with reassurance or end with a plan?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "silence" + "ending", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "needs_time", - "text": "Needs time" - }, - { - "id": "needs_safety", - "text": "Needs safety" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "plan", + "text": "A plan" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_249", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For emotional honesty, which helps more?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Name the feeling or find the fix?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "honesty" + "feelings", + "difficult_conversations", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_gently", - "text": "Ask gently" - }, - { - "id": "listen_quietly", - "text": "Listen quietly" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling", + "text": "The feeling" + }, + { + "id": "fix", + "text": "The fix" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_250", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For our next hard talk, which should we protect first?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "Cozy reset or quick follow-up?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "respect" + "aftercare", + "difficult_conversations" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cozy_reset", + "text": "Cozy reset" + }, + { + "id": "quick_follow_up", + "text": "Quick follow-up" + } + ] + } } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/emotional_intimacy.json b/seed/questions/emotional_intimacy.json index 7fdfdb5b..9fc7df0a 100644 --- a/seed/questions/emotional_intimacy.json +++ b/seed/questions/emotional_intimacy.json @@ -2,3812 +2,4011 @@ "category": { "id": "emotional_intimacy", "display_name": "Emotional Intimacy", - "description": "Questions about closeness, vulnerability, affection, fears, and emotional needs.", + "description": "Warm, Closer-style questions that help couples feel known, seen, comforted, emotionally safe, playful, tender, and close in ordinary moments without feeling like therapy homework.", "access": "mixed", - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, - "question_type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 - }, + "icon_name": "favorite", "schema_version": "question_v2", - "supported_types": [ - "written", - "single_choice", - "multi_choice", - "scale", - "this_or_that" - ] + "metadata": { + "total_questions": 250, + "free_questions": 75, + "premium_questions": 175, + "type_counts": { + "written": 150, + "single_choice": 40, + "multi_choice": 20, + "scale": 25, + "this_or_that": 15 + } + } }, "questions": [ { "id": "emotional_intimacy_001", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you experience feeling emotionally safe with me?", + "text": "What is one little thing that makes you feel emotionally close to me?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_emotionally_safe", - "closeness" + "closeness", + "little_things", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_002", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When have you noticed feeling emotionally safe between us recently?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What makes you feel truly seen by me?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_emotionally_safe", - "noticing" + "seen", + "known", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_003", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing I can do to support feeling emotionally safe?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes you feel safe being soft with me?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_emotionally_safe", - "support" + "softness", + "safety", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_004", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes feeling emotionally safe feel easier for you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What tiny mood of yours would you like me to get better at noticing?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_emotionally_safe", - "safety" + "feelings", + "awareness", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_005", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about feeling emotionally safe?", + "text": "What is one feeling I usually notice well?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_emotionally_safe", - "gentle_questions" + "gratitude", + "awareness", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_006", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you experience sharing small worries with me?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes you feel like I really know you?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sharing_small_worries", - "closeness" + "known", + "closeness", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_007", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When have you noticed sharing small worries between us recently?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What tiny moment recently made you feel loved?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sharing_small_worries", - "noticing" + "love", + "recent", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_008", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing I can do to support sharing small worries?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What kind of comfort feels best when your heart is tired?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sharing_small_worries", - "support" + "comfort", + "support", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_009", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes sharing small worries feel easier for you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What kind of check-in feels sweet instead of serious?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sharing_small_worries", - "safety" + "check_in", + "fun_first", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_010", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about sharing small worries?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one inside joke that makes us feel closer?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sharing_small_worries", - "gentle_questions" + "inside_jokes", + "fun_first", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_011", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you experience asking for comfort with me?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one small way I can make your day feel less lonely?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "asking_for_comfort", - "closeness" + "loneliness", + "support", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_012", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When have you noticed asking for comfort between us recently?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What makes you feel emotionally held by me?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "asking_for_comfort", - "noticing" + "emotional_support", + "security", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_013", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing I can do to support asking for comfort?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps opening up feel natural instead of like a big moment?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "asking_for_comfort", - "support" + "openness", + "no_pressure", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_014", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes asking for comfort feel easier for you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes it easier to say, 'I need you close'?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "asking_for_comfort", - "safety" + "needs", + "vulnerability", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_015", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about asking for comfort?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you say, 'I need a softer moment'?", + "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "asking_for_comfort", - "gentle_questions" + "vulnerability", + "support", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_016", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you experience being seen with me?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one thing you love being understood for?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "being_seen", - "closeness" + "understanding", + "identity", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_017", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When have you noticed being seen between us recently?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What little part of you would you love for me to know better?", + "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "being_seen", - "noticing" + "vulnerability", + "identity", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_018", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing I can do to support being seen?", + "text": "What part of you feels easiest to show me?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "being_seen", - "support" + "ease", + "identity", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_019", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes being seen feel easier for you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes our emotional connection feel playful?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "being_seen", - "safety" + "play", + "fun_first", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_020", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about being seen?", + "text": "What makes our emotional connection feel peaceful?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "being_seen", - "gentle_questions" + "peace", + "closeness", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_021", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you experience showing affection in words with me?", + "text": "What makes our emotional connection feel romantic?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "showing_affection_in_words", - "closeness" + "romance", + "closeness", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_022", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When have you noticed showing affection in words between us recently?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one question from me that would make you feel cared for?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "showing_affection_in_words", - "noticing" + "questions", + "care", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_023", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing I can do to support showing affection in words?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one question you wish I asked more often?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "showing_affection_in_words", - "support" + "questions", + "curiosity", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_024", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes showing affection in words feel easier for you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps when feelings are there but words are still loading?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "showing_affection_in_words", - "safety" + "feelings", + "words", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_025", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about showing affection in words?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you show a feeling without turning it into a whole speech?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "showing_affection_in_words", - "gentle_questions" + "feelings", + "expression", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_026", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you experience talking about your day with me?", + "text": "What makes quiet time together feel intimate?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "talking_about_your_day", - "closeness" + "quiet", + "intimacy", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_027", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When have you noticed talking about your day between us recently?", + "text": "What makes laughter feel intimate between us?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "talking_about_your_day", - "noticing" + "laughter", + "fun_first", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_028", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing I can do to support talking about your day?", + "text": "What makes eye contact feel sweet instead of intense?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "talking_about_your_day", - "support" + "eye_contact", + "sweetness", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_029", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes talking about your day feel easier for you?", + "text": "What makes a hug feel emotionally comforting?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "talking_about_your_day", - "safety" + "comfort", + "touch", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_030", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about talking about your day?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you feel chosen in ordinary moments?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "talking_about_your_day", - "gentle_questions" + "chosen", + "daily_life", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_031", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you experience feeling close after time apart with me?", + "text": "What helps you feel adored in ordinary moments?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_close_after_time_apart", - "closeness" + "adoration", + "daily_life", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_032", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When have you noticed feeling close after time apart between us recently?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one emotional habit we could make ours?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_close_after_time_apart", - "noticing" + "rituals", + "habits", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_033", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing I can do to support feeling close after time apart?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one tiny ritual that could help us feel closer?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_close_after_time_apart", - "support" + "rituals", + "fun_first", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_034", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes feeling close after time apart feel easier for you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one sweet signal that could mean, 'I need closeness'?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_close_after_time_apart", - "safety" + "signals", + "fun_first", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_035", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about feeling close after time apart?", + "text": "What helps us reconnect after a busy day?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_close_after_time_apart", - "gentle_questions" + "reconnection", + "busy_life", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_036", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you experience receiving reassurance with me?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us reconnect after a stressful day?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "receiving_reassurance", - "closeness" + "reconnection", + "stress", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_037", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When have you noticed receiving reassurance between us recently?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What makes you feel like I am your safe place?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "receiving_reassurance", - "noticing" + "safe_place", + "security", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_038", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing I can do to support receiving reassurance?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes me feel like your safe place?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "receiving_reassurance", - "support" + "safe_place", + "mutual", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_039", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes receiving reassurance feel easier for you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one thing you wish I could read in your face a little better?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "receiving_reassurance", - "safety" + "understanding", + "ease", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_040", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about receiving reassurance?", + "text": "What helps you feel emotionally close when we are doing ordinary things?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "receiving_reassurance", - "gentle_questions" + "daily_life", + "closeness", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_041", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you experience sharing joy with me?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you feel emotionally close when we are apart?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sharing_joy", - "closeness" + "apart", + "connection", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_042", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When have you noticed sharing joy between us recently?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What makes you feel missed by me?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sharing_joy", - "noticing" + "missed", + "connection", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_043", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing I can do to support sharing joy?", + "text": "What makes you feel remembered by me?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sharing_joy", - "support" + "remembered", + "care", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_044", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes sharing joy feel easier for you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What would make our emotional closeness feel even more like home?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sharing_joy", - "safety" + "home", + "closeness", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_045", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one gentle question I could ask about sharing joy?", + "text": "What is one gentle way we can choose each other today?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sharing_joy", - "gentle_questions" + "today", + "choosing_us", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_046", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you experience showing tenderness with me?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "What would make feeling seen feel more natural between us?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "showing_tenderness", - "closeness" + "seen", + "known", + "ease", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_047", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When have you noticed showing tenderness between us recently?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "How could we make feeling seen feel sweeter and less serious?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "showing_tenderness", - "noticing" + "seen", + "known", + "fun_first", + "sweetness", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_048", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - 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"min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_058", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing I can do to support handling vulnerability gently?", + "text": "What little ritual could help with feeling chosen?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "handling_vulnerability_gently", - "support" + "chosen", + "security", + "rituals", + "fun_first", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_059", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes handling vulnerability gently feel easier for you?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "What would help us protect feeling chosen when life gets busy?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "handling_vulnerability_gently", - 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"min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_087", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When do the moments you feel unseen affect how close you feel to me?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would help us protect asking for closeness when life gets busy?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "moments_you_feel_unseen", - "closeness" + "needs", + "connection", + "busy_life", + "protection", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_088", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you share more honestly about moments you feel unseen?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make sharing worries feel more natural between us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "moments_you_feel_unseen", - 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"placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_100", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary or reassurance that would help with shame and tenderness?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What little ritual could help with sharing dreams?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "shame_and_tenderness", - "safety" + "dreams", + "future", + "rituals", + "fun_first", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_101", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What question do you wish I would ask about fear of being too much?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would help us protect sharing dreams when life gets busy?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fear_of_being_too_much", - "understanding" + "dreams", + "future", + "busy_life", + "protection", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_102", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When does fear of being too much affect how close you feel to me?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make soft feelings feel more natural between us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fear_of_being_too_much", - "closeness" + "softness", + "feelings", + "ease", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_103", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you share more honestly about fear of being too much?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How could we make soft feelings feel sweeter and less serious?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fear_of_being_too_much", - "vulnerability" + "softness", + "feelings", + "fun_first", + "sweetness", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_104", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I respond to fear of being too much in a way that feels safe instead of fixing you?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What small action would support soft feelings this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fear_of_being_too_much", - "responsiveness" + "softness", + "feelings", + "weekly", + "small_actions", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_105", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary or reassurance that would help with fear of being too much?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make soft feelings feel softer and easier between us?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - 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"placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_111", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What feels hardest to explain about emotional withdrawal?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What small action would support ordinary tenderness this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emotional_withdrawal", - "understanding" + "tenderness", + "daily_life", + "weekly", + "small_actions", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_112", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When does emotional withdrawal affect how close you feel to me?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make ordinary tenderness feel softer and easier between us?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emotional_withdrawal", - "closeness" + "tenderness", + "daily_life", + "safety", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_113", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you share more honestly about emotional withdrawal?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would you love for me to notice about ordinary tenderness?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emotional_withdrawal", - "vulnerability" + "tenderness", + "daily_life", + "understanding", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_114", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I respond to emotional withdrawal in a way that feels safe instead of fixing you?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What little ritual could help with ordinary tenderness?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - 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"min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_120", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary or reassurance that would help with repairing emotional distance?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would you love for me to notice about reconnecting after stress?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repairing_emotional_distance", - "safety" + "reconnection", + "stress", + "understanding", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_121", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you want me to notice about receiving love?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What little ritual could help with reconnecting after stress?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - 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"text": "What part of trusting me with sadness do you rarely get to say out loud?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we make emotional safety feel sweeter and less serious?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trusting_me_with_sadness", - "understanding" + "emotional_safety", + "safety", + "fun_first", + "sweetness", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_132", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When does trusting me with sadness affect how close you feel to me?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What small action would support emotional safety this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trusting_me_with_sadness", - "closeness" + "emotional_safety", + "safety", + "weekly", + "small_actions", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_133", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you share more honestly about trusting me with sadness?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make emotional safety feel softer and easier between us?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trusting_me_with_sadness", - "vulnerability" + "emotional_safety", + "safety", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_134", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I respond to trusting me with sadness in a way that feels safe instead of fixing you?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would you love for me to notice about emotional safety?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trusting_me_with_sadness", - "responsiveness" + "emotional_safety", + "safety", + "understanding", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_135", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary or reassurance that would help with trusting me with sadness?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What little ritual could help with emotional safety?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trusting_me_with_sadness", - "safety" + "emotional_safety", + "safety", + "rituals", + "fun_first", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_136", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I better honor what intimacy after conflict brings up for you?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would help us protect emotional safety when life gets busy?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "intimacy_after_conflict", - "understanding" + "emotional_safety", + "safety", + "busy_life", + "protection", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_137", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When does intimacy after conflict affect how close you feel to me?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make sweet little rituals feel more natural between us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "intimacy_after_conflict", - "closeness" + "rituals", + "fun_first", + "ease", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_138", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you share more honestly about intimacy after conflict?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How could we make sweet little rituals feel sweeter and less serious?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "intimacy_after_conflict", - "vulnerability" + "rituals", + "fun_first", + "sweetness", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_139", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I respond to intimacy after conflict in a way that feels safe instead of fixing you?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What small action would support sweet little rituals this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "intimacy_after_conflict", - "responsiveness" + "rituals", + "fun_first", + "weekly", + "small_actions", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_140", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary or reassurance that would help with intimacy after conflict?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make sweet little rituals feel softer and easier between us?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "intimacy_after_conflict", - "safety" + "rituals", + "fun_first", + "safety", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_141", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What question do you wish I would ask about longing for closeness?", + "text": "What would you love for me to notice about sweet little rituals?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "longing_for_closeness", - "understanding" + "rituals", + "fun_first", + "understanding", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_142", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When does longing for closeness affect how close you feel to me?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What little ritual could help with sweet little rituals?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "longing_for_closeness", - "closeness" + "rituals", + "fun_first", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_143", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you share more honestly about longing for closeness?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would help us protect sweet little rituals when life gets busy?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "longing_for_closeness", - "vulnerability" + "rituals", + "fun_first", + "busy_life", + "protection", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_144", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I respond to longing for closeness in a way that feels safe instead of fixing you?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make missing each other feel more natural between us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "longing_for_closeness", - "responsiveness" + "missing", + "connection", + "ease", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_145", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary or reassurance that would help with longing for closeness?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How could we make missing each other feel sweeter and less serious?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "longing_for_closeness", - "safety" + "missing", + "connection", + "fun_first", + "sweetness", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_146", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you want me to understand about the parts of yourself you protect?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What small action would support missing each other this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "the_parts_of_you_you_protect", - "understanding" + "missing", + "connection", + "weekly", + "small_actions", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_147", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When do the parts of yourself you protect affect how close you feel to me?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make missing each other feel softer and easier between us?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "the_parts_of_you_you_protect", - "closeness" + "missing", + "connection", + "safety", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_148", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you share more honestly about the parts of yourself you protect?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would you love for me to notice about missing each other?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "the_parts_of_you_you_protect", - "vulnerability" + "missing", + "connection", + "understanding", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_149", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I respond to the parts of yourself you protect in a way that feels safe instead of fixing you?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What little ritual could help with missing each other?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "the_parts_of_you_you_protect", - "responsiveness" + "missing", + "connection", + "rituals", + "fun_first", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_150", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary or reassurance that would help with the parts of yourself you protect?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would help us protect missing each other when life gets busy?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "the_parts_of_you_you_protect", - "safety" + "missing", + "connection", + "busy_life", + "protection", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_151", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When you feel emotionally vulnerable, what helps most first?", - 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"text": "When do you most want emotional attention?", + "text": "What helps you feel loved after a hard day?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "attention", - "timing" + "stress", + "support", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "after_stress", - "text": "After stress" - }, - { - "id": "before_sleep", - "text": "Before sleep" - }, - { - "id": "during_conflict", - "text": "During conflict" - }, - { - "id": "when_i_get_quiet", - "text": "When I get quiet" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "comfort_first", + "text": "Comfort first" + }, + { + "id": "listen_first", + "text": "Listen first" + }, + { + "id": "space_first", + "text": "Space first" + }, + { + "id": "help_first", + "text": "Help first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_161", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes affection feel meaningful?", + "text": "What kind of silence feels best?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "affection", - "meaning" + "quiet", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "timing", - "text": "Timing" - }, - { - "id": "specificity", - "text": "Specificity" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "tenderness", - "text": "Tenderness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cozy", + "text": "Cozy" + }, + { + "id": "peaceful", + "text": "Peaceful" + }, + { + "id": "connected", + "text": "Connected" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No-pressure" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_162", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is hardest to ask for?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes affection feel emotional?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "asking", - "difficulty" + "affection", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "timing", + "text": "Timing" + }, + { + "id": "tenderness", + "text": "Tenderness" + }, + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_known", + "text": "Feeling known" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_163", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you want me to notice sooner?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What sweet signal would help us ask for closeness?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "noticing", - "needs" + "signals", + "fun_first", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "stress", - "text": "Stress" - }, - { - "id": "sadness", - "text": "Sadness" - }, - { - "id": "distance", - "text": "Distance" - }, - { - "id": "excitement", - "text": "Excitement" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hand_squeeze", + "text": "Hand squeeze" + }, + { + "id": "code_word", + "text": "Code word" + }, + { + "id": "little_look", + "text": "Little look" + }, + { + "id": "come_here_text", + "text": "Come here text" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_164", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When I ask how you are, what answer is hardest?", + "text": "What makes you feel safe sharing a worry?", "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty", - "feelings" + "worries", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_am_scared", - "text": "I am scared" - }, - { - "id": "i_am_hurt", - "text": "I am hurt" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_you", - "text": "I need you" - }, - { - "id": "i_feel_alone", - "text": "I feel alone" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "no_fixing_yet", + "text": "No fixing yet" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_questions", + "text": "Gentle questions" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_165", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes emotional closeness feel pressured?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What should closeness feel like tonight?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "pressure", - "closeness" + "today", + "closeness", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "too_many_questions", - "text": "Too many questions" - }, - { - "id": "bad_timing", - "text": "Bad timing" - }, - { - "id": "expected_answers", - "text": "Expected answers" - }, - { - "id": "no_privacy", - "text": "No privacy" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cozy", + "text": "Cozy" + }, + { + "id": "playful", + "text": "Playful" + }, + { + "id": "tender", + "text": "Tender" + }, + { + "id": "peaceful", + "text": "Peaceful" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_166", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes emotional closeness feel natural?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which emotional need wants more attention?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "natural", - "closeness" + "needs", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "time_together", - "text": "Time together" - }, - { - "id": "no_distractions", - "text": "No distractions" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_questions", - "text": "Gentle questions" - }, - { - "id": "shared_activity", - "text": "Shared activity" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "understanding", + "text": "Understanding" + }, + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_167", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What response helps when you cry?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes opening up feel softer?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "crying", - "support" + "vulnerability", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "stay_close", - "text": "Stay close" - }, - { - "id": "ask_what_i_need", - "text": "Ask what I need" - }, - { - "id": "hold_me", - "text": "Hold me" - }, - { - "id": "do_not_panic", - "text": "Do not panic" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_judgment", + "text": "No judgment" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_words", + "text": "Gentle words" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_168", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What response hurts when you cry?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes emotional intimacy feel romantic?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "crying", - "hurt" + "romance", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "fixing_it", - "text": "Fixing it" - }, - { - "id": "leaving_too_fast", - "text": "Leaving too fast" - }, - { - "id": "minimizing_it", - "text": "Minimizing it" - }, - { - "id": "getting_uncomfortable", - "text": "Getting uncomfortable" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_words", + "text": "Soft words" + }, + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_me", + "text": "Remembering me" + }, + { + "id": "slow_moments", + "text": "Slow moments" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_169", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you receive love?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes emotional intimacy feel playful?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "receiving_love", - "openness" + "play", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "trust", - "text": "Trust" - }, - { - "id": "calm", - "text": "Calm" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "clear_words", - "text": "Clear words" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "inside_jokes", + "text": "Inside jokes" + }, + { + "id": "silly_signals", + "text": "Silly signals" + }, + { + "id": "teasing_kindly", + "text": "Teasing kindly" + }, + { + "id": "secret_rituals", + "text": "Secret rituals" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_170", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What blocks you from receiving love?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What makes emotional intimacy feel peaceful?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "receiving_love", - "blocks" + "peace", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "fear", - "text": "Fear" - }, - { - "id": "shame", - "text": "Shame" - }, - { - "id": "past_hurt", - "text": "Past hurt" - }, - { - "id": "stress", - "text": "Stress" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_closeness", + "text": "Quiet closeness" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "kind_tone", + "text": "Kind tone" + }, + { + "id": "being_known", + "text": "Being known" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_171", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What feels most intimate to share?", + "text": "What helps when one of us feels lonely?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sharing", - "intimacy" + "loneliness", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_fear", - "text": "A fear" - }, - { - "id": "a_dream", - "text": "A dream" - }, - { - "id": "a_memory", - "text": "A memory" - }, - { - "id": "a_need", - "text": "A need" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "check_in", + "text": "Check in" + }, + { + "id": "sit_close", + "text": "Sit close" + }, + { + "id": "listen", + "text": "Listen" + }, + { + "id": "reassure", + "text": "Reassure" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_172", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What feels safest to share first?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps when one of us feels overwhelmed?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sharing", - "safety" + "overwhelmed", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_small_worry", - "text": "A small worry" - }, - { - "id": "a_hope", - "text": "A hope" - }, - { - "id": "a_preference", - "text": "A preference" - }, - { - "id": "a_memory", - "text": "A memory" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "simplify", + "text": "Simplify" + }, + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + }, + { + "id": "space", + "text": "Space" + }, + { + "id": "practical_help", + "text": "Practical help" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_173", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you need after sharing something vulnerable?", + "text": "What helps when words are hard?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "vulnerability" + "words", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "thanks_for_sharing", - "text": "Thanks for sharing" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_closeness", - "text": "Quiet closeness" - }, - { - "id": "follow_up_later", - "text": "Follow-up later" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "touch", + "text": "Touch" + }, + { + "id": "text_first", + "text": "Text first" + }, + { + "id": "one_word", + "text": "One word" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_company", + "text": "Quiet company" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_174", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of follow-up helps after a deep talk?", + "text": "What helps when feelings are big?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "follow_up", - "deep_talks" + "feelings", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "check_on_me_later", - "text": "Check on me later" - }, - { - "id": "remember_details", - "text": "Remember details" - }, - { - "id": "ask_gently", - "text": "Ask gently" - }, - { - "id": "act_differently", - "text": "Act differently" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "name_one_feeling", + "text": "Name one feeling" + }, + { + "id": "comfort_first", + "text": "Comfort first" + }, + { + "id": "no_fixing", + "text": "No fixing" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_175", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel emotionally protected?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What kind of reassurance feels most intimate?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "protection", - "safety" + "reassurance", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "loyalty", - "text": "Loyalty" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "gentleness", - "text": "Gentleness" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_am_here", + "text": "I am here" + }, + { + "id": "i_choose_you", + "text": "I choose you" + }, + { + "id": "i_get_you", + "text": "I get you" + }, + { + "id": "we_are_okay", + "text": "We are okay" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_176", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel emotionally exposed?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What makes being known feel sweet?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "exposure", - "risk" + "known", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "being_teased", - "text": "Being teased" - }, - { - "id": "being_rushed", - "text": "Being rushed" - }, - { - "id": "being_corrected", - "text": "Being corrected" - }, - { - "id": "being_ignored", - "text": "Being ignored" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "remembering_details", + "text": "Remembering details" + }, + { + "id": "predicting_needs", + "text": "Predicting needs" + }, + { + "id": "inside_jokes", + "text": "Inside jokes" + }, + { + "id": "noticing_changes", + "text": "Noticing changes" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_177", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you want more of in our closeness?", + "text": "What kind of question opens your heart?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "more_closeness", - "needs" + "questions", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "tenderness", - "text": "Tenderness" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "curious", + "text": "Curious" + }, + { + "id": "soft", + "text": "Soft" + }, + { + "id": "playful", + "text": "Playful" + }, + { + "id": "specific", + "text": "Specific" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_178", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you want less of in our emotional talks?", + "text": "What kind of question feels a little too intense too fast?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "less", - "boundaries" + "questions", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "fixing", - "text": "Fixing" - }, - { - "id": "pressure", - "text": "Pressure" - }, - { - "id": "sarcasm", - "text": "Sarcasm" - }, - { - "id": "interruptions", - "text": "Interruptions" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "too_intense", + "text": "Too intense" + }, + { + "id": "bad_timing", + "text": "Bad timing" + }, + { + "id": "too_many", + "text": "Too many" + }, + { + "id": "sounds_like_a_test", + "text": "Sounds like a test" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_179", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which feeling is easiest to share with me?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes a tiny ritual feel special?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feelings", - "ease" + "rituals", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "joy", - "text": "Joy" - }, - { - "id": "stress", - "text": "Stress" - }, - { - "id": "fear", - "text": "Fear" - }, - { - "id": "sadness", - "text": "Sadness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "consistency", + "text": "Consistency" + }, + { + "id": "sweetness", + "text": "Sweetness" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "our_own_meaning", + "text": "Our own meaning" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_180", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which feeling is hardest to share with me?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What kind of closeness helps when we are apart?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feelings", - "difficulty" + "apart", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "anger", - "text": "Anger" - }, - { - "id": "neediness", - "text": "Neediness" - }, - { - "id": "shame", - "text": "Shame" - }, - { - "id": "loneliness", - "text": "Loneliness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet_texts", + "text": "Sweet texts" + }, + { + "id": "voice_notes", + "text": "Voice notes" + }, + { + "id": "photos", + "text": "Photos" + }, + { + "id": "planned_call", + "text": "Planned call" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_181", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when you feel emotionally distant?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps us reconnect after stress?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "distance", - "repair" + "reconnection", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_gentle_check_in", - "text": "A gentle check-in" - }, - { - "id": "time_alone", - "text": "Time alone" - }, - { - "id": "a_hug", - "text": "A hug" - }, - { - "id": "an_honest_talk", - "text": "An honest talk" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hug", + "text": "Hug" + }, + { + "id": "check_in", + "text": "Check-in" + }, + { + "id": "food_first", + "text": "Food first" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_reset", + "text": "Quiet reset" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_182", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes distance worse?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps us keep each other's soft side safe?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "distance", - "triggers" + "softness", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ignoring_it", - "text": "Ignoring it" - }, - { - "id": "forcing_it", - "text": "Forcing it" - }, - { - "id": "blame", - "text": "Blame" - }, - { - "id": "coldness", - "text": "Coldness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_teasing", + "text": "No teasing" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "gentleness", + "text": "Gentleness" + }, + { + "id": "respect", + "text": "Respect" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_183", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of question feels caring?", + "text": "What makes you feel emotionally adored?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "questions", - "care" + "adoration", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "open_ended", - "text": "Open-ended" - }, - { - "id": "specific", - "text": "Specific" - }, - { - "id": "soft", - "text": "Soft" - }, - { - "id": "curious", - "text": "Curious" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "attention", + "text": "Attention" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_words", + "text": "Sweet words" + }, + { + "id": "thoughtful_details", + "text": "Thoughtful details" + }, + { + "id": "affection", + "text": "Affection" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_184", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of question feels intrusive?", + "text": "What makes emotional support feel real?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "questions", - "boundaries" + "support", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "too_sudden", - "text": "Too sudden" - }, - { - "id": "too_detailed", - "text": "Too detailed" - }, - { - "id": "too_frequent", - "text": "Too frequent" - }, - { - "id": "too_intense", - "text": "Too intense" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "showing_up", + "text": "Showing up" + }, + { + "id": "remembering", + "text": "Remembering" + }, + { + "id": "listening", + "text": "Listening" + }, + { + "id": "helping", + "text": "Helping" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_185", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When do you feel most emotionally brave with me?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps you share a dream?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "bravery", - "connection" + "dreams", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "after_reassurance", - "text": "After reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "when_you_listen", - "text": "When you listen" - }, - { - "id": "when_we_are_calm", - "text": "When we are calm" - }, - { - "id": "when_i_feel_chosen", - "text": "When I feel chosen" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "excitement", + "text": "Excitement" + }, + { + "id": "no_judgment", + "text": "No judgment" + }, + { + "id": "questions", + "text": "Questions" + }, + { + "id": "encouragement", + "text": "Encouragement" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_186", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes emotional bravery harder?", + "text": "What helps a fear feel easier to hand over gently?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "bravery", - "blocks" + "fears", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "fear_of_judgment", - "text": "Fear of judgment" - }, - { - "id": "past_rejection", - "text": "Past rejection" - }, - { - "id": "bad_timing", - "text": "Bad timing" - }, - { - "id": "not_feeling_safe", - "text": "Not feeling safe" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "safety", + "text": "Safety" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "softness", + "text": "Softness" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_187", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is most healing to hear?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes daily life feel emotionally intimate?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "healing", - "words" + "daily_life", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_believe_you", - "text": "I believe you" - }, - { - "id": "i_am_with_you", - "text": "I am with you" - }, - { - "id": "that_makes_sense", - "text": "That makes sense" - }, - { - "id": "you_are_not_too_much", - "text": "You are not too much" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "small_check_ins", + "text": "Small check-ins" + }, + { + "id": "shared_jokes", + "text": "Shared jokes" + }, + { + "id": "little_touches", + "text": "Little touches" + }, + { + "id": "helping_each_other", + "text": "Helping each other" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_188", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is most grounding to hear?", + "text": "What helps us feel like home to each other?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "grounding", - "words" + "home", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "take_your_time", - "text": "Take your time" - }, - { - "id": "i_am_here", - "text": "I am here" - }, - { - "id": "we_can_slow_down", - "text": "We can slow down" - }, - { - "id": "i_want_to_understand", - "text": "I want to understand" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "calm", + "text": "Calm" + }, + { + "id": "warmth", + "text": "Warmth" + }, + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "familiar_sweetness", + "text": "Familiar sweetness" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_189", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What closeness ritual sounds best?", + "text": "What keeps emotional closeness feeling natural and sweet?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "ritual", - "closeness" + "fun_first", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "bedtime_check_in", - "text": "Bedtime check-in" - }, - { - "id": "morning_hug", - "text": "Morning hug" - }, - { - "id": "weekly_deep_talk", - "text": "Weekly deep talk" - }, - { - "id": "phone_free_walk", - "text": "Phone-free walk" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "keep_it_short", + "text": "Keep it short" + }, + { + "id": "make_it_sweet", + "text": "Make it sweet" + }, + { + "id": "add_humor", + "text": "Add humor" + }, + { + "id": "let_it_be_natural", + "text": "Let it be natural" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_190", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What emotional habit should we build first?", + "text": "What would make us feel closer next month?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "habit", - "growth" + "monthly", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "naming_feelings", - "text": "Naming feelings" - }, - { - "id": "asking_needs", - "text": "Asking needs" - }, - { - "id": "offering_reassurance", - "text": "Offering reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "following_up", - "text": "Following up" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_check_ins", + "text": "More check-ins" + }, + { + "id": "more_laughter", + "text": "More laughter" + }, + { + "id": "more_softness", + "text": "More softness" + }, + { + "id": "more_time", + "text": "More time" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_191", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things help you feel emotionally safe with me?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps emotional closeness feel good?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "safety", - "needs" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_tone", - "text": "Soft tone" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "no_judgment", - "text": "No judgment" - } + "closeness", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling_seen", + "text": "Feeling seen" + }, + { + "id": "little_jokes", + "text": "Little jokes" + }, + { + "id": "soft_words", + "text": "Soft words" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_time", + "text": "Quiet time" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_touch", + "text": "Sweet touch" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3816,36 +4015,36 @@ "id": "emotional_intimacy_192", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs tell you I am emotionally present?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes you feel loved in small ways?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "presence", - "signals" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "eye_contact", - "text": "Eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "remembering_details", - "text": "Remembering details" - }, - { - "id": "asking_follow_ups", - "text": "Asking follow-ups" - }, - { - "id": "putting_phone_away", - "text": "Putting phone away" - }, - { - "id": "warm_tone", - "text": "Warm tone" - } + "love", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "messages", + "text": "Messages" + }, + { + "id": "help", + "text": "Help" + }, + { + "id": "affection", + "text": "Affection" + }, + { + "id": "attention", + "text": "Attention" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_details", + "text": "Remembering details" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3854,36 +4053,36 @@ "id": "emotional_intimacy_193", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes vulnerability feel risky?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes emotional intimacy more fun?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "vulnerability", - "risk" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "fear_of_judgment", - "text": "Fear of judgment" - }, - { - "id": "fear_of_being_too_much", - "text": "Fear of being too much" - }, - { - "id": "past_hurt", - "text": "Past hurt" - }, - { - "id": "bad_timing", - "text": "Bad timing" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_rushed", - "text": "Feeling rushed" - } + "fun_first", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "inside_jokes", + "text": "Inside jokes" + }, + { + "id": "silly_questions", + "text": "Silly questions" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_signals", + "text": "Sweet signals" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_rituals", + "text": "Tiny rituals" + }, + { + "id": "playful_texts", + "text": "Playful texts" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3892,36 +4091,36 @@ "id": "emotional_intimacy_194", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps you open up after a hard day?", + "text": "What helps after a hard day?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hard_day", - "support" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_quiet_moment", - "text": "A quiet moment" - }, - { - "id": "a_hug", - "text": "A hug" - }, - { - "id": "a_direct_question", - "text": "A direct question" - }, - { - "id": "food_or_comfort", - "text": "Food or comfort" - }, - { - "id": "time_to_decompress", - "text": "Time to decompress" - } + "stress", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + }, + { + "id": "listening", + "text": "Listening" + }, + { + "id": "space", + "text": "Space" + }, + { + "id": "food_first", + "text": "Food first" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3930,36 +4129,36 @@ "id": "emotional_intimacy_195", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which emotions need more room between us?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes you feel safe opening up?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "emotions", - "room" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "sadness", - "text": "Sadness" - }, - { - "id": "fear", - "text": "Fear" - }, - { - "id": "anger", - "text": "Anger" - }, - { - "id": "loneliness", - "text": "Loneliness" - }, - { - "id": "joy", - "text": "Joy" - } + "openness", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "soft_tone", + "text": "Soft tone" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "care_after", + "text": "Care after" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3968,36 +4167,36 @@ "id": "emotional_intimacy_196", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps emotional distance soften?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps us feel more known by each other?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "distance", - "softening" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "apology", - "text": "Apology" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_check_in", - "text": "Gentle check-in" - }, - { - "id": "shared_time", - "text": "Shared time" - }, - { - "id": "physical_closeness", - "text": "Physical closeness" - }, - { - "id": "humor", - "text": "Humor" - } + "known", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_better_questions", + "text": "Ask better questions" + }, + { + "id": "remember_details", + "text": "Remember details" + }, + { + "id": "notice_moods", + "text": "Notice moods" + }, + { + "id": "share_stories", + "text": "Share stories" + }, + { + "id": "follow_up", + "text": "Follow up" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4006,36 +4205,36 @@ "id": "emotional_intimacy_197", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes closeness feel mutual?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps us reconnect after distance?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "mutuality", - "closeness" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "both_sharing", - "text": "Both sharing" - }, - { - "id": "both_listening", - "text": "Both listening" - }, - { - "id": "both_asking", - "text": "Both asking" - }, - { - "id": "both_reassuring", - "text": "Both reassuring" - }, - { - "id": "both_remembering", - "text": "Both remembering" - } + "reconnection", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet_text", + "text": "Sweet text" + }, + { + "id": "hug", + "text": "Hug" + }, + { + "id": "check_in", + "text": "Check-in" + }, + { + "id": "quality_time", + "text": "Quality time" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_ritual", + "text": "Tiny ritual" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4044,36 +4243,36 @@ "id": "emotional_intimacy_198", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which types of tenderness matter most to you?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes quiet intimacy feel sweet?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "tenderness", - "needs" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "words", - "text": "Words" - }, - { - "id": "touch", - "text": "Touch" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "attention", - "text": "Attention" - }, - { - "id": "protection", - "text": "Protection" - } + "quiet", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "soft_touch", + "text": "Soft touch" + }, + { + "id": "relaxing_together", + "text": "Relaxing together" + }, + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "comfortable_silence", + "text": "Comfortable silence" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4082,36 +4281,36 @@ "id": "emotional_intimacy_199", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we protect during deep talks?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What makes playful intimacy feel sweet?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "deep_talks", - "protection" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "pacing", - "text": "Pacing" - }, - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "no_interrupting", - "text": "No interrupting" - } + "play", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "inside_jokes", + "text": "Inside jokes" + }, + { + "id": "silly_signals", + "text": "Silly signals" + }, + { + "id": "flirty_notes", + "text": "Flirty notes" + }, + { + "id": "shared_games", + "text": "Shared games" + }, + { + "id": "light_teasing", + "text": "Light teasing" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4120,36 +4319,39 @@ "id": "emotional_intimacy_200", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What can make emotional intimacy fade?", + "text": "What helps when one of us is feeling extra tender?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fade", - "intimacy" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "busyness", - "text": "Busyness" - }, - { - "id": "avoidance", - "text": "Avoidance" - }, - { - "id": "unresolved_conflict", - "text": "Unresolved conflict" - }, - { - "id": "screens", - "text": "Screens" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_unappreciated", - "text": "Feeling unappreciated" - } + "tenderness", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gentle_words", + "text": "Gentle words" + }, + { + "id": "no_teasing", + "text": "No teasing" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "soft_touch", + "text": "Soft touch" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4158,36 +4360,36 @@ "id": "emotional_intimacy_201", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps emotional intimacy grow?", + "text": "What helps loneliness feel easier to share?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "growth", - "intimacy" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "shared_rituals", - "text": "Shared rituals" - }, - { - "id": "vulnerability", - "text": "Vulnerability" - }, - { - "id": "repair", - "text": "Repair" - } + "loneliness", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "check_in", + "text": "Check in" + }, + { + "id": "sit_close", + "text": "Sit close" + }, + { + "id": "listen", + "text": "Listen" + }, + { + "id": "invite_closeness", + "text": "Invite closeness" + }, + { + "id": "reassure", + "text": "Reassure" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4196,36 +4398,36 @@ "id": "emotional_intimacy_202", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which needs are hardest to name?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps us share worries?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "needs", - "difficulty" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - }, - { - "id": "attention", - "text": "Attention" - }, - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - } + "worries", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_fixing_yet", + "text": "No fixing yet" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_questions", + "text": "Gentle questions" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "care_after", + "text": "Care after" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4234,36 +4436,36 @@ "id": "emotional_intimacy_203", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which responses make you feel cared for?", + "text": "What helps us share dreams?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "care", - "responses" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "that_makes_sense", - "text": "That makes sense" - }, - { - "id": "tell_me_more", - "text": "Tell me more" - }, - { - "id": "i_am_here", - "text": "I am here" - }, - { - "id": "i_am_proud_of_you", - "text": "I am proud of you" - }, - { - "id": "how_can_i_help", - "text": "How can I help" - } + "dreams", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "encouragement", + "text": "Encouragement" + }, + { + "id": "excitement", + "text": "Excitement" + }, + { + "id": "questions", + "text": "Questions" + }, + { + "id": "no_judgment", + "text": "No judgment" + }, + { + "id": "dreaming_together", + "text": "Dreaming together" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4272,36 +4474,39 @@ "id": "emotional_intimacy_204", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which responses make you feel dismissed?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps us keep emotional safety feeling warm and real?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "dismissal", - "responses" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "you_are_overthinking", - "text": "You are overthinking" - }, - { - "id": "it_is_not_a_big_deal", - "text": "It is not a big deal" - }, - { - "id": "just_relax", - "text": "Just relax" - }, - { - "id": "i_already_know", - "text": "I already know" - }, - { - "id": "why_are_you_upset", - "text": "Why are you upset" - } + "emotional_safety", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kind_tone", + "text": "Kind tone" + }, + { + "id": "no_mocking", + "text": "No mocking" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "respect", + "text": "Respect" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4310,36 +4515,36 @@ "id": "emotional_intimacy_205", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we do after a vulnerable moment?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps us create tiny rituals?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "vulnerability" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "thank_each_other", - "text": "Thank each other" - }, - { - "id": "sit_quietly", - "text": "Sit quietly" - }, - { - "id": "hug", - "text": "Hug" - }, - { - "id": "follow_up_later", - "text": "Follow up later" - }, - { - "id": "protect_privacy", - "text": "Protect privacy" - } + "rituals", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "repeat_it", + "text": "Repeat it" + }, + { + "id": "name_it", + "text": "Name it" + }, + { + "id": "keep_it_simple", + "text": "Keep it simple" + }, + { + "id": "make_it_ours", + "text": "Make it ours" + }, + { + "id": "make_it_sweet", + "text": "Make it sweet" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4348,36 +4553,36 @@ "id": "emotional_intimacy_206", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel chosen?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps us stay close during busy seasons?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "chosen", - "love" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "being_prioritized", - "text": "Being prioritized" - }, - { - "id": "being_defended", - "text": "Being defended" - }, - { - "id": "being_remembered", - "text": "Being remembered" - }, - { - "id": "being_asked", - "text": "Being asked" - }, - { - "id": "being_comforted", - "text": "Being comforted" - } + "busy_life", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "short_check_ins", + "text": "Short check-ins" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_texts", + "text": "Sweet texts" + }, + { + "id": "small_touch", + "text": "Small touch" + }, + { + "id": "lower_pressure", + "text": "Lower pressure" + }, + { + "id": "planned_time", + "text": "Planned time" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4386,36 +4591,36 @@ "id": "emotional_intimacy_207", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which parts of emotional closeness need more consent?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What makes reassurance feel intimate?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "consent", - "closeness" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "timing", - "text": "Timing" - }, - { - "id": "depth", - "text": "Depth" - }, - { - "id": "touch", - "text": "Touch" - }, - { - "id": "advice", - "text": "Advice" - }, - { - "id": "follow_up", - "text": "Follow-up" - } + "reassurance", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific_words", + "text": "Specific words" + }, + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "calm_tone", + "text": "Calm tone" + }, + { + "id": "consistency", + "text": "Consistency" + }, + { + "id": "affection", + "text": "Affection" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4424,36 +4629,36 @@ "id": "emotional_intimacy_208", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which rituals would help us stay emotionally close?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes feeling seen feel romantic?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "rituals", - "closeness" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "weekly_check_in", - "text": "Weekly check-in" - }, - { - "id": "phone_free_dinner", - "text": "Phone-free dinner" - }, - { - "id": "bedtime_question", - "text": "Bedtime question" - }, - { - "id": "morning_affection", - "text": "Morning affection" - }, - { - "id": "monthly_memory_night", - "text": "Monthly memory night" - } + "romance", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "remembering_details", + "text": "Remembering details" + }, + { + "id": "noticing_moods", + "text": "Noticing moods" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_compliments", + "text": "Sweet compliments" + }, + { + "id": "thoughtful_timing", + "text": "Thoughtful timing" + }, + { + "id": "little_surprises", + "text": "Little surprises" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4462,36 +4667,39 @@ "id": "emotional_intimacy_209", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should I be gentler with?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps softer feelings peek out more easily?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "gentleness", - "needs" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "your_fears", - "text": "Your fears" - }, - { - "id": "your_tears", - "text": "Your tears" - }, - { - "id": "your_anger", - "text": "Your anger" - }, - { - "id": "your_quiet", - "text": "Your quiet" - }, - { - "id": "your_uncertainty", - "text": "Your uncertainty" - } + "softness", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "safety", + "text": "Safety" + }, + { + "id": "gentleness", + "text": "Gentleness" + }, + { + "id": "no_rushing", + "text": "No rushing" + }, + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + }, + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4500,36 +4708,36 @@ "id": "emotional_intimacy_210", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we be more honest about?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make emotional intimacy feel more like us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "honesty", - "depth" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "needs", - "text": "Needs" - }, - { - "id": "loneliness", - "text": "Loneliness" - }, - { - "id": "disappointment", - "text": "Disappointment" - }, - { - "id": "desire_for_closeness", - "text": "Desire for closeness" - }, - { - "id": "fear_of_conflict", - "text": "Fear of conflict" - } + "identity", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_humor", + "text": "More humor" + }, + { + "id": "more_tenderness", + "text": "More tenderness" + }, + { + "id": "more_honesty", + "text": "More honesty" + }, + { + "id": "more_rituals", + "text": "More rituals" + }, + { + "id": "more_easy_moments", + "text": "More easy moments" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4538,806 +4746,833 @@ "id": "emotional_intimacy_211", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How emotionally safe do you feel with me right now?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How emotionally close do you feel to me lately?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "safety", - "current" + "closeness", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not close", + "max_label": "Very close" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_212", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to open up to me?", + "text": "How natural does opening up feel with me?", "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "opening_up", - "ease" + "openness", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Very hard", - "max_label": "Very easy", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_213", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How seen do you feel by me lately?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How fun does our emotional connection feel?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_seen", - "recent" + "fun_first", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not seen", - "max_label": "Very seen", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not fun", + "max_label": "Very fun" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_214", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you asking me for comfort?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How seen do you feel by me?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "comfort", - "asking" + "seen", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Uncomfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not seen", + "max_label": "Very seen" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_215", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do we make room for deeper feelings?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How comforting does my presence feel?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feelings", - "room" + "comfort", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Very often", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not comforting", + "max_label": "Very comforting" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_216", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do I respond when you are vulnerable?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much would a tiny closeness ritual help us?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "vulnerability", - "responsiveness" + "rituals", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_217", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do you respond when I am vulnerable?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much warmth do we have in ordinary moments?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "vulnerability", - "self_reflection" + "daily_life", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_218", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How close have you felt to me this week?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How easy does receiving emotional support feel?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "closeness", - "weekly" + "vulnerability", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Distant", - "max_label": "Very close", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_219", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much emotional distance do you feel between us?", + "text": "How easy is it to ask for emotional support?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "distance", - "current" + "support", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "None", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_220", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much reassurance do you need right now?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How easy is it to receive emotional support?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "reassurance", - "current" + "support", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Very little", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_221", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does silence feel between us?", + "text": "How connected do you feel after a hard day?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "silence", - "safety" + "stress", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Unsafe", - "max_label": "Very safe", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not connected", + "max_label": "Very connected" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_222", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much tenderness do you feel from me?", + "text": "How well do we catch each other's little mood shifts?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "tenderness", - "receiving" + "awareness", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Very little", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_223", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much tenderness do you want from me?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How easy does softness feel between us?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "tenderness", - "needs" + "softness", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Very little", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_224", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do we follow up after deep talks?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How much do inside jokes help us feel close?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "follow_up", - "deep_talks" + "inside_jokes", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Very often", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_225", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you naming your needs?", + "text": "How easy is it to hand me a worry gently?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "needs", - "comfort" + "worries", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Uncomfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_226", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does stress block your openness?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How easy is it to share dreams?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress", - "openness" + "dreams", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not at all", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_227", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does conflict block your openness?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How romantic does emotional intimacy feel lately?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "conflict", - "openness" + "romance", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not at all", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not romantic", + "max_label": "Very romantic" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_228", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How accepted do you feel when you are emotional?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How peaceful does emotional intimacy feel lately?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "acceptance", - "emotions" + "peace", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not accepted", - "max_label": "Fully accepted", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not peaceful", + "max_label": "Very peaceful" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_229", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we protect each others vulnerability?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How playful does emotional intimacy feel lately?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "protection", - "vulnerability" + "play", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not playful", + "max_label": "Very playful" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_230", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much emotional intimacy do you want more of?", + "text": "How well do we reconnect after stress?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "desire", - "intimacy" + "reconnection", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Very little", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_231", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How confident are you that I want to understand you?", + "text": "How easy is it to say, 'I need you'?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "confidence", - "understanding" + "needs", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not confident", - "max_label": "Very confident", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_232", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do you feel emotionally chosen by me?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How remembered do you feel by me?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "chosen", - "frequency" + "remembered", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Very often", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not remembered", + "max_label": "Very remembered" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_233", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How good are we at repairing emotional distance?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How emotionally safe do quiet moments feel?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "distance" + "quiet", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not good", - "max_label": "Very good", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_234", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do small affectionate words matter to you?", + "text": "How much does daily tenderness matter to you?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "words", - "affection" + "tenderness", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, + "min": 1, + "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_235", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How ready do you feel for a deeper conversation today?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How hopeful do you feel about growing even closer?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "readiness", - "deep_talk" + "hope", + "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not ready", - "max_label": "Very ready", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not hopeful", + "max_label": "Very hopeful" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_236", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which feels more intimate?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Deep talk or silly check-in?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "intimacy", - "preference" + "fun_first", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_deep_talk", - "text": "A deep talk" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_closeness", - "text": "Quiet closeness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "deep_talk", + "text": "Deep talk" + }, + { + "id": "silly_check_in", + "text": "Silly check-in" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_237", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which feels safer when you are upset?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Quiet closeness or playful closeness?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "safety", - "upset" + "closeness", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort_first", - "text": "Comfort first" - }, - { - "id": "space_first", - "text": "Space first" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_closeness", + "text": "Quiet closeness" + }, + { + "id": "playful_closeness", + "text": "Playful closeness" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_238", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which do you need more often?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Sweet text or long hug?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "needs", - "frequency" + "comfort", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet_text", + "text": "Sweet text" + }, + { + "id": "long_hug", + "text": "Long hug" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_239", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which helps you open up?", + "text": "Comfort first or gentle questions first?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "opening_up", - "help" + "support", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_questions", - "text": "Gentle questions" - }, - { - "id": "patient_silence", - "text": "Patient silence" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "comfort_first", + "text": "Comfort first" + }, + { + "id": "questions_first", + "text": "Questions first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_240", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which feels more loving?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Hand over a worry or dream out loud?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "love", - "expression" + "sharing", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "being_remembered", - "text": "Being remembered" - }, - { - "id": "being_asked", - "text": "Being asked" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "worry", + "text": "Share a worry" + }, + { + "id": "dream", + "text": "Share a dream" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_241", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which is harder to say?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Eye contact or hand squeeze?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "difficulty", - "expression" + "signals", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_need_you", - "text": "I need you" - }, - { - "id": "i_am_hurt", - "text": "I am hurt" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "hand_squeeze", + "text": "Hand squeeze" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_242", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which feels more vulnerable?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Inside joke or soft compliment?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "vulnerability", - "comparison" + "fun_first", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "sharing_fear", - "text": "Sharing fear" - }, - { - "id": "asking_for_comfort", - "text": "Asking for comfort" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "inside_joke", + "text": "Inside joke" + }, + { + "id": "soft_compliment", + "text": "Soft compliment" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_243", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which should we protect more?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Quiet company or sweet reassurance?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "protection", - "priority" + "comfort", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "tenderness", - "text": "Tenderness" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_company", + "text": "Quiet company" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_reassurance", + "text": "Sweet reassurance" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_244", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which helps after conflict?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Tiny ritual or spontaneous moment?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "conflict", - "repair" + "rituals", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_hug", - "text": "A hug" - }, - { - "id": "a_calm_talk", - "text": "A calm talk" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_ritual", + "text": "Tiny ritual" + }, + { + "id": "spontaneous_moment", + "text": "Spontaneous moment" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_245", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which closeness ritual sounds better?", + "text": "Feel seen or feel adored?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "ritual", - "closeness" + "seen", + "adoration", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "bedtime_check_in", - "text": "Bedtime check-in" - }, - { - "id": "morning_affection", - "text": "Morning affection" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "seen", + "text": "Feel seen" + }, + { + "id": "adored", + "text": "Feel adored" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_246", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which do you notice more?", + "text": "Talk it out or sit close first?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "noticing", - "connection" + "support", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "tone", - "text": "Tone" - }, - { - "id": "actions", - "text": "Actions" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_it_out", + "text": "Talk it out" + }, + { + "id": "sit_close", + "text": "Sit close first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_247", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which do you want more from me?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Voice note or handwritten note?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "needs", - "partner" + "messages", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "softness", - "text": "Softness" - }, - { - "id": "directness", - "text": "Directness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "voice_note", + "text": "Voice note" + }, + { + "id": "handwritten_note", + "text": "Handwritten note" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_248", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which is easier for you?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Share something tender or something funny?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "ease", - "self_reflection" + "sharing", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "giving_comfort", - "text": "Giving comfort" - }, - { - "id": "receiving_comfort", - "text": "Receiving comfort" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tender", + "text": "Something tender" + }, + { + "id": "funny", + "text": "Something funny" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_249", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which feels more healing?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Ask for closeness or offer it first?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "healing", - "support" + "needs", + "emotional_intimacy", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_understand", - "text": "I understand" - }, - { - "id": "i_am_here", - "text": "I am here" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask", + "text": "Ask for closeness" + }, + { + "id": "offer", + "text": "Offer closeness" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_250", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which should come first today?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Cozy reset or playful reset?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "today", - "priority" + "reconnection", + "emotional_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cozy_reset", + "text": "Cozy reset" + }, + { + "id": "playful_reset", + "text": "Playful reset" + } + ] + } } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/money.json b/seed/questions/money.json index 65f67a58..052333bc 100644 --- a/seed/questions/money.json +++ b/seed/questions/money.json @@ -2,7 +2,7 @@ "category": { "id": "money", "display_name": "Money", - "description": "Warm, shame-free questions that help couples talk about spending, saving, bills, debt, goals, fairness, stress, and money decisions as a team.", + "description": "Warm, fun-first, shame-free questions that help couples talk about spending, saving, bills, debt, goals, dreams, fairness, stress, and building a life together.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "paid", "schema_version": "question_v2", @@ -24,12 +24,13 @@ "id": "money_001", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What money topic feels easiest for us to talk about?", + "text": "What would be a fun thing for us to save for together?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "ease", + "saving", + "fun", + "goals", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -40,12 +41,12 @@ "id": "money_002", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What money topic feels hardest for us to talk about?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What small treat feels worth making room for in the budget?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "stress", + "fun_money", + "treats", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -56,12 +57,12 @@ "id": "money_003", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps a money conversation feel calm instead of tense?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one purchase that usually feels like money well spent?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "calm", - "communication", + "spending", + "values", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -72,12 +73,12 @@ "id": "money_004", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small money habit that would make life feel lighter?", + "text": "What would make a money talk feel more like teamwork and less like a chore?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "habits", - "daily_life", + "communication", + "teamwork", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -88,12 +89,12 @@ "id": "money_005", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What does financial peace mean to you?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one tiny money win we could celebrate this week?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "peace", - "values", + "wins", + "weekly", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -104,12 +105,12 @@ "id": "money_006", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we spend money on that feels worth it to you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What dream would make saving feel exciting instead of restrictive?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "spending", - "values", + "dreams", + "saving", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -120,12 +121,12 @@ "id": "money_007", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we could spend less on without feeling deprived?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What kind of date would feel special without costing much?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "spending", - "balance", + "date_fund", + "low_cost", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -136,12 +137,12 @@ "id": "money_008", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one money goal that would make you feel hopeful?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one cozy thing at home that feels richer than going out?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "goals", - "hope", + "home", + "cozy", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -152,12 +153,12 @@ "id": "money_009", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel safe talking about spending?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one money habit that would make future us grateful?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "spending", - "safety", + "future", + "habits", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -168,12 +169,12 @@ "id": "money_010", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel safe talking about saving?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What kind of splurge feels romantic instead of wasteful?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "saving", - "safety", + "spending", + "romance", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -184,7 +185,23 @@ "id": "money_011", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a budget feel helpful instead of restrictive?", + "text": "What small bill or expense would feel amazing to finally simplify?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "bills", + "simplicity", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 500 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_012", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "written", + "text": "What makes a budget feel freeing instead of restrictive?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -196,32 +213,16 @@ "max_length": 500 } }, - { - "id": "money_012", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one money conversation we should keep short and simple?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "simplicity", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, { "id": "money_013", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What money habit did you learn growing up that still affects you?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one thing we could stop buying and barely miss?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "family_history", - "money_story", + "spending", + "simplicity", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -232,12 +233,12 @@ "id": "money_014", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing about money that stresses you quietly?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one thing we should keep buying because it genuinely improves life?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "stress", - "honesty", + "spending", + "quality_of_life", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -248,12 +249,12 @@ "id": "money_015", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel like we are a team with money?", + "text": "What money goal would make our home feel more peaceful?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "finances", + "goals", + "home", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -264,12 +265,12 @@ "id": "money_016", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes money feel like a source of pressure between us?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one financial habit that could lower stress quickly?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "pressure", - "relationship", + "stress", + "habits", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -280,12 +281,12 @@ "id": "money_017", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes money feel like a tool for building a life together?", + "text": "What helps you feel safe during money talks?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "future", - "teamwork", + "safety", + "communication", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -296,214 +297,6 @@ "id": "money_018", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of purchase feels easiest to discuss first?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "spending", - "communication", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_019", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of purchase feels awkward to discuss first?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "spending", - "awkwardness", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_020", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What should we celebrate when we make a good money choice?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "celebration", - "progress", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_021", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one financial win we have had, even if it was small?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "wins", - "gratitude", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_022", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of money check-in would feel doable for us?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "check_in", - "planning", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_023", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you avoid feeling judged during money talks?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "judgment", - "safety", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_024", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you avoid sounding judgmental during money talks?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "judgment", - "communication", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_025", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we can make money talks less heavy?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "communication", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_026", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What does being responsible with money mean to you?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "responsibility", - "values", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_027", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What does being generous with money mean to you?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "generosity", - "values", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_028", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What does being secure with money mean to you?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "security", - "values", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_029", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one money priority you want me to understand better?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "priorities", - "understanding", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_030", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one money fear you wish felt easier to say out loud?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fear", - "vulnerability", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_031", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", "text": "What helps you feel included in money decisions?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", @@ -517,10 +310,10 @@ } }, { - "id": "money_032", + "id": "money_019", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel trusted with money decisions?", + "text": "What helps you feel trusted with money choices?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -533,16 +326,223 @@ } }, { - "id": "money_033", + "id": "money_020", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we do when one of us wants to save and the other wants to spend?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one way we could make saving a little more fun?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "saving", + "fun", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 500 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_021", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "written", + "text": "What is one way we could make paying bills less annoying?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "bills", + "lightness", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 500 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_022", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "written", + "text": "What does 'enough' look like for us this month?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "enough", + "monthly", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 500 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_023", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "written", + "text": "What is one purchase that would make everyday life easier?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ "spending", - "differences", + "daily_life", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 500 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_024", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "written", + "text": "What is one free or cheap thing that makes us feel lucky?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "gratitude", + "low_cost", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 500 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_025", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "written", + "text": "What would be a fun name for a savings goal we both care about?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "saving", + "play", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 500 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_026", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "written", + "text": "What is one money conversation we should keep short and kind?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "communication", + "kindness", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 500 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_027", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "written", + "text": "What helps us talk about money without anyone feeling judged?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "no_shame", + "communication", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 500 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_028", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "written", + "text": "What does financial peace feel like to you?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "peace", + "values", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 500 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_029", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "written", + "text": "What does financial freedom feel like to you?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "freedom", + "values", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 500 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_030", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "written", + "text": "What does financial teamwork feel like to you?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "teamwork", + "values", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 500 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_031", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "written", + "text": "What is one money lesson from childhood that still follows you?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "money_story", + "childhood", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 500 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_032", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "written", + "text": "What is one money fear you wish felt easier to say out loud?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "fear", + "vulnerability", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 500 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_033", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "written", + "text": "What kind of reassurance helps when money feels stressful?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "stress", + "reassurance", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -553,12 +553,12 @@ "id": "money_034", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us talk about bills without snapping at each other?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps you stay hopeful when money feels tight?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "bills", - "tone", + "hope", + "stress", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -569,12 +569,12 @@ "id": "money_035", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one bill or expense we should understand better together?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one tiny luxury you would hate to give up?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "bills", - "awareness", + "fun_money", + "values", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -585,12 +585,12 @@ "id": "money_036", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one money task we could make easier as a team?", + "text": "What is one tiny luxury you could live without?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "tasks", - "teamwork", + "fun_money", + "simplicity", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -601,12 +601,12 @@ "id": "money_037", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel less alone with money stress?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What kind of shared goal would make us feel closer?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "stress", - "support", + "goals", + "closeness", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -617,12 +617,12 @@ "id": "money_038", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing that makes you feel financially cared for?", + "text": "What is one thing we could plan for that would make life feel lighter?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "care", - "security", + "planning", + "ease", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -633,12 +633,12 @@ "id": "money_039", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of future are we trying to build with our money?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What kind of money check-in would not ruin the mood?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "future", - "goals", + "check_in", + "fun_first", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -649,12 +649,12 @@ "id": "money_040", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one dream that feels connected to money for you?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What should we celebrate after a good money talk?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "dreams", - "future", + "celebration", + "communication", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -665,12 +665,12 @@ "id": "money_041", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one practical goal that would lower stress this month?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What would make saving for emergencies feel caring instead of scary?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "monthly", - "practical", + "emergency_savings", + "care", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -681,12 +681,12 @@ "id": "money_042", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one financial habit we could try for one week?", + "text": "What is one money task we could turn into a quick team ritual?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "weekly", - "habits", + "tasks", + "rituals", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -697,12 +697,12 @@ "id": "money_043", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of money talk should happen when we are both calm?", + "text": "What is one way money could help us create more time together?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "timing", - "communication", + "time", + "goals", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -713,12 +713,12 @@ "id": "money_044", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What money topic should we avoid right before bed?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one money choice that would support our future peace?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "timing", - "sleep", + "future", + "peace", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -729,7 +729,7 @@ "id": "money_045", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make our next money talk feel kind and useful?", + "text": "What would make our next money talk feel useful and kind?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -745,14 +745,13 @@ "id": "money_046", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us talk about spending choices without blame?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make a date fund feel exciting enough to stick with?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "spending", - "choices", - "no_blame", - "communication", + "date_fund", + "fun", + "motivation", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -763,14 +762,13 @@ "id": "money_047", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes spending choices feel stressful between us?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we make a date fund feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "spending", - "choices", - "stress", - "awareness", + "date_fund", + "fun", + "teamwork", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -781,13 +779,13 @@ "id": "money_048", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make spending choices feel more like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What small step would move us closer to a date fund this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "spending", - "choices", - "teamwork", + "date_fund", + "fun", + "small_steps", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -798,13 +796,14 @@ "id": "money_049", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us handle spending choices better?", + "text": "What could make a date fund feel less stressful and more hopeful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "spending", - "choices", - "boundaries", + "date_fund", + "fun", + "hope", + "stress", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -815,13 +814,13 @@ "id": "money_050", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you wish I understood about spending choices?", + "text": "What boundary would help us protect a date fund?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "spending", - "choices", - "understanding", + "date_fund", + "fun", + "boundaries", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -832,13 +831,13 @@ "id": "money_051", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step would make spending choices feel less overwhelming?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would make progress on a date fund worth celebrating?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "spending", - "choices", - "small_steps", + "date_fund", + "fun", + "celebration", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -849,14 +848,13 @@ "id": "money_052", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us make progress on spending choices without shame?", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about a date fund?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "spending", - "choices", - "progress", - "no_shame", + "date_fund", + "fun", + "understanding", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -867,14 +865,13 @@ "id": "money_053", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us talk about saving money without blame?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make a cozy home goal feel exciting enough to stick with?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "saving", - "security", - "no_blame", - "communication", + "home", + "cozy", + "motivation", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -885,14 +882,13 @@ "id": "money_054", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes saving money feel stressful between us?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we make a cozy home goal feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "saving", - "security", - "stress", - "awareness", + "home", + "cozy", + "teamwork", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -903,13 +899,13 @@ "id": "money_055", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make saving money feel more like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What small step would move us closer to a cozy home goal this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "saving", - "security", - "teamwork", + "home", + "cozy", + "small_steps", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -920,13 +916,14 @@ "id": "money_056", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us handle saving money better?", + "text": "What could make a cozy home goal feel less stressful and more hopeful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "saving", - "security", - "boundaries", + "home", + "cozy", + "hope", + "stress", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -937,13 +934,13 @@ "id": "money_057", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you wish I understood about saving money?", + "text": "What boundary would help us protect a cozy home goal?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "saving", - "security", - "understanding", + "home", + "cozy", + "boundaries", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -954,13 +951,13 @@ "id": "money_058", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step would make saving money feel less overwhelming?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would make progress on a cozy home goal worth celebrating?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "saving", - "security", - "small_steps", + "home", + "cozy", + "celebration", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -971,14 +968,13 @@ "id": "money_059", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us make progress on saving money without shame?", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about a cozy home goal?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "saving", - "security", - "progress", - "no_shame", + "home", + "cozy", + "understanding", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -989,14 +985,13 @@ "id": "money_060", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us talk about bills without blame?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make a trip we would both love feel exciting enough to stick with?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "bills", - "responsibility", - "no_blame", - "communication", + "travel", + "dreams", + "motivation", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1007,14 +1002,13 @@ "id": "money_061", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes bills feel stressful between us?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we make a trip we would both love feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "bills", - "responsibility", - "stress", - "awareness", + "travel", + "dreams", + "teamwork", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1025,13 +1019,13 @@ "id": "money_062", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make bills feel more like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What small step would move us closer to a trip we would both love this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "bills", - "responsibility", - "teamwork", + "travel", + "dreams", + "small_steps", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1042,13 +1036,14 @@ "id": "money_063", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us handle bills better?", + "text": "What could make a trip we would both love feel less stressful and more hopeful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "bills", - "responsibility", - "boundaries", + "travel", + "dreams", + "hope", + "stress", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1059,13 +1054,13 @@ "id": "money_064", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you wish I understood about bills?", + "text": "What boundary would help us protect a trip we would both love?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "bills", - "responsibility", - "understanding", + "travel", + "dreams", + "boundaries", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1076,13 +1071,13 @@ "id": "money_065", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step would make bills feel less overwhelming?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would make progress on a trip we would both love worth celebrating?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "bills", - "responsibility", - "small_steps", + "travel", + "dreams", + "celebration", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1093,14 +1088,13 @@ "id": "money_066", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us make progress on bills without shame?", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about a trip we would both love?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "bills", - "responsibility", - "progress", - "no_shame", + "travel", + "dreams", + "understanding", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1111,14 +1105,13 @@ "id": "money_067", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us talk about debt without blame?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make a small weekly treat feel exciting enough to stick with?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "debt", - "stress", - "no_blame", - "communication", + "weekly", + "treats", + "motivation", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1129,13 +1122,13 @@ "id": "money_068", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes debt feel stressful between us?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we make a small weekly treat feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "debt", - "stress", - "awareness", + "weekly", + "treats", + "teamwork", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1146,13 +1139,13 @@ "id": "money_069", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make debt feel more like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What small step would move us closer to a small weekly treat this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "debt", - "stress", - "teamwork", + "weekly", + "treats", + "small_steps", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1163,13 +1156,14 @@ "id": "money_070", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us handle debt better?", + "text": "What could make a small weekly treat feel less stressful and more hopeful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "debt", + "weekly", + "treats", + "hope", "stress", - "boundaries", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1180,13 +1174,13 @@ "id": "money_071", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you wish I understood about debt?", + "text": "What boundary would help us protect a small weekly treat?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "debt", - "stress", - "understanding", + "weekly", + "treats", + "boundaries", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1197,13 +1191,13 @@ "id": "money_072", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step would make debt feel less overwhelming?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would make progress on a small weekly treat worth celebrating?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "debt", - "stress", - "small_steps", + "weekly", + "treats", + "celebration", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1214,14 +1208,13 @@ "id": "money_073", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us make progress on debt without shame?", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about a small weekly treat?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "debt", - "stress", - "progress", - "no_shame", + "weekly", + "treats", + "understanding", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1232,14 +1225,13 @@ "id": "money_074", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us talk about income changes without blame?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make our emergency cushion feel exciting enough to stick with?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "income", + "emergency_savings", "security", - "no_blame", - "communication", + "motivation", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1250,14 +1242,13 @@ "id": "money_075", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes income changes feel stressful between us?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we make our emergency cushion feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "income", + "emergency_savings", "security", - "stress", - "awareness", + "teamwork", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1268,13 +1259,13 @@ "id": "money_076", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make income changes feel more like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What small step would move us closer to our emergency cushion this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "income", + "emergency_savings", "security", - "teamwork", + "small_steps", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1285,13 +1276,14 @@ "id": "money_077", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us handle income changes better?", + "text": "What could make our emergency cushion feel less stressful and more hopeful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "income", + "emergency_savings", "security", - "boundaries", + "hope", + "stress", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1302,13 +1294,13 @@ "id": "money_078", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you wish I understood about income changes?", + "text": "What boundary would help us protect our emergency cushion?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "income", + "emergency_savings", "security", - "understanding", + "boundaries", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1319,13 +1311,13 @@ "id": "money_079", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step would make income changes feel less overwhelming?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would make progress on our emergency cushion worth celebrating?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "income", + "emergency_savings", "security", - "small_steps", + "celebration", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1336,14 +1328,13 @@ "id": "money_080", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us make progress on income changes without shame?", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about our emergency cushion?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "income", + "emergency_savings", "security", - "progress", - "no_shame", + "understanding", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1354,14 +1345,13 @@ "id": "money_081", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us talk about a budget without blame?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make a debt payoff goal feel exciting enough to stick with?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "budget", - "planning", - "no_blame", - "communication", + "debt", + "progress", + "motivation", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1372,14 +1362,13 @@ "id": "money_082", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a budget feel stressful between us?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we make a debt payoff goal feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "budget", - "planning", - "stress", - "awareness", + "debt", + "progress", + "teamwork", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1390,13 +1379,13 @@ "id": "money_083", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a budget feel more like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What small step would move us closer to a debt payoff goal this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "budget", - "planning", - "teamwork", + "debt", + "progress", + "small_steps", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1407,13 +1396,14 @@ "id": "money_084", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us handle a budget better?", + "text": "What could make a debt payoff goal feel less stressful and more hopeful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "budget", - "planning", - "boundaries", + "debt", + "progress", + "hope", + "stress", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1424,13 +1414,13 @@ "id": "money_085", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you wish I understood about a budget?", + "text": "What boundary would help us protect a debt payoff goal?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "budget", - "planning", - "understanding", + "debt", + "progress", + "boundaries", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1441,13 +1431,13 @@ "id": "money_086", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step would make a budget feel less overwhelming?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would make progress on a debt payoff goal worth celebrating?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "budget", - "planning", - "small_steps", + "debt", + "progress", + "celebration", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1458,14 +1448,13 @@ "id": "money_087", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us make progress on a budget without shame?", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about a debt payoff goal?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "budget", - "planning", + "debt", "progress", - "no_shame", + "understanding", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1476,14 +1465,13 @@ "id": "money_088", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us talk about emergency savings without blame?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make a future home project feel exciting enough to stick with?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emergency_savings", - "security", - "no_blame", - "communication", + "home", + "future", + "motivation", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1494,14 +1482,13 @@ "id": "money_089", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes emergency savings feel stressful between us?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we make a future home project feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emergency_savings", - "security", - "stress", - "awareness", + "home", + "future", + "teamwork", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1512,13 +1499,13 @@ "id": "money_090", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make emergency savings feel more like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What small step would move us closer to a future home project this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emergency_savings", - "security", - "teamwork", + "home", + "future", + "small_steps", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1529,13 +1516,14 @@ "id": "money_091", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us handle emergency savings better?", + "text": "What could make a future home project feel less stressful and more hopeful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emergency_savings", - "security", - "boundaries", + "home", + "future", + "hope", + "stress", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1546,13 +1534,13 @@ "id": "money_092", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you wish I understood about emergency savings?", + "text": "What boundary would help us protect a future home project?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emergency_savings", - "security", - "understanding", + "home", + "future", + "boundaries", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1563,13 +1551,13 @@ "id": "money_093", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step would make emergency savings feel less overwhelming?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would make progress on a future home project worth celebrating?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emergency_savings", - "security", - "small_steps", + "home", + "future", + "celebration", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1580,14 +1568,13 @@ "id": "money_094", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us make progress on emergency savings without shame?", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about a future home project?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emergency_savings", - "security", - "progress", - "no_shame", + "home", + "future", + "understanding", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1598,14 +1585,13 @@ "id": "money_095", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us talk about family money expectations without blame?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make a no-spend challenge feel exciting enough to stick with?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family", - "expectations", - "no_blame", - "communication", + "challenge", + "saving", + "motivation", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1616,14 +1602,13 @@ "id": "money_096", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes family money expectations feel stressful between us?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we make a no-spend challenge feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family", - "expectations", - "stress", - "awareness", + "challenge", + "saving", + "teamwork", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1634,13 +1619,13 @@ "id": "money_097", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make family money expectations feel more like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What small step would move us closer to a no-spend challenge this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family", - "expectations", - "teamwork", + "challenge", + "saving", + "small_steps", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1651,13 +1636,14 @@ "id": "money_098", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us handle family money expectations better?", + "text": "What could make a no-spend challenge feel less stressful and more hopeful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family", - "expectations", - "boundaries", + "challenge", + "saving", + "hope", + "stress", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1668,13 +1654,13 @@ "id": "money_099", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you wish I understood about family money expectations?", + "text": "What boundary would help us protect a no-spend challenge?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family", - "expectations", - "understanding", + "challenge", + "saving", + "boundaries", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1685,13 +1671,13 @@ "id": "money_100", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step would make family money expectations feel less overwhelming?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would make progress on a no-spend challenge worth celebrating?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family", - "expectations", - "small_steps", + "challenge", + "saving", + "celebration", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1702,14 +1688,13 @@ "id": "money_101", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us make progress on family money expectations without shame?", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about a no-spend challenge?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family", - "expectations", - "progress", - "no_shame", + "challenge", + "saving", + "understanding", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1720,14 +1705,13 @@ "id": "money_102", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us talk about fun money without blame?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make a personal fun-money plan feel exciting enough to stick with?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "fun_money", "freedom", - "no_blame", - "communication", + "motivation", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1738,14 +1722,13 @@ "id": "money_103", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes fun money feel stressful between us?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we make a personal fun-money plan feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "fun_money", "freedom", - "stress", - "awareness", + "teamwork", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1756,13 +1739,13 @@ "id": "money_104", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make fun money feel more like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What small step would move us closer to a personal fun-money plan this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "fun_money", "freedom", - "teamwork", + "small_steps", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1773,13 +1756,14 @@ "id": "money_105", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us handle fun money better?", + "text": "What could make a personal fun-money plan feel less stressful and more hopeful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "fun_money", "freedom", - "boundaries", + "hope", + "stress", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1790,13 +1774,13 @@ "id": "money_106", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you wish I understood about fun money?", + "text": "What boundary would help us protect a personal fun-money plan?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "fun_money", "freedom", - "understanding", + "boundaries", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1807,13 +1791,13 @@ "id": "money_107", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step would make fun money feel less overwhelming?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would make progress on a personal fun-money plan worth celebrating?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "fun_money", "freedom", - "small_steps", + "celebration", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1824,14 +1808,13 @@ "id": "money_108", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us make progress on fun money without shame?", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about a personal fun-money plan?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "fun_money", "freedom", - "progress", - "no_shame", + "understanding", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1842,14 +1825,13 @@ "id": "money_109", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us talk about big purchases without blame?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make a shared dream jar feel exciting enough to stick with?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "big_purchases", - "decisions", - "no_blame", - "communication", + "dreams", + "saving", + "motivation", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1860,14 +1842,13 @@ "id": "money_110", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes big purchases feel stressful between us?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we make a shared dream jar feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "big_purchases", - "decisions", - "stress", - "awareness", + "dreams", + "saving", + "teamwork", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1878,13 +1859,13 @@ "id": "money_111", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make big purchases feel more like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What small step would move us closer to a shared dream jar this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "big_purchases", - "decisions", - "teamwork", + "dreams", + "saving", + "small_steps", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1895,13 +1876,14 @@ "id": "money_112", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us handle big purchases better?", + "text": "What could make a shared dream jar feel less stressful and more hopeful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "big_purchases", - "decisions", - "boundaries", + "dreams", + "saving", + "hope", + "stress", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1912,13 +1894,13 @@ "id": "money_113", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you wish I understood about big purchases?", + "text": "What boundary would help us protect a shared dream jar?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "big_purchases", - "decisions", - "understanding", + "dreams", + "saving", + "boundaries", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1929,13 +1911,13 @@ "id": "money_114", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step would make big purchases feel less overwhelming?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would make progress on a shared dream jar worth celebrating?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "big_purchases", - "decisions", - "small_steps", + "dreams", + "saving", + "celebration", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1946,14 +1928,13 @@ "id": "money_115", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us make progress on big purchases without shame?", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about a shared dream jar?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "big_purchases", - "decisions", - "progress", - "no_shame", + "dreams", + "saving", + "understanding", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1964,14 +1945,13 @@ "id": "money_116", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us talk about shared goals without blame?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make a bill-simplifying plan feel exciting enough to stick with?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "goals", - "teamwork", - "no_blame", - "communication", + "bills", + "simplicity", + "motivation", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1982,14 +1962,13 @@ "id": "money_117", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes shared goals feel stressful between us?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we make a bill-simplifying plan feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "goals", + "bills", + "simplicity", "teamwork", - "stress", - "awareness", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2000,12 +1979,13 @@ "id": "money_118", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make shared goals feel more like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What small step would move us closer to a bill-simplifying plan this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "goals", - "teamwork", + "bills", + "simplicity", + "small_steps", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2016,13 +1996,14 @@ "id": "money_119", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us handle shared goals better?", + "text": "What could make a bill-simplifying plan feel less stressful and more hopeful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "goals", - "teamwork", - "boundaries", + "bills", + "simplicity", + "hope", + "stress", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2033,13 +2014,13 @@ "id": "money_120", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you wish I understood about shared goals?", + "text": "What boundary would help us protect a bill-simplifying plan?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "goals", - "teamwork", - "understanding", + "bills", + "simplicity", + "boundaries", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2050,13 +2031,13 @@ "id": "money_121", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step would make shared goals feel less overwhelming?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would make progress on a bill-simplifying plan worth celebrating?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "goals", - "teamwork", - "small_steps", + "bills", + "simplicity", + "celebration", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2067,14 +2048,13 @@ "id": "money_122", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us make progress on shared goals without shame?", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about a bill-simplifying plan?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "goals", - "teamwork", - "progress", - "no_shame", + "bills", + "simplicity", + "understanding", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2085,14 +2065,13 @@ "id": "money_123", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us talk about personal spending without blame?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make a celebration fund feel exciting enough to stick with?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "personal_spending", - "autonomy", - "no_blame", - "communication", + "celebration", + "fun", + "motivation", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2103,14 +2082,13 @@ "id": "money_124", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes personal spending feel stressful between us?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we make a celebration fund feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "personal_spending", - "autonomy", - "stress", - "awareness", + "celebration", + "fun", + "teamwork", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2121,13 +2099,13 @@ "id": "money_125", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make personal spending feel more like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What small step would move us closer to a celebration fund this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "personal_spending", - "autonomy", - "teamwork", + "celebration", + "fun", + "small_steps", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2138,13 +2116,14 @@ "id": "money_126", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us handle personal spending better?", + "text": "What could make a celebration fund feel less stressful and more hopeful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "personal_spending", - "autonomy", - "boundaries", + "celebration", + "fun", + "hope", + "stress", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2155,13 +2134,13 @@ "id": "money_127", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you wish I understood about personal spending?", + "text": "What boundary would help us protect a celebration fund?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "personal_spending", - "autonomy", - "understanding", + "celebration", + "fun", + "boundaries", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2172,13 +2151,12 @@ "id": "money_128", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step would make personal spending feel less overwhelming?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would make progress on a celebration fund worth celebrating?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "personal_spending", - "autonomy", - "small_steps", + "celebration", + "fun", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2189,14 +2167,13 @@ "id": "money_129", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us make progress on personal spending without shame?", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about a celebration fund?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "personal_spending", - "autonomy", - "progress", - "no_shame", + "celebration", + "fun", + "understanding", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2207,14 +2184,13 @@ "id": "money_130", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us talk about financial fears without blame?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make a freedom fund feel exciting enough to stick with?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fear", - "vulnerability", - "no_blame", - "communication", + "freedom", + "saving", + "motivation", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2225,14 +2201,13 @@ "id": "money_131", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes financial fears feel stressful between us?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we make a freedom fund feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fear", - "vulnerability", - "stress", - "awareness", + "freedom", + "saving", + "teamwork", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2243,13 +2218,13 @@ "id": "money_132", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make financial fears feel more like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What small step would move us closer to a freedom fund this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fear", - "vulnerability", - "teamwork", + "freedom", + "saving", + "small_steps", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2260,13 +2235,14 @@ "id": "money_133", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us handle financial fears better?", + "text": "What could make a freedom fund feel less stressful and more hopeful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fear", - "vulnerability", - "boundaries", + "freedom", + "saving", + "hope", + "stress", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2277,13 +2253,13 @@ "id": "money_134", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you wish I understood about financial fears?", + "text": "What boundary would help us protect a freedom fund?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fear", - "vulnerability", - "understanding", + "freedom", + "saving", + "boundaries", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2294,13 +2270,13 @@ "id": "money_135", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step would make financial fears feel less overwhelming?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would make progress on a freedom fund worth celebrating?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fear", - "vulnerability", - "small_steps", + "freedom", + "saving", + "celebration", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2311,14 +2287,13 @@ "id": "money_136", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us make progress on financial fears without shame?", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about a freedom fund?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fear", - "vulnerability", - "progress", - "no_shame", + "freedom", + "saving", + "understanding", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2329,14 +2304,13 @@ "id": "money_137", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us talk about money habits without blame?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make a family or friend boundary feel exciting enough to stick with?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "habits", - "patterns", - "no_blame", - "communication", + "family", + "boundaries", + "motivation", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2347,14 +2321,13 @@ "id": "money_138", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes money habits feel stressful between us?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we make a family or friend boundary feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "habits", - "patterns", - "stress", - "awareness", + "family", + "boundaries", + "teamwork", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2365,13 +2338,13 @@ "id": "money_139", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make money habits feel more like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What small step would move us closer to a family or friend boundary this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "habits", - "patterns", - "teamwork", + "family", + "boundaries", + "small_steps", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2382,13 +2355,14 @@ "id": "money_140", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us handle money habits better?", + "text": "What could make a family or friend boundary feel less stressful and more hopeful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "habits", - "patterns", + "family", "boundaries", + "hope", + "stress", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2399,13 +2373,12 @@ "id": "money_141", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you wish I understood about money habits?", + "text": "What boundary would help us protect a family or friend boundary?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "habits", - "patterns", - "understanding", + "family", + "boundaries", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2416,13 +2389,13 @@ "id": "money_142", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step would make money habits feel less overwhelming?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would make progress on a family or friend boundary worth celebrating?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "habits", - "patterns", - "small_steps", + "family", + "boundaries", + "celebration", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2433,14 +2406,13 @@ "id": "money_143", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us make progress on money habits without shame?", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about a family or friend boundary?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "habits", - "patterns", - "progress", - "no_shame", + "family", + "boundaries", + "understanding", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2451,14 +2423,13 @@ "id": "money_144", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us talk about future planning without blame?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make a month that feels less stressful feel exciting enough to stick with?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future", - "planning", - "no_blame", - "communication", + "monthly", + "stress", + "motivation", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2469,14 +2440,13 @@ "id": "money_145", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes future planning feel stressful between us?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we make a month that feels less stressful feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future", - "planning", + "monthly", "stress", - "awareness", + "teamwork", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2487,13 +2457,13 @@ "id": "money_146", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make future planning feel more like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What small step would move us closer to a month that feels less stressful this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future", - "planning", - "teamwork", + "monthly", + "stress", + "small_steps", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2504,13 +2474,13 @@ "id": "money_147", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us handle future planning better?", + "text": "What could make a month that feels less stressful feel less stressful and more hopeful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future", - "planning", - "boundaries", + "monthly", + "stress", + "hope", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2521,13 +2491,13 @@ "id": "money_148", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you wish I understood about future planning?", + "text": "What boundary would help us protect a month that feels less stressful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future", - "planning", - "understanding", + "monthly", + "stress", + "boundaries", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2538,13 +2508,13 @@ "id": "money_149", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step would make future planning feel less overwhelming?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would make progress on a month that feels less stressful worth celebrating?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future", - "planning", - "small_steps", + "monthly", + "stress", + "celebration", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2555,14 +2525,13 @@ "id": "money_150", "category_id": "money", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us make progress on future planning without shame?", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about a month that feels less stressful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future", - "planning", - "progress", - "no_shame", + "monthly", + "stress", + "understanding", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2573,7 +2542,40 @@ "id": "money_151", "category_id": "money", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of money check-in sounds most doable?", + "text": "Which shared goal sounds most fun right now?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "goals", + "fun", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "date_fund", + "text": "Date fund" + }, + { + "id": "trip", + "text": "Trip" + }, + { + "id": "home_upgrade", + "text": "Home upgrade" + }, + { + "id": "emergency_cushion", + "text": "Emergency cushion" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_152", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of money check-in sounds least annoying?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -2583,16 +2585,16 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "weekly_10_min", - "text": "10 minutes weekly" + "id": "ten_minutes", + "text": "10 minutes" }, { - "id": "monthly", - "text": "Monthly" + "id": "with_snacks", + "text": "With snacks" }, { - "id": "when_needed", - "text": "Only when needed" + "id": "monthly_reset", + "text": "Monthly reset" }, { "id": "written_first", @@ -2601,108 +2603,12 @@ ] } }, - { - "id": "money_152", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which money topic feels lightest to start with?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "goals", - "text": "Goals" - }, - { - "id": "fun_money", - "text": "Fun money" - }, - { - "id": "saving", - "text": "Saving" - }, - { - "id": "small_bills", - "text": "Small bills" - } - ] - } - }, { "id": "money_153", "category_id": "money", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a budget feel better?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "budget", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "simple", - "text": "Simple" - }, - { - "id": "flexible", - "text": "Flexible" - }, - { - "id": "shared_goal", - "text": "Shared goal" - }, - { - "id": "room_for_fun", - "text": "Room for fun" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_154", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps money talks stay calm?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "calm", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "short_talk", - "text": "Short talk" - }, - { - "id": "no_blame", - "text": "No blame" - }, - { - "id": "clear_goal", - "text": "Clear goal" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_155", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What money win should we notice more?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What small money win should we celebrate first?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "wins", @@ -2712,15 +2618,15 @@ "options": [ { "id": "paid_bill", - "text": "Paid bill" + "text": "Paid a bill" }, { "id": "saved_some", "text": "Saved some" }, { - "id": "spent_wisely", - "text": "Spent wisely" + "id": "skipped_impulse", + "text": "Skipped an impulse buy" }, { "id": "talked_kindly", @@ -2730,10 +2636,42 @@ } }, { - "id": "money_156", + "id": "money_154", "category_id": "money", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What spending area feels easiest to adjust?", + "text": "What makes saving feel more motivating?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "saving", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific_goal", + "text": "Specific goal" + }, + { + "id": "visual_tracker", + "text": "Visual tracker" + }, + { + "id": "small_wins", + "text": "Small wins" + }, + { + "id": "fun_name", + "text": "A fun name" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_155", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What spending feels most worth it?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -2743,20 +2681,52 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "eating_out", - "text": "Eating out" + "id": "experiences", + "text": "Experiences" }, { - "id": "subscriptions", - "text": "Subscriptions" + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" }, { - "id": "small_impulses", - "text": "Small impulses" + "id": "home", + "text": "Home" }, { - "id": "shopping", - "text": "Shopping" + "id": "time_saving", + "text": "Time-saving" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_156", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of treat feels healthiest?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "treats", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "coffee", + "text": "Coffee treat" + }, + { + "id": "date", + "text": "Date treat" + }, + { + "id": "book_or_game", + "text": "Book or game" + }, + { + "id": "home_treat", + "text": "Home treat" } ] } @@ -2765,30 +2735,30 @@ "id": "money_157", "category_id": "money", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of goal motivates you most?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps a budget feel less boring?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "goals", + "budget", "money" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "security", - "text": "Security" + "id": "short_session", + "text": "Short session" }, { - "id": "freedom", - "text": "Freedom" + "id": "goal_picture", + "text": "Goal picture" }, { - "id": "home", - "text": "Home" + "id": "snacks", + "text": "Snacks" }, { - "id": "fun", - "text": "Fun" + "id": "celebration", + "text": "Celebration" } ] } @@ -2797,30 +2767,30 @@ "id": "money_158", "category_id": "money", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel included in money choices?", + "text": "What money topic should we start with gently?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "decisions", + "communication", "money" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "talk_first", - "text": "Talk first" + "id": "spending", + "text": "Spending" }, { - "id": "clear_numbers", - "text": "Clear numbers" + "id": "saving", + "text": "Saving" }, { - "id": "shared_plan", - "text": "Shared plan" + "id": "bills", + "text": "Bills" }, { - "id": "time_to_think", - "text": "Time to think" + "id": "goals", + "text": "Goals" } ] } @@ -2829,38 +2799,6 @@ "id": "money_159", "category_id": "money", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes money feel most stressful?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "stress", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "surprises", - "text": "Surprises" - }, - { - "id": "debt", - "text": "Debt" - }, - { - "id": "not_knowing", - "text": "Not knowing" - }, - { - "id": "different_priorities", - "text": "Different priorities" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_160", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes money feel safer?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", @@ -2870,6 +2808,10 @@ ], "answer_config": { "options": [ + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, { "id": "plan", "text": "A plan" @@ -2878,10 +2820,6 @@ "id": "savings", "text": "Savings" }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, { "id": "teamwork", "text": "Teamwork" @@ -2890,33 +2828,65 @@ } }, { - "id": "money_161", + "id": "money_160", "category_id": "money", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we do before a big purchase?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes money feel more fun?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "big_purchases", + "fun", "money" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "talk_first", - "text": "Talk first" + "id": "dreaming", + "text": "Dreaming" }, { - "id": "sleep_on_it", - "text": "Sleep on it" + "id": "date_fund", + "text": "Date fund" }, { - "id": "check_budget", - "text": "Check budget" + "id": "small_challenges", + "text": "Small challenges" }, { - "id": "compare_options", - "text": "Compare options" + "id": "celebrating", + "text": "Celebrating" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_161", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of challenge sounds doable?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "challenge", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_spend_weekend", + "text": "No-spend weekend" + }, + { + "id": "cook_at_home", + "text": "Cook at home" + }, + { + "id": "cancel_one_thing", + "text": "Cancel one thing" + }, + { + "id": "save_small", + "text": "Save a small amount" } ] } @@ -2925,102 +2895,6 @@ "id": "money_162", "category_id": "money", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of fun money feels healthiest?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_money", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "small_weekly", - "text": "Small weekly amount" - }, - { - "id": "monthly", - "text": "Monthly amount" - }, - { - "id": "planned_treats", - "text": "Planned treats" - }, - { - "id": "separate_fun", - "text": "Separate fun money" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_163", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes debt talk less scary?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "debt", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_shame", - "text": "No shame" - }, - { - "id": "clear_plan", - "text": "Clear plan" - }, - { - "id": "small_steps", - "text": "Small steps" - }, - { - "id": "team_language", - "text": "Team language" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_164", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps if one of us overspends?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "overspending", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_kindly", - "text": "Talk kindly" - }, - { - "id": "look_for_trigger", - "text": "Look for trigger" - }, - { - "id": "make_plan", - "text": "Make a plan" - }, - { - "id": "no_pile_on", - "text": "No pile-on" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_165", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should a money talk end with?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", @@ -3039,7 +2913,7 @@ "text": "Reassurance" }, { - "id": "thanks", + "id": "thank_you", "text": "Thank you" }, { @@ -3050,33 +2924,131 @@ } }, { - "id": "money_166", + "id": "money_163", "category_id": "money", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which money pattern needs the most kindness?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which purchase would feel most like investing in us?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "patterns", + "spending", + "relationship", "money" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "avoidance", - "text": "Avoidance" + "id": "date_night", + "text": "Date night" }, { - "id": "overspending", - "text": "Overspending" + "id": "home_comfort", + "text": "Home comfort" }, { - "id": "worrying", - "text": "Worrying" + "id": "time_together", + "text": "Time together" }, { - "id": "control", - "text": "Control" + "id": "stress_relief", + "text": "Stress relief" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_164", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What lowers money stress fastest?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "stress", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "knowing_numbers", + "text": "Knowing numbers" + }, + { + "id": "small_plan", + "text": "Small plan" + }, + { + "id": "kind_talk", + "text": "Kind talk" + }, + { + "id": "one_step", + "text": "One step" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_165", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What money mood do you want more of?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "mood", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "peaceful", + "text": "Peaceful" + }, + { + "id": "hopeful", + "text": "Hopeful" + }, + { + "id": "playful", + "text": "Playful" + }, + { + "id": "confident", + "text": "Confident" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_166", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which fund should we make more exciting?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "saving", + "fun", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "date_fund", + "text": "Date fund" + }, + { + "id": "emergency_fund", + "text": "Emergency fund" + }, + { + "id": "trip_fund", + "text": "Trip fund" + }, + { + "id": "home_fund", + "text": "Home fund" } ] } @@ -3085,30 +3057,30 @@ "id": "money_167", "category_id": "money", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when priorities are different?", + "text": "What makes debt talk less heavy?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "priorities", + "debt", "money" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "name_both", - "text": "Name both" + "id": "no_shame", + "text": "No shame" }, { - "id": "find_overlap", - "text": "Find overlap" + "id": "small_steps", + "text": "Small steps" }, { - "id": "take_turns", - "text": "Take turns" + "id": "team_language", + "text": "Team language" }, { - "id": "make_plan", - "text": "Make plan" + "id": "clear_plan", + "text": "Clear plan" } ] } @@ -3117,6 +3089,70 @@ "id": "money_168", "category_id": "money", "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps if one of us overspends?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "overspending", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_pile_on", + "text": "No pile-on" + }, + { + "id": "find_trigger", + "text": "Find the trigger" + }, + { + "id": "adjust_plan", + "text": "Adjust the plan" + }, + { + "id": "repair_trust", + "text": "Repair trust" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_169", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes personal spending feel fair?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "personal_spending", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "same_amount", + "text": "Same amount" + }, + { + "id": "needs_based", + "text": "Needs-based" + }, + { + "id": "talk_over_limit", + "text": "Talk over a limit" + }, + { + "id": "separate_fun_money", + "text": "Separate fun money" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_170", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of transparency feels healthiest?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", @@ -3126,10 +3162,6 @@ ], "answer_config": { "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_numbers", - "text": "Shared numbers" - }, { "id": "shared_goals", "text": "Shared goals" @@ -3138,6 +3170,10 @@ "id": "big_purchases", "text": "Big purchases" }, + { + "id": "bill_awareness", + "text": "Bill awareness" + }, { "id": "no_snooping", "text": "No snooping" @@ -3146,93 +3182,30 @@ } }, { - "id": "money_169", + "id": "money_171", "category_id": "money", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What money boundary would help most?", + "text": "What helps with family money pressure?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "family", "boundaries", "money" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "spending_limit", - "text": "Spending limit" + "id": "shared_boundary", + "text": "Shared boundary" }, { - "id": "talk_before_debt", - "text": "Talk before debt" + "id": "kind_no", + "text": "Kind no" }, { - "id": "private_fun_money", - "text": "Private fun money" - }, - { - "id": "family_requests", - "text": "Family requests" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_170", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes saving feel motivating?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "saving", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_goal", - "text": "Specific goal" - }, - { - "id": "small_progress", - "text": "Small progress" - }, - { - "id": "visual_tracker", - "text": "Visual tracker" - }, - { - "id": "less_pressure", - "text": "Less pressure" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_171", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes spending feel peaceful?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "spending", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "planned", - "text": "Planned" - }, - { - "id": "affordable", - "text": "Affordable" - }, - { - "id": "shared_value", - "text": "Shared value" + "id": "private_talk_first", + "text": "Private talk first" }, { "id": "no_guilt", @@ -3245,7 +3218,7 @@ "id": "money_172", "category_id": "money", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps with unexpected expenses?", + "text": "What makes unexpected expenses feel less scary?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -3255,8 +3228,8 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "emergency_fund", - "text": "Emergency fund" + "id": "emergency_cushion", + "text": "Emergency cushion" }, { "id": "calm_talk", @@ -3267,8 +3240,8 @@ "text": "Prioritize" }, { - "id": "small_plan", - "text": "Small plan" + "id": "one_step", + "text": "One step" } ] } @@ -3277,7 +3250,7 @@ "id": "money_173", "category_id": "money", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of bill system sounds best?", + "text": "What kind of bill system sounds least stressful?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -3290,14 +3263,14 @@ "id": "auto_pay", "text": "Auto-pay" }, - { - "id": "weekly_review", - "text": "Weekly review" - }, { "id": "shared_calendar", "text": "Shared calendar" }, + { + "id": "weekly_review", + "text": "Weekly review" + }, { "id": "one_person_tracks", "text": "One person tracks" @@ -3309,7 +3282,7 @@ "id": "money_174", "category_id": "money", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes income changes easier to handle?", + "text": "What helps if income changes?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -3327,8 +3300,8 @@ "text": "Temporary plan" }, { - "id": "cut_stress", - "text": "Cut stress" + "id": "shared_priorities", + "text": "Shared priorities" }, { "id": "team_mindset", @@ -3341,102 +3314,6 @@ "id": "money_175", "category_id": "money", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps if one of us feels controlled around money?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "control", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "choice", - "text": "Choice" - }, - { - "id": "clear_limits", - "text": "Clear limits" - }, - { - "id": "personal_money", - "text": "Personal money" - }, - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_176", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps if one of us feels alone with money?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "support", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_plan", - "text": "Shared plan" - }, - { - "id": "regular_check_in", - "text": "Regular check-in" - }, - { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" - }, - { - "id": "take_one_task", - "text": "Take one task" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_177", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we do when money anxiety is high?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "anxiety", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "look_at_facts", - "text": "Look at facts" - }, - { - "id": "make_one_step", - "text": "Make one step" - }, - { - "id": "comfort_first", - "text": "Comfort first" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_178", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes generosity feel good, not stressful?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", @@ -3466,264 +3343,105 @@ } }, { - "id": "money_179", + "id": "money_176", "category_id": "money", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes family money requests hard?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes a budget date sound less awful?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "guilt", - "text": "Guilt" - }, - { - "id": "pressure", - "text": "Pressure" - }, - { - "id": "different_values", - "text": "Different values" - }, - { - "id": "unclear_limits", - "text": "Unclear limits" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_180", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us say no to outside money pressure?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "outside_pressure", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_boundary", - "text": "Shared boundary" - }, - { - "id": "kind_script", - "text": "Kind script" - }, - { - "id": "private_talk_first", - "text": "Private talk first" - }, - { - "id": "no_explaining", - "text": "No over-explaining" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_181", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What financial goal should feel fun?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "trip", - "text": "Trip" - }, - { - "id": "home", - "text": "Home" - }, - { - "id": "date_fund", - "text": "Date fund" - }, - { - "id": "freedom_fund", - "text": "Freedom fund" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_182", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes financial planning less boring?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "planning", + "budget", "fun", "money" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ - { - "id": "short_sessions", - "text": "Short sessions" - }, { "id": "snacks", "text": "Snacks" }, { - "id": "visual_goals", - "text": "Visual goals" + "id": "music", + "text": "Music" }, { - "id": "celebrate_progress", - "text": "Celebrate progress" + "id": "short_timer", + "text": "Short timer" + }, + { + "id": "reward_after", + "text": "Reward after" } ] } }, { - "id": "money_183", + "id": "money_177", "category_id": "money", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us recover from a money mistake?", + "text": "What should we put in a dream jar?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "dreams", + "saving", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "trip_ideas", + "text": "Trip ideas" + }, + { + "id": "home_ideas", + "text": "Home ideas" + }, + { + "id": "date_ideas", + "text": "Date ideas" + }, + { + "id": "future_wishes", + "text": "Future wishes" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_178", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of spending boundary feels loving?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "mistakes", + "boundaries", "money" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "no_shame", - "text": "No shame" + "id": "big_purchase_talk", + "text": "Talk before big purchases" }, { - "id": "learn_from_it", - "text": "Learn from it" + "id": "no_secret_debt", + "text": "No secret debt" }, { - "id": "fix_plan", - "text": "Fix plan" + "id": "fun_money", + "text": "Fun money" }, { - "id": "move_forward", - "text": "Move forward" + "id": "family_limits", + "text": "Family limits" } ] } }, { - "id": "money_184", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of personal spending freedom feels fair?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "personal_spending", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "same_amount", - "text": "Same amount" - }, - { - "id": "needs_based", - "text": "Needs-based" - }, - { - "id": "talk_over_limit", - "text": "Talk over a limit" - }, - { - "id": "separate_categories", - "text": "Separate categories" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_185", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes shared money feel fair?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fairness", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_roles", - "text": "Clear roles" - }, - { - "id": "shared_goals", - "text": "Shared goals" - }, - { - "id": "honest_numbers", - "text": "Honest numbers" - }, - { - "id": "flexibility", - "text": "Flexibility" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_186", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we review first in a money check-in?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "check_in", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "bills", - "text": "Bills" - }, - { - "id": "goals", - "text": "Goals" - }, - { - "id": "stress", - "text": "Stress" - }, - { - "id": "upcoming_needs", - "text": "Upcoming needs" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_187", + "id": "money_179", "category_id": "money", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What helps money talks not turn into blame?", @@ -3755,33 +3473,292 @@ } }, { - "id": "money_188", + "id": "money_180", "category_id": "money", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a spending limit feel respectful?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What should we review first in a check-in?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "spending_limit", + "check_in", "money" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "both_agree", - "text": "Both agree" + "id": "goals", + "text": "Goals" }, { - "id": "clear_reason", - "text": "Clear reason" + "id": "bills", + "text": "Bills" + }, + { + "id": "stress_level", + "text": "Stress level" + }, + { + "id": "next_step", + "text": "Next step" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_181", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What money pattern needs the most kindness?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "patterns", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "avoidance", + "text": "Avoidance" + }, + { + "id": "worrying", + "text": "Worrying" + }, + { + "id": "overspending", + "text": "Overspending" + }, + { + "id": "control", + "text": "Control" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_182", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps when our priorities differ?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "priorities", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "find_overlap", + "text": "Find overlap" + }, + { + "id": "take_turns", + "text": "Take turns" + }, + { + "id": "name_both", + "text": "Name both" + }, + { + "id": "make_plan", + "text": "Make a plan" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_183", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes saving together feel romantic?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "saving", + "romance", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "shared_dream", + "text": "Shared dream" + }, + { + "id": "date_fund", + "text": "Date fund" + }, + { + "id": "home_goal", + "text": "Home goal" + }, + { + "id": "future_peace", + "text": "Future peace" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_184", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes a splurge feel worth it?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "spending", + "values", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "memories", + "text": "Memories" + }, + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + }, + { + "id": "time_saved", + "text": "Time saved" + }, + { + "id": "shared_joy", + "text": "Shared joy" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_185", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps us recover from a money mistake?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "mistakes", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_shame", + "text": "No shame" + }, + { + "id": "learn_from_it", + "text": "Learn from it" + }, + { + "id": "fix_plan", + "text": "Fix plan" + }, + { + "id": "move_forward", + "text": "Move forward" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_186", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of money goal feels most like us?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "goals", + "identity", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "homey", + "text": "Homey" + }, + { + "id": "adventurous", + "text": "Adventurous" + }, + { + "id": "peaceful", + "text": "Peaceful" + }, + { + "id": "freedom_focused", + "text": "Freedom-focused" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_187", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes shared money feel fair?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "fairness", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "both_get_voice", + "text": "Both get a voice" }, { "id": "flexibility", "text": "Flexibility" }, { - "id": "no_parenting", - "text": "No parenting each other" + "id": "clear_roles", + "text": "Clear roles" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_188", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps with money anxiety?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "anxiety", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "facts", + "text": "Facts" + }, + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + }, + { + "id": "one_step", + "text": "One step" + }, + { + "id": "no_blame", + "text": "No blame" } ] } @@ -3790,11 +3767,44 @@ "id": "money_189", "category_id": "money", "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of financial progress should we celebrate more?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "progress", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "small_savings", + "text": "Small savings" + }, + { + "id": "paid_on_time", + "text": "Paid on time" + }, + { + "id": "kind_talk", + "text": "Kind talk" + }, + { + "id": "skipped_impulse", + "text": "Skipped impulse" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_190", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", "text": "What helps us balance now and later?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "future", + "balance", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -3812,41 +3822,8 @@ "text": "Shared goal" }, { - "id": "monthly_review", - "text": "Monthly review" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_190", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What money habit would make future us grateful?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "future", - "habits", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "saving", - "text": "Saving" - }, - { - "id": "tracking", - "text": "Tracking" - }, - { - "id": "less_debt", - "text": "Less debt" - }, - { - "id": "talking_kindly", - "text": "Talking kindly" + "id": "monthly_reset", + "text": "Monthly reset" } ] } @@ -3855,6 +3832,82 @@ "id": "money_191", "category_id": "money", "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make money feel more fun?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "fun", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "date_fund", + "text": "Date fund" + }, + { + "id": "dream_jar", + "text": "Dream jar" + }, + { + "id": "small_challenges", + "text": "Small challenges" + }, + { + "id": "celebrating_wins", + "text": "Celebrating wins" + }, + { + "id": "budget_snacks", + "text": "Budget snacks" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_192", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should our shared money goals include?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "goals", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "security", + "text": "Security" + }, + { + "id": "fun", + "text": "Fun" + }, + { + "id": "home", + "text": "Home" + }, + { + "id": "freedom", + "text": "Freedom" + }, + { + "id": "peace", + "text": "Peace" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_193", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes money talks easier?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", @@ -3889,124 +3942,10 @@ "max_selections": 3 } }, - { - "id": "money_192", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What money areas feel most important right now?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "priorities", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "bills", - "text": "Bills" - }, - { - "id": "saving", - "text": "Saving" - }, - { - "id": "debt", - "text": "Debt" - }, - { - "id": "fun_money", - "text": "Fun money" - }, - { - "id": "future_goals", - "text": "Future goals" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_193", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us feel like a team with money?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_goals", - "text": "Shared goals" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "regular_check_ins", - "text": "Regular check-ins" - }, - { - "id": "no_shame", - "text": "No shame" - }, - { - "id": "celebrating_wins", - "text": "Celebrating wins" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, { "id": "money_194", "category_id": "money", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes spending feel good and healthy?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "spending", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "planned", - "text": "Planned" - }, - { - "id": "within_budget", - "text": "Within budget" - }, - { - "id": "connected_to_values", - "text": "Connected to values" - }, - { - "id": "not_secret", - "text": "Not secret" - }, - { - "id": "not_guilt_driven", - "text": "Not guilt-driven" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_195", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What lowers money stress?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", @@ -4025,8 +3964,8 @@ "text": "Having a plan" }, { - "id": "emergency_savings", - "text": "Emergency savings" + "id": "emergency_cushion", + "text": "Emergency cushion" }, { "id": "kind_talks", @@ -4041,12 +3980,50 @@ "max_selections": 3 } }, + { + "id": "money_195", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What money wins should we celebrate?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "celebration", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "saved_money", + "text": "Saved money" + }, + { + "id": "paid_bill", + "text": "Paid bill" + }, + { + "id": "talked_kindly", + "text": "Talked kindly" + }, + { + "id": "avoided_impulse", + "text": "Avoided impulse" + }, + { + "id": "made_plan", + "text": "Made a plan" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, { "id": "money_196", "category_id": "money", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should a money check-in include?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What should a fun money check-in include?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "check_in", @@ -4055,24 +4032,24 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "bills", - "text": "Bills" + "id": "tiny_win", + "text": "Tiny win" }, { - "id": "spending", - "text": "Spending" + "id": "goal_update", + "text": "Goal update" }, { - "id": "goals", - "text": "Goals" - }, - { - "id": "stress_level", - "text": "Stress level" + "id": "one_number", + "text": "One number" }, { "id": "next_step", "text": "Next step" + }, + { + "id": "reward", + "text": "Reward" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4083,7 +4060,7 @@ "id": "money_197", "category_id": "money", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What money boundaries would protect us?", + "text": "What money boundaries would protect peace?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -4109,8 +4086,8 @@ "text": "Personal spending" }, { - "id": "no_secret_accounts", - "text": "No secret accounts" + "id": "no_secret_spending", + "text": "No secret spending" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4197,82 +4174,6 @@ "id": "money_200", "category_id": "money", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps when one of us is worried about money?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "anxiety", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "listen_first", - "text": "Listen first" - }, - { - "id": "look_at_facts", - "text": "Look at facts" - }, - { - "id": "make_one_step", - "text": "Make one step" - }, - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "avoid_blame", - "text": "Avoid blame" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_201", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps with family money pressure?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "family", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "private_agreement", - "text": "Private agreement" - }, - { - "id": "shared_script", - "text": "Shared script" - }, - { - "id": "clear_limit", - "text": "Clear limit" - }, - { - "id": "kind_no", - "text": "Kind no" - }, - { - "id": "no_guilt", - "text": "No guilt" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_202", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes saving easier?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", @@ -4308,7 +4209,7 @@ } }, { - "id": "money_203", + "id": "money_201", "category_id": "money", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes budgeting less stressful?", @@ -4346,7 +4247,7 @@ } }, { - "id": "money_204", + "id": "money_202", "category_id": "money", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps us recover from overspending?", @@ -4384,7 +4285,7 @@ } }, { - "id": "money_205", + "id": "money_203", "category_id": "money", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps us make big purchases wisely?", @@ -4422,7 +4323,7 @@ } }, { - "id": "money_206", + "id": "money_204", "category_id": "money", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps us balance fun and responsibility?", @@ -4460,121 +4361,7 @@ } }, { - "id": "money_207", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us talk about income changes?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "income", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "early_notice", - "text": "Early notice" - }, - { - "id": "temporary_plan", - "text": "Temporary plan" - }, - { - "id": "shared_priorities", - "text": "Shared priorities" - }, - { - "id": "less_blame", - "text": "Less blame" - }, - { - "id": "team_mindset", - "text": "Team mindset" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_208", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes money feel fair?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fairness", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "shared_roles", - "text": "Shared roles" - }, - { - "id": "flexibility", - "text": "Flexibility" - }, - { - "id": "both_get_voice", - "text": "Both get a voice" - }, - { - "id": "respect_needs", - "text": "Respect needs" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_209", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we celebrate financially?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "celebration", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "paid_on_time", - "text": "Paid on time" - }, - { - "id": "saved_money", - "text": "Saved money" - }, - { - "id": "talked_kindly", - "text": "Talked kindly" - }, - { - "id": "avoided_impulse", - "text": "Avoided impulse" - }, - { - "id": "made_plan", - "text": "Made a plan" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_210", + "id": "money_205", "category_id": "money", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps future planning feel hopeful?", @@ -4611,64 +4398,219 @@ "max_selections": 3 } }, + { + "id": "money_206", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should our date fund make possible?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "date_fund", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "simple_dates", + "text": "Simple dates" + }, + { + "id": "special_nights", + "text": "Special nights" + }, + { + "id": "little_surprises", + "text": "Little surprises" + }, + { + "id": "new_places", + "text": "New places" + }, + { + "id": "less_stress", + "text": "Less stress" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_207", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should our dream jar hold?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "dreams", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_dreams", + "text": "Tiny dreams" + }, + { + "id": "big_dreams", + "text": "Big dreams" + }, + { + "id": "home_dreams", + "text": "Home dreams" + }, + { + "id": "travel_dreams", + "text": "Travel dreams" + }, + { + "id": "peace_dreams", + "text": "Peace dreams" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_208", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes family money pressure easier to handle?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "family", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "private_agreement", + "text": "Private agreement" + }, + { + "id": "shared_script", + "text": "Shared script" + }, + { + "id": "clear_limit", + "text": "Clear limit" + }, + { + "id": "kind_no", + "text": "Kind no" + }, + { + "id": "no_guilt", + "text": "No guilt" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_209", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes income changes easier to handle?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "income", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "early_notice", + "text": "Early notice" + }, + { + "id": "temporary_plan", + "text": "Temporary plan" + }, + { + "id": "shared_priorities", + "text": "Shared priorities" + }, + { + "id": "less_blame", + "text": "Less blame" + }, + { + "id": "team_mindset", + "text": "Team mindset" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_210", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes financial progress feel visible?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "progress", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tracker", + "text": "Tracker" + }, + { + "id": "monthly_win", + "text": "Monthly win" + }, + { + "id": "goal_name", + "text": "Goal name" + }, + { + "id": "celebration", + "text": "Celebration" + }, + { + "id": "before_after", + "text": "Before/after" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, { "id": "money_211", "category_id": "money", "type": "scale", - "text": "How calm do money talks feel between us?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How fun do our shared money goals feel right now?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "calm", + "fun", + "goals", "money" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not calm", - "max_label": "Very calm" + "min_label": "Not fun", + "max_label": "Very fun" } }, { "id": "money_212", "category_id": "money", "type": "scale", - "text": "How included do you feel in money decisions?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "decisions", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not included", - "max_label": "Very included" - } - }, - { - "id": "money_213", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much stress does money add right now?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "stress", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "money_214", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "scale", "text": "How hopeful do you feel about our money goals?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", @@ -4683,10 +4625,64 @@ "max_label": "Very hopeful" } }, + { + "id": "money_213", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How calm do money talks feel between us?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "calm", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not calm", + "max_label": "Very calm" + } + }, + { + "id": "money_214", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much do we feel like a team with money?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "teamwork", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" + } + }, { "id": "money_215", "category_id": "money", "type": "scale", + "text": "How much would a date fund motivate us?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "date_fund", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" + } + }, + { + "id": "money_216", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it to talk about spending?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", @@ -4701,33 +4697,15 @@ "max_label": "Easy" } }, - { - "id": "money_216", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much would a short money check-in help us?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "check_in", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, { "id": "money_217", "category_id": "money", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we feel like a team with money?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How much would a tiny money win help this week?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "teamwork", + "wins", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -4777,11 +4755,11 @@ "id": "money_220", "category_id": "money", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clear are our shared money goals?", + "text": "How clear are our shared money dreams?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "goals", + "dreams", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -5065,6 +5043,31 @@ "id": "money_236", "category_id": "money", "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Date fund or dream jar?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "fun", + "saving", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "date_fund", + "text": "Date fund" + }, + { + "id": "dream_jar", + "text": "Dream jar" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_237", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Save more or spend smarter?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", @@ -5086,50 +5089,26 @@ ] } }, - { - "id": "money_237", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Short money talk or written check-in?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "check_in", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "short_talk", - "text": "Short money talk" - }, - { - "id": "written_check_in", - "text": "Written check-in" - } - ] - } - }, { "id": "money_238", "category_id": "money", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Fun money or goal money?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Budget talk or budget date?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "balance", + "budget", "money" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "fun_money", - "text": "Fun money" + "id": "budget_talk", + "text": "Budget talk" }, { - "id": "goal_money", - "text": "Goal money" + "id": "budget_date", + "text": "Budget date" } ] } @@ -5138,22 +5117,22 @@ "id": "money_239", "category_id": "money", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Talk before spending or set a limit first?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Emergency fund or vacation fund?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "spending", + "goals", "money" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "talk_before", - "text": "Talk before spending" + "id": "emergency_fund", + "text": "Emergency fund" }, { - "id": "set_limit", - "text": "Set a limit first" + "id": "vacation_fund", + "text": "Vacation fund" } ] } @@ -5235,30 +5214,6 @@ "id": "money_243", "category_id": "money", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Budget date or budget text?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "budget", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "budget_date", - "text": "Budget date" - }, - { - "id": "budget_text", - "text": "Budget text" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_244", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "this_or_that", "text": "More structure or more flexibility?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", @@ -5280,7 +5235,7 @@ } }, { - "id": "money_245", + "id": "money_244", "category_id": "money", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Facts first or feelings first?", @@ -5304,31 +5259,7 @@ } }, { - "id": "money_246", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Emergency fund or vacation fund?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "goals", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "emergency_fund", - "text": "Emergency fund" - }, - { - "id": "vacation_fund", - "text": "Vacation fund" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_247", + "id": "money_245", "category_id": "money", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Weekly check-in or monthly reset?", @@ -5352,7 +5283,7 @@ } }, { - "id": "money_248", + "id": "money_246", "category_id": "money", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Cut expenses or increase income?", @@ -5376,7 +5307,7 @@ } }, { - "id": "money_249", + "id": "money_247", "category_id": "money", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Plan together or divide tasks?", @@ -5400,7 +5331,7 @@ } }, { - "id": "money_250", + "id": "money_248", "category_id": "money", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Celebrate a win or fix a leak?", @@ -5422,6 +5353,56 @@ } ] } + }, + { + "id": "money_249", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Tiny treat or big goal?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "treats", + "goals", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_treat", + "text": "Tiny treat" + }, + { + "id": "big_goal", + "text": "Big goal" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_250", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Dream out loud or look at numbers?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "dreams", + "numbers", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "dream_out_loud", + "text": "Dream out loud" + }, + { + "id": "look_at_numbers", + "text": "Look at numbers" + } + ] + } } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/rebuilding_trust.json b/seed/questions/rebuilding_trust.json index 19b240a2..4e239fc9 100644 --- a/seed/questions/rebuilding_trust.json +++ b/seed/questions/rebuilding_trust.json @@ -2,15972 +2,5428 @@ "category": { "id": "rebuilding_trust", "display_name": "Rebuilding Trust", - "description": "Questions for carefully rebuilding trust through consistency, accountability, transparency, patience, safety, and clear agreements.", - "access": "premium", - "total_questions": 750, - "free_questions": 225, - "premium_questions": 525, - "question_type_counts": { - "written": 450, - "single_choice": 120, - "multi_choice": 60, - "scale": 75, - "this_or_that": 45 - }, + "description": "Gentle, practical questions that help couples rebuild trust through honesty, consistency, reassurance, boundaries, accountability, patience, and follow-through.", + "access": "mixed", + "icon_name": "verified_user", "schema_version": "question_v2", - "supported_types": [ - "written", - "single_choice", - "multi_choice", - "scale", - "this_or_that" - ] + "metadata": { + "total_questions": 250, + "free_questions": 75, + "premium_questions": 175, + "type_counts": { + "written": 150, + "single_choice": 40, + "multi_choice": 20, + "scale": 25, + "this_or_that": 15 + } + } }, "questions": [ { "id": "rebuilding_trust_001", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help honesty after hurt feel more real and less performative between us?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you feel a little safer with me today?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty", - "repair" + "safety", + "today", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_002", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help consistent actions feel more real and less performative between us?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one small action that helps rebuild trust for you?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "consistency", - "trust" + "small_actions", + "trust", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_003", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help transparency feel more real and less performative between us?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What kind of reassurance feels most helpful right now?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "transparency", - "safety" + "reassurance", + "support", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_004", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help emotional safety feel more real and less performative between us?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps honesty feel less scary between us?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "emotional_safety", - "trust" + "honesty", + "safety", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_005", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help accountability feel more real and less performative between us?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What does consistency look like in small daily ways?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "accountability", - "repair" + "consistency", + "daily_life", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_006", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help remorse feel more real and less performative between us?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one promise that would feel meaningful if we kept it well?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "remorse", - "healing" + "promises", + "follow_through", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_007", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help boundaries after rupture feel more real and less performative between us?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you believe change is actually happening?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "trust" + "change", + "trust", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_008", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help reassurance feel more real and less performative between us?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What makes an apology feel trustworthy to you?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "reassurance", - "safety" + "apology", + "trust", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_009", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - 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"min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_024", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help hope feel more real and less performative between us?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one small sign that things are getting better?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "progress", "hope", - "future" + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_025", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help choosing repair feel more real and less performative between us?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you feel hopeful without feeling pressured to be okay?", + "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", - "commitment" + "hope", + "pressure", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_026", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help daily reliability feel more real and less performative between us?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps you feel safe asking questions?", + "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "reliability", - "trust" + "questions", + "safety", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_027", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help financial honesty feel more real and less performative between us?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you feel safe answering questions honestly?", + "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "financial_honesty", - "money" + "honesty", + "questions", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_028", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help digital transparency feel more real and less performative between us?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one thing that makes trust feel fragile?", + "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "digital_transparency", - "privacy" + "fragile_trust", + "awareness", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_029", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help emotional availability feel more real and less performative between us?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one thing that makes trust feel stronger?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "emotional_availability", - "connection" + "stronger_trust", + "progress", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_030", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help forgiveness pressure feel more real and less performative between us?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps you handle a trigger gently?", + "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "forgiveness", - "pace" + "triggers", + "gentleness", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_031", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one specific action that could rebuild honesty after hurt over time?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps me understand when something has triggered you?", + "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty", - "repair" + "triggers", + "understanding", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_032", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one specific action that could rebuild consistent actions over time?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What kind of repair helps after a trust wobble?", + "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "consistency", - "trust" + "repair", + "trust", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_033", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one specific action that could rebuild transparency over time?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us talk about trust without turning it into a fight?", + "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "transparency", - "safety" + "communication", + "conflict", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_034", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one specific action that could rebuild emotional safety over time?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What makes accountability feel safe instead of shameful?", + "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "emotional_safety", - "trust" + "accountability", + "no_shame", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_035", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one specific action that could rebuild accountability over time?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you believe accountability is real?", + "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ "accountability", - "repair" + "follow_through", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_036", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one specific action that could rebuild remorse over time?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What does patience look like while trust is rebuilding?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "remorse", - "healing" + "patience", + "healing", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_037", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one specific action that could rebuild boundaries after rupture over time?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What does kindness look like while trust is rebuilding?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "trust" + "kindness", + "healing", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_038", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one specific action that could rebuild reassurance over time?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What does teamwork look like while trust is rebuilding?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "reassurance", - "safety" + "teamwork", + "healing", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_039", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one specific action that could rebuild patience over time?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us celebrate progress without ignoring pain?", + "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "patience", - "healing" + "progress", + "pain", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_040", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one specific action that could rebuild triggered moments over time?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one thing you need more of to feel emotionally safe?", + "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "triggers", - "support" + "emotional_safety", + "needs", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_041", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one specific action that could rebuild trust timelines over time?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one thing you need less of to feel emotionally safe?", + "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "timelines", - "expectations" + "emotional_safety", + "needs", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_042", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one specific action that could rebuild questions after betrayal over time?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes rebuilding trust feel possible?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "questions", - "clarity" + "possibility", + "hope", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_043", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one specific action that could rebuild privacy after rupture over time?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps you know I am choosing us?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "privacy", - "boundaries" + "choosing_us", + "commitment", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - 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"min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_048", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one specific action that could rebuild feeling believed over time?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "What boundary would make honesty easier to trust?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_believed", - "validation" + "honesty", + "truth", + "boundaries", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_049", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one specific action that could rebuild feeling chosen over time?", + "text": "What small action would support honesty this week?", "depth": 3, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_chosen", - "security" + "honesty", + "truth", + "weekly", + "small_actions", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_050", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one specific action that could rebuild relationship agreements over time?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about honesty?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "agreements", - "boundaries" + "honesty", + "truth", + "understanding", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_051", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one specific action that could rebuild defensiveness over time?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", + "text": "What makes honesty feel like teamwork instead of pressure?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "defensiveness", - "repair" + "honesty", + "truth", + "teamwork", + "pressure", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - 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"type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary that would protect consistent actions while we rebuild?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which small action matters most right now?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "consistency", - "trust" + "small_actions", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "options": [ + { + "id": "check_in", + "text": "Check in" + }, + { + "id": "follow_through", + "text": "Follow through" + }, + { + "id": "listen", + "text": "Listen" + }, + { + "id": "give_time", + "text": "Give time" + } + ] } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_153", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary that would protect transparency while we rebuild?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of reassurance helps most?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "transparency", - "safety" + "reassurance", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "options": [ + { + "id": "words", + "text": "Words" + }, + { + "id": "actions", + "text": "Actions" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "transparency", + "text": "Transparency" + } + ] } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_154", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary that would protect emotional safety while we rebuild?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes an apology stronger?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "emotional_safety", - "trust" + "apology", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific", + "text": "Specific" + }, + { + "id": "accountable", + "text": "Accountable" + }, + { + "id": "gentle", + "text": "Gentle" + }, + { + "id": "changed_action", + "text": "Changed action" + } + ] } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_155", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary that would protect accountability while we rebuild?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps when trust feels shaky?", + "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "accountability", - "repair" + "fragile_trust", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "options": [ + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "talk_gently", + "text": "Talk gently" + }, + { + "id": "reassure", + "text": "Reassure" + }, + { + "id": "follow_through", + "text": "Follow through" + } + ] } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_156", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary that would protect remorse while we rebuild?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps you ask a hard question?", + "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "remorse", - "healing" + "questions", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "soft_tone", + "text": "Soft tone" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "no_defense", + "text": "No defense" + } + ] } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_157", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary that would protect boundaries after rupture while we rebuild?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps you answer a hard question?", + "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "trust" + "questions", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_shame", + "text": "No shame" + }, + { + "id": "time", + "text": "Time" + }, + { + "id": "kind_tone", + "text": "Kind tone" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + } + ] } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_158", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - 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"min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "options": [ + { + "id": "consistency", + "text": "Consistency" + }, + { + "id": "time", + "text": "Time" + }, + { + "id": "changed_behavior", + "text": "Changed behavior" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + } + ] } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_160", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary that would protect triggered moments while we rebuild?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps after a trigger?", + "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ "triggers", - "support" + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "options": [ + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + }, + { + "id": "space", + "text": "Space" + }, + { + "id": "listen", + "text": "Listen" + }, + { + "id": "reassure", + "text": "Reassure" + } + ] } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_161", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - 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"min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "options": [ + { + "id": "daily_actions", + "text": "Daily actions" + }, + { + "id": "truth", + "text": "Truth" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "repair", + "text": "Repair" + } + ] } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_163", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary that would protect privacy after rupture while we rebuild?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps you feel emotionally safe?", + "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "privacy", - "boundaries" + "emotional_safety", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "options": [ + { + "id": "kind_words", + "text": "Kind words" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "listening", + "text": "Listening" + }, + { + "id": "consistent_actions", + "text": "Consistent actions" + } + ] } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_164", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - 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"min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "options": [ + { + "id": "next_step", + "text": "Next step" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "thanks", + "text": "Thank you" + }, + { + "id": "space", + "text": "Space" + } + ] } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_166", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary that would protect trust deposits while we rebuild?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which part of trust needs the most care?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trust_deposits", - "consistency" + "trust", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "options": [ + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "consistency", + "text": "Consistency" + }, + { + "id": "emotional_safety", + "text": "Emotional safety" + }, + { + "id": "follow_through", + "text": "Follow-through" + } + ] } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_167", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - 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"min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "options": [ + { + "id": "piling_on", + "text": "Piling on" + }, + { + "id": "labels", + "text": "Labels" + }, + { + "id": "no_path_forward", + "text": "No path forward" + }, + { + "id": "harsh_tone", + "text": "Harsh tone" + } + ] } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_184", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you need me to understand about emotional safety right now?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps us respond to triggers together?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emotional_safety", - "trust" + "triggers", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_it", + "text": "Name it" + }, + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + }, + { + "id": "ask_what_helps", + "text": "Ask what helps" + } + ] } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_185", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - 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"min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "options": [ + { + "id": "too_long", + "text": "Too long" + }, + { + "id": "too_often", + "text": "Too often" + }, + { + "id": "too_intense", + "text": "Too intense" + }, + { + "id": "too_accusing", + "text": "Too accusing" + } + ] } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_187", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you need me to understand about boundaries after rupture right now?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps with trust around phones?", "depth": 5, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "trust" + "phones", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "options": [ + { + "id": "healthy_transparency", + "text": "Healthy transparency" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "clear_boundaries", + "text": "Clear boundaries" + }, + { + "id": "no_snooping", + "text": "No snooping" + } + ] } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_188", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - 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"access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "commitment" + "teamwork", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "options": [ + { + "id": "shared_agreements", + "text": "Shared agreements" + }, + { + "id": "both_listen", + "text": "Both listen" + }, + { + "id": "both_follow_through", + "text": "Both follow through" + }, + { + "id": "both_care", + "text": "Both care" + }, + { + "id": "no_blame_game", + "text": "No blame game" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_206", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you need me to understand about daily reliability right now?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What protects trust during conflict?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "reliability", - "trust" + "conflict", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_threats", + "text": "No threats" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "pause_allowed", + "text": "Pause allowed" + }, + { + "id": "kind_tone", + "text": "Kind tone" + }, + { + "id": "repair_after", + "text": "Repair after" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_207", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you need me to understand about financial honesty right now?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps us notice progress?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "financial_honesty", - "money" + "progress", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_small_wins", + "text": "Name small wins" + }, + { + "id": "track_promises", + "text": "Track promises" + }, + { + "id": "say_thank_you", + "text": "Say thank you" + }, + { + "id": "stay_patient", + "text": "Stay patient" + }, + { + "id": "look_back_monthly", + "text": "Look back monthly" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_208", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you need me to understand about digital transparency right now?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps when one of us needs space?", "depth": 4, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "digital_transparency", - "privacy" + "space", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_time", + "text": "Clear time" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "respect", + "text": "Respect" + }, + { + "id": "come_back", + "text": "Come back" + }, + { + "id": "no_punishing", + "text": "No punishing" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_209", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you need me to understand about emotional availability right now?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a boundary easier to trust?", "depth": 5, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emotional_availability", - "connection" + "boundaries", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_words", + "text": "Clear words" + }, + { + "id": "follow_through", + "text": "Follow-through" + }, + { + "id": "mutual_respect", + "text": "Mutual respect" + }, + { + "id": "not_a_threat", + "text": "Not a threat" + }, + { + "id": "revisit_it", + "text": "Revisit it" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_210", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you need me to understand about forgiveness pressure right now?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps us keep rebuilding when it is hard?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "forgiveness", - "pace" + "perseverance", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "options": [ + { + "id": "remember_why", + "text": "Remember why" + }, + { + "id": "small_steps", + "text": "Small steps" + }, + { + "id": "support", + "text": "Support" + }, + { + "id": "truth", + "text": "Truth" + }, + { + "id": "hope", + "text": "Hope" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_211", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When honesty after hurt feels fragile, what reassurance helps most?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How safe does trust feel between us today?", "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty", - "repair" + "safety", + "today", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_212", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When consistent actions feel fragile, what would help you feel less alone?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much does consistency matter right now?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ "consistency", - "trust" + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_213", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When transparency feels fragile, what small action from me would matter?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it to ask honest questions?", "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "transparency", - "safety" + "questions", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_214", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When emotional safety feels fragile, what support from me would help most?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it to answer honestly?", + "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "emotional_safety", - "trust" + "honesty", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_215", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When accountability feels fragile, what should I do more of?", - "depth": 5, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much would a gentle check-in help us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "accountability", - "repair" + "check_in", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_216", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When remorse feels fragile, what should I avoid doing?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How hopeful do you feel about rebuilding trust?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "remorse", - "healing" + "hope", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not hopeful", + "max_label": "Very hopeful" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_217", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When boundaries after rupture feel fragile, what reassurance helps most?", - "depth": 5, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much do small actions matter right now?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "trust" + "small_actions", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_218", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When reassurance feels fragile, what would help you feel less alone?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much pressure do you feel to be okay quickly?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "reassurance", - "safety" + "pressure", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "None", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_219", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When patience feels fragile, what small action from me would matter?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How respected does your pace feel?", "depth": 5, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "patience", - "healing" + "pace", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not respected", + "max_label": "Very respected" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_220", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When triggered moments feel fragile, what support from me would help most?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How healthy does transparency feel between us?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "triggers", - "support" + "transparency", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not healthy", + "max_label": "Very healthy" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_221", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When trust timelines feel fragile, what should I do more of?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How safe does privacy feel between us?", "depth": 5, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "timelines", - "expectations" + "privacy", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_222", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When questions after betrayal feel fragile, what should I avoid doing?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much do triggers affect trust right now?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "questions", - "clarity" + "triggers", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_223", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When privacy after rupture feels fragile, what reassurance helps most?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it to talk about the past?", "depth": 5, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "privacy", - "boundaries" + "past", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_224", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When checking in feels fragile, what would help you feel less alone?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How believable does follow-through feel lately?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "check_ins", - "repair" + "follow_through", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not believable", + "max_label": "Very believable" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_225", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When making amends feels fragile, what small action from me would matter?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How real does accountability feel?", "depth": 5, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "amends", - "accountability" + "accountability", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not real", + "max_label": "Very real" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_226", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When trust deposits feel fragile, what support from me would help most?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How emotionally safe do you feel right now?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trust_deposits", - "consistency" + "emotional_safety", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_227", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When broken promises feel fragile, what should I do more of?", - "depth": 5, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How often do we notice progress?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "promises", - "repair" + "progress", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Rarely", + "max_label": "Often" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_228", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When feeling believed feels fragile, what should I avoid doing?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How well do we handle setbacks?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_believed", - "validation" + "setbacks", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_229", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When feeling chosen feels fragile, what reassurance helps most?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much patience do we give the healing process?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_chosen", - "security" + "patience", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_230", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When relationship agreements feel fragile, what would help you feel less alone?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How safe does it feel to name hurt?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "agreements", - "boundaries" + "hurt", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_231", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When defensiveness feels fragile, what small action from me would matter?", - "depth": 5, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How safe does it feel to offer reassurance?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "defensiveness", - "repair" + "reassurance", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_232", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When shame feels fragile, what support from me would help most?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much does trust affect closeness right now?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "shame", - "healing" + "closeness", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_233", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When fear feels fragile, what should I do more of?", - "depth": 5, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How well do we keep small promises?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fear", - "safety" + "promises", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_234", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When hope feels fragile, what should I avoid doing?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much would one clear agreement help us?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hope", - "future" + "agreements", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_235", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "When choosing repair feels fragile, what reassurance helps most?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How protected does our rebuilding process feel?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "commitment" + "protection", + "rebuilding_trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not protected", + "max_label": "Very protected" } }, { "id": "rebuilding_trust_236", "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - 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"text": "Accountability" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_552", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When trust feels shaky, what helps most first when one of us feels unsure?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "safety", - "support" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "transparency", - "text": "Transparency" - }, - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - }, - { - "id": "a_clear_plan", - "text": "A clear plan" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_553", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes repair feel rushed when one of us feels unsure?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pace", - "repair" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pressure_to_forgive", - "text": "Pressure to forgive" - }, - { - "id": "avoiding_details", - "text": "Avoiding details" - }, - { - "id": "defensiveness", - 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"text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_724", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For progress, which matters more during stress?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "progress", - "trust" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "big_gestures", - "text": "Big gestures" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_725", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For repair pace, which feels safer during stress?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pace", - "repair" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_and_steady", - "text": "Slow and steady" - }, - { - "id": "structured_timeline", - "text": "Structured timeline" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_726", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When rebuilding trust, which matters more first after a hard moment?", - 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"text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "big_gestures", - "text": "Big gestures" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_740", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For repair pace, which feels safer in daily life?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pace", - "repair" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_and_steady", - "text": "Slow and steady" - }, - { - "id": "structured_timeline", - "text": "Structured timeline" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_741", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When rebuilding trust, which matters more first before a serious talk?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "trust", - "priorities" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "safety", - "text": "Safety" - }, - { - "id": "answers", - "text": "Answers" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_742", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For transparency, which feels healthier before a serious talk?", - 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"category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For repair pace, which feels safer before a serious talk?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pace", - "repair" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_and_steady", - "text": "Slow and steady" - }, - { - "id": "structured_timeline", - "text": "Structured timeline" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_746", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When rebuilding trust, which matters more first after a misunderstanding?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "trust", - "priorities" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "safety", - "text": "Safety" - }, - { - "id": "answers", - "text": "Answers" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_747", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For transparency, which feels healthier after a misunderstanding?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "transparency", - "boundaries" - 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"written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 - }, + "icon_name": "favorite_border", "schema_version": "question_v2", - "supported_types": [ - "written", - "single_choice", - "multi_choice", - "scale", - "this_or_that" - ] + "metadata": { + "total_questions": 250, + "free_questions": 75, + "premium_questions": 175, + "type_counts": { + "written": 150, + "single_choice": 40, + "multi_choice": 20, + "scale": 25, + "this_or_that": 15 + } + } }, "questions": [ { "id": "trust_001", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small action from me that helps you trust me more?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one small thing I do that helps you trust me more?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "small_actions", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_002", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "When do you feel most emotionally safe with me?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What makes you feel safe being yourself with me?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "emotional_safety" + "safety", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_003", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one promise I have kept that mattered to you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you believe I am on your side?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "reliability" + "teamwork", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_004", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one promise you want us to take more seriously?", + "text": "What is one promise we keep well?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "reliability" + "promises", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_005", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What does trust look like in our everyday routine?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes our relationship feel steady to you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "security", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_006", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you believe that I am on your side?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What kind of honesty feels easiest between us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "honesty", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_007", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes you feel unsure about where you stand with me?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What kind of honesty would feel easier if we kept it gentle?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "trust" + "honesty", + "vulnerability", + "trust", + "closer_style", + "warm", + "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_008", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing I do that makes me feel dependable to you?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps you feel emotionally safe with me?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "reliability" + "emotional_safety", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_009", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing I could do more consistently?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes you feel chosen by me?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "reliability" + "chosen", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_010", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What does honesty feel like when it is handled well?", + "text": "What makes you feel respected by me?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty" + "respect", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_011", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What does honesty feel like when it is handled poorly?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps you trust my intentions?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty" + "intentions", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_012", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What topic do you want us to be more transparent about?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps you feel calm when we see something differently?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty" + "differences", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_013", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way I can make hard truths easier to share?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one thing we do that builds trust quietly?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty" + "habits", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_014", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way you can make hard truths easier for me to share?", + "text": "What makes you feel like you can count on me?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty" + "dependability", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_015", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes you feel protected in this relationship?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one way I can show up for you this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "weekly", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_016", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes you feel exposed or unprotected?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps you feel secure when life gets stressful?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "stress", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_017", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary that helps you trust me more?", + "text": "What kind of reassurance makes you feel loved?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "trust", - "boundaries" + "reassurance", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_018", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary you wish we talked about more clearly?", + "text": "What helps you trust that I will listen?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "boundaries" + "listening", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_019", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one area where you need more reassurance from me?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps you trust that I will tell you the truth kindly?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - 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"text": "What is one behavior that makes you tense around me?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one boundary that protects trust between us?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "boundaries", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_023", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing I do that shows loyalty to you?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one habit that makes us feel more secure?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "loyalty" + "habits", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_024", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What does loyalty mean to you in small daily moments?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps you feel safe sharing a worry?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "loyalty" + "worry", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_025", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What does loyalty mean to you when we are around other people?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps you feel safe sharing good news?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "loyalty" + "joy", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_026", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What does loyalty mean to you online?", + "text": "What kind of check-in feels caring to you?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "loyalty", - "digital_boundaries" + "check_in", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_027", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one social media boundary that would help us feel secure?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one way we can make trust feel more fun and natural?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "security", - "digital_boundaries" + "fun_first", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_028", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one phone or privacy boundary that feels healthy to you?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one trust-building thing we could turn into a ritual?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "privacy", - "digital_boundaries" + "rituals", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_029", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one kind of privacy you need in a relationship?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes you proud of the trust we already have?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - 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"text": "When I feel jealous, what would help you feel less alone?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes you feel like home to me?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "jealousy" + "home", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_033", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one fear that makes trust harder for you?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes me feel like home to you?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "home", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_034", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one past experience that shaped how you trust people?", + "text": "What helps you trust me with your softer feelings?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "vulnerability", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_035", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing from your past you want me to understand gently?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps you trust me with your hopes?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "hopes", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_036", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "When do you feel like I take your feelings seriously?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps you feel safe handing me one of your worries?", + "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "trust" + "fears", + "trust", + "closer_style", + "warm", + "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_037", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "When do you feel like I dismiss your concerns?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one way we can protect trust during busy seasons?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "busy_life", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_038", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one concern you want me to respond to with more care?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one thing that makes trust feel easy between us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "ease", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_039", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes an apology feel trustworthy to you?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one small thing that could make trust feel easier this week?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "awareness", "trust", - 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"text": "What does accountability look like from you?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What makes follow-through feel loving to you?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "follow_through", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_043", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one mistake we repaired well?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one little thing that says, 'I've got you'?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair" + "support", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_044", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What helped us repair that mistake?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make trust feel even stronger this month?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair" + "monthly", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - 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"depth": 3, - "access": "free", + "text": "What boundary helps protect daily honesty in a healthy way?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "honesty", + "boundaries", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_050", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing I should never hide from you?", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about daily honesty?", "depth": 4, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "honesty" + "honesty", + "understanding", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_051", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you should never hide from me?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", + "text": "What makes daily honesty feel warm instead of tense?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - 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"min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_096", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What does respect look like when we are with family?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "How could we make hard conversations feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family" + "communication", + "teamwork", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_097", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we can protect our relationship in public?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What small action would strengthen hard conversations this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "communication", + "weekly", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_098", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - 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"min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_103", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one check-in that would feel controlling?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "How could we make time apart feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "time_away", + "teamwork", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_104", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one trust habit we should start?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What small action would strengthen time apart this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "time_away", + "weekly", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_105", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one trust habit we should stop?", - 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"honesty" + "decisions", + "care", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_130", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of honesty feels careless to you?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes keeping private things private feel safe and easy between us?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "honesty" + "confidentiality", + "safety", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_131", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one truth you want us to speak with more kindness?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "How could we make keeping private things private feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "honesty" + "confidentiality", + "teamwork", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_132", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one truth you want us to speak with more courage?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What small action would strengthen keeping private things private this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "honesty" + "confidentiality", + "weekly", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_133", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you trust that I will not leave when things are hard?", + "text": "What boundary helps protect keeping private things private in a healthy way?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "confidentiality", + "boundaries", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_134", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you trust that I will not punish you for honesty?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes it feel good when we protect each other's private things?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "confidentiality", + "understanding", "trust", - "honesty" + "closer_style", + "warm", + "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_135", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you trust that I will not use your vulnerability against you?", + "text": "What makes keeping private things private feel warm instead of tense?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trust", - "emotional_safety" + "confidentiality", + "warmth", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_136", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we can protect each other's dignity during conflict?", + "text": "What would help us handle keeping private things private with more care?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "conflict" + "confidentiality", + "care", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_137", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we can protect each other's secrets responsibly?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What makes reassurance feel safe and easy between us?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "privacy" + "reassurance", + "safety", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_138", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one confidence you want me to handle carefully?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "How could we make reassurance feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "reassurance", + "teamwork", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_139", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What does it mean to be a safe person for you?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What small action would strengthen reassurance this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emotional_safety" + "reassurance", + "weekly", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_140", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What does it mean to be a reliable partner for you?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What boundary helps protect reassurance in a healthy way?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "reliability" + "reassurance", + "boundaries", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_141", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What does it mean to be emotionally available for you?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What do you wish I understood about reassurance?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "reassurance", + "understanding", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_142", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What does it mean to be loyal when no one is watching?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What makes reassurance feel warm instead of tense?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "loyalty" + "reassurance", + "warmth", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_143", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What does it mean to be trustworthy with small things?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would help us handle reassurance with more care?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "reassurance", + "care", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_144", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What small thing could we both do daily to build trust?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes stressful seasons feel safe and easy between us?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "stress", + "safety", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_145", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one trust lesson you learned the hard way?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we make stressful seasons feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "stress", + "teamwork", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_146", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one trust lesson you want our relationship to practice?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What small action would strengthen stressful seasons this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "stress", + "weekly", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_147", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one assumption about trust that you want to unlearn?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What boundary helps protect stressful seasons in a healthy way?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "stress", + "boundaries", "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_148", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one belief about trust that you want us to build together?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps you feel like I am still beside you in stressful seasons?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trust" + "stress", + "understanding", + "trust", + "closer_style", + "warm", + "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_149", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make our relationship feel more secure six months from now?", + "text": "What makes stressful seasons feel warm instead of tense?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "security" + "stress", + "warmth", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_150", "category_id": "trust", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make our relationship feel more honest one year from now?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What would help us handle stressful seasons with more care?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "honesty" + "stress", + "care", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "trust_151", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel trust most quickly after a misunderstanding?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What builds trust fastest for you?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - 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"vulnerability", - "safety" + "assumptions", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "warm_tone", - "text": "Warm tone" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "track_record", + "text": "Track record" + }, + { + "id": "kind_words", + "text": "Kind words" + }, + { + "id": "clear_info", + "text": "Clear info" + }, + { + "id": "calm_body", + "text": "Calm body" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_164", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which answer fits best here: quality time or public respect?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes you feel like I have your back?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "loyalty", - "connection" + "support", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "quality_time", - "text": "Quality time" - }, - { - "id": "public_respect", - "text": "Public respect" - }, - { - "id": "private_affection", - "text": "Private affection" - }, - { - "id": "follow_through", - "text": "Follow-through" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "defending_us", + "text": "Defending us" + }, + { + "id": "checking_on_me", + "text": "Checking on me" + }, + { + "id": "helping_first", + "text": "Helping first" + }, + { + "id": "listening", + "text": "Listening" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_165", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel less secure?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What should we protect most?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "security", - "concern" + "protection", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "distance", - "text": "Distance" - }, - { - "id": "vague_answers", - "text": "Vague answers" - }, - { - "id": "broken_plans", - "text": "Broken plans" - }, - { - "id": "lack_of_affection", - "text": "Lack of affection" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "follow_through", + "text": "Follow-through" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_166", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you want after conflict?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Which part of trust needs the most attention?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "conflict", - "repair" + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "space_first", - "text": "Space first" - }, - { - "id": "comfort_first", - "text": "Comfort first" - }, - { - "id": "talk_it_through", - "text": "Talk it through" - }, - { - "id": "simple_repair", - "text": "Simple repair" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "follow_through", + "text": "Follow-through" + }, + { + "id": "emotional_safety", + "text": "Emotional safety" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_167", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which behavior builds trust fastest?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes phone habits feel trustworthy?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "reliability", - "accountability" + "phones", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "keeping_promises", - "text": "Keeping promises" - }, - { - "id": "admitting_mistakes", - "text": "Admitting mistakes" - }, - { - "id": "checking_in", - "text": "Checking in" - }, - { - "id": "being_patient", - "text": "Being patient" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "presence", + "text": "Presence" + }, + { + "id": "healthy_privacy", + "text": "Healthy privacy" + }, + { + "id": "clear_boundaries", + "text": "Clear boundaries" + }, + { + "id": "no_hiding", + "text": "No hiding" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_168", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which behavior damages trust fastest?", + "text": "What makes time apart feel secure?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trust_damage", - "patterns" + "time_away", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "dismissing_feelings", - "text": "Dismissing feelings" - }, - { - "id": "hiding_information", - "text": "Hiding information" - }, - { - "id": "defensiveness", - "text": "Defensiveness" - }, - { - "id": "inconsistency", - "text": "Inconsistency" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_plans", + "text": "Clear plans" + }, + { + "id": "check_ins", + "text": "Check-ins" + }, + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_169", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you need when jealousy appears?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes friendships feel respectful to us?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "jealousy", - "security" + "friendships", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "calm_conversation", - "text": "Calm conversation" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "boundaries", + "text": "Boundaries" + }, + { + "id": "openness", + "text": "Openness" + }, + { + "id": "respect", + "text": "Respect" + }, + { + "id": "no_secrecy", + "text": "No secrecy" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_170", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is healthiest for phone privacy?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps uncertainty feel less lonely?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "digital_boundaries", - "privacy" + "uncertainty", + "trust", + "closer_style", + "warm", + "fun_first" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_access_by_choice", - "text": "Shared access by choice" - }, - { - "id": "clear_boundaries", - "text": "Clear boundaries" - }, - { - "id": "no_access", - "text": "No access" - }, - { - "id": "case_by_case", - "text": "Case by case" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "answer_gently", + "text": "Answer gently" + }, + { + "id": "reassure", + "text": "Reassure" + }, + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "show_consistency", + "text": "Show consistency" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_171", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes an answer feel complete?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps a guarded heart feel invited instead of pushed?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "honesty", - "clarity" + "guarded", + "trust", + "closer_style", + "warm", + "fun_first" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "details", - "text": "Details" - }, - { - "id": "tone", - "text": "Tone" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "willingness_to_explain", - "text": "Willingness to explain" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "softness", + "text": "Softness" + }, + { + "id": "space", + "text": "Space" + }, + { + "id": "steady_actions", + "text": "Steady actions" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_172", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you believe changed behavior is real?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What kind of check-in feels caring?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "accountability" + "check_in", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "repeated_actions", - "text": "Repeated actions" - }, - { - "id": "ownership", - "text": "Ownership" - }, - { - "id": "less_defensiveness", - "text": "Less defensiveness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "short", + "text": "Short" + }, + { + "id": "sweet", + "text": "Sweet" + }, + { + "id": "scheduled", + "text": "Scheduled" + }, + { + "id": "as_needed", + "text": "As needed" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_173", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we do when one of us breaks trust in a small way?", + "text": "What kind of decision builds trust?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "small_moments" + "decisions", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_it_quickly", - "text": "Name it quickly" - }, - { - "id": "apologize", - "text": "Apologize" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_plan", - "text": "Make a plan" - }, - { - "id": "pause_and_revisit", - "text": "Pause and revisit" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_first", + "text": "Talk first" + }, + { + "id": "include_me", + "text": "Include me" + }, + { + "id": "explain_why", + "text": "Explain why" + }, + { + "id": "choose_us", + "text": "Choose us" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_174", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of loyalty matters most day to day?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What kind of private thing should always feel safe between us?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "loyalty", - "daily_life" + "secrecy", + "trust", + "closer_style", + "warm", + "fun_first" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "defending_each_other", - "text": "Defending each other" - }, - { - "id": "being_honest", - "text": "Being honest" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_confidences", - "text": "Keeping confidences" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_us_first", - "text": "Choosing us first" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_affects_us", + "text": "It affects us" + }, + { + "id": "it_creates_distance", + "text": "It creates distance" + }, + { + "id": "it_breaks_an_agreement", + "text": "It breaks an agreement" + }, + { + "id": "it_hides_risk", + "text": "It hides risk" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_175", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is hardest for you to trust?", + "text": "What kind of privacy feels healthy?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trust_style", - "security" + "privacy", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "words", - "text": "Words" - }, - { - "id": "intentions", - "text": "Intentions" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_safety", - "text": "Emotional safety" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "personal_space", + "text": "Personal space" + }, + { + "id": "private_thoughts", + "text": "Private thoughts" + }, + { + "id": "trusted_independence", + "text": "Trusted independence" + }, + { + "id": "clear_boundaries", + "text": "Clear boundaries" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_176", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you rebuild trust after disappointment?", + "text": "What makes follow-through feel real?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "disappointment", - "repair" + "follow_through", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "understanding_why", - "text": "Understanding why" - }, - { - "id": "specific_change", - "text": "Specific change" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "same_day", + "text": "Same day" + }, + { + "id": "consistent", + "text": "Consistent" + }, + { + "id": "without_reminders", + "text": "Without reminders" + }, + { + "id": "acknowledged", + "text": "Acknowledged" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_177", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What does dependability mostly mean to you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What kind of reassurance feels sweet instead of too much?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "dependability", - "reliability" + "reassurance", + "trust", + "closer_style", + "warm", + "fun_first" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "showing_up", - "text": "Showing up" - }, - { - "id": "following_through", - "text": "Following through" - }, - { - "id": "being_honest", - "text": "Being honest" - }, - { - "id": "staying_calm", - "text": "Staying calm" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "constant", + "text": "Constant" + }, + { + "id": "forced", + "text": "Forced" + }, + { + "id": "defensive", + "text": "Defensive" + }, + { + "id": "scripted", + "text": "Scripted" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_178", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you need more of to feel secure?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes being vulnerable feel safer?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "security", - "needs" + "vulnerability", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "clarity", - "text": "Clarity" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "quality_time", - "text": "Quality time" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_judgment", + "text": "No judgment" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_words", + "text": "Gentle words" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_179", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you trust a difficult conversation?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps old worries settle down faster?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hard_topics", - "safety" + "worries", + "trust", + "closer_style", + "warm", + "fun_first" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "calm_start", - "text": "Calm start" - }, - { - "id": "no_blame", - "text": "No blame" - }, - { - "id": "clear_goal", - "text": "Clear goal" - }, - { - "id": "kind_ending", - "text": "Kind ending" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_it", + "text": "Name it" + }, + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + }, + { + "id": "check_facts", + "text": "Check facts" + }, + { + "id": "ask_gently", + "text": "Ask gently" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_180", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When I make a mistake, what should I do first?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes trust feel mutual?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "accountability", - "repair" + "mutual", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "own_it", - "text": "Own it" - }, - { - "id": "apologize", - "text": "Apologize" - }, - { - "id": "explain", - "text": "Explain" - }, - { - "id": "ask_what_you_need", - "text": "Ask what you need" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_share", + "text": "Both share" + }, + { + "id": "both_listen", + "text": "Both listen" + }, + { + "id": "both_show_up", + "text": "Both show up" + }, + { + "id": "both_respect_space", + "text": "Both respect space" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_181", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which promise matters most?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps us handle outside pressure?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "promises", + "outside_pressure", "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "tell_the_truth", - "text": "Tell the truth" - }, - { - "id": "respect_boundaries", - "text": "Respect boundaries" - }, - { - "id": "follow_through", - "text": "Follow through" - }, - { - "id": "protect_privacy", - "text": "Protect privacy" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "private_agreement", + "text": "Private agreement" + }, + { + "id": "choose_us", + "text": "Choose us" + }, + { + "id": "clear_boundary", + "text": "Clear boundary" + }, + { + "id": "talk_after", + "text": "Talk after" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_182", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you trust my intentions?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes commitment feel visible?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "intentions", + "commitment", "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "my_tone", - "text": "My tone" - }, - { - "id": "my_actions", - "text": "My actions" - }, - { - "id": "my_explanation", - "text": "My explanation" - }, - { - "id": "my_consistency", - "text": "My consistency" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "planning", + "text": "Planning" + }, + { + "id": "showing_up", + "text": "Showing up" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_us", + "text": "Choosing us" + }, + { + "id": "protecting_time", + "text": "Protecting time" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_183", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you doubt my intentions?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps if trust feels routine instead of special?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "doubt", - "intentions" + "fun_first", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "defensiveness", - "text": "Defensiveness" - }, - { - "id": "secrecy", - "text": "Secrecy" - }, - { - "id": "timing", - "text": "Timing" - }, - { - "id": "past_patterns", - "text": "Past patterns" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "notice_it", + "text": "Notice it" + }, + { + "id": "thank_each_other", + "text": "Thank each other" + }, + { + "id": "make_a_ritual", + "text": "Make a ritual" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_surprise", + "text": "Sweet surprise" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_184", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should trust feel like in our relationship?", + "text": "What kind of trust ritual sounds best?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trust_vision", - "security" + "rituals", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "safe", - "text": "Safe" - }, - { - "id": "steady", - "text": "Steady" - }, - { - "id": "free", - "text": "Free" - }, - { - "id": "honest", - "text": "Honest" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "daily_check_in", + "text": "Daily check-in" + }, + { + "id": "goodnight_truth", + "text": "Goodnight truth" + }, + { + "id": "weekly_us_time", + "text": "Weekly us time" + }, + { + "id": "small_promise", + "text": "Small promise" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_185", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you value more during conflict?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes honesty feel loving?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "conflict", - "values" + "honesty", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "full_honesty", - "text": "Full honesty" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_delivery", - "text": "Gentle delivery" - }, - { - "id": "accountability", - "text": "Accountability" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kind_tone", + "text": "Kind tone" + }, + { + "id": "right_timing", + "text": "Right timing" + }, + { + "id": "clear_words", + "text": "Clear words" + }, + { + "id": "care_after", + "text": "Care after" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_186", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you trust me when we are apart?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes honesty feel harsh?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "apart", - "loyalty" + "honesty", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "communication", - "text": "Communication" - }, - { - "id": "boundaries", - "text": "Boundaries" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "confidence_in_us", - "text": "Confidence in us" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "bad_timing", + "text": "Bad timing" + }, + { + "id": "sharp_tone", + "text": "Sharp tone" + }, + { + "id": "too_blunt", + "text": "Too blunt" + }, + { + "id": "no_care_after", + "text": "No care after" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_187", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should be our default when we are unsure?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us talk about trust without making it heavy?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "uncertainty", - "communication" + "communication", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_directly", - "text": "Ask directly" - }, - { - "id": "assume_good_intent", - "text": "Assume good intent" - }, - { - "id": "pause_first", - "text": "Pause first" - }, - { - "id": "clarify_later", - "text": "Clarify later" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "short_talk", + "text": "Short talk" + }, + { + "id": "soft_words", + "text": "Soft words" + }, + { + "id": "one_question", + "text": "One question" + }, + { + "id": "end_warmly", + "text": "End warmly" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_188", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes repair feel complete?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes trust feel playful?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "completion" + "play", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "apology", - "text": "Apology" - }, - { - "id": "understanding", - "text": "Understanding" - }, - { - "id": "changed_action", - "text": "Changed action" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "inside_jokes", + "text": "Inside jokes" + }, + { + "id": "secret_handshake", + "text": "Secret handshake" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_bets", + "text": "Sweet bets" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_promises", + "text": "Tiny promises" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_189", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is your strongest trust need right now?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes it feel safe to show each other our softer side?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "needs", - "security" + "softness", + "trust", + "closer_style", + "warm", + "fun_first" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_safety", - "text": "Emotional safety" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "gentleness", + "text": "Gentleness" + }, + { + "id": "no_teasing", + "text": "No teasing" + }, + { + "id": "careful_words", + "text": "Careful words" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_190", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we protect most to keep trust strong?", + "text": "What would make trust feel stronger next month?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "protection", + "monthly", "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "follow_through", - "text": "Follow-through" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_consistency", + "text": "More consistency" + }, + { + "id": "more_honesty", + "text": "More honesty" + }, + { + "id": "more_reassurance", + "text": "More reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "more_quality_time", + "text": "More quality time" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_191", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which actions help you feel safe with me? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What builds everyday trust for you?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "safety", - "actions" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "listening_without_interrupting", - "text": "Listening without interrupting" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_promises", - "text": "Keeping promises" - }, - { - "id": "checking_in", - "text": "Checking in" - }, - { - "id": "respecting_boundaries", - "text": "Respecting boundaries" - }, - { - "id": "staying_calm", - "text": "Staying calm" - } + "daily_life", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "follow_through", + "text": "Follow-through" + }, + { + "id": "quality_time", + "text": "Quality time" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "trust_192", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things make trust harder for you? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes you feel secure in us?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "trust_barriers", - "patterns" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "inconsistency", - "text": "Inconsistency" - }, - { - "id": "vague_answers", - "text": "Vague answers" - }, - { - "id": "defensiveness", - "text": "Defensiveness" - }, - { - "id": "broken_plans", - "text": "Broken plans" - }, - { - "id": "dismissed_feelings", - "text": "Dismissed feelings" - } + "security", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "consistency", + "text": "Consistency" + }, + { + "id": "clear_plans", + "text": "Clear plans" + }, + { + "id": "affection", + "text": "Affection" + }, + { + "id": "teamwork", + "text": "Teamwork" + }, + { + "id": "privacy_respected", + "text": "Privacy respected" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "trust_193", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which forms of honesty matter most to you? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps trust feel lighter and more fun?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty", - "values" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "emotional_honesty", - "text": "Emotional honesty" - }, - { - "id": "practical_honesty", - "text": "Practical honesty" - }, - { - "id": "financial_honesty", - "text": "Financial honesty" - }, - { - "id": "social_honesty", - "text": "Social honesty" - }, - { - "id": "honesty_about_needs", - "text": "Honesty about needs" - } + "fun_first", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "small_rituals", + "text": "Small rituals" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_surprises", + "text": "Sweet surprises" + }, + { + "id": "inside_jokes", + "text": "Inside jokes" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_promises", + "text": "Tiny promises" + }, + { + "id": "celebrating_us", + "text": "Celebrating us" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "trust_194", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which boundaries should couples discuss clearly? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps during uncertainty?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "clarity" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "phones", - "text": "Phones" - }, - { - "id": "friends", - "text": "Friends" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "private_time", - "text": "Private time" - } + "uncertainty", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gentle_questions", + "text": "Gentle questions" + }, + { + "id": "clear_answers", + "text": "Clear answers" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + }, + { + "id": "time", + "text": "Time" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "trust_195", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things help repair trust after conflict? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What should we protect between us?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", - "conflict" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "apology", - "text": "Apology" - }, - { - "id": "accountability", - "text": "Accountability" - }, - { - "id": "changed_behavior", - "text": "Changed behavior" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - } + "protection", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "follow_through", + "text": "Follow-through" + }, + { + "id": "soft_feelings", + "text": "Soft feelings" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "trust_196", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which behaviors feel loyal to you? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes openness feel warm and easy?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "loyalty", - "respect" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "defending_me_respectfully", - "text": "Defending me respectfully" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_confidences", - "text": "Keeping confidences" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_us_in_public", - "text": "Choosing us in public" - }, - { - "id": "being_honest_when_apart", - "text": "Being honest when apart" - }, - { - "id": "respecting_our_agreements", - "text": "Respecting our agreements" - } + "transparency", + "trust", + "closer_style", + "warm", + "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_context", + "text": "Clear context" + }, + { + "id": "respect_privacy", + "text": "Respect privacy" + }, + { + "id": "answer_questions", + "text": "Answer questions" + }, + { + "id": "no_monitoring", + "text": "No monitoring" + }, + { + "id": "shared_agreements", + "text": "Shared agreements" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "trust_197", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which areas need more trust-building right now? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes privacy feel safe?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "needs", - "growth" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "communication", - "text": "Communication" - }, - { - "id": "follow_through", - "text": "Follow-through" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_safety", - "text": "Emotional safety" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair", - "text": "Conflict repair" - } + "privacy", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_boundaries", + "text": "Clear boundaries" + }, + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "no_snooping", + "text": "No snooping" + }, + { + "id": "respect", + "text": "Respect" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "trust_198", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things make vulnerability safer? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes honesty easier?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "vulnerability", - "safety" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "warm_tone", - "text": "Warm tone" - }, - { - "id": "no_teasing", - "text": "No teasing" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_questions", - "text": "Gentle questions" - } + "honesty", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_tone", + "text": "Soft tone" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "no_punishment", + "text": "No punishment" + }, + { + "id": "care_after", + "text": "Care after" + }, + { + "id": "clear_words", + "text": "Clear words" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "trust_199", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which actions help you trust changed behavior? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes follow-through easier?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "accountability", - "change" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "repeated_follow_through", - "text": "Repeated follow-through" - }, - { - "id": "clear_plan", - "text": "Clear plan" - }, - { - "id": "ownership", - "text": "Ownership" - }, - { - "id": "no_excuses", - "text": "No excuses" - }, - { - "id": "patience_with_questions", - "text": "Patience with questions" - } + "follow_through", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "small_promises", + "text": "Small promises" + }, + { + "id": "reminders", + "text": "Reminders" + }, + { + "id": "realistic_timing", + "text": "Realistic timing" + }, + { + "id": "team_help", + "text": "Team help" + }, + { + "id": "celebrate_it", + "text": "Celebrate it" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "trust_200", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which kinds of reassurance help most? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps trust during stress?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "reassurance", - "security" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "words", - "text": "Words" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "quality_time", - "text": "Quality time" - }, - { - "id": "transparency", - "text": "Transparency" - } + "stress", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "check_ins", + "text": "Check-ins" + }, + { + "id": "less_assuming", + "text": "Less assuming" + }, + { + "id": "clear_plans", + "text": "Clear plans" + }, + { + "id": "kind_tone", + "text": "Kind tone" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "trust_201", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which privacy boundaries feel healthy? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps trust during time apart?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "privacy", - "boundaries" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "private_journal", - "text": "Private journal" - }, - { - "id": "private_conversations", - "text": "Private conversations" - }, - { - "id": "personal_phone_space", - "text": "Personal phone space" - }, - { - "id": "time_alone", - "text": "Time alone" - }, - { - "id": "surprise_gifts_or_plans", - "text": "Surprise gifts or plans" - } + "time_away", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_plans", + "text": "Clear plans" + }, + { + "id": "quick_check_in", + "text": "Quick check-in" + }, + { + "id": "follow_through", + "text": "Follow-through" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "independence", + "text": "Independence" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "trust_202", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which transparency habits feel healthy? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes shared decisions feel trustworthy?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "transparency", - "habits" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "sharing_plans", - "text": "Sharing plans" - }, - { - "id": "being_honest_about_emotions", - "text": "Being honest about emotions" - }, - { - "id": "owning_mistakes", - "text": "Owning mistakes" - }, - { - "id": "discussing_money", - "text": "Discussing money" - }, - { - "id": "naming_concerns_early", - "text": "Naming concerns early" - } + "decisions", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_first", + "text": "Talk first" + }, + { + "id": "include_each_other", + "text": "Include each other" + }, + { + "id": "explain_context", + "text": "Explain context" + }, + { + "id": "respect_concerns", + "text": "Respect concerns" + }, + { + "id": "choose_us", + "text": "Choose us" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "trust_203", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which conflict habits damage trust? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps trust feel mutual in everyday life?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "conflict", - "damage" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_calling", - "text": "Name-calling" - }, - { - "id": "stonewalling", - "text": "Stonewalling" - }, - { - "id": "threats_to_leave", - "text": "Threats to leave" - }, - { - "id": "bringing_up_old_wounds", - "text": "Bringing up old wounds" - }, - { - "id": "mocking_feelings", - "text": "Mocking feelings" - } + "mutual", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_share", + "text": "Both share" + }, + { + "id": "both_listen", + "text": "Both listen" + }, + { + "id": "both_follow_through", + "text": "Both follow through" + }, + { + "id": "both_respect_privacy", + "text": "Both respect privacy" + }, + { + "id": "both_reassure", + "text": "Both reassure" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "trust_204", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which conflict habits protect trust? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What phone habits help us feel more present and secure?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "conflict", - "repair" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "taking_breaks", - "text": "Taking breaks" - }, - { - "id": "repair_attempts", - "text": "Repair attempts" - }, - { - "id": "staying_respectful", - "text": "Staying respectful" - }, - { - "id": "owning_impact", - "text": "Owning impact" - }, - { - "id": "coming_back_to_finish", - "text": "Coming back to finish" - } + "phones", + "trust", + "closer_style", + "warm", + "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "presence", + "text": "Presence" + }, + { + "id": "healthy_privacy", + "text": "Healthy privacy" + }, + { + "id": "clear_boundaries", + "text": "Clear boundaries" + }, + { + "id": "no_hiding", + "text": "No hiding" + }, + { + "id": "no_snooping", + "text": "No snooping" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "trust_205", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which situations need more clarity between us? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What friendship habits help us feel respected and secure?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "clarity", - "expectations" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "social_plans", - "text": "Social plans" - }, - { - "id": "spending_money", - "text": "Spending money" - }, - { - "id": "family_expectations", - "text": "Family expectations" - }, - { - "id": "time_alone", - "text": "Time alone" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_needs", - "text": "Emotional needs" - } + "friendships", + "trust", + "closer_style", + "warm", + "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "openness", + "text": "Openness" + }, + { + "id": "boundaries", + "text": "Boundaries" + }, + { + "id": "respect", + "text": "Respect" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "no_secrecy", + "text": "No secrecy" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "trust_206", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things make you feel chosen? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us assume good intent?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "chosen", - "loyalty" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "being_prioritized", - "text": "Being prioritized" - }, - { - "id": "being_defended", - "text": "Being defended" - }, - { - "id": "being_included", - "text": "Being included" - }, - { - "id": "being_checked_on", - "text": "Being checked on" - }, - { - "id": "being_remembered", - "text": "Being remembered" - } + "assumptions", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "track_record", + "text": "Track record" + }, + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + }, + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "remember_love", + "text": "Remember love" + }, + { + "id": "clear_info", + "text": "Clear info" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "trust_207", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things make you feel forgotten? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps us steady each other when trust feels wobbly?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "security", - "concern" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "plans_changing_late", - "text": "Plans changing late" - }, - { - "id": "lack_of_check_ins", - "text": "Lack of check-ins" - }, - { - "id": "dismissed_details", - "text": "Dismissed details" - }, - { - "id": "no_follow_through", - "text": "No follow-through" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_distance", - "text": "Emotional distance" - } + "fragile_trust", + "trust", + "closer_style", + "warm", + "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "talk_gently", + "text": "Talk gently" + }, + { + "id": "reassure", + "text": "Reassure" + }, + { + "id": "follow_through", + "text": "Follow through" + }, + { + "id": "name_the_need", + "text": "Name the need" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "trust_208", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which trust agreements should we make explicit? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes trust feel warm?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "agreements", + "warmth", "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_with_others", - "text": "Boundaries with others" - }, - { - "id": "conflict_rules", - "text": "Conflict rules" - }, - { - "id": "repair_after_mistakes", - "text": "Repair after mistakes" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kind_words", + "text": "Kind words" + }, + { + "id": "soft_touch", + "text": "Soft touch" + }, + { + "id": "showing_up", + "text": "Showing up" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_rituals", + "text": "Sweet rituals" + }, + { + "id": "little_promises", + "text": "Little promises" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "trust_209", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which topics should we handle with extra care? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes trust feel practical?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hard_topics", - "care" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "past_hurts", - "text": "Past hurts" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "jealousy", - "text": "Jealousy" - }, - { - "id": "future_plans", - "text": "Future plans" - } + "practical", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_plans", + "text": "Clear plans" + }, + { + "id": "shared_calendar", + "text": "Shared calendar" + }, + { + "id": "kept_promises", + "text": "Kept promises" + }, + { + "id": "helping_out", + "text": "Helping out" + }, + { + "id": "being_on_time", + "text": "Being on time" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "trust_210", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs show trust is growing? Select all that apply.", + "text": "What would make a trust check-in feel sweet and useful?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "growth", - "trust" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_openness", - "text": "More openness" - }, - { - "id": "less_guessing", - "text": "Less guessing" - }, - { - "id": "faster_repair", - "text": "Faster repair" - }, - { - "id": "more_calm", - "text": "More calm" - }, - { - "id": "more_vulnerability", - "text": "More vulnerability" - } + "check_in", + "trust", + "closer_style", + "warm", + "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_win", + "text": "One win" + }, + { + "id": "one_worry", + "text": "One worry" + }, + { + "id": "one_thanks", + "text": "One thanks" + }, + { + "id": "one_promise", + "text": "One promise" + }, + { + "id": "one_next_step", + "text": "One next step" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "trust_211", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you trust my follow-through right now?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How steady does trust feel between us lately?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "follow_through", - "reliability" + "stability", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "Completely", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not steady", + "max_label": "Very steady" + } + }, + { + "id": "trust_212", + "category_id": "trust", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it to be honest about small things?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "honesty", + "trust" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "trust_213", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to be honest with me?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much do small promises matter to you?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty", - "openness" + "promises", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Very hard", - "max_label": "Very easy", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "trust_214", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you feel I respect your boundaries?", + "text": "How secure do you feel in us this week?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "respect" + "security", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not respected", - "max_label": "Fully respected", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not secure", + "max_label": "Very secure" } }, { "id": "trust_215", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you feel I protect your privacy?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much does reassurance help you feel loved?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "privacy", - "respect" + "reassurance", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not protected", - "max_label": "Fully protected", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "trust_216", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How secure do you feel when we are apart?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How respected does your privacy feel?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "apart", - "security" + "privacy", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not secure", - "max_label": "Very secure", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not respected", + "max_label": "Very respected" } }, { "id": "trust_217", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we repair trust after conflict?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How fun does trust feel between us?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", - "conflict" + "fun_first", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Poorly", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not fun", + "max_label": "Very fun" } }, { "id": "trust_218", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How dependable do I feel to you lately?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How safe does emotional honesty feel?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "dependability", - "consistency" + "emotional_safety", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not dependable", - "max_label": "Very dependable", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "trust_219", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How dependable do you feel you have been lately?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How healthy does transparency feel between us?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "self_reflection", - "consistency" + "transparency", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not dependable", - "max_label": "Very dependable", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not healthy", + "max_label": "Very healthy" } }, { "id": "trust_220", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you feel chosen by me?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How present do we feel with each other around phones?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "loyalty", - "chosen" + "phones", + "trust", + "closer_style", + "warm", + "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not chosen", - "max_label": "Deeply chosen", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "trust_221", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you feel I believe you?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How secure does time apart feel?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "belief", - "validation" + "time_away", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not believed", - "max_label": "Fully believed", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not secure", + "max_label": "Very secure" } }, { "id": "trust_222", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you feel I trust you?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How trustworthy do our shared decisions feel?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "mutual_trust", - "security" + "decisions", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not trusted", - "max_label": "Fully trusted", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not trustworthy", + "max_label": "Very trustworthy" } }, { "id": "trust_223", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you asking for reassurance?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How easy is it to ask for reassurance?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "reassurance", - "needs" + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "trust_224", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you giving reassurance?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How easy is it to give reassurance?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "reassurance", - "support" + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "trust_225", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clear are our boundaries right now?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How easy is it for us to assume the best of each other?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "clarity" + "assumptions", + "trust", + "closer_style", + "warm", + "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not clear", - "max_label": "Very clear", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "trust_226", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clear are our expectations right now?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How well do we protect each other's private feelings?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "expectations", - "clarity" + "softness", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not clear", - "max_label": "Very clear", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "trust_227", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you trust us to handle hard conversations?", + "text": "How secure do our friendships feel for our relationship?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hard_topics", - "confidence" + "friendships", + "trust", + "closer_style", + "warm", + "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, + "min": 1, + "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "Very much", - "scale_step": 1 + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "trust_228", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does vulnerability feel in our relationship?", + "text": "How consistent do our actions feel?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "vulnerability", - "safety" + "consistency", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not consistent", + "max_label": "Very consistent" } }, { "id": "trust_229", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you trust our loyalty to each other?", + "text": "How easy is it to rely on each other?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "loyalty", - "commitment" + "dependability", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "Very much", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "trust_230", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you trust our honesty about money?", + "text": "How much does stress affect trust?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "money", - "honesty" + "stress", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, + "min": 1, + "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "Very much", - "scale_step": 1 + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "trust_231", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you trust our honesty about feelings?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How safe does showing your softer side feel with me?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emotions", - "honesty" + "vulnerability", + "trust", + "closer_style", + "warm", + "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "Very much", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "trust_232", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we handle jealousy?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How much do we notice trustworthy moments?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "jealousy", - "security" + "gratitude", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Poorly", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Rarely", + "max_label": "Often" } }, { "id": "trust_233", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much trust did we build this week?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How clearly do we communicate plans?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "weekly_check_in", - "growth" + "plans", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "None", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not clearly", + "max_label": "Very clearly" } }, { "id": "trust_234", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much trust needs attention this week?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How much would a trust ritual help us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "weekly_check_in", - "attention" + "rituals", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "None", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "trust_235", "category_id": "trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How hopeful do you feel about our ability to keep building trust?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How strong could trust feel next month?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hope", - "growth" + "monthly", + "trust" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not hopeful", - "max_label": "Very hopeful", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not strong", + "max_label": "Very strong" } }, { "id": "trust_236", "category_id": "trust", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Full transparency or clear privacy boundaries?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Tiny promise or sweet surprise?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "privacy", - "transparency" + "fun_first", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "full_transparency", - "text": "Full transparency" - }, - { - "id": "clear_privacy_boundaries", - "text": "Clear privacy boundaries" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_promise", + "text": "Tiny promise" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_surprise", + "text": "Sweet surprise" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_237", "category_id": "trust", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Reassurance right away or space first?", + "text": "Reassurance or quality time?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ "reassurance", - "space" + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "reassurance_right_away", - "text": "Reassurance right away" - }, - { - "id": "space_first", - "text": "Space first" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "quality_time", + "text": "Quality time" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_238", "category_id": "trust", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Talk about trust directly or build it through actions?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Honesty early or honesty gently?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "trust_style", - "actions" + "honesty", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_directly", - "text": "Talk directly" - }, - { - "id": "build_through_actions", - "text": "Build through actions" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "early", + "text": "Honesty early" + }, + { + "id": "gently", + "text": "Honesty gently" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_239", "category_id": "trust", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Apology first or explanation first?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Healthy transparency or protected privacy?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "apology", - "repair" + "transparency", + "privacy", + "trust", + "closer_style", + "warm", + "fun_first" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "apology_first", - "text": "Apology first" - }, - { - "id": "explanation_first", - "text": "Explanation first" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "transparency", + "text": "Transparency" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_240", "category_id": "trust", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Ask questions or watch behavior over time?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Ask gently or wait softly?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trust_repair", - "patterns" + "questions", + "trust", + "closer_style", + "warm", + "fun_first" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_questions", - "text": "Ask questions" - }, - { - "id": "watch_behavior", - "text": "Watch behavior over time" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_directly", + "text": "Ask directly" + }, + { + "id": "wait_gently", + "text": "Wait gently" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_241", "category_id": "trust", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Share passwords or keep phone privacy?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Phone down or quick update?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "digital_boundaries", - "privacy" + "phones", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "share_passwords", - "text": "Share passwords" - }, - { - "id": "keep_phone_privacy", - "text": "Keep phone privacy" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "phone_down", + "text": "Phone down" + }, + { + "id": "quick_update", + "text": "Quick update" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_242", "category_id": "trust", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Assume good intent or clarify first?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "More reassurance or more consistency?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "intentions", - "clarity" + "security", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "assume_good_intent", - "text": "Assume good intent" - }, - { - "id": "clarify_first", - "text": "Clarify first" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_reassurance", + "text": "More reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "more_consistency", + "text": "More consistency" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_243", "category_id": "trust", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Repair quickly or repair slowly and carefully?", + "text": "Clear plans or flexible trust?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "timing" + "plans", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "repair_quickly", - "text": "Repair quickly" - }, - { - "id": "repair_carefully", - "text": "Repair slowly and carefully" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_plans", + "text": "Clear plans" + }, + { + "id": "flexible_trust", + "text": "Flexible trust" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_244", "category_id": "trust", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "More honesty or more gentleness?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Protect quiet privacy or share helpful context?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "honesty", - "care" + "privacy", + "trust", + "closer_style", + "warm", + "fun_first" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_honesty", - "text": "More honesty" - }, - { - "id": "more_gentleness", - "text": "More gentleness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "protect_privacy", + "text": "Protect privacy" + }, + { + "id": "share_context", + "text": "Share context" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_245", "category_id": "trust", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Private reassurance or public loyalty?", + "text": "Tiny ritual or big promise?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "loyalty", - "reassurance" + "rituals", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "private_reassurance", - "text": "Private reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "public_loyalty", - "text": "Public loyalty" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_ritual", + "text": "Tiny ritual" + }, + { + "id": "big_promise", + "text": "Big promise" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_246", "category_id": "trust", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Clear rules or flexible trust?", + "text": "Words of trust or actions of trust?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "trust_style" + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_rules", - "text": "Clear rules" - }, - { - "id": "flexible_trust", - "text": "Flexible trust" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "words", + "text": "Words of trust" + }, + { + "id": "actions", + "text": "Actions of trust" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_247", "category_id": "trust", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Talk when hurt or wait until calm?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Soft truth or direct truth?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "conflict", - "timing" + "truth", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_when_hurt", - "text": "Talk when hurt" - }, - { - "id": "wait_until_calm", - "text": "Wait until calm" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_truth", + "text": "Soft truth" + }, + { + "id": "direct_truth", + "text": "Direct truth" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_248", "category_id": "trust", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Know every detail or know the important truth?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Ask for reassurance or offer it first?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "honesty", - "details" + "reassurance", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "every_detail", - "text": "Know every detail" - }, - { - "id": "important_truth", - "text": "Know the important truth" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_for_it", + "text": "Ask for reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "offer_it", + "text": "Offer it first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_249", "category_id": "trust", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Trust slowly or trust openly?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Stay close or give space?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trust_style", - "vulnerability" + "space", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "trust_slowly", - "text": "Trust slowly" - }, - { - "id": "trust_openly", - "text": "Trust openly" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "stay_close", + "text": "Stay close" + }, + { + "id": "give_space", + "text": "Give space" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "trust_250", "category_id": "trust", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Protect peace or address the concern now?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Celebrate trust or build more?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "concern", - "repair" + "progress", + "trust" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "protect_peace", - "text": "Protect peace" - }, - { - "id": "address_now", - "text": "Address the concern now" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "celebrate", + "text": "Celebrate trust" + }, + { + "id": "build_more", + "text": "Build more" + } + ] + } } ] }