diff --git a/seed/questions/future.json b/seed/questions/future.json index 0ac8a627..fc29e107 100644 --- a/seed/questions/future.json +++ b/seed/questions/future.json @@ -2,3816 +2,4050 @@ "category": { "id": "future", "display_name": "Future", - "description": "Questions about shared goals, long-term plans, commitment, timelines, dreams, values, and life decisions.", + "description": "Warm, Closer-style questions that help couples dream, laugh, build traditions, imagine future-us, choose tiny steps, and make planning feel hopeful, cozy, and fun where it fits.", "access": "mixed", - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, - "question_type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 - }, + "icon_name": "auto_awesome", "schema_version": "question_v2", - "supported_types": [ - "written", - "single_choice", - "multi_choice", - "scale", - "this_or_that" - ] + "metadata": { + "total_questions": 250, + "free_questions": 75, + "premium_questions": 175, + "type_counts": { + "written": 150, + "single_choice": 40, + "multi_choice": 20, + "scale": 25, + "this_or_that": 15 + } + } }, "questions": [ { "id": "future_001", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one hope you have for our next few months?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one tiny future plan that makes you smile?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "next_few_months", - "hope" + "tiny_goals", + "fun_first", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_002", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step could we take toward better next few months?", + "text": "What is one dream we should keep talking about?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "next_few_months", - "small_step" + "dreams", + "hope", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_003", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What part of our next few months are you excited about?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What does a happy ordinary day look like for future us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "next_few_months", - "excitement" + "daily_life", + "future_us", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_004", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you want us to protect as our next few months changes?", + "text": "What is one thing future us would thank us for starting now?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "next_few_months", - "protect" + "future_us", + "small_steps", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_005", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "How should we talk about next few months so it feels like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one silly thing you hope we still do years from now?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "next_few_months", - "teamwork" + "play", + "fun_first", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_006", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one hope you have for our weekend routines?", + "text": "What is one tradition you would love for us to have?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "weekend_routines", - "hope" + "traditions", + "connection", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_007", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step could we take toward better weekend routines?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What kind of home feeling do you want us to build?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "weekend_routines", - "small_step" + "home", + "values", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_008", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What part of our weekend routines are you excited about?", + "text": "What kind of adventure should future us take?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "weekend_routines", - "excitement" + "adventure", + "fun_first", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_009", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you want us to protect as our weekend routines changes?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one place you would love to go together someday?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "weekend_routines", - "protect" + "travel", + "dreams", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_010", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "How should we talk about weekend routines so it feels like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one future memory you want us to make?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "weekend_routines", - "teamwork" + "memories", + "dreams", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_011", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one hope you have for our the home we want?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one thing future-us should absolutely save room for?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "the_home_we_want", - "hope" + "priorities", + "planning", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_012", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step could we take toward better the home we want?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one thing future-us would be happy to leave behind?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "the_home_we_want", - "small_step" + "boundaries", + "priorities", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_013", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What part of our the home we want are you excited about?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What does growing old together look like in your cutest version?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "the_home_we_want", - "excitement" + "growing_old", + "fun_first", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_014", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you want us to protect as our the home we want changes?", + "text": "What does growing old together look like in your peaceful version?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "the_home_we_want", - "protect" + "growing_old", + "peace", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_015", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "How should we talk about the home we want so it feels like teamwork?", + "text": "What is one future version of us you are excited to meet?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "the_home_we_want", - "teamwork" + "future_us", + "hope", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_016", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one hope you have for our shared goals?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What kind of couple do you hope we become even more of?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "shared_goals", - "hope" + "identity", + "growth", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_017", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step could we take toward better shared goals?", + "text": "What is one small goal that would make life easier this month?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "shared_goals", - "small_step" + "monthly", + "small_goals", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_018", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What part of our shared goals are you excited about?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one dream that feels big but still possible?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "shared_goals", - "excitement" + "dreams", + "possibility", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_019", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you want us to protect as our shared goals changes?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one dream that feels tiny but meaningful?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "shared_goals", - "protect" + "dreams", + "meaning", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_020", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "How should we talk about shared goals so it feels like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What future goal could use a fun name?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "shared_goals", - "teamwork" + "goals", + "fun_first", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_021", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one hope you have for our travel dreams?", + "text": "What would make planning feel more like dreaming together?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "travel_dreams", - "hope" + "planning", + "fun_first", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_022", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step could we take toward better travel dreams?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one future plan we could turn into a date-night conversation?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "travel_dreams", - "small_step" + "date_night", + "planning", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_023", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What part of our travel dreams are you excited about?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one thing you hope never changes about us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "travel_dreams", - "excitement" + "continuity", + "love", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_024", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you want us to protect as our travel dreams changes?", + "text": "What is one thing you hope does change for the better?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "travel_dreams", - "protect" + "growth", + "hope", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_025", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "How should we talk about travel dreams so it feels like teamwork?", + "text": "What kind of life rhythm sounds good for future us?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "travel_dreams", - "teamwork" + "rhythm", + "daily_life", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_026", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one hope you have for our health habits?", + "text": "What kind of weekends do you hope future us has?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "health_habits", - "hope" + "weekends", + "daily_life", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_027", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step could we take toward better health habits?", + "text": "What kind of mornings do you hope future us has?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "health_habits", - "small_step" + "mornings", + "daily_life", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_028", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What part of our health habits are you excited about?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What kind of nights do you hope future us has?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "health_habits", - "excitement" + "nights", + "daily_life", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_029", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you want us to protect as our health habits changes?", + "text": "What is one future purchase that would feel like investing in us?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "health_habits", - "protect" + "money", + "goals", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_030", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "How should we talk about health habits so it feels like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one future experience that would feel like investing in us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "health_habits", - "teamwork" + "experiences", + "connection", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_031", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one hope you have for our career hopes?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one thing our future should protect like treasure?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "career_hopes", - "hope" + "values", + "protection", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_032", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step could we take toward better career hopes?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What pressure should future-us refuse to let drive the car?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "career_hopes", - "small_step" + "pressure", + "boundaries", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_033", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What part of our career hopes are you excited about?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one way we can make future planning feel lighter?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "career_hopes", - "excitement" + "planning", + "lightness", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_034", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you want us to protect as our career hopes changes?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one little ritual future us should keep?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "career_hopes", - "protect" + "rituals", + "fun_first", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_035", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "How should we talk about career hopes so it feels like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one habit that could make future us feel closer?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "career_hopes", - "teamwork" + "habits", + "closeness", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_036", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one hope you have for our creative dreams?", + "text": "What is one habit that could make future us feel calmer?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "creative_dreams", - "hope" + "habits", + "peace", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_037", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step could we take toward better creative dreams?", + "text": "What is one thing we should celebrate if we accomplish it?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "creative_dreams", - "small_step" + "celebration", + "goals", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_038", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What part of our creative dreams are you excited about?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one future fear that would feel easier if we faced it as a team?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "creative_dreams", - "excitement" + "fears", + "teamwork", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_039", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you want us to protect as our creative dreams changes?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one future hope you want me to hold with you?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "creative_dreams", - "protect" + "hopes", + "support", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_040", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "How should we talk about creative dreams so it feels like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes you believe future-us has something really good coming?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "creative_dreams", - "teamwork" + "hope", + "trust", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_041", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one hope you have for our friendships?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What does building a life together look like in your favorite version?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "friendships", - "hope" + "meaning", + "commitment", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_042", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step could we take toward better friendships?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one future version of me you are rooting for?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "friendships", - "small_step" + "support", + "growth", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_043", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What part of our friendships are you excited about?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one future version of you you want me to root for?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "friendships", - "excitement" + "support", + "growth", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_044", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you want us to protect as our friendships changes?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one small thing we can do this week for future us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "friendships", - "protect" + "weekly", + "small_steps", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_045", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "How should we talk about friendships so it feels like teamwork?", + "text": "What would make our future feel more like ours?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "friendships", - "teamwork" + "identity", + "belonging", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_046", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one hope you have for our family traditions?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "What would make future adventures feel like a fun thing to dream about?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family_traditions", - "hope" + "adventure", + "fun_first", + "lightness", + "future", + "closer_style" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_047", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What small step could we take toward better family traditions?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "How could we make future adventures feel more like us?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family_traditions", - "small_step" + "adventure", + "fun_first", + "identity", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_048", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What part of our family traditions are you excited about?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "What tiny step toward future adventures would make future-us high-five us?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family_traditions", - "excitement" + "adventure", + "fun_first", + "monthly", + "small_steps", + "future", + "closer_style" ], "answer_config": { - 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"text": "What would make our legacy feel aligned instead of assumed?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make the memories we want to make feel fun to talk about?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "legacy", - "alignment" + "memories", + "connection", + "fun_first", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_141", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one honest hope you have about our hard seasons?", + "text": "What do you hope I understand about the memories we want to make?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hard_seasons", - "honest_hope" + "memories", + "connection", + "understanding", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_142", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What worry do you carry about our hard seasons?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would help us protect warmth while planning the memories we want to make?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hard_seasons", - "worry" + "memories", + "connection", + "warmth", + "planning", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_143", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What agreement would help us approach hard seasons with more clarity?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What should we celebrate while we inch toward the memories we want to make?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hard_seasons", - "agreement" + "memories", + "connection", + "celebration", + "progress", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_144", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What sacrifice might hard seasons require from either of us?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make the couple we are becoming feel like a fun thing to dream about?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hard_seasons", - "sacrifice" + "identity", + "growth", + "lightness", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_145", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make our hard seasons feel aligned instead of assumed?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How could we make the couple we are becoming feel more like us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hard_seasons", - "alignment" + "identity", + "growth", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_146", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one honest hope you have about our our vision of home?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What tiny step toward the couple we are becoming would make future-us high-five us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "our_vision_of_home", - "honest_hope" + "identity", + "growth", + "monthly", + "small_steps", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_147", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What worry do you carry about our our vision of home?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make the couple we are becoming feel fun to talk about?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "our_vision_of_home", - "worry" + "identity", + "growth", + "fun_first", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_148", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What agreement would help us approach our vision of home with more clarity?", + "text": "What do you hope I understand about the couple we are becoming?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "our_vision_of_home", - "agreement" + "identity", + "growth", + "understanding", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_149", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What sacrifice might our vision of home require from either of us?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would help us protect warmth while planning the couple we are becoming?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "our_vision_of_home", - "sacrifice" + "identity", + "growth", + "warmth", + "planning", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_150", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make our our vision of home feel aligned instead of assumed?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What should we celebrate while we inch toward the couple we are becoming?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "our_vision_of_home", - "alignment" + "identity", + "growth", + "celebration", + "progress", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "future_151", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What future topic feels most important right now?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What future plan sounds most fun today?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "priority", + "fun_first", + "planning", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "home", - "text": "Home" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "career", - "text": "Career" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "trip", + "text": "Trip" + }, + { + "id": "home_project", + "text": "Home project" + }, + { + "id": "date_fund", + "text": "Date fund" + }, + { + "id": "new_tradition", + "text": "New tradition" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_152", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do you prefer to plan our future?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What kind of future-us talk sounds good?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "planning", - "style" + "future_us", + "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "detailed_plans", - "text": "Detailed plans" - }, - { - "id": "loose_direction", - "text": "Loose direction" - }, - { - "id": "one_step_at_a_time", - "text": "One step at a time" - }, - { - "id": "talk_only_when_needed", - "text": "Talk only when needed" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "silly", + "text": "Silly" + }, + { + "id": "sweet", + "text": "Sweet" + }, + { + "id": "practical", + "text": "Practical" + }, + { + "id": "dreamy", + "text": "Dreamy" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_153", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What timeline feels most comfortable for big decisions?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What kind of adventure should we dream about first?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "timeline", - "decisions" + "adventure", + "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "soon", - "text": "Soon" - }, - { - "id": "within_a_year", - "text": "Within a year" - }, - { - "id": "in_a_few_years", - "text": "In a few years" - }, - { - "id": "no_fixed_timeline", - "text": "No fixed timeline" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "road_trip", + "text": "Road trip" + }, + { + "id": "cozy_getaway", + "text": "Cozy getaway" + }, + { + "id": "big_vacation", + "text": "Big vacation" + }, + { + "id": "local_adventure", + "text": "Local adventure" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_154", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes future talks feel safe?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What future memory should we make soon?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "safety", + "memories", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - }, - { - "id": "clear_next_steps", - "text": "Clear next steps" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_special_date", + "text": "A special date" + }, + { + "id": "a_day_trip", + "text": "A day trip" + }, + { + "id": "a_home_moment", + "text": "A home moment" + }, + { + "id": "a_small_celebration", + "text": "A small celebration" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_155", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes future talks feel stressful?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes planning feel less stressful?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "stress", + "planning", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pressure", - "text": "Pressure" - }, - { - "id": "uncertainty", - "text": "Uncertainty" - }, - { - "id": "different_timelines", - "text": "Different timelines" - }, - { - "id": "money_worries", - "text": "Money worries" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "snacks", + "text": "Snacks" + }, + { + "id": "short_talk", + "text": "Short talk" + }, + { + "id": "dream_first", + "text": "Dream first" + }, + { + "id": "one_tiny_step", + "text": "One tiny step" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_156", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which future area needs more clarity?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What kind of tradition sounds most like us?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "clarity", + "traditions", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "commitment", - "text": "Commitment" - }, - { - "id": "living_situation", - "text": "Living situation" - }, - { - "id": "family_plans", - "text": "Family plans" - }, - { - "id": "career_plans", - "text": "Career plans" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cozy", + "text": "Cozy" + }, + { + "id": "silly", + "text": "Silly" + }, + { + "id": "romantic", + "text": "Romantic" + }, + { + "id": "seasonal", + "text": "Seasonal" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_157", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of goal should we set next?", + "text": "What should future us have more of?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "goals", - "next" + "future_us", + "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "financial", - "text": "Financial" - }, - { - "id": "relationship", - "text": "Relationship" - }, - { - "id": "health", - "text": "Health" - }, - { - "id": "adventure", - "text": "Adventure" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "peace", + "text": "Peace" + }, + { + "id": "adventure", + "text": "Adventure" + }, + { + "id": "money_breathing_room", + "text": "Money breathing room" + }, + { + "id": "laughter", + "text": "Laughter" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_158", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What does commitment look like most to you?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What should future us protect most?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "commitment", - "meaning" + "values", + "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "shared_decisions", - "text": "Shared decisions" - }, - { - "id": "long_term_planning", - "text": "Long-term planning" - }, - { - "id": "showing_up_in_hard_times", - "text": "Showing up in hard times" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "time_together", + "text": "Time together" + }, + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "peace", + "text": "Peace" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_159", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What future choice should we discuss before assuming?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What kind of home feeling do you want?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "assumptions", + "home", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "where_to_live", - "text": "Where to live" - }, - { - "id": "marriage", - "text": "Marriage" - }, - { - "id": "kids_or_family", - "text": "Kids or family" - }, - { - "id": "money_priorities", - "text": "Money priorities" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cozy", + "text": "Cozy" + }, + { + "id": "calm", + "text": "Calm" + }, + { + "id": "lively", + "text": "Lively" + }, + { + "id": "romantic", + "text": "Romantic" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_160", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel hopeful about us?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What kind of weekend sounds best for future us?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hope", - "relationship" + "weekends", + "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_effort", - "text": "Shared effort" - }, - { - "id": "good_communication", - "text": "Good communication" - }, - { - "id": "aligned_values", - "text": "Aligned values" - }, - { - "id": "seeing_growth", - "text": "Seeing growth" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow", + "text": "Slow" + }, + { + "id": "adventurous", + "text": "Adventurous" + }, + { + "id": "productive", + "text": "Productive" + }, + { + "id": "social", + "text": "Social" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_161", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel uncertain about the future?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps you feel hopeful about the future?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "uncertainty", + "hope", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "different_goals", - "text": "Different goals" - }, - { - "id": "timing", - "text": "Timing" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "conflict_patterns", - "text": "Conflict patterns" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_plan", + "text": "A plan" + }, + { + "id": "dreaming_together", + "text": "Dreaming together" + }, + { + "id": "small_progress", + "text": "Small progress" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_162", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What pace feels best for future planning?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What kind of goal motivates you most?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "pace", - "planning" + "goals", + "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_and_steady", - "text": "Slow and steady" - }, - { - "id": "structured_and_regular", - "text": "Structured and regular" - }, - { - "id": "only_as_needed", - "text": "Only as needed" - }, - { - "id": "more_direct_and_soon", - "text": "More direct and soon" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "home", + "text": "Home" + }, + { + "id": "travel", + "text": "Travel" + }, + { + "id": "freedom", + "text": "Freedom" + }, + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_163", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we revisit every few months?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What future version of us sounds sweetest?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "checkin", + "future_us", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "goals", - "text": "Goals" - }, - { - "id": "finances", - "text": "Finances" - }, - { - "id": "living_plans", - "text": "Living plans" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_connection", - "text": "Emotional connection" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cozy_old_couple", + "text": "Cozy old couple" + }, + { + "id": "adventure_buddies", + "text": "Adventure buddies" + }, + { + "id": "peaceful_home_team", + "text": "Peaceful home team" + }, + { + "id": "still_flirting", + "text": "Still flirting" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_164", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of future memory do you want us to make?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What should we name a shared dream?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "memory", + "dreams", + "fun_first", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "travel", - "text": "Travel" - }, - { - "id": "home_moments", - "text": "Home moments" - }, - { - "id": "family_moments", - "text": "Family moments" - }, - { - "id": "big_achievement", - "text": "Big achievement" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "adventure_fund", + "text": "Adventure fund" + }, + { + "id": "cozy_future", + "text": "Cozy future" + }, + { + "id": "freedom_jar", + "text": "Freedom jar" + }, + { + "id": "our_next_chapter", + "text": "Our next chapter" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_165", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you want our future home to feel like?", + "text": "What small step sounds doable this week?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "home", - "feeling" + "weekly", + "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "peaceful", - "text": "Peaceful" - }, - { - "id": "playful", - "text": "Playful" - }, - { - "id": "cozy", - "text": "Cozy" - }, - { - "id": "purposeful", - "text": "Purposeful" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_once", + "text": "Talk once" + }, + { + "id": "save_a_little", + "text": "Save a little" + }, + { + "id": "plan_a_date", + "text": "Plan a date" + }, + { + "id": "pick_a_dream", + "text": "Pick a dream" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_166", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which value should guide our future decisions?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which future topic needs a softer, sweeter approach?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "values", - "decisions" + "planning", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "stability", - "text": "Stability" - }, - { - "id": "adventure", - "text": "Adventure" - }, - { - "id": "care", - "text": "Care" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "money", + "text": "Money" + }, + { + "id": "home", + "text": "Home" + }, + { + "id": "family", + "text": "Family" + }, + { + "id": "work_life_balance", + "text": "Work-life balance" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_167", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What future pressure do you want us to resist?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which future topic should stay playful?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pressure", + "fun_first", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comparison", - "text": "Comparison" - }, - { - "id": "rushing", - "text": "Rushing" - }, - { - "id": "perfection", - "text": "Perfection" - }, - { - "id": "other_peoples_expectations", - "text": "Other peoples expectations" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "travel", + "text": "Travel" + }, + { + "id": "traditions", + "text": "Traditions" + }, + { + "id": "date_nights", + "text": "Date nights" + }, + { + "id": "bucket_list", + "text": "Bucket list" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_168", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make long-term planning more romantic?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes long-term planning easier?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "romance", - "planning" + "long_term", + "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "dreaming_together", - "text": "Dreaming together" - }, - { - "id": "small_rituals", - "text": "Small rituals" - }, - { - "id": "shared_savings_goals", - "text": "Shared savings goals" - }, - { - "id": "celebrating_milestones", - "text": "Celebrating milestones" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "small_steps", + "text": "Small steps" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "clear_priorities", + "text": "Clear priorities" + }, + { + "id": "dreaming_first", + "text": "Dreaming first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_169", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What future conversation should we make lighter?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes future talk start feeling like homework?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "lightness", - "future" + "stress", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "commitment", - "text": "Commitment" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "home_plans", - "text": "Home plans" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "too_much_pressure", + "text": "Too much pressure" + }, + { + "id": "different_timelines", + "text": "Different timelines" + }, + { + "id": "money_worries", + "text": "Money worries" + }, + { + "id": "uncertainty", + "text": "Uncertainty" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_170", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What future conversation should we take more seriously?", + "text": "What helps when our dreams are wearing different outfits?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "serious", - "future" + "differences", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "commitment", - "text": "Commitment" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "health", - "text": "Health" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "find_overlap", + "text": "Find overlap" + }, + { + "id": "take_turns", + "text": "Take turns" + }, + { + "id": "ask_why", + "text": "Ask why" + }, + { + "id": "keep_both_dreams_safe", + "text": "Keep both dreams safe" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_171", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of support will matter most in future stress?", + "text": "What helps when one dream feels giant and the other feels tiny?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "support", - "stress" + "differences", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "emotional_support", - "text": "Emotional support" - }, - { - "id": "practical_help", - "text": "Practical help" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "team_planning", - "text": "Team planning" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "go_slowly", + "text": "Go slowly" + }, + { + "id": "name_fears", + "text": "Name fears" + }, + { + "id": "find_a_small_version", + "text": "Find a small version" + }, + { + "id": "revisit_later", + "text": "Revisit later" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_172", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What future dream feels most alive for you?", + "text": "What kind of future money talk feels best?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "dreams", + "money", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_home", - "text": "A home" - }, - { - "id": "travel", - "text": "Travel" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "creative_work", - "text": "Creative work" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "short_and_kind", + "text": "Short and kind" + }, + { + "id": "dream_first", + "text": "Dream first" + }, + { + "id": "numbers_first", + "text": "Numbers first" + }, + { + "id": "one_goal_at_a_time", + "text": "One goal at a time" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_173", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What future fear feels most real?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What kind of future family talk feels best?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fears", + "family", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "losing_closeness", - "text": "Losing closeness" - }, - { - "id": "financial_stress", - "text": "Financial stress" - }, - { - "id": "different_timelines", - "text": "Different timelines" - }, - { - "id": "unexpected_hardship", - "text": "Unexpected hardship" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gentle", + "text": "Gentle" + }, + { + "id": "private", + "text": "Private" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "one_topic", + "text": "One topic" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_174", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of tradition should we build?", + "text": "What kind of future home talk feels best?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "traditions", + "home", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "weekly", - "text": "Weekly" - }, - { - "id": "monthly", - "text": "Monthly" - }, - { - "id": "holiday", - "text": "Holiday" - }, - { - "id": "anniversary", - "text": "Anniversary" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "dreamy", + "text": "Dreamy" + }, + { + "id": "practical", + "text": "Practical" + }, + { + "id": "cozy", + "text": "Cozy" + }, + { + "id": "budget_aware", + "text": "Budget-aware" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_175", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What role should adventure play in our future?", + "text": "What keeps future talk from feeling like a pop quiz?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "adventure", - "future" + "therapy_risk", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_big_role", - "text": "A big role" - }, - { - "id": "a_small_role", - "text": "A small role" - }, - { - "id": "only_sometimes", - "text": "Only sometimes" - }, - { - "id": "more_than_now", - "text": "More than now" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "keep_it_light", + "text": "Keep it light" + }, + { + "id": "laugh_some", + "text": "Laugh some" + }, + { + "id": "no_perfect_answers", + "text": "No perfect answers" + }, + { + "id": "dream_first", + "text": "Dream first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_176", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What role should stability play in our future?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What should future-us do when the map looks blurry?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stability", - "future" + "uncertainty", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_big_role", - "text": "A big role" - }, - { - "id": "a_small_role", - "text": "A small role" - }, - { - "id": "only_in_key_areas", - "text": "Only in key areas" - }, - { - "id": "more_than_now", - "text": "More than now" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hold_hands", + "text": "Hold hands" + }, + { + "id": "make_one_plan", + "text": "Make one plan" + }, + { + "id": "talk_softly", + "text": "Talk softly" + }, + { + "id": "take_a_break", + "text": "Take a break" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_177", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we save for first?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What should we do when future talk gets too serious?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "saving", + "fun_first", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "emergency_fund", - "text": "Emergency fund" - }, - { - "id": "travel", - "text": "Travel" - }, - { - "id": "home", - "text": "Home" - }, - { - "id": "shared_experience", - "text": "Shared experience" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "add_a_silly_option", + "text": "Add a silly option" + }, + { + "id": "take_a_snack_break", + "text": "Take a snack break" + }, + { + "id": "pick_one_tiny_step", + "text": "Pick one tiny step" + }, + { + "id": "dream_again", + "text": "Dream again" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_178", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of life pace do you want later?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What kind of bucket list sounds most like us?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pace", - "life" + "bucket_list", + "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "calm", - "text": "Calm" - }, - { - "id": "busy_and_ambitious", - "text": "Busy and ambitious" - }, - { - "id": "flexible", - "text": "Flexible" - }, - { - "id": "seasonal", - "text": "Seasonal" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "adventurous", + "text": "Adventurous" + }, + { + "id": "cozy", + "text": "Cozy" + }, + { + "id": "weird_and_fun", + "text": "Weird and fun" + }, + { + "id": "romantic", + "text": "Romantic" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_179", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which future skill should we build as a couple?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What future habit should we build first?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "skills", + "habits", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "planning", - "text": "Planning" - }, - { - "id": "repairing_conflict", - "text": "Repairing conflict" - }, - { - "id": "saving_money", - "text": "Saving money" - }, - { - "id": "handling_stress", - "text": "Handling stress" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "check_ins", + "text": "Check-ins" + }, + { + "id": "saving", + "text": "Saving" + }, + { + "id": "date_nights", + "text": "Date nights" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_180", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What big decision needs more patience?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What future ritual should we start now?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "patience", - "decisions" + "rituals", + "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "commitment_step", - "text": "Commitment step" - }, - { - "id": "moving", - "text": "Moving" - }, - { - "id": "money_decision", - "text": "Money decision" - }, - { - "id": "family_decision", - "text": "Family decision" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "monthly_dream_night", + "text": "Monthly dream night" + }, + { + "id": "yearly_letter", + "text": "Yearly letter" + }, + { + "id": "sunday_reset", + "text": "Sunday reset" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_celebration", + "text": "Tiny celebration" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_181", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What big decision needs more courage?", + "text": "What helps us plan without rushing each other?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "courage", - "decisions" + "pace", + "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "commitment_step", - "text": "Commitment step" - }, - { - "id": "career_shift", - "text": "Career shift" - }, - { - "id": "relocation", - "text": "Relocation" - }, - { - "id": "honest_conversation", - "text": "Honest conversation" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "clear_hopes", + "text": "Clear hopes" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "small_steps", + "text": "Small steps" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_182", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What does success together mean most?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps us stay on the same team while planning?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "success", - "meaning" + "teamwork", + "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "peace", - "text": "Peace" - }, - { - "id": "growth", - "text": "Growth" - }, - { - "id": "security", - "text": "Security" - }, - { - "id": "joy", - "text": "Joy" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "use_we", + "text": "Use we" + }, + { + "id": "ask_why", + "text": "Ask why" + }, + { + "id": "celebrate_overlap", + "text": "Celebrate overlap" + }, + { + "id": "protect_both_voices", + "text": "Protect both voices" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_183", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we prioritize when life gets busy?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What future pressure should we dramatically kick off the porch?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "priority", - "busy" + "pressure", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "money_goals", - "text": "Money goals" - }, - { - "id": "family_time", - "text": "Family time" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "comparison", + "text": "Comparison" + }, + { + "id": "perfect_timeline", + "text": "Perfect timeline" + }, + { + "id": "outside_opinions", + "text": "Outside opinions" + }, + { + "id": "all_or_nothing_plans", + "text": "All-or-nothing plans" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_184", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make you feel chosen in our future?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What future joy should we chase more?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "chosen", + "joy", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_plans", - "text": "Shared plans" - }, - { - "id": "public_commitment", - "text": "Public commitment" - }, - { - "id": "daily_effort", - "text": "Daily effort" - }, - { - "id": "protecting_us", - "text": "Protecting us" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "travel", + "text": "Travel" + }, + { + "id": "home_comfort", + "text": "Home comfort" + }, + { + "id": "freedom", + "text": "Freedom" + }, + { + "id": "time_together", + "text": "Time together" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_185", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make future talks feel less pressured?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make future planning romantic?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pressure", - "talks" + "romance", + "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_deadlines", - "text": "No deadlines" - }, - { - "id": "more_information", - "text": "More information" - }, - { - "id": "gentler_tone", - "text": "Gentler tone" - }, - { - "id": "small_steps", - "text": "Small steps" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "dreaming_together", + "text": "Dreaming together" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_notes", + "text": "Sweet notes" + }, + { + "id": "a_date_night", + "text": "A date night" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_why", + "text": "Remembering why" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_186", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What future promise matters most?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make future planning funny?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "promise", + "fun_first", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "keep_choosing_each_other", - "text": "Keep choosing each other" - }, - { - "id": "tell_the_truth", - "text": "Tell the truth" - }, - { - "id": "repair_quickly", - "text": "Repair quickly" - }, - { - "id": "face_hard_things_together", - "text": "Face hard things together" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ridiculous_options", + "text": "Ridiculous options" + }, + { + "id": "fake_retirement_names", + "text": "Fake retirement names" + }, + { + "id": "silly_bucket_list", + "text": "Silly bucket list" + }, + { + "id": "dream_jar_dares", + "text": "Dream jar dares" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_187", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we be honest about before the next step?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make future planning practical without killing the vibe?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "honesty", - "next_step" + "practical", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "fear", - "text": "Fear" - }, - { - "id": "timeline", - "text": "Timeline" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "expectations", - "text": "Expectations" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_goal", + "text": "One goal" + }, + { + "id": "simple_list", + "text": "Simple list" + }, + { + "id": "clear_next_step", + "text": "Clear next step" + }, + { + "id": "calendar_time", + "text": "Calendar time" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_188", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of next step feels right?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make future planning feel calm and cozy?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "next_step", - "future" + "peace", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "small_habit", - "text": "Small habit" - }, - { - "id": "shared_plan", - "text": "Shared plan" - }, - { - "id": "big_conversation", - "text": "Big conversation" - }, - { - "id": "concrete_commitment", - "text": "Concrete commitment" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_rushing", + "text": "No rushing" + }, + { + "id": "clear_priorities", + "text": "Clear priorities" + }, + { + "id": "enough_rest", + "text": "Enough rest" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_189", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What does growing together mean to you?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make future planning feel like ours?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "growth", - "together" + "identity", + "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "learning", - "text": "Learning" - }, - { - "id": "changing_kindly", - "text": "Changing kindly" - }, - { - "id": "shared_goals", - "text": "Shared goals" - }, - { - "id": "supporting_individuality", - "text": "Supporting individuality" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "our_humor", + "text": "Our humor" + }, + { + "id": "our_values", + "text": "Our values" + }, + { + "id": "our_pace", + "text": "Our pace" + }, + { + "id": "our_dreams", + "text": "Our dreams" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_190", "category_id": "future", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should our future selves thank us for starting now?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What should future-us brag about someday?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future_self", - "thanks" + "future_us", + "pride", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "better_communication", - "text": "Better communication" - }, - { - "id": "savings_habit", - "text": "Savings habit" - }, - { - "id": "healthy_routines", - "text": "Healthy routines" - }, - { - "id": "more_quality_time", - "text": "More quality time" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "staying_kind", + "text": "Staying kind" + }, + { + "id": "building_peace", + "text": "Building peace" + }, + { + "id": "still_laughing", + "text": "Still laughing" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_each_other", + "text": "Choosing each other" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_191", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which future areas should we talk about more?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What should future us make more room for?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "future", - "areas" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "home", - "text": "Home" - }, - { - "id": "commitment", - "text": "Commitment" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "career", - "text": "Career" - }, - { - "id": "health", - "text": "Health" - } + "future_us", + "future" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "peace", + "text": "Peace" + }, + { + "id": "laughter", + "text": "Laughter" + }, + { + "id": "adventure", + "text": "Adventure" + }, + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + }, + { + "id": "time_together", + "text": "Time together" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3820,36 +4054,36 @@ "id": "future_192", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should guide our big decisions?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes future talk feel fun?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "decisions", - "values" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_values", - "text": "Shared values" - }, - { - "id": "timing", - "text": "Timing" - }, - { - "id": "money_reality", - "text": "Money reality" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_readiness", - "text": "Emotional readiness" - }, - { - "id": "long_term_impact", - "text": "Long-term impact" - } + "fun_first", + "future" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "dream_jar", + "text": "Dream jar" + }, + { + "id": "silly_options", + "text": "Silly options" + }, + { + "id": "snacks", + "text": "Snacks" + }, + { + "id": "date_night_vibe", + "text": "Date-night vibe" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_goals", + "text": "Tiny goals" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3858,40 +4092,36 @@ "id": "future_193", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which future goals feel exciting?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What dreams should we keep alive?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "goals", - "excitement" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "travel", - "text": "Travel" - }, - { - "id": "home", - "text": "Home" - }, - { - "id": "career", - "text": "Career" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "health", - "text": "Health" - }, - { - "id": "creative_dreams", - "text": "Creative dreams" - } + "dreams", + "future" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "travel", + "text": "Travel" + }, + { + "id": "home", + "text": "Home" + }, + { + "id": "freedom", + "text": "Freedom" + }, + { + "id": "creativity", + "text": "Creativity" + }, + { + "id": "more_rest", + "text": "More rest" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3900,36 +4130,36 @@ "id": "future_194", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which future goals feel stressful?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What should we celebrate along the way?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "goals", - "stress" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "moving", - "text": "Moving" - }, - { - "id": "marriage", - "text": "Marriage" - }, - { - "id": "parenting", - "text": "Parenting" - }, - { - "id": "career_changes", - "text": "Career changes" - } + "celebration", + "future" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_steps", + "text": "Tiny steps" + }, + { + "id": "big_wins", + "text": "Big wins" + }, + { + "id": "hard_choices", + "text": "Hard choices" + }, + { + "id": "new_traditions", + "text": "New traditions" + }, + { + "id": "staying_kind", + "text": "Staying kind" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3938,36 +4168,36 @@ "id": "future_195", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What do you want more of in our future?", + "text": "What helps when the future feels stressful?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "more", + "stress", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "peace", - "text": "Peace" - }, - { - "id": "adventure", - "text": "Adventure" - }, - { - "id": "security", - "text": "Security" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "purpose", - "text": "Purpose" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "small_steps", + "text": "Small steps" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "one_topic", + "text": "One topic" + }, + { + "id": "dream_first", + "text": "Dream first" + }, + { + "id": "take_a_pause", + "text": "Take a pause" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3976,36 +4206,36 @@ "id": "future_196", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What do you want less of in our future?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What future topics should we keep warm and light?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "less", + "fun_first", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "rushing", - "text": "Rushing" - }, - { - "id": "avoidance", - "text": "Avoidance" - }, - { - "id": "debt", - "text": "Debt" - }, - { - "id": "overworking", - "text": "Overworking" - }, - { - "id": "assumptions", - "text": "Assumptions" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "travel", + "text": "Travel" + }, + { + "id": "traditions", + "text": "Traditions" + }, + { + "id": "date_nights", + "text": "Date nights" + }, + { + "id": "home_dreams", + "text": "Home dreams" + }, + { + "id": "bucket_list", + "text": "Bucket list" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4014,36 +4244,39 @@ "id": "future_197", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which traditions should we create?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What future topics need soft lighting and no pressure?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "traditions", - "future" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "weekly_date", - "text": "Weekly date" - }, - { - "id": "yearly_trip", - "text": "Yearly trip" - }, - { - "id": "holiday_ritual", - "text": "Holiday ritual" - }, - { - "id": "monthly_check_in", - "text": "Monthly check-in" - }, - { - "id": "anniversary_ritual", - "text": "Anniversary ritual" - } + "safety", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "money", + "text": "Money" + }, + { + "id": "family", + "text": "Family" + }, + { + "id": "work", + "text": "Work" + }, + { + "id": "health", + "text": "Health" + }, + { + "id": "where_to_live", + "text": "Where to live" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4052,36 +4285,36 @@ "id": "future_198", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which future topics need extra gentleness?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps us plan as a team?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "gentleness", - "topics" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "kids_or_family", - "text": "Kids or family" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "marriage", - "text": "Marriage" - }, - { - "id": "career_sacrifices", - "text": "Career sacrifices" - }, - { - "id": "where_to_live", - "text": "Where to live" - } + "teamwork", + "future" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "shared_language", + "text": "Shared language" + }, + { + "id": "both_voices", + "text": "Both voices" + }, + { + "id": "one_next_step", + "text": "One next step" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "celebrating_progress", + "text": "Celebrating progress" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4090,36 +4323,39 @@ "id": "future_199", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What would help us stay aligned?", + "text": "What helps when our timelines are not wearing matching shoes?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "alignment", - "tools" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "regular_check_ins", - "text": "Regular check-ins" - }, - { - "id": "written_goals", - "text": "Written goals" - }, - { - "id": "budget_talks", - "text": "Budget talks" - }, - { - "id": "honest_timelines", - "text": "Honest timelines" - }, - { - "id": "shared_rituals", - "text": "Shared rituals" - } + "timelines", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "small_versions", + "text": "Small versions" + }, + { + "id": "revisit_later", + "text": "Revisit later" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4128,36 +4364,36 @@ "id": "future_200", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which practical plans should we make soon?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What belongs in our someday bucket list?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "practical", - "plans" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "emergency_savings", - "text": "Emergency savings" - }, - { - "id": "travel_plan", - "text": "Travel plan" - }, - { - "id": "home_routine", - "text": "Home routine" - }, - { - "id": "health_habits", - "text": "Health habits" - }, - { - "id": "couple_calendar", - "text": "Couple calendar" - } + "bucket_list", + "future" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_trip", + "text": "A trip" + }, + { + "id": "a_tradition", + "text": "A tradition" + }, + { + "id": "a_home_project", + "text": "A home project" + }, + { + "id": "a_silly_challenge", + "text": "A silly challenge" + }, + { + "id": "a_romantic_moment", + "text": "A romantic moment" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4166,36 +4402,36 @@ "id": "future_201", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What emotional qualities should our future have?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What belongs in our cozy future?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emotional", + "home", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "safety", - "text": "Safety" - }, - { - "id": "humor", - "text": "Humor" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_mornings", + "text": "Soft mornings" + }, + { + "id": "good_food", + "text": "Good food" + }, + { + "id": "peaceful_nights", + "text": "Peaceful nights" + }, + { + "id": "little_rituals", + "text": "Little rituals" + }, + { + "id": "room_to_rest", + "text": "Room to rest" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4204,36 +4440,36 @@ "id": "future_202", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which pressures should we avoid copying from others?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What belongs in our adventurous future?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pressure", - "comparison" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "relationship_timelines", - "text": "Relationship timelines" - }, - { - "id": "lifestyle_spending", - "text": "Lifestyle spending" - }, - { - "id": "family_expectations", - "text": "Family expectations" - }, - { - "id": "career_hustle", - "text": "Career hustle" - }, - { - "id": "social_media_image", - "text": "Social media image" - } + "adventure", + "future" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "new_places", + "text": "New places" + }, + { + "id": "bold_choices", + "text": "Bold choices" + }, + { + "id": "stories", + "text": "Stories" + }, + { + "id": "surprises", + "text": "Surprises" + }, + { + "id": "trying_things", + "text": "Trying things" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4242,36 +4478,36 @@ "id": "future_203", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What do you want our future home to include?", + "text": "What belongs in our peaceful future?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "home", + "peace", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "calm_space", - "text": "Calm space" - }, - { - "id": "room_for_friends", - "text": "Room for friends" - }, - { - "id": "good_routines", - "text": "Good routines" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "shared_responsibilities", - "text": "Shared responsibilities" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "less_rushing", + "text": "Less rushing" + }, + { + "id": "more_honesty", + "text": "More honesty" + }, + { + "id": "better_boundaries", + "text": "Better boundaries" + }, + { + "id": "more_rest", + "text": "More rest" + }, + { + "id": "steady_routines", + "text": "Steady routines" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4280,36 +4516,36 @@ "id": "future_204", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What might challenge us later?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What belongs in our romantic future?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "challenges", + "romance", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "money_stress", - "text": "Money stress" - }, - { - "id": "health_issues", - "text": "Health issues" - }, - { - "id": "family_conflict", - "text": "Family conflict" - }, - { - "id": "career_changes", - "text": "Career changes" - }, - { - "id": "distance_or_moving", - "text": "Distance or moving" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "date_nights", + "text": "Date nights" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_notes", + "text": "Sweet notes" + }, + { + "id": "slow_moments", + "text": "Slow moments" + }, + { + "id": "still_flirting", + "text": "Still flirting" + }, + { + "id": "shared_dreams", + "text": "Shared dreams" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4318,36 +4554,39 @@ "id": "future_205", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What strengths will help us later?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What should future-us protect like it is precious?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "strengths", - "future" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "humor", - "text": "Humor" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "commitment", - "text": "Commitment" - }, - { - "id": "adaptability", - "text": "Adaptability" - }, - { - "id": "care", - "text": "Care" - } + "protection", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "time_together", + "text": "Time together" + }, + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "peace", + "text": "Peace" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4356,36 +4595,39 @@ "id": "future_206", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which future choices should not be rushed?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What should future-us happily drop off at the curb?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "rushing", - "decisions" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "marriage", - "text": "Marriage" - }, - { - "id": "moving_in", - "text": "Moving in" - }, - { - "id": "having_kids", - "text": "Having kids" - }, - { - "id": "big_purchases", - "text": "Big purchases" - }, - { - "id": "changing_jobs", - "text": "Changing jobs" - } + "letting_go", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "comparison", + "text": "Comparison" + }, + { + "id": "old_pressure", + "text": "Old pressure" + }, + { + "id": "people_pleasing", + "text": "People-pleasing" + }, + { + "id": "rushing", + "text": "Rushing" + }, + { + "id": "perfect_timelines", + "text": "Perfect timelines" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4394,36 +4636,36 @@ "id": "future_207", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we protect no matter what changes?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What makes a future goal easier to start?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "protect", + "goals", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "time_together", - "text": "Time together" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "individual_dreams", - "text": "Individual dreams" - }, - { - "id": "physical_and_emotional_safety", - "text": "Physical and emotional safety" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_step", + "text": "Tiny step" + }, + { + "id": "fun_name", + "text": "Fun name" + }, + { + "id": "shared_why", + "text": "Shared why" + }, + { + "id": "clear_plan", + "text": "Clear plan" + }, + { + "id": "celebration", + "text": "Celebration" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4432,36 +4674,36 @@ "id": "future_208", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we learn together?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us dream bigger?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "learning", + "dreams", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "money_skills", - "text": "Money skills" - }, - { - "id": "cooking", - "text": "Cooking" - }, - { - "id": "communication", - "text": "Communication" - }, - { - "id": "health_habits", - "text": "Health habits" - }, - { - "id": "travel_planning", - "text": "Travel planning" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "encouragement", + "text": "Encouragement" + }, + { + "id": "no_judgment", + "text": "No judgment" + }, + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "hope", + "text": "Hope" + }, + { + "id": "time", + "text": "Time" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4470,36 +4712,39 @@ "id": "future_209", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which support will matter in hard seasons?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps us keep the dream alive while checking the map?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "support", - "hard_seasons" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "practical_help", - "text": "Practical help" - }, - { - "id": "clear_communication", - "text": "Clear communication" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "loyalty", - "text": "Loyalty" - } + "realism", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "small_steps", + "text": "Small steps" + }, + { + "id": "kind_honesty", + "text": "Kind honesty" + }, + { + "id": "flexible_plans", + "text": "Flexible plans" + }, + { + "id": "budget_talk", + "text": "Budget talk" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4508,36 +4753,36 @@ "id": "future_210", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should our future include for joy?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would make future planning feel more Closer-style?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "joy", + "fun_first", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "small_adventures", - "text": "Small adventures" - }, - { - "id": "silly_rituals", - "text": "Silly rituals" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "friends", - "text": "Friends" - }, - { - "id": "creative_time", - "text": "Creative time" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "silly_prompts", + "text": "Silly prompts" + }, + { + "id": "dreamy_choices", + "text": "Dreamy choices" + }, + { + "id": "warm_wording", + "text": "Warm wording" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_rituals", + "text": "Tiny rituals" + }, + { + "id": "date_night_energy", + "text": "Date-night energy" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4546,444 +4791,346 @@ "id": "future_211", "category_id": "future", "type": "scale", - "text": "How aligned do you feel about our near future?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How fun does future dreaming feel between us?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "alignment", - "near_future" + "fun_first", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not aligned", - "max_label": "Very aligned", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not fun", + "max_label": "Very fun" } }, { "id": "future_212", "category_id": "future", "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you talking about long-term plans?", + "text": "How hopeful do you feel about our future?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "comfort", - "long_term" + "hope", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not hopeful", + "max_label": "Very hopeful" } }, { "id": "future_213", "category_id": "future", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much pressure do future conversations create for you?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How easy is it to talk about small goals?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "pressure", + "small_goals", "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "None", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "future_214", "category_id": "future", "type": "scale", - "text": "How hopeful do you feel about our future right now?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much would a dream jar help us?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hope", + "dreams", "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not hopeful", - "max_label": "Very hopeful", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "future_215", "category_id": "future", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clear are our shared goals?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How clear does our next tiny step feel?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "clarity", - "goals" + "small_steps", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, + "min": 1, + "max": 5, "min_label": "Not clear", - "max_label": "Very clear", - "scale_step": 1 + "max_label": "Very clear" } }, { "id": "future_216", "category_id": "future", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we balance dreaming and planning?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much do you enjoy dreaming together?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "dreaming", - "planning" + "dreams", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "future_217", "category_id": "future", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to share future fears?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much does future-us make you smile?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "safety", - "fears" + "future_us", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "future_218", "category_id": "future", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we assume instead of asking?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How easy is it to talk about big dreams?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "assumptions", + "dreams", "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Very often", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "future_219", "category_id": "future", "type": "scale", - "text": "How ready do you feel for our next big step?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How cozy and safe does future planning feel?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "readiness", - "next_step" + "safety", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not ready", - "max_label": "Very ready", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "future_220", "category_id": "future", "type": "scale", - "text": "How patient are we with different timelines?", + "text": "How much does future talk feel pressure-y right now?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "patience", - "timelines" + "pressure", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not patient", - "max_label": "Very patient", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "future_221", "category_id": "future", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do our values guide our plans?", + "text": "How well do we protect both voices in future plans?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "values", - "plans" + "teamwork", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "Very much", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "future_222", "category_id": "future", "type": "scale", - "text": "How realistic are our current plans?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How much do our future priorities feel like they are dancing together?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "realistic", - "plans" + "priorities", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not realistic", - "max_label": "Very realistic", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not aligned", + "max_label": "Very aligned" } }, { "id": "future_223", "category_id": "future", "type": "scale", - "text": "How exciting does our future feel?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How easy is it to talk about future money without losing the sparkle?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "excitement", - "future" + "money", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not exciting", - "max_label": "Very exciting", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "future_224", "category_id": "future", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much uncertainty can we handle together?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How easy is it to talk about future family choices without pressure?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "uncertainty", - "resilience" + "family", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "future_225", "category_id": "future", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we talk about money-related future goals?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How easy is it to talk about where we want to live?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "money", + "home", "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "future_226", "category_id": "future", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we support each other's individual dreams?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How excited are you about building traditions together?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "individual_dreams", - "support" + "traditions", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not excited", + "max_label": "Very excited" } }, { "id": "future_227", "category_id": "future", "type": "scale", - "text": "How connected do you feel to our shared vision?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How much do we need more fun in future planning?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "shared_vision", - "connection" + "fun_first", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not connected", - "max_label": "Very connected", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "future_228", "category_id": "future", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do outside opinions affect our plans?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How peaceful does our future feel in your mind?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "outside_opinions", - "plans" + "peace", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not peaceful", + "max_label": "Very peaceful" } }, { "id": "future_229", "category_id": "future", "type": "scale", - 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"type": "scale", - "text": "How much joy are we building into our future?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "joy", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_233", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much rest are we building into our future?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "rest", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_234", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much adventure are we building into our future?", + "text": "How adventurous does our future feel in your mind?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -4991,361 +5138,488 @@ "future" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not adventurous", + "max_label": "Very adventurous" + } + }, + { + "id": "future_230", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How cozy does our future feel in your mind?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "home", + "future" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not cozy", + "max_label": "Very cozy" + } + }, + { + "id": "future_231", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How romantic does our future feel in your mind?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "romance", + "future" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not romantic", + "max_label": "Very romantic" + } + }, + { + "id": "future_232", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How well do we celebrate progress?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "celebration", + "future" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" + } + }, + { + "id": "future_233", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it to dream without needing all the answers?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "uncertainty", + "future" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" + } + }, + { + "id": "future_234", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How well do we dream and plan without rushing each other?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "pace", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "future_235", "category_id": "future", "type": "scale", - 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"text": "Which should we focus on first?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Cozy future or adventurous future?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "priority", + "future_us", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "better_routines", - "text": "Better routines" - }, - { - "id": "bigger_dreams", - "text": "Bigger dreams" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cozy_future", + "text": "Cozy future" + }, + { + "id": "adventurous_future", + "text": "Adventurous future" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_238", "category_id": "future", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which future talk feels more important?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Tiny step or big dream?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "talks", + "goals", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "money_goals", - "text": "Money goals" - }, - { - "id": "life_goals", - "text": "Life goals" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_step", + "text": "Tiny step" + }, + { + "id": "big_dream", + "text": "Big dream" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_239", "category_id": "future", "type": "this_or_that", - 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"text": "Which next step feels better?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Save for comfort or save for adventure?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "next_step", + "money", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_more", - "text": "Talk more" - }, - { - "id": "plan_more", - "text": "Plan more" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + }, + { + "id": "adventure", + "text": "Adventure" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_246", "category_id": "future", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which is harder for you?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "More roots or more wings?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "difficulty", + "identity", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "waiting", - "text": "Waiting" - }, - { - "id": "committing", - "text": "Committing" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "roots", + "text": "More roots" + }, + { + "id": "wings", + "text": "More wings" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_247", "category_id": "future", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which do we need more?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Slow mornings or spontaneous nights?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "needs", + "daily_life", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hope", - "text": "Hope" - }, - { - "id": "clarity", - "text": "Clarity" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_mornings", + "text": "Slow mornings" + }, + { + "id": "spontaneous_nights", + "text": "Spontaneous nights" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_248", "category_id": "future", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which should we revisit often?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Still flirting or still laughing?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "checkin", + "romance", "future" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "goals", - "text": "Goals" - }, - { - "id": "feelings", - "text": "Feelings" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "flirting", + "text": "Still flirting" + }, + { + "id": "laughing", + "text": "Still laughing" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_249", "category_id": "future", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which future fear is more important to name?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Dream about hopes or gently name fears?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fear", - "future" + "sharing", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "growing_apart", - "text": "Growing apart" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_stuck", - "text": "Feeling stuck" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hopes", + "text": "Hopes" + }, + { + "id": "fears", + "text": "Fears" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "future_250", "category_id": "future", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which future gift should we give ourselves?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Build the plan or throw confetti for progress?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future_self", - "gift" + "progress", + "future", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "better_habits", - "text": "Better habits" - }, - { - "id": "braver_honesty", - "text": "Braver honesty" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "build_plan", + "text": "Build the plan" + }, + { + "id": "celebrate_progress", + "text": "Celebrate progress" + } + ] + } } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/gratitude.json b/seed/questions/gratitude.json index a0abc32d..e9a700bb 100644 --- a/seed/questions/gratitude.json +++ b/seed/questions/gratitude.json @@ -2,3572 +2,3429 @@ "category": { "id": "gratitude", "display_name": "Gratitude", - "description": "Questions about appreciation, feeling seen, noticing effort, expressing thanks, and protecting warmth in daily life.", + "description": "Warm, Closer-style questions that help couples notice effort, say thank you, celebrate tiny wins, give playful praise, hand out fake awards, and appreciate ordinary love without feeling like homework.", "access": "mixed", - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, - "question_type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 - }, + "icon_name": "celebration", "schema_version": "question_v2", - "supported_types": [ - "written", - "single_choice", - "multi_choice", - "scale", - "this_or_that" - ] + "metadata": { + "total_questions": 250, + "free_questions": 75, + "premium_questions": 175, + "type_counts": { + "written": 150, + "single_choice": 40, + "multi_choice": 20, + "scale": 25, + "this_or_that": 15 + } + } }, "questions": [ { "id": "gratitude_001", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing about how I listen that you appreciate?", + "text": "What is one tiny thing I did recently that you appreciated?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_listen", - "appreciation" + "tiny_thanks", + "recent", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_002", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "When did you recently notice how I listen?", + "text": "What is one ordinary thing about me you are grateful for?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_listen", - "noticing" + "ordinary_love", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_003", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "How does how I listen make your life feel easier or warmer?", + "text": "What is one thing I do that makes life feel easier?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_listen", - "impact" + "support", + "daily_life", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_004", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you like to thank me for related to how I listen?", + "text": "What is one thing I do that makes life feel sweeter?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_listen", - "thanks" + "sweetness", + "daily_life", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_005", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we could notice how I listen more often?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one thing I do that deserves a little dramatic applause?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_listen", - "noticing" + "fun_first", + "play", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_006", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing about how I make you laugh that you appreciate?", + "text": "What is one thing about me you would brag about?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_make_you_laugh", - "appreciation" + "brag", + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_007", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "When did you recently notice how I make you laugh?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one small way I make you feel chosen?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_make_you_laugh", - "noticing" + "chosen", + "appreciation", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_008", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "How does how I make you laugh make your life feel easier or warmer?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one small way I make you feel safe?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_make_you_laugh", - "impact" + "safety", + "appreciation", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_009", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you like to thank me for related to how I make you laugh?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one small way I make you feel loved?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_make_you_laugh", - "thanks" + "love", + "appreciation", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_010", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we could notice how I make you laugh more often?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one habit of mine you secretly appreciate?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_make_you_laugh", - "noticing" + "habits", + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_011", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing about how I support your day that you appreciate?", + "text": "What is one weird little thing about me that you are grateful for?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_support_your_day", - "appreciation" + "quirks", + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_012", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "When did you recently notice how I support your day?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one thing I handle that you do not say thank you for enough?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_support_your_day", - "noticing" + "labor", + "recognition", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_013", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "How does how I support your day make your life feel easier or warmer?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one effort of mine you want to notice out loud?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_support_your_day", - "impact" + "effort", + "recognition", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_014", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you like to thank me for related to how I support your day?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one way I showed up for you recently?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_support_your_day", - "thanks" + "showing_up", + "recent", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_015", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we could notice how I support your day more often?", + "text": "What is one moment when you felt thankful we are us?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_support_your_day", - "noticing" + "us", + "connection", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_016", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing about what I handle at home that you appreciate?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What part of our life together deserves a little golden star?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "what_i_handle_at_home", - "appreciation" + "life_together", + "meaning", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_017", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "When did you recently notice what I handle at home?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one simple comfort I bring to your day?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "what_i_handle_at_home", - "noticing" + "comfort", + "daily_life", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_018", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "How does what I handle at home make your life feel easier or warmer?", + "text": "What is one thing I say that sticks with you in a good way?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "what_i_handle_at_home", - "impact" + "words", + "appreciation", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_019", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you like to thank me for related to what I handle at home?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one thing I do that makes home feel more like home?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "what_i_handle_at_home", - "thanks" + "home", + "comfort", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_020", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we could notice what I handle at home more often?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about how I love you?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "what_i_handle_at_home", - "noticing" + "love", + "style", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_021", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing about how I encourage you that you appreciate?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about how I care for people?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_encourage_you", - "appreciation" + "care", + "character", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_022", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "When did you recently notice how I encourage you?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about how I handle stress?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_encourage_you", - "noticing" + "stress", + "character", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_023", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "How does how I encourage you make your life feel easier or warmer?", + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about how I dream?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_encourage_you", - "impact" + "dreams", + "character", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_024", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you like to thank me for related to how I encourage you?", + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about how I laugh?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_encourage_you", - "thanks" + "laughter", + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_025", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we could notice how I encourage you more often?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about how I try?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_encourage_you", - "noticing" + "effort", + "growth", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_026", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing about how I check in that you appreciate?", + "text": "What is one thing about us that still makes you smile?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_check_in", - "appreciation" + "us", + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_027", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "When did you recently notice how I check in?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one memory you are grateful we share?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_check_in", - "noticing" + "memories", + "shared_history", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_028", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "How does how I check in make your life feel easier or warmer?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one tiny win we should celebrate?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_check_in", - "impact" + "celebration", + "tiny_wins", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_029", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you like to thank me for related to how I check in?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What hard thing did we survive that deserves a quiet high-five?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_check_in", - "thanks" + "resilience", + "hard_times", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_030", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we could notice how I check in more often?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What have we built together that deserves a tiny victory dance?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_check_in", - "noticing" + "building", + "pride", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_031", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing about the way I show affection that you appreciate?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one everyday moment with me that feels like a gift?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "the_way_i_show_affection", - "appreciation" + "daily_life", + "gift", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_032", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "When did you recently notice the way I show affection?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What should future-us thank us for protecting now?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "the_way_i_show_affection", - "noticing" + "future_us", + "protection", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_033", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "How does the way I show affection make your life feel easier or warmer?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What would past-us high-five us for today?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "the_way_i_show_affection", - "impact" + "past_us", + "growth", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_034", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you like to thank me for related to the way I show affection?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What small kindness of mine deserves more sparkle than it got?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "the_way_i_show_affection", - "thanks" + "kindness", + "meaning", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_035", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we could notice the way I show affection more often?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one way I make boring things better?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "the_way_i_show_affection", - "noticing" + "fun_first", + "daily_life", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_036", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing about how I remember details that you appreciate?", + "text": "What is one chore or task I do that deserves a thank-you parade?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_remember_details", - "appreciation" + "chores", + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_037", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "When did you recently notice how I remember details?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about my softness?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_remember_details", - "noticing" + "softness", + "appreciation", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_038", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "How does how I remember details make your life feel easier or warmer?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about my strength?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_remember_details", - "impact" + "strength", + "appreciation", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_039", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you like to thank me for related to how I remember details?", + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about my silliness?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_remember_details", - "thanks" + "silliness", + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_040", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we could notice how I remember details more often?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about my loyalty?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_remember_details", - "noticing" + "loyalty", + "trust", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_041", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing about how I help when you are stressed that you appreciate?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one compliment you could give me that you know I need to hear?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_i_help_when_you_are_stressed", - 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"how_i_share_time_with_you", - "thanks" + "daily_life", + "effort", + "meaning", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_050", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we could notice how I share time with you more often?", + "text": "What makes tiny daily efforts feel special to you?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_share_time_with_you", - "noticing" + "daily_life", + "effort", + "special", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_051", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing about how I celebrate you that you appreciate?", + "text": "What would you put on a silly thank-you card about tiny daily efforts?", "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_celebrate_you", - "appreciation" + "daily_life", + "effort", + "fun_first", + "play", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_052", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "When did you recently notice how I celebrate you?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "What makes you proud of us when you think about tiny daily efforts?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_celebrate_you", - "noticing" + "daily_life", + "effort", + "pride", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_053", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "How does how I celebrate you make your life feel easier or warmer?", + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about the way we laugh?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_celebrate_you", - "impact" + "laughter", + "fun_first", + "appreciation", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_054", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you like to thank me for related to how I celebrate you?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "What tiny moment around the way we laugh deserves more credit?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_celebrate_you", - "thanks" + "laughter", + "fun_first", + "tiny_thanks", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_055", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we could notice how I celebrate you more often?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "How could we celebrate the way we laugh in a small, sweet way?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_celebrate_you", - "noticing" + "laughter", + "fun_first", + "celebration", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_056", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing about how I make ordinary moments better that you appreciate?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "What do you hope we never take for granted about the way we laugh?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_make_ordinary_moments_better", - "appreciation" + "laughter", + "fun_first", + "meaning", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_057", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "When did you recently notice how I make ordinary moments better?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "What makes the way we laugh feel special to you?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_make_ordinary_moments_better", - "noticing" + "laughter", + "fun_first", + "special", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_058", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "How does how I make ordinary moments better make your life feel easier or warmer?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "What would you put on a silly thank-you card about the way we laugh?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_make_ordinary_moments_better", - "impact" + "laughter", + "fun_first", + "play", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_059", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you like to thank me for related to how I make ordinary moments better?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "What makes you proud of us when you think about the way we laugh?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_make_ordinary_moments_better", - "thanks" + "laughter", + "fun_first", + "pride", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_060", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we could notice how I make ordinary moments better more often?", + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about the way we handle boring life stuff?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_make_ordinary_moments_better", - "noticing" + "chores", + "daily_life", + "appreciation", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_061", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing about how I show patience that you appreciate?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "What tiny moment around the way we handle boring life stuff deserves more credit?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_show_patience", - "appreciation" + "chores", + "daily_life", + "tiny_thanks", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_062", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "When did you recently notice how I show patience?", + "text": "How could we celebrate the way we handle boring life stuff in a small, sweet way?", "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_show_patience", - "noticing" + "chores", + "daily_life", + "celebration", + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_063", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "How does how I show patience make your life feel easier or warmer?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "What do you hope we never take for granted about the way we handle boring life stuff?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_show_patience", - "impact" + "chores", + "daily_life", + "meaning", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_064", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you like to thank me for related to how I show patience?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "What makes the way we handle boring life stuff feel special to you?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_show_patience", - "thanks" + "chores", + "daily_life", + "special", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_065", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we could notice how I show patience more often?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "What would you put on a silly thank-you card about the way we handle boring life stuff?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_show_patience", - "noticing" + "chores", + "daily_life", + "fun_first", + "play", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_066", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing about how I care for us that you appreciate?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "What makes you proud of us when you think about the way we handle boring life stuff?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_care_for_us", - "appreciation" + "chores", + "daily_life", + "pride", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_067", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "When did you recently notice how I care for us?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about the way we show up for each other?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_care_for_us", - "noticing" + "showing_up", + "support", + "appreciation", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_068", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "How does how I care for us make your life feel easier or warmer?", + "text": "What tiny moment around the way we show up for each other deserves more credit?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_care_for_us", - "impact" + "showing_up", + "support", + "tiny_thanks", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_069", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you like to thank me for related to how I care for us?", + "text": "How could we celebrate the way we show up for each other in a small, sweet way?", "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_care_for_us", - "thanks" + "showing_up", + "support", + "celebration", + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_070", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we could notice how I care for us more often?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "What do you hope we never take for granted about the way we show up for each other?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_care_for_us", - "noticing" + "showing_up", + "support", + "meaning", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_071", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing about how I bring comfort that you appreciate?", - "depth": 1, - 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"depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "What makes you proud of us when you think about the way we show up for each other?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_bring_comfort", - "impact" + "showing_up", + "support", + "pride", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_074", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you like to thank me for related to how I bring comfort?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about the home feeling we create?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_i_bring_comfort", - "thanks" + "home", + "comfort", + "appreciation", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_075", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - 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"text": "Where have we taken emotional labor for granted?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would you put on a silly thank-you card about the home feeling we create?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emotional_labor", - "taken_for_granted" + "home", + "comfort", + "fun_first", + "play", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_080", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would change if we named our gratitude for emotional labor more often?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes you proud of us when you think about the home feeling we create?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emotional_labor", - "change" + "home", + "comfort", + "pride", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_081", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one part of silent effort between us that deserves more appreciation?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about the memories we have made?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "silent_effort", - "deeper_appreciation" + "memories", + "shared_history", + "appreciation", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_082", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help me see your silent effort with more care?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What tiny moment around the memories we have made deserves more credit?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "silent_effort", - "understanding" + "memories", + "shared_history", + "tiny_thanks", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_083", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way I can express gratitude for silent effort without making it feel forced?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we celebrate the memories we have made in a small, sweet way?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "silent_effort", - "expression" + "memories", + "shared_history", + "celebration", + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_084", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "Where have we taken silent effort for granted?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What do you hope we never take for granted about the memories we have made?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "silent_effort", - "taken_for_granted" + "memories", + "shared_history", + "meaning", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_085", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would change if we named our gratitude for silent effort more often?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes the memories we have made feel special to you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "silent_effort", - "change" + "memories", + "shared_history", + "special", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_086", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one part of personal sacrifices between us that deserves more appreciation?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would you put on a silly thank-you card about the memories we have made?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "personal_sacrifices", - "deeper_appreciation" + "memories", + "shared_history", + "fun_first", + "play", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_087", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you want me to notice about your personal sacrifices?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes you proud of us when you think about the memories we have made?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "personal_sacrifices", - "understanding" + "memories", + "shared_history", + "pride", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_088", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way I can express gratitude for personal sacrifices without making it feel forced?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about the hard things we have survived?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "personal_sacrifices", - "expression" + "resilience", + "hard_times", + "appreciation", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_089", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "Where have we taken personal sacrifices for granted?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What tiny moment around the hard things we have survived deserves more credit?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "personal_sacrifices", - "taken_for_granted" + "resilience", + "hard_times", + "tiny_thanks", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_090", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would change if we named our gratitude for personal sacrifices more often?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we celebrate the hard things we have survived in a small, sweet way?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "personal_sacrifices", - "change" + "resilience", + "hard_times", + "celebration", + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_091", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one part of growth we have made between us that deserves more appreciation?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What part of what we survived deserves a quiet little toast?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "growth_we_have_made", - "deeper_appreciation" + "resilience", + "hard_times", + "meaning", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_092", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "Where do you feel least understood around the growth we have made?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes the hard things we have survived feel special to you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "growth_we_have_made", - "understanding" + "resilience", + "hard_times", + "special", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_093", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way I can express gratitude for growth we have made without making it feel forced?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would you put on a silly thank-you card about the hard things we have survived?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "growth_we_have_made", - "expression" + "resilience", + "hard_times", + "fun_first", + "play", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_094", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "Where have we taken growth we have made for granted?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What makes you proud of us when you think about the hard things we have survived?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "growth_we_have_made", - "taken_for_granted" + "resilience", + "hard_times", + "pride", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_095", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would change if we named our gratitude for growth we have made more often?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about the way we keep choosing each other?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "growth_we_have_made", - "change" + "choosing_us", + "commitment", + "appreciation", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_096", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one part of forgiveness between us that deserves more appreciation?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What tiny moment around the way we keep choosing each other deserves more credit?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "forgiveness", - "deeper_appreciation" + "choosing_us", + "commitment", + "tiny_thanks", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_097", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What part of your forgiveness do you rarely get to say out loud?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we celebrate the way we keep choosing each other in a small, sweet way?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "forgiveness", - "understanding" + "choosing_us", + "commitment", + "celebration", + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_098", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way I can express gratitude for forgiveness without making it feel forced?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What part of choosing each other deserves more confetti?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "forgiveness", - "expression" + "choosing_us", + "commitment", + "meaning", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_099", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "Where have we taken forgiveness for granted?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What makes the way we keep choosing each other feel special to you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "forgiveness", - "taken_for_granted" + "choosing_us", + "commitment", + "special", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_100", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would change if we named our gratitude for forgiveness more often?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would you put on a silly thank-you card about the way we keep choosing each other?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "forgiveness", - "change" + "choosing_us", + "commitment", + "fun_first", + "play", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_101", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one part of support through stress between us that deserves more appreciation?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes you proud of us when you think about the way we keep choosing each other?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "support_through_stress", - "deeper_appreciation" + "choosing_us", + "commitment", + "pride", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_102", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I better honor what the support you give through stress brings up for you?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about the small comforts between us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "support_through_stress", - "understanding" + "comfort", + "sweetness", + "appreciation", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_103", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way I can express gratitude for support through stress without making it feel forced?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What tiny moment around the small comforts between us deserves more credit?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "support_through_stress", - "expression" + "comfort", + "sweetness", + "tiny_thanks", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_104", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "Where have we taken support through stress for granted?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How could we celebrate the small comforts between us in a small, sweet way?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "support_through_stress", - "taken_for_granted" + "comfort", + "sweetness", + "celebration", + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_105", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would change if we named our gratitude for support through stress more often?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What do you hope we never take for granted about the small comforts between us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "support_through_stress", - "change" + "comfort", + "sweetness", + "meaning", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_106", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one part of shared resilience between us that deserves more appreciation?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes the small comforts between us feel special to you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "shared_resilience", - "deeper_appreciation" + "comfort", + "sweetness", + "special", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_107", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What question do you wish I would ask about our shared resilience?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would you put on a silly thank-you card about the small comforts between us?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "shared_resilience", - "understanding" + "comfort", + "sweetness", + "fun_first", + "play", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_108", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way I can express gratitude for shared resilience without making it feel forced?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes you proud of us when you think about the small comforts between us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "shared_resilience", - "expression" + "comfort", + "sweetness", + "pride", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_109", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "Where have we taken shared resilience for granted?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about the silly parts of us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "shared_resilience", - "taken_for_granted" + "silliness", + "fun_first", + "appreciation", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_110", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would change if we named our gratitude for shared resilience more often?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What tiny moment around the silly parts of us deserves more credit?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "shared_resilience", - "change" + "silliness", + "fun_first", + "tiny_thanks", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_111", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one part of ways we repair between us that deserves more appreciation?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we celebrate the silly parts of us in a small, sweet way?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "ways_we_repair", - "deeper_appreciation" + "silliness", + "fun_first", + "celebration", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_112", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you want me to understand about the ways we repair?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What do you hope we never take for granted about the silly parts of us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "ways_we_repair", - "understanding" + "silliness", + "fun_first", + "meaning", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_113", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way I can express gratitude for ways we repair without making it feel forced?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes the silly parts of us feel special to you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "ways_we_repair", - "expression" + "silliness", + "fun_first", + "special", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_114", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "Where have we taken ways we repair for granted?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would you put on a silly thank-you card about the silly parts of us?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "ways_we_repair", - "taken_for_granted" + "silliness", + "fun_first", + "play", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_115", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would change if we named our gratitude for ways we repair more often?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes you proud of us when you think about the silly parts of us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "ways_we_repair", - "change" + "silliness", + "fun_first", + "pride", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_116", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one part of daily dependability between us that deserves more appreciation?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about the way we care for each other?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "daily_dependability", - "deeper_appreciation" + "care", + "support", + "appreciation", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_117", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What feels hardest to explain about your daily dependability?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What tiny moment around the way we care for each other deserves more credit?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "daily_dependability", - "understanding" + "care", + "support", + "tiny_thanks", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_118", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way I can express gratitude for daily dependability without making it feel forced?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we celebrate the way we care for each other in a small, sweet way?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "daily_dependability", - "expression" + "care", + "support", + "celebration", + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_119", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "Where have we taken daily dependability for granted?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What do you hope we never take for granted about the way we care for each other?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "daily_dependability", - "taken_for_granted" + "care", + "support", + "meaning", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_120", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would change if we named our gratitude for daily dependability more often?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes the way we care for each other feel special to you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "daily_dependability", - "change" + "care", + "support", + "special", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_121", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one part of feeling chosen between us that deserves more appreciation?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would you put on a silly thank-you card about the way we care for each other?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_chosen", - "deeper_appreciation" + "care", + "support", + "fun_first", + "play", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_122", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help me see feeling chosen with more care?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes you proud of us when you think about the way we care for each other?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_chosen", - "understanding" + "care", + "support", + "pride", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_123", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way I can express gratitude for feeling chosen without making it feel forced?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about the growth we have had?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_chosen", - "expression" + "growth", + "progress", + "appreciation", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_124", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "Where have we taken feeling chosen for granted?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What tiny moment around the growth we have had deserves more credit?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_chosen", - "taken_for_granted" + "growth", + "progress", + "tiny_thanks", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_125", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would change if we named our gratitude for feeling chosen more often?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we celebrate the growth we have had in a small, sweet way?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_chosen", - "change" + "growth", + "progress", + "celebration", + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_126", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one part of vulnerability between us that deserves more appreciation?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What do you hope we never take for granted about the growth we have had?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "vulnerability", - "deeper_appreciation" + "growth", + "progress", + "meaning", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_127", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you want me to notice about your vulnerability?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes the growth we have had feel special to you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "vulnerability", - "understanding" + "growth", + "progress", + "special", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_128", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way I can express gratitude for vulnerability without making it feel forced?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would you put on a silly thank-you card about the growth we have had?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "vulnerability", - "expression" + "growth", + "progress", + "fun_first", + "play", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_129", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "Where have we taken vulnerability for granted?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What makes you proud of us when you think about the growth we have had?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "vulnerability", - "taken_for_granted" + "growth", + "progress", + "pride", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_130", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would change if we named our gratitude for vulnerability more often?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about the traditions we are building?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "vulnerability", - "change" + "traditions", + "life_together", + "appreciation", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_131", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one part of mutual effort between us that deserves more appreciation?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What tiny moment around the traditions we are building deserves more credit?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "mutual_effort", - "deeper_appreciation" + "traditions", + "life_together", + "tiny_thanks", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_132", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "Where do you feel least understood around our mutual effort?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we celebrate the traditions we are building in a small, sweet way?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "mutual_effort", - "understanding" + "traditions", + "life_together", + "celebration", + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_133", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way I can express gratitude for mutual effort without making it feel forced?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What do you hope we never take for granted about the traditions we are building?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "mutual_effort", - "expression" + "traditions", + "life_together", + "meaning", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_134", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "Where have we taken mutual effort for granted?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What makes the traditions we are building feel special to you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "mutual_effort", - "taken_for_granted" + "traditions", + "life_together", + "special", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_135", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would change if we named our gratitude for mutual effort more often?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would you put on a silly thank-you card about the traditions we are building?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "mutual_effort", - "change" + "traditions", + "life_together", + "fun_first", + "play", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_136", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one part of a past hard season between us that deserves more appreciation?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes you proud of us when you think about the traditions we are building?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_past_hard_season", - "deeper_appreciation" + "traditions", + "life_together", + "pride", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_137", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What part of a past hard season do you rarely get to say out loud?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about the little ways we say love?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_past_hard_season", - "understanding" + "love_language", + "daily_life", + "appreciation", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_138", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way I can express gratitude for a past hard season without making it feel forced?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What tiny moment around the little ways we say love deserves more credit?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_past_hard_season", - "expression" + "love_language", + "daily_life", + "tiny_thanks", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_139", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "Where have we taken a past hard season for granted?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How could we celebrate the little ways we say love in a small, sweet way?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_past_hard_season", - "taken_for_granted" + "love_language", + "daily_life", + "celebration", + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_140", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would change if we named our gratitude for a past hard season more often?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What do you hope we never take for granted about the little ways we say love?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_past_hard_season", - "change" + "love_language", + "daily_life", + "meaning", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_141", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one part of unseen kindness between us that deserves more appreciation?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes the little ways we say love feel special to you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "unseen_kindness", - "deeper_appreciation" + "love_language", + "daily_life", + "special", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_142", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I better honor what your unseen kindness brings up for you?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would you put on a silly thank-you card about the little ways we say love?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "unseen_kindness", - "understanding" + "love_language", + "daily_life", + "fun_first", + "play", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_143", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way I can express gratitude for unseen kindness without making it feel forced?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes you proud of us when you think about the little ways we say love?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "unseen_kindness", - "expression" + "love_language", + "daily_life", + "pride", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_144", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "Where have we taken unseen kindness for granted?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about the future we are making?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "unseen_kindness", - "taken_for_granted" + "future_us", + "hope", + "appreciation", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_145", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would change if we named our gratitude for unseen kindness more often?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What tiny moment around the future we are making deserves more credit?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "unseen_kindness", - "change" + "future_us", + "hope", + "tiny_thanks", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_146", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one part of future gratitude between us that deserves more appreciation?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How could we celebrate the future we are making in a small, sweet way?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future_gratitude", - "deeper_appreciation" + "future_us", + "hope", + "celebration", + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_147", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What question do you wish I would ask about future gratitude?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What part of the future we are making should get a tiny spotlight?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future_gratitude", - "understanding" + "future_us", + "hope", + "meaning", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_148", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way I can express gratitude for future gratitude without making it feel forced?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes the future we are making feel special to you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future_gratitude", - "expression" + "future_us", + "hope", + "special", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_149", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "Where have we taken future gratitude for granted?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would you put on a silly thank-you card about the future we are making?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future_gratitude", - "taken_for_granted" + "future_us", + "hope", + "fun_first", + "play", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_150", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What would change if we named our gratitude for future gratitude more often?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes you proud of us when you think about the future we are making?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future_gratitude", - "change" + "future_us", + "hope", + "pride", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "gratitude_151", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of appreciation feels best to receive from me?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What kind of thank-you feels best from me?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "appreciation", - "style" + "thanks", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "words", - "text": "Words" - }, - { - "id": "actions", - "text": "Actions" - }, - { - "id": "touch", - "text": "Touch" - }, - { - "id": "quality_time", - "text": "Quality time" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet_words", + "text": "Sweet words" + }, + { + "id": "a_hug", + "text": "A hug" + }, + { + "id": "a_small_favor", + "text": "A small favor" + }, + { + "id": "a_silly_note", + "text": "A silly note" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_152", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When do you most want to hear thank you?", + "text": "What should I appreciate out loud more often?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "timing", - "thanks" + "recognition", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "right_away", - "text": "Right away" - }, - { - "id": "at_the_end_of_the_day", - "text": "At the end of the day" - }, - { - "id": "in_private", - "text": "In private" - }, - { - "id": "in_front_of_others", - "text": "In front of others" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "your_effort", + "text": "Your effort" + }, + { + "id": "your_care", + "text": "Your care" + }, + { + "id": "your_humor", + "text": "Your humor" + }, + { + "id": "your_patience", + "text": "Your patience" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_153", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes gratitude feel most real to you?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What tiny win should we celebrate today?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "authenticity", + "celebration", "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_words", - "text": "Specific words" - }, - { - "id": "changed_behavior", - "text": "Changed behavior" - }, - { - "id": "a_small_gesture", - "text": "A small gesture" - }, - { - "id": "eye_contact_and_presence", - "text": "Eye contact and presence" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "showing_up", + "text": "Showing up" + }, + { + "id": "getting_through", + "text": "Getting through" + }, + { + "id": "being_kind", + "text": "Being kind" + }, + { + "id": "laughing_together", + "text": "Laughing together" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_154", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which kind of effort do you wish was noticed more?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes you feel most noticed?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "effort", - "noticing" + "noticed", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "emotional_effort", - "text": "Emotional effort" - }, - { - "id": "household_effort", - "text": "Household effort" - }, - { - "id": "planning_effort", - "text": "Planning effort" - }, - { - "id": "work_or_stress_effort", - "text": "Work or stress effort" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific_words", + "text": "Specific words" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_details", + "text": "Remembering details" + }, + { + "id": "helping_out", + "text": "Helping out" + }, + { + "id": "checking_in", + "text": "Checking in" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_155", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of compliment lands best with you?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What kind of compliment lands best?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ "compliments", - "appreciation" + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "character", - "text": "Character" - }, - { - "id": "appearance", - "text": "Appearance" - }, - { - "id": "effort", - "text": "Effort" - }, - { - "id": "growth", - "text": "Growth" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet", + "text": "Sweet" + }, + { + "id": "specific", + "text": "Specific" + }, + { + "id": "playful", + "text": "Playful" + }, + { + "id": "deep", + "text": "Deep" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_156", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes appreciation feel awkward?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What part of us are you most grateful for today?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "awkwardness", + "us", "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "too_much_attention", - "text": "Too much attention" - }, - { - "id": "generic_words", - "text": "Generic words" - }, - { - "id": "public_praise", - "text": "Public praise" - }, - { - "id": "not_believing_it", - "text": "Not believing it" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "our_humor", + "text": "Our humor" + }, + { + "id": "our_comfort", + "text": "Our comfort" + }, + { + "id": "our_history", + "text": "Our history" + }, + { + "id": "our_teamwork", + "text": "Our teamwork" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_157", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should I appreciate out loud more often?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What little thing should get dramatic applause?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "spoken_gratitude", - "needs" + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "small_daily_things", - "text": "Small daily things" - }, - { - "id": "big_sacrifices", - "text": "Big sacrifices" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_support", - "text": "Emotional support" - }, - { - "id": "your_personal_growth", - "text": "Your personal growth" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "chores", + "text": "Chores" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "making_me_laugh", + "text": "Making me laugh" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_us_going", + "text": "Keeping us going" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_158", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What usually helps you feel seen?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What kind of gratitude ritual sounds good?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_seen", - "support" + "rituals", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "being_thanked", - "text": "Being thanked" - }, - { - "id": "being_remembered", - "text": "Being remembered" - }, - { - "id": "being_helped", - "text": "Being helped" - }, - { - "id": "being_asked_about_your_day", - "text": "Being asked about your day" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_thank_you_a_day", + "text": "One thank-you a day" + }, + { + "id": "weekly_toast", + "text": "Weekly toast" + }, + { + "id": "silly_note", + "text": "Silly note" + }, + { + "id": "bedtime_appreciation", + "text": "Bedtime appreciation" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_159", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you notice first when I am grateful?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes home feel sweeter?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "signals", + "home", "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "my_words", - "text": "My words" - }, - { - "id": "my_tone", - "text": "My tone" - }, - { - "id": "my_actions", - "text": "My actions" - }, - { - "id": "my_follow_through", - "text": "My follow-through" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + }, + { + "id": "laughter", + "text": "Laughter" + }, + { + "id": "help", + "text": "Help" + }, + { + "id": "little_routines", + "text": "Little routines" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_160", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of gratitude would help this week?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes boring days better?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "weekly", - "support" + "daily_life", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "encouragement", - "text": "Encouragement" - }, - { - "id": "acknowledgment", - "text": "Acknowledgment" - }, - { - "id": "a_break", - "text": "A break" - }, - { - "id": "a_sweet_message", - "text": "A sweet message" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "jokes", + "text": "Jokes" + }, + { + "id": "snacks", + "text": "Snacks" + }, + { + "id": "teamwork", + "text": "Teamwork" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_texts", + "text": "Sweet texts" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_161", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which area needs more appreciation between us?", + "text": "What do you want to be thanked for more?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "areas", - "appreciation" + "recognition", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "home_life", - "text": "Home life" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_support", - "text": "Emotional support" - }, - { - "id": "work_stress", - "text": "Work stress" - }, - { - "id": "relationship_effort", - "text": "Relationship effort" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "emotional_effort", + "text": "Emotional effort" + }, + { + "id": "practical_effort", + "text": "Practical effort" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "showing_up", + "text": "Showing up" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_162", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel valued fastest?", + "text": "What kind of appreciation feels romantic?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "value", - "connection" + "romance", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_direct_thank_you", - "text": "A direct thank you" - }, - { - "id": "a_hug", - "text": "A hug" - }, - { - "id": "help_without_asking", - "text": "Help without asking" - }, - { - "id": "a_thoughtful_message", - "text": "A thoughtful message" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_words", + "text": "Soft words" + }, + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "a_note", + "text": "A note" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_details", + "text": "Remembering details" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_163", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What gratitude style should we practice more?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What kind of appreciation feels playful?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "practice", + "play", "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "daily_thanks", - "text": "Daily thanks" - }, - { - "id": "specific_praise", - "text": "Specific praise" - }, - { - "id": "acts_of_service", - "text": "Acts of service" - }, - { - "id": "noticing_small_wins", - "text": "Noticing small wins" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "silly_praise", + "text": "Silly praise" + }, + { + "id": "inside_joke", + "text": "Inside joke" + }, + { + "id": "fake_award", + "text": "Fake award" + }, + { + "id": "dramatic_applause", + "text": "Dramatic applause" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_164", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When appreciation is missing, what do you feel first?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What should we notice more?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "missing_gratitude", - "feelings" + "awareness", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "invisible", - "text": "Invisible" - }, - { - "id": "resentful", - "text": "Resentful" - }, - { - "id": "tired", - "text": "Tired" - }, - { - "id": "unsure", - "text": "Unsure" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "small_efforts", + "text": "Small efforts" + }, + { + "id": "good_moments", + "text": "Good moments" + }, + { + "id": "growth", + "text": "Growth" + }, + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_165", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is easiest for you to appreciate?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What should gratitude feel like tonight?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "ease", + "today", "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "humor", - "text": "Humor" - }, - { - "id": "effort", - "text": "Effort" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet", + "text": "Sweet" + }, + { + "id": "silly", + "text": "Silly" + }, + { + "id": "tender", + "text": "Tender" + }, + { + "id": "cozy", + "text": "Cozy" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_166", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is hardest for you to receive appreciation for?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which area needs more appreciation?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "receiving", - "difficulty" + "recognition", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "things_i_should_do_anyway", - "text": "Things I should do anyway" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_labor", - "text": "Emotional labor" - }, - { - "id": "my_body_or_appearance", - "text": "My body or appearance" - }, - { - "id": "personal_growth", - "text": "Personal growth" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "daily_tasks", + "text": "Daily tasks" + }, + { + "id": "emotional_support", + "text": "Emotional support" + }, + { + "id": "work_stress", + "text": "Work stress" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_effort", + "text": "Quiet effort" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_167", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of thank you feels too generic?", + "text": "What kind of effort is easiest to miss?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "generic", - "thanks" + "effort", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "thanks_for_everything", - "text": "Thanks for everything" - }, - { - "id": "you_are_the_best", - "text": "You are the best" - }, - { - "id": "good_job", - "text": "Good job" - }, - { - "id": "i_appreciate_you", - "text": "I appreciate you" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "invisible_planning", + "text": "Invisible planning" + }, + { + "id": "emotional_labor", + "text": "Emotional labor" + }, + { + "id": "house_stuff", + "text": "House stuff" + }, + { + "id": "staying_patient", + "text": "Staying patient" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_168", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a thank you feel specific enough?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What kind of praise feels most like love?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "specificity", - "thanks" + "praise", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "naming_the_action", - "text": "Naming the action" - }, - { - "id": "naming_the_impact", - "text": "Naming the impact" - }, - { - "id": "naming_the_effort", - "text": "Naming the effort" - }, - { - "id": "naming_the_feeling", - "text": "Naming the feeling" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific", + "text": "Specific" + }, + { + "id": "private", + "text": "Private" + }, + { + "id": "playful", + "text": "Playful" + }, + { + "id": "repeated", + "text": "Repeated" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_169", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Where would you like more celebration?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes a thank-you feel like it missed the mark?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "celebration", - "needs" + "authenticity", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "small_wins", - "text": "Small wins" - }, - { - "id": "work_wins", - "text": "Work wins" - }, - { - "id": "personal_growth", - "text": "Personal growth" - }, - { - "id": "relationship_progress", - "text": "Relationship progress" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "too_vague", + "text": "Too vague" + }, + { + "id": "forced", + "text": "Forced" + }, + { + "id": "bad_timing", + "text": "Bad timing" + }, + { + "id": "no_follow_through", + "text": "No follow-through" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_170", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What gratitude habit sounds most realistic?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes a thank-you actually land in your heart?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "habit", - "realistic" + "authenticity", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_daily_thank_you", - "text": "One daily thank you" - }, - { - "id": "weekly_appreciation_note", - "text": "Weekly appreciation note" - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_after_conflict", - "text": "Gratitude after conflict" - }, - { - "id": "noticing_chores", - "text": "Noticing chores" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific_words", + "text": "Specific words" + }, + { + "id": "right_timing", + "text": "Right timing" + }, + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "changed_behavior", + "text": "Changed behavior" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_171", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do you prefer I notice your effort?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What should we celebrate more often?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "effort", - "preferences" + "celebration", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "say_it_directly", - "text": "Say it directly" - }, - { - "id": "help_with_it", - "text": "Help with it" - }, - { - "id": "tell_someone_else", - "text": "Tell someone else" - }, - { - "id": "remember_it_later", - "text": "Remember it later" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_wins", + "text": "Tiny wins" + }, + { + "id": "hard_days_survived", + "text": "Hard days survived" + }, + { + "id": "good_talks", + "text": "Good talks" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_moments", + "text": "Sweet moments" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_172", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of appreciation do we forget most?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What should get a fake award between us?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "forgetting", - "appreciation" + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "everyday_tasks", - "text": "Everyday tasks" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_support", - "text": "Emotional support" - }, - { - "id": "planning_and_organizing", - "text": "Planning and organizing" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "best_hug", + "text": "Best hug" + }, + { + "id": "best_snack_save", + "text": "Best snack save" + }, + { + "id": "best_patience", + "text": "Best patience" + }, + { + "id": "best_little_helper", + "text": "Best little helper" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_173", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make gratitude feel less like a chore?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What kind of thank-you note would make you smile?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "authenticity", - "habit" + "notes", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "keep_it_spontaneous", - "text": "Keep it spontaneous" - }, - { - "id": "keep_it_specific", - "text": "Keep it specific" - }, - { - "id": "keep_it_short", - "text": "Keep it short" - }, - { - "id": "pair_it_with_action", - "text": "Pair it with action" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet", + "text": "Sweet" + }, + { + "id": "funny", + "text": "Funny" + }, + { + "id": "spicy_but_safe", + "text": "Spicy-but-safe" + }, + { + "id": "dramatic", + "text": "Dramatic" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_174", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What gratitude should we show after a hard week?", + "text": "What part of our history feels most precious?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hard_week", + "shared_history", "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "thanks_for_staying_present", - "text": "Thanks for staying present" - }, - { - "id": "thanks_for_trying", - "text": "Thanks for trying" - }, - { - "id": "thanks_for_helping", - "text": "Thanks for helping" - }, - { - "id": "thanks_for_being_patient", - "text": "Thanks for being patient" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "how_we_started", + "text": "How we started" + }, + { + "id": "what_we_survived", + "text": "What we survived" + }, + { + "id": "what_we_built", + "text": "What we built" + }, + { + "id": "how_we_changed", + "text": "How we changed" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_175", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is your favorite way to say thank you?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What part of our future are you grateful for already?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "expression", - "thanks" + "future_us", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "words", - "text": "Words" - }, - { - "id": "a_note", - "text": "A note" - }, - { - "id": "a_small_gift", - "text": "A small gift" - }, - { - "id": "doing_something_helpful", - "text": "Doing something helpful" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_memories", + "text": "More memories" + }, + { + "id": "more_peace", + "text": "More peace" + }, + { + "id": "more_adventures", + "text": "More adventures" + }, + { + "id": "more_ordinary_days", + "text": "More ordinary days" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_176", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is your favorite way to receive thanks?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What kind of gratitude helps during stress?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "receiving", - "thanks" + "stress", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "words", - "text": "Words" - }, - { - "id": "a_note", - "text": "A note" - }, - { - "id": "a_small_gift", - "text": "A small gift" - }, - { - "id": "help_with_something", - "text": "Help with something" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_thanks", + "text": "Tiny thanks" + }, + { + "id": "noticing_effort", + "text": "Noticing effort" + }, + { + "id": "kind_words", + "text": "Kind words" + }, + { + "id": "practical_help", + "text": "Practical help" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_177", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we appreciate before it becomes invisible?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "invisible", - "awareness" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "daily_routines", - "text": "Daily routines" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_check_ins", - "text": "Emotional check-ins" - }, - { - "id": "work_behind_the_scenes", - "text": "Work behind the scenes" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_sacrifices", - "text": "Quiet sacrifices" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_178", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you believe my appreciation?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "belief", - "trust" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "specific_details", - "text": "Specific details" - }, - { - "id": "warm_tone", - "text": "Warm tone" - }, - { - "id": "matching_actions", - "text": "Matching actions" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_179", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you doubt my appreciation?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "doubt", - "trust" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_follow_through", - "text": "No follow-through" - }, - { - "id": "bad_timing", - "text": "Bad timing" - }, - { - "id": "generic_words", - "text": "Generic words" - }, - { - "id": "only_hearing_it_after_conflict", - "text": "Only hearing it after conflict" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_180", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which moment deserves more gratitude?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "moments", - "reflection" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "morning_routines", - "text": "Morning routines" - }, - { - "id": "after_work", - "text": "After work" - }, - { - "id": "before_sleep", - "text": "Before sleep" - }, - { - "id": "after_hard_talks", - "text": "After hard talks" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_181", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of recognition would help you feel less alone?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "recognition", - "alone" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "naming_your_effort", - "text": "Naming your effort" - }, - { - "id": "helping_sooner", - "text": "Helping sooner" - }, - { - "id": "asking_more_questions", - "text": "Asking more questions" - }, - { - "id": "sharing_the_load", - "text": "Sharing the load" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_182", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What part of your care do you want me to notice?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "care", - "noticing" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "emotional_care", - "text": "Emotional care" - }, - { - "id": "practical_care", - "text": "Practical care" - }, - { - "id": "physical_affection", - "text": "Physical affection" - }, - { - "id": "planning_ahead", - "text": "Planning ahead" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_183", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What part of my care do you notice most?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "care", - "appreciation" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "emotional_care", - "text": "Emotional care" - }, - { - "id": "practical_care", - "text": "Practical care" - }, - { - "id": "physical_affection", - "text": "Physical affection" - }, - { - "id": "showing_up_consistently", - "text": "Showing up consistently" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_184", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of gratitude helps after conflict?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", @@ -3575,239 +3432,483 @@ "repair", "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "thanks_for_coming_back", - "text": "Thanks for coming back" - }, - { - "id": "thanks_for_listening", - "text": "Thanks for listening" - }, - { - "id": "thanks_for_apologizing", - "text": "Thanks for apologizing" - }, - { - "id": "thanks_for_staying_respectful", - "text": "Thanks for staying respectful" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "noticing_repair", + "text": "Noticing repair" + }, + { + "id": "thanking_honesty", + "text": "Thanking honesty" + }, + { + "id": "thanking_patience", + "text": "Thanking patience" + }, + { + "id": "thanking_softness", + "text": "Thanking softness" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_178", + "category_id": "gratitude", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes you feel appreciated without words?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "nonverbal", + "gratitude" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "help", + "text": "Help" + }, + { + "id": "touch", + "text": "Touch" + }, + { + "id": "time", + "text": "Time" + }, + { + "id": "thoughtfulness", + "text": "Thoughtfulness" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_179", + "category_id": "gratitude", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes you feel appreciated with words?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "words", + "gratitude" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific_praise", + "text": "Specific praise" + }, + { + "id": "thank_you", + "text": "Thank you" + }, + { + "id": "i_noticed", + "text": "I noticed" + }, + { + "id": "i_am_proud_of_you", + "text": "I am proud of you" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_180", + "category_id": "gratitude", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should we never stop thanking each other for?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "commitment", + "gratitude" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "choosing_each_other", + "text": "Choosing each other" + }, + { + "id": "trying", + "text": "Trying" + }, + { + "id": "showing_up", + "text": "Showing up" + }, + { + "id": "loving_through_seasons", + "text": "Loving through seasons" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_181", + "category_id": "gratitude", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of appreciation feels like home?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "home", + "gratitude" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_words", + "text": "Soft words" + }, + { + "id": "little_help", + "text": "Little help" + }, + { + "id": "warm_routines", + "text": "Warm routines" + }, + { + "id": "being_known", + "text": "Being known" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_182", + "category_id": "gratitude", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of appreciation feels adventurous?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "adventure", + "gratitude" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "trying_things", + "text": "Trying things" + }, + { + "id": "cheering_each_other_on", + "text": "Cheering each other on" + }, + { + "id": "making_memories", + "text": "Making memories" + }, + { + "id": "saying_yes", + "text": "Saying yes" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_183", + "category_id": "gratitude", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of appreciation feels cozy?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "cozy", + "gratitude" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_thanks", + "text": "Quiet thanks" + }, + { + "id": "comfort_food", + "text": "Comfort food" + }, + { + "id": "soft_touch", + "text": "Soft touch" + }, + { + "id": "bedtime_words", + "text": "Bedtime words" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_184", + "category_id": "gratitude", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of appreciation feels energizing?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "energy", + "gratitude" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "public_praise", + "text": "Public praise" + }, + { + "id": "private_praise", + "text": "Private praise" + }, + { + "id": "celebrating_wins", + "text": "Celebrating wins" + }, + { + "id": "noticing_effort", + "text": "Noticing effort" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_185", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of appreciation helps during stress?", + "text": "What helps you receive appreciation?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress", + "receiving", "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "you_are_doing_a_lot", - "text": "You are doing a lot" - }, - { - "id": "i_see_your_effort", - "text": "I see your effort" - }, - { - "id": "i_am_here_with_you", - "text": "I am here with you" - }, - { - "id": "let_me_help", - "text": "Let me help" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "believe_it", + "text": "Believe it" + }, + { + "id": "no_deflecting", + "text": "No deflecting" + }, + { + "id": "hear_specifics", + "text": "Hear specifics" + }, + { + "id": "let_it_land", + "text": "Let it land" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_186", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What gratitude do you want us to model around others?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes you want to dodge a compliment like it is a flying sock?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "public", - "values" + "receiving", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "thankfulness", - "text": "Thankfulness" - }, - { - "id": "teamwork", - "text": "Teamwork" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "embarrassment", + "text": "Embarrassment" + }, + { + "id": "not_believing_it", + "text": "Not believing it" + }, + { + "id": "bad_timing", + "text": "Bad timing" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_undeserving", + "text": "Feeling undeserving" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_187", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make our gratitude feel more mutual?", + "text": "What helps us spot the good stuff when life is being ridiculous?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "mutuality", - "gratitude" + "messy_life", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "both_naming_effort", - "text": "Both naming effort" - }, - { - "id": "both_helping_more", - "text": "Both helping more" - }, - { - "id": "both_saying_thanks", - "text": "Both saying thanks" - }, - { - "id": "both_noticing_small_things", - "text": "Both noticing small things" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "small_wins", + "text": "Small wins" + }, + { + "id": "humor", + "text": "Humor" + }, + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "looking_back", + "text": "Looking back" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_188", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Where do you want less criticism and more appreciation?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What should we appreciate about this season of us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "criticism", - "appreciation" + "season", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "chores", - "text": "Chores" - }, - { - "id": "communication", - "text": "Communication" - }, - { - "id": "parenting_or_family", - "text": "Parenting or family" - }, - { - "id": "work_stress", - "text": "Work stress" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "growth", + "text": "Growth" + }, + { + "id": "endurance", + "text": "Endurance" + }, + { + "id": "softness", + "text": "Softness" + }, + { + "id": "new_dreams", + "text": "New dreams" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_189", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would help you give gratitude when you are tired?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would make gratitude more fun between us?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "tired", + "fun_first", "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "keep_it_simple", - "text": "Keep it simple" - }, - { - "id": "use_small_gestures", - "text": "Use small gestures" - }, - { - "id": "say_it_later", - "text": "Say it later" - }, - { - "id": "write_it_down", - "text": "Write it down" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "fake_awards", + "text": "Fake awards" + }, + { + "id": "silly_notes", + "text": "Silly notes" + }, + { + "id": "thank_you_dares", + "text": "Thank-you dares" + }, + { + "id": "toast_night", + "text": "Toast night" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_190", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would help you receive gratitude when you are tired?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would make gratitude feel more natural next month?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "tired", - "receiving" + "monthly", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_big_reaction_expected", - "text": "No big reaction expected" - }, - { - "id": "a_soft_tone", - "text": "A soft tone" - }, - { - "id": "a_quiet_hug", - "text": "A quiet hug" - }, - { - "id": "a_simple_thank_you", - "text": "A simple thank you" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_specifics", + "text": "More specifics" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_ritual", + "text": "Tiny ritual" + }, + { + "id": "less_waiting", + "text": "Less waiting" + }, + { + "id": "more_playfulness", + "text": "More playfulness" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_191", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things would you like us to appreciate more often?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What are you grateful for in us today?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "appreciation", - "areas" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "daily_chores", - "text": "Daily chores" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_support", - "text": "Emotional support" - }, - { - "id": "planning_ahead", - "text": "Planning ahead" - }, - { - "id": "physical_affection", - "text": "Physical affection" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - } + "today", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "our_humor", + "text": "Our humor" + }, + { + "id": "our_comfort", + "text": "Our comfort" + }, + { + "id": "our_history", + "text": "Our history" + }, + { + "id": "our_teamwork", + "text": "Our teamwork" + }, + { + "id": "our_softness", + "text": "Our softness" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3816,36 +3917,36 @@ "id": "gratitude_192", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes appreciation feel meaningful to you?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What small things deserve more thanks?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "meaningful", + "tiny_thanks", "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_words", - "text": "Specific words" - }, - { - "id": "matching_actions", - "text": "Matching actions" - }, - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "warm_tone", - "text": "Warm tone" - }, - { - "id": "remembering_later", - "text": "Remembering later" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "chores", + "text": "Chores" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_texts", + "text": "Sweet texts" + }, + { + "id": "checking_in", + "text": "Checking in" + }, + { + "id": "showing_up", + "text": "Showing up" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3854,36 +3955,36 @@ "id": "gratitude_193", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which efforts are easiest to overlook?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes gratitude more fun?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "overlooked", - "effort" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "invisible_planning", - "text": "Invisible planning" - }, - { - "id": "listening_well", - "text": "Listening well" - }, - { - "id": "managing_stress", - "text": "Managing stress" - }, - { - "id": "household_tasks", - "text": "Household tasks" - }, - { - "id": "showing_up_consistently", - "text": "Showing up consistently" - } + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "fake_awards", + "text": "Fake awards" + }, + { + "id": "dramatic_applause", + "text": "Dramatic applause" + }, + { + "id": "silly_notes", + "text": "Silly notes" + }, + { + "id": "inside_jokes", + "text": "Inside jokes" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_celebrations", + "text": "Tiny celebrations" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3892,36 +3993,36 @@ "id": "gratitude_194", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What gratitude habits could fit our life?", + "text": "What helps you feel appreciated?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "habits", + "appreciation", "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "daily_thank_you", - "text": "Daily thank you" - }, - { - "id": "weekly_note", - "text": "Weekly note" - }, - { - "id": "appreciation_during_dinner", - "text": "Appreciation during dinner" - }, - { - "id": "text_during_the_day", - "text": "Text during the day" - }, - { - "id": "bedtime_gratitude", - "text": "Bedtime gratitude" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific_words", + "text": "Specific words" + }, + { + "id": "help", + "text": "Help" + }, + { + "id": "affection", + "text": "Affection" + }, + { + "id": "quality_time", + "text": "Quality time" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_details", + "text": "Remembering details" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3930,36 +4031,36 @@ "id": "gratitude_195", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What do you want to be thanked for more?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What should we celebrate more?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "thanks", - "needs" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "trying_hard", - "text": "Trying hard" - }, - { - "id": "being_patient", - "text": "Being patient" - }, - { - "id": "carrying_responsibility", - "text": "Carrying responsibility" - }, - { - "id": "showing_affection", - "text": "Showing affection" - }, - { - "id": "working_on_yourself", - "text": "Working on yourself" - } + "celebration", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_wins", + "text": "Tiny wins" + }, + { + "id": "hard_days_survived", + "text": "Hard days survived" + }, + { + "id": "growth", + "text": "Growth" + }, + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "laughter", + "text": "Laughter" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3968,36 +4069,36 @@ "id": "gratitude_196", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs tell you I am grateful?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What kinds of effort should we notice more?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "signals", + "effort", "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_say_it_directly", - "text": "I say it directly" - }, - { - "id": "i_help_more", - "text": "I help more" - }, - { - "id": "i_am_affectionate", - "text": "I am affectionate" - }, - { - "id": "i_remember_details", - "text": "I remember details" - }, - { - "id": "i_celebrate_you", - "text": "I celebrate you" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "emotional_effort", + "text": "Emotional effort" + }, + { + "id": "daily_tasks", + "text": "Daily tasks" + }, + { + "id": "planning", + "text": "Planning" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "repair_attempts", + "text": "Repair attempts" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4006,36 +4107,36 @@ "id": "gratitude_197", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What can block gratitude between us?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes appreciation land better?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "blocks", + "appreciation", "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "stress", - "text": "Stress" - }, - { - "id": "resentment", - "text": "Resentment" - }, - { - "id": "assumptions", - "text": "Assumptions" - }, - { - "id": "busyness", - "text": "Busyness" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_unappreciated", - "text": "Feeling unappreciated" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific_words", + "text": "Specific words" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "no_rushing", + "text": "No rushing" + }, + { + "id": "follow_through", + "text": "Follow-through" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4044,36 +4145,36 @@ "id": "gratitude_198", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps gratitude return after tension?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes appreciation feel playful?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", + "play", "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_sincere_apology", - "text": "A sincere apology" - }, - { - "id": "naming_effort", - "text": "Naming effort" - }, - { - "id": "soft_tone", - "text": "Soft tone" - }, - { - "id": "a_small_helpful_action", - "text": "A small helpful action" - }, - { - "id": "time_to_cool_down", - "text": "Time to cool down" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "silly_titles", + "text": "Silly titles" + }, + { + "id": "fake_awards", + "text": "Fake awards" + }, + { + "id": "inside_jokes", + "text": "Inside jokes" + }, + { + "id": "funny_thank_yous", + "text": "Funny thank-yous" + }, + { + "id": "celebration_snacks", + "text": "Celebration snacks" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4082,36 +4183,36 @@ "id": "gratitude_199", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which moments should we celebrate more?", + "text": "What makes appreciation feel romantic?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "celebration", - "moments" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "small_wins", - "text": "Small wins" - }, - { - "id": "hard_weeks_survived", - "text": "Hard weeks survived" - }, - { - "id": "new_habits", - "text": "New habits" - }, - { - "id": "acts_of_courage", - "text": "Acts of courage" - }, - { - "id": "kind_choices", - "text": "Kind choices" - } + "romance", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_words", + "text": "Soft words" + }, + { + "id": "private_praise", + "text": "Private praise" + }, + { + "id": "slow_moment", + "text": "Slow moment" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_details", + "text": "Remembering details" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_note", + "text": "Sweet note" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4120,36 +4221,36 @@ "id": "gratitude_200", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What kind of appreciation helps you feel loved?", + "text": "What should we thank past-us for?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "love", - "appreciation" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "noticing_my_effort", - "text": "Noticing my effort" - }, - { - "id": "thanking_me_directly", - "text": "Thanking me directly" - }, - { - "id": "showing_affection", - "text": "Showing affection" - }, - { - "id": "giving_me_rest", - "text": "Giving me rest" - }, - { - "id": "bragging_about_me_kindly", - "text": "Bragging about me kindly" - } + "past_us", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "surviving_hard_things", + "text": "Surviving hard things" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_each_other", + "text": "Choosing each other" + }, + { + "id": "trying_again", + "text": "Trying again" + }, + { + "id": "growing", + "text": "Growing" + }, + { + "id": "building_memories", + "text": "Building memories" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4158,36 +4259,36 @@ "id": "gratitude_201", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which areas need more mutual gratitude?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What should we thank future-us for starting now?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "mutual", - "areas" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "money_stress", - "text": "Money stress" - }, - { - "id": "home_life", - "text": "Home life" - }, - { - "id": "communication_work", - "text": "Communication work" - }, - { - "id": "family_responsibilities", - "text": "Family responsibilities" - }, - { - "id": "future_planning", - "text": "Future planning" - } + "future_us", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "saving_energy", + "text": "Saving energy" + }, + { + "id": "making_peace", + "text": "Making peace" + }, + { + "id": "building_habits", + "text": "Building habits" + }, + { + "id": "protecting_love", + "text": "Protecting love" + }, + { + "id": "dreaming", + "text": "Dreaming" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4196,36 +4297,36 @@ "id": "gratitude_202", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What does gratitude invite more of?", + "text": "What helps when appreciation feels awkward?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "impact", + "awkwardness", "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "warmth", - "text": "Warmth" - }, - { - "id": "generosity", - "text": "Generosity" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "keep_it_simple", + "text": "Keep it simple" + }, + { + "id": "make_it_playful", + "text": "Make it playful" + }, + { + "id": "be_specific", + "text": "Be specific" + }, + { + "id": "smile_through_it", + "text": "Smile through it" + }, + { + "id": "let_it_land", + "text": "Let it land" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4234,36 +4335,36 @@ "id": "gratitude_203", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What gratitude would make this season easier?", + "text": "What should we appreciate during busy seasons?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "season", - "support" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "thanks_for_trying", - "text": "Thanks for trying" - }, - { - "id": "thanks_for_staying_close", - "text": "Thanks for staying close" - }, - { - "id": "thanks_for_carrying_this", - "text": "Thanks for carrying this" - }, - { - "id": "thanks_for_being_patient", - "text": "Thanks for being patient" - }, - { - "id": "thanks_for_making_room_for_me", - "text": "Thanks for making room for me" - } + "busy_life", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "effort", + "text": "Effort" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "little_check_ins", + "text": "Little check-ins" + }, + { + "id": "teamwork", + "text": "Teamwork" + }, + { + "id": "grace", + "text": "Grace" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4272,36 +4373,36 @@ "id": "gratitude_204", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which appreciation feels private and special?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What should we appreciate after a hard conversation?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "private", - "appreciation" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_note", - "text": "A note" - }, - { - "id": "a_quiet_thank_you", - "text": "A quiet thank you" - }, - { - "id": "a_shared_memory", - "text": "A shared memory" - }, - { - "id": "a_gentle_touch", - "text": "A gentle touch" - }, - { - "id": "a_small_surprise", - "text": "A small surprise" - } + "hard_talks", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "softness", + "text": "Softness" + }, + { + "id": "listening", + "text": "Listening" + }, + { + "id": "trying_again", + "text": "Trying again" + }, + { + "id": "staying_kind", + "text": "Staying kind" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4310,74 +4411,74 @@ "id": "gratitude_205", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What appreciation feels better in public?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What should we appreciate after conflict?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "public", - "appreciation" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respectful_praise", - "text": "Respectful praise" - }, - { - "id": "a_warm_introduction", - "text": "A warm introduction" - }, - { - "id": "credit_for_effort", - "text": "Credit for effort" - }, - { - "id": "a_simple_thank_you", - "text": "A simple thank you" - }, - { - "id": "none_keep_it_private", - "text": "None, keep it private" - } + "conflict", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "repair", + "text": "Repair" + }, + { + "id": "accountability", + "text": "Accountability" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "coming_back", + "text": "Coming back" + }, + { + "id": "care", + "text": "Care" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 2 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "gratitude_206", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we stop taking for granted?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What makes us feel lucky?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "taken_for_granted", - "awareness" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "health", - "text": "Health" - }, - { - "id": "time_together", - "text": "Time together" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_safety", - "text": "Emotional safety" - }, - { - "id": "daily_labor", - "text": "Daily labor" - }, - { - "id": "second_chances", - "text": "Second chances" - } + "luck", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "shared_jokes", + "text": "Shared jokes" + }, + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + }, + { + "id": "history", + "text": "History" + }, + { + "id": "chemistry", + "text": "Chemistry" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_each_other", + "text": "Choosing each other" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4386,36 +4487,36 @@ "id": "gratitude_207", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we name out loud more?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What deserves a tiny toast?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "naming", + "celebration", "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "needs_being_met", - "text": "Needs being met" - }, - { - "id": "care_being_given", - "text": "Care being given" - }, - { - "id": "growth_happening", - "text": "Growth happening" - }, - { - "id": "love_being_shown", - "text": "Love being shown" - }, - { - "id": "stress_being_carried", - "text": "Stress being carried" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "good_day", + "text": "Good day" + }, + { + "id": "hard_day_survived", + "text": "Hard day survived" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_win", + "text": "Tiny win" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_moment", + "text": "Sweet moment" + }, + { + "id": "teamwork", + "text": "Teamwork" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4424,36 +4525,36 @@ "id": "gratitude_208", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which thank you would mean a lot right now?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What gratitude habits sound doable?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "current", - "thanks" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "thanks_for_your_patience", - "text": "Thanks for your patience" - }, - { - "id": "thanks_for_your_effort", - "text": "Thanks for your effort" - }, - { - "id": "thanks_for_your_honesty", - "text": "Thanks for your honesty" - }, - { - "id": "thanks_for_your_softness", - "text": "Thanks for your softness" - }, - { - "id": "thanks_for_your_consistency", - "text": "Thanks for your consistency" - } + "habits", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "bedtime_thanks", + "text": "Bedtime thanks" + }, + { + "id": "weekly_toast", + "text": "Weekly toast" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_note", + "text": "Sweet note" + }, + { + "id": "fake_award", + "text": "Fake award" + }, + { + "id": "morning_compliment", + "text": "Morning compliment" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4462,36 +4563,36 @@ "id": "gratitude_209", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps you offer gratitude when you feel hurt?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps us not take each other for granted?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hurt", + "awareness", "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "starting_small", - "text": "Starting small" - }, - { - "id": "naming_one_good_thing", - "text": "Naming one good thing" - }, - { - "id": "taking_time_first", - "text": "Taking time first" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_heard_first", - "text": "Feeling heard first" - }, - { - "id": "remembering_we_are_a_team", - "text": "Remembering we are a team" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "notice_effort", + "text": "Notice effort" + }, + { + "id": "say_thank_you", + "text": "Say thank you" + }, + { + "id": "remember_hard_seasons", + "text": "Remember hard seasons" + }, + { + "id": "celebrate_small_things", + "text": "Celebrate small things" + }, + { + "id": "stay_curious", + "text": "Stay curious" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4500,36 +4601,36 @@ "id": "gratitude_210", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps you receive gratitude when you feel hurt?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make gratitude feel more Closer-style?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hurt", - "receiving" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_pressure_to_respond", - "text": "No pressure to respond" - }, - { - "id": "a_sincere_tone", - "text": "A sincere tone" - }, - { - "id": "specific_words", - "text": "Specific words" - }, - { - "id": "accountability_too", - "text": "Accountability too" - }, - { - "id": "time_to_believe_it", - "text": "Time to believe it" - } + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "warm_prompts", + "text": "Warm prompts" + }, + { + "id": "silly_options", + "text": "Silly options" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_rituals", + "text": "Tiny rituals" + }, + { + "id": "specific_thanks", + "text": "Specific thanks" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_playfulness", + "text": "Sweet playfulness" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4538,102 +4639,133 @@ "id": "gratitude_211", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How appreciated have you felt by me this week?", + "text": "How appreciated do you feel lately?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "weekly", - "appreciated" + "appreciation", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, + "min": 1, + "max": 5, "min_label": "Not appreciated", - "max_label": "Very appreciated", - "scale_step": 1 + "max_label": "Very appreciated" } }, { "id": "gratitude_212", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do we notice each other's small efforts?", + "text": "How easy is it to say thank you out loud?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "small_efforts", - "noticing" + "thanks", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Very often", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "gratitude_213", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you receiving direct appreciation?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How fun does gratitude feel between us?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "receiving", - "comfort" + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Uncomfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not fun", + "max_label": "Very fun" } }, { "id": "gratitude_214", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How naturally do we say thank you to each other?", + "text": "How much do tiny thank-yous matter to you?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "thanks", - "habit" + "tiny_thanks", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not naturally", - "max_label": "Very naturally", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "gratitude_215", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How seen do you feel in the work you do for us?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How well do we notice each other's effort?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "seen", - "effort" + "effort", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not seen", - "max_label": "Very seen", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "gratitude_216", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How specific is my appreciation usually?", + "text": "How much would a tiny gratitude ritual help us?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "rituals", + "gratitude" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" + } + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_217", + "category_id": "gratitude", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How proud do you feel of us lately?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "pride", + "gratitude" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not proud", + "max_label": "Very proud" + } + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_218", + "category_id": "gratitude", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How specific does our appreciation feel?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -4641,703 +4773,708 @@ "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, + "min": 1, + "max": 5, "min_label": "Too vague", - "max_label": "Very specific", - "scale_step": 1 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_217", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does gratitude help you feel close to me?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "closeness", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_218", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do we take everyday care for granted?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "taken_for_granted", - "care" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Very often", - "scale_step": 1 + "max_label": "Very specific" } }, { "id": "gratitude_219", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it for you to tell me what you appreciate?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How easy is it to receive appreciation?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "expression", - "ease" + "receiving", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Very hard", - "max_label": "Very easy", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "gratitude_220", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it for you to ask for appreciation?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How often do we celebrate tiny wins?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "asking", - "appreciation" + "celebration", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Very hard", - "max_label": "Very easy", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Rarely", + "max_label": "Often" } }, { "id": "gratitude_221", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How balanced does appreciation feel between us?", + "text": "How often do our ordinary good things deserve more applause?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "balance", - "gratitude" + "awareness", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Unbalanced", - "max_label": "Very balanced", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "gratitude_222", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do my actions match my gratitude?", + "text": "How well do we notice the invisible stuff that keeps us going?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "actions", - "gratitude" + "invisible_effort", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "Very much", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "gratitude_223", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do your actions match your gratitude?", + "text": "How appreciated do you feel for the heart-work you do?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "actions", - "self_reflection" + "emotional_labor", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "Very much", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not appreciated", + "max_label": "Very appreciated" } }, { "id": "gratitude_224", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do we celebrate progress instead of only noticing problems?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How appreciated do you feel for the real-life stuff you handle?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "progress", - "celebration" + "practical_effort", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Very often", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not appreciated", + "max_label": "Very appreciated" } }, { "id": "gratitude_225", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does stress reduce our gratitude?", + "text": "How much does gratitude help us reconnect?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress", + "reconnection", "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not at all", - "max_label": "Very much", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "gratitude_226", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to say you need more appreciation?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How much does gratitude help after stress?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "safety", - "needs" + "stress", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "gratitude_227", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do you feel emotionally nourished by appreciation from me?", + "text": "How much does a real thank-you help us soften after conflict?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emotional", - "nourishment" + "conflict", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Very often", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "gratitude_228", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do I notice your invisible effort?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How playful does our appreciation feel?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "invisible_effort", - "noticing" + "play", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not playful", + "max_label": "Very playful" } }, { "id": "gratitude_229", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do you notice my invisible effort?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How romantic does our appreciation feel?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "invisible_effort", - "self_reflection" + "romance", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not romantic", + "max_label": "Very romantic" } }, { "id": "gratitude_230", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much would a gratitude ritual help us?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How cozy does our appreciation feel?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "ritual", + "cozy", "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not cozy", + "max_label": "Very cozy" } }, { "id": "gratitude_231", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How meaningful are small thank-yous to you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How easy is it to notice good things during busy seasons?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "small_thanks", - "meaning" + "busy_life", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not meaningful", - "max_label": "Very meaningful", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "gratitude_232", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do we appreciate each other after conflict?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How much would fake awards make gratitude more fun?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "conflict", + "fun_first", "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Very often", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "gratitude_233", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does feeling appreciated affect your patience?", + "text": "How much do you believe I see the little things you do?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "patience", - "appreciated" + "recognition", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, + "min": 1, + "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "gratitude_234", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much gratitude do you feel for our relationship right now?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How much do we appreciate the little legends we are becoming?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "relationship", - "gratitude" + "growth", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Very little", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "gratitude_235", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much gratitude do you want us to practice this month?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How much sweeter could our ordinary days feel with more gratitude?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "practice", - "month" + "daily_life", + "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, + "min": 1, + "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "gratitude_236", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which appreciation feels better?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Sweet thank-you or silly thank-you?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "style", - "appreciation" + "thanks", + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_words", - "text": "Specific words" - }, - { - "id": "helpful_action", - "text": "Helpful action" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet", + "text": "Sweet thank-you" + }, + { + "id": "silly", + "text": "Silly thank-you" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_237", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which would you rather receive?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Tiny toast or fake award?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "receiving", - "preference" + "celebration", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_thank_you_note", - "text": "A thank-you note" - }, - { - "id": "a_quiet_hug", - "text": "A quiet hug" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_toast", + "text": "Tiny toast" + }, + { + "id": "fake_award", + "text": "Fake award" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_238", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which feels more meaningful?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Compliment me or brag about us?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "meaning", + "compliments", "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "being_noticed_right_away", - "text": "Being noticed right away" - }, - { - "id": "being_remembered_later", - "text": "Being remembered later" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "compliment_me", + "text": "Compliment me" + }, + { + "id": "brag_about_us", + "text": "Brag about us" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_239", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which should we practice more?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Thank-you note or thank-you hug?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "practice", + "thanks", "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "daily_thanks", - "text": "Daily thanks" - }, - { - "id": "weekly_reflection", - "text": "Weekly reflection" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "note", + "text": "Thank-you note" + }, + { + "id": "hug", + "text": "Thank-you hug" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_240", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which feels warmer?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "Notice effort or notice sweetness?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "warmth", - "appreciation" + "awareness", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "private_appreciation", - "text": "Private appreciation" - }, - { - "id": "public_appreciation", - "text": "Public appreciation" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "effort", + "text": "Notice effort" + }, + { + "id": "sweetness", + "text": "Notice sweetness" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_241", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which helps more after stress?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Dramatic applause or quiet appreciation?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress", - "support" + "fun_first", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "words_of_appreciation", - "text": "Words of appreciation" - }, - { - "id": "practical_help", - "text": "Practical help" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "applause", + "text": "Dramatic applause" + }, + { + "id": "quiet", + "text": "Quiet appreciation" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_242", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which would you choose first here: giving gratitude or receiving gratitude?", + "text": "Thank past-us or high-five future-us?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "ease", - "expression" + "time", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "giving_gratitude", - "text": "Giving gratitude" - }, - { - "id": "receiving_gratitude", - "text": "Receiving gratitude" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "past_us", + "text": "Past-us thanks" + }, + { + "id": "future_us", + "text": "Future-us thanks" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_243", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which do we overlook more?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Appreciate a chore or appreciate a mood-lift?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "overlooked", - "effort" + "daily_life", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "small_chores", - "text": "Small chores" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_effort", - "text": "Emotional effort" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "chore", + "text": "A chore" + }, + { + "id": "mood_lift", + "text": "A mood-lift" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_244", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which should we celebrate more?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Romantic gratitude or cozy gratitude?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "celebration", - "focus" + "romance", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "small_wins", - "text": "Small wins" - }, - { - "id": "big_milestones", - "text": "Big milestones" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "romantic", + "text": "Romantic gratitude" + }, + { + "id": "cozy", + "text": "Cozy gratitude" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_245", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which kind of praise lands better?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Specific praise or playful praise?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "praise", - "style" + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "effort_praise", - "text": "Effort praise" - }, - { - "id": "character_praise", - "text": "Character praise" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific", + "text": "Specific praise" + }, + { + "id": "playful", + "text": "Playful praise" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_246", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which would you choose first here: thank you for what you did or thank you for who you are?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Thank me now or surprise me later?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "love", + "surprise", "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "thank_you_for_what_you_did", - "text": "Thank you for what you did" - }, - { - "id": "thank_you_for_who_you_are", - "text": "Thank you for who you are" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "now", + "text": "Thank me now" + }, + { + "id": "later", + "text": "Surprise me later" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_247", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which should come first?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Celebrate a tiny win or high-five a hard thing survived?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "order", - "repair" + "celebration", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "appreciation", - "text": "Appreciation" - }, - { - "id": "accountability", - "text": "Accountability" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_win", + "text": "Tiny win" + }, + { + "id": "hard_thing", + "text": "Hard thing survived" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_248", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which gratitude habit sounds easier?", + "text": "Say 'I noticed' or say 'I'm proud of you'?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "habit", - "ease" + "words", + "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "text_message", - "text": "Text message" - }, - { - "id": "bedtime_check_in", - "text": "Bedtime check-in" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "noticed", + "text": "I noticed" + }, + { + "id": "proud", + "text": "I'm proud of you" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_249", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which feels more personal?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Bedtime thanks or morning compliment?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "personal", + "rituals", "gratitude" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_memory", - "text": "A memory" - }, - { - "id": "a_compliment", - "text": "A compliment" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "bedtime", + "text": "Bedtime thanks" + }, + { + "id": "morning", + "text": "Morning compliment" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "gratitude_250", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which would help us most this week?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Thank you for loving me or thank you for still liking my weird little self?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "weekly", - "gratitude" + "love", + "gratitude", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "notice_more", - "text": "Notice more" - }, - { - "id": "say_more", - "text": "Say more" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "loving", + "text": "Loving me" + }, + { + "id": "liking", + "text": "Liking me" + } + ] + } } ] }