diff --git a/seed/questions/marriage.json b/seed/questions/marriage.json index a10bea21..18c5ef32 100644 --- a/seed/questions/marriage.json +++ b/seed/questions/marriage.json @@ -2,3812 +2,4056 @@ "category": { "id": "marriage", "display_name": "Marriage", - "description": "Questions about commitment, partnership, rituals, repair, long-term alignment, shared life, and protecting the relationship over time.", + "description": "Warm, Closer-style questions that help couples make marriage feel devoted, playful, romantic, steady, and uniquely theirs through vows, rituals, teamwork, old-married silliness, still-dating energy, fake spouse awards, and everyday choosing.", "access": "mixed", - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, - "question_type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 - }, + "icon_name": "favorite_border", "schema_version": "question_v2", - "supported_types": [ - "written", - "single_choice", - "multi_choice", - "scale", - "this_or_that" - ] + "metadata": { + "total_questions": 250, + "free_questions": 75, + "premium_questions": 175, + "type_counts": { + "written": 150, + "single_choice": 40, + "multi_choice": 20, + "scale": 25, + "this_or_that": 15 + } + } }, "questions": [ { "id": "marriage_001", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing about daily partnership that makes our marriage stronger?", + "text": "What makes our marriage feel most like us?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "daily_partnership", - "strength" + "identity", + "us", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_002", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could we be more intentional with daily partnership?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one tiny married-life moment that makes you smile?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "daily_partnership", - "intentionality" + "daily_life", + "fun_first", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_003", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you appreciate about how we handle daily partnership?", + "text": "What is one thing about being married to me that gives cozy little heart-squeeze energy?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "daily_partnership", - "appreciation" + "sweetness", + "commitment", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_004", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What small habit would improve daily partnership this month?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one thing about being married to me that feels funny in the best way?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "daily_partnership", - "habit" + "humor", + "fun_first", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_005", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I help you feel more loved around daily partnership?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one ordinary thing we do that feels like married couple lore?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "daily_partnership", - "love" + "lore", + "fun_first", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_006", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing about small rituals that makes our marriage stronger?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What everyday promise of ours still feels like a tiny vow?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "small_rituals", - "strength" + "vows", + "commitment", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_007", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could we be more intentional with small rituals?", + "text": "What tiny unspoken promise do we keep like married couple magic?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "small_rituals", - "intentionality" + "promises", + "daily_life", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_008", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you appreciate about how we handle small rituals?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one way we pick each other again on a regular old Tuesday?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "small_rituals", - "appreciation" + "choosing_us", + "daily_life", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_009", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What small habit would improve small rituals this month?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one way I make you feel like you have a built-in teammate?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "small_rituals", - "habit" + "teamwork", + "support", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_010", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I help you feel more loved around small rituals?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one way you make me feel like I have a built-in teammate?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "small_rituals", - "love" + "teamwork", + "mutual", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_011", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing about shared decisions that makes our marriage stronger?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one married-life win we should celebrate?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "shared_decisions", - "strength" + "wins", + "celebration", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_012", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could we be more intentional with shared decisions?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one silly thing future-old-us will probably still do?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "shared_decisions", - "intentionality" + "future_us", + "fun_first", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_013", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you appreciate about how we handle shared decisions?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one thing future-us should fiercely refuse to outgrow?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "shared_decisions", - "appreciation" + "continuity", + "love", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_014", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What small habit would improve shared decisions this month?", + "text": "What is one thing in our marriage that deserves more sunlight?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "shared_decisions", - "habit" + "growth", + "hope", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_015", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I help you feel more loved around shared decisions?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What does 'still dating each other' look like in our real-life version?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "shared_decisions", - "love" + "date_night", + "romance", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_016", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing about communication habits that makes our marriage stronger?", + "text": "What helps marriage feel romantic instead of just 'did we pay that bill?'", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication_habits", - "strength" + "romance", + "routine", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_017", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could we be more intentional with communication habits?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps marriage feel playful instead of stuck on repeat?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication_habits", - "intentionality" + "play", + "fun_first", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_018", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you appreciate about how we handle communication habits?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps marriage feel like a deep breath instead of a deadline?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication_habits", - "appreciation" + "peace", + "pressure", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_019", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What small habit would improve communication habits this month?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps marriage feel chosen instead of assumed?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication_habits", - "habit" + "safety", + "commitment", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_020", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I help you feel more loved around communication habits?", + "text": "What makes you proud to be my person in public and in pajamas?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication_habits", - "love" + "pride", + "belonging", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_021", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing about showing affection that makes our marriage stronger?", + "text": "What makes you glad I am your person, weird little habits and all?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "showing_affection", - "strength" + "belonging", + "gratitude", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_022", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could we be more intentional with showing affection?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What have we survived that deserves a quiet married-team high-five?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "showing_affection", - "intentionality" + "resilience", + "hard_times", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_023", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you appreciate about how we handle showing affection?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one thing we built together that deserves a tiny trophy?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "showing_affection", - "appreciation" + "building", + "fun_first", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_024", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What small habit would improve showing affection this month?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one tiny ritual that makes us feel married in a good way?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "showing_affection", - "habit" + "rituals", + "daily_life", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_025", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I help you feel more loved around showing affection?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one tiny ritual that could make married life sweeter?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "showing_affection", - "love" + "rituals", + "sweetness", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_026", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing about protecting time together that makes our marriage stronger?", + "text": "What makes our home feel like a married little team?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "protecting_time_together", - "strength" + "home", + "teamwork", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_027", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could we be more intentional with protecting time together?", + "text": "What makes our marriage feel like the place your shoulders drop?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "protecting_time_together", - "intentionality" + "home", + "security", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_028", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you appreciate about how we handle protecting time together?", + "text": "What makes our marriage feel like an adventure with snacks packed?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "protecting_time_together", - "appreciation" + "adventure", + "hope", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_029", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What small habit would improve protecting time together this month?", + "text": "What makes our marriage feel like the softest landing spot?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "protecting_time_together", - "habit" + "comfort", + "safety", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_030", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I help you feel more loved around protecting time together?", + "text": "What is one small way I could make married life easier for you?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "protecting_time_together", - "love" + "support", + "daily_life", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_031", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing about household teamwork that makes our marriage stronger?", + "text": "What is one small way you make married life easier for me?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "household_teamwork", - "strength" + "support", + "gratitude", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_032", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could we be more intentional with household teamwork?", + "text": "What deserves a tiny trophy in the way we share life?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "household_teamwork", - "intentionality" + "appreciation", + "life_together", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_033", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you appreciate about how we handle household teamwork?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What part of us should we protect from turning into autopilot?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "household_teamwork", - "appreciation" + "protection", + "busy_life", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_034", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What small habit would improve household teamwork this month?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What has marriage taught you about the little universe of us?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "household_teamwork", - "habit" + "reflection", + "growth", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_035", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I help you feel more loved around household teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What has marriage taught you about love in real clothes, not movie clothes?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "household_teamwork", - "love" + "love", + "reflection", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_036", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing about handling stress that makes our marriage stronger?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What has marriage taught you about patience when life is being extra?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "handling_stress", - "strength" + "patience", + "reflection", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_037", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could we be more intentional with handling stress?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one thing marriage has taught you about laughter?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "handling_stress", - "intentionality" + "laughter", + "fun_first", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_038", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you appreciate about how we handle handling stress?", + "text": "What simple anniversary thing would still feel special enough to count?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "handling_stress", - "appreciation" + "anniversary", + "rituals", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_039", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What small habit would improve handling stress this month?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one way we can make normal Tuesdays feel a little married-romantic?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "handling_stress", - "habit" + "daily_life", + "romance", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_040", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I help you feel more loved around handling stress?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one inside joke that belongs in our marriage museum?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "handling_stress", - "love" + "inside_jokes", + "fun_first", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_041", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing about celebrating wins that makes our marriage stronger?", + "text": "What is one thing about us that would make future-us smile?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "celebrating_wins", - "strength" + "future_us", + "hope", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_042", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could we be more intentional with celebrating wins?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What little habit says, 'Yep, still glad I married you'?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "celebrating_wins", - "intentionality" + "habits", + "love", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_043", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you appreciate about how we handle celebrating wins?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one way we can keep being curious about each other?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "celebrating_wins", - "appreciation" + "curiosity", + "connection", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_044", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What small habit would improve celebrating wins this month?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps us stay kind when life is aggressively not cute?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "celebrating_wins", - "habit" + "kindness", + "stress", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_045", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I help you feel more loved around celebrating wins?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one way we can choose more married joy on purpose?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "celebrating_wins", - "love" + "joy", + "choosing_us", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_046", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing about staying curious that makes our marriage stronger?", + "text": "What makes daily married life feel more like us?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "staying_curious", - "strength" + "daily_life", + "routine", + "identity", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_047", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could we be more intentional with staying curious?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", + "text": "How could we make daily married life sweeter without making it complicated?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "staying_curious", - "intentionality" + "daily_life", + "routine", + "sweetness", + "simplicity", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_048", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you appreciate about how we handle staying curious?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "What tiny ritual could make daily married life feel special?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "staying_curious", - "appreciation" + "daily_life", + "routine", + "rituals", + "fun_first", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_049", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What small habit would improve staying curious this month?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", + "text": "What do you appreciate about daily married life?", + "depth": 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"placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_141", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What truth about resentment prevention do we need to say more plainly?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What part of future-us should we start protecting now?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "resentment_prevention", - "truth" + "future_us", + "teamwork", + "protection", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_142", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "How has resentment prevention changed since we committed to each other?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make future-us feel more like an adventure duo?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "resentment_prevention", - "change" + "future_us", + "teamwork", + "fun_first", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_143", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "Where do we need more courage or honesty around resentment prevention?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would future-us thank us for doing around our future as a married team?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "resentment_prevention", - "courage" + "future_us", + "teamwork", + "gratitude", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_144", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What would protecting our marriage look like around resentment prevention?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What makes the little ways we love feel more like us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "resentment_prevention", - "protection" + "love_language", + "daily_life", + "identity", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_145", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you hope we understand about resentment prevention years from now?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How could we make the little ways we love sweeter without making it complicated?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "resentment_prevention", - "future" + "love_language", + "daily_life", + "sweetness", + "simplicity", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_146", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What truth about legacy and shared purpose do we need to say more plainly?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What tiny ritual could make the little ways we love feel special?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "legacy_and_shared_purpose", - "truth" + "love_language", + "daily_life", + "rituals", + "fun_first", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_147", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "How has legacy and shared purpose changed since we committed to each other?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What do you appreciate about the little ways we love?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "legacy_and_shared_purpose", - "change" + "love_language", + "daily_life", + "appreciation", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_148", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "Where do we need more courage or honesty around legacy and shared purpose?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What should we protect about the little ways we love?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "legacy_and_shared_purpose", - "courage" + "love_language", + "daily_life", + "protection", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_149", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What would protecting our marriage look like around legacy and shared purpose?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What tiny love habit could use more sparkle?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "legacy_and_shared_purpose", - "protection" + "love_language", + "daily_life", + "fun_first", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_150", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you hope we understand about legacy and shared purpose years from now?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would future-us thank us for doing around the little ways we love?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "legacy_and_shared_purpose", - "future" + "love_language", + "daily_life", + "future_us", + "gratitude", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "marriage_151", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel most married in a good way?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What married-life vibe do you want more of?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "identity", + "vibe", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "daily_partnership", - "text": "Daily partnership" - }, - { - "id": "shared_history", - "text": "Shared history" - }, - { - "id": "commitment", - "text": "Commitment" - }, - { - "id": "being_chosen", - "text": "Being chosen" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cozy", + "text": "Cozy" + }, + { + "id": "playful", + "text": "Playful" + }, + { + "id": "romantic", + "text": "Romantic" + }, + { + "id": "peaceful", + "text": "Peaceful" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_152", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What marriage habit should we protect?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes us feel most like a team?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "habit", - "protection" + "teamwork", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "check_ins", - "text": "Check-ins" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "date_time", - "text": "Date time" - }, - { - "id": "repair", - "text": "Repair" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "shared_decisions", + "text": "Shared decisions" + }, + { + "id": "helping_each_other", + "text": "Helping each other" + }, + { + "id": "laughing_through_it", + "text": "Laughing through it" + }, + { + "id": "showing_up", + "text": "Showing up" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_153", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What area needs more teamwork?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What kind of married romance sounds best tonight?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "area" + "romance", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "home_life", - "text": "Home life" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "planning", - "text": "Planning" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "couch_closeness", + "text": "Couch closeness" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_words", + "text": "Sweet words" + }, + { + "id": "slow_dinner", + "text": "Slow dinner" + }, + { + "id": "playful_flirting", + "text": "Playful flirting" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_154", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel chosen by me?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What married-life win deserves applause?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "chosen", - "love" + "celebration", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "priority_time", - "text": "Priority time" - }, - { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" - }, - { - "id": "physical_affection", - "text": "Physical affection" - }, - { - "id": "follow_through", - "text": "Follow-through" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "staying_kind", + "text": "Staying kind" + }, + { + "id": "getting_through", + "text": "Getting through" + }, + { + "id": "laughing_together", + "text": "Laughing together" + }, + { + "id": "helping_each_other", + "text": "Helping each other" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_155", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes commitment feel alive instead of assumed?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes daily marriage sweeter?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "commitment", - "alive" + "daily_life", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "intentional_effort", - "text": "Intentional effort" - }, - { - "id": "shared_goals", - "text": "Shared goals" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_promises", - "text": "Keeping promises" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "little_notes", + "text": "Little notes" + }, + { + "id": "small_help", + "text": "Small help" + }, + { + "id": "inside_jokes", + "text": "Inside jokes" + }, + { + "id": "affection", + "text": "Affection" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_156", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of marriage check-in would you actually use?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes daily marriage easier?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "check_in", + "ease", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "weekly_talk", - "text": "Weekly talk" - }, - { - "id": "monthly_date", - "text": "Monthly date" - }, - { - "id": "question_app", - "text": "Question app" - }, - { - "id": "walk_together", - "text": "Walk together" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_asks", + "text": "Clear asks" + }, + { + "id": "shared_tasks", + "text": "Shared tasks" + }, + { + "id": "grace", + "text": "Grace" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_157", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes married life feel heavy?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes commitment feel romantic?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "heaviness", + "commitment", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "routine", - "text": "Routine" - }, - { - "id": "stress", - "text": "Stress" - }, - { - "id": "unspoken_needs", - "text": "Unspoken needs" - }, - { - "id": "uneven_load", - "text": "Uneven load" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "being_chosen", + "text": "Being chosen" + }, + { + "id": "being_remembered", + "text": "Being remembered" + }, + { + "id": "being_protected", + "text": "Being protected" + }, + { + "id": "being_prioritized", + "text": "Being prioritized" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_158", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes married life feel light?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes commitment feel playful?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "lightness", + "play", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "humor", - "text": "Humor" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "shared_wins", - "text": "Shared wins" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "inside_jokes", + "text": "Inside jokes" + }, + { + "id": "silly_rituals", + "text": "Silly rituals" + }, + { + "id": "flirting", + "text": "Flirting" + }, + { + "id": "fake_vows", + "text": "Fake vows" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_159", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we recommit to this season?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What should we keep from becoming too routine?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "recommit", - "season" + "routine", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "teamwork", - "text": "Teamwork" - }, - { - "id": "intimacy", - "text": "Intimacy" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "affection", + "text": "Affection" + }, + { + "id": "date_nights", + "text": "Date nights" + }, + { + "id": "curiosity", + "text": "Curiosity" + }, + { + "id": "thank_yous", + "text": "Thank-yous" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_160", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which promise needs more attention?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What should get a married-life fake award?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "promise", - "attention" + "fun_first", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "listening", - "text": "Listening" - }, - { - "id": "showing_up", - "text": "Showing up" - }, - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "partnership", - "text": "Partnership" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "best_teammate", + "text": "Best teammate" + }, + { + "id": "best_hug", + "text": "Best hug" + }, + { + "id": "best_snack_save", + "text": "Best snack save" + }, + { + "id": "best_patience", + "text": "Best patience" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_161", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you want us to do before resentment grows?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps us stay kind when life gets busy?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "resentment", - "prevention" + "busy_life", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_earlier", - "text": "Talk earlier" - }, - { - "id": "share_tasks", - "text": "Share tasks" - }, - { - "id": "apologize_sooner", - "text": "Apologize sooner" - }, - { - "id": "ask_better_questions", - "text": "Ask better questions" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "short_check_ins", + "text": "Short check-ins" + }, + { + "id": "grace", + "text": "Grace" + }, + { + "id": "help", + "text": "Help" + }, + { + "id": "no_scorekeeping", + "text": "No scorekeeping" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_162", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you proud of our marriage?", + "text": "What makes you feel proud of us?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ "pride", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "growth", - "text": "Growth" - }, - { - "id": "resilience", - "text": "Resilience" - }, - { - "id": "care", - "text": "Care" - }, - { - "id": "shared_values", - "text": "Shared values" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "what_we_built", + "text": "What we built" + }, + { + "id": "what_we_survived", + "text": "What we survived" + }, + { + "id": "how_we_love", + "text": "How we love" + }, + { + "id": "how_we_try", + "text": "How we try" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_163", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we keep private between us?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What does future-old-us need more of?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "privacy", + "future_us", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "conflict_details", - "text": "Conflict details" - }, - { - "id": "money_stress", - "text": "Money stress" - }, - { - "id": "intimacy", - "text": "Intimacy" - }, - { - "id": "family_tension", - "text": "Family tension" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "laughter", + "text": "Laughter" + }, + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + }, + { + "id": "adventure", + "text": "Adventure" + }, + { + "id": "soft_routines", + "text": "Soft routines" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_164", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we talk about more openly?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What marriage ritual sounds most like us?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "openness", + "rituals", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "needs", - "text": "Needs" - }, - { - "id": "fears", - "text": "Fears" - }, - { - "id": "future_plans", - "text": "Future plans" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "anniversary_notes", + "text": "Anniversary notes" + }, + { + "id": "sunday_reset", + "text": "Sunday reset" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_toast", + "text": "Tiny toast" + }, + { + "id": "date_night_jar", + "text": "Date-night jar" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_165", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What marriage strength do you trust most?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What should marriage feel like this week?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "strength", - "trust" + "weekly", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "repair", - "text": "Repair" - }, - { - "id": "loyalty", - "text": "Loyalty" - }, - { - "id": "humor", - "text": "Humor" - }, - { - "id": "shared_values", - "text": "Shared values" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cozy", + "text": "Cozy" + }, + { + "id": "flirty", + "text": "Flirty" + }, + { + "id": "steady", + "text": "Steady" + }, + { + "id": "playful", + "text": "Playful" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_166", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What marriage weakness needs gentle attention?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Which part of marriage needs more playfulness?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "weakness", - "attention" + "fun_first", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "avoidance", - "text": "Avoidance" - }, - { - "id": "assumptions", - "text": "Assumptions" - }, - { - "id": "busyness", - "text": "Busyness" - }, - { - "id": "defensiveness", - "text": "Defensiveness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "chores", + "text": "Chores" + }, + { + "id": "routines", + "text": "Routines" + }, + { + "id": "date_nights", + "text": "Date nights" + }, + { + "id": "hard_talks", + "text": "Hard talks" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_167", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel safe bringing up hard topics?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Which part of marriage needs more tenderness?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "safety", - "hard_topics" + "tenderness", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_tone", - "text": "Soft tone" - }, - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "no_interrupting", - "text": "No interrupting" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "daily_life", + "text": "Daily life" + }, + { + "id": "stress", + "text": "Stress" + }, + { + "id": "intimacy", + "text": "Intimacy" + }, + { + "id": "future_plans", + "text": "Future plans" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_168", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What future version of us do you want to protect?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "future", - "protection" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "playful_us", - "text": "Playful us" - }, - { - "id": "peaceful_us", - "text": "Peaceful us" - }, - { - "id": "adventurous_us", - "text": "Adventurous us" - }, - { - "id": "deeply_connected_us", - "text": "Deeply connected us" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "marriage_169", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of support matters most in marriage?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "support", - "marriage" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "emotional", - "text": "Emotional" - }, - { - "id": "practical", - "text": "Practical" - }, - { - "id": "physical", - "text": "Physical" - }, - { - "id": "financial", - "text": "Financial" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "marriage_170", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What does loyalty look like day to day?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "loyalty", - "daily" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respectful_words", - "text": "Respectful words" - }, - { - "id": "follow_through", - "text": "Follow-through" - }, - { - "id": "boundaries", - "text": "Boundaries" - }, - { - "id": "showing_up", - "text": "Showing up" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "marriage_171", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is most romantic to you in married life?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "romance", - "marriage" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "thoughtfulness", - "text": "Thoughtfulness" - }, - { - "id": "touch", - "text": "Touch" - }, - { - "id": "words", - "text": "Words" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "marriage_172", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is least romantic but deeply loving?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "love", - "practical" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "doing_chores", - "text": "Doing chores" - }, - { - "id": "planning_ahead", - "text": "Planning ahead" - }, - { - "id": "handling_stress", - "text": "Handling stress" - }, - { - "id": "being_consistent", - "text": "Being consistent" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "marriage_173", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we celebrate more?", + "text": "Which part of marriage needs more celebration?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "celebration", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "anniversaries", - "text": "Anniversaries" - }, - { - "id": "small_wins", - "text": "Small wins" - }, - { - "id": "growth", - "text": "Growth" - }, - { - "id": "surviving_hard_seasons", - "text": "Surviving hard seasons" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "small_wins", + "text": "Small wins" + }, + { + "id": "anniversaries", + "text": "Anniversaries" + }, + { + "id": "growth", + "text": "Growth" + }, + { + "id": "teamwork", + "text": "Teamwork" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "marriage_169", + "category_id": "marriage", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which married-life habit should we build?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "habits", + "marriage" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "check_ins", + "text": "Check-ins" + }, + { + "id": "thank_yous", + "text": "Thank-yous" + }, + { + "id": "date_nights", + "text": "Date nights" + }, + { + "id": "rest_time", + "text": "Rest time" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "marriage_170", + "category_id": "marriage", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes marriage start feeling like a board meeting?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "pressure", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_play", + "text": "No play" + }, + { + "id": "too_much_stress", + "text": "Too much stress" + }, + { + "id": "only_logistics", + "text": "Only logistics" + }, + { + "id": "forgotten_romance", + "text": "Forgotten romance" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "marriage_171", + "category_id": "marriage", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes marriage feel light enough to laugh again?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "lightness", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "humor", + "text": "Humor" + }, + { + "id": "affection", + "text": "Affection" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_dates", + "text": "Tiny dates" + }, + { + "id": "letting_things_be_imperfect", + "text": "Letting things be imperfect" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "marriage_172", + "category_id": "marriage", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes marriage feel steady in the bones?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "security", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "consistency", + "text": "Consistency" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "showing_up", + "text": "Showing up" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "marriage_173", + "category_id": "marriage", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes marriage feel adventurous?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "adventure", + "marriage" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "trying_things", + "text": "Trying things" + }, + { + "id": "travel", + "text": "Travel" + }, + { + "id": "dreaming", + "text": "Dreaming" + }, + { + "id": "saying_yes", + "text": "Saying yes" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_174", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What needs less autopilot?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes marriage feel peaceful?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "autopilot", - "attention" + "peace", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "conversations", - "text": "Conversations" - }, - { - "id": "schedules", - "text": "Schedules" - }, - { - "id": "intimacy", - "text": "Intimacy" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_tone", + "text": "Soft tone" + }, + { + "id": "shared_routines", + "text": "Shared routines" + }, + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "home_comfort", + "text": "Home comfort" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_175", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What needs more grace?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes marriage feel romantic?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "grace", + "romance", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "mistakes", - "text": "Mistakes" - }, - { - "id": "stress_reactions", - "text": "Stress reactions" - }, - { - "id": "changing_needs", - "text": "Changing needs" - }, - { - "id": "family_pressure", - "text": "Family pressure" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet_words", + "text": "Sweet words" + }, + { + "id": "quality_time", + "text": "Quality time" + }, + { + "id": "affection", + "text": "Affection" + }, + { + "id": "being_chosen", + "text": "Being chosen" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_176", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What needs more accountability?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps when marriage starts wearing sweatpants every day emotionally?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "accountability", - "marriage" + "routine", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "promises", - "text": "Promises" - }, - { - "id": "tone", - "text": "Tone" - }, - { - "id": "tasks", - "text": "Tasks" - }, - { - "id": "repair", - "text": "Repair" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "new_ritual", + "text": "New ritual" + }, + { + "id": "date_night", + "text": "Date night" + }, + { + "id": "curiosity", + "text": "Curiosity" + }, + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_177", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you stay hopeful about us?", + "text": "What helps when marriage has to carry real-life heavy stuff?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hope", - "marriage" + "stress", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "progress", - "text": "Progress" - }, - { - "id": "repair", - "text": "Repair" - }, - { - "id": "shared_dreams", - "text": "Shared dreams" - }, - { - "id": "daily_kindness", - "text": "Daily kindness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "team_language", + "text": "Team language" + }, + { + "id": "one_thing_at_a_time", + "text": "One thing at a time" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_178", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you worry about us?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps when marriage needs a confetti button?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "worry", - "marriage" + "fun_first", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "distance", - "text": "Distance" - }, - { - "id": "avoidance", - "text": "Avoidance" - }, - { - "id": "conflict", - "text": "Conflict" - }, - { - "id": "lack_of_time", - "text": "Lack of time" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "silly_plans", + "text": "Silly plans" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_adventure", + "text": "Tiny adventure" + }, + { + "id": "inside_joke", + "text": "Inside joke" + }, + { + "id": "fake_award", + "text": "Fake award" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_179", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What commitment practice sounds useful?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps when marriage needs more closeness?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "commitment", - "practice" + "closeness", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "monthly_vows_check_in", - "text": "Monthly vows check-in" - }, - { - "id": "weekly_appreciation", - "text": "Weekly appreciation" - }, - { - "id": "regular_date_night", - "text": "Regular date night" - }, - { - "id": "shared_goal_review", - "text": "Shared goal review" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "time", + "text": "Time" + }, + { + "id": "touch", + "text": "Touch" + }, + { + "id": "deep_talk", + "text": "Deep talk" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_check_in", + "text": "Gentle check-in" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_180", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you want our home to feel like?", + "text": "What helps when marriage needs more space?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "home", - "feeling" + "space", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "peaceful", - "text": "Peaceful" - }, - { - "id": "playful", - "text": "Playful" - }, - { - "id": "warm", - "text": "Warm" - }, - { - "id": "organized", - "text": "Organized" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_guilt", + "text": "No guilt" + }, + { + "id": "clear_timing", + "text": "Clear timing" + }, + { + "id": "respect", + "text": "Respect" + }, + { + "id": "warm_return", + "text": "Warm return" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_181", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you want our marriage to feel like after hard days?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What should we do for an anniversary when we have couch-level energy?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hard_days", - "marriage" + "anniversary", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "safe", - "text": "Safe" - }, - { - "id": "soft", - "text": "Soft" - }, - { - "id": "honest", - "text": "Honest" - }, - { - "id": "united", - "text": "United" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "takeout", + "text": "Takeout" + }, + { + "id": "memory_talk", + "text": "Memory talk" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_note", + "text": "Sweet note" + }, + { + "id": "couch_date", + "text": "Couch date" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_182", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we ask before making big decisions?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What should we do on a high-energy anniversary?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "decisions", - "questions" + "anniversary", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "how_does_this_affect_us", - "text": "How does this affect us?" - }, - { - "id": "what_are_we_afraid_of", - "text": "What are we afraid of?" - }, - { - "id": "what_do_we_need", - "text": "What do we need?" - }, - { - "id": "what_is_the_wise_next_step", - "text": "What is the wise next step?" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "trip", + "text": "Trip" + }, + { + "id": "fancy_dinner", + "text": "Fancy dinner" + }, + { + "id": "adventure", + "text": "Adventure" + }, + { + "id": "big_surprise", + "text": "Big surprise" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_183", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of married couple do you not want us to become?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What makes shared decisions feel less like a meeting and more like a team huddle?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "avoidance", - "future" + "decisions", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "roommates", - "text": "Roommates" - }, - { - "id": "scorekeepers", - "text": "Scorekeepers" - }, - { - "id": "strangers", - "text": "Strangers" - }, - { - "id": "constant_critics", - "text": "Constant critics" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_voices", + "text": "Both voices" + }, + { + "id": "clear_priorities", + "text": "Clear priorities" + }, + { + "id": "no_rushing", + "text": "No rushing" + }, + { + "id": "team_language", + "text": "Team language" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_184", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of married couple do you want us to become?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes shared decisions more fun?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "vision", - "future" + "decisions", + "fun_first", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_friends", - "text": "Best friends" - }, - { - "id": "partners", - "text": "Partners" - }, - { - "id": "adventurers", - "text": "Adventurers" - }, - { - "id": "safe_home", - "text": "Safe home" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "silly_options", + "text": "Silly options" + }, + { + "id": "dream_first", + "text": "Dream first" + }, + { + "id": "snack_break", + "text": "Snack break" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_vote", + "text": "Tiny vote" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_185", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you want me to understand about your needs now?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What should we brag about as a married little power duo?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "needs", - "change" + "brag", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "they_changed", - "text": "They changed" - }, - { - "id": "they_are_simple", - "text": "They are simple" - }, - { - "id": "they_are_hard_to_say", - "text": "They are hard to say" - }, - { - "id": "they_need_consistency", - "text": "They need consistency" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "surviving_seasons", + "text": "Surviving seasons" + }, + { + "id": "still_laughing", + "text": "Still laughing" + }, + { + "id": "building_home", + "text": "Building home" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_each_other", + "text": "Choosing each other" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_186", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you want to understand about my needs now?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What should future-us send us a thank-you note for?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "needs", - "curiosity" + "future_us", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "emotional_needs", - "text": "Emotional needs" - }, - { - "id": "practical_needs", - "text": "Practical needs" - }, - { - "id": "physical_needs", - "text": "Physical needs" - }, - { - "id": "future_needs", - "text": "Future needs" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "staying_kind", + "text": "Staying kind" + }, + { + "id": "saving_energy", + "text": "Saving energy" + }, + { + "id": "making_memories", + "text": "Making memories" + }, + { + "id": "protecting_peace", + "text": "Protecting peace" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_187", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would help us handle change better?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What should past-us get a tiny gold star for?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "change", - "marriage" + "past_us", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_talks", - "text": "More talks" - }, - { - "id": "clearer_plans", - "text": "Clearer plans" - }, - { - "id": "more_patience", - "text": "More patience" - }, - { - "id": "more_flexibility", - "text": "More flexibility" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "trying", + "text": "Trying" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_love", + "text": "Choosing love" + }, + { + "id": "learning", + "text": "Learning" + }, + { + "id": "holding_on", + "text": "Holding on" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_188", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What shared value should guide us this year?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What keeps us feeling like newlyweds sometimes?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "values", - "year" + "newlywed_energy", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "peace", - "text": "Peace" - }, - { - "id": "growth", - "text": "Growth" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "adventure", - "text": "Adventure" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "flirting", + "text": "Flirting" + }, + { + "id": "curiosity", + "text": "Curiosity" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_surprises", + "text": "Sweet surprises" + }, + { + "id": "laughing", + "text": "Laughing" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_189", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What does protecting our marriage mean this month?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What keeps us feeling like old pros sometimes?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "protection", - "month" + "old_married_energy", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "time_together", - "text": "Time together" - }, - { - "id": "repair", - "text": "Repair" - }, - { - "id": "boundaries", - "text": "Boundaries" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "knowing_looks", + "text": "Knowing looks" + }, + { + "id": "shared_routines", + "text": "Shared routines" + }, + { + "id": "inside_jokes", + "text": "Inside jokes" + }, + { + "id": "teamwork", + "text": "Teamwork" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_190", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you want us to remember when life gets busy?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make marriage feel more Closer-style?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "busy", - "remember" + "fun_first", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "we_are_a_team", - "text": "We are a team" - }, - { - "id": "small_things_matter", - "text": "Small things matter" - }, - { - "id": "talk_early", - "text": "Talk early" - }, - { - "id": "choose_kindness", - "text": "Choose kindness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet_prompts", + "text": "Sweet prompts" + }, + { + "id": "playful_rituals", + "text": "Playful rituals" + }, + { + "id": "real_teamwork", + "text": "Real teamwork" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_celebrations", + "text": "Tiny celebrations" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_191", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which marriage habits should we strengthen?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes married life feel sweet?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "habits", - "strengthen" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "date_time", - "text": "Date time" - }, - { - "id": "repair", - "text": "Repair" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "planning", - "text": "Planning" - }, - { - "id": "prayer_or_reflection", - "text": "Prayer or reflection" - } + "sweetness", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "inside_jokes", + "text": "Inside jokes" + }, + { + "id": "small_help", + "text": "Small help" + }, + { + "id": "affection", + "text": "Affection" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "being_chosen", + "text": "Being chosen" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3816,36 +4060,36 @@ "id": "marriage_192", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel chosen in marriage?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes married life feel fun?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "chosen", + "fun_first", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "priority_time", - "text": "Priority time" - }, - { - "id": "being_defended", - "text": "Being defended" - }, - { - "id": "follow_through", - "text": "Follow-through" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "listening", - "text": "Listening" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_dates", + "text": "Tiny dates" + }, + { + "id": "silly_rituals", + "text": "Silly rituals" + }, + { + "id": "fake_awards", + "text": "Fake awards" + }, + { + "id": "flirting", + "text": "Flirting" + }, + { + "id": "laughing", + "text": "Laughing" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3854,36 +4098,36 @@ "id": "marriage_193", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which areas need clearer partnership?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes married life feel steady?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "partnership", - "clarity" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "home_life", - "text": "Home life" - }, - { - "id": "family_boundaries", - "text": "Family boundaries" - }, - { - "id": "future_plans", - "text": "Future plans" - }, - { - "id": "intimacy", - "text": "Intimacy" - } + "steadiness", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "showing_up", + "text": "Showing up" + }, + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "shared_plans", + "text": "Shared plans" + }, + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3892,36 +4136,36 @@ "id": "marriage_194", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What threatens closeness when life gets busy?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What should we celebrate as a married team?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "closeness", - "busy" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_time", - "text": "No time" - }, - { - "id": "stress", - "text": "Stress" - }, - { - "id": "screens", - "text": "Screens" - }, - { - "id": "unspoken_resentment", - "text": "Unspoken resentment" - }, - { - "id": "exhaustion", - "text": "Exhaustion" - } + "celebration", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_wins", + "text": "Tiny wins" + }, + { + "id": "hard_days_survived", + "text": "Hard days survived" + }, + { + "id": "still_laughing", + "text": "Still laughing" + }, + { + "id": "good_teamwork", + "text": "Good teamwork" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_moments", + "text": "Sweet moments" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3930,36 +4174,36 @@ "id": "marriage_195", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What do you want us to protect?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps us keep choosing each other?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "protection", + "choosing_us", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "private_trust", - "text": "Private trust" - }, - { - "id": "date_time", - "text": "Date time" - }, - { - "id": "physical_affection", - "text": "Physical affection" - }, - { - "id": "shared_dreams", - "text": "Shared dreams" - }, - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "date_nights", + "text": "Date nights" + }, + { + "id": "kind_words", + "text": "Kind words" + }, + { + "id": "shared_goals", + "text": "Shared goals" + }, + { + "id": "repair", + "text": "Repair" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude", + "text": "Gratitude" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3968,36 +4212,36 @@ "id": "marriage_196", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we celebrate as a married couple?", + "text": "What needs more attention in our marriage?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "celebration", + "attention", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "growth", - "text": "Growth" - }, - { - "id": "commitment", - "text": "Commitment" - }, - { - "id": "repair", - "text": "Repair" - }, - { - "id": "shared_wins", - "text": "Shared wins" - }, - { - "id": "small_joys", - "text": "Small joys" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "romance", + "text": "Romance" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "fun", + "text": "Fun" + }, + { + "id": "communication", + "text": "Communication" + }, + { + "id": "teamwork", + "text": "Teamwork" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4006,36 +4250,36 @@ "id": "marriage_197", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What needs more honesty?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What needs more playfulness in our marriage?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "honesty", + "fun_first", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "needs", - "text": "Needs" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "sex", - "text": "Sex" - }, - { - "id": "family_stress", - "text": "Family stress" - }, - { - "id": "future_fears", - "text": "Future fears" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "chores", + "text": "Chores" + }, + { + "id": "planning", + "text": "Planning" + }, + { + "id": "date_nights", + "text": "Date nights" + }, + { + "id": "routines", + "text": "Routines" + }, + { + "id": "hard_days", + "text": "Hard days" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4044,36 +4288,36 @@ "id": "marriage_198", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What needs more tenderness?", + "text": "What needs more tenderness in our marriage?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "tenderness", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "stress", - "text": "Stress" - }, - { - "id": "mistakes", - "text": "Mistakes" - }, - { - "id": "body_changes", - "text": "Body changes" - }, - { - "id": "hard_conversations", - "text": "Hard conversations" - }, - { - "id": "busy_seasons", - "text": "Busy seasons" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "stress", + "text": "Stress" + }, + { + "id": "intimacy", + "text": "Intimacy" + }, + { + "id": "communication", + "text": "Communication" + }, + { + "id": "daily_life", + "text": "Daily life" + }, + { + "id": "big_decisions", + "text": "Big decisions" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4082,36 +4326,36 @@ "id": "marriage_199", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes commitment feel strong?", + "text": "What helps protect our marriage from busy seasons?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "commitment", - "strength" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_values", - "text": "Shared values" - }, - { - "id": "kept_promises", - "text": "Kept promises" - }, - { - "id": "repair", - "text": "Repair" - }, - { - "id": "loyalty", - "text": "Loyalty" - }, - { - "id": "daily_effort", - "text": "Daily effort" - } + "busy_life", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "check_ins", + "text": "Check-ins" + }, + { + "id": "date_nights", + "text": "Date nights" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "simpler_plans", + "text": "Simpler plans" + }, + { + "id": "grace", + "text": "Grace" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4120,36 +4364,36 @@ "id": "marriage_200", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps prevent roommate mode?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps us recover after hard seasons?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "roommate_mode", - "prevention" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "date_nights", - "text": "Date nights" - }, - { - "id": "touch", - "text": "Touch" - }, - { - "id": "deep_talks", - "text": "Deep talks" - }, - { - "id": "shared_fun", - "text": "Shared fun" - }, - { - "id": "less_autopilot", - "text": "Less autopilot" - } + "resilience", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "celebrating_survival", + "text": "Celebrating survival" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_talks", + "text": "Gentle talks" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "new_rituals", + "text": "New rituals" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4158,36 +4402,36 @@ "id": "marriage_201", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which parts of married life feel meaningful?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes us good teammates?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "meaning", + "teamwork", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_routines", - "text": "Shared routines" - }, - { - "id": "building_a_home", - "text": "Building a home" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_each_other_deeply", - "text": "Knowing each other deeply" - }, - { - "id": "facing_hard_things", - "text": "Facing hard things" - }, - { - "id": "dreaming_ahead", - "text": "Dreaming ahead" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sharing_load", + "text": "Sharing load" + }, + { + "id": "laughing", + "text": "Laughing" + }, + { + "id": "showing_up", + "text": "Showing up" + }, + { + "id": "solving_together", + "text": "Solving together" + }, + { + "id": "noticing_effort", + "text": "Noticing effort" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4196,36 +4440,36 @@ "id": "marriage_202", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What do we need during transitions?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes us still feel romantic?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "transitions", - "needs" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "clear_roles", - "text": "Clear roles" - }, - { - "id": "financial_honesty", - "text": "Financial honesty" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_check_ins", - "text": "Emotional check-ins" - }, - { - "id": "flexibility", - "text": "Flexibility" - } + "romance", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "flirting", + "text": "Flirting" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_words", + "text": "Sweet words" + }, + { + "id": "slow_moments", + "text": "Slow moments" + }, + { + "id": "being_remembered", + "text": "Being remembered" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_each_other", + "text": "Choosing each other" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4234,36 +4478,36 @@ "id": "marriage_203", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which answers fit best here: needs are the same or love is obvious?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What makes us still feel curious?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "assumptions", + "curiosity", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "needs_are_the_same", - "text": "Needs are the same" - }, - { - "id": "love_is_obvious", - "text": "Love is obvious" - }, - { - "id": "tasks_are_fair", - "text": "Tasks are fair" - }, - { - "id": "the_future_is_agreed_on", - "text": "The future is agreed on" - }, - { - "id": "conflict_will_resolve_itself", - "text": "Conflict will resolve itself" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "good_questions", + "text": "Good questions" + }, + { + "id": "new_experiences", + "text": "New experiences" + }, + { + "id": "deep_talks", + "text": "Deep talks" + }, + { + "id": "playful_surprises", + "text": "Playful surprises" + }, + { + "id": "listening", + "text": "Listening" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4272,36 +4516,36 @@ "id": "marriage_204", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we ask each other more?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes us still feel silly together?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "questions", + "silliness", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "what_do_you_need", - "text": "What do you need?" - }, - { - "id": "what_are_you_carrying", - "text": "What are you carrying?" - }, - { - "id": "how_can_i_love_you_well", - "text": "How can I love you well?" - }, - { - "id": "what_are_you_afraid_of", - "text": "What are you afraid of?" - }, - { - "id": "what_are_we_building", - "text": "What are we building?" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "inside_jokes", + "text": "Inside jokes" + }, + { + "id": "random_songs", + "text": "Random songs" + }, + { + "id": "fake_awards", + "text": "Fake awards" + }, + { + "id": "dramatic_voices", + "text": "Dramatic voices" + }, + { + "id": "ridiculous_plans", + "text": "Ridiculous plans" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4310,36 +4554,36 @@ "id": "marriage_205", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What does loyalty include for you?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What belongs in our marriage museum?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "loyalty", - "meaning" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "boundaries", - "text": "Boundaries" - }, - { - "id": "respectful_speech", - "text": "Respectful speech" - }, - { - "id": "showing_up", - "text": "Showing up" - }, - { - "id": "protecting_privacy", - "text": "Protecting privacy" - } + "lore", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "inside_jokes", + "text": "Inside jokes" + }, + { + "id": "best_dates", + "text": "Best dates" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_wins", + "text": "Tiny wins" + }, + { + "id": "funny_mishaps", + "text": "Funny mishaps" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_moments", + "text": "Sweet moments" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4348,36 +4592,36 @@ "id": "marriage_206", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes marriage feel romantic to you?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What should our old-married energy include?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "romance", + "future_us", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "thoughtfulness", - "text": "Thoughtfulness" - }, - { - "id": "desire", - "text": "Desire" - }, - { - "id": "quality_time", - "text": "Quality time" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_known", - "text": "Feeling known" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "knowing_looks", + "text": "Knowing looks" + }, + { + "id": "comfort_food", + "text": "Comfort food" + }, + { + "id": "still_flirting", + "text": "Still flirting" + }, + { + "id": "laughing_at_everything", + "text": "Laughing at everything" + }, + { + "id": "cozy_routines", + "text": "Cozy routines" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4386,36 +4630,36 @@ "id": "marriage_207", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes marriage feel safe to you?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What should our anniversary energy include?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "safety", + "anniversary", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "reliability", - "text": "Reliability" - }, - { - "id": "kind_conflict", - "text": "Kind conflict" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_honesty", - "text": "Emotional honesty" - }, - { - "id": "financial_transparency", - "text": "Financial transparency" - }, - { - "id": "physical_affection", - "text": "Physical affection" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "memories", + "text": "Memories" + }, + { + "id": "good_food", + "text": "Good food" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_words", + "text": "Sweet words" + }, + { + "id": "a_tiny_adventure", + "text": "A tiny adventure" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4424,36 +4668,36 @@ "id": "marriage_208", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What future pressure should we prepare for?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps us make decisions as spouses?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future", - "pressure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "health", - "text": "Health" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "family_aging", - "text": "Family aging" - }, - { - "id": "career_changes", - "text": "Career changes" - }, - { - "id": "parenting_or_caregiving", - "text": "Parenting or caregiving" - } + "decisions", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_voices", + "text": "Both voices" + }, + { + "id": "clear_priorities", + "text": "Clear priorities" + }, + { + "id": "respect", + "text": "Respect" + }, + { + "id": "small_steps", + "text": "Small steps" + }, + { + "id": "team_mindset", + "text": "Team mindset" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4462,36 +4706,36 @@ "id": "marriage_209", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What needs a fresh agreement?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps us keep home life loving?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "agreement", - "refresh" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "chores", - "text": "Chores" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "family_visits", - "text": "Family visits" - }, - { - "id": "sex_or_affection", - "text": "Sex or affection" - }, - { - "id": "alone_time", - "text": "Alone time" - } + "home", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "thank_yous", + "text": "Thank-yous" + }, + { + "id": "shared_tasks", + "text": "Shared tasks" + }, + { + "id": "cozy_rituals", + "text": "Cozy rituals" + }, + { + "id": "grace", + "text": "Grace" + }, + { + "id": "affection", + "text": "Affection" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4500,36 +4744,36 @@ "id": "marriage_210", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What would help us stay friends inside marriage?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make marriage feel more like us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "friendship", + "identity", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_fun", - "text": "Shared fun" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - }, - { - "id": "kind_teasing", - "text": "Kind teasing" - }, - { - "id": "new_experiences", - "text": "New experiences" - }, - { - "id": "daily_check_ins", - "text": "Daily check-ins" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_humor", + "text": "More humor" + }, + { + "id": "more_tenderness", + "text": "More tenderness" + }, + { + "id": "more_teamwork", + "text": "More teamwork" + }, + { + "id": "more_rituals", + "text": "More rituals" + }, + { + "id": "more_ease", + "text": "More ease" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4538,806 +4782,835 @@ "id": "marriage_211", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How connected do you feel in our marriage right now?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How fun does married life feel lately?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "connection", + "fun_first", "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not connected", - "max_label": "Very connected", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not fun", + "max_label": "Very fun" } }, { "id": "marriage_212", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How intentional are we about protecting time together?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How romantic does married life feel lately?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "time", - "intentional" + "romance", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not intentional", - "max_label": "Very intentional", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not romantic", + "max_label": "Very romantic" } }, { "id": "marriage_213", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you feel chosen by me lately?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much do you feel like we are a team?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "chosen", - "lately" + "teamwork", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not chosen", - "max_label": "Very chosen", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "marriage_214", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we repair after small hurts?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much do we still choose each other in ordinary moments?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", - "hurts" + "choosing_us", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "marriage_215", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much are we living on autopilot?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How sweet do our daily rituals feel?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "autopilot", + "rituals", "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not at all", - "max_label": "Very much", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not sweet", + "max_label": "Very sweet" } }, { "id": "marriage_216", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How fair does our partnership feel?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much should we celebrate married-life tiny wins?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "fairness", - "partnership" + "celebration", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not fair", - "max_label": "Very fair", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "marriage_217", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to be honest about hard needs?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How hopeful do you feel about our next season?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "safety", - "needs" + "hope", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not hopeful", + "max_label": "Very hopeful" } }, { "id": "marriage_218", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How aligned do we feel about our future?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How steady-in-the-bones does our marriage feel?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future", - "alignment" + "security", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not aligned", - "max_label": "Very aligned", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not secure", + "max_label": "Very secure" } }, { "id": "marriage_219", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much affection is present in our daily life?", + "text": "How peaceful does our marriage feel?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "affection", - "daily" + "peace", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Very little", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not peaceful", + "max_label": "Very peaceful" } }, { "id": "marriage_220", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we handle stress as a team?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How playful does our marriage feel?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress", - "team" + "play", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not playful", + "max_label": "Very playful" } }, { "id": "marriage_221", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How appreciated do you feel in this marriage?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How connected do you feel in daily married life?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "appreciation", + "connection", "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not appreciated", - "max_label": "Very appreciated", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not connected", + "max_label": "Very connected" } }, { "id": "marriage_222", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do we choose kindness when tired?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How much do routines help our marriage?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "kindness", - "tired" + "routines", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Very often", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "marriage_223", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we make room for romance?", + "text": "How often do routines put our marriage in autopilot mode?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "romance", - "room" + "routine", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Very little", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "marriage_224", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we communicate about money?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How well do we protect romance from busy seasons?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "money", - "communication" + "romance", + "busy_life", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "marriage_225", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we respect each other in conflict?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How well do we protect fun from busy seasons?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "respect", - "conflict" + "fun_first", + "busy_life", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "marriage_226", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much trust do you feel in our daily follow-through?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How easy is it to talk about what our marriage needs without it feeling heavy?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trust", - "follow_through" + "needs", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Very little", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "marriage_227", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we still feel curious about each other?", + "text": "How well do we repair after hard moments?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "curiosity", + "repair", "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Very little", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "marriage_228", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How prepared do we feel for major life changes?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How proud are you of what we have built?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "life_changes", - "prepared" + "pride", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not prepared", - "max_label": "Very prepared", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not proud", + "max_label": "Very proud" } }, { "id": "marriage_229", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we balance independence and togetherness?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How much do you want more old-married silliness?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "balance", - "togetherness" + "future_us", + "fun_first", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "marriage_230", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do family expectations affect our marriage?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How much do you want more still-dating energy?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family", - "expectations" + "date_night", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, + "min": 1, + "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "Very much", - "scale_step": 1 + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "marriage_231", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clearly do we talk about changing needs?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How much does home life support our marriage?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "needs", - "change" + "home", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not clearly", - "max_label": "Very clearly", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "marriage_232", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we celebrate our growth?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How well do we make room for both dream boards?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "growth", - "celebration" + "dreams", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Very often", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "marriage_233", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we protect privacy around our relationship?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How well do we keep curiosity alive?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "privacy", - "relationship" + "curiosity", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "marriage_234", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How hopeful do you feel about our next season together?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How much do we make marriage feel like ours?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hope", - "next_season" + "identity", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not hopeful", - "max_label": "Very hopeful", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "marriage_235", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you feel like we are building something meaningful?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How excited are you to keep becoming future-us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "meaning", - "building" + "future_us", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "Very much", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not excited", + "max_label": "Very excited" } }, { "id": "marriage_236", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which needs more attention?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Still dating or old-married cozy?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "attention", + "fun_first", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "romance", - "text": "Romance" - }, - { - "id": "partnership", - "text": "Partnership" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "still_dating", + "text": "Still dating" + }, + { + "id": "old_married_cozy", + "text": "Old-married cozy" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_237", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which makes you feel more chosen?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Sweet vow or silly vow?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "chosen", - "preference" + "vows", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "quality_time", - "text": "Quality time" - }, - { - "id": "follow_through", - "text": "Follow-through" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet_vow", + "text": "Sweet vow" + }, + { + "id": "silly_vow", + "text": "Silly vow" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_238", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which should we protect first?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Tiny anniversary or big celebration?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "protection", - "priority" + "anniversary", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "date_time", - "text": "Date time" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_anniversary", + "text": "Tiny anniversary" + }, + { + "id": "big_celebration", + "text": "Big celebration" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_239", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which would you choose first here: surprise or consistency?", + "text": "Built-in teammate or soulmate energy?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "romance", - "style" + "identity", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "surprise", - "text": "Surprise" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "teammates", + "text": "Teammates" + }, + { + "id": "soulmates", + "text": "Soulmates" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_240", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which helps commitment feel real?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Romance or routine magic?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "commitment", - "real" + "romance", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "big_promises", - "text": "Big promises" - }, - { - "id": "daily_actions", - "text": "Daily actions" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "romance", + "text": "Romance" + }, + { + "id": "routine_magic", + "text": "Routine magic" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_241", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which needs a reset?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Inside joke or deep vow?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "reset", + "fun_first", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "money_talks", - "text": "Money talks" - }, - { - "id": "home_routines", - "text": "Home routines" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "inside_joke", + "text": "Inside joke" + }, + { + "id": "deep_vow", + "text": "Deep vow" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_242", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which brings us closer?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Quiet commitment or confetti celebration?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "closeness", - "marriage" + "commitment", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "deep_talks", - "text": "Deep talks" - }, - { - "id": "shared_fun", - "text": "Shared fun" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_commitment", + "text": "Quiet commitment" + }, + { + "id": "loud_celebration", + "text": "Loud celebration" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_243", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which do you need more during stress?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Date-night jar or marriage museum?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress", - "needs" + "rituals", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "softness", - "text": "Softness" - }, - { - "id": "practical_help", - "text": "Practical help" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "date_night_jar", + "text": "Date-night jar" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_museum", + "text": "Marriage museum" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_244", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which should we say more?", + "text": "Grow roots or chase adventures?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "words", + "future_us", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_appreciate_you", - "text": "I appreciate you" - }, - { - "id": "i_choose_you", - "text": "I choose you" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "roots", + "text": "Grow roots" + }, + { + "id": "adventures", + "text": "Chase adventures" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_245", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which would you choose first here: apologizing sooner or listening longer?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Soft landing or grand adventure?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "practice", + "identity", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "apologizing_sooner", - "text": "Apologizing sooner" - }, - { - "id": "listening_longer", - "text": "Listening longer" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_landing", + "text": "Soft landing" + }, + { + "id": "grand_adventure", + "text": "Grand adventure" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_246", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which feels more like home?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Protect the peace or hit the fun button?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "home", - "feeling" + "play", + "marriage", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "peace", - "text": "Peace" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "keep_peace", + "text": "Keep the peace" + }, + { + "id": "start_fun", + "text": "Start the fun" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_247", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which should guide us this year?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Celebrate what we built or dream what comes next?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "values", - "year" + "future_us", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "stability", - "text": "Stability" - }, - { - "id": "growth", - "text": "Growth" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "celebrate_built", + "text": "Celebrate what we built" + }, + { + "id": "dream_next", + "text": "Dream what comes next" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_248", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which is easier to neglect?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Memory lane or future-us fantasy?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "neglect", + "time", "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "honest_check_ins", - "text": "Honest check-ins" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "memory_lane", + "text": "Memory lane" + }, + { + "id": "future_fantasy", + "text": "Future-us fantasy" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_249", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which strengthens marriage more right now?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Shared plans or spontaneous magic?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "strength", - "current" + "planning", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "boundaries", - "text": "Boundaries" - }, - { - "id": "vulnerability", - "text": "Vulnerability" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "shared_plans", + "text": "Shared plans" + }, + { + "id": "spontaneous_magic", + "text": "Spontaneous magic" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "marriage_250", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which future do you want more?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Thank-you toast or fake spouse award?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future", - "vision" + "gratitude", + "marriage" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "adventurous", - "text": "Adventurous" - }, - { - "id": "peaceful", - "text": "Peaceful" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "thank_you_toast", + "text": "Thank-you toast" + }, + { + "id": "fake_spouse_award", + "text": "Fake spouse award" + } + ] + } } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/parenting.json b/seed/questions/parenting.json index b1737232..abe1752b 100644 --- a/seed/questions/parenting.json +++ b/seed/questions/parenting.json @@ -2,3812 +2,4056 @@ "category": { "id": "parenting", "display_name": "Parenting", - "description": "Questions about coparenting, shared responsibility, family rhythms, mental load, parenting stress, and staying connected as partners.", + "description": "Warm, Closer-style questions that help couples feel like a parenting tag-team through tiny wins, backup signals, bedtime goblins, snack saves, family rituals, shared values, kid-chaos humor, and real-life grace.", "access": "mixed", - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, - "question_type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 - }, + "icon_name": "family_restroom", "schema_version": "question_v2", - "supported_types": [ - "written", - "single_choice", - "multi_choice", - "scale", - "this_or_that" - ] + "metadata": { + "total_questions": 250, + "free_questions": 75, + "premium_questions": 175, + "type_counts": { + "written": 150, + "single_choice": 40, + "multi_choice": 20, + "scale": 25, + "this_or_that": 15 + } + } }, "questions": [ { "id": "parenting_001", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing about daily routines that we handle well together?", + "text": "What makes us feel most like a parenting tag-team?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "daily_routines", - "teamwork" + "teamwork", + "support", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_002", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could I support you more with daily routines?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one tiny parenting win we should celebrate?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "daily_routines", - "support" + "tiny_wins", + "celebration", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_003", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make daily routines feel less stressful this week?", + "text": "What is one kid-chaos moment we handled better than we realized?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "daily_routines", - "stress" + "chaos", + "resilience", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_004", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you appreciate about how I show up around daily routines?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What parenting moment recently made you smile?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "daily_routines", - "appreciation" + "joy", + "recent", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_005", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small agreement we could make about daily routines?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What recent parenting moment deserves a little team high-five?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "daily_routines", - "agreement" + "pride", + "teamwork", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_006", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing about bedtime or evening rhythm that we handle well together?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one thing you do as a parent or caregiver that I admire?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "bedtime_or_evening_rhythm", - "teamwork" + "admiration", + "appreciation", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_007", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could I support you more with bedtime or evening rhythm?", + "text": "What is one thing I do as a parent or caregiver that you appreciate?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "bedtime_or_evening_rhythm", - "support" + "appreciation", + "recognition", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_008", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make bedtime or evening rhythm feel less stressful this week?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us tag-team parenting without turning it into a scoreboard?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "bedtime_or_evening_rhythm", - "stress" + "teamwork", + "fairness", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_009", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you appreciate about how I show up around bedtime or evening rhythm?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us stay kind when the day has been aggressively loud?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "bedtime_or_evening_rhythm", - "appreciation" + "stress", + "kindness", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_010", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small agreement we could make about bedtime or evening rhythm?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps us reset after the kids/family chaos tornado passes?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "bedtime_or_evening_rhythm", - "agreement" + "reset", + "family_life", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_011", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing about morning stress that we handle well together?", + "text": "What family 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show up around sharing responsibilities?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What invisible parenting job deserves a spotlight and maybe a snack?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sharing_responsibilities", - "appreciation" + "invisible_work", + "recognition", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_020", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small agreement we could make about sharing responsibilities?", + "text": "What would make parenting feel less lonely and more like a two-person blanket fort?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sharing_responsibilities", - "agreement" + "loneliness", + "connection", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_021", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing about discipline conversations that we handle well together?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What tiny piece of couple time should we guard like treasure?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "discipline_conversations", - "teamwork" + "couple_time", + "protection", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_022", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could I support you more with discipline conversations?", + "text": "What tiny piece of rest should we protect from the chaos goblins?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "discipline_conversations", - "support" + "rest", + "family_life", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_023", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make discipline conversations feel less stressful this week?", + "text": "What kind of family memory do you want us to make more often?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "discipline_conversations", - "stress" + "memories", + "family", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_024", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you appreciate about how I show up around discipline conversations?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What kind of family tradition would feel like us?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "discipline_conversations", - "appreciation" + "traditions", + "fun_first", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_025", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small agreement we could make about discipline conversations?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one silly family ritual we should start?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "discipline_conversations", - "agreement" + "rituals", + "fun_first", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_026", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing about school or childcare updates that we handle well together?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What family value should show up in our everyday little moments?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "school_or_childcare_updates", - "teamwork" + "values", + "family", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], 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"written", - "text": "Where could I support you more with making time for us?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps screen-time, schedule, or rule talks stay out of drama llama territory?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "making_time_for_us", - "support" + "rules", + "communication", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_033", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make making time for us feel less stressful this week?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us be consistent without turning into rule robots?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "making_time_for_us", - "stress" + "consistency", + "flexibility", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_034", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you appreciate about how I show up around making time for us?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us be flexible without letting chaos drive the bus?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "making_time_for_us", - "appreciation" + "flexibility", + "structure", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_035", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small agreement we could make about making time for us?", + "text": "What helps us notice when one of us needs a tag-in before the wheels come off?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "making_time_for_us", - "agreement" + "backup", + "awareness", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_036", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing about supporting each other as parents that we handle well together?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one backup signal that could mean, 'Tag me in'?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "supporting_each_other_as_parents", - "teamwork" + "signals", + "fun_first", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_037", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could I support you more with supporting each other as parents?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps us laugh together when parenting gets ridiculous?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "supporting_each_other_as_parents", - "support" + "laughter", + "fun_first", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_038", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make supporting each other as parents feel less stressful this week?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What parenting season are we currently surviving with more grace than we think?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "supporting_each_other_as_parents", - "stress" + "season", + "grace", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_039", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you appreciate about how I show up around supporting each other as parents?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What kind of grace do we need more of in this family season?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "supporting_each_other_as_parents", - "appreciation" + "grace", + "support", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_040", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small agreement we could make about supporting each other as parents?", + "text": "What helps us remember we are partners, not just tiny-human logistics managers?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "supporting_each_other_as_parents", - "agreement" + "partnership", + "couple_time", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_041", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing about handling tired days that we handle well together?", - 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"text": "Simpler" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_166", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we model more intentionally?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which parenting area needs more teamwork?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "modeling", - "values" + "teamwork", + "parenting" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "apology", - "text": "Apology" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "problem_solving", - "text": "Problem-solving" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "routines", + "text": "Routines" + }, + { + "id": "rules", + "text": "Rules" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "emotional_support", + "text": "Emotional support" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_167", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What parenting topic deserves a weekly check-in?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which parenting area needs more fun?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "weekly", - "check_in" + "fun_first", + "parenting" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "schedule", - "text": "Schedule" - }, - { - "id": "behavior", - "text": "Behavior" - }, - { - "id": "school_or_childcare", - "text": "School or childcare" - }, - { - "id": "our_stress", - "text": "Our stress" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "bedtime", + "text": "Bedtime" + }, + { + "id": "errands", + "text": "Errands" + }, + { + "id": "meals", + "text": "Meals" + }, + { + "id": "cleanup", + "text": "Cleanup" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_168", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What part of parenting feels most invisible?", + "text": "Which parenting area needs more gentleness?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "invisible", - "effort" + "gentleness", + "parenting" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "planning", - "text": "Planning" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_labor", - "text": "Emotional labor" - }, - { - "id": "housework", - "text": "Housework" - }, - { - "id": "worry", - "text": "Worry" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "discipline", + "text": "Discipline" + }, + { + "id": "stress", + "text": "Stress" + }, + { + "id": "rules", + "text": "Rules" + }, + { + "id": "big_feelings", + "text": "Big feelings" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_169", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel appreciated as a parent?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes parenting start feeling like a backpack full of bricks?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "appreciation", - "parent" + "stress", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_thanks", - "text": "Specific thanks" - }, - { - "id": "a_break", - "text": "A break" - }, - { - "id": "help_without_asking", - "text": "Help without asking" - }, - { - "id": "recognition_in_front_of_family", - "text": "Recognition in front of family" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_rest", + "text": "No rest" + }, + { + "id": "no_help", + "text": "No help" + }, + { + "id": "too_much_pressure", + "text": "Too much pressure" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_judged", + "text": "Feeling judged" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_170", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What gets in the way of our parenting teamwork?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes parenting feel lighter, even for a minute?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "blocks" + "lightness", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "exhaustion", - "text": "Exhaustion" - }, - { - "id": "assumptions", - "text": "Assumptions" - }, - { - "id": "different_standards", - "text": "Different standards" - }, - { - "id": "lack_of_planning", - "text": "Lack of planning" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "humor", + "text": "Humor" + }, + { + "id": "teamwork", + "text": "Teamwork" + }, + { + "id": "lower_pressure", + "text": "Lower pressure" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_wins", + "text": "Tiny wins" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_171", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What family rhythm helps you feel calm?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps when parenting opinions are not wearing matching shoes?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "routine", - "calm" + "disagreement", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "predictable_evenings", - "text": "Predictable evenings" - }, - { - "id": "slow_mornings", - "text": "Slow mornings" - }, - { - "id": "meal_routines", - "text": "Meal routines" - }, - { - "id": "weekend_plans", - "text": "Weekend plans" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "talk_privately", + "text": "Talk privately" + }, + { + "id": "find_shared_goal", + "text": "Find shared goal" + }, + { + "id": "revisit_later", + "text": "Revisit later" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_172", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you want protected for our relationship?", + "text": "What helps when one of us is one snack away from losing it?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "relationship", - "protection" + "overwhelmed", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "date_time", - "text": "Date time" - }, - { - "id": "private_talks", - "text": "Private talks" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "sleep", - "text": "Sleep" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "step_in", + "text": "Step in" + }, + { + "id": "simplify", + "text": "Simplify" + }, + { + "id": "reassure", + "text": "Reassure" + }, + { + "id": "protect_rest", + "text": "Protect rest" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_173", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes parenting feel joyful?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps one of us take a break without guilt sneaking in?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "joy", - "parenting" + "rest", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "play", - "text": "Play" - }, - { - "id": "shared_laughs", - "text": "Shared laughs" - }, - { - "id": "seeing_growth", - "text": "Seeing growth" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_moments", - "text": "Quiet moments" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_guilt", + "text": "No guilt" + }, + { + "id": "clear_timing", + "text": "Clear timing" + }, + { + "id": "take_over", + "text": "Take over" + }, + { + "id": "check_back_later", + "text": "Check back later" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_174", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes parenting feel lonely?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps us stay consistent without becoming boring rule robots?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "loneliness", - "parenting" + "consistency", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "unshared_tasks", - "text": "Unshared tasks" - }, - { - "id": "unspoken_stress", - "text": "Unspoken stress" - }, - { - "id": "no_appreciation", - "text": "No appreciation" - }, - { - "id": "no_adult_time", - "text": "No adult time" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "simple_rules", + "text": "Simple rules" + }, + { + "id": "same_language", + "text": "Same language" + }, + { + "id": "backup", + "text": "Backup" + }, + { + "id": "revisiting_together", + "text": "Revisiting together" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_175", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we decide before we are exhausted?", + "text": "What helps us stay flexible without handing the keys to chaos?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "planning", - "exhaustion" + "flexibility", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "bedtime_plan", - "text": "Bedtime plan" - }, - { - "id": "discipline_plan", - "text": "Discipline plan" - }, - { - "id": "chore_split", - "text": "Chore split" - }, - { - "id": "support_plan", - "text": "Support plan" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "grace", + "text": "Grace" + }, + { + "id": "context", + "text": "Context" + }, + { + "id": "humor", + "text": "Humor" + }, + { + "id": "lower_perfection", + "text": "Lower perfection" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_176", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is our best reset when the house feels chaotic?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes discipline feel like steady guidance instead of a storm cloud?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "reset", - "chaos" + "discipline", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "clean_one_area", - "text": "Clean one area" - }, - { - "id": "go_outside", - "text": "Go outside" - }, - { - "id": "split_tasks", - "text": "Split tasks" - }, - { - "id": "pause_expectations", - "text": "Pause expectations" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "calm_tone", + "text": "Calm tone" + }, + { + "id": "clear_reason", + "text": "Clear reason" + }, + { + "id": "repair", + "text": "Repair" + }, + { + "id": "consistency", + "text": "Consistency" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_177", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do you prefer to ask me for parenting help?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes discipline feel like the room got too tight?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "asking", - "help" + "discipline", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "direct_request", - "text": "Direct request" - }, - { - "id": "text_message", - "text": "Text message" - }, - { - "id": "pre_planned_schedule", - "text": "Pre-planned schedule" - }, - { - "id": "signal_phrase", - "text": "Signal phrase" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "rushing", + "text": "Rushing" + }, + { + "id": "different_approaches", + "text": "Different approaches" + }, + { + "id": "exhaustion", + "text": "Exhaustion" + }, + { + "id": "public_pressure", + "text": "Public pressure" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_178", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do you prefer I offer parenting help?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps screen-time talks not turn into tiny courtroom drama?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "offering", - "help" + "screen_time", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_what_is_needed", - "text": "Ask what is needed" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_task", - "text": "Choose a task" - }, - { - "id": "take_over_briefly", - "text": "Take over briefly" - }, - { - "id": "give_encouragement", - "text": "Give encouragement" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "simple_plan", + "text": "Simple plan" + }, + { + "id": "same_rules", + "text": "Same rules" + }, + { + "id": "no_shame", + "text": "No shame" + }, + { + "id": "review_later", + "text": "Review later" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_179", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we not compare ourselves to?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps school mornings feel less like a three-ring circus?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "comparison", - "pressure" + "mornings", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "other_parents", - "text": "Other parents" - }, - { - "id": "online_families", - "text": "Online families" - }, - { - "id": "our_parents", - "text": "Our parents" - }, - { - "id": "past_versions_of_ourselves", - "text": "Past versions of ourselves" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "prep_ahead", + "text": "Prep ahead" + }, + { + "id": "simple_choices", + "text": "Simple choices" + }, + { + "id": "team_roles", + "text": "Team roles" + }, + { + "id": "humor", + "text": "Humor" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_180", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What parenting fear shows up most often?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps bedtime feel less like goblin negotiations?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fear", - "parenting" + "bedtime", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "doing_it_wrong", - "text": "Doing it wrong" - }, - { - "id": "being_judged", - "text": "Being judged" - }, - { - "id": "losing_closeness", - "text": "Losing closeness" - }, - { - "id": "not_having_enough_energy", - "text": "Not having enough energy" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "routine", + "text": "Routine" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "tag_team", + "text": "Tag-team" + }, + { + "id": "lower_expectations", + "text": "Lower expectations" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_181", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of family memory do you want more of?", + "text": "What helps with mealtime stress?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "memories", - "family" + "meals", + "parenting" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "playful", - "text": "Playful" - }, - { - "id": "peaceful", - "text": "Peaceful" - }, - { - "id": "adventurous", - "text": "Adventurous" - }, - { - "id": "cozy", - "text": "Cozy" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "easy_options", + "text": "Easy options" + }, + { + "id": "no_perfection", + "text": "No perfection" + }, + { + "id": "shared_favorites", + "text": "Shared favorites" + }, + { + "id": "snack_backup", + "text": "Snack backup" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_182", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What boundary would help our family life?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps family errands feel more like a quest and less like a test?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "family" + "errands", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "phone_time", - "text": "Phone time" - }, - { - "id": "visitor_expectations", - "text": "Visitor expectations" - }, - { - "id": "work_interruptions", - "text": "Work interruptions" - }, - { - "id": "extended_family_input", - "text": "Extended family input" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "snacks", + "text": "Snacks" + }, + { + "id": "list", + "text": "List" + }, + { + "id": "divide_and_conquer", + "text": "Divide and conquer" + }, + { + "id": "playlist", + "text": "Playlist" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_183", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you want our children to see in how we treat each other?", + "text": "What helps us protect couple time from getting swallowed by family logistics?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "modeling", - "relationship" + "couple_time", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "teamwork", - "text": "Teamwork" - }, - { - "id": "repair", - "text": "Repair" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "plan_it", + "text": "Plan it" + }, + { + "id": "keep_it_simple", + "text": "Keep it simple" + }, + { + "id": "no_guilt", + "text": "No guilt" + }, + { + "id": "small_moments", + "text": "Small moments" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_184", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we repair faster as coparents?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps us protect rest from the never-ending to-do monster?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "coparenting" + "rest", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "snapping", - "text": "Snapping" - }, - { - "id": "undermining", - "text": "Undermining" - }, - { - "id": "assuming", - "text": "Assuming" - }, - { - "id": "avoiding_decisions", - "text": "Avoiding decisions" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "take_turns", + "text": "Take turns" + }, + { + "id": "lower_standards", + "text": "Lower standards" + }, + { + "id": "ask_early", + "text": "Ask early" + }, + { + "id": "protect_quiet", + "text": "Protect quiet" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_185", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you trust my parenting judgment?", + "text": "What family value should be our little compass right now?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trust", - "judgment" + "values", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "calmness", - "text": "Calmness" - }, - { - "id": "listening", - "text": "Listening" - }, - { - "id": "follow_through", - "text": "Follow-through" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "respect", + "text": "Respect" + }, + { + "id": "joy", + "text": "Joy" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_186", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you doubt my parenting judgment?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What should we model more clearly in our everyday family chaos?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trust", - "doubt" + "modeling", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "inconsistency", - "text": "Inconsistency" - }, - { - "id": "reactiveness", - "text": "Reactiveness" - }, - { - "id": "ignoring_concerns", - "text": "Ignoring concerns" - }, - { - "id": "different_priorities", - "text": "Different priorities" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "apologies", + "text": "Apologies" + }, + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "teamwork", + "text": "Teamwork" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_187", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What shared parenting value matters most right now?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What family pressure should we dramatically kick off the porch?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "values", - "parenting" + "pressure", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "safety", - "text": "Safety" - }, - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "responsibility", - "text": "Responsibility" - }, - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "perfect_parenting", + "text": "Perfect parenting" + }, + { + "id": "comparison", + "text": "Comparison" + }, + { + "id": "busy_all_the_time", + "text": "Busy all the time" + }, + { + "id": "outside_opinions", + "text": "Outside opinions" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_188", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we simplify this season?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What should get a parenting-team fake award?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "simplify", - "season" + "fun_first", + "parenting" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "schedule", - "text": "Schedule" - }, - { - "id": "meals", - "text": "Meals" - }, - { - "id": "chores", - "text": "Chores" - }, - { - "id": "expectations", - "text": "Expectations" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "best_tag_in", + "text": "Best tag-in" + }, + { + "id": "best_calm_voice", + "text": "Best calm voice" + }, + { + "id": "best_snack_rescue", + "text": "Best snack rescue" + }, + { + "id": "best_laugh_save", + "text": "Best laugh save" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_189", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make parenting feel more balanced?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make parenting feel more Closer-style?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "balance", + "fun_first", "parenting" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "clearer_tasks", - "text": "Clearer tasks" - }, - { - "id": "more_appreciation", - "text": "More appreciation" - }, - { - "id": "more_breaks", - "text": "More breaks" - }, - { - "id": "better_planning", - "text": "Better planning" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "warm_check_ins", + "text": "Warm check-ins" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_wins", + "text": "Tiny wins" + }, + { + "id": "silly_rituals", + "text": "Silly rituals" + }, + { + "id": "real_teamwork", + "text": "Real teamwork" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_190", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would help us feel like partners, not just parents?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What should future-us give us a standing ovation for?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "partners", - "parents" + "future_us", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "date_time", - "text": "Date time" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "adult_conversation", - "text": "Adult conversation" - }, - { - "id": "shared_rest", - "text": "Shared rest" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "staying_kind", + "text": "Staying kind" + }, + { + "id": "trying", + "text": "Trying" + }, + { + "id": "repairing", + "text": "Repairing" + }, + { + "id": "making_memories", + "text": "Making memories" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_191", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which parenting areas need clearer teamwork?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes parenting feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ "teamwork", - "clarity" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "mornings", - "text": "Mornings" - }, - { - "id": "bedtime", - "text": "Bedtime" - }, - { - "id": "discipline", - "text": "Discipline" - }, - { - "id": "school_or_childcare", - "text": "School or childcare" - }, - { - "id": "family_schedule", - "text": "Family schedule" - } + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tag_teaming", + "text": "Tag-teaming" + }, + { + "id": "thank_yous", + "text": "Thank-yous" + }, + { + "id": "backup", + "text": "Backup" + }, + { + "id": "shared_routines", + "text": "Shared routines" + }, + { + "id": "laughing_together", + "text": "Laughing together" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3816,36 +4060,36 @@ "id": "parenting_192", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What support helps most during a hard family day?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes family life more fun?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "support", - "hard_day" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "taking_a_task", - "text": "Taking a task" - }, - { - "id": "listening", - "text": "Listening" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "a_break", - "text": "A break" - }, - { - "id": "humor", - "text": "Humor" - } + "fun_first", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "silly_rituals", + "text": "Silly rituals" + }, + { + "id": "music", + "text": "Music" + }, + { + "id": "snack_breaks", + "text": "Snack breaks" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_adventures", + "text": "Tiny adventures" + }, + { + "id": "fake_awards", + "text": "Fake awards" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3854,36 +4098,36 @@ "id": "parenting_193", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes parenting stress worse between us?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What tiny wins should we notice?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "stress", - "blocks" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "assumptions", - "text": "Assumptions" - }, - { - "id": "uneven_tasks", - "text": "Uneven tasks" - }, - { - "id": "judgment", - "text": "Judgment" - }, - { - "id": "no_sleep", - "text": "No sleep" - }, - { - "id": "different_priorities", - "text": "Different priorities" - } + "tiny_wins", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "good_bedtime", + "text": "Good bedtime" + }, + { + "id": "kind_words", + "text": "Kind words" + }, + { + "id": "calm_moment", + "text": "Calm moment" + }, + { + "id": "finished_errand", + "text": "Finished errand" + }, + { + "id": "family_laugh", + "text": "Family laugh" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3892,36 +4136,36 @@ "id": "parenting_194", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What do you want our children to learn from us?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps after a chaotic day?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "modeling", - "children" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "repair", - "text": "Repair" - }, - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "responsibility", - "text": "Responsibility" - }, - { - "id": "joy", - "text": "Joy" - } + "chaos", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_reset", + "text": "Quiet reset" + }, + { + "id": "comfort_food", + "text": "Comfort food" + }, + { + "id": "no_blame", + "text": "No blame" + }, + { + "id": "early_bedtime", + "text": "Early bedtime" + }, + { + "id": "laugh_about_it", + "text": "Laugh about it" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3930,36 +4174,36 @@ "id": "parenting_195", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things should we protect from parenting stress?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps us support each other as parents or caregivers?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "protection", - "stress" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "sleep", - "text": "Sleep" - }, - { - "id": "date_time", - "text": "Date time" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "private_talks", - "text": "Private talks" - }, - { - "id": "personal_time", - "text": "Personal time" - } + "support", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "notice_effort", + "text": "Notice effort" + }, + { + "id": "offer_breaks", + "text": "Offer breaks" + }, + { + "id": "ask_what_helps", + "text": "Ask what helps" + }, + { + "id": "step_in", + "text": "Step in" + }, + { + "id": "say_thank_you", + "text": "Say thank you" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3968,36 +4212,39 @@ "id": "parenting_196", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel seen as a parent?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What parenting work deserves more spotlight?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "seen", - "parent" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "thanks", - "text": "Thanks" - }, - { - "id": "help", - "text": "Help" - }, - { - "id": "a_break", - "text": "A break" - }, - { - "id": "trust", - "text": "Trust" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - } + "invisible_work", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "planning", + "text": "Planning" + }, + { + "id": "emotional_support", + "text": "Emotional support" + }, + { + "id": "routines", + "text": "Routines" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_calm", + "text": "Keeping calm" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_details", + "text": "Remembering details" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4006,36 +4253,39 @@ "id": "parenting_197", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which boundaries would help our family?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps when family volume hits concert level?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "family" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "phones", - "text": "Phones" - }, - { - "id": "visitors", - "text": "Visitors" - }, - { - "id": "work_hours", - "text": "Work hours" - }, - { - "id": "extended_family", - "text": "Extended family" - }, - { - "id": "overcommitting", - "text": "Overcommitting" - } + "stress", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "lower_voices", + "text": "Lower voices" + }, + { + "id": "tag_team", + "text": "Tag-team" + }, + { + "id": "one_direction", + "text": "One direction" + }, + { + "id": "humor", + "text": "Humor" + }, + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4044,36 +4294,39 @@ "id": "parenting_198", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we plan before a busy week?", + "text": "What helps when everyone is tired and the vibes are fragile?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "planning", - "busy_week" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "meals", - "text": "Meals" - }, - { - "id": "childcare", - "text": "Childcare" - }, - { - "id": "chores", - "text": "Chores" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "couple_time", - "text": "Couple time" - } + "tired", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "simple_meals", + "text": "Simple meals" + }, + { + "id": "lower_expectations", + "text": "Lower expectations" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "take_turns", + "text": "Take turns" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4082,36 +4335,39 @@ "id": "parenting_199", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What can help when we disagree about parenting?", + "text": "What helps parenting disagreements stay team-shaped?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "disagreement", - "parenting" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause_first", - "text": "Pause first" - }, - { - "id": "listen_fully", - "text": "Listen fully" - }, - { - "id": "find_the_shared_value", - "text": "Find the shared value" - }, - { - "id": "agree_on_one_step", - "text": "Agree on one step" - }, - { - "id": "revisit_later", - "text": "Revisit later" - } + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_privately", + "text": "Talk privately" + }, + { + "id": "find_shared_goal", + "text": "Find shared goal" + }, + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_blame", + "text": "Avoid blame" + }, + { + "id": "revisit_later", + "text": "Revisit later" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4120,36 +4376,39 @@ "id": "parenting_200", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which parenting pressures affect us most?", + "text": "What helps discipline talks stay calm, clear, and kind?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pressure", - "parenting" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "sleep", - "text": "Sleep" - }, - { - "id": "judgment", - "text": "Judgment" - }, - { - "id": "mental_load", - "text": "Mental load" - } + "discipline", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "shared_language", + "text": "Shared language" + }, + { + "id": "calm_timing", + "text": "Calm timing" + }, + { + "id": "no_shame", + "text": "No shame" + }, + { + "id": "clear_values", + "text": "Clear values" + }, + { + "id": "repair", + "text": "Repair" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4158,36 +4417,39 @@ "id": "parenting_201", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes family life feel warm?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps protect our couple connection from getting buried under snacks, socks, and schedules?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "warmth", - "family" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "play", - "text": "Play" - }, - { - "id": "routines", - "text": "Routines" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "calm_voices", - "text": "Calm voices" - }, - { - "id": "shared_meals", - "text": "Shared meals" - } + "couple_time", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_dates", + "text": "Tiny dates" + }, + { + "id": "affection", + "text": "Affection" + }, + { + "id": "adult_conversation", + "text": "Adult conversation" + }, + { + "id": "thank_yous", + "text": "Thank-yous" + }, + { + "id": "shared_humor", + "text": "Shared humor" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4196,36 +4458,36 @@ "id": "parenting_202", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What would make family life feel more manageable?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps protect rest?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "manageable", - "family" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "simpler_routines", - "text": "Simpler routines" - }, - { - "id": "more_help", - "text": "More help" - }, - { - "id": "fewer_commitments", - "text": "Fewer commitments" - }, - { - "id": "clear_roles", - "text": "Clear roles" - }, - { - "id": "more_rest", - "text": "More rest" - } + "rest", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "take_turns", + "text": "Take turns" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_time", + "text": "Quiet time" + }, + { + "id": "no_guilt", + "text": "No guilt" + }, + { + "id": "simpler_days", + "text": "Simpler days" + }, + { + "id": "ask_for_backup", + "text": "Ask for backup" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4234,36 +4496,36 @@ "id": "parenting_203", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What repair do we want to model?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What family rituals sound doable?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "modeling" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "apologizing", - "text": "Apologizing" - }, - { - "id": "taking_responsibility", - "text": "Taking responsibility" - }, - { - "id": "speaking_kindly", - "text": "Speaking kindly" - }, - { - "id": "coming_back_after_conflict", - "text": "Coming back after conflict" - }, - { - "id": "changing_behavior", - "text": "Changing behavior" - } + "rituals", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "movie_night", + "text": "Movie night" + }, + { + "id": "pancake_morning", + "text": "Pancake morning" + }, + { + "id": "walks", + "text": "Walks" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_toast", + "text": "Tiny toast" + }, + { + "id": "bedtime_song", + "text": "Bedtime song" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4272,36 +4534,36 @@ "id": "parenting_204", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which hidden tasks should we name out loud?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What family adventures sound doable?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hidden_tasks", - "mental_load" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "scheduling", - "text": "Scheduling" - }, - { - "id": "remembering_supplies", - "text": "Remembering supplies" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_support", - "text": "Emotional support" - }, - { - "id": "school_communication", - "text": "School communication" - }, - { - "id": "planning_meals", - "text": "Planning meals" - } + "adventure", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "park_trip", + "text": "Park trip" + }, + { + "id": "picnic", + "text": "Picnic" + }, + { + "id": "library", + "text": "Library" + }, + { + "id": "drive_with_snacks", + "text": "Drive with snacks" + }, + { + "id": "backyard_fun", + "text": "Backyard fun" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4310,36 +4572,36 @@ "id": "parenting_205", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we celebrate as parents?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What family values should show up daily?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "celebration", - "parents" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "growth", - "text": "Growth" - }, - { - "id": "teamwork", - "text": "Teamwork" - }, - { - "id": "small_wins", - "text": "Small wins" - }, - { - "id": "surviving_hard_weeks", - "text": "Surviving hard weeks" - } + "values", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "respect", + "text": "Respect" + }, + { + "id": "repair", + "text": "Repair" + }, + { + "id": "humor", + "text": "Humor" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4348,36 +4610,36 @@ "id": "parenting_206", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us stay affectionate while parenting?", + "text": "What should we model during hard moments?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "affection", + "modeling", "parenting" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "small_touches", - "text": "Small touches" - }, - { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" - }, - { - "id": "date_time", - "text": "Date time" - }, - { - "id": "shared_humor", - "text": "Shared humor" - }, - { - "id": "less_resentment", - "text": "Less resentment" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "repair", + "text": "Repair" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "taking_breaks", + "text": "Taking breaks" + }, + { + "id": "using_kind_words", + "text": "Using kind words" + }, + { + "id": "trying_again", + "text": "Trying again" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4386,36 +4648,36 @@ "id": "parenting_207", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel trusted as a parent?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps when plans change?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trust", - "parent" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "not_micromanaging", - "text": "Not micromanaging" - }, - { - "id": "asking_my_view", - "text": "Asking my view" - }, - { - "id": "backing_me_up", - "text": "Backing me up" - }, - { - "id": "respecting_my_style", - "text": "Respecting my style" - }, - { - "id": "not_correcting_me_publicly", - "text": "Not correcting me publicly" - } + "flexibility", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "grace", + "text": "Grace" + }, + { + "id": "backup_plan", + "text": "Backup plan" + }, + { + "id": "humor", + "text": "Humor" + }, + { + "id": "simple_choices", + "text": "Simple choices" + }, + { + "id": "no_blame", + "text": "No blame" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4424,36 +4686,39 @@ "id": "parenting_208", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us avoid competing over who is more tired?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What makes parenting feel too much like running a tiny chaotic office?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "tired", - "competition" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "naming_both_loads", - "text": "Naming both loads" - }, - { - "id": "offering_help", - "text": "Offering help" - }, - { - "id": "taking_turns_resting", - "text": "Taking turns resting" - }, - { - "id": "dropping_scorekeeping", - "text": "Dropping scorekeeping" - }, - { - "id": "thanking_each_other", - "text": "Thanking each other" - } + "management", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "only_logistics", + "text": "Only logistics" + }, + { + "id": "no_fun", + "text": "No fun" + }, + { + "id": "no_rest", + "text": "No rest" + }, + { + "id": "no_appreciation", + "text": "No appreciation" + }, + { + "id": "too_many_decisions", + "text": "Too many decisions" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4462,36 +4727,39 @@ "id": "parenting_209", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What family habit should we build?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What brings the joy back when parenting feels like logistics?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "habit", - "family" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "weekly_planning", - "text": "Weekly planning" - }, - { - "id": "family_meal", - "text": "Family meal" - }, - { - "id": "outdoor_time", - "text": "Outdoor time" - }, - { - "id": "bedtime_connection", - "text": "Bedtime connection" - }, - { - "id": "tech_free_hour", - "text": "Tech-free hour" - } + "joy", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "little_rituals", + "text": "Little rituals" + }, + { + "id": "shared_laughter", + "text": "Shared laughter" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_wins", + "text": "Tiny wins" + }, + { + "id": "family_adventures", + "text": "Family adventures" + }, + { + "id": "more_grace", + "text": "More grace" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4500,36 +4768,36 @@ "id": "parenting_210", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we stop doing when parenting stress hits?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What deserves a parenting fake award?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress", - "stop" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "blaming", - "text": "Blaming" - }, - { - "id": "snapping", - "text": "Snapping" - }, - { - "id": "withdrawing", - "text": "Withdrawing" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_score", - "text": "Keeping score" - }, - { - "id": "assuming_bad_intent", - "text": "Assuming bad intent" - } + "fun_first", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "snack_hero", + "text": "Snack hero" + }, + { + "id": "bedtime_warrior", + "text": "Bedtime warrior" + }, + { + "id": "calm_voice_champion", + "text": "Calm voice champion" + }, + { + "id": "errand_survivor", + "text": "Errand survivor" + }, + { + "id": "chaos_translator", + "text": "Chaos translator" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4538,806 +4806,862 @@ "id": "parenting_211", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How balanced does parenting feel between us right now?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much do we feel like a parenting tag-team lately?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "balance", - "parenting" + "teamwork", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not balanced", - "max_label": "Very balanced", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "parenting_212", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How supported do you feel by me as a parent?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How fun does family life feel lately?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "support", + "fun_first", "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not supported", - "max_label": "Very supported", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not fun", + "max_label": "Very fun" } }, { "id": "parenting_213", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clear are our expectations around parenting tasks?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How well do we celebrate tiny parenting wins?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "expectations", - "clarity" + "tiny_wins", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not clear", - "max_label": "Very clear", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "parenting_214", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do we repair after snapping about parenting?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How supported do you feel in parenting or caregiving?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", - "snapping" + "support", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Very often", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not supported", + "max_label": "Very supported" } }, { "id": "parenting_215", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does parenting stress affect our closeness?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How well do we reset after kid chaos?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "stress", - "closeness" + "reset", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "Very much", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "parenting_216", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How confident do you feel in our parenting teamwork?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much would a tag-team signal help us?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "confidence" + "signals", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not confident", - "max_label": "Very confident", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "parenting_217", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How appreciated do you feel for your parenting effort?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How hopeful do you feel about our parenting team right now?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "appreciation", - "effort" + "hope", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not appreciated", - "max_label": "Very appreciated", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not hopeful", + "max_label": "Very hopeful" } }, { "id": "parenting_218", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do we make room for fun as a family?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How easy is it to talk about parenting stress without it getting heavy?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fun", - "family" + "stress", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Very often", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "parenting_219", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we discuss discipline calmly?", + "text": "How easy is it to talk about discipline without summoning storm clouds?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "discipline", - "calm" + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "parenting_220", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How fair does the mental load feel?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How much do our family values feel like the same compass?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "mental_load", - "fairness" + "values", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not fair", - "max_label": "Very fair", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not aligned", + "max_label": "Very aligned" } }, { "id": "parenting_221", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we protect couple time while parenting?", + "text": "How fair does the parenting load feel right now?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "couple_time", - "protection" + "fairness", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not fair", + "max_label": "Very fair" } }, { "id": "parenting_222", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do extended family expectations affect us?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How well do we notice the invisible parenting magic?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "extended_family", - "pressure" + "invisible_work", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "Very much", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "parenting_223", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you asking me for parenting help?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How well do we protect couple time from the logistics monster?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "asking", - "help" + "couple_time", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "parenting_224", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do I notice when you need a break?", + "text": "How well do we protect rest from the to-do monster?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "break", - "noticing" + "rest", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "parenting_225", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do you notice when I need a break?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How playful do family routines feel?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "break", - "self_reflection" + "routines", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not playful", + "max_label": "Very playful" } }, { "id": "parenting_226", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much patience do we have with each other during family chaos?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How much do family routines support us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "patience", - "chaos" + "routines", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Very little", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "parenting_227", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How aligned are we on our biggest parenting values?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How chaotic do school mornings feel?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "values", - "alignment" + "mornings", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not aligned", - "max_label": "Very aligned", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not stressful", + "max_label": "Very stressful" } }, { "id": "parenting_228", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do we talk about parenting before problems grow?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How goblin-hour does bedtime feel?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "prevention", - "communication" + "bedtime", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Very often", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not stressful", + "max_label": "Very stressful" } }, { "id": "parenting_229", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to disagree about parenting?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How well do we tag-team when one of us is overwhelmed?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "safety", - "disagreement" + "overwhelmed", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "parenting_230", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you feel like my partner, not only a parent?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How easy is it to ask for backup?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "partners", - "identity" + "backup", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "Very much", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "parenting_231", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How manageable does this parenting season feel?", + "text": "How much do we model kindness well?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "season", - "manageable" + "modeling", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not manageable", - "max_label": "Very manageable", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "parenting_232", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do we celebrate parenting wins?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How much do we model repair well?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "wins", - "celebration" + "repair", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Very often", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "parenting_233", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does our home rhythm support us?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How much perfect-parent pressure is trying to sneak in?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "home_rhythm", - "support" + "pressure", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, + "min": 1, + "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "parenting_234", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we divide rest, not just tasks?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How much grace do we give each other in parenting?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "rest", - "division" + "grace", + "parenting" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "parenting_235", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", - "text": "How hopeful do you feel about our parenting teamwork improving?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How proud are you of the parenting tag-team we are becoming?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hope", - "teamwork" + "pride", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not hopeful", - "max_label": "Very hopeful", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not proud", + "max_label": "Very proud" } }, { "id": "parenting_236", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which helps more on a hard parenting day?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Tag-team or take turns?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hard_day", - "support" + "teamwork", + "parenting" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_break", - "text": "A break" - }, - { - "id": "a_hug", - "text": "A hug" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tag_team", + "text": "Tag-team" + }, + { + "id": "take_turns", + "text": "Take turns" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_237", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which fits this choice better for you: couple time or family routines?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Snack break or quiet reset?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "protection", - "priorities" + "reset", + "parenting" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "couple_time", - "text": "Couple time" - }, - { - "id": "family_routines", - "text": "Family routines" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "snack_break", + "text": "Snack break" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_reset", + "text": "Quiet reset" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_238", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which feels harder right now?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Tiny win or fake parenting award?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "difficulty", + "fun_first", "parenting" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "tasks", - "text": "Tasks" - }, - { - "id": "emotions", - "text": "Emotions" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_win", + "text": "Tiny win" + }, + { + "id": "fake_award", + "text": "Fake parenting award" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_239", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which should we plan first?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Routine magic or flexible chaos?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "planning", - "priority" + "routines", + "parenting" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "mornings", - "text": "Mornings" - }, - { - "id": "bedtime", - "text": "Bedtime" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "routine_magic", + "text": "Routine magic" + }, + { + "id": "flexible_chaos", + "text": "Flexible chaos" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_240", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which helps family stress more?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Bedtime warrior or morning hero?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress", - "reset" + "fun_first", + "parenting" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "structure", - "text": "Structure" - }, - { - "id": "flexibility", - "text": "Flexibility" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "bedtime_warrior", + "text": "Bedtime warrior" + }, + { + "id": "morning_hero", + "text": "Morning hero" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_241", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which do you need more from me?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Family adventure or couch recovery?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "needs", - "support" + "family_life", + "parenting" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "help", - "text": "Help" - }, - { - "id": "encouragement", - "text": "Encouragement" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "family_adventure", + "text": "Family adventure" + }, + { + "id": "couch_recovery", + "text": "Couch recovery" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_242", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which parenting moment feels most tender?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Talk rules now or huddle later?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "tenderness", - "family" + "rules", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "bedtime", - "text": "Bedtime" - }, - { - "id": "playtime", - "text": "Playtime" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_now", + "text": "Talk rules now" + }, + { + "id": "revisit_later", + "text": "Revisit later" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_243", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which conflict should we avoid in front of kids?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Steady rules or flexible grace?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "conflict", - "kids" + "parenting_style", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "undermining", - "text": "Undermining" - }, - { - "id": "criticizing", - "text": "Criticizing" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "consistency", + "text": "Consistency" + }, + { + "id": "flexibility", + "text": "Flexibility" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_244", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which would you choose first here: rest or connection?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Gentle backup or full tag-in?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "needs", - "relationship" + "backup", + "parenting" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gentle_backup", + "text": "Gentle backup" + }, + { + "id": "full_tag_in", + "text": "Full tag-in" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_245", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which should we simplify?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Protect rest or protect us-time?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "simplify", - "life" + "protection", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "schedules", - "text": "Schedules" - }, - { - "id": "housework", - "text": "Housework" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Protect rest" + }, + { + "id": "couple_time", + "text": "Protect couple time" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_246", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which matters more this week?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Family tradition or tiny adventure?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "weekly", - "priority" + "fun_first", + "parenting" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "planning", - "text": "Planning" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tradition", + "text": "Family tradition" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_adventure", + "text": "Tiny adventure" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_247", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which helps you feel trusted?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Laugh through it or simplify it?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trust", + "stress", "parenting" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "freedom", - "text": "Freedom" - }, - { - "id": "backup", - "text": "Backup" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "laugh", + "text": "Laugh through it" + }, + { + "id": "simplify", + "text": "Simplify it" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_248", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which repair matters more?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Model patience or model the try-again?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "parenting" + "modeling", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "apologizing_to_each_other", - "text": "Apologizing to each other" - }, - { - "id": "apologizing_to_the_child", - "text": "Apologizing to the child" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Model patience" + }, + { + "id": "repair", + "text": "Model repair" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_249", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which family memory do you want more of?", + "text": "Plan ahead or wing it kindly?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "memories", - "family" + "planning", + "parenting" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "silly", - "text": "Silly" - }, - { - "id": "peaceful", - "text": "Peaceful" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "plan_ahead", + "text": "Plan ahead" + }, + { + "id": "wing_it_kindly", + "text": "Wing it kindly" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "parenting_250", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which should we say more often?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Parenting huddle or parenting victory high-five?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "communication", - "support" + "teamwork", + "parenting", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "thank_you", - "text": "Thank you" - }, - { - "id": "i_have_got_this", - "text": "I have got this" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "huddle", + "text": "Parenting huddle" + }, + { + "id": "high_five", + "text": "Parenting high-five" + } + ] + } } ] } 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"this_or_that" - ] + "metadata": { + "total_questions": 250, + "free_questions": 75, + "premium_questions": 175, + "type_counts": { + "written": 150, + "single_choice": 40, + "multi_choice": 20, + "scale": 25, + "this_or_that": 15 + } + } }, "questions": [ { "id": "stress_001", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you most when work stress is affecting you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you feel cared for when stress is high?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "work_stress", - "support" + "care", + "support", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_002", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I notice when work stress is starting to show up?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one sign your stress battery is blinking red?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "work_stress", - "noticing" + "awareness", + "low_battery", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_003", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small way I can help with work stress this week?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one sign that I should offer support instead of questions?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "work_stress", - "help" + "support", + "signals", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_004", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I better honor what work stress brings up for you?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What kind of support feels best when your day has been a lot?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "work_stress", - "understanding" + "hard_day", + "support", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_005", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we avoid doing when work stress is high?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What kind of support helps before a day that already looks too full?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "work_stress", - "avoidance" + "before_stress", + "support", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_006", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you most when feeling overwhelmed is affecting you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you decompress without feeling rushed?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_overwhelmed", - "support" + "decompress", + "no_pressure", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_007", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I notice when feeling overwhelmed is starting to show up?", + "text": "What makes home feel like a soft landing after the world has been too loud?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_overwhelmed", - "noticing" + "home", + "soft_landing", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_008", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small way I can help with feeling overwhelmed this week?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us feel like a tiny team against the big stress monster?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_overwhelmed", - "help" + "teamwork", + "us_against_stress", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_009", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What question do you wish I would ask about feeling overwhelmed?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps us not turn stress against each other?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_overwhelmed", - "understanding" + "teamwork", + "protection", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_010", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we avoid doing when feeling overwhelmed is high?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps you say, 'I am overloaded,' before it spills out sideways?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_overwhelmed", - "avoidance" + "overload", + "communication", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_011", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you most when needing rest is affecting you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What tiny reset actually helps your nervous system unclench?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "needing_rest", - "support" + "reset", + "fun_first", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_012", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I notice when needing rest is starting to show up?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What snack, drink, or comfort belongs in our official stress survival kit?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "needing_rest", - "noticing" + "comfort", + "fun_first", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_013", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small way I can help with needing rest this week?", + "text": "What is one low-battery way we can still feel close?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "needing_rest", - "help" + "low_energy", + "connection", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_014", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you want me to understand about needing rest?", + "text": "What is one quiet way I can love you when your battery is low?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "needing_rest", - 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"stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_017", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I notice when asking for help is starting to show up?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one thing we should not discuss when one of us is already maxed out?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "asking_for_help", - "noticing" + "timing", + "boundaries", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_018", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small way I can help with asking for help this week?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What timing makes stressful conversations easier?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "asking_for_help", - "help" + "timing", + "communication", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_019", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What feels hardest to explain about asking for help?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps asking for a break feel normal and safe?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "asking_for_help", - "understanding" + "breaks", + "safety", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_020", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we avoid doing when asking for help feels hard?", + "text": "What helps you come back after taking a break?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "asking_for_help", - "avoidance" + "breaks", + "return", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_021", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you most when low energy days is affecting you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps rest feel allowed, not like something we have to win first?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "low_energy_days", - "support" + "rest", + "no_guilt", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_022", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I notice when low energy days is starting to show up?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you stop carrying the whole day alone?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "low_energy_days", - "noticing" + "support", + "shared_load", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_023", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small way I can help with low energy days this week?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us protect each other's peace during stressful seasons?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "low_energy_days", - "help" + "peace", + "protection", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_024", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help me see low energy days with more care?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What kind of gentle humor helps when life is being a lot?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "low_energy_days", - "understanding" + "laughter", + "fun_first", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_025", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we avoid doing when low-energy days pile up?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What silly little pressure valve helps without dismissing the stress?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "low_energy_days", - "avoidance" + "fun_first", + "relief", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_026", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you most when mental load is affecting you?", + "text": "What helps when your brain has 47 tabs open and one is playing music?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "mental_load", - "support" + "overwhelm", + "fun_first", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_027", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I notice when mental load is starting to show up?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps when the day has been loud and overstimulating?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "mental_load", - "noticing" + "overstimulation", + "support", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_028", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small way I can help with mental load this week?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps when you need quiet but still want closeness?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "mental_load", - "help" + "quiet", + "closeness", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_029", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you want me to notice about mental load?", + "text": "What helps when you need comfort but not fixing?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "mental_load", - "understanding" + "comfort", + "no_fixing", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_030", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we avoid doing when mental load is high?", + "text": "What helps when you need solutions but not pressure?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "mental_load", - "avoidance" + "solutions", + "no_pressure", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_031", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you most when unexpected problems is affecting you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one responsibility we could simplify during stressful seasons?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "unexpected_problems", - "support" + "simplicity", + "responsibilities", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_032", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I notice when unexpected problems is starting to show up?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one expectation we could lower when life gets heavy?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "unexpected_problems", - "noticing" + "expectations", + "grace", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_033", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small way I can help with unexpected problems this week?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What tiny win deserves a spotlight during stressful weeks?", + 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"text": "What kind of support helps most during feeling overwhelmed?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_alone_in_stress", - "support" + "overwhelmed", + "support", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_134", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us protect each other during feeling alone in stress?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What should we simplify when dealing with feeling overwhelmed?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_alone_in_stress", - "boundary" + "overwhelmed", + "support", + "simplicity", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_135", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What repair do we need when feeling alone in stress affects how we treat each other?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps us protect kindness during feeling overwhelmed?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_alone_in_stress", - "repair" + "overwhelmed", + "support", + "kindness", + "protection", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_136", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "When does support that misses the mark make you feel distant from me?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Where can we add a little lightness around feeling overwhelmed without dismissing it?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "support_that_misses_the_mark", - "distance" + "overwhelmed", + "support", + "fun_first", + "lightness", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_137", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What pattern between us gets worse when support that misses the mark is present?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make rest and recovery feel less lonely?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "support_that_misses_the_mark", - "pattern" + "rest", + "recovery", + "connection", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_138", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What support around support that misses the mark feels helpful instead of controlling?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How can we make rest and recovery feel more like us against the problem?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "support_that_misses_the_mark", - "support" + "rest", + "recovery", + "teamwork", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_139", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us protect each other during support that misses the mark?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What tiny reset could help with rest and recovery?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "support_that_misses_the_mark", - "boundary" + "rest", + "recovery", + "reset", + "small_steps", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_140", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What repair do we need when support that misses the mark affects how we treat each other?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What kind of support helps most during rest and recovery?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "support_that_misses_the_mark", - "repair" + "rest", + "recovery", + "support", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_141", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "When do stress recovery routines make you feel distant from me?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What should we simplify when dealing with rest and recovery?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress_recovery_routines", - "distance" + "rest", + "recovery", + "simplicity", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_142", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What pattern between us gets worse when stress recovery routines is present?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps us protect kindness during rest and recovery?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress_recovery_routines", - "pattern" + "rest", + "recovery", + "kindness", + "protection", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write 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"resilience", + "connection", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_145", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What repair do we need when stress recovery routines affects how we treat each other?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How can we make the team we are under pressure feel more like us against the problem?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress_recovery_routines", - "repair" + "teamwork", + "resilience", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_146", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "When does protecting the relationship during hard seasons make you feel distant from me?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What tiny reset could help with the team we are under pressure?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "protecting_the_relationship_during_hard_seasons", - "distance" + "teamwork", + "resilience", + "reset", + "small_steps", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_147", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What pattern between us gets worse when protecting the relationship during hard seasons is present?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What kind of support helps most during the team we are under pressure?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "protecting_the_relationship_during_hard_seasons", - "pattern" + "teamwork", + "resilience", + "support", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_148", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What support around protecting the relationship during hard seasons feels helpful instead of controlling?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What should we simplify when dealing with the team we are under pressure?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "protecting_the_relationship_during_hard_seasons", - "support" + "teamwork", + "resilience", + "simplicity", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_149", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us protect each other during protecting the relationship during hard seasons?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps us protect kindness during the team we are under pressure?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "protecting_the_relationship_during_hard_seasons", - "boundary" + "teamwork", + "resilience", + "kindness", + "protection", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_150", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What repair do we need when protecting the relationship during hard seasons affects how we treat each other?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Where can we add a tiny bit of lightness when we are under pressure together?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "protecting_the_relationship_during_hard_seasons", - "repair" + "teamwork", + "resilience", + "fun_first", + "lightness", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "stress_151", "category_id": "stress", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When work stress shows up, what usually helps first?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What kind of support sounds best after a hard day?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "work_stress", - "support" + "hard_day", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "practical_help", - "text": "Practical help" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_space", - "text": "Quiet space" - }, - { - "id": "encouragement", - "text": "Encouragement" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_comfort", + "text": "Quiet comfort" + }, + { + "id": "practical_help", + "text": "Practical help" + }, + { + "id": "a_hug", + "text": "A hug" + }, + { + "id": "no_decisions", + "text": "No decisions" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_152", "category_id": "stress", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of help feels best during feeling overwhelmed?", + "text": "What helps you decompress?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_overwhelmed", - "help" + "decompress", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_hug", - "text": "A hug" - }, - { - "id": "a_plan", - "text": "A plan" - }, - { - "id": "a_break", - "text": "A break" - }, - { - "id": 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after a stressful week?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "health_worries", - "support" + "recovery", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "practical_help", - "text": "Practical help" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_space", - "text": "Quiet space" - }, - { - "id": "encouragement", - "text": "Encouragement" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_date", + "text": "Tiny date" + }, + { + "id": "good_food", + "text": "Good food" + }, + { + "id": "no_plans", + "text": "No plans" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_164", "category_id": "stress", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of help feels best during burnout signs?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What kind of lightness helps stress loosen its tiny claws?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "burnout_signs", - "help" + "fun_first", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_hug", - "text": "A hug" - }, - { - "id": "a_plan", - "text": "A plan" - }, - { - "id": "a_break", - "text": "A break" - }, - { - "id": "a_check_in", - "text": "A check-in" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_joke", + "text": "A joke" + }, + { + "id": "a_snack", + "text": "A snack" + }, + { + "id": "a_silly_reset", + "text": "A silly reset" + }, + { + "id": "a_tiny_win", + "text": "A tiny win" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_165", "category_id": "stress", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we handle a serious talk when we are resetting after stress?", + "text": "What should stress feel like between us: shared, temporary, and not the boss?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "resetting_after_stress", - "timing" + "teamwork", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_now", - "text": "Talk now" - }, - { - "id": "talk_later", - "text": "Talk later" - }, - { - "id": "write_it_down", - "text": "Write it down" - }, - { - "id": "do_something_calming", - "text": "Do something calming" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "shared", + "text": "Shared" + }, + { + "id": "softer", + "text": "Softer" + }, + { + "id": "temporary", + "text": "Temporary" + }, + { + "id": "manageable", + "text": "Manageable" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_166", "category_id": "stress", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you need me to do less when stress spillover into conflict is present?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which stress area needs the most support?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress_spillover_into_conflict", - "less" + "support", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "listen", - "text": "Listen" - }, - { - "id": "help_decide", - "text": "Help decide" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_task", - "text": "Take a task" - }, - { - "id": "give_reassurance", - "text": "Give reassurance" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "work", + "text": "Work" + }, + { + "id": "money", + "text": "Money" + }, + { + "id": "family", + "text": "Family" + }, + { + "id": "home_life", + "text": "Home life" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_167", "category_id": "stress", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What reset helps after shutdown under pressure?", + "text": "Which low-stakes stress area could use more lightness?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "shutdown_under_pressure", - "reset" + "fun_first", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "movement", - "text": "Movement" - }, - { - "id": "food", - "text": "Food" - }, - { - "id": "less_noise", - "text": "Less noise" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "busy_weeks", + "text": "Busy weeks" + }, + { + "id": "errands", + "text": "Errands" + }, + { + "id": "house_stuff", + "text": "House stuff" + }, + { + "id": "minor_annoyances", + "text": "Minor annoyances" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_168", "category_id": "stress", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should be our first move when irritability during stress affects us?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Which stress area needs more gentleness?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "irritability_during_stress", - "first_move" + "gentleness", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_it_early", - "text": "Name it early" - }, - { - "id": "pause_conflict", - "text": "Pause conflict" - }, - { - "id": "lower_expectations", - "text": "Lower expectations" - }, - { - "id": "ask_for_help", - "text": "Ask for help" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "health_worries", + "text": "Health worries" + }, + { + "id": "money", + "text": "Money" + }, + { + "id": "family_pressure", + "text": "Family pressure" + }, + { + "id": "big_decisions", + "text": "Big decisions" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_169", "category_id": "stress", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When unequal workload shows up, what usually helps first?", + "text": "What makes stress turn into tension between us?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "unequal_workload", - "support" + "tension", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "practical_help", - "text": "Practical help" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_space", - "text": "Quiet space" - }, - { - "id": "encouragement", - "text": "Encouragement" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "bad_timing", + "text": "Bad timing" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_alone", + "text": "Feeling alone" + }, + { + "id": "too_much_at_once", + "text": "Too much at once" + }, + { + "id": "unspoken_needs", + "text": "Unspoken needs" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_170", "category_id": "stress", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of help feels best during hidden anxiety?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps stress stay outside the relationship instead of sitting between us on the couch?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hidden_anxiety", - "help" + "protection", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_hug", - "text": "A hug" - }, - { - "id": "a_plan", - "text": "A plan" - }, - { - "id": "a_break", - "text": "A break" - }, - { - "id": "a_check_in", - "text": "A check-in" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "team_language", + "text": "Team language" + }, + { + "id": "check_ins", + "text": "Check-ins" + }, + { + "id": "help_early", + "text": "Help early" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_171", "category_id": "stress", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we handle a serious talk when pressure around money is high?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps work stress not take over the whole house?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pressure_around_money", - "timing" + "work", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_now", - "text": "Talk now" - }, - { - "id": "talk_later", - "text": "Talk later" - }, - { - "id": "write_it_down", - "text": "Write it down" - }, - { - "id": "do_something_calming", - "text": "Do something calming" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "transition_time", + "text": "Transition time" + }, + { + "id": "listening", + "text": "Listening" + }, + { + "id": "no_fixing_yet", + "text": "No fixing yet" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_reset", + "text": "Quiet reset" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_172", "category_id": "stress", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you need me to do less when caregiving stress is present?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps when money stress shows up?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "caregiving_stress", - "less" + "money", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "listen", - "text": "Listen" - }, - { - "id": "help_decide", - "text": "Help decide" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_task", - "text": "Take a task" - }, - { - "id": "give_reassurance", - "text": "Give reassurance" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "facts_first", + "text": "Facts first" + }, + { + "id": "no_shame", + "text": "No shame" + }, + { + "id": "one_next_step", + "text": "One next step" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_173", "category_id": "stress", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What reset helps after stress and intimacy?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps when family pressure shows up?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress_and_intimacy", - "reset" + "family", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "movement", - "text": "Movement" - }, - { - "id": "food", - "text": "Food" - }, - { - "id": "less_noise", - "text": "Less noise" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "private_huddle", + "text": "Private huddle" + }, + { + "id": "shared_boundary", + "text": "Shared boundary" + }, + { + "id": "calm_words", + "text": "Calm words" + }, + { + "id": "choose_us", + "text": "Choose us" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_174", "category_id": "stress", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should be our first move when chronic exhaustion affects us?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps when health worries show up?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "chronic_exhaustion", - "first_move" + "health", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_it_early", - "text": "Name it early" - }, - { - "id": "pause_conflict", - "text": "Pause conflict" - }, - { - "id": "lower_expectations", - "text": "Lower expectations" - }, - { - "id": "ask_for_help", - "text": "Ask for help" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gentle_support", + "text": "Gentle support" + }, + { + "id": "practical_help", + "text": "Practical help" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "no_minimizing", + "text": "No minimizing" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_175", "category_id": "stress", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When coping habits shows up, what usually helps first?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps household pressure not turn into a pile-on?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "coping_habits", - "support" + "home_life", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "practical_help", - "text": "Practical help" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_space", - "text": "Quiet space" - }, - { - "id": "encouragement", - "text": "Encouragement" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "simplify", + "text": "Simplify" + }, + { + "id": "share_one_task", + "text": "Share one task" + }, + { + "id": "lower_standards", + "text": "Lower standards" + }, + { + "id": "notice_effort", + "text": "Notice effort" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_176", "category_id": "stress", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of help feels best during avoiding difficult topics?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps when one of us needs quiet but still wants to feel loved?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "avoiding_difficult_topics", - "help" + "quiet", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_hug", - "text": "A hug" - }, - { - "id": "a_plan", - "text": "A plan" - }, - { - "id": "a_break", - "text": "A break" - }, - { - "id": "a_check_in", - "text": "A check-in" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "respect_it", + "text": "Respect it" + }, + { + "id": "check_later", + "text": "Check later" + }, + { + "id": "no_guilt", + "text": "No guilt" + }, + { + "id": "stay_nearby", + "text": "Stay nearby" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_177", "category_id": "stress", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we handle a serious talk when one of us feels alone in stress?", + "text": "What helps when one of us needs closeness?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_alone_in_stress", - "timing" + "closeness", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_now", - "text": "Talk now" - }, - { - "id": "talk_later", - "text": "Talk later" - }, - { - "id": "write_it_down", - "text": "Write it down" - }, - { - "id": "do_something_calming", - "text": "Do something calming" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sit_close", + "text": "Sit close" + }, + { + "id": "hug", + "text": "Hug" + }, + { + "id": "soft_words", + "text": "Soft words" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_178", "category_id": "stress", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you need me to do less when support that misses the mark is present?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps when one of us needs solutions?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "support_that_misses_the_mark", - "less" + "solutions", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "listen", - "text": "Listen" - }, - { - "id": "help_decide", - "text": "Help decide" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_task", - "text": "Take a task" - }, - { - "id": "give_reassurance", - "text": "Give reassurance" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + }, + { + "id": "one_option", + "text": "One option" + }, + { + "id": "small_step", + "text": "Small step" + }, + { + "id": "no_rush", + "text": "No rush" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_179", "category_id": "stress", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What reset helps after stress recovery routines?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps when one of us needs comfort?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress_recovery_routines", - "reset" + "comfort", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "movement", - "text": "Movement" - }, - { - "id": "food", - "text": "Food" - }, - { - "id": "less_noise", - "text": "Less noise" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "listen", + "text": "Listen" + }, + { + "id": "touch_if_wanted", + "text": "Touch if wanted" + }, + { + "id": "reassure", + "text": "Reassure" + }, + { + "id": "make_it_easier", + "text": "Make it easier" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_180", "category_id": "stress", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should be our first move when protecting the relationship during hard seasons affects us?", + "text": "What helps before a stressful event?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "before_stress", + "stress" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "plan_lightly", + "text": "Plan lightly" + }, + { + "id": "reassure", + "text": "Reassure" + }, + { + "id": "pack_early", + "text": "Pack early" + }, + { + "id": "leave_margin", + "text": "Leave margin" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "stress_181", + "category_id": "stress", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps us land gently after a stressful event?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "protecting_the_relationship_during_hard_seasons", - "first_move" + "after_stress", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_it_early", - "text": "Name it early" - }, - { - "id": "pause_conflict", - "text": "Pause conflict" - }, - { - "id": "lower_expectations", - "text": "Lower expectations" - }, - { - "id": "ask_for_help", - "text": "Ask for help" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet", + "text": "Quiet" + }, + { + "id": "food", + "text": "Food" + }, + { + "id": "debrief_later", + "text": "Debrief later" + }, + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "stress_182", + "category_id": "stress", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps us not overtalk stress?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "communication", + "stress" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "time_limit", + "text": "Time limit" + }, + { + "id": "one_topic", + "text": "One topic" + }, + { + "id": "breaks", + "text": "Breaks" + }, + { + "id": "come_back_later", + "text": "Come back later" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "stress_183", + "category_id": "stress", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps us not avoid stress talks completely?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "avoidance", + "stress" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_start", + "text": "Soft start" + }, + { + "id": "short_talk", + "text": "Short talk" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "clear_care", + "text": "Clear care" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "stress_184", + "category_id": "stress", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps us lower the pressure before the kettle whistles?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "pressure", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "simplify", + "text": "Simplify" + }, + { + "id": "cancel_something", + "text": "Cancel something" + }, + { + "id": "ask_for_help", + "text": "Ask for help" + }, + { + "id": "choose_rest", + "text": "Choose rest" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "stress_185", + "category_id": "stress", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes a stressful day feel one tiny notch more doable?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "daily_life", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_priority", + "text": "One priority" + }, + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + }, + { + "id": "help", + "text": "Help" + }, + { + "id": "lower_standards", + "text": "Lower standards" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "stress_186", + "category_id": "stress", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes a stressful season feel like something we can get through together?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "season", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "teamwork", + "text": "Teamwork" + }, + { + "id": "grace", + "text": "Grace" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_wins", + "text": "Tiny wins" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "stress_187", + "category_id": "stress", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should get an official stress-survival fake award?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "fun_first", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "warm" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "best_snack_save", + "text": "Best snack save" + }, + { + "id": "best_calm_voice", + "text": "Best calm voice" + }, + { + "id": "best_couch_reset", + "text": "Best couch reset" + }, + { + "id": "best_tiny_win", + "text": "Best tiny win" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "stress_188", + "category_id": "stress", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should we celebrate after stress lets go of us for a minute?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "celebration", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_stayed_kind", + "text": "We stayed kind" + }, + { + "id": "we_asked_for_help", + "text": "We asked for help" + }, + { + "id": "we_rested", + "text": "We rested" + }, + { + "id": "we_made_it_through", + "text": "We made it through" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "stress_189", + "category_id": "stress", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What does stress need less of from us so it stops getting extra fuel?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "simplicity", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "perfection", + "text": "Perfection" + }, + { + "id": "rushing", + "text": "Rushing" + }, + { + "id": "blame", + "text": "Blame" + }, + { + "id": "extra_decisions", + "text": "Extra decisions" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "stress_190", + "category_id": "stress", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What does stress need more of from us so we stay on the same team?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "support", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "teamwork", + "text": "Teamwork" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "clear_asks", + "text": "Clear asks" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_191", "category_id": "stress", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs tell you work stress is affecting you?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps stress feel less heavy?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "work_stress", - "signs" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "practical_help", - "text": "Practical help" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_space", - "text": "Quiet space" - }, - { - "id": "encouragement", - "text": "Encouragement" - } + "support", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "help", + "text": "Help" + }, + { + "id": "food", + "text": "Food" + }, + { + "id": "quiet", + "text": "Quiet" + }, + { + "id": "being_understood", + "text": "Being understood" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3512,32 +3994,39 @@ "id": "stress_192", "category_id": "stress", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which supports help when feeling overwhelmed is high?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What belongs in our official low-stress reset kit?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_overwhelmed", - "support" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_hug", - "text": "A hug" - }, - { - "id": "a_plan", - "text": "A plan" - }, - { - "id": "a_break", - "text": "A break" - }, - { - "id": "a_check_in", - "text": "A check-in" - } + "reset", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "snacks", + "text": "Snacks" + }, + { + "id": "soft_lighting", + "text": "Soft lighting" + }, + { + "id": "no_phones", + "text": "No phones" + }, + { + "id": "music", + "text": "Music" + }, + { + "id": "couch_time", + "text": "Couch time" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3546,32 +4035,36 @@ "id": "stress_193", "category_id": "stress", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we protect when needing rest is high?", + "text": "What helps us stay a team under stress?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "needing_rest", - "protect" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_now", - "text": "Talk now" - }, - { - "id": "talk_later", - "text": "Talk later" - }, - { - "id": "write_it_down", - "text": "Write it down" - }, - { - "id": "do_something_calming", - "text": "Do something calming" - } + "teamwork", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "use_we", + "text": "Use we" + }, + { + "id": "help_early", + "text": "Help early" + }, + { + "id": "take_breaks", + "text": "Take breaks" + }, + { + "id": "say_thank_you", + "text": "Say thank you" + }, + { + "id": "protect_kindness", + "text": "Protect kindness" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3580,32 +4073,39 @@ "id": "stress_194", "category_id": "stress", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which habits make asking for help worse between us?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What tiny wins deserve a little spotlight during stressful weeks?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "asking_for_help", - "worse" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "listen", - "text": "Listen" - }, - { - "id": "help_decide", - "text": "Help decide" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_task", - "text": "Take a task" - }, - { - "id": "give_reassurance", - "text": "Give reassurance" - } + "tiny_wins", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "rested", + "text": "Rested" + }, + { + "id": "asked_for_help", + "text": "Asked for help" + }, + { + "id": "stayed_kind", + "text": "Stayed kind" + }, + { + "id": "simplified", + "text": "Simplified" + }, + { + "id": "got_through", + "text": "Got through" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3614,32 +4114,39 @@ "id": "stress_195", "category_id": "stress", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs tell you low energy days is affecting you?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps after a hard day has wrung us out?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "low_energy_days", - "signs" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "movement", - "text": "Movement" - }, - { - "id": "food", - "text": "Food" - }, - { - "id": "less_noise", - "text": "Less noise" - } + "hard_day", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet", + "text": "Quiet" + }, + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + }, + { + "id": "low_expectations", + "text": "Low expectations" + }, + { + "id": "practical_help", + "text": "Practical help" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_affection", + "text": "Gentle affection" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3648,32 +4155,36 @@ "id": "stress_196", "category_id": "stress", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which supports help when mental load is high?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What stress signals should we notice sooner?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "mental_load", - "support" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_it_early", - "text": "Name it early" - }, - { - "id": "pause_conflict", - "text": "Pause conflict" - }, - { - "id": "lower_expectations", - "text": "Lower expectations" - }, - { - "id": "ask_for_help", - "text": "Ask for help" - } + "signals", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "going_quiet", + "text": "Going quiet" + }, + { + "id": "snapping", + "text": "Snapping" + }, + { + "id": "overexplaining", + "text": "Overexplaining" + }, + { + "id": "restlessness", + "text": "Restlessness" + }, + { + "id": "withdrawing", + "text": "Withdrawing" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3682,32 +4193,36 @@ "id": "stress_197", "category_id": "stress", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we protect when unexpected problems pile up?", + "text": "What helps when stress affects communication?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "unexpected_problems", - "protect" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "practical_help", - "text": "Practical help" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_space", - "text": "Quiet space" - }, - { - "id": "encouragement", - "text": "Encouragement" - } + "communication", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "use_soft_starts", + "text": "Use soft starts" + }, + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + }, + { + "id": "come_back_later", + "text": "Come back later" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3716,32 +4231,36 @@ "id": "stress_198", "category_id": "stress", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which habits make sleep and mood worse between us?", + "text": "What helps when stress affects affection?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sleep_and_mood", - "worse" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_hug", - "text": "A hug" - }, - { - "id": "a_plan", - "text": "A plan" - }, - { - "id": "a_break", - "text": "A break" - }, - { - "id": "a_check_in", - "text": "A check-in" - } + "affection", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "small_touch", + "text": "Small touch" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_closeness", + "text": "Quiet closeness" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3750,32 +4269,36 @@ "id": "stress_199", "category_id": "stress", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs tell you busy weeks is affecting you?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps when stress affects patience?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "busy_weeks", - "signs" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_now", - "text": "Talk now" - }, - { - "id": "talk_later", - "text": "Talk later" - }, - { - "id": "write_it_down", - "text": "Write it down" - }, - { - "id": "do_something_calming", - "text": "Do something calming" - } + "patience", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "breaks", + "text": "Breaks" + }, + { + "id": "lower_expectations", + "text": "Lower expectations" + }, + { + "id": "sleep", + "text": "Sleep" + }, + { + "id": "food", + "text": "Food" + }, + { + "id": "kind_reminders", + "text": "Kind reminders" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3784,32 +4307,36 @@ "id": "stress_200", "category_id": "stress", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which supports help when one of us needs to feel supported?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps with work stress?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_supported", - "support" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "listen", - "text": "Listen" - }, - { - "id": "help_decide", - "text": "Help decide" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_task", - "text": "Take a task" - }, - { - "id": "give_reassurance", - "text": "Give reassurance" - } + "work", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "transition_time", + "text": "Transition time" + }, + { + "id": "listening", + "text": "Listening" + }, + { + "id": "practical_help", + "text": "Practical help" + }, + { + "id": "no_fixing_yet", + "text": "No fixing yet" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3818,32 +4345,36 @@ "id": "stress_201", "category_id": "stress", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we protect when financial pressure is high?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps with money stress?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "financial_pressure", - "protect" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "movement", - "text": "Movement" - }, - { - "id": "food", - "text": "Food" - }, - { - "id": "less_noise", - "text": "Less noise" - } + "money", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_shame", + "text": "No shame" + }, + { + "id": "facts", + "text": "Facts" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_plan", + "text": "Tiny plan" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "one_step", + "text": "One step" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3852,32 +4383,36 @@ "id": "stress_202", "category_id": "stress", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which habits make family pressure worse between us?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps with family pressure?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family_pressure", - "worse" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_it_early", - "text": "Name it early" - }, - { - "id": "pause_conflict", - "text": "Pause conflict" - }, - { - "id": "lower_expectations", - "text": "Lower expectations" - }, - { - "id": "ask_for_help", - "text": "Ask for help" - } + "family", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "private_huddle", + "text": "Private huddle" + }, + { + "id": "shared_boundary", + "text": "Shared boundary" + }, + { + "id": "support", + "text": "Support" + }, + { + "id": "short_talk", + "text": "Short talk" + }, + { + "id": "choose_us", + "text": "Choose us" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3886,32 +4421,36 @@ "id": "stress_203", "category_id": "stress", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs tell you health worries is affecting you?", + "text": "What helps with health worries?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "health_worries", - "signs" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "practical_help", - "text": "Practical help" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_space", - "text": "Quiet space" - }, - { - "id": "encouragement", - "text": "Encouragement" - } + "health", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "practical_help", + "text": "Practical help" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_words", + "text": "Gentle words" + }, + { + "id": "no_minimizing", + "text": "No minimizing" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_support", + "text": "Quiet support" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3920,32 +4459,36 @@ "id": "stress_204", "category_id": "stress", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which supports help when burnout signs are showing?", + "text": "What helps with household pressure?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "burnout_signs", - "support" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_hug", - "text": "A hug" - }, - { - "id": "a_plan", - "text": "A plan" - }, - { - "id": "a_break", - "text": "A break" - }, - { - "id": "a_check_in", - "text": "A check-in" - } + "home_life", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "simplify", + "text": "Simplify" + }, + { + "id": "share_tasks", + "text": "Share tasks" + }, + { + "id": "lower_standards", + "text": "Lower standards" + }, + { + "id": "notice_effort", + "text": "Notice effort" + }, + { + "id": "one_reset", + "text": "One reset" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3954,32 +4497,36 @@ "id": "stress_205", "category_id": "stress", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we protect when we are resetting after stress?", + "text": "What helps with big decisions?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "resetting_after_stress", - "protect" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_now", - "text": "Talk now" - }, - { - "id": "talk_later", - "text": "Talk later" - }, - { - "id": "write_it_down", - "text": "Write it down" - }, - { - "id": "do_something_calming", - "text": "Do something calming" - } + "decisions", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "time", + "text": "Time" + }, + { + "id": "both_voices", + "text": "Both voices" + }, + { + "id": "one_step", + "text": "One step" + }, + { + "id": "clear_values", + "text": "Clear values" + }, + { + "id": "no_rushing", + "text": "No rushing" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3988,32 +4535,39 @@ "id": "stress_206", "category_id": "stress", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which habits make stress spillover into conflict worse between us?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps us recover together without making recovery another chore?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress_spillover_into_conflict", - "worse" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "listen", - "text": "Listen" - }, - { - "id": "help_decide", - "text": "Help decide" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_task", - "text": "Take a task" - }, - { - "id": "give_reassurance", - "text": "Give reassurance" - } + "recovery", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_date", + "text": "Tiny date" + }, + { + "id": "comfort_food", + "text": "Comfort food" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_night", + "text": "Quiet night" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_check_in", + "text": "Sweet check-in" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4022,32 +4576,39 @@ "id": "stress_207", "category_id": "stress", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs tell you shutdown under pressure is affecting you?", + "text": "What helps stress not steal all the sweetness from the room?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "shutdown_under_pressure", - "signs" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "movement", - "text": "Movement" - }, - { - "id": "food", - "text": "Food" - }, - { - "id": "less_noise", - "text": "Less noise" - } + "sweetness", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "small_affection", + "text": "Small affection" + }, + { + "id": "kind_words", + "text": "Kind words" + }, + { + "id": "humor", + "text": "Humor" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "thank_yous", + "text": "Thank-yous" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4056,32 +4617,39 @@ "id": "stress_208", "category_id": "stress", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which supports help when irritability during stress is high?", + "text": "What can we simplify when life is doing entirely too much?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "irritability_during_stress", - "support" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_it_early", - "text": "Name it early" - }, - { - "id": "pause_conflict", - "text": "Pause conflict" - }, - { - "id": "lower_expectations", - "text": "Lower expectations" - }, - { - "id": "ask_for_help", - "text": "Ask for help" - } + "simplicity", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "meals", + "text": "Meals" + }, + { + "id": "plans", + "text": "Plans" + }, + { + "id": "chores", + "text": "Chores" + }, + { + "id": "expectations", + "text": "Expectations" + }, + { + "id": "decisions", + "text": "Decisions" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4090,32 +4658,36 @@ "id": "stress_209", "category_id": "stress", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we protect when unequal workload is high?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What lightness is safe to add around stress?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "unequal_workload", - "protect" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "practical_help", - "text": "Practical help" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_space", - "text": "Quiet space" - }, - { - "id": "encouragement", - "text": "Encouragement" - } + "fun_first", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "snack_reset", + "text": "Snack reset" + }, + { + "id": "silly_signal", + "text": "Silly signal" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_award", + "text": "Tiny award" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_humor", + "text": "Gentle humor" + }, + { + "id": "cozy_ritual", + "text": "Cozy ritual" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4124,32 +4696,38 @@ "id": "stress_210", "category_id": "stress", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which habits make hidden anxiety worse between us?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What deserves a tiny stress-survival award?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hidden_anxiety", - "worse" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_hug", - "text": "A hug" - }, - { - "id": "a_plan", - "text": "A plan" - }, - { - "id": "a_break", - "text": "A break" - }, - { - "id": "a_check_in", - "text": "A check-in" - } + "fun_first", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "stayed_kind", + "text": "Stayed kind" + }, + { + "id": "asked_for_help", + "text": "Asked for help" + }, + { + "id": "took_a_break", + "text": "Took a break" + }, + { + "id": "made_food", + "text": "Made food" + }, + { + "id": "made_it_through", + "text": "Made it through" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4158,37 +4736,35 @@ "id": "stress_211", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much has work stress affected us lately?", + "text": "How stressed do you feel right now?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "work_stress", - "impact" + "current", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not at all", - "max_label": "Very much" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not stressed", + "max_label": "Very stressed" } }, { "id": "stress_212", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How supported do you feel around feeling overwhelmed?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How supported do you feel when stress is high?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_overwhelmed", - "support" + "support", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unsupported", + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not supported", "max_label": "Very supported" } }, @@ -4196,18 +4772,17 @@ "id": "stress_213", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we talk when needing rest is high?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How well do we stay a team under stress?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "needing_rest", - "communication" + "teamwork", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Poorly", + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", "max_label": "Very well" } }, @@ -4215,227 +4790,220 @@ "id": "stress_214", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much recovery time do you need after asking for help?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much do tiny resets help your stress battery?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "asking_for_help", - "recovery" + "reset", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Low urgency", - "max_label": "High urgency" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "stress_215", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How urgent is it for us to change how we handle low energy days?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How easy is it to ask for help when stressed?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "low_energy_days", - "urgency" + "help", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not at all", - "max_label": "Very much" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "stress_216", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much has mental load affected us lately?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much does lightness help when the stress is low-stakes enough for it?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "mental_load", - "impact" + "fun_first", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unsupported", - "max_label": "Very supported" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "stress_217", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How supported do you feel around unexpected problems?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How hopeful do you feel about handling stress together?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "unexpected_problems", - "support" + "hope", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Poorly", - "max_label": "Very well" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not hopeful", + "max_label": "Very hopeful" } }, { "id": "stress_218", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we talk when sleep and mood is high?", + "text": "How much does work stress affect us?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sleep_and_mood", - "communication" + "work", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Low urgency", - "max_label": "High urgency" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "stress_219", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much recovery time do you need after busy weeks?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How much does money stress affect us?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "busy_weeks", - "recovery" + "money", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not at all", - "max_label": "Very much" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "stress_220", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How urgent is it for us to change how we handle feeling supported?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How much does family pressure affect us?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_supported", - "urgency" + "family", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unsupported", - "max_label": "Very supported" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "stress_221", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much has financial pressure affected us lately?", + "text": "How much do household responsibilities add stress?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "financial_pressure", - "impact" + "home_life", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Poorly", - "max_label": "Very well" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "stress_222", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How supported do you feel around family pressure?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How easy is it to talk about stress without blame?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family_pressure", - "support" + "communication", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Low urgency", - "max_label": "High urgency" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "stress_223", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we talk when health worries feel heavy?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How well do we protect rest during stressful seasons?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "health_worries", - "communication" + "rest", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not at all", - "max_label": "Very much" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "stress_224", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much recovery time do you need after burnout signs?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How well do we protect kindness during stressful seasons?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "burnout_signs", - "recovery" + "kindness", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unsupported", - "max_label": "Very supported" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "stress_225", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How urgent is it for us to change how we handle resetting after stress?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How well do we protect affection during stressful seasons?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "resetting_after_stress", - "urgency" + "affection", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Poorly", + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", "max_label": "Very well" } }, @@ -4443,151 +5011,152 @@ "id": "stress_226", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much has stress spillover into conflict affected us lately?", + "text": "How easy is it to say, 'I am overloaded'?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress_spillover_into_conflict", - "impact" + "overload", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Low urgency", - "max_label": "High urgency" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "stress_227", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How supported do you feel around shutdown under pressure?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How well do we notice each other's stress signals?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "shutdown_under_pressure", - "support" + "signals", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not at all", - "max_label": "Very much" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "stress_228", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we talk when irritability during stress is high?", + "text": "How much do we need a softer landing routine?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "irritability_during_stress", - "communication" + "decompress", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unsupported", - "max_label": "Very supported" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "stress_229", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much recovery time do you need after unequal workload?", + "text": "How much do we need more quiet after days that are too loud?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "unequal_workload", - "recovery" + "quiet", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Poorly", - "max_label": "Very well" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "stress_230", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How urgent is it for us to change how we handle hidden anxiety?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How much do we need more help-sharing during stress?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hidden_anxiety", - "urgency" + "shared_load", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Low urgency", - "max_label": "High urgency" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "stress_231", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much has pressure around money affected us lately?", + "text": "How well do we recover after stressful weeks?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pressure_around_money", - "impact" + "recovery", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not at all", - "max_label": "Very much" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "stress_232", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How supported do you feel around caregiving stress?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How much pressure are we carrying that could be lowered?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "caregiving_stress", - "support" + "pressure", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unsupported", - "max_label": "Very supported" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "stress_233", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we talk when stress and intimacy is high?", + "text": "How well do we celebrate simply making it through hard seasons?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress_and_intimacy", - "communication" + "celebration", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Poorly", + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", "max_label": "Very well" } }, @@ -4595,369 +5164,413 @@ "id": "stress_234", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much recovery time do you need after chronic exhaustion?", + "text": "How much does stress try to steal our playfulness?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "chronic_exhaustion", - "recovery" + "play", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Low urgency", - "max_label": "High urgency" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "stress_235", "category_id": "stress", "type": "scale", - "text": "How urgent is it for us to change how we handle coping habits?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How much does stress try to make us forget we are on the same team?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "coping_habits", - "urgency" + "teamwork", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not at all", - "max_label": "Very much" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "stress_236", "category_id": "stress", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When work stress is high, what helps more?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Quiet reset or snack-powered reset?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "work_stress", - "support_style" + "reset", + "fun_first", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "solutions", - "text": "Solutions" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_reset", + "text": "Quiet reset" + }, + { + "id": "snack_reset", + "text": "Snack reset" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_237", "category_id": "stress", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For feeling overwhelmed, what do you usually need first?", + "text": "Comfort first or solutions first?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_overwhelmed", - "need" + "support", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - }, - { - "id": "closeness", - "text": "Closeness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "comfort_first", + "text": "Comfort first" + }, + { + "id": "solutions_first", + "text": "Solutions first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_238", "category_id": "stress", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When needing rest affects us, what should we prioritize?", + "text": "Talk it out or sit quietly together?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "needing_rest", - "priority" + "connection", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_now", - "text": "Talk now" - }, - { - "id": "talk_later", - "text": "Talk later" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_it_out", + "text": "Talk it out" + }, + { + "id": "sit_quietly", + "text": "Sit quietly together" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_239", "category_id": "stress", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When asking for help feels hard, what helps more?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Low-battery code word or hand squeeze?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "asking_for_help", - "support_style" + "signals", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "lower_expectations", - "text": "Lower expectations" - }, - { - "id": "push_through", - "text": "Push through" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "code_word", + "text": "Code word" + }, + { + "id": "hand_squeeze", + "text": "Hand squeeze" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_240", "category_id": "stress", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For low energy days, what do you usually need first?", + "text": "Take something off the plate or add comfort?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "low_energy_days", - "need" + "support", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "practical_help", - "text": "Practical help" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_support", - "text": "Emotional support" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "remove_task", + "text": "Take something off the plate" + }, + { + "id": "add_comfort", + "text": "Add comfort" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_241", "category_id": "stress", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When mental load affects us, what should we prioritize?", + "text": "Rest first or plan first?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "mental_load", - "priority" + "rest", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "routine", - "text": "Routine" - }, - { - "id": "flexibility", - "text": "Flexibility" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "rest_first", + "text": "Rest first" + }, + { + "id": "plan_first", + "text": "Plan first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_242", "category_id": "stress", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When unexpected problems pile up, what helps more?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Simplify dinner or simplify the schedule?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "unexpected_problems", - "support_style" + "simplicity", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet", - "text": "Quiet" - }, - { - "id": "distraction", - "text": "Distraction" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "dinner", + "text": "Simplify dinner" + }, + { + "id": "schedule", + "text": "Simplify the schedule" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_243", "category_id": "stress", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For sleep and mood, what do you usually need first?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Tiny win spotlight or tiny reset?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sleep_and_mood", - "need" + "tiny_wins", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "rest_first", - "text": "Rest first" - }, - { - "id": "plan_first", - "text": "Plan first" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_win", + "text": "Tiny win" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_reset", + "text": "Tiny reset" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_244", "category_id": "stress", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When busy weeks affects us, what should we prioritize?", + "text": "Soft words or practical help?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "busy_weeks", - "priority" + "support", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "solutions", - "text": "Solutions" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_words", + "text": "Soft words" + }, + { + "id": "practical_help", + "text": "Practical help" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_245", "category_id": "stress", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When one of us needs support, what helps more?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Private huddle or quiet comfort?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_supported", - "support_style" + "teamwork", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - }, - { - "id": "closeness", - "text": "Closeness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "private_huddle", + "text": "Private huddle" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_comfort", + "text": "Quiet comfort" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_246", "category_id": "stress", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For financial pressure, what do you usually need first?", + "text": "Lower expectations or cancel something?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "financial_pressure", - "need" + "pressure", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_now", - "text": "Talk now" - }, - { - "id": "talk_later", - "text": "Talk later" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "lower_expectations", + "text": "Lower expectations" + }, + { + "id": "cancel_something", + "text": "Cancel something" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_247", "category_id": "stress", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When family pressure affects us, what should we prioritize?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Protect peace or protect rest?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family_pressure", - "priority" + "protection", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "lower_expectations", - "text": "Lower expectations" - }, - { - "id": "push_through", - "text": "Push through" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "peace", + "text": "Protect peace" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Protect rest" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_248", "category_id": "stress", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When health worries feel heavy, what helps more?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Gentle humor or no-jokes-right-now mode?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "health_worries", - "support_style" + "fun_first", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "practical_help", - "text": "Practical help" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_support", - "text": "Emotional support" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gentle_humor", + "text": "Gentle humor" + }, + { + "id": "no_jokes", + "text": "No jokes right now" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_249", "category_id": "stress", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For burnout signs, what do you usually need first?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Recover alone first or together first?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "burnout_signs", - "need" + "recovery", + "stress" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "routine", - "text": "Routine" - }, - { - "id": "flexibility", - "text": "Flexibility" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "alone_first", + "text": "Alone first" + }, + { + "id": "together_first", + "text": "Together first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "stress_250", "category_id": "stress", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When resetting after stress affects us, what should we prioritize?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Stress plan or official stress survival kit?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "resetting_after_stress", - "priority" + "fun_first", + "stress", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet", - "text": "Quiet" - }, - { - "id": "distraction", - "text": "Distraction" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "stress_plan", + "text": "Stress plan" + }, + { + "id": "survival_kit", + "text": "Stress survival kit" + } + ] + } } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/values.json b/seed/questions/values.json index 52f2bcc1..5348b60d 100644 --- a/seed/questions/values.json +++ b/seed/questions/values.json @@ -2,3508 +2,4131 @@ "category": { "id": "values", "display_name": "Values", - "description": "Questions about priorities, beliefs, standards, and what matters most in the relationship.", + "description": "Warm, Closer-style questions that help couples name what matters, live their shared compass, and keep values practical, loving, lightly playful, and real-life instead of preachy or therapy-heavy.", "access": "mixed", - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, - "question_type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 - }, + "icon_name": "explore", "schema_version": "question_v2", - "supported_types": [ - "written", - "single_choice", - "multi_choice", - "scale", - "this_or_that" - ] + "metadata": { + "total_questions": 250, + "free_questions": 75, + "premium_questions": 175, + "type_counts": { + "written": 150, + "single_choice": 40, + "multi_choice": 20, + "scale": 25, + "this_or_that": 15 + } + } }, "questions": [ { "id": "values_001", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What does respect in everyday choices mean to you in our relationship?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What value feels most like the heart-shaped center of us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "respect_in_everyday_choices", - "meaning" + "shared_values", + "identity", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_002", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "Where do you think we already align around respect in everyday choices?", + "text": "What is one value you see me living out in regular old Tuesday life?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "respect_in_everyday_choices", - "alignment" + "appreciation", + "daily_life", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_003", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could we communicate more clearly about respect in everyday choices?", + "text": "What is one value you hope I notice shining through you?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "respect_in_everyday_choices", - "clarity" + "seen", + "identity", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_004", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small choice this week that would honor respect in everyday choices?", + "text": "What value are we already pretty good at guarding like treasure?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "respect_in_everyday_choices", - "action" + "protection", + "strengths", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_005", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What did your life teach you about respect in everyday choices?", + "text": "What value deserves a little more protection from future-us?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "respect_in_everyday_choices", - "background" + "protection", + "growth", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_006", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What does honesty about needs mean to you in our relationship?", + "text": "What tiny daily choice secretly says, 'This is what matters to us'?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty_about_needs", - "meaning" + "daily_life", + "small_choices", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_007", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "Where do you think we already align around honesty about needs?", + "text": "What is one little thing we do that feels like our couple compass?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty_about_needs", - "alignment" + "compass", + "fun_first", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_008", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could we communicate more clearly about honesty about needs?", + "text": "What value makes us feel like a tiny two-person team?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty_about_needs", - "clarity" + "teamwork", + "shared_values", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_009", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small choice this week that would honor honesty about needs?", + "text": "What value makes our home feel like it has our fingerprints on it?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty_about_needs", - "action" + "home", + "identity", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_010", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What did your life teach you about honesty about needs?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What value makes love feel like a soft place to land?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty_about_needs", - "background" + "love", + "safety", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_011", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What does how we spend time mean to you in our relationship?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What value makes love feel alive and a little sparkly?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_we_spend_time", - "meaning" + "love", + "fun_first", + "values", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_012", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "Where do you think we already align around how we spend time?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What value makes love feel steady in the bones?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_we_spend_time", - "alignment" + "love", + "security", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_013", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could we communicate more clearly about how we spend time?", + "text": "What value should future-us be known for in the best way?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_we_spend_time", - "clarity" + "future_us", + "identity", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_014", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small choice this week that would honor how we spend time?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What value would past-us give us a tiny gold star for keeping?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_we_spend_time", - "action" + "past_us", + "growth", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_015", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What did your life teach you about how we spend time?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one value we should put on our imaginary family crest?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_we_spend_time", - "background" + "fun_first", + "identity", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_016", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What does kindness under stress mean to you in our relationship?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one value we should put in our unofficial couple rulebook?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "kindness_under_stress", - "meaning" + "fun_first", + "rules", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_017", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "Where do you think we already align around kindness under stress?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What value helps us stay like a team when stress gets loud?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "kindness_under_stress", - "alignment" + "stress", + "resilience", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_018", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could we communicate more clearly about kindness under stress?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What value helps us find our way back after conflict?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "kindness_under_stress", - "clarity" + "repair", + "conflict", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_019", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small choice this week that would honor kindness under stress?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What value helps us make decisions without losing our 'us' feeling?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "kindness_under_stress", - "action" + "decisions", + "teamwork", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_020", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What did your life teach you about kindness under stress?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What value helps money talks feel honest without shame?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "kindness_under_stress", - "background" + "money", + "no_shame", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_021", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What does family priorities mean to you in our relationship?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What value helps us face family pressure from the same side of the couch?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "family_priorities", - "meaning" + "family", + "teamwork", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_022", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "Where do you think we already align around family priorities?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What value reminds us rest is not a prize we have to win?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "family_priorities", - "alignment" + "rest", + "protection", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_023", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could we communicate more clearly about family priorities?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What value keeps playfulness from getting buried under grown-up stuff?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "family_priorities", - "clarity" + "play", + "fun_first", + "values", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_024", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small choice this week that would honor family priorities?", + "text": "What value helps romance survive regular-life logistics?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "family_priorities", - "action" + "romance", + "protection", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_025", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What did your life teach you about family priorities?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one value we show best when life is calm?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "family_priorities", - "background" + "calm", + "awareness", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_026", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What does personal growth mean to you in our relationship?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What value shows up in us when life is being extra?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "personal_growth", - "meaning" + "hard_times", + "resilience", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_027", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "Where do you think we already align around personal growth?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What value deserves more room in this season of us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "personal_growth", - "alignment" + "season", + "growth", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_028", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could we communicate more clearly about personal growth?", + "text": "What value keeps getting buried under the busy pile?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "personal_growth", - "clarity" + "busy_life", + "protection", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_029", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small choice this week that would honor personal growth?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What value would make future-us feel even more like us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "personal_growth", - "action" + "future_us", + "identity", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_030", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What did your life teach you about personal growth?", + "text": "What value makes you want to brag about us a little?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "personal_growth", - "background" + "pride", + "shared_values", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_031", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What does fairness in decisions mean to you in our relationship?", + "text": "What value makes you feel grateful for us?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "fairness_in_decisions", - "meaning" + "gratitude", + "shared_values", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_032", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "Where do you think we already align around fairness in decisions?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What value makes us delightfully weird in a good way?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "fairness_in_decisions", - "alignment" + "quirks", + "fun_first", + "values", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_033", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could we communicate more clearly about fairness in decisions?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What value deserves more confetti from us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "fairness_in_decisions", - "clarity" + "celebration", + "shared_values", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_034", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small choice this week that would honor fairness in decisions?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What value should get a tiny gold star this week?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "fairness_in_decisions", - "action" + "weekly", + "fun_first", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_035", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What did your life teach you about fairness in decisions?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What value helps us stay kind when we are not seeing it the same way?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "fairness_in_decisions", - "background" + "disagreement", + "kindness", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_036", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What does how we show commitment mean to you in our relationship?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What value helps us stay curious about each other?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_we_show_commitment", - "meaning" + "curiosity", + "connection", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_037", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "Where do you think we already align around how we show commitment?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What value helps us pick each other again on ordinary days?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_we_show_commitment", - "alignment" + "choosing_us", + "daily_life", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_038", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could we communicate more clearly about how we show commitment?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What value helps us keep our eyes on our own little lane?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_we_show_commitment", - "clarity" + "comparison", + "identity", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_039", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small choice this week that would honor how we show commitment?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What value makes you feel free to be your full self with me?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_we_show_commitment", - "action" + "authenticity", + "safety", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_040", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What did your life teach you about how we show commitment?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What value makes our relationship feel emotionally safe and warm?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_we_show_commitment", - "background" + "emotional_safety", + "trust", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_041", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What does privacy and openness mean to you in our relationship?", + "text": "What value makes our relationship feel light and alive?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "privacy_and_openness", - "meaning" + "lightness", + "fun_first", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_042", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "Where do you think we already align around privacy and openness?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What value would help us face a hard season shoulder-to-shoulder?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "privacy_and_openness", - "alignment" + "hard_times", + "teamwork", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_043", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could we communicate more clearly about privacy and 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"min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_137", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could a difference in family loyalty create tension for us?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Where does respect show up in our everyday life right now?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family_loyalty", - "tension" + "respect", + "safety", + "reflection", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_138", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What compromise around family loyalty would still feel respectful to you?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What tiny action would help us live respect this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family_loyalty", - "compromise" + "respect", + "safety", + "small_steps", + "weekly", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_139", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary or agreement would help us navigate family loyalty?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What makes respect feel like part of our couple compass?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family_loyalty", - "agreement" + "respect", + "safety", + "compass", + "identity", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_140", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What fear comes up when you imagine us disagreeing about family loyalty?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would future-us thank us for protecting around respect?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family_loyalty", - "fear" + "respect", + "safety", + "future_us", + "protection", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_141", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you need me to understand about ethical disagreements?", + "text": "Where could respect use a little more breathing room between us?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "ethical_disagreements", - "understanding" + "respect", + "safety", + "growth", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_142", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could a difference in ethical disagreements create tension for us?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How could we make respect feel more fun where it fits?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "ethical_disagreements", - "tension" + "respect", + "safety", + "fun_first", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_143", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What compromise around ethical disagreements would still feel respectful to you?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What should we celebrate about the way we practice respect?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "ethical_disagreements", - "compromise" + "respect", + "safety", + "celebration", + "gratitude", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_144", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary or agreement would help us navigate ethical disagreements?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Where does curiosity show up in our everyday life right now?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "ethical_disagreements", - "agreement" + "curiosity", + "connection", + "reflection", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_145", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What fear comes up when you imagine us disagreeing about ethical disagreements?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What tiny action would help us live curiosity this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "ethical_disagreements", - "fear" + "curiosity", + "connection", + "small_steps", + "weekly", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_146", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you need me to understand about legacy and purpose?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes curiosity feel like one of the arrows on our couple compass?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "legacy_and_purpose", - "understanding" + "curiosity", + "connection", + "compass", + "identity", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_147", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "Where could a difference in legacy and purpose create tension for us?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would future-us thank us for protecting around curiosity?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "legacy_and_purpose", - "tension" + "curiosity", + "connection", + "future_us", + "protection", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_148", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What compromise around legacy and purpose would still feel respectful to you?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Where could curiosity use more room between us?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "legacy_and_purpose", - "compromise" + "curiosity", + "connection", + "growth", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_149", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary or agreement would help us navigate legacy and purpose?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How could we make curiosity feel more fun where it fits?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "legacy_and_purpose", - "agreement" + "curiosity", + "connection", + "fun_first", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_150", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What fear comes up when you imagine us disagreeing about legacy and purpose?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What should we celebrate about the way we practice curiosity?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "legacy_and_purpose", - "fear" + "curiosity", + "connection", + "celebration", + "gratitude", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "values_151", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would help us make decisions about respect in everyday choices?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which value feels most like us today?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "respect_in_everyday_choices", - "decisions" + "today", + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_it_through", - "text": "Talk it through" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_shared_rule", - "text": "Make a shared rule" - }, - { - "id": "try_it_for_a_month", - "text": "Try it for a month" - }, - { - "id": "pause_and_revisit", - "text": "Pause and revisit" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "humor", + "text": "Humor" + }, + { + "id": "loyalty", + "text": "Loyalty" + }, + { + "id": "peace", + "text": "Peace" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_152", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How aligned do you feel we are about honesty about needs?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which value needs a tiny spotlight this week?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty_about_needs", - "alignment" + "weekly", + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "very_aligned", - "text": "Very aligned" - }, - { - "id": "mostly_aligned", - "text": "Mostly aligned" - }, - { - "id": "unsure", - "text": "Unsure" - }, - { - "id": "different_but_workable", - "text": "Different but workable" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "romance", + "text": "Romance" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_153", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which value matters most when we talk about how we spend time?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What should our couple compass point toward?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_we_spend_time", - "priority" + "compass", + "fun_first", + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "freedom", - "text": "Freedom" - }, - { - "id": "security", - "text": "Security" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "peace", + "text": "Peace" + }, + { + "id": "adventure", + "text": "Adventure" + }, + { + "id": "home", + "text": "Home" + }, + { + "id": "growth", + "text": "Growth" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_154", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we protect when kindness under stress gets complicated?", + "text": "What value makes you feel most loved?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "kindness_under_stress", - "protection" + "love", + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "work", - "text": "Work" - }, - { - "id": "health", - "text": "Health" - }, - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "respect", + "text": "Respect" + }, + { + "id": "loyalty", + "text": "Loyalty" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_155", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make family priorities easier to discuss?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What value makes you feel most safe?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "family_priorities", - "discussion" + "safety", + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_more_questions", - "text": "Ask more questions" - }, - { - "id": "share_examples", - "text": "Share examples" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_tradeoff", - "text": "Name the tradeoff" - }, - { - "id": "set_a_boundary", - "text": "Set a boundary" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "consistency", + "text": "Consistency" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "respect", + "text": "Respect" + }, + { + "id": "gentleness", + "text": "Gentleness" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_156", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you usually need first when personal growth feels uncertain?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What value makes you feel most free?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "personal_growth", - "needs" + "freedom", + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_need_time", - "text": "I need time" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_clarity", - "text": "I need clarity" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_reassurance", - "text": "I need reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_a_plan", - "text": "I need a plan" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "acceptance", + "text": "Acceptance" + }, + { + "id": "independence", + "text": "Independence" + }, + { + "id": "room_to_grow", + "text": "Room to grow" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_157", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would help us make decisions about fairness in decisions?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What value makes life together more fun?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "fairness_in_decisions", - "decisions" + "fun_first", + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_it_through", - "text": "Talk it through" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_shared_rule", - "text": "Make a shared rule" - }, - { - "id": "try_it_for_a_month", - "text": "Try it for a month" - }, - { - "id": "pause_and_revisit", - "text": "Pause and revisit" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "adventure", + "text": "Adventure" + }, + { + "id": "curiosity", + "text": "Curiosity" + }, + { + "id": "spontaneity", + "text": "Spontaneity" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_158", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How aligned do you feel we are about how we show commitment?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What value helps us when life gets stressful?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_we_show_commitment", - "alignment" + "stress", + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "very_aligned", - "text": "Very aligned" - }, - { - "id": "mostly_aligned", - "text": "Mostly aligned" - }, - { - "id": "unsure", - "text": "Unsure" - }, - { - "id": "different_but_workable", - "text": "Different but workable" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "teamwork", + "text": "Teamwork" + }, + { + "id": "grace", + "text": "Grace" + }, + { + "id": "simplicity", + "text": "Simplicity" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_159", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which value matters most when we talk about privacy and openness?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What value helps us after conflict?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "privacy_and_openness", - "priority" + "conflict", + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "freedom", - "text": "Freedom" - }, - { - "id": "security", - "text": "Security" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "repair", + "text": "Repair" + }, + { + "id": "humility", + "text": "Humility" + }, + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_160", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we protect when helping other people gets complicated?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What value helps home feel like home?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "helping_other_people", - "protection" + "home", + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "work", - "text": "Work" - }, - { - "id": "health", - "text": "Health" - }, - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "peace", + "text": "Peace" + }, + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + }, + { + "id": "belonging", + "text": "Belonging" + }, + { + "id": "warmth", + "text": "Warmth" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_161", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make work and ambition easier to discuss?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What value should be on our imaginary family crest?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "work_and_ambition", - "discussion" + "fun_first", + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_more_questions", - "text": "Ask more questions" - }, - { - "id": "share_examples", - "text": "Share examples" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_tradeoff", - "text": "Name the tradeoff" - }, - { - "id": "set_a_boundary", - "text": "Set a boundary" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "loyalty", + "text": "Loyalty" + }, + { + "id": "laughter", + "text": "Laughter" + }, + { + "id": "courage", + "text": "Courage" + }, + { + "id": "snacks", + "text": "Snacks" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_162", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you usually need first when rest and balance feels uncertain?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What kind of value talk sounds best?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ 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- }, - { - "id": "make_a_shared_rule", - "text": "Make a shared rule" - }, - { - "id": "try_it_for_a_month", - "text": "Try it for a month" - }, - { - "id": "pause_and_revisit", - "text": "Pause and revisit" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "peace", + "text": "Peace" + }, + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "dreams", + "text": "Dreams" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_164", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How aligned do you feel we are about how we handle mistakes?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What value should get a tiny gold star?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_we_handle_mistakes", - "alignment" + "celebration", + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "very_aligned", - "text": "Very aligned" - }, - { - "id": "mostly_aligned", - "text": "Mostly aligned" - }, - { - "id": "unsure", - "text": "Unsure" - }, - { - "id": "different_but_workable", - "text": "Different but workable" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "trying", + "text": "Trying" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "joy", + "text": "Joy" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_165", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which value matters most when we talk about what makes life meaningful?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What should values feel like between us?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "what_makes_life_meaningful", - "priority" + "identity", + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "freedom", - "text": "Freedom" - }, - { - "id": "security", - "text": "Security" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "grounding", + "text": "Grounding" + }, + { + "id": "freeing", + "text": "Freeing" + }, + { + "id": "warm", + "text": "Warm" + }, + { + "id": "alive", + "text": "Alive" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_166", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we protect when money values gets complicated?", + "text": "Which value needs more tiny real-life practice?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "money_values", - "protection" + "growth", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "work", - "text": "Work" - }, - { - "id": "health", - "text": "Health" - }, - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_167", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make faith or belief differences easier to discuss?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Which value should lead hard conversations?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "faith_or_belief_differences", - "discussion" + "hard_talks", + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_more_questions", - "text": "Ask more questions" - }, - { - "id": "share_examples", - "text": "Share examples" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_tradeoff", - "text": "Name the tradeoff" - }, - { - "id": "set_a_boundary", - "text": "Set a boundary" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "respect", + "text": "Respect" + }, + { + "id": "courage", + "text": "Courage" + }, + { + "id": "curiosity", + "text": "Curiosity" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_168", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you usually need first when parenting values feels uncertain?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Which value should lead money talks?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "parenting_values", - "needs" + "money", + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_need_time", - "text": "I need time" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_clarity", - "text": "I need clarity" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_reassurance", - "text": "I need reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_a_plan", - "text": "I need a plan" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "no_shame", + "text": "No shame" + }, + { + "id": "teamwork", + "text": "Teamwork" + }, + { + "id": "simplicity", + "text": "Simplicity" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_169", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would help us make decisions about long-term sacrifices?", + "text": "Which value should lead family pressure talks?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "long_term_sacrifices", - "decisions" + "family", + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_it_through", - "text": "Talk it through" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_shared_rule", - "text": "Make a shared rule" - }, - { - "id": "try_it_for_a_month", - "text": "Try it for a month" - }, - { - "id": "pause_and_revisit", - "text": "Pause and revisit" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "loyalty", + "text": "Loyalty" + }, + { + "id": "boundaries", + "text": "Boundaries" + }, + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "peace", + "text": "Peace" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_170", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How aligned do you feel we are about personal freedom?", + "text": "Which value should lead future planning?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "personal_freedom", - "alignment" + "future", + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "very_aligned", - "text": "Very aligned" - }, - { - "id": "mostly_aligned", - "text": "Mostly aligned" - }, - { - "id": "unsure", - "text": "Unsure" - }, - { - "id": "different_but_workable", - "text": "Different but workable" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hope", + "text": "Hope" + }, + { + "id": "freedom", + "text": "Freedom" + }, + { + "id": "security", + "text": "Security" + }, + { + "id": "adventure", + "text": "Adventure" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_171", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which value matters most when we talk about career tradeoffs?", + "text": "Which value should lead home life?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "career_tradeoffs", - "priority" + "home", + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "freedom", - "text": "Freedom" - }, - { - "id": "security", - "text": "Security" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "peace", + "text": "Peace" + }, + { + "id": "fairness", + "text": "Fairness" + }, + { + "id": "warmth", + "text": "Warmth" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_172", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we protect when where to live gets complicated?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Which value should lead intimacy?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "where_to_live", - "protection" + "intimacy", + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "work", - "text": "Work" - }, - { - "id": "health", - "text": "Health" - }, - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "gentleness", + "text": "Gentleness" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_173", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make marriage expectations easier to discuss?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which value should lead conflict repair?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "marriage_expectations", - "discussion" + "repair", + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_more_questions", - "text": "Ask more questions" - }, - { - "id": "share_examples", - "text": "Share examples" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_tradeoff", - "text": "Name the tradeoff" - }, - { - "id": "set_a_boundary", - "text": "Set a boundary" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "humility", + "text": "Humility" + }, + { + "id": "care", + "text": "Care" + }, + { + "id": "accountability", + "text": "Accountability" + }, + { + "id": "softness", + "text": "Softness" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_174", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you usually need first when caregiving responsibilities feels uncertain?", + "text": "What makes value talk feel too much like a serious meeting?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "caregiving_responsibilities", - "needs" + "therapy_risk", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_need_time", - "text": "I need time" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_clarity", - "text": "I need clarity" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_reassurance", - "text": "I need reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_a_plan", - "text": "I need a plan" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "too_formal", + "text": "Too formal" + }, + { + "id": "too_many_rules", + "text": "Too many rules" + }, + { + "id": "no_humor", + "text": "No humor" + }, + { + "id": "no_real_life_examples", + "text": "No real-life examples" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_175", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would help us make decisions about sexual values?", + "text": "What makes our values feel alive instead of stuck on a poster?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sexual_values", - "decisions" + "alive", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_it_through", - "text": "Talk it through" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_shared_rule", - "text": "Make a shared rule" - }, - { - "id": "try_it_for_a_month", - "text": "Try it for a month" - }, - { - "id": "pause_and_revisit", - "text": "Pause and revisit" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_actions", + "text": "Tiny actions" + }, + { + "id": "shared_jokes", + "text": "Shared jokes" + }, + { + "id": "real_choices", + "text": "Real choices" + }, + { + "id": "daily_kindness", + "text": "Daily kindness" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_176", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How aligned do you feel we are about conflict values?", + "text": "What makes shared values feel romantic in real life?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "conflict_values", - "alignment" + "romance", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "very_aligned", - "text": "Very aligned" - }, - { - "id": "mostly_aligned", - "text": "Mostly aligned" - }, - { - "id": "unsure", - "text": "Unsure" - }, - { - "id": "different_but_workable", - "text": "Different but workable" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "choosing_each_other", + "text": "Choosing each other" + }, + { + "id": "protecting_trust", + "text": "Protecting trust" + }, + { + "id": "dreaming_together", + "text": "Dreaming together" + }, + { + "id": "small_promises", + "text": "Small promises" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_177", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which value matters most when we talk about social media boundaries?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes shared values feel playful instead of preachy?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "social_media_boundaries", - "priority" + "play", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "freedom", - "text": "Freedom" - }, - { - "id": "security", - "text": "Security" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "couple_motto", + "text": "Couple motto" + }, + { + "id": "imaginary_crest", + "text": "Imaginary crest" + }, + { + "id": "silly_rules", + "text": "Silly rules" + }, + { + "id": "tiny_traditions", + "text": "Tiny traditions" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_178", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we protect when family loyalty gets complicated?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes shared values useful in actual Tuesday decisions?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family_loyalty", - "protection" + "practical", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "work", - "text": "Work" - }, - { - "id": "health", - "text": "Health" - }, - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_choices", + "text": "Clear choices" + }, + { + "id": "less_guessing", + "text": "Less guessing" + }, + { + "id": "shared_priorities", + "text": "Shared priorities" + }, + { + "id": "better_timing", + "text": "Better timing" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_179", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make ethical disagreements easier to discuss?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes shared values feel safe instead of rigid?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "ethical_disagreements", - "discussion" + "safety", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_more_questions", - "text": "Ask more questions" - }, - { - "id": "share_examples", - "text": "Share examples" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_tradeoff", - "text": "Name the tradeoff" - }, - { - "id": "set_a_boundary", - "text": "Set a boundary" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "consistency", + "text": "Consistency" + }, + { + "id": "respect", + "text": "Respect" + }, + { + "id": "no_judgment", + "text": "No judgment" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_180", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you usually need first when legacy and purpose feels uncertain?", + "text": "What makes shared values feel like they have our fingerprints on them?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "legacy_and_purpose", - "needs" + "identity", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_need_time", - "text": "I need time" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_clarity", - "text": "I need clarity" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_reassurance", - "text": "I need reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_a_plan", - "text": "I need a plan" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "our_history", + "text": "Our history" + }, + { + "id": "our_humor", + "text": "Our humor" + }, + { + "id": "our_choices", + "text": "Our choices" + }, + { + "id": "our_dreams", + "text": "Our dreams" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "values_181", + "category_id": "values", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps when our values are not wearing matching outfits?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "differences", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_why", + "text": "Ask why" + }, + { + "id": "look_for_overlap", + "text": "Look for overlap" + }, + { + "id": "go_slowly", + "text": "Go slowly" + }, + { + "id": "respect_both", + "text": "Respect both" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "values_182", + "category_id": "values", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps when two good values are both trying to drive?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "decisions", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "name_both", + "text": "Name both" + }, + { + "id": "find_a_balance", + "text": "Find a balance" + }, + { + "id": "choose_the_season", + "text": "Choose the season" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "values_183", + "category_id": "values", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps us live our values without turning them into a perfection project?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "perfectionism", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_steps", + "text": "Tiny steps" + }, + { + "id": "grace", + "text": "Grace" + }, + { + "id": "repair", + "text": "Repair" + }, + { + "id": "real_life", + "text": "Real life" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "values_184", + "category_id": "values", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps our values survive busy seasons?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "busy_life", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "simplify", + "text": "Simplify" + }, + { + "id": "rituals", + "text": "Rituals" + }, + { + "id": "say_no", + "text": "Say no" + }, + { + "id": "check_in", + "text": "Check in" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "values_185", + "category_id": "values", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What value needs more room in our calendar?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "calendar", + "values" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "connection", + "text": "Connection" + }, + { + "id": "adventure", + "text": "Adventure" + }, + { + "id": "family", + "text": "Family" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "values_186", + "category_id": "values", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What value needs more room in our home?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "home", + "values" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "peace", + "text": "Peace" + }, + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "beauty", + "text": "Beauty" + }, + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "values_187", + "category_id": "values", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What value needs more room in our decisions?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "decisions", + "values" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "fairness", + "text": "Fairness" + }, + { + "id": "freedom", + "text": "Freedom" + }, + { + "id": "security", + "text": "Security" + }, + { + "id": "joy", + "text": "Joy" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "values_188", + "category_id": "values", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What value needs more room in our ordinary days?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "daily_life", + "values" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "laughter", + "text": "Laughter" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "romance", + "text": "Romance" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "values_189", + "category_id": "values", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should our unofficial couple motto proudly be about?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "fun_first", + "values", + "closer_style", + "warm" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "still_laughing", + "text": "Still laughing" + }, + { + "id": "teamwork", + "text": "Teamwork" + }, + { + "id": "soft_place_to_land", + "text": "Soft place to land" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "values_190", + "category_id": "values", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What would make values feel more Closer-style?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "fun_first", + "values" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_actions", + "text": "Tiny actions" + }, + { + "id": "playful_choices", + "text": "Playful choices" + }, + { + "id": "warm_wording", + "text": "Warm wording" + }, + { + "id": "couple_compass", + "text": "Couple compass" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_191", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which values should guide us around respect in everyday choices?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What values feel strongest between us?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "respect_in_everyday_choices", + "shared_values", "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_it_through", - "text": "Talk it through" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_shared_rule", - "text": "Make a shared rule" - }, - { - "id": "try_it_for_a_month", - "text": "Try it for a month" - }, - { - "id": "pause_and_revisit", - "text": "Pause and revisit" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "loyalty", + "text": "Loyalty" + }, + { + "id": "humor", + "text": "Humor" + }, + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "peace", + "text": "Peace" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3512,32 +4135,36 @@ "id": "values_192", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What could make honesty about needs feel respectful to both of us?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What values make life together sweeter?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty_about_needs", - "respect" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "very_aligned", - "text": "Very aligned" - }, - { - "id": "mostly_aligned", - "text": "Mostly aligned" - }, - { - "id": "unsure", - "text": "Unsure" - }, - { - "id": "different_but_workable", - "text": "Different but workable" - } + "sweetness", + "values" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "romance", + "text": "Romance" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude", + "text": "Gratitude" + }, + { + "id": "gentleness", + "text": "Gentleness" + }, + { + "id": "curiosity", + "text": "Curiosity" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3546,32 +4173,37 @@ "id": "values_193", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things should we clarify before deciding about how we spend time?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What belongs in our couple compass?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_we_spend_time", - "clarity" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "freedom", - "text": "Freedom" - }, - { - "id": "security", - "text": "Security" - } + "fun_first", + "compass", + "values" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "peace", + "text": "Peace" + }, + { + "id": "adventure", + "text": "Adventure" + }, + { + "id": "home", + "text": "Home" + }, + { + "id": "growth", + "text": "Growth" + }, + { + "id": "laughter", + "text": "Laughter" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3580,32 +4212,36 @@ "id": "values_194", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What might we need to balance around kindness under stress?", + "text": "What values help us during stress?", "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "kindness_under_stress", - "balance" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "work", - "text": "Work" - }, - { - "id": "health", - "text": "Health" - }, - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - } + "stress", + "values" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "simplicity", + "text": "Simplicity" + }, + { + "id": "teamwork", + "text": "Teamwork" + }, + { + "id": "grace", + "text": "Grace" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3614,32 +4250,36 @@ "id": "values_195", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which values should guide us around family priorities?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What values should get more tiny actions?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "family_priorities", + "small_steps", "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_more_questions", - "text": "Ask more questions" - }, - { - "id": "share_examples", - "text": "Share examples" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_tradeoff", - "text": "Name the tradeoff" - }, - { - "id": "set_a_boundary", - "text": "Set a boundary" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "romance", + "text": "Romance" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3648,32 +4288,36 @@ "id": "values_196", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What could make personal growth feel respectful to both of us?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What values should guide hard conversations?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "personal_growth", - "respect" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_need_time", - "text": "I need time" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_clarity", - "text": "I need clarity" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_reassurance", - "text": "I need reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_a_plan", - "text": "I need a plan" - } + "hard_talks", + "values" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "respect", + "text": "Respect" + }, + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "courage", + "text": "Courage" + }, + { + "id": "curiosity", + "text": "Curiosity" + }, + { + "id": "humility", + "text": "Humility" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3682,32 +4326,36 @@ "id": "values_197", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things should we clarify before deciding about fairness in decisions?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What values should guide future plans?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fairness_in_decisions", - "clarity" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_it_through", - "text": "Talk it through" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_shared_rule", - "text": "Make a shared rule" - }, - { - "id": "try_it_for_a_month", - "text": "Try it for a month" - }, - { - "id": "pause_and_revisit", - "text": "Pause and revisit" - } + "future", + "values" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hope", + "text": "Hope" + }, + { + "id": "security", + "text": "Security" + }, + { + "id": "freedom", + "text": "Freedom" + }, + { + "id": "adventure", + "text": "Adventure" + }, + { + "id": "peace", + "text": "Peace" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3716,32 +4364,36 @@ "id": "values_198", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What might we need to balance around how we show commitment?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What values should guide home life?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_we_show_commitment", - "balance" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "very_aligned", - "text": "Very aligned" - }, - { - "id": "mostly_aligned", - "text": "Mostly aligned" - }, - { - "id": "unsure", - "text": "Unsure" - }, - { - "id": "different_but_workable", - "text": "Different but workable" - } + "home", + "values" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "fairness", + "text": "Fairness" + }, + { + "id": "warmth", + "text": "Warmth" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "beauty", + "text": "Beauty" + }, + { + "id": "simplicity", + "text": "Simplicity" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3750,32 +4402,36 @@ "id": "values_199", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which values should guide us around privacy and openness?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What values should guide money choices?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "privacy_and_openness", + "money", "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "freedom", - "text": "Freedom" - }, - { - "id": "security", - "text": "Security" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "no_shame", + "text": "No shame" + }, + { + "id": "teamwork", + "text": "Teamwork" + }, + { + "id": "freedom", + "text": "Freedom" + }, + { + "id": "security", + "text": "Security" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3784,32 +4440,36 @@ "id": "values_200", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What could make helping other people feel respectful to both of us?", + "text": "What values should guide family pressure?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "helping_other_people", - "respect" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "work", - "text": "Work" - }, - { - "id": "health", - "text": "Health" - }, - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - } + "family", + "values" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "loyalty", + "text": "Loyalty" + }, + { + "id": "boundaries", + "text": "Boundaries" + }, + { + "id": "peace", + "text": "Peace" + }, + { + "id": "respect", + "text": "Respect" + }, + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3818,32 +4478,36 @@ "id": "values_201", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things should we clarify before deciding about work and ambition?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What values should guide conflict repair?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "work_and_ambition", - "clarity" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_more_questions", - "text": "Ask more questions" - }, - { - "id": "share_examples", - "text": "Share examples" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_tradeoff", - "text": "Name the tradeoff" - }, - { - "id": "set_a_boundary", - "text": "Set a boundary" - } + "repair", + "values" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "accountability", + "text": "Accountability" + }, + { + "id": "care", + "text": "Care" + }, + { + "id": "gentleness", + "text": "Gentleness" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3852,32 +4516,36 @@ "id": "values_202", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What might we need to balance around rest and balance?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What values help us feel emotionally safe?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "rest_and_balance", - "balance" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_need_time", - "text": "I need time" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_clarity", - "text": "I need clarity" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_reassurance", - "text": "I need reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_a_plan", - "text": "I need a plan" - } + "emotional_safety", + "values" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "consistency", + "text": "Consistency" + }, + { + "id": "respect", + "text": "Respect" + }, + { + "id": "gentleness", + "text": "Gentleness" + }, + { + "id": "acceptance", + "text": "Acceptance" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3886,32 +4554,36 @@ "id": "values_203", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which values should guide us around friendships and community?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What values help us feel alive together?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "friendships_and_community", + "alive", "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_it_through", - "text": "Talk it through" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_shared_rule", - "text": "Make a shared rule" - }, - { - "id": "try_it_for_a_month", - "text": "Try it for a month" - }, - { - "id": "pause_and_revisit", - "text": "Pause and revisit" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "adventure", + "text": "Adventure" + }, + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "curiosity", + "text": "Curiosity" + }, + { + "id": "creativity", + "text": "Creativity" + }, + { + "id": "romance", + "text": "Romance" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3920,32 +4592,36 @@ "id": "values_204", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What could make how we handle mistakes feel respectful to both of us?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What values do we show in tiny ways?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_we_handle_mistakes", - "respect" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "very_aligned", - "text": "Very aligned" - }, - { - "id": "mostly_aligned", - "text": "Mostly aligned" - }, - { - "id": "unsure", - "text": "Unsure" - }, - { - "id": "different_but_workable", - "text": "Different but workable" - } + "daily_life", + "values" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "humor", + "text": "Humor" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "thoughtfulness", + "text": "Thoughtfulness" + }, + { + "id": "teamwork", + "text": "Teamwork" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3954,32 +4630,36 @@ "id": "values_205", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things should we clarify before deciding about what makes life meaningful?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What values should we celebrate more?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "what_makes_life_meaningful", - "clarity" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "freedom", - "text": "Freedom" - }, - { - "id": "security", - "text": "Security" - } + "celebration", + "values" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "trying", + "text": "Trying" + }, + { + "id": "repair", + "text": "Repair" + }, + { + "id": "laughter", + "text": "Laughter" + }, + { + "id": "showing_up", + "text": "Showing up" + }, + { + "id": "growth", + "text": "Growth" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3988,32 +4668,36 @@ "id": "values_206", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What might we need to balance around money values?", + "text": "What values protect us from comparison?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "money_values", - "balance" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "work", - "text": "Work" - }, - { - "id": "health", - "text": "Health" - }, - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - } + "comparison", + "values" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "being_ourselves", + "text": "Being ourselves" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude", + "text": "Gratitude" + }, + { + "id": "contentment", + "text": "Contentment" + }, + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "our_pace", + "text": "Our pace" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4022,32 +4706,36 @@ "id": "values_207", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which values should guide us around faith or belief differences?", + "text": "What values help us make decisions?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "faith_or_belief_differences", + "decisions", "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_more_questions", - "text": "Ask more questions" - }, - { - "id": "share_examples", - "text": "Share examples" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_tradeoff", - "text": "Name the tradeoff" - }, - { - "id": "set_a_boundary", - "text": "Set a boundary" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clarity", + "text": "Clarity" + }, + { + "id": "fairness", + "text": "Fairness" + }, + { + "id": "peace", + "text": "Peace" + }, + { + "id": "freedom", + "text": "Freedom" + }, + { + "id": "long_term_good", + "text": "Long-term good" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4056,32 +4744,36 @@ "id": "values_208", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What could make parenting values feel respectful to both of us?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What values help us keep playfulness?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "parenting_values", - "respect" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_need_time", - "text": "I need time" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_clarity", - "text": "I need clarity" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_reassurance", - "text": "I need reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_a_plan", - "text": "I need a plan" - } + "fun_first", + "values" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "humor", + "text": "Humor" + }, + { + "id": "permission_to_be_silly", + "text": "Permission to be silly" + }, + { + "id": "adventure", + "text": "Adventure" + }, + { + "id": "lightness", + "text": "Lightness" + }, + { + "id": "curiosity", + "text": "Curiosity" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4090,32 +4782,36 @@ "id": "values_209", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things should we clarify before deciding about long-term sacrifices?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What values help us keep romance?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "long_term_sacrifices", - "clarity" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_it_through", - "text": "Talk it through" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_shared_rule", - "text": "Make a shared rule" - }, - { - "id": "try_it_for_a_month", - "text": "Try it for a month" - }, - { - "id": "pause_and_revisit", - "text": "Pause and revisit" - } + "romance", + "values" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "attention", + "text": "Attention" + }, + { + "id": "tenderness", + "text": "Tenderness" + }, + { + "id": "effort", + "text": "Effort" + }, + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_each_other", + "text": "Choosing each other" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4124,32 +4820,36 @@ "id": "values_210", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What might we need to balance around personal freedom?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What belongs in our unofficial couple rulebook?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "personal_freedom", - "balance" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "very_aligned", - "text": "Very aligned" - }, - { - "id": "mostly_aligned", - "text": "Mostly aligned" - }, - { - "id": "unsure", - "text": "Unsure" - }, - { - "id": "different_but_workable", - "text": "Different but workable" - } + "fun_first", + "values" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "be_kind", + "text": "Be kind" + }, + { + "id": "stay_curious", + "text": "Stay curious" + }, + { + "id": "snack_before_big_talks", + "text": "Snack before big talks" + }, + { + "id": "protect_peace", + "text": "Protect peace" + }, + { + "id": "celebrate_tiny_wins", + "text": "Celebrate tiny wins" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4158,17 +4858,19 @@ "id": "values_211", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How aligned do you feel we are about respect in everyday choices?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How aligned does our couple compass feel lately?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "respect_in_everyday_choices", - "alignment" + "alignment", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, + "min": 1, + "max": 5, "min_label": "Not aligned", "max_label": "Very aligned" } @@ -4177,787 +4879,825 @@ "id": "values_212", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to disagree about honesty about needs?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much do our values feel like they have our fingerprints on them?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty_about_needs", - "safety" + "identity", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unsafe", - "max_label": "Very safe" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "values_213", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clearly have we talked about how we spend time?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How fun does value talk feel when we keep it real-life and us?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "how_we_spend_time", - "clarity" + "fun_first", + "values", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unclear", - "max_label": "Very clear" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not fun", + "max_label": "Very fun" } }, { "id": "values_214", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How important is kindness under stress to your long-term happiness?", + "text": "How well do we live our values in tiny, everyday ways?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "kindness_under_stress", - "importance" + "small_steps", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not important", - "max_label": "Very important" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "values_215", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much attention should we give family priorities soon?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much do our values help us feel like a team?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "family_priorities", - "attention" + "teamwork", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not aligned", - "max_label": "Very aligned" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "values_216", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How aligned do you feel we are about personal growth?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How proud do you feel of what we stand for together?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "personal_growth", - "alignment" + "pride", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unsafe", - "max_label": "Very safe" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not proud", + "max_label": "Very proud" } }, { "id": "values_217", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to disagree about fairness in decisions?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much would a couple compass help us?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "fairness_in_decisions", - "safety" + "compass", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unclear", - "max_label": "Very clear" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "values_218", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clearly have we talked about how we show commitment?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How well do we protect kindness?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_we_show_commitment", - "clarity" + "kindness", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not important", - "max_label": "Very important" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "values_219", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How important is privacy and openness to your long-term happiness?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How well do we protect honesty?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "privacy_and_openness", - "importance" + "honesty", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not aligned", - "max_label": "Very aligned" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "values_220", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much attention should we give helping other people soon?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How well do we protect playfulness?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "helping_other_people", - "attention" + "play", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unsafe", - "max_label": "Very safe" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "values_221", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How aligned do you feel we are about work and ambition?", + "text": "How well do we protect rest?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "work_and_ambition", - "alignment" + "rest", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unclear", - "max_label": "Very clear" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "values_222", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to disagree about rest and balance?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How well do we protect romance?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "rest_and_balance", - "safety" + "romance", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not important", - "max_label": "Very important" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "values_223", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clearly have we talked about friendships and community?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How well do we protect peace?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "friendships_and_community", - "clarity" + "peace", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not aligned", - "max_label": "Very aligned" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "values_224", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How important is how we handle mistakes to your long-term happiness?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How easy is it to talk about different values?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "how_we_handle_mistakes", - "importance" + "differences", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unsafe", - "max_label": "Very safe" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "values_225", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much attention should we give what makes life meaningful soon?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How much do our values actually help us choose?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "what_makes_life_meaningful", - "attention" + "decisions", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unclear", - "max_label": "Very clear" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "values_226", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How aligned do you feel we are about money values?", + "text": "How much do our values help money choices feel clearer?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "money_values", - "alignment" + "money", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not important", - "max_label": "Very important" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "values_227", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to disagree about faith or belief differences?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How much do our values show up in home life?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "faith_or_belief_differences", - "safety" + "home", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not aligned", - "max_label": "Very aligned" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "values_228", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clearly have we talked about parenting values?", + "text": "How much do our values show up in future plans?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "parenting_values", - "clarity" + "future", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unsafe", - "max_label": "Very safe" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "values_229", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How important is long-term sacrifices to your long-term happiness?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How much do our values help us find our way back?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "long_term_sacrifices", - "importance" + "repair", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unclear", - "max_label": "Very clear" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "values_230", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much attention should we give personal freedom soon?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How much do our values make love feel safe?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "personal_freedom", - "attention" + "safety", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not important", - "max_label": "Very important" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "values_231", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How aligned do you feel we are about career tradeoffs?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How much do our values make life feel lighter?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "career_tradeoffs", - "alignment" + "lightness", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not aligned", - "max_label": "Very aligned" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "values_232", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to disagree about where to live?", + "text": "How much do our values need more tiny daily action?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "where_to_live", - "safety" + "daily_life", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unsafe", - "max_label": "Very safe" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "values_233", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clearly have we talked about marriage expectations?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How much do we need to simplify around our values?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "marriage_expectations", - "clarity" + "simplicity", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unclear", - "max_label": "Very clear" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "values_234", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How important is caregiving responsibilities to your long-term happiness?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How much do our shared values deserve more confetti?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "caregiving_responsibilities", - "importance" + "celebration", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not important", - "max_label": "Very important" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "values_235", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much attention should we give sexual values soon?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How hopeful do you feel about living our values more clearly?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sexual_values", - "attention" + "hope", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not aligned", - "max_label": "Very aligned" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not hopeful", + "max_label": "Very hopeful" } }, { "id": "values_236", "category_id": "values", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For respect in everyday choices, which feels more important right now?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Couple compass or unofficial couple motto?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "respect_in_everyday_choices", - "tradeoff" + "fun_first", + "values", + "closer_style", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "stability", - "text": "Stability" - }, - { - "id": "flexibility", - "text": "Flexibility" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "compass", + "text": "Couple compass" + }, + { + "id": "motto", + "text": "Couple motto" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_237", "category_id": "values", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When navigating honesty about needs, what do you lean toward?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Kindness or honesty?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty_about_needs", - "leaning" + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "freedom", - "text": "Freedom" - }, - { - "id": 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"tags": [ - "kindness_under_stress", - "tradeoff" + "identity", + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "tradition", - "text": "Tradition" - }, - { - "id": "change", - "text": "Change" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "roots", + "text": "Roots" + }, + { + "id": "wings", + "text": "Wings" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_240", "category_id": "values", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When navigating family priorities, what do you lean toward?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Security or freedom?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family_priorities", - "leaning" + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "direct_honesty", - "text": "Direct honesty" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_timing", - "text": "Gentle timing" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "security", + "text": "Security" + }, + { + "id": "freedom", + "text": "Freedom" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_241", "category_id": "values", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "If we disagree about 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- "id": "stability", - "text": "Stability" - }, - { - "id": "flexibility", - "text": "Flexibility" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "private_peace", + "text": "Private peace" + }, + { + "id": "shared_adventure", + "text": "Shared adventure" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_245", "category_id": "values", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For helping other people, which feels more important right now?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Tiny real-life actions or big beautiful promises?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "helping_other_people", - "tradeoff" + "commitment", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "freedom", - "text": "Freedom" - }, - { - "id": "togetherness", - "text": "Togetherness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tiny_actions", + "text": "Tiny actions" + }, + { + "id": "big_promises", + "text": "Big promises" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_246", "category_id": "values", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When navigating work and ambition, what do you lean toward?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Protect romance or protect rest like treasure?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "work_and_ambition", - "leaning" + "protection", + "values", + "closer_style", + "fun_first", + "warm" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "planning", - "text": "Planning" - }, - { - "id": "spontaneity", - "text": "Spontaneity" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "romance", + "text": "Romance" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "values_247", "category_id": "values", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "If we disagree about rest and balance, what should come first?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Be steady or be spontaneous?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "rest_and_balance", - "priority" + "values" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "tradition", - "text": "Tradition" - }, - { - "id": "change", - "text": "Change" - } - ] + 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