diff --git a/seed/questions/boundaries.json b/seed/questions/boundaries.json index 39c60655..8b7e81d2 100644 --- a/seed/questions/boundaries.json +++ b/seed/questions/boundaries.json @@ -2,3888 +2,3810 @@ "category": { "id": "boundaries", "display_name": "Boundaries", - "description": "Questions about space, privacy, autonomy, consent, family limits, digital boundaries, and mutual respect.", - "access": "premium", - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, - "question_type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 - }, + "description": "Warm, practical questions that help couples talk about space, privacy, family, phones, money, conflict, affection, and personal limits without blame.", + "access": "mixed", + "icon_name": "shield", "schema_version": "question_v2", - "supported_types": [ - "written", - "single_choice", - "multi_choice", - "scale", - "this_or_that" - ] + "metadata": { + "total_questions": 250, + "free_questions": 75, + "premium_questions": 175, + "type_counts": { + "written": 150, + "single_choice": 40, + "multi_choice": 20, + "scale": 25, + "this_or_that": 15 + } + } }, "questions": [ { "id": "boundaries_001", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "written", - 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"depth": 4, + "text": "What is one boundary that would help us feel more peaceful this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "friend_time", - "autonomy" + "peace", + "weekly", + "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "boundaries_150", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one sign that a boundary around personal limits needs to be clearer?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one boundary that would make us feel more like partners than opponents?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "personal_limits", - "respect" + "teamwork", + "relationship", + "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "boundaries_151", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which boundary area needs the clearest agreement right now?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What kind of space feels healthiest to you?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "clarity" + "space", + "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "conflict", - "text": "Conflict" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_time", + "text": "Quiet time" + }, + { + "id": "solo_activity", + "text": "Doing my own thing" + }, + { + "id": "short_break", + "text": "A short break" + }, + { + "id": "same_room", + "text": "Same room, separate activities" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_152", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we respond when a boundary is crossed?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which phone-free moment matters most?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", + "phones", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_it_calmly", - "text": "Name it calmly" - }, - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "apologize", - "text": "Apologize" - }, - { - "id": "clarify_the_limit", - "text": "Clarify the limit" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "meals", + "text": "Meals" + }, + { + "id": "bedtime", + "text": "Bedtime" + }, + { + "id": "date_time", + "text": "Date time" + }, + { + "id": "hard_talks", + "text": "Hard talks" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_153", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a boundary feel respectful?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps a no feel kind?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "respect", + "no", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "kind_tone", - "text": "Kind tone" - }, - { - "id": "clear_reason", - "text": "Clear reason" - }, - { - "id": "mutual_agreement", - "text": "Mutual agreement" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_tone", + "text": "A soft tone" + }, + { + "id": "simple_reason", + "text": "A simple reason" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "no_explaining", + "text": "No big explanation" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_154", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which digital boundary matters most?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which boundary would make home feel calmer first?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "digital_boundaries", - "privacy" + "home", + "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "phone_privacy", - "text": "Phone privacy" - }, - { - "id": "social_media", - "text": "Social media" - }, - { - "id": "location_sharing", - "text": "Location sharing" - }, - { - "id": "messages", - "text": "Messages" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_time", + "text": "Quiet time" + }, + { + "id": "chores", + "text": "Chores" + }, + { + "id": "phones", + "text": "Phones" + }, + { + "id": "sleep", + "text": "Sleep" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_155", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of alone time feels healthiest?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What kind of reminder works best for you?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "alone_time", - "space" + "reminders", + "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "daily_quiet_time", - "text": "Daily quiet time" - }, - { - "id": "solo_hobbies", - "text": "Solo hobbies" - }, - { - "id": "friend_time", - "text": "Friend time" - }, - { - "id": "no_phone_rest", - "text": "No-phone rest" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "text", + "text": "A text" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_words", + "text": "Gentle words" + }, + { + "id": "calendar", + "text": "Calendar" + }, + { + "id": "no_reminder", + "text": "No reminder" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_156", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What family boundary feels most important?", + "text": "When you are overwhelmed, what helps most?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "family", + "overwhelm", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "visits", - "text": "Visits" - }, - { - "id": "advice", - "text": "Advice" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "space", + "text": "Space" + }, + { + "id": "hug", + "text": "A hug" + }, + { + "id": "help_with_task", + "text": "Help with a task" + }, + { + "id": "quiet", + "text": "Quiet" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_157", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we do when one of us needs space?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which topic needs the gentlest timing?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "space", - "communication" + "timing", + "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "say_it_clearly", - "text": "Say it clearly" - }, - { - "id": "set_a_return_time", - "text": "Set a return time" - }, - { - "id": "reassure_first", - "text": "Reassure first" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_short_break", - "text": "Take a short break" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "money", + "text": "Money" + }, + { + "id": "family", + "text": "Family" + }, + { + "id": "chores", + "text": "Chores" + }, + { + "id": "intimacy", + "text": "Intimacy" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_158", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes boundaries feel scary?", + "text": "What makes a boundary easiest to hear?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "fear", + "communication", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "fear_of_rejection", - "text": "Fear of rejection" - }, - { - "id": "fear_of_conflict", - "text": "Fear of conflict" - }, - { - "id": "guilt", - "text": "Guilt" - }, - { - "id": "not_knowing_how", - "text": "Not knowing how" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kind_tone", + "text": "Kind tone" + }, + { + "id": "clear_words", + "text": "Clear words" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_159", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps boundaries feel like care?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which outside influence needs the clearest limit?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "care", + "outside_people", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "mutual_respect", - "text": "Mutual respect" - }, - { - "id": "calm_timing", - "text": "Calm timing" - }, - { - "id": "clear_wording", - "text": "Clear wording" - }, - { - "id": "follow_through", - "text": "Follow-through" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "family", + "text": "Family" + }, + { + "id": "friends", + "text": "Friends" + }, + { + "id": "work", + "text": "Work" + }, + { + "id": "social_media", + "text": "Social media" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_160", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which boundary should be revisited regularly?", + "text": "What helps us reset after snapping?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "check_ins", + "repair", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "apology", + "text": "An apology" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_pause", + "text": "A quiet pause" + }, + { + "id": "humor", + "text": "A little humor" + }, + { + "id": "hug", + "text": "A hug" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_161", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which boundary area needs the clearest agreement right now right now?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which privacy boundary matters most to you?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "clarity" + "privacy", + "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "conflict", - "text": "Conflict" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "phones", + "text": "Phones" + }, + { + "id": "messages", + "text": "Messages" + }, + { + "id": "past", + "text": "Past experiences" + }, + { + "id": "private_talks", + "text": "Our private talks" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_162", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we respond when a boundary is crossed right now?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes affection feel best?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", + "affection", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_it_calmly", - "text": "Name it calmly" - }, - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "apologize", - "text": "Apologize" - }, - { - "id": "clarify_the_limit", - "text": "Clarify the limit" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "spontaneous", + "text": "Spontaneous" + }, + { + "id": "asked_first", + "text": "Asked first" + }, + { + "id": "slow", + "text": "Slow" + }, + { + "id": "playful", + "text": "Playful" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_163", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a boundary feel respectful right now?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which kind of plan feels easiest?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "respect", + "planning", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "kind_tone", - "text": "Kind tone" - }, - { - "id": "clear_reason", - "text": "Clear reason" - }, - { - "id": "mutual_agreement", - "text": "Mutual agreement" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "loose_plan", + "text": "Loose plan" + }, + { + "id": "clear_plan", + "text": "Clear plan" + }, + { + "id": "backup_plan", + "text": "Backup plan" + }, + { + "id": "same_day", + "text": "Same-day plan" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_164", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which digital boundary matters most right now?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What boundary would help the weekend most?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "digital_boundaries", - "privacy" + "weekends", + "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "phone_privacy", - "text": "Phone privacy" - }, - { - "id": "social_media", - "text": "Social media" - }, - { - "id": "location_sharing", - "text": "Location sharing" - }, - { - "id": "messages", - "text": "Messages" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "less_errands", + "text": "Fewer errands" + }, + { + "id": "more_rest", + "text": "More rest" + }, + { + "id": "phone_free_time", + "text": "Phone-free time" + }, + { + "id": "one_real_plan", + "text": "One real plan" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_165", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of alone time feels healthiest right now?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How should we handle a small crossed boundary?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "alone_time", - "space" + "repair", + "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "daily_quiet_time", - "text": "Daily quiet time" - }, - { - "id": "solo_hobbies", - "text": "Solo hobbies" - }, - { - "id": "friend_time", - "text": "Friend time" - }, - { - "id": "no_phone_rest", - "text": "No-phone rest" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_it_kindly", + "text": "Name it kindly" + }, + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "apologize", + "text": "Apologize" + }, + { + "id": "try_again", + "text": "Try again" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_166", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What family boundary feels most important right now?", + "text": "What is the best way for me to ask for your attention?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family", + "attention", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "visits", - "text": "Visits" - }, - { - "id": "advice", - "text": "Advice" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "say_it_directly", + "text": "Say it directly" + }, + { + "id": "touch_my_hand", + "text": "Touch my hand" + }, + { + "id": "ask_if_now_is_good", + "text": "Ask if now is good" + }, + { + "id": "send_a_text", + "text": "Send a text" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_167", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we do when one of us needs space right now?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which boundary should we protect during family visits?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "space", - "communication" + "family", + "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "say_it_clearly", - "text": "Say it clearly" - }, - { - "id": "set_a_return_time", - "text": "Set a return time" - }, - { - "id": "reassure_first", - "text": "Reassure first" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_short_break", - "text": "Take a short break" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "private_time", + "text": "Private time" + }, + { + "id": "bedtime", + "text": "Bedtime" + }, + { + "id": "money_talk", + "text": "Money talk" + }, + { + "id": "parenting_choices", + "text": "Parenting choices" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_168", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes boundaries feel scary right now?", + "text": "What kind of money check-in feels least stressful?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fear", + "money", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "fear_of_rejection", - "text": "Fear of rejection" - }, - { - "id": "fear_of_conflict", - "text": "Fear of conflict" - }, - { - "id": "guilt", - "text": "Guilt" - }, - { - "id": "not_knowing_how", - "text": "Not knowing how" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "short_weekly", + "text": "Short weekly" + }, + { + "id": "monthly", + "text": "Monthly" + }, + { + "id": "only_when_needed", + "text": "Only when needed" + }, + { + "id": "written_first", + "text": "Written first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_169", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps boundaries feel like care right now?", + "text": "Which argument pause would help most?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "care", + "conflict", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "mutual_respect", - "text": "Mutual respect" - }, - { - "id": "calm_timing", - "text": "Calm timing" - }, - { - "id": "clear_wording", - "text": "Clear wording" - }, - { - "id": "follow_through", - "text": "Follow-through" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ten_minutes", + "text": "10 minutes" + }, + { + "id": "thirty_minutes", + "text": "30 minutes" + }, + { + "id": "sleep_on_it", + "text": "Sleep on it" + }, + { + "id": "walk_together", + "text": "Walk together" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_170", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which boundary should be revisited regularly right now?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What should a pause during conflict mean?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "check_ins", + "conflict", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "stop_for_now", + "text": "Stop for now" + }, + { + "id": "cool_off", + "text": "Cool off" + }, + { + "id": "protect_us", + "text": "Protect us" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_171", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which boundary area needs the clearest agreement right now this week?", + "text": "Which tone feels hardest to stay open to?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "clarity" + "tone", + "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "conflict", - "text": "Conflict" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sarcasm", + "text": "Sarcasm" + }, + { + "id": "cold", + "text": "Cold" + }, + { + "id": "loud", + "text": "Loud" + }, + { + "id": "dismissive", + "text": "Dismissive" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_172", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we respond when a boundary is crossed this week?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What kind of privacy should be strongest between us?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", + "privacy", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_it_calmly", - "text": "Name it calmly" - }, - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "apologize", - "text": "Apologize" - }, - { - "id": "clarify_the_limit", - "text": "Clarify the limit" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "arguments", + "text": "Arguments" + }, + { + "id": "intimacy", + "text": "Intimacy" + }, + { + "id": "finances", + "text": "Finances" + }, + { + "id": "family_issues", + "text": "Family issues" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_173", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a boundary feel respectful this week?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps you feel independent and still close?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "respect", + "independence", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "kind_tone", - "text": "Kind tone" - }, - { - "id": "clear_reason", - "text": "Clear reason" - }, - { - "id": "mutual_agreement", - "text": "Mutual agreement" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "solo_time", + "text": "Solo time" + }, + { + "id": "own_hobbies", + "text": "Own hobbies" + }, + { + "id": "trusted_privacy", + "text": "Trusted privacy" + }, + { + "id": "planned_reconnect", + "text": "Planned reconnect" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_174", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which digital boundary matters most this week?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which boundary would make intimacy feel safer?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "digital_boundaries", - "privacy" + "intimacy", + "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "phone_privacy", - "text": "Phone privacy" - }, - { - "id": "social_media", - "text": "Social media" - }, - { - "id": "location_sharing", - "text": "Location sharing" - }, - { - "id": "messages", - "text": "Messages" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "easy_no", + "text": "An easy no" + }, + { + "id": "asking_first", + "text": "Asking first" + }, + { + "id": "more_privacy", + "text": "More privacy" + }, + { + "id": "slower_pace", + "text": "Slower pace" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_175", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of alone time feels healthiest this week?", + "text": "What helps you hear feedback without shutting down?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "alone_time", - "space" + "feedback", + "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "daily_quiet_time", - "text": "Daily quiet time" - }, - { - "id": "solo_hobbies", - "text": "Solo hobbies" - }, - { - "id": "friend_time", - "text": "Friend time" - }, - { - "id": "no_phone_rest", - "text": "No-phone rest" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kind_words", + "text": "Kind words" + }, + { + "id": "specific_example", + "text": "A specific example" + }, + { + "id": "no_pile_on", + "text": "No pile-on" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_176", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What family boundary feels most important this week?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes a boundary feel loving?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family", + "love", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "visits", - "text": "Visits" - }, - { - "id": "advice", - "text": "Advice" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_reason", + "text": "Clear reason" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_tone", + "text": "Gentle tone" + }, + { + "id": "consistency", + "text": "Consistency" + }, + { + "id": "respect_both_sides", + "text": "Respect for both sides" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_177", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we do when one of us needs space this week?", + "text": "Which situation needs a firmer line?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "space", - "communication" + "limits", + "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "say_it_clearly", - "text": "Say it clearly" - }, - { - "id": "set_a_return_time", - "text": "Set a return time" - }, - { - "id": "reassure_first", - "text": "Reassure first" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_short_break", - "text": "Take a short break" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "family_pressure", + "text": "Family pressure" + }, + { + "id": "work_intrusion", + "text": "Work intrusion" + }, + { + "id": "phone_distraction", + "text": "Phone distraction" + }, + { + "id": "old_arguments", + "text": "Old arguments" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_178", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes boundaries feel scary this week?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What kind of affection boundary should we talk about first?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fear", + "affection", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "fear_of_rejection", - "text": "Fear of rejection" - }, - { - "id": "fear_of_conflict", - "text": "Fear of conflict" - }, - { - "id": "guilt", - "text": "Guilt" - }, - { - "id": "not_knowing_how", - "text": "Not knowing how" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "public_affection", + "text": "Public affection" + }, + { + "id": "when_tired", + "text": "When tired" + }, + { + "id": "after_conflict", + "text": "After conflict" + }, + { + "id": "sexual_pressure", + "text": "Sexual pressure" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_179", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps boundaries feel like care this week?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps you feel less crowded?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "care", + "space", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "mutual_respect", - "text": "Mutual respect" - }, - { - "id": "calm_timing", - "text": "Calm timing" - }, - { - "id": "clear_wording", - "text": "Clear wording" - }, - { - "id": "follow_through", - "text": "Follow-through" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_room", + "text": "A quiet room" + }, + { + "id": "headphones", + "text": "Headphones" + }, + { + "id": "solo_errand", + "text": "A solo errand" + }, + { + "id": "early_bed", + "text": "Going to bed early" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_180", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which boundary should be revisited regularly this week?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which shared-space rule sounds most helpful?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "check_ins", + "home", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_before_moving", + "text": "Ask before moving things" + }, + { + "id": "reset_rooms", + "text": "Reset rooms" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_zone", + "text": "Quiet zone" + }, + { + "id": "personal_shelf", + "text": "Personal shelf" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_181", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which boundary area needs the clearest agreement right now during stress?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "When we are around others, what matters most?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "clarity" + "public", + "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "conflict", - "text": "Conflict" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_teasing", + "text": "No hurtful teasing" + }, + { + "id": "back_each_other", + "text": "Back each other up" + }, + { + "id": "keep_private_private", + "text": "Keep private things private" + }, + { + "id": "check_in", + "text": "Check in" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_182", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we respond when a boundary is crossed during stress?", + "text": "Which boundary would help with last-minute plans?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "planning", + "boundaries" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + }, + { + "id": "notice_needed", + "text": "Need notice" + }, + { + "id": "easy_decline", + "text": "Easy decline" + }, + { + "id": "backup_plan", + "text": "Backup plan" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_183", + "category_id": "boundaries", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps when one of us changes our mind?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "flexibility", + "boundaries" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_guilt", + "text": "No guilt" + }, + { + "id": "quick_update", + "text": "Quick update" + }, + { + "id": "new_plan", + "text": "New plan" + }, + { + "id": "kind_tone", + "text": "Kind tone" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_184", + "category_id": "boundaries", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes a boundary reminder feel safe?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "reminders", + "boundaries" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "private", + "text": "Private" + }, + { + "id": "gentle", + "text": "Gentle" + }, + { + "id": "short", + "text": "Short" + }, + { + "id": "with_humor", + "text": "With humor" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_185", + "category_id": "boundaries", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which small boundary would make the biggest difference?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "small_boundaries", + "boundaries" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "less_interrupting", + "text": "Less interrupting" + }, + { + "id": "more_notice", + "text": "More notice" + }, + { + "id": "phone_free_time", + "text": "Phone-free time" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_time", + "text": "Quiet time" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_186", + "category_id": "boundaries", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should we do after accidentally crossing a line?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "repair", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_it_calmly", - "text": "Name it calmly" - }, - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "apologize", - "text": "Apologize" - }, - { - "id": "clarify_the_limit", - "text": "Clarify the limit" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "apologize_fast", + "text": "Apologize quickly" + }, + { + "id": "ask_what_helps", + "text": "Ask what helps" + }, + { + "id": "give_space", + "text": "Give space" + }, + { + "id": "try_again", + "text": "Try again" + } + ] + } }, { - "id": "boundaries_183", + "id": "boundaries_187", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a boundary feel respectful during stress?", + "text": "Which boundary should never be mocked?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "respect", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "kind_tone", - "text": "Kind tone" - }, - { - "id": "clear_reason", - "text": "Clear reason" - }, - { - "id": "mutual_agreement", - "text": "Mutual agreement" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_184", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which digital boundary matters most during stress?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "digital_boundaries", - "privacy" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "phone_privacy", - "text": "Phone privacy" - }, - { - "id": "social_media", - "text": "Social media" - }, - { - "id": "location_sharing", - "text": "Location sharing" - }, - { - "id": "messages", - "text": "Messages" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_185", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of alone time feels healthiest during stress?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "alone_time", - "space" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "daily_quiet_time", - "text": "Daily quiet time" - }, - { - "id": "solo_hobbies", - "text": "Solo hobbies" - }, - { - "id": "friend_time", - "text": "Friend time" - }, - { - "id": "no_phone_rest", - "text": "No-phone rest" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_186", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What family boundary feels most important during stress?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "family", - "boundaries" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "visits", - "text": "Visits" - }, - { - "id": "advice", - "text": "Advice" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_187", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we do when one of us needs space during stress?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "space", - "communication" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "say_it_clearly", - "text": "Say it clearly" - }, - { - "id": "set_a_return_time", - "text": "Set a return time" - }, - { - "id": "reassure_first", - "text": "Reassure first" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_short_break", - "text": "Take a short break" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "body", + "text": "Body" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "family", + "text": "Family" + }, + { + "id": "past", + "text": "Past" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_188", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes boundaries feel scary during stress?", + "text": "What helps boundaries feel like teamwork?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fear", + "teamwork", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "fear_of_rejection", - "text": "Fear of rejection" - }, - { - "id": "fear_of_conflict", - "text": "Fear of conflict" - }, - { - "id": "guilt", - "text": "Guilt" - }, - { - "id": "not_knowing_how", - "text": "Not knowing how" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_have_them", + "text": "We both have them" + }, + { + "id": "clear_reason", + "text": "Clear reasons" + }, + { + "id": "revisit_them", + "text": "We revisit them" + }, + { + "id": "no_punishment", + "text": "No punishment" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_189", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps boundaries feel like care during stress?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Which area needs more freedom, not more rules?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "care", + "freedom", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "mutual_respect", - "text": "Mutual respect" - }, - { - "id": "calm_timing", - "text": "Calm timing" - }, - { - "id": "clear_wording", - "text": "Clear wording" - }, - { - "id": "follow_through", - "text": "Follow-through" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "friends", + "text": "Friends" + }, + { + "id": "hobbies", + "text": "Hobbies" + }, + { + "id": "alone_time", + "text": "Alone time" + }, + { + "id": "personal_style", + "text": "Personal style" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_190", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which boundary should be revisited regularly during stress?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "check_ins", - "boundaries" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_191", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which boundaries need clearer words? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "clarity", - "boundaries" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "conflict", - "text": "Conflict" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_192", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which boundaries help you feel safe? Select all that apply.", + "text": "What boundary would make you feel safest this month?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "safety", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respectful_tone", - "text": "Respectful tone" - }, - { - "id": "no_phone_checking", - "text": "No phone checking" - }, - { - "id": "alone_time", - "text": "Alone time" - }, - { - "id": "no_public_fights", - "text": "No public fights" - }, - { - "id": "consent_around_touch", - "text": "Consent around touch" - } + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "tone", + "text": "Tone" + }, + { + "id": "time", + "text": "Time" + }, + { + "id": "affection", + "text": "Affection" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_191", + "category_id": "boundaries", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps you feel respected when you need space?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "space", + "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_guilt", + "text": "No guilt" + }, + { + "id": "clear_timing", + "text": "Clear timing" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "check_later", + "text": "Check in later" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_192", + "category_id": "boundaries", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which boundaries would make our home feel lighter?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "home", + "boundaries" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_time", + "text": "Quiet time" + }, + { + "id": "clean_shared_spaces", + "text": "Clean shared spaces" + }, + { + "id": "phone_free_meals", + "text": "Phone-free meals" + }, + { + "id": "sleep_respect", + "text": "Respecting sleep" + }, + { + "id": "less_clutter", + "text": "Less clutter" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_193", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs tell you a boundary is needed? Select up to three.", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes a hard conversation feel safer?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "signals", + "communication", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "resentment", - "text": "Resentment" - }, - { - "id": "exhaustion", - "text": "Exhaustion" - }, - { - "id": "avoidance", - "text": "Avoidance" - }, - { - "id": "anxiety", - "text": "Anxiety" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_pressured", - "text": "Feeling pressured" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "soft_tone", + "text": "Soft tone" + }, + { + "id": "no_interrupting", + "text": "No interrupting" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "breaks_allowed", + "text": "Breaks allowed" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3892,74 +3814,74 @@ "id": "boundaries_194", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which boundary areas should be mutual? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which outside pressures affect us most?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "mutuality", + "outside_pressure", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "digital_access", - "text": "Digital access" - }, - { - "id": "family_sharing", - "text": "Family sharing" - }, - { - "id": "friend_time", - "text": "Friend time" - }, - { - "id": "money_decisions", - "text": "Money decisions" - }, - { - "id": "conflict_pauses", - "text": "Conflict pauses" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "family", + "text": "Family" + }, + { + "id": "work", + "text": "Work" + }, + { + "id": "money", + "text": "Money" + }, + { + "id": "friends", + "text": "Friends" + }, + { + "id": "social_media", + "text": "Social media" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_195", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which words make boundaries easier to hear? Select up to three.", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps a boundary feel loving instead of harsh?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "language", + "love", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_need", - "text": "I need" - }, - { - "id": "can_we_agree", - "text": "Can we agree" - }, - { - "id": "this_helps_me", - "text": "This helps me" - }, - { - "id": "i_feel", - "text": "I feel" - }, - { - "id": "let_s_revisit", - "text": "Let's revisit" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kind_words", + "text": "Kind words" + }, + { + "id": "clear_reason", + "text": "Clear reason" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "consistency", + "text": "Consistency" + }, + { + "id": "respect_for_both", + "text": "Respect for both" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3968,112 +3890,112 @@ "id": "boundaries_196", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which boundaries need clearer words? Select all that apply. right now", + "text": "Which phone boundaries would help trust feel easier?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "clarity", + "phones", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "conflict", - "text": "Conflict" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_snooping", + "text": "No snooping" + }, + { + "id": "phone_free_dates", + "text": "Phone-free dates" + }, + { + "id": "ask_before_reading", + "text": "Ask before reading" + }, + { + "id": "private_passwords", + "text": "Private passwords" + }, + { + "id": "talk_about_triggers", + "text": "Talk about triggers" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_197", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which boundaries help you feel safe? Select all that apply. right now", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What should we protect from other people's opinions?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "safety", + "outside_people", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respectful_tone", - "text": "Respectful tone" - }, - { - "id": "no_phone_checking", - "text": "No phone checking" - }, - { - "id": "alone_time", - "text": "Alone time" - }, - { - "id": "no_public_fights", - "text": "No public fights" - }, - { - "id": "consent_around_touch", - "text": "Consent around touch" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "money_choices", + "text": "Money choices" + }, + { + "id": "conflict", + "text": "Conflict" + }, + { + "id": "intimacy", + "text": "Intimacy" + }, + { + "id": "future_plans", + "text": "Future plans" + }, + { + "id": "family_choices", + "text": "Family choices" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_198", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs tell you a boundary is needed? Select up to three. right now", + "text": "Which conflict boundaries would help us fight fairer?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "signals", + "conflict", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "resentment", - "text": "Resentment" - }, - { - "id": "exhaustion", - "text": "Exhaustion" - }, - { - "id": "avoidance", - "text": "Avoidance" - }, - { - "id": "anxiety", - "text": "Anxiety" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_pressured", - "text": "Feeling pressured" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_name_calling", + "text": "No name-calling" + }, + { + "id": "no_threats", + "text": "No threats" + }, + { + "id": "no_past_pile_on", + "text": "No past pile-on" + }, + { + "id": "pauses_allowed", + "text": "Pauses allowed" + }, + { + "id": "come_back_later", + "text": "Come back later" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4082,74 +4004,74 @@ "id": "boundaries_199", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which boundary areas should be mutual? Select all that apply. right now", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps you come back after taking space?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "mutuality", + "repair", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "digital_access", - "text": "Digital access" - }, - { - "id": "family_sharing", - "text": "Family sharing" - }, - { - "id": "friend_time", - "text": "Friend time" - }, - { - "id": "money_decisions", - "text": "Money decisions" - }, - { - "id": "conflict_pauses", - "text": "Conflict pauses" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gentle_text", + "text": "A gentle text" + }, + { + "id": "clear_time", + "text": "A clear time" + }, + { + "id": "apology", + "text": "An apology" + }, + { + "id": "hug", + "text": "A hug" + }, + { + "id": "calm_talk", + "text": "A calm talk" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_200", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which words make boundaries easier to hear? Select up to three. right now", + "text": "Which affection boundaries matter most?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "language", + "affection", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_need", - "text": "I need" - }, - { - "id": "can_we_agree", - "text": "Can we agree" - }, - { - "id": "this_helps_me", - "text": "This helps me" - }, - { - "id": "i_feel", - "text": "I feel" - }, - { - "id": "let_s_revisit", - "text": "Let's revisit" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_when_upset", + "text": "Ask when upset" + }, + { + "id": "respect_not_now", + "text": "Respect not now" + }, + { + "id": "public_comfort", + "text": "Public comfort" + }, + { + "id": "sexual_pressure", + "text": "No sexual pressure" + }, + { + "id": "after_conflict", + "text": "After conflict" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4158,112 +4080,112 @@ "id": "boundaries_201", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which boundaries need clearer words? Select all that apply. this week", + "text": "What makes intimacy feel safer to talk about?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "clarity", + "intimacy", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "conflict", - "text": "Conflict" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "kind_words", + "text": "Kind words" + }, + { + "id": "easy_no", + "text": "An easy no" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_202", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which boundaries help you feel safe? Select all that apply. this week", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which planning boundaries would lower stress?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "safety", + "planning", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respectful_tone", - "text": "Respectful tone" - }, - { - "id": "no_phone_checking", - "text": "No phone checking" - }, - { - "id": "alone_time", - "text": "Alone time" - }, - { - "id": "no_public_fights", - "text": "No public fights" - }, - { - "id": "consent_around_touch", - "text": "Consent around touch" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_notice", + "text": "More notice" + }, + { + "id": "ask_before_committing", + "text": "Ask before committing" + }, + { + "id": "one_rest_day", + "text": "One rest day" + }, + { + "id": "backup_plan", + "text": "Backup plan" + }, + { + "id": "easy_no", + "text": "Easy no" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_203", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs tell you a boundary is needed? Select up to three. this week", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps you feel trusted and independent?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "signals", + "independence", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "resentment", - "text": "Resentment" - }, - { - "id": "exhaustion", - "text": "Exhaustion" - }, - { - "id": "avoidance", - "text": "Avoidance" - }, - { - "id": "anxiety", - "text": "Anxiety" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_pressured", - "text": "Feeling pressured" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "own_friends", + "text": "Own friends" + }, + { + "id": "solo_hobbies", + "text": "Solo hobbies" + }, + { + "id": "no_checking_up", + "text": "No checking up" + }, + { + "id": "honest_updates", + "text": "Honest updates" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4272,74 +4194,74 @@ "id": "boundaries_204", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which boundary areas should be mutual? Select all that apply. this week", + "text": "Which family boundaries would help us stay close?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "mutuality", + "family", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "digital_access", - "text": "Digital access" - }, - { - "id": "family_sharing", - "text": "Family sharing" - }, - { - "id": "friend_time", - "text": "Friend time" - }, - { - "id": "money_decisions", - "text": "Money decisions" - }, - { - "id": "conflict_pauses", - "text": "Conflict pauses" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "private_decisions", + "text": "Private decisions" + }, + { + "id": "visiting_limits", + "text": "Visiting limits" + }, + { + "id": "money_limits", + "text": "Money limits" + }, + { + "id": "no_taking_sides", + "text": "No taking sides" + }, + { + "id": "leave_together", + "text": "Leave together" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_205", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which words make boundaries easier to hear? Select up to three. this week", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What kind of support feels good when you are overwhelmed?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "language", + "support", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_need", - "text": "I need" - }, - { - "id": "can_we_agree", - "text": "Can we agree" - }, - { - "id": "this_helps_me", - "text": "This helps me" - }, - { - "id": "i_feel", - "text": "I feel" - }, - { - "id": "let_s_revisit", - "text": "Let's revisit" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "take_a_task", + "text": "Take a task" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_company", + "text": "Quiet company" + }, + { + "id": "give_space", + "text": "Give space" + }, + { + "id": "bring_food", + "text": "Bring food" + }, + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4348,112 +4270,114 @@ "id": "boundaries_206", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which boundaries need clearer words? Select all that apply. during stress", + "text": "Which boundaries make flirting feel safe and fun?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "clarity", + "play", + "flirting", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "conflict", - "text": "Conflict" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "right_timing", + "text": "Right timing" + }, + { + "id": "private_only", + "text": "Private only" + }, + { + "id": "easy_stop", + "text": "Easy stop" + }, + { + "id": "no_jokes_later", + "text": "No jokes later" + }, + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_207", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which boundaries help you feel safe? Select all that apply. during stress", + "text": "What should we never use against each other?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "safety", + "trust", + "conflict", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respectful_tone", - "text": "Respectful tone" - }, - { - "id": "no_phone_checking", - "text": "No phone checking" - }, - { - "id": "alone_time", - "text": "Alone time" - }, - { - "id": "no_public_fights", - "text": "No public fights" - }, - { - "id": "consent_around_touch", - "text": "Consent around touch" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "secrets", + "text": "Secrets" + }, + { + "id": "insecurities", + "text": "Insecurities" + }, + { + "id": "family_pain", + "text": "Family pain" + }, + { + "id": "past_mistakes", + "text": "Past mistakes" + }, + { + "id": "private_fears", + "text": "Private fears" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_208", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs tell you a boundary is needed? Select up to three. during stress", + "text": "What helps you state a boundary with confidence?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "signals", + "confidence", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "resentment", - "text": "Resentment" - }, - { - "id": "exhaustion", - "text": "Exhaustion" - }, - { - "id": "avoidance", - "text": "Avoidance" - }, - { - "id": "anxiety", - "text": "Anxiety" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_pressured", - "text": "Feeling pressured" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "practice_words", + "text": "Practice words" + }, + { + "id": "partner_receptive", + "text": "Partner receptive" + }, + { + "id": "clear_reason", + "text": "Clear reason" + }, + { + "id": "calm_timing", + "text": "Calm timing" + }, + { + "id": "no_guilt", + "text": "No guilt" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4462,74 +4386,74 @@ "id": "boundaries_209", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which boundary areas should be mutual? Select all that apply. during stress", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Which small things are worth setting clearer boundaries around?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "mutuality", + "small_boundaries", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "digital_access", - "text": "Digital access" - }, - { - "id": "family_sharing", - "text": "Family sharing" - }, - { - "id": "friend_time", - "text": "Friend time" - }, - { - "id": "money_decisions", - "text": "Money decisions" - }, - { - "id": "conflict_pauses", - "text": "Conflict pauses" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "interruptions", + "text": "Interruptions" + }, + { + "id": "chores", + "text": "Chores" + }, + { + "id": "noise", + "text": "Noise" + }, + { + "id": "plans", + "text": "Plans" + }, + { + "id": "belongings", + "text": "Belongings" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_210", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which words make boundaries easier to hear? Select up to three. during stress", + "text": "What would help boundaries feel like freedom, not distance?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "language", + "freedom", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_need", - "text": "I need" - }, - { - "id": "can_we_agree", - "text": "Can we agree" - }, - { - "id": "this_helps_me", - "text": "This helps me" - }, - { - "id": "i_feel", - "text": "I feel" - }, - { - "id": "let_s_revisit", - "text": "Let's revisit" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "planned_reconnect", + "text": "Planned reconnect" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "respect", + "text": "Respect" + }, + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4538,806 +4462,810 @@ "id": "boundaries_211", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "scale", - "text": "How respected do your boundaries feel in our relationship?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How well do we respect each other's quiet time right now?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "respect", + "quiet_time", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not respected", - "max_label": "Very respected", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "boundaries_212", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to ask me for space?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How easy does it feel to say no kindly between us?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "space", + "no", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Very hard", - "max_label": "Very easy", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "boundaries_213", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clear are our digital boundaries?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How protected does our couple time feel lately?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "digital_boundaries", - "clarity" + "couple_time", + "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Unclear", - "max_label": "Very clear", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not protected", + "max_label": "Very protected" } }, { "id": "boundaries_214", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "scale", - "text": "How balanced does our time together and apart feel?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How calm does our home feel this week?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "time", - "balance" + "home", + "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Unbalanced", - "max_label": "Very balanced", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not calm", + "max_label": "Very calm" } }, { "id": "boundaries_215", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to say no?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How safe does it feel to bring up a small irritation?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "safety", - "no" + "communication", + "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, + "min": 1, + "max": 5, "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe", - "scale_step": 1 + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "boundaries_216", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "scale", - "text": "How respected do your boundaries feel in our relationship right now?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How balanced does alone time feel between us?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "respect", + "alone_time", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not respected", - "max_label": "Very respected", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Unbalanced", + "max_label": "Balanced" } }, { "id": "boundaries_217", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to ask me for space right now?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much would a phone-free moment help us right now?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "space", + "phones", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Very hard", - "max_label": "Very easy", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "boundaries_218", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clear are our digital boundaries right now?", + "text": "How respected do you feel during disagreements?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "digital_boundaries", - "clarity" + "conflict", + "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Unclear", - "max_label": "Very clear", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not respected", + "max_label": "Very respected" } }, { "id": "boundaries_219", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "scale", - "text": "How balanced does our time together and apart feel right now?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How easy is it to ask for space without guilt?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "time", - "balance" + "space", + "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Unbalanced", - "max_label": "Very balanced", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "boundaries_220", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to say no right now?", + "text": "How much do outside opinions affect our relationship?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "safety", - "no" + "outside_people", + "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "boundaries_221", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "scale", - "text": "How respected do your boundaries feel in our relationship this week?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How safe does privacy feel between us?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "respect", + "privacy", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not respected", - "max_label": "Very respected", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "boundaries_222", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to ask me for space this week?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How stressful do money boundaries feel right now?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "space", + "money", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Very hard", - "max_label": "Very easy", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not stressful", + "max_label": "Very stressful" } }, { "id": "boundaries_223", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "scale", - 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"text": "How clear are our digital boundaries after a hard moment?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How well do we come back together after taking space?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "digital_boundaries", - "clarity" + "repair", + "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Unclear", - "max_label": "Very clear", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not well", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "boundaries_234", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "scale", - "text": "How balanced does our time together and apart feel after a hard moment?", + "text": "How often do boundaries feel like teamwork between us?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "time", - "balance" + "teamwork", + "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Unbalanced", - "max_label": "Very balanced", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Rarely", + "max_label": "Often" } }, { "id": "boundaries_235", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to say no after a hard moment?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How peaceful would one new boundary make this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "safety", - "no" + "weekly", + "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "Very peaceful" } }, { "id": "boundaries_236", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For space, which feels better?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Space alone or quiet together?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ "space", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "scheduled_alone_time", - "text": "Scheduled alone time" - }, - { - "id": "ask_when_needed", - "text": "Ask when needed" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "space_alone", + "text": "Space alone" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_together", + "text": "Quiet together" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_237", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For privacy, which matters more?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Phone-free dinner or phone-free bedtime?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "privacy", + "phones", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "mutual_transparency", - "text": "Mutual transparency" - }, - { - "id": "personal_autonomy", - "text": "Personal autonomy" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "phone_free_dinner", + "text": "Phone-free dinner" + }, + { + "id": "phone_free_bedtime", + "text": "Phone-free bedtime" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_238", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For family boundaries, which helps more?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Gentle reminder or direct reminder?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "family", + "reminders", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "private_agreement_first", - "text": "Private agreement first" - }, - { - "id": "handle_as_it_comes", - "text": "Handle as it comes" - 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"conflict", + "communication", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_yelling", - "text": "No yelling" - }, - { - "id": "no_disappearing", - "text": "No disappearing" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_now", + "text": "Talk now" + }, + { + "id": "schedule_it", + "text": "Schedule it" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_241", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For space, which feels better right now?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Pause the argument or lower the volume?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "space", + "conflict", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "scheduled_alone_time", - "text": "Scheduled alone time" - }, - { - "id": "ask_when_needed", - "text": "Ask when needed" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "pause_argument", + "text": "Pause the argument" + }, + { + "id": "lower_volume", + "text": "Lower the volume" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_242", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For privacy, which matters more right now?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Public affection or private affection?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "privacy", + "affection", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "mutual_transparency", - "text": "Mutual transparency" - }, - { - "id": "personal_autonomy", - "text": "Personal autonomy" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "public_affection", + "text": "Public affection" + }, + { + "id": "private_affection", + "text": "Private affection" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_243", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For family boundaries, which helps more right now?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Family visit or quiet weekend?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "family", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "private_agreement_first", - "text": "Private agreement first" - }, - { - "id": "handle_as_it_comes", - "text": "Handle as it comes" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "family_visit", + "text": "Family visit" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_weekend", + "text": "Quiet weekend" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_244", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When saying no, which helps more right now?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Ask before helping or jump in and help?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "no", - "communication" + "support", + "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "direct_wording", - "text": "Direct wording" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_explanation", - "text": "Gentle explanation" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_before_helping", + "text": "Ask before helping" + }, + { + "id": "jump_in_and_help", + "text": "Jump in and help" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_245", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For conflict boundaries, which matters more right now?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "More independence or more check-ins?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "conflict", + "independence", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_yelling", - "text": "No yelling" - }, - { - "id": "no_disappearing", - "text": "No disappearing" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_independence", + "text": "More independence" + }, + { + "id": "more_check_ins", + "text": "More check-ins" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_246", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For space, which feels better this week?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Soft no or clear no?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "space", + "no", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "scheduled_alone_time", - "text": "Scheduled alone time" - }, - { - "id": "ask_when_needed", - "text": "Ask when needed" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_no", + "text": "Soft no" + }, + { + "id": "clear_no", + "text": "Clear no" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_247", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For privacy, which matters more this week?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Private reset or talk it out?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "privacy", + "repair", "boundaries" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "mutual_transparency", - "text": "Mutual transparency" - }, - { - "id": "personal_autonomy", - "text": "Personal autonomy" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "private_reset", + "text": "Private reset" + }, + { + "id": "talk_it_out", + "text": "Talk it out" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "boundaries_248", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "this_or_that", - 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"dismissal", + "tone", + "shutdown", "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_005", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we do when a small disagreement starts getting bigger?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you feel heard during a disagreement?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "escalation", - "pause" + "listening", + "heard", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_006", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one topic where we usually need extra patience?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes it easier for you to hear my side?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "patience", - "topics" + "perspective", + "listening", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_007", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one topic where we should slow down before responding?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one topic we should handle more gently?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "timing", - "pause" + "gentleness", + "topics", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_008", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one phrase that helps you feel less attacked during disagreement?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps a hard conversation feel less like a fight?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "language", - "safety" + "communication", + "deescalation", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_009", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one phrase that makes you feel blamed?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one phrase that helps us slow down?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "blame", - "language" + "phrases", + "deescalation", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_010", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I bring up a concern without making you feel cornered?", + "text": "What is one phrase that makes things worse?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "soft_start", - "concern" + "phrases", + "escalation", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_011", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "How can you bring up a concern in a way I am more likely to hear?", + "text": "What helps you say what you mean without getting sharper?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "soft_start", - "listening" + "words", + "self_control", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_012", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What does a fair argument look like to you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you listen without planning your defense?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "fairness", - "conflict_rules" + "defensiveness", + "listening", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_013", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What does an unfair argument look like to you?", + "text": "What makes you feel like I am on your side, even when we disagree?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "fairness", - "conflict_rules" + "teamwork", + "disagreement", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_014", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary we should have during heated talks?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes you feel like we are becoming opponents?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "heated_talks" + "teamwork", + "escalation", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_015", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one sign that you need a pause during conflict?", + "text": "What is one thing we can do before a small issue turns big?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "pause", - "signals" + "prevention", + "small_issues", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_016", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one sign that I need a pause during conflict?", + "text": "What kind of timing helps you talk about something hard?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "pause", - "signals" + "timing", + "communication", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_017", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "How should we restart a conversation after taking a break?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What kind of timing almost guarantees it will go badly?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", - "pause" + "timing", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_018", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you believe that I am trying to understand, not win?", + "text": "What helps you bring up frustration kindly?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "understanding", - "teamwork" + "frustration", + "kindness", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_019", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes it feel like I am trying to win instead of understand?", + "text": "What helps you receive frustration without taking it as an attack?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "winning", - "defensiveness" + "frustration", + "listening", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_020", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we should never say just to hurt each other?", + "text": "What is one disagreement pattern you want us to notice sooner?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "harm", - "boundaries" + "patterns", + "awareness", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_021", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we do when one of us feels flooded or overwhelmed?", + "text": "What helps us disagree without disrespecting each other?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "flooding", - "self_soothing" + "respect", + "disagreement", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_022", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel safe enough to admit you were wrong?", + "text": "What makes you feel respected when I see something differently?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "accountability", - "safety" + "respect", + "differences", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_023", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel safe enough to hear that I was hurt?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one way we can stay softer when we are tired?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hurt", - "safety" + "tired", + "softness", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_024", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we can disagree and still feel close afterward?", + "text": "What is one way we can stay kinder when we are stressed?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "closeness", - "disagreement" + "stress", + "kindness", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_025", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What does repair after conflict usually need from me?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps you not assume the worst of me?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", - "needs" + "assumptions", + "trust", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_026", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What does repair after conflict usually need from you?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps me not assume the worst of you?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", - "ownership" + "assumptions", + "trust", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_027", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one apology behavior that feels real to you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes a conversation feel safe enough to be honest?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "apology", - "repair" + "honesty", + "safety", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_028", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one apology behavior that feels empty to you?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What should we both avoid when we are hungry, tired, or overloaded?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "apology", - "repair" + "daily_life", + "stress", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_029", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we should apologize for faster?", + "text": "What is one sign that we need to pause?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "apology", - "timing" + "pause", + "signals", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_030", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we should stop apologizing for without changing?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one sign that we can keep talking?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "change", - "accountability" + "communication", + "signals", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_031", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one conflict pattern you want us to notice sooner?", + "text": "What helps you feel comfortable asking for a pause?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "patterns", - "awareness" + "pause", + "comfort", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_032", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one conflict pattern you think we are already improving?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you feel okay when I ask for a pause?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "growth", - "patterns" + "pause", + "reassurance", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_033", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What tends to make you defensive with me?", + "text": "What is one thing we should never do just to win an argument?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "defensiveness", - "triggers" + "winning", + "boundaries", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_034", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What tends to make me defensive with you?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What does fighting fair mean to you?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "defensiveness", - "reflection" + "fair_fighting", + "values", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_035", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I respond when you are defensive without escalating?", + "text": "What helps us remember the real issue instead of piling on?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "defensiveness", - "deescalation" + "focus", + "patterns", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_036", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "How can you respond when I am defensive without escalating?", + "text": "What is one thing we could stop bringing up during unrelated arguments?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "defensiveness", - "deescalation" + "past", + "focus", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_037", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of criticism hurts you most?", + "text": "What makes criticism easier to hear?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "feedback", "criticism", - "hurt" + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_038", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of feedback helps you grow without feeling attacked?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes criticism feel too harsh?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ "feedback", - "growth" + "tone", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_039", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one complaint you wish I could hear as a need?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps a complaint become a request?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "needs", - "complaints" + "requests", + "communication", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_040", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one complaint from me that may hide a deeper need?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one request you wish I heard more clearly?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "needs", - "complaints" + "requests", + "listening", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_041", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you avoid shutting down when things get tense?", + "text": "What helps us talk about differences without trying to fix each other?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "stonewalling", - "tension" + "differences", + "acceptance", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_042", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps me avoid shutting down when things get tense?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one difference between us that needs more patience?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "stonewalling", - "reflection" + "differences", + "patience", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_043", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What does it feel like when I go quiet during conflict?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes a hard talk feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "silence", - "impact" + "teamwork", + "communication", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_044", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What does it feel like when you go quiet during conflict?", + "text": "What is one way we can protect love while we disagree?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "silence", - "self_awareness" + "love", + "disagreement", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_045", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help silence feel like a pause instead of punishment?", + "text": "What would make conflict feel less scary for us?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "silence", - "repair" + "safety", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_046", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we can do before a conflict becomes disrespectful?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", + "text": "How can we talk about money stress without turning it into a fight?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "respect", - "deescalation" + "money", + "stress", + "communication", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_047", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one sign that our tone is becoming the real problem?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", + "text": "What usually makes money stress feel bigger than it is?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "tone", - "awareness" + "money", + "stress", + "escalation", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_048", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What tone from me makes it hardest for you to stay open?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", + "text": "What would help money stress feel easier to bring up?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "tone", - "openness" + "money", + "stress", + "ease", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_049", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What tone from you do you want to be more careful with?", + "text": "What should we avoid doing when money stress is the issue?", "depth": 4, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "tone", - "ownership" + "money", + "stress", + "boundaries", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_050", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we can lower the temperature in the room?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about money stress?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "deescalation", - "calm" + "money", + "stress", + "understanding", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_051", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one issue we keep arguing about because we have not named the real problem?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", + "text": "What small change would help us handle money stress better next time?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "root_issue", - "patterns" + "money", + "stress", + "small_changes", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_052", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you think the real problem might be underneath that issue?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", + "text": "What helps you stay kind when money stress comes up?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "root_issue", - "reflection" + "money", + "stress", + "kindness", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_053", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one old argument we should finally retire?", + "text": "How can we talk about chores without turning it into a fight?", "depth": 4, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "old_arguments", - "closure" + "chores", + "home", + "communication", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_054", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us retire that argument respectfully?", + "text": "What usually makes chores feel bigger than it is?", "depth": 4, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "closure", - "repair" + "chores", + "home", + "escalation", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_055", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one recurring conflict where we need a new agreement?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", + "text": "What would help chores feel easier to bring up?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "agreements", - "recurring_conflict" + "chores", + "home", + "ease", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_056", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What would a better agreement look like?", + "text": "What should we avoid doing when chores is the issue?", "depth": 4, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "agreements", - "solutions" + "chores", + "home", + "boundaries", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_057", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one area where you feel I do not accept your influence enough?", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about chores?", "depth": 4, - 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"decisions", - "power" + "chores", + "home", + "kindness", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_060", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one power struggle we should stop feeding?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", + "text": "How can we talk about family opinions without turning it into a fight?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "power", - "patterns" + "family", + "outside_pressure", + "communication", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_061", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we can do when we both think we are right?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", + "text": "What usually makes family opinions feel bigger than it is?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - 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"perspective", - "reflection" + "family", + "outside_pressure", + "boundaries", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_064", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing I misunderstand about your anger?", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about family opinions?", "depth": 4, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "anger", - "understanding" + "family", + "outside_pressure", + "understanding", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_065", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you misunderstand about my anger?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", + "text": "What small change would help us handle family opinions better next time?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - 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"min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_070", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way stress shows up in our conflicts?", + "text": "What should we avoid doing when last-minute plans is the issue?", "depth": 4, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress", + "planning", + "scheduling", + "boundaries", "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_071", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way exhaustion changes how we argue?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about last-minute plans?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "exhaustion", - "timing" + "planning", + "scheduling", + "understanding", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - 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"min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_076", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one painful argument we need to understand instead of repeat?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would help phone distractions feel easier to bring up?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "painful_arguments", - "patterns" + "phones", + "attention", + "ease", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_077", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What did that argument reveal about what you need from me?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What should we avoid doing when phone distractions is the issue?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "needs", - "reflection" + "phones", + "attention", + "boundaries", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_078", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What did that argument reveal about what I may need from you?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What do you wish I understood about phone distractions?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "needs", - "reflection" + "phones", + "attention", + "understanding", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_079", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing I do that feels like criticism even if I mean it as a concern?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What small change would help us handle phone distractions better next time?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "criticism", - "intent" + "phones", + "attention", + "small_changes", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_080", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you do that might land as criticism even if you mean it as honesty?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps you stay kind when phone distractions comes up?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "criticism", - "ownership" + "phones", + "attention", + "kindness", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_081", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way contempt can sneak into our tone or words?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How can we talk about feeling interrupted without turning it into a fight?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "contempt", - "awareness" + "interruptions", + "listening", + "communication", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - 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"text": "What is one way we can disagree without threatening the relationship?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What should we avoid doing when different social needs is the issue?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "security", - "disagreement" + "social", + "differences", + "boundaries", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_106", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What words or actions make conflict feel like abandonment to you?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What do you wish I understood about different social needs?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "abandonment", - "security" + "social", + "differences", + "understanding", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_107", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What words or actions make conflict feel like rejection to you?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What small change would help us handle different social needs better next time?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "rejection", - "security" + "social", + "differences", + "small_changes", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_108", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What reassurance helps you stay present during conflict?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps you stay kind when different social needs comes up?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "reassurance", - "presence" + "social", + "differences", + "kindness", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_109", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What reassurance feels unconvincing during conflict?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How can we talk about old arguments without turning it into a fight?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "reassurance", - "trust" + "past", + "patterns", + "communication", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_110", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we should do if a conversation becomes too intense?", + "text": "What usually makes old arguments feel bigger than it is?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "intensity", - "safety" + "past", + "patterns", + "escalation", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_111", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we should never do when one of us asks for a pause?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would help old arguments feel easier to bring up?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pause", - "boundaries" + "past", + "patterns", + "ease", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_112", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a pause feel respectful instead of avoidant?", + "text": "What should we avoid doing when old arguments is the issue?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pause", - "respect" + "past", + "patterns", + "boundaries", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_113", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What should the person who calls a pause be responsible for?", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about old arguments?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pause", - "responsibility" + "past", + "patterns", + "understanding", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_114", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What should the other person be responsible for during the pause?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What small change would help us handle old arguments better next time?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pause", - "responsibility" + "past", + "patterns", + "small_changes", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_115", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one repair attempt from me that you want to notice more?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps you stay kind when old arguments comes up?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair_attempts", - "noticing" + "past", + "patterns", + "kindness", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_116", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one repair attempt from you that I may miss?", + "text": "How can we talk about parenting or family decisions without turning it into a fight?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair_attempts", - "noticing" + "family", + "decisions", + "communication", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_117", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What gets in the way of accepting repair when it is offered?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What usually makes parenting or family decisions feel bigger than it is?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "barriers" + "family", + "decisions", + "escalation", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_118", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you soften after feeling hurt?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would help parenting or family decisions feel easier to bring up?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "softening", - "hurt" + "family", + "decisions", + "ease", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_119", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps me soften after feeling hurt?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What should we avoid doing when parenting or family decisions is the issue?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "softening", - "reflection" + "family", + "decisions", + "boundaries", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_120", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one area where resentment could grow if we stay quiet?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What do you wish I understood about parenting or family decisions?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "resentment", - "prevention" + "family", + "decisions", + "understanding", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_121", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What conversation would help prevent that resentment?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What small change would help us handle parenting or family decisions better next time?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "resentment", - "conversation" + "family", + "decisions", + "small_changes", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_122", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one compromise that would feel fair instead of forced?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps you stay kind when parenting or family decisions comes up?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "compromise", - "fairness" + "family", + "decisions", + "kindness", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_123", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one compromise that would feel like self-abandonment?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How can we talk about household routines without turning it into a fight?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "compromise", - "boundaries" + "routines", + "home", + "communication", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_124", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary that protects love during conflict?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What usually makes household routines feel bigger than it is?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "love" + "routines", + "home", + "escalation", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_125", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary that could become avoidance if we misuse it?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would help household routines feel easier to bring up?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "avoidance" + "routines", + "home", + "ease", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_126", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "How can we tell the difference between a boundary and a wall?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What should we avoid doing when household routines is the issue?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "routines", + "home", "boundaries", - "walls" + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_127", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one topic where we need outside support someday, not because we failed but because it matters?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What do you wish I understood about household routines?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "support", - "humility" + "routines", + "home", + "understanding", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_128", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one conflict goal for the next month?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What small change would help us handle household routines better next time?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "goals", - "growth" + "routines", + "home", + "small_changes", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_129", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What progress would tell us we are arguing in healthier ways?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps you stay kind when household routines comes up?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "progress", - "growth" + "routines", + "home", + "kindness", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_130", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing I can practice during our next disagreement?", + "text": "How can we talk about work stress without turning it into a fight?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "practice", - "growth" + "work", + "stress", + "communication", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_131", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you can practice during our next disagreement?", + "text": "What usually makes work stress feel bigger than it is?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "practice", - "ownership" + "work", + "stress", + "escalation", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_132", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we celebrate when we handle a conflict well?", + "text": "What would help work stress feel easier to bring up?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "celebration", - "growth" + "work", + "stress", + "ease", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_133", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one conflict where we need to replace blame with responsibility?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What should we avoid doing when work stress is the issue?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "blame", - "responsibility" + "work", + "stress", + "boundaries", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_134", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What part of that responsibility belongs to me?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What do you wish I understood about work stress?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "responsibility", - "reflection" + "work", + "stress", + "understanding", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_135", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What part of that responsibility belongs to you?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What small change would help us handle work stress better next time?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "responsibility", - "ownership" + "work", + "stress", + "small_changes", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_136", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one conflict where we need clearer expectations?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps you stay kind when work stress comes up?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "expectations", - "clarity" + "work", + "stress", + "kindness", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_137", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What expectation should we state plainly instead of assuming?", + "text": "How can we talk about affection when stressed without turning it into a fight?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "expectations", - "clarity" + "affection", + "stress", + "communication", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_138", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one conflict where timing keeps making things worse?", + "text": "What usually makes affection when stressed feel bigger than it is?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "timing", - "patterns" + "affection", + "stress", + "escalation", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_139", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What timing agreement would help us there?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would help affection when stressed feel easier to bring up?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "timing", - "agreement" + "affection", + "stress", + "ease", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_140", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one conflict where tone keeps making things worse?", + "text": "What should we avoid doing when affection when stressed is the issue?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "tone", - "patterns" + "affection", + "stress", + "boundaries", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_141", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What tone agreement would help us there?", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about affection when stressed?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "tone", - "agreement" + "affection", + "stress", + "understanding", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_142", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one conflict where old hurt keeps entering the room?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What small change would help us handle affection when stressed better next time?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "old_hurt", - "patterns" + "affection", + "stress", + "small_changes", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_143", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "How can we respect that old hurt without letting it run the whole conversation?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps you stay kind when affection when stressed comes up?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "old_hurt", - "repair" + "affection", + "stress", + "kindness", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_144", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - 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"promise", + "appreciation", + "needs", + "understanding", "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_149", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of partners do we want to become when we disagree?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What small change would help us handle feeling unappreciated better next time?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "identity", - "future" + "appreciation", + "needs", + "small_changes", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "conflict_150", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we can protect respect even when we strongly disagree?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps you stay kind when feeling unappreciated comes up?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "respect", - 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"text": "What usually escalates conflict fastest for you?", + "text": "What escalates conflict fastest for you?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ "escalation", - "triggers" + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "feeling_blamed", - "text": "Feeling blamed" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_ignored", - "text": "Feeling ignored" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_rushed", - "text": "Feeling rushed" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_misunderstood", - "text": "Feeling misunderstood" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tone", + "text": "Tone" + }, + { + "id": "interrupting", + "text": "Interrupting" + }, + { + "id": "sarcasm", + "text": "Sarcasm" + }, + { + "id": "old_topics", + "text": "Old topics" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_153", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you hear feedback best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps you feel heard in the moment?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feedback", - "openness" + "listening", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_examples", - "text": "Specific examples" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_tone", - "text": "Gentle tone" - }, - { - "id": "time_to_think", - "text": "Time to think" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance_first", - "text": "Reassurance first" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "repeat_back", + "text": "Repeat back" + }, + { + "id": "ask_questions", + "text": "Ask questions" + }, + { + "id": "no_interrupting", + "text": "No interrupting" + }, + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_154", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes an apology feel most sincere?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps you hear me better?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "apology", - "repair" + "listening", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_ownership", - "text": "Clear ownership" - }, - { - "id": "changed_behavior", - "text": "Changed behavior" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_warmth", - "text": "Emotional warmth" - }, - { - "id": "no_excuses", - "text": "No excuses" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_tone", + "text": "Soft tone" + }, + { + "id": "shorter_words", + "text": "Shorter words" + }, + { + "id": "one_topic", + "text": "One topic" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_155", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you need after an argument?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "When should we pause a hard talk?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "after_conflict", - "needs" + "pause", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - }, - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "a_plan", - "text": "A plan" - }, - { - "id": "a_normal_moment_together", - "text": "A normal moment together" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "voices_rise", + "text": "Voices rise" + }, + { + "id": "we_repeat", + "text": "We repeat ourselves" + }, + { + "id": "someone_shuts_down", + "text": "Someone shuts down" + }, + { + "id": "we_get_mean", + "text": "We get mean" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_156", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is hardest during conflict?", + "text": "What topic needs better timing?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "difficulty", + "timing", "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "staying_calm", - "text": "Staying calm" - }, - { - "id": "being_honest", - "text": "Being honest" - }, - { - "id": "not_shutting_down", - "text": "Not shutting down" - }, - { - "id": "not_getting_defensive", - "text": "Not getting defensive" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "money", + "text": "Money" + }, + { + "id": "family", + "text": "Family" + }, + { + "id": "chores", + "text": "Chores" + }, + { + "id": "future_plans", + "text": "Future plans" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_157", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is your default conflict response?", + "text": "What helps frustration come out softer?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "style", + "frustration", "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_more", - "text": "Talk more" - }, - { - "id": "go_quiet", - "text": "Go quiet" - }, - { - "id": "defend_myself", - "text": "Defend myself" - }, - { - "id": "try_to_fix_it_fast", - "text": "Try to fix it fast" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_feeling", + "text": "Name the feeling" + }, + { + "id": "ask_request", + "text": "Make a request" + }, + { + "id": "pause_first", + "text": "Pause first" + }, + { + "id": "use_i_feel", + "text": "Use I feel" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_158", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you come back after taking space?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes you feel attacked?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "pause", - "return" + "defensiveness", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_specific_time", - "text": "A specific time" - }, - { - "id": "a_gentle_message", - "text": "A gentle message" - }, - { - "id": "a_calm_tone", - "text": "A calm tone" - }, - { - "id": "a_clear_apology", - "text": "A clear apology" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "blame", + "text": "Blame" + }, + { + "id": "labels", + "text": "Labels" + }, + { + "id": "loud_voice", + "text": "Loud voice" + }, + { + "id": "mind_reading", + "text": "Mind-reading" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_159", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What type of repair works best for you?", + "text": "What helps us stay on the same team?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", - "style" + "teamwork", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "words", - "text": "Words" - }, - { - "id": "actions", - "text": "Actions" - }, - { - "id": "physical_closeness", - "text": "Physical closeness" - }, - { - "id": "giving_it_time", - "text": "Giving it time" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "use_we", + "text": "Use we" + }, + { + "id": "drop_winning", + "text": "Drop winning" + }, + { + "id": "remember_goal", + "text": "Remember the goal" + }, + { + "id": "soften_tone", + "text": "Soften tone" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_160", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we prioritize in conflict?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What should we avoid to fight fair?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "priorities", + "fair_fighting", "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "understanding", - "text": "Understanding" - }, - { - "id": "solving", - "text": "Solving" - }, - { - "id": "calming_down", - "text": "Calming down" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_close_again", - "text": "Feeling close again" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_calling", + "text": "Name-calling" + }, + { + "id": "threats", + "text": "Threats" + }, + { + "id": "past_pile_on", + "text": "Past pile-on" + }, + { + "id": "silent_treatment", + "text": "Silent treatment" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_161", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we avoid most during conflict?", + "text": "What kind of reminder helps during conflict?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "avoidance", - "boundaries" + "reminders", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_calling", - "text": "Name-calling" - }, - { - "id": "old_arguments", - "text": "Old arguments" - }, - { - "id": "threats", - "text": "Threats" - }, - { - "id": "silent_punishment", - "text": "Silent punishment" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gentle", + "text": "Gentle" + }, + { + "id": "direct", + "text": "Direct" + }, + { + "id": "short", + "text": "Short" + }, + { + "id": "private_signal", + "text": "Private signal" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_162", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you lower your guard?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What usually hides underneath your anger?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "defensiveness", - "safety" + "anger", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "kind_tone", - "text": "Kind tone" - }, - { - "id": "owning_one_part", - "text": "Owning one part" - }, - { - "id": "no_interruptions", - "text": "No interruptions" - }, - { - "id": "a_slower_pace", - "text": "A slower pace" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hurt", + "text": "Hurt" + }, + { + "id": "fear", + "text": "Fear" + }, + { + "id": "stress", + "text": "Stress" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_unheard", + "text": "Feeling unheard" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_163", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel attacked?", + "text": "What helps when one of us shuts down?", "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "attack", - "triggers" + "shutdown", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "labels", - "text": "Labels" - }, - { - "id": "raised_voice", - "text": "Raised voice" - }, - { - "id": "assumptions", - "text": "Assumptions" - }, - { - "id": "being_interrupted", - "text": "Being interrupted" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "space", + "text": "Space" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_check", + "text": "Gentle check-in" + }, + { + "id": "less_pressure", + "text": "Less pressure" + }, + { + "id": "return_time", + "text": "Return time" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_164", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel respected during disagreement?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps when one of us pushes too hard?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "respect", - "disagreement" + "pressure", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "being_heard", - "text": "Being heard" - }, - { - "id": "being_asked", - "text": "Being asked" - }, - { - "id": "being_given_time", - "text": "Being given time" - }, - { - "id": "being_taken_seriously", - "text": "Being taken seriously" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "soften_words", + "text": "Soften words" + }, + { + "id": "name_it", + "text": "Name it kindly" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_165", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is most useful when we are stuck?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes conflict less scary?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "stuck", - "solutions" + "safety", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "take_a_break", - "text": "Take a break" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_real_issue", - "text": "Name the real issue" - }, - { - "id": "ask_what_each_person_needs", - "text": "Ask what each person needs" - }, - { - "id": "pick_one_next_step", - "text": "Pick one next step" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kind_tone", + "text": "Kind tone" + }, + { + "id": "clear_pause", + "text": "Clear pause" + }, + { + "id": "no_threats", + "text": "No threats" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_166", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is your biggest conflict growth area right now?", + "text": "Which conflict pattern should we notice earlier?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "growth", - "self_awareness" + "patterns", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "tone", - "text": "Tone" - }, - { - "id": "timing", - "text": "Timing" - }, - { - "id": "listening", - "text": "Listening" - }, - { - "id": "accountability", - "text": "Accountability" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "shut_down", + "text": "Shut down" + }, + { + "id": "push_harder", + "text": "Push harder" + }, + { + "id": "get_loud", + "text": "Get loud" + }, + { + "id": "bring_up_past", + "text": "Bring up the past" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_167", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of disagreement feels easiest to handle?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes defensiveness worse?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "ease", + "defensiveness", "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "logistics", - "text": "Logistics" - }, - { - "id": "plans", - "text": "Plans" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "feelings", - "text": "Feelings" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "blame", + "text": "Blame" + }, + { + "id": "shame", + "text": "Shame" + }, + { + "id": "bad_timing", + "text": "Bad timing" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_unheard", + "text": "Feeling unheard" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_168", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of disagreement feels hardest to handle?", + "text": "What helps defensiveness soften?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hard_topics", + "defensiveness", "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "logistics", - "text": "Logistics" - }, - { - "id": "plans", - "text": "Plans" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "feelings", - "text": "Feelings" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "kind_tone", + "text": "Kind tone" + }, + { + "id": "space", + "text": "Space" + }, + { + "id": "owning_a_part", + "text": "Owning a part" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_169", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we do when we both feel right?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes a complaint easier to hear?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "perspective", - "humility" + "complaints", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "list_both_needs", - "text": "List both needs" - }, - { - "id": "find_shared_goal", - "text": "Find shared goal" - }, - { - "id": "pause_and_return", - "text": "Pause and return" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific", + "text": "Specific" + }, + { + "id": "kind_tone", + "text": "Kind tone" + }, + { + "id": "one_topic", + "text": "One topic" + }, + { + "id": "clear_request", + "text": "Clear request" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_170", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you accept influence?", + "text": "What makes a request easier to answer?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "influence", - "openness" + "requests", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "feeling_respected", - "text": "Feeling respected" - }, - { - "id": "seeing_logic", - "text": "Seeing logic" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_loved", - "text": "Feeling loved" - }, - { - "id": "having_time", - "text": "Having time" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear", + "text": "Clear" + }, + { + "id": "realistic", + "text": "Realistic" + }, + { + "id": "kind", + "text": "Kind" + }, + { + "id": "timed_well", + "text": "Timed well" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_171", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What most often hides under your anger?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps when we both feel right?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "anger", - "emotion" + "perspective", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hurt", - "text": "Hurt" - }, - { - "id": "fear", - "text": "Fear" - }, - { - "id": "stress", - "text": "Stress" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_unseen", - "text": "Feeling unseen" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_both_truths", + "text": "Name both truths" + }, + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "stay_curious", + "text": "Stay curious" + }, + { + "id": "drop_winning", + "text": "Drop winning" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_172", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What most often hides under my anger?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What should we do when the conversation starts looping?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "anger", - "reflection" + "looping", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hurt", - "text": "Hurt" - }, - { - "id": "fear", - "text": "Fear" - }, - { - "id": "stress", - "text": "Stress" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_unseen", - "text": "Feeling unseen" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "summarize", + "text": "Summarize" + }, + { + "id": "one_next_step", + "text": "One next step" + }, + { + "id": "return_later", + "text": "Return later" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_173", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a pause feel safe?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps with old arguments coming back?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pause", - "safety" + "past", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_return_time", - "text": "A return time" - }, - { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" - }, - { - "id": "a_hug_first", - "text": "A hug first" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_we_will_finish", - "text": "Knowing we will finish" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_pattern", + "text": "Name pattern" + }, + { + "id": "stay_current", + "text": "Stay current" + }, + { + "id": "separate_topic", + "text": "Separate topic" + }, + { + "id": "repair_later", + "text": "Repair later" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_174", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a pause feel unsafe?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What kind of boundary helps conflict stay respectful?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pause", - "fear" + "boundaries", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_return_time", - "text": "No return time" - }, - { - "id": "cold_silence", - "text": "Cold silence" - }, - { - "id": "leaving_suddenly", - "text": "Leaving suddenly" - }, - { - "id": "ignoring_messages", - "text": "Ignoring messages" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_name_calling", + "text": "No name-calling" + }, + { + "id": "no_threats", + "text": "No threats" + }, + { + "id": "pause_allowed", + "text": "Pause allowed" + }, + { + "id": "one_topic", + "text": "One topic" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_175", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is the best place for a serious talk?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps if one of us feels dismissed?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "setting", + "dismissal", "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "at_home", - "text": "At home" - }, - { - "id": "on_a_walk", - "text": "On a walk" - }, - { - "id": "in_the_car_parked", - "text": "In the car parked" - }, - { - "id": "somewhere_neutral", - "text": "Somewhere neutral" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "repeat_back", + "text": "Repeat back" + }, + { + "id": "ask_more", + "text": "Ask more" + }, + { + "id": "apologize", + "text": "Apologize" + }, + { + "id": "stay_present", + "text": "Stay present" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_176", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is the worst time for a serious talk?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps if one of us feels criticized?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "timing", + "criticism", "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "late_at_night", - "text": "Late at night" - }, - { - "id": "before_work", - "text": "Before work" - }, - { - "id": "when_hungry", - "text": "When hungry" - }, - { - "id": "right_after_stress", - "text": "Right after stress" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific_request", + "text": "Specific request" + }, + { + "id": "soft_start", + "text": "Soft start" + }, + { + "id": "no_labels", + "text": "No labels" + }, + { + "id": "praise_too", + "text": "Praise too" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_177", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you stay on one topic?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps if one of us feels controlled?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "focus", + "control", "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "writing_it_down", - "text": "Writing it down" - }, - { - "id": "taking_turns", - "text": "Taking turns" - }, - { - "id": "a_time_limit", - "text": "A time limit" - }, - { - "id": "repeating_the_question", - "text": "Repeating the question" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "choice", + "text": "Choice" + }, + { + "id": "ask_not_order", + "text": "Ask, not order" + }, + { + "id": "space", + "text": "Space" + }, + { + "id": "respect_no", + "text": "Respect no" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_178", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What pulls us off topic fastest?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps if one of us feels ignored?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "focus", - "patterns" + "attention", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "old_issues", - "text": "Old issues" - }, - { - "id": "defending_details", - "text": "Defending details" - }, - { - "id": "tone_arguments", - "text": "Tone arguments" - }, - { - "id": "assumptions", - "text": "Assumptions" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "focused_time", + "text": "Focused time" + }, + { + "id": "repeat_back", + "text": "Repeat back" + }, + { + "id": "put_phone_down", + "text": "Put phone down" + }, + { + "id": "schedule_time", + "text": "Schedule time" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_179", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What feels like real accountability?", + "text": "What helps if one of us gets sarcastic?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "accountability", - "repair" + "sarcasm", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "naming_the_harm", - "text": "Naming the harm" - }, - { - "id": "no_excuses", - "text": "No excuses" - }, - { - "id": "changed_behavior", - "text": "Changed behavior" - }, - { - "id": "checking_back_later", - "text": "Checking back later" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_it", + "text": "Name it" + }, + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "soften", + "text": "Soften" + }, + { + "id": "try_again", + "text": "Try again" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_180", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What feels like fake accountability?", + "text": "What helps when conflict happens in public?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "accountability", - "avoidance" + "public", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "quick_sorry", - "text": "Quick sorry" - }, - { - "id": "blaming_stress", - "text": "Blaming stress" - }, - { - "id": "changing_subject", - "text": "Changing subject" - }, - { - "id": "acting_annoyed", - "text": "Acting annoyed" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "pause_it", + "text": "Pause it" + }, + { + "id": "keep_private", + "text": "Keep private" + }, + { + "id": "leave_kindly", + "text": "Leave kindly" + }, + { + "id": "small_signal", + "text": "Small signal" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_181", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you believe repair is possible?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps when conflict happens before bed?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "hope" + "bedtime", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "softness", - "text": "Softness" - }, - { - "id": "humor", - "text": "Humor" - }, - { - "id": "a_clear_plan", - "text": "A clear plan" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "short_check", + "text": "Short check-in" + }, + { + "id": "pause_kindly", + "text": "Pause kindly" + }, + { + "id": "soft_words", + "text": "Soft words" + }, + { + "id": "return_tomorrow", + "text": "Return tomorrow" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_182", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What usually blocks repair?", + "text": "What helps when conflict happens by text?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "barriers" + "texting", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pride", - "text": "Pride" - }, - { - "id": "exhaustion", - "text": "Exhaustion" - }, - { - "id": "fear", - "text": "Fear" - }, - { - "id": "still_feeling_unheard", - "text": "Still feeling unheard" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "call_instead", + "text": "Call instead" + }, + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "no_paragraphs", + "text": "No paragraphs" + }, + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_183", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we do when one person cries?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps us not weaponize silence?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emotion", - "care" + "silence", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause_and_comfort", - "text": "Pause and comfort" - }, - { - "id": "keep_talking_gently", - "text": "Keep talking gently" - }, - { - "id": "ask_what_is_needed", - "text": "Ask what is needed" - }, - { - "id": "give_space", - "text": "Give space" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_pause", + "text": "Clear pause" + }, + { + "id": "return_time", + "text": "Return time" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_184", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we do when one person raises their voice?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps us not weaponize words?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "tone", - "safety" + "words", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "lower_voices", - "text": "Lower voices" - }, - { - "id": "name_it_calmly", - "text": "Name it calmly" - }, - { - "id": "take_space", - "text": "Take space" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "no_labels", + "text": "No labels" + }, + { + "id": "kind_tone", + "text": "Kind tone" + }, + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_185", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we do when one person shuts down?", + "text": "What makes a hard truth easier to receive?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "shutdown", - "repair" + "honesty", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "reassure", - "text": "Reassure" - }, - { - "id": "ask_one_simple_question", - "text": "Ask one simple question" - }, - { - "id": "return_later", - "text": "Return later" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "love_first", + "text": "Love first" + }, + { + "id": "soft_tone", + "text": "Soft tone" + }, + { + "id": "specific", + "text": "Specific" + }, + { + "id": "private", + "text": "Private" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_186", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we do when one person gets defensive?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps when the issue is really stress?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "defensiveness", - "repair" + "stress", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "own_one_part", - "text": "Own one part" - }, - { - "id": "restate_the_concern", - "text": "Restate the concern" - }, - { - "id": "ask_what_felt_unfair", - "text": "Ask what felt unfair" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_stress", + "text": "Name stress" + }, + { + "id": "reduce_load", + "text": "Reduce load" + }, + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_187", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes conflict feel like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps when the issue is really fear?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "teamwork", + "fear", "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_goal", - "text": "Shared goal" - }, - { - "id": "kind_tone", - "text": "Kind tone" - }, - { - "id": "both_own_a_part", - "text": "Both own a part" - }, - { - "id": "clear_next_step", - "text": "Clear next step" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "ask_gently", + "text": "Ask gently" + }, + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "stay_close", + "text": "Stay close" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_188", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes conflict feel like a battle?", + "text": "What helps when the issue is really feeling unseen?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "battle", + "unseen", "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "winning_language", - "text": "Winning language" - }, - { - "id": "threats", - "text": "Threats" - }, - { - "id": "scorekeeping", - "text": "Scorekeeping" - }, - { - "id": "mocking", - "text": "Mocking" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "attention", + "text": "Attention" + }, + { + "id": "specific_words", + "text": "Specific words" + }, + { + "id": "listening", + "text": "Listening" + }, + { + "id": "time", + "text": "Time" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_189", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us end a conflict well?", + "text": "What helps when neither of us has much patience?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "closure", - "repair" + "patience", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_summary", - "text": "A summary" - }, - { - "id": "an_apology", - "text": "An apology" - }, - { - "id": "a_hug", - "text": "A hug" - }, - { - "id": "a_next_step", - "text": "A next step" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "lower_expectations", + "text": "Lower expectations" + }, + { + "id": "handle_later", + "text": "Handle later" + }, + { + "id": "be_kind", + "text": "Be kind" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_190", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should happen after a big conflict?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make our next disagreement healthier?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "aftercare", + "future", "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "check_in_later", - "text": "Check in later" - }, - { - "id": "do_something_normal", - "text": "Do something normal" - }, - { - "id": "revisit_the_agreement", - "text": "Revisit the agreement" - }, - { - "id": "give_extra_kindness", - "text": "Give extra kindness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "pause_earlier", + "text": "Pause earlier" + }, + { + "id": "listen_longer", + "text": "Listen longer" + }, + { + "id": "one_topic", + "text": "One topic" + }, + { + "id": "softer_start", + "text": "Softer start" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_191", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things help calm conflict? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps us stay respectful during conflict?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "calm", - "tools" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "lower_voices", - "text": "Lower voices" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_pause", - "text": "Take a pause" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_real_issue", - "text": "Name the real issue" - }, - { - "id": "use_kind_words", - "text": "Use kind words" - }, - { - "id": "drink_water", - "text": "Drink water" - } + "respect", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_tone", + "text": "Soft tone" + }, + { + "id": "no_interrupting", + "text": "No interrupting" + }, + { + "id": "one_topic", + "text": "One topic" + }, + { + "id": "pause_allowed", + "text": "Pause allowed" + }, + { + "id": "no_name_calling", + "text": "No name-calling" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_192", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which behaviors make conflict worse? Select all that apply.", + "text": "What tends to escalate conflict for us?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ "escalation", - "behaviors" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "interrupting", - "text": "Interrupting" - }, - { - "id": "blaming", - "text": "Blaming" - }, - { - "id": "bringing_up_old_issues", - "text": "Bringing up old issues" - }, - { - "id": "sarcasm", - "text": "Sarcasm" - }, - { - "id": "walking_away_without_return_time", - "text": "Walking away without return time" - } + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tone", + "text": "Tone" + }, + { + "id": "timing", + "text": "Timing" + }, + { + "id": "phones", + "text": "Phones" + }, + { + "id": "old_topics", + "text": "Old topics" + }, + { + "id": "interrupting", + "text": "Interrupting" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_193", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which repair actions matter most to you? Select up to three.", + "text": "What helps a hard talk go better?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", - "actions" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_apology", - "text": "Clear apology" - }, - { - "id": "changed_behavior", - "text": "Changed behavior" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "physical_affection", - "text": "Physical affection" - }, - { - "id": "following_up_later", - "text": "Following up later" - } + "communication", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "soft_start", + "text": "Soft start" + }, + { + "id": "clear_request", + "text": "Clear request" + }, + { + "id": "breaks_allowed", + "text": "Breaks allowed" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3892,150 +3921,150 @@ "id": "conflict_194", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs show you are getting overwhelmed? Select all that apply.", + "text": "What helps you feel heard?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "flooding", - "signals" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "going_quiet", - "text": "Going quiet" - }, - { - "id": "talking_faster", - "text": "Talking faster" - }, - { - "id": "tearing_up", - "text": "Tearing up" - }, - { - "id": "wanting_to_leave", - "text": "Wanting to leave" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_numb", - "text": "Feeling numb" - } + "listening", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "repeat_back", + "text": "Repeat back" + }, + { + "id": "ask_questions", + "text": "Ask questions" + }, + { + "id": "no_fixing_yet", + "text": "No fixing yet" + }, + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_195", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs show I may be getting overwhelmed? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What should we avoid when upset?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "flooding", - "reflection" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "going_quiet", - "text": "Going quiet" - }, - { - "id": "talking_faster", - "text": "Talking faster" - }, - { - "id": "repeating_myself", - "text": "Repeating myself" - }, - { - "id": "getting_sharp", - "text": "Getting sharp" - }, - { - "id": "looking_away", - "text": "Looking away" - } + "boundaries", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sarcasm", + "text": "Sarcasm" + }, + { + "id": "threats", + "text": "Threats" + }, + { + "id": "name_calling", + "text": "Name-calling" + }, + { + "id": "past_pile_on", + "text": "Past pile-on" + }, + { + "id": "silent_treatment", + "text": "Silent treatment" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_196", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which topics need gentler timing? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps when defensiveness shows up?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "timing", - "topics" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "intimacy", - "text": "Intimacy" - }, - { - "id": "plans", - "text": "Plans" - }, - { - "id": "household_work", - "text": "Household work" - } + "defensiveness", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "soften_tone", + "text": "Soften tone" + }, + { + "id": "ask_question", + "text": "Ask a question" + }, + { + "id": "own_part", + "text": "Own a part" + }, + { + "id": "take_break", + "text": "Take a break" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_197", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which rules should we use for hard talks? Select up to three.", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps us respond well when one of us shuts down?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "rules", + "shutdown", "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_name_calling", - "text": "No name-calling" - }, - { - "id": "one_topic_at_a_time", - "text": "One topic at a time" - }, - { - "id": "pause_when_flooded", - "text": "Pause when flooded" - }, - { - "id": "no_threats", - "text": "No threats" - }, - { - "id": "return_after_a_break", - "text": "Return after a break" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "space", + "text": "Space" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_check", + "text": "Gentle check-in" + }, + { + "id": "less_pressure", + "text": "Less pressure" + }, + { + "id": "return_time", + "text": "Return time" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4044,150 +4073,150 @@ "id": "conflict_198", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things help you receive feedback? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps us slow things down when one of us pushes too hard?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feedback", - "openness" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_examples", - "text": "Specific examples" - }, - { - "id": "kind_tone", - "text": "Kind tone" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "time_to_process", - "text": "Time to process" - }, - { - "id": "a_clear_request", - "text": "A clear request" - } + "pressure", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_it", + "text": "Name it" + }, + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "take_break", + "text": "Take a break" + }, + { + "id": "soften_words", + "text": "Soften words" + }, + { + "id": "remember_team", + "text": "Remember team" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_199", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things make feedback hard to hear? Select all that apply.", + "text": "What makes feedback easier to receive?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feedback", - "barriers" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "harsh_tone", - "text": "Harsh tone" - }, - { - "id": "public_setting", - "text": "Public setting" - }, - { - "id": "old_examples", - "text": "Old examples" - }, - { - "id": "labels", - "text": "Labels" - }, - { - "id": "no_appreciation", - "text": "No appreciation" - } + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific", + "text": "Specific" + }, + { + "id": "gentle", + "text": "Gentle" + }, + { + "id": "one_thing", + "text": "One thing" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "praise_too", + "text": "Praise too" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_200", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which feelings often show up under conflict? Select all that apply.", + "text": "What helps us talk about money conflict?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feelings", - "underneath" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hurt", - "text": "Hurt" - }, - { - "id": "fear", - "text": "Fear" - }, - { - "id": "loneliness", - "text": "Loneliness" - }, - { - "id": "stress", - "text": "Stress" - }, - { - "id": "shame", - "text": "Shame" - } + "money", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "facts_first", + "text": "Facts first" + }, + { + "id": "no_blame", + "text": "No blame" + }, + { + "id": "short_check_in", + "text": "Short check-in" + }, + { + "id": "shared_goal", + "text": "Shared goal" + }, + { + "id": "pause_if_heated", + "text": "Pause if heated" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_201", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which needs are often underneath our conflicts? Select up to three.", + "text": "What helps us talk about family conflict?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "needs", + "family", "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "security", - "text": "Security" - }, - { - "id": "help", - "text": "Help" - }, - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - }, - { - "id": "appreciation", - "text": "Appreciation" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "protect_us", + "text": "Protect us" + }, + { + "id": "listen_first", + "text": "Listen first" + }, + { + "id": "private_talk", + "text": "Private talk" + }, + { + "id": "no_sides", + "text": "No taking sides" + }, + { + "id": "clear_boundary", + "text": "Clear boundary" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4196,36 +4225,36 @@ "id": "conflict_202", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which conflict habits should we practice? Select up to three.", + "text": "What helps us talk about chores conflict?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "practice", - "growth" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_start", - "text": "Soft start" - }, - { - "id": "reflect_back", - "text": "Reflect back" - }, - { - "id": "ask_for_needs", - "text": "Ask for needs" - }, - { - "id": "take_pauses", - "text": "Take pauses" - }, - { - "id": "repair_quickly", - "text": "Repair quickly" - } + "chores", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific_task", + "text": "Specific task" + }, + { + "id": "fair_plan", + "text": "Fair plan" + }, + { + "id": "no_scorekeeping", + "text": "No scorekeeping" + }, + { + "id": "weekly_reset", + "text": "Weekly reset" + }, + { + "id": "appreciation", + "text": "Appreciation" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4234,36 +4263,36 @@ "id": "conflict_203", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which conflict habits should we reduce? Select up to three.", + "text": "What helps us handle conflict by text?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "patterns", - "growth" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "interrupting", - "text": "Interrupting" - }, - { - "id": "defending", - "text": "Defending" - }, - { - "id": "shutting_down", - "text": "Shutting down" - }, - { - "id": "scorekeeping", - "text": "Scorekeeping" - }, - { - "id": "assuming_motives", - "text": "Assuming motives" - } + "texting", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "short_messages", + "text": "Short messages" + }, + { + "id": "no_assumptions", + "text": "No assumptions" + }, + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "call_instead", + "text": "Call instead" + }, + { + "id": "kind_words", + "text": "Kind words" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4272,150 +4301,150 @@ "id": "conflict_204", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which forms of aftercare help after conflict? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps us stay focused on one issue?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "repair" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "check_in_message", - "text": "Check-in message" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_time_together", - "text": "Quiet time together" - }, - { - "id": "hug", - "text": "Hug" - }, - { - "id": "plan_change", - "text": "Plan change" - }, - { - "id": "kind_routine", - "text": "Kind routine" - } + "focus", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_topic", + "text": "Name topic" + }, + { + "id": "write_other_later", + "text": "Save other topics" + }, + { + "id": "pause_pile_on", + "text": "Pause pile-on" + }, + { + "id": "repeat_goal", + "text": "Repeat goal" + }, + { + "id": "ask_next_step", + "text": "Ask next step" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_205", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which words should we use more during conflict? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps us stay close after disagreeing?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "language", - "repair" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_feel", - "text": "I feel" - }, - { - "id": "i_need", - "text": "I need" - }, - { - "id": "help_me_understand", - "text": "Help me understand" - }, - { - "id": "i_hear_you", - "text": "I hear you" - }, - { - "id": "can_we_pause", - "text": "Can we pause" - } + "closeness", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "kind_touch", + "text": "Kind touch" + }, + { + "id": "small_repair", + "text": "Small repair" + }, + { + "id": "shared_goal", + "text": "Shared goal" + }, + { + "id": "respect", + "text": "Respect" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_206", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which words should we avoid during conflict? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps us not make conflict personal?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "language", - "harm" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "always", - "text": "Always" - }, - { - "id": "never", - "text": "Never" - }, - { - "id": "whatever", - "text": "Whatever" - }, - { - "id": "you_are_just_like", - "text": "You are just like" - }, - { - "id": "i_do_not_care", - "text": "I do not care" - } + "personalization", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "avoid_labels", + "text": "Avoid labels" + }, + { + "id": "focus_action", + "text": "Focus on action" + }, + { + "id": "assume_good", + "text": "Assume good intent" + }, + { + "id": "soft_tone", + "text": "Soft tone" + }, + { + "id": "own_part", + "text": "Own part" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_207", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things help us stay on the same team? Select up to three.", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps when we see the same situation differently?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "connection" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_goal", - "text": "Shared goal" - }, - { - "id": "kind_tone", - "text": "Kind tone" - }, - { - "id": "taking_turns", - "text": "Taking turns" - }, - { - "id": "owning_impact", - "text": "Owning impact" - }, - { - "id": "ending_with_a_next_step", - "text": "Ending with a next step" - } + "perspective", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_both_views", + "text": "Name both views" + }, + { + "id": "ask_more", + "text": "Ask more" + }, + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "drop_winning", + "text": "Drop winning" + }, + { + "id": "look_for_overlap", + "text": "Look for overlap" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4424,112 +4453,112 @@ "id": "conflict_208", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things make you feel unsafe in conflict? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps us talk before resentment builds?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "safety", + "resentment", "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "yelling", - "text": "Yelling" - }, - { - "id": "mocking", - "text": "Mocking" - }, - { - "id": "threats", - "text": "Threats" - }, - { - "id": "cold_silence", - "text": "Cold silence" - }, - { - "id": "private_information_used_against_me", - "text": "Private information used against me" - } - ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "earlier_check_in", + "text": "Earlier check-in" + }, + { + "id": "small_request", + "text": "Small request" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "no_punishing", + "text": "No punishing" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_209", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which repair attempts are easy to miss? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes conflict feel safer?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair_attempts", - "noticing" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_softer_tone", - "text": "A softer tone" - }, - { - "id": "a_joke", - "text": "A joke" - }, - { - "id": "a_small_touch", - "text": "A small touch" - }, - { - "id": "a_question", - "text": "A question" - }, - { - "id": "doing_a_helpful_task", - "text": "Doing a helpful task" - } + "safety", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_threats", + "text": "No threats" + }, + { + "id": "clear_pauses", + "text": "Clear pauses" + }, + { + "id": "kind_tone", + "text": "Kind tone" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "follow_through", + "text": "Follow-through" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_210", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which outcomes would make conflict feel productive? Select up to three.", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps us make progress during hard talks?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "outcomes", - "productive_conflict" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "feeling_heard", - "text": "Feeling heard" - }, - { - "id": "clear_next_step", - "text": "Clear next step" - }, - { - "id": "better_understanding", - "text": "Better understanding" - }, - { - "id": "apology", - "text": "Apology" - }, - { - "id": "less_fear_next_time", - "text": "Less fear next time" - } + "progress", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_next_step", + "text": "One next step" + }, + { + "id": "summarize", + "text": "Summarize" + }, + { + "id": "stay_kind", + "text": "Stay kind" + }, + { + "id": "name_goal", + "text": "Name goal" + }, + { + "id": "check_understanding", + "text": "Check understanding" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4538,216 +4567,349 @@ "id": "conflict_211", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe do you feel bringing up hard topics with me right now?", + "text": "How safe does disagreement feel between us?", "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ "safety", - "hard_topics" + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, + "min": 1, + "max": 5, "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe", - "scale_step": 1 + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "conflict_212", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we pause before conflict gets too heated?", + "text": "How easy is it to bring up frustration?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "pause", - "deescalation" + "frustration", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Poorly", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "conflict_213", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "scale", - "text": "How respectful does our tone feel during disagreement lately?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How heard do you feel during hard talks?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "tone", - "respect" + "listening", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not respectful", - "max_label": "Very respectful", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not heard", + "max_label": "Very heard" } }, { "id": "conflict_214", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "scale", - "text": "How quickly do we repair after conflict?", + "text": "How much does tone affect you during conflict?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", - "timing" + "tone", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not quickly", - "max_label": "Very quickly", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "conflict_215", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "scale", - "text": "How heard do you feel during disagreements?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How easy is it to pause before things escalate?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "listening", + "pause", "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not heard", - "max_label": "Very heard", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "conflict_216", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do I take responsibility during conflict?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much do we stay on the same team when we disagree?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "accountability", - "reflection" + "teamwork", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "conflict_217", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do you take responsibility during conflict?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much would one better conflict habit help us?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "accountability", - "ownership" + "habits", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "conflict_218", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do we stay on one topic during conflict?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How often do old patterns show up in conflict?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "focus", + "patterns", "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, + "min": 1, + "max": 5, "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Very often", - "scale_step": 1 + "max_label": "Often" } }, { "id": "conflict_219", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do old arguments affect current disagreements?", + "text": "How much defensiveness shows up between us?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "old_arguments", - "patterns" + "defensiveness", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, + "min": 1, + "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "Very much", - "scale_step": 1 + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "conflict_220", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it for us to apologize sincerely?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How well do we handle conflict about money?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "apology", - "repair" + "money", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "conflict_221", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it for us to accept repair attempts?", + "text": "How well do we handle conflict about family?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair_attempts", - "acceptance" + "family", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "conflict_222", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does stress affect our conflict style?", + "text": "How well do we handle conflict about chores?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "chores", + "conflict" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_223", + "category_id": "conflict", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How safe does it feel to give feedback?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "feedback", + "conflict" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_224", + "category_id": "conflict", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How safe does it feel to receive feedback?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "feedback", + "conflict" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_225", + "category_id": "conflict", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much do we avoid trying to win?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "winning", + "conflict" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_226", + "category_id": "conflict", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How often do we loop instead of resolving?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "looping", + "conflict" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Rarely", + "max_label": "Often" + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_227", + "category_id": "conflict", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How well do we respect pauses?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "pause", + "conflict" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_228", + "category_id": "conflict", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How often do assumptions make conflict worse?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "assumptions", + "conflict" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Rarely", + "max_label": "Often" + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_229", + "category_id": "conflict", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it to name the real issue?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "clarity", + "conflict" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_230", + "category_id": "conflict", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much does stress fuel our conflict?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -4755,589 +4917,461 @@ "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, + "min": 1, + "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "Very much", - "scale_step": 1 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_223", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How confident are you that we can handle disagreement well?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "confidence", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not confident", - "max_label": "Very confident", - "scale_step": 1 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_224", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do you feel blamed during conflict?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "blame", - "impact" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Very often", - "scale_step": 1 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_225", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do you feel respected during conflict?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "respect", - "impact" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Very often", - "scale_step": 1 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_226", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we try to understand instead of win?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "understanding", - "winning" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "Very much", - "scale_step": 1 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_227", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we handle pauses during conflict?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pause", - "return" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Poorly", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_228", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "scale", - 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"text": "Write it out or say it out loud?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Give space or offer reassurance?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "expression", - "format" + "space", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "write_it_out", - "text": "Write it out" - }, - { - "id": "say_it_out_loud", - "text": "Say it out loud" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "give_space", + "text": "Give space" + }, + { + "id": "offer_reassurance", + "text": "Offer reassurance" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_248", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Clarify expectations or accept differences?", + "text": "Ask for clarity or ask for softness?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "expectations", - "differences" + "communication", + "conflict" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "clarify_expectations", - "text": "Clarify expectations" - }, - { - "id": "accept_differences", - "text": "Accept differences" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_clarity", + "text": "Ask for clarity" + }, + { + "id": "ask_softness", + "text": "Ask for softness" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_249", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "this_or_that", - 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"text": "A calm apology" - }, - { - "id": "physical_space", - "text": "Physical space" - }, - { - "id": "a_hug", - "text": "A hug" - }, - { - "id": "a_practical_next_step", - "text": "A practical next step" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "space", + "text": "Space" + }, + { + "id": "hug", + "text": "A hug" + }, + { + "id": "quiet", + "text": "Quiet" + }, + { + "id": "talking", + "text": "Talking" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_152", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes an apology land best for you?", + "text": "What kind of apology lands best?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ "apology", - "repair" + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_ownership", - "text": "Specific ownership" - }, - { - "id": "changed_behavior", - "text": "Changed behavior" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_tone", - "text": "Gentle tone" - }, - { - "id": "no_excuses", - "text": "No excuses" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific", + "text": "Specific" + }, + { + "id": "gentle", + "text": "Gentle" + }, + { + "id": "quick", + "text": "Quick" + }, + { + "id": "with_changed_action", + "text": "With changed action" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_153", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When a fight escalates, what should we do first?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What kind of pause helps most?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "escalation", - "pauses" + "pause", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "lower_voices", - "text": "Lower voices" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_issue", - "text": "Name the issue" - }, - { - "id": "get_water_and_reset", - "text": "Get water and reset" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ten_minutes", + "text": "10 minutes" + }, + { + "id": "thirty_minutes", + "text": "30 minutes" + }, + { + "id": "walk", + "text": "A walk" + }, + { + "id": "sleep_on_it", + "text": "Sleep on it" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_154", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What repair style feels most natural to you?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What should we do first when tension rises?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair_style", - "conflict" + "deescalation", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_it_out", - "text": "Talk it out" - }, - { - "id": "write_it_out", - "text": "Write it out" - }, - { - "id": "take_space_first", - "text": "Take space first" - }, - { - "id": "use_humor_gently", - "text": "Use humor gently" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "lower_voices", + "text": "Lower voices" + }, + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "name_feeling", + "text": "Name the feeling" + }, + { + "id": "hold_hands", + "text": "Hold hands" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_155", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What usually blocks repair fastest?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What tone helps you stay open?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "blocks", - "repair" + "tone", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "defensiveness", - "text": "Defensiveness" - }, - { - "id": "blame", - "text": "Blame" - }, - { - "id": "silence", - "text": "Silence" - }, - { - "id": "timing", - "text": "Timing" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft", + "text": "Soft" + }, + { + "id": "steady", + "text": "Steady" + }, + { + "id": "direct", + "text": "Direct" + }, + { + "id": "gentle", + "text": "Gentle" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_156", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you need after I hurt your feelings?", + "text": "What is easiest for you to receive after conflict?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hurt", - "support" + "repair", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "validation", - "text": "Validation" - }, - { - "id": "accountability", - "text": "Accountability" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "apology", + "text": "An apology" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "space", + "text": "Space" + }, + { + "id": "affection", + "text": "Affection" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_157", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you hear my side after conflict?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes a hard talk feel safer?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "listening", - "repair" + "communication", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "calm_timing", - "text": "Calm timing" - }, - { - "id": "no_blame", - "text": "No blame" - }, - { - "id": "clear_examples", - "text": "Clear examples" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_heard_first", - "text": "Feeling heard first" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "kind_words", + "text": "Kind words" + }, + { + "id": "no_interrupting", + "text": "No interrupting" + }, + { + "id": "breaks_allowed", + "text": "Breaks allowed" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_158", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we avoid during repair?", + "text": "What helps you feel heard?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", - "boundaries" + "listening", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "scorekeeping", - "text": "Scorekeeping" - }, - { - "id": "sarcasm", - "text": "Sarcasm" - }, - { - "id": "old_fights", - "text": "Old fights" - }, - { - "id": "threats", - "text": "Threats" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "repeat_back", + "text": "Repeat it back" + }, + { + "id": "ask_questions", + "text": "Ask questions" + }, + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "no_fixing_yet", + "text": "No fixing yet" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_159", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should our repair goal be?", + "text": "What makes you shut down fastest?", "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", - "goals" + "shutdown", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "understand", - "text": "Understand" - }, - { - "id": "apologize", - "text": "Apologize" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_plan", - "text": "Make a plan" - }, - { - "id": "reconnect", - "text": "Reconnect" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "loud_voice", + "text": "Loud voice" + }, + { + "id": "sarcasm", + "text": "Sarcasm" + }, + { + "id": "being_cut_off", + "text": "Being cut off" + }, + { + "id": "too_many_topics", + "text": "Too many topics" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_160", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of follow-up feels useful?", + "text": "What makes repair feel loving?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "follow_up", - "repair" + "love", + "repair", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "same_day", - "text": "Same day" - }, - { - "id": "next_day", - "text": "Next day" - }, - { - "id": "weekly_check_in", - "text": "Weekly check-in" - }, - { - "id": "only_if_needed", - "text": "Only if needed" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "softness", + "text": "Softness" + }, + { + "id": "accountability", + "text": "Accountability" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_161", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "After conflict, what helps you reconnect first right now?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What kind of restart feels best?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", - "reconnection" + "restart", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_calm_apology", - "text": "A calm apology" - }, - { - "id": "physical_space", - "text": "Physical space" - }, - { - "id": "a_hug", - "text": "A hug" - }, - { - "id": "a_practical_next_step", - "text": "A practical next step" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "fresh_words", + "text": "Fresh words" + }, + { + "id": "small_touch", + "text": "Small touch" + }, + { + "id": "quick_check_in", + "text": "Quick check-in" + }, + { + "id": "try_again_later", + "text": "Try again later" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_162", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes an apology land best for you right now?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What should we avoid during conflict?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "apology", - "repair" + "conflict", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_ownership", - "text": "Specific ownership" - }, - { - "id": "changed_behavior", - "text": "Changed behavior" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_tone", - "text": "Gentle tone" - }, - { - "id": "no_excuses", - "text": "No excuses" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_calling", + "text": "Name-calling" + }, + { + "id": "threats", + "text": "Threats" + }, + { + "id": "old_pile_on", + "text": "Old pile-on" + }, + { + "id": "walking_away_cold", + "text": "Leaving coldly" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_163", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When a fight escalates, what should we do first right now?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps after a misunderstanding?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "escalation", - "pauses" + "misunderstanding", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "lower_voices", - "text": "Lower voices" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_issue", - "text": "Name the issue" - }, - { - "id": "get_water_and_reset", - "text": "Get water and reset" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clarify", + "text": "Clarify" + }, + { + "id": "laugh_gently", + "text": "Laugh gently" + }, + { + "id": "apologize", + "text": "Apologize" + }, + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_164", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What repair style feels most natural to you right now?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes forgiveness easier?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair_style", - "conflict" + "forgiveness", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_it_out", - "text": "Talk it out" - }, - { - "id": "write_it_out", - "text": "Write it out" - }, - { - "id": "take_space_first", - "text": "Take space first" - }, - { - "id": "use_humor_gently", - "text": "Use humor gently" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "accountability", + "text": "Accountability" + }, + { + "id": "time", + "text": "Time" + }, + { + "id": "changed_action", + "text": "Changed action" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_165", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What usually blocks repair fastest right now?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps us end a hard talk gently?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "blocks", - "repair" + "ending", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "defensiveness", - "text": "Defensiveness" - }, - { - "id": "blame", - "text": "Blame" - }, - { - "id": "silence", - "text": "Silence" - }, - { - "id": "timing", - "text": "Timing" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "thank_you", + "text": "Thank you" + }, + { + "id": "hug", + "text": "Hug" + }, + { + "id": "next_step", + "text": "Next step" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_reset", + "text": "Quiet reset" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_166", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you need after I hurt your feelings right now?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which repair skill should we practice more?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hurt", - "support" + "repair", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "validation", - "text": "Validation" - }, - { - "id": "accountability", - "text": "Accountability" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "apologizing", + "text": "Apologizing" + }, + { + "id": "listening", + "text": "Listening" + }, + { + "id": "pausing", + "text": "Pausing" + }, + { + "id": "coming_back", + "text": "Coming back" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_167", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you hear my side after conflict right now?", + "text": "What kind of accountability feels best?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "listening", - "repair" + "accountability", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "calm_timing", - "text": "Calm timing" - }, - { - "id": "no_blame", - "text": "No blame" - }, - { - "id": "clear_examples", - "text": "Clear examples" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_heard_first", - "text": "Feeling heard first" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "own_it", + "text": "Own it" + }, + { + "id": "specific_change", + "text": "Specific change" + }, + { + "id": "no_excuses", + "text": "No excuses" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_words", + "text": "Gentle words" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_168", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we avoid during repair right now?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes defensiveness worse?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "boundaries" + "defensiveness", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "scorekeeping", - "text": "Scorekeeping" - }, - { - "id": "sarcasm", - "text": "Sarcasm" - }, - { - "id": "old_fights", - "text": "Old fights" - }, - { - "id": "threats", - "text": "Threats" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "blame", + "text": "Blame" + }, + { + "id": "shame", + "text": "Shame" + }, + { + "id": "bad_timing", + "text": "Bad timing" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_unheard", + "text": "Feeling unheard" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_169", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should our repair goal be right now?", + "text": "What helps you soften after defensiveness?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "goals" + "defensiveness", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "understand", - "text": "Understand" - }, - { - "id": "apologize", - "text": "Apologize" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_plan", - 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"text": "After conflict, what helps you reconnect first this week?", + "text": "What helps if one of us feels blamed?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "reconnection" + "blame", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_calm_apology", - "text": "A calm apology" - }, - { - "id": "physical_space", - "text": "Physical space" - }, - { - "id": "a_hug", - "text": "A hug" - }, - { - "id": "a_practical_next_step", - "text": "A practical next step" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "own_part", + "text": "Own our part" + }, + { + "id": "soften_words", + "text": "Soften words" + }, + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_172", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes an apology land best for you this week?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps if one of us feels dismissed?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "apology", - "repair" + "dismissal", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_ownership", - "text": "Specific ownership" - }, - { - "id": "changed_behavior", - "text": "Changed behavior" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_tone", - "text": "Gentle tone" - }, - { - "id": "no_excuses", - "text": "No excuses" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "repeat_back", + "text": "Repeat back" + }, + { + "id": "ask_more", + "text": "Ask more" + }, + { + "id": "apologize", + "text": "Apologize" + }, + { + "id": "stay_present", + "text": "Stay present" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_173", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When a fight escalates, what should we do first this week?", + "text": "What helps if one of us feels overwhelmed?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "escalation", - "pauses" + "overwhelm", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "lower_voices", - "text": "Lower voices" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_issue", - "text": "Name the issue" - }, - { - "id": "get_water_and_reset", - "text": "Get water and reset" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "break", + "text": "Break" + }, + { + "id": "lower_volume", + "text": "Lower volume" + }, + { + "id": "one_topic", + "text": "One topic" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_174", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What repair style feels most natural to you this week?", + "text": "Which repair phrase sounds most helpful?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair_style", - "conflict" + "phrases", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_it_out", - "text": "Talk it out" - }, - { - "id": "write_it_out", - "text": "Write it out" - }, - { - "id": "take_space_first", - "text": "Take space first" - }, - { - "id": "use_humor_gently", - "text": "Use humor gently" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_hear_you", + "text": "I hear you" + }, + { + "id": "let_me_try_again", + "text": "Let me try again" + }, + { + "id": "i_am_not_against_you", + "text": "I'm not against you" + }, + { + "id": "can_we_slow_down", + "text": "Can we slow down?" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_175", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What usually blocks repair fastest this week?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes trust easier after conflict?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "blocks", - "repair" + "trust", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "defensiveness", - "text": "Defensiveness" - }, - { - "id": "blame", - "text": "Blame" - }, - { - "id": "silence", - "text": "Silence" - }, - { - "id": "timing", - "text": "Timing" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "follow_through", + "text": "Follow-through" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_repair", + "text": "Gentle repair" + }, + { + "id": "time", + "text": "Time" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_176", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you need after I hurt your feelings this week?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes a timeout feel safe?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hurt", - "support" + "timeout", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "validation", - "text": "Validation" - }, - { - "id": "accountability", - "text": "Accountability" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_return_time", + "text": "Clear return time" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "kind_words", + "text": "Kind words" + }, + { + "id": "actual_return", + "text": "Actually returning" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_177", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you hear my side after conflict this week?", + "text": "What makes a repair conversation too much?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "listening", - "repair" + "communication", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "calm_timing", - "text": "Calm timing" - }, - { - "id": "no_blame", - "text": "No blame" - }, - { - "id": "clear_examples", - "text": "Clear examples" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_heard_first", - "text": "Feeling heard first" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "too_long", + "text": "Too long" + }, + { + "id": "too_late", + "text": "Too late" + }, + { + "id": "too_many_topics", + "text": "Too many topics" + }, + { + "id": "too_much_blame", + "text": "Too much blame" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_178", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we avoid during repair this week?", + "text": "What kind of affection helps after repair?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "boundaries" + "affection", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "scorekeeping", - "text": "Scorekeeping" - }, - { - "id": "sarcasm", - "text": "Sarcasm" - }, - { - "id": "old_fights", - "text": "Old fights" - }, - { - "id": "threats", - "text": "Threats" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hug", + "text": "Hug" + }, + { + "id": "hand_hold", + "text": "Hand-hold" + }, + { + "id": "cuddle", + "text": "Cuddle" + }, + { + "id": "none_yet", + "text": "None yet" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_179", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should our repair goal be this week?", + "text": "What should come before affection after conflict?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "goals" + "affection", + "consent", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "understand", - "text": "Understand" - }, - { - "id": "apologize", - "text": "Apologize" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_plan", - "text": "Make a plan" - }, - { - "id": "reconnect", - "text": "Reconnect" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + }, + { + "id": "apology", + "text": "Apology" + }, + { + "id": "calm", + "text": "Calm" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_180", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of follow-up feels useful this week?", + "text": "What makes humor helpful after tension?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "follow_up", - "repair" + "humor", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "same_day", - "text": "Same day" - }, - { - "id": "next_day", - "text": "Next day" - }, - { - "id": "weekly_check_in", - "text": "Weekly check-in" - }, - { - "id": "only_if_needed", - "text": "Only if needed" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gentle", + "text": "Gentle" + }, + { + "id": "well_timed", + "text": "Well-timed" + }, + { + "id": "not_dismissive", + "text": "Not dismissive" + }, + { + "id": "shared_joke", + "text": "Shared joke" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_181", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "After conflict, what helps you reconnect first during stress?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What makes humor hurtful after tension?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "reconnection" + "humor", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_calm_apology", - "text": "A calm apology" - }, - { - "id": "physical_space", - "text": "Physical space" - }, - { - "id": "a_hug", - "text": "A hug" - }, - { - "id": "a_practical_next_step", - "text": "A practical next step" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "too_soon", + "text": "Too soon" + }, + { + "id": "sarcasm", + "text": "Sarcasm" + }, + { + "id": "mocking", + "text": "Mocking" + }, + { + "id": "avoiding_issue", + "text": "Avoiding the issue" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_182", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes an apology land best for you during stress?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps us repair before bed?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "apology", - "repair" + "bedtime", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_ownership", - "text": "Specific ownership" - }, - { - "id": "changed_behavior", - "text": "Changed behavior" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_tone", - "text": "Gentle tone" - }, - { - "id": "no_excuses", - "text": "No excuses" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "short_check_in", + "text": "Short check-in" + }, + { + "id": "soft_words", + "text": "Soft words" + }, + { + "id": "agree_to_pause", + "text": "Agree to pause" + }, + { + "id": "hold_hands", + "text": "Hold hands" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_183", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When a fight escalates, what should we do first during stress?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps us repair in the morning?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "escalation", - "pauses" + "morning", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "lower_voices", - "text": "Lower voices" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_issue", - "text": "Name the issue" - }, - { - "id": "get_water_and_reset", - "text": "Get water and reset" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "fresh_start", + "text": "Fresh start" + }, + { + "id": "coffee_talk", + "text": "Coffee talk" + }, + { + "id": "apology", + "text": "Apology" + }, + { + "id": "small_kindness", + "text": "Small kindness" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_184", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What repair style feels most natural to you during stress?", + "text": "What helps us not repeat the same fight?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair_style", - "conflict" + "patterns", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_it_out", - "text": "Talk it out" - }, - { - "id": "write_it_out", - "text": "Write it out" - }, - { - "id": "take_space_first", - "text": "Take space first" - }, - { - "id": "use_humor_gently", - "text": "Use humor gently" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_pattern", + "text": "Name the pattern" + }, + { + "id": "make_plan", + "text": "Make a plan" + }, + { + "id": "pause_earlier", + "text": "Pause earlier" + }, + { + "id": "own_our_parts", + "text": "Own our parts" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_185", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What usually blocks repair fastest during stress?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What should we do after a repair goes well?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "blocks", - "repair" + "celebration", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "defensiveness", - "text": "Defensiveness" - }, - { - "id": "blame", - "text": "Blame" - }, - { - "id": "silence", - "text": "Silence" - }, - { - "id": "timing", - "text": "Timing" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "thank_each_other", + "text": "Thank each other" + }, + { + "id": "hug", + "text": "Hug" + }, + { + "id": "move_forward", + "text": "Move forward" + }, + { + "id": "notice_progress", + "text": "Notice progress" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_186", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you need after I hurt your feelings during stress?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which kind of repair feels most natural?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hurt", - "support" + "repair_style", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "validation", - "text": "Validation" - }, - { - "id": "accountability", - "text": "Accountability" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "talking", + "text": "Talking" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_closeness", + "text": "Quiet closeness" + }, + { + "id": "small_action", + "text": "Small action" + }, + { + "id": "writing", + "text": "Writing" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_187", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you hear my side after conflict during stress?", + "text": "What helps you feel safe naming your hurt?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "listening", - "repair" + "hurt", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "calm_timing", - "text": "Calm timing" - }, - { - "id": "no_blame", - "text": "No blame" - }, - { - "id": "clear_examples", - "text": "Clear examples" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_heard_first", - "text": "Feeling heard first" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_defense", + "text": "No defense" + }, + { + "id": "kind_tone", + "text": "Kind tone" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_188", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we avoid during repair during stress?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps you hear my hurt?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "boundaries" + "hurt", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "scorekeeping", - "text": "Scorekeeping" - }, - { - "id": "sarcasm", - "text": "Sarcasm" - }, - { - "id": "old_fights", - "text": "Old fights" - }, - { - "id": "threats", - "text": "Threats" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "remember_love", + "text": "Remember love" + }, + { + "id": "breathe", + "text": "Breathe" + }, + { + "id": "ask_questions", + "text": "Ask questions" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_189", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should our repair goal be during stress?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps repair feel mutual?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "goals" + "mutual", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "understand", - "text": "Understand" - }, - { - "id": "apologize", - "text": "Apologize" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_plan", - "text": "Make a plan" - }, - { - "id": "reconnect", - "text": "Reconnect" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_own_part", + "text": "Both own a part" + }, + { + "id": "both_listen", + "text": "Both listen" + }, + { + "id": "both_soften", + "text": "Both soften" + }, + { + "id": "both_try_again", + "text": "Both try again" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_190", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of follow-up feels useful during stress?", + "text": "What helps when we are both right about different things?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "follow_up", - "repair" + "perspective", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "same_day", - "text": "Same day" - }, - { - "id": "next_day", - "text": "Next day" - }, - { - "id": "weekly_check_in", - "text": "Weekly check-in" - }, - { - "id": "only_if_needed", - "text": "Only if needed" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_both_truths", + "text": "Name both truths" + }, + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "stay_curious", + "text": "Stay curious" + }, + { + "id": "drop_winning", + "text": "Drop winning" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_191", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which repair actions help after conflict? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps us de-escalate?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", - "actions" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "apology", - "text": "Apology" - }, - { - "id": "validation", - "text": "Validation" - }, - { - "id": "changed_behavior", - "text": "Changed behavior" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "a_calm_follow_up", - "text": "A calm follow-up" - } + "deescalation", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "lower_voices", + "text": "Lower voices" + }, + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "one_topic", + "text": "One topic" + }, + { + "id": "breathe", + "text": "Breathe" + }, + { + "id": "soft_words", + "text": "Soft words" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_192", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things make repair harder? Select all that apply.", + "text": "What makes repair feel safe?", "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ "repair", - "blocks" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "blame", - "text": "Blame" - }, - { - "id": "defensiveness", - "text": "Defensiveness" - }, - { - "id": "sarcasm", - "text": "Sarcasm" - }, - { - "id": "avoidance", - "text": "Avoidance" - }, - { - "id": "rushing", - "text": "Rushing" - } + "safety", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "no_blame", + "text": "No blame" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "kind_tone", + "text": "Kind tone" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_193", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which topics need gentler repair? Select up to three.", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes an apology land?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "gentleness", - "repair" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "intimacy", - "text": "Intimacy" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "old_wounds", - "text": "Old wounds" - } + "apology", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific", + "text": "Specific" + }, + { + "id": "accountable", + "text": "Accountable" + }, + { + "id": "gentle", + "text": "Gentle" + }, + { + "id": "no_excuses", + "text": "No excuses" + }, + { + "id": "changed_action", + "text": "Changed action" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3892,74 +3941,74 @@ "id": "conflict_repair_194", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which repair signals work for you? Select all that apply.", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps you cool down?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "signals", - "repair" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_voice", - "text": "Soft voice" - }, - { - "id": "eye_contact", - "text": "Eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "taking_responsibility", - "text": "Taking responsibility" - }, - { - "id": "asking_to_restart", - "text": "Asking to restart" - }, - { - "id": "physical_reassurance", - "text": "Physical reassurance" - } + "calm", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet", + "text": "Quiet" + }, + { + "id": "walk", + "text": "Walk" + }, + { + "id": "water", + "text": "Water" + }, + { + "id": "breathing", + "text": "Breathing" + }, + { + "id": "space", + "text": "Space" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_195", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which agreements would protect future repair? Select up to three.", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What should we avoid when angry?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "agreements", - "repair" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_insults", - "text": "No insults" - }, - { - "id": "pause_when_flooded", - "text": "Pause when flooded" - }, - { - "id": "return_after_breaks", - "text": "Return after breaks" - }, - { - "id": "no_old_scorekeeping", - "text": "No old scorekeeping" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_real_issue", - "text": "Name the real issue" - } + "conflict", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_calling", + "text": "Name-calling" + }, + { + "id": "sarcasm", + "text": "Sarcasm" + }, + { + "id": "threats", + "text": "Threats" + }, + { + "id": "past_pile_on", + "text": "Past pile-on" + }, + { + "id": "interrupting", + "text": "Interrupting" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3968,112 +4017,112 @@ "id": "conflict_repair_196", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which repair actions help after conflict? Select all that apply. right now", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps repair after an old pattern shows up?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "actions" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "apology", - "text": "Apology" - }, - { - "id": "validation", - "text": "Validation" - }, - { - "id": "changed_behavior", - "text": "Changed behavior" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "a_calm_follow_up", - "text": "A calm follow-up" - } + "patterns", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_it", + "text": "Name it" + }, + { + "id": "own_our_parts", + "text": "Own our parts" + }, + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "plan", + "text": "Make a plan" + }, + { + "id": "reassure", + "text": "Reassure" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_197", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things make repair harder? Select all that apply. right now", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps when defensiveness appears?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "blocks" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "blame", - "text": "Blame" - }, - { - "id": "defensiveness", - "text": "Defensiveness" - }, - { - "id": "sarcasm", - "text": "Sarcasm" - }, - { - "id": "avoidance", - "text": "Avoidance" - }, - { - "id": "rushing", - "text": "Rushing" - } + "defensiveness", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "soften_tone", + "text": "Soften tone" + }, + { + "id": "ask_question", + "text": "Ask a question" + }, + { + "id": "own_part", + "text": "Own a part" + }, + { + "id": "take_break", + "text": "Take a break" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_198", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which topics need gentler repair? Select up to three. right now", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps trust after conflict?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "gentleness", - "repair" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "intimacy", - "text": "Intimacy" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "old_wounds", - "text": "Old wounds" - } + "trust", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "follow_through", + "text": "Follow-through" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "changed_behavior", + "text": "Changed behavior" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_repair", + "text": "Gentle repair" + }, + { + "id": "time", + "text": "Time" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4082,74 +4131,74 @@ "id": "conflict_repair_199", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which repair signals work for you? Select all that apply. right now", + "text": "What makes a timeout work well?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "signals", - "repair" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_voice", - "text": "Soft voice" - }, - { - "id": "eye_contact", - "text": "Eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "taking_responsibility", - "text": "Taking responsibility" - }, - { - "id": "asking_to_restart", - "text": "Asking to restart" - }, - { - "id": "physical_reassurance", - "text": "Physical reassurance" - } + "timeout", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_return", + "text": "Clear return time" + }, + { + "id": "no_silent_treatment", + "text": "No silent treatment" + }, + { + "id": "calm_down", + "text": "Calm down" + }, + { + "id": "come_back", + "text": "Come back" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_200", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which agreements would protect future repair? Select up to three. right now", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps us repair after hurt feelings?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "agreements", - "repair" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_insults", - "text": "No insults" - }, - { - "id": "pause_when_flooded", - "text": "Pause when flooded" - }, - { - "id": "return_after_breaks", - "text": "Return after breaks" - }, - { - "id": "no_old_scorekeeping", - "text": "No old scorekeeping" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_real_issue", - "text": "Name the real issue" - } + "hurt", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "listen_first", + "text": "Listen first" + }, + { + "id": "name_hurt", + "text": "Name the hurt" + }, + { + "id": "apologize", + "text": "Apologize" + }, + { + "id": "ask_what_helps", + "text": "Ask what helps" + }, + { + "id": "go_gently", + "text": "Go gently" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4158,112 +4207,112 @@ "id": "conflict_repair_201", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which repair actions help after conflict? Select all that apply. this week", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps us stay on the same team?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "actions" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "apology", - "text": "Apology" - }, - { - "id": "validation", - "text": "Validation" - }, - { - "id": "changed_behavior", - "text": "Changed behavior" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "a_calm_follow_up", - "text": "A calm follow-up" - } + "teamwork", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "use_we", + "text": "Use we" + }, + { + "id": "drop_winning", + "text": "Drop winning" + }, + { + "id": "name_goal", + "text": "Name the goal" + }, + { + "id": "soften_tone", + "text": "Soften tone" + }, + { + "id": "remember_love", + "text": "Remember love" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_202", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things make repair harder? Select all that apply. this week", + "text": "What makes feedback easier during repair?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "blocks" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "blame", - "text": "Blame" - }, - { - "id": "defensiveness", - "text": "Defensiveness" - }, - { - "id": "sarcasm", - "text": "Sarcasm" - }, - { - "id": "avoidance", - "text": "Avoidance" - }, - { - "id": "rushing", - "text": "Rushing" - } + "feedback", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific", + "text": "Specific" + }, + { + "id": "gentle", + "text": "Gentle" + }, + { + "id": "one_thing", + "text": "One thing" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "praise_too", + "text": "Praise too" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_203", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which topics need gentler repair? Select up to three. this week", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps us end a hard talk well?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "gentleness", - "repair" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "intimacy", - "text": "Intimacy" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "old_wounds", - "text": "Old wounds" - } + "ending", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "summary", + "text": "Summarize" + }, + { + "id": "next_step", + "text": "Next step" + }, + { + "id": "thank_you", + "text": "Thank you" + }, + { + "id": "hug_if_wanted", + "text": "Hug if wanted" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_reset", + "text": "Quiet reset" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4272,74 +4321,74 @@ "id": "conflict_repair_204", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which repair signals work for you? Select all that apply. this week", + "text": "What should we repair privately?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "signals", - "repair" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_voice", - "text": "Soft voice" - }, - { - "id": "eye_contact", - "text": "Eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "taking_responsibility", - "text": "Taking responsibility" - }, - { - "id": "asking_to_restart", - "text": "Asking to restart" - }, - { - "id": "physical_reassurance", - "text": "Physical reassurance" - } + "privacy", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hurt_feelings", + "text": "Hurt feelings" + }, + { + "id": "money", + "text": "Money" + }, + { + "id": "family", + "text": "Family" + }, + { + "id": "intimacy", + "text": "Intimacy" + }, + { + "id": "old_patterns", + "text": "Old patterns" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_205", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which agreements would protect future repair? Select up to three. this week", + "text": "What makes forgiveness easier over time?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "agreements", - "repair" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_insults", - "text": "No insults" - }, - { - "id": "pause_when_flooded", - "text": "Pause when flooded" - }, - { - "id": "return_after_breaks", - "text": "Return after breaks" - }, - { - "id": "no_old_scorekeeping", - "text": "No old scorekeeping" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_real_issue", - "text": "Name the real issue" - } + "forgiveness", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "changed_action", + "text": "Changed action" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "no_rushing", + "text": "No rushing" + }, + { + "id": "understanding", + "text": "Understanding" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4348,112 +4397,112 @@ "id": "conflict_repair_206", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which repair actions help after conflict? Select all that apply. during stress", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps us clear up a misunderstanding?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "actions" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "apology", - "text": "Apology" - }, - { - "id": "validation", - "text": "Validation" - }, - { - "id": "changed_behavior", - "text": "Changed behavior" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "a_calm_follow_up", - "text": "A calm follow-up" - } + "misunderstanding", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clarify", + "text": "Clarify" + }, + { + "id": "ask_again", + "text": "Ask again" + }, + { + "id": "laugh_gently", + "text": "Laugh gently" + }, + { + "id": "apologize", + "text": "Apologize" + }, + { + "id": "try_again", + "text": "Try again" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_207", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things make repair harder? Select all that apply. during stress", + "text": "What helps when one of us shuts down?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "blocks" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "blame", - "text": "Blame" - }, - { - "id": "defensiveness", - "text": "Defensiveness" - }, - { - "id": "sarcasm", - "text": "Sarcasm" - }, - { - "id": "avoidance", - "text": "Avoidance" - }, - { - "id": "rushing", - "text": "Rushing" - } + "shutdown", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "space", + "text": "Space" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_check", + "text": "Gentle check-in" + }, + { + "id": "less_pressure", + "text": "Less pressure" + }, + { + "id": "return_time", + "text": "Return time" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_208", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which topics need gentler repair? Select up to three. during stress", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps when one of us pushes too hard?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "gentleness", - "repair" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "intimacy", - "text": "Intimacy" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "old_wounds", - "text": "Old wounds" - } + "pressure", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_it", + "text": "Name it" + }, + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "take_break", + "text": "Take a break" + }, + { + "id": "soften_words", + "text": "Soften words" + }, + { + "id": "remember_team", + "text": "Remember team" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4462,74 +4511,74 @@ "id": "conflict_repair_209", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which repair signals work for you? Select all that apply. during stress", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps repair feel loving?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "signals", - "repair" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_voice", - "text": "Soft voice" - }, - { - "id": "eye_contact", - "text": "Eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "taking_responsibility", - "text": "Taking responsibility" - }, - { - "id": "asking_to_restart", - "text": "Asking to restart" - }, - { - "id": "physical_reassurance", - "text": "Physical reassurance" - } + "love", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "softness", + "text": "Softness" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "accountability", + "text": "Accountability" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_touch", + "text": "Gentle touch" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 5 + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_210", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which agreements would protect future repair? Select up to three. during stress", + "text": "What helps us do better next time?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "agreements", - "repair" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_insults", - "text": "No insults" - }, - { - "id": "pause_when_flooded", - "text": "Pause when flooded" - }, - { - "id": "return_after_breaks", - "text": "Return after breaks" - }, - { - "id": "no_old_scorekeeping", - "text": "No old scorekeeping" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_real_issue", - "text": "Name the real issue" - } + "future", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_plan", + "text": "Clear plan" + }, + { + "id": "one_change", + "text": "One change" + }, + { + "id": "notice_early", + "text": "Notice early" + }, + { + "id": "practice_phrase", + "text": "Practice phrase" + }, + { + "id": "check_in_later", + "text": "Check in later" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4538,806 +4587,811 @@ "id": "conflict_repair_211", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "scale", - "text": "How repaired do you feel after our last hard conversation?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How safe does repair feel between us lately?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", - "check_in" + "safety", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not repaired", - "max_label": "Fully repaired", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_212", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe do you feel bringing up hurt feelings?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How easy is it to apologize honestly?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "safety", - "conflict" + "apology", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_213", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we pause before things escalate?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How easy is it to pause before things get worse?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "pauses", - "escalation" + "pause", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_214", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "scale", - "text": "How meaningful do my apologies feel lately?", + "text": "How heard do you feel during repair?", "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "apology", - "repair" + "listening", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not meaningful", - "max_label": "Very meaningful", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not heard", + "max_label": "Very heard" } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_215", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "scale", - "text": "How confident are you that we can repair conflict better?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How quickly do we usually come back together?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "confidence", - "repair" + "return", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not confident", - "max_label": "Very confident", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Slowly", + "max_label": "Quickly" } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_216", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "scale", - "text": "How repaired do you feel after our last hard conversation right now?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much does tone affect conflict for you?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", - "check_in" + "tone", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not repaired", - "max_label": "Fully repaired", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_217", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe do you feel bringing up hurt feelings right now?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much would one repair habit help us this week?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "safety", - "conflict" + "weekly", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_218", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we pause before things escalate right now?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How safe does it feel to name hurt feelings?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pauses", - "escalation" + "hurt", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_219", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "scale", - "text": "How meaningful do my apologies feel lately right now?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How much defensiveness shows up between us?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "apology", - "repair" + "defensiveness", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not meaningful", - "max_label": "Very meaningful", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_220", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "scale", - "text": "How confident are you that we can repair conflict better right now?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How well do we handle old patterns?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "confidence", - "repair" + "patterns", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not confident", - "max_label": "Very confident", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_221", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "scale", - "text": "How repaired do you feel after our last hard conversation this week?", + "text": "How much trust do you feel after conflict?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "check_in" + "trust", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not repaired", - "max_label": "Fully repaired", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + 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"scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_224", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "scale", - "text": "How meaningful do my apologies feel lately this week?", + "text": "How much do we stay on the same team during conflict?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "apology", - "repair" + "teamwork", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not meaningful", - "max_label": "Very meaningful", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_225", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "scale", - "text": "How confident are you that we can repair conflict better this week?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How comfortable are you asking for a restart?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "confidence", - "repair" + "restart", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not confident", - "max_label": "Very confident", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not comfortable", + "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_226", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "scale", - "text": "How repaired do you feel after our last hard conversation during stress?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How well do we avoid bringing up old pain unfairly?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "check_in" + "past", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not repaired", - "max_label": "Fully repaired", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_227", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe do you feel bringing up hurt feelings during stress?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How much would a gentler repair 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"scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not hopeful", + "max_label": "Very hopeful" } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_233", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we pause before things escalate after a hard moment?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How often do we repair before resentment builds?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pauses", - "escalation" + "resentment", + "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well", - "scale_step": 1 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Rarely", + "max_label": "Often" } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_234", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "scale", - "text": "How meaningful do my apologies feel lately after a hard moment?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How much does privacy help us repair?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "apology", - "repair" + "privacy", + "conflict_repair" ], 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"Pause now or talk softly?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", - "needs" + "pause", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "pause_now", + "text": "Pause now" + }, + { + "id": "talk_softly", + "text": "Talk softly" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_237", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "During repair, which matters more first?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Apology first or hug first?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ "repair", - "priorities" + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "feeling_heard", - "text": "Feeling heard" - }, - { - "id": "finding_solution", - "text": "Finding solution" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "apology_first", + "text": "Apology first" + }, + { + "id": "hug_first", + "text": "Hug first" 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"pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "slow_down_and_continue", - "text": "Slow down and continue" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "own_part", + "text": "Own your part" + }, + { + "id": "ask_question", + "text": "Ask one question" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_240", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For follow-up, which feels better?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Repair tonight or schedule tomorrow?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "follow_up", - "repair" + "timing", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "same_day", - "text": "Same day" - }, - { - "id": "next_day", - "text": "Next day" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "repair_tonight", + "text": "Repair tonight" + }, + { + "id": "schedule_tomorrow", + "text": "Schedule tomorrow" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_241", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "After conflict, which do you usually need first right now?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Soft words or clear plan?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "repair", - "needs" + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_words", + "text": "Soft words" + }, + { + "id": "clear_plan", + "text": "Clear plan" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_242", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "During repair, which matters more first right now?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Forgiveness or accountability first?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "priorities" + "forgiveness", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "feeling_heard", - "text": "Feeling heard" - }, - { - "id": "finding_solution", - "text": "Finding solution" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "forgiveness", + "text": "Forgiveness" + }, + { + "id": "accountability", + "text": "Accountability" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_243", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For apologies, which lands better right now?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Talk it out or write it first?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "apology", - "repair" + "communication", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "short_and_clear", - "text": "Short and clear" - }, - { - "id": "detailed_and_reflective", - "text": "Detailed and reflective" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_it_out", + "text": "Talk it out" + }, + { + "id": "write_it_first", + "text": "Write it first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_244", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When heated, which helps more right now?", + "text": "One issue or bigger pattern?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "escalation", - "pauses" + "patterns", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "slow_down_and_continue", - "text": "Slow down and continue" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_issue", + "text": "One issue" + }, + { + "id": "bigger_pattern", + "text": "Bigger pattern" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_245", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For follow-up, which feels better right now?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Comfort touch or no touch yet?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "follow_up", - "repair" + "affection", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "same_day", - "text": "Same day" - }, - { - "id": "next_day", - "text": "Next day" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "comfort_touch", + "text": "Comfort touch" + }, + { + "id": "no_touch_yet", + "text": "No touch yet" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_246", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "After conflict, which do you usually need first this week?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Name the hurt or name the need?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "needs" + "hurt", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_hurt", + "text": "Name the hurt" + }, + { + "id": "name_need", + "text": "Name the need" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_247", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "During repair, which matters more first this week?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Reset with humor or reset with quiet?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "priorities" + "reset", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "feeling_heard", - "text": "Feeling heard" - }, - { - "id": "finding_solution", - "text": "Finding solution" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "humor", + "text": "Humor" + }, + { + "id": "quiet", + "text": "Quiet" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_248", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For apologies, which lands better this week?", + "text": "Fix now or understand first?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "apology", - "repair" + "understanding", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "short_and_clear", - "text": "Short and clear" - }, - { - "id": "detailed_and_reflective", - "text": "Detailed and reflective" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "fix_now", + "text": "Fix now" + }, + { + "id": "understand_first", + "text": "Understand first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_249", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When heated, which helps more this week?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Gentle reminder or direct boundary?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "escalation", - "pauses" + "boundaries", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "slow_down_and_continue", - "text": "Slow down and continue" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gentle_reminder", + "text": "Gentle reminder" + }, + { + "id": "direct_boundary", + "text": "Direct boundary" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_250", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For follow-up, which feels better this week?", + "text": "Fresh start or deeper repair?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "follow_up", - "repair" + "repair", + "conflict_repair" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "same_day", - "text": "Same day" - }, - { - "id": "next_day", - "text": "Next day" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "fresh_start", + "text": "Fresh start" + }, + { + "id": "deeper_repair", + "text": "Deeper repair" + } + ] + } } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/couple_intimacy.json b/seed/questions/couple_intimacy.json index d9f8ff8f..e7c63542 100644 --- a/seed/questions/couple_intimacy.json +++ b/seed/questions/couple_intimacy.json @@ -1,3828 +1,7152 @@ { - "metadata": { - "title": "Adult Couple Intimacy Questions", - "version": "1.0", - "intended_use": "Consenting adult couples only.", - "total_questions": 300, - "tiers": { - "free": 60, - "premium": 240 - }, - "audiences": { - "female": 150, - "male": 150 - }, - "formats": [ - "yes_no", - "true_false", - "multiple_choice" - ], - "notes": [ - "Questions are original and grouped for couple intimacy, teasing, boundaries, consent, preferences, sexual health, and aftercare.", - "Female questions are written for a woman answering about a male partner.", - "Male questions are written for a man answering about a female partner." - ] + "category": { + "id": "couple_intimacy", + "display_name": "Couple Intimacy", + "description": "Adult, consent-first questions that help couples 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faster when he touches me before trying to have sex.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_003", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "touch", - "question": "Which first touch gets you most interested?", - "options": [ - "Neck kisses", - "Back rub", - "Hand on thigh", - "Direct sexual touch" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_004", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "desire", - "question": "Do you want more kissing before sex starts?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_005", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "communication", - "question": "I want him to ask what feels good instead of guessing.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_006", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "mood", - "question": "What mood turns you on most?", - "options": [ - "Soft and romantic", - "Playful and teasing", - "Bold and dirty", - "Quiet and slow" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_007", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "teasing", - "question": "Do you like being teased before he touches you directly?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_008", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "confidence", - "question": "I like when he tells me exactly what he wants to do to me.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_009", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "pace", - "question": "What pace do you usually prefer at the start?", - "options": [ - "Slow", - "Medium", - "Fast", - "Let it change" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_010", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "compliments", - "question": "Do compliments about your body turn you on?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_011", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "boundaries", - "question": "I want a clear pause button if anything feels wrong.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_012", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "aftercare", - "question": "What do you want most after sex?", - "options": [ - "Cuddling", - "Talking", - "Space", - "Round two" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_013", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "spontaneity", - "question": "Do you like surprise sex attempts when you are already relaxed?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_014", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "privacy", - "question": "I need privacy and low stress to fully enjoy sex.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_015", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "initiation", - "question": "How should he initiate more often?", - "options": [ - "Kiss me first", - "Say what he wants", - "Touch me slowly", - "Ask directly" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_016", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "dirty_talk", - "question": "Do you like dirty talk from him?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_017", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "emotional", - "question": "Feeling desired matters as much as the physical part.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_018", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "turn_offs", - "question": "What kills the mood fastest?", - "options": [ - "Rushing", - "Bad timing", - "No affection", - "Poor hygiene" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_019", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "oral", - "question": "Do you want more oral sex from him?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_020", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "guidance", - "question": "I want to guide his hands or mouth without him getting offended.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_021", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "foreplay", - "question": "Which foreplay do you want more of?", - "options": [ - "Kissing", - "Hands", - "Oral", - "Massage" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_022", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "eye_contact", - "question": "Does eye contact during sex turn you on?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_023", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "energy", - "question": "I like when he makes me feel chased and wanted.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_024", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "clothing", - "question": "What is sexiest for him to wear?", - "options": [ - "Nothing", - "Boxers", - "Jeans", - "A nice shirt" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_025", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "fantasy", - "question": "Do you have a fantasy you want to tell him?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_026", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "consent", - "question": "A clear yes from me should matter more than his assumptions.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_027", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "location", - "question": "Where would you most like him to start teasing you?", - "options": [ - "Couch", - "Bed", - "Shower", - "Kitchen" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_028", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "frequency", - "question": "Do you want sex more often than you currently have it?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_029", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "playfulness", - "question": "I like playful flirting before things get sexual.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_free_030", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "free", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "free_choice", - "question": "What do you want him to improve first?", - "options": [ - "Foreplay", - "Confidence", - "Listening", - "Timing" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_001", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "initiation", - "question": "Do you want her to initiate sex more often?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_002", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "foreplay", - "question": "I get turned on faster when she shows clear desire.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_003", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "touch", - "question": "Which first touch gets you most interested?", - "options": [ - "Kissing", - "Hand on chest", - "Hand on thigh", - "Direct sexual touch" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_004", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "desire", - "question": "Do you want more kissing before sex starts?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_005", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "communication", - "question": "I want her to tell me what feels good instead of making me guess.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_006", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "mood", - "question": "What mood turns you on most?", - "options": [ - "Soft and romantic", - "Playful and teasing", - "Bold and dirty", - "Quiet and slow" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_007", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "teasing", - "question": "Do you like when she teases you before touching you directly?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_008", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "confidence", - "question": "I like when she tells me exactly what she wants from me.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_009", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "pace", - "question": "What pace do you usually prefer at the start?", - "options": [ - "Slow", - "Medium", - "Fast", - "Let it change" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_010", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "compliments", - "question": "Do compliments about your body turn you on?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_011", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "boundaries", - "question": "I want a clear pause button if anything feels wrong.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_012", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "aftercare", - "question": "What do you want most after sex?", - "options": [ - "Cuddling", - "Talking", - "Space", - "Round two" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_013", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "spontaneity", - "question": "Do you like surprise sex attempts when you are already relaxed?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_014", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "privacy", - "question": "I enjoy sex more when there is privacy and no distractions.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_015", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "initiation", - "question": "How should she initiate more often?", - "options": [ - "Kiss me first", - "Say what she wants", - "Touch me slowly", - "Ask directly" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_016", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "dirty_talk", - "question": "Do you like dirty talk from her?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_017", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "emotional", - "question": "Feeling wanted matters as much as the physical part.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_018", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "turn_offs", - "question": "What kills the mood fastest?", - "options": [ - "Rushing", - "Bad timing", - "No affection", - "Poor hygiene" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_019", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "oral", - "question": "Do you want more oral sex from her?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_020", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "guidance", - "question": "I want her to guide me without worrying I will take it personally.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_021", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "foreplay", - "question": "Which foreplay do you want more of?", - "options": [ - "Kissing", - "Hands", - "Oral", - "Massage" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_022", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "eye_contact", - "question": "Does eye contact during sex turn you on?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_023", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "energy", - "question": "I like when she makes me feel wanted and chosen.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_024", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "clothing", - "question": "What is sexiest for her to wear?", - "options": [ - "Nothing", - "Lingerie", - "My shirt", - "A dress" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_025", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "fantasy", - "question": "Do you have a fantasy you want to tell her?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_026", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "consent", - "question": "A clear yes from her should matter more than my assumptions.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_027", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "location", - "question": "Where would you most like her to start teasing you?", - "options": [ - "Couch", - "Bed", - "Shower", - "Kitchen" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_028", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "frequency", - "question": "Do you want sex more often than you currently have it?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_029", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "playfulness", - "question": "I like playful flirting before things get sexual.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_free_030", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "free", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "free_choice", - "question": "What do you want her to improve first?", - "options": [ - "Initiation", - "Confidence", - "Guidance", - "Timing" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_001", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "oral", - "question": "Do you want him to go down on you more often?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_002", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "oral", - "question": "I want him to focus on my clitoris more directly.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_003", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "oral", - "question": "Which oral style do you prefer most?", - "options": [ - "Slow and gentle", - "Firm and focused", - "Teasing with pauses", - "I do not want oral" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_004", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "manual_touch", - "question": "Do you like him using his fingers inside you during foreplay?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_005", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "manual_touch", - "question": "I want him to ask before changing speed or pressure.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_006", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "manual_touch", - "question": "What hand technique do you prefer?", - "options": [ - "Outside only", - "Inside only", - "Both together", - "No hand play" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_007", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "penetration", - "question": "Do you enjoy deep penetration?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_008", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "penetration", - "question": "I like when he starts shallow before going deeper.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_009", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "penetration", - "question": "Which penetration pace turns you on most?", - "options": [ - "Slow and deep", - "Fast and hard", - "Rhythm changes", - "I prefer no penetration" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_010", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "positions", - "question": "Do you want to be on top more often?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_011", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "positions", - "question": "I enjoy positions where I control the speed.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_012", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "positions", - "question": "Which position do you want more of?", - "options": [ - "On top", - "Missionary", - "From behind", - "Side by side" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_013", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "dominance", - "question": "Do you want him to be more dominant in bed?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_014", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "dominance", - "question": "I want dominance only when I clearly agree to it first.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_015", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "power", - "question": "Which power dynamic interests you most?", - "options": [ - "He leads", - "I lead", - "We switch", - "No power play" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_016", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "submission", - "question": "Do you like being told what to do sexually?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_017", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "submission", - "question": "I want commands to stop immediately if I say stop.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_018", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "dirty_talk", - "question": "What dirty talk style do you prefer?", - "options": [ - "Romantic", - "Filthy", - "Commanding", - "None" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_019", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "praise", - "question": "Do you like being praised during sex?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_020", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "praise", - "question": "I get turned on when he says I am doing a good job.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_021", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "praise", - "question": "What praise sounds best?", - "options": [ - "You are so sexy", - "You feel amazing", - "I want you badly", - "Keep doing that" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_022", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "teasing", - "question": "Do you like him making you wait before giving you what you want?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_023", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "teasing", - "question": "Teasing is hotter when he still checks that I am enjoying it.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_024", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "teasing", - "question": "What teasing do you like most?", - "options": [ - "Slow undressing", - "Almost touching", - "Dirty whispers", - "Kissing everywhere first" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_025", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "orgasm", - "question": "Do you want him to care more about your orgasm?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_026", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "orgasm", - "question": "I would rather he ask what helps me finish than pretend he knows.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_027", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "orgasm", - "question": "What helps you orgasm most often?", - "options": [ - "Clitoral touch", - "Oral sex", - "Penetration", - "Mental build up" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_028", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "toys", - "question": "Do you want to use sex toys with him?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_029", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "toys", - "question": "Toys feel like teamwork, not competition.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_030", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "toys", - "question": "Which toy idea interests you most?", - "options": [ - "Vibrator", - "Couples toy", - "Restraints", - "No toys" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_031", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "restraints", - "question": "Do you want to try light restraints with clear consent?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_032", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "restraints", - "question": "I need a safe word before any restraint play.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_033", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "restraints", - "question": "What restraint level feels acceptable?", - "options": [ - "Hands only", - "Soft cuffs", - "Blindfold only", - "None" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_034", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "spanking", - "question": "Do you enjoy light spanking?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_035", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "impact", - "question": "I want impact play to stay light unless I clearly ask for more.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_036", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "impact", - "question": "What level of impact sounds best?", - "options": [ - "None", - "Playful taps", - "Light spanking", - "Firm spanking" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_037", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "roleplay", - "question": "Do you want to try roleplay with him?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_038", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "roleplay", - "question": "Roleplay works better when we agree on limits first.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_039", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "roleplay", - "question": "Which roleplay vibe interests you most?", - "options": [ - "Strangers flirting", - "Bossy partner", - "Romantic fantasy", - "No roleplay" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_040", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "lingerie", - "question": "Do you like wearing lingerie to tease him?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_041", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "confidence", - "question": "I want him to make me feel sexy before expecting me to perform.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_042", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "clothing", - "question": "What clothing tease works best for you?", - "options": [ - "Lingerie", - "His shirt", - "Nothing under clothes", - "No clothing tease" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_043", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "sexting", - "question": "Do you like receiving dirty texts from him?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_044", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "sexting", - "question": "I want dirty texts only when I am in the mood and available.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_045", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "sexting", - "question": "What sexting style do you like?", - "options": [ - "Sweet and suggestive", - "Graphic and direct", - "Commanding", - "No sexting" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_046", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "photos", - "question": "Do you like sending sexy photos if trust is strong?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_047", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "photos", - "question": "Sexy photos require clear privacy rules first.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_048", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "photos", - "question": "What photo boundary matters most?", - "options": [ - "No face", - "No saving", - "No sharing ever", - "No photos" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_049", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "public_tease", - "question": "Do you like discreet teasing in public?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_050", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "public_tease", - "question": "Public teasing should stay private enough that no one else is involved.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_051", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "public_tease", - "question": "What public tease is acceptable?", - "options": [ - "A dirty text", - "A hand on my thigh", - "A whispered comment", - "None" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_052", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "shower", - "question": "Do you like shower sex or shower foreplay?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_053", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "location", - "question": "New locations turn me on when they still feel safe and private.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_054", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "location", - "question": "Which private location sounds hottest?", - "options": [ - "Shower", - "Couch", - "Kitchen counter", - "Car parked privately" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_055", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "fantasy", - "question": "Do you want him to ask about your fantasies directly?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_056", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "fantasy", - "question": "I have at least one fantasy I have not fully explained to him.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_057", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "fantasy", - "question": "Which fantasy category interests you most?", - "options": [ - "Power play", - "Voyeur tease", - "Romantic scenario", - "Trying something new" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_058", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "watching", - "question": "Do you like him watching you touch yourself?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_059", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "watching", - "question": "Being watched turns me on only when I feel confident and safe.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_060", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "watching", - "question": "What watching dynamic sounds best?", - "options": [ - "He watches only", - "We touch ourselves together", - "He tells me what to do", - "No watching" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_061", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "mutual_masturbation", - "question": "Do you want to try mutual masturbation?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_062", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "learning", - "question": "Watching each other can teach what each person actually likes.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_063", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "learning", - "question": "What would help him learn your body?", - "options": [ - "Show him", - "Guide his hand", - "Tell him after", - "Use a yes no maybe list" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_064", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "anal", - "question": "Do you want to discuss anal play as a yes, no, or maybe?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_065", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "anal", - "question": "Anal play is off limits unless I clearly choose it.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_066", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "anal", - "question": "Where are you on anal play?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "Maybe with preparation", - "Curious but not now", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_067", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "cum", - "question": "Do you want to talk openly about where he finishes?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_068", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "cum", - "question": "Where he finishes should be discussed before the moment.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_069", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "cum", - "question": "What finish boundary fits you best?", - "options": [ - "Ask every time", - "Pre-agreed choice", - "Condom only", - "Do not care" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_070", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "protection", - "question": "Do you want stricter rules about condoms or birth control?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_071", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "sexual_health", - "question": "I need STI testing talks to be normal, not awkward.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_072", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "protection", - "question": "What protection rule feels best?", - "options": [ - "Condoms always", - "Condoms sometimes", - "Testing first", - "Discuss each time" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_073", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "period", - "question": "Are you comfortable talking about period sex directly?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_074", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "period", - "question": "Period sex is a practical preference topic, not a shame topic.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_075", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "period", - "question": "What is your period sex preference?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "Maybe with towels", - "Only nonpenetrative", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_076", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "pain", - "question": "Do you want him to stop immediately if sex hurts, even a little?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_077", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "pain", - "question": "Pain should be treated as information, not as something to push through.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_078", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "comfort", - "question": "What should he do if you seem uncomfortable?", - "options": [ - "Stop and ask", - "Slow down", - "Switch activity", - "Give space" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_079", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "aftercare", - "question": "Do you want more cuddling after sex?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_080", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "aftercare", - "question": "Aftercare affects whether I want sex again later.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_081", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "aftercare", - "question": "Which aftercare feels best?", - "options": [ - "Hold me", - "Talk to me", - "Bring water", - "Let me rest" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_082", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "feedback", - "question": "Do you want a post sex check in sometimes?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_083", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "feedback", - "question": "Talking after sex can make the next time better.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_084", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "feedback", - "question": "When should feedback happen?", - "options": [ - "Right after", - "Later that day", - "Next day", - "Only when needed" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_085", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "kissing", - "question": "Do you want more kissing during sex itself?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_086", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "kissing", - "question": "Kissing keeps me emotionally connected during sex.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_087", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "kissing", - "question": "Where do you want more kisses?", - "options": [ - "Mouth", - "Neck", - "Breasts", - "Inner thighs" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_088", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "breasts", - "question": "Do you like breast or nipple play?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_089", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "breasts", - "question": "I want him to ask how sensitive my breasts or nipples are that day.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_090", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "breasts", - "question": "What breast play do you prefer?", - "options": [ - "Soft touch", - "Mouth", - "Firm touch", - "None" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_091", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "clit", - "question": "Do you want him to spend more time on clitoral stimulation?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_092", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "clit", - "question": "Direct clitoral touch can be too much unless the pressure is right.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_093", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "clit", - "question": "What clitoral pressure usually works best?", - "options": [ - "Barely there", - "Light", - "Firm", - "Indirect only" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_094", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "roughness", - "question": "Do you enjoy rougher sex sometimes?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_095", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "roughness", - "question": "Rough sex needs clearer consent than gentle sex.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_096", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "roughness", - "question": "What rough element interests you most?", - "options": [ - "Hair pulling", - "Firm grip", - "Harder thrusting", - "None" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_097", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "slow_sex", - "question": "Do you want slower sex more often?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_098", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "slow_sex", - "question": "Slow sex can feel more intense than fast sex.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_099", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "slow_sex", - "question": "What slow sex focus sounds best?", - "options": [ - "Deep kissing", - "Grinding", - "Slow penetration", - "Full body touch" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_100", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "quickies", - "question": "Do you enjoy quickies?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_101", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "quickies", - "question": "Quickies are better when they do not replace longer sex every time.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_102", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "quickies", - "question": "When would a quickie work best?", - "options": [ - "Morning", - "Before going out", - "After work", - "Rarely" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_103", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "body_confidence", - "question": "Do you want him to compliment specific body parts more?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_104", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "body_confidence", - "question": "I enjoy sex more when I feel wanted exactly as I am.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_105", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "body_confidence", - "question": "What compliment do you want most?", - "options": [ - "My body", - "My face", - "My voice", - "My sexual confidence" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_106", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "initiation_style", - "question": "Do you want him to be more direct when he wants sex?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_107", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "initiation_style", - "question": "Vague hints are less sexy than clear desire.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_108", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "initiation_style", - "question": "What direct line would work best?", - "options": [ - "I want you tonight", - "Come kiss me", - "I need you close", - "Tell me what you want" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_109", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "rejection", - "question": "Do you want him to handle rejection without sulking?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_110", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "rejection", - "question": "I am more likely to say yes later if no is respected now.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_111", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "rejection", - "question": "What should happen after a no?", - "options": [ - "Cuddle anyway", - "Give space", - "Try later", - "Do something nonsexual" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_112", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "rules", - "question": "Do you want a written yes no maybe list together?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_113", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "rules", - "question": "Clear rules can make sex feel freer, not colder.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_114", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "rules", - "question": "What list section matters most?", - "options": [ - "Hard no", - "Maybe", - "Want more", - "Need to discuss" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_115", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "trust", - "question": "Do you trust him with your sexual boundaries?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_116", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "trust", - "question": "Trust is sexy because it lets me relax.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_117", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "trust", - "question": "What builds the most sexual trust?", - "options": [ - "Listening", - "Patience", - "Privacy", - "Keeping promises" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_118", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "final_blunt", - "question": "Do you want him to ask you exactly what you want tonight?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_119", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "final_blunt", - "question": "I would rather be asked bluntly than have him guess badly.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "female_premium_120", - "audience": "female", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "final_blunt", - "question": "What question should he ask first?", - "options": [ - "What do you want tonight?", - "What is off limits?", - "How rough do you want it?", - "Do you want me to lead?" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_001", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "oral", - "question": "Do you want her to go down on you more often?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_002", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "oral", - "question": "I want oral sex to feel wanted, not like a chore.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_003", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "oral", - "question": "Which oral style do you prefer most?", - "options": [ - "Slow and teasing", - "Firm and focused", - "Eye contact", - "I do not want oral" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_004", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "manual_touch", - "question": "Do you like her stroking your penis during foreplay?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_005", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "manual_touch", - "question": "I want her to ask what pressure feels best.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_006", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "manual_touch", - "question": "What hand technique do you prefer?", - "options": [ - "Slow strokes", - "Firm strokes", - "Teasing pauses", - "No hand play" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_007", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "balls", - "question": "Do you enjoy having your balls touched during sex?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_008", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "balls", - "question": "I want ball play to be gentle unless I clearly say otherwise.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_009", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "balls", - "question": "What ball touch do you prefer?", - "options": [ - "None", - "Light touch", - "Mouth", - "Ask each time" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_010", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "penetration", - "question": "Do you enjoy deep penetration?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_011", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "penetration", - "question": "I like when she helps set the rhythm.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_012", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "penetration", - "question": "Which penetration pace turns you on most?", - "options": [ - "Slow and deep", - "Fast and hard", - "Rhythm changes", - "Depends on her" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_013", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "positions", - "question": "Do you want her on top more often?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_014", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "positions", - "question": "I enjoy positions where I can see her face.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_015", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "positions", - "question": "Which position do you want more of?", - "options": [ - "Her on top", - "Missionary", - "From behind", - "Side by side" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_016", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "dominance", - "question": "Do you want her to be more dominant in bed?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_017", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "dominance", - "question": "I like dominance only when both of us clearly agree to it.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_018", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "power", - "question": "Which power dynamic interests you most?", - "options": [ - "She leads", - "I lead", - "We switch", - "No power play" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_019", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "submission", - "question": "Do you like being told what to do sexually?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_020", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "submission", - "question": "I can enjoy taking orders without it meaning I am weak.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_021", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "dirty_talk", - "question": "What dirty talk style do you prefer?", - "options": [ - "Romantic", - "Filthy", - "Commanding", - "None" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_022", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "praise", - "question": "Do you like being praised during sex?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_023", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "praise", - "question": "I get turned on when she tells me I make her feel good.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_024", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "praise", - "question": "What praise sounds best?", - "options": [ - "You feel amazing", - "I want you", - "Do not stop", - "You are so sexy" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_025", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "teasing", - "question": "Do you like her making you wait before touching you directly?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_026", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "teasing", - "question": "Teasing is hotter when she acts confident.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_027", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "teasing", - "question": "What teasing do you like most?", - "options": [ - "Slow undressing", - "Almost touching", - "Dirty whispers", - "Kissing everywhere first" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_028", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "orgasm", - "question": "Do you want her to talk openly about your orgasm timing?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_029", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "orgasm", - "question": "I would rather talk about finishing too fast 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"Do you like receiving sexy photos if trust is strong?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_050", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "photos", - "question": "Sexy photos require clear privacy rules first.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_051", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "photos", - "question": "What photo boundary matters most?", - "options": [ - "No face", - "No saving", - "No sharing ever", - "No photos" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_052", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "public_tease", - "question": "Do you like discreet teasing in public?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_053", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "public_tease", - "question": "Public teasing should stay 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"Which private location sounds hottest?", - "options": [ - "Shower", - "Couch", - "Kitchen counter", - "Car parked privately" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_058", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "fantasy", - "question": "Do you want her to ask about your fantasies directly?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_059", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "fantasy", - "question": "I have at least one fantasy I have not fully explained to her.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_060", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "fantasy", - "question": "Which fantasy category interests you most?", - "options": [ - "Power play", - "Voyeur tease", - "Romantic scenario", - "Trying something new" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_061", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "watching", - "question": "Do you like watching her touch herself?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_062", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "watching", - "question": "Watching her pleasure herself can be hotter than rushing into sex.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_063", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "watching", - "question": "What watching dynamic sounds best?", - "options": [ - "I watch only", - "We touch ourselves together", - "She tells me what to do", - "No watching" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_064", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "mutual_masturbation", - "question": "Do you want to try mutual masturbation?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_065", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "learning", - "question": "Watching each other can teach what each person actually likes.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_066", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "learning", - "question": "What would help you learn her body?", - "options": [ - "She shows me", - "She guides my hand", - "She tells me after", - "Use a yes no maybe list" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_067", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "anal", - "question": "Do you want to discuss anal play as a yes, no, or maybe?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_068", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "anal", - "question": "Anal play is off limits unless she clearly chooses it.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_069", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "anal", - "question": "Where are you on anal play?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "Maybe with preparation", - "Curious but not now", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_070", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "cum", - "question": "Do you want to talk openly about where you finish?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_071", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "cum", - "question": "Where I finish should be discussed before the moment.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_072", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "cum", - "question": "What finish boundary fits you best?", - "options": [ - "Ask every time", - "Pre-agreed choice", - "Condom only", - "Do not care" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_073", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "protection", - "question": "Do you want clearer rules about condoms or birth control?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_074", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "sexual_health", - "question": "I need STI testing talks to be normal, not awkward.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_075", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "protection", - "question": "What protection rule feels best?", - "options": [ - "Condoms always", - "Condoms sometimes", - "Testing first", - "Discuss each time" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_076", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "period", - "question": "Are you comfortable talking about period sex directly?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - 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"False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_081", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "comfort", - "question": "What should you do if she seems uncomfortable?", - "options": [ - "Stop and ask", - "Slow down", - "Switch activity", - "Give space" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_082", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "yes_no", - "category": "aftercare", - "question": "Do you want more cuddling after sex?", - "options": [ - "Yes", - "No" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_083", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "true_false", - "category": "aftercare", - "question": "Aftercare affects whether both of us want sex again later.", - "options": [ - "True", - "False" - ] - }, - { - "id": "male_premium_084", - "audience": "male", - "tier": "premium", - "format": "multiple_choice", - "category": "aftercare", - "question": "Which aftercare feels best?", - "options": [ - "Hold each other", - "Talk", - 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"id": "start_small", + "text": "Start small" + }, + { + "id": "easy_stop", + "text": "Easy stop" + }, + { + "id": "aftercare", + "text": "Aftercare" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_205", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which boundary matters most in this area?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "boundaries", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "easy_no", + "text": "Easy no" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_206", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes a private photo conversation safest?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "privacy", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_photos", + "text": "No photos" + }, + { + "id": "ask_every_time", + "text": "Ask every time" + }, + { + "id": "no_saving", + "text": "No saving" + }, + { + "id": "not_for_us", + "text": "Not for us" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_207", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which kind of initiation feels best?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "direct", + "text": "Direct" + }, + { + "id": "playful", + "text": "Playful" + }, + { + "id": "slow", + "text": "Slow" + }, + { + "id": "asked_first", + "text": "Asked first" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_208", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes a no easiest to receive?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "no", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": 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"couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "kind_words", + "text": "Kind words" + }, + { + "id": "other_closeness", + "text": "Other closeness" + }, + { + "id": "try_later", + "text": "Try later" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_211", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of body talk feels safest?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "body_confidence", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "compliments", + "text": "Compliments" + }, + { + "id": "no_comparing", + "text": "No comparing" + }, + { + "id": "specific_kindness", + "text": "Specific kindness" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_body_talk", + "text": "Avoid body talk" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_212", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of eye contact feels best?", + 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"What helps intimacy after stress?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "stress", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "help_first", + "text": "Help first" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_time", + "text": "Quiet time" + }, + { + "id": "affection", + "text": "Affection" + }, + { + "id": "flirting", + "text": "Flirting" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_215", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps intimacy after distance?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "distance", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_start", + "text": "Soft start" + }, + { + "id": "honest_talk", + "text": "Honest talk" + }, + { + "id": "date_night", + "text": "Date night" + }, + { + "id": "slow_affection", + "text": "Slow affection" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_216", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", 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"type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes being pursued feel good to you as a man?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "male", + "tags": [ + "male", + "pursuit", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "partner_initiates", + "text": "My partner initiates" + }, + { + "id": "flirty_words", + "text": "Flirty words" + }, + { + "id": "being_pulled_close", + "text": "Being pulled close" + }, + { + "id": "clear_desire", + "text": "Clear desire" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_241", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps intimacy feel welcome?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "welcome", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "playful_mood", + "text": "Playful mood" + }, + { + "id": "asking_first", + "text": 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"couple_intimacy_245", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes intimacy feel playful?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "play", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "laughter", + "text": "Laughter" + }, + { + "id": "teasing", + "text": "Teasing" + }, + { + "id": "private_games", + "text": "Private games" + }, + { + "id": "flirty_texts", + "text": "Flirty texts" + }, + { + "id": "dancing", + "text": "Dancing" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_246", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What lowers closeness when life gets busy?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "busy_life", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "exhaustion", + "text": "Exhaustion" + }, + { + "id": "stress", + "text": "Stress" + }, + { + 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} + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_286", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Cuddling or kissing?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "closeness", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cuddling", + "text": "Cuddling" + }, + { + "id": "kissing", + "text": "Kissing" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_287", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Sweet or spicy?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "mood", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet", + "text": "Sweet" + }, + { + "id": "spicy", + "text": "Spicy" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_288", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Flirty words or flirty touch?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "flirting", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "flirty_words", + "text": "Flirty words" + }, + { + "id": "flirty_touch", + "text": "Flirty touch" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_289", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Slow build-up or sudden spark?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "anticipation", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_build", + "text": "Slow build-up" + }, + { + "id": "sudden_spark", + "text": "Sudden spark" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_290", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Private talk or private game?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "play", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "private_talk", + "text": "Private talk" + }, + { + "id": "private_game", + "text": "Private game" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_291", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Ask first or read the moment?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "consent", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + }, + { + "id": "read_moment", + "text": "Read the moment" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_292", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "More romance or more play?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "mood", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_romance", + "text": "More romance" + }, + { + "id": "more_play", + "text": "More play" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_293", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Planned night or spontaneous moment?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "planning", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "planned_night", + "text": "Planned night" + }, + { + "id": "spontaneous_moment", + "text": "Spontaneous moment" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_294", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "More anticipation or more aftercare?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "desire", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_anticipation", + "text": "More anticipation" + }, + { + "id": "more_aftercare", + "text": "More aftercare" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_295", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Compliments or eye contact?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "connection", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "compliments", + "text": "Compliments" + }, + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_296", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Bold invitation or soft invitation?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "bold_invitation", + "text": "Bold invitation" + }, + { + "id": "soft_invitation", + "text": "Soft invitation" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_297", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "New idea or favorite old spark?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "novelty", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "new_idea", + "text": "New idea" + }, + { + "id": "old_spark", + "text": "Favorite old spark" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_298", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Touch first or words first?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "communication", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "touch_first", + "text": "Touch first" + }, + { + "id": "words_first", + "text": "Words first" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_299", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Hold me tighter or give me room?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "space", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hold_me_tighter", + "text": "Hold me tighter" + }, + { + "id": "give_me_room", + "text": "Give me room" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "couple_intimacy_300", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Quiet closeness or electric closeness?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "closeness", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_closeness", + "text": "Quiet closeness" + }, + { + "id": "electric_closeness", + "text": "Electric closeness" + } + ] + } } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/date_night.json b/seed/questions/date_night.json index 646c2fae..e864db14 100644 --- a/seed/questions/date_night.json +++ b/seed/questions/date_night.json @@ -2,7 +2,7 @@ "category": { "id": "date_night", "display_name": "Date Night", - "description": "Questions designed for couples to use during dates, meals, walks, or quiet time together.", + "description": "Warm, low-pressure prompts for planning dates, enjoying time together, and making ordinary moments feel intentional.", "access": "mixed", "total_questions": 250, "free_questions": 75, @@ -28,12 +28,12 @@ "id": "date_night_001", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a simple dinner feel fun for both of us?", + "text": "What is a simple date we could do this week without much planning?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_simple_dinner", - "fun" + "easy_dates", + "planning" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -45,12 +45,12 @@ "id": "date_night_002", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make a simple dinner easy to plan this month?", + "text": "What would make an ordinary night together feel a little more special?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_simple_dinner", - "planning" + "simple_dates", + "special" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -62,12 +62,12 @@ "id": "date_night_003", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small detail that would make a simple dinner feel special?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is your favorite kind of low-effort date with me?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_simple_dinner", - "special" + "easy_dates", + "preference" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -79,12 +79,12 @@ "id": "date_night_004", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we avoid so a simple dinner does not feel like another task?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What snack or drink would make a movie night feel complete?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_simple_dinner", - "ease" + "movie_night", + "food" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -96,12 +96,12 @@ "id": "date_night_005", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you want to remember after a simple dinner?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is a small at-home date we could repeat often?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_simple_dinner", - "memories" + "home_date", + "repeat" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -113,11 +113,11 @@ "id": "date_night_006", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a walk together feel fun for both of us?", + "text": "What is one free date idea that actually sounds fun to you?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_walk_together", + "low_cost", "fun" ], "answer_config": { @@ -130,12 +130,12 @@ "id": "date_night_007", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make a walk together easy to plan this month?", + "text": "What kind of date helps you relax the fastest?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_walk_together", - "planning" + "rest", + "preference" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -147,12 +147,12 @@ "id": "date_night_008", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small detail that would make a walk together feel special?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is a tiny adventure we could do close to home?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_walk_together", - "special" + "adventure", + "low_cost" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -164,12 +164,12 @@ "id": "date_night_009", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we avoid so a walk together does not feel like another task?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What would make a walk together feel worth remembering?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_walk_together", - "ease" + "walk", + "memories" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -181,12 +181,12 @@ "id": "date_night_010", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you want to remember after a walk together?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one thing we could do tonight to feel less bored?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_walk_together", - "memories" + "tonight", + "fun" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -198,12 +198,12 @@ "id": "date_night_011", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make cooking at home feel fun for both of us?", + "text": "What is a date idea that would make you laugh?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "cooking_at_home", - "fun" + "playfulness", + "date_idea" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -215,12 +215,12 @@ "id": "date_night_012", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make cooking at home easy to plan this month?", + "text": "What is one thing we could try just because it sounds fun?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "cooking_at_home", - "planning" + "new_things", + "fun" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -232,12 +232,12 @@ "id": "date_night_013", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small detail that would make cooking at home feel special?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is a cozy date you would almost always say yes to?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "cooking_at_home", - "special" + "cozy", + "preference" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -249,12 +249,12 @@ "id": "date_night_014", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we avoid so cooking at home does not feel like another task?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is a quick date we could fit into a busy week?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "cooking_at_home", - "ease" + "busy_life", + "quick_date" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -266,12 +266,12 @@ "id": "date_night_015", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you want to remember after cooking at home?", + "text": "What would make dinner together feel like a date instead of a chore?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "cooking_at_home", - "memories" + "dinner", + "mindset" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -283,12 +283,12 @@ "id": "date_night_016", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a movie night feel fun for both of us?", + "text": "What is one place nearby you would like us to visit together?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_movie_night", - "fun" + "going_out", + "local" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -300,12 +300,12 @@ "id": "date_night_017", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make a movie night easy to plan this month?", + "text": "What kind of music would set the mood for a night in?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_movie_night", - "planning" + "music", + "home_date" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -317,12 +317,12 @@ "id": "date_night_018", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small detail that would make a movie night feel special?", + "text": "What is a date we could do when we are tired but still want connection?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_movie_night", - "special" + "rest", + "connection" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -334,12 +334,12 @@ "id": "date_night_019", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we avoid so a movie night does not feel like another task?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is something playful we could add to our next night together?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_movie_night", - "ease" + "playfulness", + "date_night" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -351,12 +351,12 @@ "id": "date_night_020", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you want to remember after a movie night?", + "text": "What is a small surprise that would make you smile on a date?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_movie_night", - "memories" + "surprise", + "thoughtful" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -368,12 +368,12 @@ "id": "date_night_021", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make trying something new feel fun for both of us?", + "text": "What is your ideal lazy date with me?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "trying_something_new", - "fun" + "rest", + "preference" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -385,12 +385,12 @@ "id": "date_night_022", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make trying something new easy to plan this month?", + "text": "What is one meal that feels like a date-night meal to you?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "trying_something_new", - "planning" + "food", + "dinner" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -402,12 +402,12 @@ "id": "date_night_023", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small detail that would make trying something new feel special?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What would make breakfast or coffee together feel like a real date?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "trying_something_new", - "special" + "coffee_date", + "morning" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -419,12 +419,12 @@ "id": "date_night_024", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we avoid so trying something new does not feel like another task?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is a date we could do without spending money?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "trying_something_new", - "ease" + "low_cost", + "free" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -436,12 +436,12 @@ "id": "date_night_025", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you want to remember after trying something new?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What would make a car ride together feel fun?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "trying_something_new", - "memories" + "drive", + "fun" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -453,12 +453,12 @@ "id": "date_night_026", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a low-cost date feel fun for both of us?", + "text": "What is a simple outdoor date you would enjoy?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_low_cost_date", - "fun" + "outside", + "date_idea" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -470,12 +470,12 @@ "id": "date_night_027", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make a low-cost date easy to plan this month?", + "text": "What is a rainy-day date we should keep in our back pocket?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_low_cost_date", - "planning" + "rainy_day", + "home_date" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -487,12 +487,12 @@ "id": "date_night_028", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small detail that would make a low-cost date feel special?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What would make a regular grocery trip feel more like us?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_low_cost_date", - "special" + "errands", + "playfulness" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -504,12 +504,12 @@ "id": "date_night_029", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we avoid so a low-cost date does not feel like another task?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one thing we could cook together that would be fun?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_low_cost_date", - "ease" + "cooking", + "food" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -521,12 +521,12 @@ "id": "date_night_030", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you want to remember after a low-cost date?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What would make a game night feel more like a date?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_low_cost_date", - "memories" + "game_night", + "home_date" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -538,12 +538,12 @@ "id": "date_night_031", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a cozy night in feel fun for both of us?", + "text": "What is a date idea that feels easy on the budget and still sweet?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_cozy_night_in", - "fun" + "budget", + "sweet" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -555,12 +555,12 @@ "id": "date_night_032", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make a cozy night in easy to plan this month?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What would make our next at-home date feel intentional?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_cozy_night_in", - "planning" + "home_date", + "intentional" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -572,12 +572,12 @@ "id": "date_night_033", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small detail that would make a cozy night in feel special?", + "text": "What is one little detail that makes a date feel planned with care?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_cozy_night_in", - "special" + "thoughtful", + "planning" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -589,12 +589,12 @@ "id": "date_night_034", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we avoid so a cozy night in does not feel like another task?", + "text": "What helps you enjoy a date even when the plan is simple?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_cozy_night_in", - "ease" + "simple_dates", + "enjoyment" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -606,12 +606,12 @@ "id": "date_night_035", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you want to remember after a cozy night in?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one date we could do in under an hour?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_cozy_night_in", - "memories" + "quick_date", + "busy_life" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -623,12 +623,12 @@ "id": "date_night_036", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a spontaneous plan feel fun for both of us?", + "text": "What is a date we could do after a long day?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_spontaneous_plan", - "fun" + "after_work", + "rest" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -640,12 +640,12 @@ "id": "date_night_037", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make a spontaneous plan easy to plan this month?", + "text": "What would make takeout at home feel less ordinary?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_spontaneous_plan", - "planning" + "takeout", + "home_date" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -657,12 +657,12 @@ "id": "date_night_038", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small detail that would make a spontaneous plan feel special?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is a dessert-only date you would enjoy?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_spontaneous_plan", - "special" + "dessert", + "food" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -674,12 +674,12 @@ "id": "date_night_039", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we avoid so a spontaneous plan does not feel like another task?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is a date we could do in comfortable clothes?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_spontaneous_plan", - "ease" + "cozy", + "comfort" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -691,12 +691,12 @@ "id": "date_night_040", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you want to remember after a spontaneous plan?", + "text": "What is one way to make our next date feel playful from the start?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_spontaneous_plan", - "memories" + "playfulness", + "start" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -708,12 +708,12 @@ "id": "date_night_041", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a shared playlist feel fun for both of us?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What kind of date makes you feel most like yourself with me?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_shared_playlist", - "fun" + "comfort", + "identity" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -725,12 +725,12 @@ "id": "date_night_042", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make a shared playlist easy to plan this month?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one date idea that feels like us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_shared_playlist", - "planning" + "couple_identity", + "date_idea" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -742,12 +742,12 @@ "id": "date_night_043", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small detail that would make a shared playlist feel special?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is a place where you would like to sit and talk with me?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_shared_playlist", - "special" + "conversation", + "location" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -759,12 +759,12 @@ "id": "date_night_044", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we avoid so a shared playlist does not feel like another task?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is a date we should try during the next nice-weather day?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_shared_playlist", - "ease" + "weather", + "outside" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -776,12 +776,12 @@ "id": "date_night_045", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you want to remember after a shared playlist?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one seasonal date you want us to do this year?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_shared_playlist", - "memories" + "seasonal", + "date_idea" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -793,12 +793,12 @@ "id": "date_night_046", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a favorite memory feel fun for both of us?", + "text": "What would make a picnic feel worth the effort?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_favorite_memory", - "fun" + "picnic", + "planning" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -810,12 +810,12 @@ "id": "date_night_047", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make a favorite memory easy to plan this month?", + "text": "What is an errand we could turn into a mini date?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_favorite_memory", - "planning" + "errands", + "mini_date" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -827,12 +827,12 @@ "id": "date_night_048", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small detail that would make a favorite memory feel special?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is a small local place we should explore together?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_favorite_memory", - "special" + "local", + "adventure" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -844,12 +844,12 @@ "id": "date_night_049", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we avoid so a favorite memory does not feel like another task?", + "text": "What is one date idea that would get us out of our usual routine?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_favorite_memory", - "ease" + "rut_breaking", + "new_things" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -861,12 +861,12 @@ "id": "date_night_050", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you want to remember after a favorite memory?", + "text": "What would make trying something new feel safe and fun for you?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_favorite_memory", - "memories" + "new_things", + "comfort" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -878,12 +878,12 @@ "id": "date_night_051", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a playful challenge feel fun for both of us?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is a date we could do with no phones?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_playful_challenge", - "fun" + "phones", + "presence" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -895,12 +895,12 @@ "id": "date_night_052", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make a playful challenge easy to plan this month?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is a date that would help us slow down together?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_playful_challenge", - "planning" + "slow_date", + "rest" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -912,12 +912,12 @@ "id": "date_night_053", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small detail that would make a playful challenge feel special?", + "text": "What kind of date makes conversation come easily for you?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_playful_challenge", - "special" + "conversation", + "preference" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -929,12 +929,12 @@ "id": "date_night_054", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we avoid so a playful challenge does not feel like another task?", + "text": "What is one question you would like me to ask on a date?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_playful_challenge", - "ease" + "conversation", + "curiosity" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -946,12 +946,12 @@ "id": "date_night_055", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you want to remember after a playful challenge?", + "text": "What topic should we save for date night instead of rushing through?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "a_playful_challenge", - "memories" + "conversation", + "timing" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -963,12 +963,12 @@ "id": "date_night_056", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a quiet conversation feel fun for both of us?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "What topic should we avoid if we want the date to stay light?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_quiet_conversation", - "fun" + "boundaries", + "topics" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -980,12 +980,12 @@ "id": "date_night_057", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make a quiet conversation easy to plan this month?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "What makes you feel like I am really present with you?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_quiet_conversation", - "planning" + "presence", + "attention" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -997,12 +997,12 @@ "id": "date_night_058", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small detail that would make a quiet conversation feel special?", + "text": "What helps you stay present with me during a date?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_quiet_conversation", - "special" + "presence", + "support" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1014,12 +1014,12 @@ "id": "date_night_059", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we avoid so a quiet conversation does not feel like another task?", + "text": "What is one thing that usually distracts us from enjoying time together?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_quiet_conversation", - "ease" + "distractions", + "awareness" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1031,12 +1031,12 @@ "id": "date_night_060", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you want to remember after a quiet conversation?", + "text": "What would make our next date feel calmer?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_quiet_conversation", - "memories" + "calm", + "date_night" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1048,12 +1048,12 @@ "id": "date_night_061", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a small adventure feel fun for both of us?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "What is one thing that would make date planning easier for you?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_small_adventure", - "fun" + "planning", + "ease" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1065,12 +1065,12 @@ "id": "date_night_062", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make a small adventure easy to plan this month?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "How much notice helps you actually look forward to a date?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_small_adventure", - "planning" + "planning", + "notice" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1082,12 +1082,12 @@ "id": "date_night_063", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small detail that would make a small adventure feel special?", + "text": "What kind of plan feels romantic without feeling stressful?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_small_adventure", - "special" + "romance", + "planning" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1099,12 +1099,12 @@ "id": "date_night_064", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we avoid so a small adventure does not feel like another task?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "What part of date planning do you enjoy most?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_small_adventure", - "ease" + "planning", + "enjoyment" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1116,12 +1116,12 @@ "id": "date_night_065", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you want to remember after a small adventure?", + "text": "What part of date planning feels like a burden?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_small_adventure", - "memories" + "planning", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1133,12 +1133,12 @@ "id": "date_night_066", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a no-phone hour feel fun for both of us?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "What is one way we could share the planning better?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_no_phone_hour", - "fun" + "planning", + "teamwork" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1150,12 +1150,12 @@ "id": "date_night_067", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make a no-phone hour easy to plan this month?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "What helps a planned date feel exciting instead of scheduled?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_no_phone_hour", - "planning" + "planning", + "excitement" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1167,12 +1167,12 @@ "id": "date_night_068", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small detail that would make a no-phone hour feel special?", + "text": "What makes a spontaneous date feel fun instead of chaotic?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_no_phone_hour", - "special" + "spontaneity", + "comfort" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1184,12 +1184,12 @@ "id": "date_night_069", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we avoid so a no-phone hour does not feel like another task?", + "text": "What should I know before surprising you with a date?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_no_phone_hour", - "ease" + "surprise", + "preference" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1201,12 +1201,12 @@ "id": "date_night_070", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you want to remember after a no-phone hour?", + "text": "What kind of surprise feels thoughtful to you?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_no_phone_hour", - "memories" + "surprise", + "thoughtful" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1218,12 +1218,12 @@ "id": "date_night_071", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a celebration night feel fun for both of us?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "What would make you feel chosen on a date with me?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_celebration_night", - "fun" + "feeling_wanted", + "romance" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1235,12 +1235,12 @@ "id": "date_night_072", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make a celebration night easy to plan this month?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "What makes you feel like I really wanted time with you?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_celebration_night", - "planning" + "feeling_wanted", + "attention" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1252,12 +1252,12 @@ "id": "date_night_073", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small detail that would make a celebration night feel special?", + "text": "What is one thing I do on dates that makes you feel cared for?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_celebration_night", - "special" + "care", + "appreciation" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1269,12 +1269,12 @@ "id": "date_night_074", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we avoid so a celebration night does not feel like another task?", + "text": "What is one thing I could do more often on dates?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_celebration_night", - "ease" + "care", + "growth" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1286,12 +1286,12 @@ "id": "date_night_075", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would you want to remember after a celebration night?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "What kind of attention from me feels most romantic?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_celebration_night", - "memories" + "romance", + "attention" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1303,12 +1303,12 @@ "id": "date_night_076", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a date that brings us closer feel meaningful instead of just scheduled?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What kind of affection feels sweet during a date?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_date_that_brings_us_closer", - "meaning" + "affection", + "romance" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1320,12 +1320,12 @@ "id": "date_night_077", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of conversation would fit a date that brings us closer?", + "text": "What helps physical affection feel natural on a date?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_date_that_brings_us_closer", - "conversation" + "affection", + "comfort" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1337,12 +1337,12 @@ "id": "date_night_078", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you feel desired, chosen, or appreciated during a date that brings us closer?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What makes you feel relaxed enough to be affectionate?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_date_that_brings_us_closer", - "romance" + "affection", + "relaxation" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1354,12 +1354,12 @@ "id": "date_night_079", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary or preference should we respect during a date that brings us closer?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is a romantic detail you notice more than I realize?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_date_that_brings_us_closer", - "boundaries" + "romance", + "details" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1371,12 +1371,12 @@ "id": "date_night_080", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could a date that brings us closer become a ritual we actually look forward to?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What kind of compliment feels good to hear on a date?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_date_that_brings_us_closer", - "ritual" + "compliments", + "romance" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1388,12 +1388,12 @@ "id": "date_night_081", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a romantic reset feel meaningful instead of just scheduled?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes a date feel flirty in a way you enjoy?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_romantic_reset", - "meaning" + "flirting", + "playfulness" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1405,12 +1405,12 @@ "id": "date_night_082", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of conversation would fit a romantic reset?", + "text": "What helps you feel pursued, not just scheduled?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_romantic_reset", - "conversation" + "feeling_wanted", + "romance" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1422,12 +1422,12 @@ "id": "date_night_083", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you feel desired, chosen, or appreciated during a romantic reset?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is one way I could make our next date feel more personal?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_romantic_reset", - "romance" + "personal", + "thoughtful" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1439,12 +1439,12 @@ "id": "date_night_084", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary or preference should we respect during a romantic reset?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What makes a date feel special even if it is simple?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_romantic_reset", - "boundaries" + "simple_dates", + "special" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1456,12 +1456,12 @@ "id": "date_night_085", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could a romantic reset become a ritual we actually look forward to?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is a date memory where you felt really wanted by me?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_romantic_reset", - "ritual" + "memories", + "feeling_wanted" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1473,12 +1473,12 @@ "id": "date_night_086", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a deeper conversation date feel meaningful instead of just scheduled?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is a date memory where you felt really close to me?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_deeper_conversation_date", - "meaning" + "memories", + "closeness" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1490,12 +1490,12 @@ "id": "date_night_087", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of conversation would fit a deeper conversation date?", + "text": "What do you wish we brought back from when we first started dating?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_deeper_conversation_date", - "conversation" + "early_days", + "renewal" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1507,12 +1507,12 @@ "id": "date_night_088", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you feel desired, chosen, or appreciated during a deeper conversation date?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What did I do early on that still makes you smile?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_deeper_conversation_date", - "romance" + "early_days", + "memories" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1524,12 +1524,12 @@ "id": "date_night_089", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary or preference should we respect during a deeper conversation date?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is one little ritual we could start for date nights?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_deeper_conversation_date", - "boundaries" + "rituals", + "tradition" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1541,12 +1541,12 @@ "id": "date_night_090", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could a deeper conversation date become a ritual we actually look forward to?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make saying yes to dates easier right now?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_deeper_conversation_date", - "ritual" + "ease", + "busy_life" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1558,12 +1558,12 @@ "id": "date_night_091", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a sensual but respectful evening feel meaningful instead of just scheduled?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What tends to make date night harder for you to enjoy?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_sensual_but_respectful_evening", - "meaning" + "stress", + "awareness" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1575,12 +1575,12 @@ "id": "date_night_092", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of conversation would fit a sensual but respectful evening?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What should we do when one of us is too tired for the plan?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_sensual_but_respectful_evening", - "conversation" + "tired", + "flexibility" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1592,12 +1592,12 @@ "id": "date_night_093", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you feel desired, chosen, or appreciated during a sensual but respectful evening?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is a backup date we could use when plans fall apart?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_sensual_but_respectful_evening", - "romance" + "backup_plan", + "ease" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1609,12 +1609,12 @@ "id": "date_night_094", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary or preference should we respect during a sensual but respectful evening?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps a cancelled plan still feel like we chose each other?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_sensual_but_respectful_evening", - "boundaries" + "disappointment", + "repair" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1626,12 +1626,12 @@ "id": "date_night_095", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could a sensual but respectful evening become a ritual we actually look forward to?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would help us protect date time from everyday stress?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_sensual_but_respectful_evening", - "ritual" + "stress", + "protect_time" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1643,12 +1643,12 @@ "id": "date_night_096", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a future-planning date feel meaningful instead of just scheduled?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes date night feel like another task, and how can we avoid that?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_future_planning_date", - "meaning" + "task_load", + "ease" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1660,12 +1660,12 @@ "id": "date_night_097", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of conversation would fit a future-planning date?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would make you more excited to plan something together?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_future_planning_date", - "conversation" + "planning", + "excitement" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1677,12 +1677,12 @@ "id": "date_night_098", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you feel desired, chosen, or appreciated during a future-planning date?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is one small thing we could do before a date to get in a better mood?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_future_planning_date", - "romance" + "pre_date", + "mood" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1694,12 +1694,12 @@ "id": "date_night_099", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary or preference should we respect during a future-planning date?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps you switch from busy mode into couple mode?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_future_planning_date", - "boundaries" + "busy_life", + "transition" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1711,12 +1711,12 @@ "id": "date_night_100", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could a future-planning date become a ritual we actually look forward to?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would help us stop talking only about logistics on dates?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_future_planning_date", - "ritual" + "conversation", + "logistics" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1728,12 +1728,12 @@ "id": "date_night_101", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a repair-after-stress date feel meaningful instead of just scheduled?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes you feel like we are dating each other, not just managing life?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_repair_after_stress_date", - "meaning" + "renewal", + "busy_life" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1745,12 +1745,12 @@ "id": "date_night_102", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of conversation would fit a repair-after-stress date?", + "text": "What kind of date helps us reconnect after a stressful week?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_repair_after_stress_date", - "conversation" + "reconnect", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1762,12 +1762,12 @@ "id": "date_night_103", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you feel desired, chosen, or appreciated during a repair-after-stress date?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What kind of date helps us reconnect after we have felt distant?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_repair_after_stress_date", - "romance" + "reconnect", + "distance" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1779,12 +1779,12 @@ "id": "date_night_104", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary or preference should we respect during a repair-after-stress date?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is a gentle date idea for when we are not fully okay yet?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_repair_after_stress_date", - "boundaries" + "repair", + "gentle" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1796,12 +1796,12 @@ "id": "date_night_105", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could a repair-after-stress date become a ritual we actually look forward to?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps a date feel safe after we have had tension?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_repair_after_stress_date", - "ritual" + "repair", + "safety" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1813,12 +1813,12 @@ "id": "date_night_106", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a tradition we create feel meaningful instead of just scheduled?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What should we not try to fix during date night?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_tradition_we_create", - "meaning" + "boundaries", + "conflict" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1830,12 +1830,12 @@ "id": "date_night_107", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of conversation would fit a tradition we create?", + "text": "What helps you feel open to me during a quieter date?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_tradition_we_create", - "conversation" + "openness", + "quiet" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1847,12 +1847,12 @@ "id": "date_night_108", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you feel desired, chosen, or appreciated during a tradition we create?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is one way we can use date night to enjoy each other, not solve everything?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_tradition_we_create", - "romance" + "pressure", + "enjoyment" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1864,12 +1864,12 @@ "id": "date_night_109", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary or preference should we respect during a tradition we create?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is one sign that a date helped us reconnect?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_tradition_we_create", - "boundaries" + "reconnect", + "signals" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1881,12 +1881,12 @@ "id": "date_night_110", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could a tradition we create become a ritual we actually look forward to?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes you leave a date feeling lighter?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_tradition_we_create", - "ritual" + "after_date", + "mood" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1898,12 +1898,12 @@ "id": "date_night_111", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a surprise date feel meaningful instead of just scheduled?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes you leave a date feeling closer to me?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_surprise_date", - "meaning" + "after_date", + "closeness" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1915,12 +1915,12 @@ "id": "date_night_112", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of conversation would fit a surprise date?", + "text": "What do you usually hope I notice during a date?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_surprise_date", - "conversation" + "attention", + "care" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1932,12 +1932,12 @@ "id": "date_night_113", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you feel desired, chosen, or appreciated during a surprise date?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is something small I could do at the end of a date that would mean a lot?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_surprise_date", - "romance" + "after_date", + "thoughtful" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1949,12 +1949,12 @@ "id": "date_night_114", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary or preference should we respect during a surprise date?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is one date we should take a photo during?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_surprise_date", - "boundaries" + "memories", + "photos" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1966,12 +1966,12 @@ "id": "date_night_115", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could a surprise date become a ritual we actually look forward to?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What date memory would you love to recreate?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_surprise_date", - "ritual" + "memories", + "repeat" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -1983,12 +1983,12 @@ "id": "date_night_116", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a nostalgia night feel meaningful instead of just scheduled?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one old favorite place we should revisit?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_nostalgia_night", - "meaning" + "memories", + "places" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2000,12 +2000,12 @@ "id": "date_night_117", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of conversation would fit a nostalgia night?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is a date we talked about but never actually did?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_nostalgia_night", - "conversation" + "unfinished_plans", + "date_idea" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2017,12 +2017,12 @@ "id": "date_night_118", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you feel desired, chosen, or appreciated during a nostalgia night?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What date would make a good story later?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_nostalgia_night", - "romance" + "memories", + "adventure" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2034,12 +2034,12 @@ "id": "date_night_119", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary or preference should we respect during a nostalgia night?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is one tradition you would like us to build around date night?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_nostalgia_night", - "boundaries" + "tradition", + "rituals" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2051,12 +2051,12 @@ "id": "date_night_120", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could a nostalgia night become a ritual we actually look forward to?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What should our default date be when we cannot decide?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_nostalgia_night", - "ritual" + "default_date", + "ease" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2068,12 +2068,12 @@ "id": "date_night_121", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a dream-building date feel meaningful instead of just scheduled?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What date would you want us to do every year?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_dream_building_date", - "meaning" + "tradition", + "yearly" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2085,12 +2085,12 @@ "id": "date_night_122", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of conversation would fit a dream-building date?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is a date idea that feels special to our relationship?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_dream_building_date", - "conversation" + "couple_identity", + "special" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2102,12 +2102,12 @@ "id": "date_night_123", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you feel desired, chosen, or appreciated during a dream-building date?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What place or activity reminds you of us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_dream_building_date", - "romance" + "memories", + "identity" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2119,12 +2119,12 @@ "id": "date_night_124", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary or preference should we respect during a dream-building date?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is one thing you want to remember from our next date?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_dream_building_date", - "boundaries" + "memories", + "next_date" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2136,12 +2136,12 @@ "id": "date_night_125", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could a dream-building date become a ritual we actually look forward to?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What do you want our dates to feel like in this stage of life?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_dream_building_date", - "ritual" + "life_stage", + "date_night" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2153,12 +2153,12 @@ "id": "date_night_126", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make an intimacy-focused date feel meaningful instead of just scheduled?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is something you miss about how we used to spend time together?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "an_intimacy_focused_date", - "meaning" + "missing", + "reflection" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2170,12 +2170,12 @@ "id": "date_night_127", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of conversation would fit an intimacy-focused date?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is something you like about how we spend time together now?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "an_intimacy_focused_date", - "conversation" + "gratitude", + "present" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2187,12 +2187,12 @@ "id": "date_night_128", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you feel desired, chosen, or appreciated during an intimacy-focused date?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is one date idea that would help us feel young again?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "an_intimacy_focused_date", - "romance" + "playfulness", + "renewal" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2204,12 +2204,12 @@ "id": "date_night_129", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary or preference should we respect during an intimacy-focused date?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is a date idea that would help us feel peaceful?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "an_intimacy_focused_date", - "boundaries" + "peace", + "date_idea" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2221,12 +2221,12 @@ "id": "date_night_130", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could an intimacy-focused date become a ritual we actually look forward to?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is a date idea that would help us feel adventurous?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "an_intimacy_focused_date", - "ritual" + "adventure", + "date_idea" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2238,12 +2238,12 @@ "id": "date_night_131", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a comfort-zone stretch feel meaningful instead of just scheduled?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is a date idea that would help us feel romantic?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_comfort_zone_stretch", - "meaning" + "romance", + "date_idea" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2255,12 +2255,12 @@ "id": "date_night_132", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of conversation would fit a comfort-zone stretch?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is a date idea that would help us feel silly together?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_comfort_zone_stretch", - "conversation" + "silly", + "playfulness" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2272,12 +2272,12 @@ "id": "date_night_133", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you feel desired, chosen, or appreciated during a comfort-zone stretch?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is one new experience you want to share with me?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_comfort_zone_stretch", - "romance" + "new_things", + "shared_experience" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2289,12 +2289,12 @@ "id": "date_night_134", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary or preference should we respect during a comfort-zone stretch?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would be a dream date if time and money were not a problem?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_comfort_zone_stretch", - "boundaries" + "dream_date", + "future" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2306,12 +2306,12 @@ "id": "date_night_135", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could a comfort-zone stretch become a ritual we actually look forward to?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is a realistic dream date we could actually plan soon?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_comfort_zone_stretch", - "ritual" + "dream_date", + "planning" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2323,12 +2323,12 @@ "id": "date_night_136", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a relationship check-in date feel meaningful instead of just scheduled?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one date we should save up for?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_relationship_check_in_date", - "meaning" + "budget", + "future" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2340,12 +2340,12 @@ "id": "date_night_137", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of conversation would fit a relationship check-in date?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one date you would like me to plan completely?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_relationship_check_in_date", - "conversation" + "planning", + "surprise" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2357,12 +2357,12 @@ "id": "date_night_138", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you feel desired, chosen, or appreciated during a relationship check-in date?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is one date you would rather plan together?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_relationship_check_in_date", - "romance" + "planning", + "teamwork" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2374,12 +2374,12 @@ "id": "date_night_139", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary or preference should we respect during a relationship check-in date?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What makes you feel comfortable saying what kind of date you want?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_relationship_check_in_date", - "boundaries" + "communication", + "comfort" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2391,12 +2391,12 @@ "id": "date_night_140", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could a relationship check-in date become a ritual we actually look forward to?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What do you wish I understood better about your idea of romance?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_relationship_check_in_date", - "ritual" + "romance", + "understanding" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2408,12 +2408,12 @@ "id": "date_night_141", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a long-distance date feel meaningful instead of just scheduled?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What do you wish I understood better about your idea of fun?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_long_distance_date", - "meaning" + "fun", + "understanding" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2425,12 +2425,12 @@ "id": "date_night_142", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of conversation would fit a long-distance date?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one way our dates could fit our real life better?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_long_distance_date", - "conversation" + "real_life", + "ease" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2442,12 +2442,12 @@ "id": "date_night_143", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you feel desired, chosen, or appreciated during a long-distance date?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make date night feel less pressured and more natural?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_long_distance_date", - "romance" + "pressure", + "ease" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2459,12 +2459,12 @@ "id": "date_night_144", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary or preference should we respect during a long-distance date?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What kind of date helps you feel loved without needing anything fancy?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_long_distance_date", - "boundaries" + "love", + "simple_dates" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2476,12 +2476,12 @@ "id": "date_night_145", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could a long-distance date become a ritual we actually look forward to?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one date we could plan that would make this month feel better?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_long_distance_date", - "ritual" + "monthly", + "planning" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2493,12 +2493,12 @@ "id": "date_night_146", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a date that feels like us feel meaningful instead of just scheduled?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What should we do more often because it is good for us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_date_that_feels_like_us", - "meaning" + "habits", + "connection" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2510,12 +2510,12 @@ "id": "date_night_147", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of conversation would fit a date that feels like us?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What should we stop forcing if it never feels fun?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_date_that_feels_like_us", - "conversation" + "honesty", + "preferences" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2527,12 +2527,12 @@ "id": "date_night_148", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you feel desired, chosen, or appreciated during a date that feels like us?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is one thing we could try once and never do again if we hate it?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_date_that_feels_like_us", - "romance" + "new_things", + "low_pressure" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2544,12 +2544,12 @@ "id": "date_night_149", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary or preference should we respect during a date that feels like us?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What date would help us celebrate something small?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_date_that_feels_like_us", - "boundaries" + "celebration", + "date_idea" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2561,12 +2561,12 @@ "id": "date_night_150", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "written", - "text": "How could a date that feels like us become a ritual we actually look forward to?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What date would help us mark a fresh start?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "a_date_that_feels_like_us", - "ritual" + "fresh_start", + "renewal" ], "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, @@ -2578,29 +2578,33 @@ "id": "date_night_151", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of date sounds best this week?", + "text": "Which kind of date sounds best this week?", "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "weekly", - "date_type" + "preference", + "weekly" ], "options": [ { - "id": "cozy_night_in", - "text": "Cozy night in" + "id": "cozy_at_home", + "text": "Cozy at home" }, { "id": "dinner_out", "text": "Dinner out" }, { - "id": "outdoor_walk", - "text": "Outdoor walk" + "id": "something_playful", + "text": "Something playful" }, { - "id": "something_new", - "text": "Something new" + "id": "something_outside", + "text": "Something outside" + }, + { + "id": "surprise_me", + "text": "Surprise me" } ] }, @@ -2608,29 +2612,33 @@ "id": "date_night_152", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What energy level should our next date have?", + "text": "What pace sounds best for our next date?", "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "energy", - "planning" + "pace", + "preference" ], "options": [ { - "id": "calm", - "text": "Calm" + "id": "slow_and_easy", + "text": "Slow and easy" }, { - "id": "playful", - "text": "Playful" + "id": "fun_and_active", + "text": "Fun and active" }, { - "id": "romantic", - "text": "Romantic" + "id": "short_and_sweet", + "text": "Short and sweet" }, { - "id": "adventurous", - "text": "Adventurous" + "id": "all_evening", + "text": "All evening" + }, + { + "id": "not_sure", + "text": "Not sure yet" } ] }, @@ -2638,252 +2646,12 @@ "id": "date_night_153", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What budget feels right for our next date?", + "text": "Which food plan sounds best?", "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "budget", - "planning" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "free", - "text": "Free" - }, - { - "id": "low_cost", - "text": "Low-cost" - }, - { - "id": "moderate", - "text": "Moderate" - }, - { - "id": "splurge", - "text": "Splurge" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "date_night_154", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should the focus be?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "focus", - "date_night" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - }, - { - "id": "fun", - "text": "Fun" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "romance", - "text": "Romance" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "date_night_155", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What time works best for a date?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "timing", - "planning" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "morning", - "text": "Morning" - }, - { - "id": "afternoon", - "text": "Afternoon" - }, - { - "id": "evening", - "text": "Evening" - }, - { - "id": "late_night", - "text": "Late night" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "date_night_156", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of setting helps you relax?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "setting", - "comfort" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "home", - "text": "Home" - }, - { - "id": "restaurant", - "text": "Restaurant" - }, - { - "id": "nature", - "text": "Nature" - }, - { - "id": "car_ride", - "text": "Car ride" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "date_night_157", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a date feel thoughtful?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "thoughtfulness", - "date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "planning_ahead", - "text": "Planning ahead" - }, - { - "id": "personal_details", - "text": "Personal details" - }, - { - "id": "no_distractions", - "text": "No distractions" - }, - { - "id": "a_surprise", - "text": "A surprise" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "date_night_158", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What ruins date night fastest?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "ruins", - "date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "phones", - "text": "Phones" - }, - { - "id": "rushing", - "text": "Rushing" - }, - { - "id": "bad_mood", - "text": "Bad mood" - }, - { - "id": "no_plan", - "text": "No plan" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "date_night_159", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel pursued on a date?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pursuit", - "romance" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "being_invited", - "text": "Being invited" - }, - { - "id": "being_complimented", - "text": "Being complimented" - }, - { - "id": "being_listened_to", - "text": "Being listened to" - }, - { - "id": "being_surprised", - "text": "Being surprised" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "date_night_160", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a date feel mutual?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "mutuality", - "planning" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "both_planning", - "text": "Both planning" - }, - { - "id": "both_choosing", - "text": "Both choosing" - }, - { - "id": "both_paying_attention", - "text": "Both paying attention" - }, - { - "id": "both_staying_present", - "text": "Both staying present" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "date_night_161", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What food plan sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ "food", - "date" + "planning" ], "options": [ { @@ -2895,12 +2663,288 @@ "text": "Order in" }, { - "id": "try_a_new_place", + "id": "try_new_place", "text": "Try a new place" }, { "id": "dessert_only", "text": "Dessert only" + }, + { + "id": "coffee_or_breakfast", + "text": "Coffee or breakfast" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": "date_night_154", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What would make a home date feel special?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "home_date", + "special" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "music", + "text": "Music" + }, + { + "id": "favorite_food", + "text": "Favorite food" + }, + { + "id": "phones_away", + "text": "Phones away" + }, + { + "id": "clean_space", + "text": "Clean space" + }, + { + "id": "a_game", + "text": "A game" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": "date_night_155", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of date feels easiest right now?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "easy_dates", + "preference" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "walk", + "text": "A walk" + }, + { + "id": "movie_night", + "text": "Movie night" + }, + { + "id": "coffee", + "text": "Coffee" + }, + { + "id": "takeout", + "text": "Takeout" + }, + { + "id": "drive", + "text": "A drive" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": "date_night_156", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should our next date focus on most?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "focus", + "next_date" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "fun", + "text": "Fun" + }, + { + "id": "romance", + "text": "Romance" + }, + { + "id": "conversation", + "text": "Conversation" + }, + { + "id": "trying_something_new", + "text": "Trying something new" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": "date_night_157", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What would help you look forward to date night?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "anticipation", + "support" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_plan", + "text": "A clear plan" + }, + { + "id": "low_pressure", + "text": "Low pressure" + }, + { + "id": "thoughtful_detail", + "text": "A thoughtful detail" + }, + { + "id": "enough_notice", + "text": "Enough notice" + }, + { + "id": "shared_planning", + "text": "Planning together" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": "date_night_158", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which date-night mood sounds best tonight?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "mood", + "tonight" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet", + "text": "Sweet" + }, + { + "id": "silly", + "text": "Silly" + }, + { + "id": "peaceful", + "text": "Peaceful" + }, + { + "id": "flirty", + "text": "Flirty" + }, + { + "id": "adventurous", + "text": "Adventurous" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": "date_night_159", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What usually makes a date feel thoughtful to you?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "thoughtful", + "preference" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "remembering_preferences", + "text": "Remembering my preferences" + }, + { + "id": "planning_ahead", + "text": "Planning ahead" + }, + { + "id": "little_surprises", + "text": "Little surprises" + }, + { + "id": "full_attention", + "text": "Full attention" + }, + { + "id": "kind_words", + "text": "Kind words" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": "date_night_160", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What is the best backup plan when date night falls apart?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "backup_plan", + "flexibility" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "movie_at_home", + "text": "Movie at home" + }, + { + "id": "late_dessert", + "text": "Late dessert" + }, + { + "id": "short_walk", + "text": "Short walk" + }, + { + "id": "rain_check", + "text": "Rain check" + }, + { + "id": "couch_time", + "text": "Couch time" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": "date_night_161", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "How should we choose our next date?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "planning", + "choice" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "take_turns", + "text": "Take turns" + }, + { + "id": "pick_from_a_list", + "text": "Pick from a list" + }, + { + "id": "spin_the_wheel", + "text": "Spin the wheel" + }, + { + "id": "plan_together", + "text": "Plan together" + }, + { + "id": "surprise_each_other", + "text": "Surprise each other" } ] }, @@ -2908,29 +2952,33 @@ "id": "date_night_162", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What activity sounds most fun?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What kind of place makes conversation easiest?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "activity", - "fun" + "conversation", + "location" ], "options": [ { - "id": "game_night", - "text": "Game night" + "id": "quiet_restaurant", + "text": "Quiet restaurant" }, { - "id": "walk", - "text": "Walk" + "id": "coffee_shop", + "text": "Coffee shop" }, { - "id": "class_or_workshop", - "text": "Class or workshop" + "id": "park_or_walk", + "text": "Park or walk" }, { - "id": "live_event", - "text": "Live event" + "id": "car_ride", + "text": "Car ride" + }, + { + "id": "home", + "text": "Home" } ] }, @@ -2938,29 +2986,33 @@ "id": "date_night_163", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make date night feel romantic?", + "text": "What should we put away first on date night?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "romance", - "date" + "presence", + "distractions" ], "options": [ { - "id": "candles_or_mood", - "text": "Candles or mood" + "id": "phones", + "text": "Phones" }, { - "id": "dressing_up", - "text": "Dressing up" + "id": "work_talk", + "text": "Work talk" }, { - "id": "slow_conversation", - "text": "Slow conversation" + "id": "chores", + "text": "Chores" }, { - "id": "physical_affection", - "text": "Physical affection" + "id": "tv_background_noise", + "text": "Background TV" + }, + { + "id": "stressful_topics", + "text": "Stressful topics" } ] }, @@ -2968,18 +3020,116 @@ "id": "date_night_164", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make date night feel playful?", + "text": "Which small gesture would mean the most on a date?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "gesture", + "romance" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "holding_hands", + "text": "Holding hands" + }, + { + "id": "a_sweet_note", + "text": "A sweet note" + }, + { + "id": "a_compliment", + "text": "A compliment" + }, + { + "id": "planning_something", + "text": "Planning something" + }, + { + "id": "checking_in", + "text": "Checking in" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": "date_night_165", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of surprise date would you enjoy most?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "surprise", + "preference" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "food_surprise", + "text": "Food surprise" + }, + { + "id": "activity_surprise", + "text": "Activity surprise" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_surprise", + "text": "Quiet surprise" + }, + { + "id": "romantic_surprise", + "text": "Romantic surprise" + }, + { + "id": "no_surprises", + "text": "No surprises" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": "date_night_166", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes a date feel romantic without being too much?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "romance", + "comfort" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_lighting", + "text": "Soft lighting" + }, + { + "id": "slow_conversation", + "text": "Slow conversation" + }, + { + "id": "thoughtful_words", + "text": "Thoughtful words" + }, + { + "id": "dressing_up", + "text": "Dressing up" + }, + { + "id": "affection", + "text": "Affection" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": "date_night_167", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes a date feel playful?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ "playfulness", "date" ], "options": [ - { - "id": "a_challenge", - "text": "A challenge" - }, { "id": "a_game", "text": "A game" @@ -2988,99 +3138,17 @@ "id": "a_silly_theme", "text": "A silly theme" }, + { + "id": "friendly_competition", + "text": "Friendly competition" + }, { "id": "trying_something_new", "text": "Trying something new" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "date_night_165", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make date night feel restful?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "rest", - "date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet_setting", - "text": "Quiet setting" }, { - "id": "no_plans_after", - "text": "No plans after" - }, - { - "id": "comfort_food", - "text": "Comfort food" - }, - { - "id": "slow_pace", - "text": "Slow pace" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "date_night_166", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What conversation depth do you want tonight?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "conversation", - "depth" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "light", - "text": "Light" - }, - { - "id": "medium", - "text": "Medium" - }, - { - "id": "deep", - "text": "Deep" - }, - { - "id": "mostly_playful", - "text": "Mostly playful" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "date_night_167", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we not talk about on our next date?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "topics" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "work", - "text": "Work" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "conflict", - "text": "Conflict" - }, - { - "id": "planning_logistics", - "text": "Planning logistics" + "id": "laughing_at_ourselves", + "text": "Laughing at ourselves" } ] }, @@ -3088,29 +3156,33 @@ "id": "date_night_168", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we make room to talk about?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps a date feel relaxed?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "conversation", - "topics" + "relaxation", + "date" ], "options": [ { - "id": "dreams", - "text": "Dreams" + "id": "no_rushing", + "text": "No rushing" }, { - "id": "us", - "text": "Us" + "id": "comfortable_clothes", + "text": "Comfortable clothes" }, { - "id": "fun_memories", - "text": "Fun memories" + "id": "simple_plan", + "text": "A simple plan" }, { - "id": "needs", - "text": "Needs" + "id": "quiet_place", + "text": "A quiet place" + }, + { + "id": "nothing_afterward", + "text": "Nothing afterward" } ] }, @@ -3118,29 +3190,33 @@ "id": "date_night_169", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of surprise do you like?", + "text": "What would make date planning feel fair?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "surprise", - "preference" + "planning", + "fairness" ], "options": [ { - "id": "small_gift", - "text": "Small gift" + "id": "taking_turns", + "text": "Taking turns" }, { - "id": "secret_location", - "text": "Secret location" + "id": "sharing_ideas", + "text": "Sharing ideas" }, { - "id": "planned_activity", - "text": "Planned activity" + "id": "setting_budget", + "text": "Setting a budget" }, { - "id": "sweet_note", - "text": "Sweet note" + "id": "planning_together", + "text": "Planning together" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_it_simple", + "text": "Keeping it simple" } ] }, @@ -3148,29 +3224,33 @@ "id": "date_night_170", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of surprise stresses you out?", + "text": "What conversation style do you want on our next date?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "surprise", - "stress" + "conversation", + "style" ], "options": [ { - "id": "unknown_budget", - "text": "Unknown budget" + "id": "light_and_fun", + "text": "Light and fun" }, { - "id": "unknown_dress_code", - "text": "Unknown dress code" + "id": "deep_and_slow", + "text": "Deep and slow" }, { - "id": "too_many_people", - "text": "Too many people" + "id": "mostly_catching_up", + "text": "Mostly catching up" }, { - "id": "too_much_activity", - "text": "Too much activity" + "id": "dreaming_together", + "text": "Dreaming together" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_company", + "text": "Quiet company" } ] }, @@ -3178,29 +3258,33 @@ "id": "date_night_171", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of date helps after a hard week?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What should we avoid on a date when we are already tired?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hard_week", - "date" + "tired", + "boundaries" ], "options": [ { - "id": "comfort_date", - "text": "Comfort date" + "id": "crowded_places", + "text": "Crowded places" }, { - "id": "laughing_date", - "text": "Laughing date" + "id": "big_decisions", + "text": "Big decisions" }, { - "id": "quiet_date", - "text": "Quiet date" + "id": "long_drives", + "text": "Long drives" }, { - "id": "adventure_date", - "text": "Adventure date" + "id": "heavy_topics", + "text": "Heavy topics" + }, + { + "id": "overplanning", + "text": "Overplanning" } ] }, @@ -3208,29 +3292,33 @@ "id": "date_night_172", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of date helps us reconnect?", + "text": "What kind of date helps us reconnect after distance?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "reconnect", - "date" + "distance" ], "options": [ { - "id": "deep_conversation", - "text": "Deep conversation" + "id": "quiet_walk", + "text": "Quiet walk" }, { - "id": "physical_closeness", - "text": "Physical closeness" + "id": "dinner_and_talk", + "text": "Dinner and talk" }, { - "id": "shared_novelty", - "text": "Shared novelty" + "id": "shared_activity", + "text": "Shared activity" }, { - "id": "low_pressure_time", - "text": "Low-pressure time" + "id": "cozy_night_in", + "text": "Cozy night in" + }, + { + "id": "something_new", + "text": "Something new" } ] }, @@ -3238,29 +3326,33 @@ "id": "date_night_173", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What date pace do you prefer?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What makes you feel most wanted on a date?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pace", - "preference" + "feeling_wanted", + "romance" ], "options": [ { - "id": "slow", - "text": "Slow" + "id": "full_attention", + "text": "Full attention" }, { - "id": "structured", - "text": "Structured" + "id": "planned_details", + "text": "Planned details" }, { - "id": "spontaneous", - "text": "Spontaneous" + "id": "affection", + "text": "Affection" }, { - "id": "flexible", - "text": "Flexible" + "id": "flirting", + "text": "Flirting" + }, + { + "id": "meaningful_words", + "text": "Meaningful words" } ] }, @@ -3268,29 +3360,33 @@ "id": "date_night_174", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What role do you like in planning?", + "text": "What would make a date feel personal to you?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "planning", - "role" + "personal", + "thoughtful" ], "options": [ { - "id": "i_choose", - "text": "I choose" + "id": "favorite_food", + "text": "Favorite food" }, { - "id": "you_choose", - "text": "You choose" + "id": "favorite_place", + "text": "Favorite place" }, { - "id": "we_alternate", - "text": "We alternate" + "id": "inside_joke", + "text": "Inside joke" }, { - "id": "we_plan_together", - "text": "We plan together" + "id": "meaningful_music", + "text": "Meaningful music" + }, + { + "id": "something_i_mentioned", + "text": "Something I mentioned" } ] }, @@ -3298,29 +3394,33 @@ "id": "date_night_175", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we prioritize more?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is the easiest way to start date night well?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "priority", - "date" + "start", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" + "id": "kind_greeting", + "text": "Kind greeting" }, { - "id": "creativity", - "text": "Creativity" + "id": "phones_away", + "text": "Phones away" }, { - "id": "romance", - "text": "Romance" + "id": "small_compliment", + "text": "Small compliment" }, { - "id": "ease", - "text": "Ease" + "id": "clear_plan", + "text": "Clear plan" + }, + { + "id": "hug_first", + "text": "Hug first" } ] }, @@ -3328,7 +3428,245 @@ "id": "date_night_176", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What feels most like us?", + "text": "What would make an outside date better?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "outside", + "date" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "good_weather", + "text": "Good weather" + }, + { + "id": "pretty_view", + "text": "Pretty view" + }, + { + "id": "snacks", + "text": "Snacks" + }, + { + "id": "comfortable_shoes", + "text": "Comfortable shoes" + }, + { + "id": "time_to_wander", + "text": "Time to wander" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": "date_night_177", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What would make a movie night better?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "movie_night", + "home_date" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "good_snacks", + "text": "Good snacks" + }, + { + "id": "blankets", + "text": "Blankets" + }, + { + "id": "phones_away", + "text": "Phones away" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_together", + "text": "Choosing together" + }, + { + "id": "talk_after", + "text": "Talking after" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": "date_night_178", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of date should we save for?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "saving", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "concert", + "text": "Concert" + }, + { + "id": "weekend_trip", + "text": "Weekend trip" + }, + { + "id": "fancy_dinner", + "text": "Fancy dinner" + }, + { + "id": "class_or_workshop", + "text": "Class or workshop" + }, + { + "id": "special_event", + "text": "Special event" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": "date_night_179", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes a date feel like a reset?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "reset", + "date" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "slower_pace", + "text": "Slower pace" + }, + { + "id": "honest_check_in", + "text": "Honest check-in" + }, + { + "id": "laughing_together", + "text": "Laughing together" + }, + { + "id": "new_scenery", + "text": "New scenery" + }, + { + "id": "affection", + "text": "Affection" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": "date_night_180", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should we do if neither of us wants to plan?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "planning", + "low_energy" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "default_date", + "text": "Use a default date" + }, + { + "id": "spin_wheel", + "text": "Spin the wheel" + }, + { + "id": "order_food", + "text": "Order food" + }, + { + "id": "take_a_walk", + "text": "Take a walk" + }, + { + "id": "pick_tomorrow", + "text": "Pick tomorrow" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": "date_night_181", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What do you want more of on our dates?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "more_of", + "date" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "laughter", + "text": "Laughter" + }, + { + "id": "romance", + "text": "Romance" + }, + { + "id": "quiet", + "text": "Quiet" + }, + { + "id": "adventure", + "text": "Adventure" + }, + { + "id": "real_conversation", + "text": "Real conversation" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": "date_night_182", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What do you want less of on our dates?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "less_of", + "date" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "rushing", + "text": "Rushing" + }, + { + "id": "phones", + "text": "Phones" + }, + { + "id": "logistics", + "text": "Logistics" + }, + { + "id": "pressure", + "text": "Pressure" + }, + { + "id": "same_old_plan", + "text": "Same old plan" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": "date_night_183", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of date feels most like us?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -3336,231 +3674,25 @@ "couple" ], "options": [ - { - "id": "cozy", - "text": "Cozy" - }, { "id": "silly", "text": "Silly" }, + { + "id": "sweet", + "text": "Sweet" + }, + { + "id": "cozy", + "text": "Cozy" + }, { "id": "adventurous", "text": "Adventurous" }, { - "id": "thoughtful", - "text": "Thoughtful" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "date_night_177", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of music fits our next date?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "music", - "mood" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft", - "text": "Soft" - }, - { - "id": "upbeat", - "text": "Upbeat" - }, - { - "id": "nostalgic", - "text": "Nostalgic" - }, - { - "id": "no_music", - "text": "No music" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "date_night_178", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What memory should inspire our next date?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "memory", - "inspiration" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "first_date", - "text": "First date" - }, - { - "id": "favorite_trip", - "text": "Favorite trip" - }, - { - "id": "funny_moment", - "text": "Funny moment" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_sweet_moment", - "text": "Quiet sweet moment" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "date_night_179", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make us laugh?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "laughter", - "play" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "game", - "text": "Game" - }, - { - "id": "challenge", - "text": "Challenge" - }, - { - "id": "comedy", - "text": "Comedy" - }, - { - "id": "shared_story", - "text": "Shared story" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "date_night_180", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would help us slow down?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "slow_down", - "presence" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "phone_free_time", - "text": "Phone-free time" - }, - { - "id": "walk", - "text": "Walk" - }, - { - "id": "cooking", - "text": "Cooking" - }, - { - "id": "long_drive", - "text": "Long drive" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "date_night_181", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What date length feels best right now?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "length", - "planning" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "30_minutes", - "text": "30 minutes" - }, - { - "id": "1_hour", - "text": "1 hour" - }, - { - "id": "2_hours", - "text": "2 hours" - }, - { - "id": "half_day", - "text": "Half day" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "date_night_182", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you want to feel after our next date?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "desired_feeling", - "outcome" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "closer", - "text": "Closer" - }, - { - "id": "lighter", - "text": "Lighter" - }, - { - "id": "romantic", - "text": "Romantic" - }, - { - "id": "understood", - "text": "Understood" - } - ] - }, - { - "id": "date_night_183", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of date should be recurring?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "ritual", - "recurring" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "weekly_walk", - "text": "Weekly walk" - }, - { - "id": "monthly_dinner", - "text": "Monthly dinner" - }, - { - "id": "game_night", - "text": "Game night" - }, - { - "id": "coffee_date", - "text": "Coffee date" + "id": "simple", + "text": "Simple" } ] }, @@ -3568,29 +3700,33 @@ "id": "date_night_184", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we try once?", + "text": "What would make a planned date feel less stiff?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "novelty", - "try" + "planning", + "ease" ], "options": [ { - "id": "dance_class", - "text": "Dance class" + "id": "flexible_timing", + "text": "Flexible timing" }, { - "id": "new_cuisine", - "text": "New cuisine" + "id": "casual_clothes", + "text": "Casual clothes" }, { - "id": "mini_road_trip", - "text": "Mini road trip" + "id": "playful_stop", + "text": "Playful stop" }, { - "id": "museum_or_show", - "text": "Museum or show" + "id": "no_perfect_plan", + "text": "No perfect plan" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_together", + "text": "Choosing together" } ] }, @@ -3598,29 +3734,33 @@ "id": "date_night_185", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What date feels easiest to repeat?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is the best way to end a date?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repeat", - "ease" + "ending", + "date" ], "options": [ { - "id": "walk", - "text": "Walk" + "id": "walk_inside_together", + "text": "Walk inside together" }, { - "id": "movie_night", - "text": "Movie night" + "id": "sweet_message", + "text": "Sweet message" }, { - "id": "breakfast_out", - "text": "Breakfast out" + "id": "talk_for_a_minute", + "text": "Talk for a minute" }, { - "id": "cook_together", - "text": "Cook together" + "id": "cuddle", + "text": "Cuddle" + }, + { + "id": "plan_next_one", + "text": "Plan the next one" } ] }, @@ -3628,29 +3768,33 @@ "id": "date_night_186", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What date feels worth saving for?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would help us keep date night from becoming routine?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "saving", - "special" + "routine", + "novelty" ], "options": [ { - "id": "weekend_trip", - "text": "Weekend trip" + "id": "new_places", + "text": "New places" }, { - "id": "concert", - "text": "Concert" + "id": "new_questions", + "text": "New questions" }, { - "id": "fancy_dinner", - "text": "Fancy dinner" + "id": "themes", + "text": "Themes" }, { - "id": "shared_class", - "text": "Shared class" + "id": "taking_turns", + "text": "Taking turns" + }, + { + "id": "small_surprises", + "text": "Small surprises" } ] }, @@ -3658,29 +3802,33 @@ "id": "date_night_187", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a date feel intimate?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What kind of date makes you feel safest to open up?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "intimacy", - "date" + "openness", + "safety" ], "options": [ { - "id": "unhurried_time", - "text": "Unhurried time" + "id": "quiet_walk", + "text": "Quiet walk" }, { - "id": "honest_conversation", - "text": "Honest conversation" + "id": "slow_dinner", + "text": "Slow dinner" }, { - "id": "touch", - "text": "Touch" + "id": "home_date", + "text": "Home date" }, { - "id": "being_fully_present", - "text": "Being fully present" + "id": "long_drive", + "text": "Long drive" + }, + { + "id": "after_laughing", + "text": "After laughing" } ] }, @@ -3688,29 +3836,33 @@ "id": "date_night_188", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a date feel safe?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What should be our no-pressure date rule?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "safety", - "date" + "pressure", + "rule" ], "options": [ { - "id": "clear_plan", - "text": "Clear plan" + "id": "simple_is_enough", + "text": "Simple is enough" }, { - "id": "comfortable_setting", - "text": "Comfortable setting" + "id": "rain_checks_are_okay", + "text": "Rain checks are okay" }, { - "id": "respecting_limits", - "text": "Respecting limits" + "id": "phones_can_wait", + "text": "Phones can wait" }, { - "id": "low_pressure", - "text": "Low pressure" + "id": "no_forced_talks", + "text": "No forced talks" + }, + { + "id": "comfort_first", + "text": "Comfort first" } ] }, @@ -3718,29 +3870,33 @@ "id": "date_night_189", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes date night feel exciting?", + "text": "What date would help us celebrate this season of life?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "excitement", - "date" + "celebration", + "life_stage" ], "options": [ { - "id": "novelty", - "text": "Novelty" + "id": "quiet_dinner", + "text": "Quiet dinner" }, { - "id": "flirting", - "text": "Flirting" + "id": "little_adventure", + "text": "Little adventure" }, { - "id": "surprise", - "text": "Surprise" + "id": "weekend_morning", + "text": "Weekend morning" }, { - "id": "adventure", - "text": "Adventure" + "id": "dress_up_night", + "text": "Dress-up night" + }, + { + "id": "memory_making_day", + "text": "Memory-making day" } ] }, @@ -3748,29 +3904,33 @@ "id": "date_night_190", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should our next date remind us of?", + "text": "What would make you say, 'that was a really good date'?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "meaning", - "reminder" + "after_date", + "satisfaction" ], "options": [ { - "id": "we_are_friends", - "text": "We are friends" + "id": "felt_wanted", + "text": "I felt wanted" }, { - "id": "we_are_lovers", - "text": "We are lovers" + "id": "we_laughed", + "text": "We laughed" }, { - "id": "we_are_a_team", - "text": "We are a team" + "id": "we_relaxed", + "text": "We relaxed" }, { - "id": "we_still_choose_each_other", - "text": "We still choose each other" + "id": "we_talked_well", + "text": "We talked well" + }, + { + "id": "we_tried_something", + "text": "We tried something" } ] }, @@ -3778,33 +3938,37 @@ "id": "date_night_191", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which date ingredients matter most to you?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps you feel relaxed on a date with me?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "ingredients", + "relaxation", "date" ], "options": [ + { + "id": "no_rushing", + "text": "Not feeling rushed" + }, + { + "id": "phones_away", + "text": "Putting phones away" + }, + { + "id": "comfortable_plan", + "text": "A comfortable plan" + }, + { + "id": "easy_conversation", + "text": "Easy conversation" + }, { "id": "good_food", "text": "Good food" }, - { - "id": "good_conversation", - "text": "Good conversation" - }, - { - "id": "no_phones", - "text": "No phones" - }, { "id": "affection", "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "novelty", - "text": "Novelty" } ], "answer_config": { @@ -3816,33 +3980,37 @@ "id": "date_night_192", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel present on a date?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What should our next easy date include?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "presence", - "date" + "easy_date", + "planning" ], "options": [ { - "id": "phone_away", - "text": "Phone away" + "id": "simple_food", + "text": "Simple food" }, { - "id": "enough_time", - "text": "Enough time" + "id": "a_walk", + "text": "A walk" }, { - "id": "low_stress", - "text": "Low stress" + "id": "music", + "text": "Music" }, { - "id": "clear_plan", - "text": "Clear plan" + "id": "one_good_question", + "text": "One good question" }, { - "id": "comfortable_setting", - "text": "Comfortable setting" + "id": "dessert", + "text": "Dessert" + }, + { + "id": "time_to_linger", + "text": "Time to linger" } ], "answer_config": { @@ -3854,33 +4022,37 @@ "id": "date_night_193", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which date types should we rotate?", + "text": "What makes a date feel special to you?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "rotation", - "date_types" + "special", + "preference" ], "options": [ { - "id": "at_home", - "text": "At-home" + "id": "thoughtful_planning", + "text": "Thoughtful planning" }, { - "id": "outdoor", - "text": "Outdoor" + "id": "full_attention", + "text": "Full attention" }, { - "id": "fancy", - "text": "Fancy" + "id": "dressing_up", + "text": "Dressing up" }, { - "id": "playful", - "text": "Playful" + "id": "sweet_words", + "text": "Sweet words" }, { - "id": "quiet", - "text": "Quiet" + "id": "trying_something_new", + "text": "Trying something new" + }, + { + "id": "unhurried_time", + "text": "Unhurried time" } ], "answer_config": { @@ -3892,316 +4064,12 @@ "id": "date_night_194", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes planning feel easier?", + "text": "What gets in the way of date night most often?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "planning", - "ease" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_list", - "text": "Shared list" - }, - { - "id": "taking_turns", - "text": "Taking turns" - }, - { - "id": "budget_range", - "text": "Budget range" - }, - { - "id": "calendar_reminder", - "text": "Calendar reminder" - }, - { - "id": "simple_options", - "text": "Simple options" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "date_night_195", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we avoid during date night?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "avoid", - "date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "phones", - "text": "Phones" - }, - { - "id": "heavy_logistics", - "text": "Heavy logistics" - }, - { - "id": "old_fights", - "text": "Old fights" - }, - { - "id": "rushing", - "text": "Rushing" - }, - { - "id": "comparing_ourselves", - "text": "Comparing ourselves" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "date_night_196", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What topics would make a date better?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "topics", - "conversation" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "dreams", - "text": "Dreams" - }, - { - "id": "funny_memories", - "text": "Funny memories" - }, - { - "id": "appreciation", - "text": "Appreciation" - }, - { - "id": "future_plans", - "text": "Future plans" - }, - { - "id": "desires", - "text": "Desires" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "date_night_197", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which small details feel romantic?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "romance", - "details" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_note", - "text": "A note" - }, - { - "id": "dressing_up", - "text": "Dressing up" - }, - { - "id": "favorite_snack", - "text": "Favorite snack" - }, - { - "id": "holding_hands", - "text": "Holding hands" - }, - { - "id": "slow_dancing", - "text": "Slow dancing" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "date_night_198", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which activities sound playful?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "play", - "activities" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "board_game", - "text": "Board game" - }, - { - "id": "mini_golf", - "text": "Mini golf" - }, - { - "id": "cooking_challenge", - "text": "Cooking challenge" - }, - { - "id": "trivia", - "text": "Trivia" - }, - { - "id": "karaoke", - "text": "Karaoke" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "date_night_199", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which activities sound restorative?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "rest", - "activities" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "walk", - "text": "Walk" - }, - { - "id": "bath_or_spa_night", - "text": "Bath or spa night" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_dinner", - "text": "Quiet dinner" - }, - { - "id": "reading_together", - "text": "Reading together" - }, - { - "id": "stargazing", - "text": "Stargazing" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "date_night_200", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which activities sound adventurous?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "adventure", - "activities" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "new_restaurant", - "text": "New restaurant" - }, - { - "id": "day_trip", - "text": "Day trip" - }, - { - "id": "dance_class", - "text": "Dance class" - }, - { - "id": "hike", - "text": "Hike" - }, - { - "id": "live_show", - "text": "Live show" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "date_night_201", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What would make a date feel more like us?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "identity", - "date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "inside_jokes", - "text": "Inside jokes" - }, - { - "id": "favorite_places", - "text": "Favorite places" - }, - { - "id": "shared_music", - "text": "Shared music" - }, - { - "id": "personal_questions", - "text": "Personal questions" - }, - { - "id": "a_tradition", - "text": "A tradition" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "date_night_202", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What gets in the way of regular dates?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ "barriers", - "date" + "date_night" ], "options": [ { @@ -4213,16 +4081,20 @@ "text": "Money" }, { - "id": "fatigue", - "text": "Fatigue" + "id": "being_tired", + "text": "Being tired" }, { "id": "planning_load", "text": "Planning load" }, { - "id": "childcare_or_logistics", - "text": "Childcare or logistics" + "id": "phones", + "text": "Phones" + }, + { + "id": "last_minute_stress", + "text": "Last-minute stress" } ], "answer_config": { @@ -4231,125 +4103,11 @@ } }, { - "id": "date_night_203", + "id": "date_night_195", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What could help us date each other again?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "renewal", - "date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "intentional_invites", - "text": "Intentional invites" - }, - { - "id": "flirting", - "text": "Flirting" - }, - { - "id": "trying_new_things", - "text": "Trying new things" - }, - { - "id": "less_pressure", - "text": "Less pressure" - }, - { - "id": "more_appreciation", - "text": "More appreciation" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "date_night_204", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What kind of date helps repair distance?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "repair", - "distance" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "low_pressure_walk", - "text": "Low-pressure walk" - }, - { - "id": "honest_dinner", - "text": "Honest dinner" - }, - { - "id": "cozy_movie", - "text": "Cozy movie" - }, - { - "id": "shared_activity", - "text": "Shared activity" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_affection", - "text": "Quiet affection" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "date_night_205", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should a date night checklist include?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "checklist", - "date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "time_set_aside", - "text": "Time set aside" - }, - { - "id": "budget", - "text": "Budget" - }, - { - "id": "phones_away", - "text": "Phones away" - }, - { - "id": "one_question", - "text": "One question" - }, - { - "id": "one_sweet_gesture", - "text": "One sweet gesture" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "date_night_206", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What would make a home date special?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What would make an at-home date feel less ordinary?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "home_date", @@ -4369,12 +4127,478 @@ "text": "Favorite food" }, { - "id": "game_or_question_deck", - "text": "Game or question deck" + "id": "fresh_pajamas", + "text": "Fresh pajamas" }, { - "id": "clean_space", - "text": "Clean space" + "id": "phones_away", + "text": "Phones away" + }, + { + "id": "a_game_or_questions", + "text": "A game or questions" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_196", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What could help us make dates happen more often?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "consistency", + "planning" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "default_plan", + "text": "A default plan" + }, + { + "id": "shared_list", + "text": "A shared idea list" + }, + { + "id": "smaller_dates", + "text": "Smaller dates" + }, + { + "id": "taking_turns", + "text": "Taking turns" + }, + { + "id": "setting_a_budget", + "text": "Setting a budget" + }, + { + "id": "calendar_reminder", + "text": "Calendar reminder" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_197", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kinds of dates help you feel closer to me?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "closeness", + "date" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_conversation", + "text": "Slow conversation" + }, + { + "id": "laughing_together", + "text": "Laughing together" + }, + { + "id": "new_experience", + "text": "New experience" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_affection", + "text": "Quiet affection" + }, + { + "id": "making_something", + "text": "Making something" + }, + { + "id": "revisiting_memories", + "text": "Revisiting memories" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_198", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a date feel too stressful?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "stress", + "date" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "too_many_steps", + "text": "Too many steps" + }, + { + "id": "crowds", + "text": "Crowds" + }, + { + "id": "spending_too_much", + "text": "Spending too much" + }, + { + "id": "unclear_plan", + "text": "Unclear plan" + }, + { + "id": "being_rushed", + "text": "Being rushed" + }, + { + "id": "heavy_topics", + "text": "Heavy topics" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_199", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make you feel wanted before the date even starts?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "feeling_wanted", + "before_date" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "personal_invite", + "text": "A personal invite" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_message", + "text": "A sweet message" + }, + { + "id": "clear_plan", + "text": "A clear plan" + }, + { + "id": "remembered_detail", + "text": "A remembered detail" + }, + { + "id": "compliment", + "text": "A compliment" + }, + { + "id": "excitement_from_you", + "text": "Excitement from you" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_200", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps a date stay playful?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "playfulness", + "date" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "games", + "text": "Games" + }, + { + "id": "inside_jokes", + "text": "Inside jokes" + }, + { + "id": "trying_new_food", + "text": "Trying new food" + }, + { + "id": "friendly_competition", + "text": "Friendly competition" + }, + { + "id": "silly_photos", + "text": "Silly photos" + }, + { + "id": "not_overplanning", + "text": "Not overplanning" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_201", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What date-night topics usually feel good?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "conversation", + "topics" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "memories", + "text": "Good memories" + }, + { + "id": "future_ideas", + "text": "Future ideas" + }, + { + "id": "funny_stories", + "text": "Funny stories" + }, + { + "id": "dreams", + "text": "Dreams" + }, + { + "id": "what_we_appreciate", + "text": "What we appreciate" + }, + { + "id": "something_new", + "text": "Something new" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_202", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What topics should we save for another time during a date?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "conversation", + "boundaries" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "money_stress", + "text": "Money stress" + }, + { + "id": "work_problems", + "text": "Work problems" + }, + { + "id": "family_drama", + "text": "Family drama" + }, + { + "id": "unfinished_arguments", + "text": "Unfinished arguments" + }, + { + "id": "chores", + "text": "Chores" + }, + { + "id": "big_decisions", + "text": "Big decisions" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_203", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make a low-cost date feel meaningful?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "low_cost", + "meaning" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "being_present", + "text": "Being present" + }, + { + "id": "thoughtful_plan", + "text": "Thoughtful plan" + }, + { + "id": "favorite_snack", + "text": "Favorite snack" + }, + { + "id": "pretty_place", + "text": "Pretty place" + }, + { + "id": "good_question", + "text": "Good question" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_ending", + "text": "Sweet ending" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_204", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps us recover when a date does not go as planned?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "flexibility", + "repair" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "laughing_it_off", + "text": "Laughing it off" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_a_backup", + "text": "Choosing a backup" + }, + { + "id": "not_blaming", + "text": "Not blaming" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_it_simple", + "text": "Keeping it simple" + }, + { + "id": "trying_again", + "text": "Trying again" + }, + { + "id": "ending_kindly", + "text": "Ending kindly" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_205", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make our next date feel more romantic?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "romance", + "next_date" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_pace", + "text": "Slow pace" + }, + { + "id": "meaningful_words", + "text": "Meaningful words" + }, + { + "id": "flirting", + "text": "Flirting" + }, + { + "id": "affection", + "text": "Affection" + }, + { + "id": "dressing_up", + "text": "Dressing up" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_time", + "text": "Quiet time" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_206", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make our next date feel more fun?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "fun", + "next_date" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "new_activity", + "text": "New activity" + }, + { + "id": "game", + "text": "Game" + }, + { + "id": "music", + "text": "Music" + }, + { + "id": "dessert_stop", + "text": "Dessert stop" + }, + { + "id": "silly_theme", + "text": "Silly theme" + }, + { + "id": "spontaneous_stop", + "text": "Spontaneous stop" } ], "answer_config": { @@ -4386,33 +4610,37 @@ "id": "date_night_207", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What would make an outside date special?", + "text": "What would make our next date feel more peaceful?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "outside_date", - "special" + "peace", + "next_date" ], "options": [ { - "id": "pretty_setting", - "text": "Pretty setting" + "id": "quiet_place", + "text": "Quiet place" }, { - "id": "good_weather_plan", - "text": "Good weather plan" + "id": "no_rushing", + "text": "No rushing" }, { - "id": "walking_time", - "text": "Walking time" + "id": "simple_food", + "text": "Simple food" }, { - "id": "photos", - "text": "Photos" + "id": "phones_away", + "text": "Phones away" }, { - "id": "dessert_stop", - "text": "Dessert stop" + "id": "comfortable_clothes", + "text": "Comfortable clothes" + }, + { + "id": "no_big_talks", + "text": "No big talks" } ], "answer_config": { @@ -4424,33 +4652,37 @@ "id": "date_night_208", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What are good date night boundaries?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make date planning feel like teamwork?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "date" + "teamwork", + "planning" ], "options": [ { - "id": "no_serious_conflict_unless_agreed", - "text": "No serious conflict unless agreed" + "id": "both_suggesting_ideas", + "text": "Both suggesting ideas" }, { - "id": "respect_tiredness", - "text": "Respect tiredness" + "id": "clear_budget", + "text": "Clear budget" }, { - "id": "no_forced_intimacy", - "text": "No forced intimacy" + "id": "taking_turns", + "text": "Taking turns" }, { - "id": "budget_clarity", - "text": "Budget clarity" + "id": "sharing_logistics", + "text": "Sharing logistics" }, { - "id": "end_kindly", - "text": "End kindly" + "id": "being_flexible", + "text": "Being flexible" + }, + { + "id": "appreciating_effort", + "text": "Appreciating effort" } ], "answer_config": { @@ -4462,33 +4694,37 @@ "id": "date_night_209", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What would make a surprise date successful?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What should we add to our date-night bucket list?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "surprise", - "success" + "bucket_list", + "date_ideas" ], "options": [ { - "id": "known_budget", - "text": "Known budget" + "id": "new_restaurant", + "text": "New restaurant" }, { - "id": "clear_dress_code", - "text": "Clear dress code" + "id": "live_music", + "text": "Live music" }, { - "id": "thoughtful_activity", - "text": "Thoughtful activity" + "id": "class_or_workshop", + "text": "Class or workshop" }, { - "id": "enough_notice", - "text": "Enough notice" + "id": "day_trip", + "text": "Day trip" }, { - "id": "easy_backup_plan", - "text": "Easy backup plan" + "id": "sunset_walk", + "text": "Sunset walk" + }, + { + "id": "stay_home_theme_night", + "text": "Stay-home theme night" } ], "answer_config": { @@ -4500,33 +4736,37 @@ "id": "date_night_210", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we remember when planning dates?", + "text": "What would help date night feel good during a busy season?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "remember", - "planning" + "busy_life", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "both_preferences_matter", - "text": "Both preferences matter" + "id": "shorter_dates", + "text": "Shorter dates" }, { - "id": "simple_counts", - "text": "Simple counts" + "id": "simple_food", + "text": "Simple food" }, { - "id": "novelty_helps", - "text": "Novelty helps" + "id": "planning_ahead", + "text": "Planning ahead" }, { - "id": "rest_matters", - "text": "Rest matters" + "id": "lower_expectations", + "text": "Lower expectations" }, { - "id": "connection_is_the_point", - "text": "Connection is the point" + "id": "more_grace", + "text": "More grace" + }, + { + "id": "protecting_the_time", + "text": "Protecting the time" } ], "answer_config": { @@ -4540,7 +4780,7 @@ "type": "scale", "text": "How much do you want a date night this week?", "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ "weekly", "desire" @@ -4549,7 +4789,7 @@ "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot", + "max_label": "Very much", "scale_step": 1 } }, @@ -4557,9 +4797,28 @@ "id": "date_night_212", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy does date planning feel for us right now?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "planning", + "ease" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min_scale": 1, + "max_scale": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy", + "scale_step": 1 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_213", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "scale", "text": "How connected do you usually feel after our dates?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ "connection", "after_date" @@ -4572,41 +4831,22 @@ "scale_step": 1 } }, - { - "id": "date_night_213", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it for us to plan dates?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "planning", - "ease" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Very hard", - "max_label": "Very easy", - "scale_step": 1 - } - }, { "id": "date_night_214", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does novelty matter to you on dates?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How present do you feel I am during dates?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "novelty", - "importance" + "presence", + "attention" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot", + "min_label": "Distracted", + "max_label": "Very present", "scale_step": 1 } }, @@ -4614,6 +4854,25 @@ "id": "date_night_215", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "scale", + "text": "How present do you feel during dates?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "presence", + "self" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min_scale": 1, + "max_scale": 5, + "min_label": "Distracted", + "max_label": "Very present", + "scale_step": 1 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_216", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "scale", "text": "How much does comfort matter to you on dates?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", @@ -4625,12 +4884,31 @@ "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot", + "max_label": "Very much", "scale_step": 1 } }, { - "id": "date_night_216", + "id": "date_night_217", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much does novelty matter to you on dates?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "novelty", + "importance" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min_scale": 1, + "max_scale": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "Very much", + "scale_step": 1 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_218", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "scale", "text": "How romantic do our dates feel lately?", @@ -4649,14 +4927,14 @@ } }, { - "id": "date_night_217", + "id": "date_night_219", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "scale", "text": "How playful do our dates feel lately?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "playful", + "playfulness", "recent" ], "answer_config": { @@ -4668,29 +4946,10 @@ } }, { - "id": "date_night_218", + "id": "date_night_220", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "scale", - "text": "How present are we with each other during dates?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "presence", - "date" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Distracted", - "max_label": "Very present", - "scale_step": 1 - } - }, - { - "id": "date_night_219", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do phones get in the way?", + "text": "How often do phones get in the way of date night?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -4706,10 +4965,10 @@ } }, { - "id": "date_night_220", + "id": "date_night_221", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much planning pressure do you feel?", + "text": "How much planning pressure do you feel around dates?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -4725,15 +4984,15 @@ } }, { - "id": "date_night_221", + "id": "date_night_222", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "scale", - "text": "How balanced does date planning feel?", + "text": "How balanced does date planning feel between us?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "balance", - "planning" + "planning", + "balance" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, @@ -4744,7 +5003,7 @@ } }, { - "id": "date_night_222", + "id": "date_night_223", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "scale", "text": "How much do budget worries affect date night?", @@ -4762,86 +5021,10 @@ "scale_step": 1 } }, - { - "id": "date_night_223", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you want more at-home dates?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "home_date", - "desire" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 - } - }, { "id": "date_night_224", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you want more going-out dates?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "going_out", - "desire" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 - } - }, - { - "id": "date_night_225", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How meaningful are simple dates to you?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "simple_dates", - "meaning" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not meaningful", - "max_label": "Very meaningful", - "scale_step": 1 - } - }, - { - "id": "date_night_226", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do date nights help us reset?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "reset", - "date" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot", - "scale_step": 1 - } - }, - { - "id": "date_night_227", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", "text": "How much do you enjoy surprise dates?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", @@ -4853,15 +5036,15 @@ "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot", + "max_label": "Very much", "scale_step": 1 } }, { - "id": "date_night_228", + "id": "date_night_225", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much notice do you need before a date?", + "text": "How much notice do you like before a planned date?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -4877,14 +5060,14 @@ } }, { - "id": "date_night_229", + "id": "date_night_226", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you asking for the kind of date you want?", + "text": "How comfortable are you asking for the date you want?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "asking", + "communication", "comfort" ], "answer_config": { @@ -4896,26 +5079,45 @@ } }, { - "id": "date_night_230", + "id": "date_night_227", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do we make dates feel intentional?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How much do simple dates mean to you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "intentional", - "date" + "simple_dates", + "meaning" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Very often", + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "Very much", "scale_step": 1 } }, { - "id": "date_night_231", + "id": "date_night_228", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much do date nights help us reset?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "reset", + "date_night" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min_scale": 1, + "max_scale": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "Very much", + "scale_step": 1 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_229", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "scale", "text": "How much should our next date focus on rest?", @@ -4929,12 +5131,12 @@ "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot", + "max_label": "Very much", "scale_step": 1 } }, { - "id": "date_night_232", + "id": "date_night_230", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "scale", "text": "How much should our next date focus on fun?", @@ -4948,12 +5150,12 @@ "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot", + "max_label": "Very much", "scale_step": 1 } }, { - "id": "date_night_233", + "id": "date_night_231", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "scale", "text": "How much should our next date focus on romance?", @@ -4967,31 +5169,31 @@ "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot", + "max_label": "Very much", "scale_step": 1 } }, { - "id": "date_night_234", + "id": "date_night_232", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much should our next date focus on deep connection?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How much should our next date focus on deeper conversation?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "deep_connection", + "conversation", "focus" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot", + "max_label": "Very much", "scale_step": 1 } }, { - "id": "date_night_235", + "id": "date_night_233", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "scale", "text": "How excited are you to plan something together?", @@ -5010,15 +5212,53 @@ } }, { - "id": "date_night_236", + "id": "date_night_234", "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which date sounds better tonight?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much do you want more at-home dates?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "preference", - "tonight" + "home_date", + "desire" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min_scale": 1, + "max_scale": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "Very much", + "scale_step": 1 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_235", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much do you want more going-out dates?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "going_out", + "desire" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min_scale": 1, + "max_scale": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "Very much", + "scale_step": 1 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_236", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Which sounds better tonight?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "tonight", + "preference" ], "options": [ { @@ -5037,19 +5277,19 @@ "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Which feels more romantic?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ "romance", "comparison" ], "options": [ { - "id": "dinner_together", - "text": "Dinner together" + "id": "slow_dinner", + "text": "Slow dinner" }, { - "id": "slow_walk", - "text": "Slow walk" + "id": "sunset_walk", + "text": "Sunset walk" } ] }, @@ -5059,7 +5299,7 @@ "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Which feels more fun?", "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ "fun", "comparison" @@ -5101,21 +5341,21 @@ "id": "date_night_240", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which matters more for date night?", + "text": "Which matters more for our next date?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "priority", - "date" + "next_date" ], "options": [ - { - "id": "novelty", - "text": "Novelty" - }, { "id": "comfort", "text": "Comfort" + }, + { + "id": "novelty", + "text": "Novelty" } ] }, @@ -5145,12 +5385,12 @@ "id": "date_night_242", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which sounds better?", + "text": "Which sounds easier?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "activity", - "preference" + "ease", + "activity" ], "options": [ { @@ -5220,12 +5460,12 @@ ], "options": [ { - "id": "a_planned_surprise", - "text": "A planned surprise" + "id": "planned_surprise", + "text": "Planned surprise" }, { - "id": "a_shared_plan", - "text": "A shared plan" + "id": "shared_plan", + "text": "Shared plan" } ] }, @@ -5321,7 +5561,7 @@ "id": "date_night_250", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which should end the date?", + "text": "Which ending sounds better?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -5330,12 +5570,12 @@ ], "options": [ { - "id": "dessert", - "text": "Dessert" + "id": "dessert_after", + "text": "Dessert after" }, { - "id": "quiet_talk", - "text": "Quiet talk" + "id": "quiet_drive_home", + "text": "Quiet drive home" } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/physical_intimacy.json b/seed/questions/physical_intimacy.json index 301c34ee..c19b1453 100644 --- a/seed/questions/physical_intimacy.json +++ b/seed/questions/physical_intimacy.json @@ -2,3508 +2,3740 @@ "category": { "id": "physical_intimacy", "display_name": "Physical Intimacy", - "description": "Questions about affection, touch, 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"What helps holding hands feel natural between us?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What kind of hug makes you feel most at home with me?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "holding_hands", - "natural" + "hugs", + "comfort", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_002", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you enjoy most about holding hands?", + "text": "What kind of hand-holding feels most natural to you?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "holding_hands", - "enjoyment" + "hands", + "everyday_affection", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_003", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When does holding hands help you feel connected to 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"category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I make comforting touch feel comfortable for you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps physical affection feel mutual?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "comforting_touch", - "comfort" + "mutual", + "affection", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_025", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small way we could add more comforting touch this week?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one way I can be more affectionate without overwhelming you?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "comforting_touch", - "daily_affection" + "affection", + "comfort", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": 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"What is one small way we could add more sitting close this week?", + "text": "What kind of affection feels easiest in public?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sitting_close", - "daily_affection" + "public_affection", + "comfort", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_031", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps nonverbal reassurance feel natural between us?", + "text": "What kind of affection do you prefer to keep private?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "nonverbal_reassurance", - "natural" + "privacy", + "affection", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_032", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you enjoy most 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"physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would make touch that feels emotionally meaningful feel safer or kinder?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make cuddling feel more connected this week?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "touch_that_feels_emotionally_meaningful", - "boundary" + "weekly", + "cuddling", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_139", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "How can we talk about touch that feels emotionally meaningful without creating pressure?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make hugs feel less rushed this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "touch_that_feels_emotionally_meaningful", - "pressure" + "weekly", + "hugs", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_140", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help touch that feels emotionally meaningful feel mutual and wanted?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is one way I can reach for you that would feel welcome?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "touch_that_feels_emotionally_meaningful", - "mutuality" + "initiation", + "welcome", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_141", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What part of balancing affection and space do you rarely get to say out loud?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one way you wish I waited for you physically?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "balancing_affection_and_space", - "understanding" + "pace", + "consent", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_142", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "Where do we need clearer communication around balancing affection and space?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What kind of physical affection helps you feel like a priority?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "balancing_affection_and_space", - "communication" + "priority", + "affection", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_143", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would make balancing affection and space feel safer or kinder?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What kind of physical affection helps you feel cherished?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "balancing_affection_and_space", - "boundary" + "cherished", + "affection", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_144", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "How can we talk about balancing affection and space without creating pressure?", + "text": "What kind of physical affection helps you feel desired without pressure?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "balancing_affection_and_space", - "pressure" + "desired", + "pressure", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_145", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help balancing affection and space feel mutual and wanted?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What kind of physical affection helps 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"type": "written", - "text": "How can we talk about protecting physical intimacy from pressure without creating pressure?", + "text": "What helps you receive correction about touch kindly?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "protecting_physical_intimacy_from_pressure", - "pressure" + "feedback", + "kindness", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_150", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help protecting physical intimacy from pressure feel mutual and wanted?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What kind of feedback about touch would be easiest to give?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "protecting_physical_intimacy_from_pressure", - "mutuality" + "feedback", + "touch", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_151", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For holding hands, what feels best to you?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which everyday touch do you like most?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "holding_hands", - "preference" + "daily_life", + "touch", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hand_holding", - "text": "Hand-holding" - }, - { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" - }, - { - "id": "a_long_hug", - "text": "A long hug" - }, - { - "id": "sitting_close", - "text": "Sitting close" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hand_holding", + "text": "Hand-holding" + }, + { + "id": "quick_kiss", + "text": "Quick kiss" + }, + { + "id": "couch_cuddle", + "text": "Couch cuddle" + }, + { + "id": "back_touch", + "text": "Back touch" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_152", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - 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"text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - }, - { - "id": "calm", - "text": "Calm" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "morning", + "text": "Morning" + }, + { + "id": "after_work", + "text": "After work" + }, + { + "id": "bedtime", + "text": "Bedtime" + }, + { + "id": "randomly", + "text": "Randomly" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_155", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Where do you prefer comforting touch?", + "text": "What makes cuddling easiest?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "comforting_touch", - "setting" + "cuddling", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "public_affection", - "text": "Public affection" - }, - { - "id": "private_affection", - "text": "Private affection" - }, - { - "id": "both", - "text": "Both" - }, - { - "id": "depends_on_the_setting", - "text": "Depends on 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"back_rub", + "text": "Back rub" + }, + { + "id": "hug", + "text": "Hug" + }, + { + "id": "hair_touch", + "text": "Hair touch" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_157", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For nonverbal reassurance, what feels best to you?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What kind of touch feels most playful?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "nonverbal_reassurance", - "preference" + "play", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hand_holding", - "text": "Hand-holding" - }, - { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" - }, - { - "id": "a_long_hug", - "text": "A long hug" - }, - { - "id": "sitting_close", - "text": "Sitting close" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "light_tickle", + "text": "Light tickle" + }, + { + "id": "hip_bump", + "text": "Hip bump" + }, + { + "id": "pull_close", + "text": "Pull close" + }, + { + "id": "dance_touch", + "text": "Dance touch" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_158", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make affection during stress feel safer?", + "text": "What helps you ask for affection?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "affection_during_stress", - "safety" + "communication", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - }, - { - "id": "move_slowly", - "text": "Move slowly" - }, - { - "id": "use_clear_words", - "text": "Use clear words" - }, - { - "id": "check_in_after", - "text": "Check in after" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "simple_words", + "text": "Simple words" + }, + { + "id": "playful_signal", + "text": "Playful signal" + }, + { + "id": "partner_invites", + "text": "Partner invites it" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_159", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - 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"physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "public_affection", - "text": "Public affection" - }, - { - "id": "private_affection", - "text": "Private affection" - }, - { - "id": "both", - "text": "Both" - }, - { - "id": "depends_on_the_setting", - "text": "Depends on the setting" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cuddling", + "text": "Cuddling" + }, + { + "id": "long_hug", + "text": "Long hug" + }, + { + "id": "slow_kiss", + "text": "Slow kiss" + }, + { + "id": "massage", + "text": "Massage" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_162", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When small daily affection feels uncertain, what should happen first?", + "text": "What makes touch feel low-pressure?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "small_daily_affection", - "consent" + "pressure", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "words_first", - "text": "Words first" - }, - { - "id": "touch_first", - "text": "Touch first" - }, - { - "id": "space_first", - "text": "Space first" - }, - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_expectation", + "text": "No expectation" + }, + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "easy_pause", + "text": "Easy pause" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_163", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For relaxing together, what feels best to you?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which touch helps after stress?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "relaxing_together", - "preference" + "stress", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hand_holding", - "text": "Hand-holding" - }, - { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" - }, - { - "id": "a_long_hug", - "text": "A long hug" - }, - { - "id": "sitting_close", - "text": "Sitting close" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hug", + "text": "Hug" + }, + { + "id": "hand_on_back", + "text": "Hand on back" + }, + { + "id": "back_rub", + "text": "Back rub" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_cuddle", + "text": "Quiet cuddle" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_164", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make affection in public feel safer?", + "text": "What physical gesture says I love you best?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "affection_in_public", - "safety" + "love", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - }, - { - "id": "move_slowly", - "text": "Move slowly" - }, - { - "id": "use_clear_words", - "text": "Use clear words" - }, - { - "id": "check_in_after", - "text": "Check in after" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "forehead_kiss", + "text": "Forehead kiss" + }, + { + "id": "holding_hands", 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"space_then_close", + "text": "Space, then closeness" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_166", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What does touch preferences usually communicate to you?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What kind of touch should we get better at asking for?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "touch_preferences", - "meaning" + "communication", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - }, - { - "id": "calm", - "text": "Calm" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "comfort_touch", + "text": "Comfort touch" + }, + { + "id": "flirty_touch", + "text": "Flirty touch" + }, + { + "id": "massage", + "text": "Massage" + }, + { + "id": "space", + "text": "Space instead" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_167", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Where do you prefer physical boundaries?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Which touch boundary matters most?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "physical_boundaries", - "setting" + "boundaries", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "public_affection", - "text": "Public affection" - }, - { - "id": "private_affection", - "text": "Private affection" - }, - { - "id": "both", - "text": "Both" - }, - { - "id": "depends_on_the_setting", - "text": "Depends on the setting" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + }, + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "not_when_upset", + "text": "Not when upset" + }, + { + "id": "public_limits", + "text": "Public limits" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_168", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When different affection needs feels uncertain, what should happen first?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes affection feel most respectful?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "different_affection_needs", - "consent" + "respect", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "words_first", - "text": "Words first" - }, - { - "id": "touch_first", - "text": "Touch first" - }, - { - "id": "space_first", - "text": "Space first" - }, - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "listening", + "text": "Listening" + }, + { + "id": "checking_in", + "text": "Checking in" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_169", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For touch after conflict, what feels best to you?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What kind of kiss should we bring back?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "touch_after_conflict", - "preference" + "kissing", + "memory", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hand_holding", - "text": "Hand-holding" - }, - { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" - }, - { - "id": "a_long_hug", - "text": "A long hug" - }, - { - "id": "sitting_close", - "text": "Sitting close" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "long_goodbye", + "text": "Long goodbye kiss" + }, + { + "id": "hello_kiss", + "text": "Hello kiss" + }, + { + "id": "slow_kiss", + "text": "Slow kiss" + }, + { + "id": "surprise_kiss", + "text": "Surprise kiss" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_170", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make feeling desired without pressure feel safer?", + "text": "What kind of cuddling should we do more?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_desired_without_pressure", - "safety" + "cuddling", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - }, - { - "id": "move_slowly", - "text": "Move slowly" - }, - { - "id": "use_clear_words", - "text": "Use clear words" - }, - { - "id": "check_in_after", - "text": "Check in after" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "movie_cuddle", + "text": "Movie cuddle" + }, + { + "id": "sleep_cuddle", + "text": "Sleep cuddle" + }, + { + "id": "morning_cuddle", + "text": "Morning cuddle" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_cuddle", + "text": "Quiet cuddle" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_171", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How would you like more initiating affection?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What kind of massage sounds best?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "initiating_affection", - "more" + "massage", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_often", - "text": "More often" - }, - { - "id": "more_gently", - "text": "More gently" - }, - { - "id": "more_privately", - "text": "More privately" - }, - { - "id": "more_playfully", - "text": "More playfully" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "shoulders", + "text": "Shoulders" + }, + { + "id": "back", + "text": "Back" + }, + { + "id": "feet", + "text": "Feet" + }, + { + "id": "hands", + "text": "Hands" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_172", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What does receiving affection usually communicate to you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What kind of touch helps repair distance?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "receiving_affection", - "meaning" + "repair", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - }, - { - "id": "calm", - "text": "Calm" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hand_squeeze", + "text": "Hand squeeze" + }, + { + "id": "slow_hug", + "text": "Slow hug" + }, + { + "id": "couch_cuddle", + "text": "Couch cuddle" + }, + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_173", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Where do you prefer affection when stressed?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What should we do if touch feels awkward?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "affection_when_stressed", - "setting" + "awkwardness", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "public_affection", - "text": "Public affection" - }, - { - "id": "private_affection", - "text": "Private affection" - }, - { - "id": "both", - "text": "Both" - }, - { - "id": "depends_on_the_setting", - "text": "Depends on the setting" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "laugh_gently", + "text": "Laugh gently" + }, + { + "id": "pause", + "text": "Pause" + }, + { + "id": "talk_softly", + "text": "Talk softly" + }, + { + "id": "try_later", + "text": "Try later" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_174", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When body confidence feels uncertain, what should happen first?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which touch feels best after conflict?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "body_confidence", - "consent" + "conflict", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "words_first", - "text": "Words first" - }, - { - "id": "touch_first", - "text": "Touch first" - }, - { - "id": "space_first", - "text": "Space first" - }, - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "none_yet", + "text": "None yet" + }, + { + "id": "hand_hold", + "text": "Hand-hold" + }, + { + "id": "hug", + "text": "Hug" + }, + { + "id": "cuddle", + "text": "Cuddle" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_175", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For consent and comfort, what feels best to you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes physical affection feel like teamwork?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "consent_and_comfort", - "preference" + "teamwork", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hand_holding", - "text": "Hand-holding" - }, - { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" - }, - { - "id": "a_long_hug", - "text": "A long hug" - }, - { - "id": "sitting_close", - "text": "Sitting close" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_initiate", + "text": "Both initiate" + }, + { + "id": "both_can_pause", + "text": "Both can pause" + }, + { + "id": "both_listen", + "text": "Both listen" + }, + { + "id": "both_play", + "text": "Both play" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_176", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make physical closeness during hard seasons feel safer?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What kind of public affection is too much?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "physical_closeness_during_hard_seasons", - "safety" + "public_affection", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - }, - { - "id": "move_slowly", - "text": "Move slowly" - }, - { - "id": "use_clear_words", - "text": "Use clear words" - }, - { - "id": "check_in_after", - "text": "Check in after" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kissing", + "text": "Kissing" + }, + { + "id": "touching_waist", + "text": "Touching waist" + }, + { + "id": "too_much_attention", + "text": "Too much attention" + }, + { + "id": "none", + "text": "None" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_177", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How would you like more repairing distance through affection?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What kind of private affection feels most intimate?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repairing_distance_through_affection", - "more" + "private_affection", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_often", - "text": "More often" - }, - { - "id": "more_gently", - "text": "More gently" - }, - { - "id": "more_privately", - "text": "More privately" - }, - { - "id": "more_playfully", - "text": "More playfully" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_kissing", + "text": "Slow kissing" + }, + { + "id": "long_cuddling", + "text": "Long cuddling" + }, + { + "id": "massage", + "text": "Massage" + }, + { + "id": "being_held", + "text": "Being held" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_178", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What does touch that feels emotionally meaningful usually communicate to you?", + "text": "What helps you receive affection when confidence is low?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "touch_that_feels_emotionally_meaningful", - "meaning" + "confidence", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - }, - { - "id": "calm", - "text": "Calm" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific_compliment", + "text": "Specific compliment" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_touch", + "text": "Gentle touch" + }, + { + "id": "low_pressure", + "text": "Low pressure" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_179", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Where do you prefer balancing affection and space?", + "text": "What kind of affection feels best in the morning?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "balancing_affection_and_space", - "setting" + "morning", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "public_affection", - "text": "Public affection" - }, - { - "id": "private_affection", - "text": "Private affection" - }, - { - "id": "both", - "text": "Both" - }, - { - "id": "depends_on_the_setting", - "text": "Depends on the setting" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quick_kiss", + "text": "Quick kiss" + }, + { + "id": "sleepy_cuddle", + "text": "Sleepy cuddle" + }, + { + "id": "hand_touch", + "text": "Hand touch" + }, + { + "id": "space_first", + "text": "Space first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_180", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When protecting physical intimacy from pressure feels uncertain, what should happen first?", + "text": "What kind of affection feels best at night?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "protecting_physical_intimacy_from_pressure", - "consent" + "night", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "words_first", - "text": "Words first" - }, - { - "id": "touch_first", - "text": "Touch first" - }, - { - "id": "space_first", - "text": "Space first" - }, - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cuddling", + "text": "Cuddling" + }, + { + "id": "back_rub", + "text": "Back rub" + }, + { + "id": "slow_kiss", + "text": "Slow kiss" + }, + { + "id": "hand_holding", + "text": "Hand-holding" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_181", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What touch helps when you are overwhelmed?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "overwhelm", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "firm_hug", + "text": "Firm hug" + }, + { + "id": "light_touch", + "text": "Light touch" + }, + { + "id": "hand_hold", + "text": "Hand-hold" + }, + { + "id": "no_touch", + "text": "No touch" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_182", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What physical signal should mean slow down?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "signals", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "pull_back", + "text": "Pull back" + }, + { + "id": "go_still", + "text": "Go still" + }, + { + "id": "say_slow", + "text": "Say slow" + }, + { + "id": "move_hand", + "text": "Move hand" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_183", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What physical signal should mean keep going?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "signals", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "pull_closer", + "text": "Pull closer" + }, + { + "id": "kiss_back", + "text": "Kiss back" + }, + { + "id": "relax_in", + "text": "Relax in" + }, + { + "id": "say_yes", + "text": "Say yes" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_184", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes touch feel spontaneous in a good way?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "spontaneity", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "playful_energy", + "text": "Playful energy" + }, + { + "id": "clear_welcome", + "text": "Clear welcome" + }, + { + "id": "simple_gesture", + "text": "Simple gesture" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_185", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes touch feel too sudden?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "boundaries", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "bad_timing", + "text": "Bad timing" + }, + { + "id": "no_warning", + "text": "No warning" + }, + { + "id": "wrong_mood", + "text": "Wrong mood" + }, + { + "id": "public_setting", + "text": "Public setting" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_186", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which physical ritual sounds best?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "rituals", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "daily_hug", + "text": "Daily hug" + }, + { + "id": "goodnight_kiss", + "text": "Goodnight kiss" + }, + { + "id": "couch_cuddle", + "text": "Couch cuddle" + }, + { + "id": "hand_squeeze", + "text": "Hand squeeze" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_187", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes a long hug feel safest?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "hugs", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "relaxed_body", + "text": "Relaxed body" + }, + { + "id": "not_rushed", + "text": "Not rushed" + }, + { + "id": "quiet", + "text": "Quiet" + }, + { + "id": "asked_first", + "text": "Asked first" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_188", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which touch helps you feel most cherished?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "cherished", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "face_touch", + "text": "Face touch" + }, + { + "id": "hand_hold", + "text": "Hand-hold" + }, + { + "id": "being_held", + "text": "Being held" + }, + { + "id": "slow_kiss", + "text": "Slow kiss" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_189", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of closeness should stay nonsexual more often?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "nonsexual", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cuddling", + "text": "Cuddling" + }, + { + "id": "massage", + "text": "Massage" + }, + { + "id": "kissing", + "text": "Kissing" + }, + { + "id": "bedtime_touch", + "text": "Bedtime touch" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_190", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What would make physical intimacy feel more like us?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "identity", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_play", + "text": "More play" + }, + { + "id": "more_softness", + "text": "More softness" + }, + { + "id": "more_kissing", + "text": "More kissing" + }, + { + "id": "more_check_ins", + "text": "More check-ins" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_191", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which kinds of touch help you feel close?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which touches feel comforting to you?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "holding_hands", - "touch_types" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hand_holding", - "text": "Hand-holding" - }, - { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" - }, - { - "id": "a_long_hug", - "text": "A long hug" - }, - { - "id": "sitting_close", - "text": "Sitting close" - } + "comfort_touch", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hug", + "text": "Hug" + }, + { + "id": "hand_hold", + "text": "Hand-hold" + }, + { + "id": "back_rub", + "text": "Back rub" + }, + { + "id": "hair_touch", + "text": "Hair touch" + }, + { + "id": "cuddling", + "text": "Cuddling" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3512,32 +3744,36 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_192", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things make physical affection feel safe?", + "text": "What makes affection feel welcome?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "cuddling", - "safety" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - }, - { - "id": "move_slowly", - "text": "Move slowly" - }, - { - "id": "use_clear_words", - "text": "Use clear words" - }, - { - "id": "check_in_after", - "text": "Check in after" - } + "welcome", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "playful_mood", + "text": "Playful mood" + }, + { + "id": "asking_first", + "text": "Asking first" + }, + { + "id": "low_pressure", + "text": "Low pressure" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3546,32 +3782,36 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_193", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we communicate around warm greetings?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which physical closeness do you want more often?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "warm_greetings", - "communication" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_often", - "text": "More often" - }, - { - "id": "more_gently", - "text": "More gently" - }, - { - "id": "more_privately", - "text": "More privately" - }, - { - "id": "more_playfully", - "text": "More playfully" - } + "closeness", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hand_holding", + "text": "Hand-holding" + }, + { + "id": "cuddling", + "text": "Cuddling" + }, + { + "id": "kissing", + "text": "Kissing" + }, + { + "id": "hugs", + "text": "Hugs" + }, + { + "id": "sitting_close", + "text": "Sitting close" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3580,32 +3820,36 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_194", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which situations make goodbye affection harder?", + "text": "What helps when you are not in the mood for touch?", "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "goodbye_affection", - "difficulty" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - }, - { - "id": "calm", - "text": "Calm" - } + "consent", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kind_words", + "text": "Kind words" + }, + { + "id": "no_guilt", + "text": "No guilt" + }, + { + "id": "space", + "text": "Space" + }, + { + "id": "try_later", + "text": "Try later" + }, + { + "id": "another_closeness", + "text": "Another kind of closeness" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3614,32 +3858,36 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_195", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which answers fit best here: public affection or private affection?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes touch feel playful?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "comforting_touch", - "touch_types" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "public_affection", - "text": "Public affection" - }, - { - "id": "private_affection", - "text": "Private affection" - }, - { - "id": "both", - "text": "Both" - }, - { - "id": "depends_on_the_setting", - "text": "Depends on the setting" - } + "play", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "laughter", + "text": "Laughter" + }, + { + "id": "teasing", + "text": "Teasing" + }, + { + "id": "dancing", + "text": "Dancing" + }, + { + "id": "surprise_hug", + "text": "Surprise hug" + }, + { + "id": "inside_jokes", + "text": "Inside jokes" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3648,32 +3896,36 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_196", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which answers fit best here: words first or touch first?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What should we protect around physical intimacy?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sitting_close", - "safety" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "words_first", - "text": "Words first" - }, - { - "id": "touch_first", - "text": "Touch first" - }, - { - "id": "space_first", - "text": "Space first" - }, - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - } + "boundaries", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "easy_no", + "text": "Easy no" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "clear_signals", + "text": "Clear signals" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3682,32 +3934,36 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_197", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we communicate around nonverbal reassurance?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps you feel safe being physically close?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "nonverbal_reassurance", - "communication" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hand_holding", - "text": "Hand-holding" - }, - { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" - }, - { - "id": "a_long_hug", - "text": "A long hug" - }, - { - "id": "sitting_close", - "text": "Sitting close" - } + "safety", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "listening", + "text": "Listening" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "slow_pace", + "text": "Slow pace" + }, + { + "id": "checking_in", + "text": "Checking in" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3716,32 +3972,36 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_198", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which situations make affection during stress harder?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which forms of public affection feel okay?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "affection_during_stress", - "difficulty" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - }, - { - "id": "move_slowly", - "text": "Move slowly" - }, - { - "id": "use_clear_words", - "text": "Use clear words" - }, - { - "id": "check_in_after", - "text": "Check in after" - } + "public_affection", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hand_holding", + "text": "Hand-holding" + }, + { + "id": "hug", + "text": "Hug" + }, + { + "id": "quick_kiss", + "text": "Quick kiss" + }, + { + "id": "arm_around", + "text": "Arm around" + }, + { + "id": "none", + "text": "None" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3750,32 +4010,36 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_199", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which answers fit best here: more often or more gently?", + "text": "Which private affection should happen more often?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "gentle_touch", - "touch_types" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_often", - "text": "More often" - }, - { - "id": "more_gently", - "text": "More gently" - }, - { - "id": "more_privately", - "text": "More privately" - }, - { - "id": "more_playfully", - "text": "More playfully" - } + "private_affection", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "long_hugs", + "text": "Long hugs" + }, + { + "id": "slow_kisses", + "text": "Slow kisses" + }, + { + "id": "massage", + "text": "Massage" + }, + { + "id": "cuddling", + "text": "Cuddling" + }, + { + "id": "playful_touch", + "text": "Playful touch" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3784,32 +4048,36 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_200", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which answers fit best here: comfort or reassurance?", + "text": "What makes a kiss feel connected?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_physically_safe", - "safety" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - }, - { - "id": "calm", - "text": "Calm" - } + "kissing", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "not_rushed", + "text": "Not rushed" + }, + { + "id": "soft_touch", + "text": "Soft touch" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "mutual_energy", + "text": "Mutual energy" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3818,32 +4086,36 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_201", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we communicate around asking before touch?", + "text": "What makes cuddling better?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "asking_before_touch", - "communication" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "public_affection", - "text": "Public affection" - }, - { - "id": "private_affection", - "text": "Private affection" - }, - { - "id": "both", - "text": "Both" - }, - { - "id": "depends_on_the_setting", - "text": "Depends on the setting" - } + "cuddling", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + }, + { + "id": "right_temperature", + "text": "Right temperature" + }, + { + "id": "no_phones", + "text": "No phones" + }, + { + "id": "quiet", + "text": "Quiet" + }, + { + "id": "good_position", + "text": "Good position" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3852,32 +4124,112 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_202", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which situations make small daily affection harder?", + "text": "Which touches help after a hard day?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "small_daily_affection", - "difficulty" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "words_first", - "text": "Words first" - }, - { - "id": "touch_first", - "text": "Touch first" - }, - { - "id": "space_first", - "text": "Space first" - }, - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - } + "stress", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hug", + "text": "Hug" + }, + { + "id": "back_rub", + "text": "Back rub" + }, + { + "id": "hand_hold", + "text": "Hand-hold" + }, + { + "id": "head_on_shoulder", + "text": "Head on shoulder" + }, + { + "id": "no_touch_first", + "text": "No touch first" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_203", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps physical closeness after conflict?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "conflict", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + }, + { + "id": "slow_start", + "text": "Slow start" + }, + { + "id": "apology_first", + "text": "Apology first" + }, + { + "id": "space_first", + "text": "Space first" + }, + { + "id": "soft_words", + "text": "Soft words" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_204", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kind of touch feedback is easiest?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "feedback", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "softer", + "text": "Softer" + }, + { + "id": "slower", + "text": "Slower" + }, + { + "id": "right_there", + "text": "Right there" + }, + { + "id": "not_now", + "text": "Not now" + }, + { + "id": "more_like_that", + "text": "More like that" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3886,32 +4238,36 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_205", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we communicate around touch that feels comforting?", + "text": "What makes learning touch preferences feel fun?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "touch_that_feels_comforting", - "communication" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_often", - "text": "More often" - }, - { - "id": "more_gently", - "text": "More gently" - }, - { - "id": "more_privately", - "text": "More privately" - }, - { - "id": "more_playfully", - "text": "More playfully" - } + "learning", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_judgment", + "text": "No judgment" + }, + { + "id": "playful_mood", + "text": "Playful mood" + }, + { + "id": "curiosity", + "text": "Curiosity" + }, + { + "id": "going_slow", + "text": "Going slow" + }, + { + "id": "laughing", + "text": "Laughing" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3920,32 +4276,112 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_206", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which situations make touch preferences harder?", + "text": "What kind of touch helps you feel attractive?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "touch_preferences", - "difficulty" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - }, - { - "id": "calm", - "text": "Calm" - } + "confidence", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "waist_touch", + "text": "Waist touch" + }, + { + "id": "face_touch", + "text": "Face touch" + }, + { + "id": "back_touch", + "text": "Back touch" + }, + { + "id": "being_held", + "text": "Being held" + }, + { + "id": "slow_kiss", + "text": "Slow kiss" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_207", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps physical intimacy stay nonsexual when needed?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "nonsexual", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_words", + "text": "Clear words" + }, + { + "id": "respect", + "text": "Respect" + }, + { + "id": "no_expectation", + "text": "No expectation" + }, + { + "id": "other_closeness", + "text": "Other closeness" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_208", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kinds of touch feel grounding?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "grounding", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "firm_hug", + "text": "Firm hug" + }, + { + "id": "hand_on_back", + "text": "Hand on back" + }, + { + "id": "holding_hands", + "text": "Holding hands" + }, + { + "id": "breathing_together", + "text": "Breathing together" + }, + { + "id": "no_touch", + "text": "No touch" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3954,32 +4390,36 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_209", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we communicate around touch after conflict?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which physical rituals would help us feel closer?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "touch_after_conflict", - "communication" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hand_holding", - "text": "Hand-holding" - }, - { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" - }, - { - "id": "a_long_hug", - "text": "A long hug" - }, - { - "id": "sitting_close", - "text": "Sitting close" - } + "rituals", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "daily_hug", + "text": "Daily hug" + }, + { + "id": "goodnight_kiss", + "text": "Goodnight kiss" + }, + { + "id": "morning_cuddle", + "text": "Morning cuddle" + }, + { + "id": "couch_touch", + "text": "Couch touch" + }, + { + "id": "walk_hand_hold", + "text": "Hand-holding walk" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3988,32 +4428,36 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_210", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which situations make feeling desired without pressure harder?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What should always be easy to communicate during touch?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_desired_without_pressure", - "difficulty" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - }, - { - "id": "move_slowly", - "text": "Move slowly" - }, - { - "id": "use_clear_words", - "text": "Use clear words" - }, - { - "id": "check_in_after", - "text": "Check in after" - } + "communication", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "keep_going", + "text": "Keep going" + }, + { + "id": "different_touch", + "text": "Different touch" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4022,321 +4466,304 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_211", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable do you feel with holding hands lately?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How natural does everyday affection feel lately?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "holding_hands", - "comfort" + "daily_life", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not natural", + "max_label": "Very natural" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_212", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How connected do you feel through cuddling?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How easy is it to ask for a hug?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "cuddling", - "connection" + "hugs", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Distant", - "max_label": "Very connected" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_213", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clearly do we communicate about warm greetings?", + "text": "How comfortable are you with public affection?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "warm_greetings", - "communication" + "public_affection", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unclear", - "max_label": "Very clear" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not comfortable", + "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_214", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much pressure do you feel around goodbye affection?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How connected do you feel when we cuddle?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "goodbye_affection", - "pressure" + "cuddling", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "No pressure", - "max_label": "Too much pressure" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not connected", + "max_label": "Very connected" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_215", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How important is comforting touch to feeling close?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How easy is it to say not right now?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "comforting_touch", - "importance" + "consent", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_216", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable do you feel with sitting close lately?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much would more small touches help us?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sitting_close", - "comfort" + "touch", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Distant", - "max_label": "Very connected" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_217", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How connected do you feel through nonverbal reassurance?", + "text": "How playful does our physical affection feel?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "nonverbal_reassurance", - "connection" + "play", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unclear", - "max_label": "Very clear" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not playful", + "max_label": "Very playful" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_218", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clearly do we communicate about affection during stress?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How safe does physical closeness feel between us?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "affection_during_stress", - "communication" + "safety", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "No pressure", - "max_label": "Too much pressure" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_219", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much pressure do you feel around gentle touch?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How respected do your touch boundaries feel?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "gentle_touch", - "pressure" + "boundaries", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not respected", + "max_label": "Very respected" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_220", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How important is feeling physically safe to feeling close?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How easy is it to give feedback about touch?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_physically_safe", - "importance" + "feedback", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Distant", - "max_label": "Very connected" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_221", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable do you feel with asking before touch lately?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How easy is it to hear feedback about touch?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "asking_before_touch", - "comfort" + "feedback", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unclear", - "max_label": "Very clear" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_222", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How connected do you feel through small daily affection?", + "text": "How often do we kiss with intention?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "small_daily_affection", - "connection" + "kissing", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "No pressure", - "max_label": "Too much pressure" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Rarely", + "max_label": "Often" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_223", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clearly do we communicate about relaxing together?", + "text": "How often do we hug without rushing?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "relaxing_together", - "communication" + "hugs", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Rarely", + "max_label": "Often" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_224", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much pressure do you feel around affection in public?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How much does stress affect your comfort with touch?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "affection_in_public", - "pressure" + "stress", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Distant", - "max_label": "Very connected" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_225", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How important is touch that feels comforting to feeling close?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How much does confidence affect your comfort with touch?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "touch_that_feels_comforting", - "importance" + "confidence", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unclear", - "max_label": "Very clear" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_226", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable do you feel with touch preferences lately?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How comfortable are you initiating affection?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "touch_preferences", - "comfort" + "initiation", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "No pressure", - "max_label": "Too much pressure" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not comfortable", + "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_227", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How connected do you feel through physical boundaries?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How comfortable are you receiving affection?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "physical_boundaries", - "connection" + "receiving", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, + "min": 1, + "max": 5, "min_label": "Not comfortable", "max_label": "Very comfortable" } @@ -4345,18 +4772,17 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_228", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clearly do we communicate about different affection needs?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How connected does hand-holding feel to you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "different_affection_needs", - "communication" + "hands", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Distant", + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not connected", "max_label": "Very connected" } }, @@ -4364,464 +4790,487 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_229", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much pressure do you feel around touch after conflict?", + "text": "How calming is a long hug for you?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "touch_after_conflict", - "pressure" + "hugs", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unclear", - "max_label": "Very clear" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not calming", + "max_label": "Very calming" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_230", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How important is feeling desired without pressure to feeling close?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How much do you enjoy playful touch?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_desired_without_pressure", - "importance" + "play", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "No pressure", - "max_label": "Too much pressure" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_231", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable do you feel with initiating affection lately?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How much do you enjoy quiet touch?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "initiating_affection", - "comfort" + "quiet", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_232", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How connected do you feel through receiving affection?", + "text": "How much privacy do you need for physical closeness?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "receiving_affection", - "connection" + "privacy", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Distant", - "max_label": "Very connected" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "A little", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_233", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clearly do we communicate about affection when stressed?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How well do we reconnect physically after distance?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "affection_when_stressed", - "communication" + "reconnection", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unclear", - "max_label": "Very clear" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_234", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much pressure do you feel around body confidence?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How easy is it to pause touch without awkwardness?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "body_confidence", - "pressure" + "pause", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "No pressure", - "max_label": "Too much pressure" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_235", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How important is consent and comfort to feeling close?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How much would a new physical closeness ritual help us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "consent_and_comfort", - "importance" + "rituals", + "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_236", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For holding hands, what feels better?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Hand-holding or cuddling?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "holding_hands", - "preference" + "touch", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - }, - { - "id": "read_the_moment", - "text": "Read the moment" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hand_holding", + "text": "Hand-holding" + }, + { + "id": "cuddling", + "text": "Cuddling" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_237", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When it comes to cuddling, what should we lean toward?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Quick kiss or long hug?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "cuddling", - "leaning" + "affection", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_often", - "text": "More often" - }, - { - "id": "more_intentional", - "text": "More intentional" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quick_kiss", + "text": "Quick kiss" + }, + { + "id": "long_hug", + "text": "Long hug" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_238", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "If one of us is unsure about warm greetings, what matters more?", + "text": "Playful touch or comforting touch?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "warm_greetings", - "safety" + "touch", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "private_affection", - "text": "Private affection" - }, - { - "id": "public_affection", - "text": "Public affection" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "playful_touch", + "text": "Playful touch" + }, + { + "id": "comforting_touch", + "text": "Comforting touch" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_239", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For goodbye affection, what feels better?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Public affection or private affection?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "goodbye_affection", - "preference" + "affection", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_touch", - "text": "Soft touch" - }, - { - "id": "playful_touch", - "text": "Playful touch" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "public_affection", + "text": "Public affection" + }, + { + "id": "private_affection", + "text": "Private affection" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_240", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When it comes to comforting touch, what should we lean toward?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Morning cuddle or bedtime cuddle?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "comforting_touch", - "leaning" + "cuddling", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort_first", - "text": "Comfort first" - }, - { - "id": "connection_first", - "text": "Connection first" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "morning_cuddle", + "text": "Morning cuddle" + }, + { + "id": "bedtime_cuddle", + "text": "Bedtime cuddle" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_241", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "If one of us is unsure about sitting close, what matters more?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Slow kiss or surprise kiss?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sitting_close", - "safety" + "kissing", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "initiate", - "text": "Initiate" - }, - { - "id": "invite", - "text": "Invite" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_kiss", + "text": "Slow kiss" + }, + { + "id": "surprise_kiss", + "text": "Surprise kiss" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_242", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For nonverbal reassurance, what feels better?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Back rub or hand massage?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "nonverbal_reassurance", - "preference" + "massage", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "speak_up", - "text": "Speak up" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "back_rub", + "text": "Back rub" + }, + { + "id": "hand_massage", + "text": "Hand massage" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_243", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When it comes to affection during stress, what should we lean toward?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Ask first or read the moment?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "affection_during_stress", - "leaning" + "consent", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - }, - { - "id": "closeness", - "text": "Closeness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + }, + { + "id": "read_the_moment", + "text": "Read the moment" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_244", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "If one of us is unsure about gentle touch, what matters 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"text": "Quiet closeness" + }, + { + "id": "flirty_closeness", + "text": "Flirty closeness" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_246", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When it comes to asking before touch, what should we lean toward?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Couch cuddle or kitchen dance?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "asking_before_touch", - "leaning" + "play", + "physical_intimacy" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "private_affection", - "text": "Private affection" - }, - { - "id": "public_affection", - "text": "Public affection" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "couch_cuddle", + "text": "Couch cuddle" + }, + { + "id": "kitchen_dance", + "text": "Kitchen dance" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_247", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "If one of us is unsure about small daily affection, what matters more?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Hold me tighter or give me 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500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_138", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", - "text": "How can we talk about pressure and consent without shame or pressure?", + "text": "What kind of no feels easiest to say to me?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pressure_and_consent", - "shame_pressure" + "no", + "ease", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_139", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make pressure and consent feel more mutual and emotionally safe?", + "text": "What helps us stay warm with each other after a no?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pressure_and_consent", - "mutuality" + "no", + "warmth", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_140", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", - "text": "What agreement would help us handle pressure and consent more kindly?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is one way to make desire feel less serious and more playful?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pressure_and_consent", - "agreement" + "play", + "lightness", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_141", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", - "text": "Where do you feel least understood around fantasy conversations?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would make talking about sex feel like flirting instead of a meeting?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fantasy_conversations", - "understanding" + "communication", + "fun", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_142", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us navigate fantasy conversations with care?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is one intimate topic we could make easier by laughing a little?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fantasy_conversations", - "boundary" + "humor", + "intimacy", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_143", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", - "text": "How can we talk about fantasy conversations without shame or pressure?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps you feel like we are on the same team in this area?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fantasy_conversations", - "shame_pressure" + "teamwork", + "desire", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_144", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make fantasy conversations feel more mutual and emotionally safe?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is one thing I do that makes you feel safe to be honest?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fantasy_conversations", - "mutuality" + "honesty", + "safety", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_145", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", - "text": "What agreement would help us handle fantasy conversations more kindly?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is one thing I do that makes you feel wanted without asking for anything?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fantasy_conversations", - "agreement" + "wanted", + "no_pressure", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_146", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", - "text": "What part of protecting desire in long-term love do you rarely get to say out loud?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What would help us make room for desire during stressful seasons?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "protecting_desire_in_long_term_love", - "understanding" + "stress", + "seasons", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_147", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us navigate protecting desire in long-term love with care?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What should we protect from becoming automatic or routine?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "protecting_desire_in_long_term_love", - "boundary" + "routine", + "protection", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_148", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", - "text": "How can we talk about protecting desire in long-term love without shame or pressure?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What kind of surprise would feel welcome, not risky?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "protecting_desire_in_long_term_love", - "shame_pressure" + "surprise", + "consent", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_149", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make protecting desire in long-term love feel more mutual and emotionally safe?", + "text": "What should never be a surprise in our sex life?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "protecting_desire_in_long_term_love", - "mutuality" + "surprise", + "boundaries", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_150", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", - "text": "What agreement would help us handle protecting desire in long-term love more kindly?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is one way to make anticipation last longer?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "protecting_desire_in_long_term_love", - "agreement" + "anticipation", + "slow_burn", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 1000, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_151", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For talking about desire respectfully, what would help most?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which kind of flirting feels most like you?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "talking_about_desire_respectfully", - "support" + "flirting", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_words", - "text": "Gentle words" - }, - { - "id": "clear_asking", - "text": "Clear asking" - }, - { - "id": "playful_flirting", - "text": "Playful flirting" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_closeness", - "text": "Quiet closeness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet", + "text": "Sweet" + }, + { + "id": "playful", + "text": "Playful" + }, + { + "id": "bold", + "text": "Bold" + }, + { + "id": "quiet", + "text": "Quiet" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_152", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we bring up feeling wanted?", + "text": "What gets you into a romantic mood fastest?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_wanted", - "communication" + "mood", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_directly", - "text": "Ask directly" - }, - { - "id": "use_a_signal", - "text": "Use a signal" - }, - { - "id": "talk_earlier", - "text": "Talk earlier" - }, - { - "id": "check_in_later", - "text": "Check in later" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kissing", + "text": "Kissing" + }, + { + "id": "compliments", + "text": "Compliments" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_time", + "text": "Quiet time" + }, + { + "id": "flirty_text", + "text": "A flirty text" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_153", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should be centered when we discuss nonsexual closeness?", + "text": "Which kind of initiation feels best?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "nonsexual_closeness", - "center" + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": 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"more_privacy", - "text": "More privacy" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kissing", + "text": "Kissing" + }, + { + "id": "talking", + "text": "Talking" + }, + { + "id": "cuddling", + "text": "Cuddling" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_155", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What response matters most around responding to no with care?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What is the easiest way to say not tonight?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "responding_to_no_with_care", - "response" + "consent", + "no", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "accept_no_kindly", - "text": "Accept no kindly" - }, - { - "id": "ask_what_feels_good", - "text": "Ask what feels good" - }, - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "talk_outside_the_moment", - "text": "Talk outside the moment" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "not_tonight", + "text": "Not tonight" + }, + { + "id": "can_we_cuddle", + "text": "Can we cuddle?" + }, + { + "id": "i_need_rest", + "text": "I need rest" + }, + { + "id": "maybe_later", + "text": "Maybe later" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_156", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What most supports desire around desire changing over time?", + "text": "What kind of compliment makes you feel most desired?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "desire_changing_over_time", - "desire" + "compliments", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "emotional_closeness", - "text": "Emotional closeness" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_desired", - "text": "Feeling desired" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "body", + "text": "Body" + }, + { + "id": "personality", + "text": "Personality" + }, + { + "id": "energy", + "text": "Energy" + }, + { + "id": "specific_detail", + "text": "A specific detail" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_157", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For flirting in everyday life, what would help most?", + "text": "Which spark do you miss most when life is busy?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "flirting_in_everyday_life", - "support" + "busy_life", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_words", - "text": "Gentle words" - }, - { - "id": "clear_asking", - "text": "Clear asking" - }, - { - "id": "playful_flirting", - "text": "Playful flirting" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_closeness", - "text": "Quiet closeness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "flirting", + "text": "Flirting" + }, + { + "id": "kissing", + "text": "Kissing" + }, + { + "id": "touching", + "text": "Touching" + }, + { + "id": "private_time", + "text": "Private time" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_158", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we bring up feeling emotionally ready?", + "text": "What makes desire feel most natural?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_emotionally_ready", - "communication" + "desire", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_directly", - "text": "Ask directly" - }, - { - "id": "use_a_signal", - "text": "Use a signal" - }, - { - "id": "talk_earlier", - "text": "Talk earlier" - }, - { - "id": "check_in_later", - "text": "Check in later" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "relaxation", + "text": "Relaxation" + }, + { + "id": "connection", + "text": "Connection" + }, + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "being_pursued", + "text": "Being pursued" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_159", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should be centered when 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"tags": [ - "aftercare_and_reassurance", - "improvement" + "awkwardness", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_romance", - "text": "More romance" - }, - { - "id": "more_honesty", - "text": "More honesty" - }, - { - "id": "more_patience", - "text": "More patience" - }, - { - "id": "more_privacy", - "text": "More privacy" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "laughing", + "text": "Laughing" + }, + { + "id": "cuddling", + "text": "Cuddling" + }, + { + "id": "talking", + "text": "Talking" + }, + { + "id": "moving_on", + "text": "Moving on" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_161", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What response matters most around checking in about comfort?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which mood sounds best tonight?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "checking_in_about_comfort", - "response" + "mood", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "accept_no_kindly", - "text": "Accept no kindly" - }, - { - "id": "ask_what_feels_good", - "text": "Ask what feels good" - }, - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "talk_outside_the_moment", - "text": "Talk outside the moment" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet", + "text": "Sweet" + }, + { + "id": "spicy", + "text": "Spicy" + }, + { + "id": "playful", + "text": "Playful" + }, + { + "id": "restful", + "text": "Restful" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_162", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What most supports desire around romance and anticipation?", + "text": "What helps desire survive a long day?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "romance_and_anticipation", - "desire" + "stress", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "emotional_closeness", - "text": "Emotional closeness" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_desired", - "text": "Feeling desired" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "less_pressure", + "text": "Less pressure" + }, + { + "id": "more_affection", + "text": "More affection" + }, + { + "id": "help_with_tasks", + "text": "Help with tasks" + }, + { + "id": "flirting", + "text": "Flirting" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_163", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For reducing pressure, what would help most?", + "text": "Which kind of touch feels most inviting?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "reducing_pressure", - "support" + "touch", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_words", - "text": "Gentle words" - }, - { - "id": "clear_asking", - "text": "Clear asking" - }, - { - "id": "playful_flirting", - "text": "Playful flirting" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_closeness", - "text": "Quiet closeness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hand_on_waist", + "text": "Hand on waist" + }, + { + "id": "slow_kiss", + "text": "Slow kiss" + }, + { + "id": "back_rub", + "text": "Back rub" + }, + { + "id": "cuddling", + "text": "Cuddling" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_164", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we bring up feeling attractive?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes being wanted feel safest?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_attractive", - "communication" + "wanted", + "safety", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_directly", - "text": "Ask directly" - }, - { - "id": "use_a_signal", - "text": "Use a signal" - }, - { - "id": "talk_earlier", - "text": "Talk earlier" - }, - { - "id": "check_in_later", - "text": "Check in later" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "easy_no", + "text": "An easy no" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_165", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should be centered when we discuss staying connected outside sex?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which kind of private time sounds best?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "staying_connected_outside_sex", - "center" + "private_time", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_night", + "text": "Slow night" + }, + { + "id": "playful_night", + "text": "Playful night" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_cuddles", + "text": "Quiet cuddles" + }, + { + "id": "surprise_me", + "text": "Surprise me" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_166", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would improve different levels of desire without adding pressure?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What kind of desire talk feels least awkward?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "different_levels_of_desire", - "improvement" + "communication", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_romance", - "text": "More romance" - }, - { - "id": "more_honesty", - "text": "More honesty" - }, - { - "id": "more_patience", - "text": "More patience" - }, - { - "id": "more_privacy", - "text": "More privacy" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "playful", + "text": "Playful" + }, + { + "id": "direct", + "text": "Direct" + }, + { + "id": "written_first", + "text": "Written first" + }, + { + "id": "after_flirting", + "text": "After flirting" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_167", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What response matters most around sexual communication?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes a sexy text feel welcome?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sexual_communication", - "response" + "sexting", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "accept_no_kindly", - "text": "Accept no kindly" - }, - { - "id": "ask_what_feels_good", - "text": "Ask what feels good" - }, - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "talk_outside_the_moment", - "text": "Talk outside the moment" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "right_timing", + "text": "Right timing" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "playful_tone", + "text": "Playful tone" + }, + { + "id": "asked_first", + "text": "Asked first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_168", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What most supports desire around turn-ons and turn-offs?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Which desire difference needs the most kindness?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "turn_ons_and_turn_offs", - "desire" + "mismatched_desire", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "emotional_closeness", - "text": "Emotional closeness" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_desired", - "text": "Feeling desired" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "frequency", + "text": "Frequency" + }, + { + "id": "timing", + "text": "Timing" + }, + { + "id": "pace", + "text": "Pace" + }, + { + "id": "initiation", + "text": "Initiation" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_169", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For initiation preferences, what would help most?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes a no easiest to receive?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "initiation_preferences", - "support" + "consent", + "no", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_words", - "text": "Gentle words" - }, - { - "id": "clear_asking", - "text": "Clear asking" - }, - { - "id": "playful_flirting", - "text": "Playful flirting" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_closeness", - "text": "Quiet closeness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "kind_tone", + "text": "Kind tone" + }, + { + "id": "cuddle_option", + "text": "Another closeness option" + }, + { + "id": "space", + "text": "Space" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_170", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we bring up comfort with trying new things?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes a yes feel most exciting?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "comfort_with_trying_new_things", - "communication" + "consent", + "yes", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_directly", - "text": "Ask directly" - }, - { - "id": "use_a_signal", - "text": "Use a signal" - }, - { - "id": "talk_earlier", - "text": "Talk earlier" - }, - { - "id": "check_in_later", - "text": "Check in later" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_desire", + "text": "Clear desire" + }, + { + "id": "playful_energy", + "text": "Playful energy" + }, + { + "id": "slow_build", + "text": "Slow build" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_171", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should be centered when we discuss sexual boundaries?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Which kind of aftercare feels best?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sexual_boundaries", - "center" + "aftercare", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cuddles", + "text": "Cuddles" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_words", + "text": "Sweet words" + }, + { + "id": "quiet", + "text": "Quiet" + }, + { + "id": "laughing", + "text": "Laughing" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_172", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would improve desire during stress without adding pressure?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What should we protect most in our sex life?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "desire_during_stress", - "improvement" + "protection", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_romance", - "text": "More romance" - }, - { - "id": "more_honesty", - "text": "More honesty" - }, - { - "id": "more_patience", - "text": "More patience" - }, - { - "id": "more_privacy", - "text": "More privacy" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "consent", + "text": "Consent" + }, + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_173", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What response matters most around body confidence during intimacy?", + "text": "Which kind of anticipation works best for you?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "body_confidence_during_intimacy", - "response" + "anticipation", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "accept_no_kindly", - "text": "Accept no kindly" - }, - { - "id": "ask_what_feels_good", - "text": "Ask what feels good" - }, - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "talk_outside_the_moment", - "text": "Talk outside the moment" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "texts", + "text": "Texts" + }, + { + "id": "looks", + "text": "Looks" + }, + { + "id": "touches", + "text": "Touches" + }, + { + "id": "plans", + "text": "Plans" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_174", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What most supports desire around repair after rejection?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What kind of fantasy talk feels safest?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair_after_rejection", - "desire" + "fantasy", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "emotional_closeness", - "text": "Emotional closeness" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_desired", - "text": "Feeling desired" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes_no_maybe", + "text": "Yes / no / maybe" + }, + { + "id": "one_at_a_time", + "text": "One at a time" + }, + { + "id": "written", + "text": "Written" + }, + { + "id": "not_ready", + "text": "Not ready" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_175", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For sexual expectations, what would help most?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes trying something new feel safer?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sexual_expectations", - "support" + "novelty", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_words", - "text": "Gentle words" - }, - { - "id": "clear_asking", - "text": "Clear asking" - }, - { - "id": "playful_flirting", - "text": "Playful flirting" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_closeness", - "text": "Quiet closeness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_first", + "text": "Talk first" + }, + { + "id": "start_small", + "text": "Start small" + }, + { + "id": "easy_stop", + "text": "Easy stop" + }, + { + "id": "aftercare", + "text": "Aftercare" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_176", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we bring up frequency differences?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Which setting helps you relax most?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "frequency_differences", - "communication" + "setting", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_directly", - "text": "Ask directly" - }, - { - "id": "use_a_signal", - "text": "Use a signal" - }, - { - "id": "talk_earlier", - "text": "Talk earlier" - }, - { - "id": "check_in_later", - "text": "Check in later" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clean_room", + "text": "Clean room" + }, + { + "id": "low_lights", + "text": "Low lights" + }, + { + "id": "music", + "text": "Music" + }, + { + "id": "locked_door", + "text": "Locked door" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_177", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should be centered when we discuss emotional safety during intimacy?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What kind of flirting should we bring back?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emotional_safety_during_intimacy", - "center" + "flirting", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "inside_jokes", + "text": "Inside jokes" + }, + { + "id": "long_kisses", + "text": "Long kisses" + }, + { + "id": "teasing_texts", + "text": "Teasing texts" + }, + { + "id": "slow_dancing", + "text": "Slow dancing" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_178", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would improve pressure and consent without adding pressure?", + "text": "What makes you feel most chosen?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pressure_and_consent", - "improvement" + "chosen", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_romance", - "text": "More romance" - }, - { - "id": "more_honesty", - "text": "More honesty" - }, - { - "id": "more_patience", - "text": "More patience" - }, - { - "id": "more_privacy", - "text": "More privacy" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "planned_time", + "text": "Planned time" + }, + { + "id": "focused_attention", + "text": "Focused attention" + }, + { + "id": "being_pursued", + "text": "Being pursued" + }, + { + "id": "specific_words", + "text": "Specific words" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_179", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What response matters most around fantasy conversations?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What kind of pressure ruins the mood fastest?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fantasy_conversations", - "response" + "pressure", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "accept_no_kindly", - "text": "Accept no kindly" - }, - { - "id": "ask_what_feels_good", - "text": "Ask what feels good" - }, - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "talk_outside_the_moment", - "text": "Talk outside the moment" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "rushing", + "text": "Rushing" + }, + { + "id": "expectation", + "text": "Expectation" + }, + { + "id": "guilt", + "text": "Guilt" + }, + { + "id": "bad_timing", + "text": "Bad timing" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_180", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What most supports desire around protecting desire in long-term love?", + "text": "What helps us reconnect after distance?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "distance", + "sex_and_desire" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_start", + "text": "Soft start" + }, + { + "id": "honest_talk", + "text": "Honest talk" + }, + { + "id": "date_night", + "text": "Date night" + }, + { + "id": "slow_affection", + "text": "Slow affection" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_181", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes sex feel most like connection?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "connection", + "sex_and_desire" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "laughter", + "text": "Laughter" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_known", + "text": "Feeling known" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_182", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes desire feel most playful?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "play", + "sex_and_desire" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "teasing", + "text": "Teasing" + }, + { + "id": "games", + "text": "Games" + }, + { + "id": "surprises", + "text": "Surprises" + }, + { + "id": "flirty_dares", + "text": "Flirty dares" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_183", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of feedback feels easiest after intimacy?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "feedback", + "sex_and_desire" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "what_i_liked", + "text": "What I liked" + }, + { + "id": "one_small_request", + "text": "One small request" + }, + { + "id": "later_not_now", + "text": "Later, not now" + }, + { + "id": "written", + "text": "Written" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_184", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which boundary makes desire easier?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "boundaries", + "sex_and_desire" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "easy_no", + "text": "Easy no" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "no_judgment", + "text": "No judgment" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_185", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps you feel attractive when confidence is low?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "confidence", + "sex_and_desire" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific_compliments", + "text": "Specific compliments" + }, + { + "id": "soft_touch", + "text": "Soft touch" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_186", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of surprise would feel welcome?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "surprise", + "sex_and_desire" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "flirty_note", + "text": "Flirty note" + }, + { + "id": "planned_privacy", + "text": "Planned privacy" + }, + { + "id": "romantic_touch", + "text": "Romantic touch" + }, + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_187", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes desire feel respectful?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "respect", + "sex_and_desire" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "listening", + "text": "Listening" + }, + { + "id": "checking_in", + "text": "Checking in" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_preferences", + "text": "Remembering preferences" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_188", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which ordinary moment could use more spark?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "protecting_desire_in_long_term_love", - "desire" + "daily_life", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "emotional_closeness", - "text": "Emotional closeness" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_desired", - "text": "Feeling desired" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "morning", + "text": "Morning" + }, + { + "id": "goodbye", + "text": "Goodbye" + }, + { + "id": "coming_home", + "text": "Coming home" + }, + { + "id": "bedtime", + "text": "Bedtime" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_189", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes a private night feel less rushed?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "private_time", + "sex_and_desire" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "earlier_start", + "text": "Earlier start" + }, + { + "id": "less_phone", + "text": "Less phone" + }, + { + "id": "clean_space", + "text": "Clean space" + }, + { + "id": "no_big_plan", + "text": "No big plan" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_190", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of desire do you want more of?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire", + "sex_and_desire" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet", + "text": "Sweet" + }, + { + "id": "spontaneous", + "text": "Spontaneous" + }, + { + "id": "playful", + "text": "Playful" + }, + { + "id": "deep", + "text": "Deep" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_191", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things make sexual conversations feel safer?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps you feel wanted before sex is even mentioned?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "talking_about_desire_respectfully", - "safety" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_words", - "text": "Gentle words" - }, - { - "id": "clear_asking", - "text": "Clear asking" - }, - { - "id": "playful_flirting", - "text": "Playful flirting" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_closeness", - "text": "Quiet closeness" - } + "wanted", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "compliments", + "text": "Compliments" + }, + { + "id": "kissing", + "text": "Kissing" + }, + { + "id": "help_with_stress", + "text": "Help with stress" + }, + { + "id": "focused_attention", + "text": "Focused attention" + }, + { + "id": "flirting", + "text": "Flirting" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3512,32 +3747,36 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_192", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which supports help with feeling wanted?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What makes desire feel fun for you?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_wanted", - "support" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_directly", - "text": "Ask directly" - }, - { - "id": "use_a_signal", - "text": "Use a signal" - }, - { - "id": "talk_earlier", - "text": "Talk earlier" - }, - { - "id": "check_in_later", - "text": "Check in later" - } + "fun", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "teasing", + "text": "Teasing" + }, + { + "id": "laughter", + "text": "Laughter" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "spontaneity", + "text": "Spontaneity" + }, + { + "id": "slow_build", + "text": "Slow build" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3546,32 +3785,36 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_193", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we protect when talking about nonsexual closeness?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps you say what you want?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "nonsexual_closeness", - "protection" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - } + "communication", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_judgment", + "text": "No judgment" + }, + { + "id": "playful_mood", + "text": "Playful mood" + }, + { + "id": "clear_questions", + "text": "Clear questions" + }, + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3580,32 +3823,36 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_194", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which habits can reduce pressure around initiating intimacy kindly?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "What lowers your desire when life is busy?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "initiating_intimacy_kindly", - "pressure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_romance", - "text": "More romance" - }, - { - "id": "more_honesty", - "text": "More honesty" - }, - { - "id": "more_patience", - "text": "More patience" - }, - { - "id": "more_privacy", - "text": "More privacy" - } + "stress", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "exhaustion", + "text": "Exhaustion" + }, + { + "id": "chores", + "text": "Chores" + }, + { + "id": "stress", + "text": "Stress" + }, + { + "id": "no_privacy", + "text": "No privacy" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_disconnected", + "text": "Feeling disconnected" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3614,32 +3861,36 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_195", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which answers fit best here: accept no kindly or ask what feels good?", + "text": "What helps closeness feel good even without sex?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "responding_to_no_with_care", - "safety" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "accept_no_kindly", - "text": "Accept no kindly" - }, - { - "id": "ask_what_feels_good", - "text": "Ask what feels good" - }, - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "talk_outside_the_moment", - "text": "Talk outside the moment" - } + "closeness", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cuddling", + "text": "Cuddling" + }, + { + "id": "talking", + "text": "Talking" + }, + { + "id": "kissing", + "text": "Kissing" + }, + { + "id": "laughing", + "text": "Laughing" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_time", + "text": "Quiet time" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3648,32 +3899,37 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_196", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which supports help with desire changing over time?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What should always be true before trying something new?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "desire_changing_over_time", - "support" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "emotional_closeness", - "text": "Emotional closeness" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_desired", - "text": "Feeling desired" - } + "novelty", + "consent", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_want_it", + "text": "Both want it" + }, + { + "id": "clear_limits", + "text": "Clear limits" + }, + { + "id": "easy_stop", + "text": "Easy stop" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "aftercare", + "text": "Aftercare" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3682,32 +3938,37 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_197", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we protect when talking about flirting in everyday life?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes a sexy conversation feel safe?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "flirting_in_everyday_life", - "protection" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_words", - "text": "Gentle words" - }, - { - "id": "clear_asking", - "text": "Clear asking" - }, - { - "id": "playful_flirting", - "text": "Playful flirting" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_closeness", - "text": "Quiet closeness" - } + "communication", + "safety", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "no_mocking", + "text": "No mocking" + }, + { + "id": "easy_no", + "text": "Easy no" + }, + { + "id": "curiosity", + "text": "Curiosity" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3716,32 +3977,36 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_198", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which habits can reduce pressure around feeling emotionally ready?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps with mismatched desire?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_emotionally_ready", - "pressure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_directly", - "text": "Ask directly" - }, - { - "id": "use_a_signal", - "text": "Use a signal" - }, - { - "id": "talk_earlier", - "text": "Talk earlier" - }, - { - "id": "check_in_later", - "text": "Check in later" - } + "mismatched_desire", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kind_no", + "text": "Kind no" + }, + { + "id": "no_guilt", + "text": "No guilt" + }, + { + "id": "other_closeness", + "text": "Other closeness" + }, + { + "id": "honest_talk", + "text": "Honest talk" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3750,32 +4015,36 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_199", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which answers fit best here: comfort or curiosity?", + "text": "Which forms of anticipation do you like?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "privacy_around_intimacy", - "safety" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - } + "anticipation", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "texts", + "text": "Texts" + }, + { + "id": "looks", + "text": "Looks" + }, + { + "id": "touches", + "text": "Touches" + }, + { + "id": "plans", + "text": "Plans" + }, + { + "id": "outfits", + "text": "Outfits" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3784,32 +4053,36 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_200", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which supports help with aftercare and reassurance?", + "text": "What helps you feel physically confident?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "aftercare_and_reassurance", - "support" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_romance", - "text": "More romance" - }, - { - "id": "more_honesty", - "text": "More honesty" - }, - { - "id": "more_patience", - "text": "More patience" - }, - { - "id": "more_privacy", - "text": "More privacy" - } + "confidence", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "compliments", + "text": "Compliments" + }, + { + "id": "low_lights", + "text": "Low lights" + }, + { + "id": "being_pursued", + "text": "Being pursued" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_connected", + "text": "Feeling connected" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3818,32 +4091,36 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_201", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we protect when talking about checking in about comfort?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What should never be used as pressure?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "checking_in_about_comfort", - "protection" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "accept_no_kindly", - "text": "Accept no kindly" - }, - { - "id": "ask_what_feels_good", - "text": "Ask what feels good" - }, - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "talk_outside_the_moment", - "text": "Talk outside the moment" - } + "pressure", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "guilt", + "text": "Guilt" + }, + { + "id": "past_yes", + "text": "A past yes" + }, + { + "id": "relationship_status", + "text": "Relationship status" + }, + { + "id": "comparison", + "text": "Comparison" + }, + { + "id": "mood", + "text": "Someone's mood" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3852,32 +4129,74 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_202", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which habits can reduce pressure around romance and anticipation?", + "text": "What makes intimacy feel connected afterward?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "aftercare", + "sex_and_desire" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cuddling", + "text": "Cuddling" + }, + { + "id": "sweet_words", + "text": "Sweet words" + }, + { + "id": "laughter", + "text": "Laughter" + }, + { + "id": "water_or_snack", + "text": "Water or snack" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_rest", + "text": "Quiet rest" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_203", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes flirting outside the bedroom work?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "romance_and_anticipation", - "pressure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "emotional_closeness", - "text": "Emotional closeness" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_desired", - "text": "Feeling desired" - } + "flirting", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "inside_jokes", + "text": "Inside jokes" + }, + { + "id": "confidence", + "text": "Confidence" + }, + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3886,32 +4205,36 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_204", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which supports help with feeling attractive?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which topics need extra kindness between us?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_attractive", - "support" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_directly", - "text": "Ask directly" - }, - { - "id": "use_a_signal", - "text": "Use a signal" - }, - { - "id": "talk_earlier", - "text": "Talk earlier" - }, - { - "id": "check_in_later", - "text": "Check in later" - } + "sensitive_topics", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "frequency", + "text": "Frequency" + }, + { + "id": "rejection", + "text": "Rejection" + }, + { + "id": "body_confidence", + "text": "Body confidence" + }, + { + "id": "fantasy", + "text": "Fantasy" + }, + { + "id": "past_experiences", + "text": "Past experiences" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3920,32 +4243,37 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_205", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we protect when talking about staying connected outside sex?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps a no still feel loving?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "staying_connected_outside_sex", - "protection" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - } + "consent", + "no", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "cuddling", + "text": "Cuddling" + }, + { + "id": "kind_words", + "text": "Kind words" + }, + { + "id": "no_pouting", + "text": "No pouting" + }, + { + "id": "try_later", + "text": "Try later" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3954,32 +4282,75 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_206", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which habits can reduce pressure around different levels of desire?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps a yes feel fully chosen?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "different_levels_of_desire", - "pressure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_romance", - "text": "More romance" - }, - { - "id": "more_honesty", - "text": "More honesty" - }, - { - "id": "more_patience", - "text": "More patience" - }, - { - "id": "more_privacy", - "text": "More privacy" - } + "consent", + "yes", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "clear_desire", + "text": "Clear desire" + }, + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_207", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kind of spark do you want more often?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "spark", + "sex_and_desire" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kissing", + "text": "Kissing" + }, + { + "id": "teasing", + "text": "Teasing" + }, + { + "id": "spontaneity", + "text": "Spontaneity" + }, + { + "id": "deep_connection", + "text": "Deep connection" + }, + { + "id": "playful_touch", + "text": "Playful touch" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -3988,32 +4359,36 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_208", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which supports help with turn-ons and turn-offs?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps us keep desire from becoming routine?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "turn_ons_and_turn_offs", - "support" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "emotional_closeness", - "text": "Emotional closeness" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_desired", - "text": "Feeling desired" - } + "routine", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "surprise", + "text": "Surprise" + }, + { + "id": "flirting", + "text": "Flirting" + }, + { + "id": "new_settings", + "text": "New settings" + }, + { + "id": "talking_more", + "text": "Talking more" + }, + { + "id": "slowing_down", + "text": "Slowing down" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4022,32 +4397,36 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_209", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we protect when talking about initiation preferences?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes you feel safe sharing a fantasy?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "initiation_preferences", - "protection" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_words", - "text": "Gentle words" - }, - { - "id": "clear_asking", - "text": "Clear asking" - }, - { - "id": "playful_flirting", - "text": "Playful flirting" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_closeness", - "text": "Quiet closeness" - } + "fantasy", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_judgment", + "text": "No judgment" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure_to_do_it", + "text": "No pressure to do it" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_questions", + "text": "Gentle questions" + }, + { + "id": "after_reassurance", + "text": "Reassurance after" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4056,32 +4435,36 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_210", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which habits can reduce pressure around comfort with trying new things?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps our desire feel like something we build together?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "comfort_with_trying_new_things", - "pressure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_directly", - "text": "Ask directly" - }, - { - "id": "use_a_signal", - "text": "Use a signal" - }, - { - "id": "talk_earlier", - "text": "Talk earlier" - }, - { - "id": "check_in_later", - "text": "Check in later" - } + "teamwork", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_initiate", + "text": "Both initiate" + }, + { + "id": "both_can_say_no", + "text": "Both can say no" + }, + { + "id": "talking_kindly", + "text": "Talking kindly" + }, + { + "id": "noticing_stress", + "text": "Noticing stress" + }, + { + "id": "making_time", + "text": "Making time" + } + ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } @@ -4090,208 +4473,197 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_211", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to talk about talking about desire respectfully?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How playful does our desire feel lately?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "talking_about_desire_respectfully", - "safety" + "play", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unsafe", - "max_label": "Very safe" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not playful", + "max_label": "Very playful" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_212", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much pressure do you feel around feeling wanted?", + "text": "How easy is it to say what you want?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_wanted", - "pressure" + "communication", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "No pressure", - "max_label": "Too much pressure" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_213", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How connected do you feel when we discuss nonsexual closeness?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How easy is it to say not tonight?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "nonsexual_closeness", - "connection" + "consent", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Disconnected", - "max_label": "Very connected" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_214", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clearly have we communicated about initiating intimacy kindly?", + "text": "How wanted do you feel this week?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "initiating_intimacy_kindly", - "clarity" + "wanted", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unclear", - "max_label": "Very clear" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very", + "max_label": "Very wanted" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_215", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How important is it that we improve responding to no with care?", + "text": "How much would more flirting help us right now?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "responding_to_no_with_care", - "importance" + "flirting", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unsafe", - "max_label": "Very safe" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_216", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to talk about desire changing over time?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much does stress affect your desire lately?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "desire_changing_over_time", - "safety" + "stress", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "No pressure", - "max_label": "Too much pressure" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_217", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much pressure do you feel around flirting in everyday life?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How comfortable does this topic feel between us?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "flirting_in_everyday_life", - "pressure" + "comfort", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Disconnected", - "max_label": "Very connected" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not comfortable", + "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_218", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How connected do you feel when we discuss feeling emotionally ready?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How safe does it feel to talk about desire honestly?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_emotionally_ready", - "connection" + "safety", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unclear", - "max_label": "Very clear" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_219", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clearly have we communicated about privacy around intimacy?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How much pressure do you feel around sex?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "privacy_around_intimacy", - "clarity" + "pressure", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unsafe", - "max_label": "Very safe" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "None", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_220", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How important is it that we improve aftercare and reassurance?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How connected do you feel before physical intimacy?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "aftercare_and_reassurance", - "importance" + "connection", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "No pressure", - "max_label": "Too much pressure" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not connected", + "max_label": "Very connected" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_221", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to talk about checking in about comfort?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How connected do you feel after physical intimacy?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "checking_in_about_comfort", - "safety" + "aftercare", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Disconnected", + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not connected", "max_label": "Very connected" } }, @@ -4299,597 +4671,613 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_222", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much pressure do you feel around romance and anticipation?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How well do we handle mismatched desire?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "romance_and_anticipation", - "pressure" + "mismatched_desire", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unclear", - "max_label": "Very clear" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Needs work", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_223", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How connected do you feel when we discuss reducing pressure?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How comfortable are you initiating?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "reducing_pressure", - "connection" + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unsafe", - "max_label": "Very safe" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not comfortable", + "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_224", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clearly have we communicated about feeling attractive?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How comfortable are you being pursued?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_attractive", - "clarity" + "pursuit", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "No pressure", - "max_label": "Too much pressure" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not comfortable", + "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_225", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How important is it that we improve staying connected outside sex?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How much privacy do you need to relax into desire?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "staying_connected_outside_sex", - "importance" + "privacy", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Disconnected", - "max_label": "Very connected" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "A little", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_226", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to talk about different levels of desire?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How often does flirting happen outside the bedroom?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "different_levels_of_desire", - "safety" + "flirting", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unclear", - "max_label": "Very clear" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Rarely", + "max_label": "Often" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_227", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much pressure do you feel around sexual communication?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How exciting does anticipation feel to you?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sexual_communication", - "pressure" + "anticipation", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unsafe", - "max_label": "Very safe" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not exciting", + "max_label": "Very exciting" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_228", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How connected do you feel when we discuss turn-ons and turn-offs?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How easy is it to give feedback about intimacy?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "turn_ons_and_turn_offs", - "connection" + "feedback", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "No pressure", - "max_label": "Too much pressure" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_229", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clearly have we communicated about initiation preferences?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How easy is it to hear feedback about intimacy?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "initiation_preferences", - "clarity" + "feedback", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Disconnected", - "max_label": "Very connected" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard", + "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_230", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How important is it that we improve comfort with trying new things?", + "text": "How much do you want more slow build-up?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "comfort_with_trying_new_things", - "importance" + "slow_burn", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unclear", - "max_label": "Very clear" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_231", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to talk about sexual boundaries?", + "text": "How much do you want more spontaneous spark?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sexual_boundaries", - "safety" + "spontaneity", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unsafe", - "max_label": "Very safe" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_232", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much pressure do you feel around desire during stress?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How cared for do you feel after intimacy?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "desire_during_stress", - "pressure" + "aftercare", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "No pressure", - "max_label": "Too much pressure" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not cared for", + "max_label": "Very cared for" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_233", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How connected do you feel when we discuss body confidence during intimacy?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How much does confidence affect your desire?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "body_confidence_during_intimacy", - "connection" + "confidence", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Disconnected", - "max_label": "Very connected" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_234", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How clearly have we communicated about repair after rejection?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How safe does it feel to ask for something new?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair_after_rejection", - "clarity" + "novelty", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unclear", - "max_label": "Very clear" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_235", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How important is it that we improve sexual expectations?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How much would one private night help us reconnect?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sexual_expectations", - "importance" + "private_time", + "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { - "min_scale": 1, - "max_scale": 5, - "scale_step": 1, - "min_label": "Unsafe", - "max_label": "Very safe" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_236", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For talking about desire respectfully, what feels better?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Sweet or spicy?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "talking_about_desire_respectfully", - "preference" + "mood", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "direct_talk", - "text": "Direct talk" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_hints", - "text": "Gentle hints" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet", + "text": "Sweet" + }, + { + "id": "spicy", + "text": "Spicy" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_237", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When discussing feeling wanted, what should come first?", + "text": "Slow build-up or sudden spark?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feeling_wanted", - "priority" + "anticipation", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "serious_clarity", - "text": "Serious clarity" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_build", + "text": "Slow build-up" + }, + { + "id": "sudden_spark", + "text": "Sudden spark" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_238", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "If desire feels mismatched around nonsexual closeness, what helps more?", + "text": "Flirty text or flirty touch?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "nonsexual_closeness", - "mismatch" + "flirting", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "plan_ahead", - "text": "Plan ahead" - }, - { - "id": "follow_the_moment", - "text": "Follow the moment" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "flirty_text", + "text": "Flirty text" + }, + { + "id": "flirty_touch", + "text": "Flirty touch" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_239", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For initiating intimacy kindly, what feels better?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Ask first or surprise me gently?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "initiating_intimacy_kindly", - "preference" + "consent", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_romance", - "text": "More romance" - }, - { - "id": "more_rest", - "text": "More rest" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_surprise", + "text": "Surprise me gently" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_240", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When discussing responding to no with care, what should come first?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "More kissing or more touching?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "responding_to_no_with_care", - "priority" + "touch", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_kissing", + "text": "More kissing" + }, + { + "id": "more_touching", + "text": "More touching" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_241", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "If desire feels mismatched around desire changing over time, what helps more?", + "text": "Private talk or private game?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "desire_changing_over_time", - "mismatch" + "play", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - }, - { - "id": "invite_subtly", - "text": "Invite subtly" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "private_talk", + "text": "Private talk" + }, + { + "id": "private_game", + "text": "Private game" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_242", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For flirting in everyday life, what feels better?", + "text": "Planned night or spontaneous moment?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "flirting_in_everyday_life", - "preference" + "planning", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_and_steady", - "text": "Slow and steady" - }, - { - "id": "spontaneous", - "text": "Spontaneous" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "planned_night", + "text": "Planned night" + }, + { + "id": "spontaneous_moment", + "text": "Spontaneous moment" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_243", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When discussing feeling emotionally ready, what should come first?", + "text": "Compliments or eye contact?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_emotionally_ready", - "priority" + "connection", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "emotional_closeness", - "text": "Emotional closeness" - }, - { - "id": "physical_closeness", - "text": "Physical closeness" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "compliments", + "text": "Compliments" + }, + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_244", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "If desire feels mismatched around privacy around intimacy, what helps more?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Bold invitation or soft invitation?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "privacy_around_intimacy", - "mismatch" + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "direct_talk", - "text": "Direct talk" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_hints", - "text": "Gentle hints" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "bold_invitation", + "text": "Bold invitation" + }, + { + "id": "soft_invitation", + "text": "Soft invitation" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_245", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For aftercare and reassurance, what feels better?", + "text": "Cuddles after or talking after?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "aftercare_and_reassurance", - "preference" + "aftercare", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "serious_clarity", - "text": "Serious clarity" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cuddles_after", + "text": "Cuddles after" + }, + { + "id": "talking_after", + "text": "Talking after" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_246", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When discussing checking in about comfort, what should come first?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "More romance or more play?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "checking_in_about_comfort", - "priority" + "mood", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "plan_ahead", - "text": "Plan ahead" - }, - { - "id": "follow_the_moment", - "text": "Follow the moment" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_romance", + "text": "More romance" + }, + { + "id": "more_play", + "text": "More play" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_247", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "If desire feels mismatched around romance and anticipation, what helps more?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "New idea or favorite old spark?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "romance_and_anticipation", - "mismatch" + "novelty", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_romance", - "text": "More romance" - }, - { - "id": "more_rest", - "text": "More rest" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "new_idea", + "text": "New idea" + }, + { + "id": "old_spark", + "text": "Favorite old spark" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_248", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "For reducing pressure, what feels better?", + "text": "Say it directly or hint playfully?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "reducing_pressure", - "preference" + "communication", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "say_directly", + "text": "Say it directly" + }, + { + "id": "hint_playfully", + "text": "Hint playfully" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_249", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When discussing feeling attractive, what should come first?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Privacy first or mood first?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feeling_attractive", - "priority" + "setting", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - }, - { - "id": "invite_subtly", - "text": "Invite subtly" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy_first", + "text": "Privacy first" + }, + { + "id": "mood_first", + "text": "Mood first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_250", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "If desire feels mismatched around staying connected outside sex, what helps more?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "More anticipation or more aftercare?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "staying_connected_outside_sex", - "mismatch" + "desire", + "sex_and_desire" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_and_steady", - "text": "Slow and steady" - }, - { - "id": "spontaneous", - "text": "Spontaneous" - } - ] + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_anticipation", + "text": "More anticipation" + }, + { + "id": "more_aftercare", + "text": "More aftercare" + } + ] + } } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/sexual_preferences.json b/seed/questions/sexual_preferences.json index 4abd2c0b..be64cbb6 100644 --- a/seed/questions/sexual_preferences.json +++ b/seed/questions/sexual_preferences.json @@ -2,18 +2,84 @@ "category": { "id": "sexual_preferences", "display_name": "Sexual Preferences", - "description": "Consent-first questions about sexual preferences, initiation, desire, turn-ons, boundaries, aftercare, and sexual health for adult couples.", - "access": "premium", + "description": "Fun, consent-first questions about desire, turn-ons, initiation, boundaries, aftercare, and sexual confidence for adult couples.", + "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "favorite", "schema_version": "question_v2" }, "questions": [ { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_001", + "id": "sexual_preferences_001", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want your partner to initiate sex more often?", + "text": "Which kind of flirting gets your attention fastest?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "flirting", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet_and_obvious", + "text": "Sweet and obvious" + }, + { + "id": "playful_teasing", + "text": "Playful teasing" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_and_intense", + "text": "Quiet and intense" + }, + { + "id": "bold_and_direct", + "text": "Bold and direct" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_002", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of kiss makes you forget what you were saying?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "kissing", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_kiss", + "text": "A slow kiss" + }, + { + "id": "neck_kiss", + "text": "A neck kiss" + }, + { + "id": "surprise_kiss", + "text": "A surprise kiss" + }, + { + "id": "against_the_door", + "text": "A kiss with no rush" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_003", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which first move feels sexiest to you?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -23,165 +89,63 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" + "id": "pull_me_close", + "text": "Pull me close" }, { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" + "id": "whisper_to_me", + "text": "Whisper to me" + }, + { + "id": "kiss_me_first", + "text": "Kiss me first" + }, + { + "id": "ask_me_directly", + "text": "Ask me directly" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_002", + "id": "sexual_preferences_004", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "I get turned on faster when my partner touches me before trying to have sex.", + "text": "What kind of touch makes you melt the quickest?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "foreplay", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_003", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which first touch gets you most interested?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", "touch", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "neck_kisses", - "text": "Neck kisses" + "id": "hands_in_hair", + "text": "Hands in my hair" }, { - "id": "back_rub", - "text": "Back rub" + "id": "hand_on_waist", + "text": "Hand on my waist" }, { - "id": "hand_on_thigh", - "text": "Hand on thigh" + "id": "slow_back_rub", + "text": "Slow back rub" }, { - "id": "direct_sexual_touch", - "text": "Direct sexual touch" + "id": "neck_and_shoulders", + "text": "Neck and shoulders" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_004", + "id": "sexual_preferences_005", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want more kissing before sex starts?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "desire", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" - }, - { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_005", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "I want my partner to ask what feels good instead of guessing.", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_006", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What mood turns you on most?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "mood", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_and_romantic", - "text": "Soft and romantic" - }, - { - "id": "playful_and_teasing", - "text": "Playful and teasing" - }, - { - "id": "bold_and_dirty", - "text": "Bold and dirty" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_and_slow", - "text": "Quiet and slow" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_007", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you like being teased before your partner touches you directly?", + "text": "Do you like being teased before things get more direct?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -197,71 +161,83 @@ { "id": "no", "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_008", + "id": "sexual_preferences_006", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "I like when my partner tells me exactly what they want to do to me.", + "text": "What mood turns you on most?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "confidence", + "mood", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" + "id": "soft_romantic", + "text": "Soft and romantic" }, { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" + "id": "playful_smirk", + "text": "Playful with a smirk" + }, + { + "id": "bold_confident", + "text": "Bold and confident" + }, + { + "id": "slow_quiet", + "text": "Slow and quiet" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_009", + "id": "sexual_preferences_007", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What pace do you usually prefer at the start?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which line would make you smile and lean in?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "pace", + "initiation", + "words", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "slow", - "text": "Slow" + "id": "come_here", + "text": "Come here" }, { - "id": "medium", - "text": "Medium" + "id": "i_want_you", + "text": "I want you" }, { - "id": "fast", - "text": "Fast" + "id": "kiss_me", + "text": "Kiss me" }, { - "id": "let_it_change", - "text": "Let it change" + "id": "tell_me_what_you_want", + "text": "Tell me what you want" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_010", + "id": "sexual_preferences_008", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", @@ -281,79 +257,123 @@ { "id": "no", "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_011", + "id": "sexual_preferences_009", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "I want a clear pause button if anything feels wrong.", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_012", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you want most after sex?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "aftercare", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" - }, - { - "id": "talking", - "text": "Talking" - }, - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - }, - { - "id": "round_two", - "text": "Round two" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_013", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you like surprise sex attempts when you are already relaxed?", + "text": "What kind of compliment lands best?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "spontaneity", + "compliments", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "body", + "text": "Something about my body" + }, + { + "id": "desire", + "text": "That you want me" + }, + { + "id": "beauty", + "text": "That I look good" + }, + { + "id": "specific", + "text": "Something very specific" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_010", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which pace do you usually want at the start?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "pace", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow", + "text": "Slow" + }, + { + "id": "medium", + "text": "Medium" + }, + { + "id": "fast", + "text": "Fast" + }, + { + "id": "let_it_build", + "text": "Let it build" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_011", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps you feel comfortable saying what you want?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "communication", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "partner_asks", + "text": "Being asked gently" + }, + { + "id": "playful_mood", + "text": "A playful mood" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_012", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you like when your partner asks what feels good?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "communication", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { @@ -365,75 +385,20 @@ { "id": "no", "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_014", + "id": "sexual_preferences_013", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "I need privacy and low stress to fully enjoy sex.", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "privacy", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_015", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should your partner initiate more often?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "initiation", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kiss_me_first", - "text": "Kiss me first" - }, - { - "id": "say_what_he_wants", - "text": "Say what they want" - }, - { - "id": "touch_me_slowly", - "text": "Touch me slowly" - }, - { - "id": "ask_directly", - "text": "Ask directly" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_016", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you like dirty talk from your partner?", + "text": "Which kind of dirty talk sounds most like your style?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -443,85 +408,68 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" + "id": "soft_and_suggestive", + "text": "Soft and suggestive" }, { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" + "id": "bold_and_clear", + "text": "Bold and clear" + }, + { + "id": "playful_and_teasing", + "text": "Playful and teasing" + }, + { + "id": "not_for_me", + "text": "Not really for me" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_017", + "id": "sexual_preferences_014", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Feeling desired matters as much as the physical part.", + "text": "What kind of message during the day would make you smirk?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "emotional", + "sexting", + "flirting", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" + "id": "thinking_of_you", + "text": "Thinking of you" }, { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" + "id": "i_cant_wait", + "text": "I can't wait to touch you" + }, + { + "id": "wear_that_later", + "text": "Wear that later" + }, + { + "id": "keep_it_sweet", + "text": "Keep it sweet" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_018", + "id": "sexual_preferences_015", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kills the mood fastest?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Do you like playful flirting before anything sexual starts?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "turn_offs", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "rushing", - "text": "Rushing" - }, - { - "id": "bad_timing", - "text": "Bad timing" - }, - { - "id": "no_affection", - "text": "No affection" - }, - { - "id": "poor_hygiene", - "text": "Poor hygiene" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_019", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want more oral sex from your partner?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "oral", + "flirting", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { @@ -533,75 +481,86 @@ { "id": "no", "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_020", + "id": "sexual_preferences_016", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "I want to guide my partner's hands or mouth without them getting offended.", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which setting helps you relax into desire?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "guidance", + "setting", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" + "id": "bedroom", + "text": "Bedroom" }, { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" + "id": "couch", + "text": "Couch" + }, + { + "id": "shower", + "text": "Shower" + }, + { + "id": "anywhere_private", + "text": "Anywhere private" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_021", + "id": "sexual_preferences_017", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which foreplay do you want more of?", + "text": "What kind of privacy do you need to fully enjoy yourself?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "foreplay", + "privacy", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "kissing", - "text": "Kissing" + "id": "door_locked", + "text": "Door locked" }, { - "id": "hands", - "text": "Hands" + "id": "phones_away", + "text": "Phones away" }, { - "id": "oral", - "text": "Oral" + "id": "no_rushing", + "text": "No rushing" }, { - "id": "massage", - "text": "Massage" + "id": "low_noise", + "text": "Low noise" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_022", + "id": "sexual_preferences_018", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Does eye contact during sex turn you on?", + "text": "Do you like eye contact when things get intense?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -617,79 +576,90 @@ { "id": "no", "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_023", + "id": "sexual_preferences_019", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "I like when my partner makes me feel chased and wanted.", + "text": "Which feels more like you?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "energy", + "style", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" + "id": "slow_burn", + "text": "Slow burn" }, { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" + "id": "spontaneous_spark", + "text": "Spontaneous spark" + }, + { + "id": "romantic_build_up", + "text": "Romantic build-up" + }, + { + "id": "direct_heat", + "text": "Direct heat" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_024", + "id": "sexual_preferences_020", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is sexiest for your partner to wear?", + "text": "What kind of attention makes you feel most wanted?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "clothing", + "feeling_wanted", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "nothing", - "text": "Nothing" + "id": "words", + "text": "Words" }, { - "id": "boxers", - "text": "Underwear" + "id": "touch", + "text": "Touch" }, { - "id": "jeans", - "text": "Jeans" + "id": "planning", + "text": "Planning the mood" }, { - "id": "a_nice_shirt", - "text": "A nice shirt" + "id": "focus", + "text": "Undivided focus" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_025", + "id": "sexual_preferences_021", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you have a fantasy you want to tell your partner?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Do you like when your partner takes the lead?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "fantasy", + "leading", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { @@ -701,54 +671,1709 @@ { "id": "no", "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_026", + "id": "sexual_preferences_022", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A clear yes from me should matter more than my partner's assumptions.", + "text": "Which lead style feels best?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "leading", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gentle_lead", + "text": "Gentle lead" + }, + { + "id": "confident_lead", + "text": "Confident lead" + }, + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + }, + { + "id": "take_turns", + "text": "Take turns" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_023", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes initiation feel inviting instead of pressuring?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "consent", + "initiation", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "easy_no", + "text": "An easy no" + }, + { + "id": "warm_tone", + "text": "A warm tone" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "clear_interest", + "text": "Clear interest" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_024", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you want a clear pause button if anything feels off?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "consent", + "boundaries", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_025", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should a pause mean between us?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "consent", + "boundaries", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "stop_now", + "text": "Stop now" + }, + { + "id": "slow_down", + "text": "Slow down" + }, + { + "id": "check_in", + "text": "Check in" + }, + { + "id": "switch_to_cuddles", + "text": "Switch to cuddles" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_026", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which after-sex moment sounds best?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "aftercare", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cuddling", + "text": "Cuddling" + }, + { + "id": "talking", + "text": "Talking" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_rest", + "text": "Quiet rest" + }, + { + "id": "round_two_energy", + "text": "Maybe round two" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_027", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you like being told exactly how wanted you are?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "desire", + "words", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_028", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which kind of teasing would make you blush in a good way?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "teasing", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "whispered_promise", + "text": "A whispered promise" + }, + { + "id": "slow_touch", + "text": "Slow touch" + }, + { + "id": 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"sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What is most likely to kill the mood?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "turn_offs", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "rushing", + "text": "Rushing" + }, + { + "id": "bad_timing", + "text": "Bad timing" + }, + { + "id": "no_affection", + "text": "No affection first" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_watched", + "text": "No privacy" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_033", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you like when flirting starts before you are even alone?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "anticipation", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_034", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which kind of anticipation works best?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "anticipation", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "texts", + "text": "Flirty texts" + }, + { + "id": "looks", + "text": "Knowing looks" + }, + { + "id": "touches", + "text": "Small touches" + }, + { + "id": "plans", + "text": "Knowing there is a plan" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_035", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes you feel safe enough to be more playful?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "safety", + "playfulness", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "no_judgment", + "text": "No judgment" + }, + { + "id": "easy_laughter", + "text": "Easy 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"id": "morning", + "text": "Morning" + }, + { + "id": "afternoon", + "text": "Afternoon" + }, + { + "id": "night", + "text": "Night" + }, + { + "id": "it_varies", + "text": "It varies" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_044", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps you switch from daily stress to desire?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "stress", + "transition", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "shower", + "text": "A shower" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_time", + "text": "Quiet time" + }, + { + "id": "affection", + "text": "Affection first" + }, + { + "id": "flirting", + "text": "Flirting" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_045", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you like slow build-up more than getting straight to it?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + 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text would make it hard to focus?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "sexting", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_want_you_later", + "text": "I want you later" + }, + { + "id": "wear_something_easy", + "text": "Wear something easy" + }, + { + "id": "save_me_a_kiss", + "text": "Save me a kiss" + }, + { + "id": "cant_wait_to_get_you_alone", + "text": "Can't wait to get you alone" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_063", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you like receiving suggestive texts during the day?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "sexting", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_064", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What texting boundary matters most?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "sexting", + "boundaries", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "right_time", + "text": "Right time only" + }, + { + "id": "no_photos", + "text": "No photos" + }, + { + "id": "private_app_only", + "text": "Private app only" + }, + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_065", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which kind of photo boundary feels safest?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "photos", + "privacy", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_photos", + "text": "No intimate photos" + }, + { + "id": "ask_every_time", + "text": "Ask every time" + }, + { + "id": "no_saving", + "text": "No saving" + }, + { + "id": "no_face", + "text": "No face" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_066", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Would a private spicy photo ever be a yes for you?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "photos", + "consent", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_067", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should your partner never joke about sexually?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "boundaries", + "respect", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "body", + "text": "My body" + }, + { + "id": "past", + "text": "My past" + }, + { + "id": "performance", + "text": "Performance" + }, + { + "id": "anything_private", + "text": "Anything private" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_068", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which compliment would make you feel most wanted?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "compliments", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_drive_me_crazy", + "text": "You drive me crazy" + }, + { + "id": "i_love_your_body", + "text": "I love your body" + }, + { + "id": "i_cant_stop_looking", + "text": "I can't stop looking at you" + }, + { + "id": "i_want_you_right_now", + "text": "I want you right now" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_069", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you like more specific compliments in intimate moments?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "compliments", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_070", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What body compliment feels best?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "body_confidence", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific_body_part", + "text": "Specific body part" + }, + { + "id": "whole_body", + "text": "Whole body" + }, + { + "id": "how_i_move", + "text": "How I move" + }, + { + "id": "how_i_feel", + "text": "How I feel" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_071", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which outfit would make you look twice?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "clothing", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "nothing_extra", + "text": "Nothing extra" + }, + { + "id": "partner_shirt", + "text": "Partner's shirt" + }, + { + "id": "something_dressed_up", + "text": "Something dressed up" + }, + { + "id": "something_barely_there", + "text": "Something barely there" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_072", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you like clothing that hints before it reveals?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "clothing", + "teasing", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_073", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of reveal feels sexiest?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "clothing", + "anticipation", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow", + "text": "Slow" + }, + { + "id": "playful", + "text": "Playful" + }, + { + "id": "bold", + "text": "Bold" + }, + { + "id": "not_my_thing", + "text": "Not my thing" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_074", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which location sounds most tempting if privacy is handled?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "location", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ { "id": "bed", "text": "Bed" @@ -757,6 +2382,10 @@ "id": "shower", "text": "Shower" }, + { + "id": "couch", + "text": "Couch" + }, { "id": "kitchen", "text": "Kitchen" @@ -765,15 +2394,16 @@ } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_028", + "id": "sexual_preferences_075", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want sex more often than you currently have it?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "Do you like discreet public teasing that stays respectful?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "frequency", + "public_tease", + "boundaries", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { @@ -785,79 +2415,91 @@ { "id": "no", "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_029", + "id": "sexual_preferences_076", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "I like playful flirting before things get sexual.", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "What public tease would be okay?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "playfulness", + "public_tease", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" + "id": "look", + "text": "A look" }, { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" + "id": "hand_on_back", + "text": "Hand on my back" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_whisper", + "text": "A quiet whisper" + }, + { + "id": "none", + "text": "None" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_030", + "id": "sexual_preferences_077", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you want your partner to improve first?", + "text": "What public tease would be too much?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "public_tease", + "boundaries", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "touching", + "text": "Touching" + }, + { + "id": "dirty_talk", + "text": "Dirty talk" + }, + { + "id": "photos", + "text": "Photos" + }, + { + "id": "anything_obvious", + "text": "Anything obvious" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_078", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you like your partner using pet names when things get heated?", "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "free_choice", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "foreplay", - "text": "Foreplay" - }, - { - "id": "confidence", - "text": "Confidence" - }, - { - "id": "listening", - "text": "Listening" - }, - { - "id": "timing", - "text": "Timing" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_031", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want your partner to go down on you more often?", - "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "oral", + "words", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { @@ -869,79 +2511,125 @@ { "id": "no", "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_032", + "id": "sexual_preferences_079", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "I want my partner to focus on my clitoris more directly.", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which name style feels best in the moment?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "oral", + "words", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" + "id": "sweet", + "text": "Sweet" }, { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" + "id": "possessive_playful", + "text": "Playfully possessive" + }, + { + "id": "my_name", + "text": "My actual name" + }, + { + "id": "none", + "text": "No names" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_033", + "id": "sexual_preferences_080", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which oral style do you prefer most?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What kind of dirty talk should stay off limits?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "oral", + "dirty_talk", + "boundaries", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "slow_and_gentle", - "text": "Slow and gentle" + "id": "degrading", + "text": "Degrading" }, { - "id": "firm_and_focused", - "text": "Firm and focused" + "id": "commands", + "text": "Commands" }, { - "id": "teasing_with_pauses", - "text": "Teasing with pauses" + "id": "explicit_detail", + "text": "Too much detail" }, { - "id": "i_do_not_want_oral", - "text": "I do not want oral" + "id": "anything_public", + "text": "Anything public" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_034", + "id": "sexual_preferences_081", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you like your partner using their fingers inside you during foreplay?", + "text": "Which dirty talk style could be fun to try?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "manual_touch", + "dirty_talk", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_praise", + "text": "Soft praise" + }, + { + "id": "bold_desire", + "text": "Bold desire" + }, + { + "id": "playful_tease", + "text": "Playful tease" + }, + { + "id": "not_interested", + "text": "Not interested" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_082", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you like hearing what your partner wants to do before they do it?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "communication", + "anticipation", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { @@ -953,79 +2641,92 @@ { "id": "no", "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_035", + "id": "sexual_preferences_083", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "I want my partner to ask before changing speed or pressure.", + "text": "What kind of preview would turn you on most?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "manual_touch", + "anticipation", + "words", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" + "id": "what_they_want", + "text": "What they want" }, { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" + "id": "where_they_want_to_kiss", + "text": "Where they want to kiss" + }, + { + "id": "how_slow_they_will_go", + "text": "How slow they will go" + }, + { + "id": "surprise_me", + "text": "Surprise me" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_036", + "id": "sexual_preferences_084", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What hand technique do you prefer?", + "text": "Which kind of eye contact gets dangerous in the best way?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "manual_touch", + "eye_contact", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "outside_only", - "text": "Outside only" + "id": "across_room", + "text": "Across the room" }, { - "id": "inside_only", - "text": "Inside only" + "id": "during_kissing", + "text": "During kissing" }, { - "id": "both_together", - "text": "Both together" + "id": "while_being_touched", + "text": "While being touched" }, { - "id": "no_hand_play", - "text": "No hand play" + "id": "too_intense", + "text": "Too intense for me" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_037", + "id": "sexual_preferences_085", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you enjoy deep penetration?", + "text": "Do you like being watched by your partner while you react?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "penetration", + "eye_contact", + "reactions", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1037,79 +2738,91 @@ { "id": "no", "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_038", + "id": "sexual_preferences_086", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "I like when my partner starts shallow before going deeper.", + "text": "What reaction do you like your partner noticing?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "penetration", + "reactions", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" + "id": "breathing", + "text": "Breathing" }, { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" + "id": "goosebumps", + "text": "Goosebumps" + }, + { + "id": "sounds", + "text": "Sounds" + }, + { + "id": "body_language", + "text": "Body language" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_039", + "id": "sexual_preferences_087", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which penetration pace turns you on most?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which sound feedback feels easiest for you?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "penetration", + "sounds", + "feedback", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "slow_and_deep", - "text": "Slow and deep" + "id": "quiet", + "text": "Quiet sounds" }, { - "id": "fast_and_hard", - "text": "Fast and hard" + "id": "words", + "text": "Words" }, { - "id": "rhythm_changes", - "text": "Rhythm changes" + "id": "laughter", + "text": "Laughter" }, { - "id": "i_prefer_no_penetration", - "text": "I prefer no penetration" + "id": "not_much", + "text": "Not much" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_040", + "id": "sexual_preferences_088", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want to be on top more often?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Do you like your partner being more vocal?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "positions", + "sounds", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1121,137 +2834,66 @@ { "id": "no", "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_041", + "id": "sexual_preferences_089", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "I enjoy positions where I control the speed.", + "text": "What kind of vocal feedback turns you on?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "positions", + "sounds", + "feedback", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" + "id": "moans", + "text": "Sounds of pleasure" }, { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" + "id": "words", + "text": "Words" + }, + { + "id": "breathing", + "text": "Breathing" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_is_fine", + "text": "Quiet is fine" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_042", + "id": "sexual_preferences_090", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which position do you want more of?", + "text": "Which power dynamic feels fun only with clear consent?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "positions", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "on_top", - "text": "On top" - }, - { - "id": "missionary", - "text": "Missionary" - }, - { - "id": "from_behind", - "text": "From behind" - }, - { - "id": "side_by_side", - "text": "Side by side" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_043", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want your partner to be more dominant in bed?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "dominance", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" - }, - { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_044", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "I want dominance only when I clearly agree to it first.", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "dominance", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_045", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which power dynamic interests you most?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", "power", + "consent", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "he_leads", - "text": "They lead" + "id": "partner_leads", + "text": "Partner leads" }, { "id": "i_lead", @@ -1262,22 +2904,23 @@ "text": "We switch" }, { - "id": "no_power_play", - "text": "No power play" + "id": "none", + "text": "None" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_046", + "id": "sexual_preferences_091", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you like being told what to do sexually?", + "text": "Do you like playful control when you fully trust your partner?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "submission", + "power", + "trust", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1289,61 +2932,136 @@ { "id": "no", "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_047", + "id": "sexual_preferences_092", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "I want commands to stop immediately if I say stop.", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes playful control feel safe?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "submission", + "power", + "safety", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" + "id": "clear_limits", + "text": "Clear limits" }, { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" + "id": "safe_word", + "text": "A safe word" + }, + { + "id": "checking_in", + "text": "Checking in" + }, + { + "id": "staying_gentle", + "text": "Staying gentle" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_048", + "id": "sexual_preferences_093", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What dirty talk style do you prefer?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which limit should be clear before anything rougher?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "dirty_talk", + "roughness", + "boundaries", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "romantic", - "text": "Romantic" + "id": "pressure", + "text": "Pressure" }, { - "id": "filthy", - "text": "Filthy" + "id": "words", + "text": "Words" }, { - "id": "commanding", - "text": "Commanding" + "id": "where_to_touch", + "text": "Where to touch" + }, + { + "id": "when_to_stop", + "text": "When to stop" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_094", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you like a little roughness when you are already turned on?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "roughness", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_095", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What rougher touch interests you most, if any?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "roughness", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "firm_grip", + "text": "Firm grip" + }, + { + "id": "hair_pull", + "text": "Hair pulling" + }, + { + "id": "spanking", + "text": "Spanking" }, { "id": "none", @@ -1353,12 +3071,46 @@ } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_049", + "id": "sexual_preferences_096", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you like being praised during sex?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which roughness rule matters most?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "roughness", + "rules", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + }, + { + "id": "start_gentle", + "text": "Start gentle" + }, + { + "id": "stop_fast", + "text": "Stop fast" + }, + { + "id": "check_after", + "text": "Check after" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_097", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you like being praised in intimate moments?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "praise", @@ -1373,17 +3125,21 @@ { "id": "no", "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_050", + "id": "sexual_preferences_098", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "I get turned on when my partner says I am doing a good job.", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which praise would make you glow?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "praise", @@ -1391,61 +3147,69 @@ ], "answer_config": { "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_051", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What praise sounds best?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "praise", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "you_are_so_sexy", - "text": "You are so sexy" - }, { "id": "you_feel_amazing", "text": "You feel amazing" }, { - "id": "i_want_you_badly", - "text": "I want you badly" + "id": "you_are_so_sexy", + "text": "You are so sexy" }, { - "id": "keep_doing_that", - "text": "Keep doing that" + "id": "i_love_this", + "text": "I love this" + }, + { + "id": "dont_stop", + "text": "Don't stop" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_052", + "id": "sexual_preferences_099", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you like your partner making you wait before giving you what you want?", + "text": "Which praise would make you roll your eyes?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "teasing", + "praise", + "turn_offs", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "too_generic", + "text": "Too generic" + }, + { + "id": "too_much", + "text": "Too much" + }, + { + "id": "wrong_timing", + "text": "Wrong timing" + }, + { + "id": "none", + "text": "None" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_100", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you like being asked to show your partner what feels good?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "guidance", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1457,79 +3221,835 @@ { "id": "no", "text": "No" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_053", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Teasing is hotter when my partner still checks that I am enjoying it.", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "teasing", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" }, { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_054", + "id": "sexual_preferences_101", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What teasing do you like most?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would make showing your partner easier?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "teasing", + "guidance", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ + { + "id": "no_awkwardness", + "text": "No awkwardness" + }, + { + "id": "playful_mood", + "text": "Playful mood" + }, + { + "id": "partner_eager", + "text": "They are eager to learn" + }, + { + "id": "lights_low", + "text": "Low lights" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_102", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which guidance style feels sexiest?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "guidance", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "move_their_hand", + "text": "Move their hand" + }, + { + "id": "say_it_softly", + "text": "Say it softly" + }, + { + "id": "say_it_directly", + "text": "Say it directly" + }, + { + "id": "show_later", + "text": "Show later" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_103", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you want your partner to ask about pressure more often?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "touch", + "feedback", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_104", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which touch feedback phrase would be easiest?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "touch", + "feedback", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "softer", + "text": "Softer" + }, + { + "id": "harder", + "text": "Harder" + }, + { + "id": "slower", + "text": "Slower" + }, + { + "id": "right_there", + "text": "Right there" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_105", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of oral-sex conversation feels easiest?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "oral", + "communication", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes_no_maybe", + "text": "Yes / no / maybe" + }, + { + "id": "what_feels_good", + "text": "What feels good" + }, + { + "id": "what_to_avoid", + "text": "What to avoid" + }, + { + "id": "not_today", + "text": "Not today" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_106", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you want oral to be discussed before it happens?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "oral", + "consent", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_107", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which oral preference is easiest to share?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "oral", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more", + "text": "More often" + }, + { + "id": "less", + "text": "Less often" + }, + { + "id": "slower", + "text": "Slower" + }, + { + "id": "not_for_me", + "text": "Not for me" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_108", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you want more attention on orgasm without pressure to perform?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "orgasm", + "pressure", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_109", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What helps orgasm feel less pressured?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "orgasm", + "pressure", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_goal", + "text": "No goal pressure" + }, + { + "id": "more_time", + "text": "More time" + }, + { + "id": "better_guidance", + "text": "Better guidance" + }, + { + "id": "more_relaxation", + "text": "More relaxation" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_110", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which sentence would make pleasure easier to talk about?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "orgasm", + "communication", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "show_me", + "text": "Show me what feels good" + }, + { + "id": "take_your_time", + "text": "Take your time" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "tell_me_when", + "text": "Tell me when" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_111", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you like sex that starts sweet and turns hotter?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "mood", + "build_up", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_112", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which switch-up sounds most fun?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "mood", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet_to_bold", + "text": "Sweet to bold" + }, + { + "id": "slow_to_fast", + "text": "Slow to fast" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_to_dirty", + "text": "Quiet to dirty" + }, + { + "id": "same_mood", + "text": "Keep one mood" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_113", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of surprise would be welcome?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "surprise", + "consent", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "outfit", + "text": "An outfit" + }, + { + "id": "planned_time", + "text": "Planned private time" + }, + { + "id": "new_kiss", + "text": "A new kind of kiss" + }, + { + "id": "ask_first", + "text": "Ask first" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_114", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you like being surprised if your partner knows your limits?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "surprise", + "trust", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_115", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should never be a surprise?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "surprise", + "boundaries", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "new_sex_act", + "text": "A new sex act" + }, + { + "id": "photos", + "text": "Photos" + }, + { + "id": "roughness", + "text": "Roughness" + }, + { + "id": "public_teasing", + "text": "Public teasing" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_116", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which roleplay energy could be fun, if limits are clear?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "roleplay", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "strangers", + "text": "Strangers meeting again" + }, + { + "id": "bossy_but_sweet", + "text": "Bossy but sweet" + }, + { + "id": "secret_crush", + "text": "Secret crush" + }, + { + "id": "not_for_me", + "text": "Not for me" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_117", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you like the idea of light roleplay?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "roleplay", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_118", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What roleplay rule would make it safer?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "roleplay", + "boundaries", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "stay_playful", + "text": "Stay playful" + }, + { + "id": "no_degrading", + "text": "No degrading" + }, + { + "id": "safe_word", + "text": "Safe word" + }, + { + "id": "check_after", + "text": "Check after" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_119", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which fantasy-sharing style feels safest?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "fantasy", + "communication", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes_no_maybe", + "text": "Yes / no / maybe list" + }, + { + "id": "tell_one_each", + "text": "Tell one each" + }, + { + "id": "write_it_down", + "text": "Write it down" + }, + { + "id": "not_ready", + "text": "Not ready" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_120", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you have a fantasy you would only share without judgment?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "fantasy", + "trust", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_121", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should your partner say after you share a fantasy?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "fantasy", + "aftercare", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "thank_you", + "text": "Thank you for telling me" + }, + { + "id": "tell_me_more", + "text": "Tell me more" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" + }, + { + "id": "not_for_me_but_ok", + "text": "Not for me, but okay" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_122", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which private game sounds most fun?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "play", + "games", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "truth_or_tease", + "text": "Truth or tease" + }, + { + "id": "kiss_countdown", + "text": "Kiss countdown" + }, + { + "id": "yes_no_maybe", + "text": "Yes / no / maybe" + }, + { + "id": "spin_the_wheel", + "text": "Spin the wheel" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_123", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you like playful rules for one night only?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "play", + "rules", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_124", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which playful rule would make you grin?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "play", + "rules", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_rushing", + "text": "No rushing" + }, + { + "id": "ask_before_kissing", + "text": "Ask before kissing" + }, + { + "id": "compliments_only", + "text": "Compliments only" + }, + { + "id": "partner_leads", + "text": "Partner leads" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_125", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which slow-burn move is most dangerous for your focus?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "slow_burn", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "neck_kisses", + "text": "Neck kisses" + }, + { + "id": "hands_under_shirt", + "text": "Hands under shirt" + }, { "id": "slow_undressing", "text": "Slow undressing" }, { - "id": "almost_touching", - "text": "Almost touching" - }, - { - "id": "dirty_whispers", - "text": "Dirty whispers" - }, - { - "id": "kissing_everywhere_first", - "text": "Kissing everywhere first" + "id": "whispering", + "text": "Whispering" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_055", + "id": "sexual_preferences_126", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want your partner to care more about your orgasm?", + "text": "Do you like when your partner slows down on purpose?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "orgasm", + "slow_burn", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1541,2145 +4061,57 @@ { "id": "no", "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_056", + "id": "sexual_preferences_127", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "I would rather my partner ask what helps me finish than pretend they know.", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "orgasm", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_057", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you orgasm most often?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "orgasm", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "clitoral_touch", - "text": "Clitoral touch" - }, - { - "id": "oral_sex", - "text": "Oral sex" - }, - { - "id": "penetration", - "text": "Penetration" - }, - { - "id": "mental_build_up", - "text": "Mental build up" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_058", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want to use sex toys with your partner?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "toys", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" - }, - { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_059", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Toys feel like teamwork, not competition.", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "toys", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_060", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which toy idea interests you most?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "toys", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "vibrator", - "text": "Vibrator" - }, - { - "id": "couples_toy", - "text": "Couples toy" - }, - { - "id": "restraints", - "text": "Restraints" - }, - { - "id": "no_toys", - "text": "No toys" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_061", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want to try light restraints with clear consent?", + "text": "What should your partner do when you say, 'not yet'?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "restraints", + "consent", + "teasing", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { 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"id": "sexual_preferences_female_081", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What public tease is acceptable?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "public_tease", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_dirty_text", - "text": "A dirty text" - }, - { - "id": "a_hand_on_my_thigh", - "text": "A hand on my thigh" - }, - { - "id": "a_whispered_comment", - "text": "A whispered comment" - }, - { - "id": "none", - "text": "None" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_082", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you like shower sex or shower foreplay?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "shower", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" - }, - { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": 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"sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want to try mutual masturbation?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "mutual_masturbation", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" - }, - { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_092", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Watching each other can teach what each person actually likes.", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "learning", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_093", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do you prefer to teach your partner about your body?", - "depth": 3, - 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- }, - { - "id": "pre_agreed_choice", - "text": "Pre-agreed choice" - }, - { - "id": "condom_only", - "text": "Condom only" - }, - { - "id": "do_not_care", - "text": "Do not care" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_100", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want stricter rules about condoms or birth control?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "protection", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" - }, - { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_101", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "I need STI testing talks to be normal, not awkward.", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sexual_health", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_102", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What protection rule feels best?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "protection", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "condoms_always", - "text": "Condoms always" - }, - { - "id": "condoms_sometimes", - "text": "Condoms sometimes" - }, - { - "id": "testing_first", - "text": "Testing first" - }, - { - "id": "discuss_each_time", - "text": "Discuss each time" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_103", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Are you comfortable talking about period sex directly?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "period", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" - }, - { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_104", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Period sex is a practical preference topic, not a shame topic.", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "period", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_105", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is your period sex preference?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "period", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" - }, - { - "id": "maybe_with_towels", - "text": "Maybe with towels" - }, - { - "id": "only_nonpenetrative", - "text": "Only nonpenetrative" - }, - { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_106", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want your partner to stop immediately if sex hurts, even a little?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pain", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" - }, - { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_107", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pain should be treated as information, not as something to push through.", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pain", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_108", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should your partner do if you seem uncomfortable?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "comfort", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "stop_and_ask", - "text": "Stop and ask" + "id": "keep_kissing", + "text": "Keep kissing" }, { "id": "slow_down", "text": "Slow down" }, { - "id": "switch_activity", - "text": "Switch activity" + "id": "ask_what_i_want", + "text": "Ask what I want" }, { - "id": "give_space", - "text": "Give space" + "id": "stop", + "text": "Stop" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_109", + "id": "sexual_preferences_128", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want more cuddling after sex?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" - }, - { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_110", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Aftercare affects whether I want sex again later.", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_111", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which aftercare feels best?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "aftercare", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hold_me", - "text": "Hold me" - }, - { - "id": "talk_to_me", - "text": "Talk to me" - }, - { - "id": "bring_water", - "text": "Bring water" - }, - { - "id": "let_me_rest", - "text": "Let me rest" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_112", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want a post sex check in sometimes?", + "text": "Which quickie setup would actually work for you?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feedback", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" - }, - { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_113", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Talking after sex can make the next time better.", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "feedback", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_114", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When should feedback happen?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "feedback", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "right_after", - "text": "Right after" - }, - { - "id": "later_that_day", - "text": "Later that day" - }, - { - "id": "next_day", - "text": "Next day" - }, - { - "id": "only_when_needed", - "text": "Only when needed" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_115", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want more kissing during sex itself?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "kissing", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" - }, - { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_116", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Kissing keeps me emotionally connected during sex.", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "kissing", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_117", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Where do you want more kisses?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "kissing", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "mouth", - "text": "Mouth" - }, - { - "id": "neck", - "text": "Neck" - }, - { - "id": "breasts", - "text": "Breasts" - }, - { - "id": "inner_thighs", - "text": "Inner thighs" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_118", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you like breast or nipple play?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "breasts", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" - }, - { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_119", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "I want my partner to ask how sensitive my breasts or nipples are that day.", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "breasts", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_120", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What breast play do you prefer?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "breasts", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_touch", - "text": "Soft touch" - }, - { - "id": "mouth", - "text": "Mouth" - }, - { - "id": "firm_touch", - "text": "Firm touch" - }, - { - "id": "none", - "text": "None" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_121", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want your partner to spend more time on clitoral stimulation?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "clit", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" - }, - { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_122", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Direct clitoral touch can be too much unless the pressure is right.", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "clit", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_123", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What clitoral pressure usually works best?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "clit", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "barely_there", - "text": "Barely there" - }, - { - "id": "light", - "text": "Light" - }, - { - "id": "firm", - "text": "Firm" - }, - { - "id": "indirect_only", - "text": "Indirect only" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_124", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you enjoy rougher sex sometimes?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "roughness", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" - }, - { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_125", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Rough sex needs clearer consent than gentle sex.", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "roughness", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_126", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What rough element interests you most?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "roughness", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hair_pulling", - "text": "Hair pulling" - }, - { - "id": "firm_grip", - "text": "Firm grip" - }, - { - "id": "harder_thrusting", - "text": "Harder thrusting" - }, - { - "id": "none", - "text": "None" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_127", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want slower sex more often?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "slow_sex", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" - }, - { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_128", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Slow sex can feel more intense than fast sex.", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "slow_sex", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_129", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What slow sex focus sounds best?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "slow_sex", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "deep_kissing", - "text": "Deep kissing" - }, - { - "id": "grinding", - "text": "Grinding" - }, - { - "id": "slow_penetration", - "text": "Slow penetration" - }, - { - "id": "full_body_touch", - "text": "Full body touch" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_130", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you enjoy quickies?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "quickies", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" - }, - { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_131", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Quickies are better when they do not replace longer sex every time.", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "quickies", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_132", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When would a quickie work best?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", "quickies", "sexual_preferences" ], @@ -3705,15 +4137,82 @@ } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_133", + "id": "sexual_preferences_129", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want your partner to compliment specific body parts more?", + "text": "Do you like quickies or do they usually feel rushed?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "body_confidence", + "quickies", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "like_them", + "text": "I like them" + }, + { + "id": "sometimes", + "text": "Sometimes" + }, + { + "id": "usually_rushed", + "text": "Usually rushed" + }, + { + "id": "not_for_me", + "text": "Not for me" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_130", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes a quickie still feel wanted?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "quickies", + "feeling_wanted", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kissing_first", + "text": "Kissing first" + }, + { + "id": "clear_desire", + "text": "Clear desire" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" + }, + { + "id": "after_affection", + "text": "Affection after" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_131", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you want more slow sex instead of only fast sex?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "slow_sex", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { @@ -3725,331 +4224,417 @@ { "id": "no", "text": "No" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_134", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "I enjoy sex more when I feel wanted exactly as I am.", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "body_confidence", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_135", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What compliment do you want most?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "body_confidence", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "my_body", - "text": "My body" - }, - { - "id": "my_face", - "text": "My face" - }, - { - "id": "my_voice", - "text": "My voice" - }, - { - "id": "my_sexual_confidence", - "text": "My sexual confidence" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_136", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want your partner to be more direct when they want sex?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "initiation_style", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" - }, - { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_137", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Vague hints are less sexy than clear desire.", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "initiation_style", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_138", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What direct line would work best?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "initiation_style", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_want_you_tonight", - "text": "I want you tonight" - }, - { - "id": "come_kiss_me", - "text": "Come kiss me" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_you_close", - "text": "I need you close" - }, - { - "id": "tell_me_what_you_want", - "text": "Tell me what you want" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_139", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want your partner to handle rejection without sulking?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "rejection", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" - }, - { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_140", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "I am more likely to say yes later if no is respected now.", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "rejection", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_141", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should happen after a no?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "rejection", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cuddle_anyway", - "text": "Cuddle anyway" - }, - { - "id": "give_space", - "text": "Give space" - }, - { - "id": "try_later", - "text": "Try later" - }, - { - "id": "do_something_nonsexual", - "text": "Do something nonsexual" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_142", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want a written yes no maybe list together?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "rules", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" - }, - { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_143", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Clear rules can make sex feel freer, not colder.", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "rules", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_144", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What list section matters most?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "rules", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hard_no", - "text": "Hard no" }, { "id": "maybe", "text": "Maybe" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_132", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes slow sex feel intense?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "slow_sex", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "deep_kissing", + "text": "Deep kissing" + }, + { + "id": "steady_touch", + "text": "Steady touch" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_focus", + "text": "Quiet focus" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_133", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which bedroom lighting do you prefer?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "setting", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "lights_off", + "text": "Lights off" + }, + { + "id": "low_light", + "text": "Low light" + }, + { + "id": "some_light", + "text": "Some light" + }, + { + "id": "depends", + "text": "Depends" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_134", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you like music during intimacy?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "setting", + "music", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_135", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which dare would be fun and still comfortable?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "play", + "dare", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kiss_for_30_seconds", + "text": "Kiss for 30 seconds" + }, + { + "id": "whisper_one_want", + "text": "Whisper one want" + }, + { + "id": "pick_a_song", + "text": "Pick a sexy song" + }, + { + "id": "choose_next_touch", + "text": "Choose the next touch" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_136", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you like intimate dares if skipping is always allowed?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "play", + "consent", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_137", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of dare should stay off the table?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "play", + "boundaries", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "photos", + "text": "Photos" + }, + { + "id": "pain", + "text": "Pain" + }, + { + "id": "public", + "text": "Public" + }, + { + "id": "anything_degrading", + "text": "Anything degrading" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_138", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which would make you curl your toes faster?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "smirk", + "touch", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_neck_kiss", + "text": "Slow neck kiss" + }, + { + "id": "hand_on_thigh", + "text": "Hand on thigh" + }, + { + "id": "whispered_praise", + "text": "Whispered praise" + }, + { + "id": "being_pulled_close", + "text": "Being pulled close" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_139", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which private move would leave you smirking later?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "smirk", + "flirty", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "surprise_kiss", + "text": "A surprise kiss" + }, + { + "id": "dirty_whisper", + "text": "A dirty whisper" + }, + { + "id": "slow_look", + "text": "A slow look" + }, + { + "id": "planned_tease", + "text": "A planned tease" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_140", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of attention makes you lose track of time?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "focus", + "desire", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kissing", + "text": "Kissing" + }, + { + "id": "hands", + "text": "Hands" + }, + { + "id": "mouth", + "text": "Mouth" + }, + { + "id": "full_body_focus", + "text": "Full-body focus" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_141", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you like when your partner makes the first move without overexplaining?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_142", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which first move would get an immediate yes if you were in the mood?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kiss_my_neck", + "text": "Kiss my neck" + }, + { + "id": "pull_me_close", + "text": "Pull me close" + }, + { + "id": "say_you_want_me", + "text": "Say you want me" + }, + { + "id": "ask_me_to_bed", + "text": "Ask me to bed" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_143", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should your partner ask before trying something bolder?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "consent", + "bold", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "are_you_into_this", + "text": "Are you into this?" }, { "id": "want_more", - "text": "Want more" + "text": "Want more?" }, { - "id": "need_to_discuss", - "text": "Need to discuss" + "id": "is_this_okay", + "text": "Is this okay?" + }, + { + "id": "should_i_keep_going", + "text": "Should I keep going?" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_145", + "id": "sexual_preferences_144", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you trust your partner with your sexual boundaries?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Do you want your partner to be bolder after you clearly say yes?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trust", + "bold", + "consent", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { @@ -4061,149 +4646,212 @@ { "id": "no", "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "maybe", + "text": "Maybe" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_146", + "id": "sexual_preferences_145", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Trust is sexy because it lets me relax.", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Which bold move sounds best with a clear yes?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trust", + "bold", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" + "id": "lead_me_to_bed", + "text": "Lead me to bed" }, { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" + "id": "say_exactly_what_they_want", + "text": "Say exactly what they want" + }, + { + "id": "pull_me_into_a_kiss", + "text": "Pull me into a kiss" + }, + { + "id": "slowly_undress_me", + "text": "Slowly undress me" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_147", + "id": "sexual_preferences_146", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What builds the most sexual trust?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What does your perfect spicy night start with?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "trust", + "ideal_night", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "listening", - "text": "Listening" + "id": "flirty_text", + "text": "A flirty text" }, { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" + "id": "long_kiss", + "text": "A long kiss" }, { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" + "id": "shower", + "text": "A shower" }, { - "id": "keeping_promises", - "text": "Keeping promises" + "id": "dinner_and_teasing", + "text": "Dinner and teasing" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_148", + "id": "sexual_preferences_147", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Do you want your partner to ask you exactly what you want tonight?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What does your perfect spicy night end with?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "final_blunt", + "ideal_night", + "aftercare", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" + "id": "cuddles", + "text": "Cuddles" }, { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" + "id": "laughing", + "text": "Laughing" + }, + { + "id": "sleeping_close", + "text": "Sleeping close" + }, + { + "id": "round_two", + "text": "Round two" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_149", + "id": "sexual_preferences_148", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "I would rather be asked bluntly than have my partner guess badly.", + "text": "Which private question should your partner ask first tonight?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "final_blunt", + "final", + "communication", "sexual_preferences" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "true", - "text": "True" - }, - { - "id": "false", - "text": "False" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_female_150", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What question should your partner ask first?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sex:female", - "final_blunt", - "sexual_preferences" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "what_do_you_want_tonight", - "text": "What do you want tonight?" + "id": "what_do_you_want", + "text": "What do you want?" }, { "id": "what_is_off_limits", "text": "What is off limits?" }, { - "id": "how_rough_do_you_want_it", - "text": "How rough do you want it?" + "id": "want_me_to_lead", + "text": "Want me to lead?" }, { - "id": "do_you_want_me_to_lead", - "text": "Do you want me to lead?" + "id": "how_can_i_make_you_melt", + "text": "How can I make you melt?" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_149", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do you want tonight to be sweet, spicy, or both?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "final", + "mood", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet", + "text": "Sweet" + }, + { + "id": "spicy", + "text": "Spicy" + }, + { + "id": "both", + "text": "Both" + }, + { + "id": "not_tonight", + "text": "Not tonight" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_150", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which answer would make you hope your partner sees it immediately?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "final", + "reveal", + "sexual_preferences" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_want_you", + "text": "I want you" + }, + { + "id": "kiss_me_slowly", + "text": "Kiss me slowly" + }, + { + "id": "surprise_me", + "text": "Surprise me" + }, + { + "id": "ask_me_first", + "text": "Ask me first" } ] }