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"type": "this_or_that", "text": "Share something tender or something funny?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sharing", "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "tender", "text": "Something tender" }, { "id": "funny", "text": "Something funny" } ] } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_249", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Ask for closeness or offer it first?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "needs", "emotional_intimacy", "closer_style", "fun_first", "warm" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "ask", "text": "Ask for closeness" }, { "id": "offer", "text": "Offer closeness" } ] } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_250", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Cozy reset or playful reset?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "reconnection", "emotional_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "cozy_reset", "text": "Cozy reset" }, { "id": "playful_reset", "text": "Playful reset" } ] } } ] }