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"id": "physical_intimacy_166", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of touch should we get better at asking for?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "communication", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "comfort_touch", "text": "Comfort touch" }, { "id": "flirty_touch", "text": "Flirty touch" }, { "id": "massage", "text": "Massage" }, { "id": "space", "text": "Space instead" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_167", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which touch boundary matters most?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "boundaries", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "ask_first", "text": "Ask first" }, { "id": "slow_down", "text": "Slow down" }, { "id": "not_when_upset", "text": "Not when upset" }, { "id": "public_limits", "text": "Public limits" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_168", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes affection feel most respectful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "respect", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "listening", "text": "Listening" }, { "id": "checking_in", "text": "Checking in" }, { "id": "good_timing", "text": "Good timing" }, { "id": "no_pressure", "text": "No pressure" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_169", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of kiss should we bring back?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "kissing", "memory", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "long_goodbye", "text": "Long goodbye kiss" }, { "id": "hello_kiss", "text": "Hello kiss" }, { "id": "slow_kiss", "text": "Slow kiss" }, { "id": "surprise_kiss", "text": "Surprise kiss" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_170", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of cuddling should we do more?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "cuddling", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "movie_cuddle", "text": "Movie cuddle" }, { "id": "sleep_cuddle", "text": "Sleep cuddle" }, { "id": "morning_cuddle", "text": "Morning cuddle" }, { "id": "quiet_cuddle", "text": "Quiet cuddle" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_171", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of massage sounds best?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "massage", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "shoulders", "text": "Shoulders" }, { "id": "back", "text": "Back" }, { "id": "feet", "text": "Feet" }, { "id": "hands", "text": "Hands" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_172", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of touch helps repair distance?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "repair", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "hand_squeeze", "text": "Hand squeeze" }, { "id": "slow_hug", "text": "Slow hug" }, { "id": "couch_cuddle", "text": "Couch cuddle" }, { "id": "ask_first", "text": "Ask first" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_173", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should we do if touch feels awkward?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "awkwardness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "laugh_gently", "text": "Laugh gently" }, { "id": "pause", "text": "Pause" }, { "id": "talk_softly", "text": "Talk softly" }, { "id": "try_later", "text": "Try later" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_174", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which touch feels best after conflict?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "conflict", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "none_yet", "text": "None yet" }, { "id": "hand_hold", "text": "Hand-hold" }, { "id": "hug", "text": "Hug" }, { "id": "cuddle", 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"single_choice", "text": "What kind of affection feels best in the morning?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "morning", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "quick_kiss", "text": "Quick kiss" }, { "id": "sleepy_cuddle", "text": "Sleepy cuddle" }, { "id": "hand_touch", "text": "Hand touch" }, { "id": "space_first", "text": "Space first" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_180", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of affection feels best at night?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "night", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "cuddling", "text": "Cuddling" }, { "id": "back_rub", "text": "Back rub" }, { "id": "slow_kiss", "text": "Slow kiss" }, { "id": "hand_holding", "text": "Hand-holding" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_181", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What touch helps when you are overwhelmed?", "depth": 4, "access": 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"Pull closer" }, { "id": "kiss_back", "text": "Kiss back" }, { "id": "relax_in", "text": "Relax in" }, { "id": "say_yes", "text": "Say yes" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_184", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes touch feel spontaneous in a good way?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "spontaneity", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "good_timing", "text": "Good timing" }, { "id": "playful_energy", "text": "Playful energy" }, { "id": "clear_welcome", "text": "Clear welcome" }, { "id": "simple_gesture", "text": "Simple gesture" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_185", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes touch feel too sudden?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "boundaries", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "bad_timing", "text": "Bad timing" }, { "id": "no_warning", "text": "No warning" }, { "id": "wrong_mood", 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"id": "different_touch", "text": "Different touch" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_211", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How natural does everyday affection feel lately?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "daily_life", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not natural", "max_label": "Very natural" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_212", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it to ask for a hug?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "hugs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Hard", "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_213", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How comfortable are you with public affection?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "public_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not comfortable", "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_214", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How connected do you feel when we cuddle?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "cuddling", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not connected", "max_label": "Very connected" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_215", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it to say not right now?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Hard", "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_216", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How much would more small touches help us?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "touch", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_217", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How playful does our physical affection feel?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "play", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not playful", "max_label": "Very playful" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_218", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How safe does physical closeness feel between us?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "safety", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not safe", "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_219", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How respected do your touch boundaries feel?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "boundaries", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not respected", "max_label": "Very respected" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_220", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it to give feedback about touch?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feedback", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Hard", "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_221", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it to hear feedback about touch?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feedback", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Hard", "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_222", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How often do we kiss with intention?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "kissing", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Rarely", "max_label": "Often" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_223", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How often do we hug without rushing?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "hugs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Rarely", "max_label": "Often" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_224", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How much does stress affect your comfort with touch?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "stress", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_225", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How much does confidence affect your comfort with touch?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "confidence", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_226", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How comfortable are you initiating affection?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "initiation", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not comfortable", "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_227", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How comfortable are you receiving affection?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "receiving", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not comfortable", "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_228", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How connected does hand-holding feel to you?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "hands", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not connected", "max_label": "Very connected" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_229", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How calming is a long hug for you?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "hugs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not calming", "max_label": "Very calming" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_230", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How much do you enjoy playful touch?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "play", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_231", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How much do you enjoy quiet touch?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "quiet", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_232", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How much privacy do you need for physical closeness?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "privacy", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "A little", "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_233", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How well do we reconnect physically after distance?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "reconnection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Needs work", "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_234", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it to pause touch without awkwardness?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "pause", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Hard", "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_235", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How much would a new physical closeness ritual help us?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "rituals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_236", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Hand-holding or cuddling?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "touch", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "hand_holding", "text": "Hand-holding" }, { "id": "cuddling", "text": "Cuddling" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_237", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Quick kiss or long hug?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "quick_kiss", "text": "Quick kiss" }, { "id": "long_hug", "text": "Long hug" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_238", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Playful touch or comforting touch?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "touch", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "playful_touch", "text": "Playful touch" }, { "id": "comforting_touch", "text": "Comforting touch" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_239", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Public affection or private affection?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "public_affection", "text": "Public affection" }, { "id": "private_affection", "text": "Private affection" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_240", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Morning cuddle or bedtime cuddle?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "cuddling", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "morning_cuddle", "text": "Morning cuddle" }, { "id": "bedtime_cuddle", "text": "Bedtime cuddle" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_241", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Slow kiss or surprise kiss?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "kissing", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "slow_kiss", "text": "Slow kiss" }, { "id": "surprise_kiss", "text": "Surprise kiss" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_242", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Back rub or hand massage?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "massage", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "back_rub", "text": "Back rub" }, { "id": "hand_massage", "text": "Hand massage" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_243", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Ask first or read the moment?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "ask_first", "text": "Ask first" }, { "id": "read_the_moment", "text": "Read the moment" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_244", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "More hugs or more kisses?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "more_hugs", "text": "More hugs" }, { "id": "more_kisses", "text": "More kisses" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_245", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Quiet closeness or flirty closeness?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "closeness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "quiet_closeness", "text": "Quiet closeness" }, { "id": "flirty_closeness", "text": "Flirty closeness" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_246", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Couch cuddle or kitchen dance?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "play", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "couch_cuddle", "text": "Couch cuddle" }, { "id": "kitchen_dance", "text": "Kitchen dance" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_247", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Hold me tighter or give me room?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "space", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "hold_me_tighter", "text": "Hold me tighter" }, { "id": "give_me_room", "text": "Give me room" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_248", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Forehead kiss or neck kiss?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "kissing", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "forehead_kiss", "text": "Forehead kiss" }, { "id": "neck_kiss", "text": "Neck kiss" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_249", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Touch first or words first?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "communication", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "touch_first", "text": "Touch first" }, { "id": "words_first", "text": "Words first" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_250", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "New closeness ritual or bring back an old one?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "rituals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "new_ritual", "text": "New ritual" }, { "id": "old_ritual", "text": "Old ritual" } ] } } ] }