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"sex_and_desire_081", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What helps us avoid turning desire into a scorecard?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "pressure", "expectations", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_082", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What should never be used as proof that someone is loved?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "love", "pressure", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_083", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What makes affection feel more like choice than obligation?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "affection", "choice", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_084", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What helps you feel free to want what you want?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "freedom", "desire", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_085", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What helps you feel free to not want what you do not want?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "freedom", "consent", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_086", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What kind of physical closeness helps you feel emotionally safe?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "physical_closeness", "safety", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_087", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What kind of emotional closeness makes physical closeness easier?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "emotional_closeness", "physical_closeness", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_088", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What is one romantic thing that makes desire feel more natural?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "romance", "desire", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_089", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What is one playful thing that makes desire feel more natural?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "play", "desire", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_090", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What is one practical thing that makes desire feel more possible?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "practical", "desire", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_091", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What gets in the way of desire that has nothing to do with 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"category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What kind of body compliment feels best to you?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "body", "compliments", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_096", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What kind of body talk should we avoid?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "body", "boundaries", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_097", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What helps you feel comfortable being looked at with desire?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "being_seen", "desire", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_098", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What makes eye contact feel intimate instead of intense?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "eye_contact", "comfort", 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I will listen to your signals?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "signals", "trust", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_103", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What makes a pause feel caring instead of awkward?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "pause", "care", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_104", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What should we do if one of us misreads the moment?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "misread", "repair", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_105", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What makes repairing an awkward moment easier?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "awkwardness", "repair", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_106", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What helps you feel safe giving feedback after intimacy?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feedback", "aftercare", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_107", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What helps you hear feedback after intimacy without feeling hurt?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feedback", "care", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_108", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What kind of aftercare helps you feel closest?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "aftercare", "closeness", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_109", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What kind of aftercare helps you feel playful again?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ 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"sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What kind of setting helps you feel most open to desire?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "setting", "desire", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_114", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What kind of lighting or mood helps you relax?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "setting", "relaxation", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_115", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What kind of music would match your favorite kind of desire?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "music", "mood", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_116", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What makes a shower or bath feel romantic instead of rushed?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "shower", "romance", 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"sex_and_desire_124", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What makes you want me in a way that is hard to explain?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "attraction", "mystery", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_125", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What is one thing about me that still pulls you in?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "attraction", "partner", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_126", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What do you hope still feels sexy between us years from now?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "future", "desire", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_127", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", "text": "What kind of desire do you want us to protect as life changes?", "depth": 5, 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"id": "kissing", "text": "Kissing" }, { "id": "talking", "text": "Talking" }, { "id": "cuddling", "text": "Cuddling" }, { "id": "privacy", "text": "Privacy" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_155", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What is the easiest way to say not tonight?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ "consent", "no", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "not_tonight", "text": "Not tonight" }, { "id": "can_we_cuddle", "text": "Can we cuddle?" }, { "id": "i_need_rest", "text": "I need rest" }, { "id": "maybe_later", "text": "Maybe later" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_156", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of compliment makes you feel most desired?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "compliments", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "body", "text": "Body" }, { "id": "personality", "text": "Personality" }, { "id": "energy", "text": "Energy" }, { "id": "specific_detail", "text": "A specific detail" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_157", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which spark do you miss most when life is busy?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "busy_life", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "flirting", "text": "Flirting" }, { "id": "kissing", "text": "Kissing" }, { "id": "touching", "text": "Touching" }, { "id": "private_time", "text": "Private time" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_158", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes desire feel most natural?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "desire", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "relaxation", "text": "Relaxation" }, { "id": "connection", "text": "Connection" }, { "id": "playfulness", "text": "Playfulness" }, { "id": "being_pursued", "text": "Being pursued" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_159", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which private signal sounds easiest?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "signals", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "kiss_me", "text": "Kiss me" }, { "id": "come_closer", "text": "Come closer" }, { "id": "not_tonight", "text": "Not tonight" }, { "id": "slow_down", "text": "Slow down" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_160", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What helps awkward moments pass quickly?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "awkwardness", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "laughing", "text": "Laughing" }, { "id": "cuddling", "text": "Cuddling" }, { "id": "talking", "text": "Talking" }, { "id": "moving_on", "text": "Moving on" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_161", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which mood sounds best tonight?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "mood", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sweet", "text": "Sweet" }, { "id": "spicy", "text": "Spicy" }, { "id": "playful", "text": "Playful" }, { "id": "restful", "text": "Restful" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_162", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What helps desire survive a long day?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "stress", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "less_pressure", "text": "Less pressure" }, { "id": "more_affection", "text": "More affection" }, { "id": "help_with_tasks", "text": "Help with tasks" }, { "id": "flirting", "text": "Flirting" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_163", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which kind of touch feels most inviting?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "touch", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "hand_on_waist", "text": "Hand on waist" }, { "id": "slow_kiss", "text": "Slow kiss" }, { "id": "back_rub", "text": "Back rub" }, { "id": "cuddling", "text": "Cuddling" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_164", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes being wanted feel safest?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "wanted", "safety", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "easy_no", "text": "An easy no" }, { "id": "good_timing", "text": "Good timing" }, { "id": "trust", "text": "Trust" }, { "id": "privacy", "text": "Privacy" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_165", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which kind of private time sounds best?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "private_time", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "slow_night", "text": "Slow night" }, { "id": "playful_night", "text": "Playful night" }, { "id": "quiet_cuddles", "text": "Quiet cuddles" }, { "id": "surprise_me", "text": "Surprise me" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_166", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of desire talk feels least awkward?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "communication", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "playful", "text": "Playful" }, { "id": "direct", "text": "Direct" }, { "id": "written_first", "text": "Written first" }, { "id": "after_flirting", "text": "After flirting" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_167", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes a sexy text feel welcome?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sexting", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "right_timing", "text": "Right timing" }, { "id": "privacy", "text": "Privacy" }, { "id": "playful_tone", "text": "Playful tone" }, { "id": "asked_first", "text": "Asked first" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_168", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which desire difference needs the most kindness?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "frequency", "text": "Frequency" }, { "id": "timing", "text": "Timing" }, { "id": "pace", "text": "Pace" }, { "id": "initiation", "text": "Initiation" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_169", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes a no easiest to receive?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "no", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "reassurance", "text": "Reassurance" }, { "id": "kind_tone", "text": "Kind tone" }, { "id": "cuddle_option", "text": "Another closeness option" }, { "id": "space", "text": "Space" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_170", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes a yes feel most exciting?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "yes", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "clear_desire", "text": "Clear desire" }, { "id": "playful_energy", "text": "Playful energy" }, { "id": "slow_build", "text": "Slow build" }, { "id": "privacy", "text": "Privacy" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_171", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which kind of aftercare feels best?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "aftercare", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "cuddles", "text": "Cuddles" }, { "id": "sweet_words", "text": "Sweet words" }, { "id": "quiet", "text": "Quiet" }, { "id": "laughing", "text": "Laughing" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_172", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should we protect most in our sex life?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "protection", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "privacy", "text": "Privacy" }, { "id": "consent", "text": "Consent" }, { "id": "playfulness", "text": "Playfulness" }, { "id": "honesty", "text": "Honesty" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_173", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which kind of anticipation works best for you?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "anticipation", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "texts", "text": "Texts" }, { "id": "looks", "text": "Looks" }, { "id": "touches", "text": "Touches" }, { "id": "plans", "text": "Plans" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_174", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of fantasy talk feels safest?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "fantasy", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "yes_no_maybe", "text": "Yes / no / maybe" }, { "id": "one_at_a_time", "text": "One at a time" }, { "id": "written", "text": "Written" }, { "id": "not_ready", "text": "Not ready" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_175", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes trying something new feel safer?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "novelty", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "talk_first", "text": "Talk first" }, { "id": "start_small", "text": "Start small" }, { "id": "easy_stop", "text": "Easy stop" }, { "id": "aftercare", "text": "Aftercare" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_176", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which setting helps you relax most?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "setting", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "clean_room", "text": "Clean room" }, { "id": "low_lights", "text": "Low lights" }, { "id": "music", "text": "Music" }, { "id": "locked_door", "text": "Locked door" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_177", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of flirting should we bring back?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "flirting", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "inside_jokes", "text": "Inside 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{ "id": "bad_timing", "text": "Bad timing" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_180", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What helps us reconnect after distance?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "distance", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "soft_start", "text": "Soft start" }, { "id": "honest_talk", "text": "Honest talk" }, { "id": "date_night", "text": "Date night" }, { "id": "slow_affection", "text": "Slow affection" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_181", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes sex feel most like connection?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "connection", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "eye_contact", "text": "Eye contact" }, { "id": "trust", "text": "Trust" }, { "id": "laughter", "text": "Laughter" }, { "id": "feeling_known", "text": "Feeling known" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_182", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes desire feel most playful?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "play", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "teasing", "text": "Teasing" }, { "id": "games", "text": "Games" }, { "id": "surprises", "text": "Surprises" }, { "id": "flirty_dares", "text": "Flirty dares" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_183", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of feedback feels easiest after intimacy?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feedback", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "what_i_liked", "text": "What I liked" }, { "id": "one_small_request", "text": "One small request" }, { "id": "later_not_now", "text": "Later, not now" }, { "id": "written", "text": "Written" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_184", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which boundary makes desire easier?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "boundaries", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "easy_no", "text": "Easy no" }, { "id": "privacy", "text": "Privacy" }, { "id": "no_judgment", "text": "No judgment" }, { "id": "good_timing", "text": "Good timing" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_185", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What helps you feel attractive when confidence is low?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "confidence", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "specific_compliments", "text": "Specific compliments" }, { "id": "soft_touch", "text": "Soft touch" }, { "id": "patience", "text": "Patience" }, { "id": "no_pressure", "text": "No pressure" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_186", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of surprise would feel welcome?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "surprise", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "flirty_note", "text": "Flirty note" }, { "id": "planned_privacy", "text": "Planned privacy" }, { "id": "romantic_touch", "text": "Romantic touch" }, { "id": "ask_first", "text": "Ask first" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_187", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes desire feel respectful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "respect", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "listening", "text": "Listening" }, { "id": "checking_in", "text": "Checking in" }, { "id": "remembering_preferences", "text": "Remembering preferences" }, { "id": "no_pressure", "text": "No pressure" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_188", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which ordinary moment could use more spark?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "daily_life", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "morning", "text": "Morning" }, { "id": "goodbye", "text": "Goodbye" }, { "id": "coming_home", "text": 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"multi_choice", "text": "What helps you feel wanted before sex is even mentioned?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "wanted", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "compliments", "text": "Compliments" }, { "id": "kissing", "text": "Kissing" }, { "id": "help_with_stress", "text": "Help with stress" }, { "id": "focused_attention", "text": "Focused attention" }, { "id": "flirting", "text": "Flirting" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_192", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes desire feel fun for you?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "fun", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "teasing", "text": "Teasing" }, { "id": "laughter", "text": "Laughter" }, { "id": "privacy", "text": "Privacy" }, { "id": "spontaneity", "text": "Spontaneity" }, { "id": "slow_build", "text": "Slow build" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_193", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps you say what you want?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ "communication", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_judgment", "text": "No judgment" }, { "id": "playful_mood", "text": "Playful mood" }, { "id": "clear_questions", "text": "Clear questions" }, { "id": "trust", "text": "Trust" }, { "id": "privacy", "text": "Privacy" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_194", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What lowers your desire when life is busy?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "stress", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "exhaustion", "text": "Exhaustion" }, { "id": "chores", "text": "Chores" }, { "id": "stress", "text": "Stress" }, { "id": "no_privacy", "text": "No privacy" }, { "id": "feeling_disconnected", "text": "Feeling disconnected" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_195", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps closeness feel good even without sex?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "closeness", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "cuddling", "text": "Cuddling" }, { "id": "talking", "text": "Talking" }, { "id": "kissing", "text": "Kissing" }, { "id": "laughing", "text": "Laughing" }, { "id": "quiet_time", "text": "Quiet time" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_196", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What should always be true before trying something new?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "novelty", "consent", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "both_want_it", "text": "Both want it" }, { "id": "clear_limits", "text": "Clear limits" }, { "id": "easy_stop", "text": "Easy stop" }, { "id": "privacy", "text": "Privacy" }, { "id": "aftercare", "text": "Aftercare" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_197", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes a sexy conversation feel safe?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "communication", "safety", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "privacy", "text": "Privacy" }, { "id": "no_mocking", "text": "No mocking" }, { "id": "easy_no", "text": "Easy no" }, { "id": "curiosity", "text": "Curiosity" }, { "id": "good_timing", "text": "Good timing" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_198", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps with mismatched desire?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "kind_no", "text": "Kind no" }, { "id": "no_guilt", "text": "No guilt" }, { "id": "other_closeness", "text": "Other closeness" }, { "id": "honest_talk", "text": "Honest talk" }, { "id": "patience", "text": "Patience" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_199", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which forms of anticipation do you like?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "anticipation", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "texts", "text": "Texts" }, { "id": "looks", "text": "Looks" }, { "id": "touches", "text": "Touches" }, { "id": "plans", "text": "Plans" }, { "id": "outfits", "text": "Outfits" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_200", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps you feel physically confident?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "confidence", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "compliments", "text": "Compliments" }, { "id": "low_lights", "text": "Low lights" }, { "id": "being_pursued", "text": "Being pursued" }, { "id": "no_pressure", "text": "No pressure" }, { "id": "feeling_connected", "text": "Feeling connected" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_201", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What should never be used as pressure?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "pressure", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "guilt", "text": "Guilt" }, { "id": "past_yes", "text": "A past yes" }, { "id": "relationship_status", "text": "Relationship status" }, { "id": "comparison", "text": "Comparison" }, { "id": "mood", "text": "Someone's mood" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_202", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes intimacy feel connected afterward?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "aftercare", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "cuddling", "text": "Cuddling" }, { "id": "sweet_words", "text": "Sweet words" }, { "id": "laughter", "text": "Laughter" }, { "id": "water_or_snack", "text": "Water or snack" }, { "id": "quiet_rest", "text": "Quiet rest" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_203", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes flirting outside the bedroom work?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "flirting", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "good_timing", "text": "Good timing" }, { "id": "privacy", "text": "Privacy" }, { "id": "inside_jokes", "text": "Inside jokes" }, { "id": "confidence", "text": "Confidence" }, { "id": "playfulness", "text": "Playfulness" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_204", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which topics need extra kindness between us?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sensitive_topics", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "frequency", "text": "Frequency" }, { "id": "rejection", "text": "Rejection" }, { "id": "body_confidence", "text": "Body confidence" }, { "id": "fantasy", "text": "Fantasy" }, { "id": "past_experiences", "text": "Past experiences" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_205", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps a no still feel loving?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "no", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "reassurance", "text": "Reassurance" }, { "id": "cuddling", "text": "Cuddling" }, { "id": "kind_words", "text": "Kind words" }, { "id": "no_pouting", "text": "No pouting" }, { "id": "try_later", "text": "Try later" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_206", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps a yes feel fully chosen?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "yes", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_pressure", "text": "No pressure" }, { "id": "clear_desire", "text": "Clear desire" }, { "id": "trust", "text": "Trust" }, { "id": "privacy", "text": "Privacy" }, { "id": "good_timing", "text": "Good timing" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_207", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What kind of spark do you want more often?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "spark", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "kissing", "text": "Kissing" }, { "id": "teasing", "text": "Teasing" }, { "id": "spontaneity", "text": "Spontaneity" }, { "id": "deep_connection", "text": "Deep connection" }, { "id": "playful_touch", "text": "Playful touch" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_208", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps us keep desire from becoming routine?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "routine", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "surprise", "text": "Surprise" }, { "id": "flirting", "text": "Flirting" }, { "id": "new_settings", "text": "New settings" }, { "id": "talking_more", "text": "Talking more" }, { "id": "slowing_down", "text": "Slowing down" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_209", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes you feel safe sharing a fantasy?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "fantasy", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_judgment", "text": "No judgment" }, { "id": "privacy", "text": "Privacy" }, { "id": "no_pressure_to_do_it", "text": "No pressure to do it" }, { "id": "gentle_questions", "text": "Gentle questions" }, { "id": "after_reassurance", "text": "Reassurance after" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_210", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps our desire feel like something we build together?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "teamwork", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "both_initiate", "text": "Both initiate" }, { "id": "both_can_say_no", "text": "Both can say no" }, { "id": "talking_kindly", "text": "Talking kindly" }, { "id": "noticing_stress", "text": "Noticing stress" }, { "id": "making_time", "text": "Making time" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_211", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How playful does our desire feel lately?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "play", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not playful", "max_label": "Very playful" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_212", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it to say what you want?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "communication", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Hard", "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_213", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it to say not tonight?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ "consent", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Hard", "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_214", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How wanted do you feel this week?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "wanted", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very", "max_label": "Very wanted" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_215", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How much would more flirting help us right now?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "flirting", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_216", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How much does stress affect your desire lately?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "stress", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_217", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How comfortable does this topic feel between us?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "comfort", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not comfortable", "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_218", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How safe does it feel to talk about desire honestly?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "safety", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not safe", "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_219", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How much pressure do you feel around sex?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "pressure", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "None", "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_220", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How connected do you feel before physical intimacy?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "connection", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not connected", "max_label": "Very connected" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_221", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How connected do you feel after physical intimacy?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "aftercare", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not connected", "max_label": "Very connected" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_222", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How well do we handle mismatched desire?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Needs work", "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_223", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How comfortable are you initiating?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "initiation", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not comfortable", "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_224", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How comfortable are you being pursued?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "pursuit", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not comfortable", "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_225", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How much privacy do you need to relax into desire?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "privacy", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "A little", "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_226", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How often does flirting happen outside the bedroom?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "flirting", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Rarely", "max_label": "Often" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_227", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How exciting does anticipation feel to you?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "anticipation", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not exciting", "max_label": "Very exciting" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_228", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it to give feedback about intimacy?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feedback", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Hard", "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_229", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it to hear feedback about intimacy?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feedback", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Hard", "max_label": "Easy" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_230", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How much do you want more slow build-up?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "slow_burn", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_231", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How much do you want more spontaneous spark?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "spontaneity", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_232", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How cared for do you feel after intimacy?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "aftercare", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not cared for", "max_label": "Very cared for" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_233", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How much does confidence affect your desire?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "confidence", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_234", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How safe does it feel to ask for something new?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "novelty", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not safe", "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_235", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How much would one private night help us reconnect?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "private_time", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_236", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Sweet or spicy?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "mood", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sweet", "text": "Sweet" }, { "id": "spicy", "text": "Spicy" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_237", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Slow build-up or sudden spark?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "anticipation", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "slow_build", "text": "Slow build-up" }, { "id": "sudden_spark", "text": "Sudden spark" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_238", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Flirty text or flirty touch?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "flirting", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "flirty_text", "text": "Flirty text" }, { "id": "flirty_touch", "text": "Flirty touch" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_239", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Ask first or surprise me gently?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "ask_first", "text": "Ask first" }, { "id": "gentle_surprise", "text": "Surprise me gently" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_240", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "More kissing or more touching?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "touch", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "more_kissing", "text": "More kissing" }, { "id": "more_touching", "text": "More touching" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_241", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Private talk or private game?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "play", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "private_talk", "text": "Private talk" }, { "id": "private_game", "text": "Private game" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_242", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Planned night or spontaneous moment?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "planning", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "planned_night", "text": "Planned night" }, { "id": "spontaneous_moment", "text": "Spontaneous moment" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_243", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Compliments or eye contact?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "connection", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "compliments", "text": "Compliments" }, { "id": "eye_contact", "text": "Eye contact" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_244", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Bold invitation or soft invitation?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "initiation", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "bold_invitation", "text": "Bold invitation" }, { "id": "soft_invitation", "text": "Soft invitation" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_245", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Cuddles after or talking after?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "aftercare", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "cuddles_after", "text": "Cuddles after" }, { "id": "talking_after", "text": "Talking after" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_246", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "More romance or more play?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mood", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "more_romance", "text": "More romance" }, { "id": "more_play", "text": "More play" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_247", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "New idea or favorite old spark?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "novelty", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "new_idea", "text": "New idea" }, { "id": "old_spark", "text": "Favorite old spark" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_248", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Say it directly or hint playfully?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "communication", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "say_directly", "text": "Say it directly" }, { "id": "hint_playfully", "text": "Hint playfully" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_249", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Privacy first or mood first?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "setting", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "privacy_first", "text": "Privacy first" }, { "id": "mood_first", "text": "Mood first" } ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_250", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "More anticipation or more aftercare?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "desire", "sex_and_desire" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "more_anticipation", "text": "More anticipation" }, { "id": "more_aftercare", "text": "More aftercare" } ] } } ] }