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"tags": [ "romance_and_anticipation", "pressure" ], "options": [ { "id": "emotional_closeness", "text": "Emotional closeness" }, { "id": "rest", "text": "Rest" }, { "id": "playfulness", "text": "Playfulness" }, { "id": "feeling_desired", "text": "Feeling desired" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_204", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which supports help with feeling attractive?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feeling_attractive", "support" ], "options": [ { "id": "ask_directly", "text": "Ask directly" }, { "id": "use_a_signal", "text": "Use a signal" }, { "id": "talk_earlier", "text": "Talk earlier" }, { "id": "check_in_later", "text": "Check in later" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_205", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What should we protect when talking about staying connected 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"Which supports help with turn-ons and turn-offs?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "turn_ons_and_turn_offs", "support" ], "options": [ { "id": "emotional_closeness", "text": "Emotional closeness" }, { "id": "rest", "text": "Rest" }, { "id": "playfulness", "text": "Playfulness" }, { "id": "feeling_desired", "text": "Feeling desired" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_209", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What should we protect when talking about initiation preferences?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "initiation_preferences", "protection" ], "options": [ { "id": "gentle_words", "text": "Gentle words" }, { "id": "clear_asking", "text": "Clear asking" }, { "id": "playful_flirting", "text": "Playful flirting" }, { "id": "quiet_closeness", "text": "Quiet closeness" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_210", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which habits can reduce pressure around comfort with trying new things?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "comfort_with_trying_new_things", "pressure" ], "options": [ { "id": "ask_directly", "text": "Ask directly" }, { "id": "use_a_signal", "text": "Use a signal" }, { "id": "talk_earlier", "text": "Talk earlier" }, { "id": "check_in_later", "text": "Check in later" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_211", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How safe does it feel to talk about talking about desire respectfully?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "talking_about_desire_respectfully", "safety" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Unsafe", "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_212", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How much pressure do 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"sex_and_desire_215", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How important is it that we improve responding to no with care?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "responding_to_no_with_care", "importance" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Unsafe", "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_216", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How safe does it feel to talk about desire changing over time?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "desire_changing_over_time", "safety" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "No pressure", "max_label": "Too much pressure" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_217", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How much pressure do you feel around flirting in everyday life?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "flirting_in_everyday_life", "pressure" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Disconnected", "max_label": "Very connected" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_218", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How connected do you feel when we discuss feeling emotionally ready?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feeling_emotionally_ready", "connection" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Unclear", "max_label": "Very clear" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_219", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How clearly have we communicated about privacy around intimacy?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "privacy_around_intimacy", "clarity" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Unsafe", "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_220", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How important is it that we improve aftercare and reassurance?", 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"sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How connected do you feel when we discuss reducing pressure?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "reducing_pressure", "connection" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Unsafe", "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_224", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How clearly have we communicated about feeling attractive?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feeling_attractive", "clarity" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "No pressure", "max_label": "Too much pressure" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_225", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How important is it that we improve staying connected outside sex?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "staying_connected_outside_sex", "importance" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": 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"id": "sex_and_desire_234", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How clearly have we communicated about repair after rejection?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "repair_after_rejection", "clarity" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Unclear", "max_label": "Very clear" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_235", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", "text": "How important is it that we improve sexual expectations?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sexual_expectations", "importance" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Unsafe", "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_236", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "For talking about desire respectfully, what feels better?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "talking_about_desire_respectfully", "preference" ], "options": [ { "id": "direct_talk", 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"initiating_intimacy_kindly", "preference" ], "options": [ { "id": "more_romance", "text": "More romance" }, { "id": "more_rest", "text": "More rest" } ] }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_240", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "When discussing responding to no with care, what should come first?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "responding_to_no_with_care", "priority" ], "options": [ { "id": "reassurance", "text": "Reassurance" }, { "id": "space", "text": "Space" } ] }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_241", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "If desire feels mismatched around desire changing over time, what helps more?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "desire_changing_over_time", "mismatch" ], "options": [ { "id": "ask_first", "text": "Ask first" }, { "id": "invite_subtly", "text": "Invite subtly" } ] }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_242", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "For flirting in 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