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"scorekeeping", "text": "Scorekeeping" }, { "id": "sarcasm", "text": "Sarcasm" }, { "id": "old_fights", "text": "Old fights" }, { "id": "threats", "text": "Threats" } ] }, { "id": "conflict_repair_179", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should our repair goal be this week?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "repair", "goals" ], "options": [ { "id": "understand", "text": "Understand" }, { "id": "apologize", "text": "Apologize" }, { "id": "make_a_plan", "text": "Make a plan" }, { "id": "reconnect", "text": "Reconnect" } ] }, { "id": "conflict_repair_180", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of follow-up feels useful this week?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "follow_up", "repair" ], "options": [ { "id": "same_day", "text": "Same day" }, { "id": "next_day", "text": "Next day" }, { "id": "weekly_check_in", "text": "Weekly check-in" }, { "id": "only_if_needed", "text": "Only if needed" } 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