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"single_choice", "text": "What should we protect when money values gets complicated?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "money_values", "protection" ], "options": [ { "id": "family", "text": "Family" }, { "id": "work", "text": "Work" }, { "id": "health", "text": "Health" }, { "id": "connection", "text": "Connection" } ] }, { "id": "values_167", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What would make faith or belief differences easier to discuss?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "faith_or_belief_differences", "discussion" ], "options": [ { "id": "ask_more_questions", "text": "Ask more questions" }, { "id": "share_examples", "text": "Share examples" }, { "id": "name_the_tradeoff", "text": "Name the tradeoff" }, { "id": "set_a_boundary", "text": "Set a boundary" } ] }, { "id": "values_168", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What do you usually need first when parenting values feels uncertain?", "depth": 2, "access": 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"id": "very_aligned", "text": "Very aligned" }, { "id": "mostly_aligned", "text": "Mostly aligned" }, { "id": "unsure", "text": "Unsure" }, { "id": "different_but_workable", "text": "Different but workable" } ] }, { "id": "values_171", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which value matters most when we talk about career tradeoffs?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "career_tradeoffs", "priority" ], "options": [ { "id": "respect", "text": "Respect" }, { "id": "honesty", "text": "Honesty" }, { "id": "freedom", "text": "Freedom" }, { "id": "security", "text": "Security" } ] }, { "id": "values_172", "category_id": "values", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should we protect when where to live gets complicated?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "where_to_live", "protection" ], "options": [ { "id": "family", "text": "Family" }, { "id": "work", "text": "Work" }, { "id": "health", "text": "Health" }, { "id": "connection", "text": "Connection" 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"id": "very_aligned", "text": "Very aligned" }, { "id": "mostly_aligned", "text": "Mostly aligned" }, { "id": "unsure", "text": "Unsure" }, { "id": "different_but_workable", "text": "Different but workable" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_205", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which things should we clarify before deciding about what makes life meaningful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "what_makes_life_meaningful", "clarity" ], "options": [ { "id": "respect", "text": "Respect" }, { "id": "honesty", "text": "Honesty" }, { "id": "freedom", "text": "Freedom" }, { "id": "security", "text": "Security" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_206", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What might we need to balance around money values?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "money_values", "balance" ], "options": [ { "id": "family", "text": "Family" }, { "id": "work", "text": "Work" }, { "id": "health", "text": "Health" }, { "id": "connection", "text": "Connection" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_207", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which values should guide us around faith or belief differences?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "faith_or_belief_differences", "values" ], "options": [ { "id": "ask_more_questions", "text": "Ask more questions" }, { "id": "share_examples", "text": "Share examples" }, { "id": "name_the_tradeoff", "text": "Name the tradeoff" }, { "id": "set_a_boundary", "text": "Set a boundary" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_208", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What could make parenting values feel respectful to both of us?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "parenting_values", "respect" ], "options": [ { "id": "i_need_time", "text": "I need time" }, { "id": "i_need_clarity", "text": "I need clarity" }, { "id": "i_need_reassurance", "text": "I need reassurance" }, { "id": "i_need_a_plan", "text": "I need a plan" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_209", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which things should we clarify before deciding about long-term sacrifices?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "long_term_sacrifices", "clarity" ], "options": [ { "id": "talk_it_through", "text": "Talk it through" }, { "id": "make_a_shared_rule", "text": "Make a shared rule" }, { "id": "try_it_for_a_month", "text": "Try it for a month" }, { "id": "pause_and_revisit", "text": "Pause and revisit" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_210", "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What might we need to balance around personal freedom?", "depth": 3, "access": 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"Unsafe", "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "values_213", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How clearly have we talked about how we spend time?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "how_we_spend_time", "clarity" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Unclear", "max_label": "Very clear" } }, { "id": "values_214", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How important is kindness under stress to your long-term happiness?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "kindness_under_stress", "importance" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Not important", "max_label": "Very important" } }, { "id": "values_215", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How much attention should we give family priorities soon?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "family_priorities", "attention" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Not aligned", "max_label": "Very aligned" } }, { "id": "values_216", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How aligned do you feel we are about personal growth?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "personal_growth", "alignment" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Unsafe", "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "values_217", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How safe does it feel to disagree about fairness in decisions?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "fairness_in_decisions", "safety" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Unclear", "max_label": "Very clear" } }, { "id": "values_218", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How clearly have we talked about how we show commitment?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "how_we_show_commitment", "clarity" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Not important", "max_label": "Very important" } }, { "id": "values_219", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How important is privacy and openness to your long-term happiness?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "privacy_and_openness", "importance" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Not aligned", "max_label": "Very aligned" } }, { "id": "values_220", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How much attention should we give helping other people soon?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "helping_other_people", "attention" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Unsafe", "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "values_221", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How aligned do you feel we are about work and ambition?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "work_and_ambition", "alignment" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Unclear", "max_label": "Very clear" } }, { "id": "values_222", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How safe does it feel to disagree about rest and balance?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "rest_and_balance", "safety" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Not important", "max_label": "Very important" } }, { "id": "values_223", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How clearly have we talked about friendships and community?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "friendships_and_community", "clarity" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Not aligned", "max_label": "Very aligned" } }, { "id": "values_224", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How important is how we handle mistakes to your long-term happiness?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "how_we_handle_mistakes", "importance" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Unsafe", "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "values_225", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How much attention should we give what makes life meaningful soon?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "what_makes_life_meaningful", "attention" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Unclear", "max_label": "Very clear" } }, { "id": "values_226", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How aligned do you feel we are about money values?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "money_values", "alignment" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Not important", "max_label": "Very important" } }, { "id": "values_227", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How safe does it feel to disagree about faith or belief differences?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "faith_or_belief_differences", "safety" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Not aligned", "max_label": "Very aligned" } }, { "id": "values_228", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How clearly have we talked about parenting values?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "parenting_values", "clarity" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Unsafe", "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "values_229", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How important is long-term sacrifices to your long-term happiness?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "long_term_sacrifices", "importance" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Unclear", "max_label": "Very clear" } }, { "id": "values_230", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How much attention should we give personal freedom soon?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "personal_freedom", "attention" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Not important", "max_label": "Very important" } }, { "id": "values_231", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How aligned do you feel we are about career tradeoffs?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "career_tradeoffs", "alignment" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Not aligned", "max_label": "Very aligned" } }, { "id": "values_232", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How safe does it feel to disagree about where to live?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "where_to_live", "safety" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Unsafe", "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "values_233", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How clearly have we talked about marriage expectations?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "marriage_expectations", "clarity" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Unclear", "max_label": "Very clear" } }, { "id": "values_234", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How important is caregiving responsibilities to your long-term happiness?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "caregiving_responsibilities", "importance" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Not important", "max_label": "Very important" } }, { "id": "values_235", "category_id": "values", "type": "scale", "text": "How much attention should we give sexual values soon?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sexual_values", "attention" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "scale_step": 1, "min_label": "Not aligned", "max_label": "Very aligned" } }, { "id": "values_236", "category_id": "values", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "For respect in everyday choices, which feels more important right now?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "respect_in_everyday_choices", "tradeoff" ], "options": [ { "id": "stability", "text": "Stability" }, { "id": "flexibility", "text": "Flexibility" } ] }, { "id": "values_237", "category_id": "values", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "When navigating honesty about needs, what do you lean toward?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "honesty_about_needs", "leaning" ], "options": [ { "id": "freedom", "text": "Freedom" }, { "id": "togetherness", "text": "Togetherness" } ] }, { "id": "values_238", "category_id": "values", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "If we disagree about how we spend time, what should come first?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "how_we_spend_time", "priority" ], "options": [ { "id": "planning", "text": "Planning" }, { "id": "spontaneity", "text": "Spontaneity" } ] }, { "id": "values_239", "category_id": "values", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "For kindness under stress, which feels more important right now?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "kindness_under_stress", "tradeoff" ], "options": [ { "id": "tradition", "text": "Tradition" }, { "id": "change", "text": "Change" } ] }, { "id": "values_240", "category_id": "values", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "When navigating family priorities, what do you lean toward?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "family_priorities", "leaning" ], "options": [ { "id": "direct_honesty", "text": "Direct honesty" }, { "id": "gentle_timing", "text": "Gentle timing" } ] }, { "id": "values_241", "category_id": "values", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "If we disagree about personal growth, what should come first?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "personal_growth", "priority" ], "options": [ { "id": "private_agreement", "text": "Private agreement" }, { "id": "outside_advice", "text": "Outside advice" } ] }, { "id": "values_242", "category_id": "values", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "For fairness in decisions, which feels more important right now?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "fairness_in_decisions", "tradeoff" ], "options": [ { "id": "shared_decision", "text": "Shared decision" }, { "id": "independent_choice", "text": "Independent choice" } ] }, { "id": "values_243", "category_id": "values", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "When navigating how we show commitment, what do you lean toward?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "how_we_show_commitment", "leaning" ], "options": [ { "id": "practical_needs", "text": "Practical needs" }, { "id": "emotional_meaning", "text": "Emotional meaning" } ] }, { "id": "values_244", "category_id": "values", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "If we disagree about privacy and openness, what should come first?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "privacy_and_openness", "priority" ], "options": [ { "id": "stability", "text": "Stability" }, { "id": "flexibility", "text": "Flexibility" } ] }, { "id": "values_245", "category_id": "values", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "For helping other people, which feels more important right now?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "helping_other_people", "tradeoff" ], "options": [ { "id": "freedom", "text": "Freedom" }, { "id": "togetherness", "text": "Togetherness" } ] }, { "id": "values_246", "category_id": "values", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "When navigating work and ambition, what do you lean toward?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "work_and_ambition", "leaning" ], "options": [ { "id": "planning", "text": "Planning" }, { "id": "spontaneity", "text": "Spontaneity" } ] }, { "id": "values_247", "category_id": "values", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "If we disagree about rest and balance, what should come first?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "rest_and_balance", "priority" ], "options": [ { "id": "tradition", "text": "Tradition" }, { "id": "change", "text": "Change" } ] }, { "id": "values_248", "category_id": "values", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "For friendships and community, which feels more important right now?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "friendships_and_community", "tradeoff" ], "options": [ { "id": "direct_honesty", "text": "Direct honesty" }, { "id": "gentle_timing", "text": "Gentle timing" } ] }, { "id": "values_249", "category_id": "values", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "When navigating how we handle mistakes, what do you lean toward?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "how_we_handle_mistakes", "leaning" ], "options": [ { "id": "private_agreement", "text": "Private agreement" }, { "id": "outside_advice", "text": "Outside advice" } ] }, { "id": "values_250", "category_id": "values", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "If we disagree about what makes life meaningful, what should come first?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "what_makes_life_meaningful", "priority" ], "options": [ { "id": "shared_decision", "text": "Shared decision" }, { "id": "independent_choice", "text": "Independent choice" } ] } ] }