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[ "opening_up", "help" ], "options": [ { "id": "gentle_questions", "text": "Gentle questions" }, { "id": "patient_silence", "text": "Patient silence" } ] }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_240", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Which feels more loving?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "love", "expression" ], "options": [ { "id": "being_remembered", "text": "Being remembered" }, { "id": "being_asked", "text": "Being asked" } ] }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_241", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Which is harder to say?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "difficulty", "expression" ], "options": [ { "id": "i_need_you", "text": "I need you" }, { "id": "i_am_hurt", "text": "I am hurt" } ] }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_242", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Which feels more vulnerable?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "vulnerability", "comparison" ], 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"text": "Bedtime check-in" }, { "id": "morning_affection", "text": "Morning affection" } ] }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_246", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Which do you notice more?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "noticing", "connection" ], "options": [ { "id": "tone", "text": "Tone" }, { "id": "actions", "text": "Actions" } ] }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_247", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Which do you want more from me?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "needs", "partner" ], "options": [ { "id": "softness", "text": "Softness" }, { "id": "directness", "text": "Directness" } ] }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_248", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Which is easier for you?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "ease", "self_reflection" ], "options": [ { "id": "giving_comfort", "text": "Giving comfort" }, { "id": "receiving_comfort", "text": "Receiving comfort" } ] }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_249", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Which feels more healing?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "healing", "support" ], "options": [ { "id": "i_understand", "text": "I understand" }, { "id": "i_am_here", "text": "I am here" } ] }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_250", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Which should come first today?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "today", "priority" ], "options": [ { "id": "connection", "text": "Connection" }, { "id": "rest", "text": "Rest" } ] } ] }