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"clarity" ], "options": [ { "id": "quick_update", "text": "Quick update" }, { "id": "clear_reason", "text": "Clear reason" }, { "id": "new_plan", "text": "New plan" }, { "id": "reassurance", "text": "Reassurance" } ] }, { "id": "communication_162", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What tone helps you stay open?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "tone", "safety" ], "options": [ { "id": "calm", "text": "Calm" }, { "id": "warm", "text": "Warm" }, { "id": "direct", "text": "Direct" }, { "id": "soft", "text": "Soft" } ] }, { "id": "communication_163", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What tone makes things harder?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "tone", "conflict" ], "options": [ { "id": "cold", "text": "Cold" }, { "id": "sharp", "text": "Sharp" }, { "id": "dismissive", "text": "Dismissive" }, { "id": "rushed", "text": "Rushed" } ] }, { "id": "communication_164", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How should we pause a tense talk?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "pause", "repair" ], "options": [ { "id": "use_a_phrase", "text": "Use a phrase" }, { "id": "set_a_timer", "text": "Set a timer" }, { "id": "take_separate_space", "text": "Take separate space" }, { "id": "switch_to_writing", "text": "Switch to writing" } ] }, { "id": "communication_165", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes you feel respected in conversation?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "respect", "listening" ], "options": [ { "id": "being_asked", "text": "Being asked" }, { "id": "being_heard", "text": "Being heard" }, { "id": "being_believed", "text": "Being believed" }, { "id": "being_given_time", "text": "Being given time" } ] }, { "id": "communication_166", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What do you need when you say you are fine?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "emotions", "check_in" ], "options": [ { "id": "believe_me", "text": "Believe me" }, { "id": "ask_gently", "text": "Ask gently" }, { "id": "give_space", "text": "Give space" }, { "id": "check_later", "text": "Check later" } ] }, { "id": "communication_167", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes feedback easier to receive?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feedback", "growth" ], "options": [ { "id": "specific_examples", "text": "Specific examples" }, { "id": "kind_tone", "text": "Kind tone" }, { "id": "private_setting", "text": "Private setting" }, { "id": "clear_request", "text": "Clear request" } ] }, { "id": "communication_168", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes feedback harder to receive?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feedback", "defensiveness" ], "options": [ { "id": "blame", "text": "Blame" }, { "id": "public_setting", "text": "Public setting" }, { "id": "bad_timing", "text": "Bad timing" }, { "id": "harsh_tone", "text": "Harsh tone" } ] }, { "id": "communication_169", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What helps you return after a fight?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "repair", "conflict" ], "options": [ { "id": "apology", "text": "Apology" }, { "id": "touch", "text": "Touch" }, { "id": "space_first", "text": "Space first" }, { "id": "talking_it_through", "text": "Talking it through" } ] }, { "id": "communication_170", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes a repair feel real?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "repair", "trust" ], "options": [ { "id": "changed_behavior", "text": "Changed behavior" }, { "id": "clear_apology", "text": "Clear apology" }, { "id": "no_excuses", "text": "No excuses" }, { "id": "gentle_follow_up", "text": "Gentle follow-up" } ] }, { "id": "communication_171", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When I vent, what should you do first?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "venting", "support" ], "options": [ { "id": "listen", "text": "Listen" }, { "id": "ask_questions", "text": "Ask questions" }, { "id": "validate", "text": "Validate" }, { "id": "offer_help", "text": "Offer help" } ] }, { "id": "communication_172", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which conversation format feels safest?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "safety", "format" ], "options": [ { "id": "face_to_face", "text": "Face to face" }, { "id": "text_first", "text": "Text first" }, { "id": "walk_and_talk", "text": "Walk and talk" }, { "id": "planned_check_in", "text": "Planned check-in" } ] }, { "id": "communication_173", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How often should we have deeper check-ins?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "check_in", "routine" ], "options": [ { "id": "daily", "text": "Daily" }, { "id": "weekly", "text": "Weekly" }, { "id": "monthly", "text": "Monthly" }, { "id": "only_when_needed", "text": "Only when needed" } ] }, { "id": "communication_174", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should we avoid during conflict?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "conflict", "boundaries" ], "options": [ { "id": "name_calling", "text": "Name calling" }, { "id": "interrupting", "text": "Interrupting" }, { "id": "leaving_abruptly", "text": "Leaving abruptly" }, { "id": "bringing_up_old_fights", "text": "Bringing up old fights" } ] }, { "id": "communication_175", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What helps you feel like we are a team?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "teamwork", "conflict" ], "options": [ { "id": "shared_language", "text": "Shared language" }, { "id": "calm_tone", "text": "Calm tone" }, { "id": "problem_solving", "text": "Problem solving" }, { "id": "reassurance", "text": "Reassurance" } ] }, { "id": "communication_176", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes you feel alone in a hard talk?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "loneliness", "conflict" ], "options": [ { "id": "silence", "text": "Silence" }, { "id": "defensiveness", "text": "Defensiveness" }, { "id": "dismissal", "text": "Dismissal" }, { "id": "coldness", "text": "Coldness" } ] }, { "id": "communication_177", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How do you prefer reassurance?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "reassurance", "needs" ], "options": [ { "id": "words", "text": "Words" }, { "id": "actions", "text": "Actions" }, { "id": "touch", "text": "Touch" }, { "id": "consistency", "text": "Consistency" } ] }, { "id": "communication_178", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of question opens you up?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "questions", "vulnerability" ], "options": [ { "id": "gentle", "text": "Gentle" }, { "id": "specific", "text": "Specific" }, { "id": "curious", "text": "Curious" }, { "id": "simple", "text": "Simple" } ] }, { "id": "communication_179", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of question closes you down?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "questions", "shutdown" ], "options": [ { "id": "loaded", "text": "Loaded" }, { "id": "rushed", "text": "Rushed" }, { "id": "accusing", "text": "Accusing" }, { "id": "too_broad", "text": "Too broad" } ] }, { "id": "communication_180", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What is your first reaction to conflict?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "conflict", "pattern" ], "options": [ { "id": "talk_more", "text": "Talk more" }, { "id": "go_quiet", "text": "Go quiet" }, { "id": "get_defensive", "text": "Get defensive" }, { "id": "need_space", "text": "Need space" } ] }, { "id": "communication_181", "category_id": 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"Distance" }, { "id": "hurt", "text": "Hurt" }, { "id": "confusion", "text": "Confusion" } ] }, { "id": "communication_184", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What helps you believe I understand?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "understanding", "listening" ], "options": [ { "id": "repeating_back", "text": "Repeating back" }, { "id": "asking_more", "text": "Asking more" }, { "id": "changing_behavior", "text": "Changing behavior" }, { "id": "staying_calm", "text": "Staying calm" } ] }, { "id": "communication_185", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes you feel interrupted?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "attention", "respect" ], "options": [ { "id": "cutting_in", "text": "Cutting in" }, { "id": "finishing_sentences", "text": "Finishing sentences" }, { "id": "changing_topics", "text": "Changing topics" }, { "id": "checking_phone", "text": "Checking phone" } ] }, { "id": "communication_186", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What would improve our daily talks most?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "daily_life", "improvement" ], "options": [ { "id": "more_time", "text": "More time" }, { "id": "more_patience", "text": "More patience" }, { "id": "more_honesty", "text": "More honesty" }, { "id": "fewer_distractions", "text": "Fewer distractions" } ] }, { "id": "communication_187", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What is your preferred conflict pace?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "conflict", "timing" ], "options": [ { "id": "resolve_now", "text": "Resolve now" }, { "id": "pause_first", "text": "Pause first" }, { "id": "sleep_on_it", "text": "Sleep on it" }, { "id": "schedule_it", "text": "Schedule it" } ] }, { "id": "communication_188", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should we do after a misunderstanding?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "misunderstanding", "repair" ], "options": [ { "id": "clarify", "text": "Clarify" }, { "id": "apologize", "text": "Apologize" }, { "id": "laugh_gently", "text": "Laugh gently" }, { "id": "check_feelings", "text": "Check feelings" } ] }, { "id": "communication_189", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes honesty feel safer?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "honesty", "safety" ], "options": [ { "id": "no_punishment", "text": "No punishment" }, { "id": "kind_tone", "text": "Kind tone" }, { "id": "clear_listening", "text": "Clear listening" }, { "id": "time_to_explain", "text": "Time to explain" } ] }, { "id": "communication_190", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should be our reset phrase?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "repair", "reset" ], "options": [ { "id": "can_we_restart", "text": "Can we restart?" }, { "id": "i_want_to_understand", "text": "I want to understand" }, { "id": "same_team", "text": "Same team" }, { "id": "pause_and_come_back", "text": "Pause and come back" } ] }, { "id": "communication_191", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which things help you feel listened to? Select all that apply.", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "listening", "attention" ], "options": [ { "id": "eye_contact", "text": "Eye contact" }, { "id": "no_interrupting", "text": "No interrupting" }, { "id": "follow_up_questions", "text": "Follow-up questions" }, { "id": "remembering_later", "text": "Remembering later" }, { "id": "putting_phone_away", "text": "Putting phone away" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "communication_192", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which things make hard talks harder for you? Select all that apply.", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "conflict", "triggers" ], "options": [ { "id": "raised_voices", "text": "Raised voices" }, { "id": "bad_timing", "text": "Bad timing" }, { "id": "feeling_blamed", "text": "Feeling blamed" }, { "id": "sarcasm", "text": "Sarcasm" }, { "id": "too_much_pressure", "text": "Too much pressure" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "communication_193", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which topics need better communication between us? Select all that apply.", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "topics", "growth" ], "options": [ { "id": "plans", "text": "Plans" }, { "id": "feelings", "text": "Feelings" }, { "id": "money", "text": "Money" }, { "id": "family", "text": "Family" }, { "id": "household_needs", "text": "Household needs" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "communication_194", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which support styles do you like most? Select all that apply.", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "support", "needs" ], "options": [ { "id": "comfort", "text": "Comfort" }, { "id": "advice", "text": "Advice" }, { "id": "practical_help", "text": "Practical help" }, { "id": "space", "text": "Space" }, { "id": "encouragement", "text": "Encouragement" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "communication_195", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which signs show you are overwhelmed? Select all that apply.", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "stress", "signals" ], "options": [ { "id": "quietness", "text": "Quietness" }, { "id": "irritability", "text": "Irritability" }, { "id": "tiredness", "text": "Tiredness" }, { "id": "avoidance", "text": "Avoidance" }, { "id": "overexplaining", "text": "Overexplaining" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "communication_196", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which repair actions matter after conflict? Select all that apply.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "repair", "conflict" ], "options": [ { "id": "apology", "text": "Apology" }, { "id": "changed_behavior", "text": "Changed behavior" }, { "id": "physical_comfort", "text": "Physical comfort" }, { "id": "talking_it_through", "text": "Talking it through" }, { "id": "time_to_cool_off", "text": "Time to cool off" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "communication_197", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which communication habits should we protect? Select all that apply.", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "strengths", "habits" ], "options": [ { "id": "humor", "text": "Humor" }, { "id": "honesty", "text": "Honesty" }, { "id": "gentleness", "text": "Gentleness" }, { "id": "check_ins", "text": "Check-ins" }, { "id": "saying_thank_you", "text": "Saying thank you" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "communication_198", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which communication habits should we reduce? Select all that apply.", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "growth", "habits" ], "options": [ { "id": "interrupting", "text": "Interrupting" }, { "id": "assuming", "text": "Assuming" }, { "id": "avoiding", "text": "Avoiding" }, { "id": "defending", "text": "Defending" }, { "id": "rushing", "text": "Rushing" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "communication_199", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which moments are best for deeper conversations? Select all that apply.", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "timing", "routine" ], "options": [ { "id": "morning", "text": "Morning" }, { "id": "afternoon", "text": "Afternoon" }, { "id": "evening", "text": "Evening" }, { "id": "during_walks", "text": "During walks" }, { "id": "planned_time", "text": "Planned time" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "communication_200", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which moments are worst for deeper conversations? Select all that apply.", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "timing", "boundaries" ], "options": [ { "id": "when_hungry", "text": "When hungry" }, { "id": "before_work", "text": "Before work" }, { "id": "late_at_night", "text": "Late at night" }, { "id": "in_public", "text": "In public" }, { "id": "during_chores", "text": "During chores" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "communication_201", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which feelings are hardest for you to name? Select all that apply.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "emotions", "vulnerability" ], "options": [ { "id": "fear", "text": "Fear" }, { "id": "sadness", "text": "Sadness" }, { "id": "anger", "text": "Anger" }, { "id": "shame", "text": "Shame" }, { "id": "disappointment", "text": "Disappointment" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "communication_202", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which things make feedback easier? Select all that apply.", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feedback", "safety" ], "options": [ { "id": "kind_tone", "text": "Kind tone" }, { "id": "specific_examples", "text": "Specific examples" }, { "id": "private_setting", "text": "Private setting" }, { "id": "clear_request", "text": "Clear request" }, { "id": "reassurance", "text": "Reassurance" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "communication_203", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which things make you feel dismissed? Select all that apply.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "dismissal", "attention" ], "options": [ { "id": "changing_the_topic", "text": "Changing the topic" }, { "id": "joking_too_soon", "text": "Joking too soon" }, { "id": "giving_quick_advice", "text": "Giving quick advice" }, { "id": "saying_it_is_not_a_big_deal", "text": "Saying it is not a big deal" }, { "id": "looking_distracted", "text": "Looking distracted" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "communication_204", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which things help us feel like a team? Select all that apply.", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "teamwork", "repair" ], "options": [ { "id": "shared_plans", "text": "Shared plans" }, { "id": "calm_language", "text": "Calm language" }, { "id": "checking_assumptions", "text": "Checking assumptions" }, { "id": "solving_together", "text": "Solving together" }, { "id": "affection_after_tension", "text": "Affection after tension" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "communication_205", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which boundaries would help our conversations? Select all that apply.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "boundaries", "conflict" ], "options": [ { "id": "no_yelling", "text": "No yelling" }, { "id": "no_name_calling", "text": "No name calling" }, { "id": "no_phone_distractions", "text": "No phone distractions" }, { "id": "pause_allowed", "text": "Pause allowed" }, { "id": "return_time_agreed", "text": "Return time agreed" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "communication_206", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which text habits should we improve? Select all that apply.", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "texting", "digital" ], "options": [ { "id": "reply_expectations", "text": "Reply expectations" }, { "id": "tone_clarity", "text": "Tone clarity" }, { "id": "hard_topics_by_text", "text": "Hard topics by text" }, { "id": "check_ins", "text": "Check-ins" }, { "id": "plan_details", "text": "Plan details" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "communication_207", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which ways do you show you care during talks? Select all that apply.", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "care", "listening" ], "options": [ { "id": "listening", "text": "Listening" }, { "id": "asking_questions", "text": "Asking questions" }, { "id": "helping_solve", "text": "Helping solve" }, { "id": "offering_touch", "text": "Offering touch" }, { "id": "following_up_later", "text": "Following up later" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "communication_208", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which ways do you want me to show care during talks? 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"min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "min_label": "Not at all", "max_label": "A lot", "scale_step": 1 } }, { "id": "communication_222", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", "text": "How well do we handle serious talks by text?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "texting", "hard_topics" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "min_label": "Poorly", "max_label": "Very well", "scale_step": 1 } }, { "id": "communication_223", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", "text": "How much patience do you feel from me during hard conversations?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "patience", "conflict" ], "answer_config": { "min_scale": 1, "max_scale": 5, "min_label": "Very little", "max_label": "A lot", "scale_step": 1 } }, { "id": "communication_224", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", "text": "How much patience do you feel you give me during hard conversations?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "patience", 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