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], "options": [ { "id": "space_first", "text": "Space first" }, { "id": "comfort_first", "text": "Comfort first" }, { "id": "talk_it_through", "text": "Talk it through" }, { "id": "simple_repair", "text": "Simple repair" } ] }, { "id": "trust_167", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which behavior builds trust fastest?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "reliability", "accountability" ], "options": [ { "id": "keeping_promises", "text": "Keeping promises" }, { "id": "admitting_mistakes", "text": "Admitting mistakes" }, { "id": "checking_in", "text": "Checking in" }, { "id": "being_patient", "text": "Being patient" } ] }, { "id": "trust_168", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which behavior damages trust fastest?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "trust_damage", "patterns" ], "options": [ { "id": "dismissing_feelings", "text": "Dismissing feelings" }, { "id": "hiding_information", "text": "Hiding information" }, { "id": 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"single_choice", "text": "What makes an answer feel complete?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "honesty", "clarity" ], "options": [ { "id": "details", "text": "Details" }, { "id": "tone", "text": "Tone" }, { "id": "consistency", "text": "Consistency" }, { "id": "willingness_to_explain", "text": "Willingness to explain" } ] }, { "id": "trust_172", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What helps you believe changed behavior is real?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "repair", "accountability" ], "options": [ { "id": "time", "text": "Time" }, { "id": "repeated_actions", "text": "Repeated actions" }, { "id": "ownership", "text": "Ownership" }, { "id": "less_defensiveness", "text": "Less defensiveness" } ] }, { "id": "trust_173", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should we do when one of us breaks trust in a small way?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "repair", "small_moments" ], "options": [ { "id": "name_it_quickly", "text": "Name it quickly" }, { "id": "apologize", "text": "Apologize" }, { "id": "make_a_plan", "text": "Make a plan" }, { "id": "pause_and_revisit", "text": "Pause and revisit" } ] }, { "id": "trust_174", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of loyalty matters most day to day?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "loyalty", "daily_life" ], "options": [ { "id": "defending_each_other", "text": "Defending each other" }, { "id": "being_honest", "text": "Being honest" }, { "id": "keeping_confidences", "text": "Keeping confidences" }, { "id": "choosing_us_first", "text": "Choosing us first" } ] }, { "id": "trust_175", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What is hardest for you to trust?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "trust_style", "security" ], "options": [ { "id": "words", "text": "Words" }, { "id": "intentions", "text": "Intentions" }, { "id": "consistency", "text": "Consistency" }, { "id": "emotional_safety", "text": "Emotional safety" } ] }, { "id": "trust_176", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What helps you rebuild trust after disappointment?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "disappointment", "repair" ], "options": [ { "id": "understanding_why", "text": "Understanding why" }, { "id": "specific_change", "text": "Specific change" }, { "id": "time", "text": "Time" }, { "id": "reassurance", "text": "Reassurance" } ] }, { "id": "trust_177", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What does dependability mostly mean to you?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "dependability", "reliability" ], "options": [ { "id": "showing_up", "text": "Showing up" }, { "id": "following_through", "text": "Following through" }, { "id": "being_honest", "text": "Being honest" }, { "id": "staying_calm", "text": "Staying calm" } ] }, { "id": "trust_178", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What do you need more of to feel secure?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "security", "needs" ], "options": [ { "id": "clarity", "text": "Clarity" }, { "id": "affection", "text": "Affection" }, { "id": "consistency", "text": "Consistency" }, { "id": "quality_time", "text": "Quality time" } ] }, { "id": "trust_179", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes you trust a difficult conversation?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "hard_topics", "safety" ], "options": [ { "id": "calm_start", "text": "Calm start" }, { "id": "no_blame", "text": "No blame" }, { "id": "clear_goal", "text": "Clear goal" }, { "id": "kind_ending", "text": "Kind ending" } ] }, { "id": "trust_180", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When I make a mistake, what should I do first?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "accountability", "repair" ], "options": [ { "id": "own_it", "text": "Own it" }, { "id": "apologize", "text": "Apologize" }, { "id": "explain", "text": "Explain" }, { "id": "ask_what_you_need", "text": "Ask what you need" } ] }, { "id": "trust_181", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which promise matters most?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "promises", "trust" ], "options": [ { "id": "tell_the_truth", "text": "Tell the truth" }, { "id": "respect_boundaries", "text": "Respect boundaries" }, { "id": "follow_through", "text": "Follow through" }, { "id": "protect_privacy", "text": "Protect privacy" } ] }, { "id": "trust_182", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What helps you trust my intentions?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "intentions", "trust" ], "options": [ { "id": "my_tone", "text": "My tone" }, { "id": "my_actions", "text": "My actions" }, { "id": "my_explanation", "text": "My explanation" }, { "id": "my_consistency", "text": "My consistency" } ] }, { "id": "trust_183", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes you doubt my intentions?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "doubt", "intentions" ], "options": [ { "id": "defensiveness", "text": "Defensiveness" }, { "id": "secrecy", "text": "Secrecy" }, { "id": "timing", "text": "Timing" }, { "id": "past_patterns", "text": "Past patterns" } ] }, { "id": "trust_184", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should trust feel like in our relationship?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "trust_vision", "security" ], "options": [ { "id": "safe", "text": "Safe" }, { "id": "steady", "text": "Steady" }, { "id": "free", "text": "Free" }, { "id": "honest", "text": "Honest" } ] }, { "id": "trust_185", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What do you value more during conflict?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "conflict", "values" ], "options": [ { "id": "full_honesty", "text": "Full honesty" }, { "id": "gentle_delivery", "text": "Gentle delivery" }, { "id": "accountability", "text": "Accountability" }, { "id": "reassurance", "text": "Reassurance" } ] }, { "id": "trust_186", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What helps you trust me when we are apart?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "apart", "loyalty" ], "options": [ { "id": "communication", "text": "Communication" }, { "id": "boundaries", "text": "Boundaries" }, { "id": "consistency", "text": "Consistency" }, { "id": "confidence_in_us", "text": "Confidence in us" } ] }, { "id": "trust_187", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should be our default when we are unsure?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "uncertainty", "communication" ], "options": [ { "id": "ask_directly", "text": "Ask directly" }, { "id": "assume_good_intent", "text": "Assume good intent" }, { "id": "pause_first", "text": "Pause first" }, { "id": "clarify_later", "text": "Clarify later" } ] }, { "id": "trust_188", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes repair feel complete?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "repair", "completion" ], "options": [ { "id": "apology", "text": "Apology" }, { "id": "understanding", "text": "Understanding" }, { "id": "changed_action", "text": "Changed action" }, { "id": "time", "text": "Time" } ] }, { "id": "trust_189", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What is your strongest trust need right now?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "needs", "security" ], "options": [ { "id": "honesty", "text": "Honesty" }, { "id": "consistency", "text": "Consistency" }, { "id": "emotional_safety", "text": "Emotional safety" }, { "id": "reassurance", "text": "Reassurance" } ] }, { "id": "trust_190", "category_id": "trust", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should we protect most to keep trust strong?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "protection", "trust" ], "options": [ { "id": "honesty", "text": "Honesty" }, { "id": "respect", "text": "Respect" }, { "id": "privacy", "text": "Privacy" }, { "id": "follow_through", "text": "Follow-through" } ] }, { "id": "trust_191", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which actions help you feel safe with me? Select all that apply.", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "safety", "actions" ], "options": [ { "id": "listening_without_interrupting", "text": "Listening without interrupting" }, { "id": "keeping_promises", "text": "Keeping promises" }, { "id": "checking_in", "text": "Checking in" }, { "id": "respecting_boundaries", "text": "Respecting boundaries" }, { "id": "staying_calm", "text": "Staying calm" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "trust_192", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which things make trust harder for you? Select all that apply.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "trust_barriers", "patterns" ], "options": [ { "id": "inconsistency", "text": "Inconsistency" }, { "id": "vague_answers", "text": "Vague answers" }, { "id": "defensiveness", "text": "Defensiveness" }, { "id": "broken_plans", "text": "Broken plans" }, { "id": "dismissed_feelings", "text": "Dismissed feelings" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "trust_193", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which forms of honesty matter most to you? Select all that apply.", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "honesty", "values" ], "options": [ { "id": "emotional_honesty", "text": "Emotional honesty" }, { "id": "practical_honesty", "text": "Practical honesty" }, { "id": "financial_honesty", "text": "Financial honesty" }, { "id": "social_honesty", "text": "Social honesty" }, { "id": "honesty_about_needs", "text": "Honesty about needs" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "trust_194", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which boundaries should couples discuss clearly? Select all that apply.", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "boundaries", "clarity" ], "options": [ { "id": "phones", "text": "Phones" }, { "id": "friends", "text": "Friends" }, { "id": "family", "text": "Family" }, { "id": "money", "text": "Money" }, { "id": "private_time", "text": "Private time" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "trust_195", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which things help repair trust after conflict? Select all that apply.", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "repair", "conflict" ], "options": [ { "id": "apology", "text": "Apology" }, { "id": "accountability", "text": "Accountability" }, { "id": "changed_behavior", "text": "Changed behavior" }, { "id": "reassurance", "text": "Reassurance" }, { "id": "time", "text": "Time" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "trust_196", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which behaviors feel loyal to you? Select all that apply.", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "loyalty", "respect" ], "options": [ { "id": "defending_me_respectfully", "text": "Defending me respectfully" }, { "id": "keeping_confidences", "text": "Keeping confidences" }, { "id": "choosing_us_in_public", "text": "Choosing us in public" }, { "id": "being_honest_when_apart", "text": "Being honest when apart" }, { "id": "respecting_our_agreements", "text": "Respecting our agreements" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "trust_197", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which areas need more trust-building right now? Select all that apply.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "needs", "growth" ], "options": [ { "id": "communication", "text": "Communication" }, { "id": "follow_through", "text": "Follow-through" }, { "id": "emotional_safety", "text": "Emotional safety" }, { "id": "privacy", "text": "Privacy" }, { "id": "conflict_repair", "text": "Conflict repair" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "trust_198", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which things make vulnerability safer? Select all that apply.", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "vulnerability", "safety" ], "options": [ { "id": "warm_tone", "text": "Warm tone" }, { "id": "no_teasing", "text": "No teasing" }, { "id": "privacy", "text": "Privacy" }, { "id": "patience", "text": "Patience" }, { "id": "gentle_questions", "text": "Gentle questions" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "trust_199", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which actions help you trust changed behavior? Select all that apply.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "accountability", "change" ], "options": [ { "id": "repeated_follow_through", "text": "Repeated follow-through" }, { "id": "clear_plan", "text": "Clear plan" }, { "id": "ownership", "text": "Ownership" }, { "id": "no_excuses", "text": "No excuses" }, { "id": "patience_with_questions", "text": "Patience with questions" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "trust_200", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which kinds of reassurance help most? Select all that apply.", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "reassurance", "security" ], "options": [ { "id": "words", "text": "Words" }, { "id": "affection", "text": "Affection" }, { "id": "consistency", "text": "Consistency" }, { "id": "quality_time", "text": "Quality time" }, { "id": "transparency", "text": "Transparency" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "trust_201", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which privacy boundaries feel healthy? Select all that apply.", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "privacy", "boundaries" ], "options": [ { "id": "private_journal", "text": "Private journal" }, { "id": "private_conversations", "text": "Private conversations" }, { "id": "personal_phone_space", "text": "Personal phone space" }, { "id": "time_alone", "text": "Time alone" }, { "id": "surprise_gifts_or_plans", "text": "Surprise gifts or plans" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "trust_202", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which transparency habits feel healthy? Select all that apply.", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "transparency", "habits" ], "options": [ { "id": "sharing_plans", "text": "Sharing plans" }, { "id": "being_honest_about_emotions", "text": "Being honest about emotions" }, { "id": "owning_mistakes", "text": "Owning mistakes" }, { "id": "discussing_money", "text": "Discussing money" }, { "id": "naming_concerns_early", "text": "Naming concerns early" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "trust_203", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which conflict habits damage trust? Select all that apply.", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "conflict", "damage" ], "options": [ { "id": "name_calling", "text": "Name-calling" }, { "id": "stonewalling", "text": "Stonewalling" }, { "id": "threats_to_leave", "text": "Threats to leave" }, { "id": "bringing_up_old_wounds", "text": "Bringing up old wounds" }, { "id": "mocking_feelings", "text": "Mocking feelings" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "trust_204", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which conflict habits protect trust? Select all that apply.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "conflict", "repair" ], "options": [ { "id": "taking_breaks", "text": "Taking breaks" }, { "id": "repair_attempts", "text": "Repair attempts" }, { "id": "staying_respectful", "text": "Staying respectful" }, { "id": "owning_impact", "text": "Owning impact" }, { "id": "coming_back_to_finish", "text": "Coming back to finish" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "trust_205", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which situations need more clarity between us? Select all that apply.", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "clarity", "expectations" ], "options": [ { "id": "social_plans", "text": "Social plans" }, { "id": "spending_money", "text": "Spending money" }, { "id": "family_expectations", "text": "Family expectations" }, { "id": "time_alone", "text": "Time alone" }, { "id": "emotional_needs", "text": "Emotional needs" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "trust_206", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which things make you feel chosen? Select all that apply.", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "chosen", "loyalty" ], "options": [ { "id": "being_prioritized", "text": "Being prioritized" }, { "id": "being_defended", "text": "Being defended" }, { "id": "being_included", "text": "Being included" }, { "id": "being_checked_on", "text": "Being checked on" }, { "id": "being_remembered", "text": "Being remembered" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "trust_207", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which things make you feel forgotten? Select all that apply.", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "security", "concern" ], "options": [ { "id": "plans_changing_late", "text": "Plans changing late" }, { "id": "lack_of_check_ins", "text": "Lack of check-ins" }, { "id": "dismissed_details", "text": "Dismissed details" }, { "id": "no_follow_through", "text": "No follow-through" }, { "id": "emotional_distance", "text": "Emotional distance" } ], "answer_config": { "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 5 } }, { "id": "trust_208", "category_id": "trust", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which trust agreements should we make explicit? 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