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"text": "What truth feels hard to say because you worry about my reaction?",
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"text": "What reaction from me makes honesty harder?",
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"text": "What kind of honesty do you want more of from me?",
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"text": "What fear do you think shows up for me during difficult conversations?",
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"text": "What is one thing you avoid saying to protect the peace?",
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"text": "What is one thing we should stop avoiding to protect the relationship?",
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"text": "What tone helps you stay open?",
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"text": "What is one early sign that our conversation is escalating?",
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"text": "What phrase can we use when the conversation starts getting too sharp?",
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"text": "What body language from me makes a hard talk feel worse?",
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"text": "What body language from me makes a hard talk feel safer?",
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"text": "How can I take responsibility without feeling like I am accepting blame for everything?",
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"text": "What helps us shift from defending to understanding?",
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"text": "What old conversation still affects how you hear me now?",
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"text": "What apology or repair still matters to you?",
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"text": "When does silence feel like punishment?",
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"id": "difficult_conversations_127",
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"text": "What should I not assume when you get quiet?",
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"text": "What should you not assume when I get quiet?",
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"id": "difficult_conversations_129",
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"text": "What helps you return to a hard conversation after space?",
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"text": "What helps me return to a hard conversation after space?",
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"text": "What kind of criticism makes you feel ashamed instead of motivated?",
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"text": "What helps you hear hard feedback without collapsing into shame?",
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"text": "What helps me hear hard feedback without collapsing into shame?",
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"text": "What helps you stay present when you feel exposed?",
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"text": "What helps me stay present when I feel exposed?",
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"tags": [
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"text": "What is one thing we should never mock, dismiss, or use against each other?",
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"difficult_conversations"
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"text": "What would help us protect tenderness during hard topics?",
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"text": "What does courage look like in our difficult conversations?",
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"id": "difficult_conversations_141",
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"text": "What difficult conversation have we handled better than before?",
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"id": "difficult_conversations_142",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What helped us handle it better?",
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"id": "difficult_conversations_143",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What difficult conversation still needs practice?",
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"id": "difficult_conversations_144",
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"text": "What skill should we build before our next hard season?",
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"text": "What hard topic would you like us to approach as teammates?",
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"id": "difficult_conversations_146",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What would make you proud of how we communicate under pressure?",
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"text": "What is one sign that a hard talk made us stronger?",
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"text": "What is one sign that a hard talk needs repair afterward?",
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"text": "What do you want our hard conversations to feel like one year from now?",
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"text": "What is one small step we can take toward that this week?",
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"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps you start a difficult conversation?",
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"text": "What makes you shut down fastest?",
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"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps you stay open to hard feedback?",
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"text": "When a topic is sensitive, what do you need first?",
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"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What usually escalates a hard talk?",
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"text": "What usually de-escalates a hard talk?",
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"repair"
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"text": "What makes accountability easier to receive?",
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"text": "What makes an apology feel real?",
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"text": "What makes an apology feel weak?",
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"apology"
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"text": "What do you need when you feel defensive?",
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"defensiveness"
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"text": "What do you need when I seem defensive?",
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"tags": [
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"text": "What is the best place for a hard talk?",
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"setting"
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"text": "What is the worst time for a hard talk?",
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"timing"
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"text": "What helps you hear my side?",
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"text": "What helps me hear your side?",
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"tags": [
"listening"
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"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should we do when we repeat ourselves?",
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"tags": [
"stuck"
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{
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{
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"text": "What should we do when emotions spike?",
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"emotions"
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{
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"text": "What is hardest to say?",
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"id": "i_need_help",
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"text": "What is hardest to hear?",
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"id": "i_need_change",
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"id": "i_disagree",
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{
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"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes a hard talk feel productive?",
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{
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{
"id": "a_next_step",
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{
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"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes a hard talk feel pointless?",
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"tags": [
"stuck"
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{
"id": "no_listening",
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{
"id": "no_change",
"text": "No change"
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{
"id": "blame_loops",
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{
"id": "unclear_issue",
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]
},
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"id": "difficult_conversations_172",
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What repair action matters most after hard talks?",
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"tags": [
"repair"
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"id": "check_in_later",
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{
"id": "change_behavior",
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{
"id": "offer_comfort",
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{
"id": "make_a_plan",
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"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When we disagree, what do you need protected?",
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{
"id": "voice",
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"id": "time",
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"old_wounds"
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"id": "rushing",
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{
"id": "counterattacks",
"text": "Counterattacks"
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"text": "What is most important during a hard decision?",
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"decisions"
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"id": "fairness",
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{
"id": "honesty",
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{
"id": "patience",
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{
"id": "shared_values",
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"text": "What helps you pause without feeling abandoned?",
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"pause"
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"id": "set_a_return_time",
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{
"id": "reassurance",
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{
"id": "physical_space",
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{
"id": "short_message",
"text": "Short message"
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"text": "What helps you return after a pause?",
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"pause"
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"id": "clear_time",
"text": "Clear time"
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{
"id": "softer_tone",
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{
"id": "a_summary",
"text": "A summary"
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{
"id": "a_repair_attempt",
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"silence"
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"id": "agreed_pause",
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"id": "kind_tone",
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"id": "clear_return",
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"id": "no_punishment",
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"silence"
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"id": "long_delay",
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"id": "avoidance",
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"boundaries"
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"id": "old_pile_ons",
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"teamwork"
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"id": "shared_goal",
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{
"id": "gentle_touch",
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"id": "kind_words",
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"id": "mutual_ownership",
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"loneliness"
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"id": "dismissal",
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"id": "coldness",
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"questions"
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"questions"
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"text": "What helps us end a hard talk well?",
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"ending"
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"id": "a_summary",
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"id": "a_next_step",
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"repair"
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"support"
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"id": "slow_down",
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"id": "offer_a_pause",
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"boundaries"
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{
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"respect"
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"start"
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"text": "What topics need extra care?",
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"sensitive_topics"
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"pause"
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"id": "raised_voices",
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{
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{
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{
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"text": "What repair attempts work for you?",
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"tags": [
"repair"
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"text": "What makes accountability feel real?",
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"accountability"
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"id": "specific_ownership",
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},
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"text": "What makes you feel heard?",
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"listening"
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{
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}
},
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"listening"
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"id": "interruptions",
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}
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"preparation"
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"id": "eat",
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"aftercare"
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"id": "check_in",
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"tags": [
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"text": "What helps disagreement feel safer?",
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"id": "shared_goal",
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"text": "What makes defensiveness soften?",
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"tags": [
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}
},
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"tags": [
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"tags": [
"start"
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"min_scale": 1,
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"listening"
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"listening"
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"tags": [
"defensiveness"
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"min_scale": 1,
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"text": "How respectful are we when emotions run high?",
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"tags": [
"respect"
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"id": "difficult_conversations_217",
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"text": "How well do we pause before escalation?",
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"tags": [
"pause"
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"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we come back after a pause?",
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"tags": [
"pause"
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"type": "scale",
"text": "How honest do you feel you can be with me?",
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"tags": [
"honesty"
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"type": "scale",
"text": "How honest do you feel I am with you?",
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"tags": [
"honesty"
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"id": "difficult_conversations_221",
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"text": "How much do old issues affect new conversations?",
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"tags": [
"old_wounds"
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"text": "How well do we repair after hard talks?",
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"tags": [
"repair"
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"id": "difficult_conversations_223",
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"text": "How clear are our boundaries during conflict?",
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"tags": [
"boundaries"
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"id": "difficult_conversations_224",
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do you feel blamed during hard talks?",
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"tags": [
"blame"
],
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},
{
"id": "difficult_conversations_225",
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do you feel understood during hard talks?",
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"tags": [
"understanding"
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},
{
"id": "difficult_conversations_226",
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we name the real issue?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"clarity"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"scale_step": 1,
"min_label": "Not well",
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}
},
{
"id": "difficult_conversations_227",
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we talk about needs instead of accusations?",
"depth": 5,
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"tags": [
"needs"
],
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"min_label": "Not well",
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}
},
{
"id": "difficult_conversations_228",
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we handle sensitive topics?",
"depth": 1,
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"tags": [
"sensitive_topics"
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}
},
{
"id": "difficult_conversations_229",
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do you trust our ability to have hard conversations?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"trust"
],
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"scale_step": 1,
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},
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"id": "difficult_conversations_230",
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we keep hard talks private and respectful?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"privacy"
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"id": "difficult_conversations_231",
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"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we follow through after hard talks?",
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"tags": [
"follow_through"
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},
{
"id": "difficult_conversations_232",
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"type": "scale",
"text": "How much courage do you feel in our communication?",
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"tags": [
"courage"
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"id": "difficult_conversations_233",
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"text": "How much tenderness survives our hard conversations?",
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"tags": [
"tenderness"
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"id": "difficult_conversations_234",
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"text": "How much resentment is waiting to be discussed?",
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"tags": [
"resentment"
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"id": "difficult_conversations_235",
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"text": "How confident are you that our next hard talk can go better?",
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"tags": [
"growth"
],
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},
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"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "For hard talks, which helps more?",
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"tags": [
"timing"
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},
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"text": "When emotions rise, which should we do first?",
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"tags": [
"pause"
],
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"id": "pause",
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{
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]
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"text": "For feedback, which lands better?",
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"feedback"
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"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "For old hurts, which helps more?",
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{
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"text": "When stuck, which should we ask?",
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"tags": [
"clarity"
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"repair"
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{
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"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "During disagreement, which protects us more?",
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"disagreement"
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"id": "clear_boundaries",
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{
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "When one of us is defensive, which helps more?",
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"tags": [
"defensiveness"
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{
"id": "pause",
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_244",
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "For sensitive topics, which matters more?",
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"sensitive_topics"
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{
"id": "privacy",
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"text": "When we disagree, which should lead?",
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"tags": [
"values"
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"id": "curiosity",
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{
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "After a hard talk, which helps more?",
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"tags": [
"aftercare"
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{
"id": "affection",
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{
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]
},
{
"id": "difficult_conversations_247",
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "For big decisions, which matters more?",
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"tags": [
"decisions"
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{
"id": "shared_values",
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{
"id": "practical_details",
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]
},
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "When someone gets quiet, which should we assume first?",
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"tags": [
"silence"
],
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{
"id": "needs_time",
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{
"id": "needs_safety",
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]
},
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"id": "difficult_conversations_249",
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "For emotional honesty, which helps more?",
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"tags": [
"honesty"
],
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{
"id": "ask_gently",
"text": "Ask gently"
},
{
"id": "listen_quietly",
"text": "Listen quietly"
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"id": "difficult_conversations_250",
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "For our next hard talk, which should we protect first?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"respect"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "respect",
"text": "Respect"
},
{
"id": "connection",
"text": "Connection"
}
]
}
]
}
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