5595 lines
134 KiB
JSON
5595 lines
134 KiB
JSON
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"category": {
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"id": "difficult_conversations",
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"display_name": "Difficult Conversations",
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"description": "Warm, Closer-style questions that help couples bring up hard topics with softness, timing, teamwork, reassurance, tiny rituals, try-again phrases, cozy resets, and playful tools where they fit.",
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"access": "mixed",
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"icon_name": "forum",
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"schema_version": "question_v2",
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"metadata": {
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"total_questions": 250,
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"type_counts": {
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"scale": 25,
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"this_or_that": 15
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}
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}
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},
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"questions": [
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_001",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What would make a hard conversation feel more like a team huddle?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"soft_start",
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"safety",
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"difficult_conversations",
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"closer_style",
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"fun_first",
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"warm"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_002",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What kind of timing makes a serious talk easier for you?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"timing",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_003",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What kind of setting makes a hard talk feel less dramatic?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"setting",
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"difficult_conversations",
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"closer_style",
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"fun_first",
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"warm"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_004",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one phrase that helps you soften during tension?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"phrases",
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"softness",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_005",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one phrase that helps us try again instead of spiraling?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"restart",
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"phrases",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_006",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps you know I am bringing something up because I care?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"care",
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"intentions",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_007",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps you bring up a hard thing and still feel lovable?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"courage",
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"no_blame",
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"difficult_conversations",
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"closer_style",
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"fun_first",
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"warm"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_008",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps a hard topic feel like information, not an attack?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"listening",
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"safety",
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"difficult_conversations",
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"closer_style",
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"fun_first",
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"warm"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_009",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What makes a serious talk feel like us against the problem?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"teamwork",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_010",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one hard topic we could make less dramatic?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"lightness",
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"fun_first",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_011",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What could help us keep one hard talk from taking over the whole night?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"focus",
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"boundaries",
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"difficult_conversations",
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"closer_style",
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"fun_first",
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"warm"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_012",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is a softer way to say, 'I need a minute, but I am coming back'?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"pause",
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"reassurance",
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"difficult_conversations",
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"closer_style",
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"fun_first",
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"warm"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_013",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps you come back after a pause?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"repair",
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"return",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_014",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What makes honesty feel like a hand squeeze instead of a poke?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"honesty",
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"gentleness",
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"difficult_conversations",
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"closer_style",
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"fun_first",
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"warm"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_015",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps you say something real and still feel close to me?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"truth",
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"closeness",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_016",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps you stay soft when I am nervous to talk?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"nervous",
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"support",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_017",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps me stay soft when you are nervous to talk?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"nervous",
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"support",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_018",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What kind of reassurance helps before a hard conversation starts?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"reassurance",
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"beginning",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_019",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What kind of reassurance helps after a hard conversation ends?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"reassurance",
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"ending",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_020",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps us end a hard talk with warmth?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"ending",
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"warmth",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_021",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What would make a hard talk feel more like a team huddle?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"teamwork",
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"fun_first",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_022",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one tiny ritual that could help before a serious talk?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"rituals",
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"fun_first",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_023",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one tiny ritual that could help after a serious talk?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"rituals",
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"comfort",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_024",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps you feel safe asking for what you need?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"needs",
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"safety",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_025",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps you hear what I need without taking it as criticism?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"needs",
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"listening",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_026",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps hurt feelings come out small instead of exploding later?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"hurt",
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"gentleness",
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"difficult_conversations",
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"closer_style",
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"fun_first",
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"warm"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_027",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps disappointment sound like a wish instead of an accusation?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"disappointment",
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"no_blame",
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"difficult_conversations",
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"closer_style",
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"fun_first",
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"warm"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_028",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What expectation should we talk about before it turns into side-eye?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"expectations",
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"prevention",
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"difficult_conversations",
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"closer_style",
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"fun_first",
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"warm"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_029",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps change feel like a new chapter instead of a warning sign?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"change",
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"security",
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"difficult_conversations",
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"closer_style",
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"fun_first",
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"warm"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_030",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps us talk about future plans without pressure?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"future",
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"pressure",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_031",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps us talk about money without shame?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"money",
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"no_shame",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_032",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps us talk about family pressure without turning on each other?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"family",
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"teamwork",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_033",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps us talk about intimacy without awkwardness taking over?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"intimacy",
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"safety",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_034",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps us talk about boundaries without making them feel like rejection?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"boundaries",
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"reassurance",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
|
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_035",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
|
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"text": "What would make a trust talk feel steady instead of heavy?",
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"depth": 4,
|
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"access": "free",
|
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"tags": [
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"trust",
|
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"warmth",
|
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"difficult_conversations",
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"closer_style",
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"fun_first",
|
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"warm"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "difficult_conversations_036",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
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"type": "written",
|
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"text": "What helps us talk when one of us is tired?",
|
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"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
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"tags": [
|
|
"tired",
|
|
"timing",
|
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"difficult_conversations"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
|
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}
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_037",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps us switch from overwhelm mode into team mode?",
|
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"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"overwhelmed",
|
|
"support",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
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"closer_style",
|
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"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_038",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps us laugh at ourselves a little when we both feel right?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"conflict",
|
|
"humility",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_039",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What code word could tell us, 'This is getting pointy'?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"tone",
|
|
"awareness",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_040",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What playful signal could mean, 'Let's slow this down'?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"signals",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_041",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What try-again phrase could replace, 'You always'?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"phrases",
|
|
"no_blame",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_042",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What try-again phrase could replace, 'You never'?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"phrases",
|
|
"no_blame",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_043",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps you believe a hard talk can bring us closer?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hope",
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_044",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one hard conversation we handled better than we used to?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"gratitude",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_045",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would make our next hard conversation feel kinder?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"kindness",
|
|
"next_step",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_046",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would make a money-stress talk feel more like a calm planning huddle?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"money",
|
|
"stress",
|
|
"softness",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_047",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "How could we bring up money stress in a way that still feels like us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"money",
|
|
"stress",
|
|
"identity",
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_048",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps money stress feel like a shared problem, not a personal attack?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"money",
|
|
"stress",
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"no_blame",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_049",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would make money stress easier to talk about before it gets huge?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"money",
|
|
"stress",
|
|
"prevention",
|
|
"ease",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_050",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What do you need from me when we talk about money stress?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"money",
|
|
"stress",
|
|
"needs",
|
|
"support",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_051",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What little warmth could we keep in the room during money stress talks?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"money",
|
|
"stress",
|
|
"warmth",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_052",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What tiny next step would help us handle money stress better?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"money",
|
|
"stress",
|
|
"small_steps",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_053",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would make a family-pressure talk feel more like protecting our little team?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"family",
|
|
"outside_pressure",
|
|
"softness",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_054",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "How could we bring up family pressure in a way that still feels like us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"family",
|
|
"outside_pressure",
|
|
"identity",
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_055",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps family pressure feel like a shared problem, not a personal attack?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"family",
|
|
"outside_pressure",
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"no_blame",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_056",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would make family pressure easier to talk about before it gets huge?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"family",
|
|
"outside_pressure",
|
|
"prevention",
|
|
"ease",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_057",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What do you need from me when we talk about family pressure?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"family",
|
|
"outside_pressure",
|
|
"needs",
|
|
"support",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_058",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps us stay on the same couch, emotionally, during family-pressure talks?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"family",
|
|
"outside_pressure",
|
|
"warmth",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_059",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What tiny next step would help us handle family pressure better?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"family",
|
|
"outside_pressure",
|
|
"small_steps",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_060",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would make hurt feelings easier to name before they grow teeth?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hurt",
|
|
"feelings",
|
|
"softness",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_061",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "How could we bring up hurt feelings in a way that still feels like us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hurt",
|
|
"feelings",
|
|
"identity",
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_062",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps hurt feelings feel like a shared problem, not a personal attack?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hurt",
|
|
"feelings",
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"no_blame",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_063",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would make hurt feelings easier to talk about before it gets huge?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hurt",
|
|
"feelings",
|
|
"prevention",
|
|
"ease",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_064",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What do you need from me when we talk about hurt feelings?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hurt",
|
|
"feelings",
|
|
"needs",
|
|
"support",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_065",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps us keep our hearts close while talking about hurt feelings?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hurt",
|
|
"feelings",
|
|
"warmth",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_066",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What tiny next step would help us handle hurt feelings better?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hurt",
|
|
"feelings",
|
|
"small_steps",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_067",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would make different expectations feel easier to compare without drama?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
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"id": "difficult_conversations_069",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps different expectations feel like a shared problem, not a personal attack?",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What would make different expectations easier to talk about before it gets huge?",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What do you need from me when we talk about different expectations?",
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"id": "difficult_conversations_072",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What would help us keep warmth in the room while talking about different expectations?",
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"depth": 4,
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"tags": [
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}
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"id": "difficult_conversations_073",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What tiny next step would help us handle different expectations better?",
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"tags": [
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}
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"id": "difficult_conversations_074",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What would make future-plan talks feel more dreamy and less pressure-filled?",
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"future",
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"difficult_conversations",
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"closer_style",
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"fun_first",
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"warm"
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}
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"id": "difficult_conversations_075",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"text": "How could we bring up future plans in a way that still feels like us?",
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"depth": 3,
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"tags": [
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_076",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps future plans feel like a shared problem, not a personal attack?",
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|
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"future",
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"no_blame",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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}
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},
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{
|
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"id": "difficult_conversations_077",
|
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
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"type": "written",
|
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"text": "What would make future plans easier to talk about before it gets huge?",
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"depth": 3,
|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
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"future",
|
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"planning",
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"prevention",
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"ease",
|
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
|
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"id": "difficult_conversations_078",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
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"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What do you need from me when we talk about future plans?",
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"depth": 4,
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"tags": [
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_079",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help us keep warmth in the room while talking about future plans?",
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"depth": 4,
|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"future",
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}
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},
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{
|
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"id": "difficult_conversations_080",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What tiny next step would help us handle future plans better?",
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"tags": [
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"future",
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],
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_081",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would make talking about household responsibilities feel softer and less scary?",
|
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|
|
"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"home_life",
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|
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"difficult_conversations"
|
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],
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}
|
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},
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{
|
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"id": "difficult_conversations_082",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "How could we bring up household responsibilities in a way that still feels like us?",
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|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
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|
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|
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],
|
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}
|
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|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps household responsibilities feel like a shared problem, not a personal attack?",
|
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|
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|
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}
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|
|
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|
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|
|
"text": "What would make household responsibilities easier to talk about before it gets huge?",
|
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|
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|
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"tags": [
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|
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}
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|
|
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|
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"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What do you need from me when we talk about household responsibilities?",
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"tags": [
|
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|
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|
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}
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},
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"id": "difficult_conversations_086",
|
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help us keep warmth in the room while talking about household responsibilities?",
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|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"home_life",
|
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|
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|
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|
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],
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "difficult_conversations_087",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
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"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What tiny next step would help us handle household responsibilities better?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
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|
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"tags": [
|
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|
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|
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|
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}
|
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},
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{
|
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"id": "difficult_conversations_088",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would make intimacy needs easier to talk about without awkward fog?",
|
|
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|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"intimacy",
|
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"needs",
|
|
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|
|
"safety",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
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"fun_first",
|
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"warm"
|
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|
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|
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}
|
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},
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|
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|
|
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|
|
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|
|
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|
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|
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|
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"tags": [
|
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|
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|
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|
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|
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|
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|
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}
|
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},
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|
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"id": "difficult_conversations_090",
|
|
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|
|
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|
|
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|
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|
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|
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"tags": [
|
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|
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|
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|
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|
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"difficult_conversations"
|
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|
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}
|
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},
|
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|
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|
|
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|
|
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|
|
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|
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|
|
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|
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"tags": [
|
|
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|
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|
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|
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"ease",
|
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"difficult_conversations"
|
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],
|
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}
|
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|
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|
|
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|
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|
|
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|
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|
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|
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"tags": [
|
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|
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|
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|
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|
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}
|
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},
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|
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|
|
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|
|
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|
|
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|
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|
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|
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"tags": [
|
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|
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|
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|
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|
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}
|
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},
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{
|
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|
|
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|
|
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|
|
"text": "What tiny next step would help us handle intimacy needs better?",
|
|
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|
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|
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"tags": [
|
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|
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|
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|
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],
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_095",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would make trust concerns feel like a steady check-in, not a spotlight?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"trust",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"softness",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
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"fun_first",
|
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"warm"
|
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],
|
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|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_096",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "How could we bring up trust concerns in a way that still feels like us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"trust",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"identity",
|
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"closeness",
|
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"difficult_conversations"
|
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],
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_097",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps trust concerns feel like a shared problem, not a personal attack?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"trust",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"teamwork",
|
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"no_blame",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
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],
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_098",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would make trust concerns easier to talk about before it gets huge?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"trust",
|
|
"safety",
|
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"prevention",
|
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"ease",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
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],
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_099",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What do you need from me when we talk about trust concerns?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"trust",
|
|
"safety",
|
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"needs",
|
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"support",
|
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"difficult_conversations"
|
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],
|
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_100",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps trust talks feel steady, not icy?",
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}
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"text": "What tiny next step would help us handle boundaries better?",
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"ease",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "difficult_conversations_134",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
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"type": "written",
|
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"text": "What do you need from me when we talk about stress and burnout?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress",
|
|
"burnout",
|
|
"needs",
|
|
"support",
|
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"difficult_conversations"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
|
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}
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "difficult_conversations_135",
|
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help us keep warmth in the room while talking about stress and burnout?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress",
|
|
"burnout",
|
|
"warmth",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_136",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What tiny next step would help us handle stress and burnout better?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress",
|
|
"burnout",
|
|
"small_steps",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_137",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would make talking about feeling unheard feel softer and less scary?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"heard",
|
|
"softness",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_138",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "How could we bring up feeling unheard in a way that still feels like us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"heard",
|
|
"identity",
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_139",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps feeling unheard feel like a shared problem, not a personal attack?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"heard",
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"no_blame",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_140",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would make feeling unheard easier to talk about before it gets huge?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"heard",
|
|
"prevention",
|
|
"ease",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_141",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What do you need from me when we talk about feeling unheard?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"heard",
|
|
"needs",
|
|
"support",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_142",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help us keep warmth in the room while talking about feeling unheard?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"heard",
|
|
"warmth",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_143",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What tiny next step would help us handle feeling unheard better?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"heard",
|
|
"small_steps",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_144",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would make talking about changing seasons of life feel softer and less scary?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"change",
|
|
"life",
|
|
"softness",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_145",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "How could we bring up changing seasons of life in a way that still feels like us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"change",
|
|
"life",
|
|
"identity",
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_146",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps changing seasons of life feel like a shared problem, not a personal attack?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"change",
|
|
"life",
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"no_blame",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_147",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would make changing seasons of life easier to talk about before it gets huge?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"change",
|
|
"life",
|
|
"prevention",
|
|
"ease",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_148",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What do you need from me when we talk about changing seasons of life?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"change",
|
|
"life",
|
|
"needs",
|
|
"support",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_149",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help us keep warmth in the room while talking about changing seasons of life?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"change",
|
|
"life",
|
|
"warmth",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_150",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What tiny next step would help us handle changing seasons of life better?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"change",
|
|
"life",
|
|
"small_steps",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_151",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps a hard talk start with love first?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"soft_start",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "soft_tone",
|
|
"text": "Soft tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "good_timing",
|
|
"text": "Good timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_clear_topic",
|
|
"text": "One clear topic"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_152",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps you stay open during a serious talk?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"openness",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_heard",
|
|
"text": "Feeling heard"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_blame",
|
|
"text": "No blame"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "calm_voice",
|
|
"text": "Calm voice"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_to_think",
|
|
"text": "Time to think"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_153",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What kind of pause feels safest?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "short_pause",
|
|
"text": "Short pause"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hug_first",
|
|
"text": "Hug first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "return_time",
|
|
"text": "Return time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet_reset",
|
|
"text": "Quiet reset"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_154",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us restart gently?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"restart",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "try_again",
|
|
"text": "Try again"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "use_softer_words",
|
|
"text": "Use softer words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hold_hands",
|
|
"text": "Hold hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_the_goal",
|
|
"text": "Name the goal"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_155",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What kind of reassurance helps most before a hard talk?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"reassurance",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_love_you",
|
|
"text": "I love you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_are_okay",
|
|
"text": "We are okay"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_am_listening",
|
|
"text": "I am listening"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_can_go_slow",
|
|
"text": "We can go slow"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_156",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a hard talk feel less heavy?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "snacks",
|
|
"text": "Snacks"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "short_timer",
|
|
"text": "Short timer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "soft_blanket",
|
|
"text": "Soft blanket"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "little_joke",
|
|
"text": "Little joke"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_157",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps you bring up something hard?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"courage",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "privacy",
|
|
"text": "Privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "good_timing",
|
|
"text": "Good timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "kind_words",
|
|
"text": "Kind words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_158",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps you hear something hard?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "soft_start",
|
|
"text": "Soft start"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_labels",
|
|
"text": "No labels"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_topic",
|
|
"text": "One topic"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "care_after",
|
|
"text": "Care after"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_159",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes honesty feel kind?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle_tone",
|
|
"text": "Gentle tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "right_timing",
|
|
"text": "Right timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_words",
|
|
"text": "Clear words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_160",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should we protect during hard talks?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"protection",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "kindness",
|
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"text": "Kindness"
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},
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{
|
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"id": "respect",
|
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"text": "Respect"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "trust",
|
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"text": "Trust"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "soft_feelings",
|
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"text": "Soft feelings"
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}
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]
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_161",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What helps when one of us gets overwhelmed?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"overwhelmed",
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"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"options": [
|
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{
|
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"id": "pause",
|
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"text": "Pause"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "lower_tone",
|
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"text": "Lower tone"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "reassure",
|
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"text": "Reassure"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "simplify",
|
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"text": "Simplify"
|
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}
|
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]
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "difficult_conversations_162",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
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"type": "single_choice",
|
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"text": "What helps when we misunderstand each other?",
|
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"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
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"tags": [
|
|
"misunderstanding",
|
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"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_again",
|
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"text": "Ask again"
|
|
},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "repeat_back",
|
|
"text": "Repeat back"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "slow_down",
|
|
"text": "Slow down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "assume_good_intent",
|
|
"text": "Assume good intent"
|
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}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_163",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
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"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a hard talk worth having?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"meaning",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_closeness",
|
|
"text": "More closeness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_clarity",
|
|
"text": "More clarity"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "less_resentment",
|
|
"text": "Less resentment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_real_plan",
|
|
"text": "A real plan"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_164",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us end warmly?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"ending",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "thank_you",
|
|
"text": "Thank you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hug_if_wanted",
|
|
"text": "Hug if wanted"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sweet_words",
|
|
"text": "Sweet words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "next_step",
|
|
"text": "Next step"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_165",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What playful signal could help us slow down?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"signals",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "code_word",
|
|
"text": "Code word"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hand_squeeze",
|
|
"text": "Hand squeeze"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_out_sign",
|
|
"text": "Time-out sign"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "silly_phrase",
|
|
"text": "Silly phrase"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_166",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which topic needs the softest start?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"topics",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "money",
|
|
"text": "Money"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "family",
|
|
"text": "Family"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "intimacy",
|
|
"text": "Intimacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trust",
|
|
"text": "Trust"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_167",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which hard-talk skill needs the most practice?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"skills",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "timing",
|
|
"text": "Timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tone",
|
|
"text": "Tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "listening",
|
|
"text": "Listening"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "staying_focused",
|
|
"text": "Staying focused"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_168",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What usually makes a serious talk go from huddle to hurricane?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"awareness",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "bad_timing",
|
|
"text": "Bad timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharp_tone",
|
|
"text": "Sharp tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "too_many_topics",
|
|
"text": "Too many topics"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_accused",
|
|
"text": "Feeling accused"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_169",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us keep one topic from becoming ten?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"focus",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "write_it_down",
|
|
"text": "Write it down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pick_one",
|
|
"text": "Pick one"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "save_the_rest",
|
|
"text": "Save the rest"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_turns",
|
|
"text": "Take turns"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_170",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps if one of us hears criticism when the other meant care?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"criticism",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rephrase",
|
|
"text": "Rephrase"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassure",
|
|
"text": "Reassure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause",
|
|
"text": "Pause"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_the_need",
|
|
"text": "Name the need"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_171",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps if one of us puts on emotional armor?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"defensiveness",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "slow_down",
|
|
"text": "Slow down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "own_one_part",
|
|
"text": "Own one part"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_a_question",
|
|
"text": "Ask a question"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remember_the_goal",
|
|
"text": "Remember the goal"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_172",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps if one of us goes quiet and needs a safe way back?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"shutdown",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle_check_in",
|
|
"text": "Gentle check-in"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "space",
|
|
"text": "Space"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "return_time",
|
|
"text": "Return time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_pressure",
|
|
"text": "No pressure"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_173",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps if the conversation gets a little too spicy?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"intensity",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause",
|
|
"text": "Pause"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "softer_voice",
|
|
"text": "Softer voice"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "shorter_sentences",
|
|
"text": "Shorter sentences"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "try_again",
|
|
"text": "Try again"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_174",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us talk about money gently?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"money",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "facts_first",
|
|
"text": "Facts first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_shame",
|
|
"text": "No shame"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "shared_goal",
|
|
"text": "Shared goal"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "short_talk",
|
|
"text": "Short talk"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_175",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us talk about family pressure gently?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"family",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "private_first",
|
|
"text": "Private first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choose_us",
|
|
"text": "Choose us"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_boundary",
|
|
"text": "Clear boundary"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_piling_on",
|
|
"text": "No piling on"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_176",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us talk about intimacy gently?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"intimacy",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "privacy",
|
|
"text": "Privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_pressure",
|
|
"text": "No pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "soft_words",
|
|
"text": "Soft words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "easy_pause",
|
|
"text": "Easy pause"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_177",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us talk about trust gently?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"trust",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "patience",
|
|
"text": "Patience"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "specific_words",
|
|
"text": "Specific words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "care_after",
|
|
"text": "Care after"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_178",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us talk about boundaries gently?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_need",
|
|
"text": "Clear need"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "love_first",
|
|
"text": "Love first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_threats",
|
|
"text": "No threats"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "revisit_later",
|
|
"text": "Revisit later"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_179",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us talk about expectations gently?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"expectations",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_the_hope",
|
|
"text": "Name the hope"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_first",
|
|
"text": "Ask first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_it_real",
|
|
"text": "Keep it real"
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},
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{
|
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"id": "no_mind_reading",
|
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"text": "No mind-reading"
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}
|
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]
|
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}
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "difficult_conversations_180",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
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"type": "single_choice",
|
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"text": "What helps us talk about future plans gently?",
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"depth": 4,
|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
|
"future",
|
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"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
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"options": [
|
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{
|
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"id": "dream_first",
|
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"text": "Dream first"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "no_pressure",
|
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"text": "No pressure"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "small_step",
|
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"text": "Small step"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "shared_why",
|
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"text": "Shared why"
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}
|
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]
|
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}
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "difficult_conversations_181",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
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"type": "single_choice",
|
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"text": "What makes a hard conversation feel more like a team huddle?",
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"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "same_side_language",
|
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"text": "Same side language"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "snacks",
|
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"text": "Snacks"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "one_goal",
|
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"text": "One goal"
|
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "a_tiny_plan",
|
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"text": "A tiny plan"
|
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}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_182",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a hard conversation feel too much like a meeting?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"therapy_risk",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "too_many_rules",
|
|
"text": "Too many rules"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "long_speeches",
|
|
"text": "Long speeches"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_warmth",
|
|
"text": "No warmth"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_humor",
|
|
"text": "No humor"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_183",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us keep warmth in the room?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"warmth",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "soft_tone",
|
|
"text": "Soft tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "eye_contact",
|
|
"text": "Eye contact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "little_touch",
|
|
"text": "Little touch"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_184",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us make space for both sides?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"fairness",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_turns",
|
|
"text": "Take turns"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repeat_back",
|
|
"text": "Repeat back"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_questions",
|
|
"text": "Ask questions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_interrupting",
|
|
"text": "No interrupting"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_185",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us say the brave thing?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"courage",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "privacy",
|
|
"text": "Privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "kind_start",
|
|
"text": "Kind start"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "slow_pace",
|
|
"text": "Slow pace"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trust",
|
|
"text": "Trust"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_186",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us hear the brave thing?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stay_soft",
|
|
"text": "Stay soft"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "thank_them",
|
|
"text": "Thank them"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_gently",
|
|
"text": "Ask gently"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause_before_reacting",
|
|
"text": "Pause before reacting"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_187",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What kind of follow-up helps after a hard talk?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"follow_up",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sweet_text",
|
|
"text": "Sweet text"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tiny_action",
|
|
"text": "Tiny action"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "another_check_in",
|
|
"text": "Another check-in"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "thank_you",
|
|
"text": "Thank you"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_188",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us put the hard talk down before bedtime?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"ending",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_stopping_point",
|
|
"text": "Clear stopping point"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cozy_reset",
|
|
"text": "Cozy reset"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plan_tomorrow",
|
|
"text": "Plan tomorrow"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_189",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us celebrate progress after a hard talk?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"celebration",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "say_thank_you",
|
|
"text": "Say thank you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "notice_growth",
|
|
"text": "Notice growth"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "small_treat",
|
|
"text": "Small treat"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "relax_together",
|
|
"text": "Relax together"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_190",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would make hard talks easier next month?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"monthly",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "better_timing",
|
|
"text": "Better timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "softer_starts",
|
|
"text": "Softer starts"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_pauses",
|
|
"text": "More pauses"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_warmth",
|
|
"text": "More warmth"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_191",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps hard conversations feel safer?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "good_timing",
|
|
"text": "Good timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "soft_tone",
|
|
"text": "Soft tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_blame",
|
|
"text": "No blame"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "breaks_allowed",
|
|
"text": "Breaks allowed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "care_after",
|
|
"text": "Care after"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_192",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us keep warmth during a serious talk?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"warmth",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "eye_contact",
|
|
"text": "Eye contact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "kind_words",
|
|
"text": "Kind words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle_humor",
|
|
"text": "Gentle humor"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "small_touch",
|
|
"text": "Small touch"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_193",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a hard talk easier to start?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"beginning",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "privacy",
|
|
"text": "Privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_topic",
|
|
"text": "One topic"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "soft_start",
|
|
"text": "Soft start"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_reason",
|
|
"text": "Clear reason"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "love_first",
|
|
"text": "Love first"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_194",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us repair if the talk gets tense?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause",
|
|
"text": "Pause"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "try_again",
|
|
"text": "Try again"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "apologize_quickly",
|
|
"text": "Apologize quickly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "use_softer_words",
|
|
"text": "Use softer words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_the_goal",
|
|
"text": "Name the goal"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_195",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes difficult conversations feel more Closer-style?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "small_rituals",
|
|
"text": "Small rituals"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle_wording",
|
|
"text": "Gentle wording"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "team_language",
|
|
"text": "Team language"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tiny_signals",
|
|
"text": "Tiny signals"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "warm_ending",
|
|
"text": "Warm ending"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_196",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What topics need extra gentleness?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"topics",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "money",
|
|
"text": "Money"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "family",
|
|
"text": "Family"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trust",
|
|
"text": "Trust"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "intimacy",
|
|
"text": "Intimacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "future_plans",
|
|
"text": "Future plans"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_197",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps when emotional armor shows up?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"defensiveness",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "slow_down",
|
|
"text": "Slow down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "own_one_part",
|
|
"text": "Own one part"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_a_question",
|
|
"text": "Ask a question"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "use_we",
|
|
"text": "Use we"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_a_breath",
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"text": "Take a breath"
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}
|
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],
|
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
|
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}
|
|
},
|
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{
|
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"id": "difficult_conversations_198",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "What helps when quiet mode takes over?",
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"depth": 4,
|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
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"shutdown",
|
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"difficult_conversations",
|
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"closer_style",
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"fun_first",
|
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"warm"
|
|
],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"options": [
|
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{
|
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"id": "gentle_check_in",
|
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"text": "Gentle check-in"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "space",
|
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"text": "Space"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "return_time",
|
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"text": "Return time"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "no_pressure",
|
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"text": "No pressure"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "difficult_conversations_199",
|
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps when emotions get louder than the words?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"emotions",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause",
|
|
"text": "Pause"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_the_feeling",
|
|
"text": "Name the feeling"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "lower_tone",
|
|
"text": "Lower tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "use_short_sentences",
|
|
"text": "Use short sentences"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comfort_first",
|
|
"text": "Comfort first"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_200",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us keep the hard-talk tabs from multiplying?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"focus",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "write_extras_down",
|
|
"text": "Write extras down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pick_one",
|
|
"text": "Pick one"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_turns",
|
|
"text": "Take turns"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "set_a_timer",
|
|
"text": "Set a timer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "return_later",
|
|
"text": "Return later"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_201",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us talk about hurt feelings?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hurt",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "soft_start",
|
|
"text": "Soft start"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_labels",
|
|
"text": "No labels"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_the_moment",
|
|
"text": "Name the moment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_for_care",
|
|
"text": "Ask for care"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "listen_back",
|
|
"text": "Listen back"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_202",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us talk about expectations?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"expectations",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_the_hope",
|
|
"text": "Name the hope"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "say_what_changed",
|
|
"text": "Say what changed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_clearly",
|
|
"text": "Ask clearly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_guessing",
|
|
"text": "No guessing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "make_one_agreement",
|
|
"text": "Make one agreement"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_203",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us talk about boundaries?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "love_first",
|
|
"text": "Love first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_words",
|
|
"text": "Clear words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respect",
|
|
"text": "Respect"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_threats",
|
|
"text": "No threats"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "revisit_later",
|
|
"text": "Revisit later"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_204",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us talk about trust?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"trust",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "patience",
|
|
"text": "Patience"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "specific_words",
|
|
"text": "Specific words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_interrogation",
|
|
"text": "No interrogation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "care_after",
|
|
"text": "Care after"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_205",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us talk about intimacy?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"intimacy",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "privacy",
|
|
"text": "Privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_pressure",
|
|
"text": "No pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle_words",
|
|
"text": "Gentle words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "easy_pause",
|
|
"text": "Easy pause"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_206",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us talk about money?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"money",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_shame",
|
|
"text": "No shame"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "facts_first",
|
|
"text": "Facts first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "shared_goal",
|
|
"text": "Shared goal"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "short_talk",
|
|
"text": "Short talk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tiny_next_step",
|
|
"text": "Tiny next step"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_207",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us talk about family pressure?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"family",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choose_us",
|
|
"text": "Choose us"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "private_first",
|
|
"text": "Private first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "shared_boundary",
|
|
"text": "Shared boundary"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_blame",
|
|
"text": "No blame"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "kind_script",
|
|
"text": "Kind script"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_208",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us leave the talk lighter than we entered it?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"ending",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "warm_words",
|
|
"text": "Warm words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_next_step",
|
|
"text": "Clear next step"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cozy_reset",
|
|
"text": "Cozy reset"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "thank_you",
|
|
"text": "Thank you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause_the_topic",
|
|
"text": "Pause the topic"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_209",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps after a hard talk?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"aftercare",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sweet_text",
|
|
"text": "Sweet text"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle_hug",
|
|
"text": "Gentle hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet_time",
|
|
"text": "Quiet time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "small_action",
|
|
"text": "Small action"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "check_back_later",
|
|
"text": "Check back later"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_210",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What playful tools could help hard talks feel lighter?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"tools",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "code_word",
|
|
"text": "Code word"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "snack_rule",
|
|
"text": "Snack rule"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hand_squeeze",
|
|
"text": "Hand squeeze"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "try_again_phrase",
|
|
"text": "Try-again phrase"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tiny_timer",
|
|
"text": "Tiny timer"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_211",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How safe do hard conversations feel between us?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not safe",
|
|
"max_label": "Very safe"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_212",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How easy is it to start a serious talk?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"beginning",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Hard",
|
|
"max_label": "Easy"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_213",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How well do we keep warmth in hard talks?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"warmth",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Needs work",
|
|
"max_label": "Very well"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_214",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How helpful would a playful slow-down signal be?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"signals",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not helpful",
|
|
"max_label": "Very helpful"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_215",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How well do we come back after a pause?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Needs work",
|
|
"max_label": "Very well"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_216",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How kind does our tone stay during hard talks?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"tone",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not kind",
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"max_label": "Very kind"
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}
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},
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{
|
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"id": "difficult_conversations_217",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "scale",
|
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"text": "How hopeful do you feel about making hard talks easier?",
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"depth": 2,
|
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"access": "free",
|
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"tags": [
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"hope",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
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"min": 1,
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"max": 5,
|
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"min_label": "Not hopeful",
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"max_label": "Very hopeful"
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "difficult_conversations_218",
|
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
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"type": "scale",
|
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"text": "How easy does it feel to say, 'That stung,' without it becoming a huge thing?",
|
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"depth": 5,
|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"hurt",
|
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"difficult_conversations",
|
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"closer_style",
|
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"fun_first",
|
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"warm"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"min": 1,
|
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"max": 5,
|
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"min_label": "Not safe",
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"max_label": "Very safe"
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "difficult_conversations_219",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
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"type": "scale",
|
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"text": "How safe does it feel to talk about money?",
|
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"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
|
"money",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
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"min": 1,
|
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"max": 5,
|
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"min_label": "Not safe",
|
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"max_label": "Very safe"
|
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}
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_220",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How safe does it feel to talk about family pressure?",
|
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"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"family",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not safe",
|
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"max_label": "Very safe"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_221",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How safe does it feel to talk about intimacy?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"intimacy",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not safe",
|
|
"max_label": "Very safe"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_222",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How safe does it feel to talk about trust?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"trust",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not safe",
|
|
"max_label": "Very safe"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_223",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How well do we keep one topic from turning into a group project?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"focus",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Needs work",
|
|
"max_label": "Very well"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_224",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much does timing affect hard talks?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"timing",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not much",
|
|
"max_label": "A lot"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_225",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much does tone affect hard talks?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"tone",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not much",
|
|
"max_label": "A lot"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_226",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How comfortable are you asking for a pause?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
|
|
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_227",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How well do we repair if a hard talk goes sideways?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Needs work",
|
|
"max_label": "Very well"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_228",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much do hard talks bring us closer afterward?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not much",
|
|
"max_label": "A lot"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_229",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How easy is it to say the brave thing?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"courage",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Hard",
|
|
"max_label": "Easy"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_230",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How easy is it to hear the brave thing?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Hard",
|
|
"max_label": "Easy"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_231",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How well do we end hard talks warmly?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"ending",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Needs work",
|
|
"max_label": "Very well"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_232",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much do we need a tiny ritual before hard talks?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"rituals",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not much",
|
|
"max_label": "A lot"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_233",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much do we need a cozy reset after hard talks?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"aftercare",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not much",
|
|
"max_label": "A lot"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_234",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How often do guesses sneak into hard talks?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"assumptions",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not much",
|
|
"max_label": "A lot"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_235",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How possible does it feel to make serious talks feel more like us?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"identity",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not possible",
|
|
"max_label": "Very possible"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_236",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Soft start or tiny ritual?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"beginning",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "soft_start",
|
|
"text": "Soft start"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tiny_ritual",
|
|
"text": "Tiny ritual"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_237",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Talk now or schedule it?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"timing",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talk_now",
|
|
"text": "Talk now"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "schedule_it",
|
|
"text": "Schedule it"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_238",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Pause gently or try again softer?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"restart",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause_gently",
|
|
"text": "Pause gently"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "try_again",
|
|
"text": "Try again softer"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_239",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Love first or facts first?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"soft_start",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "love_first",
|
|
"text": "Love first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "facts_first",
|
|
"text": "Facts first"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_240",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Short talk or deep talk?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"depth",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "short_talk",
|
|
"text": "Short talk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "deep_talk",
|
|
"text": "Deep talk"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_241",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Comfort first or clarity first?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"support",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comfort_first",
|
|
"text": "Comfort first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clarity_first",
|
|
"text": "Clarity first"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_242",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Hold hands or take space?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hold_hands",
|
|
"text": "Hold hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_space",
|
|
"text": "Take space"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_243",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Say it out loud or write it first?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "say_it",
|
|
"text": "Say it out loud"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "write_first",
|
|
"text": "Write it first"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_244",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "One topic or one timer?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"focus",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_topic",
|
|
"text": "One topic"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_timer",
|
|
"text": "One timer"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_245",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Gentle question or clear request?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"needs",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle_question",
|
|
"text": "Gentle question"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_request",
|
|
"text": "Clear request"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_246",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "this_or_that",
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"text": "Pause with a code word or pause with a hand squeeze?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"signals",
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"fun_first",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "code_word",
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"text": "Code word"
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},
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{
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"id": "hand_squeeze",
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"text": "Hand squeeze"
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}
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]
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "difficult_conversations_247",
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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"type": "this_or_that",
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"text": "Repair with words or repair with action?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"repair",
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"difficult_conversations"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "words",
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"text": "Words"
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},
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{
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"id": "action",
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"text": "Action"
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}
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]
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}
|
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},
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{
|
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"id": "difficult_conversations_248",
|
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"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
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"type": "this_or_that",
|
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"text": "End with reassurance or end with a plan?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"ending",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plan",
|
|
"text": "A plan"
|
|
}
|
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]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_249",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Name the feeling or find the fix?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"feelings",
|
|
"difficult_conversations",
|
|
"closer_style",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"warm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling",
|
|
"text": "The feeling"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "fix",
|
|
"text": "The fix"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "difficult_conversations_250",
|
|
"category_id": "difficult_conversations",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Cozy reset or quick follow-up?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"aftercare",
|
|
"difficult_conversations"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cozy_reset",
|
|
"text": "Cozy reset"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quick_follow_up",
|
|
"text": "Quick follow-up"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
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