Closer/seed/questions/trust.json

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"id": "trust",
"display_name": "Trust",
"description": "Questions about reliability, honesty, emotional safety, boundaries, loyalty, and rebuilding security together.",
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"text": "What is one small action from me that helps you trust me more?",
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"text": "What does trust look like in our everyday routine?",
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"text": "What helps you believe that I am on your side?",
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"id": "trust_007",
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"text": "What makes you feel unsure about where you stand with me?",
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"text": "What is one thing I do that makes me feel dependable to you?",
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"id": "trust_009",
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"text": "What is one thing I could do more consistently?",
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"id": "trust_010",
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"text": "What does honesty feel like when it is handled well?",
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"text": "What does honesty feel like when it is handled poorly?",
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"id": "trust_012",
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"text": "What topic do you want us to be more transparent about?",
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"id": "trust_013",
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"text": "What is one way I can make hard truths easier to share?",
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"id": "trust_014",
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"text": "What is one way you can make hard truths easier for me to share?",
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"text": "What makes you feel protected in this relationship?",
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"id": "trust_016",
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"text": "What makes you feel exposed or unprotected?",
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"id": "trust_017",
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"text": "What is one boundary that helps you trust me more?",
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"id": "trust_018",
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"text": "What is one boundary you wish we talked about more clearly?",
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"id": "trust_019",
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"text": "What is one area where you need more reassurance from me?",
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"id": "trust_020",
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"text": "What is one area where you think I need more reassurance from you?",
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{
"id": "trust_021",
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"text": "What is one behavior that helps you relax around me?",
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"id": "trust_022",
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"text": "What is one behavior that makes you tense around me?",
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{
"id": "trust_023",
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"text": "What is one thing I do that shows loyalty to you?",
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"id": "trust_024",
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"text": "What does loyalty mean to you in small daily moments?",
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"id": "trust_025",
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"text": "What does loyalty mean to you when we are around other people?",
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"id": "trust_026",
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"text": "What does loyalty mean to you online?",
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{
"id": "trust_027",
"category_id": "trust",
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"text": "What is one social media boundary that would help us feel secure?",
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{
"id": "trust_028",
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"text": "What is one phone or privacy boundary that feels healthy to you?",
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"id": "trust_029",
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"text": "What is one kind of privacy you need in a relationship?",
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"id": "trust_030",
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"text": "What is one kind of transparency you need in a relationship?",
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"id": "trust_031",
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"text": "What do you need from me when you feel jealous?",
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"id": "trust_032",
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"text": "What do you need from me when I feel jealous?",
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"id": "trust_033",
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"text": "What is one fear that makes trust harder for you?",
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"trust"
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"id": "trust_034",
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"text": "What is one past experience that shaped how you trust people?",
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"id": "trust_035",
"category_id": "trust",
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"text": "What is one thing from your past you want me to understand gently?",
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{
"id": "trust_036",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "When do you feel like I take your feelings seriously?",
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"trust"
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{
"id": "trust_037",
"category_id": "trust",
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"text": "When do you feel like I dismiss your concerns?",
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"trust"
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{
"id": "trust_038",
"category_id": "trust",
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"text": "What is one concern you want me to respond to with more care?",
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"trust"
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"id": "trust_039",
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"text": "What makes an apology feel trustworthy to you?",
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"id": "trust_040",
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"text": "What makes an apology feel empty to you?",
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"id": "trust_041",
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"text": "What does accountability look like from me?",
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"trust"
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"id": "trust_042",
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"text": "What does accountability look like from you?",
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"trust"
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"id": "trust_043",
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"text": "What is one mistake we repaired well?",
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{
"id": "trust_044",
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"text": "What helped us repair that mistake?",
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{
"id": "trust_045",
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"text": "What is one mistake we have not fully repaired?",
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"id": "trust_046",
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"text": "What would help us repair it without reopening the wound?",
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"repair"
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{
"id": "trust_047",
"category_id": "trust",
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"text": "What does rebuilding trust mean to you?",
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"trust",
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"id": "trust_048",
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"text": "What is one small step that would rebuild trust this week?",
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{
"id": "trust_049",
"category_id": "trust",
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"text": "What is one small step you can take to build my trust this week?",
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"id": "trust_050",
"category_id": "trust",
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"text": "What is one thing I should never hide from you?",
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"honesty"
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"id": "trust_051",
"category_id": "trust",
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"text": "What is one thing you should never hide from me?",
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"honesty"
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"id": "trust_052",
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"text": "What is one expectation we should make clearer?",
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"expectations"
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{
"id": "trust_053",
"category_id": "trust",
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"text": "What is one unspoken rule that might be hurting trust?",
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"trust",
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"id": "trust_054",
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"text": "What is one agreement we should put into words?",
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{
"id": "trust_055",
"category_id": "trust",
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"text": "What agreement do you think we both understand but rarely say?",
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{
"id": "trust_056",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you believe my intentions are good?",
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"intentions"
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"id": "trust_057",
"category_id": "trust",
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"text": "What makes you question my intentions?",
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"intentions"
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{
"id": "trust_058",
"category_id": "trust",
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"text": "What helps you believe I am telling the full truth?",
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"honesty"
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"id": "trust_059",
"category_id": "trust",
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"text": "What makes you wonder if I am holding something back?",
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"trust"
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"id": "trust_060",
"category_id": "trust",
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"text": "What is one thing I can explain better so you do not have to guess?",
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"text": "What is one thing you can explain better so I do not have to guess?",
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"id": "trust_062",
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"text": "What kind of consistency matters most to you?",
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"reliability"
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"id": "trust_063",
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"text": "What kind of consistency do you think matters most to me?",
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"reliability"
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"id": "trust_064",
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"text": "What is one place where we need more follow-through?",
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"reliability"
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"id": "trust_065",
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"text": "What is one place where we already have good follow-through?",
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"id": "trust_066",
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"text": "What helps you feel secure when plans change?",
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"security"
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"text": "What is one way you have earned my trust over time?",
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"text": "What helps you trust that I will not leave when things are hard?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_length": 1,
"max_length": 1000,
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
}
},
{
"id": "trust_134",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you trust that I will not punish you for honesty?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"trust",
"honesty"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_length": 1,
"max_length": 1000,
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
}
},
{
"id": "trust_135",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you trust that I will not use your vulnerability against you?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"trust",
"emotional_safety"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_length": 1,
"max_length": 1000,
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
}
},
{
"id": "trust_136",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one way we can protect each other's dignity during conflict?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_length": 1,
"max_length": 1000,
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
}
},
{
"id": "trust_137",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one way we can protect each other's secrets responsibly?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"privacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_length": 1,
"max_length": 1000,
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
}
},
{
"id": "trust_138",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one confidence you want me to handle carefully?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_length": 1,
"max_length": 1000,
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
}
},
{
"id": "trust_139",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "What does it mean to be a safe person for you?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"emotional_safety"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_length": 1,
"max_length": 1000,
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
}
},
{
"id": "trust_140",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "What does it mean to be a reliable partner for you?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reliability"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_length": 1,
"max_length": 1000,
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
}
},
{
"id": "trust_141",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "What does it mean to be emotionally available for you?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_length": 1,
"max_length": 1000,
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
}
},
{
"id": "trust_142",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "What does it mean to be loyal when no one is watching?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"loyalty"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_length": 1,
"max_length": 1000,
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
}
},
{
"id": "trust_143",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "What does it mean to be trustworthy with small things?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_length": 1,
"max_length": 1000,
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
}
},
{
"id": "trust_144",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "What small thing could we both do daily to build trust?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_length": 1,
"max_length": 1000,
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
}
},
{
"id": "trust_145",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one trust lesson you learned the hard way?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_length": 1,
"max_length": 1000,
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
}
},
{
"id": "trust_146",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one trust lesson you want our relationship to practice?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_length": 1,
"max_length": 1000,
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
}
},
{
"id": "trust_147",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one assumption about trust that you want to unlearn?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_length": 1,
"max_length": 1000,
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
}
},
{
"id": "trust_148",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one belief about trust that you want us to build together?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_length": 1,
"max_length": 1000,
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
}
},
{
"id": "trust_149",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would make our relationship feel more secure six months from now?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"security"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_length": 1,
"max_length": 1000,
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
}
},
{
"id": "trust_150",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would make our relationship feel more honest one year from now?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"honesty"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_length": 1,
"max_length": 1000,
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
}
},
{
"id": "trust_151",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps you feel trust most quickly after a misunderstanding?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"repair",
"safety"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_calm_explanation",
"text": "A calm explanation"
},
{
"id": "a_sincere_apology",
"text": "A sincere apology"
},
{
"id": "changed_behavior",
"text": "Changed behavior"
},
{
"id": "time_to_process",
"text": "Time to process"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_152",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When you feel unsure, what usually helps first?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reassurance",
"uncertainty"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
},
{
"id": "clarity",
"text": "Clarity"
},
{
"id": "space",
"text": "Space"
},
{
"id": "a_plan",
"text": "A plan"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_153",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which kind of consistency matters most to you?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consistency",
"reliability"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "words_matching_actions",
"text": "Words matching actions"
},
{
"id": "being_on_time",
"text": "Being on time"
},
{
"id": "following_through",
"text": "Following through"
},
{
"id": "emotional_steadiness",
"text": "Emotional steadiness"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_154",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes honesty easiest for you?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"honesty",
"safety"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "gentle_timing",
"text": "Gentle timing"
},
{
"id": "no_judgment",
"text": "No judgment"
},
{
"id": "clear_questions",
"text": "Clear questions"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_155",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes trust feel most damaged?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"trust_damage",
"honesty"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "lying",
"text": "Lying"
},
{
"id": "hiding_details",
"text": "Hiding details"
},
{
"id": "broken_promises",
"text": "Broken promises"
},
{
"id": "dismissed_feelings",
"text": "Dismissed feelings"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_156",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "How do you usually react when trust feels shaky?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"trust_repair",
"patterns"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_questions",
"text": "Ask questions"
},
{
"id": "pull_back",
"text": "Pull back"
},
{
"id": "get_anxious",
"text": "Get anxious"
},
{
"id": "watch_actions",
"text": "Watch actions"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_157",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of apology helps you most?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"apology",
"repair"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "specific_apology",
"text": "Specific apology"
},
{
"id": "changed_behavior",
"text": "Changed behavior"
},
{
"id": "emotional_validation",
"text": "Emotional validation"
},
{
"id": "time_and_patience",
"text": "Time and patience"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_158",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of reassurance feels best?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reassurance",
"security"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "verbal_reassurance",
"text": "Verbal reassurance"
},
{
"id": "physical_comfort",
"text": "Physical comfort"
},
{
"id": "consistent_actions",
"text": "Consistent actions"
},
{
"id": "clear_plans",
"text": "Clear plans"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_159",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When plans change, what helps you stay trusting?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"plans",
"reliability"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "quick_update",
"text": "Quick update"
},
{
"id": "reason_why",
"text": "Reason why"
},
{
"id": "new_plan",
"text": "New plan"
},
{
"id": "tone_of_care",
"text": "Tone of care"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_160",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which area needs the clearest boundaries?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"boundaries",
"privacy"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "phones",
"text": "Phones"
},
{
"id": "friends",
"text": "Friends"
},
{
"id": "family",
"text": "Family"
},
{
"id": "money",
"text": "Money"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_161",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which area needs the most transparency?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"transparency",
"expectations"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "schedule",
"text": "Schedule"
},
{
"id": "money",
"text": "Money"
},
{
"id": "emotions",
"text": "Emotions"
},
{
"id": "social_plans",
"text": "Social plans"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_162",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps you trust me with your feelings?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"emotional_safety",
"vulnerability"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "listening",
"text": "Listening"
},
{
"id": "no_fixing",
"text": "No fixing"
},
{
"id": "no_judgment",
"text": "No judgment"
},
{
"id": "remembering_later",
"text": "Remembering later"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_163",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes vulnerability feel safer?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"vulnerability",
"safety"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "patience",
"text": "Patience"
},
{
"id": "warm_tone",
"text": "Warm tone"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_164",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes you feel chosen?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"loyalty",
"connection"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "quality_time",
"text": "Quality time"
},
{
"id": "public_respect",
"text": "Public respect"
},
{
"id": "private_affection",
"text": "Private affection"
},
{
"id": "follow_through",
"text": "Follow-through"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_165",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes you feel less secure?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"security",
"concern"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "distance",
"text": "Distance"
},
{
"id": "vague_answers",
"text": "Vague answers"
},
{
"id": "broken_plans",
"text": "Broken plans"
},
{
"id": "lack_of_affection",
"text": "Lack of affection"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_166",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What do you want after conflict?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conflict",
"repair"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "space_first",
"text": "Space first"
},
{
"id": "comfort_first",
"text": "Comfort first"
},
{
"id": "talk_it_through",
"text": "Talk it through"
},
{
"id": "simple_repair",
"text": "Simple repair"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_167",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which behavior builds trust fastest?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reliability",
"accountability"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "keeping_promises",
"text": "Keeping promises"
},
{
"id": "admitting_mistakes",
"text": "Admitting mistakes"
},
{
"id": "checking_in",
"text": "Checking in"
},
{
"id": "being_patient",
"text": "Being patient"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_168",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which behavior damages trust fastest?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"trust_damage",
"patterns"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "dismissing_feelings",
"text": "Dismissing feelings"
},
{
"id": "hiding_information",
"text": "Hiding information"
},
{
"id": "defensiveness",
"text": "Defensiveness"
},
{
"id": "inconsistency",
"text": "Inconsistency"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_169",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What do you need when jealousy appears?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"jealousy",
"security"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
},
{
"id": "honesty",
"text": "Honesty"
},
{
"id": "affection",
"text": "Affection"
},
{
"id": "calm_conversation",
"text": "Calm conversation"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_170",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is healthiest for phone privacy?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"digital_boundaries",
"privacy"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "shared_access_by_choice",
"text": "Shared access by choice"
},
{
"id": "clear_boundaries",
"text": "Clear boundaries"
},
{
"id": "no_access",
"text": "No access"
},
{
"id": "case_by_case",
"text": "Case by case"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_171",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes an answer feel complete?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"honesty",
"clarity"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "details",
"text": "Details"
},
{
"id": "tone",
"text": "Tone"
},
{
"id": "consistency",
"text": "Consistency"
},
{
"id": "willingness_to_explain",
"text": "Willingness to explain"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_172",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps you believe changed behavior is real?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"repair",
"accountability"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "time",
"text": "Time"
},
{
"id": "repeated_actions",
"text": "Repeated actions"
},
{
"id": "ownership",
"text": "Ownership"
},
{
"id": "less_defensiveness",
"text": "Less defensiveness"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_173",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should we do when one of us breaks trust in a small way?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"repair",
"small_moments"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "name_it_quickly",
"text": "Name it quickly"
},
{
"id": "apologize",
"text": "Apologize"
},
{
"id": "make_a_plan",
"text": "Make a plan"
},
{
"id": "pause_and_revisit",
"text": "Pause and revisit"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_174",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of loyalty matters most day to day?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"loyalty",
"daily_life"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "defending_each_other",
"text": "Defending each other"
},
{
"id": "being_honest",
"text": "Being honest"
},
{
"id": "keeping_confidences",
"text": "Keeping confidences"
},
{
"id": "choosing_us_first",
"text": "Choosing us first"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_175",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is hardest for you to trust?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"trust_style",
"security"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "words",
"text": "Words"
},
{
"id": "intentions",
"text": "Intentions"
},
{
"id": "consistency",
"text": "Consistency"
},
{
"id": "emotional_safety",
"text": "Emotional safety"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_176",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps you rebuild trust after disappointment?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"disappointment",
"repair"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "understanding_why",
"text": "Understanding why"
},
{
"id": "specific_change",
"text": "Specific change"
},
{
"id": "time",
"text": "Time"
},
{
"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_177",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What does dependability mostly mean to you?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"dependability",
"reliability"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "showing_up",
"text": "Showing up"
},
{
"id": "following_through",
"text": "Following through"
},
{
"id": "being_honest",
"text": "Being honest"
},
{
"id": "staying_calm",
"text": "Staying calm"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_178",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What do you need more of to feel secure?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"security",
"needs"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "clarity",
"text": "Clarity"
},
{
"id": "affection",
"text": "Affection"
},
{
"id": "consistency",
"text": "Consistency"
},
{
"id": "quality_time",
"text": "Quality time"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_179",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes you trust a difficult conversation?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"hard_topics",
"safety"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "calm_start",
"text": "Calm start"
},
{
"id": "no_blame",
"text": "No blame"
},
{
"id": "clear_goal",
"text": "Clear goal"
},
{
"id": "kind_ending",
"text": "Kind ending"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_180",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When I make a mistake, what should I do first?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"accountability",
"repair"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "own_it",
"text": "Own it"
},
{
"id": "apologize",
"text": "Apologize"
},
{
"id": "explain",
"text": "Explain"
},
{
"id": "ask_what_you_need",
"text": "Ask what you need"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_181",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which promise matters most?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"promises",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "tell_the_truth",
"text": "Tell the truth"
},
{
"id": "respect_boundaries",
"text": "Respect boundaries"
},
{
"id": "follow_through",
"text": "Follow through"
},
{
"id": "protect_privacy",
"text": "Protect privacy"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_182",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps you trust my intentions?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"intentions",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "my_tone",
"text": "My tone"
},
{
"id": "my_actions",
"text": "My actions"
},
{
"id": "my_explanation",
"text": "My explanation"
},
{
"id": "my_consistency",
"text": "My consistency"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_183",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes you doubt my intentions?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"doubt",
"intentions"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "defensiveness",
"text": "Defensiveness"
},
{
"id": "secrecy",
"text": "Secrecy"
},
{
"id": "timing",
"text": "Timing"
},
{
"id": "past_patterns",
"text": "Past patterns"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_184",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should trust feel like in our relationship?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"trust_vision",
"security"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "safe",
"text": "Safe"
},
{
"id": "steady",
"text": "Steady"
},
{
"id": "free",
"text": "Free"
},
{
"id": "honest",
"text": "Honest"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_185",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What do you value more during conflict?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conflict",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "full_honesty",
"text": "Full honesty"
},
{
"id": "gentle_delivery",
"text": "Gentle delivery"
},
{
"id": "accountability",
"text": "Accountability"
},
{
"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_186",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps you trust me when we are apart?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"apart",
"loyalty"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "communication",
"text": "Communication"
},
{
"id": "boundaries",
"text": "Boundaries"
},
{
"id": "consistency",
"text": "Consistency"
},
{
"id": "confidence_in_us",
"text": "Confidence in us"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_187",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should be our default when we are unsure?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"uncertainty",
"communication"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_directly",
"text": "Ask directly"
},
{
"id": "assume_good_intent",
"text": "Assume good intent"
},
{
"id": "pause_first",
"text": "Pause first"
},
{
"id": "clarify_later",
"text": "Clarify later"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_188",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes repair feel complete?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"repair",
"completion"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "apology",
"text": "Apology"
},
{
"id": "understanding",
"text": "Understanding"
},
{
"id": "changed_action",
"text": "Changed action"
},
{
"id": "time",
"text": "Time"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_189",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is your strongest trust need right now?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"needs",
"security"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "honesty",
"text": "Honesty"
},
{
"id": "consistency",
"text": "Consistency"
},
{
"id": "emotional_safety",
"text": "Emotional safety"
},
{
"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_190",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should we protect most to keep trust strong?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"protection",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "honesty",
"text": "Honesty"
},
{
"id": "respect",
"text": "Respect"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "follow_through",
"text": "Follow-through"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_191",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which actions help you feel safe with me? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"safety",
"actions"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "listening_without_interrupting",
"text": "Listening without interrupting"
},
{
"id": "keeping_promises",
"text": "Keeping promises"
},
{
"id": "checking_in",
"text": "Checking in"
},
{
"id": "respecting_boundaries",
"text": "Respecting boundaries"
},
{
"id": "staying_calm",
"text": "Staying calm"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "trust_192",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which things make trust harder for you? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"trust_barriers",
"patterns"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "inconsistency",
"text": "Inconsistency"
},
{
"id": "vague_answers",
"text": "Vague answers"
},
{
"id": "defensiveness",
"text": "Defensiveness"
},
{
"id": "broken_plans",
"text": "Broken plans"
},
{
"id": "dismissed_feelings",
"text": "Dismissed feelings"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "trust_193",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which forms of honesty matter most to you? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"honesty",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "emotional_honesty",
"text": "Emotional honesty"
},
{
"id": "practical_honesty",
"text": "Practical honesty"
},
{
"id": "financial_honesty",
"text": "Financial honesty"
},
{
"id": "social_honesty",
"text": "Social honesty"
},
{
"id": "honesty_about_needs",
"text": "Honesty about needs"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "trust_194",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which boundaries should couples discuss clearly? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"boundaries",
"clarity"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "phones",
"text": "Phones"
},
{
"id": "friends",
"text": "Friends"
},
{
"id": "family",
"text": "Family"
},
{
"id": "money",
"text": "Money"
},
{
"id": "private_time",
"text": "Private time"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "trust_195",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which things help repair trust after conflict? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"repair",
"conflict"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "apology",
"text": "Apology"
},
{
"id": "accountability",
"text": "Accountability"
},
{
"id": "changed_behavior",
"text": "Changed behavior"
},
{
"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
},
{
"id": "time",
"text": "Time"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "trust_196",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which behaviors feel loyal to you? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"loyalty",
"respect"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "defending_me_respectfully",
"text": "Defending me respectfully"
},
{
"id": "keeping_confidences",
"text": "Keeping confidences"
},
{
"id": "choosing_us_in_public",
"text": "Choosing us in public"
},
{
"id": "being_honest_when_apart",
"text": "Being honest when apart"
},
{
"id": "respecting_our_agreements",
"text": "Respecting our agreements"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "trust_197",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which areas need more trust-building right now? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"needs",
"growth"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "communication",
"text": "Communication"
},
{
"id": "follow_through",
"text": "Follow-through"
},
{
"id": "emotional_safety",
"text": "Emotional safety"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "conflict_repair",
"text": "Conflict repair"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "trust_198",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which things make vulnerability safer? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"vulnerability",
"safety"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "warm_tone",
"text": "Warm tone"
},
{
"id": "no_teasing",
"text": "No teasing"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "patience",
"text": "Patience"
},
{
"id": "gentle_questions",
"text": "Gentle questions"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "trust_199",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which actions help you trust changed behavior? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"accountability",
"change"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "repeated_follow_through",
"text": "Repeated follow-through"
},
{
"id": "clear_plan",
"text": "Clear plan"
},
{
"id": "ownership",
"text": "Ownership"
},
{
"id": "no_excuses",
"text": "No excuses"
},
{
"id": "patience_with_questions",
"text": "Patience with questions"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "trust_200",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which kinds of reassurance help most? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reassurance",
"security"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "words",
"text": "Words"
},
{
"id": "affection",
"text": "Affection"
},
{
"id": "consistency",
"text": "Consistency"
},
{
"id": "quality_time",
"text": "Quality time"
},
{
"id": "transparency",
"text": "Transparency"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "trust_201",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which privacy boundaries feel healthy? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"privacy",
"boundaries"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "private_journal",
"text": "Private journal"
},
{
"id": "private_conversations",
"text": "Private conversations"
},
{
"id": "personal_phone_space",
"text": "Personal phone space"
},
{
"id": "time_alone",
"text": "Time alone"
},
{
"id": "surprise_gifts_or_plans",
"text": "Surprise gifts or plans"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "trust_202",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which transparency habits feel healthy? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"transparency",
"habits"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "sharing_plans",
"text": "Sharing plans"
},
{
"id": "being_honest_about_emotions",
"text": "Being honest about emotions"
},
{
"id": "owning_mistakes",
"text": "Owning mistakes"
},
{
"id": "discussing_money",
"text": "Discussing money"
},
{
"id": "naming_concerns_early",
"text": "Naming concerns early"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "trust_203",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which conflict habits damage trust? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conflict",
"damage"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "name_calling",
"text": "Name-calling"
},
{
"id": "stonewalling",
"text": "Stonewalling"
},
{
"id": "threats_to_leave",
"text": "Threats to leave"
},
{
"id": "bringing_up_old_wounds",
"text": "Bringing up old wounds"
},
{
"id": "mocking_feelings",
"text": "Mocking feelings"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "trust_204",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which conflict habits protect trust? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conflict",
"repair"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "taking_breaks",
"text": "Taking breaks"
},
{
"id": "repair_attempts",
"text": "Repair attempts"
},
{
"id": "staying_respectful",
"text": "Staying respectful"
},
{
"id": "owning_impact",
"text": "Owning impact"
},
{
"id": "coming_back_to_finish",
"text": "Coming back to finish"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "trust_205",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which situations need more clarity between us? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"clarity",
"expectations"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "social_plans",
"text": "Social plans"
},
{
"id": "spending_money",
"text": "Spending money"
},
{
"id": "family_expectations",
"text": "Family expectations"
},
{
"id": "time_alone",
"text": "Time alone"
},
{
"id": "emotional_needs",
"text": "Emotional needs"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "trust_206",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which things make you feel chosen? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"chosen",
"loyalty"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "being_prioritized",
"text": "Being prioritized"
},
{
"id": "being_defended",
"text": "Being defended"
},
{
"id": "being_included",
"text": "Being included"
},
{
"id": "being_checked_on",
"text": "Being checked on"
},
{
"id": "being_remembered",
"text": "Being remembered"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "trust_207",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which things make you feel forgotten? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"security",
"concern"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "plans_changing_late",
"text": "Plans changing late"
},
{
"id": "lack_of_check_ins",
"text": "Lack of check-ins"
},
{
"id": "dismissed_details",
"text": "Dismissed details"
},
{
"id": "no_follow_through",
"text": "No follow-through"
},
{
"id": "emotional_distance",
"text": "Emotional distance"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "trust_208",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which trust agreements should we make explicit? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"agreements",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "honesty",
"text": "Honesty"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "boundaries_with_others",
"text": "Boundaries with others"
},
{
"id": "conflict_rules",
"text": "Conflict rules"
},
{
"id": "repair_after_mistakes",
"text": "Repair after mistakes"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "trust_209",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which topics should we handle with extra care? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"hard_topics",
"care"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "past_hurts",
"text": "Past hurts"
},
{
"id": "family",
"text": "Family"
},
{
"id": "money",
"text": "Money"
},
{
"id": "jealousy",
"text": "Jealousy"
},
{
"id": "future_plans",
"text": "Future plans"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "trust_210",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs show trust is growing? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"growth",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "more_openness",
"text": "More openness"
},
{
"id": "less_guessing",
"text": "Less guessing"
},
{
"id": "faster_repair",
"text": "Faster repair"
},
{
"id": "more_calm",
"text": "More calm"
},
{
"id": "more_vulnerability",
"text": "More vulnerability"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "trust_211",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do you trust my follow-through right now?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"follow_through",
"reliability"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "Completely",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_212",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How emotionally safe do you feel with me right now?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"emotional_safety",
"security"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not safe",
"max_label": "Very safe",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_213",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to be honest with me?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"honesty",
"openness"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Very hard",
"max_label": "Very easy",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_214",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do you feel I respect your boundaries?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"boundaries",
"respect"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not respected",
"max_label": "Fully respected",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_215",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do you feel I protect your privacy?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"privacy",
"respect"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not protected",
"max_label": "Fully protected",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_216",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How secure do you feel when we are apart?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"apart",
"security"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not secure",
"max_label": "Very secure",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_217",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we repair trust after conflict?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"repair",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Poorly",
"max_label": "Very well",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_218",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How dependable do I feel to you lately?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"dependability",
"consistency"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not dependable",
"max_label": "Very dependable",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_219",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How dependable do you feel you have been lately?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"self_reflection",
"consistency"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not dependable",
"max_label": "Very dependable",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_220",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do you feel chosen by me?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"loyalty",
"chosen"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not chosen",
"max_label": "Deeply chosen",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_221",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do you feel I believe you?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"belief",
"validation"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not believed",
"max_label": "Fully believed",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_222",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do you feel I trust you?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"mutual_trust",
"security"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not trusted",
"max_label": "Fully trusted",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_223",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable are you asking for reassurance?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reassurance",
"needs"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
"max_label": "Very comfortable",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_224",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable are you giving reassurance?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reassurance",
"support"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
"max_label": "Very comfortable",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_225",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How clear are our boundaries right now?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"boundaries",
"clarity"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not clear",
"max_label": "Very clear",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_226",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How clear are our expectations right now?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"expectations",
"clarity"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not clear",
"max_label": "Very clear",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_227",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do you trust us to handle hard conversations?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"hard_topics",
"confidence"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "Very much",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_228",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How safe does vulnerability feel in our relationship?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"vulnerability",
"safety"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not safe",
"max_label": "Very safe",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_229",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do you trust our loyalty to each other?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"loyalty",
"commitment"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "Very much",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_230",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do you trust our honesty about money?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"money",
"honesty"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "Very much",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_231",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do you trust our honesty about feelings?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"emotions",
"honesty"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "Very much",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_232",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we handle jealousy?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"jealousy",
"security"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Poorly",
"max_label": "Very well",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_233",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much trust did we build this week?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"weekly_check_in",
"growth"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "None",
"max_label": "A lot",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_234",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much trust needs attention this week?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"weekly_check_in",
"attention"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "None",
"max_label": "A lot",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_235",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How hopeful do you feel about our ability to keep building trust?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"hope",
"growth"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not hopeful",
"max_label": "Very hopeful",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "trust_236",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Full transparency or clear privacy boundaries?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"privacy",
"transparency"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "full_transparency",
"text": "Full transparency"
},
{
"id": "clear_privacy_boundaries",
"text": "Clear privacy boundaries"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_237",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Reassurance right away or space first?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reassurance",
"space"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "reassurance_right_away",
"text": "Reassurance right away"
},
{
"id": "space_first",
"text": "Space first"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_238",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Talk about trust directly or build it through actions?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"trust_style",
"actions"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "talk_directly",
"text": "Talk directly"
},
{
"id": "build_through_actions",
"text": "Build through actions"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_239",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Apology first or explanation first?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"apology",
"repair"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "apology_first",
"text": "Apology first"
},
{
"id": "explanation_first",
"text": "Explanation first"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_240",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Ask questions or watch behavior over time?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"trust_repair",
"patterns"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_questions",
"text": "Ask questions"
},
{
"id": "watch_behavior",
"text": "Watch behavior over time"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_241",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Share passwords or keep phone privacy?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"digital_boundaries",
"privacy"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "share_passwords",
"text": "Share passwords"
},
{
"id": "keep_phone_privacy",
"text": "Keep phone privacy"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_242",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Assume good intent or clarify first?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"intentions",
"clarity"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "assume_good_intent",
"text": "Assume good intent"
},
{
"id": "clarify_first",
"text": "Clarify first"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_243",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Repair quickly or repair slowly and carefully?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"repair",
"timing"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "repair_quickly",
"text": "Repair quickly"
},
{
"id": "repair_carefully",
"text": "Repair slowly and carefully"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_244",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "More honesty or more gentleness?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"honesty",
"care"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "more_honesty",
"text": "More honesty"
},
{
"id": "more_gentleness",
"text": "More gentleness"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_245",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Private reassurance or public loyalty?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"loyalty",
"reassurance"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "private_reassurance",
"text": "Private reassurance"
},
{
"id": "public_loyalty",
"text": "Public loyalty"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_246",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Clear rules or flexible trust?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"boundaries",
"trust_style"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "clear_rules",
"text": "Clear rules"
},
{
"id": "flexible_trust",
"text": "Flexible trust"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_247",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Talk when hurt or wait until calm?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conflict",
"timing"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "talk_when_hurt",
"text": "Talk when hurt"
},
{
"id": "wait_until_calm",
"text": "Wait until calm"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_248",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Know every detail or know the important truth?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"honesty",
"details"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "every_detail",
"text": "Know every detail"
},
{
"id": "important_truth",
"text": "Know the important truth"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_249",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Trust slowly or trust openly?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"trust_style",
"vulnerability"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "trust_slowly",
"text": "Trust slowly"
},
{
"id": "trust_openly",
"text": "Trust openly"
}
]
},
{
"id": "trust_250",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Protect peace or address the concern now?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"concern",
"repair"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "protect_peace",
"text": "Protect peace"
},
{
"id": "address_now",
"text": "Address the concern now"
}
]
}
]
}