5343 lines
121 KiB
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5343 lines
121 KiB
JSON
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"category": {
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"id": "conflict",
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"display_name": "Conflict",
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"description": "Questions about disagreements, repair, triggers, boundaries, emotional regulation, and handling tension with care.",
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{
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"id": "conflict_001",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one small conflict habit we handle better now than before?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"growth",
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{
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"id": "conflict_002",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps you stay calm when we disagree?",
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"depth": 1,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"calm",
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"self_regulation"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_003",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one thing I do during conflict that helps you feel respected?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"respect",
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"conflict"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_004",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one thing I do during conflict that makes you feel dismissed?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"dismissal",
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"conflict"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_005",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What should we do when a small disagreement starts getting bigger?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"escalation",
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"pause"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_006",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one topic where we usually need extra patience?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"patience",
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"topics"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_007",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one topic where we should slow down before responding?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"timing",
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"pause"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_008",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one phrase that helps you feel less attacked during disagreement?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"language",
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"safety"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_009",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one phrase that makes you feel blamed?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"blame",
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"language"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_010",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "How can I bring up a concern without making you feel cornered?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"soft_start",
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"concern"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_011",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "How can you bring up a concern in a way I am more likely to hear?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"soft_start",
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"listening"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_012",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What does a fair argument look like to you?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"fairness",
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"conflict_rules"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_013",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What does an unfair argument look like to you?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"fairness",
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"conflict_rules"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_014",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one boundary we should have during heated talks?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"boundaries",
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"heated_talks"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_015",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one sign that you need a pause during conflict?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"pause",
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"signals"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_016",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one sign that I need a pause during conflict?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"pause",
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"signals"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_017",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "How should we restart a conversation after taking a break?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"repair",
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"pause"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_018",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps you believe that I am trying to understand, not win?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"understanding",
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"teamwork"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_019",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What makes it feel like I am trying to win instead of understand?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"winning",
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"defensiveness"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_020",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one thing we should never say just to hurt each other?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"harm",
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"boundaries"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_021",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What should we do when one of us feels flooded or overwhelmed?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"flooding",
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"self_soothing"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_022",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps you feel safe enough to admit you were wrong?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"accountability",
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"safety"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_023",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps you feel safe enough to hear that I was hurt?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"hurt",
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"safety"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_024",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one way we can disagree and still feel close afterward?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"closeness",
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"disagreement"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_025",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What does repair after conflict usually need from me?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"repair",
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"needs"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_026",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What does repair after conflict usually need from you?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"repair",
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"ownership"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_027",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one apology behavior that feels real to you?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"apology",
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"repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_028",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one apology behavior that feels empty to you?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"apology",
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"repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_029",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one thing we should apologize for faster?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"apology",
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"timing"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_030",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one thing we should stop apologizing for without changing?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"change",
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"accountability"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_031",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one conflict pattern you want us to notice sooner?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"patterns",
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"awareness"
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],
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},
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"id": "conflict_032",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one conflict pattern you think we are already improving?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"growth",
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"patterns"
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],
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"id": "conflict_033",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What tends to make you defensive with me?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"defensiveness",
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"triggers"
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],
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},
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"id": "conflict_034",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What tends to make me defensive with you?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"defensiveness",
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"reflection"
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],
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_035",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "How can I respond when you are defensive without escalating?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"defensiveness",
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"deescalation"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_036",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "How can you respond when I am defensive without escalating?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"defensiveness",
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"deescalation"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_037",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What kind of criticism hurts you most?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"criticism",
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"hurt"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_038",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What kind of feedback helps you grow without feeling attacked?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"feedback",
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"growth"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_039",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one complaint you wish I could hear as a need?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"needs",
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"complaints"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_040",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one complaint from me that may hide a deeper need?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"needs",
|
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"complaints"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_041",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps you avoid shutting down when things get tense?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"stonewalling",
|
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"tension"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_042",
|
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"category_id": "conflict",
|
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"type": "written",
|
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"text": "What helps me avoid shutting down when things get tense?",
|
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"depth": 4,
|
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"access": "free",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"stonewalling",
|
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"reflection"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_043",
|
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"category_id": "conflict",
|
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"type": "written",
|
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"text": "What does it feel like when I go quiet during conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"silence",
|
|
"impact"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"min_length": 1,
|
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"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "conflict_044",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What does it feel like when you go quiet during conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"silence",
|
|
"self_awareness"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
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"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_045",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help silence feel like a pause instead of punishment?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"silence",
|
|
"repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_046",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one thing we can do before a conflict becomes disrespectful?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"respect",
|
|
"deescalation"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_047",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one sign that our tone is becoming the real problem?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"tone",
|
|
"awareness"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_048",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What tone from me makes it hardest for you to stay open?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"tone",
|
|
"openness"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_049",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What tone from you do you want to be more careful with?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"tone",
|
|
"ownership"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_050",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one way we can lower the temperature in the room?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"deescalation",
|
|
"calm"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_051",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one issue we keep arguing about because we have not named the real problem?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"root_issue",
|
|
"patterns"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_052",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What do you think the real problem might be underneath that issue?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"root_issue",
|
|
"reflection"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_053",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one old argument we should finally retire?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"old_arguments",
|
|
"closure"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_054",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help us retire that argument respectfully?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"closure",
|
|
"repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_055",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one recurring conflict where we need a new agreement?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"agreements",
|
|
"recurring_conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_056",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would a better agreement look like?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"agreements",
|
|
"solutions"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_057",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one area where you feel I do not accept your influence enough?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"influence",
|
|
"respect"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_058",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one area where you want to accept my influence more?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"influence",
|
|
"growth"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_059",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one way we can make decisions without turning them into power struggles?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"decisions",
|
|
"power"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_060",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one power struggle we should stop feeding?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"power",
|
|
"patterns"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_061",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one thing we can do when we both think we are right?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"perspective",
|
|
"humility"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_062",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps you consider my perspective during conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"perspective",
|
|
"listening"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_063",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps me consider your perspective during conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"perspective",
|
|
"reflection"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_064",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one thing I misunderstand about your anger?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"anger",
|
|
"understanding"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_065",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one thing you misunderstand about my anger?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"anger",
|
|
"understanding"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_066",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one feeling underneath your anger that I should understand?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"anger",
|
|
"vulnerability"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_067",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one feeling underneath my anger that you think I should name more clearly?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"anger",
|
|
"vulnerability"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_068",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one way fear shows up in our conflicts?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"fear",
|
|
"conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_069",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one way hurt shows up in our conflicts?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hurt",
|
|
"conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_070",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one way stress shows up in our conflicts?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"stress",
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"conflict"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_071",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one way exhaustion changes how we argue?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"exhaustion",
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"timing"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_072",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What should we avoid discussing when we are hungry, tired, or rushed?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"timing",
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"stress"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_073",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one better time or setting for hard conversations?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"timing",
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"setting"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_074",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one rule we should make about conflict in public?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"public_conflict",
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"boundaries"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_075",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one rule we should make about conflict around family or friends?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"privacy",
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"boundaries"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_076",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
|
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"text": "What is one painful argument we need to understand instead of repeat?",
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"depth": 5,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"painful_arguments",
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"patterns"
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_077",
|
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"category_id": "conflict",
|
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"type": "written",
|
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"text": "What did that argument reveal about what you need from me?",
|
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"depth": 5,
|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"needs",
|
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"reflection"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_078",
|
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"category_id": "conflict",
|
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"type": "written",
|
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"text": "What did that argument reveal about what I may need from you?",
|
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"depth": 5,
|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"needs",
|
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"reflection"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
|
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"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_079",
|
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"category_id": "conflict",
|
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"type": "written",
|
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"text": "What is one thing I do that feels like criticism even if I mean it as a concern?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"criticism",
|
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"intent"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
|
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"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_080",
|
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"category_id": "conflict",
|
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"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one thing you do that might land as criticism even if you mean it as honesty?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"criticism",
|
|
"ownership"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"min_length": 1,
|
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"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_081",
|
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"category_id": "conflict",
|
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"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one way contempt can sneak into our tone or words?",
|
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"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"contempt",
|
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"awareness"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"min_length": 1,
|
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"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_082",
|
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"category_id": "conflict",
|
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"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps us replace contempt with respect in hard moments?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"contempt",
|
|
"respect"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
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"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_083",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one sarcastic comment we should stop making during conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sarcasm",
|
|
"respect"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_084",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "When does humor help us repair, and when does it dodge the issue?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"humor",
|
|
"repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_085",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one way I can show accountability without collapsing into shame?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"shame"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_086",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one way you can show accountability without becoming defensive?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"defensiveness"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_087",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one thing we should validate before trying to solve?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"validation",
|
|
"problem_solving"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_088",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one solution I push before you feel heard?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"solutions",
|
|
"listening"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_089",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one solution you push before I feel heard?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"solutions",
|
|
"listening"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_090",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one topic where winning the argument costs us connection?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"winning",
|
|
"connection"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_091",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would choosing connection over winning look like there?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"connection",
|
|
"repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_092",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one conflict where both of us have a valid point?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"perspective",
|
|
"validity"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_093",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is the most generous version of my side in that conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"generosity",
|
|
"perspective"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_094",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is the most generous version of your side in that conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"generosity",
|
|
"perspective"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_095",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one thing you wish I understood about your trigger before reacting to it?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"triggers",
|
|
"understanding"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_096",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one thing I wish you understood about my trigger before reacting to it?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"triggers",
|
|
"understanding"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_097",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one trigger we need to treat with more care?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"triggers",
|
|
"care"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_098",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one conflict behavior that reminds you of past pain?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"past_pain",
|
|
"patterns"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_099",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one conflict behavior from you that you want to unlearn?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"unlearning",
|
|
"ownership"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_100",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one conflict behavior from me that I should work to unlearn?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"unlearning",
|
|
"reflection"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_101",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What did your family teach you about arguing?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"family_patterns",
|
|
"conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_102",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What did your family teach you about making peace?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"family_patterns",
|
|
"repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
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"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_103",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What conflict habit from your past no longer serves us?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"past_patterns",
|
|
"growth"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
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"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "conflict_104",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What repair habit from your past could help us?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"past_patterns",
|
|
"repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
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"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "conflict_105",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one way we can disagree without threatening the relationship?",
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"depth": 5,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"security",
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"disagreement"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_106",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What words or actions make conflict feel like abandonment to you?",
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"depth": 5,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"abandonment",
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"security"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_107",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What words or actions make conflict feel like rejection to you?",
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"depth": 5,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"rejection",
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"security"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_108",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What reassurance helps you stay present during conflict?",
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"depth": 5,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"reassurance",
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"presence"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_109",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What reassurance feels unconvincing during conflict?",
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"depth": 5,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"reassurance",
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"trust"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_110",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one thing we should do if a conversation becomes too intense?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"intensity",
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"safety"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_111",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one thing we should never do when one of us asks for a pause?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"pause",
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"boundaries"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_112",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
|
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"text": "What would make a pause feel respectful instead of avoidant?",
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"depth": 4,
|
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"pause",
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"respect"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_113",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
|
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"text": "What should the person who calls a pause be responsible for?",
|
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"depth": 4,
|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
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"pause",
|
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"responsibility"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_114",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
|
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"text": "What should the other person be responsible for during the pause?",
|
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"depth": 4,
|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"pause",
|
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"responsibility"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
|
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"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_115",
|
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"category_id": "conflict",
|
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"type": "written",
|
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"text": "What is one repair attempt from me that you want to notice more?",
|
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"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"repair_attempts",
|
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"noticing"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_116",
|
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"category_id": "conflict",
|
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"type": "written",
|
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"text": "What is one repair attempt from you that I may miss?",
|
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"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"repair_attempts",
|
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"noticing"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"min_length": 1,
|
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"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_117",
|
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"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What gets in the way of accepting repair when it is offered?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"repair",
|
|
"barriers"
|
|
],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"min_length": 1,
|
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"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_118",
|
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"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps you soften after feeling hurt?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"softening",
|
|
"hurt"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
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"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
|
},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "conflict_119",
|
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"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps me soften after feeling hurt?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"softening",
|
|
"reflection"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
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"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_120",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one area where resentment could grow if we stay quiet?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"resentment",
|
|
"prevention"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_121",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What conversation would help prevent that resentment?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"resentment",
|
|
"conversation"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_122",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one compromise that would feel fair instead of forced?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"compromise",
|
|
"fairness"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_123",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one compromise that would feel like self-abandonment?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"compromise",
|
|
"boundaries"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_124",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one boundary that protects love during conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"love"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_125",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one boundary that could become avoidance if we misuse it?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"avoidance"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_126",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "How can we tell the difference between a boundary and a wall?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"walls"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_127",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one topic where we need outside support someday, not because we failed but because it matters?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"support",
|
|
"humility"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_128",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one conflict goal for the next month?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"goals",
|
|
"growth"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_129",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What progress would tell us we are arguing in healthier ways?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"growth"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_130",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one thing I can practice during our next disagreement?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"practice",
|
|
"growth"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_131",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one thing you can practice during our next disagreement?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"practice",
|
|
"ownership"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_132",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What should we celebrate when we handle a conflict well?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"celebration",
|
|
"growth"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
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"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_133",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one conflict where we need to replace blame with responsibility?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"blame",
|
|
"responsibility"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_134",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What part of that responsibility belongs to me?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"responsibility",
|
|
"reflection"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_135",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What part of that responsibility belongs to you?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"responsibility",
|
|
"ownership"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
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"max_length": 1000,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_136",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one conflict where we need clearer expectations?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"expectations",
|
|
"clarity"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_137",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What expectation should we state plainly instead of assuming?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"expectations",
|
|
"clarity"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_138",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one conflict where timing keeps making things worse?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"timing",
|
|
"patterns"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_139",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What timing agreement would help us there?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"timing",
|
|
"agreement"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
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"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_140",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one conflict where tone keeps making things worse?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"tone",
|
|
"patterns"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_141",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What tone agreement would help us there?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"tone",
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"agreement"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_142",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one conflict where old hurt keeps entering the room?",
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"depth": 5,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"old_hurt",
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"patterns"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_143",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "How can we respect that old hurt without letting it run the whole conversation?",
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"depth": 5,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"old_hurt",
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"repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_144",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one thing we need to forgive but not ignore?",
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"depth": 5,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"forgiveness",
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"accountability"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_145",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
|
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"text": "What is one thing we need to remember but not weaponize?",
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"depth": 5,
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
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"memory",
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"safety"
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_146",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "written",
|
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"text": "What is one way we can leave a hard conversation with dignity?",
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"depth": 5,
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
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"dignity",
|
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"closure"
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
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"min_length": 1,
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_147",
|
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"category_id": "conflict",
|
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"type": "written",
|
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"text": "What would help us end conflicts with a clear next step?",
|
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"depth": 4,
|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"next_steps",
|
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"closure"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"min_length": 1,
|
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"max_length": 1000,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_148",
|
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"category_id": "conflict",
|
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"type": "written",
|
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"text": "What is one promise about conflict that you want us to keep?",
|
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"depth": 5,
|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"promise",
|
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"conflict"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"min_length": 1,
|
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"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_149",
|
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"category_id": "conflict",
|
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"type": "written",
|
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"text": "What kind of partners do we want to become when we disagree?",
|
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"depth": 5,
|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"identity",
|
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"future"
|
|
],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"min_length": 1,
|
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"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "conflict_150",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one way we can protect respect even when we strongly disagree?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"respect",
|
|
"strong_disagreement"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
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"min_length": 1,
|
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"max_length": 1000,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
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}
|
|
},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "conflict_151",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "When conflict starts, what helps you most first?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"start",
|
|
"support"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_calmer_tone",
|
|
"text": "A calmer tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_pause",
|
|
"text": "A clear pause"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_direct_question",
|
|
"text": "A direct question"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_little_reassurance",
|
|
"text": "A little reassurance"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_152",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What usually escalates conflict fastest for you?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"escalation",
|
|
"triggers"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_blamed",
|
|
"text": "Feeling blamed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_ignored",
|
|
"text": "Feeling ignored"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_rushed",
|
|
"text": "Feeling rushed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_misunderstood",
|
|
"text": "Feeling misunderstood"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_153",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps you hear feedback best?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"feedback",
|
|
"openness"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "specific_examples",
|
|
"text": "Specific examples"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle_tone",
|
|
"text": "Gentle tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_to_think",
|
|
"text": "Time to think"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance_first",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance first"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_154",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes an apology feel most sincere?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"apology",
|
|
"repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_ownership",
|
|
"text": "Clear ownership"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "changed_behavior",
|
|
"text": "Changed behavior"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "emotional_warmth",
|
|
"text": "Emotional warmth"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_excuses",
|
|
"text": "No excuses"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_155",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What do you need after an argument?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"after_conflict",
|
|
"needs"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "space",
|
|
"text": "Space"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comfort",
|
|
"text": "Comfort"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_plan",
|
|
"text": "A plan"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_normal_moment_together",
|
|
"text": "A normal moment together"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_156",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What is hardest during conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"difficulty",
|
|
"conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "staying_calm",
|
|
"text": "Staying calm"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_honest",
|
|
"text": "Being honest"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_shutting_down",
|
|
"text": "Not shutting down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_getting_defensive",
|
|
"text": "Not getting defensive"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_157",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What is your default conflict response?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"style",
|
|
"conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talk_more",
|
|
"text": "Talk more"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "go_quiet",
|
|
"text": "Go quiet"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "defend_myself",
|
|
"text": "Defend myself"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "try_to_fix_it_fast",
|
|
"text": "Try to fix it fast"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_158",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps you come back after taking space?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"return"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_specific_time",
|
|
"text": "A specific time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_gentle_message",
|
|
"text": "A gentle message"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_calm_tone",
|
|
"text": "A calm tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_apology",
|
|
"text": "A clear apology"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_159",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What type of repair works best for you?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"style"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "words",
|
|
"text": "Words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "actions",
|
|
"text": "Actions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_closeness",
|
|
"text": "Physical closeness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "giving_it_time",
|
|
"text": "Giving it time"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_160",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should we prioritize in conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"priorities",
|
|
"conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "understanding",
|
|
"text": "Understanding"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "solving",
|
|
"text": "Solving"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "calming_down",
|
|
"text": "Calming down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_close_again",
|
|
"text": "Feeling close again"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_161",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should we avoid most during conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"avoidance",
|
|
"boundaries"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_calling",
|
|
"text": "Name-calling"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "old_arguments",
|
|
"text": "Old arguments"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "threats",
|
|
"text": "Threats"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "silent_punishment",
|
|
"text": "Silent punishment"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_162",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps you lower your guard?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"defensiveness",
|
|
"safety"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "kind_tone",
|
|
"text": "Kind tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "owning_one_part",
|
|
"text": "Owning one part"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_interruptions",
|
|
"text": "No interruptions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_slower_pace",
|
|
"text": "A slower pace"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_163",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes you feel attacked?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"attack",
|
|
"triggers"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "labels",
|
|
"text": "Labels"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "raised_voice",
|
|
"text": "Raised voice"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "assumptions",
|
|
"text": "Assumptions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_interrupted",
|
|
"text": "Being interrupted"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_164",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes you feel respected during disagreement?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"respect",
|
|
"disagreement"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_heard",
|
|
"text": "Being heard"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_asked",
|
|
"text": "Being asked"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_given_time",
|
|
"text": "Being given time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_taken_seriously",
|
|
"text": "Being taken seriously"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_165",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What is most useful when we are stuck?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stuck",
|
|
"solutions"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_a_break",
|
|
"text": "Take a break"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_the_real_issue",
|
|
"text": "Name the real issue"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_what_each_person_needs",
|
|
"text": "Ask what each person needs"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pick_one_next_step",
|
|
"text": "Pick one next step"
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}
|
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]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "conflict_166",
|
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"category_id": "conflict",
|
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"type": "single_choice",
|
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"text": "What is your biggest conflict growth area right now?",
|
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"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"growth",
|
|
"self_awareness"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tone",
|
|
"text": "Tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "timing",
|
|
"text": "Timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "listening",
|
|
"text": "Listening"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accountability",
|
|
"text": "Accountability"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_167",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What kind of disagreement feels easiest to handle?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"ease",
|
|
"conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "logistics",
|
|
"text": "Logistics"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plans",
|
|
"text": "Plans"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "money",
|
|
"text": "Money"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feelings",
|
|
"text": "Feelings"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_168",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What kind of disagreement feels hardest to handle?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hard_topics",
|
|
"conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "logistics",
|
|
"text": "Logistics"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plans",
|
|
"text": "Plans"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "money",
|
|
"text": "Money"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feelings",
|
|
"text": "Feelings"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_169",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should we do when we both feel right?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"perspective",
|
|
"humility"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "slow_down",
|
|
"text": "Slow down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "list_both_needs",
|
|
"text": "List both needs"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "find_shared_goal",
|
|
"text": "Find shared goal"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause_and_return",
|
|
"text": "Pause and return"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_170",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps you accept influence?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"influence",
|
|
"openness"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_respected",
|
|
"text": "Feeling respected"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "seeing_logic",
|
|
"text": "Seeing logic"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_loved",
|
|
"text": "Feeling loved"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "having_time",
|
|
"text": "Having time"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_171",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What most often hides under your anger?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"anger",
|
|
"emotion"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hurt",
|
|
"text": "Hurt"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "fear",
|
|
"text": "Fear"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stress",
|
|
"text": "Stress"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_unseen",
|
|
"text": "Feeling unseen"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_172",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What most often hides under my anger?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"anger",
|
|
"reflection"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hurt",
|
|
"text": "Hurt"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "fear",
|
|
"text": "Fear"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stress",
|
|
"text": "Stress"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_unseen",
|
|
"text": "Feeling unseen"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_173",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a pause feel safe?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"safety"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_return_time",
|
|
"text": "A return time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "kind_words",
|
|
"text": "Kind words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hug_first",
|
|
"text": "A hug first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_we_will_finish",
|
|
"text": "Knowing we will finish"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_174",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a pause feel unsafe?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"fear"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_return_time",
|
|
"text": "No return time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cold_silence",
|
|
"text": "Cold silence"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "leaving_suddenly",
|
|
"text": "Leaving suddenly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ignoring_messages",
|
|
"text": "Ignoring messages"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_175",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What is the best place for a serious talk?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"setting",
|
|
"conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "at_home",
|
|
"text": "At home"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "on_a_walk",
|
|
"text": "On a walk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "in_the_car_parked",
|
|
"text": "In the car parked"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "somewhere_neutral",
|
|
"text": "Somewhere neutral"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_176",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What is the worst time for a serious talk?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"timing",
|
|
"conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "late_at_night",
|
|
"text": "Late at night"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "before_work",
|
|
"text": "Before work"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_hungry",
|
|
"text": "When hungry"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "right_after_stress",
|
|
"text": "Right after stress"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_177",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps you stay on one topic?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"focus",
|
|
"conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "writing_it_down",
|
|
"text": "Writing it down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_turns",
|
|
"text": "Taking turns"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_time_limit",
|
|
"text": "A time limit"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repeating_the_question",
|
|
"text": "Repeating the question"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_178",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What pulls us off topic fastest?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"focus",
|
|
"patterns"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "old_issues",
|
|
"text": "Old issues"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "defending_details",
|
|
"text": "Defending details"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tone_arguments",
|
|
"text": "Tone arguments"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "assumptions",
|
|
"text": "Assumptions"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_179",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What feels like real accountability?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "naming_the_harm",
|
|
"text": "Naming the harm"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_excuses",
|
|
"text": "No excuses"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "changed_behavior",
|
|
"text": "Changed behavior"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "checking_back_later",
|
|
"text": "Checking back later"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_180",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What feels like fake accountability?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"avoidance"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quick_sorry",
|
|
"text": "Quick sorry"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "blaming_stress",
|
|
"text": "Blaming stress"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "changing_subject",
|
|
"text": "Changing subject"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "acting_annoyed",
|
|
"text": "Acting annoyed"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_181",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps you believe repair is possible?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"hope"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "consistency",
|
|
"text": "Consistency"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "softness",
|
|
"text": "Softness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "humor",
|
|
"text": "Humor"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_plan",
|
|
"text": "A clear plan"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_182",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What usually blocks repair?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"barriers"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pride",
|
|
"text": "Pride"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "exhaustion",
|
|
"text": "Exhaustion"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "fear",
|
|
"text": "Fear"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "still_feeling_unheard",
|
|
"text": "Still feeling unheard"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_183",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should we do when one person cries?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"emotion",
|
|
"care"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause_and_comfort",
|
|
"text": "Pause and comfort"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_talking_gently",
|
|
"text": "Keep talking gently"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_what_is_needed",
|
|
"text": "Ask what is needed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "give_space",
|
|
"text": "Give space"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_184",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should we do when one person raises their voice?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"tone",
|
|
"safety"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause",
|
|
"text": "Pause"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "lower_voices",
|
|
"text": "Lower voices"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_it_calmly",
|
|
"text": "Name it calmly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_space",
|
|
"text": "Take space"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_185",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should we do when one person shuts down?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"shutdown",
|
|
"repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause",
|
|
"text": "Pause"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassure",
|
|
"text": "Reassure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_one_simple_question",
|
|
"text": "Ask one simple question"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "return_later",
|
|
"text": "Return later"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_186",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should we do when one person gets defensive?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"defensiveness",
|
|
"repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "slow_down",
|
|
"text": "Slow down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "own_one_part",
|
|
"text": "Own one part"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "restate_the_concern",
|
|
"text": "Restate the concern"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_what_felt_unfair",
|
|
"text": "Ask what felt unfair"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_187",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes conflict feel like teamwork?",
|
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"teamwork",
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"conflict"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "shared_goal",
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"text": "Shared goal"
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},
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{
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"id": "kind_tone",
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"text": "Kind tone"
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},
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{
|
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"id": "both_own_a_part",
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"text": "Both own a part"
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},
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{
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"id": "clear_next_step",
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"text": "Clear next step"
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}
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]
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_188",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What makes conflict feel like a battle?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"battle",
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"conflict"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "winning_language",
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"text": "Winning language"
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},
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{
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"id": "threats",
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"text": "Threats"
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},
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{
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"id": "scorekeeping",
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"text": "Scorekeeping"
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},
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{
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"id": "mocking",
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"text": "Mocking"
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}
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]
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},
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_189",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What helps us end a conflict well?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"closure",
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"repair"
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],
|
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"options": [
|
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{
|
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"id": "a_summary",
|
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"text": "A summary"
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "an_apology",
|
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"text": "An apology"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "a_hug",
|
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"text": "A hug"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "a_next_step",
|
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"text": "A next step"
|
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}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_190",
|
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"category_id": "conflict",
|
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"type": "single_choice",
|
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"text": "What should happen after a big conflict?",
|
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"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"aftercare",
|
|
"conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "check_in_later",
|
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"text": "Check in later"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_something_normal",
|
|
"text": "Do something normal"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "revisit_the_agreement",
|
|
"text": "Revisit the agreement"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "give_extra_kindness",
|
|
"text": "Give extra kindness"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_191",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which things help calm conflict? Select all that apply.",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"calm",
|
|
"tools"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "lower_voices",
|
|
"text": "Lower voices"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_a_pause",
|
|
"text": "Take a pause"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_the_real_issue",
|
|
"text": "Name the real issue"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "use_kind_words",
|
|
"text": "Use kind words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "drink_water",
|
|
"text": "Drink water"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 5
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_192",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which behaviors make conflict worse? Select all that apply.",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"escalation",
|
|
"behaviors"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "interrupting",
|
|
"text": "Interrupting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "blaming",
|
|
"text": "Blaming"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "bringing_up_old_issues",
|
|
"text": "Bringing up old issues"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sarcasm",
|
|
"text": "Sarcasm"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "walking_away_without_return_time",
|
|
"text": "Walking away without return time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 5
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_193",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which repair actions matter most to you? Select up to three.",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"actions"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_apology",
|
|
"text": "Clear apology"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "changed_behavior",
|
|
"text": "Changed behavior"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_affection",
|
|
"text": "Physical affection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "following_up_later",
|
|
"text": "Following up later"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_194",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which signs show you are getting overwhelmed? Select all that apply.",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"flooding",
|
|
"signals"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "going_quiet",
|
|
"text": "Going quiet"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_faster",
|
|
"text": "Talking faster"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tearing_up",
|
|
"text": "Tearing up"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "wanting_to_leave",
|
|
"text": "Wanting to leave"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_numb",
|
|
"text": "Feeling numb"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 5
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_195",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which signs show I may be getting overwhelmed? Select all that apply.",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"flooding",
|
|
"reflection"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "going_quiet",
|
|
"text": "Going quiet"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_faster",
|
|
"text": "Talking faster"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repeating_myself",
|
|
"text": "Repeating myself"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "getting_sharp",
|
|
"text": "Getting sharp"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "looking_away",
|
|
"text": "Looking away"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 5
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_196",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which topics need gentler timing? Select all that apply.",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"timing",
|
|
"topics"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "money",
|
|
"text": "Money"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "family",
|
|
"text": "Family"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "intimacy",
|
|
"text": "Intimacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plans",
|
|
"text": "Plans"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "household_work",
|
|
"text": "Household work"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 5
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_197",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which rules should we use for hard talks? Select up to three.",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"rules",
|
|
"conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_name_calling",
|
|
"text": "No name-calling"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_topic_at_a_time",
|
|
"text": "One topic at a time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause_when_flooded",
|
|
"text": "Pause when flooded"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_threats",
|
|
"text": "No threats"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "return_after_a_break",
|
|
"text": "Return after a break"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_198",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which things help you receive feedback? Select all that apply.",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"feedback",
|
|
"openness"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "specific_examples",
|
|
"text": "Specific examples"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "kind_tone",
|
|
"text": "Kind tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "privacy",
|
|
"text": "Privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_to_process",
|
|
"text": "Time to process"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_request",
|
|
"text": "A clear request"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 5
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_199",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which things make feedback hard to hear? Select all that apply.",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"feedback",
|
|
"barriers"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "harsh_tone",
|
|
"text": "Harsh tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "public_setting",
|
|
"text": "Public setting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "old_examples",
|
|
"text": "Old examples"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "labels",
|
|
"text": "Labels"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_appreciation",
|
|
"text": "No appreciation"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 5
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_200",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which feelings often show up under conflict? Select all that apply.",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"feelings",
|
|
"underneath"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hurt",
|
|
"text": "Hurt"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "fear",
|
|
"text": "Fear"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "loneliness",
|
|
"text": "Loneliness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stress",
|
|
"text": "Stress"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "shame",
|
|
"text": "Shame"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 5
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_201",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which needs are often underneath our conflicts? Select up to three.",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"needs",
|
|
"conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respect",
|
|
"text": "Respect"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "security",
|
|
"text": "Security"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "help",
|
|
"text": "Help"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "space",
|
|
"text": "Space"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "appreciation",
|
|
"text": "Appreciation"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_202",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which conflict habits should we practice? Select up to three.",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"practice",
|
|
"growth"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "soft_start",
|
|
"text": "Soft start"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reflect_back",
|
|
"text": "Reflect back"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_for_needs",
|
|
"text": "Ask for needs"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_pauses",
|
|
"text": "Take pauses"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repair_quickly",
|
|
"text": "Repair quickly"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_203",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which conflict habits should we reduce? Select up to three.",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"patterns",
|
|
"growth"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "interrupting",
|
|
"text": "Interrupting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "defending",
|
|
"text": "Defending"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "shutting_down",
|
|
"text": "Shutting down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "scorekeeping",
|
|
"text": "Scorekeeping"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "assuming_motives",
|
|
"text": "Assuming motives"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_204",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which forms of aftercare help after conflict? Select all that apply.",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"aftercare",
|
|
"repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "check_in_message",
|
|
"text": "Check-in message"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet_time_together",
|
|
"text": "Quiet time together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hug",
|
|
"text": "Hug"
|
|
},
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{
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"id": "plan_change",
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"text": "Plan change"
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},
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{
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"id": "kind_routine",
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"text": "Kind routine"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 5
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_205",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Which words should we use more during conflict? Select all that apply.",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"language",
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"repair"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "i_feel",
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"text": "I feel"
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},
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{
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"id": "i_need",
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"text": "I need"
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},
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{
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"id": "help_me_understand",
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"text": "Help me understand"
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},
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{
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"id": "i_hear_you",
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"text": "I hear you"
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},
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{
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"id": "can_we_pause",
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"text": "Can we pause"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 5
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_206",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Which words should we avoid during conflict? Select all that apply.",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"language",
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"harm"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "always",
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"text": "Always"
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},
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{
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"id": "never",
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"text": "Never"
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},
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{
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"id": "whatever",
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"text": "Whatever"
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},
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{
|
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"id": "you_are_just_like",
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"text": "You are just like"
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},
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{
|
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"id": "i_do_not_care",
|
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"text": "I do not care"
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}
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
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"max_selections": 5
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "conflict_207",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
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"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which things help us stay on the same team? Select up to three.",
|
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"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"connection"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "shared_goal",
|
|
"text": "Shared goal"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "kind_tone",
|
|
"text": "Kind tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_turns",
|
|
"text": "Taking turns"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "owning_impact",
|
|
"text": "Owning impact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ending_with_a_next_step",
|
|
"text": "Ending with a next step"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_208",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which things make you feel unsafe in conflict? Select all that apply.",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "yelling",
|
|
"text": "Yelling"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "mocking",
|
|
"text": "Mocking"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "threats",
|
|
"text": "Threats"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cold_silence",
|
|
"text": "Cold silence"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "private_information_used_against_me",
|
|
"text": "Private information used against me"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 5
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_209",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which repair attempts are easy to miss? Select all that apply.",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"repair_attempts",
|
|
"noticing"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_softer_tone",
|
|
"text": "A softer tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_joke",
|
|
"text": "A joke"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_small_touch",
|
|
"text": "A small touch"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_question",
|
|
"text": "A question"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_a_helpful_task",
|
|
"text": "Doing a helpful task"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 5
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_210",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which outcomes would make conflict feel productive? Select up to three.",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"outcomes",
|
|
"productive_conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_heard",
|
|
"text": "Feeling heard"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_next_step",
|
|
"text": "Clear next step"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "better_understanding",
|
|
"text": "Better understanding"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "apology",
|
|
"text": "Apology"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "less_fear_next_time",
|
|
"text": "Less fear next time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_211",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How safe do you feel bringing up hard topics with me right now?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"hard_topics"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_scale": 1,
|
|
"max_scale": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not safe",
|
|
"max_label": "Very safe",
|
|
"scale_step": 1
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_212",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How well do we pause before conflict gets too heated?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"deescalation"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_scale": 1,
|
|
"max_scale": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Poorly",
|
|
"max_label": "Very well",
|
|
"scale_step": 1
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_213",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How respectful does our tone feel during disagreement lately?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"tone",
|
|
"respect"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_scale": 1,
|
|
"max_scale": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not respectful",
|
|
"max_label": "Very respectful",
|
|
"scale_step": 1
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_214",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How quickly do we repair after conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"timing"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_scale": 1,
|
|
"max_scale": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not quickly",
|
|
"max_label": "Very quickly",
|
|
"scale_step": 1
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_215",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How heard do you feel during disagreements?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_scale": 1,
|
|
"max_scale": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not heard",
|
|
"max_label": "Very heard",
|
|
"scale_step": 1
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_216",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How well do I take responsibility during conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"reflection"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_scale": 1,
|
|
"max_scale": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not well",
|
|
"max_label": "Very well",
|
|
"scale_step": 1
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_217",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How well do you take responsibility during conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"ownership"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_scale": 1,
|
|
"max_scale": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not well",
|
|
"max_label": "Very well",
|
|
"scale_step": 1
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_218",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How often do we stay on one topic during conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"focus",
|
|
"conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_scale": 1,
|
|
"max_scale": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Rarely",
|
|
"max_label": "Very often",
|
|
"scale_step": 1
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_219",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much do old arguments affect current disagreements?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"old_arguments",
|
|
"patterns"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_scale": 1,
|
|
"max_scale": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not much",
|
|
"max_label": "Very much",
|
|
"scale_step": 1
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_220",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How easy is it for us to apologize sincerely?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"apology",
|
|
"repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_scale": 1,
|
|
"max_scale": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Hard",
|
|
"max_label": "Easy",
|
|
"scale_step": 1
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_221",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How easy is it for us to accept repair attempts?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"repair_attempts",
|
|
"acceptance"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_scale": 1,
|
|
"max_scale": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Hard",
|
|
"max_label": "Easy",
|
|
"scale_step": 1
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_222",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much does stress affect our conflict style?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress",
|
|
"conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_scale": 1,
|
|
"max_scale": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not much",
|
|
"max_label": "Very much",
|
|
"scale_step": 1
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_223",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How confident are you that we can handle disagreement well?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"confidence",
|
|
"conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_scale": 1,
|
|
"max_scale": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not confident",
|
|
"max_label": "Very confident",
|
|
"scale_step": 1
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_224",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How often do you feel blamed during conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"blame",
|
|
"impact"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_scale": 1,
|
|
"max_scale": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Rarely",
|
|
"max_label": "Very often",
|
|
"scale_step": 1
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_225",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How often do you feel respected during conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"respect",
|
|
"impact"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_scale": 1,
|
|
"max_scale": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Rarely",
|
|
"max_label": "Very often",
|
|
"scale_step": 1
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_226",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much do we try to understand instead of win?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"understanding",
|
|
"winning"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_scale": 1,
|
|
"max_scale": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not much",
|
|
"max_label": "Very much",
|
|
"scale_step": 1
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_227",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How well do we handle pauses during conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"return"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_scale": 1,
|
|
"max_scale": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Poorly",
|
|
"max_label": "Very well",
|
|
"scale_step": 1
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_228",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How emotionally close do you feel after we repair?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_scale": 1,
|
|
"max_scale": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Distant",
|
|
"max_label": "Close",
|
|
"scale_step": 1
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_229",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How clear are our conflict boundaries?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"clarity"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_scale": 1,
|
|
"max_scale": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Unclear",
|
|
"max_label": "Very clear",
|
|
"scale_step": 1
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_230",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "scale",
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"text": "How often do we use humor helpfully during tension?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"humor",
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"tension"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min_scale": 1,
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"max_scale": 5,
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"min_label": "Rarely",
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"max_label": "Often",
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"scale_step": 1
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_231",
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"type": "scale",
|
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"text": "How much do you trust our ability to talk through hard things?",
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"depth": 4,
|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
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"trust",
|
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"conflict"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
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"min_scale": 1,
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"max_scale": 5,
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"min_label": "Not much",
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"max_label": "Very much",
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"scale_step": 1
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}
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},
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_232",
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"category_id": "conflict",
|
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"type": "scale",
|
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"text": "How well do we avoid hurtful words when upset?",
|
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"depth": 4,
|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"harm",
|
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"self_control"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"min_scale": 1,
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"max_scale": 5,
|
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"min_label": "Poorly",
|
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"max_label": "Very well",
|
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"scale_step": 1
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_233",
|
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"category_id": "conflict",
|
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"type": "scale",
|
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"text": "How fair do our disagreements feel?",
|
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"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"fairness",
|
|
"conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_scale": 1,
|
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"max_scale": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Unfair",
|
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"max_label": "Fair",
|
|
"scale_step": 1
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_234",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much progress have we made in conflict this year?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"growth"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_scale": 1,
|
|
"max_scale": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "None",
|
|
"max_label": "A lot",
|
|
"scale_step": 1
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_235",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How ready are we to create a better conflict agreement?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"agreement",
|
|
"readiness"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_scale": 1,
|
|
"max_scale": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not ready",
|
|
"max_label": "Very ready",
|
|
"scale_step": 1
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_236",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Pause first or talk through it now?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"timing",
|
|
"pause"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause_first",
|
|
"text": "Pause first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talk_now",
|
|
"text": "Talk now"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_237",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Comfort first or solution first?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"support",
|
|
"solutions"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comfort_first",
|
|
"text": "Comfort first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "solution_first",
|
|
"text": "Solution first"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_238",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Gentle honesty or direct honesty?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"tone"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle_honesty",
|
|
"text": "Gentle honesty"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "direct_honesty",
|
|
"text": "Direct honesty"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_239",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Discuss at home or on a walk?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"setting",
|
|
"conflict"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "at_home",
|
|
"text": "At home"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "on_a_walk",
|
|
"text": "On a walk"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_240",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Repair with words or repair with actions?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"style"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "words",
|
|
"text": "Words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "actions",
|
|
"text": "Actions"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_241",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Name the issue or name the feeling first?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"clarity",
|
|
"emotion"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "issue_first",
|
|
"text": "Issue first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_first",
|
|
"text": "Feeling first"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_242",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Take space alone or sit quietly together?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"space",
|
|
"connection"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "space_alone",
|
|
"text": "Space alone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quietly_together",
|
|
"text": "Quietly together"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_243",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Apologize first or explain first?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"apology",
|
|
"explanation"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "apologize_first",
|
|
"text": "Apologize first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "explain_first",
|
|
"text": "Explain first"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_244",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Focus on impact or focus on intent?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"impact",
|
|
"intent"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "impact",
|
|
"text": "Impact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "intent",
|
|
"text": "Intent"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_245",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Set a boundary or ask for reassurance?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"reassurance"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "set_boundary",
|
|
"text": "Set boundary"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Ask reassurance"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_246",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Let it cool down or resolve it tonight?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"timing",
|
|
"closure"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cool_down",
|
|
"text": "Cool down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "resolve_tonight",
|
|
"text": "Resolve tonight"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_247",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Write it out or say it out loud?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"expression",
|
|
"format"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "write_it_out",
|
|
"text": "Write it out"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "say_it_out_loud",
|
|
"text": "Say it out loud"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_248",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Clarify expectations or accept differences?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"expectations",
|
|
"differences"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clarify_expectations",
|
|
"text": "Clarify expectations"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accept_differences",
|
|
"text": "Accept differences"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_249",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Start with what hurt or start with what you need?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hurt",
|
|
"needs"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_hurt",
|
|
"text": "What hurt"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_i_need",
|
|
"text": "What I need"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_250",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Protect peace or address the issue?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"peace",
|
|
"honesty"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "protect_peace",
|
|
"text": "Protect peace"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "address_the_issue",
|
|
"text": "Address the issue"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
} |