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"id": "communication",
"display_name": "Communication",
"description": "Questions about listening, expressing needs, understanding each other, and talking clearly.",
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"text": "What is one phrase I use that makes you feel supported?",
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"id": "communication_008",
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"text": "What is one phrase I use that sometimes shuts you down?",
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"id": "communication_009",
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"text": "When you are upset, do you prefer comfort, space, advice, or distraction?",
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"id": "communication_010",
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"text": "What should I ask you more often?",
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"id": "communication_011",
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"text": "What is one way I can listen better this week?",
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"id": "communication_012",
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"text": "How do you know when I am really paying attention?",
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"id": "communication_013",
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"text": "What is one thing you wish I understood without needing a long explanation?",
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"text": "What makes a conversation with me feel easy?",
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"id": "communication_016",
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"text": "Do you feel more loved by words, actions, time, touch, or help?",
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"id": "communication_017",
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"text": "What is one thing we should check in about every week?",
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"id": "communication_018",
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"text": "What is one question you wish I would ask when you seem quiet?",
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"id": "communication_019",
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"text": "How can I tell when you are overwhelmed but not saying it?",
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"id": "communication_020",
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"text": "What helps you feel less defensive during conflict?",
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"id": "communication_021",
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"text": "What is one communication habit you appreciate in me?",
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"id": "communication_022",
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"text": "What is one communication habit you want us to improve together?",
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"id": "communication_023",
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"text": "When do you feel most understood by me?",
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"id": "communication_024",
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"text": "When do you feel least understood by me?",
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"id": "communication_025",
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"text": "What does a good apology sound like to you?",
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"id": "communication_026",
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"text": "What does a bad apology sound like to you?",
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"id": "communication_027",
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"text": "What should we do when a conversation starts getting heated?",
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"id": "communication_028",
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"text": "Do you prefer serious talks planned ahead or brought up naturally?",
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"communication",
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"id": "communication_029",
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"text": "What is one conversation we handled better than we used to?",
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{
"id": "communication_030",
"category_id": "communication",
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"text": "What is one subject where you want more patience from me?",
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"communication",
"connection"
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"id": "communication_031",
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"text": "What is one subject where you want more honesty from me?",
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{
"id": "communication_032",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you bring up something uncomfortable?",
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"communication",
"connection"
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"id": "communication_033",
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"text": "What makes you hesitate to bring something up?",
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"communication",
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"id": "communication_034",
"category_id": "communication",
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"text": "How can I make space for your opinion when we disagree?",
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"space",
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{
"id": "communication_035",
"category_id": "communication",
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"text": "What do you need from me when you are trying to explain yourself?",
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"communication",
"connection"
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"id": "communication_036",
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"text": "What is one thing I do that makes you feel interrupted?",
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"communication",
"connection"
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"id": "communication_037",
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"text": "What is one thing I do that makes you feel respected?",
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"communication",
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{
"id": "communication_038",
"category_id": "communication",
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"text": "What kind of check-in would feel useful instead of annoying?",
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"check_in",
"connection"
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{
"id": "communication_039",
"category_id": "communication",
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"text": "What is one feeling you wish I noticed sooner?",
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"communication",
"connection"
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"id": "communication_040",
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"text": "What is one thing you are trying to communicate better lately?",
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"communication",
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"communication",
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"id": "communication_042",
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"text": "What is one way we can make everyday conversations more meaningful?",
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"communication",
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{
"id": "communication_043",
"category_id": "communication",
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"text": "What kind of message from me makes your day better?",
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"id": "communication_044",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one text or call habit we should improve?",
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"texting",
"connection"
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{
"id": "communication_045",
"category_id": "communication",
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"text": "What do you wish I knew about how you process emotions?",
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"communication",
"connection"
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"id": "communication_046",
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"text": "Do you process hard things best by talking, thinking alone, writing, or doing something active?",
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"connection"
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},
{
"id": "communication_047",
"category_id": "communication",
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"text": "What is one way I can avoid making assumptions about you?",
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"avoidance",
"connection"
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},
{
"id": "communication_048",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "written",
"text": "What assumption do you think I sometimes make about you?",
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"communication",
"connection"
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},
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"id": "communication_049",
"category_id": "communication",
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"text": "What is one topic where you need more directness from me?",
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"communication",
"connection"
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{
"id": "communication_050",
"category_id": "communication",
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"text": "What is one topic where you need more gentleness from me?",
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"communication",
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},
{
"id": "communication_051",
"category_id": "communication",
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"text": "What makes you feel emotionally close during a conversation?",
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"communication",
"connection"
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},
{
"id": "communication_052",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes you feel emotionally distant during a conversation?",
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"communication",
"connection"
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},
{
"id": "communication_053",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "written",
"text": "How do you prefer I respond when you vent?",
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"communication",
"connection"
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},
{
"id": "communication_054",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "written",
"text": "When should I ask before giving advice?",
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"questions",
"connection"
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"id": "communication_055",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one way we can prevent small annoyances from becoming big arguments?",
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"communication",
"connection"
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},
{
"id": "communication_056",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one recent conversation you think went well?",
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"communication",
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{
"id": "communication_057",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "written",
"text": "What made that recent conversation go well?",
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"communication",
"connection"
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},
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"id": "communication_058",
"category_id": "communication",
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"text": "What is one recent conversation you wish we had handled differently?",
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"communication",
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"id": "communication_059",
"category_id": "communication",
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"text": "What would have made that conversation feel better?",
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"id": "communication_060",
"category_id": "communication",
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"text": "What is one thing you want me to understand about your communication style?",
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"id": "communication_061",
"category_id": "communication",
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"text": "What is one thing you want to understand about my communication style?",
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"understanding",
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{
"id": "communication_062",
"category_id": "communication",
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"text": "How do you show that you are listening?",
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"listening",
"connection"
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"category_id": "communication",
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"text": "How do you wish I would show that I am listening?",
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"listening",
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"text": "What is one thing you want me to validate more often?",
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"communication",
"connection"
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"text": "What is one thing you think I want you to validate more often?",
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"communication",
"connection"
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"text": "What is one feeling you wish I would not try to fix right away?",
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"communication",
"connection"
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"min_length": 1,
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"category_id": "communication",
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"text": "What is one problem where you do want my help finding a solution?",
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"communication",
"connection"
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"min_length": 1,
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"text": "What is one problem where you mainly want me to listen?",
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"listening",
"connection"
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"text": "What does emotional support sound like from me?",
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"connection"
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"min_length": 1,
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"text": "What does emotional support not sound like from me?",
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"support",
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"min_length": 1,
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"text": "What is one way I can disagree without making you feel alone?",
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"communication",
"connection"
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"min_length": 1,
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"type": "written",
"text": "What is one way you can disagree without making me feel alone?",
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"communication",
"connection"
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"text": "What do you wish we did after a misunderstanding?",
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"understanding",
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"text": "What is one misunderstanding we never fully cleared up?",
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"understanding",
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"min_length": 1,
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"id": "communication_141",
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"text": "What part of that misunderstanding still matters to you?",
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"understanding",
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"min_length": 1,
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"text": "What would help us revisit old tension without restarting the fight?",
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"conflict",
"connection"
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"min_length": 1,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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"text": "What is one thing I do that makes hard talks feel safer?",
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"hard_topics",
"safety"
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"min_length": 1,
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"text": "What is one thing I do that makes hard talks feel riskier?",
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"hard_topics",
"connection"
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"min_length": 1,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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"id": "communication_145",
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"text": "What do you need from my body language during a serious talk?",
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"body_language",
"connection"
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"min_length": 1,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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"id": "communication_146",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "written",
"text": "What body language from me makes you think I am closed off?",
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"tags": [
"body_language",
"connection"
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"min_length": 1,
"max_length": 1000,
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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"id": "communication_147",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "written",
"text": "What body language from me makes you think I am listening?",
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"listening",
"body_language"
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"min_length": 1,
"max_length": 1000,
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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"id": "communication_148",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What is one way technology helps our communication?",
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"digital",
"connection"
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"min_length": 1,
"max_length": 1000,
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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"id": "communication_149",
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"text": "What is one way technology hurts our communication?",
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"digital",
"connection"
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"min_length": 1,
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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"id": "communication_150",
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"text": "What texting habit should we change?",
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"texting",
"connection"
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"min_length": 1,
"max_length": 1000,
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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"text": "When you are upset, what helps most first?",
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"support",
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"id": "advice",
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{
"id": "distraction",
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"text": "How do you usually process hard feelings?",
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"processing",
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"id": "talking",
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"id": "communication_153",
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"text": "What kind of check-in feels best to you?",
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"check_in",
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"id": "deep_and_slow",
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"id": "only_when_needed",
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"text": "During disagreement, what do you need most?",
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"conflict",
"needs"
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"id": "reassurance",
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{
"id": "clarity",
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{
"id": "a_pause",
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"id": "communication_155",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes you feel most heard?",
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"listening",
"attention"
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"id": "eye_contact",
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{
"id": "follow_up_questions",
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{
"id": "no_interrupting",
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{
"id": "remembering_details",
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"id": "communication_156",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What usually makes you shut down?",
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"shutdown",
"conflict"
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"id": "raised_voices",
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"id": "feeling_blamed",
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{
"id": "too_many_questions",
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{
"id": "bad_timing",
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{
"id": "communication_157",
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"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should I do before giving advice?",
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"advice",
"support"
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{
"id": "ask_permission",
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{
"id": "listen_longer",
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"id": "validate_first",
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{
"id": "give_advice_right_away",
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"id": "communication_158",
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"text": "How do you prefer serious topics to start?",
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"serious_talks",
"timing"
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"id": "directly",
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{
"id": "gently",
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{
"id": "with_warning",
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{
"id": "in_writing",
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"id": "communication_159",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What communication habit matters most to you?",
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"values",
"communication"
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"id": "honesty",
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{
"id": "kindness",
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{
"id": "consistency",
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{
"id": "curiosity",
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"id": "communication_160",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What type of apology matters most?",
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"apology",
"repair"
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"id": "taking_responsibility",
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"id": "showing_understanding",
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{
"id": "changed_behavior",
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{
"id": "warm_reassurance",
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"id": "communication_161",
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"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When plans change, what do you need most?",
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"planning",
"clarity"
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{
"id": "quick_update",
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{
"id": "clear_reason",
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{
"id": "new_plan",
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{
"id": "reassurance",
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"id": "communication_162",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What tone helps you stay open?",
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"tags": [
"tone",
"safety"
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"id": "calm",
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{
"id": "warm",
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{
"id": "direct",
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{
"id": "soft",
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},
{
"id": "communication_163",
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"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What tone makes things harder?",
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"tone",
"conflict"
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"id": "cold",
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{
"id": "sharp",
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{
"id": "dismissive",
"text": "Dismissive"
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{
"id": "rushed",
"text": "Rushed"
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},
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"id": "communication_164",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "How should we pause a tense talk?",
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"tags": [
"pause",
"repair"
],
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{
"id": "use_a_phrase",
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{
"id": "set_a_timer",
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{
"id": "take_separate_space",
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{
"id": "switch_to_writing",
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},
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"id": "communication_165",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes you feel respected in conversation?",
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"respect",
"listening"
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"id": "being_asked",
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{
"id": "being_heard",
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{
"id": "being_believed",
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{
"id": "being_given_time",
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]
},
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"id": "communication_166",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What do you need when you say you are fine?",
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"tags": [
"emotions",
"check_in"
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"options": [
{
"id": "believe_me",
"text": "Believe me"
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{
"id": "ask_gently",
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{
"id": "give_space",
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{
"id": "check_later",
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]
},
{
"id": "communication_167",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes feedback easier to receive?",
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"tags": [
"feedback",
"growth"
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"options": [
{
"id": "specific_examples",
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{
"id": "kind_tone",
"text": "Kind tone"
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{
"id": "private_setting",
"text": "Private setting"
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{
"id": "clear_request",
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},
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"id": "communication_168",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes feedback harder to receive?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"feedback",
"defensiveness"
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"options": [
{
"id": "blame",
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{
"id": "public_setting",
"text": "Public setting"
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{
"id": "bad_timing",
"text": "Bad timing"
},
{
"id": "harsh_tone",
"text": "Harsh tone"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_169",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps you return after a fight?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"repair",
"conflict"
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"options": [
{
"id": "apology",
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{
"id": "touch",
"text": "Touch"
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{
"id": "space_first",
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},
{
"id": "talking_it_through",
"text": "Talking it through"
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},
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"id": "communication_170",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes a repair feel real?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"repair",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "changed_behavior",
"text": "Changed behavior"
},
{
"id": "clear_apology",
"text": "Clear apology"
},
{
"id": "no_excuses",
"text": "No excuses"
},
{
"id": "gentle_follow_up",
"text": "Gentle follow-up"
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},
{
"id": "communication_171",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When I vent, what should you do first?",
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"tags": [
"venting",
"support"
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"options": [
{
"id": "listen",
"text": "Listen"
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{
"id": "ask_questions",
"text": "Ask questions"
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{
"id": "validate",
"text": "Validate"
},
{
"id": "offer_help",
"text": "Offer help"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_172",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which conversation format feels safest?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"safety",
"format"
],
"options": [
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"id": "face_to_face",
"text": "Face to face"
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{
"id": "text_first",
"text": "Text first"
},
{
"id": "walk_and_talk",
"text": "Walk and talk"
},
{
"id": "planned_check_in",
"text": "Planned check-in"
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]
},
{
"id": "communication_173",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "How often should we have deeper check-ins?",
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"tags": [
"check_in",
"routine"
],
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{
"id": "daily",
"text": "Daily"
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{
"id": "weekly",
"text": "Weekly"
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{
"id": "monthly",
"text": "Monthly"
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{
"id": "only_when_needed",
"text": "Only when needed"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_174",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should we avoid during conflict?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conflict",
"boundaries"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "name_calling",
"text": "Name calling"
},
{
"id": "interrupting",
"text": "Interrupting"
},
{
"id": "leaving_abruptly",
"text": "Leaving abruptly"
},
{
"id": "bringing_up_old_fights",
"text": "Bringing up old fights"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_175",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps you feel like we are a team?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"teamwork",
"conflict"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "shared_language",
"text": "Shared language"
},
{
"id": "calm_tone",
"text": "Calm tone"
},
{
"id": "problem_solving",
"text": "Problem solving"
},
{
"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_176",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes you feel alone in a hard talk?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"loneliness",
"conflict"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "silence",
"text": "Silence"
},
{
"id": "defensiveness",
"text": "Defensiveness"
},
{
"id": "dismissal",
"text": "Dismissal"
},
{
"id": "coldness",
"text": "Coldness"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_177",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "How do you prefer reassurance?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reassurance",
"needs"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "words",
"text": "Words"
},
{
"id": "actions",
"text": "Actions"
},
{
"id": "touch",
"text": "Touch"
},
{
"id": "consistency",
"text": "Consistency"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_178",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of question opens you up?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"questions",
"vulnerability"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "gentle",
"text": "Gentle"
},
{
"id": "specific",
"text": "Specific"
},
{
"id": "curious",
"text": "Curious"
},
{
"id": "simple",
"text": "Simple"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_179",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of question closes you down?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"questions",
"shutdown"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "loaded",
"text": "Loaded"
},
{
"id": "rushed",
"text": "Rushed"
},
{
"id": "accusing",
"text": "Accusing"
},
{
"id": "too_broad",
"text": "Too broad"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_180",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is your first reaction to conflict?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conflict",
"pattern"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "talk_more",
"text": "Talk more"
},
{
"id": "go_quiet",
"text": "Go quiet"
},
{
"id": "get_defensive",
"text": "Get defensive"
},
{
"id": "need_space",
"text": "Need space"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_181",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is hardest to say clearly?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"honesty",
"vulnerability"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "needs",
"text": "Needs"
},
{
"id": "fears",
"text": "Fears"
},
{
"id": "disappointment",
"text": "Disappointment"
},
{
"id": "boundaries",
"text": "Boundaries"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_182",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is easiest to talk about?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"ease",
"conversation"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "plans",
"text": "Plans"
},
{
"id": "feelings",
"text": "Feelings"
},
{
"id": "daily_life",
"text": "Daily life"
},
{
"id": "dreams",
"text": "Dreams"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_183",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should we name sooner?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"awareness",
"repair"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "stress",
"text": "Stress"
},
{
"id": "distance",
"text": "Distance"
},
{
"id": "hurt",
"text": "Hurt"
},
{
"id": "confusion",
"text": "Confusion"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_184",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps you believe I understand?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"understanding",
"listening"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "repeating_back",
"text": "Repeating back"
},
{
"id": "asking_more",
"text": "Asking more"
},
{
"id": "changing_behavior",
"text": "Changing behavior"
},
{
"id": "staying_calm",
"text": "Staying calm"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_185",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes you feel interrupted?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"attention",
"respect"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "cutting_in",
"text": "Cutting in"
},
{
"id": "finishing_sentences",
"text": "Finishing sentences"
},
{
"id": "changing_topics",
"text": "Changing topics"
},
{
"id": "checking_phone",
"text": "Checking phone"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_186",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What would improve our daily talks most?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"daily_life",
"improvement"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "more_time",
"text": "More time"
},
{
"id": "more_patience",
"text": "More patience"
},
{
"id": "more_honesty",
"text": "More honesty"
},
{
"id": "fewer_distractions",
"text": "Fewer distractions"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_187",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is your preferred conflict pace?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conflict",
"timing"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "resolve_now",
"text": "Resolve now"
},
{
"id": "pause_first",
"text": "Pause first"
},
{
"id": "sleep_on_it",
"text": "Sleep on it"
},
{
"id": "schedule_it",
"text": "Schedule it"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_188",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should we do after a misunderstanding?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"misunderstanding",
"repair"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "clarify",
"text": "Clarify"
},
{
"id": "apologize",
"text": "Apologize"
},
{
"id": "laugh_gently",
"text": "Laugh gently"
},
{
"id": "check_feelings",
"text": "Check feelings"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_189",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes honesty feel safer?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"honesty",
"safety"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "no_punishment",
"text": "No punishment"
},
{
"id": "kind_tone",
"text": "Kind tone"
},
{
"id": "clear_listening",
"text": "Clear listening"
},
{
"id": "time_to_explain",
"text": "Time to explain"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_190",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should be our reset phrase?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"repair",
"reset"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "can_we_restart",
"text": "Can we restart?"
},
{
"id": "i_want_to_understand",
"text": "I want to understand"
},
{
"id": "same_team",
"text": "Same team"
},
{
"id": "pause_and_come_back",
"text": "Pause and come back"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_191",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which things help you feel listened to? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"listening",
"attention"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "eye_contact",
"text": "Eye contact"
},
{
"id": "no_interrupting",
"text": "No interrupting"
},
{
"id": "follow_up_questions",
"text": "Follow-up questions"
},
{
"id": "remembering_later",
"text": "Remembering later"
},
{
"id": "putting_phone_away",
"text": "Putting phone away"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "communication_192",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which things make hard talks harder for you? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conflict",
"triggers"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "raised_voices",
"text": "Raised voices"
},
{
"id": "bad_timing",
"text": "Bad timing"
},
{
"id": "feeling_blamed",
"text": "Feeling blamed"
},
{
"id": "sarcasm",
"text": "Sarcasm"
},
{
"id": "too_much_pressure",
"text": "Too much pressure"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "communication_193",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which topics need better communication between us? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"topics",
"growth"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "plans",
"text": "Plans"
},
{
"id": "feelings",
"text": "Feelings"
},
{
"id": "money",
"text": "Money"
},
{
"id": "family",
"text": "Family"
},
{
"id": "household_needs",
"text": "Household needs"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "communication_194",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which support styles do you like most? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"support",
"needs"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "comfort",
"text": "Comfort"
},
{
"id": "advice",
"text": "Advice"
},
{
"id": "practical_help",
"text": "Practical help"
},
{
"id": "space",
"text": "Space"
},
{
"id": "encouragement",
"text": "Encouragement"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "communication_195",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs show you are overwhelmed? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"stress",
"signals"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "quietness",
"text": "Quietness"
},
{
"id": "irritability",
"text": "Irritability"
},
{
"id": "tiredness",
"text": "Tiredness"
},
{
"id": "avoidance",
"text": "Avoidance"
},
{
"id": "overexplaining",
"text": "Overexplaining"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "communication_196",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which repair actions matter after conflict? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"repair",
"conflict"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "apology",
"text": "Apology"
},
{
"id": "changed_behavior",
"text": "Changed behavior"
},
{
"id": "physical_comfort",
"text": "Physical comfort"
},
{
"id": "talking_it_through",
"text": "Talking it through"
},
{
"id": "time_to_cool_off",
"text": "Time to cool off"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "communication_197",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which communication habits should we protect? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"strengths",
"habits"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "humor",
"text": "Humor"
},
{
"id": "honesty",
"text": "Honesty"
},
{
"id": "gentleness",
"text": "Gentleness"
},
{
"id": "check_ins",
"text": "Check-ins"
},
{
"id": "saying_thank_you",
"text": "Saying thank you"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "communication_198",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which communication habits should we reduce? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"growth",
"habits"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "interrupting",
"text": "Interrupting"
},
{
"id": "assuming",
"text": "Assuming"
},
{
"id": "avoiding",
"text": "Avoiding"
},
{
"id": "defending",
"text": "Defending"
},
{
"id": "rushing",
"text": "Rushing"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "communication_199",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which moments are best for deeper conversations? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"timing",
"routine"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "morning",
"text": "Morning"
},
{
"id": "afternoon",
"text": "Afternoon"
},
{
"id": "evening",
"text": "Evening"
},
{
"id": "during_walks",
"text": "During walks"
},
{
"id": "planned_time",
"text": "Planned time"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "communication_200",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which moments are worst for deeper conversations? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"timing",
"boundaries"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "when_hungry",
"text": "When hungry"
},
{
"id": "before_work",
"text": "Before work"
},
{
"id": "late_at_night",
"text": "Late at night"
},
{
"id": "in_public",
"text": "In public"
},
{
"id": "during_chores",
"text": "During chores"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "communication_201",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which feelings are hardest for you to name? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"emotions",
"vulnerability"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "fear",
"text": "Fear"
},
{
"id": "sadness",
"text": "Sadness"
},
{
"id": "anger",
"text": "Anger"
},
{
"id": "shame",
"text": "Shame"
},
{
"id": "disappointment",
"text": "Disappointment"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "communication_202",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which things make feedback easier? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"feedback",
"safety"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "kind_tone",
"text": "Kind tone"
},
{
"id": "specific_examples",
"text": "Specific examples"
},
{
"id": "private_setting",
"text": "Private setting"
},
{
"id": "clear_request",
"text": "Clear request"
},
{
"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "communication_203",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which things make you feel dismissed? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"dismissal",
"attention"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "changing_the_topic",
"text": "Changing the topic"
},
{
"id": "joking_too_soon",
"text": "Joking too soon"
},
{
"id": "giving_quick_advice",
"text": "Giving quick advice"
},
{
"id": "saying_it_is_not_a_big_deal",
"text": "Saying it is not a big deal"
},
{
"id": "looking_distracted",
"text": "Looking distracted"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "communication_204",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which things help us feel like a team? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"teamwork",
"repair"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "shared_plans",
"text": "Shared plans"
},
{
"id": "calm_language",
"text": "Calm language"
},
{
"id": "checking_assumptions",
"text": "Checking assumptions"
},
{
"id": "solving_together",
"text": "Solving together"
},
{
"id": "affection_after_tension",
"text": "Affection after tension"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "communication_205",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which boundaries would help our conversations? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"boundaries",
"conflict"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "no_yelling",
"text": "No yelling"
},
{
"id": "no_name_calling",
"text": "No name calling"
},
{
"id": "no_phone_distractions",
"text": "No phone distractions"
},
{
"id": "pause_allowed",
"text": "Pause allowed"
},
{
"id": "return_time_agreed",
"text": "Return time agreed"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "communication_206",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which text habits should we improve? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"texting",
"digital"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "reply_expectations",
"text": "Reply expectations"
},
{
"id": "tone_clarity",
"text": "Tone clarity"
},
{
"id": "hard_topics_by_text",
"text": "Hard topics by text"
},
{
"id": "check_ins",
"text": "Check-ins"
},
{
"id": "plan_details",
"text": "Plan details"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "communication_207",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which ways do you show you care during talks? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"care",
"listening"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "listening",
"text": "Listening"
},
{
"id": "asking_questions",
"text": "Asking questions"
},
{
"id": "helping_solve",
"text": "Helping solve"
},
{
"id": "offering_touch",
"text": "Offering touch"
},
{
"id": "following_up_later",
"text": "Following up later"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "communication_208",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which ways do you want me to show care during talks? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"care",
"needs"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "listen_longer",
"text": "Listen longer"
},
{
"id": "ask_gently",
"text": "Ask gently"
},
{
"id": "validate_first",
"text": "Validate first"
},
{
"id": "offer_help",
"text": "Offer help"
},
{
"id": "stay_close",
"text": "Stay close"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "communication_209",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which things should we clarify more often? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"clarity",
"expectations"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "plans",
"text": "Plans"
},
{
"id": "expectations",
"text": "Expectations"
},
{
"id": "needs",
"text": "Needs"
},
{
"id": "boundaries",
"text": "Boundaries"
},
{
"id": "feelings",
"text": "Feelings"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "communication_210",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which goals should we set for communication? Select all that apply.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"goals",
"growth"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "listen_better",
"text": "Listen better"
},
{
"id": "speak_sooner",
"text": "Speak sooner"
},
{
"id": "pause_kindly",
"text": "Pause kindly"
},
{
"id": "repair_faster",
"text": "Repair faster"
},
{
"id": "assume_less",
"text": "Assume less"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 5
}
},
{
"id": "communication_211",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How heard did you feel by me this week?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"listening",
"weekly_check_in"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not heard",
"max_label": "Very heard",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_212",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy does it feel to bring up hard topics with me right now?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"safety",
"hard_topics"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Very hard",
"max_label": "Very easy",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_213",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How clearly do you feel I communicate my needs?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"needs",
"clarity"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not clearly",
"max_label": "Very clearly",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_214",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How clearly do you feel you communicate your needs to me?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"needs",
"self_awareness"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not clearly",
"max_label": "Very clearly",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_215",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How safe does disagreement feel between us right now?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conflict",
"safety"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not safe",
"max_label": "Very safe",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_216",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How often do you feel interrupted by me?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"listening",
"respect"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Never",
"max_label": "Very often",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_217",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How often do you feel understood by me?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"understanding",
"connection"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Rarely",
"max_label": "Very often",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_218",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we repair after conflict?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"repair",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Poorly",
"max_label": "Very well",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_219",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable are you asking me for support?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"support",
"vulnerability"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
"max_label": "Very comfortable",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_220",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable are you telling me no?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"boundaries",
"honesty"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
"max_label": "Very comfortable",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_221",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do phone distractions affect our conversations?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"digital",
"attention"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not at all",
"max_label": "A lot",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_222",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we handle serious talks by text?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"texting",
"hard_topics"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Poorly",
"max_label": "Very well",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_223",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much patience do you feel from me during hard conversations?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"patience",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Very little",
"max_label": "A lot",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_224",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much patience do you feel you give me during hard conversations?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"patience",
"self_awareness"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Very little",
"max_label": "A lot",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_225",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How connected do you feel after our everyday conversations?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"daily_life",
"connection"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Disconnected",
"max_label": "Very connected",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_226",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How honest do you feel you can be with me right now?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"honesty",
"safety"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not honest",
"max_label": "Fully honest",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_227",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do I notice when something is wrong?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"awareness",
"emotions"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not well",
"max_label": "Very well",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_228",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do you feel we make space for both opinions?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"respect",
"disagreement"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not well",
"max_label": "Very well",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_229",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How often do we assume instead of ask?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"assumptions",
"clarity"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Never",
"max_label": "Very often",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_230",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How effective are our check-ins right now?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"check_in",
"routine"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not effective",
"max_label": "Very effective",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_231",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How respected do you feel when we disagree?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"respect",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not respected",
"max_label": "Very respected",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_232",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How confident are you that we can talk through hard seasons?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"resilience",
"future"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not confident",
"max_label": "Very confident",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_233",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much emotional support do you feel from me?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"support",
"connection"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Very little",
"max_label": "A lot",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_234",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we explain what we need without blaming?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"needs",
"blame"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not well",
"max_label": "Very well",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_235",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How hopeful do you feel about improving our communication?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"hope",
"growth"
],
"answer_config": {
"min_scale": 1,
"max_scale": 5,
"min_label": "Not hopeful",
"max_label": "Very hopeful",
"scale_step": 1
}
},
{
"id": "communication_236",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Talk it out right away or take time to think first?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"timing",
"conflict"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "talk_right_away",
"text": "Talk right away"
},
{
"id": "take_time_first",
"text": "Take time first"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_237",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Comfort first or solutions first?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"support",
"preferences"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "comfort_first",
"text": "Comfort first"
},
{
"id": "solutions_first",
"text": "Solutions first"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_238",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Direct honesty or gentle buildup?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"honesty",
"tone"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "direct_honesty",
"text": "Direct honesty"
},
{
"id": "gentle_buildup",
"text": "Gentle buildup"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_239",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Planned check-in or natural conversation?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"check_in",
"routine"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "planned_check_in",
"text": "Planned check-in"
},
{
"id": "natural_conversation",
"text": "Natural conversation"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_240",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Text first or talk face to face?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"format",
"communication"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "text_first",
"text": "Text first"
},
{
"id": "face_to_face",
"text": "Face to face"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_241",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Space after conflict or closeness after conflict?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"repair",
"conflict"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "space_after_conflict",
"text": "Space after conflict"
},
{
"id": "closeness_after_conflict",
"text": "Closeness after conflict"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_242",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Short apology or detailed apology?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"apology",
"repair"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "short_apology",
"text": "Short apology"
},
{
"id": "detailed_apology",
"text": "Detailed apology"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_243",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Ask more questions or give more reassurance?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"support",
"listening"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_more_questions",
"text": "Ask more questions"
},
{
"id": "give_more_reassurance",
"text": "Give more reassurance"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_244",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Say it now or wait for a better time?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"timing",
"hard_topics"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "say_it_now",
"text": "Say it now"
},
{
"id": "wait_for_a_better_time",
"text": "Wait for a better time"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_245",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Listen quietly or reflect back what you heard?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"listening",
"style"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "listen_quietly",
"text": "Listen quietly"
},
{
"id": "reflect_back",
"text": "Reflect back"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_246",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Humor to lighten the mood or seriousness first?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"humor",
"tone"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "humor_helps",
"text": "Humor helps"
},
{
"id": "seriousness_first",
"text": "Seriousness first"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_247",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "More daily updates or fewer but deeper updates?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"daily_life",
"connection"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "more_daily_updates",
"text": "More daily updates"
},
{
"id": "fewer_deeper_updates",
"text": "Fewer deeper updates"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_248",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Name feelings or name needs?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"emotions",
"needs"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "name_feelings",
"text": "Name feelings"
},
{
"id": "name_needs",
"text": "Name needs"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_249",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Pause with a timer or pause without a timer?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"pause",
"conflict"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "timer_pause",
"text": "Timer pause"
},
{
"id": "no_timer_pause",
"text": "No timer pause"
}
]
},
{
"id": "communication_250",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Speak softer or speak more clearly?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"tone",
"clarity"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "softer",
"text": "Softer"
},
{
"id": "more_clearly",
"text": "More clearly"
}
]
}
]
}
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