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{
"category": {
"id": "conflict",
"display_name": "Conflict",
"description": "Warm, practical questions that help couples understand conflict styles, talk through disagreements, prevent escalation, and stay on the same team.",
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"text": "What usually helps you stay calm when we disagree?",
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"text": "What is one small thing that can make a disagreement feel worse?",
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"text": "What kind of tone helps you stay open?",
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"text": "What kind of tone makes you shut down?",
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"id": "conflict_005",
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"text": "What helps you feel heard during a disagreement?",
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"listening",
"heard",
"conflict"
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"id": "conflict_006",
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"text": "What makes it easier for you to hear my side?",
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"perspective",
"listening",
"conflict"
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"id": "conflict_007",
"category_id": "conflict",
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"text": "What is one topic we should handle more gently?",
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"id": "conflict_008",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps a hard conversation feel less like a fight?",
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"communication",
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"conflict"
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"id": "conflict_009",
"category_id": "conflict",
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"text": "What is one phrase that helps us slow down?",
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"phrases",
"deescalation",
"conflict"
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"id": "conflict_010",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one phrase that makes things worse?",
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"conflict"
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{
"id": "conflict_011",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you say what you mean without getting sharper?",
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"words",
"self_control",
"conflict"
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"id": "conflict_012",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you listen without planning your defense?",
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"defensiveness",
"listening",
"conflict"
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"id": "conflict_013",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes you feel like I am on your side, even when we disagree?",
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"teamwork",
"disagreement",
"conflict"
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"id": "conflict_014",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes you feel like we are becoming opponents?",
"depth": 4,
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"teamwork",
"escalation",
"conflict"
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"max_length": 500
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"id": "conflict_015",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one thing we can do before a small issue turns big?",
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"prevention",
"small_issues",
"conflict"
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"id": "conflict_016",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of timing helps you talk about something hard?",
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"timing",
"communication",
"conflict"
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"id": "conflict_017",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of timing almost guarantees it will go badly?",
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"timing",
"conflict"
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{
"id": "conflict_018",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you bring up frustration kindly?",
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"frustration",
"kindness",
"conflict"
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{
"id": "conflict_019",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you receive frustration without taking it as an attack?",
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"frustration",
"listening",
"conflict"
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{
"id": "conflict_020",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one disagreement pattern you want us to notice sooner?",
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"patterns",
"awareness",
"conflict"
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"id": "conflict_021",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps us disagree without disrespecting each other?",
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"respect",
"disagreement",
"conflict"
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{
"id": "conflict_022",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes you feel respected when I see something differently?",
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"respect",
"differences",
"conflict"
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"id": "conflict_023",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one way we can stay softer when we are tired?",
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"tired",
"softness",
"conflict"
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{
"id": "conflict_024",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one way we can stay kinder when we are stressed?",
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"stress",
"kindness",
"conflict"
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{
"id": "conflict_025",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you not assume the worst of me?",
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"assumptions",
"trust",
"conflict"
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"id": "conflict_026",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps me not assume the worst of you?",
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"assumptions",
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"id": "conflict_027",
"category_id": "conflict",
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"text": "What makes a conversation feel safe enough to be honest?",
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"honesty",
"safety",
"conflict"
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},
{
"id": "conflict_028",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What should we both avoid when we are hungry, tired, or overloaded?",
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"daily_life",
"stress",
"conflict"
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"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_029",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one sign that we need to pause?",
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"pause",
"signals",
"conflict"
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},
{
"id": "conflict_030",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one sign that we can keep talking?",
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"communication",
"signals",
"conflict"
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},
{
"id": "conflict_031",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you feel comfortable asking for a pause?",
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"pause",
"comfort",
"conflict"
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{
"id": "conflict_032",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you feel okay when I ask for a pause?",
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"pause",
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"conflict"
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},
{
"id": "conflict_033",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one thing we should never do just to win an argument?",
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"winning",
"boundaries",
"conflict"
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},
{
"id": "conflict_034",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What does fighting fair mean to you?",
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"fair_fighting",
"values",
"conflict"
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{
"id": "conflict_035",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps us remember the real issue instead of piling on?",
"depth": 4,
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"focus",
"patterns",
"conflict"
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},
{
"id": "conflict_036",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one thing we could stop bringing up during unrelated arguments?",
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"past",
"focus",
"conflict"
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},
{
"id": "conflict_037",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes criticism easier to hear?",
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"feedback",
"criticism",
"conflict"
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{
"id": "conflict_038",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes criticism feel too harsh?",
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"feedback",
"tone",
"conflict"
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},
{
"id": "conflict_039",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps a complaint become a request?",
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"requests",
"communication",
"conflict"
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},
{
"id": "conflict_040",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one request you wish I heard more clearly?",
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"requests",
"listening",
"conflict"
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},
{
"id": "conflict_041",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps us talk about differences without trying to fix each other?",
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"differences",
"acceptance",
"conflict"
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},
{
"id": "conflict_042",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one difference between us that needs more patience?",
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"differences",
"patience",
"conflict"
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},
{
"id": "conflict_043",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes a hard talk feel more like teamwork?",
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"teamwork",
"communication",
"conflict"
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},
{
"id": "conflict_044",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one way we can protect love while we disagree?",
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"tags": [
"love",
"disagreement",
"conflict"
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},
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"id": "conflict_045",
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"text": "What would make conflict feel less scary for us?",
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"safety",
"conflict"
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"id": "conflict_046",
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"type": "written",
"text": "How can we talk about money stress without turning it into a fight?",
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"money",
"stress",
"communication",
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"id": "conflict_047",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What usually makes money stress feel bigger than it is?",
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"money",
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"escalation",
"conflict"
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"id": "conflict_048",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would help money stress feel easier to bring up?",
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"money",
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"id": "conflict_049",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What should we avoid doing when money stress is the issue?",
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"money",
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"id": "conflict_050",
"category_id": "conflict",
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"text": "What do you wish I understood about money stress?",
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"money",
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"conflict"
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"id": "conflict_051",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What small change would help us handle money stress better next time?",
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"money",
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"id": "conflict_052",
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"text": "What helps you stay kind when money stress comes up?",
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"money",
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"id": "conflict_053",
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"type": "written",
"text": "How can we talk about chores without turning it into a fight?",
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"chores",
"home",
"communication",
"conflict"
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"id": "conflict_054",
"category_id": "conflict",
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"text": "What usually makes chores feel bigger than it is?",
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"chores",
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"id": "conflict_055",
"category_id": "conflict",
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"text": "What would help chores feel easier to bring up?",
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"chores",
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"conflict"
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"id": "conflict_056",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What should we avoid doing when chores is the issue?",
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"chores",
"home",
"boundaries",
"conflict"
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"id": "conflict_057",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What do you wish I understood about chores?",
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"chores",
"home",
"understanding",
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"id": "conflict_058",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What small change would help us handle chores better next time?",
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"chores",
"home",
"small_changes",
"conflict"
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"id": "conflict_059",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you stay kind when chores comes up?",
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"chores",
"home",
"kindness",
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"id": "conflict_060",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "How can we talk about family opinions without turning it into a fight?",
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"family",
"outside_pressure",
"communication",
"conflict"
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"category_id": "conflict",
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"text": "What usually makes family opinions feel bigger than it is?",
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"tags": [
"family",
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"escalation",
"conflict"
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"id": "conflict_062",
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"text": "What would help family opinions feel easier to bring up?",
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"family",
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"text": "What should we avoid doing when family opinions is the issue?",
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"family",
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"boundaries",
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"text": "What do you wish I understood about family opinions?",
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"family",
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"id": "conflict_065",
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"text": "What small change would help us handle family opinions better next time?",
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"family",
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"conflict"
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"text": "What helps you stay kind when family opinions comes up?",
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"family",
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"kindness",
"conflict"
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"id": "conflict_067",
"category_id": "conflict",
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"text": "How can we talk about last-minute plans without turning it into a fight?",
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"planning",
"scheduling",
"communication",
"conflict"
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},
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"id": "conflict_068",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What usually makes last-minute plans feel bigger than it is?",
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"planning",
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"escalation",
"conflict"
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"id": "conflict_069",
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"tags": [
"work",
"stress",
"kindness",
"conflict"
],
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"max_length": 500
}
},
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"id": "conflict_137",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "How can we talk about affection when stressed without turning it into a fight?",
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"tags": [
"affection",
"stress",
"communication",
"conflict"
],
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"max_length": 500
}
},
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"id": "conflict_138",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What usually makes affection when stressed feel bigger than it is?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"affection",
"stress",
"escalation",
"conflict"
],
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"max_length": 500
}
},
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"id": "conflict_139",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would help affection when stressed feel easier to bring up?",
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"tags": [
"affection",
"stress",
"ease",
"conflict"
],
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"max_length": 500
}
},
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"id": "conflict_140",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What should we avoid doing when affection when stressed is the issue?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"affection",
"stress",
"boundaries",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
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"id": "conflict_141",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What do you wish I understood about affection when stressed?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"affection",
"stress",
"understanding",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_142",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What small change would help us handle affection when stressed better next time?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"affection",
"stress",
"small_changes",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
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"id": "conflict_143",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you stay kind when affection when stressed comes up?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"affection",
"stress",
"kindness",
"conflict"
],
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"max_length": 500
}
},
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"id": "conflict_144",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "How can we talk about feeling unappreciated without turning it into a fight?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"appreciation",
"needs",
"communication",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_145",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What usually makes feeling unappreciated feel bigger than it is?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"appreciation",
"needs",
"escalation",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_146",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would help feeling unappreciated feel easier to bring up?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"appreciation",
"needs",
"ease",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_147",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What should we avoid doing when feeling unappreciated is the issue?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"appreciation",
"needs",
"boundaries",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
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"id": "conflict_148",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What do you wish I understood about feeling unappreciated?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"appreciation",
"needs",
"understanding",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_149",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What small change would help us handle feeling unappreciated better next time?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"appreciation",
"needs",
"small_changes",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_150",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you stay kind when feeling unappreciated comes up?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"appreciation",
"needs",
"kindness",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_151",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps you cool down fastest?",
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"tags": [
"calm",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "space",
"text": "Space"
},
{
"id": "quiet",
"text": "Quiet"
},
{
"id": "walk",
"text": "A walk"
},
{
"id": "soft_words",
"text": "Soft words"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_152",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What escalates conflict fastest for you?",
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"tags": [
"escalation",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "tone",
"text": "Tone"
},
{
"id": "interrupting",
"text": "Interrupting"
},
{
"id": "sarcasm",
"text": "Sarcasm"
},
{
"id": "old_topics",
"text": "Old topics"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_153",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps you feel heard in the moment?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"listening",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "repeat_back",
"text": "Repeat back"
},
{
"id": "ask_questions",
"text": "Ask questions"
},
{
"id": "no_interrupting",
"text": "No interrupting"
},
{
"id": "eye_contact",
"text": "Eye contact"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_154",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps you hear me better?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"listening",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "soft_tone",
"text": "Soft tone"
},
{
"id": "shorter_words",
"text": "Shorter words"
},
{
"id": "one_topic",
"text": "One topic"
},
{
"id": "good_timing",
"text": "Good timing"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_155",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When should we pause a hard talk?",
"depth": 3,
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"tags": [
"pause",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "voices_rise",
"text": "Voices rise"
},
{
"id": "we_repeat",
"text": "We repeat ourselves"
},
{
"id": "someone_shuts_down",
"text": "Someone shuts down"
},
{
"id": "we_get_mean",
"text": "We get mean"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_156",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What topic needs better timing?",
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"access": "free",
"tags": [
"timing",
"conflict"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "money",
"text": "Money"
},
{
"id": "family",
"text": "Family"
},
{
"id": "chores",
"text": "Chores"
},
{
"id": "future_plans",
"text": "Future plans"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_157",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps frustration come out softer?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"frustration",
"conflict"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "name_feeling",
"text": "Name the feeling"
},
{
"id": "ask_request",
"text": "Make a request"
},
{
"id": "pause_first",
"text": "Pause first"
},
{
"id": "use_i_feel",
"text": "Use I feel"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_158",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes you feel attacked?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"defensiveness",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "blame",
"text": "Blame"
},
{
"id": "labels",
"text": "Labels"
},
{
"id": "loud_voice",
"text": "Loud voice"
},
{
"id": "mind_reading",
"text": "Mind-reading"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_159",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps us stay on the same team?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"teamwork",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "use_we",
"text": "Use we"
},
{
"id": "drop_winning",
"text": "Drop winning"
},
{
"id": "remember_goal",
"text": "Remember the goal"
},
{
"id": "soften_tone",
"text": "Soften tone"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_160",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should we avoid to fight fair?",
"depth": 4,
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"tags": [
"fair_fighting",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "name_calling",
"text": "Name-calling"
},
{
"id": "threats",
"text": "Threats"
},
{
"id": "past_pile_on",
"text": "Past pile-on"
},
{
"id": "silent_treatment",
"text": "Silent treatment"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_161",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of reminder helps during conflict?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"reminders",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "gentle",
"text": "Gentle"
},
{
"id": "direct",
"text": "Direct"
},
{
"id": "short",
"text": "Short"
},
{
"id": "private_signal",
"text": "Private signal"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_162",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What usually hides underneath your anger?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"anger",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "hurt",
"text": "Hurt"
},
{
"id": "fear",
"text": "Fear"
},
{
"id": "stress",
"text": "Stress"
},
{
"id": "feeling_unheard",
"text": "Feeling unheard"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_163",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps when one of us shuts down?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"shutdown",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "space",
"text": "Space"
},
{
"id": "gentle_check",
"text": "Gentle check-in"
},
{
"id": "less_pressure",
"text": "Less pressure"
},
{
"id": "return_time",
"text": "Return time"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_164",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps when one of us pushes too hard?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"pressure",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "slow_down",
"text": "Slow down"
},
{
"id": "pause",
"text": "Pause"
},
{
"id": "soften_words",
"text": "Soften words"
},
{
"id": "name_it",
"text": "Name it kindly"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_165",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes conflict less scary?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"safety",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "kind_tone",
"text": "Kind tone"
},
{
"id": "clear_pause",
"text": "Clear pause"
},
{
"id": "no_threats",
"text": "No threats"
},
{
"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_166",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which conflict pattern should we notice earlier?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"patterns",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "shut_down",
"text": "Shut down"
},
{
"id": "push_harder",
"text": "Push harder"
},
{
"id": "get_loud",
"text": "Get loud"
},
{
"id": "bring_up_past",
"text": "Bring up the past"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_167",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes defensiveness worse?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"defensiveness",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "blame",
"text": "Blame"
},
{
"id": "shame",
"text": "Shame"
},
{
"id": "bad_timing",
"text": "Bad timing"
},
{
"id": "feeling_unheard",
"text": "Feeling unheard"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_168",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps defensiveness soften?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"defensiveness",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
},
{
"id": "kind_tone",
"text": "Kind tone"
},
{
"id": "space",
"text": "Space"
},
{
"id": "owning_a_part",
"text": "Owning a part"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_169",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes a complaint easier to hear?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"complaints",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "specific",
"text": "Specific"
},
{
"id": "kind_tone",
"text": "Kind tone"
},
{
"id": "one_topic",
"text": "One topic"
},
{
"id": "clear_request",
"text": "Clear request"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_170",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes a request easier to answer?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"requests",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "clear",
"text": "Clear"
},
{
"id": "realistic",
"text": "Realistic"
},
{
"id": "kind",
"text": "Kind"
},
{
"id": "timed_well",
"text": "Timed well"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_171",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps when we both feel right?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"perspective",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "name_both_truths",
"text": "Name both truths"
},
{
"id": "slow_down",
"text": "Slow down"
},
{
"id": "stay_curious",
"text": "Stay curious"
},
{
"id": "drop_winning",
"text": "Drop winning"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_172",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should we do when the conversation starts looping?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"looping",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "pause",
"text": "Pause"
},
{
"id": "summarize",
"text": "Summarize"
},
{
"id": "one_next_step",
"text": "One next step"
},
{
"id": "return_later",
"text": "Return later"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_173",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps with old arguments coming back?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"past",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "name_pattern",
"text": "Name pattern"
},
{
"id": "stay_current",
"text": "Stay current"
},
{
"id": "separate_topic",
"text": "Separate topic"
},
{
"id": "repair_later",
"text": "Repair later"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_174",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of boundary helps conflict stay respectful?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"boundaries",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_name_calling",
"text": "No name-calling"
},
{
"id": "no_threats",
"text": "No threats"
},
{
"id": "pause_allowed",
"text": "Pause allowed"
},
{
"id": "one_topic",
"text": "One topic"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_175",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps if one of us feels dismissed?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"dismissal",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "repeat_back",
"text": "Repeat back"
},
{
"id": "ask_more",
"text": "Ask more"
},
{
"id": "apologize",
"text": "Apologize"
},
{
"id": "stay_present",
"text": "Stay present"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_176",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps if one of us feels criticized?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"criticism",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "specific_request",
"text": "Specific request"
},
{
"id": "soft_start",
"text": "Soft start"
},
{
"id": "no_labels",
"text": "No labels"
},
{
"id": "praise_too",
"text": "Praise too"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_177",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps if one of us feels controlled?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"control",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "choice",
"text": "Choice"
},
{
"id": "ask_not_order",
"text": "Ask, not order"
},
{
"id": "space",
"text": "Space"
},
{
"id": "respect_no",
"text": "Respect no"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_178",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps if one of us feels ignored?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"attention",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "focused_time",
"text": "Focused time"
},
{
"id": "repeat_back",
"text": "Repeat back"
},
{
"id": "put_phone_down",
"text": "Put phone down"
},
{
"id": "schedule_time",
"text": "Schedule time"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_179",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps if one of us gets sarcastic?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"sarcasm",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "name_it",
"text": "Name it"
},
{
"id": "pause",
"text": "Pause"
},
{
"id": "soften",
"text": "Soften"
},
{
"id": "try_again",
"text": "Try again"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_180",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps when conflict happens in public?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"public",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "pause_it",
"text": "Pause it"
},
{
"id": "keep_private",
"text": "Keep private"
},
{
"id": "leave_kindly",
"text": "Leave kindly"
},
{
"id": "small_signal",
"text": "Small signal"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_181",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps when conflict happens before bed?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"bedtime",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "short_check",
"text": "Short check-in"
},
{
"id": "pause_kindly",
"text": "Pause kindly"
},
{
"id": "soft_words",
"text": "Soft words"
},
{
"id": "return_tomorrow",
"text": "Return tomorrow"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_182",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps when conflict happens by text?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"texting",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "call_instead",
"text": "Call instead"
},
{
"id": "slow_down",
"text": "Slow down"
},
{
"id": "no_paragraphs",
"text": "No paragraphs"
},
{
"id": "pause",
"text": "Pause"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_183",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps us not weaponize silence?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"silence",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "clear_pause",
"text": "Clear pause"
},
{
"id": "return_time",
"text": "Return time"
},
{
"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
},
{
"id": "honesty",
"text": "Honesty"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_184",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps us not weaponize words?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"words",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "slow_down",
"text": "Slow down"
},
{
"id": "no_labels",
"text": "No labels"
},
{
"id": "kind_tone",
"text": "Kind tone"
},
{
"id": "pause",
"text": "Pause"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_185",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes a hard truth easier to receive?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"honesty",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "love_first",
"text": "Love first"
},
{
"id": "soft_tone",
"text": "Soft tone"
},
{
"id": "specific",
"text": "Specific"
},
{
"id": "private",
"text": "Private"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_186",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps when the issue is really stress?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"stress",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "name_stress",
"text": "Name stress"
},
{
"id": "reduce_load",
"text": "Reduce load"
},
{
"id": "pause",
"text": "Pause"
},
{
"id": "comfort",
"text": "Comfort"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_187",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps when the issue is really fear?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"fear",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
},
{
"id": "ask_gently",
"text": "Ask gently"
},
{
"id": "slow_down",
"text": "Slow down"
},
{
"id": "stay_close",
"text": "Stay close"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_188",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps when the issue is really feeling unseen?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"unseen",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "attention",
"text": "Attention"
},
{
"id": "specific_words",
"text": "Specific words"
},
{
"id": "listening",
"text": "Listening"
},
{
"id": "time",
"text": "Time"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_189",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps when neither of us has much patience?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"patience",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "pause",
"text": "Pause"
},
{
"id": "lower_expectations",
"text": "Lower expectations"
},
{
"id": "handle_later",
"text": "Handle later"
},
{
"id": "be_kind",
"text": "Be kind"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_190",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What would make our next disagreement healthier?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"future",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "pause_earlier",
"text": "Pause earlier"
},
{
"id": "listen_longer",
"text": "Listen longer"
},
{
"id": "one_topic",
"text": "One topic"
},
{
"id": "softer_start",
"text": "Softer start"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_191",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us stay respectful during conflict?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"respect",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "soft_tone",
"text": "Soft tone"
},
{
"id": "no_interrupting",
"text": "No interrupting"
},
{
"id": "one_topic",
"text": "One topic"
},
{
"id": "pause_allowed",
"text": "Pause allowed"
},
{
"id": "no_name_calling",
"text": "No name-calling"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_192",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What tends to escalate conflict for us?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"escalation",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "tone",
"text": "Tone"
},
{
"id": "timing",
"text": "Timing"
},
{
"id": "phones",
"text": "Phones"
},
{
"id": "old_topics",
"text": "Old topics"
},
{
"id": "interrupting",
"text": "Interrupting"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_193",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps a hard talk go better?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"communication",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "good_timing",
"text": "Good timing"
},
{
"id": "soft_start",
"text": "Soft start"
},
{
"id": "clear_request",
"text": "Clear request"
},
{
"id": "breaks_allowed",
"text": "Breaks allowed"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_194",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you feel heard?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"listening",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "repeat_back",
"text": "Repeat back"
},
{
"id": "ask_questions",
"text": "Ask questions"
},
{
"id": "no_fixing_yet",
"text": "No fixing yet"
},
{
"id": "eye_contact",
"text": "Eye contact"
},
{
"id": "patience",
"text": "Patience"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_195",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should we avoid when upset?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"boundaries",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "sarcasm",
"text": "Sarcasm"
},
{
"id": "threats",
"text": "Threats"
},
{
"id": "name_calling",
"text": "Name-calling"
},
{
"id": "past_pile_on",
"text": "Past pile-on"
},
{
"id": "silent_treatment",
"text": "Silent treatment"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_196",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps when defensiveness shows up?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"defensiveness",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "slow_down",
"text": "Slow down"
},
{
"id": "soften_tone",
"text": "Soften tone"
},
{
"id": "ask_question",
"text": "Ask a question"
},
{
"id": "own_part",
"text": "Own a part"
},
{
"id": "take_break",
"text": "Take a break"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_197",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us respond well when one of us shuts down?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"shutdown",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "space",
"text": "Space"
},
{
"id": "gentle_check",
"text": "Gentle check-in"
},
{
"id": "less_pressure",
"text": "Less pressure"
},
{
"id": "return_time",
"text": "Return time"
},
{
"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_198",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us slow things down when one of us pushes too hard?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"pressure",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "name_it",
"text": "Name it"
},
{
"id": "slow_down",
"text": "Slow down"
},
{
"id": "take_break",
"text": "Take a break"
},
{
"id": "soften_words",
"text": "Soften words"
},
{
"id": "remember_team",
"text": "Remember team"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_199",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes feedback easier to receive?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"feedback",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "specific",
"text": "Specific"
},
{
"id": "gentle",
"text": "Gentle"
},
{
"id": "one_thing",
"text": "One thing"
},
{
"id": "good_timing",
"text": "Good timing"
},
{
"id": "praise_too",
"text": "Praise too"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_200",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us talk about money conflict?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"money",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "facts_first",
"text": "Facts first"
},
{
"id": "no_blame",
"text": "No blame"
},
{
"id": "short_check_in",
"text": "Short check-in"
},
{
"id": "shared_goal",
"text": "Shared goal"
},
{
"id": "pause_if_heated",
"text": "Pause if heated"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_201",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us talk about family conflict?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"family",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "protect_us",
"text": "Protect us"
},
{
"id": "listen_first",
"text": "Listen first"
},
{
"id": "private_talk",
"text": "Private talk"
},
{
"id": "no_sides",
"text": "No taking sides"
},
{
"id": "clear_boundary",
"text": "Clear boundary"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_202",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us talk about chores conflict?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"chores",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "specific_task",
"text": "Specific task"
},
{
"id": "fair_plan",
"text": "Fair plan"
},
{
"id": "no_scorekeeping",
"text": "No scorekeeping"
},
{
"id": "weekly_reset",
"text": "Weekly reset"
},
{
"id": "appreciation",
"text": "Appreciation"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_203",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us handle conflict by text?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"texting",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "short_messages",
"text": "Short messages"
},
{
"id": "no_assumptions",
"text": "No assumptions"
},
{
"id": "pause",
"text": "Pause"
},
{
"id": "call_instead",
"text": "Call instead"
},
{
"id": "kind_words",
"text": "Kind words"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_204",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us stay focused on one issue?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"focus",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "name_topic",
"text": "Name topic"
},
{
"id": "write_other_later",
"text": "Save other topics"
},
{
"id": "pause_pile_on",
"text": "Pause pile-on"
},
{
"id": "repeat_goal",
"text": "Repeat goal"
},
{
"id": "ask_next_step",
"text": "Ask next step"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_205",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us stay close after disagreeing?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"closeness",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
},
{
"id": "kind_touch",
"text": "Kind touch"
},
{
"id": "small_repair",
"text": "Small repair"
},
{
"id": "shared_goal",
"text": "Shared goal"
},
{
"id": "respect",
"text": "Respect"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_206",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us not make conflict personal?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"personalization",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "avoid_labels",
"text": "Avoid labels"
},
{
"id": "focus_action",
"text": "Focus on action"
},
{
"id": "assume_good",
"text": "Assume good intent"
},
{
"id": "soft_tone",
"text": "Soft tone"
},
{
"id": "own_part",
"text": "Own part"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_207",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps when we see the same situation differently?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"perspective",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "name_both_views",
"text": "Name both views"
},
{
"id": "ask_more",
"text": "Ask more"
},
{
"id": "slow_down",
"text": "Slow down"
},
{
"id": "drop_winning",
"text": "Drop winning"
},
{
"id": "look_for_overlap",
"text": "Look for overlap"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_208",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us talk before resentment builds?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"resentment",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "earlier_check_in",
"text": "Earlier check-in"
},
{
"id": "small_request",
"text": "Small request"
},
{
"id": "honesty",
"text": "Honesty"
},
{
"id": "good_timing",
"text": "Good timing"
},
{
"id": "no_punishing",
"text": "No punishing"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_209",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes conflict feel safer?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"safety",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_threats",
"text": "No threats"
},
{
"id": "clear_pauses",
"text": "Clear pauses"
},
{
"id": "kind_tone",
"text": "Kind tone"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "follow_through",
"text": "Follow-through"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_210",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us make progress during hard talks?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"progress",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "one_next_step",
"text": "One next step"
},
{
"id": "summarize",
"text": "Summarize"
},
{
"id": "stay_kind",
"text": "Stay kind"
},
{
"id": "name_goal",
"text": "Name goal"
},
{
"id": "check_understanding",
"text": "Check understanding"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_211",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How safe does disagreement feel between us?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"safety",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not safe",
"max_label": "Very safe"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_212",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to bring up frustration?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"frustration",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Hard",
"max_label": "Easy"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_213",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How heard do you feel during hard talks?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"listening",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not heard",
"max_label": "Very heard"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_214",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much does tone affect you during conflict?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"tone",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_215",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to pause before things escalate?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"pause",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Hard",
"max_label": "Easy"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_216",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do we stay on the same team when we disagree?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"teamwork",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_217",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much would one better conflict habit help us?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"habits",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_218",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How often do old patterns show up in conflict?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"patterns",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Rarely",
"max_label": "Often"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_219",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much defensiveness shows up between us?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"defensiveness",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_220",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we handle conflict about money?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"money",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Needs work",
"max_label": "Very well"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_221",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we handle conflict about family?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"family",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Needs work",
"max_label": "Very well"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_222",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we handle conflict about chores?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"chores",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Needs work",
"max_label": "Very well"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_223",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How safe does it feel to give feedback?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"feedback",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not safe",
"max_label": "Very safe"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_224",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How safe does it feel to receive feedback?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"feedback",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not safe",
"max_label": "Very safe"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_225",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do we avoid trying to win?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"winning",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_226",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How often do we loop instead of resolving?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"looping",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Rarely",
"max_label": "Often"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_227",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we respect pauses?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"pause",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Needs work",
"max_label": "Very well"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_228",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How often do assumptions make conflict worse?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"assumptions",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Rarely",
"max_label": "Often"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_229",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to name the real issue?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"clarity",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Hard",
"max_label": "Easy"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_230",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much does stress fuel our conflict?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"stress",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_231",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we stay respectful when tired?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"tired",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Needs work",
"max_label": "Very well"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_232",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How hopeful do you feel about improving conflict?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"hope",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not hopeful",
"max_label": "Very hopeful"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_233",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How often do we make conflict personal?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"personalization",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Rarely",
"max_label": "Often"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_234",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much does privacy help us disagree better?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"privacy",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_235",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much would a regular check-in prevent conflict?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"check_in",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_236",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Pause now or talk softly?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"pause",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "pause_now",
"text": "Pause now"
},
{
"id": "talk_softly",
"text": "Talk softly"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_237",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "One topic or everything at once?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"focus",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "one_topic",
"text": "One topic"
},
{
"id": "everything",
"text": "Everything at once"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_238",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Soft start or direct start?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"communication",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "soft_start",
"text": "Soft start"
},
{
"id": "direct_start",
"text": "Direct start"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_239",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Talk now or schedule it?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"timing",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "talk_now",
"text": "Talk now"
},
{
"id": "schedule_it",
"text": "Schedule it"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_240",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Understand first or solve first?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"understanding",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "understand_first",
"text": "Understand first"
},
{
"id": "solve_first",
"text": "Solve first"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_241",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Name the feeling or name the need?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"communication",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "name_feeling",
"text": "Name the feeling"
},
{
"id": "name_need",
"text": "Name the need"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_242",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Own your part or ask one question?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"accountability",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "own_part",
"text": "Own your part"
},
{
"id": "ask_question",
"text": "Ask one question"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_243",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Drop winning or keep explaining?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"winning",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "drop_winning",
"text": "Drop winning"
},
{
"id": "keep_explaining",
"text": "Keep explaining"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_244",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Lower the volume or pause the talk?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"deescalation",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "lower_volume",
"text": "Lower the volume"
},
{
"id": "pause_talk",
"text": "Pause the talk"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_245",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Text less or talk sooner?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"texting",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "text_less",
"text": "Text less"
},
{
"id": "talk_sooner",
"text": "Talk sooner"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_246",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Stay current or name the pattern?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"patterns",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "stay_current",
"text": "Stay current"
},
{
"id": "name_pattern",
"text": "Name the pattern"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_247",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Give space or offer reassurance?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"space",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "give_space",
"text": "Give space"
},
{
"id": "offer_reassurance",
"text": "Offer reassurance"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_248",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Ask for clarity or ask for softness?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"communication",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_clarity",
"text": "Ask for clarity"
},
{
"id": "ask_softness",
"text": "Ask for softness"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_249",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Handle small things sooner or let more go?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"prevention",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "sooner",
"text": "Handle small things sooner"
},
{
"id": "let_go",
"text": "Let more go"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "conflict_250",
"category_id": "conflict",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Private signal or spoken pause?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"pause",
"conflict"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "private_signal",
"text": "Private signal"
},
{
"id": "spoken_pause",
"text": "Spoken pause"
}
]
}
}
]
}
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