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"text": "When plans change, what helps you feel considered?",
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"text": "What helps you feel respected during a hard conversation?",
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"text": "What is one thing we could stop doing while arguing?",
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"text": "What makes affection feel welcome instead of expected?",
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"text": "What kind of check-in feels helpful without feeling like an interrogation?",
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"text": "What helps you say no without feeling guilty?",
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"text": "What is one thing you wish we asked before assuming?",
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"text": "What kind of social media boundary would help us feel more secure?",
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"id": "boundaries_024",
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"text": "What helps you feel like friends fit into our life in a healthy way?",
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"text": "What is one boundary that would help you decompress after work?",
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"text": "What is one thing we could keep between us instead of sharing with others?",
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"text": "When one of us is overwhelmed, what should the other avoid doing?",
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"text": "What does respectful teasing look like to you?",
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"text": "What helps you feel safe bringing up something awkward?",
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"text": "What is one boundary that would help us enjoy time together more?",
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"text": "When we are out with other people, what helps you feel respected by me?",
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"id": "boundaries_035",
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"text": "What boundary would help us avoid snapping when we are hungry, tired, or stressed?",
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"text": "What is one boundary that would make weekends feel better?",
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"text": "What is one boundary that would make date night easier to enjoy?",
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"id": "boundaries_039",
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"text": "What helps you feel included without needing every detail?",
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"text": "What kind of reminder feels helpful instead of nagging?",
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"text": "What is one thing we should not discuss when either of us is already upset?",
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"id": "boundaries_042",
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"text": "What helps you feel like your belongings are respected?",
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"text": "What should be a phone-free moment for us?",
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"text": "When we disagree about social media, what should matter most?",
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"text": "What is one thing we should agree not to post about each other?",
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"text": "When should a purchase become something we talk about first?",
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"id": "boundaries_060",
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"text": "What money conversation do we need to make less tense?",
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"text": "What boundary would help us avoid resentment around chores?",
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"text": "What boundary would help us not give all our energy away before we get to each other?",
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"text": "What should we do when one of us is too drained to talk?",
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"id": "boundaries_068",
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"text": "What does a kind no sound like from me?",
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"text": "What helps you not take my need for quiet personally?",
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"text": "During conflict, what tone crosses the line for you?",
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"text": "What helps us pause a fight without pretending everything is fine?",
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"text": "What boundary would help us talk about hard things without ambushing each other?",
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"timing",
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"text": "What is one topic that needs better timing between us?",
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"text": "What helps you feel prepared for a serious conversation?",
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"id": "boundaries_084",
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"text": "What joke has gone too far before, even if it was not meant to hurt?",
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"id": "boundaries_085",
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"text": "What helps you feel safe correcting me without worrying I will get defensive?",
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"feedback",
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"id": "boundaries_086",
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"text": "What boundary would make feedback feel like teamwork instead of criticism?",
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"feedback",
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"text": "What is one thing you wish I noticed before you had to ask?",
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"attention",
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"id": "boundaries_088",
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"text": "What helps you ask for help before you hit your limit?",
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"support",
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"text": "What does over-helping look like to you?",
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"text": "What helps touch feel loving instead of expected?",
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"id": "boundaries_093",
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"text": "When are you least open to affection, even if you love me?",
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"text": "What boundary would help us keep intimacy from feeling like pressure?",
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"text": "What makes it easier to say not tonight without hurting each other?",
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"text": "What is one way to keep closeness alive without expecting sex?",
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"text": "What privacy boundary matters most when we talk about intimacy?",
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"text": "What should always stay between us after an intimate moment?",
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"text": "What boundary would help us feel more playful without crossing a line?",
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},
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"text": "What is one playful thing you like only when the timing is right?",
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},
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"text": "What kind of surprise feels sweet, and what kind feels stressful?",
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"text": "What should never be a surprise between us?",
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"id": "boundaries_106",
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"text": "When one of us is embarrassed, what should the other do first?",
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"id": "boundaries_107",
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"text": "What helps you feel respected when your answer is different from mine?",
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"text": "What difference between us needs more room instead of more fixing?",
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"differences",
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"text": "What is one boundary that would help us support each other’s hobbies?",
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"text": "What helps personal interests feel healthy instead of like distance?",
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},
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"text": "What do you want us to do when one of us needs a night off?",
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},
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"text": "What helps you feel okay saying you do not have the energy tonight?",
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"energy",
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},
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"text": "What is one boundary that would make holidays less stressful?",
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"text": "How should we decide which family events we say yes to?",
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},
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"text": "What makes hosting people feel fun instead of exhausting?",
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"hosting",
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},
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"text": "What boundary would help us recover after having guests over?",
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"text": "When someone asks too much of us, how should we decide together?",
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"text": "What is one way we can be kinder to our future selves when making plans?",
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"text": "What should be our rule when we are both already stretched thin?",
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"text": "What boundary helps you protect your sleep?",
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"text": "What should we avoid talking about right before bed?",
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"id": "boundaries_122",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What boundary would help mornings feel less rushed?",
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"text": "What helps you feel less crowded when the house is busy?",
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"text": "What helps you feel connected even when we are doing separate things?",
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"text": "What is one boundary that would make car rides or errands less stressful?",
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"text": "What kind of planning conversation would help the week feel easier?",
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"text": "What is one boundary we could make around last-minute plans?",
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"text": "What helps you feel respected when you need to change your mind?",
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"text": "What should we do when one of us forgets a boundary?",
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"text": "What is a gentle way to remind each other of a boundary?",
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"text": "What boundary do you want us to treat as important even if it seems small?",
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},
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"text": "What is one line you do not want us to cross when we are joking?",
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"tags": [
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},
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"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you trust that my boundaries are not a punishment?",
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"text": "What helps me know when I am getting close to one of your limits?",
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"tags": [
"signals",
"limits",
"boundaries"
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"text": "What is one signal that means you need me to slow down?",
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"signals",
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},
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"text": "When you go quiet, what should I not assume?",
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"boundaries"
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"text": "What helps you come back from being overwhelmed?",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What boundary would help us enjoy family without losing ourselves?",
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"max_length": 500
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},
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"stress",
"private_time",
"boundaries"
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"max_length": 500
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},
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"text": "What makes our relationship feel protected from the noise around us?",
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"protection",
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"boundaries"
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"max_length": 500
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},
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"id": "boundaries_142",
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"text": "What is one boundary that would help us laugh more and argue less?",
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"fun",
"conflict",
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"max_length": 500
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},
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"id": "boundaries_143",
"category_id": "boundaries",
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"text": "What would make boundaries feel like teamwork instead of rules?",
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"teamwork",
"boundaries"
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"max_length": 500
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},
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"id": "boundaries_144",
"category_id": "boundaries",
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"text": "What boundary would make you feel more free to be yourself with me?",
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"authenticity",
"freedom",
"boundaries"
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"max_length": 500
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},
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"id": "boundaries_145",
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"text": "What is one boundary you are proud of yourself for having?",
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"self_respect",
"confidence",
"boundaries"
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"max_length": 500
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},
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"id": "boundaries_146",
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"text": "What boundary do you want me to understand better, even if it is hard to explain?",
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"understanding",
"deep",
"boundaries"
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"max_length": 500
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},
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"id": "boundaries_147",
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"text": "What is one way I can honor your limits without making it awkward?",
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"respect",
"limits",
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"max_length": 500
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},
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"id": "boundaries_148",
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"text": "What should we celebrate when one of us states a boundary well?",
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"celebration",
"growth",
"boundaries"
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"max_length": 500
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},
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"text": "What is one boundary that would help us feel more peaceful this week?",
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"peace",
"weekly",
"boundaries"
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"max_length": 500
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},
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"text": "What is one boundary that would make us feel more like partners than opponents?",
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"teamwork",
"relationship",
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"max_length": 500
}
},
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"text": "What kind of space feels healthiest to you?",
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"text": "Which phone-free moment matters most?",
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"text": "Date time"
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"id": "hard_talks",
"text": "Hard talks"
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},
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"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
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"id": "no_explaining",
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"text": "Which boundary would make home feel calmer first?",
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"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of reminder works best for you?",
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"id": "text",
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"id": "no_reminder",
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"id": "quiet",
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"id": "money",
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"id": "reassurance",
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]
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"id": "private_talks",
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"text": "Which kind of plan feels easiest?",
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"text": "What boundary would help the weekend most?",
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"id": "parenting_choices",
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"text": "What kind of money check-in feels least stressful?",
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"text": "Which argument pause would help most?",
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"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which tone feels hardest to stay open to?",
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"id": "dismissive",
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"id": "family_issues",
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"text": "What helps you hear feedback without shutting down?",
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"text": "What makes a boundary feel loving?",
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"text": "Which situation needs a firmer line?",
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"id": "old_arguments",
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"text": "What kind of affection boundary should we talk about first?",
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"id": "sexual_pressure",
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"text": "What helps you feel less crowded?",
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"id": "early_bed",
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"text": "Which shared-space rule sounds most helpful?",
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"text": "Which boundary would help with last-minute plans?",
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"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps when one of us changes our mind?",
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"id": "kind_tone",
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"id": "with_humor",
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"id": "quiet_time",
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"text": "Which boundary should never be mocked?",
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"id": "no_punishment",
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"id": "boundaries_189",
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"text": "Which area needs more freedom, not more rules?",
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"text": "What boundary would make you feel safest this month?",
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"id": "privacy",
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"id": "time",
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"id": "check_later",
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"max_selections": 3
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"id": "ask_before_reading",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"id": "boundaries_200",
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"id": "boundaries_201",
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"text": "What makes intimacy feel safer to talk about?",
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"id": "privacy",
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"id": "kind_words",
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"id": "good_timing",
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"id": "boundaries_202",
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"id": "one_rest_day",
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"id": "boundaries_203",
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"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you feel trusted and independent?",
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"boundaries"
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"id": "privacy",
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"id": "no_checking_up",
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"id": "honest_updates",
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},
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"id": "boundaries_204",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"boundaries"
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"id": "private_decisions",
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"id": "money_limits",
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"id": "no_taking_sides",
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},
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"id": "boundaries_205",
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"id": "give_space",
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}
},
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"id": "boundaries_206",
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"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which boundaries make flirting feel safe and fun?",
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"id": "right_timing",
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"id": "easy_stop",
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"id": "no_jokes_later",
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"id": "ask_first",
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}
},
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"id": "boundaries_207",
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"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should we never use against each other?",
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"id": "secrets",
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"id": "past_mistakes",
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},
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"id": "boundaries_208",
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"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you state a boundary with confidence?",
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"id": "practice_words",
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"id": "clear_reason",
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"id": "no_guilt",
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},
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"id": "boundaries_209",
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"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which small things are worth setting clearer boundaries around?",
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"id": "interruptions",
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"id": "plans",
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"id": "belongings",
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},
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"id": "boundaries_210",
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"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What would help boundaries feel like freedom, not distance?",
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"freedom",
"boundaries"
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"id": "planned_reconnect",
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"id": "respect",
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"id": "playfulness",
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
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"id": "boundaries_211",
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"text": "How well do we respect each other's quiet time right now?",
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"boundaries"
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},
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"id": "boundaries_212",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy does it feel to say no kindly between us?",
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"boundaries"
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"max": 5,
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"max_label": "Easy"
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},
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"id": "boundaries_213",
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"type": "scale",
"text": "How protected does our couple time feel lately?",
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"tags": [
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"boundaries"
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"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not protected",
"max_label": "Very protected"
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},
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"id": "boundaries_214",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How calm does our home feel this week?",
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"access": "free",
"tags": [
"home",
"boundaries"
],
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"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not calm",
"max_label": "Very calm"
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},
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"id": "boundaries_215",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How safe does it feel to bring up a small irritation?",
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"access": "free",
"tags": [
"communication",
"boundaries"
],
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"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not safe",
"max_label": "Very safe"
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_216",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How balanced does alone time feel between us?",
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"access": "free",
"tags": [
"alone_time",
"boundaries"
],
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"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Unbalanced",
"max_label": "Balanced"
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},
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"id": "boundaries_217",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much would a phone-free moment help us right now?",
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"access": "free",
"tags": [
"phones",
"boundaries"
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"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
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"id": "boundaries_218",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How respected do you feel during disagreements?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conflict",
"boundaries"
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"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not respected",
"max_label": "Very respected"
}
},
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"id": "boundaries_219",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to ask for space without guilt?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"space",
"boundaries"
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"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Hard",
"max_label": "Easy"
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_220",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do outside opinions affect our relationship?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"outside_people",
"boundaries"
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"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_221",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How safe does privacy feel between us?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"privacy",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not safe",
"max_label": "Very safe"
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_222",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How stressful do money boundaries feel right now?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"money",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not stressful",
"max_label": "Very stressful"
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_223",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How fair do chores feel this week?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"chores",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not fair",
"max_label": "Very fair"
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_224",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable are you saying not tonight?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"intimacy",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_225",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much pressure do you feel around affection?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"affection",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "None",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_226",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to pause a hard conversation?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conflict",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Hard",
"max_label": "Easy"
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_227",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we protect each other in public?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"public",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Needs work",
"max_label": "Very well"
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_228",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do last-minute plans stress you out?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"planning",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_229",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable do you feel asking for help?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"support",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_230",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we respect each other's sleep?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"sleep",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Needs work",
"max_label": "Very well"
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_231",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much room do you feel you have to be yourself?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"authenticity",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not enough",
"max_label": "Plenty"
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_232",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How safe does it feel to correct me gently?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"feedback",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not safe",
"max_label": "Very safe"
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_233",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we come back together after taking space?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"repair",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not well",
"max_label": "Very well"
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_234",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How often do boundaries feel like teamwork between us?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"teamwork",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Rarely",
"max_label": "Often"
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_235",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How peaceful would one new boundary make this week?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"weekly",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "Very peaceful"
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_236",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Space alone or quiet together?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"space",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "space_alone",
"text": "Space alone"
},
{
"id": "quiet_together",
"text": "Quiet together"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_237",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Phone-free dinner or phone-free bedtime?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"phones",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "phone_free_dinner",
"text": "Phone-free dinner"
},
{
"id": "phone_free_bedtime",
"text": "Phone-free bedtime"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_238",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Gentle reminder or direct reminder?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"reminders",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "gentle_reminder",
"text": "Gentle reminder"
},
{
"id": "direct_reminder",
"text": "Direct reminder"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_239",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Loose plans or clear plans?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"planning",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "loose_plans",
"text": "Loose plans"
},
{
"id": "clear_plans",
"text": "Clear plans"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_240",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Talk now or schedule it?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"communication",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "talk_now",
"text": "Talk now"
},
{
"id": "schedule_it",
"text": "Schedule it"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_241",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Pause the argument or lower the volume?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conflict",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "pause_argument",
"text": "Pause the argument"
},
{
"id": "lower_volume",
"text": "Lower the volume"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_242",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Public affection or private affection?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"affection",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "public_affection",
"text": "Public affection"
},
{
"id": "private_affection",
"text": "Private affection"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_243",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Family visit or quiet weekend?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"family",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "family_visit",
"text": "Family visit"
},
{
"id": "quiet_weekend",
"text": "Quiet weekend"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_244",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Ask before helping or jump in and help?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"support",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_before_helping",
"text": "Ask before helping"
},
{
"id": "jump_in_and_help",
"text": "Jump in and help"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_245",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "More independence or more check-ins?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"independence",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "more_independence",
"text": "More independence"
},
{
"id": "more_check_ins",
"text": "More check-ins"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_246",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Soft no or clear no?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"no",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "soft_no",
"text": "Soft no"
},
{
"id": "clear_no",
"text": "Clear no"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_247",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Private reset or talk it out?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"repair",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "private_reset",
"text": "Private reset"
},
{
"id": "talk_it_out",
"text": "Talk it out"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_248",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Rest first or chores first?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"home",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "rest_first",
"text": "Rest first"
},
{
"id": "chores_first",
"text": "Chores first"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_249",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Keep it between us or ask for advice?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"privacy",
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "between_us",
"text": "Keep it between us"
},
{
"id": "ask_advice",
"text": "Ask for advice"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "boundaries_250",
"category_id": "boundaries",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "One firm boundary or several softer ones?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"boundaries"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "one_firm_boundary",
"text": "One firm boundary"
},
{
"id": "several_soft_boundaries",
"text": "Several softer ones"
}
]
}
}
]
}
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