5398 lines
122 KiB
JSON
5398 lines
122 KiB
JSON
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"category": {
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"id": "conflict_repair",
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"display_name": "Conflict Repair",
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"description": "Warm, practical questions that help couples cool down, apologize, listen, take space, reconnect, and repair after disagreements without blame.",
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"access": "mixed",
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"icon_name": "healing",
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"schema_version": "question_v2",
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"metadata": {
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"total_questions": 250,
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"free_questions": 75,
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"premium_questions": 175,
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"type_counts": {
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"written": 150,
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"single_choice": 40,
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"multi_choice": 20,
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"scale": 25,
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"this_or_that": 15
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}
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}
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},
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"questions": [
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_001",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps you feel safe coming back together after a disagreement?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"repair",
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"safety",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_002",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one small thing I can do after conflict that helps you soften?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"repair",
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"softening",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_003",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What kind of apology feels most real to you?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"apology",
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"trust",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_004",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps you believe I am listening when we are trying to repair?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"listening",
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"repair",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_005",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What should we both avoid saying when we are still heated?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"conflict",
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"words",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_006",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps a hard conversation feel less scary?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"communication",
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"safety",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_007",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What makes a pause feel helpful instead of like someone is leaving?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"pause",
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"reassurance",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_008",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one phrase that could help us slow down before things get worse?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"deescalation",
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"phrases",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_009",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps you calm your body after an argument?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"calm",
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"body",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_010",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What kind of tone helps you stay open?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"tone",
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"communication",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_011",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What makes you feel respected during repair?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"respect",
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"repair",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_012",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one way we can disagree without feeling like enemies?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"conflict",
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"teamwork",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_013",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps you feel like we are on the same team again?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"teamwork",
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"repair",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_014",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What should we do first when a small issue starts growing?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"deescalation",
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"small_issues",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_015",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What makes it easier for you to say, 'That hurt'?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"hurt",
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"communication",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_016",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What makes it easier for you to hear, 'That hurt'?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"hurt",
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"listening",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_017",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps an apology feel warm instead of rushed?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"apology",
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"warmth",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_018",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What kind of repair works best after a silly misunderstanding?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"misunderstanding",
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"lightness",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_019",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What kind of repair works best after a serious disagreement?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"serious_conflict",
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"repair",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_020",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one thing we can do to keep a disagreement from ruining the whole day?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"daily_life",
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"repair",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_021",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps you let go of tension after we make up?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"tension",
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"release",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_022",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps you feel close again after we have both cooled down?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"closeness",
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"cool_down",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_023",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one thing that makes conflict harder than it needs to be?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"patterns",
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"conflict",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_024",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps you not shut down during a hard talk?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"shutdown",
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"communication",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_025",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps you not push too hard during a hard talk?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"pressure",
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"communication",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_026",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What kind of check-in would help after we argue?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"check_in",
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"repair",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_027",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What should a timeout mean between us?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"timeout",
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"repair",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_028",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps you come back after a timeout?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"timeout",
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"return",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_029",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one kind way to say we need a break?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"pause",
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"kindness",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_030",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps you trust that a break is not abandonment?",
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"depth": 5,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"pause",
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"trust",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_031",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What makes forgiveness feel possible?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"forgiveness",
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"repair",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_032",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What makes accountability feel loving instead of shaming?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"accountability",
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"shame",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_033",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one repair habit we could practice this week?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"habits",
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"weekly",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_034",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What does a good restart sound like after a rough moment?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"restart",
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"phrases",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_035",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What helps us laugh gently after tension without dismissing the issue?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"humor",
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"repair",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_036",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What is one thing you wish I understood about your conflict style?",
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"depth": 4,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"conflict_style",
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"understanding",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_037",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one thing you want me to do less during conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"conflict",
|
|
"change",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_038",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one thing you want me to do more during repair?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"change",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_039",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps you feel heard without needing to repeat yourself?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"heard",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_040",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps you listen even when you feel defensive?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"defensiveness",
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_041",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes repair feel like love in action?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"love",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_042",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one small peace offering that works for you?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"peace_offering",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_043",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps you know I still love you during conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"love",
|
|
"reassurance",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_044",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one way we can end a hard talk gently?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"ending",
|
|
"gentleness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_045",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help us repair faster next time?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"future",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_046",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps an apology feel honest instead of forced?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"apology",
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_047",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes an apology feel safe enough to try again?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"apology",
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_048",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with apology?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"apology",
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"understanding",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_049",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What boundary would help us handle apology more gently?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"apology",
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_050",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What small action would help repair apology between us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"apology",
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"small_actions",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_051",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes an apology feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"apology",
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"blame",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_052",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help us bring more softness to apology?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"apology",
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"softness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_053",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps being heard feel honest instead of forced?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"heard",
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_054",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes being heard feel safe enough to try again?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"heard",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_055",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with listening?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"heard",
|
|
"understanding",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_056",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What boundary would help us handle listening more gently?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"heard",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_057",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What small action would help repair listening between us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"heard",
|
|
"small_actions",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_058",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes being heard feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"heard",
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"blame",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_059",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help us bring more softness to listening?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"heard",
|
|
"softness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_060",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps a pause feel honest instead of forced?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"space",
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_061",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes a pause feel safe enough to try again?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"space",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_062",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with taking space?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"space",
|
|
"understanding",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_063",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What boundary would help us handle taking space more gently?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"space",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_064",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What small action would help repair taking space between us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"space",
|
|
"small_actions",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_065",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes a pause feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"space",
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"blame",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_066",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help us bring more softness to taking space?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"space",
|
|
"softness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_067",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps coming back together feel honest instead of forced?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"return",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_068",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes coming back together feel safe enough to try again?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"return",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_069",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with coming back?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"return",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"understanding",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_070",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What boundary would help us handle coming back more gently?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"return",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_071",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What small action would help repair coming back between us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"return",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"small_actions",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_072",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes coming back together feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
|
"return",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"blame",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_073",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help us bring more softness to coming back?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"return",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"softness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_074",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps defensiveness feel honest instead of forced?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"defensiveness",
|
|
"self_awareness",
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_075",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes defensiveness feel safe enough to try again?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"defensiveness",
|
|
"self_awareness",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_076",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with defensiveness?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"defensiveness",
|
|
"self_awareness",
|
|
"understanding",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_077",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What boundary would help us handle defensiveness more gently?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"defensiveness",
|
|
"self_awareness",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_078",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What small action would help repair defensiveness between us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"defensiveness",
|
|
"self_awareness",
|
|
"small_actions",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_079",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes defensiveness feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"defensiveness",
|
|
"self_awareness",
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"blame",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_080",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help us bring more softness to defensiveness?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"defensiveness",
|
|
"self_awareness",
|
|
"softness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_081",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps a calmer tone feel honest instead of forced?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"tone",
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_082",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes a calmer tone feel safe enough to try again?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"tone",
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_083",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with tone?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"tone",
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"understanding",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_084",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What boundary would help us handle tone more gently?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"tone",
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_085",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What small action would help repair tone between us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"tone",
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"small_actions",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_086",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes a calmer tone feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"tone",
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"blame",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_087",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help us bring more softness to tone?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"tone",
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"softness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_088",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps hurt feelings feel honest instead of forced?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hurt",
|
|
"feelings",
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_089",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes hurt feelings feel safe enough to try again?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hurt",
|
|
"feelings",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_090",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with hurt feelings?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hurt",
|
|
"feelings",
|
|
"understanding",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_091",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What boundary would help us handle hurt feelings more gently?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hurt",
|
|
"feelings",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_092",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What small action would help repair hurt feelings between us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hurt",
|
|
"feelings",
|
|
"small_actions",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_093",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes hurt feelings feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hurt",
|
|
"feelings",
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"blame",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_094",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help us bring more softness to hurt feelings?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hurt",
|
|
"feelings",
|
|
"softness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_095",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps a misunderstanding feel honest instead of forced?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"misunderstanding",
|
|
"clarity",
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_096",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes a misunderstanding feel safe enough to try again?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"misunderstanding",
|
|
"clarity",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_097",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with misunderstandings?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"misunderstanding",
|
|
"clarity",
|
|
"understanding",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_098",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What boundary would help us handle misunderstandings more gently?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"misunderstanding",
|
|
"clarity",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_099",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What small action would help repair misunderstandings between us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"misunderstanding",
|
|
"clarity",
|
|
"small_actions",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_100",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes a misunderstanding feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"misunderstanding",
|
|
"clarity",
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"blame",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_101",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help us bring more softness to misunderstandings?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"misunderstanding",
|
|
"clarity",
|
|
"softness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_102",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps an old pattern feel honest instead of forced?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"patterns",
|
|
"growth",
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_103",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes an old pattern feel safe enough to try again?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"patterns",
|
|
"growth",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_104",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with old patterns?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"patterns",
|
|
"growth",
|
|
"understanding",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_105",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What boundary would help us handle old patterns more gently?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"patterns",
|
|
"growth",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_106",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What small action would help repair old patterns between us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"patterns",
|
|
"growth",
|
|
"small_actions",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_107",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
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"text": "What makes an old pattern feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
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"depth": 4,
|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"patterns",
|
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"growth",
|
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"teamwork",
|
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"blame",
|
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"conflict_repair"
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_repair_108",
|
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
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"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help us bring more softness to old patterns?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
|
"patterns",
|
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"growth",
|
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"softness",
|
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"conflict_repair"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_repair_109",
|
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
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"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps trust after conflict feel honest instead of forced?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"trust",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "conflict_repair_110",
|
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes trust after conflict feel safe enough to try again?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"trust",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 500
|
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}
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_111",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with trust after conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"trust",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"understanding",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
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"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_112",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What boundary would help us handle trust after conflict more gently?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"trust",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_113",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What small action would help repair trust after conflict between us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"trust",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"small_actions",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_114",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes trust after conflict feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"trust",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"blame",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_115",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help us bring more softness to trust after conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"trust",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"softness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_116",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps forgiveness feel honest instead of forced?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"forgiveness",
|
|
"healing",
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_117",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes forgiveness feel safe enough to try again?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"forgiveness",
|
|
"healing",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_118",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with forgiveness?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"forgiveness",
|
|
"healing",
|
|
"understanding",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_119",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What boundary would help us handle forgiveness more gently?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"forgiveness",
|
|
"healing",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_120",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What small action would help repair forgiveness between us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"forgiveness",
|
|
"healing",
|
|
"small_actions",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_121",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes forgiveness feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"forgiveness",
|
|
"healing",
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"blame",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_122",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help us bring more softness to forgiveness?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"forgiveness",
|
|
"healing",
|
|
"softness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_123",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps accountability feel honest instead of forced?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"growth",
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_124",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes accountability feel safe enough to try again?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"growth",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_125",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with accountability?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"growth",
|
|
"understanding",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_126",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What boundary would help us handle accountability more gently?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"growth",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_127",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What small action would help repair accountability between us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"growth",
|
|
"small_actions",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_128",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes accountability feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"growth",
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"blame",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_129",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help us bring more softness to accountability?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"growth",
|
|
"softness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_130",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps reconnecting feel honest instead of forced?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"reconnection",
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_131",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes reconnecting feel safe enough to try again?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"reconnection",
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_132",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with reconnecting?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"reconnection",
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"understanding",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_133",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What boundary would help us handle reconnecting more gently?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"reconnection",
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_134",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What small action would help repair reconnecting between us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"reconnection",
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"small_actions",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_135",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes reconnecting feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"reconnection",
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"blame",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_136",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help us bring more softness to reconnecting?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"reconnection",
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"softness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_137",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps repair after distance feel honest instead of forced?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"distance",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_138",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes repair after distance feel safe enough to try again?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"distance",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_139",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with repair after distance?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"distance",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"understanding",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_140",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What boundary would help us handle repair after distance more gently?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"distance",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_141",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What small action would help repair repair after distance between us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"distance",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"small_actions",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_142",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes repair after distance feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"distance",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"blame",
|
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"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_143",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help us bring more softness to repair after distance?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"distance",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"softness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_144",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps staying kind feel honest instead of forced?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"kindness",
|
|
"conflict",
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_145",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes staying kind feel safe enough to try again?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"kindness",
|
|
"conflict",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_146",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with staying kind?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"kindness",
|
|
"conflict",
|
|
"understanding",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_147",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What boundary would help us handle staying kind more gently?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"kindness",
|
|
"conflict",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_148",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What small action would help repair staying kind between us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"kindness",
|
|
"conflict",
|
|
"small_actions",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_149",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What makes staying kind feel like teamwork instead of blame?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"kindness",
|
|
"conflict",
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"blame",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_150",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help us bring more softness to staying kind?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"kindness",
|
|
"conflict",
|
|
"softness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_151",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps you calm down fastest after a disagreement?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"calm",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "space",
|
|
"text": "Space"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hug",
|
|
"text": "A hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet",
|
|
"text": "Quiet"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking",
|
|
"text": "Talking"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_152",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What kind of apology lands best?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"apology",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "specific",
|
|
"text": "Specific"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle",
|
|
"text": "Gentle"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quick",
|
|
"text": "Quick"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "with_changed_action",
|
|
"text": "With changed action"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_153",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What kind of pause helps most?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ten_minutes",
|
|
"text": "10 minutes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "thirty_minutes",
|
|
"text": "30 minutes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "walk",
|
|
"text": "A walk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sleep_on_it",
|
|
"text": "Sleep on it"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_154",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should we do first when tension rises?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"deescalation",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "lower_voices",
|
|
"text": "Lower voices"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause",
|
|
"text": "Pause"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_feeling",
|
|
"text": "Name the feeling"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hold_hands",
|
|
"text": "Hold hands"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_155",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What tone helps you stay open?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"tone",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "soft",
|
|
"text": "Soft"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "steady",
|
|
"text": "Steady"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "direct",
|
|
"text": "Direct"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle",
|
|
"text": "Gentle"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_156",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What is easiest for you to receive after conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "apology",
|
|
"text": "An apology"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "space",
|
|
"text": "Space"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection",
|
|
"text": "Affection"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_157",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a hard talk feel safer?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "privacy",
|
|
"text": "Privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "kind_words",
|
|
"text": "Kind words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_interrupting",
|
|
"text": "No interrupting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "breaks_allowed",
|
|
"text": "Breaks allowed"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_158",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps you feel heard?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repeat_back",
|
|
"text": "Repeat it back"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_questions",
|
|
"text": "Ask questions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "eye_contact",
|
|
"text": "Eye contact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_fixing_yet",
|
|
"text": "No fixing yet"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_159",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes you shut down fastest?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"shutdown",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "loud_voice",
|
|
"text": "Loud voice"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sarcasm",
|
|
"text": "Sarcasm"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_cut_off",
|
|
"text": "Being cut off"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "too_many_topics",
|
|
"text": "Too many topics"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_160",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes repair feel loving?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"love",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "softness",
|
|
"text": "Softness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accountability",
|
|
"text": "Accountability"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "patience",
|
|
"text": "Patience"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_161",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What kind of restart feels best?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"restart",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "fresh_words",
|
|
"text": "Fresh words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "small_touch",
|
|
"text": "Small touch"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quick_check_in",
|
|
"text": "Quick check-in"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "try_again_later",
|
|
"text": "Try again later"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_162",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should we avoid during conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"conflict",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_calling",
|
|
"text": "Name-calling"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "threats",
|
|
"text": "Threats"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "old_pile_on",
|
|
"text": "Old pile-on"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "walking_away_cold",
|
|
"text": "Leaving coldly"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_163",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps after a misunderstanding?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"misunderstanding",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clarify",
|
|
"text": "Clarify"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "laugh_gently",
|
|
"text": "Laugh gently"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "apologize",
|
|
"text": "Apologize"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "slow_down",
|
|
"text": "Slow down"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_164",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes forgiveness easier?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"forgiveness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accountability",
|
|
"text": "Accountability"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time",
|
|
"text": "Time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "changed_action",
|
|
"text": "Changed action"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_165",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us end a hard talk gently?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"ending",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "thank_you",
|
|
"text": "Thank you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hug",
|
|
"text": "Hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "next_step",
|
|
"text": "Next step"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet_reset",
|
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"text": "Quiet reset"
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}
|
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]
|
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}
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "conflict_repair_166",
|
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
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"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which repair skill should we practice more?",
|
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"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "apologizing",
|
|
"text": "Apologizing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "listening",
|
|
"text": "Listening"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pausing",
|
|
"text": "Pausing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "coming_back",
|
|
"text": "Coming back"
|
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}
|
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]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "conflict_repair_167",
|
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What kind of accountability feels best?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "own_it",
|
|
"text": "Own it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "specific_change",
|
|
"text": "Specific change"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_excuses",
|
|
"text": "No excuses"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle_words",
|
|
"text": "Gentle words"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_168",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes defensiveness worse?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"defensiveness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "blame",
|
|
"text": "Blame"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "shame",
|
|
"text": "Shame"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "bad_timing",
|
|
"text": "Bad timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_unheard",
|
|
"text": "Feeling unheard"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_169",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps you soften after defensiveness?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"defensiveness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "space",
|
|
"text": "Space"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "kind_tone",
|
|
"text": "Kind tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_apology",
|
|
"text": "Clear apology"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_170",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which old pattern needs the most care?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"patterns",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "withdrawing",
|
|
"text": "Withdrawing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pushing",
|
|
"text": "Pushing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "raising_voice",
|
|
"text": "Raising voices"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "bringing_up_past",
|
|
"text": "Bringing up the past"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_171",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps if one of us feels blamed?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"blame",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "slow_down",
|
|
"text": "Slow down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "own_part",
|
|
"text": "Own our part"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "soften_words",
|
|
"text": "Soften words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause",
|
|
"text": "Pause"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_172",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps if one of us feels dismissed?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"dismissal",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repeat_back",
|
|
"text": "Repeat back"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_more",
|
|
"text": "Ask more"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "apologize",
|
|
"text": "Apologize"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stay_present",
|
|
"text": "Stay present"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_173",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps if one of us feels overwhelmed?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"overwhelm",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "break",
|
|
"text": "Break"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "lower_volume",
|
|
"text": "Lower volume"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_topic",
|
|
"text": "One topic"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_174",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which repair phrase sounds most helpful?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"phrases",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_hear_you",
|
|
"text": "I hear you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "let_me_try_again",
|
|
"text": "Let me try again"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_am_not_against_you",
|
|
"text": "I'm not against you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "can_we_slow_down",
|
|
"text": "Can we slow down?"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_175",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes trust easier after conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"trust",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "follow_through",
|
|
"text": "Follow-through"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "honesty",
|
|
"text": "Honesty"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle_repair",
|
|
"text": "Gentle repair"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time",
|
|
"text": "Time"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_176",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a timeout feel safe?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"timeout",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_return_time",
|
|
"text": "Clear return time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "kind_words",
|
|
"text": "Kind words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "actual_return",
|
|
"text": "Actually returning"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_177",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a repair conversation too much?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "too_long",
|
|
"text": "Too long"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "too_late",
|
|
"text": "Too late"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "too_many_topics",
|
|
"text": "Too many topics"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "too_much_blame",
|
|
"text": "Too much blame"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_178",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What kind of affection helps after repair?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"affection",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hug",
|
|
"text": "Hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hand_hold",
|
|
"text": "Hand-hold"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cuddle",
|
|
"text": "Cuddle"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "none_yet",
|
|
"text": "None yet"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_179",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should come before affection after conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"affection",
|
|
"consent",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_first",
|
|
"text": "Ask first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "apology",
|
|
"text": "Apology"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "calm",
|
|
"text": "Calm"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_180",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes humor helpful after tension?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"humor",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle",
|
|
"text": "Gentle"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "well_timed",
|
|
"text": "Well-timed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_dismissive",
|
|
"text": "Not dismissive"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "shared_joke",
|
|
"text": "Shared joke"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_181",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes humor hurtful after tension?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"humor",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "too_soon",
|
|
"text": "Too soon"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sarcasm",
|
|
"text": "Sarcasm"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "mocking",
|
|
"text": "Mocking"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoiding_issue",
|
|
"text": "Avoiding the issue"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_182",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us repair before bed?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"bedtime",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "short_check_in",
|
|
"text": "Short check-in"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "soft_words",
|
|
"text": "Soft words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "agree_to_pause",
|
|
"text": "Agree to pause"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hold_hands",
|
|
"text": "Hold hands"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_183",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us repair in the morning?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"morning",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "fresh_start",
|
|
"text": "Fresh start"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "coffee_talk",
|
|
"text": "Coffee talk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "apology",
|
|
"text": "Apology"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "small_kindness",
|
|
"text": "Small kindness"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_184",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us not repeat the same fight?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"patterns",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_pattern",
|
|
"text": "Name the pattern"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "make_plan",
|
|
"text": "Make a plan"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause_earlier",
|
|
"text": "Pause earlier"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "own_our_parts",
|
|
"text": "Own our parts"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_185",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should we do after a repair goes well?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"celebration",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "thank_each_other",
|
|
"text": "Thank each other"
|
|
},
|
|
{
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"id": "hug",
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"text": "Hug"
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},
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{
|
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"id": "move_forward",
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"text": "Move forward"
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},
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{
|
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"id": "notice_progress",
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"text": "Notice progress"
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}
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]
|
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}
|
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},
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_186",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which kind of repair feels most natural?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
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"repair_style",
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"conflict_repair"
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
|
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"id": "talking",
|
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"text": "Talking"
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "quiet_closeness",
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"text": "Quiet closeness"
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},
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{
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"id": "small_action",
|
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"text": "Small action"
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},
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{
|
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"id": "writing",
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"text": "Writing"
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}
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]
|
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}
|
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},
|
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{
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"id": "conflict_repair_187",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
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"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What helps you feel safe naming your hurt?",
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"depth": 5,
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
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"hurt",
|
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"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
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{
|
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"id": "no_defense",
|
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"text": "No defense"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "kind_tone",
|
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"text": "Kind tone"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "privacy",
|
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"text": "Privacy"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "patience",
|
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"text": "Patience"
|
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}
|
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]
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "conflict_repair_188",
|
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
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"type": "single_choice",
|
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"text": "What helps you hear my hurt?",
|
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"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hurt",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "slow_down",
|
|
"text": "Slow down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remember_love",
|
|
"text": "Remember love"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "breathe",
|
|
"text": "Breathe"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_questions",
|
|
"text": "Ask questions"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_189",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps repair feel mutual?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"mutual",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_own_part",
|
|
"text": "Both own a part"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_listen",
|
|
"text": "Both listen"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_soften",
|
|
"text": "Both soften"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_try_again",
|
|
"text": "Both try again"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_190",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps when we are both right about different things?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"perspective",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_both_truths",
|
|
"text": "Name both truths"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "slow_down",
|
|
"text": "Slow down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stay_curious",
|
|
"text": "Stay curious"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "drop_winning",
|
|
"text": "Drop winning"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_191",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us de-escalate?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"deescalation",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "lower_voices",
|
|
"text": "Lower voices"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause",
|
|
"text": "Pause"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_topic",
|
|
"text": "One topic"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "breathe",
|
|
"text": "Breathe"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "soft_words",
|
|
"text": "Soft words"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_192",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes repair feel safe?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "privacy",
|
|
"text": "Privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "patience",
|
|
"text": "Patience"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_blame",
|
|
"text": "No blame"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "kind_tone",
|
|
"text": "Kind tone"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_193",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes an apology land?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"apology",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "specific",
|
|
"text": "Specific"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accountable",
|
|
"text": "Accountable"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle",
|
|
"text": "Gentle"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_excuses",
|
|
"text": "No excuses"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "changed_action",
|
|
"text": "Changed action"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_194",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps you cool down?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"calm",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet",
|
|
"text": "Quiet"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "walk",
|
|
"text": "Walk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "water",
|
|
"text": "Water"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "breathing",
|
|
"text": "Breathing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "space",
|
|
"text": "Space"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_195",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should we avoid when angry?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"conflict",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_calling",
|
|
"text": "Name-calling"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sarcasm",
|
|
"text": "Sarcasm"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "threats",
|
|
"text": "Threats"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "past_pile_on",
|
|
"text": "Past pile-on"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "interrupting",
|
|
"text": "Interrupting"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_196",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps repair after an old pattern shows up?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"patterns",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_it",
|
|
"text": "Name it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "own_our_parts",
|
|
"text": "Own our parts"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause",
|
|
"text": "Pause"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plan",
|
|
"text": "Make a plan"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassure",
|
|
"text": "Reassure"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_197",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps when defensiveness appears?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"defensiveness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "slow_down",
|
|
"text": "Slow down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "soften_tone",
|
|
"text": "Soften tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_question",
|
|
"text": "Ask a question"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "own_part",
|
|
"text": "Own a part"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_break",
|
|
"text": "Take a break"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_198",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps trust after conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"trust",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "follow_through",
|
|
"text": "Follow-through"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "honesty",
|
|
"text": "Honesty"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "changed_behavior",
|
|
"text": "Changed behavior"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle_repair",
|
|
"text": "Gentle repair"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time",
|
|
"text": "Time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_199",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a timeout work well?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"timeout",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_return",
|
|
"text": "Clear return time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_silent_treatment",
|
|
"text": "No silent treatment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "calm_down",
|
|
"text": "Calm down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "come_back",
|
|
"text": "Come back"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_200",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us repair after hurt feelings?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hurt",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "listen_first",
|
|
"text": "Listen first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_hurt",
|
|
"text": "Name the hurt"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "apologize",
|
|
"text": "Apologize"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_what_helps",
|
|
"text": "Ask what helps"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "go_gently",
|
|
"text": "Go gently"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_201",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us stay on the same team?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "use_we",
|
|
"text": "Use we"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "drop_winning",
|
|
"text": "Drop winning"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_goal",
|
|
"text": "Name the goal"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "soften_tone",
|
|
"text": "Soften tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remember_love",
|
|
"text": "Remember love"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_202",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes feedback easier during repair?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"feedback",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "specific",
|
|
"text": "Specific"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle",
|
|
"text": "Gentle"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_thing",
|
|
"text": "One thing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "good_timing",
|
|
"text": "Good timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "praise_too",
|
|
"text": "Praise too"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_203",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "What helps us end a hard talk well?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"ending",
|
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"conflict_repair"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"options": [
|
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{
|
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"id": "summary",
|
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"text": "Summarize"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "next_step",
|
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"text": "Next step"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "thank_you",
|
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"text": "Thank you"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "hug_if_wanted",
|
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"text": "Hug if wanted"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "quiet_reset",
|
|
"text": "Quiet reset"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "conflict_repair_204",
|
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
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"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should we repair privately?",
|
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"depth": 4,
|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"privacy",
|
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"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
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"options": [
|
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{
|
|
"id": "hurt_feelings",
|
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"text": "Hurt feelings"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "money",
|
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"text": "Money"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "family",
|
|
"text": "Family"
|
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "intimacy",
|
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"text": "Intimacy"
|
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "old_patterns",
|
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"text": "Old patterns"
|
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}
|
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],
|
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"min_selections": 1,
|
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"max_selections": 3
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_205",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes forgiveness easier over time?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"forgiveness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "changed_action",
|
|
"text": "Changed action"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "patience",
|
|
"text": "Patience"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_rushing",
|
|
"text": "No rushing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "understanding",
|
|
"text": "Understanding"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "honesty",
|
|
"text": "Honesty"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_206",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us clear up a misunderstanding?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"misunderstanding",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clarify",
|
|
"text": "Clarify"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_again",
|
|
"text": "Ask again"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "laugh_gently",
|
|
"text": "Laugh gently"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "apologize",
|
|
"text": "Apologize"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "try_again",
|
|
"text": "Try again"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_207",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps when one of us shuts down?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"shutdown",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "space",
|
|
"text": "Space"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle_check",
|
|
"text": "Gentle check-in"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "less_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Less pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "return_time",
|
|
"text": "Return time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_208",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps when one of us pushes too hard?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pressure",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_it",
|
|
"text": "Name it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "slow_down",
|
|
"text": "Slow down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_break",
|
|
"text": "Take a break"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "soften_words",
|
|
"text": "Soften words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remember_team",
|
|
"text": "Remember team"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_209",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps repair feel loving?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"love",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "softness",
|
|
"text": "Softness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "patience",
|
|
"text": "Patience"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accountability",
|
|
"text": "Accountability"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle_touch",
|
|
"text": "Gentle touch"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_210",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us do better next time?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"future",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_plan",
|
|
"text": "Clear plan"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_change",
|
|
"text": "One change"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "notice_early",
|
|
"text": "Notice early"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "practice_phrase",
|
|
"text": "Practice phrase"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "check_in_later",
|
|
"text": "Check in later"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_211",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How safe does repair feel between us lately?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not safe",
|
|
"max_label": "Very safe"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_212",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How easy is it to apologize honestly?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"apology",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Hard",
|
|
"max_label": "Easy"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_213",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How easy is it to pause before things get worse?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Hard",
|
|
"max_label": "Easy"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_214",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How heard do you feel during repair?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not heard",
|
|
"max_label": "Very heard"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_215",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How quickly do we usually come back together?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"return",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Slowly",
|
|
"max_label": "Quickly"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_216",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much does tone affect conflict for you?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"tone",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not much",
|
|
"max_label": "A lot"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_217",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much would one repair habit help us this week?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"weekly",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not much",
|
|
"max_label": "A lot"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_218",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How safe does it feel to name hurt feelings?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hurt",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not safe",
|
|
"max_label": "Very safe"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_219",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much defensiveness shows up between us?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"defensiveness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not much",
|
|
"max_label": "A lot"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_220",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How well do we handle old patterns?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"patterns",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Needs work",
|
|
"max_label": "Very well"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_221",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much trust do you feel after conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"trust",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Low",
|
|
"max_label": "High"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_222",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How well do timeouts work for us?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"timeout",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not well",
|
|
"max_label": "Very well"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_223",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How easy is it to forgive after repair?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"forgiveness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Hard",
|
|
"max_label": "Easy"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_224",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much do we stay on the same team during conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not much",
|
|
"max_label": "A lot"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_225",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How comfortable are you asking for a restart?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"restart",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
|
|
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_226",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How well do we avoid bringing up old pain unfairly?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"past",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Needs work",
|
|
"max_label": "Very well"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_227",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much would a gentler repair style help us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"gentleness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not much",
|
|
"max_label": "A lot"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_228",
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
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"type": "scale",
|
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"text": "How safe does it feel to give feedback?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"feedback",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not safe",
|
|
"max_label": "Very safe"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_229",
|
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How safe does it feel to receive feedback?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"feedback",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not safe",
|
|
"max_label": "Very safe"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_230",
|
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"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How well do we end hard talks?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"ending",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Needs work",
|
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"max_label": "Very well"
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_231",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How close do you feel after we repair well?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not close",
|
|
"max_label": "Very close"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_232",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How hopeful do you feel about our repair skills?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hope",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not hopeful",
|
|
"max_label": "Very hopeful"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_233",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How often do we repair before resentment builds?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"resentment",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Rarely",
|
|
"max_label": "Often"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_234",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much does privacy help us repair?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"privacy",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not much",
|
|
"max_label": "A lot"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_235",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much would a regular conflict check-in help us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"check_in",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not much",
|
|
"max_label": "A lot"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_236",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Pause now or talk softly?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause_now",
|
|
"text": "Pause now"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talk_softly",
|
|
"text": "Talk softly"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_237",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Apology first or hug first?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "apology_first",
|
|
"text": "Apology first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hug_first",
|
|
"text": "Hug first"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_238",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Space alone or quiet together?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"space",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "space_alone",
|
|
"text": "Space alone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet_together",
|
|
"text": "Quiet together"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_239",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Own your part or ask one question?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "own_part",
|
|
"text": "Own your part"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_question",
|
|
"text": "Ask one question"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_240",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Repair tonight or schedule tomorrow?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"timing",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repair_tonight",
|
|
"text": "Repair tonight"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "schedule_tomorrow",
|
|
"text": "Schedule tomorrow"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_241",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Soft words or clear plan?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "soft_words",
|
|
"text": "Soft words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_plan",
|
|
"text": "Clear plan"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_242",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Forgiveness or accountability first?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"forgiveness",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "forgiveness",
|
|
"text": "Forgiveness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accountability",
|
|
"text": "Accountability"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_243",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Talk it out or write it first?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talk_it_out",
|
|
"text": "Talk it out"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "write_it_first",
|
|
"text": "Write it first"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_244",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "One issue or bigger pattern?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"patterns",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_issue",
|
|
"text": "One issue"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "bigger_pattern",
|
|
"text": "Bigger pattern"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_245",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Comfort touch or no touch yet?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"affection",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comfort_touch",
|
|
"text": "Comfort touch"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_touch_yet",
|
|
"text": "No touch yet"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_246",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Name the hurt or name the need?",
|
|
"depth": 5,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hurt",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_hurt",
|
|
"text": "Name the hurt"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_need",
|
|
"text": "Name the need"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_247",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Reset with humor or reset with quiet?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"reset",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "humor",
|
|
"text": "Humor"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet",
|
|
"text": "Quiet"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_248",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Fix now or understand first?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"understanding",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "fix_now",
|
|
"text": "Fix now"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "understand_first",
|
|
"text": "Understand first"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_249",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Gentle reminder or direct boundary?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle_reminder",
|
|
"text": "Gentle reminder"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "direct_boundary",
|
|
"text": "Direct boundary"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_repair_250",
|
|
"category_id": "conflict_repair",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Fresh start or deeper repair?",
|
|
"depth": 4,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"conflict_repair"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "fresh_start",
|
|
"text": "Fresh start"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "deeper_repair",
|
|
"text": "Deeper repair"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|