Closer/seed/questions/physical_intimacy.json

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"id": "physical_intimacy",
"display_name": "Physical Intimacy",
"description": "Warm, consent-safe questions that help couples talk about hugs, kissing, cuddling, touch, affection, comfort, playful closeness, and physical boundaries.",
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"text": "What kind of hug makes you feel most at home with me?",
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"text": "What kind of hand-holding feels most natural to you?",
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"text": "What is one small touch that instantly makes you feel cared for?",
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"text": "When do you most enjoy being close on the couch?",
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"text": "What helps cuddling feel relaxing instead of too much?",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_006",
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"text": "What kind of kiss feels sweet without needing to lead anywhere?",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_007",
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"text": "What kind of kiss gives you butterflies?",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_008",
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"text": "What makes physical affection feel playful between us?",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_009",
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"text": "What is one touch you wish happened more often during normal days?",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_010",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"text": "What makes sitting close feel comforting to you?",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_011",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you feel comfortable asking for affection?",
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"communication",
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_012",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you say not right now without feeling guilty?",
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"no",
"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_013",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you hear not right now without feeling rejected?",
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"consent",
"rejection",
"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_014",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of touch helps you calm down when life feels heavy?",
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"stress",
"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_015",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"text": "What kind of touch feels best when you are tired?",
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"rest",
"touch",
"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_016",
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"text": "What kind of affection helps you feel connected after a long day?",
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"connection",
"daily_life",
"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_017",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes a goodbye kiss feel meaningful?",
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"kissing",
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"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_018",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes a hello hug feel special?",
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"hugs",
"daily_life",
"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_019",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one affectionate habit we could bring back?",
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"habits",
"affection",
"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_020",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes physical closeness feel safe with me?",
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"safety",
"closeness",
"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_021",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of touch helps you feel seen, not just touched?",
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"touch",
"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_022",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes a back rub feel loving?",
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"massage",
"care",
"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_023",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"text": "What kind of playful touch makes you smile?",
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"play",
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"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_024",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps physical affection feel mutual?",
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"mutual",
"affection",
"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_025",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one way I can be more affectionate without overwhelming you?",
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"affection",
"comfort",
"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_026",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What does a respectful pause in physical affection look like to you?",
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"consent",
"pause",
"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_027",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of shoulder or back touch feels comforting?",
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"touch",
"comfort",
"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_028",
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"text": "What makes a quick kiss still feel intentional?",
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"kissing",
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"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_029",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"text": "What kind of cuddling makes you feel most loved?",
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_030",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of affection feels easiest in public?",
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_031",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of affection do you prefer to keep private?",
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"privacy",
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"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_032",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"text": "What makes touch feel like connection instead of routine?",
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"connection",
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"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_033",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one physical comfort you like when you are sad?",
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"sadness",
"comfort",
"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_034",
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"text": "What is one physical comfort you like when you are stressed?",
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"stress",
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"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_035",
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"text": "What is one physical comfort you like when you are happy?",
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"joy",
"touch",
"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_036",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you relax into a long hug?",
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"hugs",
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"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_037",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of physical closeness makes you feel protected?",
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"protection",
"closeness",
"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_038",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes touch feel flirty but still comfortable?",
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"flirting",
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"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_039",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of affection should happen more during ordinary moments?",
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"daily_life",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_040",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one small physical gesture that says I love you without words?",
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"love",
"touch",
"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_041",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of touch helps you feel like we are on the same team?",
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"touch",
"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_042",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you feel comfortable being the one to reach for me?",
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"comfort",
"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_043",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes physical affection feel low-pressure?",
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"pressure",
"affection",
"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_044",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one way we can make touch feel fun again?",
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"fun",
"touch",
"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_045",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of closeness would feel good tonight?",
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"tonight",
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"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_046",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What do you wish I understood about how you experience touch?",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_047",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"text": "What kind of touch makes you feel emotionally safe?",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_048",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of touch makes you feel emotionally close?",
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_049",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of affection helps you reconnect after distance?",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_050",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When we have been disconnected, what physical closeness feels easiest to restart with?",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_051",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of hug helps repair a hard day?",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_052",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of touch should never be rushed?",
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"pace",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_053",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes a kiss feel intimate instead of automatic?",
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"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_054",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes a kiss feel playful instead of serious?",
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"kissing",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_055",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes cuddling feel like real connection?",
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"connection",
"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_056",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of cuddling helps you sleep better?",
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"sleep",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_057",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of cuddling makes it hard not to smile?",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_058",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one physical habit that would make mornings sweeter?",
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"morning",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_059",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one physical habit that would make bedtime sweeter?",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_060",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of affection helps you feel attractive without pressure?",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_061",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of affection helps you feel desired without needing sex?",
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_062",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one touch that feels romantic but not demanding?",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_063",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes a flirty touch feel welcome?",
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"flirting",
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_064",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes a flirty touch feel like too much?",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_065",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How can I tell when you want more physical closeness?",
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"text": "How can I tell when you need less physical closeness?",
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"signals",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_067",
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"text": "What signal could mean hold me?",
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"signals",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_068",
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"text": "What signal could mean kiss me?",
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"signals",
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"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_069",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What signal could mean slow down?",
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"signals",
"consent",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_070",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What signal could mean not right now?",
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"signals",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_071",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you trust that I will notice your body language?",
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"tags": [
"trust",
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"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_072",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What body language from me makes you feel invited closer?",
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"body_language",
"invitation",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_073",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What body language from me helps you know I need space?",
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"body_language",
"space",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_074",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes asking for touch feel less awkward?",
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"communication",
"touch",
"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_075",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes declining touch feel less awkward?",
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"tags": [
"consent",
"no",
"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_076",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What should I remember when you pull away gently?",
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"tags": [
"consent",
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"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_077",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What should you remember when I pull away gently?",
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"tags": [
"consent",
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_078",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of reassurance helps after one of us says not right now?",
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"tags": [
"reassurance",
"no",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_079",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps physical closeness stay kind when one of us is overwhelmed?",
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"overwhelm",
"care",
"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_080",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of touch feels grounding when anxiety is high?",
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"tags": [
"anxiety",
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"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_081",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of touch feels grounding when anger is high?",
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"tags": [
"anger",
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"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_082",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of touch feels grounding when sadness is high?",
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"tags": [
"sadness",
"grounding",
"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_083",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of touch should we avoid when either of us is already overstimulated?",
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"tags": [
"overstimulation",
"boundaries",
"physical_intimacy"
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},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_084",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you feel less crowded when we are physically close?",
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"tags": [
"space",
"closeness",
"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_085",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes personal space feel respected without creating distance?",
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"tags": [
"space",
"connection",
"physical_intimacy"
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},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_086",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one physical boundary that would make affection easier?",
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"tags": [
"boundaries",
"affection",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_087",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one physical boundary that would make kissing easier?",
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"boundaries",
"kissing",
"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_088",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one physical boundary that would make cuddling easier?",
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"tags": [
"boundaries",
"cuddling",
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},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_089",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one affectionate habit that should stay just between us?",
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"tags": [
"privacy",
"affection",
"physical_intimacy"
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},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_090",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of public affection makes you feel proud to be with me?",
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"tags": [
"public_affection",
"pride",
"physical_intimacy"
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},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_091",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of public affection makes you uncomfortable?",
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"tags": [
"public_affection",
"boundaries",
"physical_intimacy"
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},
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"id": "physical_intimacy_092",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps public affection feel respectful?",
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"tags": [
"public_affection",
"respect",
"physical_intimacy"
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{
"id": "physical_intimacy_093",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of affection around family feels okay?",
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"tags": [
"family",
"affection",
"physical_intimacy"
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},
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"id": "physical_intimacy_094",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of affection around friends feels okay?",
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"tags": [
"friends",
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"physical_intimacy"
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},
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"id": "physical_intimacy_095",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What physical closeness helps you feel connected during a movie or show?",
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"tags": [
"home",
"couch",
"physical_intimacy"
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},
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"id": "physical_intimacy_096",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What physical closeness helps you feel connected during a walk?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"walking",
"hands",
"physical_intimacy"
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},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_097",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What physical closeness helps you feel connected in the car?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"car",
"touch",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_098",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of touch makes errands feel more like time together?",
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"tags": [
"errands",
"connection",
"physical_intimacy"
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},
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"id": "physical_intimacy_099",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of touch helps a date feel romantic?",
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"tags": [
"date_night",
"romance",
"physical_intimacy"
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},
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"id": "physical_intimacy_100",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of touch helps a date feel playful?",
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"tags": [
"date_night",
"play",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_101",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of touch helps a date feel intimate?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"date_night",
"intimacy",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_102",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes a slow dance feel sweet even at home?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"slow_dance",
"home",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_103",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of touch helps you feel beautiful or handsome?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"confidence",
"touch",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_104",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of touch helps you feel wanted as a whole person?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"whole_person",
"wanted",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_105",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps touch feel like affection, not expectation?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"expectation",
"affection",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_106",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps touch feel like choice, not obligation?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"choice",
"consent",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_107",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes a massage feel caring instead of transactional?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"massage",
"care",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_108",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of massage pressure do you usually like?",
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"tags": [
"massage",
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"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_109",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of back rub helps you relax the most?",
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"tags": [
"massage",
"relaxation",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_110",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of touch helps you feel safe after an argument?",
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"tags": [
"conflict",
"repair",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_111",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of touch feels wrong too soon after an argument?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conflict",
"timing",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_112",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps us know when we are ready for touch after conflict?",
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"tags": [
"conflict",
"signals",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_113",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of affectionate repair feels most natural to you?",
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"tags": [
"repair",
"affection",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_114",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes a hand squeeze feel reassuring?",
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"tags": [
"hands",
"reassurance",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_115",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of hand-holding feels flirty?",
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"tags": [
"hands",
"flirting",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_116",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of hand-holding feels protective?",
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"tags": [
"hands",
"protection",
"physical_intimacy"
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},
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"id": "physical_intimacy_117",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of forehead kiss lands best for you?",
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"tags": [
"kissing",
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"physical_intimacy"
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},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_118",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of cheek kiss feels sweet?",
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"tags": [
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"sweet",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_119",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of neck or shoulder touch feels relaxing?",
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"tags": [
"touch",
"relaxation",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
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"id": "physical_intimacy_120",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of hair touch feels good, if any?",
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"tags": [
"touch",
"hair",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_121",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of foot or leg touch feels comforting, if any?",
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"tags": [
"touch",
"comfort",
"physical_intimacy"
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},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_122",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of touch do you prefer when you are sick?",
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"tags": [
"sick",
"care",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_123",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of touch do you prefer when you are exhausted?",
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"tags": [
"exhausted",
"care",
"physical_intimacy"
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"max_length": 500
}
},
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"id": "physical_intimacy_124",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of touch do you prefer when you are excited?",
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"tags": [
"joy",
"touch",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_125",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes physical affection feel spontaneous in a good way?",
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"tags": [
"spontaneity",
"affection",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_126",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of physical affection should be planned more often?",
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"tags": [
"planning",
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"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_127",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of affection makes the house feel warmer?",
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"tags": [
"home",
"warmth",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_128",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one physical closeness ritual we could start?",
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"tags": [
"rituals",
"closeness",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_129",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one physical closeness ritual we should bring back?",
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"tags": [
"rituals",
"memory",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_130",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What physical memory of us still feels sweet?",
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"tags": [
"memory",
"affection",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_131",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What physical memory of us still feels a little electric?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"memory",
"spark",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_132",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of affection did you love early in our relationship?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"memory",
"affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_133",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of affection do you hope we still have years from now?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"future",
"affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_134",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps physical intimacy grow with us instead of becoming routine?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"growth",
"routine",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_135",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would make physical closeness feel easier this month?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"monthly",
"closeness",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_136",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would make physical affection feel more fun this week?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"weekly",
"fun",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_137",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would make kissing feel more intentional this week?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"weekly",
"kissing",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_138",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would make cuddling feel more connected this week?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"weekly",
"cuddling",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_139",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would make hugs feel less rushed this week?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"weekly",
"hugs",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_140",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one way I can reach for you that would feel welcome?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"initiation",
"welcome",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_141",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one way you wish I waited for you physically?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"pace",
"consent",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_142",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of physical affection helps you feel like a priority?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"priority",
"affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_143",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of physical affection helps you feel cherished?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"cherished",
"affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_144",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of physical affection helps you feel desired without pressure?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"desired",
"pressure",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_145",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of physical affection helps you feel playful and close?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"play",
"closeness",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_146",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What should always stay easy to pause between us?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"pause",
"consent",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_147",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of touch should always require a clear yes?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consent",
"clear_yes",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_148",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you feel safe correcting my touch?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"feedback",
"safety",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_149",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you receive correction about touch kindly?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"feedback",
"kindness",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_150",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of feedback about touch would be easiest to give?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"feedback",
"touch",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_151",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which everyday touch do you like most?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"daily_life",
"touch",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "hand_holding",
"text": "Hand-holding"
},
{
"id": "quick_kiss",
"text": "Quick kiss"
},
{
"id": "couch_cuddle",
"text": "Couch cuddle"
},
{
"id": "back_touch",
"text": "Back touch"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_152",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of hug feels best?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"hugs",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "long_hug",
"text": "Long hug"
},
{
"id": "quick_squeeze",
"text": "Quick squeeze"
},
{
"id": "from_behind",
"text": "From behind"
},
{
"id": "side_hug",
"text": "Side hug"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_153",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which kiss feels sweetest?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"kissing",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "forehead",
"text": "Forehead kiss"
},
{
"id": "cheek",
"text": "Cheek kiss"
},
{
"id": "slow_lips",
"text": "Slow kiss"
},
{
"id": "goodbye",
"text": "Goodbye kiss"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_154",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When do you like affection most?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"timing",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "morning",
"text": "Morning"
},
{
"id": "after_work",
"text": "After work"
},
{
"id": "bedtime",
"text": "Bedtime"
},
{
"id": "randomly",
"text": "Randomly"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_155",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes cuddling easiest?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"cuddling",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "quiet_room",
"text": "Quiet room"
},
{
"id": "good_position",
"text": "Comfortable position"
},
{
"id": "no_phone",
"text": "No phone"
},
{
"id": "not_too_hot",
"text": "Not too hot"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_156",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of touch feels most calming?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"comfort_touch",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "hand_squeeze",
"text": "Hand squeeze"
},
{
"id": "back_rub",
"text": "Back rub"
},
{
"id": "hug",
"text": "Hug"
},
{
"id": "hair_touch",
"text": "Hair touch"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_157",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of touch feels most playful?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"play",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "light_tickle",
"text": "Light tickle"
},
{
"id": "hip_bump",
"text": "Hip bump"
},
{
"id": "pull_close",
"text": "Pull close"
},
{
"id": "dance_touch",
"text": "Dance touch"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_158",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps you ask for affection?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"communication",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "simple_words",
"text": "Simple words"
},
{
"id": "playful_signal",
"text": "Playful signal"
},
{
"id": "partner_invites",
"text": "Partner invites it"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_159",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps you say not right now?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"consent",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "kind_words",
"text": "Kind words"
},
{
"id": "easy_no",
"text": "An easy no"
},
{
"id": "no_guilt",
"text": "No guilt"
},
{
"id": "another_option",
"text": "Another closeness option"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_160",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which public affection feels most comfortable?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"public_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "hand_holding",
"text": "Hand-holding"
},
{
"id": "arm_around",
"text": "Arm around me"
},
{
"id": "quick_kiss",
"text": "Quick kiss"
},
{
"id": "none",
"text": "None"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_161",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which private affection feels most comforting?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"private_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "cuddling",
"text": "Cuddling"
},
{
"id": "long_hug",
"text": "Long hug"
},
{
"id": "slow_kiss",
"text": "Slow kiss"
},
{
"id": "massage",
"text": "Massage"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_162",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes touch feel low-pressure?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"pressure",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_expectation",
"text": "No expectation"
},
{
"id": "ask_first",
"text": "Ask first"
},
{
"id": "good_timing",
"text": "Good timing"
},
{
"id": "easy_pause",
"text": "Easy pause"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_163",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which touch helps after stress?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"stress",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "hug",
"text": "Hug"
},
{
"id": "hand_on_back",
"text": "Hand on back"
},
{
"id": "back_rub",
"text": "Back rub"
},
{
"id": "quiet_cuddle",
"text": "Quiet cuddle"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_164",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What physical gesture says I love you best?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"love",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "forehead_kiss",
"text": "Forehead kiss"
},
{
"id": "holding_hands",
"text": "Holding hands"
},
{
"id": "long_hug",
"text": "Long hug"
},
{
"id": "reaching_for_me",
"text": "Reaching for me"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_165",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of closeness sounds best tonight?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"tonight",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "cuddling",
"text": "Cuddling"
},
{
"id": "kissing",
"text": "Kissing"
},
{
"id": "hand_holding",
"text": "Hand-holding"
},
{
"id": "space_then_close",
"text": "Space, then closeness"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_166",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of touch should we get better at asking for?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"communication",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "comfort_touch",
"text": "Comfort touch"
},
{
"id": "flirty_touch",
"text": "Flirty touch"
},
{
"id": "massage",
"text": "Massage"
},
{
"id": "space",
"text": "Space instead"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_167",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which touch boundary matters most?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"boundaries",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_first",
"text": "Ask first"
},
{
"id": "slow_down",
"text": "Slow down"
},
{
"id": "not_when_upset",
"text": "Not when upset"
},
{
"id": "public_limits",
"text": "Public limits"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_168",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes affection feel most respectful?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"respect",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "listening",
"text": "Listening"
},
{
"id": "checking_in",
"text": "Checking in"
},
{
"id": "good_timing",
"text": "Good timing"
},
{
"id": "no_pressure",
"text": "No pressure"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_169",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of kiss should we bring back?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"kissing",
"memory",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "long_goodbye",
"text": "Long goodbye kiss"
},
{
"id": "hello_kiss",
"text": "Hello kiss"
},
{
"id": "slow_kiss",
"text": "Slow kiss"
},
{
"id": "surprise_kiss",
"text": "Surprise kiss"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_170",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of cuddling should we do more?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"cuddling",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "movie_cuddle",
"text": "Movie cuddle"
},
{
"id": "sleep_cuddle",
"text": "Sleep cuddle"
},
{
"id": "morning_cuddle",
"text": "Morning cuddle"
},
{
"id": "quiet_cuddle",
"text": "Quiet cuddle"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_171",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of massage sounds best?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"massage",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "shoulders",
"text": "Shoulders"
},
{
"id": "back",
"text": "Back"
},
{
"id": "feet",
"text": "Feet"
},
{
"id": "hands",
"text": "Hands"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_172",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of touch helps repair distance?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"repair",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "hand_squeeze",
"text": "Hand squeeze"
},
{
"id": "slow_hug",
"text": "Slow hug"
},
{
"id": "couch_cuddle",
"text": "Couch cuddle"
},
{
"id": "ask_first",
"text": "Ask first"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_173",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should we do if touch feels awkward?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"awkwardness",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "laugh_gently",
"text": "Laugh gently"
},
{
"id": "pause",
"text": "Pause"
},
{
"id": "talk_softly",
"text": "Talk softly"
},
{
"id": "try_later",
"text": "Try later"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_174",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which touch feels best after conflict?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conflict",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "none_yet",
"text": "None yet"
},
{
"id": "hand_hold",
"text": "Hand-hold"
},
{
"id": "hug",
"text": "Hug"
},
{
"id": "cuddle",
"text": "Cuddle"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_175",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes physical affection feel like teamwork?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"teamwork",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "both_initiate",
"text": "Both initiate"
},
{
"id": "both_can_pause",
"text": "Both can pause"
},
{
"id": "both_listen",
"text": "Both listen"
},
{
"id": "both_play",
"text": "Both play"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_176",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of public affection is too much?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"public_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "kissing",
"text": "Kissing"
},
{
"id": "touching_waist",
"text": "Touching waist"
},
{
"id": "too_much_attention",
"text": "Too much attention"
},
{
"id": "none",
"text": "None"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_177",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of private affection feels most intimate?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"private_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "slow_kissing",
"text": "Slow kissing"
},
{
"id": "long_cuddling",
"text": "Long cuddling"
},
{
"id": "massage",
"text": "Massage"
},
{
"id": "being_held",
"text": "Being held"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_178",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps you receive affection when confidence is low?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"confidence",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "specific_compliment",
"text": "Specific compliment"
},
{
"id": "gentle_touch",
"text": "Gentle touch"
},
{
"id": "low_pressure",
"text": "Low pressure"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_179",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of affection feels best in the morning?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"morning",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "quick_kiss",
"text": "Quick kiss"
},
{
"id": "sleepy_cuddle",
"text": "Sleepy cuddle"
},
{
"id": "hand_touch",
"text": "Hand touch"
},
{
"id": "space_first",
"text": "Space first"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_180",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of affection feels best at night?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"night",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "cuddling",
"text": "Cuddling"
},
{
"id": "back_rub",
"text": "Back rub"
},
{
"id": "slow_kiss",
"text": "Slow kiss"
},
{
"id": "hand_holding",
"text": "Hand-holding"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_181",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What touch helps when you are overwhelmed?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"overwhelm",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "firm_hug",
"text": "Firm hug"
},
{
"id": "light_touch",
"text": "Light touch"
},
{
"id": "hand_hold",
"text": "Hand-hold"
},
{
"id": "no_touch",
"text": "No touch"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_182",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What physical signal should mean slow down?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"signals",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "pull_back",
"text": "Pull back"
},
{
"id": "go_still",
"text": "Go still"
},
{
"id": "say_slow",
"text": "Say slow"
},
{
"id": "move_hand",
"text": "Move hand"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_183",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What physical signal should mean keep going?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"signals",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "pull_closer",
"text": "Pull closer"
},
{
"id": "kiss_back",
"text": "Kiss back"
},
{
"id": "relax_in",
"text": "Relax in"
},
{
"id": "say_yes",
"text": "Say yes"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_184",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes touch feel spontaneous in a good way?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"spontaneity",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "good_timing",
"text": "Good timing"
},
{
"id": "playful_energy",
"text": "Playful energy"
},
{
"id": "clear_welcome",
"text": "Clear welcome"
},
{
"id": "simple_gesture",
"text": "Simple gesture"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_185",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes touch feel too sudden?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"boundaries",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "bad_timing",
"text": "Bad timing"
},
{
"id": "no_warning",
"text": "No warning"
},
{
"id": "wrong_mood",
"text": "Wrong mood"
},
{
"id": "public_setting",
"text": "Public setting"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_186",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which physical ritual sounds best?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"rituals",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "daily_hug",
"text": "Daily hug"
},
{
"id": "goodnight_kiss",
"text": "Goodnight kiss"
},
{
"id": "couch_cuddle",
"text": "Couch cuddle"
},
{
"id": "hand_squeeze",
"text": "Hand squeeze"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_187",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes a long hug feel safest?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"hugs",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "relaxed_body",
"text": "Relaxed body"
},
{
"id": "not_rushed",
"text": "Not rushed"
},
{
"id": "quiet",
"text": "Quiet"
},
{
"id": "asked_first",
"text": "Asked first"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_188",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which touch helps you feel most cherished?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"cherished",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "face_touch",
"text": "Face touch"
},
{
"id": "hand_hold",
"text": "Hand-hold"
},
{
"id": "being_held",
"text": "Being held"
},
{
"id": "slow_kiss",
"text": "Slow kiss"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_189",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of closeness should stay nonsexual more often?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"nonsexual",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "cuddling",
"text": "Cuddling"
},
{
"id": "massage",
"text": "Massage"
},
{
"id": "kissing",
"text": "Kissing"
},
{
"id": "bedtime_touch",
"text": "Bedtime touch"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_190",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What would make physical intimacy feel more like us?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"identity",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "more_play",
"text": "More play"
},
{
"id": "more_softness",
"text": "More softness"
},
{
"id": "more_kissing",
"text": "More kissing"
},
{
"id": "more_check_ins",
"text": "More check-ins"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_191",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which touches feel comforting to you?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"comfort_touch",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "hug",
"text": "Hug"
},
{
"id": "hand_hold",
"text": "Hand-hold"
},
{
"id": "back_rub",
"text": "Back rub"
},
{
"id": "hair_touch",
"text": "Hair touch"
},
{
"id": "cuddling",
"text": "Cuddling"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_192",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes affection feel welcome?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"welcome",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "good_timing",
"text": "Good timing"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "playful_mood",
"text": "Playful mood"
},
{
"id": "asking_first",
"text": "Asking first"
},
{
"id": "low_pressure",
"text": "Low pressure"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_193",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which physical closeness do you want more often?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"closeness",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "hand_holding",
"text": "Hand-holding"
},
{
"id": "cuddling",
"text": "Cuddling"
},
{
"id": "kissing",
"text": "Kissing"
},
{
"id": "hugs",
"text": "Hugs"
},
{
"id": "sitting_close",
"text": "Sitting close"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_194",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps when you are not in the mood for touch?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"consent",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "kind_words",
"text": "Kind words"
},
{
"id": "no_guilt",
"text": "No guilt"
},
{
"id": "space",
"text": "Space"
},
{
"id": "try_later",
"text": "Try later"
},
{
"id": "another_closeness",
"text": "Another kind of closeness"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_195",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes touch feel playful?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"play",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "laughter",
"text": "Laughter"
},
{
"id": "teasing",
"text": "Teasing"
},
{
"id": "dancing",
"text": "Dancing"
},
{
"id": "surprise_hug",
"text": "Surprise hug"
},
{
"id": "inside_jokes",
"text": "Inside jokes"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_196",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should we protect around physical intimacy?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"boundaries",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "easy_no",
"text": "Easy no"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "good_timing",
"text": "Good timing"
},
{
"id": "no_pressure",
"text": "No pressure"
},
{
"id": "clear_signals",
"text": "Clear signals"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_197",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you feel safe being physically close?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"safety",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "trust",
"text": "Trust"
},
{
"id": "listening",
"text": "Listening"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "slow_pace",
"text": "Slow pace"
},
{
"id": "checking_in",
"text": "Checking in"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_198",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which forms of public affection feel okay?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"public_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "hand_holding",
"text": "Hand-holding"
},
{
"id": "hug",
"text": "Hug"
},
{
"id": "quick_kiss",
"text": "Quick kiss"
},
{
"id": "arm_around",
"text": "Arm around"
},
{
"id": "none",
"text": "None"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_199",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which private affection should happen more often?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"private_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "long_hugs",
"text": "Long hugs"
},
{
"id": "slow_kisses",
"text": "Slow kisses"
},
{
"id": "massage",
"text": "Massage"
},
{
"id": "cuddling",
"text": "Cuddling"
},
{
"id": "playful_touch",
"text": "Playful touch"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_200",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes a kiss feel connected?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"kissing",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "eye_contact",
"text": "Eye contact"
},
{
"id": "not_rushed",
"text": "Not rushed"
},
{
"id": "soft_touch",
"text": "Soft touch"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "mutual_energy",
"text": "Mutual energy"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_201",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes cuddling better?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"cuddling",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "comfort",
"text": "Comfort"
},
{
"id": "right_temperature",
"text": "Right temperature"
},
{
"id": "no_phones",
"text": "No phones"
},
{
"id": "quiet",
"text": "Quiet"
},
{
"id": "good_position",
"text": "Good position"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_202",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which touches help after a hard day?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"stress",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "hug",
"text": "Hug"
},
{
"id": "back_rub",
"text": "Back rub"
},
{
"id": "hand_hold",
"text": "Hand-hold"
},
{
"id": "head_on_shoulder",
"text": "Head on shoulder"
},
{
"id": "no_touch_first",
"text": "No touch first"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_203",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps physical closeness after conflict?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conflict",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_first",
"text": "Ask first"
},
{
"id": "slow_start",
"text": "Slow start"
},
{
"id": "apology_first",
"text": "Apology first"
},
{
"id": "space_first",
"text": "Space first"
},
{
"id": "soft_words",
"text": "Soft words"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_204",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What kind of touch feedback is easiest?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"feedback",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "softer",
"text": "Softer"
},
{
"id": "slower",
"text": "Slower"
},
{
"id": "right_there",
"text": "Right there"
},
{
"id": "not_now",
"text": "Not now"
},
{
"id": "more_like_that",
"text": "More like that"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_205",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes learning touch preferences feel fun?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"learning",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_judgment",
"text": "No judgment"
},
{
"id": "playful_mood",
"text": "Playful mood"
},
{
"id": "curiosity",
"text": "Curiosity"
},
{
"id": "going_slow",
"text": "Going slow"
},
{
"id": "laughing",
"text": "Laughing"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_206",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What kind of touch helps you feel attractive?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"confidence",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "waist_touch",
"text": "Waist touch"
},
{
"id": "face_touch",
"text": "Face touch"
},
{
"id": "back_touch",
"text": "Back touch"
},
{
"id": "being_held",
"text": "Being held"
},
{
"id": "slow_kiss",
"text": "Slow kiss"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_207",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps physical intimacy stay nonsexual when needed?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"nonsexual",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "clear_words",
"text": "Clear words"
},
{
"id": "respect",
"text": "Respect"
},
{
"id": "no_expectation",
"text": "No expectation"
},
{
"id": "other_closeness",
"text": "Other closeness"
},
{
"id": "good_timing",
"text": "Good timing"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_208",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What kinds of touch feel grounding?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"grounding",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "firm_hug",
"text": "Firm hug"
},
{
"id": "hand_on_back",
"text": "Hand on back"
},
{
"id": "holding_hands",
"text": "Holding hands"
},
{
"id": "breathing_together",
"text": "Breathing together"
},
{
"id": "no_touch",
"text": "No touch"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_209",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which physical rituals would help us feel closer?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"rituals",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "daily_hug",
"text": "Daily hug"
},
{
"id": "goodnight_kiss",
"text": "Goodnight kiss"
},
{
"id": "morning_cuddle",
"text": "Morning cuddle"
},
{
"id": "couch_touch",
"text": "Couch touch"
},
{
"id": "walk_hand_hold",
"text": "Hand-holding walk"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_210",
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"text": "What should always be easy to communicate during touch?",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_211",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"text": "How natural does everyday affection feel lately?",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_212",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to ask for a hug?",
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"hugs",
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"min": 1,
"max": 5,
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"id": "physical_intimacy_213",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable are you with public affection?",
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"public_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
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"min": 1,
"max": 5,
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"max_label": "Very comfortable"
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},
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"id": "physical_intimacy_214",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How connected do you feel when we cuddle?",
"depth": 2,
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"tags": [
"cuddling",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not connected",
"max_label": "Very connected"
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},
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"id": "physical_intimacy_215",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to say not right now?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"consent",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Hard",
"max_label": "Easy"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_216",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much would more small touches help us?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"touch",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_217",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How playful does our physical affection feel?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"play",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not playful",
"max_label": "Very playful"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_218",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How safe does physical closeness feel between us?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"safety",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not safe",
"max_label": "Very safe"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_219",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How respected do your touch boundaries feel?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"boundaries",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not respected",
"max_label": "Very respected"
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},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_220",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to give feedback about touch?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"feedback",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Hard",
"max_label": "Easy"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_221",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to hear feedback about touch?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"feedback",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Hard",
"max_label": "Easy"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_222",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How often do we kiss with intention?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"kissing",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Rarely",
"max_label": "Often"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_223",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How often do we hug without rushing?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"hugs",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Rarely",
"max_label": "Often"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_224",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much does stress affect your comfort with touch?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"stress",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_225",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much does confidence affect your comfort with touch?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"confidence",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_226",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable are you initiating affection?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"initiation",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_227",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable are you receiving affection?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"receiving",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_228",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How connected does hand-holding feel to you?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"hands",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not connected",
"max_label": "Very connected"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_229",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How calming is a long hug for you?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"hugs",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not calming",
"max_label": "Very calming"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_230",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do you enjoy playful touch?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"play",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_231",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do you enjoy quiet touch?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"quiet",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_232",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much privacy do you need for physical closeness?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"privacy",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "A little",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_233",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we reconnect physically after distance?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reconnection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Needs work",
"max_label": "Very well"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_234",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to pause touch without awkwardness?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"pause",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Hard",
"max_label": "Easy"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_235",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much would a new physical closeness ritual help us?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"rituals",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_236",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Hand-holding or cuddling?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"touch",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "hand_holding",
"text": "Hand-holding"
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{
"id": "cuddling",
"text": "Cuddling"
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]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_237",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Quick kiss or long hug?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "quick_kiss",
"text": "Quick kiss"
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{
"id": "long_hug",
"text": "Long hug"
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]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_238",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Playful touch or comforting touch?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"touch",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "playful_touch",
"text": "Playful touch"
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{
"id": "comforting_touch",
"text": "Comforting touch"
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]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_239",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Public affection or private affection?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "public_affection",
"text": "Public affection"
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{
"id": "private_affection",
"text": "Private affection"
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]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_240",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Morning cuddle or bedtime cuddle?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"cuddling",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "morning_cuddle",
"text": "Morning cuddle"
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{
"id": "bedtime_cuddle",
"text": "Bedtime cuddle"
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]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_241",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Slow kiss or surprise kiss?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"kissing",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "slow_kiss",
"text": "Slow kiss"
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{
"id": "surprise_kiss",
"text": "Surprise kiss"
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]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_242",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Back rub or hand massage?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"massage",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "back_rub",
"text": "Back rub"
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{
"id": "hand_massage",
"text": "Hand massage"
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]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_243",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Ask first or read the moment?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consent",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_first",
"text": "Ask first"
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{
"id": "read_the_moment",
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_244",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "More hugs or more kisses?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"affection",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "more_hugs",
"text": "More hugs"
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"id": "more_kisses",
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_245",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Quiet closeness or flirty closeness?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"closeness",
"physical_intimacy"
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"options": [
{
"id": "quiet_closeness",
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"id": "flirty_closeness",
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}
},
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"id": "physical_intimacy_246",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Couch cuddle or kitchen dance?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"play",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "couch_cuddle",
"text": "Couch cuddle"
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{
"id": "kitchen_dance",
"text": "Kitchen dance"
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}
},
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"id": "physical_intimacy_247",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Hold me tighter or give me room?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"space",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "hold_me_tighter",
"text": "Hold me tighter"
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{
"id": "give_me_room",
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]
}
},
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"id": "physical_intimacy_248",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Forehead kiss or neck kiss?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"kissing",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "forehead_kiss",
"text": "Forehead kiss"
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{
"id": "neck_kiss",
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]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_249",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Touch first or words first?",
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"tags": [
"communication",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "touch_first",
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{
"id": "words_first",
"text": "Words first"
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}
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"id": "physical_intimacy_250",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "New closeness ritual or bring back an old one?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"rituals",
"physical_intimacy"
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"options": [
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"id": "new_ritual",
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"id": "old_ritual",
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