Closer/seed/questions/sex_and_desire.json

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      "text": "What makes you feel wanted before anything physical happens?",
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      "id": "sex_and_desire_002",
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      "text": "What kind of flirting makes you smile even on a busy day?",
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      "id": "sex_and_desire_003",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you switch from everyday stress into a more playful mood?",
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      "id": "sex_and_desire_004",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes a kiss feel like it might turn into something more?",
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        "kissing",
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        "sex_and_desire"
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      "id": "sex_and_desire_005",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one small way I can make you feel desired this week?",
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      "id": "sex_and_desire_006",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "When do you feel most attractive around me?",
      "depth": 2,
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        "confidence",
        "attraction",
        "sex_and_desire"
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      "id": "sex_and_desire_007",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of attention makes you feel like I really see you?",
      "depth": 3,
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        "attention",
        "connection",
        "sex_and_desire"
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      "id": "sex_and_desire_008",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes desire feel easy instead of complicated?",
      "depth": 3,
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        "desire",
        "ease",
        "sex_and_desire"
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      "id": "sex_and_desire_009",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is a flirty thing you wish we did more often?",
      "depth": 2,
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      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "play",
        "sex_and_desire"
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    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_010",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel comfortable saying you are in the mood?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "mood",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_011",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel comfortable saying you are not in the mood?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "no",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_012",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of compliment makes you feel most wanted?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "compliments",
        "wanted",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_013",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way we could make ordinary nights feel a little sexier?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "fun",
        "date_night",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_014",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does being pursued in a good way feel like to you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "pursuit",
        "consent",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_015",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes being close feel playful instead of pressured?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "play",
        "pressure",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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        "max_length": 500
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    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_016",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one touch that feels sweet before it feels sexy?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "touch",
        "affection",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_017",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes you want to move closer to me?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "closeness",
        "desire",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_018",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of privacy helps you relax into desire?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "relaxation",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_019",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What turns a normal hug into something with sparks?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "touch",
        "sparks",
        "sex_and_desire"
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    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_020",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way I can flirt with you without making it awkward?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
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        "flirting",
        "ease",
        "sex_and_desire"
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    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_021",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel safe being a little bolder with me?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "boldness",
        "safety",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_022",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes desire feel mutual between us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "mutual",
        "desire",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_023",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing we do that still gives you butterflies?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "butterflies",
        "memory",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_024",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of mood makes you most open to being touched?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "mood",
        "touch",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_025",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes a night feel like it belongs only to us?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "connection",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_026",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel relaxed enough to enjoy being wanted?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "relaxation",
        "wanted",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_027",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing that quietly kills your mood?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "turn_offs",
        "mood",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_028",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you recover if the moment gets awkward?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "awkwardness",
        "repair",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_029",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes talking about desire feel less embarrassing?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "desire",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_030",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one playful signal that means you want more attention?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "play",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_031",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you know I am interested without feeling pressured?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "interest",
        "pressure",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_032",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way we can make desire feel fun again when life gets busy?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "busy_life",
        "fun",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_033",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is something small that makes you feel hard to resist?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "desired",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_034",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way we can keep flirting alive outside the bedroom?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "daily_life",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_035",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes you feel comfortable letting me know what you like?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "comfort",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_036",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of slow build-up do you enjoy most?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "slow_burn",
        "sex_and_desire"
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_037",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes you feel chosen, not just available?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "chosen",
        "desire",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_038",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of attention makes you smirk later?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "smirk",
        "attention",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_039",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one sexy-but-simple thing we could try this week?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "play",
        "simple",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_040",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes a private moment feel exciting without needing to be perfect?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "excitement",
        "sex_and_desire"
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    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_041",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel close when sex is not on the table?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "closeness",
        "no_pressure",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_042",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way I can make you feel attractive on an ordinary day?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "daily_life",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_043",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes you feel emotionally close enough to want physical closeness?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "emotional_closeness",
        "physical_closeness",
        "sex_and_desire"
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    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_044",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of reassurance helps if desire feels uneven between us?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "reassurance",
        "sex_and_desire"
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_045",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing you want us to be able to laugh about in this area?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "humor",
        "comfort",
        "sex_and_desire"
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_046",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of flirting makes you feel like I am still trying to win you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "pursuit",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_047",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes being wanted feel exciting instead of expected?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "wanted",
        "pressure",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_048",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When your desire is low, what helps you feel loved without feeling pushed?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "low_desire",
        "consent",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_049",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When your desire is high, what helps you handle it kindly if I am not there too?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "high_desire",
        "kindness",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_050",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What do you wish I understood about how your desire works?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire",
        "understanding",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_051",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of initiation feels like an invitation instead of a request?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "consent",
        "sex_and_desire"
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    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_052",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of initiation makes you feel most wanted?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "wanted",
        "sex_and_desire"
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_053",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes saying yes feel easy and honest?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "yes",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_054",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes saying no feel safe and not like rejection?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "no",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_055",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should I remember when you say not tonight?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "no",
        "reassurance",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_056",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should you remember when I say not tonight?",
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    },
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      "id": "sex_and_desire_057",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps us stay connected when only one of us is in the mood?",
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      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "connection",
        "sex_and_desire"
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_058",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of nonsexual closeness still helps you feel desired?",
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      "tags": [
        "closeness",
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_059",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes a compliment feel sexy instead of generic?",
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      "tags": [
        "compliments",
        "specificity",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_060",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of compliment do you want to hear more often?",
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      "tags": [
        "compliments",
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_061",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you believe me when I say I want you?",
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      "tags": [
        "trust",
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        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_062",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes desire feel emotionally safe between us?",
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      "tags": [
        "safety",
        "desire",
        "sex_and_desire"
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    },
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      "id": "sex_and_desire_063",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing we could do before bed that would create more spark?",
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      "tags": [
        "bedtime",
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_064",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes morning affection feel welcome?",
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      "tags": [
        "morning",
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        "sex_and_desire"
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    },
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      "id": "sex_and_desire_065",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes nighttime affection feel welcome?",
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      "tags": [
        "night",
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        "sex_and_desire"
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
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      "id": "sex_and_desire_066",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of teasing would make you lean in instead of pull away?",
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      "tags": [
        "teasing",
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        "sex_and_desire"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_067",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of teasing crosses the line for you?",
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      "tags": [
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        "boundaries",
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_068",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes a sexy text feel fun instead of too much?",
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      "tags": [
        "sexting",
        "boundaries",
        "sex_and_desire"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_069",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of message would make your day harder to focus on?",
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      "tags": [
        "sexting",
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_070",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one texting boundary that helps desire stay private and safe?",
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      "tags": [
        "sexting",
        "privacy",
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_071",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel comfortable talking about fantasies without pressure?",
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      "tags": [
        "fantasy",
        "communication",
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_072",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should always be true before we talk about trying something new?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "novelty",
        "consent",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_073",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes a new idea feel exciting instead of intimidating?",
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      "tags": [
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    },
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      "id": "sex_and_desire_074",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing you are curious about but would want to discuss gently?",
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      "tags": [
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    },
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      "id": "sex_and_desire_075",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of yes/no/maybe conversation would feel useful for us?",
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      "tags": [
        "yes_no_maybe",
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_076",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel unjudged when you share a preference?",
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      "tags": [
        "preferences",
        "safety",
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_077",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you stay open when my preference is different from yours?",
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      "tags": [
        "differences",
        "respect",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
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    },
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      "id": "sex_and_desire_078",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one desire difference we could approach with curiosity instead of worry?",
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_079",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes desire feel like teamwork?",
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_080",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes sex feel like connection instead of a task?",
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      "tags": [
        "connection",
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        "sex_and_desire"
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_081",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps us avoid turning desire into a scorecard?",
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      "tags": [
        "pressure",
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_082",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should never be used as proof that someone is loved?",
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      "tags": [
        "love",
        "pressure",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_083",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes affection feel more like choice than obligation?",
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      "tags": [
        "affection",
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        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_084",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel free to want what you want?",
      "depth": 4,
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      "tags": [
        "freedom",
        "desire",
        "sex_and_desire"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_085",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel free to not want what you do not want?",
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      "tags": [
        "freedom",
        "consent",
        "sex_and_desire"
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_086",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of physical closeness helps you feel emotionally safe?",
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      "tags": [
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        "safety",
        "sex_and_desire"
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      "answer_config": {
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_087",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of emotional closeness makes physical closeness easier?",
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_088",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one romantic thing that makes desire feel more natural?",
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      "tags": [
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_089",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one playful thing that makes desire feel more natural?",
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_090",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one practical thing that makes desire feel more possible?",
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_091",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What gets in the way of desire that has nothing to do with attraction?",
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      "tags": [
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_092",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel desired when you are stressed?",
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        "sex_and_desire"
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_093",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel desired when you are tired?",
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        "sex_and_desire"
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_094",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel desired when you do not feel confident?",
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      "tags": [
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_095",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of body compliment feels best to you?",
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_096",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of body talk should we avoid?",
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_097",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel comfortable being looked at with desire?",
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      "tags": [
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_098",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes eye contact feel intimate instead of intense?",
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    },
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      "id": "sex_and_desire_099",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one private signal that could mean kiss me?",
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    },
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      "id": "sex_and_desire_100",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one private signal that could mean slow down?",
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      "tags": [
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    },
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      "id": "sex_and_desire_101",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one private signal that could mean keep going?",
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      "tags": [
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    },
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      "id": "sex_and_desire_102",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you trust that I will listen to your signals?",
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_103",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes a pause feel caring instead of awkward?",
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      "id": "sex_and_desire_104",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should we do if one of us misreads the moment?",
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    },
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      "id": "sex_and_desire_105",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes repairing an awkward moment easier?",
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_106",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel safe giving feedback after intimacy?",
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      "tags": [
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    },
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      "id": "sex_and_desire_107",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you hear feedback after intimacy without feeling hurt?",
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      "tags": [
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_108",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of aftercare helps you feel closest?",
      "depth": 4,
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      "tags": [
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_109",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of aftercare helps you feel playful again?",
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      "tags": [
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_110",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make a private night together feel less rushed?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "private_time",
        "pace",
        "sex_and_desire"
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      "answer_config": {
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      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_111",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make a private night together feel more exciting?",
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      "tags": [
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_112",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make a private night together feel more connected?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_113",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of setting helps you feel most open to desire?",
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      "tags": [
        "setting",
        "desire",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_114",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of lighting or mood helps you relax?",
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      "tags": [
        "setting",
        "relaxation",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_115",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of music would match your favorite kind of desire?",
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      "tags": [
        "music",
        "mood",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_116",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes a shower or bath feel romantic instead of rushed?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "shower",
        "romance",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_117",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of date usually leads to the most spark?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "date_night",
        "spark",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_118",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of date makes you feel most pursued?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "date_night",
        "pursuit",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_119",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one low-effort way to make tonight feel less routine?",
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      "tags": [
        "routine",
        "play",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_120",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing we could bring back from when desire felt easier?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "memory",
        "desire",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_121",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one old habit that used to make us feel more magnetic?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "memory",
        "spark",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_122",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What memory of us still feels a little electric?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "memory",
        "chemistry",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_123",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes you feel proud to be wanted by me?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pride",
        "wanted",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_124",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes you want me in a way that is hard to explain?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "attraction",
        "mystery",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_125",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing about me that still pulls you in?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "attraction",
        "partner",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_126",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What do you hope still feels sexy between us years from now?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "future",
        "desire",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_127",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of desire do you want us to protect as life changes?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "future",
        "desire",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_128",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one promise that would make our sex life feel safer?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "promise",
        "safety",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_129",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one promise that would make our desire feel more playful?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "promise",
        "play",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_130",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make you feel brave enough to ask for more?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "asking",
        "courage",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_131",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make you feel safe enough to ask for less?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "asking",
        "consent",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_132",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you know I want all of you, not just your body?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "whole_person",
        "desire",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_133",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes desire feel loving to you?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "love",
        "desire",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_134",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes desire feel fun to you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "fun",
        "desire",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_135",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes desire feel respectful to you?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "respect",
        "desire",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_136",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one boundary that would actually make desire easier?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "desire",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_137",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of yes feels most honest from you?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "yes",
        "honesty",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_138",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of no feels easiest to say to me?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "no",
        "ease",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_139",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps us stay warm with each other after a no?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "no",
        "warmth",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_140",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way to make desire feel less serious and more playful?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "play",
        "lightness",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_141",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make talking about sex feel like flirting instead of a meeting?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "fun",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_142",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one intimate topic we could make easier by laughing a little?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "humor",
        "intimacy",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_143",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel like we are on the same team in this area?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "desire",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_144",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing I do that makes you feel safe to be honest?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "honesty",
        "safety",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_145",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing I do that makes you feel wanted without asking for anything?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "wanted",
        "no_pressure",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_146",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would help us make room for desire during stressful seasons?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress",
        "seasons",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_147",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should we protect from becoming automatic or routine?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "routine",
        "protection",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_148",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of surprise would feel welcome, not risky?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "surprise",
        "consent",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_149",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should never be a surprise in our sex life?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "surprise",
        "boundaries",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_150",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way to make anticipation last longer?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "slow_burn",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_151",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of flirting feels most like you?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "sweet",
            "text": "Sweet"
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          {
            "id": "playful",
            "text": "Playful"
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          {
            "id": "bold",
            "text": "Bold"
          },
          {
            "id": "quiet",
            "text": "Quiet"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_152",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What gets you into a romantic mood fastest?",
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      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "mood",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "kissing",
            "text": "Kissing"
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          {
            "id": "compliments",
            "text": "Compliments"
          },
          {
            "id": "quiet_time",
            "text": "Quiet time"
          },
          {
            "id": "flirty_text",
            "text": "A flirty text"
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_153",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of initiation feels best?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire"
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "direct",
            "text": "Direct"
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          {
            "id": "playful",
            "text": "Playful"
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          {
            "id": "slow",
            "text": "Slow"
          },
          {
            "id": "asked_first",
            "text": "Asked first"
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_154",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should come before anything sexual most often?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "foreplay",
        "comfort",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "kissing",
            "text": "Kissing"
          },
          {
            "id": "talking",
            "text": "Talking"
          },
          {
            "id": "cuddling",
            "text": "Cuddling"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy",
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          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_155",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is the easiest way to say not tonight?",
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      "access": "free",
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        "consent",
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        "sex_and_desire"
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        "options": [
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            "id": "not_tonight",
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          {
            "id": "can_we_cuddle",
            "text": "Can we cuddle?"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_need_rest",
            "text": "I need rest"
          },
          {
            "id": "maybe_later",
            "text": "Maybe later"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_156",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of compliment makes you feel most desired?",
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      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "compliments",
        "sex_and_desire"
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        "options": [
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            "id": "body",
            "text": "Body"
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            "id": "personality",
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          {
            "id": "energy",
            "text": "Energy"
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          {
            "id": "specific_detail",
            "text": "A specific detail"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_157",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which spark do you miss most when life is busy?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "busy_life",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "flirting",
            "text": "Flirting"
          },
          {
            "id": "kissing",
            "text": "Kissing"
          },
          {
            "id": "touching",
            "text": "Touching"
          },
          {
            "id": "private_time",
            "text": "Private time"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_158",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes desire feel most natural?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "desire",
        "sex_and_desire"
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "relaxation",
            "text": "Relaxation"
          },
          {
            "id": "connection",
            "text": "Connection"
          },
          {
            "id": "playfulness",
            "text": "Playfulness"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_pursued",
            "text": "Being pursued"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_159",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which private signal sounds easiest?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "kiss_me",
            "text": "Kiss me"
          },
          {
            "id": "come_closer",
            "text": "Come closer"
          },
          {
            "id": "not_tonight",
            "text": "Not tonight"
          },
          {
            "id": "slow_down",
            "text": "Slow down"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_160",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps awkward moments pass quickly?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "awkwardness",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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        "options": [
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            "id": "laughing",
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          {
            "id": "cuddling",
            "text": "Cuddling"
          },
          {
            "id": "talking",
            "text": "Talking"
          },
          {
            "id": "moving_on",
            "text": "Moving on"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_161",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which mood sounds best tonight?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "mood",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "sweet",
            "text": "Sweet"
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          {
            "id": "spicy",
            "text": "Spicy"
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          {
            "id": "playful",
            "text": "Playful"
          },
          {
            "id": "restful",
            "text": "Restful"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_162",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps desire survive a long day?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "stress",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "less_pressure",
            "text": "Less pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_affection",
            "text": "More affection"
          },
          {
            "id": "help_with_tasks",
            "text": "Help with tasks"
          },
          {
            "id": "flirting",
            "text": "Flirting"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_163",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of touch feels most inviting?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "touch",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "hand_on_waist",
            "text": "Hand on waist"
          },
          {
            "id": "slow_kiss",
            "text": "Slow kiss"
          },
          {
            "id": "back_rub",
            "text": "Back rub"
          },
          {
            "id": "cuddling",
            "text": "Cuddling"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_164",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes being wanted feel safest?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "wanted",
        "safety",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "easy_no",
            "text": "An easy no"
          },
          {
            "id": "good_timing",
            "text": "Good timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "trust",
            "text": "Trust"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_165",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of private time sounds best?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "private_time",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "slow_night",
            "text": "Slow night"
          },
          {
            "id": "playful_night",
            "text": "Playful night"
          },
          {
            "id": "quiet_cuddles",
            "text": "Quiet cuddles"
          },
          {
            "id": "surprise_me",
            "text": "Surprise me"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_166",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of desire talk feels least awkward?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "playful",
            "text": "Playful"
          },
          {
            "id": "direct",
            "text": "Direct"
          },
          {
            "id": "written_first",
            "text": "Written first"
          },
          {
            "id": "after_flirting",
            "text": "After flirting"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_167",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a sexy text feel welcome?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sexting",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "right_timing",
            "text": "Right timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "playful_tone",
            "text": "Playful tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "asked_first",
            "text": "Asked first"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_168",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which desire difference needs the most kindness?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "frequency",
            "text": "Frequency"
          },
          {
            "id": "timing",
            "text": "Timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "pace",
            "text": "Pace"
          },
          {
            "id": "initiation",
            "text": "Initiation"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_169",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a no easiest to receive?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "no",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          },
          {
            "id": "kind_tone",
            "text": "Kind tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "cuddle_option",
            "text": "Another closeness option"
          },
          {
            "id": "space",
            "text": "Space"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_170",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a yes feel most exciting?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "yes",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "clear_desire",
            "text": "Clear desire"
          },
          {
            "id": "playful_energy",
            "text": "Playful energy"
          },
          {
            "id": "slow_build",
            "text": "Slow build"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_171",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of aftercare feels best?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "cuddles",
            "text": "Cuddles"
          },
          {
            "id": "sweet_words",
            "text": "Sweet words"
          },
          {
            "id": "quiet",
            "text": "Quiet"
          },
          {
            "id": "laughing",
            "text": "Laughing"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_172",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should we protect most in our sex life?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "protection",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "consent",
            "text": "Consent"
          },
          {
            "id": "playfulness",
            "text": "Playfulness"
          },
          {
            "id": "honesty",
            "text": "Honesty"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_173",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of anticipation works best for you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "texts",
            "text": "Texts"
          },
          {
            "id": "looks",
            "text": "Looks"
          },
          {
            "id": "touches",
            "text": "Touches"
          },
          {
            "id": "plans",
            "text": "Plans"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_174",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of fantasy talk feels safest?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "fantasy",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "yes_no_maybe",
            "text": "Yes / no / maybe"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_at_a_time",
            "text": "One at a time"
          },
          {
            "id": "written",
            "text": "Written"
          },
          {
            "id": "not_ready",
            "text": "Not ready"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_175",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes trying something new feel safer?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "novelty",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "talk_first",
            "text": "Talk first"
          },
          {
            "id": "start_small",
            "text": "Start small"
          },
          {
            "id": "easy_stop",
            "text": "Easy stop"
          },
          {
            "id": "aftercare",
            "text": "Aftercare"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_176",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which setting helps you relax most?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "setting",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "clean_room",
            "text": "Clean room"
          },
          {
            "id": "low_lights",
            "text": "Low lights"
          },
          {
            "id": "music",
            "text": "Music"
          },
          {
            "id": "locked_door",
            "text": "Locked door"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_177",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of flirting should we bring back?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "inside_jokes",
            "text": "Inside jokes"
          },
          {
            "id": "long_kisses",
            "text": "Long kisses"
          },
          {
            "id": "teasing_texts",
            "text": "Teasing texts"
          },
          {
            "id": "slow_dancing",
            "text": "Slow dancing"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_178",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes you feel most chosen?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "chosen",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "planned_time",
            "text": "Planned time"
          },
          {
            "id": "focused_attention",
            "text": "Focused attention"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_pursued",
            "text": "Being pursued"
          },
          {
            "id": "specific_words",
            "text": "Specific words"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_179",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of pressure ruins the mood fastest?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pressure",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "rushing",
            "text": "Rushing"
          },
          {
            "id": "expectation",
            "text": "Expectation"
          },
          {
            "id": "guilt",
            "text": "Guilt"
          },
          {
            "id": "bad_timing",
            "text": "Bad timing"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_180",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us reconnect after distance?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "distance",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "soft_start",
            "text": "Soft start"
          },
          {
            "id": "honest_talk",
            "text": "Honest talk"
          },
          {
            "id": "date_night",
            "text": "Date night"
          },
          {
            "id": "slow_affection",
            "text": "Slow affection"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_181",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes sex feel most like connection?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "connection",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "eye_contact",
            "text": "Eye contact"
          },
          {
            "id": "trust",
            "text": "Trust"
          },
          {
            "id": "laughter",
            "text": "Laughter"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_known",
            "text": "Feeling known"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_182",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes desire feel most playful?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "play",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "teasing",
            "text": "Teasing"
          },
          {
            "id": "games",
            "text": "Games"
          },
          {
            "id": "surprises",
            "text": "Surprises"
          },
          {
            "id": "flirty_dares",
            "text": "Flirty dares"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_183",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of feedback feels easiest after intimacy?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "what_i_liked",
            "text": "What I liked"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_small_request",
            "text": "One small request"
          },
          {
            "id": "later_not_now",
            "text": "Later, not now"
          },
          {
            "id": "written",
            "text": "Written"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_184",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which boundary makes desire easier?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "easy_no",
            "text": "Easy no"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_judgment",
            "text": "No judgment"
          },
          {
            "id": "good_timing",
            "text": "Good timing"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_185",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel attractive when confidence is low?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "specific_compliments",
            "text": "Specific compliments"
          },
          {
            "id": "soft_touch",
            "text": "Soft touch"
          },
          {
            "id": "patience",
            "text": "Patience"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_pressure",
            "text": "No pressure"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_186",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of surprise would feel welcome?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "surprise",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "flirty_note",
            "text": "Flirty note"
          },
          {
            "id": "planned_privacy",
            "text": "Planned privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "romantic_touch",
            "text": "Romantic touch"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_first",
            "text": "Ask first"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_187",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes desire feel respectful?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "respect",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "listening",
            "text": "Listening"
          },
          {
            "id": "checking_in",
            "text": "Checking in"
          },
          {
            "id": "remembering_preferences",
            "text": "Remembering preferences"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_pressure",
            "text": "No pressure"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_188",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which ordinary moment could use more spark?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "daily_life",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "morning",
            "text": "Morning"
          },
          {
            "id": "goodbye",
            "text": "Goodbye"
          },
          {
            "id": "coming_home",
            "text": "Coming home"
          },
          {
            "id": "bedtime",
            "text": "Bedtime"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_189",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a private night feel less rushed?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "private_time",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "earlier_start",
            "text": "Earlier start"
          },
          {
            "id": "less_phone",
            "text": "Less phone"
          },
          {
            "id": "clean_space",
            "text": "Clean space"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_big_plan",
            "text": "No big plan"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_190",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of desire do you want more of?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "sweet",
            "text": "Sweet"
          },
          {
            "id": "spontaneous",
            "text": "Spontaneous"
          },
          {
            "id": "playful",
            "text": "Playful"
          },
          {
            "id": "deep",
            "text": "Deep"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_191",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel wanted before sex is even mentioned?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "wanted",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "compliments",
            "text": "Compliments"
          },
          {
            "id": "kissing",
            "text": "Kissing"
          },
          {
            "id": "help_with_stress",
            "text": "Help with stress"
          },
          {
            "id": "focused_attention",
            "text": "Focused attention"
          },
          {
            "id": "flirting",
            "text": "Flirting"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_192",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes desire feel fun for you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "fun",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "teasing",
            "text": "Teasing"
          },
          {
            "id": "laughter",
            "text": "Laughter"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "spontaneity",
            "text": "Spontaneity"
          },
          {
            "id": "slow_build",
            "text": "Slow build"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_193",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you say what you want?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "no_judgment",
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            "id": "playful_mood",
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          {
            "id": "clear_questions",
            "text": "Clear questions"
          },
          {
            "id": "trust",
            "text": "Trust"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_194",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What lowers your desire when life is busy?",
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      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "stress",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "exhaustion",
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          {
            "id": "chores",
            "text": "Chores"
          },
          {
            "id": "stress",
            "text": "Stress"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_privacy",
            "text": "No privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_disconnected",
            "text": "Feeling disconnected"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_195",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps closeness feel good even without sex?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "closeness",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "cuddling",
            "text": "Cuddling"
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          {
            "id": "talking",
            "text": "Talking"
          },
          {
            "id": "kissing",
            "text": "Kissing"
          },
          {
            "id": "laughing",
            "text": "Laughing"
          },
          {
            "id": "quiet_time",
            "text": "Quiet time"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_196",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should always be true before trying something new?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "novelty",
        "consent",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "both_want_it",
            "text": "Both want it"
          },
          {
            "id": "clear_limits",
            "text": "Clear limits"
          },
          {
            "id": "easy_stop",
            "text": "Easy stop"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "aftercare",
            "text": "Aftercare"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_197",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes a sexy conversation feel safe?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "safety",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
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            "id": "no_mocking",
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          },
          {
            "id": "easy_no",
            "text": "Easy no"
          },
          {
            "id": "curiosity",
            "text": "Curiosity"
          },
          {
            "id": "good_timing",
            "text": "Good timing"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_198",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps with mismatched desire?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "kind_no",
            "text": "Kind no"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_guilt",
            "text": "No guilt"
          },
          {
            "id": "other_closeness",
            "text": "Other closeness"
          },
          {
            "id": "honest_talk",
            "text": "Honest talk"
          },
          {
            "id": "patience",
            "text": "Patience"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_199",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which forms of anticipation do you like?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "texts",
            "text": "Texts"
          },
          {
            "id": "looks",
            "text": "Looks"
          },
          {
            "id": "touches",
            "text": "Touches"
          },
          {
            "id": "plans",
            "text": "Plans"
          },
          {
            "id": "outfits",
            "text": "Outfits"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_200",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel physically confident?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "compliments",
            "text": "Compliments"
          },
          {
            "id": "low_lights",
            "text": "Low lights"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_pursued",
            "text": "Being pursued"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_pressure",
            "text": "No pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_connected",
            "text": "Feeling connected"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_201",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should never be used as pressure?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pressure",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "guilt",
            "text": "Guilt"
          },
          {
            "id": "past_yes",
            "text": "A past yes"
          },
          {
            "id": "relationship_status",
            "text": "Relationship status"
          },
          {
            "id": "comparison",
            "text": "Comparison"
          },
          {
            "id": "mood",
            "text": "Someone's mood"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_202",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes intimacy feel connected afterward?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "cuddling",
            "text": "Cuddling"
          },
          {
            "id": "sweet_words",
            "text": "Sweet words"
          },
          {
            "id": "laughter",
            "text": "Laughter"
          },
          {
            "id": "water_or_snack",
            "text": "Water or snack"
          },
          {
            "id": "quiet_rest",
            "text": "Quiet rest"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_203",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes flirting outside the bedroom work?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "good_timing",
            "text": "Good timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "inside_jokes",
            "text": "Inside jokes"
          },
          {
            "id": "confidence",
            "text": "Confidence"
          },
          {
            "id": "playfulness",
            "text": "Playfulness"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_204",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which topics need extra kindness between us?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sensitive_topics",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "frequency",
            "text": "Frequency"
          },
          {
            "id": "rejection",
            "text": "Rejection"
          },
          {
            "id": "body_confidence",
            "text": "Body confidence"
          },
          {
            "id": "fantasy",
            "text": "Fantasy"
          },
          {
            "id": "past_experiences",
            "text": "Past experiences"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_205",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps a no still feel loving?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "no",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance"
          },
          {
            "id": "cuddling",
            "text": "Cuddling"
          },
          {
            "id": "kind_words",
            "text": "Kind words"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_pouting",
            "text": "No pouting"
          },
          {
            "id": "try_later",
            "text": "Try later"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_206",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps a yes feel fully chosen?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "yes",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "no_pressure",
            "text": "No pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "clear_desire",
            "text": "Clear desire"
          },
          {
            "id": "trust",
            "text": "Trust"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "good_timing",
            "text": "Good timing"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_207",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What kind of spark do you want more often?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "spark",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "kissing",
            "text": "Kissing"
          },
          {
            "id": "teasing",
            "text": "Teasing"
          },
          {
            "id": "spontaneity",
            "text": "Spontaneity"
          },
          {
            "id": "deep_connection",
            "text": "Deep connection"
          },
          {
            "id": "playful_touch",
            "text": "Playful touch"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_208",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us keep desire from becoming routine?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "routine",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "surprise",
            "text": "Surprise"
          },
          {
            "id": "flirting",
            "text": "Flirting"
          },
          {
            "id": "new_settings",
            "text": "New settings"
          },
          {
            "id": "talking_more",
            "text": "Talking more"
          },
          {
            "id": "slowing_down",
            "text": "Slowing down"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_209",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes you feel safe sharing a fantasy?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "fantasy",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "no_judgment",
            "text": "No judgment"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_pressure_to_do_it",
            "text": "No pressure to do it"
          },
          {
            "id": "gentle_questions",
            "text": "Gentle questions"
          },
          {
            "id": "after_reassurance",
            "text": "Reassurance after"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_210",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps our desire feel like something we build together?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "both_initiate",
            "text": "Both initiate"
          },
          {
            "id": "both_can_say_no",
            "text": "Both can say no"
          },
          {
            "id": "talking_kindly",
            "text": "Talking kindly"
          },
          {
            "id": "noticing_stress",
            "text": "Noticing stress"
          },
          {
            "id": "making_time",
            "text": "Making time"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_211",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How playful does our desire feel lately?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "play",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not playful",
        "max_label": "Very playful"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_212",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to say what you want?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Hard",
        "max_label": "Easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_213",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to say not tonight?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Hard",
        "max_label": "Easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_214",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How wanted do you feel this week?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "wanted",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very",
        "max_label": "Very wanted"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_215",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much would more flirting help us right now?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_216",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much does stress affect your desire lately?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "stress",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_217",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable does this topic feel between us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "comfort",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not comfortable",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_218",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How safe does it feel to talk about desire honestly?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "safety",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not safe",
        "max_label": "Very safe"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_219",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much pressure do you feel around sex?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pressure",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "None",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_220",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How connected do you feel before physical intimacy?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "connection",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not connected",
        "max_label": "Very connected"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_221",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How connected do you feel after physical intimacy?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not connected",
        "max_label": "Very connected"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_222",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we handle mismatched desire?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Needs work",
        "max_label": "Very well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_223",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you initiating?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not comfortable",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_224",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you being pursued?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pursuit",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not comfortable",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_225",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much privacy do you need to relax into desire?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "A little",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_226",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How often does flirting happen outside the bedroom?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Rarely",
        "max_label": "Often"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_227",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How exciting does anticipation feel to you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not exciting",
        "max_label": "Very exciting"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_228",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to give feedback about intimacy?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "sex_and_desire"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Hard",
        "max_label": "Easy"
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    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_229",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to hear feedback about intimacy?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "sex_and_desire"
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      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Hard",
        "max_label": "Easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_230",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much do you want more slow build-up?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "slow_burn",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_231",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much do you want more spontaneous spark?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "spontaneity",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_232",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How cared for do you feel after intimacy?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not cared for",
        "max_label": "Very cared for"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_233",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much does confidence affect your desire?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_234",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How safe does it feel to ask for something new?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "novelty",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not safe",
        "max_label": "Very safe"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_235",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much would one private night help us reconnect?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "private_time",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_236",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Sweet or spicy?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "mood",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "sweet",
            "text": "Sweet"
          },
          {
            "id": "spicy",
            "text": "Spicy"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_237",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Slow build-up or sudden spark?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "slow_build",
            "text": "Slow build-up"
          },
          {
            "id": "sudden_spark",
            "text": "Sudden spark"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_238",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Flirty text or flirty touch?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "flirty_text",
            "text": "Flirty text"
          },
          {
            "id": "flirty_touch",
            "text": "Flirty touch"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_239",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Ask first or surprise me gently?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "ask_first",
            "text": "Ask first"
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          {
            "id": "gentle_surprise",
            "text": "Surprise me gently"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_240",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "More kissing or more touching?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "touch",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "more_kissing",
            "text": "More kissing"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_touching",
            "text": "More touching"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_241",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Private talk or private game?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "play",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "private_talk",
            "text": "Private talk"
          },
          {
            "id": "private_game",
            "text": "Private game"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_242",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Planned night or spontaneous moment?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "planning",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "planned_night",
            "text": "Planned night"
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          {
            "id": "spontaneous_moment",
            "text": "Spontaneous moment"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_243",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Compliments or eye contact?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "connection",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "compliments",
            "text": "Compliments"
          },
          {
            "id": "eye_contact",
            "text": "Eye contact"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_244",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Bold invitation or soft invitation?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "bold_invitation",
            "text": "Bold invitation"
          },
          {
            "id": "soft_invitation",
            "text": "Soft invitation"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_245",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Cuddles after or talking after?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "cuddles_after",
            "text": "Cuddles after"
          },
          {
            "id": "talking_after",
            "text": "Talking after"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_246",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "More romance or more play?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mood",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "more_romance",
            "text": "More romance"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_play",
            "text": "More play"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_247",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "New idea or favorite old spark?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "novelty",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "new_idea",
            "text": "New idea"
          },
          {
            "id": "old_spark",
            "text": "Favorite old spark"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_248",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Say it directly or hint playfully?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "say_directly",
            "text": "Say it directly"
          },
          {
            "id": "hint_playfully",
            "text": "Hint playfully"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_249",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Privacy first or mood first?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "setting",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "privacy_first",
            "text": "Privacy first"
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          {
            "id": "mood_first",
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_250",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "More anticipation or more aftercare?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire",
        "sex_and_desire"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "more_anticipation",
            "text": "More anticipation"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_aftercare",
            "text": "More aftercare"
          }
        ]
      }
    }
  ]
}