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"display_name": "Sex & Desire",
"description": "Fun, warm, consent-first questions that help couples talk about desire, flirting, initiation, pressure, mismatched moods, and keeping intimacy playful.",
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"text": "What helps you switch from everyday stress into a more playful mood?",
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"text": "What makes a kiss feel like it might turn into something more?",
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"text": "When do you feel most attractive around me?",
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"text": "What kind of attention makes you feel like I really see you?",
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"text": "What makes desire feel easy instead of complicated?",
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"text": "What is a flirty thing you wish we did more often?",
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"text": "What helps you feel comfortable saying you are in the mood?",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_011",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you feel comfortable saying you are not in the mood?",
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"text": "What kind of compliment makes you feel most wanted?",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_013",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one way we could make ordinary nights feel a little sexier?",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_014",
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"text": "What does being pursued in a good way feel like to you?",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_015",
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"text": "What makes being close feel playful instead of pressured?",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_016",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one touch that feels sweet before it feels sexy?",
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{
"id": "sex_and_desire_017",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes you want to move closer to me?",
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"desire",
"sex_and_desire"
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"id": "sex_and_desire_018",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of privacy helps you relax into desire?",
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"sex_and_desire"
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"id": "sex_and_desire_019",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What turns a normal hug into something with sparks?",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_020",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one way I can flirt with you without making it awkward?",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_021",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you feel safe being a little bolder with me?",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_022",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
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"text": "What makes desire feel mutual between us?",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_023",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one thing we do that still gives you butterflies?",
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"memory",
"sex_and_desire"
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"id": "sex_and_desire_024",
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"text": "What kind of mood makes you most open to being touched?",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_025",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes a night feel like it belongs only to us?",
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"connection",
"sex_and_desire"
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"id": "sex_and_desire_026",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you feel relaxed enough to enjoy being wanted?",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_027",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What is one thing that quietly kills your mood?",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_028",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you recover if the moment gets awkward?",
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"sex_and_desire"
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{
"id": "sex_and_desire_029",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes talking about desire feel less embarrassing?",
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"communication",
"desire",
"sex_and_desire"
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{
"id": "sex_and_desire_030",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one playful signal that means you want more attention?",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_031",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you know I am interested without feeling pressured?",
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"interest",
"pressure",
"sex_and_desire"
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{
"id": "sex_and_desire_032",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one way we can make desire feel fun again when life gets busy?",
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"fun",
"sex_and_desire"
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"id": "sex_and_desire_033",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is something small that makes you feel hard to resist?",
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"desired",
"sex_and_desire"
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"id": "sex_and_desire_034",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one way we can keep flirting alive outside the bedroom?",
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"daily_life",
"sex_and_desire"
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{
"id": "sex_and_desire_035",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes you feel comfortable letting me know what you like?",
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"communication",
"comfort",
"sex_and_desire"
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{
"id": "sex_and_desire_036",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of slow build-up do you enjoy most?",
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"slow_burn",
"sex_and_desire"
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{
"id": "sex_and_desire_037",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes you feel chosen, not just available?",
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"chosen",
"desire",
"sex_and_desire"
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_038",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of attention makes you smirk later?",
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"smirk",
"attention",
"sex_and_desire"
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{
"id": "sex_and_desire_039",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one sexy-but-simple thing we could try this week?",
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"play",
"simple",
"sex_and_desire"
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"id": "sex_and_desire_040",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What makes a private moment feel exciting without needing to be perfect?",
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{
"id": "sex_and_desire_041",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you feel close when sex is not on the table?",
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"closeness",
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"sex_and_desire"
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"type": "written",
"text": "What is one way I can make you feel attractive on an ordinary day?",
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"confidence",
"daily_life",
"sex_and_desire"
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"id": "sex_and_desire_043",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes you feel emotionally close enough to want physical closeness?",
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"physical_closeness",
"sex_and_desire"
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"id": "sex_and_desire_044",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of reassurance helps if desire feels uneven between us?",
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"reassurance",
"sex_and_desire"
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"text": "What is one thing you want us to be able to laugh about in this area?",
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"comfort",
"sex_and_desire"
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"id": "sex_and_desire_046",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of flirting makes you feel like I am still trying to win you?",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What makes being wanted feel exciting instead of expected?",
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"sex_and_desire"
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"id": "sex_and_desire_048",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "When your desire is low, what helps you feel loved without feeling pushed?",
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"consent",
"sex_and_desire"
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"id": "sex_and_desire_049",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "When your desire is high, what helps you handle it kindly if I am not there too?",
"depth": 5,
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"high_desire",
"kindness",
"sex_and_desire"
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_050",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What do you wish I understood about how your desire works?",
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"desire",
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"sex_and_desire"
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{
"id": "sex_and_desire_051",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of initiation feels like an invitation instead of a request?",
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"initiation",
"consent",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"id": "sex_and_desire_052",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of initiation makes you feel most wanted?",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_053",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes saying yes feel easy and honest?",
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"consent",
"yes",
"sex_and_desire"
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"id": "sex_and_desire_054",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes saying no feel safe and not like rejection?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consent",
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"sex_and_desire"
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"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What should I remember when you say not tonight?",
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"tags": [
"no",
"reassurance",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"id": "sex_and_desire_056",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What should you remember when I say not tonight?",
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"no",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_057",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps us stay connected when only one of us is in the mood?",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_058",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of nonsexual closeness still helps you feel desired?",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_059",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes a compliment feel sexy instead of generic?",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_060",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of compliment do you want to hear more often?",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_061",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you believe me when I say I want you?",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_062",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What makes desire feel emotionally safe between us?",
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"text": "What is one thing we could do before bed that would create more spark?",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What makes morning affection feel welcome?",
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"morning",
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"type": "written",
"text": "What makes nighttime affection feel welcome?",
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"tags": [
"night",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_066",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of teasing would make you lean in instead of pull away?",
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"tags": [
"teasing",
"consent",
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},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_067",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of teasing crosses the line for you?",
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"tags": [
"teasing",
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},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_068",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes a sexy text feel fun instead of too much?",
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"tags": [
"sexting",
"boundaries",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_069",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of message would make your day harder to focus on?",
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"tags": [
"sexting",
"flirting",
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{
"id": "sex_and_desire_070",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one texting boundary that helps desire stay private and safe?",
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"tags": [
"sexting",
"privacy",
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"id": "sex_and_desire_071",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you feel comfortable talking about fantasies without pressure?",
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"tags": [
"fantasy",
"communication",
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_072",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What should always be true before we talk about trying something new?",
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"tags": [
"novelty",
"consent",
"sex_and_desire"
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_073",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes a new idea feel exciting instead of intimidating?",
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"tags": [
"novelty",
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_074",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one thing you are curious about but would want to discuss gently?",
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"tags": [
"curiosity",
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{
"id": "sex_and_desire_075",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of yes/no/maybe conversation would feel useful for us?",
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"tags": [
"yes_no_maybe",
"communication",
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_076",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you feel unjudged when you share a preference?",
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"tags": [
"preferences",
"safety",
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_077",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you stay open when my preference is different from yours?",
"depth": 5,
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"tags": [
"differences",
"respect",
"sex_and_desire"
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_078",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one desire difference we could approach with curiosity instead of worry?",
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"tags": [
"differences",
"curiosity",
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_079",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes desire feel like teamwork?",
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"tags": [
"teamwork",
"desire",
"sex_and_desire"
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_080",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes sex feel like connection instead of a task?",
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"tags": [
"connection",
"pressure",
"sex_and_desire"
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_081",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps us avoid turning desire into a scorecard?",
"depth": 5,
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"tags": [
"pressure",
"expectations",
"sex_and_desire"
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_082",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What should never be used as proof that someone is loved?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"love",
"pressure",
"sex_and_desire"
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"answer_config": {
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_083",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes affection feel more like choice than obligation?",
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"tags": [
"affection",
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_084",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you feel free to want what you want?",
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"tags": [
"freedom",
"desire",
"sex_and_desire"
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_085",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you feel free to not want what you do not want?",
"depth": 5,
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"tags": [
"freedom",
"consent",
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_086",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of physical closeness helps you feel emotionally safe?",
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"tags": [
"physical_closeness",
"safety",
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_087",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of emotional closeness makes physical closeness easier?",
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"tags": [
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},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_088",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one romantic thing that makes desire feel more natural?",
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"tags": [
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_089",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one playful thing that makes desire feel more natural?",
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"tags": [
"play",
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_090",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one practical thing that makes desire feel more possible?",
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"tags": [
"practical",
"desire",
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_091",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What gets in the way of desire that has nothing to do with attraction?",
"depth": 4,
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"tags": [
"stress",
"desire",
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_092",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you feel desired when you are stressed?",
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"tags": [
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"sex_and_desire"
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_093",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you feel desired when you are tired?",
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"tags": [
"tired",
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"sex_and_desire"
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_094",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you feel desired when you do not feel confident?",
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"tags": [
"confidence",
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"sex_and_desire"
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_095",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of body compliment feels best to you?",
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"tags": [
"body",
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"sex_and_desire"
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_096",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of body talk should we avoid?",
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"tags": [
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_097",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you feel comfortable being looked at with desire?",
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"tags": [
"being_seen",
"desire",
"sex_and_desire"
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_098",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes eye contact feel intimate instead of intense?",
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"tags": [
"eye_contact",
"comfort",
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_099",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one private signal that could mean kiss me?",
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"tags": [
"signals",
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_100",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one private signal that could mean slow down?",
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"tags": [
"signals",
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_101",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one private signal that could mean keep going?",
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"tags": [
"signals",
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_102",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you trust that I will listen to your signals?",
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"tags": [
"signals",
"trust",
"sex_and_desire"
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_103",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes a pause feel caring instead of awkward?",
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"tags": [
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_104",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What should we do if one of us misreads the moment?",
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"tags": [
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"repair",
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_105",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes repairing an awkward moment easier?",
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"tags": [
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_106",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you feel safe giving feedback after intimacy?",
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"tags": [
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_107",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you hear feedback after intimacy without feeling hurt?",
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"tags": [
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},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_108",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of aftercare helps you feel closest?",
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"tags": [
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},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_109",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of aftercare helps you feel playful again?",
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"tags": [
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_110",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would make a private night together feel less rushed?",
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"tags": [
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"pace",
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},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_111",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would make a private night together feel more exciting?",
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"tags": [
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},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_112",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would make a private night together feel more connected?",
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"tags": [
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_113",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of setting helps you feel most open to desire?",
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_114",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of lighting or mood helps you relax?",
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}
},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_115",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of music would match your favorite kind of desire?",
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},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_116",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes a shower or bath feel romantic instead of rushed?",
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"tags": [
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},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_117",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of date usually leads to the most spark?",
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"tags": [
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},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_118",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of date makes you feel most pursued?",
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"tags": [
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},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_119",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one low-effort way to make tonight feel less routine?",
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"tags": [
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"play",
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},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_120",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one thing we could bring back from when desire felt easier?",
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"tags": [
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_121",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one old habit that used to make us feel more magnetic?",
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"tags": [
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"spark",
"sex_and_desire"
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},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_122",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What memory of us still feels a little electric?",
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"tags": [
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},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_123",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes you feel proud to be wanted by me?",
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"tags": [
"pride",
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"sex_and_desire"
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},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_124",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes you want me in a way that is hard to explain?",
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"tags": [
"attraction",
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}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_125",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one thing about me that still pulls you in?",
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"tags": [
"attraction",
"partner",
"sex_and_desire"
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}
},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_126",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What do you hope still feels sexy between us years from now?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"future",
"desire",
"sex_and_desire"
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"answer_config": {
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},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_127",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of desire do you want us to protect as life changes?",
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"tags": [
"future",
"desire",
"sex_and_desire"
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}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_128",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one promise that would make our sex life feel safer?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"promise",
"safety",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_129",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one promise that would make our desire feel more playful?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"promise",
"play",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_130",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would make you feel brave enough to ask for more?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"asking",
"courage",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_131",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would make you feel safe enough to ask for less?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"asking",
"consent",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_132",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you know I want all of you, not just your body?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"whole_person",
"desire",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_133",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes desire feel loving to you?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"love",
"desire",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_134",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes desire feel fun to you?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"fun",
"desire",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_135",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes desire feel respectful to you?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"respect",
"desire",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_136",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one boundary that would actually make desire easier?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"boundaries",
"desire",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_137",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of yes feels most honest from you?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"yes",
"honesty",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_138",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of no feels easiest to say to me?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"no",
"ease",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_139",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps us stay warm with each other after a no?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"no",
"warmth",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_140",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one way to make desire feel less serious and more playful?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"play",
"lightness",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_141",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would make talking about sex feel like flirting instead of a meeting?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"communication",
"fun",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_142",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one intimate topic we could make easier by laughing a little?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"humor",
"intimacy",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_143",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps you feel like we are on the same team in this area?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"teamwork",
"desire",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_144",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one thing I do that makes you feel safe to be honest?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"honesty",
"safety",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_145",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one thing I do that makes you feel wanted without asking for anything?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"wanted",
"no_pressure",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_146",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would help us make room for desire during stressful seasons?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"stress",
"seasons",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_147",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What should we protect from becoming automatic or routine?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"routine",
"protection",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_148",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of surprise would feel welcome, not risky?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"surprise",
"consent",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_149",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What should never be a surprise in our sex life?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"surprise",
"boundaries",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_150",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one way to make anticipation last longer?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"anticipation",
"slow_burn",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_151",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which kind of flirting feels most like you?",
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"access": "free",
"tags": [
"flirting",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "sweet",
"text": "Sweet"
},
{
"id": "playful",
"text": "Playful"
},
{
"id": "bold",
"text": "Bold"
},
{
"id": "quiet",
"text": "Quiet"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_152",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What gets you into a romantic mood fastest?",
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"tags": [
"mood",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "kissing",
"text": "Kissing"
},
{
"id": "compliments",
"text": "Compliments"
},
{
"id": "quiet_time",
"text": "Quiet time"
},
{
"id": "flirty_text",
"text": "A flirty text"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_153",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which kind of initiation feels best?",
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"access": "free",
"tags": [
"initiation",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "direct",
"text": "Direct"
},
{
"id": "playful",
"text": "Playful"
},
{
"id": "slow",
"text": "Slow"
},
{
"id": "asked_first",
"text": "Asked first"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_154",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should come before anything sexual most often?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"foreplay",
"comfort",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "kissing",
"text": "Kissing"
},
{
"id": "talking",
"text": "Talking"
},
{
"id": "cuddling",
"text": "Cuddling"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_155",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is the easiest way to say not tonight?",
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"access": "free",
"tags": [
"consent",
"no",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "not_tonight",
"text": "Not tonight"
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{
"id": "can_we_cuddle",
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{
"id": "i_need_rest",
"text": "I need rest"
},
{
"id": "maybe_later",
"text": "Maybe later"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_156",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of compliment makes you feel most desired?",
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"tags": [
"compliments",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "body",
"text": "Body"
},
{
"id": "personality",
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{
"id": "energy",
"text": "Energy"
},
{
"id": "specific_detail",
"text": "A specific detail"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_157",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which spark do you miss most when life is busy?",
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"access": "free",
"tags": [
"busy_life",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "flirting",
"text": "Flirting"
},
{
"id": "kissing",
"text": "Kissing"
},
{
"id": "touching",
"text": "Touching"
},
{
"id": "private_time",
"text": "Private time"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_158",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes desire feel most natural?",
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"tags": [
"desire",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "relaxation",
"text": "Relaxation"
},
{
"id": "connection",
"text": "Connection"
},
{
"id": "playfulness",
"text": "Playfulness"
},
{
"id": "being_pursued",
"text": "Being pursued"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_159",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which private signal sounds easiest?",
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"access": "free",
"tags": [
"signals",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "kiss_me",
"text": "Kiss me"
},
{
"id": "come_closer",
"text": "Come closer"
},
{
"id": "not_tonight",
"text": "Not tonight"
},
{
"id": "slow_down",
"text": "Slow down"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_160",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps awkward moments pass quickly?",
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"tags": [
"awkwardness",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "laughing",
"text": "Laughing"
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{
"id": "cuddling",
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{
"id": "talking",
"text": "Talking"
},
{
"id": "moving_on",
"text": "Moving on"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_161",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which mood sounds best tonight?",
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"tags": [
"mood",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "sweet",
"text": "Sweet"
},
{
"id": "spicy",
"text": "Spicy"
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{
"id": "playful",
"text": "Playful"
},
{
"id": "restful",
"text": "Restful"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_162",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps desire survive a long day?",
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"access": "free",
"tags": [
"stress",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "less_pressure",
"text": "Less pressure"
},
{
"id": "more_affection",
"text": "More affection"
},
{
"id": "help_with_tasks",
"text": "Help with tasks"
},
{
"id": "flirting",
"text": "Flirting"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_163",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which kind of touch feels most inviting?",
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"tags": [
"touch",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "hand_on_waist",
"text": "Hand on waist"
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{
"id": "slow_kiss",
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{
"id": "back_rub",
"text": "Back rub"
},
{
"id": "cuddling",
"text": "Cuddling"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_164",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes being wanted feel safest?",
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"access": "free",
"tags": [
"wanted",
"safety",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "easy_no",
"text": "An easy no"
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{
"id": "good_timing",
"text": "Good timing"
},
{
"id": "trust",
"text": "Trust"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_165",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which kind of private time sounds best?",
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"access": "free",
"tags": [
"private_time",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "slow_night",
"text": "Slow night"
},
{
"id": "playful_night",
"text": "Playful night"
},
{
"id": "quiet_cuddles",
"text": "Quiet cuddles"
},
{
"id": "surprise_me",
"text": "Surprise me"
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]
}
},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_166",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of desire talk feels least awkward?",
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"tags": [
"communication",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "playful",
"text": "Playful"
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{
"id": "direct",
"text": "Direct"
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{
"id": "written_first",
"text": "Written first"
},
{
"id": "after_flirting",
"text": "After flirting"
}
]
}
},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_167",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes a sexy text feel welcome?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"sexting",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "right_timing",
"text": "Right timing"
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{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "playful_tone",
"text": "Playful tone"
},
{
"id": "asked_first",
"text": "Asked first"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_168",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which desire difference needs the most kindness?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"mismatched_desire",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "frequency",
"text": "Frequency"
},
{
"id": "timing",
"text": "Timing"
},
{
"id": "pace",
"text": "Pace"
},
{
"id": "initiation",
"text": "Initiation"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_169",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes a no easiest to receive?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consent",
"no",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
},
{
"id": "kind_tone",
"text": "Kind tone"
},
{
"id": "cuddle_option",
"text": "Another closeness option"
},
{
"id": "space",
"text": "Space"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_170",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes a yes feel most exciting?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consent",
"yes",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "clear_desire",
"text": "Clear desire"
},
{
"id": "playful_energy",
"text": "Playful energy"
},
{
"id": "slow_build",
"text": "Slow build"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_171",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which kind of aftercare feels best?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"aftercare",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "cuddles",
"text": "Cuddles"
},
{
"id": "sweet_words",
"text": "Sweet words"
},
{
"id": "quiet",
"text": "Quiet"
},
{
"id": "laughing",
"text": "Laughing"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_172",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should we protect most in our sex life?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"protection",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "consent",
"text": "Consent"
},
{
"id": "playfulness",
"text": "Playfulness"
},
{
"id": "honesty",
"text": "Honesty"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_173",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which kind of anticipation works best for you?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"anticipation",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "texts",
"text": "Texts"
},
{
"id": "looks",
"text": "Looks"
},
{
"id": "touches",
"text": "Touches"
},
{
"id": "plans",
"text": "Plans"
}
]
}
},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_174",
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"text": "What kind of fantasy talk feels safest?",
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"fantasy",
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"id": "yes_no_maybe",
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"id": "one_at_a_time",
"text": "One at a time"
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{
"id": "written",
"text": "Written"
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{
"id": "not_ready",
"text": "Not ready"
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]
}
},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_175",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes trying something new feel safer?",
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"tags": [
"novelty",
"sex_and_desire"
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"options": [
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"id": "talk_first",
"text": "Talk first"
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"id": "start_small",
"text": "Start small"
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{
"id": "easy_stop",
"text": "Easy stop"
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{
"id": "aftercare",
"text": "Aftercare"
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]
}
},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_176",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which setting helps you relax most?",
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"tags": [
"setting",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
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"id": "clean_room",
"text": "Clean room"
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{
"id": "low_lights",
"text": "Low lights"
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{
"id": "music",
"text": "Music"
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{
"id": "locked_door",
"text": "Locked door"
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]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_177",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of flirting should we bring back?",
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"tags": [
"flirting",
"sex_and_desire"
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"options": [
{
"id": "inside_jokes",
"text": "Inside jokes"
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{
"id": "long_kisses",
"text": "Long kisses"
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{
"id": "teasing_texts",
"text": "Teasing texts"
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{
"id": "slow_dancing",
"text": "Slow dancing"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_178",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes you feel most chosen?",
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"tags": [
"chosen",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
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"id": "planned_time",
"text": "Planned time"
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"id": "focused_attention",
"text": "Focused attention"
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{
"id": "being_pursued",
"text": "Being pursued"
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{
"id": "specific_words",
"text": "Specific words"
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]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_179",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of pressure ruins the mood fastest?",
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"tags": [
"pressure",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
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"id": "rushing",
"text": "Rushing"
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{
"id": "expectation",
"text": "Expectation"
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{
"id": "guilt",
"text": "Guilt"
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{
"id": "bad_timing",
"text": "Bad timing"
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]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_180",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps us reconnect after distance?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"distance",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "soft_start",
"text": "Soft start"
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{
"id": "honest_talk",
"text": "Honest talk"
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{
"id": "date_night",
"text": "Date night"
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{
"id": "slow_affection",
"text": "Slow affection"
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]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_181",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes sex feel most like connection?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"connection",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "eye_contact",
"text": "Eye contact"
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{
"id": "trust",
"text": "Trust"
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{
"id": "laughter",
"text": "Laughter"
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{
"id": "feeling_known",
"text": "Feeling known"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_182",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes desire feel most playful?",
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"tags": [
"play",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "teasing",
"text": "Teasing"
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{
"id": "games",
"text": "Games"
},
{
"id": "surprises",
"text": "Surprises"
},
{
"id": "flirty_dares",
"text": "Flirty dares"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_183",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of feedback feels easiest after intimacy?",
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"tags": [
"feedback",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
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"id": "what_i_liked",
"text": "What I liked"
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{
"id": "one_small_request",
"text": "One small request"
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{
"id": "later_not_now",
"text": "Later, not now"
},
{
"id": "written",
"text": "Written"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_184",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which boundary makes desire easier?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"boundaries",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "easy_no",
"text": "Easy no"
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{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
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{
"id": "no_judgment",
"text": "No judgment"
},
{
"id": "good_timing",
"text": "Good timing"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_185",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps you feel attractive when confidence is low?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"confidence",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "specific_compliments",
"text": "Specific compliments"
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{
"id": "soft_touch",
"text": "Soft touch"
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{
"id": "patience",
"text": "Patience"
},
{
"id": "no_pressure",
"text": "No pressure"
}
]
}
},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_186",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of surprise would feel welcome?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"surprise",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
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"id": "flirty_note",
"text": "Flirty note"
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"id": "planned_privacy",
"text": "Planned privacy"
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{
"id": "romantic_touch",
"text": "Romantic touch"
},
{
"id": "ask_first",
"text": "Ask first"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_187",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes desire feel respectful?",
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"tags": [
"respect",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "listening",
"text": "Listening"
},
{
"id": "checking_in",
"text": "Checking in"
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{
"id": "remembering_preferences",
"text": "Remembering preferences"
},
{
"id": "no_pressure",
"text": "No pressure"
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]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_188",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which ordinary moment could use more spark?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"daily_life",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "morning",
"text": "Morning"
},
{
"id": "goodbye",
"text": "Goodbye"
},
{
"id": "coming_home",
"text": "Coming home"
},
{
"id": "bedtime",
"text": "Bedtime"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_189",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes a private night feel less rushed?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"private_time",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "earlier_start",
"text": "Earlier start"
},
{
"id": "less_phone",
"text": "Less phone"
},
{
"id": "clean_space",
"text": "Clean space"
},
{
"id": "no_big_plan",
"text": "No big plan"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_190",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of desire do you want more of?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"desire",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
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"id": "sweet",
"text": "Sweet"
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{
"id": "spontaneous",
"text": "Spontaneous"
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{
"id": "playful",
"text": "Playful"
},
{
"id": "deep",
"text": "Deep"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_191",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you feel wanted before sex is even mentioned?",
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"access": "free",
"tags": [
"wanted",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
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"id": "compliments",
"text": "Compliments"
},
{
"id": "kissing",
"text": "Kissing"
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{
"id": "help_with_stress",
"text": "Help with stress"
},
{
"id": "focused_attention",
"text": "Focused attention"
},
{
"id": "flirting",
"text": "Flirting"
}
],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_192",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes desire feel fun for you?",
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"access": "free",
"tags": [
"fun",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
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"id": "teasing",
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{
"id": "laughter",
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{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "spontaneity",
"text": "Spontaneity"
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{
"id": "slow_build",
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],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_193",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you say what you want?",
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"access": "free",
"tags": [
"communication",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
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"id": "no_judgment",
"text": "No judgment"
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"id": "playful_mood",
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{
"id": "clear_questions",
"text": "Clear questions"
},
{
"id": "trust",
"text": "Trust"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
}
],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_194",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What lowers your desire when life is busy?",
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"access": "free",
"tags": [
"stress",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
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"id": "exhaustion",
"text": "Exhaustion"
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{
"id": "chores",
"text": "Chores"
},
{
"id": "stress",
"text": "Stress"
},
{
"id": "no_privacy",
"text": "No privacy"
},
{
"id": "feeling_disconnected",
"text": "Feeling disconnected"
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],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_195",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps closeness feel good even without sex?",
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"access": "free",
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"closeness",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"id": "cuddling",
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{
"id": "talking",
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{
"id": "kissing",
"text": "Kissing"
},
{
"id": "laughing",
"text": "Laughing"
},
{
"id": "quiet_time",
"text": "Quiet time"
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],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_196",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should always be true before trying something new?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"novelty",
"consent",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "both_want_it",
"text": "Both want it"
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{
"id": "clear_limits",
"text": "Clear limits"
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{
"id": "easy_stop",
"text": "Easy stop"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
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{
"id": "aftercare",
"text": "Aftercare"
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],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_197",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes a sexy conversation feel safe?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"communication",
"safety",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"id": "privacy",
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{
"id": "no_mocking",
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{
"id": "easy_no",
"text": "Easy no"
},
{
"id": "curiosity",
"text": "Curiosity"
},
{
"id": "good_timing",
"text": "Good timing"
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],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_198",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps with mismatched desire?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"mismatched_desire",
"sex_and_desire"
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"id": "kind_no",
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"id": "no_guilt",
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{
"id": "other_closeness",
"text": "Other closeness"
},
{
"id": "honest_talk",
"text": "Honest talk"
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{
"id": "patience",
"text": "Patience"
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],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
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"id": "sex_and_desire_199",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which forms of anticipation do you like?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"anticipation",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"id": "texts",
"text": "Texts"
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{
"id": "looks",
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{
"id": "touches",
"text": "Touches"
},
{
"id": "plans",
"text": "Plans"
},
{
"id": "outfits",
"text": "Outfits"
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],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_200",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you feel physically confident?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"confidence",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
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"id": "compliments",
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{
"id": "low_lights",
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{
"id": "being_pursued",
"text": "Being pursued"
},
{
"id": "no_pressure",
"text": "No pressure"
},
{
"id": "feeling_connected",
"text": "Feeling connected"
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],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_201",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should never be used as pressure?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"pressure",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"id": "guilt",
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{
"id": "past_yes",
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{
"id": "relationship_status",
"text": "Relationship status"
},
{
"id": "comparison",
"text": "Comparison"
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{
"id": "mood",
"text": "Someone's mood"
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],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_202",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes intimacy feel connected afterward?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"aftercare",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"options": [
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"id": "cuddling",
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{
"id": "sweet_words",
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{
"id": "laughter",
"text": "Laughter"
},
{
"id": "water_or_snack",
"text": "Water or snack"
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{
"id": "quiet_rest",
"text": "Quiet rest"
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],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_203",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes flirting outside the bedroom work?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"flirting",
"sex_and_desire"
],
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"id": "good_timing",
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{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
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{
"id": "inside_jokes",
"text": "Inside jokes"
},
{
"id": "confidence",
"text": "Confidence"
},
{
"id": "playfulness",
"text": "Playfulness"
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],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_204",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which topics need extra kindness between us?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"sensitive_topics",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
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"id": "frequency",
"text": "Frequency"
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{
"id": "rejection",
"text": "Rejection"
},
{
"id": "body_confidence",
"text": "Body confidence"
},
{
"id": "fantasy",
"text": "Fantasy"
},
{
"id": "past_experiences",
"text": "Past experiences"
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],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_205",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps a no still feel loving?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consent",
"no",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
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{
"id": "reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance"
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{
"id": "cuddling",
"text": "Cuddling"
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{
"id": "kind_words",
"text": "Kind words"
},
{
"id": "no_pouting",
"text": "No pouting"
},
{
"id": "try_later",
"text": "Try later"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_206",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps a yes feel fully chosen?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consent",
"yes",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
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{
"id": "no_pressure",
"text": "No pressure"
},
{
"id": "clear_desire",
"text": "Clear desire"
},
{
"id": "trust",
"text": "Trust"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "good_timing",
"text": "Good timing"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_207",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What kind of spark do you want more often?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"spark",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "kissing",
"text": "Kissing"
},
{
"id": "teasing",
"text": "Teasing"
},
{
"id": "spontaneity",
"text": "Spontaneity"
},
{
"id": "deep_connection",
"text": "Deep connection"
},
{
"id": "playful_touch",
"text": "Playful touch"
}
],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_208",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us keep desire from becoming routine?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"routine",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "surprise",
"text": "Surprise"
},
{
"id": "flirting",
"text": "Flirting"
},
{
"id": "new_settings",
"text": "New settings"
},
{
"id": "talking_more",
"text": "Talking more"
},
{
"id": "slowing_down",
"text": "Slowing down"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_209",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes you feel safe sharing a fantasy?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"fantasy",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_judgment",
"text": "No judgment"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "no_pressure_to_do_it",
"text": "No pressure to do it"
},
{
"id": "gentle_questions",
"text": "Gentle questions"
},
{
"id": "after_reassurance",
"text": "Reassurance after"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_210",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps our desire feel like something we build together?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"teamwork",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "both_initiate",
"text": "Both initiate"
},
{
"id": "both_can_say_no",
"text": "Both can say no"
},
{
"id": "talking_kindly",
"text": "Talking kindly"
},
{
"id": "noticing_stress",
"text": "Noticing stress"
},
{
"id": "making_time",
"text": "Making time"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_211",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How playful does our desire feel lately?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"play",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not playful",
"max_label": "Very playful"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_212",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to say what you want?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"communication",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Hard",
"max_label": "Easy"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_213",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to say not tonight?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"consent",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Hard",
"max_label": "Easy"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_214",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How wanted do you feel this week?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"wanted",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very",
"max_label": "Very wanted"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_215",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much would more flirting help us right now?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"flirting",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_216",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much does stress affect your desire lately?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"stress",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_217",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable does this topic feel between us?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"comfort",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_218",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How safe does it feel to talk about desire honestly?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"safety",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not safe",
"max_label": "Very safe"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_219",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much pressure do you feel around sex?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"pressure",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "None",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_220",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How connected do you feel before physical intimacy?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"connection",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not connected",
"max_label": "Very connected"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_221",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How connected do you feel after physical intimacy?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"aftercare",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not connected",
"max_label": "Very connected"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_222",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we handle mismatched desire?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"mismatched_desire",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Needs work",
"max_label": "Very well"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_223",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable are you initiating?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"initiation",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_224",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable are you being pursued?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"pursuit",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_225",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much privacy do you need to relax into desire?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"privacy",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "A little",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_226",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How often does flirting happen outside the bedroom?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"flirting",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Rarely",
"max_label": "Often"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_227",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How exciting does anticipation feel to you?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"anticipation",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not exciting",
"max_label": "Very exciting"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_228",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to give feedback about intimacy?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"feedback",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Hard",
"max_label": "Easy"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_229",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to hear feedback about intimacy?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"feedback",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Hard",
"max_label": "Easy"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_230",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do you want more slow build-up?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"slow_burn",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_231",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do you want more spontaneous spark?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"spontaneity",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_232",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How cared for do you feel after intimacy?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"aftercare",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not cared for",
"max_label": "Very cared for"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_233",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much does confidence affect your desire?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"confidence",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_234",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How safe does it feel to ask for something new?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"novelty",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not safe",
"max_label": "Very safe"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_235",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much would one private night help us reconnect?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"private_time",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_236",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Sweet or spicy?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"mood",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "sweet",
"text": "Sweet"
},
{
"id": "spicy",
"text": "Spicy"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_237",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Slow build-up or sudden spark?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"anticipation",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "slow_build",
"text": "Slow build-up"
},
{
"id": "sudden_spark",
"text": "Sudden spark"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_238",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Flirty text or flirty touch?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"flirting",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "flirty_text",
"text": "Flirty text"
},
{
"id": "flirty_touch",
"text": "Flirty touch"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_239",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Ask first or surprise me gently?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consent",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_first",
"text": "Ask first"
},
{
"id": "gentle_surprise",
"text": "Surprise me gently"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_240",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "More kissing or more touching?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"touch",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "more_kissing",
"text": "More kissing"
},
{
"id": "more_touching",
"text": "More touching"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_241",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Private talk or private game?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"play",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "private_talk",
"text": "Private talk"
},
{
"id": "private_game",
"text": "Private game"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_242",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Planned night or spontaneous moment?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"planning",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "planned_night",
"text": "Planned night"
},
{
"id": "spontaneous_moment",
"text": "Spontaneous moment"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_243",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Compliments or eye contact?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"connection",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "compliments",
"text": "Compliments"
},
{
"id": "eye_contact",
"text": "Eye contact"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_244",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Bold invitation or soft invitation?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"initiation",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "bold_invitation",
"text": "Bold invitation"
},
{
"id": "soft_invitation",
"text": "Soft invitation"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_245",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Cuddles after or talking after?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"aftercare",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "cuddles_after",
"text": "Cuddles after"
},
{
"id": "talking_after",
"text": "Talking after"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_246",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "More romance or more play?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"mood",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "more_romance",
"text": "More romance"
},
{
"id": "more_play",
"text": "More play"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_247",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "New idea or favorite old spark?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"novelty",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "new_idea",
"text": "New idea"
},
{
"id": "old_spark",
"text": "Favorite old spark"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_248",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Say it directly or hint playfully?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"communication",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "say_directly",
"text": "Say it directly"
},
{
"id": "hint_playfully",
"text": "Hint playfully"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_249",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Privacy first or mood first?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"setting",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "privacy_first",
"text": "Privacy first"
},
{
"id": "mood_first",
"text": "Mood first"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sex_and_desire_250",
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "More anticipation or more aftercare?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"desire",
"sex_and_desire"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "more_anticipation",
"text": "More anticipation"
},
{
"id": "more_aftercare",
"text": "More aftercare"
}
]
}
}
]
}
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