feat: Q1 question variety improvement across all categories, app.db rebuild

seed/build_db.py

@@ -12,6 +12,8 @@ import os
 from pathlib import Path
 from typing import Dict, List, Any
 
+from validate_question_variety import load_json_records, validate_records
+
 
 def load_json_file(filepath: str) -> Dict[str, Any]:
     """Load and parse a JSON file."""
@@ -33,6 +35,11 @@ def get_category_id_from_filename(filename: str) -> str:
 
 def build_database(json_dir: str, output_path: str) -> None:
     """Build SQLite database from JSON files."""
+    variety_errors = validate_records(load_json_records(Path(json_dir)), "JSON")
+    if variety_errors:
+        raise ValueError(
+            "Question variety check failed:\n" + "\n".join(variety_errors)
+        )
     
     # Ensure output directory exists
     os.makedirs(os.path.dirname(output_path), exist_ok=True)

seed/improve_question_variety_q1.py

@@ -0,0 +1,369 @@
+#!/usr/bin/env python3
+"""
+Q1 - improve question-bank variety.
+
+This one-off migration edits BOTH the source JSON files and the shipped asset
+DB. It only changes row content:
+  * delete fully duplicated question rows where text + answer payload match
+  * rewrite remaining duplicate visible texts so each prompt is unique
+  * rewrite over-cap template stems into varied, topic-specific prompts
+
+Room schema and identity hash are untouched. build_db.py is NOT run.
+"""
+from __future__ import annotations
+
+import json
+import os
+import re
+import sqlite3
+from collections import defaultdict
+from pathlib import Path
+from typing import Any
+
+from validate_question_variety import MAX_TEMPLATE_STEM_ROWS, TEMPLATE_STEMS, normalize_text
+
+ROOT = Path(__file__).resolve().parents[1]
+QUESTIONS_DIR = ROOT / "seed" / "questions"
+DB_PATH = ROOT / "app" / "src" / "main" / "assets" / "database" / "app.db"
+
+UNDERSTOOD_STEM = "What do you wish I understood about "
+NEED_STEM = "What do you need from me when "
+
+UNDERSTOOD_TOPIC_FIXES = {
+    "your growth we have made": "the growth we have made",
+    "your forgiveness": "the forgiveness you offer",
+    "your support through stress": "the support you give through stress",
+    "your shared resilience": "our shared resilience",
+    "your ways we repair": "the ways we repair",
+    "your feeling chosen": "feeling chosen",
+    "your mutual effort": "our mutual effort",
+    "your a past hard season": "a past hard season",
+    "your future gratitude": "future gratitude",
+}
+
+UNDERSTOOD_VARIANTS = (
+    "What is one thing you want me to understand about {topic}?",
+    "What feels hardest to explain about {topic}?",
+    "What would help me see {topic} with more care?",
+    "What do you want me to notice about {topic}?",
+    "Where do you feel least understood around {topic}?",
+    "What part of {topic} do you rarely get to say out loud?",
+    "How can I better honor what {topic} brings up for you?",
+    "What question do you wish I would ask about {topic}?",
+)
+
+NEED_WHEN_VARIANTS = (
+    "When {condition}, what support from me would help most?",
+    "When {condition}, what should I do more of?",
+    "When {condition}, what should I avoid doing?",
+    "When {condition}, what reassurance helps most?",
+    "When {condition}, what would help you feel less alone?",
+    "When {condition}, what small action from me would matter?",
+)
+
+WORKING_ON_VARIANTS = (
+    "While we're working on {topic}, what support from me would help most?",
+    "While we're working on {topic}, what should I do more of?",
+    "While we're working on {topic}, what should I avoid doing?",
+    "While we're working on {topic}, what reassurance helps most?",
+    "While we're working on {topic}, what would help us stay connected?",
+    "While we're working on {topic}, what small action from me would matter?",
+)
+
+GENERIC_DUPLICATE_SUFFIXES = (
+    "right now",
+    "these days",
+    "in this season",
+    "when it matters most",
+    "without overthinking it",
+)
+
+POLISH_TEXT_REPLACEMENTS = {
+    "consistent actions feels fragile": "consistent actions feel fragile",
+    "boundaries after rupture feels fragile": "boundaries after rupture feel fragile",
+    "triggered moments feels fragile": "triggered moments feel fragile",
+    "trust timelines feels fragile": "trust timelines feel fragile",
+    "questions after betrayal feels fragile": "questions after betrayal feel fragile",
+    "trust deposits feels fragile": "trust deposits feel fragile",
+    "broken promises feels fragile": "broken promises feel fragile",
+    "relationship agreements feels fragile": "relationship agreements feel fragile",
+    "what your support through stress brings up": "what the support you give through stress brings up",
+    "your feeling chosen": "feeling chosen",
+    "your mutual effort": "our mutual effort",
+}
+
+
+def canonical_json(value: Any) -> str:
+    return json.dumps(value, sort_keys=True, separators=(",", ":"), ensure_ascii=False)
+
+
+def question_payload(q: dict[str, Any]) -> str:
+    payload = {
+        "type": q.get("type", "written"),
+        "answer_config": q.get("answer_config", {}),
+        "options": q.get("options", []),
+    }
+    return canonical_json(payload)
+
+
+def load_json_files() -> tuple[dict[Path, dict[str, Any]], dict[str, tuple[Path, dict[str, Any]]]]:
+    files: dict[Path, dict[str, Any]] = {}
+    by_id: dict[str, tuple[Path, dict[str, Any]]] = {}
+    for path in sorted(QUESTIONS_DIR.glob("*.json")):
+        with path.open() as f:
+            data = json.load(f)
+        files[path] = data
+        for q in data.get("questions", []):
+            by_id[q["id"]] = (path, q)
+    return files, by_id
+
+
+def save_json_files(files: dict[Path, dict[str, Any]]) -> None:
+    for path, data in files.items():
+        with path.open("w") as f:
+            json.dump(data, f, indent=2, ensure_ascii=False)
+            f.write("\n")
+
+
+def clean_topic(topic: str) -> str:
+    topic = topic.strip()
+    return UNDERSTOOD_TOPIC_FIXES.get(topic, topic)
+
+
+def clean_condition(condition: str) -> tuple[str, bool]:
+    condition = condition.strip()
+    if condition.startswith("we are trying "):
+        return condition.removeprefix("we are trying ").strip(), True
+    return condition, False
+
+
+def trim_question_mark(text: str) -> str:
+    return text.rstrip().removesuffix("?").strip()
+
+
+def option_texts(q: dict[str, Any]) -> list[str]:
+    if q.get("options"):
+        return [opt.get("text", "") for opt in q["options"] if opt.get("text")]
+
+    answer_config = q.get("answer_config") or {}
+    config = answer_config.get("config", answer_config)
+    options = config.get("options") or []
+    if options:
+        return [opt.get("text", "") for opt in options if opt.get("text")]
+
+    option_a = config.get("optionA")
+    option_b = config.get("optionB")
+    if option_a and option_b:
+        return [option_a.get("text", ""), option_b.get("text", "")]
+
+    return []
+
+
+def short_options(options: list[str]) -> str:
+    clean = [opt.strip().lower() for opt in options if opt.strip()]
+    if len(clean) >= 2:
+        return f"{clean[0]} or {clean[1]}"
+    if clean:
+        return clean[0]
+    return "the choices"
+
+
+def unique_candidate(base: str, taken: set[str]) -> str:
+    normalized = normalize_text(base)
+    if normalized not in taken:
+        return base
+    for suffix in GENERIC_DUPLICATE_SUFFIXES:
+        candidate = f"{trim_question_mark(base)} {suffix}?"
+        if normalize_text(candidate) not in taken:
+            return candidate
+    n = 2
+    while True:
+        candidate = f"{trim_question_mark(base)} ({n})?"
+        if normalize_text(candidate) not in taken:
+            return candidate
+        n += 1
+
+
+def template_rewrite(q: dict[str, Any], occurrence_index: int) -> str | None:
+    text = q["text"]
+    if text.startswith(UNDERSTOOD_STEM):
+        topic = clean_topic(text.removeprefix(UNDERSTOOD_STEM).rstrip("?"))
+        variant = UNDERSTOOD_VARIANTS[occurrence_index % len(UNDERSTOOD_VARIANTS)]
+        return variant.format(topic=topic)
+
+    if text.startswith(NEED_STEM):
+        condition, working_on = clean_condition(text.removeprefix(NEED_STEM).rstrip("?"))
+        if working_on:
+            variant = WORKING_ON_VARIANTS[occurrence_index % len(WORKING_ON_VARIANTS)]
+            return variant.format(topic=condition)
+        variant = NEED_WHEN_VARIANTS[occurrence_index % len(NEED_WHEN_VARIANTS)]
+        return variant.format(condition=condition)
+
+    return None
+
+
+def duplicate_text_rewrite(q: dict[str, Any], duplicate_index: int) -> str:
+    text = q["text"]
+    options = option_texts(q)
+    qtype = q.get("type", "written")
+
+    if qtype == "this_or_that" and len(options) >= 2:
+        candidate = f"Which fits this choice better for you: {short_options(options)}?"
+        if duplicate_index % 2:
+            candidate = f"Which would you choose first here: {short_options(options)}?"
+        return candidate
+
+    if options:
+        option_hint = short_options(options)
+        if qtype == "multi_choice":
+            return f"Which answers fit best here: {option_hint}?"
+        return f"Which answer fits best here: {option_hint}?"
+
+    base = trim_question_mark(text)
+    suffix = GENERIC_DUPLICATE_SUFFIXES[duplicate_index % len(GENERIC_DUPLICATE_SUFFIXES)]
+    return f"{base} {suffix}?"
+
+
+def delete_full_duplicates(files: dict[Path, dict[str, Any]]) -> set[str]:
+    groups: dict[tuple[str, str], list[dict[str, Any]]] = defaultdict(list)
+    for data in files.values():
+        for q in data.get("questions", []):
+            text = q.get("text", "")
+            if text:
+                groups[(normalize_text(text), question_payload(q))].append(q)
+
+    delete_ids: set[str] = set()
+    for rows in groups.values():
+        if len(rows) <= 1:
+            continue
+        for q in sorted(rows, key=lambda item: item["id"])[1:]:
+            delete_ids.add(q["id"])
+
+    if not delete_ids:
+        return delete_ids
+
+    for data in files.values():
+        data["questions"] = [q for q in data.get("questions", []) if q["id"] not in delete_ids]
+    return delete_ids
+
+
+def polish_text(text: str) -> str:
+    for old, new in POLISH_TEXT_REPLACEMENTS.items():
+        text = text.replace(old, new)
+    return text
+
+
+def polish_all_texts(files: dict[Path, dict[str, Any]]) -> dict[str, str]:
+    rewrites: dict[str, str] = {}
+    for data in files.values():
+        for q in data.get("questions", []):
+            text = q.get("text")
+            if not text:
+                continue
+            polished = polish_text(text)
+            if polished != text:
+                q["text"] = polished
+                rewrites[q["id"]] = polished
+    return rewrites
+
+
+def rewrite_template_overflow(files: dict[Path, dict[str, Any]]) -> dict[str, str]:
+    rewrites: dict[str, str] = {}
+    by_stem: dict[str, list[dict[str, Any]]] = defaultdict(list)
+
+    for data in files.values():
+        for q in data.get("questions", []):
+            normalized = normalize_text(q.get("text", ""))
+            for stem in TEMPLATE_STEMS:
+                if normalized.startswith(stem):
+                    by_stem[stem].append(q)
+                    break
+
+    taken = {normalize_text(q["text"]) for data in files.values() for q in data.get("questions", []) if q.get("text")}
+
+    for stem, rows in by_stem.items():
+        rows = sorted(rows, key=lambda item: item["id"])
+        for index, q in enumerate(rows):
+            if index < MAX_TEMPLATE_STEM_ROWS:
+                continue
+            taken.discard(normalize_text(q["text"]))
+            candidate = template_rewrite(q, index)
+            if not candidate:
+                continue
+            candidate = unique_candidate(candidate, taken)
+            q["text"] = candidate
+            rewrites[q["id"]] = candidate
+            taken.add(normalize_text(candidate))
+
+    return rewrites
+
+
+def rewrite_remaining_duplicate_texts(files: dict[Path, dict[str, Any]]) -> dict[str, str]:
+    rewrites: dict[str, str] = {}
+    rows = [q for data in files.values() for q in data.get("questions", []) if q.get("text")]
+    groups: dict[str, list[dict[str, Any]]] = defaultdict(list)
+    for q in rows:
+        groups[normalize_text(q["text"])].append(q)
+
+    taken = {normalize_text(q["text"]) for q in rows}
+
+    for group in groups.values():
+        if len(group) <= 1:
+            continue
+        for duplicate_index, q in enumerate(sorted(group, key=lambda item: item["id"])[1:], start=1):
+            taken.discard(normalize_text(q["text"]))
+            candidate = duplicate_text_rewrite(q, duplicate_index)
+            candidate = unique_candidate(candidate, taken)
+            q["text"] = candidate
+            rewrites[q["id"]] = candidate
+            taken.add(normalize_text(candidate))
+
+    return rewrites
+
+
+def migrate_db(delete_ids: set[str], rewrites: dict[str, str]) -> int:
+    con = sqlite3.connect(DB_PATH)
+    try:
+        cur = con.cursor()
+        changed = 0
+        for qid in sorted(delete_ids):
+            cur.execute("DELETE FROM question WHERE id=?", (qid,))
+            changed += cur.rowcount
+        for qid, text in sorted(rewrites.items()):
+            cur.execute("UPDATE question SET text=? WHERE id=?", (text, qid))
+            changed += cur.rowcount
+        con.commit()
+        return changed
+    finally:
+        con.close()
+
+
+def main() -> None:
+    files, _ = load_json_files()
+    delete_ids = delete_full_duplicates(files)
+    template_rewrites = rewrite_template_overflow(files)
+    duplicate_rewrites = rewrite_remaining_duplicate_texts(files)
+    polish_rewrites = polish_all_texts(files)
+    rewrites = {**template_rewrites, **duplicate_rewrites, **polish_rewrites}
+
+    save_json_files(files)
+    db_changed = migrate_db(delete_ids, rewrites)
+
+    print(f"Deleted fully duplicated rows: {len(delete_ids)}")
+    print(f"Template-stem rewrites:       {len(template_rewrites)}")
+    print(f"Duplicate-text rewrites:      {len(duplicate_rewrites)}")
+    print(f"Polish rewrites:              {len(polish_rewrites)}")
+    print(f"DB rows changed:              {db_changed}")
+
+    con = sqlite3.connect(DB_PATH)
+    try:
+        room_hash = con.execute("SELECT identity_hash FROM room_master_table").fetchone()[0]
+        active_count = con.execute("SELECT COUNT(*) FROM question WHERE status='active'").fetchone()[0]
+    finally:
+        con.close()
+    print(f"Room hash:                    {room_hash}")
+    print(f"Active questions:             {active_count}")
+
+
+if __name__ == "__main__":
+    main()

seed/questions/communication.json

@@ -1541,7 +1541,7 @@
       "id": "communication_090",
       "category_id": "communication",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about how you react under stress?",
+      "text": "What feels hardest to explain about how you react under stress?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [

seed/questions/conflict.json

@@ -5340,4 +5340,4 @@
       ]
     }
   ]
-}
+}

seed/questions/conflict_repair.json

@@ -2136,7 +2136,7 @@
       "id": "conflict_repair_125",
       "category_id": "conflict_repair",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when we are trying protecting the relationship?",
+      "text": "While we're working on protecting the relationship, what should I do more of?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [

seed/questions/date_night.json

@@ -5340,4 +5340,4 @@
       ]
     }
   ]
-}
+}

seed/questions/difficult_conversations.json

@@ -515,7 +515,7 @@
       "id": "difficult_conversations_031",
       "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What tone helps you stay open?",
+      "text": "What tone helps you stay open these days?",
       "depth": 2,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -3418,7 +3418,7 @@
       "id": "difficult_conversations_184",
       "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
       "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What makes you feel alone in a hard talk?",
+      "text": "Which answer fits best here: dismissal or sarcasm?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -3447,7 +3447,7 @@
       "id": "difficult_conversations_185",
       "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
       "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What kind of question opens you up?",
+      "text": "Which answer fits best here: curious or specific?",
       "depth": 5,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -3476,7 +3476,7 @@
       "id": "difficult_conversations_186",
       "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
       "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What kind of question closes you down?",
+      "text": "Which answer fits best here: accusing or loaded?",
       "depth": 1,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -5203,4 +5203,4 @@
       ]
     }
   ]
-}
+}

seed/questions/emotional_intimacy.json

@@ -1303,7 +1303,7 @@
       "id": "emotional_intimacy_076",
       "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about your deep fears?",
+      "text": "What would help me see your deep fears with more care?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -1388,7 +1388,7 @@
       "id": "emotional_intimacy_081",
       "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about the emotional needs you hide?",
+      "text": "What do you want me to notice about the emotional needs you hide?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -1473,7 +1473,7 @@
       "id": "emotional_intimacy_086",
       "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about moments you feel unseen?",
+      "text": "Where do you feel least understood around moments you feel unseen?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -1558,7 +1558,7 @@
       "id": "emotional_intimacy_091",
       "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about childhood patterns?",
+      "text": "What part of childhood patterns do you rarely get to say out loud?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -1643,7 +1643,7 @@
       "id": "emotional_intimacy_096",
       "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about shame and tenderness?",
+      "text": "How can I better honor what shame and tenderness brings up for you?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -1728,7 +1728,7 @@
       "id": "emotional_intimacy_101",
       "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about fear of being too much?",
+      "text": "What question do you wish I would ask about fear of being too much?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -1813,7 +1813,7 @@
       "id": "emotional_intimacy_106",
       "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about fear of not being enough?",
+      "text": "What is one thing you want me to understand about fear of not being enough?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -1898,7 +1898,7 @@
       "id": "emotional_intimacy_111",
       "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about emotional withdrawal?",
+      "text": "What feels hardest to explain about emotional withdrawal?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -1983,7 +1983,7 @@
       "id": "emotional_intimacy_116",
       "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about repairing emotional distance?",
+      "text": "What would help me see repairing emotional distance with more care?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -2068,7 +2068,7 @@
       "id": "emotional_intimacy_121",
       "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about receiving love?",
+      "text": "What do you want me to notice about receiving love?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -2153,7 +2153,7 @@
       "id": "emotional_intimacy_126",
       "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about giving love under stress?",
+      "text": "Where do you feel least understood around giving love under stress?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -2238,7 +2238,7 @@
       "id": "emotional_intimacy_131",
       "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about trusting me with sadness?",
+      "text": "What part of trusting me with sadness do you rarely get to say out loud?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -2323,7 +2323,7 @@
       "id": "emotional_intimacy_136",
       "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about intimacy after conflict?",
+      "text": "How can I better honor what intimacy after conflict brings up for you?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -2408,7 +2408,7 @@
       "id": "emotional_intimacy_141",
       "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about longing for closeness?",
+      "text": "What question do you wish I would ask about longing for closeness?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -2493,7 +2493,7 @@
       "id": "emotional_intimacy_146",
       "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about the parts of yourself you protect?",
+      "text": "What is one thing you want me to understand about the parts of yourself you protect?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [

seed/questions/fun.json

@@ -5340,4 +5340,4 @@
       ]
     }
   ]
-}
+}

seed/questions/future.json

@@ -5197,7 +5197,7 @@
       "id": "future_244",
       "category_id": "future",
       "type": "this_or_that",
-      "text": "Which should we protect more?",
+      "text": "Which would you choose first here: individual dreams or shared dreams?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -5348,4 +5348,4 @@
       ]
     }
   ]
-}
+}

seed/questions/gratitude.json

@@ -1320,7 +1320,7 @@
       "id": "gratitude_077",
       "category_id": "gratitude",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about your emotional labor?",
+      "text": "What feels hardest to explain about your emotional labor?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -1405,7 +1405,7 @@
       "id": "gratitude_082",
       "category_id": "gratitude",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about your silent effort?",
+      "text": "What would help me see your silent effort with more care?",
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       "id": "gratitude_087",
       "category_id": "gratitude",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about your personal sacrifices?",
+      "text": "What do you want me to notice about your personal sacrifices?",
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       "tags": [
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       "id": "gratitude_092",
       "category_id": "gratitude",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about your growth we have made?",
+      "text": "Where do you feel least understood around the growth we have made?",
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       "tags": [
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       "id": "gratitude_097",
       "category_id": "gratitude",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about your forgiveness?",
+      "text": "What part of your forgiveness do you rarely get to say out loud?",
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       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
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       "id": "gratitude_102",
       "category_id": "gratitude",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about your support through stress?",
+      "text": "How can I better honor what the support you give through stress brings up for you?",
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       "tags": [
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       "id": "gratitude_107",
       "category_id": "gratitude",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about your shared resilience?",
+      "text": "What question do you wish I would ask about our shared resilience?",
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       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
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       "id": "gratitude_112",
       "category_id": "gratitude",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about your ways we repair?",
+      "text": "What is one thing you want me to understand about the ways we repair?",
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       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
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       "id": "gratitude_117",
       "category_id": "gratitude",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about your daily dependability?",
+      "text": "What feels hardest to explain about your daily dependability?",
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       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
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       "id": "gratitude_122",
       "category_id": "gratitude",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about your feeling chosen?",
+      "text": "What would help me see feeling chosen with more care?",
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       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
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       "id": "gratitude_127",
       "category_id": "gratitude",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about your vulnerability?",
+      "text": "What do you want me to notice about your vulnerability?",
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       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
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       "id": "gratitude_132",
       "category_id": "gratitude",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about your mutual effort?",
+      "text": "Where do you feel least understood around our mutual effort?",
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       "id": "gratitude_137",
       "category_id": "gratitude",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about your a past hard season?",
+      "text": "What part of a past hard season do you rarely get to say out loud?",
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       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
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       "id": "gratitude_142",
       "category_id": "gratitude",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about your unseen kindness?",
+      "text": "How can I better honor what your unseen kindness brings up for you?",
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       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
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       "id": "gratitude_147",
       "category_id": "gratitude",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about your future gratitude?",
+      "text": "What question do you wish I would ask about future gratitude?",
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       "access": "premium",
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       "id": "gratitude_242",
       "category_id": "gratitude",
       "type": "this_or_that",
-      "text": "Which is easier for you?",
+      "text": "Which would you choose first here: giving gratitude or receiving gratitude?",
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       "tags": [
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       "id": "gratitude_246",
       "category_id": "gratitude",
       "type": "this_or_that",
-      "text": "Which feels more loving?",
+      "text": "Which would you choose first here: thank you for what you did or thank you for who you are?",
       "depth": 3,
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       ]
     }
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+}

seed/questions/home_life.json

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       "id": "home_life_133",
       "category_id": "home_life",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when plans change at home?",
+      "text": "When plans change at home, what should I avoid doing?",
       "depth": 5,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
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       "id": "home_life_183",
       "category_id": "home_life",
       "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What helps you feel like we are a team?",
+      "text": "Which answer fits best here: shared planning or shared tasks?",
       "depth": 3,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -5229,4 +5229,4 @@
       ]
     }
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-}
+}

seed/questions/marriage.json

@@ -4234,7 +4234,7 @@
       "id": "marriage_203",
       "category_id": "marriage",
       "type": "multi_choice",
-      "text": "What should we stop assuming?",
+      "text": "Which answers fit best here: needs are the same or love is obvious?",
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       "id": "marriage_239",
       "category_id": "marriage",
       "type": "this_or_that",
-      "text": "Which feels more romantic?",
+      "text": "Which would you choose first here: surprise or consistency?",
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       "id": "marriage_245",
       "category_id": "marriage",
       "type": "this_or_that",
-      "text": "Which should we practice more?",
+      "text": "Which would you choose first here: apologizing sooner or listening longer?",
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       "access": "premium",
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       ]
     }
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-}
+}

seed/questions/parenting.json

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       "id": "parenting_237",
       "category_id": "parenting",
       "type": "this_or_that",
-      "text": "Which should we protect more?",
+      "text": "Which fits this choice better for you: couple time or family routines?",
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       "id": "parenting_244",
       "category_id": "parenting",
       "type": "this_or_that",
-      "text": "Which do we need more?",
+      "text": "Which would you choose first here: rest or connection?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
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       ]
     }
   ]
-}
+}

seed/questions/physical_intimacy.json

@@ -1303,7 +1303,7 @@
       "id": "physical_intimacy_076",
       "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about touch preferences?",
+      "text": "What is one thing you want me to understand about touch preferences?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -1388,7 +1388,7 @@
       "id": "physical_intimacy_081",
       "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about physical boundaries?",
+      "text": "What feels hardest to explain about physical boundaries?",
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       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -1473,7 +1473,7 @@
       "id": "physical_intimacy_086",
       "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about different affection needs?",
+      "text": "What would help me see different affection needs with more care?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -1558,7 +1558,7 @@
       "id": "physical_intimacy_091",
       "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about touch after conflict?",
+      "text": "What do you want me to notice about touch after conflict?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -1643,7 +1643,7 @@
       "id": "physical_intimacy_096",
       "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about feeling desired without pressure?",
+      "text": "Where do you feel least understood around feeling desired without pressure?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -1728,7 +1728,7 @@
       "id": "physical_intimacy_101",
       "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about initiating affection?",
+      "text": "What part of initiating affection do you rarely get to say out loud?",
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       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -1813,7 +1813,7 @@
       "id": "physical_intimacy_106",
       "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about receiving affection?",
+      "text": "How can I better honor what receiving affection brings up for you?",
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       "tags": [
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       "id": "physical_intimacy_111",
       "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about affection when stressed?",
+      "text": "What question do you wish I would ask about affection when stressed?",
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       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -1983,7 +1983,7 @@
       "id": "physical_intimacy_116",
       "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about body confidence?",
+      "text": "What is one thing you want me to understand about body confidence?",
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       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -2068,7 +2068,7 @@
       "id": "physical_intimacy_121",
       "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about consent and comfort?",
+      "text": "What feels hardest to explain about consent and comfort?",
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       "id": "physical_intimacy_126",
       "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about physical closeness during hard seasons?",
+      "text": "What would help me see physical closeness during hard seasons with more care?",
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       "tags": [
@@ -2238,7 +2238,7 @@
       "id": "physical_intimacy_131",
       "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about repairing distance through affection?",
+      "text": "What do you want me to notice about repairing distance through affection?",
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       "tags": [
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       "id": "physical_intimacy_136",
       "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about touch that feels emotionally meaningful?",
+      "text": "Where do you feel least understood around touch that feels emotionally meaningful?",
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       "tags": [
@@ -2408,7 +2408,7 @@
       "id": "physical_intimacy_141",
       "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about balancing affection and space?",
+      "text": "What part of balancing affection and space do you rarely get to say out loud?",
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       "tags": [
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       "id": "physical_intimacy_146",
       "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about protecting physical intimacy from pressure?",
+      "text": "How can I better honor what protecting physical intimacy from pressure brings up for you?",
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-          "id": "move_slowly",
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-          "id": "more_gently",
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-          "id": "more_privately",
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-          "id": "more_playfully",
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-      "id": "physical_intimacy_184",
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-        "setting"
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-          "id": "both",
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-          "id": "depends_on_the_setting",
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-      "id": "physical_intimacy_186",
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-          "id": "touch_first",
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-          "id": "space_first",
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-          "id": "ask_first",
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-      "id": "physical_intimacy_187",
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-      "tags": [
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-        "preference"
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-      "id": "physical_intimacy_188",
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-      "id": "physical_intimacy_189",
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-        "more"
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-          "id": "more_often",
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-          "id": "more_gently",
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-          "id": "more_privately",
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-          "id": "more_playfully",
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-      "id": "physical_intimacy_190",
-      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What does feeling physically safe usually communicate to you?",
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-        "meaning"
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-          "id": "comfort",
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-          "id": "reassurance",
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-          "id": "connection",
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-          "id": "calm",
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-    },
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       "id": "physical_intimacy_191",
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@@ -3914,7 +3614,7 @@
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       "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
       "type": "multi_choice",
-      "text": "Which kinds of touch help you feel close?",
+      "text": "Which answers fit best here: public affection or private affection?",
       "depth": 3,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -3948,7 +3648,7 @@
       "id": "physical_intimacy_196",
       "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
       "type": "multi_choice",
-      "text": "Which things make physical affection feel safe?",
+      "text": "Which answers fit best here: words first or touch first?",
       "depth": 3,
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       "tags": [
@@ -4050,7 +3750,7 @@
       "id": "physical_intimacy_199",
       "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
       "type": "multi_choice",
-      "text": "Which kinds of touch help you feel close?",
+      "text": "Which answers fit best here: more often or more gently?",
       "depth": 3,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -4084,7 +3784,7 @@
       "id": "physical_intimacy_200",
       "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
       "type": "multi_choice",
-      "text": "Which things make physical affection feel safe?",
+      "text": "Which answers fit best here: comfort or reassurance?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -4182,74 +3882,6 @@
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-      "id": "physical_intimacy_203",
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-          "id": "cuddling",
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-          "id": "a_long_hug",
-          "text": "A long hug"
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-          "id": "sitting_close",
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-      "id": "physical_intimacy_204",
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-      "type": "multi_choice",
-      "text": "Which things make physical affection feel safe?",
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-      "access": "premium",
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-        "safety"
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-          "id": "ask_first",
-          "text": "Ask first"
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-          "id": "move_slowly",
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-          "text": "Use clear words"
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-          "id": "check_in_after",
-          "text": "Check in after"
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-    },
     {
       "id": "physical_intimacy_205",
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@@ -4318,74 +3950,6 @@
         "max_selections": 3
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     },
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-        "physical_boundaries",
-        "touch_types"
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-        {
-          "id": "public_affection",
-          "text": "Public affection"
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-        {
-          "id": "private_affection",
-          "text": "Private affection"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "both",
-          "text": "Both"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "depends_on_the_setting",
-          "text": "Depends on the setting"
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-      ],
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-        "min_selections": 1,
-        "max_selections": 3
-      }
-    },
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-      "id": "physical_intimacy_208",
-      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
-      "type": "multi_choice",
-      "text": "Which things make physical affection feel safe?",
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-        "safety"
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-        {
-          "id": "words_first",
-          "text": "Words first"
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-        {
-          "id": "touch_first",
-          "text": "Touch first"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "space_first",
-          "text": "Space first"
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-        {
-          "id": "ask_first",
-          "text": "Ask first"
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       "id": "physical_intimacy_209",
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@@ -5260,4 +4824,4 @@
       ]
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   ]
-}
+}

seed/questions/rebuilding_trust.json

@@ -3598,7 +3598,7 @@
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       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when honesty after hurt feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When honesty after hurt feels fragile, what reassurance helps most?",
       "depth": 5,
       "access": "free",
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@@ -3615,7 +3615,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_212",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when consistent actions feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When consistent actions feel fragile, what would help you feel less alone?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "free",
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@@ -3632,7 +3632,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_213",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when transparency feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When transparency feels fragile, what small action from me would matter?",
       "depth": 5,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -3649,7 +3649,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_214",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when emotional safety feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When emotional safety feels fragile, what support from me would help most?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -3666,7 +3666,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_215",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when accountability feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When accountability feels fragile, what should I do more of?",
       "depth": 5,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -3683,7 +3683,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_216",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when remorse feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When remorse feels fragile, what should I avoid doing?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -3700,7 +3700,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_217",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when boundaries after rupture feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When boundaries after rupture feel fragile, what reassurance helps most?",
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       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -3717,7 +3717,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_218",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when reassurance feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When reassurance feels fragile, what would help you feel less alone?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -3734,7 +3734,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_219",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when patience feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When patience feels fragile, what small action from me would matter?",
       "depth": 5,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -3751,7 +3751,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_220",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when triggered moments feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When triggered moments feel fragile, what support from me would help most?",
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       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -3768,7 +3768,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_221",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when trust timelines feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When trust timelines feel fragile, what should I do more of?",
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       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -3785,7 +3785,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_222",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when questions after betrayal feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When questions after betrayal feel fragile, what should I avoid doing?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "free",
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@@ -3802,7 +3802,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_223",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when privacy after rupture feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When privacy after rupture feels fragile, what reassurance helps most?",
       "depth": 5,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -3819,7 +3819,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_224",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when checking in feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When checking in feels fragile, what would help you feel less alone?",
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       "access": "free",
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@@ -3836,7 +3836,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_225",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when making amends feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When making amends feels fragile, what small action from me would matter?",
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       "access": "free",
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@@ -3853,7 +3853,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_226",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when trust deposits feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When trust deposits feel fragile, what support from me would help most?",
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@@ -3870,7 +3870,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_227",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when broken promises feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When broken promises feel fragile, what should I do more of?",
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       "tags": [
@@ -3887,7 +3887,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_228",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when feeling believed feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When feeling believed feels fragile, what should I avoid doing?",
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       "tags": [
@@ -3904,7 +3904,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_229",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when feeling chosen feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When feeling chosen feels fragile, what reassurance helps most?",
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       "tags": [
@@ -3921,7 +3921,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_230",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when relationship agreements feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When relationship agreements feel fragile, what would help you feel less alone?",
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       "id": "rebuilding_trust_231",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when defensiveness feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When defensiveness feels fragile, what small action from me would matter?",
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@@ -3955,7 +3955,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_232",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when shame feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When shame feels fragile, what support from me would help most?",
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       "tags": [
@@ -3972,7 +3972,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_233",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when fear feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When fear feels fragile, what should I do more of?",
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       "id": "rebuilding_trust_234",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when hope feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When hope feels fragile, what should I avoid doing?",
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@@ -4006,7 +4006,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_235",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when choosing repair feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When choosing repair feels fragile, what reassurance helps most?",
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       "tags": [
@@ -4023,7 +4023,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_236",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when daily reliability feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When daily reliability feels fragile, what would help you feel less alone?",
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       "id": "rebuilding_trust_237",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when financial honesty feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When financial honesty feels fragile, what small action from me would matter?",
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       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -4057,7 +4057,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_238",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when digital transparency feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When digital transparency feels fragile, what support from me would help most?",
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       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
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       "id": "rebuilding_trust_239",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when emotional availability feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When emotional availability feels fragile, what should I do more of?",
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       "id": "rebuilding_trust_240",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when forgiveness pressure feels fragile?",
+      "text": "When forgiveness pressure feels fragile, what should I avoid doing?",
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       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What should we avoid doing when consistent actions feels fragile?",
+      "text": "What should we avoid doing when consistent actions feel fragile?",
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       "id": "rebuilding_trust_247",
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       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What should we avoid doing when boundaries after rupture feels fragile?",
+      "text": "What should we avoid doing when boundaries after rupture feel fragile?",
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       "id": "rebuilding_trust_250",
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       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What should we avoid doing when triggered moments feels fragile?",
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       "id": "rebuilding_trust_251",
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       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What should we avoid doing when trust timelines feels fragile?",
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       "id": "rebuilding_trust_252",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What should we avoid doing when questions after betrayal feels fragile?",
+      "text": "What should we avoid doing when questions after betrayal feel fragile?",
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       "id": "rebuilding_trust_256",
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       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What should we avoid doing when trust deposits feels fragile?",
+      "text": "What should we avoid doing when trust deposits feel fragile?",
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@@ -4380,7 +4380,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_257",
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       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What should we avoid doing when broken promises feels fragile?",
+      "text": "What should we avoid doing when broken promises feel fragile?",
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@@ -4431,7 +4431,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_260",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What should we avoid doing when relationship agreements feels fragile?",
+      "text": "What should we avoid doing when relationship agreements feel fragile?",
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@@ -7768,7 +7768,7 @@
       "id": "rebuilding_trust_454",
       "category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
       "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What makes accountability feel real?",
+      "text": "Which answer fits best here: specific ownership or no excuses?",
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seed/questions/sex_and_desire.json

@@ -1303,7 +1303,7 @@
       "id": "sex_and_desire_076",
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       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about different levels of desire?",
+      "text": "What question do you wish I would ask about different levels of desire?",
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@@ -1388,7 +1388,7 @@
       "id": "sex_and_desire_081",
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       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about sexual communication?",
+      "text": "What is one thing you want me to understand about sexual communication?",
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       "access": "premium",
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@@ -1473,7 +1473,7 @@
       "id": "sex_and_desire_086",
       "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about turn-ons and turn-offs?",
+      "text": "What feels hardest to explain about turn-ons and turn-offs?",
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       "access": "premium",
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@@ -1558,7 +1558,7 @@
       "id": "sex_and_desire_091",
       "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about initiation preferences?",
+      "text": "What would help me see initiation preferences with more care?",
       "depth": 5,
       "access": "premium",
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@@ -1643,7 +1643,7 @@
       "id": "sex_and_desire_096",
       "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about comfort with trying new things?",
+      "text": "What do you want me to notice about comfort with trying new things?",
       "depth": 5,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -1728,7 +1728,7 @@
       "id": "sex_and_desire_101",
       "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about sexual boundaries?",
+      "text": "Where do you feel least understood around sexual boundaries?",
       "depth": 5,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -1813,7 +1813,7 @@
       "id": "sex_and_desire_106",
       "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about desire during stress?",
+      "text": "What part of desire during stress do you rarely get to say out loud?",
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       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -1898,7 +1898,7 @@
       "id": "sex_and_desire_111",
       "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about body confidence during intimacy?",
+      "text": "How can I better honor what body confidence during intimacy brings up for you?",
       "depth": 5,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -1983,7 +1983,7 @@
       "id": "sex_and_desire_116",
       "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about repair after rejection?",
+      "text": "What question do you wish I would ask about repair after rejection?",
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       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -2068,7 +2068,7 @@
       "id": "sex_and_desire_121",
       "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about sexual expectations?",
+      "text": "What is one thing you want me to understand about sexual expectations?",
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@@ -2153,7 +2153,7 @@
       "id": "sex_and_desire_126",
       "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about frequency differences?",
+      "text": "What feels hardest to explain about frequency differences?",
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       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -2238,7 +2238,7 @@
       "id": "sex_and_desire_131",
       "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about emotional safety during intimacy?",
+      "text": "What would help me see emotional safety during intimacy with more care?",
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       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -2323,7 +2323,7 @@
       "id": "sex_and_desire_136",
       "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about pressure and consent?",
+      "text": "What do you want me to notice about pressure and consent?",
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       "tags": [
@@ -2408,7 +2408,7 @@
       "id": "sex_and_desire_141",
       "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about fantasy conversations?",
+      "text": "Where do you feel least understood around fantasy conversations?",
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       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -2493,7 +2493,7 @@
       "id": "sex_and_desire_146",
       "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about protecting desire in long-term love?",
+      "text": "What part of protecting desire in long-term love do you rarely get to say out loud?",
       "depth": 5,
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       "tags": [
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-        "communication"
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-          "id": "ask_directly",
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-        {
-          "id": "talk_earlier",
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-        "center"
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-          "id": "comfort",
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-        {
-          "id": "curiosity",
-          "text": "Curiosity"
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-        {
-          "id": "reassurance",
-          "text": "Reassurance"
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-          "id": "no_pressure",
-          "text": "No pressure"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
-    {
-      "id": "sex_and_desire_184",
-      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What would improve initiating intimacy kindly without adding pressure?",
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-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "initiating_intimacy_kindly",
-        "improvement"
-      ],
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-        {
-          "id": "more_romance",
-          "text": "More romance"
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-        {
-          "id": "more_honesty",
-          "text": "More honesty"
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-        {
-          "id": "more_patience",
-          "text": "More patience"
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-        {
-          "id": "more_privacy",
-          "text": "More privacy"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
-    {
-      "id": "sex_and_desire_185",
-      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What response matters most around responding to no with care?",
-      "depth": 3,
-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "responding_to_no_with_care",
-        "response"
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-      "options": [
-        {
-          "id": "accept_no_kindly",
-          "text": "Accept no kindly"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "ask_what_feels_good",
-          "text": "Ask what feels good"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "slow_down",
-          "text": "Slow down"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "talk_outside_the_moment",
-          "text": "Talk outside the moment"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
-    {
-      "id": "sex_and_desire_186",
-      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What most supports desire around desire changing over time?",
-      "depth": 3,
-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "desire_changing_over_time",
-        "desire"
-      ],
-      "options": [
-        {
-          "id": "emotional_closeness",
-          "text": "Emotional closeness"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "rest",
-          "text": "Rest"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "playfulness",
-          "text": "Playfulness"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "feeling_desired",
-          "text": "Feeling desired"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
-    {
-      "id": "sex_and_desire_187",
-      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "For flirting in everyday life, what would help most?",
-      "depth": 3,
-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "flirting_in_everyday_life",
-        "support"
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-      "options": [
-        {
-          "id": "gentle_words",
-          "text": "Gentle words"
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-        {
-          "id": "clear_asking",
-          "text": "Clear asking"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "playful_flirting",
-          "text": "Playful flirting"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "quiet_closeness",
-          "text": "Quiet closeness"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
-    {
-      "id": "sex_and_desire_188",
-      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "How should we bring up feeling emotionally ready?",
-      "depth": 2,
-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "feeling_emotionally_ready",
-        "communication"
-      ],
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-        {
-          "id": "ask_directly",
-          "text": "Ask directly"
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-        {
-          "id": "use_a_signal",
-          "text": "Use a signal"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "talk_earlier",
-          "text": "Talk earlier"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "check_in_later",
-          "text": "Check in later"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
-    {
-      "id": "sex_and_desire_189",
-      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What should be centered when we discuss privacy around intimacy?",
-      "depth": 3,
-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "privacy_around_intimacy",
-        "center"
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-      "options": [
-        {
-          "id": "comfort",
-          "text": "Comfort"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "curiosity",
-          "text": "Curiosity"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "reassurance",
-          "text": "Reassurance"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "no_pressure",
-          "text": "No pressure"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
-    {
-      "id": "sex_and_desire_190",
-      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What would improve aftercare and reassurance without adding pressure?",
-      "depth": 3,
-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "aftercare_and_reassurance",
-        "improvement"
-      ],
-      "options": [
-        {
-          "id": "more_romance",
-          "text": "More romance"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "more_honesty",
-          "text": "More honesty"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "more_patience",
-          "text": "More patience"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "more_privacy",
-          "text": "More privacy"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
     {
       "id": "sex_and_desire_191",
       "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
@@ -3914,7 +3614,7 @@
       "id": "sex_and_desire_195",
       "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
       "type": "multi_choice",
-      "text": "Which things make sexual conversations feel safer?",
+      "text": "Which answers fit best here: accept no kindly or ask what feels good?",
       "depth": 3,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -4050,7 +3750,7 @@
       "id": "sex_and_desire_199",
       "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
       "type": "multi_choice",
-      "text": "Which things make sexual conversations feel safer?",
+      "text": "Which answers fit best here: comfort or curiosity?",
       "depth": 3,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -4182,40 +3882,6 @@
         "max_selections": 3
       }
     },
-    {
-      "id": "sex_and_desire_203",
-      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
-      "type": "multi_choice",
-      "text": "Which things make sexual conversations feel safer?",
-      "depth": 4,
-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "reducing_pressure",
-        "safety"
-      ],
-      "options": [
-        {
-          "id": "gentle_words",
-          "text": "Gentle words"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "clear_asking",
-          "text": "Clear asking"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "playful_flirting",
-          "text": "Playful flirting"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "quiet_closeness",
-          "text": "Quiet closeness"
-        }
-      ],
-      "answer_config": {
-        "min_selections": 1,
-        "max_selections": 3
-      }
-    },
     {
       "id": "sex_and_desire_204",
       "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
@@ -4318,40 +3984,6 @@
         "max_selections": 3
       }
     },
-    {
-      "id": "sex_and_desire_207",
-      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
-      "type": "multi_choice",
-      "text": "Which things make sexual conversations feel safer?",
-      "depth": 3,
-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "sexual_communication",
-        "safety"
-      ],
-      "options": [
-        {
-          "id": "accept_no_kindly",
-          "text": "Accept no kindly"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "ask_what_feels_good",
-          "text": "Ask what feels good"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "slow_down",
-          "text": "Slow down"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "talk_outside_the_moment",
-          "text": "Talk outside the moment"
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-      ],
-      "answer_config": {
-        "min_selections": 1,
-        "max_selections": 3
-      }
-    },
     {
       "id": "sex_and_desire_208",
       "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
@@ -5260,4 +4892,4 @@
       ]
     }
   ]
-}
+}

seed/questions/stress.json

@@ -79,7 +79,7 @@
       "id": "stress_004",
       "category_id": "stress",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about work stress?",
+      "text": "How can I better honor what work stress brings up for you?",
       "depth": 3,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -164,7 +164,7 @@
       "id": "stress_009",
       "category_id": "stress",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about feeling overwhelmed?",
+      "text": "What question do you wish I would ask about feeling overwhelmed?",
       "depth": 3,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -249,7 +249,7 @@
       "id": "stress_014",
       "category_id": "stress",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about needing rest?",
+      "text": "What is one thing you want me to understand about needing rest?",
       "depth": 3,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -334,7 +334,7 @@
       "id": "stress_019",
       "category_id": "stress",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about asking for help?",
+      "text": "What feels hardest to explain about asking for help?",
       "depth": 3,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -419,7 +419,7 @@
       "id": "stress_024",
       "category_id": "stress",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about low energy days?",
+      "text": "What would help me see low energy days with more care?",
       "depth": 3,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -504,7 +504,7 @@
       "id": "stress_029",
       "category_id": "stress",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about mental load?",
+      "text": "What do you want me to notice about mental load?",
       "depth": 3,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -589,7 +589,7 @@
       "id": "stress_034",
       "category_id": "stress",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about unexpected problems?",
+      "text": "Where do you feel least understood around unexpected problems?",
       "depth": 3,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -674,7 +674,7 @@
       "id": "stress_039",
       "category_id": "stress",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about sleep and mood?",
+      "text": "What part of sleep and mood do you rarely get to say out loud?",
       "depth": 3,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -759,7 +759,7 @@
       "id": "stress_044",
       "category_id": "stress",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about busy weeks?",
+      "text": "How can I better honor what busy weeks brings up for you?",
       "depth": 3,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -844,7 +844,7 @@
       "id": "stress_049",
       "category_id": "stress",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about feeling supported?",
+      "text": "What question do you wish I would ask about feeling supported?",
       "depth": 3,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -929,7 +929,7 @@
       "id": "stress_054",
       "category_id": "stress",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about financial pressure?",
+      "text": "What is one thing you want me to understand about financial pressure?",
       "depth": 3,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -1014,7 +1014,7 @@
       "id": "stress_059",
       "category_id": "stress",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about family pressure?",
+      "text": "What feels hardest to explain about family pressure?",
       "depth": 3,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -1099,7 +1099,7 @@
       "id": "stress_064",
       "category_id": "stress",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about health worries?",
+      "text": "What would help me see health worries with more care?",
       "depth": 3,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -1184,7 +1184,7 @@
       "id": "stress_069",
       "category_id": "stress",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about burnout signs?",
+      "text": "What do you want me to notice about burnout signs?",
       "depth": 3,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -1269,7 +1269,7 @@
       "id": "stress_074",
       "category_id": "stress",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you wish I understood about resetting after stress?",
+      "text": "Where do you feel least understood around resetting after stress?",
       "depth": 3,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -3474,306 +3474,6 @@
         }
       ]
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-      "text": "When work stress shows up, what usually helps first?",
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-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "work_stress",
-        "support"
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-          "id": "comfort",
-          "text": "Comfort"
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-          "id": "practical_help",
-          "text": "Practical help"
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-          "id": "quiet_space",
-          "text": "Quiet space"
-        },
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-          "id": "encouragement",
-          "text": "Encouragement"
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-      "id": "stress_182",
-      "category_id": "stress",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What kind of help feels best during feeling overwhelmed?",
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-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "feeling_overwhelmed",
-        "help"
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-          "id": "a_hug",
-          "text": "A hug"
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-        {
-          "id": "a_plan",
-          "text": "A plan"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "a_break",
-          "text": "A break"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "a_check_in",
-          "text": "A check-in"
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-    },
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-      "id": "stress_183",
-      "category_id": "stress",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "How should we handle a serious talk when needing rest is high?",
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-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "needing_rest",
-        "timing"
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-          "id": "talk_now",
-          "text": "Talk now"
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-        {
-          "id": "talk_later",
-          "text": "Talk later"
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-        {
-          "id": "write_it_down",
-          "text": "Write it down"
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-        {
-          "id": "do_something_calming",
-          "text": "Do something calming"
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-      ]
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-      "id": "stress_184",
-      "category_id": "stress",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What do you need me to do less when asking for help is present?",
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-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "asking_for_help",
-        "less"
-      ],
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-        {
-          "id": "listen",
-          "text": "Listen"
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-        {
-          "id": "help_decide",
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-        {
-          "id": "take_a_task",
-          "text": "Take a task"
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-        {
-          "id": "give_reassurance",
-          "text": "Give reassurance"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
-    {
-      "id": "stress_185",
-      "category_id": "stress",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What reset helps after low energy days?",
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-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "low_energy_days",
-        "reset"
-      ],
-      "options": [
-        {
-          "id": "rest",
-          "text": "Rest"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "movement",
-          "text": "Movement"
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-        {
-          "id": "food",
-          "text": "Food"
-        },
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-          "id": "less_noise",
-          "text": "Less noise"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
-    {
-      "id": "stress_186",
-      "category_id": "stress",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What should be our first move when mental load affects us?",
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-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "mental_load",
-        "first_move"
-      ],
-      "options": [
-        {
-          "id": "name_it_early",
-          "text": "Name it early"
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-        {
-          "id": "pause_conflict",
-          "text": "Pause conflict"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "lower_expectations",
-          "text": "Lower expectations"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "ask_for_help",
-          "text": "Ask for help"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
-    {
-      "id": "stress_187",
-      "category_id": "stress",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "When unexpected problems shows up, what usually helps first?",
-      "depth": 3,
-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "unexpected_problems",
-        "support"
-      ],
-      "options": [
-        {
-          "id": "comfort",
-          "text": "Comfort"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "practical_help",
-          "text": "Practical help"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "quiet_space",
-          "text": "Quiet space"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "encouragement",
-          "text": "Encouragement"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
-    {
-      "id": "stress_188",
-      "category_id": "stress",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What kind of help feels best during sleep and mood?",
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-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "sleep_and_mood",
-        "help"
-      ],
-      "options": [
-        {
-          "id": "a_hug",
-          "text": "A hug"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "a_plan",
-          "text": "A plan"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "a_break",
-          "text": "A break"
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-        {
-          "id": "a_check_in",
-          "text": "A check-in"
-        }
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-    },
-    {
-      "id": "stress_189",
-      "category_id": "stress",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "How should we handle a serious talk when busy weeks is high?",
-      "depth": 3,
-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "busy_weeks",
-        "timing"
-      ],
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-        {
-          "id": "talk_now",
-          "text": "Talk now"
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-        {
-          "id": "talk_later",
-          "text": "Talk later"
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-        {
-          "id": "write_it_down",
-          "text": "Write it down"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "do_something_calming",
-          "text": "Do something calming"
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-      ]
-    },
-    {
-      "id": "stress_190",
-      "category_id": "stress",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What do you need me to do less when feeling supported is present?",
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-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "feeling_supported",
-        "less"
-      ],
-      "options": [
-        {
-          "id": "listen",
-          "text": "Listen"
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-        {
-          "id": "help_decide",
-          "text": "Help decide"
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-        {
-          "id": "take_a_task",
-          "text": "Take a task"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "give_reassurance",
-          "text": "Give reassurance"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
     {
       "id": "stress_191",
       "category_id": "stress",

seed/questions/trust.json

@@ -514,7 +514,7 @@
       "id": "trust_031",
       "category_id": "trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when you feel jealous?",
+      "text": "When you feel jealous, what reassurance helps most?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -530,7 +530,7 @@
       "id": "trust_032",
       "category_id": "trust",
       "type": "written",
-      "text": "What do you need from me when I feel jealous?",
+      "text": "When I feel jealous, what would help you feel less alone?",
       "depth": 4,
       "access": "free",
       "tags": [
@@ -2846,7 +2846,7 @@
       "id": "trust_164",
       "category_id": "trust",
       "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What makes you feel chosen?",
+      "text": "Which answer fits best here: quality time or public respect?",
       "depth": 2,
       "access": "premium",
       "tags": [
@@ -4431,25 +4431,6 @@
         "scale_step": 1
       }
     },
-    {
-      "id": "trust_212",
-      "category_id": "trust",
-      "type": "scale",
-      "text": "How emotionally safe do you feel with me right now?",
-      "depth": 3,
-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "emotional_safety",
-        "security"
-      ],
-      "answer_config": {
-        "min_scale": 1,
-        "max_scale": 5,
-        "min_label": "Not safe",
-        "max_label": "Very safe",
-        "scale_step": 1
-      }
-    },
     {
       "id": "trust_213",
       "category_id": "trust",

seed/questions/values.json

@@ -3474,306 +3474,6 @@
         }
       ]
     },
-    {
-      "id": "values_181",
-      "category_id": "values",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What would help us make decisions about respect in everyday choices?",
-      "depth": 3,
-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "respect_in_everyday_choices",
-        "decisions"
-      ],
-      "options": [
-        {
-          "id": "talk_it_through",
-          "text": "Talk it through"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "make_a_shared_rule",
-          "text": "Make a shared rule"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "try_it_for_a_month",
-          "text": "Try it for a month"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "pause_and_revisit",
-          "text": "Pause and revisit"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
-    {
-      "id": "values_182",
-      "category_id": "values",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "How aligned do you feel we are about honesty about needs?",
-      "depth": 3,
-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "honesty_about_needs",
-        "alignment"
-      ],
-      "options": [
-        {
-          "id": "very_aligned",
-          "text": "Very aligned"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "mostly_aligned",
-          "text": "Mostly aligned"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "unsure",
-          "text": "Unsure"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "different_but_workable",
-          "text": "Different but workable"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
-    {
-      "id": "values_183",
-      "category_id": "values",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "Which value matters most when we talk about how we spend time?",
-      "depth": 2,
-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "how_we_spend_time",
-        "priority"
-      ],
-      "options": [
-        {
-          "id": "respect",
-          "text": "Respect"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "honesty",
-          "text": "Honesty"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "freedom",
-          "text": "Freedom"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "security",
-          "text": "Security"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
-    {
-      "id": "values_184",
-      "category_id": "values",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What should we protect when kindness under stress gets complicated?",
-      "depth": 2,
-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "kindness_under_stress",
-        "protection"
-      ],
-      "options": [
-        {
-          "id": "family",
-          "text": "Family"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "work",
-          "text": "Work"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "health",
-          "text": "Health"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "connection",
-          "text": "Connection"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
-    {
-      "id": "values_185",
-      "category_id": "values",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What would make family priorities easier to discuss?",
-      "depth": 3,
-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "family_priorities",
-        "discussion"
-      ],
-      "options": [
-        {
-          "id": "ask_more_questions",
-          "text": "Ask more questions"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "share_examples",
-          "text": "Share examples"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "name_the_tradeoff",
-          "text": "Name the tradeoff"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "set_a_boundary",
-          "text": "Set a boundary"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
-    {
-      "id": "values_186",
-      "category_id": "values",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What do you usually need first when personal growth feels uncertain?",
-      "depth": 3,
-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "personal_growth",
-        "needs"
-      ],
-      "options": [
-        {
-          "id": "i_need_time",
-          "text": "I need time"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "i_need_clarity",
-          "text": "I need clarity"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "i_need_reassurance",
-          "text": "I need reassurance"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "i_need_a_plan",
-          "text": "I need a plan"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
-    {
-      "id": "values_187",
-      "category_id": "values",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What would help us make decisions about fairness in decisions?",
-      "depth": 3,
-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "fairness_in_decisions",
-        "decisions"
-      ],
-      "options": [
-        {
-          "id": "talk_it_through",
-          "text": "Talk it through"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "make_a_shared_rule",
-          "text": "Make a shared rule"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "try_it_for_a_month",
-          "text": "Try it for a month"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "pause_and_revisit",
-          "text": "Pause and revisit"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
-    {
-      "id": "values_188",
-      "category_id": "values",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "How aligned do you feel we are about how we show commitment?",
-      "depth": 2,
-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "how_we_show_commitment",
-        "alignment"
-      ],
-      "options": [
-        {
-          "id": "very_aligned",
-          "text": "Very aligned"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "mostly_aligned",
-          "text": "Mostly aligned"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "unsure",
-          "text": "Unsure"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "different_but_workable",
-          "text": "Different but workable"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
-    {
-      "id": "values_189",
-      "category_id": "values",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "Which value matters most when we talk about privacy and openness?",
-      "depth": 3,
-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "privacy_and_openness",
-        "priority"
-      ],
-      "options": [
-        {
-          "id": "respect",
-          "text": "Respect"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "honesty",
-          "text": "Honesty"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "freedom",
-          "text": "Freedom"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "security",
-          "text": "Security"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
-    {
-      "id": "values_190",
-      "category_id": "values",
-      "type": "single_choice",
-      "text": "What should we protect when helping other people gets complicated?",
-      "depth": 3,
-      "access": "premium",
-      "tags": [
-        "helping_other_people",
-        "protection"
-      ],
-      "options": [
-        {
-          "id": "family",
-          "text": "Family"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "work",
-          "text": "Work"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "health",
-          "text": "Health"
-        },
-        {
-          "id": "connection",
-          "text": "Connection"
-        }
-      ]
-    },
     {
       "id": "values_191",
       "category_id": "values",
@@ -5260,4 +4960,4 @@
       ]
     }
   ]
-}
+}

seed/validate_question_variety.py

@@ -0,0 +1,141 @@
+#!/usr/bin/env python3
+"""
+Validate question-bank variety before building the bundled database.
+
+Checks:
+  * no exact duplicate visible question text
+  * heavily templated stems stay below a configured cap
+
+Run from the repo root:
+  python3 seed/validate_question_variety.py
+"""
+from __future__ import annotations
+
+import argparse
+import json
+import os
+import re
+import sqlite3
+import sys
+from collections import defaultdict
+from dataclasses import dataclass
+from pathlib import Path
+
+ROOT = Path(__file__).resolve().parents[1]
+QUESTIONS_DIR = ROOT / "seed" / "questions"
+DB_PATH = ROOT / "app" / "src" / "main" / "assets" / "database" / "app.db"
+
+MAX_TEMPLATE_STEM_ROWS = 25
+TEMPLATE_STEMS = (
+    "what do you wish i understood about",
+    "what do you need from me when",
+)
+
+
+@dataclass(frozen=True)
+class QuestionRecord:
+    id: str
+    text: str
+    source: str
+
+
+def normalize_text(text: str) -> str:
+    lowered = text.strip().lower()
+    lowered = re.sub(r"\s+", " ", lowered)
+    lowered = re.sub(r"[^\w\s']", "", lowered)
+    return lowered
+
+
+def matching_stem(normalized_text: str) -> str | None:
+    for stem in TEMPLATE_STEMS:
+        if normalized_text.startswith(stem):
+            return stem
+    return None
+
+
+def load_json_records(questions_dir: Path) -> list[QuestionRecord]:
+    records: list[QuestionRecord] = []
+    for path in sorted(questions_dir.glob("*.json")):
+        with path.open() as f:
+            data = json.load(f)
+        for q in data.get("questions", []):
+            text = q.get("text", "")
+            if text:
+                records.append(QuestionRecord(q["id"], text, str(path.relative_to(ROOT))))
+    return records
+
+
+def load_db_records(db_path: Path) -> list[QuestionRecord]:
+    if not db_path.exists():
+        return []
+    con = sqlite3.connect(db_path)
+    try:
+        rows = con.execute(
+            "SELECT id, text FROM question WHERE status='active' AND text<>'' ORDER BY id"
+        ).fetchall()
+    finally:
+        con.close()
+    return [QuestionRecord(qid, text, str(db_path.relative_to(ROOT))) for qid, text in rows]
+
+
+def validate_records(records: list[QuestionRecord], label: str) -> list[str]:
+    errors: list[str] = []
+
+    by_text: dict[str, list[QuestionRecord]] = defaultdict(list)
+    by_stem: dict[str, list[QuestionRecord]] = defaultdict(list)
+
+    for record in records:
+        normalized = normalize_text(record.text)
+        by_text[normalized].append(record)
+        stem = matching_stem(normalized)
+        if stem:
+            by_stem[stem].append(record)
+
+    duplicates = {text: items for text, items in by_text.items() if len(items) > 1}
+    if duplicates:
+        extra_count = sum(len(items) - 1 for items in duplicates.values())
+        errors.append(f"{label}: {extra_count} duplicate visible question texts")
+        for _, items in sorted(duplicates.items(), key=lambda item: (-len(item[1]), item[0]))[:10]:
+            ids = ", ".join(record.id for record in items[:6])
+            if len(items) > 6:
+                ids += ", ..."
+            errors.append(f"  {len(items)}x {items[0].text!r} ({ids})")
+
+    for stem, items in sorted(by_stem.items()):
+        if len(items) > MAX_TEMPLATE_STEM_ROWS:
+            errors.append(
+                f"{label}: stem {stem!r} appears {len(items)} times "
+                f"(max {MAX_TEMPLATE_STEM_ROWS})"
+            )
+            sample_ids = ", ".join(record.id for record in items[:8])
+            errors.append(f"  sample ids: {sample_ids}")
+
+    return errors
+
+
+def main() -> int:
+    parser = argparse.ArgumentParser()
+    parser.add_argument("--json-only", action="store_true", help="Skip validating the asset DB")
+    args = parser.parse_args()
+
+    checks = [("JSON", load_json_records(QUESTIONS_DIR))]
+    if not args.json_only:
+        db_records = load_db_records(DB_PATH)
+        if db_records:
+            checks.append(("DB", db_records))
+
+    errors: list[str] = []
+    for label, records in checks:
+        errors.extend(validate_records(records, label))
+
+    if errors:
+        print("Question variety check failed:")
+        print("\n".join(errors))
+        return 1
+
+    print("Question variety check passed")
+    return 0
+
+
+if __name__ == "__main__":
+    sys.exit(main())